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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. My bad,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to cut you off. What's up? What's up? Everyone?

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Speaker 1: I am Robin Dixon. Hi, Robin. Robbin is eating candy.

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Speaker 1: Robin is being really I don't know what it is

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Speaker 1: right now, she's hungry. I don't all like those soft peppermints. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that dissolving your mouth like that the old people eat. Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't you love what bad? No, I'm gonna I'm gonna.

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Speaker 1: When we're not recording an episode, I'm gonna put this

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Speaker 1: in my mouth. Okay, I'm sorry. I know you don't

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Speaker 1: want to that. Okay, all right, So, per usual, we

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Speaker 1: have a reasonably Shady moment of the week, and let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. I got one. Of course you do.

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Speaker 1: I got one because I'm a little mad. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: are you all familiar with the brand the company Ben

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Speaker 1: and Jerry's never heard of him. This would be ice cream,

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Speaker 1: and yes you've heard of them, Okay, New York Super

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Speaker 1: Chunk Budge, Chunky, Monkey Fish Food. I can just name

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Speaker 1: all them. I think you heard of them. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: I've been like a Ben and Jerry's like kind of

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Speaker 1: sore or you know ever. Okay, So, and my whole

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Speaker 1: thing with them is like they have all the stuff

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Speaker 1: and the inside they have like chocolate chips and fish

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Speaker 1: chips and white chocolate chips and cookie dough and you know,

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Speaker 1: caramel swirls, and it's like so much that you get

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Speaker 1: all kinds of other things outside of ice cream, and

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Speaker 1: every mouthful when you go into the Ben and Jerry's

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Speaker 1: when once you start eating it, Okay, yes, have all

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Speaker 1: like the mixings in it. And it's if you if

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Speaker 1: you go to your grocery store and you buy like

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Speaker 1: a little pine or whatever, and it's so much stuff

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Speaker 1: in there. So it's like amazing. So let me guess

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Speaker 1: where this is going. Where you had you had some

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Speaker 1: you put a spoof on your mouth and there was

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Speaker 1: a rattail in it? What No, that's not No, I

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Speaker 1: would be sewing. I would be rich right now. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So where I'm going with this is they've cut back

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Speaker 1: on the things that they mix into their ice creams.

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Speaker 1: So like, for instance, with New York Superchunk Fuds, you

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Speaker 1: would get like walnuts, and I think chalk, the chips

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Speaker 1: and marshmallows, all this stuff, um, and now it's like

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Speaker 1: half of it. Now they're being skimpy, skimpy. Same thing.

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Speaker 1: Have you even noticed that the sizes of ice cream

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Speaker 1: containers have gotten smaller? The prices are the same, they

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Speaker 1: have gone up. Yes, so price is the same, but

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Speaker 1: you don't have all of my stuff that you'll used

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Speaker 1: to put in it, y'all A shady ben and Jerry's

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Speaker 1: and y'all thought I wouldn't notice. So let me tell

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Speaker 1: you what happened. So I bought one flavor and I

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Speaker 1: was like, this ain't the same. Let me buy another flavor,

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Speaker 1: and it was the same with that one too. So

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Speaker 1: they know what they're doing. They're trying to save money.

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Speaker 1: On the strength of my back. Guess what, I'm not

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Speaker 1: here for it, no, but you know it's like, this

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Speaker 1: is what the pandemic has done. This the pandemic has

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Speaker 1: affected so many industries, you know, I mean. But the

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Speaker 1: thing is now any company or business can use that

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Speaker 1: as an excuse or a reason they the supply on

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Speaker 1: chocolate syrup is low. You know, you gotta put that

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Speaker 1: on the container. You just can't assume that I know

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Speaker 1: that there's a supply chain issue. Well, you know what,

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Speaker 1: then stop buying it and then they'll get the hint

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Speaker 1: and then they'll fix it. Oh, I'm done, I'm done.

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Speaker 1: I I I ain't done buying Ben and Jerry's. So

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Speaker 1: they fix the problem. Or and my thing is quality.

