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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for dumping my boyfriend after

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Speaker 1: my friend manipulated me into thinking he was having an affair. Well,

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Speaker 1: this comes from the aptly named fed Up Life twenty fourteen,

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Speaker 1: who says, some context, my friend is thirty six female,

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight female, and my boyfriend is twenty seven male.

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Speaker 1: This is a complicated story, so we got fake names.

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Speaker 1: The boyfriend is Tom, my friend is Jess, the boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: friend is Kim, and the textavy friend is Rich. So

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Speaker 1: Tom and I have been together for three years, and

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Speaker 1: again Tom is the boyfriend, and he's been very affectionate

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Speaker 1: and loving boyfriend during that time. Sounds so great, doesn't it, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: He sounds horrible.

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Speaker 1: H You're correct, because that's what's gonna happen. I think

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Speaker 1: he's a liared Ah got you. I would have said

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Speaker 1: yes if he proposed to be if Kim is a

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Speaker 1: friend that he knows from work. I've always been a

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Speaker 1: little uncomfortable with a relationship, but I never had a

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Speaker 1: reason to believe that my boyfriend Tom and the coworker

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Speaker 1: Kim were doing anything behind my back until until Yes

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Speaker 1: no Opie's friend told me that she saw them add

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Speaker 1: a dinner together on a Friday night, where my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: Tom told me he was working late inconsistencies in the story.

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Speaker 2: Something's not adding up.

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Speaker 1: Something is not adding up, but you know what is

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Speaker 1: maybe adding up? Our viewers, our viewers, welcome to stream

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Speaker 1: and Riley, do we get a donation from a certain

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Speaker 1: hat person? Hat person? Yes, we did, Chris Head for

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Speaker 1: a hat. Wait for the memberships, that is now, that

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Speaker 1: is how you start the stream. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome, Welcome,

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Speaker 1: say uh, put your city and the time it is

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Speaker 1: in the chat where you're coming from. W's in the chat?

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Speaker 1: Actually for starting the stream.

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Speaker 2: On time and for the time that it will be

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Speaker 2: when the stream ends.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's too much. You need to slow your role, Sophia.

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Speaker 1: You're giving them too many things to do.

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Speaker 2: I can't handle it.

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Speaker 1: It's too much. Sorry, Yeah, thank you. I appreciate that apology.

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Speaker 1: Are beautiful fans, not me.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big person.

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Speaker 1: You are big. Let's get back to the story. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: I was devastated because of her finding out about this dinner,

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Speaker 1: the secret dinner. Tom is the most stand up and

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Speaker 1: million years that he would have that he would even

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Speaker 1: lie to me, let alone have an affair. I didn't

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Speaker 1: believe Jessa first, but then she showed me a blurry

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Speaker 2: How blurry?

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Speaker 1: Really quick? Knowing the title and everything, do we think

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Speaker 2: Wait, who's Jess again?

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Speaker 1: So Jess is the friend so basically just the friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: was like, hey, I saw your your your man's Tom

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Speaker 2: I think she's a liar.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point. I think she.

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Speaker 2: Showed her a really blurry photo and she's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: It does look like him, but I swear honestly, pretty

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Speaker 1: good move. I feel like I feel like if you

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Speaker 2: Some gush and blur.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sophia's photoshops kills guys out of hand, absolutely out

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Speaker 1: of hand, crushing the game. I couldn't see either of

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Speaker 2: She's like, I couldn't see their faces, but the bodies could.

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Speaker 3: It's like two arms. And my boyfriend has too do

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Speaker 3: I know. I never thought before that he could ever

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Speaker 1: WHOA. I also saw the man wearing a watch, Tom

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Speaker 1: always wears a watch, and Tom's favorite vineyard and Tom's

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Speaker 4: WHOA.

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Speaker 1: I was convinced that's what details.

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Speaker 2: So the tie was also slightly obscured.

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Speaker 1: It's the smoking tie, the tie that unraveled Chekhov's tie.

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Speaker 1: I know, yeah exactly. Jess told me that if I

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Speaker 1: The mainframe. She gave me a stack of papers that

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is pretty convincing manipulative evidence.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think. I think if someone came forward and

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Speaker 1: This other pictures here's uh like printed out things, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: If Riley's looking at me in the mirror. Scary. I

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Speaker 2: this seems all very obvious that it's a lie to us.

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Speaker 1: To us, yeah, but like to the person, I yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was devastated the paper showed that he called her

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Speaker 1: I tried to approach Tom with this information in mind, Casually,

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Speaker 1: still ongoing after two weeks. Yesterday, I confronted Tom with everything,

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Speaker 1: I told him I was willing to fight for our

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Speaker 1: tommy boy. He continued to deny everything. Tom typical, typical Tom,

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Speaker 1: And he told me that if I didn't believe him,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if you're actually innocent.

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Speaker 1: I will not drop it. Like there kind of does

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Speaker 1: and over and over and over again, what are you

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Speaker 2: No, They're like, take the plea deal and he's like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my gosh, the plea deal of cheating. That

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Speaker 1: is so funny. Oh my god. I didn't believe him.

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Speaker 1: He slept on the couch and promised me he'd be

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Speaker 1: I was so upset last night that I could not sleep.

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Speaker 1: I cried for a really long time, and Tom heard

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Speaker 1: Ah flame the door.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Lord.

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Speaker 1: This morning, Jess was busy with work, so I went

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Speaker 1: to a tech savvy friend, Rich for help with what

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Speaker 1: Jess had done. Traditionally, I gave Rich the phone and

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Speaker 1: he told me that my demands were impossible. He said,

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Speaker 1: you cannot by pass the password on my boyfriend's phone

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Speaker 1: it's a work phone without deleting the text messages. I

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Speaker 1: guess maybe like like a for like a restore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can take it into the phone without completely resetting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is literally like that's the whole point of

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Speaker 1: like getting into the phone. Here you find a new friend.

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Speaker 5: Uh, there's possibilities, you know, tech person, he's.

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Speaker 1: Not he this guy is not a not a tryer.

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Speaker 2: He's clearly not as uh as good at a text

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Speaker 1: Dude, Jess clearly can do anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just as kind of a genius.

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Speaker 1: It just comes from a printed out like piece of paper,

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Speaker 2: It's like kind of it looks as if she had

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Speaker 1: It's her three D.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She's like, really, if I'm going to present this terrible

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Speaker 2: She's like, it's not gonna look like it actually is

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Speaker 1: You, good design principles. Can we can we bring those back? Please?

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Speaker 1: Come on cheating exposed messages? My god.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I teased him about not being as familiar with

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Speaker 5: Oh so, somebody planted them. Yes, yes, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: It was the pizza man, good job. It's like you're.

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Speaker 5: Watching a Scooby Doo show and you're like, I don't

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Speaker 5: you're like, oh, of course it was this school.

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Speaker 1: They printed the text messages school dude in a second,

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Speaker 1: real idea reading as the Scooby Doo gang.

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Speaker 2: I can't I don't think I can do any of that.

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Speaker 2: Those impressions you can do.

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Speaker 1: You're Daphne already, Elmar Daphne or Fred? What did they say?

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Speaker 1: Just like like friends, like let's get it, gang, let's

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Speaker 1: let's figure out who's who's a hole here?

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Speaker 5: And then and then belmos like, according to my speculations,

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Speaker 5: I thought you did impressions.

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Speaker 1: I do accents, you know what, Sophia, my my my

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Speaker 1: back is still hurting from having to carry the impressions

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Speaker 2: My arms are still hurting from playing volleyball.

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you invite us?

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Speaker 2: I was in San Diego? Why didn't you dread down?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get back to this story, Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: Christ crying. Okay, uh but it's okay. What'd you say?

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Speaker 1: The gekies, gys joints. I have absolutely no idea what

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Speaker 1: you about this. Rich told me that he's looking into everything,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know if he'll come up with much.

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Speaker 1: When I came home, Tom was already gone with the

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Speaker 1: directly because I'm the one with his phone. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what to stole his phone. She stole his phone

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Speaker 1: to give it to the guy to hack into. This

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Speaker 1: to clarify. I took my boyfriend's phone when we when

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Speaker 1: Acronym? Acronym acronym? I guess it's spelt weird. Did not

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Speaker 1: We want to see it. We love to freaky it.

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Speaker 1: Beautiful Spiffy Tiffy. Thank you the community, Thanks you, you're

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Speaker 1: the best. Shout out Susan Martin for the one fifty

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Speaker 1: one on the DNA link and matd Hatter girl for

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Speaker 1: for five for the twenty bucks. Let's go, Oh mighty

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Speaker 1: web queen, I have a question for you. Would you

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Speaker 1: like some husband hotel accessories?

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Speaker 2: I would love some hotel accessories?

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Speaker 1: Nice? Oh my goodness, I feel like that works for

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Speaker 1: Mad the mad Hatter. Yeah, Dame right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just I wrap your stuff on stream.

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Speaker 5: You gotta talk to him about that.

447
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Speaker 1: Oh damn uh oh that sounds like a what a freeze? Sir?

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Speaker 2: Is it free? If Mad Hatter did just donate twenty dollars.

449
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Speaker 1: If Matt Hatter wants it, then it is permissible. Sick

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Speaker 1: Matt Hatter just sponsored you. Yes, there we go, Daddy Jesse,

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Speaker 1: ooh for the what is this? Oh celebrating the two membership.

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Speaker 1: Let's freaking go, dude, Daddy Jesse I feel like Daddy

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Speaker 1: Jesse feels like you've been here since the beginning of time.

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Speaker 1: Day one literally day one day one Love Bubbles also

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Speaker 1: celebrating a month one month sub and many more to go.

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Speaker 1: Have a date. Great guys, you have a great day

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Speaker 1: and Matt Hatter gall again one month. Let's continue with

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Speaker 1: this wonderful, wonderful adventure. Let's do it and the Yorkshire

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Speaker 1: made for the five buck tip. My dog Will turned

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Speaker 1: nine years old last Thursday. Can you give Cassie the

461
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Speaker 1: Cocker Spaniel a shout out? Shout out Cassie, PS Sophia.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I promise I'm sending you Old Mount tomorrow

463
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Speaker 1: and John, I am the same age as you, so

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Speaker 1: uh deep the pain of being a senior citizen.

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Speaker 5: I'm the same age as you.

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Speaker 1: Let's a phrase I'm unfamiliar with.

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Speaker 2: I understand like contextually, but I don't like like just yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I totally get you know, the pain of.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait sorry, what was the username on that again?

470
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,360
Speaker 1: Are you Yorkshiremaid?

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Speaker 4: York?

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Speaker 1: Uh so?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? I'm so excited for the Old Belt.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Yorkshire Mermaid. Are you saying you're my age or

475
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Speaker 1: you're saying you're a senior citizen. I was confused and

476
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Speaker 1: just also a senior citizen in the process, which fine,

477
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Speaker 1: bye me, bine by me. But shout out to everyone

478
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Speaker 1: for the donations. Oh and then Matt had a girl

479
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 1: again for the twenty bucks. I will always sponsor the

480
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Speaker 1: whim queen. One day have majesty. One day majesty shall

481
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Speaker 1: take over wonder Land. Yes that's true. Yes, shout out

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Speaker 1: to Alice, shut out, shut out. But we have one

483
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: final roll of a comment and then a giant update

484
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Speaker 1: Opie on why she believed her friend over her boyfriend.

485
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Speaker 1: This is this will be good context here. It wasn't

486
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Speaker 1: her word over his, It was his word against her

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Speaker 1: quote unquote evidence.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no matter how.

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Speaker 1: Fake it, that's true, ladies and gentlemen. I think it's

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Speaker 1: poll time. Yeah, I think it's time for a poll. Hello, poll,

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Speaker 1: let's do stay together or not? Will Opie and her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend stay together or not? So feel why yes or no?

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Speaker 1: Why or why not?

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Speaker 2: I don't think they will because he's already left, like

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Speaker 2: he already gave her a chance to kind of take

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Speaker 2: it back, and he's like, I like, this is your

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Speaker 2: last chance. I have said I am innocent if you

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Speaker 2: don't believe me, that's it. And I don't think that

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Speaker 2: she could come crawling back because just because she is

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Speaker 2: proof of his innocence, I think she should have believed

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Speaker 2: him when he said.

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Speaker 1: It this is true.

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Speaker 2: Understandably she thought she had evidence, Yes, but I don't

504
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 2: think you can come back from like a a that

505
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: like from breaking that trust.

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Speaker 1: Even with it coming to light that hey, here's this friend.

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00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: She was manipulating me the whole time. She had all

508
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,879
Speaker 1: this BS evidence, which is like obvious in retrospect, but

509
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:14,200
Speaker 1: at the time, is you know, a lot to handle,

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Speaker 1: do you? Is there is there?

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Speaker 2: I think he could be like, thank you for telling

512
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Speaker 2: me that. I maybe I forgive you, but I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get back together with you.

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Speaker 1: Not back together. Yeah, what do you think I think

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Speaker 1: I would vote? Let me think. Uh, I feel like

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Speaker 1: couples could get past this. But to your point, great point,

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Speaker 1: by the way, you think noticing that he like how

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Speaker 1: quick he was to be like all right, you know

519
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: this didn't go on for like a month or months

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Speaker 1: or a year or something. I think this went on

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Speaker 1: like maybe like a week or two or three. Yeah,

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00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: And he's like, okay, if you keep granted she it

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00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: seemed like she was like pressing him pretty frequently about

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Speaker 1: it. It seems but he was like, our if you are

525
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: literally just gonna think I'm a cheater for this whole

526
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: relationship and I'm literally not, And I don't know what

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Speaker 1: else to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I'm going, yeah, you can keep my phone.

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Speaker 1: You can keep my phone. Yeah. Yeah, they probably won't

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Speaker 1: make it. They probably. I didn't want to influence the election. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want this to be a true I didn't want

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Speaker 1: to sway the vote. I don't want to sway the votes.

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Speaker 1: It's a swing state over here, like it's purple, It's

534
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: like Florida. Yes, yes, wow, so many connections in that

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00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: one sentence. Hell yeah, But ladies and gentlemen, I'm curious

536
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: to hear you takes by the way in the comments.

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Speaker 1: Let me know. We're gonna we're gonna get to reading.

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Speaker 2: Those Blamafie, thank you for the five books. Seven Miles

539
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: into a Trail. Just got caught in a storm. Oh

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Speaker 2: my god. At least I have service and can listen

541
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Speaker 2: to Okop Live while I get soaked.

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Speaker 1: Love y'all blame afied? Are you okay? Like do you

543
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: need us to call the coastcard? Yeah?

544
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: Do you have enough serve us to get out of there?

545
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: Please let us know.

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Speaker 2: Please get to safety and get out of the storm.

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Speaker 2: I hope that you get You're good, yes, Brady Age, Oh,

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00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 2: randy A. Thank you for the two bucks. Jess is

549
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 2: running to Tom to console him after the breakup.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Maybe maybe answer, She's like, Oh, Tom, make I'm.

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Speaker 2: Busy, Megan actor Berg, thank you for the five bucks.

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Speaker 2: I'm a new sub subscriber. Oh no, new subscriber.

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Speaker 1: I like subsubscriber.

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Speaker 2: Better subsubscriber.

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Speaker 1: Love you, guys, love from the Wisconsin, Wisconsin.

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Speaker 2: Love you, Love you from this chair.

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Speaker 1: And that's Oh, that's everything. That's everything. It is. Well,

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00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, let us, as Stream really says, get

559
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: down to the story. Alright, alrighty, So update August thirty. First,

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Speaker 1: I returned Tom's phone to him and we talked about

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Speaker 1: the situation. I tried to explain everything, but he told

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00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: me that the trust in our relationship was irreparable and

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00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: that I need to learn how to effectively communicate my concerns.

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00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: He's a firm believer that without trust, there is no relationship.

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00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: So we have officially lit up. He initiated no contact,

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Speaker 1: and I have not spoken with him. So all whatever

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00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: percent of you there, what ninety percent or so? Yeah,

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00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: over eighty percent.

569
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Speaker 2: Ninety percent of you cynics.

570
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: You were right, you were right. You pessimists were proven correct.

571
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: All was not well? That ended badly, that's correct, as

572
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 2: Shakespeare says Shakespeare.

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Speaker 1: I finally got a hold of Jess through the phone,

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Speaker 1: and she admitted she lied, but she won't tell me why.

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00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm not sure she is. I'm not sure that she

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Speaker 1: has not slept with Tom, but I can't be sure

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Speaker 1: that she isn't trying. I'm unbelievably mad right now, mostly

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00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: at myself. So it seems like so.

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Speaker 2: She now she still thinks that Tom has cheatus.

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00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: Well now she's thinking, but you know, uh, is Jess

581
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Speaker 1: trying to Yeah, like post.

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Speaker 2: She still doesn't trust Tom? Yeah, even posts this thing?

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00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: Oh true? Yeah, I mean she said yes, but yeah,

584
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 1: like implicitly Tom is implied in there.

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00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I feel like even if like she wouldn't

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00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 2: have trusted him even if they had stayed.

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Speaker 1: Together, because then it's like, is Jess gonna Yeah, I

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00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: guess that's under the pretense though that they were split. Yeah,

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00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 1: but still still the point still stands Ladies and gentlemen,

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00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 1: And we got some relevant comments from deleted But just

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Speaker 1: to clarify, you are also never talking to this psychogest

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Speaker 1: chick again. I hope Opie says, I want to know

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00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: why she did this to me? Curiosity killed the kiddy.

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00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but satisfaction brought it back.

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00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 1: Really yeah, that's I've never heard that before.

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00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 2: That's the full saying.

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00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: I thought curiousity killed the cat.

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00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 2: Was foy, but satisfaction brought it back.

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Speaker 1: But satisfact But that the whole point of the of

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Speaker 1: the thing is like, don't be don't go poking your nose.

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Speaker 1: We're not supposed to know, is.

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00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: That curiosity killed it, but sad if you satisfy, if

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Speaker 2: you get the answers.

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Speaker 1: This is the John and Sophia arguing episode, Ladies and Gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: that's the theme of today. The humble Braggart says, would

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Speaker 1: you honestly believe her when she explained why? Because Uh,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure as heck. Uh, I'm sure as heck. I

608
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: sure as heck. Wouldn't let the crazy go? Mind Taker says,

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00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you dump Jess as a friend. Do you

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Speaker 1: think a liar will magically start telling the truth stay

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00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: telling the truth. If you don't get rid of this friend,

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00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 1: you might have more problems. Go ahead and pretend on

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00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: hearing her side will give you closure or that's seeing

614
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: how she hurt you will somehow enlighten her. But in reality,

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00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: so far you pushed away your trustworthy boyfriend or your

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00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: liar friend and are keeping the liar oucho. That is

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00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: one way to say it. Opie says, I did dump

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00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 1: Jess as a friend, no contact or both of them,

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Speaker 1: and that is it. Wow, that is all she wrote. Literally,

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Speaker 1: Wow spressing though, op I think everybody loses Yeah, I think,

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Speaker 1: so what did Jess? We never got a confirmation on it,

622
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:42,760
Speaker 1: but we don't.

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Speaker 2: Know why I just did it? Maybe this is just messy.

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Speaker 1: It makes it so much more infuriating. Like, at least

625
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 1: if someone has like a reason, albeit a completely malicious

626
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: and devious reason, you're like, okay, I at least know

627
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: what the motive was.

628
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Opie doesn't even know why.

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Speaker 1: Just this, It almost feels like all of this happened

630
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Speaker 1: for nothing.

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00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 2: Yes, just didn't pursue my boyfriend. She just did this

632
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Speaker 2: for fun.

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00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: Yes, are you that like much of a psychopath that

634
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 1: you're like, let me just like destroy relationships.

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00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Fun.

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00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 2: Crystal Caesars, John and the Beloved Worm Queen looked like

638
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 2: they fell straight of the seventies today.

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00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 1: A we're looking pretty groovy, I told when Sophia walked out,

640
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: I was like, that is a dope sweater.

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00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: Thanks, appreciate it.

642
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: Like a Rugby knit.

643
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: I love a Rugby polo.

644
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: Rugby polos are fire. You do be rocking the Rugby?

645
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want more.

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00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: We got to get a crew Rugby polo.

647
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 2: We should you.

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00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:35,600
Speaker 1: Don't need more?

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00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 5: What the amount of sweaters that you have in your room?

650
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: Is?

651
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 2: I need more?

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00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 5: It's like literally half of her closets.

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Speaker 1: More.

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Speaker 2: I think we should make an Okop Rugby like like

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Speaker 2: a polo.

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Speaker 1: That would be sick. Yeah, especially with the new like

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Speaker 1: this new set, like honestly this design with me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like with instead of the little thing, the

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Speaker 2: new little thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no free sponsors. But shout out to Billy Bowlby.

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Speaker 1: Is that like from yeah, Bob Billy Bobblebee. That's pretty great.

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Speaker 1: My first time catching the stream live. Let's freaking go.

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Speaker 1: I have been listening to Okop since my mom passed

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Speaker 1: on Thursday, and you're the only reason I haven't broken down. Guys,

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Speaker 1: hearts in the chat for Billy Billy, we love you.

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Speaker 1: We are so glad that the show is giving you

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Speaker 1: some some support and some smiles in a very dark time.

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Speaker 1: And uh, here's your family. So hope to see you

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Speaker 1: in the later streams this week. Matt Hatter, Gal forty

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Speaker 1: four or five, Lord Lord John, and Riley, I have

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Speaker 1: a question for you too. If I made rose skulls

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Speaker 1: of your favorite color, would you be rejoiced Matt Hatter,

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Speaker 1: just just because you made it? I would be rejoiced skulls.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a skull guy typically, but if you made it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, my girlfriend kind of dresses goth sometimes, so

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Speaker 5: I think I could fit in with her a little

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Speaker 5: bit more true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what would what would be a I don't know

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Speaker 1: if this is an option, but what what what object

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Speaker 1: would be?

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Speaker 2: You know, I love a skull when I'm kind of

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Speaker 2: like getting over my father's mysterious death and dealing with

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Speaker 2: my uncle becoming my new father.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: The Shakespeare jokes boom up being but a boom baby.

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Speaker 1: By the way, we said that we could write a better.

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Speaker 2: Uh, I did not say that I think you could.

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Speaker 1: I think you could. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Think yesterday to John Riley and Sam All saying that

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Speaker 2: they think they could if they went back in time,

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Speaker 2: they could write a better play than Shakespeare.

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Speaker 1: Which is just you could write a better play than

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Speaker 1: all of us, because you understand, like Shakespeare, play playwriting, screenwriting.

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Speaker 2: And I understand Shakespeare, which is why I know that

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Speaker 2: I could not write a better play than him.

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Speaker 1: His retention terrible, guaranteed, his click through.

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Speaker 2: No, he's got all, he's got all of the jokes

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Speaker 2: in there, funny.

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Speaker 1: If I don't have a good flyer thumbnail, then I'm

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Speaker 1: not even gonna I'm not even gonna show up to

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Speaker 1: his rinky dink little show. Wow. Disgusting, Wow, but you

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Speaker 1: know it is never disgusting. What this next story? And

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Speaker 1: as we're getting into that, do we have a goal

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Speaker 1: for the likes? How are we looking?

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Speaker 5: We have we have four sixteen?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, gys, does we are so seventeen? We

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Speaker 1: are so close? We have what almost seven hundred people,

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Speaker 1: almost nine hundred people literally so close, so close, so close,

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Speaker 1: So guys, just literally if all of you like this

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Speaker 1: right now, instant wheelspin.

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Speaker 2: Instant do it?

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Speaker 1: Do it?

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Speaker 2: I dare you?

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Speaker 1: You freaking won't won't? Yeah, you cowards?

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Speaker 2: Kiwi fox. I have heard of reading Shakespeare in a

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Speaker 2: Southern accent, and I want to do that version.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, which title? Ah?

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Speaker 2: Yes, John's gonna reread title and I'm gonna watch you

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Speaker 2: guys like the stream. You're doing such an excellent job

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Speaker 2: of liking the stream? So close?

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Speaker 1: Are you guys ready for another read? Am I the

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Speaker 1: a hole for dumping my boyfriend after my friend manipulated

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Speaker 1: me into thinking he was having an affair than you did?

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Speaker 1: You guys like that?

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Speaker 2: That's your TLDR. Now on to the next Yeah, alright?

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Speaker 2: Would I be the a hole for dumping my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: because he expects me to pay for everything just because

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Speaker 2: I'm rich?

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Speaker 5: Eat out the ridge?

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I talk that talk right, give it to him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: My favorite Riley quote of all time? Yeah that was amazing.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay with it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so family heiress says context my boyfriend is twenty

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Speaker 2: eight male and I am twenty eight female. I want

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Speaker 2: to make it clear that I've always spent money on

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Speaker 2: my boyfriend, buying him nice things and whatnot. He got

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Speaker 2: his PS four and new gaming PC because of me.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend, however, found out that I have a good

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Speaker 2: amount of money and has started to be quite weird

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Speaker 2: about it. Several times he referred to my money as

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Speaker 2: our money and using our money to buy him the

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Speaker 2: luxury car he's dreaming of having. You want us to

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Speaker 2: move out of separate apartments and get a house together,

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Speaker 2: and he said, instead of getting him a small Christmas gift,

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Speaker 2: that I should find a trip for him to see Europe.

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Speaker 2: I'm from Italy and have family in Bulgaria, Croatia and

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Speaker 2: the Netherlands, and he's from Canada. Buying the luxury car.

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Speaker 2: It's less whether I can afford it, and more that

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Speaker 2: seems like something you get your husband or wife, not

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend of three years the house. I can understand

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Speaker 2: if we were engaged or something, but we aren't, though

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Speaker 2: he's talked about, Oh, we aren't, though he's talked about

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Speaker 2: marriage several times in the past few months. And finally, yes,

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Speaker 2: I can afford a trip for both of us to

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Speaker 2: tour Europe. But where is it something I might have

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00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: thought of thought of for us to do before. He

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Speaker 2: only brought this up after finding out that I do

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Speaker 2: have the money to pay for it. Is this reason

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Speaker 2: enough to break up with him? And there are some

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Speaker 2: relevant comments and an update? But what do you think, John?

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Speaker 1: You know, I live by one simple life, just one,

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Speaker 1: just literally, just one in my whole life. There's no

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Speaker 1: other rule that I live by laid on me hashtag

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Speaker 1: eat out the rich, And so it's in the comments.

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Speaker 1: I mean truly, like, I don't know what better philosophy

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Speaker 1: in life there is to follow.

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Speaker 2: I've heard that, I have heard that one, you know,

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Speaker 2: pretty recently.

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Speaker 1: Catching I think it's like really becoming a thing in

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Speaker 1: the last like forty five seconds.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say so. But let's see what the

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Speaker 2: relevant comments have to say.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out.

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Speaker 2: Op On having experienced this before, Opie says, Yep. The

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Speaker 2: sad thing is this is exactly why an old relationship ended.

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Speaker 2: It got serious. Boyfriend found out about money and started

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Speaker 2: going nuts demanding things. And then OPI on how the

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Speaker 2: boyfriend found out. He found out because we went to

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Speaker 2: visit my family in Italy, and my parents, grandparents and

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Speaker 2: the two sets of aunts and uncles that we visited

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Speaker 2: all have very large, lavish places. I live in a

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Speaker 2: smallish apartment that suits my needs, but the difference between

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Speaker 2: my apartment and my home back in Italy was very noticeable.

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Speaker 2: He asked me what was up, and I told him

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Speaker 2: my family's wealthy, but it's not something I try to

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Speaker 2: let define me. The relationship was pretty good up until

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Speaker 2: he found out. I would hate to break up with

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Speaker 2: him because I do love him and love being with him,

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Speaker 2: But the way he's been acting slush oh plus's past

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Speaker 2: experiences pretty much tells me things are only going to

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Speaker 2: go south now. I was treated very well, I was happy,

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Speaker 2: and yes, he has a consistent job and another or two,

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Speaker 2: Opie saying. Or when asked if she constantly buys gifts,

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Speaker 2: Opie says, I don't always buy expensive gifts. The PS

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Speaker 2: four and computer are the only two things that qualify

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Speaker 2: as expensive. Everything else is little things here and there,

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Speaker 2: a T shirt or a snow globe or something like that.

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Speaker 2: You misunderstand. I don't throw money around. Up until my

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Speaker 2: boyfriend saw my family homes, he had no clue I

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Speaker 2: had any kind of money, and my own personal finances

802
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Speaker 2: that I make isn't something I talk about. I don't

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Speaker 2: go buying cars and all that crazy stuff people do

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Speaker 2: randomly buy small tokens for the rest o. You know,

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Speaker 2: if this ends, single is what I'll be for a while,

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Speaker 2: And any soul searching that happens is for me, not

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Speaker 2: any future relationship partner. Hmmm, yeah, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you can save this relationship.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think there's actually like a very simple test

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Speaker 1: that could that could that could do it. Are you ready?

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Speaker 1: Are you ready? Guys? So this guy, this guy, he's

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Speaker 1: all about like, hey, uh, let's go on a fancy

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Speaker 1: trip to Europe. Buy me, buy me this new luxury

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Speaker 1: car that I want. It's like, yeah, yeah, if like

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm doing so great, you need to put him

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Speaker 1: through a test of frugality and basically see that, like

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Speaker 1: if if he kind of keeps passing the frugality test

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Speaker 1: of like oh hey no, let's let's do this. The

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Speaker 1: best the best way to test that eating in. Don't

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Speaker 1: don't wow, don't don't eat out. You have to eat

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Speaker 1: in the house.

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Speaker 2: I heard eat in the rich.

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Speaker 1: Eat in the rich might just be the latest trend. Okay,

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Speaker 1: might just become coming to you lie, it might sweep

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Speaker 1: the nation. I think we need to eat in. See

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Speaker 1: if he like gets gets down with that idea, or

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Speaker 1: if he's like, I'm only eating out. If he's only

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Speaker 1: eating out, get him out of here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, get him out. Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, plain and simple. Eat in the rich hashtag eat

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Speaker 1: in the rich. Okay, guys, they say that's what they say.

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Speaker 2: That's what all the all the people are saying.

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Speaker 1: We got a thousand people right now saying like it's

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Speaker 1: all the rage you fox, these are wise words. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The lawyer princesses Willy Wonka him.

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Speaker 1: The lawyer princes Willy Wonka him.

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Speaker 2: The lawyer Princess says, Willy Wonka him, What does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Is that where you give my golden ticket, give him

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Speaker 1: a gold you bring him into the factory, and then

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Speaker 1: you kill off all of his Oh I think I

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Speaker 1: think it's like, is it like teaching a lesson of

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Speaker 1: because all the kids were like, I.

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Speaker 2: Want you get am eaten by squirrels?

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Speaker 1: Is that what happens?

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00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, she gets dragged off by squirrels. Presumably they eat her.

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00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I didn't remember that.

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00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,959
Speaker 2: But they murder her. Yeah, all the children are murdered.

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Speaker 1: Murdered at the blueberry girl who just gives this ballooon?

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Speaker 2: Doesn't she like blow up.

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe, oh.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, she's okay, I think, but she's a blueberry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think they deflat her. Eventually, she's blue

853
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,959
Speaker 1: for the rest of her life. She's a freak, that's true.

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00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: She is a little tiny guy. They stretch them out.

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00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: Scoliosis probably is terrible back pain. Now that's tough.

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Speaker 2: Augustus, I think he did die.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 2: And the squirrel girl, she was probably traumatized.

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00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: But the general theory of like ac in actuality, like uh,

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00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: you know, seeing if someone's down with like.

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Speaker 2: Cheaper, drown him and chocolate, traumatize him with squirrels and

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00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 2: see where it goes.

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00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: That sounds like a winning recipe to me. Gosh darn it.

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00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 2: But you know, you know, h.

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Speaker 1: Do you know.

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Speaker 2: What I what to look at next?

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Speaker 1: What do you want to look at next? This update,

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Speaker 1: let's go woo.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't automatically dump my boyfriend. Okay, so maybe

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Speaker 2: she did. Willy wonka him. I decided I'd have a

871
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: talk with him. I told him that it was basically

872
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 2: really damn and appropriate to find out I have money

873
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: and start making demands. I told him I have no

874
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: problems using my finances for our relationship, but that he

875
00:47:56,680 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 2: shouldn't automatically expect that I'm going to put out money

876
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 2: on very expensive things for him, just because he seemed

877
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 2: very ashamed and agreed that it was a really crappy

878
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 2: thing to do, and he got carried away and a

879
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 2: bit too excited. I told him I understood, but to

880
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,240
Speaker 2: do that was very disrespectful to me and the time

881
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 2: we shared together, because it made me feel like, all

882
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 2: of a sudden, my money is what mattered. For a

883
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: little while, it seemed all was well. Then the other

884
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 2: day we were having a minor argument over something that

885
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 2: turned into a bigger argument, and he said something along

886
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 2: the lines of, well, you don't even want to use

887
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 2: what you have for us, so maybe you never effing

888
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 2: cared about me.

889
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,799
Speaker 1: Ah, if you really cared about me, you would buy

890
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: me this private jet because I I.

891
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:47,800
Speaker 2: Could deserve it so much.

892
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: You don't even care about me.

893
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 2: We can't even go to Europe back. That's how you

894
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 2: show love. Decline me to Europe first class?

895
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: Don't you want me to be travel adultared?

896
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 2: He got really quiet, as though he knew that was

897
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: a bad thing to say, and we didn't talk until

898
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 2: two days later. Wow, Wow, I was really angry. I

899
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:16,280
Speaker 2: was going to talk things through with him. However, this came,

900
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 2: This came the oh. However, then came the relationship fatality.

901
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 2: He told a couple people were good with, despite me

902
00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 2: asking him to keep the money quiet, that I was

903
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 2: really rich and could afford tons of stuff. How did

904
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 2: I find out? Saturday we all went out drinking together.

905
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 2: He gets a bit too much in a system and

906
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 2: orders an expensive bottle of wine. One of our friends,

907
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 2: who likes was like, who orders that stuff? We're good

908
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 2: with our beers and that's too expensive. Our other friend

909
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 2: piped up and was like, no, it's good. Family heiress

910
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 2: who's ope is really rich. She can pick up our

911
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 2: tab tonight.

912
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 7: You.

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00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,280
Speaker 2: Several other people who I've never told about my family's

914
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: money suddenly grilling me on why I never trusted them

915
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 2: enough to tell them about my money, and oh thought

916
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 2: we were friends? That kind of thing. I broke up

917
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 2: with him the next day. Yeah, yeah, no, you can't

918
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 2: beat now.

919
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: That's crazy that he's.

920
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 2: Been blowing up my phone all day. But at him.

921
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 2: I could have moved past what he said the other

922
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 2: day when we were arguing, But to tell people I

923
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 2: specifically asked him not to something I trusted him so

924
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 2: much with. Yeah, I've lost a three year relationship and

925
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 2: I'm probably going to lose a few friends as well.

926
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 2: And edit for everyone asking, the bottle was four hundred

927
00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 2: and sixty dollars boy, and there are two, no three

928
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 2: relevant comments.

929
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: Rachel Roth says, the nerve of this guy.

930
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the nerve, the absolute nerve.

931
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: Like could you also could you imagine like you're at

932
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: a table and someone's like, oh, hey, no, this is

933
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: expensive of like I don't need all that, like because

934
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 1: I probably don't want to like split it right, And

935
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:09,760
Speaker 1: then someone's like, oh, yeah, don't worry. Uh yeah, Op's

936
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: girlfriend is or like the girlfriend is gonna or Op

937
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: is gonna take care of it. And then you're like,

938
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,319
Speaker 1: oh yeah, let me let me throw in another thing.

939
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: Like I would be like, okay, I mean I don't

940
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: want to like.

941
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: No, that would be very weird. I'd be like.

942
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: What if they if they themselves were explicitly like and

943
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: I think someone would really have to be like I

944
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 1: am buying everyone here, yeah, literally whatever they want. If

945
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:39,479
Speaker 1: you get something uh cheap, then I'm gonna I'm gonna

946
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,399
Speaker 1: slap you, I'd be like, all right, yeah, other than

947
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 1: that that like the.

948
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:50,799
Speaker 2: Explicit yeah, those explicit words, no insane to just yeah

949
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 2: do that just say that. Oh this person is paying wow? Wild.

