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Speaker 2: Rod and Karen or hut Hey, welcome to another episode

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Speaker 2: of The Black Guytos podcast. I'm your host, Rod, coming

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Speaker 2: to you live on a Saturday with my co host Kem.

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Speaker 2: We're ready to do some podcasts. This feedback time. Time

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Speaker 2: to talk about all the things that you had to

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Speaker 2: the rest of the week. Busy week coming up. We

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Speaker 2: Nick and Reggie? Yes we got Yes, we got Jail Covan.

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Speaker 2: Big Week, Big Week. But Yo, today's all about you,

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Speaker 2: the people that took the time out to leave us

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Speaker 2: With all of y'all getting shout outs. Today we got

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Speaker 2: This is for our Spoiled Movie reviews, which is on

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Speaker 2: This one says thank you for the Spoiled Movie review.

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Speaker 2: Gota we got some more coming. We're watching more movies

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Speaker 4: Okay, don't give.

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Speaker 2: Me that lowercase lism, give me that capitalism.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. People listen to this whole shit.

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Speaker 4: Yes we are. I mean it's gonna be the atl

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Speaker 2: Are you good at set boundaries?

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Speaker 2: I like that hesitant yes, because that means you thought

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Speaker 2: I think you are. I've always said you're better at

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Speaker 5: And I really do mean that because I know that

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Speaker 3: Even you getting mad at me FORELBO still don't mean.

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Speaker 2: I'd rather miss out on some of those reindeer games

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Speaker 3: It causes unnecessary problems.

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Speaker 5: Because I've realized this the unless you know about a situation.

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Speaker 3: Why because you don't know them.

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Speaker 5: So I treat some of my femily like this. I

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Speaker 5: I don't need know who you fucking. I don't who

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Speaker 5: And once I realized that life began to be simpler

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Speaker 3: I love you from over here.

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Speaker 5: If something important happened and I deem it's important, I'll

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Speaker 5: Nobody ever wants to pay it forward as far as

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Speaker 3: Today and there's nothing else coming out of this bottle.

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Speaker 2: And also sometimes I just don't love you. It's not love,

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Speaker 2: it's you know, So it's not even loving from afar

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Speaker 2: And that's sometimes that's healthy too, you know, like love

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Speaker 4: You know, that's not love to me? Two three six

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Speaker 2: They vibs this when we had Shileah Sharp on the show,

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Speaker 2: yay even He says, I really enjoyed Shilela. I don't

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Speaker 4: It was very soothing. Hope you can have her on again,

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Speaker 4: ain't n it though?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Chi Lawell has such an interesting energy because I

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Speaker 2: there's something about her where it's almost like I'm over

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Speaker 2: all this shit, you know, like, and I think that's

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Speaker 2: I really like about her, is just she's kind of

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Speaker 2: be like it's kind of awesome bullshit though, right, You're like,

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Speaker 2: it's as all bullshit, what are we gonna do?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Am? I the only one who's surprised that Pat Robertson

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Speaker 2: up and he's still here. He was old as fuck

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Speaker 2: when I was a little girl. At this point, I

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Speaker 2: think he's joining the souls of people who go missing

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Speaker 2: the stay alive. Oh no, yeah, like him, Morgan Freeman.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh. There's just a few motherfuckers that's been old

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Speaker 3: Yes, and they having aged a bit.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know how he gets to be that

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Speaker 2: like the crip keeper now. Yeah, he his age, He

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Speaker 4: And it's like, why what are you holding on for?

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Speaker 2: Dude?

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Speaker 4: H Do you know what critical race theory is? Yes?

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Speaker 5: Okay, yes, And I recently found out what it is,

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Speaker 5: and what I've learned is that motherfucker's are lying. They

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Speaker 5: do not teach this in any public schools. This is

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Speaker 2: Sixty three percent of the audience does know what it is,

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Speaker 2: and thirty seven percent say no, we're just going off vibes.

439
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,920
Speaker 2: She says, I don't know all the details. I ain't

440
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 2: got no time to read all those books and articles.

441
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 2: All I know is it pisses white people off. And

442
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 2: that's good enough for me, because the one thing I

443
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,160
Speaker 2: know about this country is the more white people arguing

444
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 2: attempt to keep black people from doing a certain thing,

445
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 2: the more we need to be doing that thing in droves. Yes,

446
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 2: I couldn't agree more, Shane.

447
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 3: And sometimes it's that simple.

448
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: I try not to let that be my motivation most days,

449
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie the it's a hell of

450
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,720
Speaker 2: a good motivation. When they said Nicolehanna Jones couldn't be

451
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 2: a UNC, I was like, I'd be teaching them. I mean,

452
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 2: she can do whatever she want.

453
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 4: I'll support her any decision you make.

454
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 2: But if it was Rod, I'd be like, Oh, I'm

455
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 2: gonna make this white man mad. I'ma be up in here,

456
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 2: dashiki or the fuck it, I'm gonna grow up, throw out,

457
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 2: put a pick in it. I'm being here teaching all

458
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,520
Speaker 2: the little white babies about that sism, like you fuck

459
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 2: with the wrong one, Like that's not always good. But

460
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 2: I definitely have that in me.

461
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 5: I told you what I'd be doing, they'd be mad

462
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 5: at me. I'd be making movies and comedy tours. They

463
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 5: would have been like, we should have never got that

464
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 5: be their job.

465
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Speaker 2: Episode twenty three sixty three, Just get vaccinated. No comments,

466
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 2: but we did have a poll that had comments. The

467
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:50,120
Speaker 2: poll was people who still won't get the vaccine, fuck them,

468
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 2: it is what it is, I still feel bad for them,

469
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 2: or I'm one of them people.

470
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 3: Karen, it is what it is.

471
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: Forty five percent said fuck them, I can see that,

472
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 2: forty three percent said it is what it is, eight

473
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: percent say I still feel bad for them, and four

474
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 2: percent said.

475
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 4: I'm one of them.

476
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: People are one of them? People we talked about you,

477
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: But yeah, because I think I'm in forty three man,

478
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 2: and I think I've had to do this thing. So

479
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 2: this is a long drawn about theory. But and maybe

480
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 2: I'll try to shortcut it in my head a little bit.

481
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 2: But so y'all heard about shol carry her uh Shad

482
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 2: carry the I can't remember the last name, the sprinter,

483
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 2: and how uh Sha Carri Richardson and how everybody would

484
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: loved her when she she won. She had this bright

485
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 2: like hair, she has long fingernails, she black black.

486
00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: And people remember flow Joe.

487
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, and what's interesting is I don't even know.

488
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever heard she carry talk because

489
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 2: I this, I haven't, So this is gonna sound weird,

490
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 2: But I have not paid any attention to shold carry

491
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 2: in that type of way, only because and it's sad

492
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 2: as come this, but because I was introduced to her

493
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: via social media in a way that was so hyperbolic.

494
00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 2: It made me tense up to be like, oh, this

495
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 2: is gonna end bad, because it always does. Yep.

496
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 3: They cheer you up, nobody go digging, and they tear

497
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 3: you down.

498
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 4: And I hate to sound like that. I hate to

499
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 4: be like that.

500
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: I didn't always used to be that way, but I

501
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 2: feel like I'm protecting myself because I don't like to

502
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: see these people get torn down, because they always do,

503
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 2: because people going to scavenger her for their humanity and

504
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 2: when they find it, they be like, I got you, bitch,

505
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 2: and then they join it to the hate and everyone

506
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 2: does it. Everyone likes being a part of it, and

507
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: at the same time they want to pretend to be

508
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 2: disgusted by it all the time. Will you schedule your honey,

509
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 2: you know how to stop that. Just don't get involved.

510
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 2: And so I chose a long time ago to be like,

511
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 2: I just the end ofnet person.

512
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 4: Other day, I just ain't doing it.

513
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: Ain't doing it because I just know how it goes.

514
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 2: You feel sorry for him, but you feel happy for

515
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: him or your whatever. And then you start fucking going

516
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 2: through their tweets with a fine tooth come. You'll start

517
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: looking for if they've been on our podcast, if they

518
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 2: had an interview, if they say the wrong thing, now

519
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: if you know, and then we just start holding up

520
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,120
Speaker 2: these these these these.

