WEBVTT - Power To The People! 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:21.000 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:25.360 another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. My bad, 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.240 I'm about to cut you off. What's up? What's up? Everyone? 0:00:27.280 --> 0:00:32.160 I am Robin Dixon. Hi, Robin. Robbin is eating candy. 0:00:32.520 --> 0:00:34.880 Robin is being really I don't know what it is 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:38.400 right now, she's hungry. I don't all like those soft peppermints. Yeah, 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:42.360 that dissolving your mouth like that the old people eat. Okay, 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.880 don't you love what bad? No, I'm gonna I'm gonna. 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:48.920 When we're not recording an episode, I'm gonna put this 0:00:48.920 --> 0:00:51.839 in my mouth. Okay, I'm sorry. I know you don't 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.840 want to that. Okay, all right, So, per usual, we 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:57.000 have a reasonably Shady moment of the week, and let 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:59.040 me tell you something. I got one. Of course you do. 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:12.200 I got one because I'm a little mad. Okay, So 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:17.760 are you all familiar with the brand the company Ben 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:21.320 and Jerry's never heard of him. This would be ice cream, 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:24.199 and yes you've heard of them, Okay, New York Super 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:28.760 Chunk Budge, Chunky, Monkey Fish Food. I can just name 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.320 all them. I think you heard of them. Yeah, So 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.760 I've been like a Ben and Jerry's like kind of 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:37.839 sore or you know ever. Okay, So, and my whole 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:39.840 thing with them is like they have all the stuff 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.880 and the inside they have like chocolate chips and fish 0:01:42.959 --> 0:01:46.800 chips and white chocolate chips and cookie dough and you know, 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:50.720 caramel swirls, and it's like so much that you get 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:54.120 all kinds of other things outside of ice cream, and 0:01:54.280 --> 0:01:57.640 every mouthful when you go into the Ben and Jerry's 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.360 when once you start eating it, Okay, yes, have all 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:03.000 like the mixings in it. And it's if you if 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:04.680 you go to your grocery store and you buy like 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:07.320 a little pine or whatever, and it's so much stuff 0:02:07.320 --> 0:02:11.079 in there. So it's like amazing. So let me guess 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:14.040 where this is going. Where you had you had some 0:02:14.760 --> 0:02:17.120 you put a spoof on your mouth and there was 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:20.200 a rattail in it? What No, that's not No, I 0:02:20.200 --> 0:02:22.880 would be sewing. I would be rich right now. Okay. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:25.880 So where I'm going with this is they've cut back 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:29.120 on the things that they mix into their ice creams. 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:31.359 So like, for instance, with New York Superchunk Fuds, you 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:35.000 would get like walnuts, and I think chalk, the chips 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:39.360 and marshmallows, all this stuff, um, and now it's like 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:42.640 half of it. Now they're being skimpy, skimpy. Same thing. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:46.160 Have you even noticed that the sizes of ice cream 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:50.320 containers have gotten smaller? The prices are the same, they 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:52.519 have gone up. Yes, so price is the same, but 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:54.120 you don't have all of my stuff that you'll used 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:56.200 to put in it, y'all A shady ben and Jerry's 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:57.800 and y'all thought I wouldn't notice. So let me tell 0:02:57.840 --> 0:02:59.640 you what happened. So I bought one flavor and I 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.520 was like, this ain't the same. Let me buy another flavor, 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:04.440 and it was the same with that one too. So 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:06.640 they know what they're doing. They're trying to save money. 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:08.920 On the strength of my back. Guess what, I'm not 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:12.119 here for it, no, but you know it's like, this 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:16.240 is what the pandemic has done. This the pandemic has 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:19.480 affected so many industries, you know, I mean. But the 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:23.120 thing is now any company or business can use that 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:28.360 as an excuse or a reason they the supply on 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:32.919 chocolate syrup is low. You know, you gotta put that 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:35.520 on the container. You just can't assume that I know 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:38.720 that there's a supply chain issue. Well, you know what, 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:40.760 then stop buying it and then they'll get the hint 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.880 and then they'll fix it. Oh, I'm done, I'm done. 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:44.720 I I I ain't done buying Ben and Jerry's. So 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:47.560 they fix the problem. Or and my thing is quality. