Speaker 1: King Jebels second date up date. A lot of people
Speaker 1: think one of the keys to dating is if you're
Speaker 1: ever like challenging a girl to a game I'm playing
Speaker 1: pool bowling something like that. You let them win. No,
Speaker 1: that's not how you do it. You beat them down handily,
Speaker 1: and then you gloat in their face. And that is
Speaker 1: the best way to score a date with a girl.
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what Henry did. Who's on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update right now. He challenged her
Speaker 1: to a race, beat her, and then gloated, and now
Speaker 1: he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. I
Speaker 1: think I might know why, Henry. That's exactly what happened. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: why don't you explain to me what happened then? Because
Speaker 1: your email said that you met her while you guys
Speaker 1: were running, and you challenge her to a race and
Speaker 1: beat her. Right, So it was it was a five
Speaker 1: k and we met while stretching, I was stretching. We
Speaker 1: were booth alone stretching. That sounds very intimate already, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess, you know, I guess it was kind of intimate.
Speaker 1: Do you make comments about her being very bendy and
Speaker 1: how you like that. Uh no, I steered clear of
Speaker 1: those sorts of comments. But we were stretching and I
Speaker 1: noticed her. She was cute. We flirted. I was just
Speaker 1: you know, asking her if she was excited about the run.
Speaker 1: Had she'd done this sort of stuff before, just you know,
Speaker 1: basic flirting, getting to mail you stuff, and she seemed
Speaker 1: really cool. It's I was like, oh my god, this
Speaker 1: is this is really great. So I said, i'll bet
Speaker 1: you lunch that I'll beat you. Oh that's kind of cute. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I thought it was pretty good. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: your way to make sure that you can buy her lunch. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The whole time I was gonna buy I wasn't thinking like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like hold her to buying me lunch. You know.
Speaker 1: It was just a way to ask her out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm sure she understood that. So you ended
Speaker 1: up beating her and then I beat her handily, Okay,
Speaker 1: and you're still bragging about it. I'm a good runner,
Speaker 1: You're I waited for her, not in a creepy way,
Speaker 1: but I was just there. You know, everyone's having some water.
Speaker 1: I was there, and we you know, exchange numbers and
Speaker 1: we went out for lunch, all right, and how did
Speaker 1: lunch go? Really good? I mean, I really liked her.
Speaker 1: She was really cool and funny. It was easy, and
Speaker 1: I paid for lunch again, you know, so, so I didn't,
Speaker 1: you know, make her pay for lunch? Why did you
Speaker 1: laugh after that? That sounded weird, like I paid for lunch,
Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. No, though, I felt
Speaker 1: like I felt like you guys might think that I
Speaker 1: made her pay for lunch because of the bed. You
Speaker 1: should have No, yeah, you absolutely should have made her
Speaker 1: pay for lunch, he said. The conversation and everything was
Speaker 1: going good, Like, what are some of the things you
Speaker 1: really connected on other than the fact that she can't
Speaker 1: run as fast as you can? Right? I mean, there
Speaker 1: was one interesting thing I'll say, I mean that sort
Speaker 1: of stood out from other girls I've dated. Um, we
Speaker 1: talked a lot about intimacy, um intimacy, like like sexual intimacy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: oh nice, that's pretty sweet to have on a first
Speaker 1: date over lunch. Yeah, you know, suit and salad and
Speaker 1: talk about s Yeah exactly, because it's lunchtime, it's daylight.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know exactly how it came up,
Speaker 1: but regardless, she was really free and felt comfortable talking
Speaker 1: about it, and we you know, we both talked about it,
Speaker 1: and it was refreshing, you know, because I think, you know,
Speaker 1: I think in our culture, like a lot of women
Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable as they should talking about that sort
Speaker 1: of stuff. Can wait, hold on, though, what exactly were
Speaker 1: you talking about, like the craziest places you guys have
Speaker 1: ever done it? We didn't, We didn't get that far
Speaker 1: into it, but you know, we just sort of talked
Speaker 1: about how we feel about sex. I got the impression
Speaker 1: that she was kind of wild. I mean, she she
Speaker 1: basically said as much. Wow, she said, so, she actually
Speaker 1: said that she's wild in so many words. I'm guessing
Speaker 1: you got a kiss at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: Then at least, you know, we just we hugged at
Speaker 1: the end of the day. Actually, wow, she does sound
Speaker 1: like a wild one. Yeah. Well, again, it was afternoon,
Speaker 1: and you know, first date for me, I generally think,
Speaker 1: like the first date, not much is going to happen
Speaker 1: in that way. But but no, it didn't feel like
Speaker 1: I was like hugging my sister or something, you know,
Speaker 1: like it felt like, okay, there was chemistry there. So
Speaker 1: you're saying that she's wild, and you guys talked about
Speaker 1: all kinds of intimacy, all kinds of sexual stuff on
Speaker 1: her first date, and then you ended it with a hug.