521
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,880
Speaker 4: Hurdles for them to jump over.

522
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 2: Hey, if you don't talk about this, then you're complicit.

523
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 2: Hey you talked about it, what you said the wrong thing?

524
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: Or oh I didn't know you felt like this about

525
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 2: X hot button issue, and so I just stopped. It

526
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: just made me feel like I don't even want to

527
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 2: be involved because I don't like the ups or.

528
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,679
Speaker 7: The downs, right, they're too extreme, you know, like the

529
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 7: ups are cool, but then when the downs come, I'm

530
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 7: always like, man, really, like we we already just throwing

531
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 7: this person away.

532
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 4: Aren't they a human being?

533
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,959
Speaker 2: What if they just made a mistake flawed? Like, like

534
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: y'all think y'all not flawed? Do you think you could

535
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 2: live up to this ry?

536
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: That's how I feel too.

537
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 2: So I'm always in my head with that stuff, so

538
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 2: sadly I miss out on the whole, like I'm rooting

539
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: for everybody black shit that a lot of people do.

540
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: Or it's like they see somebody immediately right then the

541
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: pencil in the story and fill in the blanks of

542
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 2: what their life must be like, you know, with you know,

543
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 2: if you don't root for.

544
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 4: Her, then the girl, then you better be. If you

545
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 4: root for Shakurg, did you better.

546
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 2: Be rooting for the girl that works driving through a

547
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: Wendy's or whatever. It's just like I don't know that

548
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 2: that's what any of this means, but okay, like this

549
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 2: is a y'all are doing a lot with this person

550
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 2: you met three seconds ago.

551
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they pick them and make them mascots immediately.

552
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the and the and what.

553
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,360
Speaker 2: I don't think people understand the celebrity fame and that

554
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 2: type of pedestal.

555
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 4: It robs people of.

556
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 2: Humanity, so now they don't get to be people anymore

557
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: because they just symbols of black excellence and black girl

558
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 2: magic and the United States and a bunch of shit,

559
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 2: you know. And I think she's by So it was

560
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 2: like LGBTQ representation and like, now they're not a person

561
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 2: your representation. But this person hasn't always She's only twenty one,

562
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 2: she hasn't always been on a stage like this, right,

563
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 2: so there's times that she probably said or did some shit,

564
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 2: not planning to ever be on this stage.

565
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 4: Not you know, they went and found tweets.

566
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 2: So when she was like fifteen, you know, homophobic stuff, defensive.

567
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 2: Chris Brown like, fifteen year old black girls might defend

568
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 2: or say some shit like that, because almost every fifteen

569
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 2: year old did or said some stupid shit at that age.

570
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: We just didn't have a way to peruse our history.

571
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,160
Speaker 2: So that was one thing. Then the day they found

572
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 2: a tweet from March when uh, Little naz X dropped

573
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: those Satan shoes, and they was like and she said

574
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 2: something like if you fuck with Little naz X, then

575
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 2: don't follow them, don't fuck with me or follow me

576
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 2: or something, and people, you know, some people was like,

577
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: it's internalized homophobia.

578
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 4: Some people it was like, it's it's like that Christianity thing.

579
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 2: And of course, you know, people like her at this moment,

580
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 2: so they were kinder to her than they would have

581
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: been to someone else because I did see other people

582
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: say the same thing and say it wasn't about homophobia,

583
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: it's about my religion, and people were not letting that slide.

584
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 4: At the time.

585
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 2: It was no like okay, well, I can see how

586
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: you would be uncomfortable. It was like, no, fuck you,

587
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 2: you're really homophobic if you say that, and if you're

588
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: not homophobic, then you were stuck in the mud, fake Christian.

589
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 2: What about all the da da da da da. You know,

590
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 2: once again another controversy we didn't talk about on the

591
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 2: show or get involved in because it's like, what the fuck?

592
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 2: Who he? You know, little naz X trolls and promotes

593
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: himself better than anybody else right now, I don't think

594
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: any I don't think there's any anything unforeseen with him,

595
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 2: and in that video like he knew what he was doing.

596
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 2: He's very good at it, and we talk about him

597
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 2: because he's that good. Anyway, My point, like I said,

598
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: I told y'all, is be long around about I'm so

599
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: sorry about.

600
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 3: This but taking time.

601
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah so, but my point is, well, you know that

602
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: one person think I talk too much and you're not talking,

603
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: little head. So the thing. The thing was, I now

604
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:42,160
Speaker 2: feel detached from a lot of these fantastical moments. The

605
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 2: person of the day is what I like to call him.

606
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: I'm so detached from the person of the day now,

607
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 2: it's like, and I don't know what it's hard to

608
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 2: for me. That's new because I'm an impacted by nature

609
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 2: and normally my first thing is to see through the sea. Oh,

610
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 2: look at the humanity, Look at this person, Wonder what

611
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: they're like, Wonder what their life has been like. I

612
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 2: wonder what things they're gonna do and say and all

613
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 2: this stuff. And you know, even when they have something

614
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,440
Speaker 2: where you're like, oh, that's unfortunate they felt that way,

615
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 2: or you know, there's still a moment like, but they're

616
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 2: still human and that's a person. And I haven't always

617
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: felt everything good all the time. Sometimes I thought some

618
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: fucked up shit, and time and exposure kind of helped

619
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: me grow, but we don't have any patience for that.

620
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: And the psycho from love to hate is shorter and shorter,

621
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:39,000
Speaker 2: and so I just feel detached from those people. And

622
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 2: so when I was thinking about that to day, I

623
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: was like, where have I felt that feeling before? Because

624
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: it's kind of a depressing feeling to go, you know,

625
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 2: you cause you see the the girl that's winning. You see,

626
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: like whoever the person is, or the day you see

627
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: it and you go, oh man, that's dope, or oh

628
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 2: look at she was able to she did this rapp

629
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck went viral. Look at this dance,

630
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: and then by the night, you know, two days later

631
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 2: it's like she had Uh she said, Israel is the

632
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 2: real They said, fuck Palestine, And you're like, well, what

633
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: the fuck?

634
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 4: I thought we were just I thought she just did

635
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 4: a little cute dance.

636
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, we hate her now, and so

637
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't get attached to them the

638
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: same way I feel about the people that won't get vaccinated.

639
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: It's the same feeling now. These people didn't do anything,

640
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 2: but the same.

641
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 3: Like what that said, that's unfortunate.

642
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like mm hmm, I guess you just don't you

643
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 2: don't care, So like, you know how what I'm gonna do,

644
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel bad for you. You want to go

645
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: out the restaurants and ship you want to just I'm protected,

646
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: and keep in mind, vaccinated people to me are making

647
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 2: a bad decision.

648
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 4: People that are just randomly being famous didn't.

649
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 3: Do nothing wrong, he said, vaccinated.

650
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 2: If I'm vaccinated. Yeah, you know, I'm unvaccinated. No, I

651
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 2: actually care. I changed, I had had a change of mind.

652
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: Vaccinated people the real problem. Nope, no I slipped up.

653
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: I'm bad, but yeah, unvaccinated people and just the detachment

654
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: I feel from them, where I'm like, I could be

655
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: seeing someone talk about your funeral in two weeks, you

656
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 2: just and and I.

657
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 4: Hate that that this this shit has made me that cold.

658
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 2: I don't like feeling that way. I don't like to

659
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 2: be like, oh, well, that's his fault. But it's better

660
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: than the feeling of like despair and anger and anxiety

661
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: and shit that I would be feeling if, you know,

662
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 2: I let myself, you know, think that these folks were

663
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: reachable and that they just need to hear the right thing.

664
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 2: It's just easier to be like, there's nothing you can

665
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: do to say these people they just don't care.

666
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, and some people don't want to be saved, and

667
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 5: that is a fact. It's sometimes that's very hard for

668
00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 5: people to understand. And my thing is that you made

669
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 5: a choice. I gotta respect your choice, and me respecting

670
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 5: your choice is also sometimes me not getting involved. And

671
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 5: that's because that's respecting your choice, because I know I'm

672
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 5: going to care, and because I know I'm going to care,

673
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 5: I have to detach. And I do understand how you feel,

674
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 5: because you know, I'm like, there are human beings, there

675
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 5: are people I actually do care.

676
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 3: It's not that I don't care.

