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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya red An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, everybody,

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Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in. We are scrubbing in again. Were

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Speaker 1: scrubbing it again because there's yeah Mark here, Oh the

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Speaker 1: bus is coming over me. No, no no, no, because we

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Speaker 1: recorded an entire episode, an entire podcast Monday was in

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Speaker 1: the can ready to go. And we're not blaming Mark.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I wish if I knew what happened, I

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Speaker 1: would be more readily. I mean, obviously if the blame

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Speaker 1: is on me, I just don't know what happened. Here's

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Speaker 1: the thing. We've done this podcast for how many years

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Speaker 1: and this has never happened. So it's not We're not upset.

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Speaker 1: We're not mad. We're not mad, And especially when it

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Speaker 1: has to do with a computer glitch. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like Taylor Swift says, glitch. I think I think

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Speaker 1: there's been so mad it crashed. Usually when it crashes,

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Speaker 1: it's still in there. They still keep the audio recorded.

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Speaker 1: But I think this is going to be a better

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Speaker 1: versions two because you know, the first time around, we

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Speaker 1: were really upset about the Gray's anatomy Meredith Farewell, and

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Speaker 1: now that we were able to get it out once before.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're gonna be a little bit more succinct.

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Speaker 1: I'm still upset, I still haven't help set, but I

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Speaker 1: feel like now I have my thoughts in order. Basically,

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Speaker 1: it was just absolutely disappointing. We have watched Meredith Gray

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Speaker 1: for nineteen years. We've watched her have many near death experiences,

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Speaker 1: love life, trauma drama, celebrated her wins, cried for her losses,

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Speaker 1: and cheered her on with her victories times yes, and

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Speaker 1: the Goodbye Farewell episode we got was black luster. When

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Speaker 1: I tell you, I am legitimately pissed. I feel as

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Speaker 1: a fan that I have watched nineteen seasons with Meredith

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Speaker 1: Gray and that was her sendoff. It feels wrong, It

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Speaker 1: feels hurtful, and it feels intentional. I wish that I

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Speaker 1: had some behind the scenes person there that we could

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Speaker 1: talk to, because I feel like something went wrong. When

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Speaker 1: you watch that scene, Bailey starts talking, she doesn't finish

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Speaker 1: her sentence. There's weird camera cutaways. Then there's that super

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Speaker 1: weird silence that she kind of rotates around and looks

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Speaker 1: at everyone, but it's not even interesting people that like

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Speaker 1: she couldn't even get a toast out. It was very,

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Speaker 1: very strange. I feel like something went awry, but they

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Speaker 1: had three months to edit it and make it perfect,

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Speaker 1: and it was garbage. The teaser was better. The had

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Speaker 1: me crying, and the episode and had me lying. All

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Speaker 1: they had to do was figure out. All they had

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Speaker 1: to do was show us like clips from old seasons flashbacks,

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Speaker 1: put a sad song over it. We're not hard to please. Well,

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Speaker 1: we're kind of hard to please. We're not hard to

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Speaker 1: please that sense, by the way, you said that when

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Speaker 1: they Didn'tary said that the promo. Maybe you curious, cheer up?

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Speaker 1: No furious, No, she said something it made her fury eye.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, the teaser made me teary eyed, and

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Speaker 1: the episode made me fury eyed. Yes, I'm with you,

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Speaker 1: and I still have that fury in my eyes. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I have a note page. It's titled worst episode ever,

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Speaker 1: and like that was just written in anger. Like. I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's the worst episode ever, but I think

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Speaker 1: as far as like a farewell episode, it was very disappointing. Meredith,

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Speaker 1: I said Merideth. The only positive thing I can say

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Speaker 1: is that Meredith's hair looked bomb. Everything else in all

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Speaker 1: caps disappointing, and then I said one more positive. The

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Speaker 1: baby heart story was based off of a scrubber's real

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Speaker 1: life story, Taylor Monroe. Her son's name is Owen so

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Speaker 1: on Brand, so On Brand, And thank you for on

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Speaker 1: the Facebook group letting us know about that, because it's