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:49.800 You can't give me less quality and expect me to 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:53.360 pay the same amount of money. Exactly. Yes, okay, so now, 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.320 but but no now thinks like I said, things are 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.560 going the opposite way. You're getting less and less for 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.640 the same amount of money. And they're just they're trying 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:03.080 to just eyes that. They're like changing the packaging and no, 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.200 it's actually like if you look at the weights, if 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.360 you look at the size, is everything is smaller and 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.160 if they're helping me out actually because I'm trying to 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.080 have a washboard stomach. So thank you very much Ben 0:04:11.080 --> 0:04:15.240 and Jerry's for skipping me because I'm done with exactly. Yes, okay, 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:19.440 So my shady moment goes to my brother in law. Um, 0:04:19.480 --> 0:04:20.800 you know they got a baby in the house, We 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:22.760 got some Okay, is he still with you? They're still here, 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:24.680 they're still living with you. They're still here, but they're 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.799 they're they're going to be gone soon. They're they're actually 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:28.480 supposed to be moving. They were supposed to moved out 0:04:28.480 --> 0:04:31.240 a while ago. But what happen, what had happened was 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.760 they they got a new place, they got all the 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:38.920 furniture delivered from Florida, and somebody I don't know who 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.320 it was, the movers and my brother in law lost 0:04:41.400 --> 0:04:46.720 the screws to the bid. Right, So that's the excuse 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:48.880 that they're using for staying in y'all's house. They don't 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:52.840 have screws, whisper. There's a home depot down the street, right, 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.680 so they've gone to whom depot to buy screws and 0:04:56.279 --> 0:04:59.360 like none of the screws are the right screws, so 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.040 so so right, other like waiting I think they had 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:02.640 to order like a whole bunch of different screws. They're 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.840 waiting for them to come. So anyway, so that's one 0:05:04.839 --> 0:05:06.200 of the things. I think. It was like screws for 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:09.320 the bids, at least for the crib. So anyway, so 0:05:09.360 --> 0:05:11.520 they're still here. Yeah, but it goes to my brother 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:14.760 in law because like last week I noticed that there 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.560 was like his fiancee was out of town, so it's 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.159 not her fault. So I noticed there was two baby 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:24.560 bottles um in the in the sink right right, just 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:26.440 sitting there. And so I said, okay, I'm gonna do 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:28.800 the dishes, but I'm gonna lead of baby bottles. And 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:31.600 because they don't I don't have a baby right now. 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:33.279 You don't have baby. I don't have a baby bottles. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:35.560 And so you know, I did the dishes, put them away. 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:38.560 Next day, I did the dishes, put them away. Next day, 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.800 did the dishes put you know, like this is like 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:45.479 ten eight days later, and the baby bottles are still there. 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.160 They're still there. They're still there, and I'm just like, 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.600 what are they using to feed the baby and her 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:55.680 boob and her booms? And I'm just like, they got 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.279 to go. So it might supposed to wash this baby bottle. 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:02.080 Apparently they're waiting you that way, No, Robin and y 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:06.480 I'm sorry, I'm whispering because they're like in the next room, 0:06:05.880 --> 0:06:08.960 and the acoustics in my house, you know, I'm still 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.720 waiting for furniture and so to stay on travels very 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:15.440 easily at my house. I'm whispering. I am tired of 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:18.760 seeing these baby bottles in my sink, and I refuse. 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:24.480 I am mad at you, Okay, But more or more importantly, 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:27.360 we have some other things to discuss. Because this is February. Y'all. 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:33.080 Y'all know what that means. Black History ball. Okay, So 0:06:33.560 --> 0:06:35.960 let's be clear. We're black every day, so it shouldn't 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:39.039 be a month. It should be every day. But it 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:41.360 happens to be the shortest month. How shady is that? Yes, 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:44.880 it's very shady. However, we we will take it, Black people. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.400 We're gonna take our month, yes, absolutely, with pride. Yes. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:51.520 So my recommendation is, you know, because this is Black 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:56.560 History Month and there's so many black leaders and entrepreneurs 0:06:56.760 --> 0:07:01.279 and just like super bad people like your kid about 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.559 a black um person in history that they don't know about. 