677
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 5: I actually do care, but I care enough to remove

678
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 5: myself so that when a disappointment comes, not that it

679
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 5: won't affect me, because I still will feel so far

680
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 5: much sadness, don't get me wrong, but it won't be

681
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 5: as devastating because I haven't put all this investment into it.

682
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 3: So that's that balance, and it's a very hard balance

683
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 3: to that.

684
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 5: And so that's kind of how I feel about people online.

685
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 5: Like you said, and vaccinated, and I never really thought

686
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 5: about it, but it is the same.

687
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: That's where I recognize that feeling from it felt familiar.

688
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 2: I was like, what is this shit? Because you want

689
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 2: to at least for me, you know. It's like when

690
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: I see I don't know, just anybody like a great

691
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,399
Speaker 2: acting performance. You want to be like, yo, look at this,

692
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 2: this black person killed that shit. This is dope, but

693
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: this just is always some other shoes. Social media feels

694
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 2: like a depressed hive mind and it just keeps going

695
00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 2: back to we will get back to this, and people

696
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: are so normal. It's so normal to people, it's so teen.

697
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 2: I sound like the crazy person right now. Right the

698
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 2: people that participate in this cycle, if they hear the

699
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 2: sound of my voice right now, what they're probably thinking is,

700
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 2: see this nigga too sensitive, This nigga's crazy. And I'm like, y'all.

701
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 4: Feel crazy to me.

702
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 2: I think it's crazy to want to destroy a person

703
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 2: seventy two hours after saying you love this person. That's

704
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 2: crazy to me. You never love them and you probably

705
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 2: don't really even hate them. It's all just this weird

706
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 2: performative bullshit. And and it happens the fact that it's

707
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 2: so predictable that I'm now like, I don't even want

708
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 2: to get involved in the in the up because I

709
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: know the down is coming. Let's just say something about

710
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 2: the status of this.

711
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 5: Ship, right because you don't know these people. And that's

712
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 5: what people fail to realize when people come out, I'm disappointed,

713
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 5: and who in what bench? You don't know these people?

714
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 5: How can I how can they disappoint you when they

715
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 5: don't even know you exist? And so you know, in

716
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 5: my mind, I do understand that like I said, I've

717
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 5: seen all these things happening with the Olympics, and I'm

718
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 5: cheering for people, but I cheer for them in my

719
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 5: in my in my heart and offline if that makes sense. Well,

720
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,239
Speaker 5: first of all, that's good for them, and I just

721
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 5: and I just tap out after that.

722
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 2: First of all, black people don't even cheer for white

723
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 2: for the USA and the Olympics. Cheer care for black people, yes, people,

724
00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:50,640
Speaker 2: which is totally that's why we don't watch the winner Olympics.

725
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: But we just cheer for black people, right Like if

726
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 2: halfway through the race the motherfucker from Uganda take the lead,

727
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: we cheering for them too, m m, Like it ain't no.

728
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 5: We don't care if they black. We don't care where

729
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,399
Speaker 5: they come from the world they black, we there.

730
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: So, like the Olympics already is a thing I'm not

731
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 2: really into just by nature, like I always found I

732
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 2: always found it a weird to me and and I

733
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 2: guess it's even weird of a even weirder of a

734
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 2: phenomenon because watching people that.

735
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 4: Claim to kind of hate all.

736
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 2: The nationalistic, patriotic, xenophobic, arbitrary shit they seem to be

737
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,919
Speaker 2: against us every other day of the year, but then

738
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 2: once every four years, it's like for a month. Even

739
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 2: the socialist is into this bullshit, you know, And I

740
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: shouldn't call it bullshit because people have dedicated their whole

741
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: lives of being good. But it's just like to me,

742
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 2: I've always felt like, just don't really mean nothing to me.

743
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 2: Who the fuck is good at hockey? They don't mean

744
00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: nothing to me. And as a country, that's like where

745
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 2: you're born in so fucking arbitrary. This is where the

746
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 2: sperm went in the egg and this is where you

747
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 2: were at with the vagina open, Like who gives a fuck?

748
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: But okay, cool, you know, people really do care about

749
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: that shit and it can be fun, but this don't

750
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: feel fun and these aren't fun people. So you know,

751
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: when something like this happens, it's like the fun is

752
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 2: over for folks. And I think this whole watching, this

753
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,439
Speaker 2: whole scenario of fold was just so it's just been

754
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 2: like horrible hot takes, horrible comparisons, bad faulty logic, and

755
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: at the end of it, at the core of it

756
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: is this girl who lost her mom at twenty one

757
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 2: years old, and I mean she going through a lot,

758
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 2: and instead we I mean what's funny is they don't

759
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: really even want her to race for her. They want

760
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: her to race for us, Right, it's not even about

761
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 2: her for real, dude, it was nothing about her, Like

762
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 2: it's really like, it's this shit is crazy and the

763
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: conspiracies that have come out about it, and some of

764
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 2: the connections people try to make.

765
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 4: It's like, this is this.

766
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 2: Is almost dehumanizing, you know what I'm saying, because you

767
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck about that girl. You what you

768
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:17,799
Speaker 2: want to do is see her win a race because

769
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: she's black and she represents in your mind a certain

770
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 2: type of blackness that has been admonished by other folks.

771
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 2: So you just it's really all the same motherfuckers that

772
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: told me June teenth becoming a national holiday don't matter

773
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 2: give a fuck about this girl, who's just a symbol, Right,

774
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 2: There's nothing more symbolic than representing a country in this

775
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 2: contrived ass sports. Who can run the fastest hundred meters

776
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 2: is not going to change the world for anybody except

777
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 2: maybe her If she wins. It is not gonna prove

778
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: black people are free or better. It's not gonna prove anything.

779
00:38:56,480 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 2: But there's nothing more symbolic than this shit. Olympics is

780
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 2: all symbolism, and yet for every four years we do this,

781
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: you know, So it does feel a little weird to

782
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 2: see those people, all these agendas kind of come together

783
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 2: and it do be the same people. It's not like,

784
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: get the fuck out of my face with that. What

785
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,760
Speaker 2: if they different people. It's the same people. I follow

786
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 2: the same people. I don't follow new niggas. I follow

787
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: the same people. You know, I love them, but they

788
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 2: don't know what the people.

789
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 4: Be doing, like we're human.

790
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: So it is kind of weird to watch this unfold

791
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: and at the center of it, it just feels like,

792
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 2: I don't know, like nobody gives a fuck that she

793
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 2: could be suffering. I mean, hopefully her team gives a fuck,

794
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 2: because I know she went on the air and said

795
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 2: she was sorry and she let people down. I say,

796
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 2: I hope you don't feel like you let down Twitter.

797
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 2: I hope when she say you let people down, you

798
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 2: think about your trainer, your.

799
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 3: Coach, people didn't your teammates.

800
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 2: Like I could see you feeling like you let them down.

801
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 2: But you know, maybe even you might even feel like

802
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,440
Speaker 2: you let yourself down, because right you know, like niggas

803
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 2: want to turn this into a debate about we being

804
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: legal or not, which is fine. I agree that that

805
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 2: is a it should be legal.

806
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 4: I don't understand.

807
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 2: I mean, the NBA fought for years and just recently

808
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: got it so that you don't test for that. So

809
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 2: I agree that. You know, I'm not going to argue

810
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 2: whether it's performing hnsing or not that that seems very arbitrary.

811
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 2: That's not even the reason that it's on the fucking list.

812
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 2: So uh, and it has a racist past, like all

813
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 2: that shit is true, But at this Cordus is a

814
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,839
Speaker 2: girl who knew the only way she knew the coat

815
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: was to get high that night, you know what I mean,

816
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 2: Like that's how wow that shit was, and she knew

817
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:50,439
Speaker 2: like there will probably be consequences for this. So yeah, man,

818
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: you know, at the end of the day, I just

819
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: feel bad for her. I'm not required to have to

820
00:40:55,120 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 2: make all these you know, systemic system make points. It's

821
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: you know, those points will be there for any player.

822
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,760
Speaker 2: You know, those points were there when it was Michael

823
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 2: Phelps who after he won his medals, So it's not

824
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 2: a complete comparison. Remember this, after he won his medals,

825
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 2: he failed a drug test and was suspended three months,

826
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 2: not one month from competition, but that wasn't really the Olympics.

