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And so what that quote means to me 18 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 3: is it says, hey, Jasmine, you have power and choice, 19 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 3: so you need to decide. 20 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: Today's episode is sure to provide you with motivation, inspiration, 21 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 2: or even a fresh perspective. If you have any AHA moments, 22 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: or if you feel comforted throughout the episode, Lady, please 23 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: leave us a review and tell us what we're doing 24 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 2: right so we can stay on track. 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Since moving 61 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: her business model online in twenty eighteen, she's helped several 62 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: entrepreneurs achieve multi six figures within the coaching consulting and 63 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: service based industry. Jasmine is passionate about helping her clients 64 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: connect with the highest version of themselves and believes it 65 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 2: is through alignment that they are able to achieve their 66 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: wildest dreams. Jasmine, welcome to her space. 67 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: Thank you decided to be here with you guys. 68 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, You're so welcome. We're so excited. So don's gonna 69 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 2: go ahead and kick it off with a quote of 70 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: the day. 71 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: Yes, and so our quote of the day. You can 72 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: only receive what you're actually ready for, and you will 73 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: only allow yourself to have what you believe you deserve. 74 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read that one more time for our listeners 75 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: in the back, Yes. 76 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 3: Because we all need this word. 77 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: M You can only receive what you're actually ready for, 78 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: and you will only allow yourself to have what you 79 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: believe you deserve. That quote, Jazz, when I'm sure sounds 80 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: very familiar to you. Yes. 81 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:04,119 Speaker 3: From ear to ear, I'm like yes with the words okay, yes, 82 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 3: preaching on a Friday. 83 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 2: What does that quote mean to you, Jesson, let's just 84 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: dive into that. What does that even mean to you? 85 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: Because that is a powerful quote. 86 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 3: You know what, if I can stop smiling like an idiot. 87 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 3: I can maybe talk that means the world to mean 88 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 3: that can pullte that quote and use that of mine 89 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: to kick off this episode. But what that means to 90 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: me is that I am in control of what comes 91 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 3: in to my life and what I'm allowing for some reason, 92 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: which there are a ton of reasons, and I'm going 93 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 3: to get into my reasons as to why I felt 94 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: that I couldn't have certain things or be successful to 95 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:46,160 Speaker 3: a certain extent. But when we make a decision to 96 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 3: really allow what we want to come in, when that 97 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 3: decision has been made, that's when the breakthrough happens. It's 98 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 3: not when a certain dollar amount hits your account, it's 99 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 3: not when the relationship that just comes in and blows 100 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 3: your mind. It's when you decide. And so what that 101 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 3: quote means to me is it says, hey, Jasmine, you 102 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 3: have power and choice, so you need to decide. And 103 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 3: that's exactly what that means to be. 104 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: Yes, Wow, I feel it. That's powerful as you gave 105 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 1: that explanation, like I really felt it of like there 106 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: is so much power in our choices. 107 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. 108 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 2: One of the words that comes to mind when Dom 109 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 2: read that quote is self sabotaged because when I saw 110 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 2: that last part, I'm like, oh, there are so many 111 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: times when we want something so bad, but hold up 112 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: because you said that and dom and that quote right, 113 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 2: You're like, you can only receive what you're actually what 114 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 2: you're actually ready for, and sometimes we're like, oh, yeah, 115 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 2: I'm ready for it. But then the second part says, 116 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 2: you will only allow yourself to have what you believe 117 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 2: you deserve, so sometimes your actions might not be in 118 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 2: alignment with how you truly feel on the inside. And 119 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:02,039 Speaker 2: I was just like, God, I remember times where I 120 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: have definitely self sabotaged jazz. That's just so powerful. So 121 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: thank you for sharing that quote it allowing us to 122 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 2: just dive into that here on the podcast. I would 123 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: love to just start jazzing with your story. Can you 124 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: tell us a little bit about your upbringing and the 125 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 2: influencing your life that impacted you and made you who 126 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 2: you are today? 127 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: Yes, and I'm still smiling, Like if we were on video, 128 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 3: you guys would be like, oh my gosh, but that 129 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 3: thank you so much for that. So I didn't come 130 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 3: from one of those amazing stories. However, I'm blessed, So 131 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 3: I do want to start with we'll just take it 132 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: back to nineteen ninety if I may, and I promise, 133 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 3: I'll go ahead, and I'll try to make it quick. 134 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 3: But this all started nineteen ninety so I was born. 135 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: That's when I came on the scene. And my birth 136 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 3: parents were nineteen and twenty, so they were of course, 137 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 3: you don't immature, that made an immature decision to have 138 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 3: a child, but they also when I came, they made 139 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 3: the choice to walk away. So my grandparents stepped in 140 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 3: at sixty and sixty one to raise a newborn. So 141 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 3: I came in the gate with you know, rejection from 142 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 3: my biological parents, but I also was surrounded by love. 143 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 3: Unfortunately as a little girl coming up. The thing that 144 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: really stood out the most was, Okay, my mama and 145 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 3: daddy didn't want me, even though I had Grandma and Papaul. 146 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 3: They were at the school place. They would show up 147 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 3: to the field days and stuff like that, like they 148 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 3: were there for me. But it carried the thought of wow, 149 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: like I'm not enough. They didn't want me, I'm unwanted. 150 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 3: Stuff with me the month. That's how we started the scene. 151 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 3: That's how we came, That's how we came on the planet. 152 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 3: With rejection in my mind, right, So, you know, the 153 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 3: years passed. Unfortunately, my grandmother passes away. I was fourteen. 154 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: I really had no idea how to process that in 155 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 3: a healthy way, and it was just me and my grandfather, 156 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 3: and unfortunately his health began to decline, so he had 157 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: to go into a nursing facility. And again I had grace. 