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Speaker 1: fascinating knowing that the video we saw of the open

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Speaker 1: heart on the small, small, strawberry sized heart was your

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Speaker 1: actual sound's heart. That was amazing knowing that while watching it, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would say that was the only highlights. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: just want in case you're listening to the podcast and

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Speaker 1: you don't watch Grey's Anatomy, I would like some solidarity,

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Speaker 1: solidarity with our scrub sisters here to really create some motion,

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Speaker 1: some emotion that I'm feeling to get behind this because

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Speaker 1: that is not the send off that we deserved. And

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get back to that in a second.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to say that I think the episode in

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Speaker 1: itself wasn't a bad episode. I really enjoy these interns.

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Speaker 1: I love that the three of them are moving into

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Speaker 1: So I think on the podcast next week, I need

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Speaker 1: everybody an agreeance here, agreeance, agreements, agreements, but right that

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Speaker 1: we give Meredith her very well that she deserves. To

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Speaker 1: give her a toast. So you have to do some homework?

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Speaker 1: Why I don't. I don't need any homework. I could

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Speaker 1: put it in the rundown. Okay, I'm really good about

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Speaker 1: sending things to Hanna for the rundown though, So I

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Speaker 1: want this. This is due by Friday. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: our farewell to married. No, let's give her the give

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Speaker 1: her what she deserves. Well, okay, chat GBT or whatever

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Speaker 1: you need to do the thing. I like the new interns.

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Speaker 1: I just don't like that they're trying to recreate the magic,

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Speaker 1: which is Meredith, Alex, George, Isy Christina that we've already seen.

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Speaker 1: You can't recreate it. That's their initials. This is the

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Speaker 1: same initials, Meredith, Alex, George, George Magic. Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: that's see that did that for now. That's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: where are they at. They may on magic, yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: any of us tragic, but if they're at their job

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Speaker 1: to try to make it fresh and exciting and magic again,

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Speaker 1: I just don't know if it can be done with

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Speaker 1: different I mean, it was just so incredible what it was,

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Speaker 1: and I like the new interns, but I don't feel

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Speaker 1: like they have the same like chemistry within each other.

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Speaker 1: They're still young, it's still early days, and you would

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Speaker 1: know that reference if you watched Love Island. Mark liked

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Mark liked the Helm Bartending story, saying

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Speaker 1: I love it. I'm just saying it's interesting if Helm

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Speaker 1: the side, that'll probably revive Helm's love of medicine, get

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Speaker 1: her back in. In the meantime, she's helping. I forget

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Speaker 1: come back. Helm poured hot liquor and a mixer into

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Speaker 1: you don't drink a hot martini. She's not good bartender.

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Speaker 1: Why she needs to be a doctor? That's a minucia picture. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: literally miss that entirely. Well. It makes sense that Mark

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Speaker 1: want to know he doesn't drink, but you I'm a

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Speaker 1: fish veteran. Yes, not so much anymore. I'm off caffeine

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Speaker 1: and alcohol for a bit. Here, here we go. No,

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Speaker 1: thank you, I've done it. What I put. I asked

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Speaker 1: chat gpt for a tribute to Meredith Gray asked for

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Speaker 1: Gray's we expected more got less? What do you expected

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Speaker 1: too much? I think? What? Maybe you're right? Maybe the

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Speaker 1: it was a unanimous disappointment. Thumbs down. Yes, but it

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Speaker 1: was because the expectations of being her farewell episode. We

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Speaker 1: That would maybe even more mad because there was a

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Speaker 1: disconnect somewhere. There was everything felt fleeting. That was what

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Speaker 1: Like every storyline feels like they just were like, let's

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Speaker 1: That's what it is. There's no build up here. Yeah, Like,

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Speaker 1: It's detached. These are notes also, Tony and I would

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Speaker 1: her reading of the people on the plane and people

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Speaker 1: chatting the whole flight to someone wanted some good chit chatting. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you can learn a thing or two. Yeah, um, okay,

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Speaker 1: had one more thought about just the ending. Please. People

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Speaker 1: were upset that Scott Speedman and she did not end

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Speaker 1: up together. Meredith, doctor Nick Mark, doctor Nick Marsh. He

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Speaker 1: not no his name. No, she doesn't need a man.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't it. I didn't ever. I didn't like him

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Speaker 1: the new interns and it's not MLSJB. You can't even

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Speaker 1: it's Bethany Frankel. We are reliving the best moments from

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Speaker 1: all the seasons of the Real Housewives on my new podcast, Rewives.