950
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 2: But let me read these three relevant comments youse do

951
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,759
Speaker 2: op on if she paid for the wine? Opie says no,

952
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 2: I left in a very pissy mood. And then Bilton

953
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 2: says good, what did he do and say when you

954
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 2: left or when you saw him? Next? Opie says, he

955
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 2: thought I was going outside to calm down. About an

956
00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: hour later he started blowing up my phone. I haven't

957
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,840
Speaker 2: seen him since, but broke it off over the phone.

958
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: That's kind of fire.

959
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, as he deserves.

960
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah you should have to pay for that.

961
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah he should have to pay for.

962
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: Wine. Ha gotcha suck.

963
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: But you know what, you know, you know what we

964
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 2: should do?

965
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 1: What should we do?

966
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:38,800
Speaker 2: Spin that wheel?

967
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 6: All?

968
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 1: Spin that wheel? We had five hundred red likes allegedly.

969
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, we we have five of three.

970
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,440
Speaker 5: Two we read the donations before we spend the.

971
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: Heck yeah, Matt Hatter girl for for five Oh we

972
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 1: already read that, but shot out to you again. A

973
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: five buck tip on the darlink from Princess of pasta.

974
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: If I were to send in a story in the mail,

975
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: would you read it? I want to send a story

976
00:53:03,800 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: the old fashioned way, handwritten everything okop ninety eighteen ninety.

977
00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:10,479
Speaker 2: Style pretty sick.

978
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be fun too, And it would actually

979
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: be fun to do a bunch of uhrit read yeah,

980
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: written in stories for like a whole episode. Yeah, we

981
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: all wear like.

982
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:24,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, yes. Can you get it to

983
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:25,960
Speaker 2: us by Friday? Please?

984
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: Also, if you mail it to us, just also submit

985
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:36,319
Speaker 1: it in the subreddit and stuff, because we will lose

986
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: it and get disorganized, not lose the actual like paper,

987
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: but like we have it. We have everyone with guys,

988
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: you would be shocked. You would be shocked at the

989
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: places people try to send in stories to us. It

990
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: gets a little nutty. So if you could just also

991
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: send it to our slash our kop show, that's what

992
00:53:55,160 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: it be splendid. Also shout out to MJ Grow thanks

993
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. I mean, if she's asking to

994
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: end it, he's cleared he's clearly not eating out the

995
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 1: rich MJ Grow, My point, exactly, My point exactly, Leally

996
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 1: just love thanks for the twenty bucks hashtag eat out

997
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:21,760
Speaker 1: the Rich. I spit my drink out. The fist pump

998
00:54:21,840 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: made it even funnier. Thanks for the lap.

999
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 2: There's a chance that that that is Lily. Lily.

1000
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: You're welcome is Lely now.

1001
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:43,719
Speaker 2: MJ. Lamb, congrats on celebrating, and thank you for celebrating

1002
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 2: one month of membership. Yes, noie, I give back my gifts.

1003
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 2: Membership just got in. I'm too busy for the live

1004
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 2: I'll watch it later.

1005
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: Hell yeah later.

1006
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 2: Uh dre Bear, thank you for the ten bucks Eat

1007
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 2: out the Rich. We need that on her shirt. I

1008
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 2: love you guys so much. First dip be ever and

1009
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 2: many more to come.

1010
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: There we go.

1011
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:03,720
Speaker 5: Wow.

1012
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,800
Speaker 2: Megan actor Berg, thank you for the five books wheel

1013
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 2: Space coming coming? Do you want to read this next one?

1014
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: Brady w celebrating two much of the membership, Let's go.

1015
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Sophia is talking book

1016
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: and John is talking movie in.

1017
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 2: Terms of Willy Wonka. Perhaps I don't know, maybe they're

1018
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: kind of both squished in my mind.

1019
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, same here? What am I talking about?

1020
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 1: I've never read that book. Shout out Michelle Costa for

1021
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: the five buck tip on the diner link. Sorry for

1022
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: so little. Michelle never apologized because we literally appreciate it

1023
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: all and you're freaking awesome. You'r star, So congratulations. Uh,

1024
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: first time watching y'all live. I found y'all like two

1025
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: weeks ago and have been on such a joy and

1026
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: you guys have been such a joy recently. Thanks for

1027
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: making this depressed girl a smidge happier. I also love

1028
00:55:55,120 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 1: the worm queen so much. Thanks for all that y'all do. Shell,

1029
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 1: thank you for existing and being awesome.

1030
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 2: It's nice.

1031
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: Yes. Shout out to Spiffy Tavvy for the ten twenty

1032
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: nine on the dome like please suh? Can we have

1033
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: some more? Heading to the bowl? So is heading to

1034
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: bowl heading two bowl? That makes it as far as

1035
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:22,720
Speaker 1: I know? What is it?

1036
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,280
Speaker 2: So afk like away from keyboard?

1037
00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 1: Ah for now? Oh my, Spiffy And then Josephine, thanks

1038
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:35,800
Speaker 1: for the two forty eight l friends and l example

1039
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Speaker 1: E thank you.

1040
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 2: X LX no l x l like yeah l X

1041
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 2: like loser X What did you say?

1042
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 1: I thought it was example remove your cursor? Oh x

1043
00:56:54,840 --> 00:57:03,160
Speaker 1: yeah allegations You got me baby, all right? And is

1044
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,399
Speaker 1: that all the donations and we catch up on all

1045
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 1: of them? There we go, Well, it sounds like it's time.

1046
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 2: To We're right, it is Lee. You nailed it. I'm sorry,

1047
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: thank you. The gaslight, Oh my god, well you know what,

1048
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 2: let me gaslight?

1049
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: Riley into spin that we.

1050
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 2: Give it to me, baby, to me, I'm worth it.

1051
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: You're all right?

1052
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 5: What's the we just sat? I don't produce?

1053
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what that fix. Let's see here, okay, Oh yeah, Sophia.

1054
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: So Sophia is automatically Riley regular break from Oh that's

1055
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: this spin plain swap is you just don't produce? Okay? Nice?

1056
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 5: What's some guys?

1057
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: Hell? Yeah, dude, don't you don't you guys love your

1058
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: boy in the chair.

1059
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 5: What's up? Hello?

1060
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: Oh? People like to swap or do or likes to swap.

1061
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go personality Dutchess Cassanda, what happens to John's back?

1062
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: Did he say I had a pinched nerve? Okay? I've

1063
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,040
Speaker 1: been getting pinched nerves since I was like like five

1064
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: years old. I feel like every once in a way,

1065
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 1: No I at five, five, I meant five okay, alright, Uh,

1066
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: you guys have never had like a pinch nerve and

1067
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: like your necker back or anything.

1068
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I mean when I was still on my couch.

1069
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 1: Wrong.

1070
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was like I walked around like this whole day.

1071
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 2: I actually did recently, like when I was I told

1072
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 2: you guys that I had like a really bad nick.

1073
00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm hearing myself double.

1074
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: Wait, but it's really real time right?

1075
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1076
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: Oh did you get did you get monitoring on nice?

1077
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: Very good?

1078
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 5: I do work? Okay, So he is for now. It

1079
00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 5: isn't for people with ADHD. I'll tell you that people

1080
00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 5: is it on a delay slightly.

1081
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:22,919
Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm just built different. Yeah, my bro

1082
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: is built different. All right, ladies and gentlemen, let's read

1083
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 1: some of the donations and then hop into this next

1084
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: story we got would have got h oh man uh McNaughton,

1085
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: y'all get me through being alone in the kitchen at work.

1086
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're freaking welcome. Thanks for the five bucks tip.

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Speaker 1: And then we got a razz candy puppy what the name?

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00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: Five bucks on the doink? Thank you? The dogs at

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00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: work say hi, and I'm sure and I'm for sure

1090
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: gonna be listening to you guys more tonight while I

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01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:04,240
Speaker 1: work on cosplay wigs. Let's go. That's awesome and big

1092
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,919
Speaker 1: shout out to Michelle Costa again for the five bucks

1093
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: under the like. You guys made me so happy. Love

1094
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 1: y'all so much, Please never stop. Y'all are so sweet.

1095
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: Love the worm Queen again of course, and thanks for

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01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 1: the sweet love back and you eat out of them

1097
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 1: rich bogus. Let up eat them out. We're getting donations

1098
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 1: coming in.

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01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,960
Speaker 5: Thank you, and you know the hour? Where's the sugar

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01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:34,800
Speaker 5: worms that? Yeah?

1101
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:36,840
Speaker 1: Do we have sugar worms? Dude? I would love dude.

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01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,440
Speaker 1: Gummy gummy worms my favorite.

1103
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 5: I don't even know the brands. I'll not even say it.

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01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:45,600
Speaker 1: I won't say it. I know exactly what it is. Oo.

1105
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 5: Donations for Riley stop. Thanks, I love that and blue

1106
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 5: Blue Blokie Blokie Blue Walky and oh my gosh, tear.

1107
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:09,800
Speaker 1: Our name. Another hour that means you're here with us.

1108
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:15,480
Speaker 1: Whoa go get your butts in these seats. Oh my gosh,

1109
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 1: nice and freaking cozy.

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01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 5: Twenty bucks. Thank you so much, Tia, We love you

1111
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 5: and we are here for another hour. Wow you locked in?

1112
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 5: And MJ Grove, thank you for twenty bucks. Did you

1113
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 5: guys get the last package?

1114
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1115
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 5: We got like four packages that we're gonna have to open, which.

1116
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: We could probably after these dono's. Yeah, oh, Brunette, thank

1117
01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: you for the fifty bucks.

1118
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, say anything on the tip link, and

1119
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 5: also on the tip link. Over one more hour, let's go.

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01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 5: You're right, let's freaking go. One more hour. Sophia, you

1121
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:53,439
Speaker 5: know how to do that. Oh yeah, God does, because

1122
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 5: she's the best producer out here. Almost said second, but

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01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 5: I held my pride back.

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01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:01,600
Speaker 4: Oh you got one, yeah, open up.

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01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 1: I'm all right. We got one package.

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01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 5: We got one, one package. Now we got two coming

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01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 5: up later.

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01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 2: Oh wait, oh yeah. I didn't even realize we were.

1129
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 5: Gonna save the night, you know, save the night.

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01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, t Tia, I said, Tina, I'm sorry, Tia, Sorry,

1131
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: Tia Apolo cheese. Wow.

1132
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 5: And then, dude, what the heck?

1133
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: I thought about the passport when I first opened.

1134
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 5: Oh what do you got in there?

1135
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:31,040
Speaker 1: We got a little bang. Let's freaking go. We have

1136
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: pop rocks. Oh boy, these freaking things. Oh my god,

1137
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna eat them while I let me. No, you

1138
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: can't eat them and read. It's like people that have

1139
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: headphones and hate that.

1140
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: Pop rocks.

1141
01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 1: Stop getting the food.

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01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 5: Guys, they're gonna eat it on the stream, and it's

1143
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 5: gonna be a whole thing.

1144
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 4: I oh.

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01:02:57,440 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: Everyone, what open up? Open up? Let me know what

1146
01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: pens you got, and then I'm gonna read this card.

1147
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:06,840
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, really has a lot. I kind of

1148
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 5: did just like drink a lot of caffeine recently.

1149
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 4: What is it?

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01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: Show the people? Full screen full screen full Is this

1151
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: a little Shakespeare? Oh?

1152
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 5: Boy?

1153
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:19,440
Speaker 1: Oh I think it is.

1154
01:03:19,880 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 2: It's so cute.

1155
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 5: A dude, this little the cowboy hat.

1156
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 2: He's a little Shakespeare. Has Hamlet.

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01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:31,280
Speaker 1: That was so relevant to today.

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01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: Literally, I was just talking about I love that. I

1159
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 2: was specifically talking about Hamlet too. Thank you?

1160
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: So, who's this problem? What did you get?

1161
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 3: You get?

1162
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: John? Did you get no show us?

1163
01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 5: What did you get?

1164
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: Pigeon brostalizer? Oh yeah, pigeon proscalizersalizer in the chat, Hey,

1165
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 1: shout out pigeon, Thank you so much. Got me a dinosaur?

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01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 5: Ah remember those? Remember your pet dinosaur that you had.

1167
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 5: It's so blurry, that's okay, that's okay.

1168
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:13,480
Speaker 1: And we got a card you make me smile from

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01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: my head to my toes to toom maat does and

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01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 1: the card reads Riley, John, Sophia, Sam love you. You

1171
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: guys have gotten me through messy family reunions, crummy days

1172
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:34,480
Speaker 1: at work, uh, plane delays, and the general anxiety of

1173
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 1: being alive. Thanks for all the laughs and live streams.

1174
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 1: Love you all. Pigeon Borstalizer, let's go Wow. I meant

1175
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: to read it with the pop rocks. No, dude, no

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01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: pop rocks. I'll do it. Do you want me to read?

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Speaker 5: If you were, I can read. It's only seven hundred.

1178
01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 1: I love you guys. Have gotten through messy family, grubby

1179
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:02,080
Speaker 1: days at work, gwaendella, and the general anxiety of being live.

1180
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: Thank you for all laps and live streams. Love you all.

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01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: I can't even hear from here you toss me. No,

1182
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 1: no pop ararks, guys, dude, I can't even lie. These

1183
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: are hitting, right, guys. Pop arts are no pop rocks.

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01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: We can't we can't. We can't actually eat them on

1185
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: the stream except for me. Just now. No, no, no,

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01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:23,640
Speaker 1: that's it. You can't. You can't do it.

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01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 5: You're forbidden and you're over your sponsoring. Look at what

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01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:28,120
Speaker 5: you've done.

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01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,840
Speaker 1: You have no morals when it comes to pop roarcs.

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01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 1: They're old.

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01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 5: Anyways. Thank you so much for the pin Thank you

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01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 5: right now, I don't putting them out, sorry, what's the

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01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:45,439
Speaker 5: next goal since there's nine hundred and twenty nine people. Yeah, guys,

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01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:46,439
Speaker 5: come on one hundred.

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01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: We can literally do it immediately, immediately, immediately, immediately.

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01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,280
Speaker 5: You figured out Riley's face.

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01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: Riley censory.

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01:05:57,040 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 5: Just because I have small years doesn't mean I can't

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Speaker 5: hear as well as.

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Speaker 1: Has embrace the pop Rocks. I love pop Rocks as Nicole,

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01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: Amanda Joe Fisk is about the Pop Rocks. Bacy, so

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01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: many freaking people, guys. Riley is so hot and bothered

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01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: by the Pop Rocks. Mouth noises, oh god, yeah, mouth

1204
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:19,320
Speaker 1: noises are terrible. Dude. When we were at the the

1205
01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: Spotify thing, that woman who is interviewing the musician guy

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01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,880
Speaker 1: the worst mouth noises I've ever heard of my she

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01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 1: was like, she was like, yeah, it was about it

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01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: was like breathing through her mouth and crap. It was tough.

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01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 4: It was tough.

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Speaker 1: But thank you again, Pigeon Brostoliza for this amazing ale

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01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: time gift, and ladies and gentlemen, let's get into the

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01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 1: next fricking story. Let's go what do we got? What

1213
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 1: do we got? Sophia, tell me right.

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01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 2: Now four seventy one s three length.

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01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: The way laze do way all right, booty boom boom

1216
01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: boom boat So am I the whole? Am I?

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01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 2: Or not?

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01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: For agreeing to split the bill on a double date

1219
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: causing my best friend's date to dump her.

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01:07:09,360 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh man, oh double date Michael eight hundred or eight hundred.

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01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:15,959
Speaker 1: A double date?

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01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 5: I don't know.

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01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 1: I went on double date recently.

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01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:23,640
Speaker 5: Really it was a lovely time. It was huh hm

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01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 5: it has such a great time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry time. This comes from Okay Dream sixty eight sixteen,

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Speaker 1: not from okop show though. That's funny. Hi. I twenty

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01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: two female and really unsure here. My best friend and

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01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 1: roommate twenty two female, Amy had been seeing a guy

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01:07:38,880 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 1: for two months. She really likes him, and it seemed

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01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:44,200
Speaker 1: to be going super well nice. Last night, she asked

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01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: if I'd go along with a blind double date. I e.

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01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 1: Her and the guy she's been dating, and then me

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01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 1: and one of his friends who is single and looking.

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01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 1: That's fun, that is fun. I've never been on a

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01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:55,400
Speaker 1: double date.

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01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 5: I've a double you've never been on a double date

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01:07:58,120 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 5: or a blond date?

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01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: Blind day? Sorry, yeah, you're thank you. I if you

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01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: didn't have a double date. It was about to be

1241
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: about Yes it was. I'm old. I didn't even realize

1242
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: that I just used my words. I wasn't keen at first,

1243
01:08:10,720 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 1: but she insisted, so I agreed. What put the red flag?

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01:08:15,960 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 5: Flag? Put the right one up? You have thumb nails

1245
01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 5: on it. You can't you can't be.

1246
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 2: Making okay my fingers? What right one?

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01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 5: Okay? Story zone?

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01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 4: Oh oh my god.

1249
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: President Uh. We got to the restaurant, just a nice

1250
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:40,240
Speaker 1: place in our area, and things seem to be going fine.

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01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,040
Speaker 1: The friend she was setting me up with was cool,

1252
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: but I'm not really looking for anything right now and

1253
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 1: don't feel any and didn't feel any kind of spark.

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01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: We get to the end of dinner and the bill comes.

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01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,600
Speaker 1: Amy chimes in and says, don't worry, our men have

1256
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:57,639
Speaker 1: got this, to which I say back, no, I don't mind.

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01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 1: We've had two cocktails each, all of us, and it

1258
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: was crazy and it wasn't a crazy expensive place, but

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01:09:05,320 --> 01:09:08,280
Speaker 1: not cheap. A bit back and forth happened. Amy kept

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01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 1: insisting it is always the gentleman who pay, so I

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01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: said something like, you do you, I'm happy to split.

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01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 1: The guys were saying they would cover, but they both

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01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: seemed uncomfortable they paid then we all left. Amy and

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01:09:22,280 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 1: her boyfriend went back to his I said good night

1265
01:09:25,280 --> 01:09:28,879
Speaker 1: to his friend and went home alone. Later Amy texted

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01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:32,000
Speaker 1: saying her man is now contemplating the relationship.

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01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 4: Hmmm, I'm not sure.

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01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: He wants to keep doing this thing anymore. Ready, he's

1269
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:40,599
Speaker 1: ready to quit it all because he doesn't want someone

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01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:47,000
Speaker 1: who always insists the men pay. Oh. She told me

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01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 1: I ruined it by offering to split and should have

1272
01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 1: sided with her and not made things worse. She's now

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01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 1: saying that he needs time and might not want to

1274
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: continue the relationship with her. Am I a whole? That's crazy.

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01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm all pro guy pay, but I understand

1276
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:12,559
Speaker 5: in the world in a scenario whenever you're getting pressured

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01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 5: like this, like hey you got to pay, Hey, you

1278
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 5: gotta pay, and it's always on top of the conversation. Yeah,

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01:10:18,120 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 5: it's a pressure point.

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01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:24,120
Speaker 1: It's just like, let everyone do what they want to do, like, uh,

1281
01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 1: you know. And I think that like she wants her

1282
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,720
Speaker 1: man to pay, she does want her man to pay.

1283
01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: So a few questions here also a poll, but we

1284
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:39,360
Speaker 1: get a whole or na ooh to see if OP

1285
01:10:39,760 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 1: is the a hole or not siding with her? Friend, Riley,

1286
01:10:44,160 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: what do you think you're you are you are a

1287
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: gentleman who prefers gentleman pay. Yeah.

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01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, in a in a modern world,

1289
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 5: I would say that the Opie's friend is the a

1290
01:10:57,520 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 5: hole for like insisting, because I like, after the first

1291
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 5: time and the guy was like, I'm not really about it.

1292
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 5: You should be like okay, but the second and third

1293
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:09,919
Speaker 5: time you're making a scene.

1294
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 1: Like the second and third oh third time that she's

1295
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 1: insisting in that.

1296
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 5: Like moment, Yeah, you don't make a scene like that.

1297
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 5: I think that she should have got a hint. But

1298
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 5: that second or third time I could see like going

1299
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 5: down the line that being a thing like.

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Speaker 1: And also yeah, she was the one that said it.

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01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 1: It's not like.

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01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:32,519
Speaker 5: Like I got you babe, you know yeah, because usually

1303
01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 5: if the guy wants to do it, boom, you don't

1304
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 5: even see the check. It's gone.

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01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:40,080
Speaker 1: Actually you know what, I flipped it around, No, no, no, yeah. Yeah.

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01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:43,080
Speaker 1: So it was Opie's friend who said, oh, the men

1307
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 1: are gonna pay, yeah, and there was OPI who was

1308
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 1: like no, actually, like I want to split the bill.

1309
01:11:48,960 --> 01:11:52,080
Speaker 1: Like the boyfriend was saying, like, I'm not about like

1310
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 1: people who like I'm not interested in a relationship if

1311
01:11:56,160 --> 01:12:00,680
Speaker 1: you just always want me to pay. Was literally her

1312
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:04,080
Speaker 1: own words that were her own undoing, like I don't

1313
01:12:04,080 --> 01:12:06,160
Speaker 1: want to women who want you to want me to

1314
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: always pay? You said you want me to always pay? Oh,

1315
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:10,719
Speaker 1: he could have sat there in silence and the exact

1316
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:11,759
Speaker 1: same scenario would have happened.

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01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 5: Michelle, can you scroll up on the comments there, Michelle.

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01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:19,200
Speaker 1: What do you got first? Michelle Costa?

1319
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 5: She amy Craig Cray for trying to blame Ope.

1320
01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's insane.

1321
01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 5: She was trying to blame op about that dude.

1322
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,760
Speaker 1: That is I forgot about that part. That is, we

1323
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 1: do we like dump this person as a friend because

1324
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 1: one she's like, you know, making a scene with this,

1325
01:12:38,640 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: like making the guy's pay thing too. She's like now

1326
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:46,639
Speaker 1: blaming Ope for something that is literally her own faults,

1327
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:51,879
Speaker 1: like it was her own like opinions that the boyfriend

1328
01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 1: disagreed with, which is the reason why this rift is happening.

1329
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 1: What what else is there to say?

1330
01:12:57,520 --> 01:13:00,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, dump the dump the friend for sure. I mean

1331
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 5: let's say, like, like I stubbed my toe and I'm like, John,

1332
01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,559
Speaker 5: how dare you put that table there to stub the toe?

1333
01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:09,759
Speaker 1: You're right, would you want that? What was I thinking?

1334
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:10,920
Speaker 1: What were you thinking? Yeah?

1335
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 5: Did you even put the table up?

1336
01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:14,600
Speaker 1: Dude? I didn't even I put this table down. I

1337
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: didn't even consider your toes how inconsiderate a horrible But

1338
01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 1: you're totally right. Now here's Are you ready for this one? Uh?

1339
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 4: Oh?

1340
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:27,839
Speaker 1: Is the guy the a hole for wanting not wanting

1341
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 1: to pay the relationship?

1342
01:13:32,960 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 5: Now we could get maybe personally yes, sorry fellas, but

1343
01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 5: I okay, this is just my This is how I

1344
01:13:45,200 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 5: view dating and everything. Not everyone has to agree with this,

1345
01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:49,880
Speaker 5: but this is how I approach it. I low key

1346
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,599
Speaker 5: date to Mary, and I feel like a big part

1347
01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,560
Speaker 5: of dating to Mary is being able to provide for

1348
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 5: your significant other as the guy. So if you're not

1349
01:13:58,320 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 5: able to like pay for the mills all the time,

1350
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 5: I mean here and there, you know, like she can

1351
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 5: pay whatever, but I'm always gonna pay. I'm not gonna

1352
01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:06,320
Speaker 5: be like if she's like really says like oh I

1353
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 5: got it, then yeah sure, But like I'm always the

1354
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 5: one putting the card out first. I'm on the one

1355
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 5: taking care of her. That's a big part of like marriage,

1356
01:14:12,320 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 5: I would say, if you're not willing to do that

1357
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:16,560
Speaker 5: you might need to be like do I need a

1358
01:14:16,600 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 5: girlfriend right now? Or maybe not going these really expensive

1359
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:21,600
Speaker 5: things because I mean you're not ready. But I mean

1360
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 5: if you're just dating to like, you know, have fun

1361
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 5: and stuff, you know that that's totally cool with you

1362
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:34,080
Speaker 5: in my opinion, just like not that's yeah, yeah, you

1363
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 5: can disagree, but ahole, what.

1364
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:40,080
Speaker 1: Do you think? So I think I actually am on

1365
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:46,680
Speaker 1: the side of a whole because I think the I

1366
01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:48,720
Speaker 1: think it's the way he's going about it. I think

1367
01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: if he if he said, hey, like I would prefer

1368
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 1: to like split you know most of the time. Can

1369
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 1: we can we meet in the middle here and like

1370
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,479
Speaker 1: kind of like figure out what's good. I'm like, you know,

1371
01:15:00,600 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: saving up, I'm working, I'm hustling, I'm doing all these things,

1372
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 1: and like if we're able to kind of like split

1373
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:06,880
Speaker 1: more and maybe I treat you every once in a while,

1374
01:15:06,960 --> 01:15:10,120
Speaker 1: is that okay? Like kind of approaching like that versus

1375
01:15:10,240 --> 01:15:12,640
Speaker 1: him being like, uh, yeah, I don't know if this

1376
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:17,800
Speaker 1: is gonna work, which, like I mean, maybe that's such

1377
01:15:17,840 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 1: a big thing for him that that's true. Yeah, And

1378
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 1: I and I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with

1379
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:33,000
Speaker 1: that because that is his personal, uh preference on how

1380
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:37,280
Speaker 1: he wants relationships. But I think it's the way in

1381
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 1: which he's bringing it up and kind of like like

1382
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 1: making it this like ultimatum and putting all this pressure

1383
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: on her versus like coming to the table and seeing like, hey,

1384
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 1: this is how I feel. How do you feel? Is

1385
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:52,320
Speaker 1: this like something that's like really important to you? Is

1386
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: this something you know, you know you you want me

1387
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 1: to do more of? Or is there like some wiggle

1388
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: room can we figure out a thing that could make

1389
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 1: both of us happy? You know? I feel like if

1390
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:06,480
Speaker 1: they did that, this could be an easily solvable issue.

1391
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 5: Super easy.

1392
01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:09,200
Speaker 1: But I also get the sense that it's it's giving.

1393
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: It's giving like college dating vibes. Yeah, and the guys

1394
01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 1: just like I want to pay for you. I got

1395
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,800
Speaker 1: a lot of shorties out here. And then and then

1396
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:21,400
Speaker 1: the girls like I like literally need you to like

1397
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:23,679
Speaker 1: pay for me like every time, or like I canna

1398
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 1: talk to you like anything. Okay, So just the I

1399
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 1: don't know, what do you think, Sophia, Yeah, Sophia, you

1400
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:33,599
Speaker 1: got away in Do you prefer a man that pays

1401
01:16:33,640 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: all the time or fifty to fifty fifty fifty? Interesting?

1402
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 5: I want to treat them, but you could treat them

1403
01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:44,920
Speaker 5: like in other ways, like through like experiences or like

1404
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:47,599
Speaker 5: here's a here's a big one, here's a big one.

1405
01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 1: Okay, you pick where eat, I'll pay.

1406
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 5: I don't know if it's all the time. If you

1407
01:16:54,000 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 5: know where you want to eat, I will pay one

1408
01:16:55,720 --> 01:16:59,639
Speaker 5: hundred percent of the time. Easy money. You know how

1409
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:01,600
Speaker 5: free and hard it is to pick a place and

1410
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 5: like making everyone happy. On the same page, my girlfriend's great.

1411
01:17:06,280 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 5: She always knows what she wants to see.

1412
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's necessarily me treating them, though,

1413
01:17:10,200 --> 01:17:12,040
Speaker 2: I feel like I want I would want to put

1414
01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:13,520
Speaker 2: a little bit more effort.

1415
01:17:13,360 --> 01:17:16,120
Speaker 5: In, Like I mean, you could, you know, be nice,

1416
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 5: saying nice things. That goes along. Guys don't get a

1417
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 5: lot of conflidence you start complidenting them, dude, Yeah, come

1418
01:17:21,200 --> 01:17:22,720
Speaker 5: on a meal easy yeah.

1419
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I don't know, just yeah, yeah, do that.

1420
01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 2: But my go to is I tend to make dinner

1421
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 2: at home.

1422
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,840
Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, perfect example. Yeah, that's great.

1423
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm still paying for it. Yeah, I'm paying

1424
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 2: for the groceries. True double treat. Yeah, you get a

1425
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:43,720
Speaker 2: homemade meal and I'm paying for it you get a

1426
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 2: sandwich Sofia the day a man gets a sandwich from Sophia.

1427
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:50,559
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, she's.

1428
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 2: Making sandwiches for dinner. I'm just saying.

1429
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:01,839
Speaker 1: It seems a little fixated in this whole sandwich.

1430
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 6: Just someone asked me, soone fixiated on me a woman

1431
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 6: so much in the kitchen, it's almost like you think

1432
01:18:11,479 --> 01:18:14,759
Speaker 6: that's where she should be right now, and not taking

1433
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:16,360
Speaker 6: she's cooking.

1434
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: She's cooking on the producer by safe. Well, let's get

1435
01:18:20,680 --> 01:18:23,639
Speaker 1: back to the story to some relevant comments. LC seventy

1436
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 1: eight says, not the a hole. She's the one that

1437
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: said guy's pay exactly. His reaction to that is biased

1438
01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 1: on her statement alone and our men. No, this is

1439
01:18:34,000 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 1: the first time you'd met your date.

1440
01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:35,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1441
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:39,559
Speaker 1: Also, there's kind of like a weird implication of like, oh,

1442
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:41,760
Speaker 1: the guy is gonna pay for like like, if I

1443
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,479
Speaker 1: was a woman, I feel I could be like, you're.

1444
01:18:44,400 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 4: Not my guy.

1445
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:48,400
Speaker 1: I got myself. I'm like, I don't owe you anything.

1446
01:18:48,560 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 5: No, dude, she took time out of her day to

1447
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,480
Speaker 5: meet up with you. You better be paying.

1448
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:55,200
Speaker 1: The guy.

1449
01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:56,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, the guy.

1450
01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:58,479
Speaker 1: But if I'm the girl, then I might I might

1451
01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: feel like I'm not gonna girl.

1452
01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:00,920
Speaker 3: You know how much?

1453
01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:06,679
Speaker 1: All right, I'm first day. First day guy always pays.

1454
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 5: The woman has to get ready, She has to plan

1455
01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:13,680
Speaker 5: time out of her day on probably a day an

1456
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:15,920
Speaker 5: evening where she could get like a lot of things

1457
01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 5: done at home where like, you know, room's messy, but

1458
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 5: I'm gonna let that happen because whenever a messy room's there,

1459
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,280
Speaker 5: a crazy mind happens. So she's gonna let that room

1460
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 5: be messy or like other household chores that's stuck in

1461
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 5: the back of her head.

1462
01:19:27,240 --> 01:19:28,320
Speaker 1: It's gonna go on a day with you.

1463
01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 5: It's just dressing up. She's looking fine, and she's gonna

1464
01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 5: like treat you nicely. Dude, you gotta pay for the day.

1465
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:36,080
Speaker 5: That's what I'm trying to say.

1466
01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 2: Pretty good point.

1467
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1468
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:40,839
Speaker 1: I thought I thought you were trying not to attract

1469
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:44,479
Speaker 1: women to yourself anymore. Now, dude, I'm just saying that

1470
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:48,880
Speaker 1: is that's a magnet right there. Women are just gonna

1471
01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 1: start flying through the windows this house.

1472
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 5: I want to be the batman signal. I want to

1473
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 5: show all the other batmen out there how to be.

1474
01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: I want to be. You know, I'll write the book.

1475
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:01,680
Speaker 4: Boys, just follow it.

1476
01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:04,000
Speaker 1: Women. If your guys don't following, send it to him.

1477
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 1: Clip this and send this to them. Show them what's up.

1478
01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: Show them what's up.

1479
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,160
Speaker 2: Get rid of those jokers in your life.

1480
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:11,680
Speaker 1: From bat boys to Batman.

1481
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:17,000
Speaker 5: Okay, Riley's dating advice, Robin Batman.

1482
01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 1: That's right, it's pretty good. Opie responds to this. I'm

1483
01:20:21,680 --> 01:20:24,760
Speaker 1: thinking because the guys are tight, she thought me and

1484
01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:27,400
Speaker 1: the friend would headed off making it a thing. Therefore

1485
01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:31,639
Speaker 1: they would be our men. Ultra Nemesis says, I don't

1486
01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:34,280
Speaker 1: think your so called friend is a nice person or

1487
01:20:34,400 --> 01:20:37,800
Speaker 1: even a friend, given how quickly she was ready to

1488
01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 1: blame you for something that was her own fault. I'm

1489
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 1: a knocking on the door that crazy hello, Hello, No

1490
01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:46,800
Speaker 1: one's there. It's all on your head, buddy. That's right,

1491
01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:51,519
Speaker 1: m key. Dragonfruit says exactly this. Opie's friend's actions alone

1492
01:20:51,680 --> 01:20:54,920
Speaker 1: is the cause of her guy's hesitation, not obey. I

1493
01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:57,760
Speaker 1: won't be too quick to judge and hope this was

1494
01:20:57,840 --> 01:20:59,519
Speaker 1: just a one off thing. But if the friend is

1495
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 1: constantly like this and can't respect Opie's beliefs Miffel, what says?

1496
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 1: What the f She is the one who decided the

1497
01:21:08,400 --> 01:21:10,400
Speaker 1: men always pays. Why would it be your fault, not

1498
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 1: the A hole, okay, Opie says. My worry is that

1499
01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:15,960
Speaker 1: maybe if I just agreed with her there would be

1500
01:21:16,040 --> 01:21:18,599
Speaker 1: no issue. But it's who I am happy to pay

1501
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 1: my way. And again, literally it was it was her fault,

1502
01:21:23,080 --> 01:21:26,639
Speaker 1: it wasn't Opie's faults. Literally, a bit of a grum

1503
01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:30,360
Speaker 1: says No, he'd have been uncomfortable either way. She added

1504
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,760
Speaker 1: herself as super greedy and sexist, and that's on her.

1505
01:21:34,960 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 1: Bit of a grump says Willies and gentlemen. First off,

1506
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 1: there was a judgment, not the A hole, okay, not

1507
01:21:44,600 --> 01:21:49,040
Speaker 1: the A hole. And there was an update two days later.

1508
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 1: Two days later hop into the future with me. Thanks

1509
01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:55,200
Speaker 1: so much everyone for your thoughts on this one. Amy

1510
01:21:55,600 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 1: still isn't talking to me. You could cut glass with

1511
01:21:58,600 --> 01:22:02,560
Speaker 1: attention in our place right now, they live together. I

1512
01:22:02,800 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: forgot about that one. That is tough. That is tough. Yikes,

1513
01:22:08,160 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 1: paynt forget a meal, my god, pay rent that he's like,

1514
01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:17,160
Speaker 1: I got to get a new man. She and the

1515
01:22:17,240 --> 01:22:20,439
Speaker 1: guy aren't talking either. I'm trying hard here, but another

1516
01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:23,040
Speaker 1: week and maybe the friendship has run its course. Honestly,

1517
01:22:23,400 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 1: fencing a lot more underlying issues that can only come

1518
01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:30,840
Speaker 1: from communication. But hey, uh and then another update, I'm

1519
01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 1: now I'm now not a girl's girl because I didn't

1520
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:35,360
Speaker 1: back her.

1521
01:22:35,840 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 2: So about a girl's girl. Other girl, he's not a

1522
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 2: girl's girl, other girls and girls. Girl girl's not a

1523
01:22:44,160 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 2: girl's girl because she's blaming opee. I can't see you,

1524
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:49,720
Speaker 2: she's blaming.

1525
01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 6: You.

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01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 4: Uh.

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01:22:54,400 --> 01:22:56,880
Speaker 1: She said I'm not a girl's girl because I didn't

1528
01:22:56,880 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 1: back her without being told I should give, without being

1529
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:02,880
Speaker 1: told I should or given any kind of heads up.

