Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? We are getting ready for lip service,
Speaker 1: but I have to remind you before we do anything.
Speaker 1: Lip Service Live February thirteenth, a highline ballroom, right before
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. It's gonna be fun, a lot of surprises
Speaker 1: for you. If you were there for the first one,
Speaker 1: you know we had a good time. If you weren't,
Speaker 1: don't miss out again. Okay, we got a Mala La
Speaker 1: Negra coming through from Love and Hip Hop Miami, also
Speaker 1: a little mo and Carl Dark and her husband will
Speaker 1: be there because it's Valentine's Day, so we gotta do
Speaker 1: some couples type stuff and we've got some special guests
Speaker 1: coming to so make sure you don't miss out. What's up, y'all,
Speaker 1: it's lip Services. You're already to have some fun today.
Speaker 1: It's Angela. Ye I'm stuffing in Santiago. I'm g g Maguire,
Speaker 1: I'm Lauria and it's me. What's up now? We've all
Speaker 1: seen Bobby Lights on Love and Hip Hop Miami. Yea,
Speaker 1: I watched all the how To end up on there,
Speaker 1: and you are treatas cousin. Part of the storyline is
Speaker 1: that she's not really helping you you feel. As far
Speaker 1: as being an artist, you know it's hard in this industry,
Speaker 1: especially when you're gay trying to do it. All I
Speaker 1: want is a little help and a little support. Everybody.
Speaker 1: Turn it on, baby, turn it on, alright, So we
Speaker 1: always start with the tip of the day. So for
Speaker 1: the tip of the day, I want to know from you, right,
Speaker 1: if you want to date somebody and you're not sure
Speaker 1: if they swing that way, how do you dip your
Speaker 1: toe in and find out? Okay, wait, and my sober,
Speaker 1: am I drunk? Because if I'm drunk, ain't no rules,
Speaker 1: ain't no limits. I'm just gonna find out. Trust me. Now,
Speaker 1: what do you do? Okay, So if I'm drunk, I'll
Speaker 1: probably go up to the guy and just like be
Speaker 1: very friendly and like I want to be his friend. First.
Speaker 1: It starts, you know, most situations start off with a
Speaker 1: friendship first or some type of conversation. Right, So I
Speaker 1: go ahead, like to believe that you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So you go and have a conversation, and based off
Speaker 1: of how that conversation goes is how I would then determine.
Speaker 1: Because it's a combination of things, it's skills. I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: It's like it's it's a human nature to all of us,
Speaker 1: especially as guys, but we have this thing called the
Speaker 1: gay gata. So it's like a combination of the gator
Speaker 1: starts going off and then also the vibe. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Some people are feel like are just
Speaker 1: clueless and that's how they end up getting the ass
Speaker 1: to be you know what I'm saying, going running up
Speaker 1: on the wrong guy or whatever. So I feel like
Speaker 1: you have to be intuitive at the same time. You
Speaker 1: can't just try to figure out if a guy is gay.
Speaker 1: You have to be very intuitive and touch with yourself. No,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, No a man, no the
Speaker 1: way that because sometimes a guy will tell you right
Speaker 1: off the bat when you when you introduce yourself by
Speaker 1: the handshake, that he's not even on that. What's the handshake? Like,
Speaker 1: you know, very like non attentive. Because I heard like
Speaker 1: if they are gay, they'll do like a little tickle
Speaker 1: that is so old school. That's not like give me
Speaker 1: your hand, that's really that's really detailed. That's never happened
Speaker 1: to me. I've never had I've never had a guy
Speaker 1: coming to me like you ever tickle something else I
Speaker 1: do the tickling. That's like no, But I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things, not just I'm listening. It's
Speaker 1: you can look at a guy is no longer how
Speaker 1: he acts, how he speaks, how he dresses. I promise you,
Speaker 1: it's not. I promise you. I feel it's more so
Speaker 1: on what their preference is, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Because I feel like the same way that there can
Speaker 1: be a guy that's super super feminine and super metro
Speaker 1: sexual and all about themselves right and even maybe and
Speaker 1: he can be young, satuated with with females, and then
Speaker 1: vice versa could be thugs like the boys that I
Speaker 1: like to deal with a lot on the regular. It's
Speaker 1: like I like them to be manly, yes I do,
Speaker 1: and like and here's my thing, like they will you
Speaker 1: would think they're full hardcore or whatever, and they love
Speaker 1: sex with gay men. And then the shocker of it
Speaker 1: all is like the ones that are so they wanted
Speaker 1: up their ass, you know what I'm saying. So it's
Speaker 1: like there's there's literally no you can't you can't tell
Speaker 1: you can't look at somebody in th same with females
Speaker 1: and literally all of my female friends have no issue
Speaker 1: having sex with a girl or they would And do
Speaker 1: you think for a woman that doesn't make a woman
Speaker 1: gay but for a guy. If a man has sex
Speaker 1: with another man, he's gay, But if a woman does,
Speaker 1: they could say, oh, I just like to yes, you noticed.
Speaker 1: We've been talking about this for years now. It's like
Speaker 1: such a double standard, Like it's okay for guys to
Speaker 1: see women walking down the street holding hands. There's some
Speaker 1: guys majority of man would be like, that's so fucking hot,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so sexy looking at bitches. Can
Speaker 1: you believe these two bitches making out in front of you?
Speaker 1: Bro Let let a female ever say, can you believe
Speaker 1: these two guys you have a normal just like I
Speaker 1: don't have a problem with day Okay. A lot of
Speaker 1: my female friends watching Point, they're like, Bobby, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: but I like gay point. I'm like, bitch, no, But
Speaker 1: like a like there is a double standard. I feel
Speaker 1: like it doesn't come from the ladies though, Like a
Speaker 1: lot of the females are my biggest supporters, like my
Speaker 1: female Even if a female is a homophobic as female,
Speaker 1: she is still you know what I'm saying, being way
Speaker 1: less harsh on me than the guys would saying by
Speaker 1: taking a man's virginity like it was his first time
Speaker 1: ever doing it, I call that virginity virginity. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: call that the homo the homo card if you lose
Speaker 1: your homeo card. Yeah, I mean, okay, truthfully speaking, I
Speaker 1: like to think that I have one time in the past,
Speaker 1: but I don't believe it. I don't normally do this, right,
Speaker 1: I've never done this before. And then then in their
Speaker 1: head they're delusional and they're they're not counting that training.
Speaker 1: They they just fun last week as a guy. So
Speaker 1: they're like they're like, oh, yeah, now, you never did
Speaker 1: this before, but you right up in there for real. R. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you, guys. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: a very open I'm a very open person. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna put a label on me. I'm already gay. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying at the label as far as now, like
Speaker 1: my position top bottom, So I would just say this
Speaker 1: like I do prefer to bottom. I mean it's I
Speaker 1: think it's very clear to the world. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: will do like that first, yes, and you like to
Speaker 1: do so dougs like, yeah, no, but I do not
Speaker 1: support and I do not agree with the idea that
Speaker 1: men are in the closet, So I want to make
Speaker 1: that clear also as well, like my ex boyfriend, like
Speaker 1: not the one who was on loving him because you know,
Speaker 1: years long he was like gives off a thug type effect,
Speaker 1: but he's openly gay with my hand in public we
Speaker 1: go out of because mom is knows he's gay. Everybody knows,
Speaker 1: So like you can be, you know, give off that
Speaker 1: thug masculine effect without having to be in the closet.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying. And then of course, like
Speaker 1: the men that are in the closet do someway somehow
Speaker 1: always attracted me because they're so fine all the time.