827
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 2: But even when it was him, I remember people being like,

828
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: this is kind of stupid, and they laugh and make

829
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 2: jokes and picked at him. Which I don't think anyone's doing.

830
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 4: What she carried too much.

831
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: Like even the people that don't like what she did

832
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 2: are mostly taking it seriously.

833
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 4: I'm sure there's a couple of assholes.

834
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 2: You know, don't don't quote me, you know, but for

835
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: the most what I've seen is people just feel bad.

836
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 2: Like either they feel bad and they it's like this

837
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 2: is a dumb rule she should get to run, or

838
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 2: they feel bad and they're like, uh, I wanted to

839
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: see her. Now I'm not going to get to and

840
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: I'm and I'm upset with her, and I'm upset with

841
00:41:59,640 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 2: all this.

842
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 4: But this is kind of sucks.

843
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 2: And like I said, it was very you know, that's

844
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 2: before you get to the tweets and shit.

845
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 4: It was just very predictable, you know.

846
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 5: And when you know it's predictable, it's easier to cope

847
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 5: with it because I'm like you, the highs online just

848
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 5: online period is really high, and the lows are really low,

849
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 5: So you know, like I said. For me, I go yay,

850
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 5: and then I just tap out. And a lot of

851
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,360
Speaker 5: times you see the stuff you go okay, Yeah, y'all.

852
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 3: Go digging in.

853
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 5: These are the things that you do. And like you said,

854
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 5: the person of the day, not trying funny. After these

855
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 5: Olympics over, most of y'all will probably never remember this

856
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 5: girl's name again.

857
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to funny.

858
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 2: I think they will now. I think they will now,

859
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. It's like you saying both

860
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: you know. I mean, look, people like she that's one

861
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 2: of the sad things. I'm glad n Ike sticking by her.

862
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: But that's one of the things, her story and her personality,

863
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 2: she's extremely sellable.

864
00:42:58,840 --> 00:42:59,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, now that's true.

865
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 2: Like she was gonna be a star after this Olympics,

866
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 2: no matter what. She could have came in third, she

867
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 2: was gonna be a star after this Olympics period, just

868
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 2: because of But but but like I said, man, it's

869
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 2: just mostly like That's how I feel about the whole thing,

870
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 2: is like, let me detach myself now rather than be

871
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 2: hurt by this shit later, because I don't want to

872
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: be like, oh my gosh, she's the greatest and it's like,

873
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 2: did you see what she said about little nasacs?

874
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 4: I'm like, fuck, what did she say?

875
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 2: She said this what she could have been meaning it

876
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 2: from this angle, and you know she I mean she

877
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 2: was I mean maybe she ain't understand. I don't think

878
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 2: she meant it that way. And now it's like, why

879
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: am I doing this? What I think doesn't change anything

880
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,839
Speaker 2: in her life, and it don't bring her mom back,

881
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,479
Speaker 2: and it don't get her better coping skills, right, none

882
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 2: of this shit. And if she feels responsible for she

883
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: knew that, she knew what the rules were and she decided,

884
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: you know, hey, man, this is in a moment or whatever.

885
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: This is what I'm doing, and I may have to

886
00:43:57,080 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 2: face consequences. I can't lit it that my opinion doesn't

887
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: serve anyone in that arena. Whether I'm four or against.

888
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 2: It is a pointless argument because I have no fucking control.

889
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 2: You know, I can't call team USA, hey, put it

890
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 2: back on the team. I'm sorry, I thought about it.

891
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 2: Then it's like, what are we even arguing about? So

892
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 2: I hope she uh, you know, this is why I

893
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 2: fucking hate the Olympics. It's just another reason. And then

894
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 2: like people were saying, like this because the anti blackness

895
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 2: is the Olympics. I'm like, what, it's the summer Olympics,

896
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 2: and you know the black people are the best. So

897
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 2: whatever that normally happens to the Olympics, which is people

898
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,720
Speaker 2: get cut, people, look, you know, drug tests come back dirty,

899
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 2: all that stuff that happens every Olympics. It's gonna probably

900
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: be black people. If it happened during the Winter Olympics,

901
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:55,479
Speaker 2: I wouldn't give a fuck. They catch them snowboarders smoking weed,

902
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't, okay, Like.

903
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 4: I'm not about be like we just they should change

904
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 4: the laws.

905
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I don't give a fuck about that

906
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 2: nigga doing snowboarding the X Games or whatever they're doing.

907
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: Like so anyway, this is a big rambling rant, but

908
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:15,439
Speaker 2: my point being like, that's the vaccinate people. Letty says,

909
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 2: unless they're pregnant, I have another medical reason for not

910
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 2: being able to get it. Fuck him. Yes, even my

911
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 2: sister her for a husband. We do be knowing them,

912
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 2: h wan Ganji says, outside of a legiti medical or

913
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 2: science based reason, I put them in freedom camps for

914
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 2: their own safety. Freedom camps. Maybe you have the neighbors

915
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 2: manage their property and business, you know, until the crisis

916
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 2: is over.

917
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 4: Ah don't.

918
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna touch the Freedom Camps stuff. Hopefully that's

919
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: just a joke.

920
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 3: They said the end is silent.

921
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 2: The end, and so is mine. God is wine god

922
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 2: gie with no why you okay?

923
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 3: Because they put in the chat That's why I said it.

924
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 5: No, No.

925
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 2: I was thinking, like why did the person put in

926
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 2: and there in the first place?

927
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know.

928
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, whoever named wan Ganji?

929
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: How did they come up with a silent end? That's

930
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 2: just a new one on me. Oh okay, I think

931
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 2: the only nor the n is not silent. Yeah, like

932
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 2: its English, right, English is terrible, like a night that

933
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 2: the k is silent, but the end isn't right. So

934
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know if I had ever heard of a

935
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: silent end before. I must have, huh, you know, us,

936
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: I know the wavy line over the end, like penya kilada,

937
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 2: but they said it's Kenya Kenya okay, yeah, African language.

938
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 2: I feel like that's just white people. Yeah, I feel

939
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 2: like white people. It's like a lot of words white

940
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 2: people just be like, you know, it's like Japan is

941
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: actually Nippon or some shit like that. But white people

942
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 2: be like, Japan, Yeah, I got it.

943
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 3: I didn't know that.

944
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, my name is It's like, my name

945
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 2: is blank. It's like, yeah, throw in and there fuck it,

946
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 2: that's your American name. Now, niggas get over.

947
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 4: You're like what we had episode twenty three sixty four.

948
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 2: White people don't go to jail, and we didn't get

949
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:09,439
Speaker 2: any comments, but we.

950
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 4: Did have a pole. The poe was had social media

951
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 4: ever affected your mental health?

952
00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Yes, yes seventy six percent of the audience,

953
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 2: and then twenty four percent said no. Leslie said, slowly

954
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 2: trying to quit it. But addiction is real, it really is.

955
00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 2: And I think the pandemic is asturbated. Exacerbated a lot

956
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 2: of that because it was our only connection sometimes.

957
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 5: So a lot of people ramped up their social media

958
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 5: in the past year because they otherwise would have been

959
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 5: busy doing other shit offline.

960
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, but.

961
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,439
Speaker 2: You know, I know I'm at my limit, and I'm

962
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 2: you know, obviously I keep reducing and reducing and reducing

963
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 2: and changing and all this stuff. I know I'm at

964
00:47:54,160 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: my limit though, because every time a new social media started,

965
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 2: I'll just be like I'm good. I know, like you

966
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 2: got to see me a personalized email invite for me

967
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 2: to sign up for your social media.

968
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,359
Speaker 5: Now, yeah, I'm not doing it so like I'm old.

969
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 5: I'm like fucking dove, got by my max maxed out.

970
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 4: Someone might invent something that's better.

971
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,919
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Someone might invent something that's better.

972
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 4: I like, I got.

973
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 2: A humble rack. I got a personalized invite to some

974
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 2: new social media platform they're working on and it was

975
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 2: from Mark Cuban and fuck I forget the name of it,

976
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: but it's like it's personalized communication that's supposed to be

977
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 2: like almost like people get more one on one and

978
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 2: talk to people directly instead of the tweeting at each

979
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,200
Speaker 2: other and talking past each other.