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Speaker 1: listen to your podcasts. All right, we're back. Something else

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Speaker 1: that happened. Okay, I don't listen to podcasts. Other podcasts

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Speaker 1: I don't listen to. Do y'all listen to our podcasts

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Speaker 1: once it goes up? Uh? No, only if I missed it,

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Speaker 1: a few podcasts, right yeah, Well they're very great. There's

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Speaker 1: a lot of great podcasts. But you know, we got

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Speaker 1: that doesn't hurt you. You know that they're right. Right.

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Speaker 1: But the thing about introducing our guests, it's been something

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Speaker 1: still in my phone as Jacob Black. That's hilarious. I

420
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: was team Jacob. You should tell him that. I should

421
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Speaker 1: tell him that. Yeah. Um. You know. Actually what's funny

422
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: is I have him in my phone as t L

423
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: because I remember when we met. I feel like this

424
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Speaker 1: was a time when somebody got their phone stolen or

425
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: something and they had all these contacts in it and

426
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: so I was so paranoid having remember that it was

427
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 1: somewhere e maybe it was Ryan. It was somewhere that

428
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: had Ryan's number in their phone or whatever. So I

429
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: got really paranoids. I wouldn't put people's names with their

430
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 1: real names. So he's still just TL on my phone.

431
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I've never called him t L in my life.

432
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Speaker 1: That'd be kind of weird deal. Yeah, tal AnyWho um.

433
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 1: In the first episode we recorded, we talked about Love

434
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: Island UK versus Love Island US, and Tommy has compared

435
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Speaker 1: it to Oh that, How did I come back up

436
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: with that? How can we get into that in the

437
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 1: first place? Though? We were talking talking about weekends and

438
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: what we watched. Yes, and so I compared Love Island

439
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: UK and Love Island USA. Said, there is no comparis

440
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: there's no comparison. It's like comparing, yeah, what I to

441
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: a space launch? Yeah, television, That is ludicrous because Love

442
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 1: Island UK and US are both, at least dating TV

443
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: shows vastly different. So but it's the same premise. Yes, No,

444
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 1: it's not even the same premise. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,

445
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 1: same premise. But it's like you're watching Ying and Yang,

446
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, apples and oranges. So I said Becca

447
00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: in the first podcast text Robbie and yeah, and ask

448
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: him it's not just me that's saying this, it's like legit. Yeah.

449
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 1: So my question to him was, Hi, as far as

450
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Speaker 1: Love Island goes, is the UK version comparable to the

451
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Speaker 1: US version or are they totally different? And he said, hi,

452
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: dot dot dot. We only watch part of one US

453
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 1: episode and hated it. Some same format, but the US

454
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: was just pure trash. We like the emotional maturity of

455
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: the Brits lol. I said, but fundamentally it's the same show,

456
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,239
Speaker 1: just with accents. And he said, yeah, I think so,

457
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: same format. Just didn't even finish an episode of the US.

458
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but he essentially said what I said.

459
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah he did. Yeah, complete trash. I mean, that's pretty

460
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: much the same thing. But it's the same show. It is, well,

461
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 1: I think to space launches not Yeah, that's what we're

462
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: trying to get up. Comparing Grayson Natomy to a high

463
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 1: school production of Grayson Anatomy. How about that? Would that

464
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,639
Speaker 1: be a better? Oh, it's nice. It's like comparing Gray's

465
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 1: Anatomy two the Blair Witch Project. Oh no, I I

466
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: liked where you were going back, but I was gonna say,

467
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: like a general hospital. That's pretty good. Yeah, good, No,

468
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: much more different than stubborn to have a logical argument

469
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: with all these things. I for what twelve years now,

470
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 1: and I never know how a sentence is going to end.