Speaker 1: But when I analyzed they have the words, I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: this is not right. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: just don't feel right, especially when they were like, oh
Speaker 1: yeah I got a baby mama or I got a girlfriend.
Speaker 1: I just yeah, I don't feel But is it like
Speaker 1: the thrill of it that gets you that, like maybe
Speaker 1: it's like only you know or whatever the case, like
Speaker 1: with the guys that have the baby mamas and all
Speaker 1: that stuff. Yeah, but I swear on everything I love
Speaker 1: I think my friend like, I don't think that's I
Speaker 1: don't I don't entertain him when I find out they
Speaker 1: have a baby mama and all that. Even with that,
Speaker 1: I find out they have kids that they're like, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm not with my baby mama. I just don't
Speaker 1: entertain them. I'll probably like just you know, but there's
Speaker 1: too many men out there. I can move on to
Speaker 1: the next one. Trust me. It's like I can move
Speaker 1: on to the next one, and I'm probably like I'm popping.
Speaker 1: I can get whatever the funk I want right now
Speaker 1: to a certain extent, you know what I'm saying in
Speaker 1: your DM, I've had a few are they out celebs?
Speaker 1: Are the celebs that you would think like, oh, ship, well,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna ask names. We do know. Actually a
Speaker 1: lot of them have been um there. Actually a couple
Speaker 1: of them have been openly gay. Yeah, like they're openly gay. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right now, but nobody that you were surprised, like, damn,
Speaker 1: I didn't like a football player or something that you're like,
Speaker 1: I love Angela. Next question that for breakfast club. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this lip service though, but not listening. No linebackers. I'm friends.
Speaker 1: I'm friends with football players for sure. For sure, I've
Speaker 1: seen you. I'm trying to get at Mike Sam though,
Speaker 1: what's up Mike Sam? Is that his name, the one
Speaker 1: that's openly gay? He at football players? He is in
Speaker 1: an NFL. Right, don't be a thought. Okay, don't you
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. I am not. I'm right now. I'm single. Guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: so you don't see me getting you don't see me.
Speaker 1: But you know a lot of people go back at
Speaker 1: episode somebody, well he came back. He came back to me,
Speaker 1: and you don't see that. I guess what you're gonna
Speaker 1: see what you're gonna see how that unfolds on. I
Speaker 1: see you come back with a fist. I've seen in
Speaker 1: the preview that this money coming up. Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you fighting, Babby. Come on,
Speaker 1: I don't want to see myself either. It's not classy,
Speaker 1: it's uncouth. As soon as you have boy friend was
Speaker 1: being disrespectful. Yeah, he deserves that one thing to do
Speaker 1: your dirt, but it's another thing to be But I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be honest with you guys, like you know, nothing
Speaker 1: on other hip hop is portrayed other than what we
Speaker 1: filmed because I one thing I always tell people I
Speaker 1: hate cast members to get on they're saying, oh, it's production,
Speaker 1: and the way they edited, the way they edited. No, no, no, bitch.
Speaker 1: You know what you're doing. You know what you said,
Speaker 1: and you know what place you're at, and you know
Speaker 1: what you're doing. So I feel like you're always in
Speaker 1: control no matter what. So with that being said, that
Speaker 1: situation that you see when I slapped him, it took
Speaker 1: a while for me to slap him. So, yes, they
Speaker 1: chopped it up and fit for TV, yeah, they but
Speaker 1: they made it seem like I just walked. It wasn't
Speaker 1: like that. It took a lot. And the things he
Speaker 1: was saying to me is what pissed me off. They're
Speaker 1: gonna show it more like in the in the episode
Speaker 1: is gonna be more detailed, you know how they do that,
Speaker 1: show more detail. But like the things he was saying
Speaker 1: to me, and the way he was handling that situation
Speaker 1: and handed You're at a pool party with your ex
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I was not in the knowledge that he
Speaker 1: was cheating on me the whole time, for real, for us.
Speaker 1: So now when I'm putting all this together, my emotion
Speaker 1: took over me and I did have to put my
Speaker 1: hands on him. The same with the first episode, like
Speaker 1: that was all provoked. Like I am provoked. I don't
Speaker 1: go around because I'm all about breaking barriers and coming together,
Speaker 1: you know. I feel like if you're on the blogs
Speaker 1: a lot, you was on the blog for getting into
Speaker 1: a fight when you were around trein a one time,
Speaker 1: it does kind of make it look like do do
Speaker 1: and do it. But guess what, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, the only way I can get past that
Speaker 1: I prove people that I'm not. I just have to
Speaker 1: continue doing me and showing her my good side and
Speaker 1: just being the loving person that I am and positive
Speaker 1: person that I am. One thing I can't say though,
Speaker 1: in this world of reality or this world of pop culture,
Speaker 1: you have to do things like that in order to
Speaker 1: even be noticed. And that's so sad. It's so sad
Speaker 1: that everyone's like not excited to see my single released
Speaker 1: body is coming up in a couple of episodes, but
Speaker 1: they're excited to see me slap somebody. Know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you know, And it just is what it is. It's TV,
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna sit there and like back down
Speaker 1: when I know that I have a chance to make
Speaker 1: my impression and be like, no, that's what I stand for.
Speaker 1: And in order for me to depict that restaurant, I
Speaker 1: never fight. I don't believe guys should ever fight girls.
Speaker 1: That's not smart or it's not good. But um, I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, TV can make you seem a
Speaker 1: certa away, but it's up to like the fans to
Speaker 1: just rock with you enough to you to just be like, no,
Speaker 1: this is me, this is why I really am. Look
Speaker 1: at came Michell like she was looked at. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: don't talk about holy ship. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1: I feel like I've just into the twilight zone along.
Speaker 1: Now let me ask you this, but don't you feel
Speaker 1: like when you're in a relationship with somebody and it
Speaker 1: comes to the point where you put your hands on them,
Speaker 1: then maybe that's a toxic relationship Because has it ever
Speaker 1: worked where you put you get to the point where
Speaker 1: you feel like you put your hands on someone they
Speaker 1: put their hands on you. Can it never work past that?
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna like can because me and my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: like we fight. You fight. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you hit me, I hit you or whatever like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like me. Me and my boyfriend, we were
Speaker 1: together for almost eight years. We've been through a couple
Speaker 1: of different things. We had a couple of domestic viole situation.
Speaker 1: They don't even be all that with the police and
Speaker 1: the statement maker. No, no no, no, no, it's just no.