1530
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 1: I responded that if I wanted to pay for myself,

1531
01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:09,320
Speaker 1: especially because I didn't see myself in the blind date

1532
01:23:09,400 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 1: friend having a second date, I was happy to put

1533
01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:16,080
Speaker 1: in for my portion. Friendship effectively over and I am

1534
01:23:16,280 --> 01:23:20,040
Speaker 1: looking to move out. Wow. And final update, Amy is

1535
01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 1: now trying to apologize because she can't afford the rent

1536
01:23:25,400 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: on her own or get someone else to move in

1537
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 1: on such short notice. I feel horrible, but no, I

1538
01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 1: need to be around supportive people. Thanks again everyone. In

1539
01:23:37,560 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 1: a final comment to close this out, Potential Power seventy

1540
01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: forty five says, not the a hole. She killed two

1541
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,880
Speaker 1: relationships with her attitude one stone ladies and gentlemen.

1542
01:23:46,040 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it was more about the dinner it was

1543
01:23:49,520 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 5: it was deeper than the dinner.

1544
01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: Day exactly exactly. What is what is the tragedy? What

1545
01:23:56,120 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 1: is the tragic irony that they lost their friendship over

1546
01:24:00,960 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 1: not splitting the bill and now she can't afford the

1547
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:08,120
Speaker 1: rent because they're not splitting it. Kind of great, yeah,

1548
01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:10,760
Speaker 1: kind of great, get your money up girl. What if

1549
01:24:11,680 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 1: What if she ends up like just like finding it,

1550
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:18,840
Speaker 1: like basically like sugar babying to an extent of like

1551
01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:22,400
Speaker 1: finding a guy to live with and being like, let's

1552
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:23,000
Speaker 1: just live together.

1553
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah'm just moving.

1554
01:24:25,200 --> 01:24:28,400
Speaker 1: That seems to be like what she could do, like no,

1555
01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:33,800
Speaker 1: I mean like tomorrow tomorrow yeah, ooh, like give me,

1556
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:36,280
Speaker 1: give me a place or better yet better yet, I

1557
01:24:36,320 --> 01:24:39,080
Speaker 1: don't want to live at your raggedy place like with

1558
01:24:39,200 --> 01:24:42,599
Speaker 1: all of your iggy boy stuff going on. Just rent

1559
01:24:42,760 --> 01:24:45,519
Speaker 1: me a place, just men convisit me.

1560
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1561
01:24:48,720 --> 01:24:50,960
Speaker 5: Hopefully hopefully that doesn't come down to it, but she

1562
01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:52,680
Speaker 5: might have to pull some shotings.

1563
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:54,720
Speaker 1: Might have to do it, ladies and gentlemen. That's that's

1564
01:24:54,760 --> 01:24:57,920
Speaker 1: the end of the swap. Yeah. Wait, but you still

1565
01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:01,599
Speaker 1: got the okay storytime? Oh oh yes, we do. Okay

1566
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 1: story time. I had an okay story time earlier that

1567
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 1: I forgot, but that's okay, thank you, Sophia. Uh, Me

1568
01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:10,280
Speaker 1: and Riley went on a little double date. We did

1569
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:11,920
Speaker 1: yeah this weekend yep, yep.

1570
01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:13,879
Speaker 5: Me and John one to date and then our girlfriends

1571
01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:14,559
Speaker 5: accompanied us.

1572
01:25:14,800 --> 01:25:17,479
Speaker 1: That's true, that's true. They were fun, they were they

1573
01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 1: were big jelly. We went we went to a pizza place,

1574
01:25:19,960 --> 01:25:23,479
Speaker 1: that's right, and then we got ice cream afterwards.

1575
01:25:23,560 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 5: And John had this great idea. Oh my gosh. So

1576
01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:31,879
Speaker 5: if you guys didn't know, John was on a ABC

1577
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:36,800
Speaker 5: TV show called start Up, Start Up You, Start Up You,

1578
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:42,000
Speaker 5: where he was an entrepreneur trying to pitch like how

1579
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:42,479
Speaker 5: how much?

1580
01:25:42,560 --> 01:25:45,439
Speaker 1: What was surprise? Uh there was not an amount, but

1581
01:25:45,520 --> 01:25:48,040
Speaker 1: basically like pitch for like investment in your company.

1582
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:50,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, so he was pitching for that, and we got

1583
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:52,920
Speaker 5: to see young John. Young John kind of grew in

1584
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:53,240
Speaker 5: my eyes.

1585
01:25:53,320 --> 01:25:54,840
Speaker 1: I was like, who is this? But then I was like, dang,

1586
01:25:54,840 --> 01:25:58,600
Speaker 1: he's boys handsome and we got to see everything and

1587
01:25:58,760 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 1: it was hello. I had a great time listen to it.

1588
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 5: We watched the eighth episode because that's what it's featured

1589
01:26:05,120 --> 01:26:07,720
Speaker 5: in the most Yeah, and at one point they're like

1590
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:10,160
Speaker 5: you're never going to be an entrepreneur, and he's just

1591
01:26:10,240 --> 01:26:12,360
Speaker 5: kind of sitting there, like if you're.

1592
01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:14,360
Speaker 1: A deep fan of the show. We've played the clip

1593
01:26:14,520 --> 01:26:15,599
Speaker 1: like a handful of times.

1594
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, what was that on Amazon?

1595
01:26:18,360 --> 01:26:19,360
Speaker 1: It's on Amazon? Yeah?

1596
01:26:19,479 --> 01:26:19,920
Speaker 5: Was it free?

1597
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:23,479
Speaker 1: No, it's not free. It's like ten bucks for the season,

1598
01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 1: two bucks for an episode or something like that.

1599
01:26:26,080 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 5: It was fine.

1600
01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:29,960
Speaker 1: I get no residuals, but go ahead to me Eve

1601
01:26:30,000 --> 01:26:31,720
Speaker 1: with the two buck tip. Don't feel bad, John. My

1602
01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 1: back hurts all the time. I'm thirty three and have

1603
01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:38,040
Speaker 1: rheumatoid arthritis in my back. Dude, that that sounds not

1604
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:42,519
Speaker 1: fun at all and hip so it sucks being old. Lol.

1605
01:26:43,000 --> 01:26:45,400
Speaker 1: It was just a temporary pinch nerve. I was literally

1606
01:26:45,880 --> 01:26:48,280
Speaker 1: he was out for the whole day. Then I took

1607
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:50,080
Speaker 1: the day to like take it easy, and then the

1608
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:51,760
Speaker 1: next day I was like, oh I was dude, I

1609
01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:54,280
Speaker 1: was back. I went to I went to dance class.

1610
01:26:55,000 --> 01:26:55,280
Speaker 2: Easy.

1611
01:26:55,360 --> 01:27:00,120
Speaker 1: Oh nothing nice, easy, But yeah, that was our was

1612
01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 1: our Yeah. We we went to the pizza place, we

1613
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:04,200
Speaker 1: got ice cream, and then we watched, uh watched that

1614
01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:07,720
Speaker 1: episode great time, which it like I don't know, we'll

1615
01:27:07,760 --> 01:27:10,360
Speaker 1: have to like figure out maybe maybe it would maybe.

1616
01:27:10,479 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 1: What could be fun is like people do like twelve

1617
01:27:14,160 --> 01:27:17,400
Speaker 1: days of Christmas stuff, like twelve days of live streams

1618
01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:19,639
Speaker 1: or something. But if we had like a live stream

1619
01:27:20,439 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 1: like dedicated to each of us, like it's a themed

1620
01:27:23,640 --> 01:27:27,000
Speaker 1: for each of us. Yeah. The only problem is I

1621
01:27:27,040 --> 01:27:30,720
Speaker 1: don't know if we can watch the episode on the

1622
01:27:30,760 --> 01:27:35,360
Speaker 1: stream without it be getting taken down. Maybe maybe members only, Yeah,

1623
01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:36,000
Speaker 1: I think.

1624
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 5: Members only for sure. We could, we could, We could

1625
01:27:38,280 --> 01:27:38,600
Speaker 5: stream that.

1626
01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 1: It would be fun.

1627
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:41,040
Speaker 5: People react to stuff all the time.

1628
01:27:41,280 --> 01:27:44,360
Speaker 1: It's that is true. I don't know how it works. Yeah,

1629
01:27:44,400 --> 01:27:46,880
Speaker 1: we gotta figure it out. Anyways, that was our okay

1630
01:27:46,920 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 1: story time.

1631
01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:49,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then afterwards my girlfriend was like I had

1632
01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:53,400
Speaker 5: adult conversations And I was like, what having adult conversations

1633
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:55,960
Speaker 5: with John and Nimo? This is crazy. I didn't know

1634
01:27:56,000 --> 01:27:58,479
Speaker 5: I could have our adult conversation with those guys. I

1635
01:27:58,560 --> 01:28:00,479
Speaker 5: mean with your girlfriend. Yeah, but you you have like

1636
01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,160
Speaker 5: conversations with us every day, all day.

1637
01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:04,599
Speaker 1: Long, that's what those are.

1638
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:07,519
Speaker 5: Yes, we talk about like what red of stories we

1639
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:09,160
Speaker 5: want to find? This is funny business, dude.

1640
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 1: Oh like yeah, define adult conversations.

1641
01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:15,439
Speaker 5: Like wooho, how are you doing in your career?

1642
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 3: Oh?

1643
01:28:16,960 --> 01:28:20,559
Speaker 5: Kind of this kind of stuff because she was talking

1644
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:22,840
Speaker 5: about all the like fashion stuff she's doing. Yeah, yeah,

1645
01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:24,640
Speaker 5: No one's really asked me about that because all of

1646
01:28:24,680 --> 01:28:26,960
Speaker 5: her friends are like in her twenties, like we're like

1647
01:28:27,160 --> 01:28:28,040
Speaker 5: boys and parties.

1648
01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:30,519
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's the state, the stage of life. How

1649
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:32,759
Speaker 1: was I woo? Dude, she's so talented.

1650
01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:35,800
Speaker 5: Dude, she's great, she's amazing. Yeah, we're going to a

1651
01:28:35,840 --> 01:28:36,720
Speaker 5: fashion show next week.

1652
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:38,720
Speaker 1: We are gonna be so fun, gonna be super fun.

1653
01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 1: And we have a little surprise on that dude too.

1654
01:28:40,760 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 1: So oh we do we do? You guys will see

1655
01:28:42,920 --> 01:28:47,559
Speaker 1: no spoilers, ladies and gentlemen, I think. And we're gonna

1656
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:51,400
Speaker 1: let's transition donations. I'll read it while Riley's getting up.

1657
01:28:51,479 --> 01:28:55,040
Speaker 1: It's gonna hit me full screen. Sophia Schizzard McNaughton, thank

1658
01:28:55,080 --> 01:28:57,880
Speaker 1: you for the five dollar tip. I love how Sam

1659
01:28:57,960 --> 01:29:00,719
Speaker 1: turns into a litle British man every time he sees

1660
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:06,640
Speaker 1: my name, Sam or me, let me know I am

1661
01:29:06,760 --> 01:29:12,040
Speaker 1: John Kristin Foyle hat. Thanks for the ten bucks. Okop ASMR.

1662
01:29:12,360 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 1: Maybe that was for the pop rocks. FYI don't know.

1663
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:18,600
Speaker 1: A link was giving me a hard time. Don't know

1664
01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:20,960
Speaker 1: if that's an operator err or the website thing lol,

1665
01:29:21,280 --> 01:29:23,760
Speaker 1: Kristin Foyle hat, we will look into that. Thank you

1666
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 1: for letting us know. And then Chazzard also like Charzad

1667
01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:31,680
Speaker 1: let us know, let us know how to pronounce your

1668
01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:33,720
Speaker 1: name because you are sitting in so many donations when

1669
01:29:33,760 --> 01:29:36,960
Speaker 1: he just put some respect on it. McNaughton, dude, I

1670
01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:40,320
Speaker 1: even pay for the other couples on DATESO. We have

1671
01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:43,679
Speaker 1: another couple where we literally fight who pays for stuff?

1672
01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:45,920
Speaker 1: That's cute. I love that. Good friends. It sounds like

1673
01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:48,360
Speaker 1: Aaron R. Thanks for the five buck tip. I feel

1674
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 1: like general rules, if you ask the person on the date,

1675
01:29:51,760 --> 01:29:55,960
Speaker 1: you are the one who pays. Aaron N. Absolutely, that's

1676
01:29:56,000 --> 01:30:00,479
Speaker 1: what I think. That's what I think a good rule.

1677
01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:04,920
Speaker 1: It's a good rule, Aaron. Who else we got? Who

1678
01:30:04,960 --> 01:30:05,400
Speaker 1: else we got?

1679
01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:06,280
Speaker 4: Oh?

1680
01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:13,680
Speaker 1: Here we go. Pigeon General, Pigeon General, thanks for the

1681
01:30:13,720 --> 01:30:18,000
Speaker 1: three sixty four donation. Will our pigeon Lord be joining us?

1682
01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:21,160
Speaker 1: And I am looking for more recruits into the Pigeon

1683
01:30:21,439 --> 01:30:29,880
Speaker 1: Army Pigeon tree emoji. The worm Army must not go unopposed. Wait,

1684
01:30:29,960 --> 01:30:32,840
Speaker 1: who did the AI movie of the Proteins versus?

1685
01:30:34,479 --> 01:30:34,719
Speaker 4: Dude?

1686
01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:40,000
Speaker 1: Can we please get the sequel pigeons versus worms, predator

1687
01:30:40,040 --> 01:30:44,400
Speaker 1: or prey to pigeons worms. I don't know, but shout

1688
01:30:44,439 --> 01:30:47,280
Speaker 1: out to you, pigeon general. That's freaking awesome. Yeah, pigeon Army,

1689
01:30:47,520 --> 01:30:51,680
Speaker 1: stand up, stand up pigeon army. Also, that's the no, no, no,

1690
01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:56,160
Speaker 1: that's the perfect army. Here we go. Uh, Charzad jahar

1691
01:30:56,880 --> 01:31:05,519
Speaker 1: like Dharzad Jharzon Charzad or char Charon Charza. I think

1692
01:31:05,520 --> 01:31:07,960
Speaker 1: I got it chard, yes, chatt to Charzad. Thank you

1693
01:31:08,000 --> 01:31:10,439
Speaker 1: for letting me know, and thanks for the two buck tip.

1694
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 1: We appreciate that.

1695
01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:14,040
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1696
01:31:14,160 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen.

1697
01:31:17,320 --> 01:31:23,080
Speaker 2: Should we should we perhaps open a a a mail.

1698
01:31:24,000 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: Let's uh, let's give the people a male open at

1699
01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 1: the end of this next story.

1700
01:31:29,720 --> 01:31:31,240
Speaker 2: That was the end of that episode.

1701
01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:41,479
Speaker 1: Alright, let's check it out. All right, we're gonna do it.

1702
01:31:41,560 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 1: Could you hate me one? Thank you very much? Oh man? Okay, doky? Yes?

1703
01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:55,560
Speaker 1: Is it is this the people? I think it is

1704
01:31:56,760 --> 01:32:01,360
Speaker 1: different one, Okay, different people, different guys, one of our

1705
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:07,800
Speaker 1: lovely worm mommy people. Probably Gosh, Riley, we need to

1706
01:32:07,840 --> 01:32:08,880
Speaker 1: get one of your knives in here.

1707
01:32:09,400 --> 01:32:13,479
Speaker 2: Knives? Are you slouching? Ryley?

1708
01:32:13,520 --> 01:32:13,720
Speaker 3: Wise?

1709
01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:20,920
Speaker 1: Is so low that this is not not optimal for streams.

1710
01:32:20,920 --> 01:32:24,200
Speaker 1: Thanks guys for fitting with us. Please no Pokemon, no

1711
01:32:24,280 --> 01:32:31,120
Speaker 1: Pokemon prices. I've been as stock since I was eighty seven.

1712
01:32:32,640 --> 01:32:35,240
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I'm trying to read commison, but this is

1713
01:32:35,280 --> 01:32:37,560
Speaker 1: the same time. Here we go. We may give it

1714
01:32:37,600 --> 01:32:38,080
Speaker 1: the two bucks.

1715
01:32:38,120 --> 01:32:41,120
Speaker 2: You can't see me because Riley's I'm in the chair

1716
01:32:41,240 --> 01:32:47,000
Speaker 2: now and I can't wave to you. But crity girl

1717
01:32:47,000 --> 01:32:48,559
Speaker 2: a lot of fame, says shout out to my girl,

1718
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:51,880
Speaker 2: so be uh we have what waved to us, Queen,

1719
01:32:52,760 --> 01:32:54,719
Speaker 2: I currently can't.

1720
01:32:57,200 --> 01:33:03,280
Speaker 1: Hello. No. Also, oh, we skipped a dono Linda. Oh

1721
01:33:03,360 --> 01:33:05,599
Speaker 1: my gosh, I am so sorry we skipped your doughnut.

1722
01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:10,559
Speaker 1: It might have not gone through. So shout a big

1723
01:33:10,600 --> 01:33:12,360
Speaker 1: shout out to you, Linda. I'm so sorry about that.

1724
01:33:12,520 --> 01:33:14,720
Speaker 1: Maybe if you want to comment it again below and

1725
01:33:14,800 --> 01:33:17,720
Speaker 1: everyone comments so we can make sure that we don't

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01:33:17,760 --> 01:33:19,400
Speaker 1: miss it. We definitely want to shout that out. But

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01:33:19,520 --> 01:33:24,840
Speaker 1: big shot to Alan, Katie and Isabella for sending these

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01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:31,400
Speaker 1: wonderful potato chips. All of these where these from? These

1729
01:33:31,439 --> 01:33:41,120
Speaker 1: are from a location Pennsylvania, middles Work. These are some old,

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01:33:42,560 --> 01:33:47,439
Speaker 1: old fashioned potato chips. Look out, look, how old fashioned

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01:33:47,439 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 1: potato chips.

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01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:53,440
Speaker 2: I'm excited. Thanks barbecue.

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01:33:53,640 --> 01:34:01,960
Speaker 1: Let's give it a taste test, let's see good stuff.

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01:34:03,240 --> 01:34:03,519
Speaker 4: Pass.

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01:34:05,560 --> 01:34:09,680
Speaker 1: That's definitely a pass. But you know, guys, speaking of

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01:34:09,760 --> 01:34:13,840
Speaker 1: past I think it's time to pass the baton to

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01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:16,200
Speaker 1: let me read these donations and then pass it back

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01:34:16,240 --> 01:34:18,960
Speaker 1: to Sofia. Shout out, curvy girl Hall of Flame for

1739
01:34:19,080 --> 01:34:21,880
Speaker 1: the two bucks. Shatter my girl, Sophia, wait to his queen.

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01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:23,960
Speaker 1: We already read that, but I read it again so nice.

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01:34:23,960 --> 01:34:25,760
Speaker 1: I had to read it twice Nicole, and thank you

1742
01:34:25,840 --> 01:34:28,559
Speaker 1: for the ten buck tip on the donor link. By

1743
01:34:28,560 --> 01:34:30,280
Speaker 1: the way, some people were saying they were having some

1744
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:32,960
Speaker 1: issues on the donor link. Actually, if you guys could

1745
01:34:33,240 --> 01:34:35,280
Speaker 1: do like a one dollar test donation, I guess Nicole

1746
01:34:35,360 --> 01:34:37,200
Speaker 1: was able to do it. Let us know if there's

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01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 1: anything else. Love you guys listening from Barcelona. Yeah s

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01:34:42,400 --> 01:34:48,679
Speaker 1: mood Yeah, but I'm awake for okayo b it's very late. Well,

1749
01:34:48,880 --> 01:34:53,599
Speaker 1: guess what, Nicole in. We appreciate you. We read Kurvey girls.

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01:34:54,800 --> 01:35:01,400
Speaker 1: I think we had two more come in. Uh reserching

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01:35:01,880 --> 01:35:15,160
Speaker 1: got it. Arzad McNaughton, Uh yeah, like the horror tarz od.

1752
01:35:15,760 --> 01:35:18,400
Speaker 1: Uh Thanks for the five bucks tip. I was bullied

1753
01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:21,560
Speaker 1: with Pokemon cars and it still hurts. Don't call me that,

1754
01:35:22,080 --> 01:35:33,200
Speaker 1: oh charzar, is that what it's? Yes, Yes, I think

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01:35:33,240 --> 01:35:35,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I think I got that right from from

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01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:37,880
Speaker 1: my memory. Now I'm saying it so much, it's like

1757
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:41,200
Speaker 1: saying broom a thousand times. That sounds anytime you say

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01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:46,519
Speaker 1: something a billion times, it goes crazy. But Heyzepia, Hey,

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01:35:46,560 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 1: there seems like, uh.

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01:35:48,920 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 5: You're not supposed to be eating on a stream. That's

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01:35:50,800 --> 01:35:51,400
Speaker 5: what it seems like.

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01:35:51,720 --> 01:35:53,280
Speaker 2: I'm not eating. I'm taste testing.

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01:35:54,280 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 1: Mm hm, and how is the taste test going?

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01:35:57,439 --> 01:35:57,840
Speaker 2: Very good?

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01:35:58,400 --> 01:35:58,760
Speaker 1: Very good?

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01:35:58,920 --> 01:35:59,839
Speaker 2: And now I'm ready.

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01:36:01,200 --> 01:36:03,120
Speaker 5: Rather you hunger? You hate them eating? I hate them

1768
01:36:03,160 --> 01:36:04,000
Speaker 5: eating because it's.

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01:36:04,000 --> 01:36:05,519
Speaker 2: In my freaking ear. Yeah.

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01:36:05,680 --> 01:36:07,640
Speaker 1: After putting that on, it was it was like a

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01:36:07,760 --> 01:36:12,320
Speaker 1: lot yea our poor boy, our poor boy. But we

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01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:13,600
Speaker 1: do it to him and he loves it.

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01:36:15,360 --> 01:36:16,679
Speaker 2: My husband just brought home.

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01:36:18,160 --> 01:36:26,080
Speaker 1: Oop happened? Oh good god, we're good. Nice work.

1775
01:36:26,920 --> 01:36:31,759
Speaker 2: My my husband just brought home the child of his affair.

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01:36:32,439 --> 01:36:35,760
Speaker 2: I think our marriage is over. What do I do?

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01:36:37,240 --> 01:36:37,840
Speaker 1: Pretty shocking?

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01:36:38,439 --> 01:36:45,000
Speaker 2: Pretty shocking, So Purple Banana says, my thirty four female

1779
01:36:45,160 --> 01:36:49,719
Speaker 2: life is falling apart, and it's all thanks to my husband.

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01:36:50,200 --> 01:36:52,519
Speaker 2: We had a perfect life. Both of us worked in

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01:36:52,560 --> 01:36:56,160
Speaker 2: the jobs we loved. We have a beautiful daughter, ten female,

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01:36:56,240 --> 01:36:59,200
Speaker 2: and a healthy son, five male. When I was pregnant

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01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:03,120
Speaker 2: with her son, we both almost died due to complications.

1784
01:37:04,280 --> 01:37:07,840
Speaker 2: Oh I for some reason, I thought they were talking

1785
01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 2: about the husband almost died.

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01:37:10,560 --> 01:37:14,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know what. I also got what

1787
01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:17,320
Speaker 1: happened to him. We had parallel confusion.

1788
01:37:19,040 --> 01:37:23,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that complications so before the birth and even afterwards,

1789
01:37:23,240 --> 01:37:26,040
Speaker 2: I didn't want to sleep with him. Why would I?

1790
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:28,479
Speaker 2: I almost died and my body was in pain for

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01:37:28,600 --> 01:37:32,599
Speaker 2: months afterwards, even with strong medication. I thought my husband

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01:37:32,680 --> 01:37:35,800
Speaker 2: understood because he never pushed me to sleep with him

1793
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:38,679
Speaker 2: or even asked. I thought it was because he understood

1794
01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:41,840
Speaker 2: my pain. But apparently he was just getting it from

1795
01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:43,120
Speaker 2: somewhere else.

1796
01:37:43,560 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 1: Ah, know, it all makes sense.

1797
01:37:47,760 --> 01:37:51,400
Speaker 2: A few months ago we were visited by Child Protective Services.

1798
01:37:51,760 --> 01:37:55,080
Speaker 2: I was terrified at first, frantically thinking of what we

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01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 2: did wrong with our children to cause a visit. But no,

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01:37:59,160 --> 01:38:03,400
Speaker 2: as it turns out, right, he's making a lot of crinkling.

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01:38:04,320 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 2: Oh you can't. But no, as it turns out, some

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01:38:09,080 --> 01:38:12,200
Speaker 2: woman I've never met before. It died in a car accident,

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01:38:12,680 --> 01:38:15,600
Speaker 2: leaving behind a daughter, and my husband's name was on

1804
01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:18,360
Speaker 2: the girl's birth certificate, and he was named in the

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01:38:18,439 --> 01:38:22,479
Speaker 2: woman's will as the father. I thought it was a

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01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:26,280
Speaker 2: mistake at first, until my husband told me the truth.

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01:38:26,840 --> 01:38:29,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, so said ugh.

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01:38:30,600 --> 01:38:33,040
Speaker 2: As it turns out, while I was suffering my pregnancy

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01:38:33,120 --> 01:38:36,840
Speaker 2: and the after effects of almost dying, my husband would

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01:38:36,840 --> 01:38:38,840
Speaker 2: go to a woman he knew at work and get

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01:38:38,920 --> 01:38:41,760
Speaker 2: it off with her. He said this as if he

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01:38:41,920 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 2: did me a favor. Well. As the CBS worker explained

1813
01:38:45,479 --> 01:38:48,519
Speaker 2: to us, my husband is her closest living relative that

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01:38:48,640 --> 01:38:52,120
Speaker 2: can care for her. The woman's family apparently wanted nothing

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01:38:52,240 --> 01:38:54,760
Speaker 2: to do with the poor little girl. When she asked

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01:38:54,840 --> 01:38:58,800
Speaker 2: us if you wanted to take her in? I said yes, wow,

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01:38:58,920 --> 01:39:04,080
Speaker 2: ohpe really just immediately saying yes is telling how great

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Speaker 2: of a person.

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01:39:05,000 --> 01:39:07,800
Speaker 1: Under There's lots of stories where people are I want

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01:39:07,920 --> 01:39:09,400
Speaker 1: nothing to do with a fair baby.

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01:39:09,960 --> 01:39:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, yeah, yes, I know this might be the

1822
01:39:14,439 --> 01:39:17,080
Speaker 2: true cause of all my issues. But my husband pawned

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01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:19,120
Speaker 2: that poor girl off to live with her single mother

1824
01:39:19,320 --> 01:39:23,040
Speaker 2: for five years. He doesn't get upon her away when

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01:39:23,080 --> 01:39:26,759
Speaker 2: she needs help. She's his responsibility and now is ours.

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01:39:27,400 --> 01:39:29,599
Speaker 2: I told him I'll help take care of the necessary

1827
01:39:29,720 --> 01:39:32,160
Speaker 2: visits for wellness checks and help with whatever our CPS

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01:39:32,240 --> 01:39:34,439
Speaker 2: wants us to do. All you had to do was

1829
01:39:34,560 --> 01:39:38,960
Speaker 2: explain everything to our children. The fact I'm telling Oh,

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01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:41,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying this tells you what he did.

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01:39:42,920 --> 01:39:43,120
Speaker 1: Yes.

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01:39:44,240 --> 01:39:46,680
Speaker 2: Nothing. We had to clean out a room and buy

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01:39:46,760 --> 01:39:49,920
Speaker 2: new furniture and even looked for some toys. Our children

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01:39:50,000 --> 01:39:51,720
Speaker 2: go to a private school, so I picked up some

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01:39:51,800 --> 01:39:53,920
Speaker 2: more work hours in order to be able to afford

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01:39:54,040 --> 01:39:56,680
Speaker 2: her tuition. I was the one who had to tell

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01:39:56,720 --> 01:40:00,280
Speaker 2: our extended families the big change because he didn't want

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Speaker 2: to do so.

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01:40:01,520 --> 01:40:01,800
Speaker 1: Wow.

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01:40:02,240 --> 01:40:05,160
Speaker 2: I did almost all the heavy lifting. So color me

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01:40:05,280 --> 01:40:08,479
Speaker 2: shocked when his daughter finally joins our family two weeks ago,

1842
01:40:08,880 --> 01:40:11,680
Speaker 2: and the first words out of our child's mouth, or

1843
01:40:11,960 --> 01:40:16,800
Speaker 2: out of our children's mouth, was who's that? Yes, I

1844
01:40:17,080 --> 01:40:19,360
Speaker 2: was the one who had to tell our children's school,

1845
01:40:19,960 --> 01:40:23,920
Speaker 2: extended families, family, doctors, and my workplace about my husband's

1846
01:40:23,920 --> 01:40:27,679
Speaker 2: affair and subsequent addition to our family. But he couldn't

1847
01:40:27,720 --> 01:40:31,040
Speaker 2: tell our children because he was too ashamed to face them.

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01:40:31,400 --> 01:40:31,719
Speaker 1: Wow.

1849
01:40:31,840 --> 01:40:34,599
Speaker 2: So guess who was the one who had to explain

1850
01:40:34,960 --> 01:40:37,120
Speaker 2: that they have a sister now as I'm trying to

1851
01:40:37,200 --> 01:40:39,880
Speaker 2: settle the poor girl into her new home and room,

1852
01:40:40,560 --> 01:40:43,320
Speaker 2: and shocker, our children didn't take the news well as

1853
01:40:43,360 --> 01:40:46,599
Speaker 2: it was happening right in front of them. My daughter

1854
01:40:46,800 --> 01:40:49,840
Speaker 2: was screaming while crying, causing my son and the little

1855
01:40:49,880 --> 01:40:52,599
Speaker 2: girl to cry, a situation that could have been avoided

1856
01:40:52,680 --> 01:40:55,080
Speaker 2: if my husband just did the one thing I asked

1857
01:40:55,120 --> 01:40:59,559
Speaker 2: of him and explained everything to them much sooner. It's

1858
01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:01,400
Speaker 2: been too weeks of her living with us, and the

1859
01:41:01,479 --> 01:41:04,840
Speaker 2: situation hasn't improved. My husband has not picked up the

1860
01:41:04,920 --> 01:41:07,240
Speaker 2: slack that comes with having a new addition to the family,

1861
01:41:07,640 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 2: so we're struggling right now to make ends meet. I

1862
01:41:10,479 --> 01:41:13,680
Speaker 2: feel embarrassed bringing all three children around for appointments and

1863
01:41:13,760 --> 01:41:17,800
Speaker 2: groceries because the little girl is very much obviously not mine,

1864
01:41:18,240 --> 01:41:21,080
Speaker 2: and I can tell people are judging our family. My

1865
01:41:21,200 --> 01:41:24,560
Speaker 2: daughter is much moodier and less happy and refuses to

1866
01:41:24,640 --> 01:41:28,040
Speaker 2: even acknowledge our newest addition to the family. Our son

1867
01:41:28,160 --> 01:41:31,240
Speaker 2: doesn't really understand what's going on and it's causing him

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01:41:31,400 --> 01:41:33,920
Speaker 2: even him to lash out. And I don't even know

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01:41:34,080 --> 01:41:36,120
Speaker 2: how to help the poor little girl because I know

1870
01:41:36,760 --> 01:41:39,599
Speaker 2: that if I feel like my life is falling apart,

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01:41:40,080 --> 01:41:42,040
Speaker 2: she must feel even worse.

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01:41:43,479 --> 01:41:48,559
Speaker 1: There's more, but this is so wow. Can you give

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01:41:48,600 --> 01:41:48,800
Speaker 1: us a.

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01:41:50,560 --> 01:41:58,639
Speaker 2: TLDR. Opie's husband had an affair and his affair partner

1875
01:41:58,800 --> 01:42:02,680
Speaker 2: died in an accident, and the affair child had to

1876
01:42:02,760 --> 01:42:08,040
Speaker 2: come live with Ope ah and oh he was like,

1877
01:42:08,280 --> 01:42:10,800
Speaker 2: I will take her in. I will, you know, I'll

1878
01:42:10,840 --> 01:42:12,599
Speaker 2: do all of that, but I need you to tell

1879
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:15,439
Speaker 2: our kids what you did and who this girl is.

1880
01:42:16,000 --> 01:42:20,840
Speaker 2: And he didn't do that. And so now the like

1881
01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:23,560
Speaker 2: the kids are reacting.

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01:42:23,120 --> 01:42:26,840
Speaker 1: To this, Yeah, he's he's done absolutely nothing. Yeah, op,

1883
01:42:26,880 --> 01:42:30,160
Speaker 1: He's done everything, including getting a second shift at a

1884
01:42:30,320 --> 01:42:35,720
Speaker 1: job to help him. Like, and I would say it's

1885
01:42:36,120 --> 01:42:38,519
Speaker 1: totally within reason if you were like, hey, well, like

1886
01:42:38,920 --> 01:42:42,040
Speaker 1: you know, bring her in, obviously care for her. If

1887
01:42:42,080 --> 01:42:44,519
Speaker 1: you if you couldn't afford to put her in the

1888
01:42:44,600 --> 01:42:50,400
Speaker 1: same school, like maybe the closest best public school, I

1889
01:42:50,520 --> 01:42:53,719
Speaker 1: think you'd still be an angel for that, for taking

1890
01:42:53,840 --> 01:42:57,240
Speaker 1: her in. And like, you know, this this isn't your

1891
01:42:58,840 --> 01:43:04,960
Speaker 1: This isn't your your your daughter? Yeah? Is is it

1892
01:43:05,280 --> 01:43:09,240
Speaker 1: bad that she's kind of like, you know, in one sense,

1893
01:43:10,000 --> 01:43:14,839
Speaker 1: enabling the husband by doing doing everything?

1894
01:43:15,280 --> 01:43:20,920
Speaker 2: I I think that I feel like she probably knows

1895
01:43:20,960 --> 01:43:22,840
Speaker 2: her husband well enough to be like, if I don't

1896
01:43:22,840 --> 01:43:25,719
Speaker 2: do it, he will not. And I think she cares

1897
01:43:25,840 --> 01:43:29,680
Speaker 2: about the kids so much already, or it's just a

1898
01:43:30,120 --> 01:43:32,679
Speaker 2: kind soul. I do think maybe this is leading to divorce.

1899
01:43:33,280 --> 01:43:35,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the other thing she hasn't even mentioned.

1900
01:43:35,760 --> 01:43:37,840
Speaker 2: I mean he cheated on her. Yeah, he cheated on her.

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01:43:38,720 --> 01:43:42,840
Speaker 2: Divorce gotta happened, had a kid, never told her about

1902
01:43:42,880 --> 01:43:43,240
Speaker 2: the kids.

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01:43:43,240 --> 01:43:47,320
Speaker 1: He's not doing anything, and and now like the fact

1904
01:43:47,360 --> 01:43:51,080
Speaker 1: that he's doing nothing now is like insane. Oh yeah,

1905
01:43:51,360 --> 01:43:53,760
Speaker 1: it's it's I mean, the whole the whole thing is sane.

1906
01:43:53,840 --> 01:43:57,240
Speaker 1: But like there's just he just created a whole new

1907
01:43:57,360 --> 01:43:57,960
Speaker 1: level of insane.

1908
01:43:58,080 --> 01:44:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, hundred percent. Oh boy, but let's keep going.

1909
01:44:05,040 --> 01:44:05,519
Speaker 4: Let's know it.

1910
01:44:06,400 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 2: I suggested family therapy, therapy for our children, even just

1911
01:44:10,560 --> 01:44:13,000
Speaker 2: marriage therapy, so we can hopefully move past this and

1912
01:44:13,160 --> 01:44:16,519
Speaker 2: work together as a unit for all the children. He's

1913
01:44:16,720 --> 01:44:20,920
Speaker 2: refused everything, saying that he knows he'll be lectured by everyone,

1914
01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:23,920
Speaker 2: when all he was doing was trying to help me.

1915
01:44:24,160 --> 01:44:27,160
Speaker 2: I don't know how he figures that. I just don't

1916
01:44:27,200 --> 01:44:30,600
Speaker 2: know how to fix it. You don't understand I was

1917
01:44:30,680 --> 01:44:31,720
Speaker 2: so considerate of you.

1918
01:44:32,080 --> 01:44:36,759
Speaker 1: Trying to help you, help me, Help you, baby, Louise.

1919
01:44:37,720 --> 01:44:40,680
Speaker 2: I just don't know how to fix this. Please help me.