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.360 Like that's my recommendation, Like every day, try to teach 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.840 your kid about a different black person that they can 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:12.360 be proud of, that they can look up to. I agree, 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:15.240 I agree, And I almost feel like I remember in school. 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:18.560 I remember I felt like Black History Month was actually 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.720 a thing, you know, like I remember, really it was 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:24.800 something that we we had um plays or not, what 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.800 like assemblies and stuff geared towards Black History Month and 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.760 a lot of programming, and now I just I don't 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:34.440 see that anymore. It's almost just kind of like, yeah, 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.280 they might put a little display up on the wall 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:41.120 and that's it, right. So so so let's let's recommend 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:45.080 that moms, dad's, y'all get into your kids school and 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.200 make sure they have a Black History Month program, a 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.800 speaker coming in somebody like talking to the kids and 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:54.240 really sharing, because you know, the white kids don't know 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.760 what black people before them have done exact Lord, what 0:07:57.800 --> 0:08:02.040 about the critical thinking thing? Yeah, it's just that's a slippery, slow, 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:04.120 slipper slow. But guess what, we gotta do it, because 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:05.880 if they gave us some mothing, it's the shortest month, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:09.320 God damn it. We got to be proud of our history, right, 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:11.280 and if it's not being taught in the school, then, 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:14.119 like just Ll said, you know, spend some time, um 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:18.120 educating yourself your children. And even this goes not just 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.360 to you know, non black people, but black people. We 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.600 need to educate our kids as well, because I feel 0:08:23.640 --> 0:08:25.560 like so much of the stuff that I learned as 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:31.280 a kid, um my, my kids aren't learning as through 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:33.560 the same vehicles. You know what, I mean, like before, 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.480 you know, our parents were so prideful too, they would 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.559 teach us stuff. Um, organizations that we belong to, we 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:41.880 teach us stuff. And like I said, I learned stuff 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:45.120 in the schools. Now, I just feel like because times 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:47.920 are a little bit different, um, and people try to 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:53.000 make race not an issue anymore, that like we don't 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:56.840 our kids aren't learning about race. And I need for 0:08:56.880 --> 0:08:58.840 people to understand the reason why I'm encouraging you to 0:08:58.880 --> 0:09:02.800 like share all different kinds of black people in history, 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:07.239 because there's more than just mar Luther King, Barack Obama 0:09:07.440 --> 0:09:11.280 and Muhammad Ali exactly right. So like, if that's all 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.640 your kid knows as far as a black person is concerned, 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:15.640 that's the problem and it's on you. So it's your 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:19.319 responsibility to teach them more and better, exactly. And it's clear. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:21.120 I mean, look, I know this is probably a couple 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.760 of weeks ago, but one of our former Bravo cot 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:27.839 leagues UM on Salt Lake City Real Hospital, Salt Lake City. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:31.720 It's clear she missed a Black History month. Her name 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:35.480 is Jenny. She got fired. Thank you very much Bravo 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:38.920 for taking care of that. But she was on her Facebook. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.720 They didn't pulled up some old posts. She oh, it 0:09:41.760 --> 0:09:43.560 was like two years ago. It was two years ago. 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:49.440 She made some very uncomfortable, off color comments about George Floyd, 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:54.000 about the police, and she needed to go just in m. 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:57.000 I mean it wasn't even that My issue was. It 0:09:57.080 --> 0:10:01.520 wasn't just one one post, No, it was multiple, many, 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:04.080 over and over again. It was very enthusiastic. You could 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:07.720 tell that she, you know, really was had a strong 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:11.160 belief um and it and its stemmed from a very 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:16.400 ignorant place where it's clear she she missed a whole 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:20.640 lot of lessons on Black History Month. Um, very out 0:10:20.640 --> 0:10:26.240 of touch. I am glad that Bravo did the right thing. Um. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:29.120 And yeah, we that's about it with her, Yes, that's 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:31.360 about it. And Bravo did come out and say, hey, 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:34.600 when we do hire new Housewives, we will do our 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:38.840 due diligence. We will do you know, more research before 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.080 we hire that. Right. So because this should have been 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.800 caught before she got hired, absolutely, I mean, because it 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.320 wasn't that long ago, and I guess it was still 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.960 up on her Facebook. I don't. I'm so cute. I 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:51.000 want to know the person that like that put it 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:56.360 out there, like yes, exactly. Can we interview you the 0:10:56.400 --> 0:11:01.880 person that dug up Jenny's Facebook posts a d M. Yes, 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.120 But let this be a lesson for anyone out here 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:06.800 listening that wants to be a housewife or on a 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:11.000 reality TV platform. Hey, you've been a clean your mess up? 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:22.640 Right up? Okay, now speaking of cleaning up in education? Okay, 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:24.960 So I saw something on Twitter. No, I think it 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:28.920 was on the Instagram that rappers. It listed rappers and 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:32.520 their high school g p A. S Okay, So j 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:37.079 Cole had a four point two drake, your buddy had 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:43.880 a three point four. The baby had a one point eight. Okay, 0:11:43.960 --> 0:11:47.520 And how do we know that this is factual? Is? Wait? 0:11:47.679 --> 0:11:50.280 Now do we get this information? The baby said this 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:52.880 was cat he said this was a lie, but he 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:56.120 did not give what his g p A was, right, 0:11:56.160 --> 0:11:59.320 So that leads me to believe that it was probably 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:03.800 one point nine. Right. So my point is, Okay, these 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:06.080 kids in schools, we need to like stay on top 0:12:06.120 --> 0:12:08.480 of them and make sure that they are getting an education. Oh. 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:11.120 Absolutely absolutely. I mean, I'm sorry, I would not be 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.520 surprised if that was the baby's not because he's not 0:12:14.679 --> 0:12:17.600 smart or intelligent. But you know, he probably was focused 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:22.000 a little bit more on some other things. So, um, 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.880 but I'm sorry, J Colden like a four point I 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.920 can see that A J. Coley's four point two. Yeah, yeah, 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.480 I can see that. I can see Drake three point 0:12:29.480 --> 0:12:32.160 four because Drake is literally not like, so we want 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:34.720 a five point on scale? Now, yes, what's happening? Angel 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.640 has a four? He did? Come on? Now what Angel? 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:42.480 My daughter? YESO, So that's that's not it's on a 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:46.079 five point scale. So you gets on a four point 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:49.400 scale and she's getting extra So if you take honest classes, 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:54.000 those count those way heavier, right, so you can get 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:57.840 up to a five point Oh okay, well she's not 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:03.880 doing good, then what are you doing? Okay, morning on 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.480 the Shady one today she has it eaten? Okay, Robin, 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:11.360 I watched Oh no before I tell you what I watched. Okay, 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:13.720 real quickly, because y'all know, we talked about Adele like 0:13:13.760 --> 0:13:16.640 four times. I wanted I wanted to go to the concert, 0:13:16.840 --> 0:13:18.960 but I said in tickets were too high, and then 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:24.360 God said she's not having a concert. Is it like crazy? 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.480 Protect you? I know it's but it's it crazy for 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:28.920 me to say that. God stopped Adele's concert because her 0:13:28.960 --> 0:13:35.120 tickets were too expensive. Well, no, it is absolutely should 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:38.680 we blame this on God? I mean I think, okay, 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:42.520 the I'm not gonna blame it on God, but I 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:47.000 think when you are charging that much for tickets, then 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.560 your show better be flawless, and and God didn't appreciate it, 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:53.880 so that the show went away. But recently what what 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:56.520 did They said she was crying in the corner a right, 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.560 They said that she she was on well and this 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:01.400 is day so who is they? Right? A source? A 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:05.120 source said that during the rehearsals and stuff, she was 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:08.839 always on the phone crying and screaming talking to her boyfriend, 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.920 her boat rich Paul. Yes he's he's causing her some 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:15.800 agony or something and she can't focus on the show. 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:19.240 But then also I heard that the production quality was 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:22.240 not craig and she had a pool and the pool 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:25.760 wasn't right and in the rain coming down didn't work. 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:28.520 It was to take a sales take your sales went 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:32.080 left on her ass. Okay, they went left on her ass. 