980
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, we'll see, Yeah, we'll see.

981
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 2: Y'all. Keep trying to crack this neck. This is a nut.

982
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's gonna work, but hopefully someone

983
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 2: figures something out because there's so much potential online for

984
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 2: positive shit. But it is, and keep following and it's

985
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,240
Speaker 2: the same pitfalls.

986
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 5: Because it's people, and you know, people are x factors

987
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 5: no matter how much they plan out, like anything else.

988
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 5: You know, like whenever you let's say you go buy

989
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 5: a washer in the dryer brand new, like fresh off

990
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 5: the market, you have a warranty. You have a warranty

991
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 5: for a reason because nobody would have ever predicted that

992
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 5: your child would actually try to jump in your dryer

993
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 5: and tumble their asses.

994
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 3: Around in there.

995
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 5: So now, you know what, Now we have to put

996
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 5: a warning, and now we have to put safety locks

997
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 5: on it so your kid won't open it up. People

998
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 5: are always an X factor.

999
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 3: People are very unpredictable.

1000
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 2: You don't know what they're ever.

1001
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 3: Going to do.

1002
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 5: And you know, all of my most of my experiences

1003
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 5: online have been very positive, right overall, and for most people,

1004
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 5: they have been very positive. And because of that, you know,

1005
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 5: people they don't really look at the negatives because they well,

1006
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 5: most of it's positive.

1007
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 3: And I'm and some of my some of my closest.

1008
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 5: Friends I've actually met online, Like if it hadn't been online,

1009
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 5: I probably would have never met them in rely, so

1010
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 5: it is actually not a and all ways a negative thing.

1011
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 5: It's just finding how to navigate it in the way

1012
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 5: this best for you. And sometimes it takes practice, and

1013
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 5: sometimes I take disappointment and sometimes.

1014
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 3: It's a learning curve, you know, and all types of things.

1015
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 3: They all still good people out there and things.

1016
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's definitely worth trying to figure it out, I think,

1017
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 2: and you know, all of them keep tweaking things, but

1018
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:30,640
Speaker 2: there's a nature inside of people that's so I don't know, dark,

1019
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 2: you know, and and all of us have it. It's

1020
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 2: no one person with the like. I was talking to

1021
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:41,439
Speaker 2: a friend last night about the Wendy Williams Tabitha Brown thing,

1022
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 2: which me and Justin talked about in the pregame Premium People. Okay,

1023
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 2: we played to either beat under it before it went viral.

1024
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 2: I just want you to know that you can get

1025
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 2: that only live when you're behind the paywall, come on. So,

1026
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 2: but we were talking about that with Tabitha and Wendy

1027
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 2: and she was kind of like, you know, I don't

1028
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 2: get the big deal about Tabitha Browns quote unquote clapback.

1029
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, it's dope because it's the

1030
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 2: church woman nice clapback, the passive aggressive one where it's

1031
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 2: like a lot of I'm gonna pray for you and

1032
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 2: I hope you do fine, love and stuff. And she

1033
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, well, I just don't like that, blah blah,

1034
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 2: And I was like, I feel you on that. You know,

1035
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 2: it's obviously, I mean, we're talking about two women arguing

1036
00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: over men and how men affect their lives, and shit,

1037
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: it's not the most you know, feminist argument that we had.

1038
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 2: These aren't. I don't think any one of these people

1039
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 2: are quoting Bill Hooks right now too. But my thing was,

1040
00:51:42,600 --> 00:51:44,320
Speaker 2: up until that point, I had never thought there was

1041
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 2: a bad way of you what she did, because I

1042
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 2: was like, I don't know that one woman who's mean

1043
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 2: as fucking talk shit about everybody and everybody came out

1044
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 2: of her mouth and told her that her husband was

1045
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 2: essentially gonna take her money and and all this shit.

1046
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 2: After that, mat did support her for how many years

1047
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 2: and let her, you know, she pursued her dream and

1048
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 2: then they she got it, and she felt like, cool,

1049
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: now you can go pursue your dreams. You don't gotta

1050
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:11,399
Speaker 2: be a cop no more.

1051
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 3: Right.

1052
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 2: It sounded like to me, I couldn't think of an

1053
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:18,919
Speaker 2: angle that made that not heartwarming. But that's what we

1054
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:22,720
Speaker 2: live in this place where it's like nothing's hard, everything's

1055
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 2: kind of fucked up because every person's kind of fucked up.

1056
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 2: So there's a way to look at it and be like, nah,

1057
00:52:28,239 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 2: she's fucked up. She shouldn't have said nothing or whatever,

1058
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 2: you know, like she I don't know, Like it's just

1059
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 2: it's always a way to be like you could have

1060
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 2: did it differently, so the way And I was like,

1061
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 2: if you go on a scavenger hunt for humanity, you

1062
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 2: gonna find it come out. And I think also to me,

1063
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:52,480
Speaker 2: you're talking about Wendy Williams, who I think some folks

1064
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 2: that are so used to it's easy to just kind

1065
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 2: of go, that's just Wendy. But to a lot of

1066
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,319
Speaker 2: us who ain't it's a no radio show every day,

1067
00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: not from New York. It's like, you mean that mean

1068
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 2: ass lady that just says mean shit, but her own

1069
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 2: life is fucked up, Like please keep your name, keep

1070
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 2: my name out of your mouth.

1071
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 6: You know.

1072
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 2: It's like, if we blew up enough for her to

1073
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 2: be commenting on our marriage, it would be very hard

1074
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 2: not to if she said something like foul shit about you,

1075
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 2: for me not to be like, I'm gonna say something,

1076
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: it would be very hard to, like the few times

1077
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 2: I've really used our platform to be like all right now,

1078
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 2: it's been because I'm like, you're not gonna talk about

1079
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 2: my wife, Like you can say whatever the fuck you

1080
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 2: want to say about me at some level, chill the

1081
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 2: fuck out. And she gave her a real nice, Southern

1082
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:47,160
Speaker 2: passive aggressive church lady. Hilarious to us that code switch

1083
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: with them church ladies, because you could just hear it

1084
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 2: all in the you could just hear all that bless

1085
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 2: your hard ass Southern drawl ass.

1086
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 3: And that's the thing.

1087
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 5: When people say you could have said nothing, I guarantee

1088
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 5: you if they go back and scan across their lives,

1089
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 5: there was shit that they said when they could have said.

1090
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 5: Everybody like not trying to be funny, like like like,

1091
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,400
Speaker 5: it's always a way where you could have said nothing.

1092
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 3: But when you speak out, you're always justified. You're always justified.

1093
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 5: But when it comes to somebody else, don't say nothing,

1094
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 5: you know, So I you know, I do like.

1095
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 2: If if this would have been uh, someone cussing someone

1096
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 2: to fuck out, that shit goes viral all the time

1097
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:32,839
Speaker 2: and everybody's like, yeah or whatever. Read them she did

1098
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 2: a different version of a read it's the same, it's

1099
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 2: the same idea behind it.

1100
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 4: It just made it.

1101
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 2: Funnier to be like, look at her, she's basically reading

1102
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 2: her in character.

1103
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 5: She's so good at ith Yeah, And the thing is,

1104
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 5: she has such a soothing and a nice voice, like

1105
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 5: like like very soothing voice, and so you know.

1106
00:54:54,080 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 3: For for me, uh, I think that she handled in

1107
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 3: the best way that she knew how, and to me,

1108
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 3: it was better than them both going at each other

1109
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 3: nasty in my opinion.

1110
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 2: And that's the other thing too. Once again, Tabitha Brown

1111
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 2: another person I'm detached from the same when when it

1112
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: when it first started and they was calling her the

1113
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 2: Internet's mom and all this shit, I just was like,

1114
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,800
Speaker 2: this won't end well. Motherfucker's gonna find something, some reason

1115
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 2: that she can't be we shouldn't like her. And it was,

1116
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 2: you know, I think her husband's a cop. He's l

1117
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 2: a p D or whatever. I'm like, does he beating niggas?