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Speaker 1: You can't give me less quality and expect me to

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Speaker 1: pay the same amount of money. Exactly. Yes, okay, so now,

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Speaker 1: but but no now thinks like I said, things are

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Speaker 1: going the opposite way. You're getting less and less for

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Speaker 1: the same amount of money. And they're just they're trying

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Speaker 1: to just eyes that. They're like changing the packaging and no,

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Speaker 1: it's actually like if you look at the weights, if

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Speaker 1: you look at the size, is everything is smaller and

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Speaker 1: if they're helping me out actually because I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: have a washboard stomach. So thank you very much Ben

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Speaker 1: and Jerry's for skipping me because I'm done with exactly. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: So my shady moment goes to my brother in law. Um,

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Speaker 1: you know they got a baby in the house, We

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Speaker 1: got some Okay, is he still with you? They're still here,

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Speaker 1: they're still living with you. They're still here, but they're

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Speaker 1: they're they're going to be gone soon. They're they're actually

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Speaker 1: supposed to be moving. They were supposed to moved out

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Speaker 1: a while ago. But what happen, what had happened was

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Speaker 1: they they got a new place, they got all the

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Speaker 1: furniture delivered from Florida, and somebody I don't know who

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Speaker 1: it was, the movers and my brother in law lost

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Speaker 1: the screws to the bid. Right, So that's the excuse

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Speaker 1: that they're using for staying in y'all's house. They don't

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Speaker 1: have screws, whisper. There's a home depot down the street, right,

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Speaker 1: so they've gone to whom depot to buy screws and

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Speaker 1: like none of the screws are the right screws, so

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Speaker 1: so so right, other like waiting I think they had

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Speaker 1: waiting for them to come. So anyway, so that's one

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Speaker 1: of the things. I think. It was like screws for

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Speaker 1: the bids, at least for the crib. So anyway, so

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Speaker 1: they're still here. Yeah, but it goes to my brother

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Speaker 1: in law because like last week I noticed that there

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Speaker 1: not her fault. So I noticed there was two baby

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Speaker 1: bottles um in the in the sink right right, just

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Speaker 1: sitting there. And so I said, okay, I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: the dishes, but I'm gonna lead of baby bottles. And

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Speaker 1: because they don't I don't have a baby right now.

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Speaker 1: You don't have baby. I don't have a baby bottles.

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Speaker 1: And so you know, I did the dishes, put them away.

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Speaker 1: Next day, I did the dishes, put them away. Next day,

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Speaker 1: ten eight days later, and the baby bottles are still there.

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Speaker 1: They're still there. They're still there, and I'm just like,

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Speaker 1: what are they using to feed the baby and her

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Speaker 1: Apparently they're waiting you that way, No, Robin and y

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm whispering because they're like in the next room,

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Speaker 1: and the acoustics in my house, you know, I'm still

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Speaker 1: waiting for furniture and so to stay on travels very

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Speaker 1: easily at my house. I'm whispering. I am tired of

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Speaker 1: seeing these baby bottles in my sink, and I refuse.

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Speaker 1: I am mad at you, Okay, But more or more importantly,

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Speaker 1: we have some other things to discuss. Because this is February. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know what that means. Black History ball. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: let's be clear. We're black every day, so it shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be a month. It should be every day. But it

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Speaker 1: happens to be the shortest month. How shady is that? Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's very shady. However, we we will take it, Black people.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna take our month, yes, absolutely, with pride. Yes.

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Speaker 1: So my recommendation is, you know, because this is Black

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Speaker 1: History Month and there's so many black leaders and entrepreneurs

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Speaker 1: a black um person in history that they don't know about.

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Speaker 1: Like that's my recommendation, Like every day, try to teach

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Speaker 1: be proud of, that they can look up to. I agree,

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Speaker 1: I agree, And I almost feel like I remember in school.

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Speaker 1: I remember I felt like Black History Month was actually

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Speaker 1: something that we we had um plays or not, what

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Speaker 1: that moms, dad's, y'all get into your kids school and

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Speaker 1: make sure they have a Black History Month program, a

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Speaker 1: speaker coming in somebody like talking to the kids and

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Speaker 1: really sharing, because you know, the white kids don't know

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Speaker 1: what black people before them have done exact Lord, what

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Speaker 1: about the critical thinking thing? Yeah, it's just that's a slippery, slow,

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Speaker 1: slipper slow. But guess what, we gotta do it, because

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Speaker 1: if they gave us some mothing, it's the shortest month,

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Speaker 1: God damn it. We got to be proud of our history, right,

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Speaker 1: and if it's not being taught in the school, then,

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Speaker 1: like just Ll said, you know, spend some time, um

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Speaker 1: educating yourself your children. And even this goes not just

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Speaker 1: like so much of the stuff that I learned as

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Speaker 1: the same vehicles. You know what, I mean, like before,

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Speaker 1: people to understand the reason why I'm encouraging you to

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Speaker 1: because there's more than just mar Luther King, Barack Obama

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Speaker 1: responsibility to teach them more and better, exactly. And it's clear.