158 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 3: Here's another saving grace. A lady at the church that 159 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 3: I was a member of. She stepped in and took 160 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 3: me in, so she became my legal guardian. My family members, 161 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 3: my blood family members had an opportunity to say, you 162 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 3: know what, let's step in. We'll do something. Even my 163 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 3: birth mother had an opportunity to say, hey, you know 164 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 3: what I've been missing for the past fourteen years, let 165 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 3: me get my daughter once again. She did not, and 166 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 3: that hurt. But I didn't realize that it hurt, you know. 167 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you know, this is this woman 168 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: from church we're closed. Oh my gosh, she's here for me. 169 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 3: You know, I have a mom, now, I have a sister, 170 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 3: aunts cousins, so I'm good. But it's still weighed on 171 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: me heavily that my mother still didn't choose me like 172 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 3: you had a second chance this and you just is 173 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 3: like not hell with it. So, you know, get past 174 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: that or so I thought, you know, get into you know, 175 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 3: I finished high school, get into you know, undergrad. Lost 176 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 3: huge mess. Oh my gosh, I was so lost just 177 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 3: thinking about it. It's like, you know, because those mommy 178 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 3: and daddy and those abandonment issues really come out in 179 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 3: like your early adult like your twenties, like your frontal 180 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 3: load isn't even developed yet. Those issues just come, and 181 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 3: you know, you start getting involved in relationships where people 182 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 3: don't value you, and so your heart gets broken, and 183 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,599 Speaker 3: then you have this ongoing narrative if nobody wants me, 184 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 3: I'm not good enough. I'm not good enough over and 185 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 3: so I've really formulated this belief system that number one, 186 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 3: I'm not enough. Number two nobody wants me. Number three 187 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 3: nobody stays. So I'm carrying around all of these thoughts. 188 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 3: So ooh goodness, just thinking about it, it's just like wow, 189 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 3: like I wish me who I am now today could 190 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 3: have been there for Jasmine then she needed somebody. But 191 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 3: I really didn't have like a family, you know, a 192 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 3: wealthy family. My grandfather he was retired military. So when 193 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 3: I was a you know, a little girl. I grew 194 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 3: up in really not a not so good neighborhood. Honestly, 195 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 3: just when I passed through it nowadays like whoa, it's 196 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 3: just it wasn't really really good. But to me it 197 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 3: was everything back then. I'm for money, I do remember specifically, 198 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 3: and this stands out to me because of how I 199 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 3: perform in my business now. But the house I grew 200 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: up in was forty five thousand dollars and he paid 201 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 3: for it in cash, and it's just wild to think 202 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: that that has become my monthly income events, you know. 203 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 3: So I just I'm hoping that you know, Pap, Paul, 204 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: I don't know if you can hear this, I don't know, 205 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 3: but I'll hope you're proud of me, because I'm out 206 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 3: here right. I didn't come from a lot. I really 207 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:45,719 Speaker 3: truly didn't. And so with my grandfather, the way that 208 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 3: he even thought of or looked at success was that, Okay, 209 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 3: you have to go to school and you have to 210 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 3: get a job, but and if you don't, you're gonna 211 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 3: fail too. Money was a huge, huge thing. I mean, 212 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 3: he and my grandma, they were around with the Great Depression. 213 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 3: They were a couple generations off of you know, from slavery. 214 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 3: So it was just really I didn't have that Hey, 215 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 3: jazzma sit down, talk about money, about success, that these 216 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 3: things are possible for you. Ultimate is what I'm trying 217 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 3: to say. There was a like a hey, you know, 218 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 3: I went to college and this is what I did. 219 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 3: It was more so, look, I didn't go to college, 220 00:12:24,360 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 3: and this is what I don't have. So if you 221 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 3: don't go and if you don't do this, and you 222 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 3: won't have it here. And so it was just really 223 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 3: I'm not going to say we were poverished, because we 224 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 3: were not. I mean, he had a retirement income, but 225 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,320 Speaker 3: it just wasn't for him. It wasn't enough, and he 226 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 3: made that known like there ain't enough. And then going 227 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 3: into the next home with the woman who did take 228 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 3: me in, she you know, worked a nine to five 229 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 3: and you know, it was a struggle at some points. 230 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 3: And so my idea of life and idea of just 231 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: being here it seemed like it was hard. Like automatically 232 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: life is hard, there isn't enough, I'm not enough. I'm 233 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 3: out here by myself, nobody wants me. So this was 234 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,680 Speaker 3: like how my mind was like what was in my heart, 235 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 3: you know, coming into this. 236 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: I find myself like there were a few moments where 237 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, like wanting to one 238 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 1: like reach out and give you a hug if you 239 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: are okay with hugs. And then I also like trying 240 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: to stop myself from like tearing up because you speak 241 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: about what happened to you and the trauma that you've 242 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: experienced in such a calm and peaceful way. And my 243 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: immediate question because you are so clear on what the 244 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: irrational beliefs were that you were holding and how you 245 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: got to that space of having those poor beliefs, and 246 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: so then my question is where did the healing come in? 247 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: Because we don't just wake up one morning and say, aha, 248 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: I know exactly why I believe what I. 249 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 3: Believe, right, Oh my goodness. So I just want to 250 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 3: be very clear that my nose is running. You know 251 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 3: how your nose run when you're trying to fight tears, right, Yes, yeah, 252 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 3: so my nose like it's running. I little you know, 253 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 3: got my kleenex, right, that doesn't listen. I always tell 254 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 3: my Facebook community that I'm a thug, right, So we're 255 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 3: just gonna keep that narritive. But I really want to 256 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 3: know that my nose is I'm definitely feeling this because 257 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 3: I'm as i'm speaking it to you, I'm putting myself 258 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: back into that vibration just so I can speak from 259 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 3: a place of authenticity, because I really want whoever is 260 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 3: listening to this, if they can relate, I really want 261 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 3: them to connect super super hard right now. So thank 262 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 3: you for acknowledging that. But I would I would say 263 00:14:55,880 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 3: that the healing process began, and this is going to 264 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 3: get into the higher power, the God, you know. And 265 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 3: I know that it's like a somewhat of a controversial 266 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 3: subject matter, but I'm very open with my belief system. 267 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 3: But I would say that I was prompted. There was 268 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 3: an inner prompting that took place. I was at my 269 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 3: lowest of my lowest and my lowest of my life, 270 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 3: and I was like, I think twenty How old was I? 271 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 3: Y'all your girl getting old? I think I was twenty 272 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 3: twenty one, Yeah, twenty one. It was after my suicide 273 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 3: attempt and I have not ever really you know, spoke 274 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 3: of this before. So this is going to be a 275 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 3: challenge and I'm here for it. What came to me 276 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 3: in that moment was there is so much more for you. 277 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 3: You have to just be here to see. I have 278 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 3: something for you. All you gotta do is just be 279 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 3: here to see. That's it? Can you can you just 280 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 3: be here to see? It was an inner prompting of 281 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 3: even though I didn't not want to live anymore, there 282 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 3: was still this very I guess you could say, a 283 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 3: mustard seed of want of desire. And so that's where 284 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 3: the healing process began after my suicide attempt. I'm sorry. 