Speaker 1: You don't call the cops. You know, it's just you
Speaker 1: get choked out. You might get a slab, right, you
Speaker 1: might staff somebody want a scissor. It's never you. It's
Speaker 1: always like the neighbor calling or someone from far away,
Speaker 1: not minding their business, just buying a bagel and they
Speaker 1: see like back of bagel you. So yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: you on that. But now I feel like this, once
Speaker 1: I get to the point in a relationship where I
Speaker 1: physically want to harm you or you physically want to
Speaker 1: harm me, I don't know that I could continue on
Speaker 1: past that, Like I'm not gonna feel safe. But you're
Speaker 1: a Capricorn, Okay, what that means. Capricorns are very You
Speaker 1: guys don't tolerate a lot of bullshit. I know that
Speaker 1: for a fact. I'm telling you a lot of bullshit.
Speaker 1: I'm a Capricorn. You're a Capricorn. From one particularly, well
Speaker 1: are you born in January or somebody and you're born
Speaker 1: in January? January? But I knew that, Like when somebody
Speaker 1: puts their hands on you, I'm like, especially like in
Speaker 1: a way that you're like, Okay, I gotta hide from
Speaker 1: people now because I'm sucked up. That's I'll tell y'all
Speaker 1: what I'll tell you all this. After I put my
Speaker 1: hands on that motherfucker, he didn't want nothing to do
Speaker 1: with me for a good minute. Yeah, he was very hurt.
Speaker 1: He was very shocked, aside from it happening in real life,
Speaker 1: Like he was hurt and he was like, you really
Speaker 1: did that to me on TV? Though, but he provoked you.
Speaker 1: Yeah he did, and I look what he did to
Speaker 1: you on TV. Yeah exactly, look what exactly. But here's
Speaker 1: the thing, like certain people really don't put up with
Speaker 1: that volage. Like he was like really distropped by it,
Speaker 1: and it was something. But it comes as off as
Speaker 1: a shocker, like because I know you can because it's like, wait,
Speaker 1: you weren't expecting to get slapped. Oh you didn't think
Speaker 1: he was gonna get slapped, No, motherfucker, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So it's just a rude awakening. I guess
Speaker 1: there's different characters. What if it's worse than a slap,
Speaker 1: like an actual like you have to go to the
Speaker 1: hospital or you have a black eye or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's something that's ridiculous. Not even even going
Speaker 1: into it, I said, I'm not gonna harm him. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hurt I'm not trying to damage
Speaker 1: him or his face. I just want to let him
Speaker 1: feel my pencil. I I went into it with even
Speaker 1: I'm right handed. I went into it with a left hand, okay,
Speaker 1: because I knew that it wasn't gonna hurt him that much,
Speaker 1: and I knew it was just gonna be like are
Speaker 1: you serious? And it just turned so dramatic because how
Speaker 1: much I had to reach. But it was just like
Speaker 1: are you serious? He told me. I don't get He's like,
Speaker 1: I don't get what you want to do. And we
Speaker 1: had just got into a heated thing. It's a lot
Speaker 1: you gotta tune in. I promise you. But I promise you.
Speaker 1: One thing is like, I don't condone. I do not
Speaker 1: believe violence is the answer at all, said stabbing somebody
Speaker 1: with scissors, Like can you recover from that. She said, yeah,
Speaker 1: it worked out a long time, but it was just
Speaker 1: a little stitch, little butterfly stitch that he had to get.
Speaker 1: But then, what can I just touch on that and
Speaker 1: about everybody's It's about everyone's background, what you've been through
Speaker 1: in life, right, And that's what I'm saying. Like I'm
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican, you know what I'm saying. So it's expected
Speaker 1: for me to like pull out a blade and like
Speaker 1: from the West Side Story that that that movie took
Speaker 1: place in like the fifties or something like we're known
Speaker 1: for that. You know, I think it's part of my
Speaker 1: culture to be get crazy your boyfriend. But I feel
Speaker 1: like I feel like now, you know, and lately, you know,
Speaker 1: as I've gotten you know, a little older, I feel
Speaker 1: like I've been more calm. Like sometimes I look at
Speaker 1: my dude while he's sleeping and I just wanna told back,
Speaker 1: I pray, and you know, while he's sleeping, what is
Speaker 1: he doing to you? Then while he's sleeping, he just
Speaker 1: looks so innocent, And he just looks so innocent while
Speaker 1: he's sleeping, and he's not. He's so evil. It's so
Speaker 1: you want to put that pillow and just suffocated. Y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all are crazy. I would know, you know what I
Speaker 1: David that guy once that asked me, he said, you know,
Speaker 1: have you ever been to love to the point where
Speaker 1: you felt like you were mad at you had to
Speaker 1: put your hands on the person? And I told him no,
Speaker 1: and he told me, well, you've never been in love.
Speaker 1: That's crazy, right, That's what he was. That's what he
Speaker 1: told me. And I promise you that's the first person
Speaker 1: I put my hands on. Damn, that's that's the first
Speaker 1: person I punched in the face that I was in
Speaker 1: a relationship. And to me, that's not the definition of
Speaker 1: what love is supposed to be. Yeah, no, I didn't
Speaker 1: think so either. So it's just that I love is.
Speaker 1: At the same time, love is unconditional. So it's like,
Speaker 1: if you love this person, I love you, and then
Speaker 1: you I might mush you because you did something to me.
Speaker 1: It's like I love you. So it's like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: mushed me, but stop, But what if like I broke
Speaker 1: your ribs because I love you, give you a black
Speaker 1: guy because I love you. I love you. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: say I love you. Know I feel like, um, you know,
Speaker 1: you love somebody if you're willing to suffer for them,
Speaker 1: But a broken rib that's a little extra suffering. That's jealousy.
Speaker 1: Jealousy is love and hate at the same time. So
Speaker 1: you hate that person so much you're willing to beat
Speaker 1: them and put your hands, but you love them that
Speaker 1: you you want to still keep him around. And then
Speaker 1: what do you do? Do you get them help? Because say,
Speaker 1: everything was great and everything was fine and something fun
Speaker 1: that happened and he broke your fucking ribs. Let's just
Speaker 1: say this is what happened. Neels saying black, Yeah, so
Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like do you call the cops?
Speaker 1: Like what do you like? You just love this person yesterday?
Speaker 1: So like, how do you call your brother? You don't
Speaker 1: got a brother, So now what do you do? You
Speaker 1: call your boy? Yeah? See, but this is love. So
Speaker 1: that's what the problem. And we're because I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it's okay, It's not okay at all. But what I'm
Speaker 1: saying is that's where the confusion could come because it's like,
Speaker 1: what do you do to this person? If I love you,
Speaker 1: I would leave you alone after that, leave you because
Speaker 1: I would know that that means this ship ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 1: If we feel like that where you would feel like
Speaker 1: you could put your hands on me and hurt me,
Speaker 1: then I'm a question whether or not you love me.
Speaker 1: That's you know. I remember my ex boyfriend one time,
Speaker 1: he like we got into an argument and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not talking with you anymore. He slammed me on
Speaker 1: the bed, but it wasn't It didn't hurt me, but
Speaker 1: I felt crazy that he put his hands on me
Speaker 1: at all in any way, and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? And he never he looked like
Speaker 1: he looked more scared than I was. And he never
Speaker 1: ever did nothing like that and never did anything like
Speaker 1: that again. But after that, it kind of like changed
Speaker 1: how I felt about him. Remember one time somebody was
Speaker 1: playing with you that you were dating, and they like
Speaker 1: hit her about mistake. It wasn't like it was They
Speaker 1: was literally just playing and she was like no. She
Speaker 1: didn't speak to the dude for mad long and it
Speaker 1: was an accident. It was clearly like it was an accident.