1118
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 2: He got some cases on him or something? He l

1119
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,240
Speaker 2: a p D? A cop? She'd a fed All right, cool,

1120
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,479
Speaker 2: y'all got this, glad I never hopped on the train,

1121
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 2: No need to hop off. Uh, you know, congrats to

1122
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 2: her on her deal. Hope she continues to prosper because

1123
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 2: y'all niggas definitely not gonna support in a consistent way.

1124
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 5: Anybody like niggas ain't like niggas ain't supposed to be

1125
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:58,080
Speaker 5: cops period, Like, no, don't.

1126
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 4: But see, that's the thing.

1127
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 2: I don't even want to get into that because now

1128
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 2: I gotta defend niggas being cops. I don't care, right,

1129
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 2: I don't care. Niggas will be cops with I care

1130
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 2: or don't care, agreed. So I'm not even getting into it,

1131
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 2: you know, my point being that it's just that it's

1132
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: that fucking person of the day shit, and so she

1133
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,399
Speaker 2: felt like very person of the day. I didn't check

1134
00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:20,680
Speaker 2: in on anything with her. I don't watch TV shows

1135
00:56:20,760 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 2: or anything with her. And then you look up and

1136
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 2: it's why, you know, the well, maybe she handled this wrong,

1137
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 2: or why is her husband a cop? Or don't nobody

1138
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 2: want to eat that vegan? Why she gotta make vegan

1139
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 2: shrimp or whatever the fuck? And you're just like, oh, yeah,

1140
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 2: I'm glad I never had to care, nude.

1141
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 5: I just know a lot of times this shit just

1142
00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 5: kind of exists. And truthfully, if it wasn't, you've bring

1143
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 5: in a lot of things to me, A lot of

1144
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 5: people I like who.

1145
00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 3: And I wouldn't even know that exists.

1146
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 2: Truthfully, that's what I show is, you know, like me

1147
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 2: going care you see this crazy shit? Am I crazy?

1148
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 2: It's really the show. The show could have been called

1149
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 2: am I Crazy? It's just me asking you, am I crazy?

1150
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: And like, no, it's not crazy.

1151
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 3: Yes, I do the shows. Who who is this?

1152
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1153
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 2: But but yeah, it's just there's no right way to

1154
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 2: handle the shit because we're all scrutinizing each other and

1155
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 2: there's always another path you could taken.

1156
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 5: Yes, and no matter what anybody does, their decision is

1157
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:13,560
Speaker 5: never going to be right in somebody else's minds.

1158
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,959
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and for show, whether I swear to God

1159
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 2: in an alternate universe on Earth too. If she just

1160
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: custs that woman the fuck out, it will been a

1161
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 2: whole lot of people going, she fucked up her bag

1162
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: of courat, you know. And if she doesn't say anything,

1163
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: then it's like she gotta eat that shit inside and

1164
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 2: act like yeah, humans gotta defend themselves. People. Most people

1165
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 2: do not have the patience to be like the infinite patience,

1166
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 2: and they already doesn't fucking for lack of a better term,

1167
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: they don't already Mamma, this woman in such a weird

1168
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:51,680
Speaker 2: fucking way that I don't understand. She's fucking our age

1169
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 2: and people are like, She's like, this is black. Mama's

1170
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: right here. This is like, hey, your mama would do this.

1171
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 2: And I'm like, isn't that woman, yo, aren't you older

1172
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 2: than him? What are you doing? If she was white,

1173
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 2: she'd just be a motivational influencer. She black, she got

1174
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 2: me everybody, mama. She ain't the first person with ASMR convoys.

1175
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 2: It's just something happened along the way. She's no longer

1176
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 2: just having the brown she is fucking the internet's mom.

1177
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 4: It's just like, this is all weird.

1178
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 2: I'm out right anyway, rooting for all of them.

1179
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,600
Speaker 3: I'm me saying here even.

1180
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 2: He says to our episode The Sandwich Police twenty three

1181
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 2: sixty five, I think the thing that bothers me the

1182
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 2: most about Bill Cosey is that he was a whole

1183
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 2: ass rapist who was constantly telling black men and women

1184
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 2: they weren't shit. For the sake of argument, let's say

1185
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 2: those seventy plus women who came forward our line, which

1186
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 2: is highly unlikely. He was still a serial adulterer and

1187
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 2: really had no business preaching respectability to anyone. Yeah, he

1188
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 2: choke on a big gorilla dick. I hope he gets

1189
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 2: a huge hemorrhoid and fuck him forever. Yeah. I always

1190
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: find that weird because I was listening to, like Judge

1191
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 2: Joe Brown, clip from him on markle My Hills. Who

1192
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 2: markle Myhill, if you're listening to this, you gotta stop

1193
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 2: having these niggas on your show. What are you doing?

1194
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 2: You're smart, You're too smart for this, too smart. The

1195
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 2: debates aren't even good or fun. They're dumb, and they

1196
00:59:14,760 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: mostly just getting up getting a platform. They're not worth it, bro,

1197
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 2: I promise you can figure out a better show without them.

1198
00:59:21,600 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 2: I promise you. Every time I look up, it's like

1199
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 2: these niggas is on the show. It's like c J.

1200
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 2: Pearson shouldn't be on your show, Judge Joe Brown shouldn't

1201
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 2: be on your show. Like just bringing on horrible, bigoted

1202
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 2: people and giving on a platform. I don't think it's

1203
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 2: a good look, especially for somebody as smart as you

1204
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,320
Speaker 2: that could fill up thirty minutes without that shit, you know.

1205
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 2: But anyway, so Judge Joe Brown was on there and

1206
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 2: he's just viewing just horrible rape apologist shit. They was

1207
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 2: groupies and this He didn't give a fuck about a

1208
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 2: fact one of any case, not any allegations, any of

1209
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,240
Speaker 2: this stuff. And I think that's how he's getting by

1210
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 2: with people saying like, you know, it.

1211
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 4: Is what it is.

1212
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 2: And then and it's like, even if you were to say, okay,

1213
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,439
Speaker 2: so you're all these women are lying they were groupies, Well,

1214
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 2: why the fuck was he a paragon of moral value

1215
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 2: when he was just fucking fucking seventy women behind his

1216
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 2: wife's back. What was that? He's still a good guy,

1217
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 2: he's still doctor Huxtable to you, but obviously he is

1218
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 2: a rapist, so they ain't, you know, So it's not

1219
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 2: like it's like he's admitted to drugging women. Let me

1220
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 2: take it back, he's he's a convicted rapist who had

1221
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 2: his case thrown out on the technicality, so you know,

1222
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 2: let's be accurate with it. But yeah, he had his

1223
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:52,920
Speaker 2: case overturned because he wasn't supposed to be prosecuted for

1224
01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 2: the rapes he confessed to. So like, that's nobody's hero.

1225
01:00:57,480 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 2: Why are we even talking to people like that? So, yeah,

1226
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,400
Speaker 2: he just seemed like a horrible dude. But it'll be

1227
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 2: interesting to see his comeback.

1228
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:06,440
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.

1229
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 4: Who putting them on stage?

1230
01:01:08,960 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 3: Ore. I told you he gonna start doing tours. He

1231
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 3: don't start doing the movies.

1232
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 8: She's gonna start doing TV shows again, like he gonna

1233
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 8: be full fledged back because at the end of the

1234
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 8: day when people will are paying, somebody gonna take that check, like.

1235
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: Somebody gonna do like interviews, podcasts with him something, because

1236
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 2: he because all that feeble, I'm an old blind man

1237
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 2: that can't do nothing. That shit is out the door.

1238
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 2: He gonna get right back to work. He already said

1239
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 2: he want to go back to work.

1240
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 3: Mm hm.

1241
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 2: Trey says, I'm beyond pissed about Cosey getting out. It's

1242
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,919
Speaker 2: even worse hearing some women defend his fake ass, rapist ass,

1243
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 2: punk ass, respectability politics, piece of shit Misgrid Cozie. How

1244
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 2: dare feliciaus support this evil motherfucker she never stopped. I

1245
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 2: wonder if she would feel comfortable leaving her her adult daughter, Gondola,

1246
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 2: who is an actress to you and billions on Showtime

1247
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 2: along with Cosby, Rod and Karen. Somebody needs to explain

1248
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 2: to her that all that blind lordy she's exercise's gonna.

1249
01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:11,520
Speaker 4: Mess up her own career. Yeah, she issued that apology.