285 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 3: So from that point I just assumed this thought process 286 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 3: of if I see somebody with it, because they have it, 287 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 3: that means that I can too. I had no clarity 288 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 3: around Jasmine the sales coach right now, no clarity around 289 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 3: the mastermind that I have, or even the first business 290 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 3: that I had, and hopefully we can get into that 291 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 3: just so I can kind of walk people through my 292 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 3: process of getting here. But I had no clarity that 293 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: I'd even become an entrepreneur. I had no clue. I 294 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 3: just knew that if I saw somebody else with it, 295 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 3: just help I could too, you know, just have to 296 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 3: figure that part out. And that was just the start 297 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 3: that inner want and it began to be very, very strong, 298 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 3: very very strong, Jasmine. 299 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:06,199 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and so 300 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 2: transparent and sharing experience like that. I think a lot 301 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 2: of times in our community there's a lot of shame around, 302 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 2: you know, suicidal ideations or a suicide attempt, and so 303 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 2: I really appreciate the fact that you are owning your 304 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 2: truth and sharing that with us. And I know that 305 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 2: you're really big on transmuting energy, and so if you 306 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 2: could just talk to us a bit about what does 307 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 2: it mean to transmute energy and then talk about how 308 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 2: we can do that, because clearly you've transmuted the energy 309 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 2: that you sort of started off with. And I love 310 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,679 Speaker 2: that you said one thing on one of our calls. 311 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 2: You said, you know a lot of people talk about 312 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 2: how you need to think positively, but they don't tell 313 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: you how. And so if you had to die in 314 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 2: that with us, that would be super helpful. 315 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: Oh yes, And that is a wonderful list in transition, 316 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 3: because I don't know, I was about to put myself 317 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 3: on mute, okay, because that was it was already get 318 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 3: really really ease. So of course this is my favorite 319 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,719 Speaker 3: subject because this is available to everybody. There's just un 320 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 3: a way of how to do it so we know that, 321 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 3: you know, energy is a real thing. It's really, really, 322 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 3: really real. I mean obviously it's nothing that we can see, 323 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 3: but we can feel it. And so when we're in 324 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 3: a space of I call it destitution. I mean I 325 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 3: was at the lowest of the lowest. I mean, when 326 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: you're at a point to where you don't want to 327 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 3: walk on the earth. I mean that is a very 328 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: low place, even vibratory, that's extremely low. So what you 329 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 3: have to do or where I begin. I'll just you know, 330 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 3: walk through like my process of thoughts, and then perhaps 331 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: that can transition into something else. But I had to 332 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 3: identify a different way of feeling. Okay, I feel very 333 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 3: very low right now, but I want to feel very 334 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: very good. So what's going on in my head right 335 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:53,160 Speaker 3: now that's causing me to feel low? What am I thinking? 336 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 3: What happened? Sometimes you just have to ask yourself, Okay, damn, 337 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 3: where did this come from? Why am I thinking this 338 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 3: right now? Where what's going on? You got to just 339 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,479 Speaker 3: really like shake yourself kind of So I would say, okay, 340 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 3: so right now I'm thinking that I can't make it. 341 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 3: Why am I thinking that I can't make it? Okay? 342 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 3: I can't make it because maybe money is funny right now, 343 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 3: or maybe someone walked out on me in a relationship. Okay, 344 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 3: so how can I bring myself from feeling down about that? 345 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:24,880 Speaker 2: Now? 346 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 3: I don't want to say that. You know, you have 347 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 3: to force yourself to feel good because sometimes we have 348 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 3: to really lean in to those negative emotions because they 349 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 3: do serve us. The issue is when they stay around 350 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 3: for too long. I'm not saying that they don't need 351 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 3: to be there, but sometimes you know they're taking up 352 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 3: too much space. So after they've you know, served you, 353 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 3: and after you've leaned into it and it's taught you 354 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 3: what it needed to teach you, then you can begin 355 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,920 Speaker 3: to say, okay, well, since I want to feel good, 356 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 3: what thought can I think that will lead me in 357 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 3: that direction. I know it sounds very like micromanaging, but 358 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,359 Speaker 3: until you can do this an autopilot, you have to 359 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 3: because you know, with my upcoming and I've just shared 360 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 3: a few things, that's all paradigms. That was me. That's 361 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 3: what I believe that I was. That's you know, I'm 362 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 3: just that way. You know how some people say, well 363 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 3: that's just how I am. I thought that was how 364 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 3: I was So until you can think in a way 365 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 3: of progressiveness, then you have to kind of micro manage 366 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 3: yourself seriously. So you have to exchange thoughts when you 367 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 3: can identify to listen, wow, I'm not really feeling good. 368 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 3: I'm feeling anxious when I'm feeling down on myself or 369 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 3: my good Okay, so you need to step back and say, 370 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 3: what what am I thinking right now? What's in my 371 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 3: head or what's going on around me? Start taking inventory 372 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 3: of what's happening around you that's causing me to feel 373 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 3: that way. When you can identify that, then you need 374 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 3: to Number one, you need to realize you can change it. 375 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 3: Then number two, go ahead and change it, because sometimes 376 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 3: we just think that we have no control over what's 377 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,399 Speaker 3: going on, when apps we do. We have variables that 378 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 3: we can control. So go ahead and change it and 379 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 3: begin to work your way up what I like to 380 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 3: call the vibratory ladder, because we can't although we have 381 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 3: a desire for something really really good, if we're feeling 382 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 3: really really bad, we're not a match to it. So 383 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,320 Speaker 3: there's really not a way for it to come in. 384 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 3: So we have to bring ourselves up to that point 385 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,639 Speaker 3: so that what we want can absolutely come in, but 386 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 3: I digress transmitting energy for me and I know Terry, 387 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 3: you and I have spoken about, you know, like the 388 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 3: sexual energy, and you know how to transmit it that way. 389 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 3: But sometimes what I do, because you know, I know 390 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,240 Speaker 3: that may not mesh well with everybody. Something else that 391 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 3: you can do is you need to close your eyes 392 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 3: and imagine that all of the negative energy inside of you, 393 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 3: you're sweeping it into like the pit of your stomach. 394 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 3: Imagine literally like there's a broom and you're sweeping it 395 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:57,919 Speaker 3: into a pit, and that pit is your tummy. So 396 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 3: from there it's like a huge ball of energy. And 397 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,560 Speaker 3: sometimes you can physically feel it. It's like in the 398 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 3: in the pit of your stomach. And sometimes I'll just 399 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,760 Speaker 3: burst out laughing like a complete idiot. Of course I'm 400 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 3: by myself or I'm in the car, but you just 401 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 3: burst out laughing. When you laugh, you picture that what 402 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 3: you swept into your stomach is like just it just out. 403 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 3: You just got it out. It's out. So that's something 404 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,840 Speaker 3: that quickly raises your vibration. Believe it or not. It 405 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 3: may sound completely bananas, but it absolutely works. That's one 406 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 3: way to transmute outside of you know, like I said, 407 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 3: the sexual one, but we don't, you know, we don't 408 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 3: have to take it there. 