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.160 So anyway, a doubt. Whenever it all comes together, my 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.880 recommendation is you lower your ticket prices and Giselle will 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.960 be there front rock. Yes, you know what, lower the 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:45.320 ticket prices forget about all the theatrics and just and 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.640 just sing that you can sing, just say. They don't 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.560 need to see all that extra stuff. They know what 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:53.520 they're gonna get. They're gonna get a bunch of who 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:58.400 That's what they're gonna get. Like, just give us. They 0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:01.920 paid for it. They come from the Vegas Sport. Robin 0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:06.720 is Robin is wrong, Adele and Rich Paul be nice 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:08.800 to her. She's trying to get her concept together, not 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.520 just be nice. Rich said, I am not trying to 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:14.720 be settled down like that. Listen, okay, getting into that 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:19.160 thought you just got divorced. You wasn't under me. Listen. Okay. 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:21.400 There's some little people running around right now, and I 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:24.280 just want you all this is a cautionary tale. Okay. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:29.080 It's some little girls running around right now, and they're treacherous. 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:31.400 What are we talking about. They're selling Girl Scout cooks. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:36.640 It's Girl Scout cookie season, okay, and I've already been 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.560 hit up fifteen times upside my head. And guess what, 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:43.120 I didn't order about five hundred boxes of Girl Scout cookies. 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:47.360 So everybody listening. D M j Lle and tell tell 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:51.640 her that your daughter is selling girls because she's gonna 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:53.880 buy them. No, I'm not. I have I have my 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:58.320 full um lot meant for the season girl Scout cookie down, 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.040 yes now. But I do of you'all to know that 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.400 these girls casts are serious. They are treacherous. You come 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:05.200 out of a grocery store and they're standing there with that, 0:16:05.600 --> 0:16:09.000 and they're so cute, right, that's so cute with their 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:11.840 little table and they're little set up and their little 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:15.000 entrepreneurs and then they're in your face and the next thing, 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.880 you know, you didn't bought fifty boxes. I know, we'll see. 0:16:17.960 --> 0:16:19.480 Here's the thing I do. I don't, but I don't. 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:22.400 I don't like girls Scout cookies, right, I think they're gross. 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:25.520 I like them, I don't. I don't. They're all hard 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:28.560 and crispy and like, you know, weird, all these weird 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.680 flavors and stuff. Look, I just want a soft chocolate 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.640 chip cookie, you know what I'm saying? Like, just give 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:36.960 me that, that's all or oreo cookie. Okay. So when 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.480 the little cute girl Scout rolls up on you, what 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:41.400 are you gonna do? Hey? Or take this money and 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:45.520 beat it? Here here's my donation. No, but what I 0:16:45.560 --> 0:16:49.360 do so so people will email me links to their 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:52.760 child's girls Scout cookie website or whatever. And there's an 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:57.040 option to donate boxes to troops. So I'll just like 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:00.880 donate whatever, having many boxes to troops. Okay, to be done. Okay, 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:04.400 and I've done that multiple times so far. Okay, very good, 0:17:04.520 --> 0:17:08.000 very good? All right, guys, this is our segment done? Done? Duh? 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:19.639 Is it reasonable or is it shady? Now? You guys 0:17:19.640 --> 0:17:23.119 have been sending us some store reads Okay, and we 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.000 truly appreciate it. Robin, you have one. I mean, it 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.040 makes me feel good that, like, you know, I ain't 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:30.400 the only one with crazy craziness going on in my life, 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:31.640 you know what I'm saying. That's but that's what we're 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:35.119 here for. We're here to let everyone know that life 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:38.639 is like a box of chocolates and it ain't perfect. Yeah, 0:17:38.680 --> 0:17:41.080 we're all going through some ships. Let's see what do 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:46.400 I have? So Fantasia rights, Fantasia, the Fantasia Fantasia. Oh yeah, girl? 