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Speaker 1: It's clear she missed a Black History month. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Jenny. She got fired. Thank you very much Bravo

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Speaker 1: for taking care of that. But she was on her Facebook.

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Speaker 1: They didn't pulled up some old posts. She oh, it

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Speaker 1: She made some very uncomfortable, off color comments about George Floyd,

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Speaker 1: about the police, and she needed to go just in m.

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Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't even that My issue was. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't just one one post, No, it was multiple, many,

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Speaker 1: belief um and it and its stemmed from a very

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Speaker 1: ignorant place where it's clear she she missed a whole

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Speaker 1: lot of lessons on Black History Month. Um, very out

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Speaker 1: of touch. I am glad that Bravo did the right thing. Um.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, we that's about it with her, Yes, that's

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Speaker 1: when we do hire new Housewives, we will do our

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Speaker 1: due diligence. We will do you know, more research before

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Speaker 1: we hire that. Right. So because this should have been

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Speaker 1: caught before she got hired, absolutely, I mean, because it

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Speaker 1: wasn't that long ago, and I guess it was still

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Speaker 1: want to know the person that like that put it

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Speaker 1: out there, like yes, exactly. Can we interview you the

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Speaker 1: person that dug up Jenny's Facebook posts a d M. Yes,

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Speaker 1: But let this be a lesson for anyone out here

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Speaker 1: listening that wants to be a housewife or on a

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Speaker 1: reality TV platform. Hey, you've been a clean your mess up?

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Speaker 1: Right up? Okay, now speaking of cleaning up in education? Okay,

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Speaker 1: be like no one. It wasn't like that. Cool We cool? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So long story short, Caitlin has a boot. Okay, she

421
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Speaker 1: has a real boyfriend. Alright, she met she met a guy.

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Speaker 1: He fell in love really quickly. Right, I met my

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Speaker 1: twin flame, ridiculously quick. A man, I'm head over heels

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Speaker 1: in love with and I met him the Tuesday just

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Speaker 1: before my birthday. For four weeks, we saw each other

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Speaker 1: four or five times every week, and he came over

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Speaker 1: quite often. On November fourteen, my roommate went to his

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Speaker 1: other apartment in Portugal until January, and ever since that

429
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Speaker 1: day he comes back, he's been bitching about every damn thing.

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Speaker 1: He texts me two hours after arriving back in the flat.

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Speaker 1: They have a flat, so you know they're in London,

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Speaker 1: because we don't say flat that he doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: feel like he's living with three people, because my boyfriend

434
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Speaker 1: and I were both at the apartment when he arrived.

435
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Speaker 1: I spent about half my time at my boyfriend's house.

436
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Speaker 1: But he says we're too loud when we are at

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Speaker 1: the flat, opening and closing doors, talking, laughing, and he's

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Speaker 1: heard sex noises and this listen in quote, this flat

439
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Speaker 1: isn't really designed for guests or for more than two people.

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00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: But mind jew this man isn't in school, doesn't have

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Speaker 1: a job, doesn't do ship ever, and it's just home

442
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: seven every day every night, stays up until one am,

443
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: smoking weed and making whole ass meals to eat and

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00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: proceeding to leave the kitchen and disarray. Child, this is

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Speaker 1: getting good. So they had a big fight, and she said,

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Speaker 1: in our second and last conversation we had about this

447
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Speaker 1: issue with me having my man over whenever I wanted to,

448
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Speaker 1: I said this, okay, So this is what we're trying

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Speaker 1: to figure out. Is either reasonable or shady? Okay? Because

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00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:45,920
Speaker 1: this man didn't even want her to have her boot

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Speaker 1: over to the house. How crazy is that? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like those are things you should talk about

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Speaker 1: when you have roommates. But if you for your room,

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00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: I know, but you just gotta sell you sech a balunity.

455
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Speaker 1: But where are we going with this? Okay? All right,

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00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: here we go, she said. I appreciate that you're telling

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00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: me how you feel about the situation, but the reality is,

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00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: I'm here for about four days a week and only

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00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: at nighttime because I have um a UNI all day.

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00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 1: I think that's a job all day Monday Tuesday, and

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Speaker 1: she has therapy. I don't know anyway, she's only there

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Speaker 1: at night. I hear that it bothers you to have

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Speaker 1: another man in the house, but I pay rent here

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Speaker 1: and least here, and there is nothing you can do

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Speaker 1: or say to prevent me from having guests whenever I want.