409 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:40,360 Speaker 1: So can I cause just one moment because I want 410 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: to say that as you were describing it, I was 411 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: trying it, oh, because I wanted to feel like I 412 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 1: wanted to experience what you were describing, right, Yeah, And 413 00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: so as you were describing it, I was literally visualizing 414 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: taking all of the negative energy and all the negative 415 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: thoughts in my body and like sweeping them to my 416 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: stomach and then like I visualize like balling it, like 417 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: rolling it all into a ball and tossing it. 418 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,479 Speaker 3: Yep, you know what very good Terry will tell you 419 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 3: that one of my biggest love language is implementation. And 420 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 3: I love that, Like I love the fact that you 421 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 3: just did that. But it's so so so powerful, and 422 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 3: you can do it literally anywhere. You can do this, 423 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 3: like if you just had an argument with someone, you're 424 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 3: at work, something happened, you can because the goal is 425 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:36,160 Speaker 3: for you to get into maintain your energy levels because 426 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 3: you are in control. And so when you're able to 427 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 3: in your mind do that, then you're good. Like mastering self, 428 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 3: like you're good and so being able to identify you know, 429 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 3: we're just gonna take it back because I don't want 430 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 3: to lose anybody, because, like I, when I get excited 431 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 3: and inspired, I just start bouncing and I'm just gonna 432 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,120 Speaker 3: really try here. So if you're identifying that, wow, I'm 433 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 3: not really feeling good. I'm just so angry. All my 434 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 3: feelings are so hurt. Figure out where did that come from? 435 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 3: Where did that come from? What about it can you control? 436 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 3: If you identify something that you can control, then you 437 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,360 Speaker 3: need to act on it immediately. Do not wait, act 438 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 3: on changing it. For a whole lot a lot of reasons. 439 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:20,160 Speaker 3: But I'm pretty like, listen, we don't. 440 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: Have all night. 441 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:25,600 Speaker 3: But change that and then begin to reframe and replace 442 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:30,360 Speaker 3: in exchanging thoughts, exchange it. You got to force yourself. 443 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: You gotta sometimes if you're not feeling good, you gott 444 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,680 Speaker 3: to force the manufacture feeling good because everything depends on that, 445 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 3: especially entrepreneurs especially. 446 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 2: This is so on point, Jasmine. And you know, I've 447 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,959 Speaker 2: been doing a lot of these practices for fertility in particular, 448 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 2: and so sexual transmutation. I mean, lady, this is new 449 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 2: for you. Look all of that up and again, just 450 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 2: be open minded. A few words came to mind to 451 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 2: me as you were speaking, Jasmine one, open minded two. 452 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 2: I was thinking about control and down always says, you know, 453 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 2: focus on what you can control. But I want to 454 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 2: say a special shout out to parents because I know 455 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 2: sometimes it can be difficult for you to get me time. 456 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 2: But the word that came to mind for me when 457 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 2: you were speaking, Jasmine was solitude. And so if you 458 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 2: are able to get some solitude, lady, this is the 459 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,880 Speaker 2: perfect time to practice what Jazzin has been talking about. 460 00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 2: It might be new for you, but try it out 461 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 2: and be open minded. Thank you so much for that, Jasmine. 462 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 2: And if you can just tell us a little bit 463 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 2: about your business. You talked a bit about starting your business, 464 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 2: Jasmin and some of the things that you've learned, and 465 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 2: then we got to get into the manifestation, so dive 466 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 2: in jazz and let us know. 467 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're most certainly both know is like my 468 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 3: favorite topic ever. So right now where I'm at in 469 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 3: my business that I do operate online mostly, So I'm 470 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 3: just going to take it back to like twenty seventeen. Yeah, 471 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 3: so twenty seventeen, I got out of the working world. 472 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 3: I guess it's workforce. Okay, put it like that, and 473 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 3: a friend and her husband introduced me to the world 474 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 3: of insurance, like, hey, you know, start your own agency. 475 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 3: You can get policies, you know, six figures woo. And 476 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,680 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yes, I can do that because 477 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,720 Speaker 3: I'm really good at talking to people. So I signed 478 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 3: up with a few carriers like AIG some other ones, 479 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 3: and I started my own brokerage and I began selling 480 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 3: insurance products locally. And at that time, I lived in 481 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 3: southern Arkansas, so I had the whole market like tide down, 482 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,600 Speaker 3: Like it was incredible, but it was a hustle, like 483 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 3: I was tired, I was always driving. It was crazy, 484 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 3: but it was really it was good money, I'll say that. 485 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 3: But what I really didn't like about that was the 486 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: fact that sometimes you have to convince people to want 487 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: to do for their families. You know, you have to 488 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 3: sit down with a husband and say, hey, listen, if 489 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 3: you go away, then what is your wife going to do? 490 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,199 Speaker 3: And they're like, oh, we'll think about it, Like what 491 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 3: do you mean? So I just I didn't really, I 492 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,640 Speaker 3: wasn't feeling that, and so I knew that it had 493 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,400 Speaker 3: to change. So, you know, twenty eighteen, I said, Okay, 494 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 3: I'm going to take my business model online, but I 495 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,239 Speaker 3: need to figure out a way to break into it. 496 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 3: So I had this like hustle hat on, right, I'm 497 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 3: just like, I'm just out here trying to get it, 498 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 3: just trying to make it. So I developed my first 499 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 3: online course, and it was a investing course to teach 500 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,679 Speaker 3: NW thees how to trade stocks. Because I was in 501 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 3: you know, with my company, we did have investment products. 502 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 3: We did educate clients on how to do this with annuities, 503 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 3: do that with irais and blah blah blah, and the 504 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 3: market mutual funds all that. So I decided to take 505 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 3: what I did know and I put it into a 506 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 3: program and I sold it and it did really really well, 507 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 3: like pretty surely well. And I was like, wait a minute, 508 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 3: you know this is cool and all. And I started 509 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 3: getting you know, podcasts, interview invitations, and you know, this 510 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 3: is the brown girl who trades and she teaches everybody 511 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 3: how to trade. And I was like, no, wait, like 512 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 3: uh uh wait. I was just trying to break into 513 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,480 Speaker 3: the game. I wasn't trying to let this be my thing. 514 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 3: So I just stopped. I did. I remember it was 515 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,960 Speaker 3: a feeling of like I was talking to a really 516 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 3: good friend of mine earlier day, and she was like, 517 00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 3: you know, sometimes you do grow to hate your business, 518 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 3: especially if you're just doing it to be doing it, 519 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 3: not coming from a place of purpose and passion and impact. 