471
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: So I would like you to to watch one, maybe

472
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: two episodes of my choosing of a season for you. Great,

473
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: happy too? That was easy. Yeah, I'm sure three times. Watch. Yeah,

474
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: that's what I watched three times. I don't understand. That

475
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: was like such an amazing season. But whatever, I'll pick it.

476
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: Everyone trash. No, but you're watching The Last of Us,

477
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: aren't you? Yeah? Did you watch Scary? Yeah, I'm watching it.

478
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: I didn't see Last Nights yet. I haven't. I think

479
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Speaker 1: I'm I think we're two behind. Okay, well I'm a

480
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: lot behind. Okay, Well I'm won't. I won't. I'm not

481
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: going to spoil anything. So she got through three, which

482
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: is my favorite. That was so emotional. I cried like

483
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: a baby during the whole episode. And I was like

484
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: not into the show the first two episodes because like

485
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: the zombie and this fungy sorry, and Haley calls them quarrelman.

486
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: That's pretty good. I was like, I don't know if

487
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: I'm into it with In that third episode, I was like, wow,

488
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: it was really I know, made me feel all kinds

489
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: of things, so emotional. Yeah, beautiful. Um, well, after the

490
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 1: most recent episode, we watched like we're really scared of

491
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 1: the infected, Like everything about the show is like, I

492
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: don't know why we're watching it, We're so scared. But

493
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: really the humans are more scary than the infected in

494
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: a lot of ways, like the people in Kansas City.

495
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 1: There were some scary people no spoilers please, Yeah, they're

496
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: pretty scary. The show is scary and it's pop out

497
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,919
Speaker 1: ee and yeah yeah, so Haley, I always like to scary,

498
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: like it's just part of our relationship. And she gets

499
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 1: like legit mad, like it's not like babe, Like no,

500
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: it's like, so we're after the show, Hayley's in the

501
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: kitchen and I will go to get water. Well, my

502
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: back was killing me, so I was like kind of

503
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: hunched over going to get the water, and she was

504
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 1: talking to me. So I'm like listening as I'm walking

505
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 1: to the kitchen, and I watched her go turn off

506
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: the light and I'm like, oh no, I'm gonna scare

507
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: her because she doesn't know I'm walking this way. But

508
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: if I talk now that it's dark, she's gonna be mad.

509
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: And if she just looks up and sees me, she's

510
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 1: gonna be mad. So I don't say anything. So she

511
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: looks up and she just she says she sees a

512
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: shadow like hunched over holding my water, and she goes,

513
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: why are you scaring me? Like, oh, it's so mad

514
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: at me. And I was just like, I wasn't trying

515
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: to scare you. My back hurts and I'm just trying

516
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: to get water. I'm hunched because she was like, why

517
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: are you standing like the coralman? So we're like, we're

518
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: like not well when we're watching. So I I don't

519
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: know the third epido in the fifth episode, We're beautiful,

520
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know where I'm that. I liked

521
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 1: the third episode the first two, so it could be

522
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: a big Halloween costume this year, the chor old Man.

523
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: But I relate to what you're saying because there are

524
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 1: times an Amy should be vacuuming or something and I'll

525
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: walk into the room like I have no choice but

526
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: to scare her. Yeah, Like there's nothing I can do

527
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 1: right now to not scare her? How can I make

528
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: this as unscary as possible? And I always fail. Sometimes

529
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: sometimes I am trying to scare her, and that's what's

530
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 1: that's where I've lost the trust. But this one I

531
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: wasn't and we like literally almost got in a fight

532
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: until I got to explain my side of the story.