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:49.439 Are we is it really? We are? In double A 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:53.600 CP Image Award nomined. No, I'm joking. It's not the 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:59.080 real Fantasia okay, Okay, So Fantasia Rights. Hey ladies. Okay, First, 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:01.199 I love your podcast and haven't been and have been 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:04.720 a fan since season one. Arch. So, my husband and 0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:07.120 I are having a debate about the guest room slash 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:12.760 baby room in our apartment keyword apartments. Okay. I told 0:18:12.800 --> 0:18:15.320 him I feel it's unfair for our son to have 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.120 to share a room with anyone that decides they want 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:20.840 to come visit us. Any family and friends that want 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:23.080 to visit should be able to get a hotel room, 0:18:23.119 --> 0:18:26.720 specifically his family, because my family thinks it's weird to 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:28.960 stay with the married couple in their home when they 0:18:29.000 --> 0:18:31.359 come to visit. But to be honest, it's because I 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:34.159 don't want his mom to feel too comfortable thinking that 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:36.440 she can just come to my house, dictate what I 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:40.040 do with my son, and invade my space whenever she wants. Okay. 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.840 So this is a two bedroom apartment, one bedroom for 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:46.520 them for guess what it's feeling like. Okay. So I 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:48.640 told my husband it's time to take out the queen 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:51.720 size bed out of the guest room and just add 0:18:51.760 --> 0:18:53.760 my son's big boy bed so he can feel like 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:57.439 he has his own Spacey, I feel kids need their 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.920 own sanctuary as well, him and his mom, or like, 0:19:01.520 --> 0:19:03.480 why not just leave the queen bed in there and 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:07.280 place his bed next to it? Oh god, So this 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.240 slipped out of my mouth and I said, ma'am, this 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:11.280 is my house. My son will have his own room. 0:19:11.320 --> 0:19:12.840 And if people want to come see us that bad, 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:15.000 they can go to a hotel. If you can't afford 0:19:15.040 --> 0:19:17.840 a hotel, then you shouldn't be traveling out here. What's 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:23.760 that too? Shady? Like fantation? You shady girl. I personally 0:19:23.800 --> 0:19:25.800 feel like they both had it coming because I can't 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:28.000 make any decisions without him running to his mom for 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:31.000 her opinion. Oh no, there's a whole lot of shady 0:19:31.040 --> 0:19:35.040 that's going on. Okay, So okay, I'm with her. So 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:39.280 what she did was reasonable, but how she had yes, yes, 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:42.520 the way she she said it and communicated it with 0:19:42.680 --> 0:19:46.960 shady yes. So yeah, I mean, no, how old is 0:19:47.000 --> 0:19:50.000 the sun to just say, well, he's old enough for 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:52.160 a big boy bed, so he's got to be would 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:56.239 be like two, he could be like two, three right too? Right? Well, 0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:57.360 I don't know, I mean, I don't know if we're 0:19:57.359 --> 0:20:00.160 going from a crib to a bed or like uh, 0:20:00.640 --> 0:20:04.359 let's say he's five. Okay, all right, but still he 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:07.240 shouldn't have to share his room with a empty, big 0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:10.879 old queen bed for the guest that's gonna come every 0:20:10.880 --> 0:20:13.320 now and then. No, I don't want my child in 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:17.560 the same room as grandma, right yeah, yeah, like for 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:20.480 an extended stay. And how long does this go on for? 0:20:20.840 --> 0:20:24.520 Like is he going to be like and Grandma's sleeping 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:29.520 in the room and here this mother in law is 0:20:29.560 --> 0:20:32.399 in their business about other things. That's how That's what 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:35.000 I'm feeling, right, So I'm thinking if the mom wasn't 0:20:35.080 --> 0:20:38.159 as involved in your relationship, or the son and the 0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:41.240 mom weren't so connected, then maybe it would be kind 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:44.920 of like, Okay, all right, here's the solution. Is there 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:47.040 anything wrong with the mom sleeping on an air mattress? 0:20:47.400 --> 0:20:49.359 What you can't put your mom on an air mattress, Now, 0:20:50.000 --> 0:20:54.640 that's shade, got like real thick pillow top ones. Okay, 0:20:54.640 --> 0:20:55.800 But what you can do is put your mother in 0:20:55.800 --> 0:21:00.840 a nice hotel around the corner down the street. Yes, 0:21:01.080 --> 0:21:04.240 but plantage your tone, honey, your tone real shady. Let's 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:14.720 let's clean that up, sweetie. Yeah, yeah, that's a little shady. Okay, Okay. 0:21:14.720 --> 0:21:19.359 So this is from Caitlin Dorsey. Okay, you know she 0:21:19.400 --> 0:21:22.600 says great things. I love you guys, I love hl P. 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:25.560 She said she moved to Bristol in September and she 0:21:25.600 --> 0:21:29.399 has a male roommate who's subleasing. Now Bristol, that's like 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:31.679 out of the country. Just make that clear. Bristol's not 0:21:31.720 --> 0:21:35.280 in this Crystal England. Bristol, England. Oh, this is from 0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:38.520 the other side of the pond. So should I talk 0:21:38.520 --> 0:21:41.879 in an accent this whole thing? I should? Okay, how 0:21:41.920 --> 0:21:46.159 are you doing? Okay? Catlyn Dorsey said she moved to 0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:49.600 Bristol in September. Okay, that I didn't mix British with 0:21:50.040 --> 0:21:53.080 we don't know you? Are you British? You Australia? Where 0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:55.640 we're doing here? Okay, I'm just gonna be black girl 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:58.040 here we go, all right. So she moved to Bristol 0:21:58.080 --> 0:22:00.159 in September and she has a male roommate who's sub 0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:03.760 leaves the apartment with her. She's twenty five and he 0:22:04.080 --> 0:22:06.440