520 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 3: And that's you know, it started creeping in when we 521 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 3: had to do roop coaching calls and when people would 522 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 3: ask me questions, I would be irritated. So I knew 523 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 3: something had to change how I felt. I knew it 524 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 3: had to change and it would eventually die because I 525 00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,399 Speaker 3: didn't love it anymore. So I stopped and for I 526 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 3: would say, I maybe sat out a quarter and I 527 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 3: did a lot of deep inner work, and I, you know, 528 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,240 Speaker 3: got the mentor to have the tough conversations about who 529 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 3: am I, who do I want to be in the world, 530 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,840 Speaker 3: how do I want to show up? And I said, okay, 531 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,879 Speaker 3: well I got to do something because I'm an entrepreneur 532 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 3: now and money is a thing. So, you know, took 533 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 3: some time off actually went back to work just so 534 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 3: that I could breathe and have space to think in 535 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: space to just figure this out. And I will never 536 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 3: forget a good friend of mine who I'd actually taught 537 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 3: her and her husbands and stuff with the market. She 538 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 3: came to me just venting about her business and she 539 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 3: was saying, you know, I don't know what else to do, 540 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 3: like I want to make XYZ, but but it's just 541 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 3: not working. And I just gave her some advice, and 542 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 3: you know, I kind of I just gave it a game. 543 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 3: As much as I knew, which I didn't think I 544 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 3: knew a lot. I just told her, this is what 545 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 3: I think you should do this. And so she went 546 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 3: out and did it, and like she killed it. And 547 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 3: she came back to me and was like, you know, 548 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 3: I know you're in this weird place of trying to 549 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 3: figure things out, but I think what you're looking for 550 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 3: has been in front of you this entire time. And 551 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: I was like, why are you talking to me in riddles? 552 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 3: Like can you just tell me what it is? 553 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 2: To me? 554 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 3: I'm ready to get off this job, like I don't 555 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 3: want to be here, you know, So tell me, like 556 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 3: what is it? And so it was sales, because essentially 557 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 3: I had taught her a way to connect with her 558 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 3: audience online in a way that generated her high end sales. 559 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 3: We changed her program priors from like two fifty to 560 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,360 Speaker 3: oh I think for the first time it was twelve hundred. 561 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 3: She's actually a part of my masterclass like proceipts, you know, 562 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 3: a photo and all that kind of stuff. But I 563 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 3: had helped her change that up and she told me like, hey, 564 00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 3: look this is you. And I resist, guys, because number one, 565 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 3: I thought that showing others how to make money online 566 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 3: was too much responsibility because people are real quick to 567 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: say you're a scam and something don't work right. And 568 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 3: so I said, listen, I don't know about all that. 569 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 3: I'm glad I helped you, but that's it. You know, 570 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 3: I'm closing shop, and I just felt unsettled. You guys, 571 00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 3: It's really challenging to explain because I'm so clear audience, 572 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 3: and I get visions I can see and I hear things. 573 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 3: I'm not like, you know, skits or anything like that. 574 00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:32,479 Speaker 3: But I'm just saying there's always inner promptings going on 575 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 3: inside of me. I'm always being nudged. And I just said, okay, 576 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 3: all right, God, you know, if this is the lane 577 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 3: that you want me to navigate into, please just clearly 578 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 3: flat out show me. And so I was running my 579 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 3: stock market training course like from Instagram, like I get 580 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 3: all my students there and everything. So people with DM 581 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 3: me all the time, asking questions about Amazon and white 582 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 3: you know, blue collar and all that stuff. It's all 583 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 3: kinds of stuff. But eventually, like people started messaging me saying, hey, 584 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 3: I see you have this business. Can you show me 585 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 3: how you did that versus how do you flip a 586 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 3: trade or how do you hold it or whatever? And 587 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 3: it started happening more and more and more, and so 588 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 3: I started just taking on people to help and it 589 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 3: just went from there. Y'all. Like, I have client right now, 590 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 3: she's doing six figure months. She will be a millionaire 591 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 3: at the end of the year. Hell, six thousand a month. 592 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 3: Just people that are coming in to partner with me 593 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 3: to grow their businesses and they are generating more than 594 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 3: what they started out with. It's just really, it's really wild. 595 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 3: That's the best way to explain it. I just I 596 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 3: listened and I moved. So that's what happened here. 597 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: And as I'm listening to you explain how you transitioned 598 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: into your current business and brought back to our quote 599 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 1: of the day that came from you of you can 600 00:31:58,760 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: only receive what you're actually ready for. You will only 601 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: allow yourself to have what you believe you deserve. And 602 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: so I think that last statement truly is applicable to 603 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 1: your own personal story. 604 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 3: I love to lead by example, and every single thing 605 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 3: that I teach people or I put out there is 606 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 3: only because I've walked it. Like I had to come 607 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 3: to terms with myself and say, look like you have 608 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 3: a natural gift of business. I have no idea what 609 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,000 Speaker 3: this business savvy, just it just I was born with it. 610 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 3: I also know how to talk to people, and I 611 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 3: know how to build solid relationships, and I know how 612 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,719 Speaker 3: to teach others how to do the very same. I 613 00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 3: know how to make money online, I know how to 614 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 3: build and grow businesses. But in my mind I thought 615 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 3: that was too much. I was like, listen, who am 616 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,520 Speaker 3: I to step forward to make bold claims like this, 617 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 3: you know, because some people wake up and they're like, oh, 618 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 3: I'm a eight figure coach and I'm this and I'm that, 619 00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 3: and I never I just no, I want it to 620 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 3: be just as true as true as could be. And 621 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 3: so it was to the point where I was like, listen, 622 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 3: I'm not even going to fool with it because Jess, 623 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 3: so I don't. I don't want to hurt anybody. I 624 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: don't want to make as claims. I don't want to 625 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,480 Speaker 3: do any of that, And so I had to work 626 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 3: through that just to say, look, you know, obviously you've 627 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,400 Speaker 3: helped somebody. You know that you want to be online 628 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 3: with your business model, you want to make a good income, 629 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 3: but you also want to make an impact. God was like, look, 630 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 3: this is the past I'm showing you to do. And 631 00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 3: I just had to accept it and move and so 632 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 3: literally the little things that I did, my quotes and 633 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 3: I say, I have a lot of little, you know, 634 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 3: quotes and stuff that I drop on Facebook, but it 635 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 3: only comes from a place of me having experienced it 636 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 3: or I am experiencing it. And I really just want 637 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,320 Speaker 3: to say if I can. And I'm so glad that 638 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 3: I listened, because my pa goes further than oh, I'm 639 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 3: gonna show you how to make six figures in your business. 