533
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 1: This is also I did not want to forget the

534
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: life lesson I learned from Physical one hundred okay, which

535
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: is a show on Netflix, a strength competition show. It's

536
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: basically like the real life squid Games, but they don't die,

537
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: they just get out of the game. And so there's

538
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: one hundred people. They're supposed to be the physicalist fit

539
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: physically most physicalist, most physically fit people on the planet

540
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: or in Korea, and um the spoiler alert, the man

541
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: that one was not the most physically fit. You would

542
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: see like there were people that were these huge like bodybuilders,

543
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: and their muscles looked like there were like heads on

544
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: top of heads on top of heads. And the guy

545
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: that won, you would say, was not necessarily the most fit,

546
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: but he had mental strength, he had determination, he had endurance,

547
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: he had willpower, and that is what's going to take

548
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: you further in life than what you look like. He

549
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: was the most physically, he was the most well rounded

550
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: of all the skills. It's not about what you look

551
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: like on the outside, it's what's in the inside that

552
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: can carry you through. It's not how big your muscles are,

553
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 1: it's how big your passion is. Correct. So so yeah,

554
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: that made me feel certain time away. Okay, Like, I

555
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,719
Speaker 1: don't know, I really like the show. How there's some

556
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: edits Like I felt like a lot of the competitions

557
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: we watched for way too long. Yeah, I agree, Like

558
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: I felt like we were watching the hanging for like live.

559
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, I think season two will be much better. Okay,

560
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: because they'll work out the kinks. Okay, but yeah, check

561
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: that out. It's Physical one hundred on Netflix. Pretty good. Great, Well,

562
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: I think we should take a break and then do

563
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: some emails. Right. Hey, everyone, it's Dean Anglert and Kaylyn

564
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: Miller Keys and Jared Hayn. I'm I'm here. I'm here too, guys,

565
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Speaker 1: hosts of the new podcast. Help we suck at being

566
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Speaker 1: newlyweds because I guess we just don't suck at dating anymore. No,

567
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: I mean, you're newly weds. I am not a newly

568
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 1: weed anymore. Yeah, I'm curious if I sucked at being

569
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: a newlywed. I don't think so. I mean I I

570
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: made it to the altar, and I am so happy

571
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: to be joining you guys. I can't wait to talk

572
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: about relationships, mage and just everything in between. It's about

573
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: time we have someone smart to join this podcast. It's

574
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 1: too long between us. This young lady's a broadcast journalism major.

575
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: She knows what she's doing. I'm so excited to be

576
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: hosting a podcast with my soon to be wife and

577
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: of course my best friend Jared. How's it going to

578
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: make you feel working together? Now you guys live together,

579
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: we're together, going to get married. Yeah, it'll be interesting.

580
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: You think you need to get tired of each other? Absolutely? Yes.

581
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: Be sure to listen to help. We kept being Newlyweds

582
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Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen

583
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Speaker 1: to podcasts. Hey Dudes. I'm David Lasher and I'm Christine Taylor,

584
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Speaker 1: and we host the podcast Hey Dude the Nineties called

585
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: if you All are Nostalgic for the nineties. We just

586
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure you didn't miss amazing guests like

587
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Speaker 1: the Brady Bunch cast reunion, the White Squall cast reunion

588
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Speaker 1: with Jeff Bridges. We've got Ben Stiller, We've got the

589
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Speaker 1: lead singer of Counting Crows, Adam Durrett's Jerry O'Connell. We

590
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Speaker 1: also had a Hey Dude cast reunion, so come join

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00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: us on Hey Dude the Nineties called. We have so

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Speaker 1: many more great guests coming up, so please come back

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Speaker 1: and join us. Listen to Hey Dude, the Nineties Called

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Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you listen

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Speaker 1: to podcasts, and we're back. Mark take it away, all right,

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Speaker 1: beca thank you very much. Both of these are anonymous.

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Speaker 1: We didn't get to this partment, did not. We are

598
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Speaker 1: in this fresh charted territory right now. And also we

599
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: didn't talk about last of Us. Honestly, the second version

600
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Speaker 1: saved you. I'm eight weeks pregnant with my first and

601
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Speaker 1: I'm a huge swift Ee. My husband and I are

602
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: going to take our announcement pictures at the Taylor Swift concert.

603
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to make a shirt that says Baby's first

604
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift Concert. My dilemma here is I want to

605
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Speaker 1: post lyrics with the announcement to pull it all together.