Speaker 1: She know you, I don't play games that like a
Speaker 1: guy can be, like a guy can be like this
Speaker 1: is my best friend, princess, that she could be like
Speaker 1: a guy could be like, um, let me see a
Speaker 1: perfect example, um My, damn mad pass me some catch
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh no, I'm not passing anything
Speaker 1: doing that. She's defending. Now she's get him away from me.
Speaker 1: He just caught like his approach is wrong. Guy's approach
Speaker 1: is wrong, Like that's a no go. So I know
Speaker 1: if you raise your voice at me, I'm never working
Speaker 1: with you again because I feel like you screamed on
Speaker 1: me for any reason and you were disrespectful if you
Speaker 1: called me a hole, a bit and whatever, and I'm
Speaker 1: not working with you like me, you're cut off triggers.
Speaker 1: It's bad. I don't I got a gun. I pulled
Speaker 1: that trigger curve day because I don't want to with
Speaker 1: her'n yeah because we love Yeah, because I feel like this,
Speaker 1: like I don't disrespect people like that. I never put
Speaker 1: my hands on anybody, and I don't like, I don't
Speaker 1: really scream on people like that. I'm mad, chilling, calm,
Speaker 1: So if you do that to me, there's no reason.
Speaker 1: I don't mind a little clean argument like to me,
Speaker 1: you got that's healthy. Like I feel like if we
Speaker 1: can't argue and get back to being cool, then you're
Speaker 1: not my friend. We could argue, but I don't need
Speaker 1: you screaming up. We can't argue fighting and fuck not
Speaker 1: for the word the fucking part. It's so good at her,
Speaker 1: so good it'd be like, it's so weird, that's so
Speaker 1: weird to get the ship out of whenever, whenever you,
Speaker 1: whenever we get something to eat right before you, if
Speaker 1: we fight, calm down and go get the guys. Damn
Speaker 1: saying nothing looking you know, I haven't been through it
Speaker 1: all with the same person. I just feel like, like
Speaker 1: fucking but you're not. And I think it's fine to argue.
Speaker 1: But I think what's really important and in a relationship
Speaker 1: is can you argue productively? Because there's arguments, But y'all scream, yell, fight,
Speaker 1: throw things, do all of that. That ship don't get you.
Speaker 1: You know you're not getting along and you have an argument,
Speaker 1: that argument should be an argument with y'all's still respectful
Speaker 1: to each other even in the course of having an argument.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying you gotta get along all the time,
Speaker 1: but if we get an argument and you like you
Speaker 1: bit you did me, yeah, and it should take time
Speaker 1: before you get to that point, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like your first arguments at the beginning like the first
Speaker 1: year for six months all that first years, first two
Speaker 1: years should always be like you said, be very respectful.
Speaker 1: It should always be respectful. But trust me as you
Speaker 1: already you know as time passes, that would be like
Speaker 1: you little, I know you do. I do that like
Speaker 1: a friend because you gotta star. I know you're doing hurts.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. You gotta get them wear it hurts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: everybody better than you did. You broke, broke, You're fishy.
Speaker 1: When I fight with my boyfriends, I try not to
Speaker 1: say things that I'm gonna regret. Right, I'm really good
Speaker 1: at that, are you. Yeah, I'm really good at that.
Speaker 1: Like if I start calling you like all kinds of
Speaker 1: bitches and bombs, it's because I don't care. It's because
Speaker 1: I don't know what good point. Because when I was
Speaker 1: in my last relationship for seven years, there's just things
Speaker 1: that we knew, we both knew not what to say,
Speaker 1: and it was the situation was that bad that it
Speaker 1: was worthy of saying that thing that, but but we
Speaker 1: wouldn't say it just because we knew. So that is true.
Speaker 1: I feel like you, like I feel like um like her,
Speaker 1: like I'm very careful with what I say in arguments.
Speaker 1: But like the other day, Oh my god, the other
Speaker 1: day I went, um, I was mad about something, and
Speaker 1: I went off, you know about this she you know
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, and I killed like I've really
Speaker 1: killed him, Like what did you get mad? We need
Speaker 1: to know what it was about, naum in general terms.
Speaker 1: I I can't even there is no general terms for
Speaker 1: what I was mad about. It's just I was I
Speaker 1: was mad about something, and I really killed him. Listen,
Speaker 1: all right. The bottom line is whatever I was mad
Speaker 1: for is not something that I would stopped working with
Speaker 1: him over, you know what I mean. So this is
Speaker 1: my point, like I killed him over it, and even
Speaker 1: though he did something wrong, I ended up feeling bad
Speaker 1: because yeah, I killed him so hard like um, you know,
Speaker 1: and I feel like this is my problem in my
Speaker 1: situation that you know, I'll get so mad that he
Speaker 1: can spin me and make me feel like I did
Speaker 1: something right, and at the end I ended up good
Speaker 1: reverse psychology, and it's crazy, like the spin moves are crazy.
Speaker 1: But anyway back to that, that one time I wasn't
Speaker 1: careful about what I said because I was drinking. That's
Speaker 1: the worst when you get drunk and say some ship
Speaker 1: that you regret and then you don't remember it, and
Speaker 1: then they'd be mad, be mad, embarrassed, and then they
Speaker 1: don't they don't even know why you mad, Like what
Speaker 1: did I say? I woke up the next day. I
Speaker 1: wake up the next day, like, listen, you know I
Speaker 1: was drunk, right, but and now you trying to be
Speaker 1: you try to keep it in a moment like you
Speaker 1: know you weren't crazy to You're like, but um, you right, right,
Speaker 1: right right, But you try to clean up a little bit,
Speaker 1: and then you see your text messages like oh ship crazy,
Speaker 1: and then you see your snap and you'd be like, ship,
Speaker 1: it's like a fucking ship. Yeah. But you know, some
Speaker 1: things I feel like are like the point of no return.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, I just feel like you gotta
Speaker 1: just really learned, I think, to be in a relationship,
Speaker 1: how to argue effectively so that you don't do things
Speaker 1: that are like unforgivable in life. I don't be planning
Speaker 1: it out like that. I'll just be going off. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I'll be like this this that I
Speaker 1: don't be like all right. Point one is going to
Speaker 1: get to the conclusion of this. You just got to argue.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about this new phenomenon that people are doing, right,
Speaker 1: people are getting penis whitening. Whitening, Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: don't hurt it at whitening, how you believe? Definitely? But
Speaker 1: like so you bleach, you know how? Like guys, your
Speaker 1: penis be like a different color than your body, A
Speaker 1: little bit darker. Yeah, because it's a little bit darker,
Speaker 1: only one is not on hard and then once it's
Speaker 1: on heartache's a little bit like like think about it.
Speaker 1: No absolutely shrinking dick. It's darker when it's when it's soft,
Speaker 1: and then when it stretches out it does about to say,
Speaker 1: and so it's not a flatter, fooder color, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like for the past six months it's
Speaker 1: been like a new procedure that people are actually going
Speaker 1: and getting laser whitening on their penis. Yeah, and the
Speaker 1: penis hurt. That's disgusting. It doesn't hurt what I do.