1920
01:44:41,439 --> 01:44:43,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to divorce him because I know that

1921
01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:45,120
Speaker 2: we'll make it worse for the kids, but that's the

1922
01:44:45,280 --> 01:44:49,160
Speaker 2: only option my family is telling me. Meanwhile, his family's

1923
01:44:49,240 --> 01:44:51,720
Speaker 2: begging me to make this work and to just look

1924
01:44:51,840 --> 01:44:54,960
Speaker 2: past it. Thank you, I hear you all loud and clear.

1925
01:44:55,240 --> 01:44:57,799
Speaker 2: Will be looking into therapy for me and the children,

1926
01:44:57,880 --> 01:45:01,000
Speaker 2: and hopefully a good divorced lawyer. But first I need

1927
01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:03,160
Speaker 2: to get some answers because some of you are raising

1928
01:45:03,400 --> 01:45:08,240
Speaker 2: some good points, and there are some comments and an update. Yeah,

1929
01:45:08,840 --> 01:45:12,320
Speaker 2: but I would love to read some of your comments.

1930
01:45:13,120 --> 01:45:13,880
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

1931
01:45:14,520 --> 01:45:16,920
Speaker 2: Omen says they will be getting social Security for the girls,

1932
01:45:16,960 --> 01:45:18,880
Speaker 2: so that should help with some of the financial burden.

1933
01:45:19,320 --> 01:45:22,000
Speaker 2: Hopefully her mom had a life insurance policy and she

1934
01:45:22,240 --> 01:45:23,040
Speaker 2: was the beneficiary.

1935
01:45:23,280 --> 01:45:25,360
Speaker 1: Oh that is such a good point.

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01:45:25,800 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, helps Lily.

1937
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:33,280
Speaker 2: Depenn says not to mention even if he uh he

1938
01:45:33,920 --> 01:45:36,679
Speaker 2: gets the girl, he'd be a terrible father to her.

1939
01:45:38,640 --> 01:45:40,840
Speaker 1: Right like basically if he was the one that was

1940
01:45:40,920 --> 01:45:44,000
Speaker 1: like solely receiving and caring as a child.

1941
01:45:44,160 --> 01:45:48,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, able logan bad Wolf says, I think she's just

1942
01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:51,599
Speaker 2: getting the child settled because that's her priority. What an

1943
01:45:51,640 --> 01:45:55,760
Speaker 2: absolute angel? Yeah yeah, No, she's been just really great

1944
01:45:56,280 --> 01:46:03,320
Speaker 2: and this guy is horrible s been die id Actually

1945
01:46:03,360 --> 01:46:04,960
Speaker 2: I think it is been die Maybe.

1946
01:46:05,160 --> 01:46:05,720
Speaker 1: I think you're right.

1947
01:46:06,320 --> 01:46:09,120
Speaker 2: Why make the kid homeless too, that's cruel have to do.

1948
01:46:09,320 --> 01:46:10,800
Speaker 2: But the kid is not at fault here.

1949
01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1950
01:46:11,560 --> 01:46:12,040
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

1951
01:46:12,120 --> 01:46:15,160
Speaker 1: I always feel really bad for the like affair, the

1952
01:46:15,240 --> 01:46:23,400
Speaker 1: affair baby they did nothing nothing literally God and shout

1953
01:46:23,400 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 1: out to Sharon. Uh hey, John, you cannot have one

1954
01:46:26,520 --> 01:46:29,519
Speaker 1: child in public school and two in private school. He

1955
01:46:29,640 --> 01:46:31,360
Speaker 1: made that mess. He is refusing to deal with it.

1956
01:46:31,600 --> 01:46:34,320
Speaker 1: The girl is the one paying the price. He needs

1957
01:46:34,320 --> 01:46:37,080
Speaker 1: to step up. I mean great point. Yeah, Like like basically,

1958
01:46:37,200 --> 01:46:40,760
Speaker 1: if you have these kids in all of these separate environments,

1959
01:46:40,920 --> 01:46:45,280
Speaker 1: like what will that breathe? It's like it's inequality within

1960
01:46:45,360 --> 01:46:49,760
Speaker 1: your own the children you're raising. Yeah, which, and that

1961
01:46:50,080 --> 01:46:52,560
Speaker 1: the girl were once she's old. If if she's not

1962
01:46:52,680 --> 01:46:55,160
Speaker 1: already once she's old enough to like realize what the

1963
01:46:55,200 --> 01:46:59,800
Speaker 1: difference is, you would probably feel so terrible. Yeah, I

1964
01:46:59,840 --> 01:47:02,240
Speaker 1: mean that was the angel move, which is yeah, which

1965
01:47:02,320 --> 01:47:04,840
Speaker 1: is what she did Yeah, my goodness.

1966
01:47:04,720 --> 01:47:06,559
Speaker 2: Opie is definitely the angel in the story.

1967
01:47:06,760 --> 01:47:10,360
Speaker 1: I hope I hope that op I forget who commented it,

1968
01:47:10,439 --> 01:47:12,479
Speaker 1: but saying that, like OPI was kind of like getting

1969
01:47:12,520 --> 01:47:16,559
Speaker 1: the kids set up to I just hope that there's

1970
01:47:16,720 --> 01:47:22,200
Speaker 1: some sort of help or relief on op because she's

1971
01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:24,080
Speaker 1: just taking all of it on.

1972
01:47:24,640 --> 01:47:26,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I don't know if anyone's helping.

1973
01:47:27,439 --> 01:47:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't think anyone's helping the insurance policy or like,

1974
01:47:31,080 --> 01:47:34,439
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's like even like a small inheritance,

1975
01:47:34,479 --> 01:47:37,720
Speaker 1: even if it's like ten grand, twenty grand of like

1976
01:47:37,960 --> 01:47:41,200
Speaker 1: all of that person's like assets and bank accounts and

1977
01:47:41,240 --> 01:47:44,680
Speaker 1: stuff that wa probably maybe that helps cover school for

1978
01:47:44,800 --> 01:47:47,439
Speaker 1: like a year, or I don't know, something along those lines.

1979
01:47:48,000 --> 01:47:50,880
Speaker 2: Uh, Chris, wait, oh wait, I don't think that has

1980
01:47:51,080 --> 01:47:52,080
Speaker 2: anything to the story.

1981
01:47:54,200 --> 01:47:55,479
Speaker 1: Sorry, Oh it's different.

1982
01:47:55,800 --> 01:47:58,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Kimi Fox says not to be the a hole,

1983
01:47:58,560 --> 01:48:00,760
Speaker 2: but can Opie love the girl the same the love

1984
01:48:00,880 --> 01:48:06,360
Speaker 2: she deserves. It seems like she's been treating her pretty

1985
01:48:06,439 --> 01:48:09,280
Speaker 2: well so far from what she's given us.

1986
01:48:09,439 --> 01:48:11,200
Speaker 1: I would guess that op is capable.

1987
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:14,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there are scenarios where a person might

1988
01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:19,080
Speaker 2: not be able to do that, But in this case,

1989
01:48:19,120 --> 01:48:22,040
Speaker 2: it seems like Op. He's a beautiful person.

1990
01:48:21,920 --> 01:48:26,439
Speaker 1: And would say it's probably better, especially like with if

1991
01:48:26,720 --> 01:48:29,760
Speaker 1: the child is in Op's hands, like a lot better

1992
01:48:29,880 --> 01:48:31,160
Speaker 1: than the alternatives.

1993
01:48:31,360 --> 01:48:32,200
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, oh.

1994
01:48:33,120 --> 01:48:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed, But let's get into these comments. Oh let's

1995
01:48:37,320 --> 01:48:40,320
Speaker 2: do it usually right too, says the kid needs, the

1996
01:48:40,439 --> 01:48:43,000
Speaker 2: kids need therapy. If he won't go, that should tell

1997
01:48:43,000 --> 01:48:45,320
Speaker 2: you a lot. He doesn't give a poop about any

1998
01:48:45,360 --> 01:48:48,720
Speaker 2: of you, and also doing you a favor. What the

1999
01:48:48,880 --> 01:48:52,160
Speaker 2: actual f None of these kids asked for this. You

2000
01:48:52,280 --> 01:48:55,720
Speaker 2: didn't ask for this. He created all of this mess

2001
01:48:55,880 --> 01:48:58,920
Speaker 2: and won't help to fix it. I'd be talking to

2002
01:48:59,000 --> 01:49:02,479
Speaker 2: an attorney second, but therapist first. And then chicken fight

2003
01:49:02,600 --> 01:49:06,400
Speaker 2: your mom, chicken fighte your mom says this, Take your

2004
01:49:06,439 --> 01:49:09,080
Speaker 2: babies and go ope. He can hire a sitter to

2005
01:49:09,120 --> 01:49:11,920
Speaker 2: take care of his daughter. Your first priority has to

2006
01:49:12,000 --> 01:49:14,040
Speaker 2: be your kids, and your daughter sounds like she's not

2007
01:49:14,160 --> 01:49:17,960
Speaker 2: doing well. Find an apartment and separate your finances. If

2008
01:49:18,120 --> 01:49:21,040
Speaker 2: even after that he still won't do anything, which I

2009
01:49:21,120 --> 01:49:23,559
Speaker 2: suspect he won't, then what more proof do you need

2010
01:49:23,640 --> 01:49:27,240
Speaker 2: that he's a despicable loser. Go find an apartment, get

2011
01:49:27,280 --> 01:49:30,240
Speaker 2: your kids in therapy, and talk to an attorney. This

2012
01:49:30,400 --> 01:49:33,800
Speaker 2: marriage sounds long over. Quit setting yourself on fire to

2013
01:49:33,880 --> 01:49:37,960
Speaker 2: keep him warm. He certainly doesn't care about you, and

2014
01:49:38,600 --> 01:49:41,320
Speaker 2: Bevin check your pants says. If that she should get

2015
01:49:41,360 --> 01:49:44,240
Speaker 2: to keep the house, he can go to a damn apartment.

2016
01:49:45,000 --> 01:49:47,320
Speaker 2: And then there is an update.

2017
01:49:48,520 --> 01:49:52,360
Speaker 1: Yeah it is. You know, I didn't even consider the

2018
01:49:52,560 --> 01:50:01,320
Speaker 1: fact that this is a imposition on her children.

2019
01:50:01,560 --> 01:50:04,000
Speaker 2: Yeah you know, Yeah, they're already affected by it.

2020
01:50:04,080 --> 01:50:05,600
Speaker 1: They're already affected by it.

2021
01:50:05,760 --> 01:50:06,320
Speaker 2: Talk about it.

2022
01:50:06,680 --> 01:50:10,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh man, this is just this is really a

2023
01:50:11,800 --> 01:50:19,400
Speaker 1: everyone loses type situation. I mean, I still think I

2024
01:50:19,479 --> 01:50:25,240
Speaker 1: still think Opie's doing the right thing. And it's probably

2025
01:50:25,320 --> 01:50:27,320
Speaker 1: pretty hard too. It's like it's like that classic case

2026
01:50:27,360 --> 01:50:30,560
Speaker 1: of like, oh, you'll understand when you're older. Like I

2027
01:50:30,680 --> 01:50:34,320
Speaker 1: could see being in the kids perspective, being like why

2028
01:50:34,360 --> 01:50:36,800
Speaker 1: are you here like taking care of this like new kid,

2029
01:50:36,880 --> 01:50:38,559
Speaker 1: like we don't know her or if they're old enough,

2030
01:50:38,640 --> 01:50:41,240
Speaker 1: like this is like dad's a fair baby, Like why

2031
01:50:41,400 --> 01:50:43,760
Speaker 1: Like I don't want this kid in my house, Like

2032
01:50:43,800 --> 01:50:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to like share a life and like

2033
01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:50,640
Speaker 1: share resources have to like you may lose time with

2034
01:50:50,800 --> 01:50:52,559
Speaker 1: my mom because you have to pick up an extra

2035
01:50:52,640 --> 01:50:56,960
Speaker 1: shift to pay for her for her schooling. So God,

2036
01:50:57,680 --> 01:51:01,839
Speaker 1: everyone just loses in this scenario. Yeah, truly, Yeah.

2037
01:51:03,200 --> 01:51:05,360
Speaker 2: But there is an update. All right, Well, maybe maybe

2038
01:51:05,439 --> 01:51:08,600
Speaker 2: someone Vince, Maybe I'm praying for a win. W's in

2039
01:51:08,640 --> 01:51:12,439
Speaker 2: the chat, Lobby's in the chat. I'm sorry. You all

2040
01:51:12,520 --> 01:51:15,519
Speaker 2: were right. It was a lie? What was a lie?

2041
01:51:16,720 --> 01:51:17,120
Speaker 2: A lie?

2042
01:51:18,000 --> 01:51:18,080
Speaker 4: Oh?

2043
01:51:18,320 --> 01:51:19,040
Speaker 1: Lie? Oh?

2044
01:51:19,960 --> 01:51:21,920
Speaker 2: When all of you were pointing out how the kids'

2045
01:51:21,960 --> 01:51:25,320
Speaker 2: responses to youngest arriving didn't make sense, it made me

2046
01:51:25,479 --> 01:51:28,560
Speaker 2: realize how correct that is. They came home to a

2047
01:51:28,680 --> 01:51:31,599
Speaker 2: room all made up, and I made passing comments to them,

2048
01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:35,479
Speaker 2: asking about how excited they were for youngest arrival. They

2049
01:51:35,560 --> 01:51:38,080
Speaker 2: should have known about her. At this point, I decided

2050
01:51:38,120 --> 01:51:41,080
Speaker 2: to just ask my eldest daughter directly, because she was

2051
01:51:41,120 --> 01:51:43,880
Speaker 2: still so upset about it, and I think subconsciously knew

2052
01:51:44,360 --> 01:51:47,360
Speaker 2: I wasn't going to get the truth from husband. So

2053
01:51:47,520 --> 01:51:49,479
Speaker 2: I went to a room while she was lying in bed,

2054
01:51:49,640 --> 01:51:51,920
Speaker 2: and I asked her. I told her that I asked

2055
01:51:51,960 --> 01:51:53,840
Speaker 2: her father to explain to the two of them what

2056
01:51:54,000 --> 01:51:56,759
Speaker 2: was going on. They saw her new room, I talked

2057
01:51:57,040 --> 01:52:00,400
Speaker 2: about her to them, So I don't understand my eldest reaction.

2058
01:52:01,360 --> 01:52:05,320
Speaker 2: So yes, it turns out husband didn't tell them and

2059
01:52:05,479 --> 01:52:08,680
Speaker 2: then need the truth a surprise to no one. I

2060
01:52:08,760 --> 01:52:11,720
Speaker 2: am figuring out. The story he told the kids was

2061
01:52:11,800 --> 01:52:14,400
Speaker 2: that the youngest was a daughter of one of our friends,

2062
01:52:14,960 --> 01:52:18,960
Speaker 2: one of our friends, and we felt so bad we

2063
01:52:19,040 --> 01:52:21,920
Speaker 2: had to take her in. Nothing about her being their

2064
01:52:21,960 --> 01:52:25,240
Speaker 2: half sister or him having a daughter with another woman

2065
01:52:25,439 --> 01:52:29,400
Speaker 2: whoa Okay, so he lied and said, Oh, this little girl,

2066
01:52:29,520 --> 01:52:31,360
Speaker 2: she's just like one of our friends.

2067
01:52:32,520 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 1: And then oh yeah, and then so they're like, why

2068
01:52:36,200 --> 01:52:38,879
Speaker 1: are we doing all this stuff for like a random

2069
01:52:38,960 --> 01:52:40,759
Speaker 1: family friend we've never met before?

2070
01:52:41,000 --> 01:52:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then ope continues. Well, when she came home

2071
01:52:45,200 --> 01:52:47,800
Speaker 2: that day and the kids asked who she was the

2072
01:52:47,880 --> 01:52:49,920
Speaker 2: pictures we were able to share of youngest, she had

2073
01:52:49,960 --> 01:52:52,920
Speaker 2: braids in and wore much different clothing than when she arrived.

2074
01:52:53,560 --> 01:52:56,719
Speaker 2: It was my response to them that ruined his little

2075
01:52:56,800 --> 01:53:01,639
Speaker 2: lie quote, this is youngest, name your half sister. Remember,

2076
01:53:04,160 --> 01:53:07,400
Speaker 2: I don't know what this husband was thinking. Like obvious

2077
01:53:08,000 --> 01:53:10,439
Speaker 2: he didn't tell. He didn't clue anyone into his plan.

2078
01:53:11,000 --> 01:53:14,280
Speaker 1: Oh like he's an awful person.

2079
01:53:14,520 --> 01:53:18,080
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, our son was too young to really get

2080
01:53:18,120 --> 01:53:20,600
Speaker 2: what it meant, but our daughter did. That's why she

2081
01:53:20,720 --> 01:53:22,960
Speaker 2: freaked out that day. Not because of the new addition

2082
01:53:23,040 --> 01:53:26,240
Speaker 2: to the family, but because what the new addition meant.

2083
01:53:27,760 --> 01:53:30,160
Speaker 2: I apologize for causing her to freak out that day,

2084
01:53:30,320 --> 01:53:32,600
Speaker 2: for not sitting both her and her brother Dollan for

2085
01:53:32,640 --> 01:53:36,200
Speaker 2: a real discussion over how they feel and to make

2086
01:53:36,240 --> 01:53:38,720
Speaker 2: sure their father did what he was supposed to, and

2087
01:53:38,840 --> 01:53:41,760
Speaker 2: apologized for only talking to her now after she had

2088
01:53:41,800 --> 01:53:45,599
Speaker 2: a much deserved reaction to it all. My daughter accepted

2089
01:53:45,640 --> 01:53:47,559
Speaker 2: the apology, and I asked her if that was why

2090
01:53:47,680 --> 01:53:51,280
Speaker 2: she was distant from the youngest. She told me that's

2091
01:53:51,360 --> 01:53:54,320
Speaker 2: part of it, and because word got out at her

2092
01:53:54,439 --> 01:53:57,280
Speaker 2: school about what the newest addition to our family going

2093
01:53:57,360 --> 01:54:02,439
Speaker 2: to the school meant. So now she's getting teased and

2094
01:54:02,560 --> 01:54:04,839
Speaker 2: picked on for having a father who cheated.

2095
01:54:06,560 --> 01:54:13,320
Speaker 1: It broke in heart, Mom passed away. No, this is

2096
01:54:13,439 --> 01:54:18,200
Speaker 1: Ope's child, Okay, okay, okay, yeah, I was like, what, yeah.

2097
01:54:18,120 --> 01:54:21,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, this is Ope. So Ope's daughter is now

2098
01:54:21,280 --> 01:54:24,360
Speaker 2: being made a fun of because of her what her

2099
01:54:24,760 --> 01:54:26,200
Speaker 2: having a half sister at the school with.

2100
01:54:26,280 --> 01:54:30,120
Speaker 1: Their means right, but the but the half sister her

2101
01:54:30,280 --> 01:54:32,280
Speaker 1: her mother did y yeah.

2102
01:54:32,160 --> 01:54:36,840
Speaker 2: In an accident correct by continuing to beg the spineless

2103
01:54:36,920 --> 01:54:39,200
Speaker 2: man they called a father to help them and then

2104
01:54:39,240 --> 01:54:42,960
Speaker 2: allowing myself to get shut down. I was essentially allowing

2105
01:54:43,080 --> 01:54:46,320
Speaker 2: all the kids needs to be ignored. I told daughter,

2106
01:54:46,480 --> 01:54:50,720
Speaker 2: I'll sign her up. I'll sign her up to I've

2107
01:54:50,760 --> 01:54:53,760
Speaker 2: lost my place. I'll sign her up for something. Ah,

2108
01:54:54,240 --> 01:54:57,120
Speaker 2: I'll sign her and her brother and sister up for therapy.

2109
01:54:57,440 --> 01:54:59,840
Speaker 2: Of course, the pathetic man tried to plead with me

2110
01:55:00,200 --> 01:55:02,400
Speaker 2: not to when I mentioned signing the kids up. Why

2111
01:55:02,480 --> 01:55:05,400
Speaker 2: is he so against therapy? But I told him to

2112
01:55:05,520 --> 01:55:09,400
Speaker 2: give it up already. All three's children's lives have changed,

2113
01:55:09,440 --> 01:55:11,600
Speaker 2: and it will help them adjust with a professional to

2114
01:55:11,640 --> 01:55:14,640
Speaker 2: speak to. He's been grumbling and whining about it. But

2115
01:55:14,800 --> 01:55:17,880
Speaker 2: I don't care anymore. And this might cause many to

2116
01:55:17,920 --> 01:55:20,400
Speaker 2: be upset with me, But I'm in the process with

2117
01:55:20,640 --> 01:55:25,320
Speaker 2: husband to have him transfer custody of the youngest to me,

2118
01:55:25,840 --> 01:55:27,800
Speaker 2: So she is taking the daughter in. Wow.

2119
01:55:28,280 --> 01:55:35,560
Speaker 1: That's wow, huge deal, I mean hopefully. Whoooo, ladies and gentlemen,

2120
01:55:35,680 --> 01:55:37,120
Speaker 1: Is that is that what we think it is?

2121
01:55:37,400 --> 01:55:39,320
Speaker 2: That is the sleepless nights?

2122
01:55:39,560 --> 01:55:42,200
Speaker 1: Wow? These the chat he's awoken.

2123
01:55:43,640 --> 01:55:46,120
Speaker 2: You thought you thought they were asleep.

2124
01:55:45,840 --> 01:55:49,280
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2125
01:55:49,400 --> 01:55:54,400
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2126
01:55:54,600 --> 01:55:58,240
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2127
01:55:58,320 --> 01:56:02,600
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2128
01:56:02,680 --> 01:56:06,880
Speaker 1: sleepless in the shots freaking go.

2129
01:56:08,280 --> 01:56:10,680
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2130
01:56:12,200 --> 01:56:12,800
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2131
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2132
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:16,360
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2133
01:56:16,680 --> 01:56:18,120
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2134
01:56:18,160 --> 01:56:20,560
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2135
01:56:20,560 --> 01:56:23,080
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2136
01:56:23,120 --> 01:56:25,960
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2137
01:56:26,040 --> 01:56:30,040
Speaker 1: month early and nearly ended my mom and myself. Oh

2138
01:56:30,120 --> 01:56:32,640
Speaker 1: my gosh, so like in birth in birth. So yeah,

2139
01:56:32,680 --> 01:56:35,440
Speaker 1: Sleepless Nights have like a similar situation.

2140
01:56:35,840 --> 01:56:36,920
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you didn't.

2141
01:56:37,200 --> 01:56:42,080
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2142
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2143
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2144
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2145
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2146
01:56:57,200 --> 01:57:00,360
Speaker 1: a good point. Maybe we look into some other.

2147
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Speaker 2: Uh look more.

2148
01:57:02,400 --> 01:57:05,920
Speaker 1: Actually, we do have a solution for the future. I

2149
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2150
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2151
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Speaker 1: run into some issues for anything else. Tiny Cactus celebrating two.

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Speaker 1: Much of membership found out at almost forty that I

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01:57:28,160 --> 01:57:32,120
Speaker 1: was the affair baby my uh, tiny Cactus. Please go

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01:57:32,200 --> 01:57:34,880
Speaker 1: to our sas Okop show or call for our message

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01:57:34,920 --> 01:57:38,440
Speaker 1: Ryland Discord. We would love to hear your story. My

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01:57:38,600 --> 01:57:41,240
Speaker 1: birth dad had no idea I existed until we match

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01:57:41,320 --> 01:57:47,000
Speaker 1: on ancestry. His wife treated me nicer than him. That

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01:57:47,200 --> 01:57:49,480
Speaker 1: is crazy. And shout out to Susan Martin for the

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Speaker 1: buck fifty on the donal link. Hearts please like the

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01:57:52,680 --> 01:57:55,880
Speaker 1: stream people, please, guys, how close are we?

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Speaker 5: Riley tell us, Oh my gosh, we are every one.

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01:58:02,680 --> 01:58:06,200
Speaker 5: Everyone likes a way carry the two from uh uh.

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Speaker 1: Spinning the wheel. Guys, guys, you know what you know

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01:58:12,360 --> 01:58:17,040
Speaker 1: what you've done. You've left righty speechless. God he is,

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01:58:17,200 --> 01:58:20,080
Speaker 1: he is beside himself right now because we have the

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Speaker 1: people to get the likes to spin the wheel, and

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01:58:23,040 --> 01:58:24,480
Speaker 1: we want to we want to give it to you.

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Speaker 2: We've got one how many zero zero for.

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01:58:31,480 --> 01:58:34,280
Speaker 1: A thousand and four people? Oh my god. So I

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01:58:34,400 --> 01:58:35,920
Speaker 1: was just hurt by how many people didn't like the

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01:58:35,920 --> 01:58:38,000
Speaker 1: stream that talk I'm going.

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Speaker 2: To I think it was overcome by emotion.

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01:58:40,720 --> 01:58:44,520
Speaker 1: I've also overcome. I don't know what's going on.

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01:58:45,640 --> 01:58:47,720
Speaker 5: It is better than undercome.

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Speaker 1: Hashtag eat out the rich ladies.

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01:58:51,080 --> 01:58:52,560
Speaker 2: Hashtag I'm overcome.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's all the donation. It's very nice.

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01:58:57,720 --> 01:59:00,640
Speaker 1: Let's get back to this super story.

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01:59:02,200 --> 01:59:07,800
Speaker 2: So do doop de doep?

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01:59:07,840 --> 01:59:12,240
Speaker 1: Do you am? I found it.

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01:59:13,200 --> 01:59:16,040
Speaker 2: I've grown to care for her, and as some comments

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01:59:16,080 --> 01:59:18,000
Speaker 2: in my last post to point it out, once I

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01:59:18,080 --> 01:59:20,400
Speaker 2: do divorce him and leave with our kids, I don't

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01:59:20,480 --> 01:59:24,400
Speaker 2: doubt he'll treat her awfully or neglect her. I've been

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01:59:24,480 --> 01:59:27,120
Speaker 2: right on board, and he's been right on board, and

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01:59:27,240 --> 01:59:29,720
Speaker 2: it took some convincing, but his parents finally agreed to

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01:59:29,800 --> 01:59:32,880
Speaker 2: be witnesses. I got all the PaperWorks set up and

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01:59:33,000 --> 01:59:36,200
Speaker 2: scopeduled and appointment with an attorney to help with anything else.

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01:59:36,760 --> 01:59:39,080
Speaker 2: Once that happens, I'll try to get everything I need

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Speaker 2: in order to have a smoother divorce and then subsequently

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Speaker 2: move to be closer to my family. Thank you to

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Speaker 2: everyone for giving me a good slap in the face

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Speaker 2: and help me realize that the children and I deserve better.

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01:59:51,120 --> 01:59:54,440
Speaker 2: And I was being so gullible into thinking a man

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Speaker 2: who cheats on his dying, pregnant wife is deserving of

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Speaker 2: any respect. There is one comment Talk that Talk Girl,

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Speaker 2: Pancake Wagon twenty six says, you're doing a very noble

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Speaker 2: thing taking care of this girl. She's not your responsibility,

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Speaker 2: but you're taking it on anyway. You are an angel,

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Speaker 2: and that is the whole story. And I think, I mean,

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Speaker 2: it doesn't it's not like a full happy ending, but

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Speaker 2: it is a happier ending than most. Yeah, yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: not most.

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Speaker 1: And then some I totally agree. I also wonder if,

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Speaker 1: and I'd be curious, I would love to hear some

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Speaker 1: of y'all's comments below. I wonder if she's gonna be

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Speaker 1: able to get a lot in the divorce, because you know,

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Speaker 1: it's like the classic like oh, splitting the estate or

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Speaker 1: whatever because he cheated, because yeah, she is literally she's

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Speaker 1: taking the My hope in prayer is that she's able

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Speaker 1: to go to court with all this and be like,

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Speaker 1: this guy is the stinkiest of stinky bns. You know,

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Speaker 1: give me half so I can raise these children, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all of them, his one of them, not even my own.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I think they. I think she can

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Speaker 2: get probably a pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Pretty guys, let us know in the comments if anyone

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Speaker 1: has any you know, information on divorce. You guys are

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Speaker 1: experts on everything. There's always there's always one expert in

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Speaker 1: the audience, which is great. So yeah, let us let

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Speaker 1: us know. I'd be curious to hear more of your

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Speaker 1: expert opinion.

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Speaker 2: Curious air and curious sir, just like Mad Hatter, go

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Speaker 2: with the five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 1: Big time and let's freaking go. Yeah, let's freaking go.

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Speaker 1: What is a poll that we could.

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Speaker 2: I think you could be like, would you in the

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Speaker 2: chat take on this child? Be real? Be real?

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02:01:55,800 --> 02:01:56,920
Speaker 1: Real child or not?

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02:01:57,400 --> 02:02:00,520
Speaker 2: Child or not? Are you personally child or not?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you two in the comments discuss this

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Speaker 1: while I go grab something and return momentarily.

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Speaker 2: Damn, I need to do that after you?

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02:02:10,200 --> 02:02:11,320
Speaker 1: How bad do you want to go? First?

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Speaker 5: A fun short story I could read everyone? I think,

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Speaker 5: Oh well we both leave? Yeah, yeah, it's the it's

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Speaker 5: the truck one. How about I don't have to leave

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Speaker 5: right now as you guys.

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Speaker 1: Go why not?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, why not? Just go ahead? Go ahead? Okay,

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02:02:31,480 --> 02:02:33,480
Speaker 5: all right, now you guys got reading Riley for a

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02:02:33,880 --> 02:02:35,040
Speaker 5: short one this.

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02:02:37,360 --> 02:02:39,680
Speaker 1: Who peace the fastest? All right? Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Riley story time? Oh Ron button here, I am?

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 5: This came from our slash okayop show, our sub breddit.

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02:02:50,040 --> 02:02:52,080
Speaker 5: If you have a story, please go to our slash

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Speaker 5: okayop show. Recently, I have seen a lot of like

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02:02:57,640 --> 02:02:59,520
Speaker 5: there's a lot of activity in a lot of community

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02:02:59,560 --> 02:03:02,360
Speaker 5: coming from artislized okop show I've seen recently.

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02:03:02,480 --> 02:03:03,440
Speaker 1: So please go there.

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02:03:04,000 --> 02:03:05,560
Speaker 5: And if you guys want to give advice, you could

2255
02:03:05,560 --> 02:03:07,600
Speaker 5: do advice there. Go do our discord. You can call us.

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02:03:07,680 --> 02:03:10,760
Speaker 5: But honestly, I really love how the discord is, like

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02:03:11,200 --> 02:03:13,560
Speaker 5: like some of them have like three hundred and fifty

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02:03:13,720 --> 02:03:16,400
Speaker 5: comments of you guys just like commenting in there, and

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02:03:16,480 --> 02:03:19,000
Speaker 5: we have like almost seven k members in there, So like,

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Speaker 5: get in there, check it out. It's awesome. I freaking

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02:03:22,360 --> 02:03:28,000
Speaker 5: love it. But let's get into this story. So am

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Speaker 5: I they a hole for dentting a truck with my chin?

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Speaker 5: So klutze mouse nine to eight stays I'm in the military,

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Speaker 5: and I was working on the Texas Mexico border for

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Speaker 5: a while, no longer there. Well, I worked nights and

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Speaker 5: one night nothing was happening. The guys and I got bored,

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Speaker 5: so we parked under some basketball hoops. As they were talking.

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Speaker 5: I wanted to see if I could fit through the hoop,

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Speaker 5: and I could one way, one way going up, but

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Speaker 5: not going down. Okay, so like going up the hoop

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Speaker 5: and not down. So well, I got bored on sitting

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Speaker 5: top of the hood, so I decided to try to

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Speaker 5: get down. I looked down to try and calculate how

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Speaker 5: far I needed to jump down safely. I miscalculated greatly.

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Speaker 5: That's like, I don't know if you guys know how

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Speaker 5: tall the basketball hoop.

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Speaker 1: Is, but that's like feet jumped to the size.

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Speaker 5: So they were on top of it. They were bored,

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02:04:24,600 --> 02:04:25,960
Speaker 5: and they were just like on top of it. And

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02:04:26,040 --> 02:04:27,400
Speaker 5: then they're like, I'm gonna get down now.

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02:04:28,440 --> 02:04:31,520
Speaker 1: So they jumped from the top of the basketball hoop,

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Speaker 1: jumped down from top of the basketball hoop and onto

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Speaker 1: the truck.

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Speaker 5: We're about to find out, they said they miss calculating.

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Speaker 1: This is prime Florida activities right here. It doesn't get

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Speaker 1: more Florida than this.

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Speaker 5: Miscalculated greatly. It was dark and my depth perception isn't

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Speaker 5: the best. When I took the leap, the first half

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02:04:52,600 --> 02:04:58,000
Speaker 5: of my foot landed and then I slipped. Oh my gosh,

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02:04:58,200 --> 02:05:02,880
Speaker 5: everything happened quickly. I face planted into op corner of

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Speaker 5: the truck. Did my face sat down the back wind though,

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02:05:09,960 --> 02:05:13,520
Speaker 5: ending with the great finale of my heels to my head.

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02:05:14,240 --> 02:05:17,480
Speaker 5: I honestly didn't know I could stretch that far. Oh

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02:05:17,920 --> 02:05:22,040
Speaker 5: my gosh, yeah, this is I could. There's probably a

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Speaker 5: guy for that.

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Speaker 1: That's disgusting. That.

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Speaker 5: Oh man, when your heel starched the top of your head, Man,

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Speaker 5: that's I haven't I haven't done that before. Have you

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Speaker 5: done that before? Put your heels on the top of

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Speaker 5: your headels? Is John's figuring that out? Oh oh, here

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Speaker 5: we go, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I did it.

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Speaker 5: He can do it?

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Speaker 1: That is that is wow.

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Speaker 5: I was not expecting that.

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Speaker 1: So young and flexible, young and flexible. Gosh uh.

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Speaker 5: The guys were extremely freaked out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: When I was able to get up, I couldn't breathed

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Speaker 5: for what felt like an eternity, and then I laughed

2311
02:06:04,440 --> 02:06:08,520
Speaker 5: hysterically for about five minutes. When I finally calmed down

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Speaker 5: from laughing, we started joking about the possibility of dinning

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Speaker 5: a trunk then dentting the truck. None of us actually

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02:06:14,720 --> 02:06:17,520
Speaker 5: thought it was possible, but lo and behold, as soon

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Speaker 5: as we turn our flashlights on to check it out,

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Speaker 5: there it was a beautiful round dent made by my

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Speaker 5: lovely chin. I didn't lose any of my teeth, thank goodness,

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Speaker 5: or have any bruises, but my chin hurt. Like hell, dude,

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Speaker 5: I'm very surprised you didn't lose any of teeth because like,

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Speaker 5: oh dude. They ended up calling me chisel Chin, crimson Chin,

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Speaker 5: and Grimlin, and my buddy started to say that they

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Speaker 5: that they test cars durability to see my face isn't

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Speaker 5: on it. Well he doesn't want it, Oh my gosh. Anyway,

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Speaker 5: that was one of my fun crazy stories. I hope

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Speaker 5: you all enjoyed. All Right, here's a truck. I guess

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Speaker 5: that's like all of the If you can zoom in,

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02:07:00,920 --> 02:07:03,800
Speaker 5: you can kind of see it, but you can see it.

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02:07:03,880 --> 02:07:06,040
Speaker 5: Might be hard people can see it, I guess you.

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Speaker 1: But I can. I can see it from the Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is that is nuts.

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Speaker 5: Wow, look at look at that. Oh my gosh, I

2332
02:07:17,120 --> 02:07:20,480
Speaker 5: want to know what this dust is. What happened there?

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Speaker 1: This looks like Christian's car. Who somebody somebody's car.

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Speaker 5: That's what I thought. Oh yeah, room, yeah, he has

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Speaker 5: a car round like this. But oh my gosh, that

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Speaker 5: dent Crimson Chin. People are saying, that's really funny. That's

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Speaker 5: the face print fairly. Yeah, the end of the ferry up.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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02:07:39,640 --> 02:07:41,880
Speaker 5: So yeah, that's the short story you guys get from

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Speaker 5: me today. I They were like, we want longer stories, please,

2341
02:07:45,640 --> 02:07:46,760
Speaker 5: Can I just can we just have.

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Speaker 2: This in here?

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02:07:47,640 --> 02:07:48,800
Speaker 5: I want I want to read this one.