606
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: I already used not a lot going on at the

607
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: moment for our engagement, so I want something different. I

608
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: posted this on the Facebook group and they said, send

609
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 1: an email. I can tie you to the rescue. We

610
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: want to hear where you guys come up with. So

611
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Speaker 1: what Taylor lyrics would be good for a baby announcement,

612
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Speaker 1: poster m or just announcement? What about the are you

613
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: ready for it? And then like a picture of a baby?

614
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: Are you ready for it? What about? This is the

615
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Speaker 1: golden age of something good and write and real. That's

616
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: pretty good? Yeah, I like it? Not bad? And here's

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Speaker 1: to ma baby. They don't care about the he said.

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00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: She said, it's pretty good. It's pretty good. Okay, Becca's

619
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: doing better at this. Well, I was enchanted to meet you.

620
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:54,760
Speaker 1: Oh we are enchanted to meet you? Yeah? Yeah yeah?

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Speaker 1: How about are we out of the woods? I think, Becca?

622
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 1: I think this one. I think, where do they live? What?

623
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Speaker 1: I am? Welcome to New York? Well, nobody hurts you? Well,

624
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: let no one break your heart. Oh my god, I

625
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:12,479
Speaker 1: never grew up. Oh wow, back out look at you. Well,

626
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 1: she's like googling over here. Let me get my computer up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: one done and done where we are enchanted to meet you,

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Speaker 1: that we are enchanted to meet you solid. This one's

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Speaker 1: we're going to another email. Yeah, what can you take

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Speaker 1: out the miscarriage thing? Yeah? I though it was kind

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Speaker 1: of dark when I went there. I couldn't think of

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Speaker 1: the title of the song. Yeah, it's also not even

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Speaker 1: it's just speculated, I know, but I just feel like

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Speaker 1: dark turn Thank you so much. All right. This is

635
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Speaker 1: also anonymous, and this one I don't know what to

636
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Speaker 1: do with. My sister found out she's pregnant with her

637
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Speaker 1: boyfriend's baby. They've been together maybe a year. He's divorced.

638
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Speaker 1: He's got two kids from his first marriage. Not a

639
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Speaker 1: US citizen, but as a green card for work. His

640
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: ex wife doesn't know about my sister. Neither do his kids.

641
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Speaker 1: Every time anyone in my family asks my sister, when

642
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Speaker 1: is he going to tell his acts? When is he

643
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Speaker 1: going to tell the kids, she freaks out. She doesn't

644
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Speaker 1: want to talk about it. She did let slip once

645
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Speaker 1: that she asked him about a situation with his kids

646
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: in the act and he said, it is none of

647
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: your business. What he seems like a really great guy

648
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: in person, but from what we know so far, there

649
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: are so many red flags. I decided to take it

650
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Speaker 1: upon myself to reach out to an attorney and find

651
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Speaker 1: out if he really is divorced, and he's not. He's

652
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Speaker 1: legally married to his wife. It may be for citizenship purposes,

653
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: but the fact is he's a liar. I need to

654
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Speaker 1: tell my sister. But how do I bring it up

655
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Speaker 1: without her blowing up on me or me ruining her

656
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Speaker 1: life with this news when she's expecting a baby. This

657
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: is bad, very above our p yeah and skill sets,

658
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Speaker 1: but like dissected a little bit here, Okay, let's go Tanya. God,

659
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Speaker 1: she's still trying to think of a Taylor Sliftle, still

660
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Speaker 1: defeated from that. How does she go about telling her

661
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: sister she knows this information because she hired an attorney

662
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: to find it. Is gonna be furious? Well no, But

663
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Speaker 1: also I think that it takes a lot of time

664
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Speaker 1: to get divorced, so they might not legally because it

665
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: might not have gone through the sports and stuff, and like,

666
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Speaker 1: it takes a long time. So I'm not going to

667
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 1: knock him for that unless he's saying to them I

668
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Speaker 1: am divorced or i am legally divorced then, but I