Speaker 1: Why would anybody want a wider penis? I don't think
Speaker 1: they should come on darkening procedure? What about bleaching your asshole?
Speaker 1: I would do that? So why yeah, why? I don't
Speaker 1: know what's the purpose of happen for a reason. Some
Speaker 1: people need to bleach because from the skin rubbing up
Speaker 1: against each other, it just makes it look dirty, especially
Speaker 1: when you light skin and then you like, all right,
Speaker 1: you don't know what my hair pout of it. But
Speaker 1: told example example, you know how some more some bigger
Speaker 1: African American people get those dark like they get those
Speaker 1: dark rings, bring around together like when they roll from together,
Speaker 1: and they get dark in the inside. So that's the
Speaker 1: same thing happens for asshole. Like from the skin rubbing,
Speaker 1: not just the whole, not just the whole, the whole
Speaker 1: inside of the butt crack, it gets like chafe. She's
Speaker 1: really see it and like, but she's Latino, but she's
Speaker 1: really like like white skin and white skin. The inside
Speaker 1: of her thighs gets grayish from you know what I did,
Speaker 1: from rubbing again each other. So people booty holes look
Speaker 1: like that too. So I think you gotta get it
Speaker 1: when you bleach it. What is the process consist of?
Speaker 1: It's just cream. I don't know what my asshole looks like. Picture.
Speaker 1: I swear how I've looked in the mirror, bend over
Speaker 1: like I've never done. You never looked back at That's
Speaker 1: how I want to know what look ship. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: like when you take a picture of it over a
Speaker 1: little more question. You don't have to answer a general question.
Speaker 1: I'm answer for anybody who ever wants to answer. Had
Speaker 1: anyone in here ever had or tried anal sex? So
Speaker 1: we talked about it. We talked about a half. I
Speaker 1: hadn't done it yet. I wish I couldn't. Joy, I
Speaker 1: want to talk about you to do it right. No,
Speaker 1: you know what's so funny My my gay friends, they
Speaker 1: all say the same thing. Yeah, because my exactly this
Speaker 1: is what my I don't know her better than I
Speaker 1: don't know who you're gonna agree, But he says, you know,
Speaker 1: like the pussy has muscles and this a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of things going on in there, and then the asshole
Speaker 1: is just a whole you know. That's what my gay
Speaker 1: friends says. He doesn't see why why girls do an know?
Speaker 1: I think a guy okay, Like, okay, Whenever I say this,
Speaker 1: some females, a lot of females feel offended, and so
Speaker 1: they'll be like, I don't know what you're talking abocause
Speaker 1: my pussy is tight. I'm like, I'm not saying you're
Speaker 1: pussy out tighter pussy isn't tight. I don't know. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I feel like the reason why guys like
Speaker 1: ant or any guy would like you know it, is
Speaker 1: because they like the type feel of you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like a tighter feel that saying pussy. So
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe that's why they do it. That's
Speaker 1: the onely thing thing I can think of. I hate
Speaker 1: when girls be like, my man asked me for any
Speaker 1: other day, is he gay? My man must be gay
Speaker 1: because he trying to. I'm like, no, that doesn't make
Speaker 1: your man gay, just that he sees it's like it's
Speaker 1: like that's like imagine going to a buffet. And for
Speaker 1: a lot of guys it's a mental A lot of
Speaker 1: guys they do it right, and a lot of guys
Speaker 1: they just want to do it to get it off
Speaker 1: to they say they've done it true. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I think it's a little gay. You think so? I
Speaker 1: think I think a guy that wants to do it
Speaker 1: all that time might be okay now that now we're
Speaker 1: something that he said, what if a guy wants you
Speaker 1: to put a doll doing this? But is that gay?
Speaker 1: If you're a woman and I'm gonna tell you, like Peggy,
Speaker 1: let me tell you, let me tell you something like,
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Right now, I know one girl.
Speaker 1: She's she's a prominent female minamy. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: say name that all guys. You guys know, we don't.
Speaker 1: You're not related to her. Nothing, right, prominent female. She's
Speaker 1: very popular with her. She's like a very she's a model, beautiful,
Speaker 1: and she has show many videos snapchats of her having
Speaker 1: sexual relations with basketball players, NFL players, you know, men
Speaker 1: in the industry that do sports and stuff. And she's
Speaker 1: playing with the asshole with anal beads. Okay, so my god,
Speaker 1: there's nothing I mean right now, I think it's you know,
Speaker 1: I think it's yes, get your pleasure. That's what I'm
Speaker 1: going to say. As a gay man, you can attest
Speaker 1: to there is a g spot, but a lot of
Speaker 1: guys are too scared to find. Yeah, and a lot
Speaker 1: of guys feel like it's it's homosexual for them too.
Speaker 1: But okay, ana beads, I don't think a dildo. There's
Speaker 1: a difference between an no beads and a dildo. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't about the Well, if you want like a
Speaker 1: full flesh. The shape of a penis the flesh and
Speaker 1: all that. Like a strap on? What if a girl
Speaker 1: puts on a chap because there's still a woman doing
Speaker 1: it to you, so it's not I think anything past
Speaker 1: two fingers this question, even two fingers just question. I
Speaker 1: think anything past anything passed question. I don't think. I
Speaker 1: don't think a guy getting his ass eight is gay.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think a guy UM wanted
Speaker 1: you to put your fingers around his ass and that's
Speaker 1: in that in that space in between the balls. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's gay for one finger in the ass.
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think one finger in the
Speaker 1: ass is gay. I don't. I don't think so. But
Speaker 1: I'm not. And you're putting a fist in the eyes.
Speaker 1: It's a different. But what about a strap one? Though,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, if it's a woman doing it to you,
Speaker 1: it shouldn't be considered gay. I'm sorry, that's a shape
Speaker 1: of a dick. Yeah, something that a woman does. It's you,
Speaker 1: that's I mean, do y'all like do gay guys use
Speaker 1: dodos and stuff too? They point waiting far blood closed doors.
Speaker 1: Let's play with each other's dicks. You know, it's like
Speaker 1: and for the gay people at least, you know what
Speaker 1: if you you just said that they have a dick,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. I mean, guys have dicks and they
Speaker 1: play with with I mean guys, straight guys have dicks
Speaker 1: and they play with girls with didos sometimes so not
Speaker 1: not often, right, I actually yeah, yes, I've seen guys
Speaker 1: all my girls girls with a dida. They have they
Speaker 1: just have they want to see there's pleasure and them
Speaker 1: watching it go. I was thinking, it's kind of like
Speaker 1: having another person rules. Guys, you don't believe there's rules
Speaker 1: anything anything on earth, period. But I don't know. I
Speaker 1: feel like, um, if you have a boyfriend and he
Speaker 1: always wants to funk you in your rays, you made
Speaker 1: you know, he made like to funk men too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be okay with fucking a guy that I'm dating,
Speaker 1: like with a dildo. Like another question, Yeah, okay, because
Speaker 1: I always ask people this, I think this is a
Speaker 1: good question for y'all. So would y'all prefer for your
Speaker 1: man of like a long time that you love to
Speaker 1: cheat with you one time with a guy, or to
Speaker 1: cheat on you multiple times with the female rather one
Speaker 1: time with a guy the other way around. Wow, I
Speaker 1: think if your man cheats on you with a female,
Speaker 1: guess what that female is messy. She can say and
Speaker 1: go around tell everybody I fucked your nigga. That could
Speaker 1: be something that gets out. It's something that would tarnish
Speaker 1: your apputation. It can embarrass you off. It isn't I
Speaker 1: don't give a dance, but it happens every dayby but
Speaker 1: a guy, right right, But a guy. I'm saying, if
Speaker 1: a guy would to cheat, it will be so it
Speaker 1: will never come out. That's not true. If I really
Speaker 1: don't just a less likely chance I would say of
Speaker 1: it coming out. Then if he cheated with you with
Speaker 1: a female, you know what I'm saying. That's one good reason,
Speaker 1: But I have another good reason. That's my only good reason.