1250
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 2: Well, she basically said, I'm sorry, but she ain't never

1251
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 2: gonna say she believed in women because that's her friend,

1252
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 2: Bill Cosby, and by the nature of him being her friend,

1253
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 2: She's like, he can't be a.

1254
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 4: Bad person, right because he never die it to me,

1255
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 4: he did.

1256
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 2: Too much for my career right to be a bad person,

1257
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 2: So he has to be a good person. Lse that

1258
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 2: makes that makes me a bad person for defending him,

1259
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 2: and I you know, I would never I would never

1260
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 2: be a bad person. It's all these transitive properties. But yeah,

1261
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 2: you know she was definitely celebrating the fist pumping when

1262
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 2: he came home. You can't erase that, you delete the tweet,

1263
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 2: and you can't double talk that shit. No, I really

1264
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:55,200
Speaker 2: staying with survivors, No, not seventy of them, you don't.

1265
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 2: There's seventy that definitely don't feel still with. And there's

1266
01:02:58,520 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 2: no amount of training that's gonna help them kids. You

1267
01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 2: lucked out that them kids so far that them kids

1268
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 2: ain't get you up out of there at Howard, because

1269
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 2: them kids ain't like our generation.

1270
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 3: Nope, they're like, no, you're not gonna be over us

1271
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 3: with that bullshit.

1272
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, our generation is very much like sometimes you just

1273
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 2: gotta take terrible shit and try to make the best

1274
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 2: of it. Them kids now are like, you can get

1275
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 2: the fuck out of the school, then.

1276
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 4: We don't care bye, you know what I'm saying, Like, they.

1277
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 2: Don't Jesus, she's the quart if he's the father of

1278
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 2: the whatever did he gets, she gets the by default

1279
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 2: be the mother of that era of people.

1280
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 4: And for America and black people, these kids.

1281
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,120
Speaker 2: Don't have that kind of reverence.

1282
01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 3: No, And they didn't grow up watching you either.

1283
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, and maybe it's because of the five second

1284
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:50,240
Speaker 2: person of the day cycle that maybe that's why they

1285
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 2: don't have that reverence for anybody, because they're like everybody

1286
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 2: can get it. But you know, so maybe that's the

1287
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 2: good side of that, you know, maybe that's not all bad,

1288
01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:00,959
Speaker 2: but uh yeah, they get you out of here.

1289
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 4: Also, both can be true.

1290
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 2: Yes, Felicia, he might have been a good boss to you,

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01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 2: but he can also be a very bad person, which

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01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 2: he is. She gonna fuck around and find out. I

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01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 2: swear sending anohing beloved support to all the SAUT survivor

1294
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 2: y'all deserve to be believed. And that's all I got. Yeah,

1295
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 2: It's just that was a tough thing all day watching that.

1296
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 2: I just sat back and went and did some other

1297
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 2: shit because you see everybody scrolling, everybody's having their feelings

1298
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 2: all over again, and you got people celebrating and shit,

1299
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 2: all those people came back, you know, and I'm sure

1300
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,360
Speaker 2: it's gonna get worse. Like I could see somebody, you know,

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01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 2: Dave Chappelle, Joe Rogan, somebody like that, like I'm gonna

1302
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 2: get him on a podcast or you know, because there's

1303
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 2: a lot of people that made jokes, but the jokes

1304
01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 2: were all kind of it's not that bad what he did.

1305
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:57,960
Speaker 2: That was my hero. So I don't think those people

1306
01:04:58,040 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 2: are gonna say, well, I think he did it, so

1307
01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: I'm I'm I was just joking, you know what I mean.

1308
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 2: I think it's gonna be like, no, I want him,

1309
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:10,400
Speaker 2: he's on tour. I want to open for him, or

1310
01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 2: he can open for me, or you know, there's always

1311
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 2: a way back for dudes like that. I saw a

1312
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 2: commercial other day that have Mike Tyson though Mike Harr's

1313
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 2: lemonade commercial. I was just like, yes, this.

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01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 4: That makes sense.

1315
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 2: Yes, can you taste the stress in your lobster? Yes? No,

1316
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 2: or that's what the butter is for. Karen, that's what

1317
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 2: the butterfly.

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01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 4: That's what the butter is for. Eighty three percent said

1319
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 4: that's what the butter is for.

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01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 2: Seventeen can't taste the stress in their lobster, which means

1321
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 2: zero percent of y'all know what.

1322
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 4: A stressed out lobster taste.

1323
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,320
Speaker 2: Like, y'all don't even know. That's interesting.

1324
01:05:46,400 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 3: Probably lots of stressed out lobster just didn't know.

1325
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 2: You probably have, uh fuck those lobster's feelings. The anguish

1326
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 2: makes some tangy, says one god.

1327
01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, we had a couple of void.

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01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 2: Let me see if I can get to these. Legra

1329
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 2: called in first, and she left two parts.

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Speaker 9: Hello you two, it's Alegra. It's been a minute that

1331
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 9: that I call in. I always find myself responding to you,

1332
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 9: responding to your response to the people responding to your episodes,

1333
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 9: like I just love the feedback episode. I just want

1334
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 9: you all to know that. So I'm responding to the

1335
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 9: twenty three sixty ones past Saturday Feedback episode and friendships

1336
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 9: because I just recently went through a divorce and I

1337
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 9: am re establishing connections with the people who I've been

1338
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 9: friends with for like one hundred years, but you know,

1339
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 9: I moved out of Milwaukee and moved back to California,

1340
01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:59,280
Speaker 9: so I'm re establishing those friendships. And it's interesting because

1341
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 9: I think that you and Karen and I were similar

1342
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 9: in that I like to have people be honest with me.

1343
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,000
Speaker 9: You know, we're all adults here. Like, if I call

1344
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 9: you my friend, I'm going to be honest with you,

1345
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 9: and I expect the same in return. And I have

1346
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 9: been doing this thing of like the campaign of this

1347
01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:24,760
Speaker 9: is you know, how I've curated my close friends is

1348
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 9: people who aren't afraid to approach me. And I'm one

1349
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:31,000
Speaker 9: of those people that people are approached me on the

1350
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 9: street and just tell them tell my life story to

1351
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 9: their life story to anyway. Like, I have a lot

1352
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 9: of people who are just like I never would have

1353
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 9: said this to anyone, you know, say this that kind

1354
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 9: of stuff to me. So maybe that's part of it.

1355
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 9: But I also think that I can't trust someone who's

1356
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 9: not able to be open and honest. So social media

1357
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 9: is difficult for me because there isn't a lot of

1358
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 9: honest It's like you guys often say a performative situation,

1359
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 9: and I'm not a big performer.

1360
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I cut off, though, who's the second part?

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01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 9: I mean, in true fashion, right, I'm just going to

1362
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 9: keep varambleman, but let me rap this shit up. So basically,

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01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:22,000
Speaker 9: I'm agreeing with you guys and your you know, assessment

1364
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 9: of how you guys view friendship because I am that

1365
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:28,840
Speaker 9: same way and I appreciate you saying that out loud,

1366
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 9: and Karen, I'm like you too and that you know,

1367
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 9: there's a lot of I can. I have found myself

1368
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:41,439
Speaker 9: reacting to people's reactions and I had to kind of

1369
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 9: take myself out of that because it wasn't me. You know,

1370
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 9: my natural way is not to be angry. I mean,

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01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:55,000
Speaker 9: my name literally means happiness. So yeah, I relate to

1372
01:08:55,080 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 9: what you were experiencing specifically, Karen, and I just wanted

1373
01:08:59,920 --> 01:09:01,679
Speaker 9: to that with you guys. All right, I love y'all,

1374
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 9: talk to you another time.

1375
01:09:04,000 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 2: Bye bye, Thank you for calling in. I never know

1376
01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 2: what to say what somebody said they just got divorced,

1377
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 2: So I, you know, congratulations if that's appropriate, or you know,

1378
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 2: I'm sorry if that's a progress like like you feel.

1379
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 3: It wherever you want to feel like we're crossing aut

1380
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:23,639
Speaker 3: of angles.

1381
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, you feel in the emotional place you need us

1382
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:27,040
Speaker 4: to be at.

1383
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:29,000
Speaker 2: Yes, because I never you know, I never know.

1384
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 4: Some people will be like, yeah, nigga, I hated that.