Speaker 1: I'm guessing your talk wasn't really as hot and heavy
Speaker 1: as I'm picturing it in my mind. Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: one time I kissed the guy on the cheek. Oh,
Speaker 1: she's a naughty girl. No, trust me, it was. It
Speaker 1: was more than that. I know it might not sound
Speaker 1: like a lunch date hugging, but like it was pretty
Speaker 1: It was pretty hot, all right? If it was so hot,
Speaker 1: and why do you think you're not getting a callback?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I texted her after I
Speaker 1: didn't hear back. I waited a couple of days. I
Speaker 1: texted her again, and I still didn't hear back. So
Speaker 1: I'm worried that maybe she felt like obligated because of
Speaker 1: the race, because I bet her that if I win
Speaker 1: that she would have taken like she felt like she
Speaker 1: had no choice but to go out with you, because
Speaker 1: before the race, you were like, if I beat you,
Speaker 1: I gotta take out to launch. She's like, damn it,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to actually go out with this guy.
Speaker 1: I know, but I feel like it can't be that
Speaker 1: because again, like she was able to open up with
Speaker 1: me about personal stuff. I felt a real connection, So
Speaker 1: it just seems like it couldn't be that. Well, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Then okay, thank you? Sure? All right?
Speaker 1: Hey brooking jubil in the morning. Second update if you're
Speaker 1: just tuning in for today's second date update. Henry is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us today. He wants to call
Speaker 1: a girl named Leslie. They met at a five k
Speaker 1: before the race. He was like, hey, I bet you
Speaker 1: If I beat you, I have to take you out
Speaker 1: for lunch, and then she giggled. I was like okay,
Speaker 1: and then he ended up beating her and they went
Speaker 1: out to lunch, and apparently they had a romantic lunchtime
Speaker 1: date after their race, and a certain point that romantic
Speaker 1: lunch date turned straight up down and dirty, when he says,
Speaker 1: the conversation turned to all sorts of sexual things, something
Speaker 1: that usually doesn't happen over lunch on a first date.
Speaker 1: So he's very confused how he would have this open
Speaker 1: of a conversation with a girl and she would not
Speaker 1: be calling him back. Henry are you ready to give
Speaker 1: miss Dirty Talk a call. I'm ready and find out
Speaker 1: why she's not getting back to you. I'm ready. And
Speaker 1: are you thinking of her as like this could be
Speaker 1: a potential girlfriend or you just really curious on whether
Speaker 1: or not she truly is wild in the sack booth? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm a commendable. I'm in a dollar phone
Speaker 1: number right now. See if we can get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and find out why she's not getting back
Speaker 1: to you. Okay, okay, thank you? Hello, Hi, can I
Speaker 1: speak to Leslie? Please? Yes? This is her? Hey, Leslie?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Hi, Hi, how are you? I'm okay?
Speaker 1: Who is this? Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning,
Speaker 1: the radio show. What exactly is this regarding? It's regarding
Speaker 1: somebody that you recently went on a date with. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with somebody that
Speaker 1: listens to our show and you haven't been calling them back.
Speaker 1: So he actually emailed us to see if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and find out why you've
Speaker 1: been blowing him off. Who is it? His name is Henry?
Speaker 1: Oh lord, you remember Henry He said that you guys
Speaker 1: met at a five k and then went out for
Speaker 1: lunch after. Yeah, okay, is there a reason why you're
Speaker 1: not calling Henry back? He says, he's tried to get
Speaker 1: a hold of you bunch. Oh, there definitely is a reason.
Speaker 1: Do you mind sharing it with us so that we
Speaker 1: can tell him. I don't even know what happened. It
Speaker 1: was like, you know, when I met him, he at
Speaker 1: the road race. He was really funny. He was, you know,
Speaker 1: telling some jokes and I thought that was kind of cute.
Speaker 1: And he said that he made a little bet with
Speaker 1: you before you guys started running. Yeah he did. That
Speaker 1: was I mean, it was kind of cute. It was
Speaker 1: a little cocky, but it was. It was cute, all right. Well,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you liked him a lot, So what
Speaker 1: was it that turned you off? Well, it was a
Speaker 1: normal date at first. You know, we sat down and
Speaker 1: we were talking about my job, and then all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, out of nowhere, the conversation went from my
Speaker 1: job to sex and yeah, yeah, what do you mean,
Speaker 1: how do you even make that transition? I have no idea.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, he started asking about me and
Speaker 1: my sexual experiences, with other people and other women, and
Speaker 1: I was like, where did this come from? And just
Speaker 1: out of the blue, nowhere, he just goes down a
Speaker 1: weird sexual path on you. Yes, out of nowhere. It
Speaker 1: just caught me off guard. I didn't know what to do,
Speaker 1: so I just went along with it. Oh my god, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, what would you do if you were in
Speaker 1: my situation? Like he just started talking to me about
Speaker 1: multiple partners, and I was I had no idea what
Speaker 1: I was, what I was doing. I was like an
Speaker 1: out of body experience. We talked to him and he
Speaker 1: said that you guys both mutually started talking about all
Speaker 1: kinds of sexual stuff. No, no, he definitely brought it up.