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Speaker 1: Riley. I love Riley's like he loves like the slapstick,

2345
02:07:54,320 --> 02:07:58,400
Speaker 1: just like the face hitting the windshields and slowly fighting

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Speaker 1: it down. I love how enjoyment you're getting out.

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02:08:02,080 --> 02:08:04,880
Speaker 5: I saw that happen. I r L well like it

2348
02:08:04,960 --> 02:08:06,760
Speaker 5: felt like it. I felt like I saw it happening

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Speaker 5: in person.

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Speaker 1: Oh I thought, I thought you were gonna say that

2351
02:08:09,320 --> 02:08:10,640
Speaker 1: came from like Taate or somebody.

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02:08:10,920 --> 02:08:13,000
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no no no, it came from someone

2353
02:08:13,080 --> 02:08:14,480
Speaker 5: in them. They were in the military and they were

2354
02:08:14,520 --> 02:08:15,640
Speaker 5: bored one night with some people.

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Speaker 1: Was that from okop? That was from r r ssh okop, sure,

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Speaker 1: let's freaking go. Oh my gosh, wow crazy dude. Yeah right.

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Speaker 1: Riley was like, by any means necessary, the story is

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Speaker 1: going to be read. And guys, you know what, Jem's

2359
02:08:30,560 --> 02:08:33,080
Speaker 1: in a chat. Jemmy's in the chat because Riley freaking

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Speaker 1: made it happen. I did make it. Okay, he made

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Speaker 1: that story manifest into your ear hole.

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Speaker 5: Dude, there's one story we're going to read today that

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Speaker 5: is completely insane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't.

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02:08:45,840 --> 02:08:47,880
Speaker 5: Sam needs to be in here, but it is. I

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Speaker 5: am really excited for him to get in here and

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02:08:49,640 --> 02:08:49,880
Speaker 5: read it.

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02:08:50,640 --> 02:08:54,840
Speaker 1: Riley, you know, speaking of stories, stories, I think we

2369
02:08:54,920 --> 02:08:55,160
Speaker 1: got it.

2370
02:08:55,840 --> 02:08:56,840
Speaker 5: Let's get into it.

2371
02:08:57,120 --> 02:08:59,000
Speaker 1: Let's go what do we got? Where are we at?

2372
02:09:03,280 --> 02:09:08,440
Speaker 1: Or seventy s two for seventy yes two? Y'all ready

2373
02:09:08,480 --> 02:09:11,400
Speaker 1: for it? Is bomb bum Bump bump bump bomb bomb

2374
02:09:11,440 --> 02:09:12,760
Speaker 1: bomb bomb Bump bump bump.

2375
02:09:14,000 --> 02:09:16,320
Speaker 5: One of my friends, his name's Jack Gordon. He has

2376
02:09:16,320 --> 02:09:19,520
Speaker 5: a YouTube channel. He's coming for me to solve because

2377
02:09:19,520 --> 02:09:21,000
Speaker 5: he messed it up. It was like, can you please

2378
02:09:21,040 --> 02:09:23,840
Speaker 5: solve it for me? It's for one of his videos

2379
02:09:23,880 --> 02:09:25,760
Speaker 5: he got like sponsored.

2380
02:09:25,440 --> 02:09:27,320
Speaker 1: He messed up a rubiks oh and you have to

2381
02:09:27,520 --> 02:09:27,840
Speaker 1: solve it.

2382
02:09:28,000 --> 02:09:29,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, And he's like, can you solve it real quick

2383
02:09:29,400 --> 02:09:31,440
Speaker 5: for me? I'm like yeah, And he did it for

2384
02:09:31,560 --> 02:09:33,640
Speaker 5: like the video, yeah, but he messed up. He was

2385
02:09:33,680 --> 02:09:35,280
Speaker 5: doing one thing for the video, then he messed it up.

2386
02:09:35,320 --> 02:09:35,920
Speaker 5: So now he needs me.

2387
02:09:36,160 --> 02:09:41,960
Speaker 1: Oh he that's amazing. Shout out Jack Gordon. That's our boy.

2388
02:09:42,080 --> 02:09:43,280
Speaker 1: That's our freaking boy. Man.

2389
02:09:43,440 --> 02:09:45,160
Speaker 5: So he will be coming in in a little bit always.

2390
02:09:45,360 --> 02:09:47,280
Speaker 1: Oh dude, hell yeah, we have to get we have

2391
02:09:47,320 --> 02:09:48,960
Speaker 1: to get him on the stream for like three seconds.

2392
02:09:49,920 --> 02:09:52,640
Speaker 1: All right, ladies, gentlemen, Am I a hole for canceling

2393
02:09:52,680 --> 02:09:56,520
Speaker 1: the surprise party my mom was planning for my birthday?

2394
02:09:57,680 --> 02:10:01,880
Speaker 1: Well this comes from Hippie Pixie, who says, I am

2395
02:10:01,960 --> 02:10:04,440
Speaker 1: turning thirty four in June. I have two kids, eleven

2396
02:10:04,480 --> 02:10:07,480
Speaker 1: and thirteen, who live with my parents. For some context,

2397
02:10:07,600 --> 02:10:09,840
Speaker 1: when my kids were young, I fell into a very

2398
02:10:09,960 --> 02:10:13,600
Speaker 1: bad depression. My parents my parents idea of helping was

2399
02:10:13,680 --> 02:10:16,440
Speaker 1: to take custody of the kids until I was on

2400
02:10:16,720 --> 02:10:17,480
Speaker 1: my feet again.

2401
02:10:18,480 --> 02:10:20,120
Speaker 5: Wait, we might have to stop for a second.

2402
02:10:20,280 --> 02:10:21,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have a will.

2403
02:10:22,000 --> 02:10:26,280
Speaker 5: Spin almost happened, my god, and I know I didn't

2404
02:10:26,280 --> 02:10:28,160
Speaker 5: want them. This is a pretty lengthy story and I

2405
02:10:28,240 --> 02:10:29,160
Speaker 5: didn't want them to wait.

2406
02:10:29,600 --> 02:10:31,840
Speaker 1: That is a great point.

2407
02:10:32,040 --> 02:10:34,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we're gonna have to spin that wheel.

2408
02:10:34,400 --> 02:10:41,120
Speaker 1: Let's spin that wheel. All right, good catch, let's get

2409
02:10:41,160 --> 02:10:46,640
Speaker 1: it package package? Wow, you know what?

2410
02:10:46,720 --> 02:10:47,880
Speaker 5: I got a package to open?

2411
02:10:48,200 --> 02:10:50,960
Speaker 1: You know what what I was gonna do want? Anyways?

2412
02:10:51,120 --> 02:10:52,320
Speaker 1: We want to give them a freebie?

2413
02:10:52,600 --> 02:10:52,840
Speaker 5: Sure?

2414
02:10:53,080 --> 02:10:55,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you got? All right? One more spin?

2415
02:10:56,640 --> 02:10:58,280
Speaker 1: Was gonna I was gonna open a package anyways?

2416
02:10:58,360 --> 02:11:00,520
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, yeah, more.

2417
02:11:03,360 --> 02:11:13,200
Speaker 1: No names, names, memes on my dreams. I'll open this

2418
02:11:13,400 --> 02:11:17,680
Speaker 1: up quick if you want. I gotta find a way

2419
02:11:17,720 --> 02:11:23,120
Speaker 1: of the pastor I don't know. I don't even know

2420
02:11:23,160 --> 02:11:27,440
Speaker 1: where this thing opens. This box is mystery, almost like

2421
02:11:27,800 --> 02:11:39,640
Speaker 1: a mystery box. Oh, I'm gonna boat and I'm on

2422
02:11:39,760 --> 02:11:50,240
Speaker 1: the singing dude, where does this box makes no m hm, dude,

2423
02:11:50,320 --> 02:11:59,560
Speaker 1: literally it's but it's like Lee Dolly Goober's. I'm like,

2424
02:11:59,760 --> 02:12:09,840
Speaker 1: I I legit. There we go. Goodness, gracious, okay, here

2425
02:12:09,920 --> 02:12:13,640
Speaker 1: we go. You just showed up at a great time, Sophia.

2426
02:12:14,720 --> 02:12:22,680
Speaker 1: All right, so, oh my goodness, Oh it's oh my gosh.

2427
02:12:23,600 --> 02:12:29,360
Speaker 1: John Bro screen printed little silk baggies.

2428
02:12:28,960 --> 02:12:30,640
Speaker 2: With worms so cute.

2429
02:12:34,400 --> 02:12:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeez, gimme he has the worm Queen Frind. Riley's worm

2430
02:12:40,040 --> 02:12:43,480
Speaker 1: has no it's a protein worm.

2431
02:12:43,800 --> 02:12:46,280
Speaker 2: It's a protein worm.

2432
02:12:47,520 --> 02:12:53,440
Speaker 1: That's that was all right? Here we go excited.

2433
02:12:54,440 --> 02:13:01,120
Speaker 2: I can't open Okay, okay, okay, okay, who's this from?

2434
02:13:02,640 --> 02:13:02,800
Speaker 4: Ah?

2435
02:13:02,920 --> 02:13:03,200
Speaker 1: This is.

2436
02:13:08,240 --> 02:13:10,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is wait hold on, I have

2437
02:13:11,000 --> 02:13:15,560
Speaker 2: to move my teeth. This is so cute. This one

2438
02:13:15,680 --> 02:13:18,120
Speaker 2: says I'm gonna give you all a minute for this.

2439
02:13:18,280 --> 02:13:23,040
Speaker 2: This one says, boss, bitch, can you see it?

2440
02:13:25,320 --> 02:13:26,640
Speaker 1: We don't say that word on the stream, so.

2441
02:13:26,680 --> 02:13:31,800
Speaker 2: I already said it. And then this is a really

2442
02:13:31,880 --> 02:13:33,760
Speaker 2: pretty I think it's a bracelet.

2443
02:13:34,400 --> 02:13:34,640
Speaker 1: Dude.

2444
02:13:34,680 --> 02:13:36,440
Speaker 5: That's so freaking fire.

2445
02:13:36,600 --> 02:13:38,840
Speaker 2: These are so cool. And then here's I believe this

2446
02:13:38,920 --> 02:13:40,600
Speaker 2: is a necklace, a beautiful necklace.

2447
02:13:43,000 --> 02:13:44,800
Speaker 1: I feel like they put they put Oh my gosh,

2448
02:13:44,880 --> 02:13:47,480
Speaker 1: this is so cool. I am literally going to put

2449
02:13:47,560 --> 02:13:51,800
Speaker 1: my leftover's food today back to my house in this

2450
02:13:51,960 --> 02:13:55,680
Speaker 1: because I have some wrinky tote bag. I'm gonna burn it.

2451
02:13:56,360 --> 02:13:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna burn it to the ground. This is great.

2452
02:14:00,160 --> 02:14:03,160
Speaker 1: All right, Riley, catch your catch your toe.

2453
02:14:04,360 --> 02:14:05,920
Speaker 5: Get to what the heck?

2454
02:14:07,200 --> 02:14:11,400
Speaker 1: What handmade with love? Dude? Who is this person? Okay,

2455
02:14:12,640 --> 02:14:24,440
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna I'm okay o praise little key

2456
02:14:24,520 --> 02:14:36,400
Speaker 1: chains and they're so cute. What yeah, Okay, I'm gonna

2457
02:14:36,440 --> 02:14:45,360
Speaker 1: try to okay, this was from uh huh and they

2458
02:14:45,440 --> 02:14:50,600
Speaker 1: put our uh another Sophie.

2459
02:14:52,880 --> 02:14:57,000
Speaker 2: Sophie D wait another Sophie D Yeah.

2460
02:14:57,640 --> 02:15:00,280
Speaker 1: You're a Sophia last time I checked? True?

2461
02:15:00,600 --> 02:15:01,160
Speaker 2: That is true?

2462
02:15:01,480 --> 02:15:08,720
Speaker 1: Misforgets her own name. Oh my gosh, wait was that? Yeah? Bro,

2463
02:15:10,480 --> 02:15:17,440
Speaker 1: that is a gorgeous necklace. Yeah. Just yeah, lift it, yeah,

2464
02:15:17,480 --> 02:15:23,680
Speaker 1: lifted up like you did. That is great. I love

2465
02:15:23,840 --> 02:15:27,480
Speaker 1: that stuff, dude. Oh and then there's okay, one final thing.

2466
02:15:27,480 --> 02:15:30,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put some stuff back in here, ladies and gentlemen,

2467
02:15:31,080 --> 02:15:37,680
Speaker 1: I do have one more fully loaded with all the

2468
02:15:37,720 --> 02:15:43,240
Speaker 1: stuff here. Okay, there is I'll spoil a little bit.

2469
02:15:43,240 --> 02:15:48,400
Speaker 1: It's a painting, pretty sure. Wow, Riley isn't Riley's not here?

2470
02:15:50,320 --> 02:15:53,120
Speaker 2: I put my bracelet onto Oh my god, it goes

2471
02:15:53,200 --> 02:15:55,160
Speaker 2: with my goes my other bracelet.

2472
02:15:56,560 --> 02:15:59,760
Speaker 1: Wow? Is that was that? Was that your bracelet or

2473
02:16:00,280 --> 02:16:02,840
Speaker 1: what the heart one?

2474
02:16:03,400 --> 02:16:03,560
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2475
02:16:03,600 --> 02:16:04,360
Speaker 2: That's mine bracelet.

2476
02:16:04,480 --> 02:16:08,760
Speaker 1: And then this one is so cute, so I'll well

2477
02:16:08,920 --> 02:16:10,080
Speaker 1: Riley here to reveal it.

2478
02:16:10,880 --> 02:16:14,360
Speaker 2: Oh, Riley, this is so here going on my keys,

2479
02:16:14,640 --> 02:16:16,000
Speaker 2: This is going on my key Jane.

2480
02:16:16,280 --> 02:16:20,800
Speaker 1: So This is the title of this artwork is Family

2481
02:16:21,600 --> 02:16:27,400
Speaker 1: twenty twenty four. I am just kind of waiting. Beautiful,

2482
02:16:27,440 --> 02:16:28,000
Speaker 1: awesome job.

2483
02:16:28,080 --> 02:16:30,440
Speaker 2: So fay, you did a fantastic job.

2484
02:16:30,640 --> 02:16:36,560
Speaker 1: Yes, that has a painting. Yeah, everything, everything she's made

2485
02:16:36,680 --> 02:16:41,560
Speaker 1: is like, yeah, incredible. I'm gonna use this tope like crazy. Okay,

2486
02:16:41,600 --> 02:16:43,840
Speaker 1: there you are all right. We have a final thing

2487
02:16:43,920 --> 02:16:46,000
Speaker 1: to reveal. I didn't want to reveal with that, So

2488
02:16:46,040 --> 02:16:46,760
Speaker 1: there's a letter.

2489
02:16:46,640 --> 02:16:48,720
Speaker 2: In the box to be to. We missed that.

2490
02:16:50,720 --> 02:16:51,480
Speaker 1: What is it? What have we got?

2491
02:16:51,520 --> 02:16:51,920
Speaker 5: What we got?

2492
02:16:52,959 --> 02:17:00,879
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, there saying where's the better.

2493
02:17:02,360 --> 02:17:05,160
Speaker 2: Letter? Drop it.

2494
02:17:06,800 --> 02:17:09,000
Speaker 1: Let's take a look at this this paint. We're gonna

2495
02:17:09,000 --> 02:17:14,240
Speaker 1: open a letter in the Its called Family twenty twenty four. Whoa,

2496
02:17:15,560 --> 02:17:19,120
Speaker 1: oh my god. Oh that's so cool. That super dope.

2497
02:17:19,560 --> 02:17:22,360
Speaker 1: Oh that is super super dope. I love it. I

2498
02:17:22,440 --> 02:17:25,320
Speaker 1: also love the name of it as family. Yeah, dude,

2499
02:17:26,840 --> 02:17:29,480
Speaker 1: what like this one makes me think of like a

2500
02:17:29,640 --> 02:17:36,560
Speaker 1: butterfly or like a caterpillar blooming into a butterfly. I'm

2501
02:17:36,640 --> 02:17:41,400
Speaker 1: very curious on what the like type of like paint.

2502
02:17:41,520 --> 02:17:45,800
Speaker 2: I'm not very well done. Great fantastic job. It's on

2503
02:17:46,000 --> 02:17:50,800
Speaker 2: the box, it says says people. It's it's on the box.

2504
02:17:51,560 --> 02:18:02,040
Speaker 1: It's not Oh I see I see h on the box.

2505
02:18:02,480 --> 02:18:07,200
Speaker 1: On the box, the box. Oh man, a Cobra operate

2506
02:18:09,560 --> 02:18:12,640
Speaker 1: like we had Sissy's somewhere else, right, you burnt yourself

2507
02:18:12,680 --> 02:18:12,880
Speaker 1: on what?

2508
02:18:13,120 --> 02:18:16,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god? I was like that really hurt.

2509
02:18:16,640 --> 02:18:19,360
Speaker 1: I was like, what what do you possibly have.

2510
02:18:19,560 --> 02:18:22,280
Speaker 2: To I've already burned my finger, my other fingers.

2511
02:18:22,320 --> 02:18:23,640
Speaker 1: You gotta be careful, you know. I've been wanting to

2512
02:18:23,680 --> 02:18:27,480
Speaker 1: get a like a temperature reader for t D.

2513
02:18:29,240 --> 02:18:31,120
Speaker 2: I love like burning hot tea, but just not have

2514
02:18:31,200 --> 02:18:32,000
Speaker 2: my fingers.

2515
02:18:33,520 --> 02:18:37,199
Speaker 1: Taste buds that that want to be burned. I am okay,

2516
02:18:37,320 --> 02:18:39,760
Speaker 1: Riley's getting some scissors. I'm like trying to do it,

2517
02:18:39,800 --> 02:18:43,199
Speaker 1: but I don't want to like actually rip the box

2518
02:18:44,360 --> 02:18:51,119
Speaker 1: box ripping. Yeah, to have that, Ah, oh my god.

2519
02:18:53,280 --> 02:18:55,240
Speaker 2: This is very exciting.

2520
02:19:00,959 --> 02:19:01,240
Speaker 1: Fife.

2521
02:19:02,760 --> 02:19:04,400
Speaker 2: WHOA what a knife?

2522
02:19:05,200 --> 02:19:05,320
Speaker 1: Right?

2523
02:19:06,000 --> 02:19:08,039
Speaker 2: I feel like you can't show that extreme.

2524
02:19:08,240 --> 02:19:10,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, down keeps cutting out.

2525
02:19:11,160 --> 02:19:11,879
Speaker 1: Okay, it's just.

2526
02:19:13,040 --> 02:19:14,520
Speaker 2: Well we should get a letter opener.

2527
02:19:15,000 --> 02:19:15,720
Speaker 5: I'm going to ask you.

2528
02:19:19,879 --> 02:19:21,119
Speaker 2: Just because we keep we're.

2529
02:19:21,040 --> 02:19:23,119
Speaker 1: So slow, did it say our Mike's keep cutting out?

2530
02:19:23,120 --> 02:19:25,800
Speaker 5: Oh no, no, it's it's fine. It's just we're not

2531
02:19:25,879 --> 02:19:26,879
Speaker 5: speaking directly.

2532
02:19:27,480 --> 02:19:29,240
Speaker 2: Ah ah, my bad.

2533
02:19:30,959 --> 02:19:35,800
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go an event. Oh my goodness, gracious, wow,

2534
02:19:36,600 --> 02:19:41,120
Speaker 1: they're great. A bunch of little here. You want to

2535
02:19:41,160 --> 02:19:42,840
Speaker 1: show them the things? Will I read it?

2536
02:19:44,040 --> 02:19:44,240
Speaker 2: Two?

2537
02:19:44,560 --> 02:19:44,680
Speaker 4: Oh?

2538
02:19:44,800 --> 02:19:50,720
Speaker 1: No, oh no, there we go two SOPHIEA, Sam, John

2539
02:19:50,760 --> 02:19:54,920
Speaker 1: and Riley. Greetings from Canaday. I am a long time

2540
02:19:55,000 --> 02:19:58,240
Speaker 1: yere and it has been a journey. Sophia, you have

2541
02:19:58,480 --> 02:20:06,080
Speaker 1: been the best influence on the boys tempering tempering there.

2542
02:20:06,600 --> 02:20:07,000
Speaker 2: This is a.

2543
02:20:07,320 --> 02:20:09,560
Speaker 1: Beautiful cursive that I'm struggling to read.

2544
02:20:09,600 --> 02:20:11,880
Speaker 2: We did get another letter that says hand letter to

2545
02:20:11,959 --> 02:20:12,400
Speaker 2: whoever you.

2546
02:20:12,440 --> 02:20:13,879
Speaker 1: Can read curs Sophia.

2547
02:20:15,400 --> 02:20:20,800
Speaker 5: Wait, you don't think I can readings from Canada.

2548
02:20:21,040 --> 02:20:24,320
Speaker 2: I am a longtime viewer and it has been a journey. Sophia,

2549
02:20:24,600 --> 02:20:27,680
Speaker 2: you have been the best influence on the boys tempering

2550
02:20:28,160 --> 02:20:33,520
Speaker 2: their Oh dang, that is rowdy. I believe it says

2551
02:20:33,600 --> 02:20:38,320
Speaker 2: rowdiness and encouraging their growth and maturity. Thank you they

2552
02:20:38,520 --> 02:20:42,760
Speaker 2: needed it lol. Riley, it has been incredible watching you

2553
02:20:42,959 --> 02:20:46,240
Speaker 2: fly by the seat of your pants into becoming an

2554
02:20:47,200 --> 02:20:53,160
Speaker 2: all editor plush, an ace editor plus producer. You are

2555
02:20:53,560 --> 02:20:57,199
Speaker 2: an inspiration, especially considering the dyslexia.

2556
02:20:58,000 --> 02:21:05,440
Speaker 1: Thanks dude, lexic producer on a reading podcast. Absolutely anyone that.

2557
02:21:05,480 --> 02:21:06,760
Speaker 2: You're breaking the glass ceiling.

2558
02:21:06,959 --> 02:21:07,760
Speaker 1: You can do anything.

2559
02:21:07,959 --> 02:21:11,959
Speaker 2: Yes, Sam and John. It has been an absolute pleasure

2560
02:21:12,160 --> 02:21:15,959
Speaker 2: watching you grow into the amazing men that you are today.

2561
02:21:17,080 --> 02:21:21,560
Speaker 2: Thank you for the endless laughs, I believe. Oh no,

2562
02:21:21,840 --> 02:21:26,360
Speaker 2: endless hours of entertainment. Sorry, I have spent every live

2563
02:21:26,440 --> 02:21:31,800
Speaker 2: stream that I catch working on my side hustle, art

2564
02:21:31,879 --> 02:21:38,000
Speaker 2: and decor to to oh and so sorry. So I've

2565
02:21:38,120 --> 02:21:41,320
Speaker 2: made some things for all of you as well. We

2566
02:21:41,480 --> 02:21:41,840
Speaker 2: love them.

2567
02:21:42,959 --> 02:21:47,200
Speaker 1: No free sponsors, tell me, tell me if Sophie, if

2568
02:21:47,200 --> 02:21:50,000
Speaker 1: you're watching, please share that in your business. We know it.

2569
02:21:50,080 --> 02:21:51,560
Speaker 1: Here we go, Okay, well we'll give it a shout

2570
02:21:51,560 --> 02:21:52,280
Speaker 1: at the end. Thank you.

2571
02:21:53,200 --> 02:21:56,280
Speaker 2: But if you love your gifts, please feel free to

2572
02:21:56,560 --> 02:21:59,800
Speaker 2: show my art on on socials. So show my art.

2573
02:21:59,840 --> 02:22:04,119
Speaker 2: So I've included a few business cards. Please enjoy everything

2574
02:22:04,240 --> 02:22:07,360
Speaker 2: and feel free to swap cheers to all of your

2575
02:22:07,680 --> 02:22:10,240
Speaker 2: beautiful all of you beautiful humans, all my love and

2576
02:22:10,280 --> 02:22:14,640
Speaker 2: appreciate appreciation. Sophie. PS, look at the bags and painting

2577
02:22:14,800 --> 02:22:20,160
Speaker 2: under black lights. You will not be disappointed under hidden messages,

2578
02:22:20,520 --> 02:22:24,840
Speaker 2: hidden black light in my in my room, go get it.

2579
02:22:25,360 --> 02:22:28,400
Speaker 1: Okay, it might be a discord reveal later but like,

2580
02:22:28,640 --> 02:22:34,120
Speaker 1: that's that's crazy, all right, guys. Uh, Sophie d R

2581
02:22:34,760 --> 02:22:37,720
Speaker 1: s O P h I E D E E D

2582
02:22:37,879 --> 02:22:41,320
Speaker 1: E E art please go check out Sophie. She did

2583
02:22:41,360 --> 02:22:45,280
Speaker 1: an incredible job with these. I'm absolutely floored. I also

2584
02:22:45,600 --> 02:22:46,400
Speaker 1: love the You.

2585
02:22:46,440 --> 02:22:49,160
Speaker 2: Can post the picture of the business card in the discord.

2586
02:22:49,360 --> 02:22:52,200
Speaker 1: There we go. Yes, and maybe I'll have Riley put

2587
02:22:52,240 --> 02:22:54,320
Speaker 1: it in the in the shots when he gets back.

2588
02:22:54,800 --> 02:22:59,960
Speaker 1: But Sophie d you absolutely crush this. You deserve the sponsor.

2589
02:23:00,440 --> 02:23:04,080
Speaker 1: Okay a fan who is like literally amazing, I will

2590
02:23:04,560 --> 02:23:08,800
Speaker 1: I will sponsor that all day. Okay. Yeah, and you

2591
02:23:08,879 --> 02:23:11,320
Speaker 1: did an INCREDI I love the color work on the

2592
02:23:11,680 --> 02:23:16,080
Speaker 1: The Eric color work is phenomenal.

2593
02:23:16,200 --> 02:23:16,600
Speaker 2: It's great.

2594
02:23:16,680 --> 02:23:18,160
Speaker 1: I really love it. I really.

2595
02:23:21,240 --> 02:23:21,920
Speaker 5: I can't find it.

2596
02:23:21,959 --> 02:23:24,520
Speaker 1: Sorry, that's okay, we'll do We'll do a discord of

2597
02:23:24,600 --> 02:23:26,400
Speaker 1: your old guys. Join the discord if you haven't already.

2598
02:23:26,440 --> 02:23:28,240
Speaker 1: It's in the in the description and linked.

2599
02:23:28,760 --> 02:23:32,400
Speaker 5: Don't have porn lighting in my room. I just okay,

2600
02:23:32,600 --> 02:23:34,480
Speaker 5: you know the real reason why I have black light

2601
02:23:34,600 --> 02:23:35,039
Speaker 5: in my room.

2602
02:23:35,080 --> 02:23:35,320
Speaker 1: Okay.

2603
02:23:35,560 --> 02:23:37,600
Speaker 5: I had an X and I was like, oh, excuse me,

2604
02:23:37,920 --> 02:23:40,000
Speaker 5: I've not even told anybody this. I was like, I'm

2605
02:23:40,000 --> 02:23:42,400
Speaker 5: gonna write hit messages to her, so you know in

2606
02:23:43,120 --> 02:23:46,800
Speaker 5: uh gravity falls whenever the nipper couldn't read some stuff. Yeah,

2607
02:23:47,160 --> 02:23:48,560
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm gonna do that. And then I

2608
02:23:48,600 --> 02:23:50,320
Speaker 5: got a black lighting and I got some stuff and

2609
02:23:50,360 --> 02:23:52,840
Speaker 5: I wrote in the journal. Well it didn't even work,

2610
02:23:52,959 --> 02:23:56,320
Speaker 5: and then I was out, like like twelve bucks. But

2611
02:23:56,879 --> 02:23:58,280
Speaker 5: it was what I was wanting to do, and I

2612
02:23:58,360 --> 02:24:00,640
Speaker 5: was like, oh, that'd be cool. But yeah, why black

2613
02:24:00,680 --> 02:24:02,160
Speaker 5: white y'all.

2614
02:24:02,240 --> 02:24:04,959
Speaker 2: Y'all are really killing it with the gifts today.

2615
02:24:05,080 --> 02:24:09,000
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely incredible. Riley, if you could shout out Sophie's

2616
02:24:09,120 --> 02:24:12,080
Speaker 1: handle in the in the shot, there's a little that

2617
02:24:12,160 --> 02:24:14,200
Speaker 1: little card that I dropped on your desk. Yeah, there

2618
02:24:14,240 --> 02:24:17,240
Speaker 1: you go. Big shout to Sophie. That was incredible. Was

2619
02:24:17,280 --> 02:24:20,840
Speaker 1: there another thing that we did that's a part of that.

2620
02:24:21,560 --> 02:24:23,160
Speaker 1: We did spend the whis spend the wheel, We got

2621
02:24:23,200 --> 02:24:26,040
Speaker 1: the mail and then meme memes. Let's look at a

2622
02:24:26,040 --> 02:24:28,960
Speaker 1: few memes and then get back to the stories. Big

2623
02:24:29,000 --> 02:24:32,640
Speaker 1: shout to you, Sophie. Oh my gosh, Sophie in the chat,

2624
02:24:32,680 --> 02:24:35,400
Speaker 1: by the way, have we I believe so? Yeah, Sophie, hooray,

2625
02:24:36,040 --> 02:24:37,960
Speaker 1: You're freaking awesome. What an incredible gift.

2626
02:24:38,200 --> 02:24:50,160
Speaker 5: Oh sorry, someone else's I promise it was nice.

2627
02:24:50,200 --> 02:24:59,480
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. John threw his back out. Who

2628
02:24:59,560 --> 02:25:01,320
Speaker 1: made this? Who do you think?

2629
02:25:03,720 --> 02:25:03,879
Speaker 6: Bro?

2630
02:25:05,200 --> 02:25:06,200
Speaker 1: That one legend?

2631
02:25:06,879 --> 02:25:08,280
Speaker 2: What? Who's the one?

2632
02:25:08,320 --> 02:25:08,520
Speaker 1: To me?

2633
02:25:09,320 --> 02:25:10,039
Speaker 2: What does that say?

2634
02:25:12,400 --> 02:25:16,880
Speaker 1: Your kid's mispronunciation of classmates? And my two year olds

2635
02:25:16,920 --> 02:25:19,560
Speaker 1: came home talking about his friend tape and it cracks

2636
02:25:19,600 --> 02:25:20,520
Speaker 1: me up every time that he.

2637
02:25:22,440 --> 02:25:24,000
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that happens to my brother.

2638
02:25:24,080 --> 02:25:25,400
Speaker 1: One time. That's so funny.

2639
02:25:25,520 --> 02:25:27,640
Speaker 5: The teacher was like, go get tape, and then it

2640
02:25:27,720 --> 02:25:29,920
Speaker 5: brought back tape and they were like, no, go back.

2641
02:25:30,280 --> 02:25:30,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

2642
02:25:31,320 --> 02:25:33,000
Speaker 5: Didney's okay? I saw these and I was like, oh

2643
02:25:33,040 --> 02:25:33,840
Speaker 5: my gosh, shouldn'ty no.

2644
02:25:33,879 --> 02:25:40,680
Speaker 1: But he's like, gracious, probably might not be able to

2645
02:25:40,760 --> 02:25:42,040
Speaker 1: go through all of these.

2646
02:25:43,440 --> 02:25:44,320
Speaker 5: We already read these.

2647
02:25:45,120 --> 02:25:48,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, where do we Where did we start? Daddy?

2648
02:25:48,160 --> 02:25:52,440
Speaker 1: Always pas, let's freaking go. That's the next one. He's

2649
02:25:52,520 --> 02:26:02,040
Speaker 1: a bee pad. I have warm this clean yep. The hive.

2650
02:26:03,160 --> 02:26:03,880
Speaker 1: That was a good one.

2651
02:26:05,160 --> 02:26:07,280
Speaker 5: All of our faces what a.

2652
02:26:07,280 --> 02:26:19,720
Speaker 1: Screen pigeon boy, dude, They like AI s face yeo slabs,

2653
02:26:20,600 --> 02:26:22,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, and I love love it.

2654
02:26:23,280 --> 02:26:27,640
Speaker 5: Oh yeah. When the gold pole thing broke sev the

2655
02:26:27,640 --> 02:26:28,040
Speaker 5: a hole.

2656
02:26:31,560 --> 02:26:38,640
Speaker 1: Love it exact. I'm wearing the same shirt too. That's amazing.

2657
02:26:39,400 --> 02:26:41,640
Speaker 1: That's amazing. A do another one?

2658
02:26:42,160 --> 02:26:46,080
Speaker 2: He all, Yo, that's so cute.

2659
02:26:46,200 --> 02:26:48,560
Speaker 1: Also, I'm so glad that we've all finally got our

2660
02:26:48,600 --> 02:26:52,800
Speaker 1: own emoji things. Yeah, that's great, our own characters. Oh

2661
02:26:53,360 --> 02:26:55,440
Speaker 1: you know what would be so sick. We need to

2662
02:26:55,520 --> 02:26:57,800
Speaker 1: like go crazy on Facebook and stuff so we can

2663
02:26:57,920 --> 02:27:01,880
Speaker 1: just like get mascot costume for each of us, just

2664
02:27:02,000 --> 02:27:03,680
Speaker 1: like an absorbiti masko.

2665
02:27:04,879 --> 02:27:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, we spend all of the money that we get.

2666
02:27:07,320 --> 02:27:09,840
Speaker 1: It will probably be massively expensive, but we just got

2667
02:27:09,959 --> 02:27:12,800
Speaker 1: to go crazy, make stupid purchase like that.

2668
02:27:13,360 --> 02:27:16,360
Speaker 2: I like dresses the like Heidi Klum worm have you

2669
02:27:16,440 --> 02:27:18,920
Speaker 2: seen that? We have to look it up. You have

2670
02:27:19,040 --> 02:27:23,680
Speaker 2: to see this. Wow wow wow wo wow wow wow wow.

2671
02:27:24,920 --> 02:27:41,920
Speaker 1: Adhd classic yea strong dude. That's funny. Wait, so there's

2672
02:27:41,959 --> 02:27:44,920
Speaker 1: a worm of Sophia's head on it. Riley saying, let's

2673
02:27:44,959 --> 02:27:49,360
Speaker 1: go and is that me writing that's so funny? God,

2674
02:27:51,840 --> 02:27:57,520
Speaker 1: she's bored with it. Maybe it's undisclosed company sponsors. That's good,

2675
02:27:58,200 --> 02:27:59,560
Speaker 1: that's good, that's good.

2676
02:28:00,080 --> 02:28:00,720
Speaker 5: I know we're late.

2677
02:28:00,840 --> 02:28:03,800
Speaker 7: Oh my god, oh man, we're gon We're gonna get

2678
02:28:03,800 --> 02:28:06,920
Speaker 7: back to it here in a second. John, whenever you

2679
02:28:07,000 --> 02:28:09,520
Speaker 7: were out for the day, we were all laughing about it.

2680
02:28:10,040 --> 02:28:13,000
Speaker 7: What what is what is that in the hospital? You're

2681
02:28:13,160 --> 02:28:13,840
Speaker 7: broken back?

2682
02:28:16,320 --> 02:28:20,280
Speaker 1: That's good, that's good. Oh wait wait Riley, Bob the builder,

2683
02:28:20,640 --> 02:28:24,840
Speaker 1: that's pretty great. Yeah. They were like, wait is that you?

2684
02:28:25,600 --> 02:28:27,360
Speaker 2: Yeah? That did they do that?

2685
02:28:28,320 --> 02:28:30,320
Speaker 5: They are working hard?

2686
02:28:30,360 --> 02:28:30,440
Speaker 1: Oh?

2687
02:28:30,520 --> 02:28:32,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was working hard on getting the stream ready?

2688
02:28:32,600 --> 02:28:33,119
Speaker 1: Oh true?

2689
02:28:33,440 --> 02:28:33,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

2690
02:28:33,920 --> 02:28:37,960
Speaker 1: Alrighty, all right, it's the memes. That's the memes, ladies, gentlemen,

2691
02:28:39,240 --> 02:28:45,480
Speaker 1: double wheel Jeopardy. I feel like it's Sophie to read

2692
02:28:45,520 --> 02:28:50,200
Speaker 1: a story. Yeah, I just realized we're striped out today.

2693
02:28:50,879 --> 02:28:51,680
Speaker 1: Ripe gang, let's go.