Speaker 1: I have another good reason because the option was multiple
Speaker 1: signs with a woman or many women, right, or just
Speaker 1: one time with one guy. So if he did it
Speaker 1: that one time with the guy, he obviously needed to
Speaker 1: get that off. It's something I can't provide, so he
Speaker 1: needed to get my reason, but in the opposite way
Speaker 1: because I can't. I can't compete with a penis. And
Speaker 1: I don't think that that should be shedding light and
Speaker 1: that should be saying because then it's not always I
Speaker 1: can't what is it I say? I would rather I
Speaker 1: would rather my man cheat on me one time that
Speaker 1: cheat on me for me, my boyfriend of seven years,
Speaker 1: so I loved and he was like my all and everything,
Speaker 1: and I'm so I'm a scorpion. Jealousy is a cancer. Okay.
Speaker 1: So we had this conversation. I told him, I said,
Speaker 1: if you ever in your life another gay guy on
Speaker 1: me or another man on me while we're together, I'm
Speaker 1: going to harm you. Okay, I would rather you. And
Speaker 1: then I said, followed up right after, I said, I
Speaker 1: would rather you cheat on me with the female, go
Speaker 1: fun pussy, because I know, at the end of the
Speaker 1: day she can't compete with me. Because at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, your assets, gay motherfucker, you're gonna get
Speaker 1: your boy. You are sucking gay like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But on the opposite end, if a guy
Speaker 1: sucks another guy, he might be trying to repress the
Speaker 1: fact that he's gay and might really want that and
Speaker 1: I can't never conside that, and it might be something
Speaker 1: that he's like, that's you're signed it. It's time for you.
Speaker 1: You gotta taste of that penis and I can't. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's time for you to walk on. That means he
Speaker 1: wasn't man and it's time for him now to join
Speaker 1: his journey to beat did Now, Bobby, have you ever
Speaker 1: had a penis that was too big and couldn't do it? Yes,
Speaker 1: that's the bottom. I'm sure you know obviously that he
Speaker 1: don't parental advisory. Before I said this, Yes, I have
Speaker 1: had a penis it was too big, and it's just
Speaker 1: in my mind. I knew automatically. Then I was like, condom,
Speaker 1: stay in my pocket because I'm just gonna give him
Speaker 1: some head inserting ship of that in me. I'll give
Speaker 1: some top got fun I have or fixation that maybe
Speaker 1: else have a or fixation or not. I love sucking
Speaker 1: sick with all my heart and soul. Collelujah, praised the Lord.
Speaker 1: The problem. I think sometimes like when you start and
Speaker 1: I was just saying this, but you started sucking somebody's nick,
Speaker 1: you kind of want to finish, like if you start,
Speaker 1: but it's supposed to be like a pre you know,
Speaker 1: like we're saying it's a warm up. But I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie I was thinking about it when we were
Speaker 1: talking about what it's like. I was thinking about it
Speaker 1: there every times that I'm doing the warm up dick suck,
Speaker 1: you know, the warm up dick suck, and he's like,
Speaker 1: all right, come on, alright, alright, alright, let's go get
Speaker 1: on top, and I'm like, no, give me a second,
Speaker 1: like I'm enjoying this. And the best is when he's
Speaker 1: trying not to come, but he knows when he's try
Speaker 1: not to, and then you're like, okay, I can't stop now, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: and then that's all right, you go ahead and let
Speaker 1: him release and then give him a few minutes and
Speaker 1: then round two it's going to be even better than
Speaker 1: round one would have been, because basically that is so
Speaker 1: crazy though. How man have to reset women? That's what
Speaker 1: I wish I had, no matter what how gay my
Speaker 1: ass wants to be, how much think, how much I
Speaker 1: think it right, it's like I have to after you release,
Speaker 1: after you come, you do need that recent moment, like
Speaker 1: it's like, but you're young, baby, you should be able
Speaker 1: to go quick. It happens, it does happen quick. But
Speaker 1: it's still like, I know I noticed that females because
Speaker 1: I've watched straight porn sometimes I like watching straight born.
Speaker 1: So I noticed that females is like they'd be ready
Speaker 1: as soon as the stay come, y'all can come right after.
Speaker 1: And as soon as they come y'all looking like, bitch,
Speaker 1: what's up, I'm ready for more? You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying that that is a talent, Bobby. None of your
Speaker 1: female friends have ever hit on the time. Yeah good looking?
Speaker 1: Really yeah, thank you all the time? And what do
Speaker 1: you say? No, but I don't ever respect the female anatomy.
Speaker 1: I just may be just not discussed, but I may
Speaker 1: be thrown off by it. Like like, for example, like
Speaker 1: one of my homegirls, she always works with me. Whenever
Speaker 1: she's over or whatever, she comes out the shower and
Speaker 1: she'll be like she'll knock on my door or whatever,
Speaker 1: or she knows I'm in like frustrated something to Like, Bobby,
Speaker 1: I'd be like what she was like trying to like
Speaker 1: but like at the end of the day, no, like
Speaker 1: I was birth from a vagina, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like I came from Like that's what gives respect the vaginas. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I respect the vagina's girl, like hello, and that lot
Speaker 1: of gays try to emanate. Um is that the right word?
Speaker 1: I emulate? Emulate the female persona or you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So at the end of the day, like no, there,
Speaker 1: it's never like no, like what about a three sime?
Speaker 1: Has that girl ever been like you know me and
Speaker 1: my many times I've been offering money to sleep with
Speaker 1: a wife and her husband. Yes, plenty of time. So
Speaker 1: how much did you make off of that? Never? That's
Speaker 1: one of my porn categories. It'll be like wife, wife
Speaker 1: and husbanding. I don't I don't even want to talk
Speaker 1: about it because I'm still waiting on the link to
Speaker 1: this porn because she talked about it last I've been
Speaker 1: waiting much. Yes, like a cheater. It's like it's like
Speaker 1: where it's like it's the wife sucking a black man
Speaker 1: in front of the husband, whether he's like Asian, white, whatever,
Speaker 1: but her husband is sucking the day. But it's so
Speaker 1: funny because if you notice, like the points started the guy,
Speaker 1: if he's like you can tell he's like completely straight,
Speaker 1: and when they start doing it, they'll be like in
Speaker 1: them poor and they'll be like, all right, nigga, enough
Speaker 1: for you now. But it's like that stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't know, guys, I'll be drinking.