640 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 3: People are really they are becoming the first in their 641 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:12,399 Speaker 3: family to ever do be or have healing. When they're 642 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,560 Speaker 3: healing their money mindset and they're healing their money trauma 643 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 3: as I like to call it. They're not passing it 644 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,920 Speaker 3: to their kids. They're not keeping that narrative fluent in 645 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 3: their bloodline. This really extends further than a stripe dashboard. 646 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 3: So I'm really grateful that I just freaking listened. I 647 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:31,919 Speaker 3: really am. 648 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 2: We are grateful that you listen to Jessin and I 649 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 2: know we're going to shift up the energy of the 650 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 2: interview in a moment. But I want to ask you 651 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 2: about this one quote that you posted around true manifestation 652 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 2: occurring when you master being it versus wanting it, And 653 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 2: I'd love for you to just share with our listeners 654 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 2: three tips that they can use to manifest their ideal life. Like, 655 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 2: if you had your top three, what would you share 656 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 2: with them? 657 00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 3: Oh this is so good. I don't know if you 658 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 3: guys can hear my voice when I say, but I'm like, 659 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 3: oh god, this is so good. Okay, So first, let 660 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 3: me just start with the statement because in order to 661 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 3: move to build from that, you have to understand it. 662 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 3: So true manifestation occurs when you master being it versus 663 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 3: wanting it. So let's break that down first, because I 664 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 3: think the tips are inside of breaking this down, we're 665 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,359 Speaker 3: going to find out so you have to realize when 666 00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 3: you want something, the other side of that is I 667 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:38,959 Speaker 3: don't have it, and understanding that you have it there 668 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 3: is no separation or disconnect between you and the money 669 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 3: you want to make. Honestly, the money you want to 670 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 3: make is already here. It may be floating around in 671 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 3: the bank. Right. We all know that Walmart is like 672 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 3: multi billion dollar. We know a lot of multi billion 673 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 3: dollar companies and corporation, So obviously we know that one 674 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,239 Speaker 3: hundred thousand dollars exists, so there's no need to like 675 00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:04,319 Speaker 3: manufacture it, right, So it's there, So you have to 676 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 3: realize that it's there. Number one and number two, your 677 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 3: wanting of it sends out a signal to God, the universe, 678 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 3: twelve oak trees, the Buddha statute, whatever you believe in 679 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 3: that you do not have it. The universe is like, look, 680 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,319 Speaker 3: whatever you say, you got, whatever you think, this is 681 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 3: what it is. Even your brain, your mind. You have 682 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 3: to look at your mind like it's soil. Right, So 683 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 3: when you plant strawberries in hope to yield a watermelon, 684 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 3: that's off. So what I'm saying is that you have 685 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 3: to get it in your head that the things that 686 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,719 Speaker 3: you desire are already yours. You're not separate from it. 687 00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 3: It's not superior to you, you're not inferior to it. 688 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 3: You are it. When you become it, that's when you 689 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 3: can bring it into your physical reality. Oh I hope 690 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 3: that makes sense. 691 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 2: I would say real quick, if we were to use 692 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 2: a real life example, Let's say that our want to 693 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:06,640 Speaker 2: get this bomb ass penthouse, right, and let's say that 694 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 2: I see this penthouse online, I'm like, yo, I'm on Zillo, 695 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, I want this penthouse. What would it look 696 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 2: like for me to manifest that and be the owner 697 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 2: of that versus me saying, oh, I want that penthouse? 698 00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 699 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,760 Speaker 3: Perfectly? Okay, great, because I teach really good by example, 700 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 3: so to the manifestation talk and the like, it really 701 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 3: gets like out there, like like it's just look. So 702 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 3: that's perfect. Thank you for that so great example, because 703 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 3: that's what I did that recently. And so what I 704 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,719 Speaker 3: had to do was when I saw that, Okay, this 705 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 3: is something that again, you know, you start off with 706 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,919 Speaker 3: I want because you recognize that you don't have. That's 707 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:48,759 Speaker 3: just fact, So you start off with I want. Then 708 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,280 Speaker 3: what I did in this process and in my process 709 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,840 Speaker 3: was whenever I would be in the shower, taking a 710 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 3: bath in my you know, my old place or any 711 00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,560 Speaker 3: place I've had like I think too. Before moving here, 712 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,680 Speaker 3: I would close my eyes and envision that I was 713 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,439 Speaker 3: in that shower, and it wouldn't make me feel good. 714 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 3: I would always have to keep my vibration in the 715 00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:12,320 Speaker 3: place of if I'm feeling bad, this is not matching 716 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 3: up to this, this penthouse in the sky, like this 717 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 3: ain't the d loves apartment in the sky vibe. You know, 718 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 3: we gotta get we gotta start feeling really really good. 719 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 3: So imagining that I was taking a shower, imagining being 720 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 3: in the bath, you know, walking in the kitchen, imagining 721 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,920 Speaker 3: I was surrounded by the appliances, visiting it, touching it, 722 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 3: putting my hands on it. When I would go see it, 723 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 3: like I would come up here, y'all all the time. 724 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:35,920 Speaker 3: These the concierge, they know me, they already knew me. 725 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 3: They were like, oh wow, you made it, Yes I did. Okay. 726 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 3: I would come up here and I would get tours 727 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 3: like I was, you know, looking around, you know, the 728 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,000 Speaker 3: least an agent his name was chrisy was really cool 729 00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 3: about that and stuff. I would come in and just 730 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,799 Speaker 3: brust my hands on the wall. I would go into 731 00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 3: the bathroom. I would you know, just put myself in 732 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 3: the tub, I, you know, just to feel it. So 733 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 3: when I would go home, I remembered that and that 734 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,919 Speaker 3: would help the visualization, that would feel it, that would 735 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,120 Speaker 3: feel it, and so every single day just to be 736 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,360 Speaker 3: very very clear, because a lot of it sounds you know, 737 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:14,319 Speaker 3: wu and all that, but you really have to get 738 00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 3: it in your head that this is mine, is not 739 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 3: separate from me. It is mine now regardless, you have 740 00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 3: to use your higher faculties. You got to get into 741 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,600 Speaker 3: a habit of using your higher senses. You know, we 742 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 3: come to the planet with five right, We got five right, 743 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:37,960 Speaker 3: y'all verified. So when we operate from what we can 744 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 3: only see, what we only hear, what we only smell like, 745 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 3: we're limiting ourselves. And when we live in such a 746 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 3: vast universe and there's so many things available to us, 747 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 3: but we have to get into a habit of using 748 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 3: those higher faculties. Visualization is is that for me, and 749 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 3: it's for that for a lot of people. When you 750 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 3: meditate and you're able to see it and feel it, 751 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,800 Speaker 3: smell it, you know, hear those comp stations that you have. Terry, 752 00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,719 Speaker 3: this is for you, whoever your very