2694
02:28:59,560 --> 02:29:06,680
Speaker 2: I'm looking for it, floating, it's sluting.

2695
02:29:08,120 --> 02:29:10,240
Speaker 5: Sorry, I'm not talking to your.

2696
02:29:11,520 --> 02:29:15,720
Speaker 1: Talking. His protein's out there, little protein.

2697
02:29:16,560 --> 02:29:20,240
Speaker 5: I've seen you people in Discord being little proteins. Ready

2698
02:29:20,600 --> 02:29:22,600
Speaker 5: all she's.

2699
02:29:24,200 --> 02:29:27,160
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for canceling the surprise party

2700
02:29:27,240 --> 02:29:29,440
Speaker 2: My mom was planning for my birthday?

2701
02:29:30,920 --> 02:29:31,120
Speaker 1: Do it?

2702
02:29:31,560 --> 02:29:36,000
Speaker 2: This is you cancel it if it was a surprise? Sorry?

2703
02:29:36,040 --> 02:29:36,680
Speaker 2: What did you say?

2704
02:29:37,000 --> 02:29:38,320
Speaker 5: Our social pop? I'm sorry?

2705
02:29:38,840 --> 02:29:46,760
Speaker 2: Know this fine, Sophia, it's our very own. It's one

2706
02:29:46,800 --> 02:29:47,440
Speaker 2: of our own.

2707
02:29:48,680 --> 02:29:51,160
Speaker 1: Where do they go? Where did they come from to

2708
02:29:51,240 --> 02:29:58,200
Speaker 1: submit their own stories? Yeah, you got this.

2709
02:29:59,240 --> 02:30:04,119
Speaker 2: They go to our oh slash okop show, number twenty

2710
02:30:04,280 --> 02:30:06,840
Speaker 2: four of all reddit shows on Reddit.

2711
02:30:07,040 --> 02:30:12,520
Speaker 1: That's right, go there, submit your stories or discord or

2712
02:30:12,640 --> 02:30:15,480
Speaker 1: discord cut them in. All right, what do we got?

2713
02:30:16,840 --> 02:30:17,280
Speaker 4: All right?

2714
02:30:17,640 --> 02:30:22,000
Speaker 2: All right, So hippie Pixie Rocker says, I'm turning thirty

2715
02:30:22,040 --> 02:30:26,279
Speaker 2: four in June. Congratulations. I have two kids eleven thirteen

2716
02:30:26,320 --> 02:30:29,920
Speaker 2: who live with my parents. For some context, when my

2717
02:30:30,040 --> 02:30:32,560
Speaker 2: kids were young, I fell into a very bad depression.

2718
02:30:33,240 --> 02:30:35,560
Speaker 2: My parents' idea of the helping was to take custody

2719
02:30:35,600 --> 02:30:37,800
Speaker 2: of the kids until I was on my feet again.

2720
02:30:38,360 --> 02:30:41,480
Speaker 2: In my weakest and most vulnerable state of mind, I

2721
02:30:41,640 --> 02:30:44,600
Speaker 2: agreed to give custody to my parents if it was

2722
02:30:44,680 --> 02:30:48,840
Speaker 2: for my kids well being. However, every time I broached

2723
02:30:48,879 --> 02:30:51,640
Speaker 2: the subject of getting custody back, I was met with

2724
02:30:51,720 --> 02:30:54,600
Speaker 2: a battle. I was told that I had no understanding

2725
02:30:54,640 --> 02:30:56,320
Speaker 2: of how hard it is to be a mom, I

2726
02:30:56,400 --> 02:30:58,440
Speaker 2: don't know how to raise a child, I don't know

2727
02:30:58,520 --> 02:31:01,480
Speaker 2: how expensive it is to raise it child, etc. I

2728
02:31:01,640 --> 02:31:03,720
Speaker 2: was also told that if I took custody back, I

2729
02:31:03,760 --> 02:31:07,359
Speaker 2: would destroy my parents' marriage and potentially cause my father's

2730
02:31:08,120 --> 02:31:12,160
Speaker 2: to end his life. They make it almost impossible for

2731
02:31:12,280 --> 02:31:14,920
Speaker 2: me to see the kids regularly, but at the same time,

2732
02:31:15,080 --> 02:31:18,560
Speaker 2: I'm told I'm not trying hard enough. Recently, my boyfriend

2733
02:31:18,600 --> 02:31:20,720
Speaker 2: and I decided to go to church with my parents

2734
02:31:20,760 --> 02:31:23,800
Speaker 2: and kids, thinking it would please my parents and give

2735
02:31:23,840 --> 02:31:27,680
Speaker 2: me some time with my kids. Instead, my father guilt

2736
02:31:27,680 --> 02:31:30,680
Speaker 2: triped my oldest, telling her we had plans to go

2737
02:31:30,800 --> 02:31:33,160
Speaker 2: to the zoo, but you're gonna ditch me for your mom,

2738
02:31:33,360 --> 02:31:35,440
Speaker 2: so whatever, But if you want to go to the

2739
02:31:35,520 --> 02:31:38,400
Speaker 2: zoo with me, that'd be cool. These parents do not

2740
02:31:38,480 --> 02:31:42,000
Speaker 2: seem nice, apparently not. On the contrary, my eccent, his

2741
02:31:42,120 --> 02:31:44,960
Speaker 2: parents have absolutely no problem getting to see the kids,

2742
02:31:45,200 --> 02:31:48,320
Speaker 2: despite the fact that they lived four hours away. All

2743
02:31:48,440 --> 02:31:50,440
Speaker 2: they have to say is when, and my mom will

2744
02:31:50,520 --> 02:31:53,119
Speaker 2: move heaven and earth to make it happen, even if

2745
02:31:53,160 --> 02:31:55,760
Speaker 2: my kids expressly tell them they don't want to go.

2746
02:31:57,240 --> 02:31:59,160
Speaker 2: A few weeks ago, my mom and I were texting.

2747
02:31:59,560 --> 02:32:01,920
Speaker 2: I felt really happy and relieved that we seemed to

2748
02:32:01,959 --> 02:32:05,400
Speaker 2: be making progress in our relationship. That's when she informed

2749
02:32:05,440 --> 02:32:07,640
Speaker 2: me that the girls would be going to their grandparents'

2750
02:32:07,680 --> 02:32:10,880
Speaker 2: house the first week of June. I simply replied that

2751
02:32:11,000 --> 02:32:13,720
Speaker 2: my birthday is the first week of June. My mom

2752
02:32:13,800 --> 02:32:17,160
Speaker 2: admitted that she didn't even consider that. In the moment,

2753
02:32:17,320 --> 02:32:19,600
Speaker 2: she acted as if her hands were tied, and that

2754
02:32:19,680 --> 02:32:23,000
Speaker 2: she was helpless in this situation because plans had already

2755
02:32:23,040 --> 02:32:23,400
Speaker 2: been made.

2756
02:32:23,760 --> 02:32:24,760
Speaker 1: Plans are plans.

2757
02:32:25,200 --> 02:32:25,760
Speaker 2: You can't do it.

2758
02:32:25,760 --> 02:32:28,000
Speaker 1: It's not like your birthday is the same date every year,

2759
02:32:28,040 --> 02:32:29,080
Speaker 1: and I know it's going to happen.

2760
02:32:29,240 --> 02:32:33,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't even consider your birthday, wouldn't change dates.

2761
02:32:33,560 --> 02:32:34,360
Speaker 1: Didn't even think about it.

2762
02:32:34,560 --> 02:32:37,199
Speaker 2: A few days later, she messaged me with an apology.

2763
02:32:37,840 --> 02:32:39,760
Speaker 2: She said she asked the kids and they both said

2764
02:32:39,760 --> 02:32:42,279
Speaker 2: they wanted to be here for my birthday. She planned

2765
02:32:42,320 --> 02:32:44,960
Speaker 2: on messaging their grandma and changing plans so the kids

2766
02:32:45,000 --> 02:32:47,760
Speaker 2: could spend my birthday with me. I was over the moon.

2767
02:32:48,400 --> 02:32:50,960
Speaker 2: Not only had she realized where she went wrong and

2768
02:32:51,080 --> 02:32:53,480
Speaker 2: how she hurt my feelings, but she was trying to

2769
02:32:53,520 --> 02:32:56,640
Speaker 2: fix it and make it right. My heart was about

2770
02:32:56,680 --> 02:33:01,120
Speaker 2: to explode. She recently messaged me informing the informing me

2771
02:33:01,280 --> 02:33:03,680
Speaker 2: that she was planning a surprise party for me on

2772
02:33:03,840 --> 02:33:10,640
Speaker 2: May twenty fifth. I don't know if that is exactly

2773
02:33:10,680 --> 02:33:14,240
Speaker 2: how a surprise party works. She then asked if i'd

2774
02:33:14,280 --> 02:33:17,360
Speaker 2: be offended if she made a specialty cocktail named after

2775
02:33:17,560 --> 02:33:19,959
Speaker 2: an offensive nickname they gave me growing up.

2776
02:33:24,879 --> 02:33:29,199
Speaker 5: Oh god, dude, what they called John's Old Fashion?

2777
02:33:30,000 --> 02:33:30,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

2778
02:33:31,080 --> 02:33:31,320
Speaker 1: Nice.

2779
02:33:34,920 --> 02:33:38,840
Speaker 2: Instead of trying to explain to her the subtleties of

2780
02:33:38,920 --> 02:33:42,480
Speaker 2: a surprise party, I just simply asked why the twenty

2781
02:33:42,520 --> 02:33:45,840
Speaker 2: fifth my birthday is June fourth. She explained that the

2782
02:33:45,920 --> 02:33:48,640
Speaker 2: girls would be out of state for my birthday. When

2783
02:33:48,640 --> 02:33:50,800
Speaker 2: I asked her what happened to changing the plans, she

2784
02:33:50,920 --> 02:33:53,480
Speaker 2: informed me that the kid's grandma had gone through a

2785
02:33:53,520 --> 02:33:56,000
Speaker 2: lot of effort to change plans because the girls don't

2786
02:33:56,000 --> 02:33:58,880
Speaker 2: want to go to the beach. I told her that

2787
02:33:58,959 --> 02:34:01,279
Speaker 2: I don't want a party. I explained that I'm tired

2788
02:34:01,360 --> 02:34:04,440
Speaker 2: of her empty promises and lack of follow through. I'm

2789
02:34:04,520 --> 02:34:07,160
Speaker 2: sick and tired of my feelings getting overlooked and my

2790
02:34:07,360 --> 02:34:09,320
Speaker 2: kids getting shipped off for a week or two at

2791
02:34:09,360 --> 02:34:12,160
Speaker 2: a time at the whim of grandparents who barely even

2792
02:34:12,200 --> 02:34:15,400
Speaker 2: pay attention to them while they're with them. My boyfriend

2793
02:34:15,440 --> 02:34:17,240
Speaker 2: and I plan on taking the kids out for my

2794
02:34:17,320 --> 02:34:20,320
Speaker 2: birthday after they get back, but I have absolutely no

2795
02:34:20,560 --> 02:34:23,640
Speaker 2: interest in spending a second of my birthday with either

2796
02:34:23,760 --> 02:34:26,440
Speaker 2: of my parents. I realize I could have been a

2797
02:34:26,480 --> 02:34:29,240
Speaker 2: bit more civilized in how I handle the situation. But

2798
02:34:29,440 --> 02:34:31,440
Speaker 2: am I the a hole for more or less telling

2799
02:34:31,480 --> 02:34:34,320
Speaker 2: my mom to take her party and shove it. And

2800
02:34:34,400 --> 02:34:39,640
Speaker 2: there is an edit and I believe no, yeah edit.

2801
02:34:41,840 --> 02:34:43,280
Speaker 1: Can I get a feel there? Yes.

2802
02:34:43,720 --> 02:34:48,240
Speaker 2: So Opi was going through a very hard time in

2803
02:34:48,480 --> 02:34:51,879
Speaker 2: her life and her parents convinced her to give up

2804
02:34:51,959 --> 02:34:57,240
Speaker 2: custody of her children, and Opi has tried multiple times

2805
02:34:57,320 --> 02:35:00,160
Speaker 2: to get that custody back. When she got that, he

2806
02:35:00,360 --> 02:35:05,240
Speaker 2: and Denoa vail. And now her birthday is coming up,

2807
02:35:05,520 --> 02:35:09,119
Speaker 2: and she talked to her mom about having her kids

2808
02:35:09,160 --> 02:35:11,400
Speaker 2: come over for her birthday and her mom was like, no,

2809
02:35:11,440 --> 02:35:15,240
Speaker 2: they're busy. And then her mom came back and was like, actually,

2810
02:35:15,280 --> 02:35:17,760
Speaker 2: I'm planning surprise party and your kids will be there,

2811
02:35:18,400 --> 02:35:20,879
Speaker 2: and now has not followed through with that and says

2812
02:35:20,959 --> 02:35:24,920
Speaker 2: the kids won't be there, and so Opi says that

2813
02:35:25,240 --> 02:35:27,200
Speaker 2: she does not want to see her mom on her

2814
02:35:27,280 --> 02:35:29,800
Speaker 2: birthday at all because of this lack of fall.

2815
02:35:29,680 --> 02:35:32,240
Speaker 1: Through the fact that like number one is just like

2816
02:35:33,040 --> 02:35:35,240
Speaker 1: sad but hilarious that she was like, Oh, I'm going

2817
02:35:35,320 --> 02:35:37,320
Speaker 1: to throw a surprise party for you, and.

2818
02:35:37,440 --> 02:35:39,039
Speaker 2: Then truly defeating purple.

2819
02:35:39,120 --> 02:35:41,920
Speaker 1: Wait a second, the surprise was that she was never

2820
02:35:42,000 --> 02:35:43,240
Speaker 1: going to throw a party for.

2821
02:35:44,160 --> 02:35:48,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was surprising because there was no party.

2822
02:35:48,760 --> 02:35:52,920
Speaker 1: Wow. I know, these are how insane that like, but

2823
02:35:53,000 --> 02:35:57,680
Speaker 1: I guess this does sometimes happen. How insane is it

2824
02:35:57,800 --> 02:36:01,640
Speaker 1: that she's like seemingly like a much better parent to

2825
02:36:01,760 --> 02:36:05,760
Speaker 1: the grandkids than she is to her own daughter. Yeah,

2826
02:36:06,480 --> 02:36:12,240
Speaker 1: that that's the practice kids. Yeah, your own kids. Forget

2827
02:36:12,280 --> 02:36:14,760
Speaker 1: a practice family. Sam's gold rules aside. Let's let's put

2828
02:36:14,760 --> 02:36:19,040
Speaker 1: that to the side. Practice family. No, your kids are

2829
02:36:19,080 --> 02:36:22,120
Speaker 1: the practice kids, and then you perfect it on the

2830
02:36:22,200 --> 02:36:22,680
Speaker 1: grand kids.

2831
02:36:23,200 --> 02:36:23,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2832
02:36:24,520 --> 02:36:27,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well I don't even know if she's necessarily perfected it,

2833
02:36:27,720 --> 02:36:30,720
Speaker 2: because it seems like she's not really listening to the

2834
02:36:30,840 --> 02:36:33,720
Speaker 2: kids at all at all, literally like, oh, your other

2835
02:36:33,800 --> 02:36:34,600
Speaker 2: grandma wants you.

2836
02:36:35,280 --> 02:36:41,200
Speaker 1: It's so insane that she is like basically holding the

2837
02:36:41,280 --> 02:36:44,840
Speaker 1: kids away from her. I wonder if that's a I

2838
02:36:44,920 --> 02:36:49,920
Speaker 1: guess maybe it's legal because she dined over like guard transfer.

2839
02:36:51,160 --> 02:36:52,800
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that is.

2840
02:36:54,400 --> 02:36:56,680
Speaker 1: Hm hmm yeah crazy.

2841
02:36:57,600 --> 02:37:00,280
Speaker 2: I I I understand why in the moment would have

2842
02:37:00,320 --> 02:37:03,160
Speaker 2: done that. But yeah, for her parents to not even

2843
02:37:03,320 --> 02:37:07,880
Speaker 2: like try and help her have her kids back I

2844
02:37:08,520 --> 02:37:11,560
Speaker 2: or like not even try to reconnect that totally.

2845
02:37:12,120 --> 02:37:16,440
Speaker 1: Like it's one thing, like, hey, life is getting really crazy,

2846
02:37:17,000 --> 02:37:19,080
Speaker 1: taking care of the kids to help her, like, you know,

2847
02:37:19,280 --> 02:37:22,120
Speaker 1: get back to a stable place, get her footing, and

2848
02:37:22,200 --> 02:37:24,920
Speaker 1: then you know, bring the kids back. But during that time,

2849
02:37:25,000 --> 02:37:28,880
Speaker 1: it's like, why not let the kids see their own mother? Yeah,

2850
02:37:29,000 --> 02:37:34,080
Speaker 1: like just if anything that would be extremely beneficial to

2851
02:37:34,160 --> 02:37:35,519
Speaker 1: the kids, I would imagine.

2852
02:37:35,160 --> 02:37:39,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, but there isn't. Edit. Oh my god, I want

2853
02:37:39,120 --> 02:37:41,720
Speaker 2: to clear up a lot of things my parents want.

2854
02:37:42,080 --> 02:37:45,480
Speaker 2: My parents aren't perfect, but they aren't monsters either. I'm

2855
02:37:45,520 --> 02:37:47,520
Speaker 2: not trying to make excuses for them, but I do

2856
02:37:47,720 --> 02:37:50,880
Speaker 2: feel like, out of anger and frustration, I painted them

2857
02:37:51,000 --> 02:37:54,040
Speaker 2: in a harsher light than was necessary. My dad is

2858
02:37:54,200 --> 02:37:57,320
Speaker 2: absolutely a narcissist, but he's going to therapy and is

2859
02:37:57,600 --> 02:38:00,879
Speaker 2: working on it. My mom is a people who's dealt

2860
02:38:00,920 --> 02:38:03,920
Speaker 2: with mental, emotional and physical abuse since she was little.

2861
02:38:04,480 --> 02:38:07,320
Speaker 2: My parents tend to gaslight and manipulate their kids and

2862
02:38:07,360 --> 02:38:11,240
Speaker 2: grandkids because that's what they grew up experiencing. My sisters

2863
02:38:11,280 --> 02:38:13,520
Speaker 2: and I have been fighting for years to break these

2864
02:38:13,600 --> 02:38:16,960
Speaker 2: habits in my parents, and they're slowly coming to their

2865
02:38:17,040 --> 02:38:20,879
Speaker 2: senses and acknowledging the error of their ways. Number two.

2866
02:38:21,640 --> 02:38:25,039
Speaker 2: I have epilepsy and manic depression. When the girls were

2867
02:38:25,080 --> 02:38:26,840
Speaker 2: two and four, I was suffering from a lot of

2868
02:38:26,920 --> 02:38:30,080
Speaker 2: seizures as well as severe depression that was made even

2869
02:38:30,160 --> 02:38:34,120
Speaker 2: worse by postpartum depression. I was having where I was

2870
02:38:34,200 --> 02:38:36,360
Speaker 2: wanting to end my life. I didn't want to die.

2871
02:38:36,720 --> 02:38:39,280
Speaker 2: I just didn't want to hurt anyone. I told my mom,

2872
02:38:39,480 --> 02:38:42,400
Speaker 2: this is the middle of a mental breakdown. Oh, I

2873
02:38:42,560 --> 02:38:44,840
Speaker 2: told my mom this in the middle of a mental breakdown.

2874
02:38:45,320 --> 02:38:48,960
Speaker 2: My parents' solution was to take temporary custody. They told

2875
02:38:49,000 --> 02:38:50,960
Speaker 2: me what was best for the girls, and it was

2876
02:38:51,040 --> 02:38:53,960
Speaker 2: the greatest decision I could make for them. It was

2877
02:38:54,040 --> 02:38:56,920
Speaker 2: hesitant and reluctant, but I knew I was failing my

2878
02:38:57,080 --> 02:38:59,240
Speaker 2: kids and I didn't feel like a good mom, so

2879
02:38:59,520 --> 02:39:02,800
Speaker 2: I agree. Once I pulled myself together and got back

2880
02:39:02,840 --> 02:39:05,320
Speaker 2: on my feet, I broched the topic of getting the

2881
02:39:05,400 --> 02:39:08,120
Speaker 2: girls back with my mom, and at each turn I

2882
02:39:08,280 --> 02:39:11,280
Speaker 2: was told that I wasn't better enough. I had to

2883
02:39:11,360 --> 02:39:13,840
Speaker 2: do more to prove that I could handle taking them back.

2884
02:39:14,320 --> 02:39:16,680
Speaker 2: At the time, I thought I simply wasn't good enough. Now,

2885
02:39:16,760 --> 02:39:22,080
Speaker 2: looking back, I realize that was gaslighting number three. I

2886
02:39:22,240 --> 02:39:24,800
Speaker 2: want custody back, but I don't want to disrupt my

2887
02:39:24,879 --> 02:39:29,080
Speaker 2: kid's entire lives. I've had multiple age appropriate conversations with

2888
02:39:29,200 --> 02:39:31,160
Speaker 2: both kids about if they'd want to live with me

2889
02:39:31,320 --> 02:39:33,840
Speaker 2: or not. They told me their concerns and I weighed

2890
02:39:33,879 --> 02:39:37,000
Speaker 2: the options. Right now, as things stand, it is not

2891
02:39:37,240 --> 02:39:40,879
Speaker 2: in their best interest to take custody back. The oldest

2892
02:39:40,920 --> 02:39:43,720
Speaker 2: can see my parents for who they are, broken adults

2893
02:39:43,720 --> 02:39:46,240
Speaker 2: who never learned to deal with their emotions. She will

2894
02:39:46,280 --> 02:39:48,680
Speaker 2: come to me at times and say things like Nana's

2895
02:39:48,680 --> 02:39:52,120
Speaker 2: trying to gaslight me again, or Papa is such a narcissist.

2896
02:39:52,640 --> 02:39:55,119
Speaker 2: We'll have a conversation about what's going on, and she's

2897
02:39:55,440 --> 02:39:58,520
Speaker 2: usually good. Afterwards, I'll ask her if she wants me

2898
02:39:58,600 --> 02:40:01,360
Speaker 2: to get involved or if she needed to vent, and

2899
02:40:01,520 --> 02:40:04,640
Speaker 2: whatever she asked me to do is what I ended

2900
02:40:04,720 --> 02:40:07,560
Speaker 2: up doing. She knows she has somewhere safe to go

2901
02:40:07,720 --> 02:40:10,320
Speaker 2: if she needs it, and she has somewhere to someone

2902
02:40:10,360 --> 02:40:13,560
Speaker 2: to talk to and confide in who wants oh in

2903
02:40:14,240 --> 02:40:17,640
Speaker 2: who wants to judge her, oh who does not want

2904
02:40:17,680 --> 02:40:20,680
Speaker 2: to judge her or use it against her later? And

2905
02:40:20,760 --> 02:40:22,520
Speaker 2: there is more. But we can take a little break

2906
02:40:22,520 --> 02:40:26,960
Speaker 2: because there's a lot. Yeah. I think a lot of

2907
02:40:27,000 --> 02:40:28,760
Speaker 2: people in the chat were kind of saying, well, what

2908
02:40:28,840 --> 02:40:30,720
Speaker 2: if OP was in the wrong, and like, what if

2909
02:40:30,760 --> 02:40:32,879
Speaker 2: there was you know, something that we're not.

2910
02:40:33,080 --> 02:40:36,440
Speaker 1: Hearing totally because it's from it's from and we can

2911
02:40:36,520 --> 02:40:37,039
Speaker 1: only take.

2912
02:40:37,000 --> 02:40:41,280
Speaker 2: What we're you know, we're told and from what we know.

2913
02:40:41,800 --> 02:40:45,200
Speaker 2: I think it does seem like Op he probably, yeah,

2914
02:40:45,440 --> 02:40:47,440
Speaker 2: was dealing with a lot in the past, and it

2915
02:40:47,520 --> 02:40:52,320
Speaker 2: probably was a good decision to give custody temporarily, but

2916
02:40:52,440 --> 02:40:56,440
Speaker 2: it now seems like the parents are used to having

2917
02:40:56,520 --> 02:40:57,160
Speaker 2: that control.

2918
02:40:57,840 --> 02:40:58,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and.

2919
02:40:59,840 --> 02:41:02,640
Speaker 2: Our yeah, our gas lighting a little bit or a

2920
02:41:02,720 --> 02:41:03,040
Speaker 2: lot of it.

2921
02:41:03,400 --> 02:41:06,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, two things can be yeah qu quote unuote right.

2922
02:41:06,000 --> 02:41:07,600
Speaker 1: At the same time, it could have been that, Yes,

2923
02:41:07,720 --> 02:41:10,680
Speaker 1: in that moment, it actually was the right decision. So

2924
02:41:10,760 --> 02:41:12,560
Speaker 1: that way they could, you know, go with the grandparents,

2925
02:41:12,959 --> 02:41:17,440
Speaker 1: give give OP some some time time and space to

2926
02:41:18,280 --> 02:41:21,280
Speaker 1: work on everything. And then now at this point where

2927
02:41:21,320 --> 02:41:24,120
Speaker 1: OPI has had the time and space, now they're like

2928
02:41:24,520 --> 02:41:27,920
Speaker 1: just like hoarding the kids basically, and Ops like, well,

2929
02:41:28,000 --> 02:41:30,280
Speaker 1: I want to I want to see my children. I'm

2930
02:41:30,280 --> 02:41:32,360
Speaker 1: in a much better place. I think it'd be a

2931
02:41:32,480 --> 02:41:35,120
Speaker 1: win all around. Yeah, And then they're not letting her

2932
02:41:35,240 --> 02:41:36,600
Speaker 1: do that. But but that is a good point. We

2933
02:41:36,760 --> 02:41:41,000
Speaker 1: really we really only know what yes, we are are told,

2934
02:41:41,080 --> 02:41:44,960
Speaker 1: and there's there's definitely been very very rarely. Actually we'll

2935
02:41:45,000 --> 02:41:49,640
Speaker 1: get uh stories uh from from one person and then

2936
02:41:49,720 --> 02:41:52,879
Speaker 1: the other people they're talking about, yeah, in the updates,

2937
02:41:52,920 --> 02:41:54,520
Speaker 1: and that I a would say those are the times

2938
02:41:55,000 --> 02:41:58,240
Speaker 1: where we actually get a much clearer perspective onlike but

2939
02:41:58,720 --> 02:42:01,400
Speaker 1: which we do we happened this one probably.

2940
02:42:01,200 --> 02:42:05,000
Speaker 2: I don't believe so, But Giant's milk was asking how

2941
02:42:05,080 --> 02:42:09,400
Speaker 2: old the child was who asked about like, who said

2942
02:42:09,640 --> 02:42:14,840
Speaker 2: Papa's a narcissist? They're thirteen, which I think kids, And honestly,

2943
02:42:15,040 --> 02:42:17,080
Speaker 2: I think it's not even I mean, they could be

2944
02:42:17,280 --> 02:42:22,199
Speaker 2: very smart. But I think also with technology, gas lighting

2945
02:42:22,800 --> 02:42:27,800
Speaker 2: and narcissists are like terms that are thrown around a lot. Yeah, yeah,

2946
02:42:27,800 --> 02:42:29,840
Speaker 2: so I feel like it's not it's not out of

2947
02:42:30,640 --> 02:42:31,280
Speaker 2: They might be.

2948
02:42:31,720 --> 02:42:34,480
Speaker 1: Using the word because it's like, yeah, come across them, and.

2949
02:42:34,520 --> 02:42:37,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, they might not necessarily know exactly what narcisses mean.

2950
02:42:37,760 --> 02:42:42,440
Speaker 1: Is their grandfather yes, right, yeah right, But there's a

2951
02:42:42,480 --> 02:42:44,000
Speaker 1: little bit more of this story.

2952
02:42:44,320 --> 02:42:49,560
Speaker 2: Who I've asked her if she wants to come and

2953
02:42:49,600 --> 02:42:51,800
Speaker 2: live with me, and she tells me one day but

2954
02:42:51,959 --> 02:42:55,039
Speaker 2: not yet. The younger one is still in my dad's pocket.

2955
02:42:55,280 --> 02:42:57,600
Speaker 2: She's the golden child. She can do no wrong in

2956
02:42:57,720 --> 02:42:59,960
Speaker 2: my dad's eyes. I've asked her as well if she

2957
02:43:00,080 --> 02:43:02,320
Speaker 2: wanted to come live with me, and again she says yes,

2958
02:43:02,520 --> 02:43:05,400
Speaker 2: but not right now. If they were in some grave

2959
02:43:05,600 --> 02:43:08,680
Speaker 2: mortal danger or something. If my parents were being physically

2960
02:43:08,720 --> 02:43:12,160
Speaker 2: abusive or creating an overly toxic environment for them, I

2961
02:43:12,200 --> 02:43:15,000
Speaker 2: would take custody back in an instant. I have told

2962
02:43:15,080 --> 02:43:18,320
Speaker 2: my mom multiple times if they don't change certain things

2963
02:43:18,360 --> 02:43:21,280
Speaker 2: about their behavior, I will be at their doorstep with

2964
02:43:21,480 --> 02:43:23,600
Speaker 2: the cops in no time flat. And she knows it.

2965
02:43:24,080 --> 02:43:27,000
Speaker 2: But it seems unkind and just as damaging to ignore

2966
02:43:27,040 --> 02:43:30,320
Speaker 2: my children's thoughts and feelings in the matter. Yes, I

2967
02:43:30,360 --> 02:43:33,200
Speaker 2: would love to have custody back. I would love to

2968
02:43:33,280 --> 02:43:36,200
Speaker 2: get them the last almost ten years back with them.

2969
02:43:37,080 --> 02:43:38,760
Speaker 2: I would love to have been the one talking them

2970
02:43:38,800 --> 02:43:41,640
Speaker 2: in a night, waking them up for school, nursing tummy

2971
02:43:41,640 --> 02:43:44,360
Speaker 2: aches and fevers. But to place what I want over

2972
02:43:44,480 --> 02:43:46,200
Speaker 2: what they want and what is best for them in

2973
02:43:46,280 --> 02:43:50,800
Speaker 2: this specific situation is unconscionable and bad parenting. In my opinion.

2974
02:43:51,240 --> 02:43:53,440
Speaker 1: I think that's a really mature take that. Also, I

2975
02:43:53,560 --> 02:43:56,920
Speaker 1: think you know, we were asking a minute ago, like oh,

2976
02:43:57,120 --> 02:44:00,640
Speaker 1: like how much of Opie's perspective is true or is

2977
02:44:00,680 --> 02:44:03,320
Speaker 1: there like more that op did that warrants the grandparents

2978
02:44:03,360 --> 02:44:06,520
Speaker 1: take care in a comment like that makes me feel

2979
02:44:06,640 --> 02:44:10,520
Speaker 1: like op is in a much better.

2980
02:44:10,440 --> 02:44:13,480
Speaker 2: And like mature yea, yeah, just to say like I'm

2981
02:44:13,560 --> 02:44:16,680
Speaker 2: not going to just burst in and take my children away, yeah,

2982
02:44:16,800 --> 02:44:20,720
Speaker 2: which OPI might might be able to do, like legally

2983
02:44:20,920 --> 02:44:22,440
Speaker 2: and selfishly.

2984
02:44:22,920 --> 02:44:24,880
Speaker 1: She's like, you know, I want to see my kids,

2985
02:44:24,920 --> 02:44:27,560
Speaker 1: which it makes total sense, but she's like, if this

2986
02:44:27,720 --> 02:44:30,520
Speaker 1: is truly the best scenario, I don't want to come

2987
02:44:30,560 --> 02:44:33,880
Speaker 1: and disrupt and make their life worse for my own

2988
02:44:33,959 --> 02:44:38,720
Speaker 1: selfish ones, which is extremely mature. And asking the kids specifically,

2989
02:44:38,800 --> 02:44:41,520
Speaker 1: ask the children they can absolutely.

2990
02:44:41,040 --> 02:44:43,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, at thirteen and eleven, they know what they want.

2991
02:44:43,440 --> 02:44:45,800
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. One hundred percent it should be I

2992
02:44:45,840 --> 02:44:47,640
Speaker 1: think it should be up to the to the kids.

2993
02:44:47,840 --> 02:44:51,920
Speaker 2: Absolutely. Number four. I had a two bedroom apartment that

2994
02:44:52,000 --> 02:44:54,800
Speaker 2: I was paying for a loan for four years. Back

2995
02:44:54,840 --> 02:44:58,200
Speaker 2: in June. My rent was raised four hundred dollars, far

2996
02:44:58,360 --> 02:45:01,039
Speaker 2: more than I could afford to pay the apartment complex

2997
02:45:01,080 --> 02:45:03,080
Speaker 2: wouldn't work with me and told me if I moved

2998
02:45:03,120 --> 02:45:06,440
Speaker 2: out before a certain time, I wouldn't acquire an eviction

2999
02:45:06,680 --> 02:45:09,160
Speaker 2: on my record. A friend let me stay with them

3000
02:45:09,240 --> 02:45:11,600
Speaker 2: until I could get back on my feet Financially. I

3001
02:45:11,680 --> 02:45:14,560
Speaker 2: apply to every place I could find, but despite the

3002
02:45:14,640 --> 02:45:17,119
Speaker 2: fact that I work full time, I don't make three

3003
02:45:17,160 --> 02:45:20,080
Speaker 2: times the amount of rent, even on the studio apartments.

3004
02:45:20,600 --> 02:45:22,800
Speaker 2: I'm currently living with my boyfriend now and I'm on

3005
02:45:22,879 --> 02:45:25,920
Speaker 2: the hunt for a second job. I had one, but

3006
02:45:26,000 --> 02:45:28,120
Speaker 2: the hours conflicted with me seeing the girls, and I

3007
02:45:28,280 --> 02:45:29,400
Speaker 2: had to make a decision.

3008
02:45:30,040 --> 02:45:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh, she's literally between a rock and a hard place.

3009
02:45:32,400 --> 02:45:34,600
Speaker 1: It's like, get the job that makes it so I

3010
02:45:34,640 --> 02:45:40,400
Speaker 1: can't see my children, but then to house my children. Yeah,

3011
02:45:40,400 --> 02:45:40,760
Speaker 1: my God.

3012
02:45:41,200 --> 02:45:43,200
Speaker 2: As much as I love the man I'm with, I

3013
02:45:43,280 --> 02:45:45,200
Speaker 2: don't think it'd be the best situation for them to

3014
02:45:45,280 --> 02:45:48,080
Speaker 2: move them in here with people they don't know. I

3015
02:45:48,240 --> 02:45:50,560
Speaker 2: love and trust my man, but I'm realistic and I

3016
02:45:50,680 --> 02:45:52,960
Speaker 2: know that there are so many stories of boyfriends or

3017
02:45:52,959 --> 02:45:55,959
Speaker 2: stepdad's harming kids. I don't want to take that risk,

3018
02:45:56,320 --> 02:45:57,760
Speaker 2: and I also don't want to rip them out of

3019
02:45:57,800 --> 02:46:00,520
Speaker 2: a situation where they have their own rooms. Their own

3020
02:46:00,600 --> 02:46:03,080
Speaker 2: safe spaces to go when things get too much for them,

3021
02:46:03,320 --> 02:46:06,000
Speaker 2: and throw them into a two bedroom house with three

3022
02:46:06,080 --> 02:46:08,360
Speaker 2: adults and a teenager already living here.

3023
02:46:08,800 --> 02:46:08,959
Speaker 1: Wait?

3024
02:46:09,040 --> 02:46:10,240
Speaker 2: Who else is living there?

3025
02:46:12,160 --> 02:46:13,480
Speaker 1: Is this that the grandparents' house?

3026
02:46:14,320 --> 02:46:16,480
Speaker 2: No? Throw them into a two bedroom house?

3027
02:46:16,600 --> 02:46:18,360
Speaker 1: I believe this is o Pea's place, but who uh

3028
02:46:18,360 --> 02:46:20,800
Speaker 1: oh Pie's boyfriend's place. Maybe because she's staying with the boyfriend.

3029
02:46:20,959 --> 02:46:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just wondering if who else was living there.