Speaker 1: It's your fault. It is your fault. So you wouldn't
Speaker 1: do a threesome though with a man. No, there's no telling.
Speaker 1: I can never say never. I used to say I
Speaker 1: would never try a certain type of drug or whatever,
Speaker 1: and I've tried it. So it's like, you know, there's
Speaker 1: no telling. I'm twenty seven. Now I'm three years from thirty. Bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm about to be old ship whatever. That's a good thing.
Speaker 1: But no, I'm like, I'm twenty seven. I feel like
Speaker 1: you know by age thirty five, forty is no You
Speaker 1: might like when you get rich, when you get a
Speaker 1: lot of money and you travel the world and you
Speaker 1: meet different people, you you're open to different experiences, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So there's no telling. You prefer
Speaker 1: being in a relationship of being single, and now I
Speaker 1: prefer being a single a lot love it. I love it.
Speaker 1: Being in a relationship is a liability. Funny job, it's
Speaker 1: a job is a liability. It causes emotional heartbreak, it
Speaker 1: causes jealousy, it causes frustration. Part of your day, half
Speaker 1: of your day is going towards your relationship, whether you
Speaker 1: want to believe it or not, even if it's half
Speaker 1: of the day straight you're doing your your thing and
Speaker 1: the other half it's your relationship, or whether it's piece
Speaker 1: here of your relationship, piece this of your errands, piece
Speaker 1: back to your relationship is like always half and half
Speaker 1: and it takes half of your life away. But being
Speaker 1: saying that how hard to say with thinking that people
Speaker 1: might want to just work with you because they've seen
Speaker 1: you on hip and they want to be on the
Speaker 1: show too. Yeah, but guess who at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, if you're cute enough and you have you
Speaker 1: have you got what it is. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: You got what it takes. What's up? Application is open
Speaker 1: right now because I'm signed on to love and hip hop,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And right now I am.
Speaker 1: I am looking for love. I'm a scorpion. I'm always
Speaker 1: looking for love. At the same time, my career is
Speaker 1: so important to me to the point where it's like,
Speaker 1: if I get it with every in relationship, I'm in one.
Speaker 1: If I'm not, Oh, well, do you think that if
Speaker 1: you didn't do love and Hip hop that you would
Speaker 1: still be with Jack's boyfriend right now. It definitely for
Speaker 1: sure the way that it happened, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: My storyline cannot be more real because the way that
Speaker 1: it happened, it was like, Oh, I already know it's
Speaker 1: about to happen. Because to be fun fact, his ex
Speaker 1: was on Love Hip Hop before me. He was signed
Speaker 1: on before me. Two years ago. When they started doing
Speaker 1: the pilot, the network and Mona Scott initially said, we're
Speaker 1: missing a few pieces to this puzzle and it's not
Speaker 1: for me right right now. We need to add So
Speaker 1: they went on a scout to find initially epecially me,
Speaker 1: and then so they're like, okay, we found it, and
Speaker 1: they're like, we wanted to put the bearers by finally
Speaker 1: making having an opening gate person as main cast and
Speaker 1: making an opening because they never had that before. So
Speaker 1: it was like now they're like, okay, you're the one.
Speaker 1: And then my ties of Trina just made it easier
Speaker 1: because I didn't go on there, Trina didn't get me
Speaker 1: on there, or I didn't go on there saying I'm
Speaker 1: treating cousin. Look, they reached out to me because I
Speaker 1: was doing my music as an openly gave rapper in Miami,
Speaker 1: and then when they found out I was treating his
Speaker 1: becausin it was just like the icing on the cake, right.
Speaker 1: So then back to what we're just saying now about
Speaker 1: the love hip hop. So yeah, so like now at
Speaker 1: this point, I am, you know, I'm open even to
Speaker 1: have my own dating show on logo or something maybe
Speaker 1: something where I can try to find love because love
Speaker 1: for me has not worked out. It's like I keep
Speaker 1: having bad luck, but all I'm trying to find someone
Speaker 1: that I can be with for the rest of my life.
Speaker 1: I'm not I know, right, that's what you know. But
Speaker 1: back to your question or I'm sorry. If it wasn't
Speaker 1: for love of hip hop, we would have definitely still
Speaker 1: been together because fun fact, like I said, he was
Speaker 1: on their first when they started interviewing us, They're like,
Speaker 1: how do you know? I don't know him from a
Speaker 1: candid pay And then when I told Jeffrey my my
Speaker 1: boyfriend at the time, I was like, yeah, so there's
Speaker 1: this gay boy on there. Then he's like, thanks to
Speaker 1: be my ex. I said, shut up, And he made
Speaker 1: it seem to me like because we were in a
Speaker 1: real relationship, So he made it seems to me like
Speaker 1: you have no worries though, like I hate him, he
Speaker 1: hates me. We're good come to find out all this
Speaker 1: is going on. So it's like I was literally like
Speaker 1: watching it and like just going through the heartbreak at
Speaker 1: the same time like having it like like it was okay,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm looking
Speaker 1: for someone they can they can give me like a
Speaker 1: long term type of situation, and until then I might
Speaker 1: also just date, be single and live my thought life
Speaker 1: even saying how is life? How is life? Life? Unless
Speaker 1: you're ready to come put a ring off, like I'm
Speaker 1: trying to be the first gay person has a wedding
Speaker 1: special on the on the network, Like let's make it happen.
Speaker 1: If you're not trying to put a ring on his
Speaker 1: motherfucking finger right here, Like like Sierra said, yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta walk into spirit. You got in the spirit of
Speaker 1: life and her husband will find you. Is that what
Speaker 1: you have to do is that I'm not gay no more.
Speaker 1: I've been delivered. But listen, and you know Trina is
Speaker 1: a friend to the show, so is she now seeing
Speaker 1: like your star rising, and she's being more helpful because
Speaker 1: I know part of what was happening when you felt like,
Speaker 1: this is my cousin, Why aren't you helping me and
Speaker 1: my career? Because she's so successful. People love Trina, she
Speaker 1: loves Yeah, so I would I would have thought like, hello,
Speaker 1: helped me, But has it helped now? Because she's seen
Speaker 1: everything that you're doing. I'm sure she's like, all right,
Speaker 1: let me bring my cousin. Okay, I'll say this much.
Speaker 1: I feel that I've worked hard enough now and I've
Speaker 1: proven myself hard enough now that she's willing to be like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: because now we do have more, we're more like, we're
Speaker 1: way closer. But the show made us closer before this
Speaker 1: when we started feeling the moment our first seen, we
Speaker 1: got closer even like in the beginning when we got
Speaker 1: like there are security meetings and everything like our meetings
Speaker 1: and stuff before we started filming, Like, we started getting
Speaker 1: closer because she knew like, Okay, this is something we're
Speaker 1: about to do together, so let's kill it. Let's put
Speaker 1: off from Miami, and let's give them, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, what they want. So we kind of started
Speaker 1: getting and that made us closer. The show did make
Speaker 1: us closer, So I feel like that made her feel
Speaker 1: more comfortable to reach out to me because we weren't
Speaker 1: close before. And at least you know, you have each
Speaker 1: other's back because your family. Yeah we are. At the
Speaker 1: end of the day, I know she'll never let like,
Speaker 1: nothing truly foul happened to me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And a vice versa. You know, Daddy tat you trick.