669
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Speaker 1: doubt he's saying I'm legally divorced. So that's the only

670
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Speaker 1: thing I'm not knocking him for because it might be

671
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: in the works, which just takes a long time, So

672
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: some benefit of the doubt that's the only one telling

673
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: her anything with his axes none of her business. Is

674
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Speaker 1: that a big problem? Yes, it seems like a big problem. Yeah, yes,

675
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,760
Speaker 1: I would hate for my sisters to be with someone

676
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: like this. But the problem is is like if you

677
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Speaker 1: have she's just saying, she's already approached her to say

678
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: like warn her and say this is bad, and she

679
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 1: shuts she shuts down. So it's like if somebody's reacting

680
00:37:57,000 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: that way, what more can you do? Imagine you know

681
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,240
Speaker 1: all of this about him, right, So she knows even

682
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: more about him, right, and she's still still defending him

683
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 1: and wanting to be in this relationship. I think this

684
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: is kind of like the last time we had this

685
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: conversation about like sometimes you gotta let your family just

686
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Speaker 1: like go through the things and be there for them

687
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,959
Speaker 1: depending on like what ends up happening. And I think

688
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: the thing is you show up for your sister and

689
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 1: for this baby because this is your niece or nephew,

690
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 1: and you be as supportive as you can and be

691
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: there for her because it sounds like this is going

692
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: to go in the direction you think it's going. There's

693
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Speaker 1: there are things you can't stop coming, and then you

694
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Speaker 1: don't want to lose the relationship with your sister and

695
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Speaker 1: your niece or nephew. So it's like, and if this

696
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: guy's really a bad yeah, the baby's coming and coming

697
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: and he's the dad. Yeah, and he's the dad. But

698
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Speaker 1: if if, if, where was that going with that? I

699
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: don't know, but I was passionate about, Yeah, you're feeling oh, yeah,

700
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Speaker 1: he's a baby. She's having a baby. And if this

701
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Speaker 1: guy is as bad as as we all think, it's

702
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 1: all gonna come out in time. Yeah, it's all going

703
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: to come on time. It's going to play itself out.

704
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Speaker 1: You don't have to insert yourself. It's going to happen,

705
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: and you're unfortunately you're gonna have to be there to

706
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: pick up the pieces. But that's what friends and family

707
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:18,439
Speaker 1: are for. Period. Yeah, I know, And I think it's

708
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: like she knows that, but I think in her mind

709
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: she's like, how can I prevent this from getting to

710
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: that point, but I don't think you can can Yeah,

711
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: I mean you she's tried like the other one. Oh

712
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: my gosh, she's gonna marry this guy and we hate him,

713
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 1: like she's about to make a stupid mistake. Like there's

714
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Speaker 1: more to stop there. Yeah, this one. The baby's coming

715
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Speaker 1: and he's the dad. That's reality and that's not going

716
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Speaker 1: to change. So I think you got to pull back

717
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Speaker 1: and let it play itself out. Yeah, you do. Wish

718
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Speaker 1: you all the best. Indeed, we do. Congrats on your

719
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Speaker 1: new like find the joy and be there be a

720
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Speaker 1: light in this situation where it feels like there's some

721
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Speaker 1: you know, struggle. Yeah, and that's all you can do. Antononymous,

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Speaker 1: beautiful anton One, Yeah, ant Antona. Well that's a podcast

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Speaker 1: number two today, the better of the two. Yeah, obviously,

724
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Speaker 1: we'll say though I feel like we had a couple

725
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Speaker 1: good nuggets in the first one. We tried to bring

726
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Speaker 1: them back for the second. If we find it, we

727
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Speaker 1: can put it up as a bonus episode. I'll have

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Speaker 1: eepa here's a very similar version of what you've already heard. Enjoy. Yeah,

729
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Speaker 1: but you know, you never know, there were some nuggets

730
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Speaker 1: in there. We'll be back on Thursday with the loutners

731
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Speaker 1: and we cannot wait to talk to them. Can't wait.

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Speaker 1: I love them, really excited them, and otherwise have a

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Speaker 1: great week and Thursday