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Speaker 1: As far as the sex noises, oh lord, she's having

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00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: a loud sex noises in the other room. Okay, I

468
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 1: can see the brother and not appreciate you like soft

469
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: sexes like that. Okay. She said, I'm a human being

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to eat, sleep, shot our and wherever

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00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 1: I want not and I'm not comfortable talking to you

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Speaker 1: about my sex life. So she's like, is this reasonable

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00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: or is it shady? I think this is real. Let

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00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: me see who Okay, is what she said reasonable or shady?

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00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: Or is the roommate having a problem reasonable or shady? Okay?

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00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 1: So I feel like if your sex noises are that loud,

477
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,479
Speaker 1: then I kind of feel like I would be annoyed

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00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: by my roommates sex noises. Yes, I don't care if

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00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 1: I forget the fact that he wants to have sex.

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00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: Right that he tried to flir. He tried to get

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Speaker 1: that if you have a roommate, you have to like

482
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: abide by normal code, which is you have quiet sex. Yeah. Yeah,

483
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: like nobody wants to hear that. So so maybe that's stemming.

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00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: That's so okay? And then as a man, do you

485
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: get intimidated or do you have some sort of fla. Yes,

486
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: she's screaming and yelling and he's like, oh, he's breaking

487
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: her back out right, So he's feeling like he can't

488
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: break her back out, so he's even more mad. He's

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00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,640
Speaker 1: feeling some ownerships, like he's just like he's just like

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00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 1: like not feeling uncomfortable because here's another guy in the house.

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00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: He's all these noises and he's saying it. But if

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00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 1: if the shoes on the other foot, he probably wouldn't care,

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00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, he's gonna do what

494
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: he wants to do, not think about her feelings or

495
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: how it might um bother her or annoy her. This

496
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: is this is okay. As far as the sex noises,

497
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: that's gotta stop. And you, yeah, just just be quiet.

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00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: Yeah you can do that. But as far as you

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00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: having a conversation with him, that was very reasonable. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think it's definitely reasonable if he's acting in a

501
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: certain type of way, if he's getting mad, if he's

502
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: causing a problem, it's very reasonable to put your foot

503
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: down and say, yeah, I paid right here and live

504
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: with it. But I think you do have to bend

505
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: and say, Okay, what can I do to make the

506
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: situation a little less uncomfortable? And that means be quiet

507
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 1: or or just invite a man, and it could be

508
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: the three y'all, but you don't listen to her. Just kidding, Kate,

509
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: just kidding. I don't know what y'll do in Bristol.

510
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: But if this was over here in the Patumic, just kidding,

511
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm sure your roommate's pride is

512
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: getting in the way a little bit, like you don't

513
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: want to see another man. And yeah, his spills to her.

514
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 1: He thought he had a he had a window, right,

515
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: But also, like y'all, you gotta put that stuff on

516
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: the table when you do move into When you move

517
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: into a situation from a roommate that you don't know,

518
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 1: you need to say listen, Like it should be clear

519
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna have company, and you know it's it's

520
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: my right to have company. Yeah, but it's common decency

521
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: not to just be screaming and yelling and waking your

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00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: roommate up that you know likes you. Nobody wants to

523
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: hear that. Yeah, I think, um, you should start looking

524
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: for another apartment. Yes, Now, I used to live in

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Speaker 1: this building and I could hear my roommates, I mean,

526
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: not my roommates, what do you call it, my neighbors

527
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: through a wall. And it was two guys and it

528
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: was every night. It was like clockwork and it was

529
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: like bang bang bang bang bang bang bang bang bang

530
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: bang bang bang. Right, it was like I could count

531
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: the number of bangs and it was done. And I

532
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: was just like I felt like saying, I want to

533
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: watch this because I need to know what's getting banged.

534
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: Who's getting banged? You can hear that would be too.

535
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: It was so embarrassing. But I like really like imagine

536
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: in my mind, like who's getting the banging and why

537
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: is it not reciprocated and just it was so many

538
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: questions I had in my mind. Maybe they switch you

539
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: off every night, but anyway, I mean, at first it

540
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: was like I was like, what is that noise? It

541
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: took me a very long time to figure it out.

542
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: And because it was like it was just banging, it

543
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: was so rudimentary banging. It was like bang bang bang

544
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 1: bang bang bang bang bang, Like who has sex? Like

545
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: that you thought they were who has okay, where no

546
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: woman wants to be like bang bang bang bang bang

547
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: bang bang bang bang bang bang Bank done like no,

548
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: and that has happened to me. It was like it

549
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: was like fifteen It was fifteen pumps and it was

550
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: a rap and I was like, dude, you can never

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00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: come back. Okay. Ever, this this, this, this episode is

552
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: gonna laugh. Yeah. Listen, guys, we're out of here. Don't

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