Speaker 1: And all I wanted to do was get out of there.
Speaker 1: That was all that I was thinking about, Like, how
Speaker 1: can I end this lunch so that I can like
Speaker 1: leave as fast as possible. Why didn't you just do?
Speaker 1: I mean, why didn't you tell him that those are
Speaker 1: totally inappropriate questions during a lunch date and you're just
Speaker 1: not comfortable? I mean, I just I guess. I was
Speaker 1: so in shocked about how the conversation just took a
Speaker 1: turn sexual. That is so weird. We talked to him,
Speaker 1: and like I said, he was just like, oh, she
Speaker 1: started talking about it, and then we both started talking
Speaker 1: about it. I had nothing to do with it. And actually,
Speaker 1: at one point he said, and I quote, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: totally into that. I'd be down for that. And I
Speaker 1: didn't unsay anything sexual at all. I wonder what he
Speaker 1: was thinking he'd be down for. Wouldn't you love to
Speaker 1: ask him? Oh my god, no, I don't ever want to.
Speaker 1: It's a shame because Henry's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening right now. Oh my god, Henry, he's on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yes he is, Henry. How are you going to explain yourself?
Speaker 1: What were you doing? I don't understand. Like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: but like you were absolutely talking about sex stuff, and
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I hate to say it, though,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I never bought up sex. Are you serious? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean what about all the bye talk? You know,
Speaker 1: what whoa the what you said you were by? And
Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, you're telling me you were
Speaker 1: like opening up for something. I'm like, okay, Oh my gosh, no,
Speaker 1: I never I never said I was by. Where did
Speaker 1: you get that from? You said you were you said
Speaker 1: you were by coastal and and and so like you know,
Speaker 1: I mean I started, you said you were by coastal
Speaker 1: like four times, and yes, I said I was by coastal.
Speaker 1: Bi coastal is not bisexual. Bi coastal means I work
Speaker 1: on both the East and West coast, not bisexual meaning
Speaker 1: I have multiple partners. There's definitely a huge difference. I mean,
Speaker 1: I thought it was like a slang term for that. No,
Speaker 1: bi coastal like that. A lot of people say bi coastal, Henry,
Speaker 1: are you serious, Henry? Right now, I don't know what
Speaker 1: to say. I thought that's what it was. So you
Speaker 1: like launched into a lot of questions about her sexuality
Speaker 1: because you thought that she was confessing to you she
Speaker 1: was a bisexual. Yeah, I guess that's what I thought. Yeah,
Speaker 1: bi coastal is a very popular phrase for people that
Speaker 1: work on both the East and the West coast. And
Speaker 1: so was it. After she said that that you were like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm into that. She kept talking, she kept talking about it,
Speaker 1: so I thought, oh, she wants to talk about our sexuality. Okay, Henry,
Speaker 1: you were you were such a dumb I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: I don't know everything that I just I really genuinely
Speaker 1: thought it was like a slang term. I'm not an idiot,
Speaker 1: and I thought you were trying to ask me if
Speaker 1: I was into it. I'm not like homophobic or bisexual
Speaker 1: phobic or something obviously not. You're actually very pro bisexuality,
Speaker 1: judging from your conversation, Henry. Either way I mean mix
Speaker 1: up or no mix up. You don't ask about sexual
Speaker 1: experiences on the first dage on, Leslie. You can see
Speaker 1: that it was a mistake. It's almost endearing word right there. Hey, Leslie,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Henry? We will pay for it. Yeah, come on
Speaker 1: on whatever coast do you want to be on? You free?
Speaker 1: You know, Henry? I just I don't know that I
Speaker 1: can really look at you seriously anymore after our first date.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh well, I'm sorry too. Sorry, Henry. You
Speaker 1: the best, though, And now I hope that this was
Speaker 1: an educational experience for you and you can take this
Speaker 1: into your next state dating experience. At least you learned
Speaker 1: a new word today, Henry. And just out of precaution,
Speaker 1: I just want a tricycle is a bike with three wheels,
Speaker 1: In case anybody ever brings that up. Okay, yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: pass the boat cab tests now