Speaker 1: Daddy is my dog. That's my homeboard. Like we have
Speaker 1: a scene, we have a scene together, it's gonna show,
Speaker 1: You're gonna see it, and it's at a radio station
Speaker 1: or whatever. And he's always and I've had a conversation
Speaker 1: with him outside of the show. He's always giving me
Speaker 1: advice like, look, you're representing a community right now, and
Speaker 1: you have to do it to the fullest extent and
Speaker 1: be proud of what you are because you're good, You're talented.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It has nothing to do yeah,
Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with the fact that, let's
Speaker 1: put that side right out. Your talented, So just use
Speaker 1: this platform you have and be that voice for the community.
Speaker 1: So he offers me a lot of positive advice, And
Speaker 1: did you put it in your contract that music is
Speaker 1: gonna be on the show and featured on the show
Speaker 1: and everything important? Yes, very very yeah, yeah my contract.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna be honest with you. Love hip
Speaker 1: hop contracts are very long, but as long as you
Speaker 1: have a good lawyer, you you're able to get through
Speaker 1: it and make it worse because they try to get
Speaker 1: her on Loving hip hop for real. Yeah, I had
Speaker 1: to get a lawyer for what city. Like you said,
Speaker 1: the contract is very long in New York. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: see you on it though, you but I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't have television right now, so I
Speaker 1: don't know. I haven't been watching the shows. I don't
Speaker 1: know how New York is going. But the problem was
Speaker 1: I just didn't fit in with the cast, you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't. You don't have any real relationships, haven't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to have some type of time. Um, but yeah,
Speaker 1: my music will be paid. I have I have my
Speaker 1: own like I want to say episode, but I but
Speaker 1: it's like my whole thing where it's just all about
Speaker 1: my single releases. Yeah, my singor release party and then
Speaker 1: you're gonna drop it that day. I'll drop it that
Speaker 1: day at midnight. I'm like to put like a whole
Speaker 1: radio run behind it, like I haven't labeled it. So
Speaker 1: you got a whole little set of plotting and planning
Speaker 1: for this day when it comes out. For this one
Speaker 1: song called way Up, which is super super dope, I
Speaker 1: feel like it's a game changer and um yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 1: of course congratulate, and we can attest to the fact
Speaker 1: that I met you even before two years ago. I
Speaker 1: used to be first of all, I was ove, what's
Speaker 1: going on? I was like going hard. I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like, listen, you're gonna interview me. One day
Speaker 1: I was he came up to me and like, Moline aggravating,
Speaker 1: Like I was like aggy, but I was definitely drinking.
Speaker 1: But it was fun and I was Miami, yeah you're
Speaker 1: still me and you holding the revolt. Uh yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I remember. It's really cute, like people good, I look good.
Speaker 1: I posted it. Yeah it's a it's a picture ahead
Speaker 1: of us with train that was in the background loss.
Speaker 1: And you know what, it's important because you have been
Speaker 1: going hard to try to make this happen. So it's
Speaker 1: not just like you got on there and you made
Speaker 1: up apply trying to be like age fifteen. If you're
Speaker 1: on YouTube, but you see the music videos I've been uploaded,
Speaker 1: you see two down in twelve, two thousan eleven. Like,
Speaker 1: it's been like I've been trying to do the music
Speaker 1: thing whatever, and it's so hard, like being an openly
Speaker 1: gay rapper, because I really am good like and I
Speaker 1: know that I am standing outside of my body. I'm like, motherfucker,
Speaker 1: you can wrap. But it's like there's always a gag
Speaker 1: to everything you are in life. There's always like something
Speaker 1: and the thing is I'm gay and it's so and
Speaker 1: then people think, well, what is the big deal? Why
Speaker 1: is it such a It's not a big deal, but
Speaker 1: people really do make it a big deal. DJs, the industry, everyone,
Speaker 1: it is a big deal. It's not comfortable. It's a
Speaker 1: safety issue. Always is a lot of things. And it's
Speaker 1: a lot of people that could look up to you
Speaker 1: that might have felt like this industry wasn't and they
Speaker 1: couldn't be successful. And then they can see you right
Speaker 1: down that's happening actually, So now that's so inspired and
Speaker 1: I just can't wait. It's like a good year. It's
Speaker 1: a good I feel like a good interview feel life
Speaker 1: now was the perfect time. Yeah, you have a good platform.
Speaker 1: This could be a moment for you to make a
Speaker 1: big change in music. Serious. In fact, they're good luck
Speaker 1: finding love man. But in the meantime, you keep that
Speaker 1: baby like this dating show idea. Yeah, like you remember
Speaker 1: how they had you Flavor of Love and you have
Speaker 1: I Love New York and then have a good name.
Speaker 1: I don't know, right, let's think of um, I'm Booty
Speaker 1: the Bobby I inpreciated the same though, engage you. I
Speaker 1: don't even think Logo would accept that side of Yeah,
Speaker 1: that was no. But I think it would be so
Speaker 1: dopeful me to try to find love on the show.
Speaker 1: That would be so fun. But I'm lowkey. I thought
Speaker 1: I told you that. You try to tell me before.
Speaker 1: That's not cheaters. We're not cheaters. Were just we're just bous. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But one thing I could say about scorpios, even if
Speaker 1: they're promiscuous, when they get something that they like, they
Speaker 1: want more. They wanted a lot until they get tired
Speaker 1: of it. Yeah, and then they want at the variety.
Speaker 1: But then lying when they'll come back an takes discipline.
Speaker 1: You have to be a discipline now, let's go back.
Speaker 1: Yes we do. Yes, I'm telling you. When they get
Speaker 1: something they like, they want it over. It's about the sign.
Speaker 1: At the same time, it's also about I go back
Speaker 1: to your background, how you're raised, personality, morals, what you believe.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because like you can be
Speaker 1: raised to be like I don't curse, Like I know,
Speaker 1: I have friends that don't say I don't. You don't curse.
Speaker 1: Yet we're trying to game. We actually trying to get
Speaker 1: a cut back. She got to pay a dollar every
Speaker 1: time she cursed, and she always Yeah yeah, Bobby, tiybody
Speaker 1: how they could follow you? You guys can follow me
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Twitter as Bobby lights all together bo
Speaker 1: b b y l y t e s A right.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Bobby. We love you, will be supporting.
Speaker 1: I love you, Lorian. I love your stuff and your energy,
Speaker 1: and I have fun that this was even Oh there
Speaker 1: was a camera, yeah, recording. I don't. I thought we
Speaker 1: were just doing it. I just said, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: Abouttom must Oh and don't let me forget To remind
Speaker 1: you all, we do have our lip service to live.
Speaker 1: This is our second one ever and it's happened in
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Speaker 1: have a Malaga confirmed as a guest. Also, a Little
Speaker 1: Mo and her husband Carl Dargin will be coming through
Speaker 1: for some very special Valentine's Day advice and you know,
Speaker 1: relationship type stuff. So let's have some fun