3030
02:46:23,640 --> 02:46:25,600
Speaker 2: When I do get my own place again, which will

3031
02:46:25,640 --> 02:46:28,120
Speaker 2: hopefully be soon. If I'm smart about it, it might

3032
02:46:28,160 --> 02:46:31,080
Speaker 2: be a different story because the situation is different. But

3033
02:46:31,320 --> 02:46:34,200
Speaker 2: as it stands right now, this feels like it's the

3034
02:46:34,320 --> 02:46:39,480
Speaker 2: lesser of two evils. I appreciate everyone's input, even if

3035
02:46:39,520 --> 02:46:42,200
Speaker 2: you're incorrect and your assumptions due to lack of information.

3036
02:46:42,800 --> 02:46:45,120
Speaker 2: Some of you will agree with my choices. Some of

3037
02:46:45,200 --> 02:46:47,720
Speaker 2: you won't, and that's all right. I spoke to my

3038
02:46:47,800 --> 02:46:50,000
Speaker 2: mom yesterday after we took the kids to the park.

3039
02:46:50,480 --> 02:46:53,440
Speaker 2: She apologized again and told me she didn't realize it

3040
02:46:53,520 --> 02:46:56,040
Speaker 2: was that big of a deal to me. We add words.

3041
02:46:56,320 --> 02:46:59,480
Speaker 2: It wasn't an argument as much as a disagreement. I

3042
02:46:59,600 --> 02:47:01,600
Speaker 2: explain ain't to her that it was never about the

3043
02:47:01,680 --> 02:47:05,520
Speaker 2: birthday party. It's the fact that she makes promises and

3044
02:47:05,640 --> 02:47:08,720
Speaker 2: never follows through with them. I can't trust anything she

3045
02:47:08,800 --> 02:47:11,880
Speaker 2: says because all of her words are empty and meaningless.

3046
02:47:12,680 --> 02:47:14,520
Speaker 2: I put my foot down that the next time there

3047
02:47:14,560 --> 02:47:16,880
Speaker 2: are plans to send them out of state, I want

3048
02:47:16,920 --> 02:47:19,920
Speaker 2: to know first before the plans are in place. I

3049
02:47:20,040 --> 02:47:22,160
Speaker 2: told her I want her to stop trying to appease

3050
02:47:22,200 --> 02:47:25,160
Speaker 2: their grandmother and start thinking about what the kids want.

3051
02:47:25,760 --> 02:47:28,480
Speaker 2: We never really reached an agreement. I ended up getting

3052
02:47:28,480 --> 02:47:31,440
Speaker 2: frustrated because she was talking in circles, and we ended

3053
02:47:31,520 --> 02:47:34,320
Speaker 2: up leaving shortly after with a promise to the kids

3054
02:47:34,440 --> 02:47:38,360
Speaker 2: that we'd be back Wednesday. Before leaving, I inform my

3055
02:47:38,480 --> 02:47:40,520
Speaker 2: mom that I'll be spending the twenty fifth with my

3056
02:47:40,640 --> 02:47:43,400
Speaker 2: sister getting our nails done, and that my boyfriend and

3057
02:47:43,520 --> 02:47:46,039
Speaker 2: I will take the girls out after they get back

3058
02:47:46,080 --> 02:47:48,960
Speaker 2: from their grandparents and he gets back from drill. I

3059
02:47:49,040 --> 02:47:51,879
Speaker 2: also told her that the drink idea was in fact offensive,

3060
02:47:52,320 --> 02:47:55,119
Speaker 2: and that I have no desire to spend my birthday

3061
02:47:55,160 --> 02:47:58,360
Speaker 2: with her or the family, and hopefully this opens her

3062
02:47:58,400 --> 02:48:01,400
Speaker 2: eyes to choices she makes in the future. I don't

3063
02:48:01,440 --> 02:48:04,800
Speaker 2: have high hopes of change, but we'll see and that

3064
02:48:05,160 --> 02:48:06,400
Speaker 2: is the end of that story.

3065
02:48:06,920 --> 02:48:10,200
Speaker 1: Wow, maybe give a quick teal dr and we can

3066
02:48:10,320 --> 02:48:11,360
Speaker 1: hop into a discussion here.

3067
02:48:11,520 --> 02:48:16,520
Speaker 2: Sure, So TLDR. OPI was going through a very hard

3068
02:48:16,600 --> 02:48:21,920
Speaker 2: time and early on in life and wasn't able to

3069
02:48:22,120 --> 02:48:24,680
Speaker 2: take care of her children and gave up custody to

3070
02:48:24,760 --> 02:48:30,240
Speaker 2: her parents, but now has gotten better and is trying

3071
02:48:30,360 --> 02:48:34,240
Speaker 2: to get that custody back. But both the parents and

3072
02:48:34,320 --> 02:48:36,200
Speaker 2: the kids are saying like, let's wait a little bit.

3073
02:48:38,240 --> 02:48:41,480
Speaker 2: And OPI recently had a birthday and the mother just like,

3074
02:48:41,760 --> 02:48:45,840
Speaker 2: wasn't I don't know, wasn't trying to make a concise thing,

3075
02:48:47,080 --> 02:48:48,960
Speaker 2: was being an a whole about the birthday and was

3076
02:48:49,000 --> 02:48:51,960
Speaker 2: trying to keep her kids away from OPE on her birthday.

3077
02:48:52,400 --> 02:48:55,040
Speaker 2: And now they've tried to have a conversation about how

3078
02:48:55,080 --> 02:48:58,560
Speaker 2: they can approach dealing with the kids and dealing with

3079
02:48:58,640 --> 02:48:59,720
Speaker 2: each other in the future.

3080
02:48:59,600 --> 02:49:07,640
Speaker 1: And uh, they have continued to not block access to

3081
02:49:07,720 --> 02:49:12,960
Speaker 1: the kids, but uh, like block access to OPE taking

3082
02:49:13,040 --> 02:49:16,720
Speaker 1: the kids back? Or is is is everyone in agreement

3083
02:49:16,760 --> 02:49:20,080
Speaker 1: at this point? Hey, maybe right now isn't the best

3084
02:49:20,440 --> 02:49:23,200
Speaker 1: time because so P was pretty like empathetic to it too.

3085
02:49:23,240 --> 02:49:25,840
Speaker 2: So everyone is everyone's on the same page that it

3086
02:49:26,160 --> 02:49:27,120
Speaker 2: maybe not the right time.

3087
02:49:27,280 --> 02:49:27,560
Speaker 1: Okay.

3088
02:49:27,959 --> 02:49:32,920
Speaker 2: However, I think the issue is that the the parents

3089
02:49:32,920 --> 02:49:36,600
Speaker 2: of their grandparents or Opie's parents are like sending off

3090
02:49:36,680 --> 02:49:39,680
Speaker 2: these kids to their grandparents even when the kids don't

3091
02:49:39,720 --> 02:49:42,560
Speaker 2: want to go, and not telling op that this is

3092
02:49:42,600 --> 02:49:44,760
Speaker 2: happening and they live like four hours away.

3093
02:49:45,879 --> 02:49:47,320
Speaker 1: Oh, to another set of grandparents.

3094
02:49:47,400 --> 02:49:50,880
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, so it's the father's grandparents.

3095
02:49:50,920 --> 02:49:53,560
Speaker 1: Parents, right, And is the father the one sending the

3096
02:49:53,640 --> 02:49:54,240
Speaker 1: kids off.

3097
02:49:54,800 --> 02:49:59,600
Speaker 2: The so okay, so so the so Opie's parents are

3098
02:49:59,720 --> 02:50:03,480
Speaker 2: sent the kids off whenever the father's parents say, hey,

3099
02:50:03,560 --> 02:50:05,760
Speaker 2: we want to see her grandkids. I got it without

3100
02:50:05,840 --> 02:50:06,920
Speaker 2: letting Opino.

3101
02:50:07,400 --> 02:50:09,240
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, they're just shipping them off and hope He's like, yo,

3102
02:50:09,520 --> 02:50:10,920
Speaker 1: give me the heads up, so I can you know,

3103
02:50:11,000 --> 02:50:12,480
Speaker 1: maybe I want to come see them or whatever.

3104
02:50:14,040 --> 02:50:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, And Desserie Harris says, why did she

3105
02:50:17,600 --> 02:50:19,600
Speaker 2: have to sign over custody? The parents could have kept

3106
02:50:19,640 --> 02:50:20,080
Speaker 2: them without that.

3107
02:50:20,400 --> 02:50:21,240
Speaker 1: I was wondering that too.

3108
02:50:21,440 --> 02:50:24,440
Speaker 2: I think the issue is that op was in a

3109
02:50:24,520 --> 02:50:27,600
Speaker 2: very dark place. Yeah, and her parents were telling her

3110
02:50:27,760 --> 02:50:30,120
Speaker 2: this is what you need to do for your children.

3111
02:50:30,520 --> 02:50:33,640
Speaker 1: I was actually wondering they did she did actually officially

3112
02:50:33,680 --> 02:50:35,520
Speaker 1: give her her custody, right, did they did just stay

3113
02:50:35,520 --> 02:50:39,720
Speaker 1: at the house? Okay, yeah, yeah, I see that. And

3114
02:50:39,840 --> 02:50:42,400
Speaker 1: again we said earlier we don't have the full context. Yeah,

3115
02:50:42,480 --> 02:50:45,640
Speaker 1: but I totally see why they why they would have

3116
02:50:45,720 --> 02:50:50,320
Speaker 1: done it. But why doesn't the dad have custody from Uh?

3117
02:50:51,280 --> 02:50:53,199
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's a great question.

3118
02:50:53,360 --> 02:50:56,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe he didn't want full custody.

3119
02:50:57,160 --> 02:51:01,800
Speaker 1: Maybe not the grand Uh the dadd's parents are like

3120
02:51:01,920 --> 02:51:06,400
Speaker 1: the grandparents on the father's side seem to, yeah, seem

3121
02:51:06,440 --> 02:51:09,119
Speaker 1: to be involved in the kids' lives, like, have them

3122
02:51:09,160 --> 02:51:12,400
Speaker 1: come over a lot. Yeah, Blamified said, I'm very jaded

3123
02:51:12,440 --> 02:51:14,480
Speaker 1: on these topics. I just hope Opie is being totally

3124
02:51:14,560 --> 02:51:17,040
Speaker 1: honest in their post and not painting the story to

3125
02:51:17,120 --> 02:51:20,160
Speaker 1: favor them while leaving out information that makes them look bad.

3126
02:51:22,040 --> 02:51:22,640
Speaker 1: Do you think.

3127
02:51:23,160 --> 02:51:29,480
Speaker 2: I'm not getting the impression that they are, Like it

3128
02:51:29,520 --> 02:51:33,240
Speaker 2: seems like they are trying to show everyone in as

3129
02:51:33,360 --> 02:51:36,920
Speaker 2: positive of light as they can. Obviously, like the parents

3130
02:51:36,959 --> 02:51:39,400
Speaker 2: read a little bit more negatively, but they said, you know,

3131
02:51:39,480 --> 02:51:41,440
Speaker 2: I was frustrated and so like, maybe that's why they're

3132
02:51:41,480 --> 02:51:42,720
Speaker 2: coming off a little bit more negative.

3133
02:51:43,080 --> 02:51:47,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. I think the comment where Opie said, hey,

3134
02:51:47,720 --> 02:51:50,680
Speaker 1: maybe this is not the best time for me to

3135
02:51:50,760 --> 02:51:53,280
Speaker 1: take in the kids, and I don't want to like

3136
02:51:53,480 --> 02:51:56,440
Speaker 1: disrupt their lives for my own selfish once, which is

3137
02:51:56,480 --> 02:51:59,160
Speaker 1: to be able to parent them. That was a super

3138
02:51:59,240 --> 02:52:00,360
Speaker 1: mature yeah.

3139
02:52:00,400 --> 02:52:02,400
Speaker 2: And I think the issue that Ope is saying like

3140
02:52:02,560 --> 02:52:05,680
Speaker 2: needs to be addressed is taking on the kids without

3141
02:52:05,720 --> 02:52:07,199
Speaker 2: letting her know where they're going.

3142
02:52:07,640 --> 02:52:11,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I think that's what she's I think, Yeah,

3143
02:52:11,000 --> 02:52:13,800
Speaker 1: I think they're there. It's a very like bumpy road,

3144
02:52:13,879 --> 02:52:16,880
Speaker 1: but it seems like they're slowly but surely getting more

3145
02:52:16,920 --> 02:52:21,480
Speaker 1: and more to a place where they're like almost like

3146
02:52:21,560 --> 02:52:25,000
Speaker 1: co parenting. Well because like co parenting with the grandparents.

3147
02:52:25,800 --> 02:52:28,800
Speaker 2: Actually, I will say it might not have been folk.

3148
02:52:28,879 --> 02:52:31,280
Speaker 2: I think the wording was temporary custody, which ry B.

3149
02:52:31,400 --> 02:52:32,600
Speaker 1: Says temporary custody.

3150
02:52:32,640 --> 02:52:37,360
Speaker 2: So I think Ope legally could have could be like

3151
02:52:37,480 --> 02:52:40,160
Speaker 2: could take that custody. But I think because they had

3152
02:52:40,240 --> 02:52:42,160
Speaker 2: a conversation about what's best for the kids.

3153
02:52:42,520 --> 02:52:45,960
Speaker 1: Right, that is not happening because of the conversation. That's

3154
02:52:46,360 --> 02:52:49,240
Speaker 1: that's what that was, the like temporary custody.

3155
02:52:49,720 --> 02:52:53,160
Speaker 2: So so what I'm saying is in the past, Opie

3156
02:52:53,800 --> 02:52:58,360
Speaker 2: gave over temporary custody to her parents, and now I'm

3157
02:52:58,400 --> 02:53:02,240
Speaker 2: saying she could legally probably have the grounds to take

3158
02:53:02,320 --> 02:53:06,000
Speaker 2: the kids. However, after the conversation she had with her

3159
02:53:06,040 --> 02:53:08,039
Speaker 2: parents and her kids, she's like, no, I'm gonna wait.

3160
02:53:08,200 --> 02:53:11,080
Speaker 1: Putting put the pause on it. Yeah, that one's that one's.

3161
02:53:11,120 --> 02:53:12,720
Speaker 1: That one's a very nuanced A lot of a lot

3162
02:53:12,760 --> 02:53:16,960
Speaker 1: of great comments in theat on that. Yeah, golden rule

3163
02:53:17,480 --> 02:53:23,960
Speaker 1: first families, Right, Sorry, that was totally unrelated. Yeah, yeah,

3164
02:53:24,320 --> 02:53:25,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that pretty much.

3165
02:53:25,680 --> 02:53:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one's a tough one. And I thank you

3166
02:53:27,560 --> 02:53:28,440
Speaker 2: for sharing your story.

3167
02:53:28,680 --> 02:53:32,320
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3168
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3169
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3170
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3172
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3173
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3174
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3177
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3178
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3179
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3180
02:54:32,440 --> 02:54:35,240
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3181
02:54:35,959 --> 02:54:39,160
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3182
02:54:39,720 --> 02:54:41,120
Speaker 2: Look I got this bracelet and I.

3183
02:54:41,120 --> 02:54:43,080
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3184
02:54:44,200 --> 02:54:46,960
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3185
02:54:47,120 --> 02:54:52,640
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3186
02:54:52,760 --> 02:54:53,879
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3187
02:54:55,280 --> 02:54:58,240
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3188
02:54:59,120 --> 02:55:03,360
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3189
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3190
02:55:05,040 --> 02:55:06,320
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3191
02:55:08,160 --> 02:55:13,760
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3192
02:55:14,800 --> 02:55:15,039
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3193
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3194
02:55:28,480 --> 02:55:29,600
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3195
02:55:31,120 --> 02:55:32,160
Speaker 2: It's so dude.

3196
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3197
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Speaker 1: This is?

3198
02:55:39,320 --> 02:55:39,440
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3199
02:55:39,600 --> 02:55:39,720
Speaker 1: Is this?

3200
02:55:39,959 --> 02:55:40,960
Speaker 4: Is this my necklace too?

3201
02:55:41,200 --> 02:55:41,440
Speaker 2: Maybe?

3202
02:55:41,560 --> 02:55:44,280
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3203
02:55:44,400 --> 02:55:48,440
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3204
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3205
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3207
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3208
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3209
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3224
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Speaker 2: five gifted memberships. We appreciate you. Thank you all for

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02:56:53,200 --> 02:56:54,160
Speaker 2: your donations.

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02:56:54,760 --> 02:56:58,640
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you. We got a We got another story.

3228
02:56:58,920 --> 02:57:01,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, we got a story. I am so excited for

3229
02:57:01,320 --> 02:57:04,440
Speaker 5: the story. Guys, guys, you have no idea how bad

3230
02:57:04,879 --> 02:57:08,320
Speaker 5: I want this to be read on the podcast? Sam,

3231
02:57:09,120 --> 02:57:11,600
Speaker 5: can you can you pull up for sixty nine?

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02:57:12,160 --> 02:57:16,640
Speaker 4: I found this four sixty nine sixty nine I found it.

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02:57:16,720 --> 02:57:17,600
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm.

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02:57:17,480 --> 02:57:19,880
Speaker 1: About to get get bamboozled.

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02:57:20,080 --> 02:57:23,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, this is incredible right now.

3236
02:57:23,480 --> 02:57:26,000
Speaker 2: I saw this and I said, I need Sam to

3237
02:57:26,080 --> 02:57:26,360
Speaker 2: read this.

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02:57:27,080 --> 02:57:29,520
Speaker 5: Okay, all right, let me know when you're ready. That

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02:57:29,720 --> 02:57:31,560
Speaker 5: one s one everyone.

3240
02:57:31,760 --> 02:57:37,880
Speaker 4: Oh and it's an R slash okopie show. Let's go. Okay,

3241
02:57:38,640 --> 02:57:39,160
Speaker 4: do we miss it?

3242
02:57:39,200 --> 02:57:43,360
Speaker 2: Dono Blondes Brunette, we didn't see her, Dono pitch in general,

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02:57:43,440 --> 02:57:45,360
Speaker 2: thank you for three sixty four pigeon Lord, I am

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02:57:45,400 --> 02:57:47,480
Speaker 2: no general. What are your orders for the minami?

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02:57:47,959 --> 02:57:50,560
Speaker 4: Okay? If you also, if you haven't joined our suburn

3246
02:57:50,600 --> 02:57:53,400
Speaker 4: at our slash okop show, what the heck are you doing?

3247
02:57:53,440 --> 02:57:58,360
Speaker 4: You should totally join it. But we have an R

3248
02:57:58,600 --> 02:58:03,039
Speaker 4: slash okop s show story one that apparently is good,

3249
02:58:03,520 --> 02:58:07,720
Speaker 4: A good one. Read it and shall I get it?

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02:58:07,800 --> 02:58:07,960
Speaker 3: Do it?

3251
02:58:09,320 --> 02:58:09,440
Speaker 1: All?

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02:58:09,560 --> 02:58:14,920
Speaker 4: Right? Here we go home. I broke up with my

3253
02:58:15,040 --> 02:58:18,520
Speaker 4: girlfriend because I thought she was having an affair with Sam,

3254
02:58:18,800 --> 02:58:24,200
Speaker 4: with Sam with me? Am I the a hole? Oh Am,

3255
02:58:24,280 --> 02:58:25,920
Speaker 4: I the a hole for breaking up with my girlfriend

3256
02:58:25,959 --> 02:58:28,280
Speaker 4: because I thought she was having an affair with Sam

3257
02:58:28,840 --> 02:58:32,360
Speaker 4: as in like me Sam or like a other Sam.

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02:58:34,280 --> 02:58:36,080
Speaker 1: Me all right?

3259
02:58:36,080 --> 02:58:36,959
Speaker 2: And this comes from.

3260
02:58:37,080 --> 02:58:40,879
Speaker 4: Prolly eating pickles and they say, using a throwaway because

3261
02:58:40,959 --> 02:58:43,600
Speaker 4: my personal has a lot of identifile information about my

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02:58:43,720 --> 02:58:48,240
Speaker 4: girlfriend ex girlfriend on it. I twenty eight male, have

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02:58:48,360 --> 02:58:51,480
Speaker 4: been with my girlfriend, twenty six female for six years.

3264
02:58:52,040 --> 02:58:54,320
Speaker 4: She is the love of my life, but I would

3265
02:58:54,320 --> 02:58:56,519
Speaker 4: be lying if I said we have a perfect relationship.

3266
02:58:56,840 --> 02:58:59,440
Speaker 4: I work as a banker in NYC, and up until recently,

3267
02:58:59,720 --> 02:59:02,440
Speaker 4: she has been a very successful model. I fell for

3268
02:59:02,560 --> 02:59:07,000
Speaker 4: her because she's the most intelligent, beautiful, and honestly hilarious

3269
02:59:07,080 --> 02:59:11,080
Speaker 4: person I've ever met. Sounds like she's pretty great, she's awesome,

3270
02:59:11,160 --> 02:59:15,440
Speaker 4: sounds like she's the full package. To be honest, I'm

3271
02:59:15,480 --> 02:59:17,560
Speaker 4: not sure what she saw in me. I'm a decently

3272
02:59:17,600 --> 02:59:20,040
Speaker 4: attractive guy and I do well for myself. But being

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02:59:20,280 --> 02:59:22,960
Speaker 4: with her is like being at the comedy cellar with

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02:59:23,120 --> 02:59:26,400
Speaker 4: Sidney Sweeney. What's up with Sidney's I don't really know

3275
02:59:26,440 --> 02:59:26,920
Speaker 4: who that is.

3276
02:59:27,600 --> 02:59:28,800
Speaker 2: She's popping off?

3277
02:59:29,160 --> 02:59:29,640
Speaker 4: Who is she?

3278
02:59:29,959 --> 02:59:35,760
Speaker 2: She's an actor? And what she's She was in Euphoria?

3279
02:59:36,280 --> 02:59:40,040
Speaker 4: Oh I never saw euphoria? Okay, well, Sidney Sweeten within

3280
02:59:40,080 --> 02:59:43,320
Speaker 4: the past year. Let me sure your picture over st Okay. Oh,

3281
02:59:43,400 --> 02:59:43,879
Speaker 4: she's cute.

3282
02:59:44,840 --> 02:59:45,360
Speaker 1: She's cute.

3283
02:59:45,840 --> 02:59:47,520
Speaker 4: Okay, I think I've I don't know if I've seen

3284
02:59:47,520 --> 02:59:51,680
Speaker 4: her anything, but she's cute by show me that one

3285
02:59:54,320 --> 02:59:57,160
Speaker 4: so comedy starter is Sidney sweeneen. Within the past year,

3286
02:59:57,600 --> 03:00:02,240
Speaker 4: we've begun talking about getting engaged. Congrats Opie, all right,

3287
03:00:03,800 --> 03:00:08,360
Speaker 4: and she's but she's been opposed because she wants to

3288
03:00:08,440 --> 03:00:12,480
Speaker 4: have a more stable career first. Anyways, she began studying

3289
03:00:12,520 --> 03:00:15,279
Speaker 4: for the MCAT a few years ago and recently started

3290
03:00:15,360 --> 03:00:18,640
Speaker 4: med school, is becoming and and is studying to become

3291
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Speaker 4: a surgeon. WHOA, So, your girlfriend's a smart, funny model surgeon.

3292
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Speaker 4: She is definitely the full package. That's crazy. That's crazy.

3293
03:00:31,760 --> 03:00:34,000
Speaker 4: I'm really proud of her, and I would be lying

3294
03:00:34,320 --> 03:00:37,320
Speaker 4: if I said the career transition didn't have me over

3295
03:00:37,400 --> 03:00:39,879
Speaker 4: the moon, because I can now admit, after a lot

3296
03:00:39,959 --> 03:00:43,640
Speaker 4: of therapy, I have a jealousy problem. While she was

3297
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Speaker 4: in the throes of modeling, she would always get these

3298
03:00:47,360 --> 03:00:51,240
Speaker 4: super sexy guys that would try to pick her, going

3299
03:00:51,280 --> 03:00:53,640
Speaker 4: to events with insanely rich older men, that would get

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03:00:53,680 --> 03:00:57,600
Speaker 4: her phone number for networking purposes, and essentially just exposed

3301
03:00:57,640 --> 03:01:00,440
Speaker 4: to being constantly over sexualized. And it made me feel

3302
03:01:00,520 --> 03:01:01,800
Speaker 4: very insecure and jealous.

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Speaker 1: Blonde god, it was that with a three hundred dollars to.

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Speaker 5: Sem Oh my god.

3305
03:01:14,160 --> 03:01:17,920
Speaker 4: Holy that we're like one hundred and what twelve dollars away?

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03:01:18,000 --> 03:01:21,600
Speaker 4: That's crazy. I mean we only have five minutes. We'll

3307
03:01:21,640 --> 03:01:22,920
Speaker 4: see if the people rally.

3308
03:01:22,959 --> 03:01:25,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, we found it there it is.

3309
03:01:25,640 --> 03:01:30,520
Speaker 4: We appreciate you, all right, So uh we're keep going

3310
03:01:30,560 --> 03:01:35,600
Speaker 4: through the story. So basically over sexualized made and cost

3311
03:01:35,600 --> 03:01:38,000
Speaker 4: constantly feeling Josh. I feel a little guilty because we

3312
03:01:38,160 --> 03:01:41,080
Speaker 4: fought a lot about my jealousy, my constantly checking to

3313
03:01:41,160 --> 03:01:44,440
Speaker 4: see who she followed on Instagram, and my accusing her

3314
03:01:44,640 --> 03:01:47,440
Speaker 4: of cheating or wanting to cheat with people that could

3315
03:01:47,480 --> 03:01:51,080
Speaker 4: offer her more than I to be clear, my knowledge,

3316
03:01:52,040 --> 03:01:55,240
Speaker 4: to be clear, to my knowledge, she has never cheated.

3317
03:01:56,600 --> 03:01:59,440
Speaker 4: But my last girlfriend cheated on me with my brother. Yikes.

3318
03:01:59,480 --> 03:02:02,160
Speaker 4: Oh tell us the okay storytelling that? So I have

3319
03:02:02,480 --> 03:02:05,879
Speaker 4: insecurity about it. Well, a few months ago, I noticed

3320
03:02:05,879 --> 03:02:09,000
Speaker 4: she had started following a new account, which is pretty abnormal.

3321
03:02:09,360 --> 03:02:14,040
Speaker 4: So I checked her page and saw it was Sam Again.

3322
03:02:14,080 --> 03:02:15,320
Speaker 4: Are we talking about a different sin?

3323
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Speaker 1: Is this this is you?

3324
03:02:17,320 --> 03:02:18,840
Speaker 2: Is this actually about me?

3325
03:02:19,600 --> 03:02:20,560
Speaker 4: Is this actually about me?

3326
03:02:21,000 --> 03:02:23,680
Speaker 5: Is this about me? On the r slash reddit or

3327
03:02:24,040 --> 03:02:24,400
Speaker 5: or slush?

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Speaker 4: Okay about in hindsight and knowing about this podcast, our

3329
03:02:30,240 --> 03:02:34,080
Speaker 4: specials Now. I feel ridiculous for being jealous, But the

3330
03:02:34,200 --> 03:02:37,000
Speaker 4: following happened to occur in tandem with a girl's night

3331
03:02:37,080 --> 03:02:39,560
Speaker 4: out to a comedy show, so I figured he was

3332
03:02:39,600 --> 03:02:43,040
Speaker 4: a comedian she had met in exchange info with. Normally

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03:02:43,160 --> 03:02:45,640
Speaker 4: she tells me about these things, so the sudden following

3334
03:02:45,760 --> 03:02:48,760
Speaker 4: made me feel really insecure and jealous because nothing had

3335
03:02:48,800 --> 03:02:52,840
Speaker 4: been said, but I didn't mention it to her. Oh

3336
03:02:52,920 --> 03:02:57,360
Speaker 4: my goodness, Patria B. Thanks for the ten gifted memberships.

3337
03:02:57,160 --> 03:03:02,600
Speaker 2: And thank you Blue's Way for another all going crazy blambify.

3338
03:03:02,720 --> 03:03:04,640
Speaker 4: Thanks to the five bucks the Blue alcaions for the

3339
03:03:04,640 --> 03:03:06,720
Speaker 4: five bucks. Let's keep it going shure.

3340
03:03:06,959 --> 03:03:09,160
Speaker 2: I wish she gave more, but hopefully this helps us get.

3341
03:03:09,080 --> 03:03:13,640
Speaker 4: To very close. Wait, I am, is this actually about you?

3342
03:03:13,959 --> 03:03:14,440
Speaker 2: Keep reading?

3343
03:03:14,959 --> 03:03:19,279
Speaker 4: This is crazy, This is crazy, This is crazy all right? Essentially,

3344
03:03:19,480 --> 03:03:21,800
Speaker 4: I blew up last week. I came home from work

3345
03:03:21,840 --> 03:03:25,600
Speaker 4: and upon entering my apartment, immediately heard a voice coming

3346
03:03:25,640 --> 03:03:29,080
Speaker 4: from the living room and her responding. I said, I

3347
03:03:29,240 --> 03:03:34,000
Speaker 4: wasn't there. She was laughing and talking back to the voice.

3348
03:03:34,480 --> 03:03:38,280
Speaker 4: I stormed into the living room and immediately started yelling

3349
03:03:38,320 --> 03:03:40,640
Speaker 4: at her to see her pressing a button on her

3350
03:03:40,680 --> 03:03:43,840
Speaker 4: phone and dropping it a little suspicious, little suspicious who

3351
03:03:43,840 --> 03:03:46,480
Speaker 4: she's talking to? I demanded to know who she had

3352
03:03:46,520 --> 03:03:50,120
Speaker 4: been talking to on the phone. I knew I recognize it,

3353
03:03:50,200 --> 03:03:52,560
Speaker 4: as I've checked his page many times over the past

3354
03:03:52,640 --> 03:03:55,000
Speaker 4: few months to see if she was interacting with it,

3355
03:03:55,320 --> 03:03:57,720
Speaker 4: and she told me no one. I accused her of

3356
03:03:57,920 --> 03:04:00,760
Speaker 4: lying and told her that I knew about her comedian

3357
03:04:01,320 --> 03:04:04,400
Speaker 4: friend named Sam and broke up with her on the spot.

3358
03:04:05,480 --> 03:04:12,640
Speaker 4: Oh Chris tinfoil Hat with the ten gifted membership, slyly

3359
03:04:12,800 --> 03:04:15,200
Speaker 4: Tovaz with the ten bucks. We need more with Sam

3360
03:04:15,240 --> 03:04:18,720
Speaker 4: and John keep it going. Pigeon General with the fifty

3361
03:04:18,800 --> 03:04:20,680
Speaker 4: dollars tip, oh my lord.

3362
03:04:20,959 --> 03:04:25,640
Speaker 2: One more hour, Lord, oh my Jane, my buck tip.

3363
03:04:25,680 --> 03:04:28,440
Speaker 2: I was late to the live and need another all right.

3364
03:04:28,520 --> 03:04:31,600
Speaker 4: Also shout out to everyone who just donated getting us

3365
03:04:32,000 --> 03:04:37,120
Speaker 4: to one more hour. But oh oh oh to a

3366
03:04:37,200 --> 03:04:39,840
Speaker 4: revetty with another fifty bucks. Why not one more hour

3367
03:04:40,160 --> 03:04:43,119
Speaker 4: tras McNaught and a fifty bucks. I'm stuck at work

3368
03:04:43,200 --> 03:04:47,760
Speaker 4: for two to three more hours. MJ grow homewrecker, Sam.

3369
03:04:48,080 --> 03:04:50,720
Speaker 4: I didn't do anything. I don't know what this is

3370
03:04:50,800 --> 03:04:53,800
Speaker 4: talking about. I am confused, as you guys are. This

3371
03:04:54,000 --> 03:04:57,480
Speaker 4: is insane. Oh we got a nan. Sliy Tobaz thinks

3372
03:04:57,520 --> 03:04:59,080
Speaker 4: the ten bucks. We need more, Sam, John, keep you going?

3373
03:04:59,080 --> 03:04:59,600
Speaker 4: I read that one.

3374
03:05:01,560 --> 03:05:02,160
Speaker 1: We got a nan.

3375
03:05:02,440 --> 03:05:03,080
Speaker 4: We got a nan.

3376
03:05:03,760 --> 03:05:04,720
Speaker 5: We're going for another hour.

3377
03:05:04,840 --> 03:05:10,040
Speaker 4: We're going for another hour. Don't you worry? Don't you worry? Well, justla, Yes,

3378
03:05:10,160 --> 03:05:13,320
Speaker 4: we need Sam's cutie patuity face for another hour. Also

3379
03:05:13,400 --> 03:05:17,280
Speaker 4: Sam the trending okop hashtag eat the rich no a

3380
03:05:17,680 --> 03:05:25,720
Speaker 4: Ley read it again, eat out Hey, you gotta get

3381
03:05:25,800 --> 03:05:28,760
Speaker 4: that money somehown a kay. Thanks for the twenty five

3382
03:05:28,800 --> 03:05:30,800
Speaker 4: dollars tip. Been a lurker for a while. First time

3383
03:05:30,840 --> 03:05:32,680
Speaker 4: I'm able to donate, y'all quickly became one of my

3384
03:05:32,720 --> 03:05:37,360
Speaker 4: favorite YouTube channels. Cronic k, thank you for supporting us.

3385
03:05:37,879 --> 03:05:39,160
Speaker 4: But also, what the what the F?

3386
03:05:39,320 --> 03:05:39,480
Speaker 1: Is this?

3387
03:05:41,760 --> 03:05:46,800
Speaker 4: Okay? So uh op broke up with her on the spot,

3388
03:05:47,440 --> 03:05:49,879
Speaker 4: matd hatter Gal, thanks for the five gifted members. Wait,

3389
03:05:49,920 --> 03:05:52,080
Speaker 4: I'm going to stop reading donations for a sec so

3390
03:05:52,240 --> 03:05:54,600
Speaker 4: I can get through this story because I'm very confused.

3391
03:05:55,280 --> 03:06:00,400
Speaker 4: So uh basically, he broke up with her on the spot.

3392
03:06:01,520 --> 03:06:04,120
Speaker 4: That is that is crazy? Is that not crazy?

3393
03:06:04,280 --> 03:06:04,920
Speaker 2: That is crazy?

3394
03:06:05,840 --> 03:06:07,920
Speaker 4: She just stared at me and told me to get

3395
03:06:07,959 --> 03:06:09,400
Speaker 4: out of the house, so I went and stayed with

3396
03:06:09,480 --> 03:06:12,320
Speaker 4: a friend. I got a call from her best friend

3397
03:06:12,879 --> 03:06:16,240
Speaker 4: later that night, who told me that I was an

3398
03:06:16,480 --> 03:06:19,760
Speaker 4: a hole and she was just listening to a podcast.

3399
03:06:20,920 --> 03:06:26,120
Speaker 4: Our podcast was she was she talking to me on

3400
03:06:26,240 --> 03:06:26,920
Speaker 4: the podcast?

3401
03:06:27,160 --> 03:06:28,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god? Was it a live call?

3402
03:06:28,640 --> 03:06:28,760
Speaker 1: Oh?

3403
03:06:28,840 --> 03:06:30,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, I could have been a live call in, or

3404
03:06:30,600 --> 03:06:33,360
Speaker 4: maybe she was just chatting back to the podcast. She

3405
03:06:33,480 --> 03:06:36,000
Speaker 4: was like, I see you. I don't know how people

3406
03:06:36,080 --> 03:06:39,480
Speaker 4: do it. So I got a call from her friend

3407
03:06:39,560 --> 03:06:42,080
Speaker 4: she was just listening to the podcast and that sometimes

3408
03:06:42,160 --> 03:06:45,120
Speaker 4: she talks back to the podcast because she's lonely since

3409
03:06:45,160 --> 03:06:47,360
Speaker 4: she quit modeling, and it makes her feel like she's

3410
03:06:47,440 --> 03:06:51,200
Speaker 4: on a podcast and she didn't give her entertainment dreams up.

3411
03:06:52,080 --> 03:06:54,880
Speaker 4: That's so cute. You should you should call in. Well,

3412
03:06:54,920 --> 03:06:56,920
Speaker 4: then you could be on the podcast. Actually, now you

3413
03:06:56,920 --> 03:06:59,160
Speaker 4: should definitely call it. This is it crazy?