best friend is, 753 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 3: you know, imagine sending her a picture of the first 754 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:12,840 Speaker 3: response stick showing that we're pregnant, right, feel dawn about it, 755 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 3: get excited to the point to where you could cry. 756 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,120 Speaker 3: When you bring that emotion into it, that level of 757 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:23,480 Speaker 3: emotion to it, the universe has no other option but 758 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,799 Speaker 3: to respond, no other option but to respond. I want 759 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 3: to say this too, because this can get really, really, 760 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,160 Speaker 3: really deep, and I look, I need obviously, I need 761 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 3: somebody to hold my hand and walk me through just 762 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,239 Speaker 3: staying on track. But what I want people to understand 763 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 3: is that when we come into this time space reality, 764 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 3: there isn't a ledger of blessings that God has already. Like, okay, 765 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 3: so when Terry comes to the planet, all right, I'm 766 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 3: gonna give her one hundred thousand, I'm gonna give her 767 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 3: a husband, I'm gonna give her a kid, and that's it. 768 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,319 Speaker 3: That's not how this works. Everybody think that God has this. 769 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 3: If the Lord has it for me, then I guess 770 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,280 Speaker 3: I'll get it. But that doesn't make it. It doesn't 771 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,560 Speaker 3: make any sense. The Bible says, according to your faith. Now, 772 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 3: I'm only bringing this up because I know that my 773 00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,160 Speaker 3: sister's out there. They're Christians, and I want you guys 774 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,799 Speaker 3: to know. I can speak anybody's language, but this is universal. 775 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:21,320 Speaker 3: This applies to all of you guys, according to your faith. However, listen, 776 00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 3: and this might be way out there for some, but 777 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 3: just try to follow me. Goes back to the quote, 778 00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 3: whatever you believe you deserve you can have. That's it. 779 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,319 Speaker 3: Whatever you believe you deserve you can have according to 780 00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 3: your faith. If you don't believe in God for your 781 00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 3: six figure business, then you'll get fifty thousand or ninety 782 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,920 Speaker 3: nine thousand, and that soon will be it. But you 783 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,239 Speaker 3: can't blame it on God because God is limitless. God 784 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 3: is limitless. There is nothing on this planet that you 785 00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 3: truly cannot have. Like if you there's a quote. I 786 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,560 Speaker 3: can't remember what old God said that. You know, those 787 00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:59,479 Speaker 3: old cats like Alan Watts and all those guys said 788 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 3: that said it, y'all. I'm not really good with both, 789 00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,240 Speaker 3: but they said, if you can see it in your mind, 790 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 3: you can hold it in your hand. I want guys 791 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:12,080 Speaker 3: to realize and this is just my experience because I'm like, 792 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 3: I'm master manifesto right now. Like real talk, if you 793 00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:22,280 Speaker 3: really have a desire for something and it's there, it's loud, 794 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 3: and you can't leave it alone. You can't shake it, 795 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:29,760 Speaker 3: believe it or not. You have every resource, every opportunity 796 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,200 Speaker 3: where you are right now to bring it into fruition. 797 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 3: There's nothing else that you need. Everybody's like, well, if 798 00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 3: I can just get this, then I'll have that. What 799 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:47,000 Speaker 3: you mean, why are you continuing to separate yourself from 800 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,560 Speaker 3: the things that you desire? Like, that's the problem. That's 801 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 3: why you're not seeing it show up when you recognize 802 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,839 Speaker 3: going back to what you said that I posted on Facebook, 803 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,359 Speaker 3: you have to master being it versus wanting it. It's 804 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 3: no longer a want because you have it, and that's 805 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 3: the fact for you. And when it's a fact, it 806 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 3: has no other option but to be. 807 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,239 Speaker 1: So I want to kind of narrow down the three 808 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: tips right because I'm like, I know that we have 809 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,600 Speaker 1: a lot of listeners out there who are like what 810 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,880 Speaker 1: you were saying may seem far out of what they 811 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,839 Speaker 1: are used to hearing and experiencing. I know that it 812 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,719 Speaker 1: resonates with a lot of people, and so when I 813 00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,200 Speaker 1: was listening the way, I picked up the three tips 814 00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,520 Speaker 1: and correct me if like where I need to like 815 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:36,200 Speaker 1: make like where I need correcting. What I heard was 816 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 1: tip one is I want because I recognize what I 817 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:41,839 Speaker 1: don't have. 818 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 3: Copy that's good. 819 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 1: So then Tip two is about visualization and meditation, so 820 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: and telling myself like, this is mine, So visualizing what 821 00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 1: I need, meditating on it, and recognizing that this is mine. 822 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:01,319 Speaker 3: Mm. 823 00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: And then Tip three is believing that I deserve to 824 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,879 Speaker 1: have the things that I want and that I already 825 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: possess the resources necessary to get what I want exactly. 826 00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:26,040 Speaker 3: So we're gonna exchange the word tip for phases. I 827 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,319 Speaker 3: would I would say, like these, you know, let's just 828 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,319 Speaker 3: call them phases, right. If I just had to break 829 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,400 Speaker 3: it down, I would just say that those those absolutely 830 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,000 Speaker 3: are the three phases because number one I want because 831 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,400 Speaker 3: I noticed that, you know, it's not it's not in 832 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 3: my possession. I physically do not have one hundred thousand 833 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 3: dollars in my hand. I physically don't, you know. And 834 00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 3: then you move from there to Okay, I can see this, 835 00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,439 Speaker 3: this is real for me. You got to get into 836 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:58,520 Speaker 3: a space of envisioning it. And three you have to 837 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:04,319 Speaker 3: receive it. You have to receive it and work through 838 00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 3: whatever your crap is. Whatever it is, I don't, it 839 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 3: doesn't matter, Okay, I got chilled. So let me let 840 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 3: me just say this. I don't know who this is for, 841 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 3: but there's somebody listening to this right now that feels 842 00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:20,040 Speaker 3: like because of something they've done in their past, that 843 00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 3: they don't deserve what it is that's in their heart. 844 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 3: That's not true. That's not true. I don't know you. 845 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 3: I don't know what did I don't know what happened. 846 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 3: I don't doesn't matter. You are more than deserving of 847 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:34,920 Speaker 3: what it is that you want. I don't know, like 848 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 3: that just came really, that came out really hard for 849 00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,040 Speaker 3: me to say. So I don't know who that's for, 850 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 3: but I hope it reaches the person that's meant or 851 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,719 Speaker 3: But those are the phases you have to, you know, 852 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:49,800 Speaker 3: get into a space of practice, make it a religion, 853 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,759 Speaker 3: Make it a religion for you, because whatever it is, 854 00:45:56,239 --> 00:46:00,840 Speaker 3: you can absolutely realize that here in this in this reality, 855 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 3: the only thing that's in the way of that is 856 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,879 Speaker 3: your belief systems about it and your willingness to receive it. 857 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 2: This is game changing, Jasmine. Thank you so much. Oh 858 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 2: my goodness, I can't wait to go back and listen 859 00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:21,840 Speaker 2: to this episode. I will say we want to shift 860 00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 2: up the energy it's already been great, but we want 861 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,720 Speaker 2: to shift up the energy of the interview. And because 862 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:31,480 Speaker 2: we recognize, appreciate, and celebrate the multifaceted woman, and we 863 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 2: believe that it's okay to be classy and ratchet and 864 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:38,120 Speaker 2: you can still be elegant and dance to strip club music, 865 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 2: we want to invite you to the oh you clatch 866 00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:45,400 Speaker 2: it segment? So, Jasmine, do you take on the challenge? 867 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,080 Speaker 3: Of course? Of course, yes. 868 00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:54,200 Speaker 2: Yes, right, all right, Now, this first question I feel 869 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,120 Speaker 2: like it's probably going to be easy for you to answer. 870 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 2: But the first question is what topic can you talk 871 00:46:59,040 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 2: about all day? 872 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 3: For me? I can talk about manifestation all day, all 873 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,879 Speaker 3: day long, and money like attaching those two together. Yes, 874 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 3: I can talk about that all day long. Yeah, I 875 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 3: love it. All right. 876 00:47:13,360 --> 00:47:18,760 Speaker 1: The next one taps into a little bit different energy. Okay, 877 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:24,319 Speaker 1: if you had to choose, would you twerk or two steps? 878 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 3: Listen, look, I would work. Okay, A whole highlight of 879 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 3: me getting it in working game. I love it. I 880 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 3: love it. 881 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,920 Speaker 2: I love it. I saw one of your post Jasmine, 882 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 2: your twork celebrations for one of your clients. I was 883 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 2: cracking up. I'm like gas get it. Right, Okay, Okay, 884 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 2: our next question for you, Jasmine is how do you 885 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 2: want to be remembered. 886 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,400 Speaker 3: I want to be remembered as the person that loved 887 00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 3: people in a way that inspired in the lovely selves 888 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,080 Speaker 3: better so that they could literally crush it in whatever 889 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,799 Speaker 3: facet of life or their business or whatever. I just 890 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,919 Speaker 3: want to be that catalyst for them, because really all 891 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 3: of the success and all of the whatever miss it 892 00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 3: comes from self love. So I want to you know, 893 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 3: love you so hard that you're like, damn, let me 894 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 3: love me how she kind of loved me a little 895 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 3: bit here and let me just you know, make it, 896 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,640 Speaker 3: make it shape, make something work, let me let me 897 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 3: break through in my own life and my own business. 898 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 3: So I want to be remembered for that. 899 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 2: Yes, it's so beautiful. 900 00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm loving that. 901 00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 2: You know. 902 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,880 Speaker 1: Terry mentioned that like when like your clients have a 903 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:48,360 Speaker 1: success story or have a successful moment, you do like 904 00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:53,440 Speaker 1: a toork celebration. Right, So when you do your Towark celebration, 905 00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 1: like what song gets you up and excited? 906 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,919 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm trying to keep it cool. Wait, so y'all 907 00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:07,280 Speaker 3: said this is like cool? Okay, so it's his song? 908 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 3: Oh god, who's sing it? He said, he goes like 909 00:49:09,920 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 3: it ain't safe. It ain't safe. Mother. Okay, yes, let 910 00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:20,279 Speaker 3: me look it up real quick, because that's the one. 911 00:49:20,400 --> 00:49:22,960 Speaker 3: And then another one. Now is so Megan be just 912 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 3: y'all listen you. 913 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:26,400 Speaker 1: Meggan? 914 00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 3: Yes, I mean, man, I promise you. What song is 915 00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:35,160 Speaker 3: it about her? When she it's not it's not savage, 916 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 3: it's her latest song. Yeah yeah. And captain Hook? Yeah, 917 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 3: I mean it's a captain hook. 918 00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:43,480 Speaker 1: Look at you. 919 00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 2: It's asap rocky and g eazy, yeah, no limit, yeah, Stallion, Yes, send. 920 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 3: Me a screenshot and I will send you a video 921 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 3: straight deacon like because we win it like that's how 922 00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 3: you and see that that's the energy that you harnessed 923 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:05,720 Speaker 3: to bring more for real. It's like magic fire. 924 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, yes, And so we're gonna close it out 925 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 2: with a very fun question. You might need a little 926 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,360 Speaker 2: bit of time to think about it. So this question 927 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 2: is what would your stripper name be? Or you might 928 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 2: not already have fun? She wasn't ready, she wasn't ready. 929 00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 3: Down friend, let me see. Ok wait, okay, you gotta 930 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 3: have something to do with blue. It has to be 931 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,239 Speaker 3: oh yes, oh wait, I got it. It's gonna be 932 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 3: blue Magic all day and night. 933 00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 2: Blue Magic coming to the stage, y'all, Blue Magic. You know, 934 00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 2: I just thought about the blue Magic grease we used 935 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 2: to use back in the day. 936 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,360 Speaker 3: Bro, I want you to Sunday. 937 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:02,200 Speaker 2: And that's why. 938 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 1: Wasn't there a strip bob in Atlanta? 939 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:13,480 Speaker 3: Think blue Magic or was it was blue something? Yeah? 940 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:15,440 Speaker 2: I know it sounds like it could be a strip club. 941 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:21,840 Speaker 3: So let me mm hmm wait listen. 942 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:22,640 Speaker 1: That might be quitting. 943 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 3: That might do it too much. 944 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 2: I was trying to phone a friend but it didn't 945 00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,759 Speaker 2: come through. My my, my Google is going it's a 946 00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,759 Speaker 2: little slow right now. But Jasmine, we just want to 947 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,520 Speaker 2: thank you so much for being who you are, for 948 00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 2: loving on your clients and your followers and the people 949 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 2: that support you, and just being a leader and taking 950 00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,399 Speaker 2: your own oh, just taking your own advice. And I mean, 951 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,960 Speaker 2: You've had such an incredible and inspiring journey, and I'm 952 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,799 Speaker 2: so happy that you are here and that you did 953 00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,880 Speaker 2: make it out and that you were able to see 954 00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:00,640 Speaker 2: things on the other side, that you listened to that 955 00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 2: voice all those years ago. So thank you so much 956 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 2: for being a gift and sharing your gift with us. 957 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,799 Speaker 3: Of course, if I can say this to you too. 958 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:14,520 Speaker 3: This was an incredible experience. I felt extremely safe to share. 959 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 3: This is an incredible platform it it was phenomenal just 960 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 3: to be ob it was so healing. I'll put it 961 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,359 Speaker 3: to you like that. This was healing for me. So 962 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:24,719 Speaker 3: thank you for the opportunity. 963 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:27,680 Speaker 1: You're so so welcome. 964 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:31,600 Speaker 2: Yes, Jasmine, where can our listeners connect with you? 965 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? So I'm on Facebook? My full government name so 966 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,400 Speaker 3: Jasmine page Green. Send me a firend request, send me 967 00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,839 Speaker 3: a message, whatever, and then on Instagram at Jasmine P. Green. 968 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,960 Speaker 1: Hey, lady, is doctor dom here from the Herspace podcast. 969 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 1: Do you have a burning question you're dying to get 970 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,880 Speaker 1: feedback on? Do you want an unbiased perspective on a 971 00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:58,480 Speaker 1: situation you're facing? If so, visit herspacepodcast dot com and 972 00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 1: click ask dot com under the start here option. Very too, 973 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,880 Speaker 1: I'll choose a few questions and answer them at random. 974 00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us today in her Space. Please note 975 00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:15,320 Speaker 1: that our show may contain conversations about self help, advice, 976 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:19,120 Speaker 1: self empowerment, and mental health, but it is by no 977 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 1: means meant to be a substitute for an ongoing formal 978 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:27,319 Speaker 1: relationship with a trained mental health provider. 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