3414
03:06:59,360 --> 03:06:59,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3415
03:07:01,000 --> 03:07:03,760
Speaker 4: I told the best friend that that was a ridiculous

3416
03:07:03,760 --> 03:07:07,640
Speaker 4: story and hung up. But after looking at Sam's page again,

3417
03:07:08,000 --> 03:07:11,080
Speaker 4: I realized that this posic that this podcast exists, so

3418
03:07:11,240 --> 03:07:14,320
Speaker 4: the story is plausible. Anyway, I started going to therapy

3419
03:07:14,440 --> 03:07:17,600
Speaker 4: and my girlfriend blocked my number and won't talk to me.

3420
03:07:17,720 --> 03:07:18,320
Speaker 1: I was sure.

3421
03:07:18,680 --> 03:07:20,320
Speaker 4: I wasn't sure what to do, so I came here.

3422
03:07:20,640 --> 03:07:23,480
Speaker 4: I realized I might have overreacted. But I also feel

3423
03:07:23,600 --> 03:07:26,520
Speaker 4: like this is a gross misunderstanding. Maybe I'm the a hole,

3424
03:07:26,760 --> 03:07:29,600
Speaker 4: But also isn't she because she never tried to set

3425
03:07:29,600 --> 03:07:32,480
Speaker 4: the story straight. Also, I'm sure she's going to read this,

3426
03:07:32,959 --> 03:07:35,880
Speaker 4: So if you do, please call me. I love you.

3427
03:07:36,720 --> 03:07:36,840
Speaker 1: Oo.

3428
03:07:37,920 --> 03:07:39,480
Speaker 4: So this is actually about me?

3429
03:07:39,920 --> 03:07:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3430
03:07:40,959 --> 03:07:42,440
Speaker 4: Did I end a relationship?

3431
03:07:43,560 --> 03:07:43,720
Speaker 3: Well?

3432
03:07:43,760 --> 03:07:47,039
Speaker 2: I don't think you ended the relationship, but I think

3433
03:07:47,080 --> 03:07:47,360
Speaker 2: all right?

3434
03:07:47,400 --> 03:07:50,240
Speaker 4: Well, he asked, Am I the a hole? I think so?

3435
03:07:50,520 --> 03:07:52,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry. I know you're a fan.

3436
03:07:53,840 --> 03:07:56,400
Speaker 4: Well he's not a fan. Oh well you're his girlfriend

3437
03:07:56,480 --> 03:07:58,560
Speaker 4: is a fan, but he's as soon to become a

3438
03:07:58,640 --> 03:08:02,320
Speaker 4: fan because he's part of the Okay, you can be better. Wait,

3439
03:08:02,440 --> 03:08:06,080
Speaker 4: so you broke up with your girlfriend with no on

3440
03:08:06,280 --> 03:08:10,960
Speaker 4: the spot, on the spot, with no information, bro, What

3441
03:08:11,000 --> 03:08:12,800
Speaker 4: are you doing? What are you doing?

3442
03:08:14,080 --> 03:08:16,560
Speaker 1: Bro? She is a model surgeon.

3443
03:08:17,040 --> 03:08:18,640
Speaker 4: Yeah that's funny.

3444
03:08:19,840 --> 03:08:22,400
Speaker 2: Also, you didn't really give her a chance to set

3445
03:08:22,480 --> 03:08:24,320
Speaker 2: things straight because you you broke up with her on

3446
03:08:24,400 --> 03:08:24,840
Speaker 2: the spot.

3447
03:08:25,640 --> 03:08:28,920
Speaker 5: What I read from this you had her eyes on

3448
03:08:29,040 --> 03:08:29,600
Speaker 5: the prize?

3449
03:08:31,320 --> 03:08:33,120
Speaker 4: Who you.

3450
03:08:34,959 --> 03:08:35,000
Speaker 1: Me?

3451
03:08:35,840 --> 03:08:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3452
03:08:36,200 --> 03:08:38,440
Speaker 3: You like?

3453
03:08:38,920 --> 03:08:40,720
Speaker 5: How is she looking at her phone and then as

3454
03:08:40,760 --> 03:08:42,119
Speaker 5: soon as her boyfriend come in show.

3455
03:08:44,400 --> 03:08:47,040
Speaker 4: I wonder, I wonder if it's possible, she d m

3456
03:08:47,240 --> 03:08:50,280
Speaker 4: me on Instagram. Well pull up, let's pull it up.

3457
03:08:50,440 --> 03:08:52,400
Speaker 4: I can pull it up, bro Wood, I got yeah

3458
03:08:52,800 --> 03:08:54,960
Speaker 4: first for summary right show.

3459
03:08:55,200 --> 03:08:57,360
Speaker 2: Even if we found her, we wouldn't know.

3460
03:08:59,240 --> 03:08:59,920
Speaker 1: Who is this? Who?

3461
03:09:00,360 --> 03:09:05,920
Speaker 2: Who is OPI? I think that you, unfortunately, are the.

3462
03:09:06,000 --> 03:09:09,720
Speaker 1: Aa al to have some self reflection.

3463
03:09:09,920 --> 03:09:13,400
Speaker 4: Also, there is an update and I'm looking. I was,

3464
03:09:13,959 --> 03:09:15,880
Speaker 4: I was looking and let's see it. Wait, let me

3465
03:09:16,040 --> 03:09:19,320
Speaker 4: let me open up the So I'm opening up the subreddit.

3466
03:09:19,800 --> 03:09:21,720
Speaker 4: There are one hundred and thirty four up votes and

3467
03:09:21,879 --> 03:09:29,000
Speaker 4: three hundred and sixty nine comments yeaha on this story.

3468
03:09:29,600 --> 03:09:30,160
Speaker 5: Yeah no, I did.

3469
03:09:30,200 --> 03:09:33,000
Speaker 2: I did find this one because yeah, that's insane.

3470
03:09:33,280 --> 03:09:35,640
Speaker 4: Three hundred and sixty nine comments.

3471
03:09:35,760 --> 03:09:37,959
Speaker 5: Probably got over half a million views.

3472
03:09:37,760 --> 03:09:41,880
Speaker 4: On our subreddit, op show, that is crazy, that's amazing.

3473
03:09:42,440 --> 03:09:48,200
Speaker 4: Is she watching? And can we call also TLDR. Basically,

3474
03:09:49,480 --> 03:09:54,920
Speaker 4: Op's girlfriend watches OKOP and he thought that she was

3475
03:09:55,040 --> 03:09:58,000
Speaker 4: cheating on him with me because she he heard my

3476
03:09:58,240 --> 03:10:00,200
Speaker 4: voice in her room.

3477
03:10:00,280 --> 03:10:01,920
Speaker 2: And she follows Sam on Instagram.

3478
03:10:02,160 --> 03:10:05,800
Speaker 5: Apparently the old r Sam is a homewreckerd and ruin

3479
03:10:05,879 --> 03:10:06,600
Speaker 5: a relationship.

3480
03:10:10,000 --> 03:10:11,120
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

3481
03:10:12,080 --> 03:10:12,280
Speaker 6: Man.

3482
03:10:13,760 --> 03:10:14,840
Speaker 4: She sounds great.

3483
03:10:14,680 --> 03:10:17,080
Speaker 2: Though, Man, she likes our podcast.

3484
03:10:17,240 --> 03:10:19,640
Speaker 4: She likes our podcast, surgeon.

3485
03:10:20,320 --> 03:10:22,320
Speaker 1: What you've been wanting to visit New York City or

3486
03:10:22,360 --> 03:10:24,480
Speaker 1: go there? I have ben.

3487
03:10:26,520 --> 03:10:29,120
Speaker 2: Anyway, let's get back to this story.

3488
03:10:29,360 --> 03:10:32,320
Speaker 4: I've just flattered. I just want to hear the whole story.

3489
03:10:32,480 --> 03:10:36,600
Speaker 4: If the girlfriend is if the girlfriend is here listening

3490
03:10:36,879 --> 03:10:40,600
Speaker 4: or this this is some home brew tee d m us.

3491
03:10:40,760 --> 03:10:43,800
Speaker 4: I guess she was watching the on that one last

3492
03:10:43,800 --> 03:10:45,600
Speaker 4: stream where Sam had his abs out. That's why she

3493
03:10:45,720 --> 03:10:46,720
Speaker 4: put it down quick.

3494
03:10:48,000 --> 03:10:50,920
Speaker 2: When did I put my abs the belly dance?

3495
03:10:51,600 --> 03:10:52,360
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh yeah?

3496
03:10:53,720 --> 03:10:55,680
Speaker 4: Anyway, there is an update. There is an update.

3497
03:10:55,800 --> 03:10:57,600
Speaker 2: Let's get into it, shall we?

3498
03:10:58,160 --> 03:10:58,280
Speaker 1: Uh?

3499
03:10:59,560 --> 03:11:04,280
Speaker 4: Shall we read the update? Okay? But seriously, like you

3500
03:11:04,360 --> 03:11:08,320
Speaker 4: fumble the bag by not like hearing her out?

3501
03:11:08,480 --> 03:11:08,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3502
03:11:09,320 --> 03:11:12,680
Speaker 4: Anyway? Uh, Moon toxicity, says TLDR. Sam broke up a

3503
03:11:12,680 --> 03:11:16,199
Speaker 4: relationship unknowingly and O people to big dumb and broke

3504
03:11:16,320 --> 03:11:21,880
Speaker 4: up on the spot instead of communicating. Yeah, Stella and

3505
03:11:21,920 --> 03:11:27,720
Speaker 4: Ana says Op needs therapy. Where is OPI? And where

3506
03:11:28,000 --> 03:11:29,880
Speaker 4: is Op's girlfriend?

3507
03:11:30,080 --> 03:11:30,520
Speaker 2: Where are you?

3508
03:11:32,800 --> 03:11:34,920
Speaker 4: I want to talk to you? But there is an update,

3509
03:11:35,440 --> 03:11:41,680
Speaker 4: so are you ready for it so update. I'm astounded

3510
03:11:41,720 --> 03:11:43,760
Speaker 4: by the number of people in the sread that just

3511
03:11:43,879 --> 03:11:47,640
Speaker 4: believe in giving up on people you love. Unbelievable. For

3512
03:11:47,760 --> 03:11:49,560
Speaker 4: those of you telling me to leave her alone, I am.

3513
03:11:49,959 --> 03:11:52,119
Speaker 4: I'm giving her space right now. Haven't tried to contact

3514
03:11:52,160 --> 03:11:55,920
Speaker 4: her since I realize I'm blocked, and haven't sent her flowers,

3515
03:11:55,959 --> 03:11:58,240
Speaker 4: although I'm very tempted to. For those of you telling

3516
03:11:58,280 --> 03:12:01,760
Speaker 4: me to seek intensive therapy, I am. I'm trying here. Hey,

3517
03:12:01,879 --> 03:12:04,080
Speaker 4: I guess maybe is trying. I'm trying so hard to

3518
03:12:04,160 --> 03:12:06,959
Speaker 4: understand where I went wrong, because everything I've done has

3519
03:12:07,040 --> 03:12:10,519
Speaker 4: been out of love. Love makes you act crazy sometimes.

3520
03:12:10,840 --> 03:12:14,320
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's an excuse. Yeah, I don't know.

3521
03:12:14,360 --> 03:12:17,240
Speaker 4: If that she's not, I would do anything to make

3522
03:12:17,280 --> 03:12:19,200
Speaker 4: it up to her. I would expose my flaws on

3523
03:12:19,240 --> 03:12:21,120
Speaker 4: the internet on a commuter page. I know she's a

3524
03:12:21,160 --> 03:12:23,640
Speaker 4: part of a part of simply because I'm hoping she

3525
03:12:23,720 --> 03:12:24,160
Speaker 4: may see it.

3526
03:12:24,680 --> 03:12:29,080
Speaker 5: What, No way, that's wild? What like putting all this

3527
03:12:29,240 --> 03:12:30,960
Speaker 5: out because oh yeah, hopes for her to see it

3528
03:12:31,480 --> 03:12:33,240
Speaker 5: crazy And we're reading it on.

3529
03:12:33,360 --> 03:12:37,200
Speaker 2: The show, So if she's a fan, she'll definitely see it.

3530
03:12:38,240 --> 03:12:41,800
Speaker 4: That's crazy. He's gonna have to I'm sorry, girl, that's crazy.

3531
03:12:43,200 --> 03:12:43,440
Speaker 2: Yah.

3532
03:12:46,000 --> 03:12:48,480
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. I know she's part of it, she says,

3533
03:12:48,480 --> 03:12:51,160
Speaker 4: I want her to see it. I'm trying to take accountability.

3534
03:12:51,240 --> 03:12:53,840
Speaker 4: I know I was wrong, I know I overreacted. I'm

3535
03:12:53,920 --> 03:12:56,000
Speaker 4: just looking for one person to offer me a real

3536
03:12:56,040 --> 03:12:58,720
Speaker 4: piece of advice that isn't institutionalized myself because I love

3537
03:12:58,760 --> 03:13:00,800
Speaker 4: her more than any of you can understand. And I

3538
03:13:00,879 --> 03:13:03,720
Speaker 4: spent most of today in bed. All right, that sucks.

3539
03:13:03,720 --> 03:13:06,600
Speaker 4: I'm sorry it with you. I called out of work

3540
03:13:06,959 --> 03:13:09,720
Speaker 4: because going felt too hard. I felt like someone cut

3541
03:13:09,800 --> 03:13:12,720
Speaker 4: my arm off. Her sister has been blowing on my

3542
03:13:12,760 --> 03:13:15,160
Speaker 4: phone asking what happened between us, and I don't know

3543
03:13:15,560 --> 03:13:17,360
Speaker 4: what to tell her because it doesn't feel like my

3544
03:13:17,560 --> 03:13:21,320
Speaker 4: story to tell. I feel so blindsided by her letting

3545
03:13:21,400 --> 03:13:23,680
Speaker 4: me walk away. I know I ended things with her,

3546
03:13:23,959 --> 03:13:27,200
Speaker 4: but how can she walk away so easily On the

3547
03:13:27,320 --> 03:13:31,520
Speaker 4: other side of things what, I'm currently homeless and she

3548
03:13:31,640 --> 03:13:34,840
Speaker 4: won't let me back into the apartment. I've already tried

3549
03:13:35,080 --> 03:13:38,039
Speaker 4: going back and upset her, so I'm giving her that space.

3550
03:13:38,320 --> 03:13:41,199
Speaker 4: But I have nothing right now, no toothbrush, phone charger,

3551
03:13:41,640 --> 03:13:44,119
Speaker 4: or change of underwear. I don't know what my legal

3552
03:13:44,160 --> 03:13:46,280
Speaker 4: options are if she doesn't talk to me. Ever, again,

3553
03:13:46,520 --> 03:13:48,720
Speaker 4: what are my rights are? We both on the least.

3554
03:13:48,760 --> 03:13:51,480
Speaker 4: I understand everyone on here thinks I suck, but I'm

3555
03:13:51,520 --> 03:13:54,360
Speaker 4: at a loss. Opie, that sucks.

3556
03:13:54,440 --> 03:13:54,680
Speaker 3: Whoo.

3557
03:13:55,160 --> 03:13:55,840
Speaker 1: You don't deserve that.

3558
03:13:56,959 --> 03:13:58,600
Speaker 4: It was a bad mood, but you don't deserve that.

3559
03:14:00,080 --> 03:14:01,280
Speaker 1: Hi, this is.

3560
03:14:03,120 --> 03:14:07,600
Speaker 4: That's a sad update. That update. Let's see if I

3561
03:14:07,720 --> 03:14:11,200
Speaker 4: was actually to give some real advice. Yeah, let people

3562
03:14:12,360 --> 03:14:17,000
Speaker 4: explain themselves before you jump to conclusions, because who knows.

3563
03:14:17,160 --> 03:14:19,160
Speaker 4: Instead of that guy that she's talking to that she

3564
03:14:19,160 --> 03:14:20,840
Speaker 4: followed Instagram, he could.

3565
03:14:20,800 --> 03:14:23,240
Speaker 1: Just have a podcast.

3566
03:14:23,520 --> 03:14:26,720
Speaker 2: Ever, he could just have the number twenty four podcast

3567
03:14:26,879 --> 03:14:27,400
Speaker 2: on Reddit.

3568
03:14:27,560 --> 03:14:28,560
Speaker 5: I think there's another up.

3569
03:14:29,520 --> 03:14:33,039
Speaker 4: There's another update, really.

3570
03:14:33,040 --> 03:14:34,200
Speaker 1: Jennis, I wanted it.

3571
03:14:34,320 --> 03:14:35,959
Speaker 2: I found this story for Sam.

3572
03:14:36,360 --> 03:14:40,000
Speaker 4: There's another update. Yeah, yeah, I mean I feel like

3573
03:14:40,120 --> 03:14:42,400
Speaker 4: all of this is is just insecurity and.

3574
03:14:42,480 --> 03:14:45,360
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you know, hey, I feel back because I

3575
03:14:45,360 --> 03:14:47,560
Speaker 2: don't really want to like dig deep into him because

3576
03:14:51,360 --> 03:14:53,240
Speaker 2: but yeah, you did mess.

3577
03:14:53,120 --> 03:14:56,640
Speaker 4: Up, you messed up, and but you can learn, you

3578
03:14:56,720 --> 03:14:57,160
Speaker 4: can grow.

3579
03:14:57,320 --> 03:15:01,320
Speaker 2: And if she doesn't s a relationship with you anymore,

3580
03:15:01,680 --> 03:15:03,240
Speaker 2: but you always better in the future.

3581
03:15:03,360 --> 03:15:05,760
Speaker 4: But I mean, she at least owes him his toothbrush.

3582
03:15:05,959 --> 03:15:07,320
Speaker 1: Yes from underwear?

3583
03:15:08,040 --> 03:15:10,680
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. Ryby says he doesn't deserve to be homeless,

3584
03:15:10,720 --> 03:15:12,119
Speaker 4: but he deserves to be single.

3585
03:15:12,280 --> 03:15:12,640
Speaker 2: Agreed.

3586
03:15:13,560 --> 03:15:15,920
Speaker 4: Kristin Foyle says, how does he not know if he's

3587
03:15:16,000 --> 03:15:20,000
Speaker 4: on the lease? I mean, Sophia, do you know if

3588
03:15:20,040 --> 03:15:20,520
Speaker 4: you're on the lease.

3589
03:15:20,600 --> 03:15:21,760
Speaker 2: I am on the lease. I have to sign a

3590
03:15:21,840 --> 03:15:24,440
Speaker 2: lease thing. I read the whole lease agreement.

3591
03:15:24,760 --> 03:15:27,640
Speaker 4: Kimberly find says plot twist model Surgeon X is cheating

3592
03:15:27,680 --> 03:15:29,200
Speaker 4: with the number one podcast.

3593
03:15:30,520 --> 03:15:34,520
Speaker 5: Oh, Sam just said, sign the papers faster and you

3594
03:15:34,640 --> 03:15:36,960
Speaker 5: get here faster. So I just signed whatever you sent me.

3595
03:15:38,440 --> 03:15:39,360
Speaker 4: That is true.

3596
03:15:39,920 --> 03:15:41,039
Speaker 1: You said, don't worry about.

3597
03:15:42,920 --> 03:15:43,880
Speaker 4: Is there another update?

3598
03:15:44,040 --> 03:15:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm pretty sure this is a new update.

3599
03:15:48,959 --> 03:15:50,400
Speaker 4: That's long.

3600
03:15:53,280 --> 03:15:54,520
Speaker 5: They're like speaking their mind.

3601
03:15:55,640 --> 03:15:57,800
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, do you guys want to hear the update?

3602
03:16:00,120 --> 03:16:02,640
Speaker 4: City with that? Kidney says, ope. Best advice becomes Sam

3603
03:16:03,480 --> 03:16:07,800
Speaker 4: steal his identity. Eddy Devin is not a joke, your

3604
03:16:07,840 --> 03:16:09,760
Speaker 4: opinion says, he's clearly not healed from the past. Now

3605
03:16:09,760 --> 03:16:12,080
Speaker 4: he's lost his girlfriend to insecurity of the past.

3606
03:16:11,879 --> 03:16:15,360
Speaker 2: Relationship for Yeah, yeah, yeah, but unfortunately that's not your

3607
03:16:15,400 --> 03:16:17,840
Speaker 2: partner's burden. It is not. It is not.

3608
03:16:18,120 --> 03:16:20,560
Speaker 4: But you know what's my burden to bear this day.

3609
03:16:21,240 --> 03:16:24,680
Speaker 4: And also, I guess a failed relationship that I caused

3610
03:16:25,120 --> 03:16:27,240
Speaker 4: so many burdens to bear so many burdens.

3611
03:16:27,640 --> 03:16:30,920
Speaker 5: He's ruined relationship before of mine once, but he got

3612
03:16:31,000 --> 03:16:32,800
Speaker 5: me my new relationship that I have now.

3613
03:16:32,879 --> 03:16:35,760
Speaker 4: So okay, there needs to be more context on that,

3614
03:16:36,800 --> 03:16:40,360
Speaker 4: because I know what relationship I ruined, but it was

3615
03:16:41,000 --> 03:16:46,840
Speaker 4: first it was not get more Okay, Okay, okay, they

3616
03:16:46,879 --> 03:16:50,600
Speaker 4: time at the end of this update. You're dude, that

3617
03:16:50,840 --> 03:16:55,520
Speaker 4: is unfair, all right? Anyway, So I guess this is

3618
03:16:55,520 --> 03:16:58,480
Speaker 4: an update. This is coming from OPE, our social kop show,

3619
03:16:58,600 --> 03:17:01,360
Speaker 4: our subreddit. First of all, I want to thank you

3620
03:17:01,440 --> 03:17:05,720
Speaker 4: all for your honest feedback, however harsh it may feel

3621
03:17:06,040 --> 03:17:08,680
Speaker 4: to me. I have a lot to think about in

3622
03:17:08,760 --> 03:17:11,200
Speaker 4: the upcoming days. I'm mostly posting this because I feel

3623
03:17:11,240 --> 03:17:14,119
Speaker 4: like I've traumatized everyone with my behavior, so I feel

3624
03:17:14,320 --> 03:17:16,200
Speaker 4: you may like to know how she responded.

3625
03:17:17,640 --> 03:17:19,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I would like to know how she responded.

3626
03:17:19,760 --> 03:17:22,920
Speaker 4: My girlfriend saw this post and didn't unblock me, but

3627
03:17:23,080 --> 03:17:24,240
Speaker 4: did send me an email.

3628
03:17:24,520 --> 03:17:28,240
Speaker 2: WHOA, she should have sent you a Reddit post.

3629
03:17:28,440 --> 03:17:30,400
Speaker 4: I know, I know she should have just like reposted

3630
03:17:30,440 --> 03:17:33,640
Speaker 4: it or she she should she should have put a

3631
03:17:34,120 --> 03:17:36,400
Speaker 4: response Reddit post. Those are her favorite updates stories.

3632
03:17:36,400 --> 03:17:38,240
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, the two sided ones.

3633
03:17:38,400 --> 03:17:39,320
Speaker 2: Oh so good.

3634
03:17:40,959 --> 03:17:44,600
Speaker 4: Gold their gold, They're gold. Anyway, Gorman saw this post

3635
03:17:44,600 --> 03:17:48,000
Speaker 4: and unblock me. I wanted. I wanted her, but did

3636
03:17:48,040 --> 03:17:50,720
Speaker 4: send an email. I wanted her to when I initially

3637
03:17:50,760 --> 03:17:52,880
Speaker 4: posted it, but after reading the comments calling me the

3638
03:17:52,959 --> 03:17:55,440
Speaker 4: a hole, it was hard to know she had probably

3639
03:17:55,520 --> 03:17:58,840
Speaker 4: seen them all. She probably knew you were the a

3640
03:17:58,959 --> 03:18:01,800
Speaker 4: hole already. I know I have issues. I'm going to

3641
03:18:01,879 --> 03:18:04,000
Speaker 4: continue to work on them no matter what happens between us.

3642
03:18:04,280 --> 03:18:07,080
Speaker 4: I did read a few comments saying she probably has cheated.

3643
03:18:08,120 --> 03:18:11,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if she's an OK.

3644
03:18:11,840 --> 03:18:13,039
Speaker 5: Can you parasocial cheat?

3645
03:18:15,440 --> 03:18:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't.

3646
03:18:15,920 --> 03:18:16,720
Speaker 4: I don't think.

3647
03:18:16,760 --> 03:18:17,240
Speaker 1: I don't.

3648
03:18:18,879 --> 03:18:21,720
Speaker 4: Social really like if someone well, I mean, it depends

3649
03:18:21,800 --> 03:18:24,200
Speaker 4: like if you like if if you whack it to

3650
03:18:24,360 --> 03:18:31,160
Speaker 4: a a corn actor or actress, is that a Is

3651
03:18:31,200 --> 03:18:34,600
Speaker 4: that cheating? It depends on the context of relationship. Some

3652
03:18:34,680 --> 03:18:37,320
Speaker 4: people think it's cheating. Some people know, what do you think?

3653
03:18:37,800 --> 03:18:42,959
Speaker 4: I don't know, what do you guys think?

3654
03:18:43,120 --> 03:18:43,480
Speaker 1: Let us know?

3655
03:18:43,600 --> 03:18:45,920
Speaker 4: Anyway, I'm gonna go back into the story and stop

3656
03:18:46,000 --> 03:18:48,720
Speaker 4: asking weird questions. So I'm going to continue to work

3657
03:18:48,800 --> 03:18:50,880
Speaker 4: on no matter what happens. I did read a few

3658
03:18:50,879 --> 03:18:52,640
Speaker 4: comments sayings she probably cheated. I don't think it's true.

3659
03:18:52,959 --> 03:18:55,720
Speaker 4: I think I did let my own insecurity and jealousy

3660
03:18:55,760 --> 03:18:59,119
Speaker 4: cloud my judgment. Probably four years. She has been nothing

3661
03:18:59,240 --> 03:19:02,760
Speaker 4: but loving and supportive through our time together. That hurts

3662
03:19:02,760 --> 03:19:05,400
Speaker 4: even more. I'm realizing now that my actions didn't deserve

3663
03:19:05,440 --> 03:19:07,520
Speaker 4: the kind of respect she gave me, and that because

3664
03:19:07,520 --> 03:19:09,800
Speaker 4: we always work things out, I never had a real

3665
03:19:09,879 --> 03:19:13,440
Speaker 4: incentive to change. I'm feeling that now I know I

3666
03:19:13,560 --> 03:19:15,840
Speaker 4: can't go in the way that I have. I also

3667
03:19:15,959 --> 03:19:18,480
Speaker 4: know that, however I may regret my actions and wish

3668
03:19:18,520 --> 03:19:20,760
Speaker 4: to be better, I'm not any time. And while I

3669
03:19:20,840 --> 03:19:23,680
Speaker 4: hope she's willing to work through this with me, it

3670
03:19:23,760 --> 03:19:25,680
Speaker 4: may not be in her best interest to do so.

3671
03:19:26,200 --> 03:19:27,640
Speaker 4: So I guess we'll see.

3672
03:19:28,320 --> 03:19:31,000
Speaker 2: Okay, it seems like he's learning. Before you read on?

3673
03:19:31,160 --> 03:19:33,800
Speaker 2: Could you scroll up to Kimberly fines comment because I thought.

3674
03:19:33,600 --> 03:19:34,080
Speaker 1: It was funny?

3675
03:19:36,959 --> 03:19:37,520
Speaker 2: Are more and more?

3676
03:19:37,760 --> 03:19:37,800
Speaker 1: No?

3677
03:19:38,040 --> 03:19:38,800
Speaker 2: No? Not that one?

3678
03:19:40,400 --> 03:19:40,880
Speaker 4: Which one?

3679
03:19:41,040 --> 03:19:44,040
Speaker 2: The damn? Does this feel like? Okayo? Fee Stations of

3680
03:19:44,080 --> 03:19:46,400
Speaker 2: the Cross. I can't help but think of a congregation

3681
03:19:46,600 --> 03:19:49,280
Speaker 2: just staring while you grapple with this for what feels

3682
03:19:49,360 --> 03:19:51,760
Speaker 2: like this is your burden to.

3683
03:19:51,840 --> 03:20:00,760
Speaker 4: Marry, this is like, this is wild, this is wild.

3684
03:20:02,360 --> 03:20:03,160
Speaker 1: I am.

3685
03:20:04,959 --> 03:20:12,680
Speaker 4: I am flattered and appalled at the same time. Yeah, yeah,

3686
03:20:13,560 --> 03:20:18,600
Speaker 4: let's keep let's keep, let's keep track. For those of

3687
03:20:18,680 --> 03:20:20,120
Speaker 4: you asking how I didn't know if I was on

3688
03:20:20,120 --> 03:20:21,800
Speaker 4: the least, we rented from a family member of hers

3689
03:20:21,800 --> 03:20:24,879
Speaker 4: who gave us a huge rent cut and a huge

3690
03:20:24,920 --> 03:20:29,800
Speaker 4: rent to cut. And I never signed any official paperwork.

3691
03:20:30,280 --> 03:20:32,760
Speaker 4: Our lease is in both of our names, but because

3692
03:20:32,840 --> 03:20:36,440
Speaker 4: it was family, we never signed anything official. And hindsight,

3693
03:20:36,480 --> 03:20:38,240
Speaker 4: I know this was silly, but I suppose it makes

3694
03:20:38,320 --> 03:20:41,040
Speaker 4: moving forward more difficult because if we move forward in

3695
03:20:41,080 --> 03:20:43,280
Speaker 4: this way, I have no claim to the apartment because

3696
03:20:43,320 --> 03:20:48,680
Speaker 4: nothing was ever signed. On to the email exchange, read

3697
03:20:48,720 --> 03:20:53,560
Speaker 4: her Kamsa says, Read her comments, what where is it?

3698
03:20:55,520 --> 03:20:55,840
Speaker 4: Tell us?

3699
03:20:57,040 --> 03:20:57,760
Speaker 1: Are you serious?

3700
03:20:57,800 --> 03:21:00,800
Speaker 5: I did I need it?

3701
03:21:02,400 --> 03:21:04,600
Speaker 4: Wenda Millennial says, I really need to wear and hung

3702
03:21:04,680 --> 03:21:08,800
Speaker 4: Joe China, you were teaching right by the Silver Lake

3703
03:21:09,040 --> 03:21:12,360
Speaker 4: or Silver Lake It's it was ages ago, but around

3704
03:21:12,400 --> 03:21:17,360
Speaker 4: that area. Onto the email exchange, she initially emailed me

3705
03:21:17,520 --> 03:21:19,720
Speaker 4: letting me know she was traumatized from the way I

3706
03:21:19,840 --> 03:21:24,040
Speaker 4: acted my recurring show of mistrusting her, and that she

3707
03:21:24,240 --> 03:21:26,800
Speaker 4: isn't sure how she could continue in a relationship. She

3708
03:21:26,959 --> 03:21:29,520
Speaker 4: told me she's open to having a conversation in a

3709
03:21:29,560 --> 03:21:31,680
Speaker 4: public setting, how about on this show.

3710
03:21:31,640 --> 03:21:32,119
Speaker 2: On the show.

3711
03:21:32,200 --> 03:21:37,199
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, but she isn't comfortable being alone

3712
03:21:37,240 --> 03:21:39,240
Speaker 4: in our apartment at this time. She offered to stay

3713
03:21:39,240 --> 03:21:41,000
Speaker 4: with family if I needed to return to the apartment

3714
03:21:41,040 --> 03:21:43,360
Speaker 4: because of housing issues. She also told me that her

3715
03:21:43,440 --> 03:21:45,920
Speaker 4: heart is breaking because she does love me, but she

3716
03:21:46,000 --> 03:21:49,120
Speaker 4: doesn't know how to continue. She clarified that regardless of

3717
03:21:49,200 --> 03:21:51,840
Speaker 4: the outcome of our conversation or what happens with us,

3718
03:21:52,320 --> 03:21:55,320
Speaker 4: she never cheated on me, and whenever I made accusations

3719
03:21:55,360 --> 03:21:57,400
Speaker 4: in the past, she let them go because she knew

3720
03:21:57,480 --> 03:22:00,520
Speaker 4: I had trauma surrounding the subject and would try to

3721
03:22:00,640 --> 03:22:03,800
Speaker 4: act in ways that made me comfortable, which, in her words,

3722
03:22:03,920 --> 03:22:06,720
Speaker 4: I'm not saying this probably created a toxic dynamic between

3723
03:22:06,720 --> 03:22:09,760
Speaker 4: the two of us. She also confirmed what her friend

3724
03:22:10,320 --> 03:22:12,640
Speaker 4: had said about her listening to a podcast and told

3725
03:22:12,680 --> 03:22:15,680
Speaker 4: me she had no idea I was monitoring her Instagram

3726
03:22:15,840 --> 03:22:18,120
Speaker 4: usage so closely that she would get an idea of

3727
03:22:18,200 --> 03:22:19,200
Speaker 4: infidelity out of that.

3728
03:22:19,560 --> 03:22:23,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was also red flag to look at.

3729
03:22:23,200 --> 03:22:28,360
Speaker 4: Who your partner has, who your partner has followed or

3730
03:22:28,440 --> 03:22:33,119
Speaker 4: not followed. Yeah, I know you all think I'm a villain.

3731
03:22:33,360 --> 03:22:35,200
Speaker 4: I have a lot to think about. The main thing

3732
03:22:35,240 --> 03:22:37,440
Speaker 4: I want to say is that no one realizes they

3733
03:22:37,480 --> 03:22:39,840
Speaker 4: are the problem when they are acting a certain way.

3734
03:22:40,240 --> 03:22:42,240
Speaker 4: I thought that I was doing what I was doing

3735
03:22:42,280 --> 03:22:44,280
Speaker 4: out of love, but I know it was distorted and

3736
03:22:44,320 --> 03:22:46,960
Speaker 4: I realized now I was wrong. We're meeting tomorrow and

3737
03:22:47,000 --> 03:22:49,280
Speaker 4: if anyone cares, I'll let you know how it goes.

3738
03:22:49,560 --> 03:22:52,040
Speaker 4: I've accepted the fact I probably effed up beyond return.

3739
03:22:52,360 --> 03:22:54,200
Speaker 4: I've accepted the fact that the best thing for her

3740
03:22:54,400 --> 03:22:57,280
Speaker 4: is probably to exit this relationship. But it doesn't change

3741
03:22:57,280 --> 03:23:00,160
Speaker 4: the fact that I do love her and hope is

3742
03:23:00,200 --> 03:23:06,039
Speaker 4: away through this m we are live, Gabby, j Opie

3743
03:23:06,240 --> 03:23:07,320
Speaker 4: does need therapy.

3744
03:23:08,320 --> 03:23:11,160
Speaker 1: Is is this the end? YEP?

3745
03:23:11,560 --> 03:23:12,640
Speaker 5: I'm looking for them.

3746
03:23:13,640 --> 03:23:15,120
Speaker 4: Did Opie's girlfriend respond?

3747
03:23:15,600 --> 03:23:17,240
Speaker 5: If you guys find it, please go to the discord

3748
03:23:17,280 --> 03:23:17,760
Speaker 5: and send it to me.

3749
03:23:18,600 --> 03:23:22,000
Speaker 4: Could you please? If anyone has that, I would like

3750
03:23:22,120 --> 03:23:22,320
Speaker 4: to know.

3751
03:23:23,360 --> 03:23:23,840
Speaker 5: I'm looking.

3752
03:23:24,000 --> 03:23:25,920
Speaker 4: I want to be gameplay says this is why Sam

3753
03:23:26,040 --> 03:23:27,800
Speaker 4: is so buff and strong. He's carrying the weight of

3754
03:23:27,879 --> 03:23:34,720
Speaker 4: breaking up relationships. I don't. This is not something happens OMG.

3755
03:23:34,800 --> 03:23:37,160
Speaker 4: I forgot that he knew. She recently followed Sam, so

3756
03:23:37,240 --> 03:23:42,960
Speaker 4: he's tracking often. Yeah, that is weird and crazy. Dana

3757
03:23:43,040 --> 03:23:47,560
Speaker 4: Darkas says he is stinky, that he is a sticky

3758
03:23:47,640 --> 03:23:50,480
Speaker 4: stinky man, and we smell his stench and I have

3759
03:23:50,640 --> 03:23:53,400
Speaker 4: to read about his stench, which we liked. Sometimes we

3760
03:23:53,520 --> 03:23:54,400
Speaker 4: like reading about the stench.