1385
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:33,640
Speaker 2: Moment, and then some people be like, it's sad, you know,

1386
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 2: going through a time whatever it is. If it goes

1387
01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 2: back and forth, that's fine. But the other thing I

1388
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 2: was gonna say is the honesty and friendship thing is

1389
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:47,320
Speaker 2: so funny to me because I think when people hear that,

1390
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 2: they brace up and think most people think honesty is

1391
01:09:50,920 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 2: being mean, yes, And I'm.

1392
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:56,559
Speaker 4: Just like, honestly can be nice, like you can?

1393
01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:59,599
Speaker 2: You can you can be honest with somebody and don't

1394
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 2: have to be like, yes, clothes look slavvy, your motherfucker like,

1395
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 2: you know, like honestly could be like, hey man, it

1396
01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 2: makes me feel the way when you do this, could

1397
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:10,920
Speaker 2: you not? And I think that's the vulnerability people don't

1398
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,599
Speaker 2: want to have, so they say it mean because they

1399
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:15,720
Speaker 2: make it makes you feel as vulnerable to be like,

1400
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:18,479
Speaker 2: don't say that shit around me, as opposed to like,

1401
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:20,400
Speaker 2: hey man, when you said such and such, it kind

1402
01:10:20,439 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 2: of hurt my feelings, and especially with men. I can't

1403
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:24,880
Speaker 2: speak for women, but you know, I think as we

1404
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:29,799
Speaker 2: get older and as men. Both those are two things

1405
01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: that make people scared to be vulnerable. We get old

1406
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 2: and we're like, I don't want to tell another grown

1407
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 2: person my feelings were hurt. So I'm just gonna stuff

1408
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 2: this inside until it comes out in a mean way

1409
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 2: or some shit, or I'm just gonna cut them off

1410
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 2: so we never have to have this discussion. They don't

1411
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 2: even know what they did, right, And I think that's

1412
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 2: a big thing for me is you know, my true friends,

1413
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,599
Speaker 2: we disagree and we talk about it and we be cool,

1414
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 2: and at the end of the day they know it's

1415
01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 2: still all love, you know what I mean. No matter

1416
01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 2: how frustrated or funny or whatever it gets, the number

1417
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:06,919
Speaker 2: one thing that has to underpand everything is love agreed.

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01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 5: And you know, I think for me, you know, it's

1419
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 5: one of those things that everybody has their standards and

1420
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:17,040
Speaker 5: what a friendship is. And I realize that my standards

1421
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:20,519
Speaker 5: are really really high and what I consider a friend.

1422
01:11:20,720 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 5: I realized that the definition has changed over the years

1423
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 5: and what some people consider friends. I go, oh, I

1424
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 5: would not consider that a friend me personally, And so

1425
01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 5: once I and I first I thought something was wrong

1426
01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 5: with me, but I'm like, oh, no, no, no, I

1427
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 5: know what worked. That's that boundary thing. I know it

1428
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,640
Speaker 5: works for me, and I know what people I need

1429
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:40,759
Speaker 5: to have around me so that I keep my sanity

1430
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 5: because like the way some of y'all have friends some

1431
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 5: people like I've seen it. I go, oh, that would

1432
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 5: drive me crazy. Like I could not take the emotional

1433
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 5: roller coasters. I could not take the manipulations. I could

1434
01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:55,680
Speaker 5: not take not being able to talk to you and

1435
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 5: have an honest conversation and it stay between us and

1436
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:02,440
Speaker 5: you're not a chat in tweet and posted it on Facebook.

1437
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:05,920
Speaker 5: Re re like like like, I can't function like that.

1438
01:12:06,200 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 5: I need things to be offline. I'm not trying to

1439
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:12,040
Speaker 5: say there's certain things we can't do that can be online.

1440
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:13,800
Speaker 5: I'm not trying to be funny. Yes, shit, we could

1441
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 5: do that. We could be online, but there are some

1442
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 5: things that I'm like, motherfucker, this right here might be insensitive.

1443
01:12:20,280 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 2: Or whatever it may be.

1444
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 5: And you know, it goes online and people will be like,

1445
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 5: well you said this and you said that, Well it

1446
01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 5: was never meant to.

1447
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 3: Be there, Like like, because y'all niggas judge everything.

1448
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 5: Everybody has things that you know, if it was if

1449
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:34,759
Speaker 5: it was recorded or snap to somebody like, well, something's

1450
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:37,559
Speaker 5: wrong with you. I wasn't always politically correct and all

1451
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:39,640
Speaker 5: that shit. I don't always have the right language. I

1452
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:41,559
Speaker 5: don't always have the right words to say. I might

1453
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,080
Speaker 5: be upset when I'm talking and then you know, plush

1454
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 5: it out and by the time I get ready to

1455
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:46,920
Speaker 5: make a public.

1456
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 3: Statement, my views on the thing may have changed.

1457
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 5: But I need to be able to I need to

1458
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 5: be able to come to you, talk to you, and

1459
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 5: you allow me to go through that emotional roller coaster.

1460
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 5: And it stayed there, and I realized that now everything

1461
01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 5: is everything is for online, even my friendship, and and

1462
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 5: I don't function like that.

1463
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:06,560
Speaker 3: I don't function like that.

1464
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 5: Like like that shit drives me crazy because there are

1465
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 5: some things that are very personal to me, and like

1466
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:15,040
Speaker 5: I said, everybody functions differently, and I know that there

1467
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:17,439
Speaker 5: you know, there are some things that we talk about

1468
01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,400
Speaker 5: and we keep it in the house and it stays

1469
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 5: and I would be hurt and devastated like like, and

1470
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 5: I've been like that since.

1471
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 3: I've been a kid. There's been things that have been

1472
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:29,799
Speaker 3: you know, spread out.

1473
01:13:29,720 --> 01:13:31,400
Speaker 5: And said about me as a kid, and I was like, well,

1474
01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 5: I know you're the only person I said this too,

1475
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:36,919
Speaker 5: and I had no plans on that being public information,

1476
01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 5: you know, And it's very and for me, it's very heartbreaking.

1477
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 5: But I know I am very sensitive, like I know me,

1478
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 5: and I am very sensitive to who I hold close

1479
01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 5: to the chest.

1480
01:13:48,280 --> 01:13:50,080
Speaker 3: And who I hold close to my heart.

1481
01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:52,879
Speaker 5: I know this, and I know I am very sensitive

1482
01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 5: to how I react and how I respond to those things,

1483
01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 5: like and you got to know yourself, and I know me,

1484
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:00,680
Speaker 5: so yes, I you.

1485
01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:02,720
Speaker 3: Know most people, I'm cool with, most people I don't

1486
01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 3: have a problem with.

1487
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,320
Speaker 5: But there'll be a few people that are close enough

1488
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,559
Speaker 5: to my heart what they get into an inter circle

1489
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 5: to get to know me, and I'm.

1490
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 3: Truly true to true to true to truly.

1491
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 5: Myself around them. Everybody else get pieces and versions of me.

1492
01:14:15,320 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, and I think that is that's a

1493
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 2: great point you made about even people friendship sometimes be

1494
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 2: for social media. You know, nothing's really private, and that's

1495
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:27,600
Speaker 2: not a good space to grow. No, no, not a

1496
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:29,559
Speaker 2: good space to be able to make mistakes and learn

1497
01:14:29,680 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 2: and shit.

1498
01:14:31,040 --> 01:14:32,679
Speaker 4: All right, let's go to the next voicemail.

1499
01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:39,800
Speaker 10: Hey Ryan, Karen, this is I'm sorry from Twitter. A

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01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:42,600
Speaker 10: couple of things I wanted to say. The person was,

1501
01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 10: y'all talked about our critical race theory so much. I

1502
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 10: think that they messed up. The Republicans mess up so

1503
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,560
Speaker 10: much when they let June Seas.

1504
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 6: Become a holiday. So now people are going to be

1505
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:55,679
Speaker 6: talking about it, regardless of how much.

1506
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 10: They're going to try to push down critical race theory

1507
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,760
Speaker 10: things like that. So and people weren't talking about that part.

1508
01:15:02,040 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 10: And I wish that they were talking about that.

1509
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 6: And because it's one of they're going to be talking about.

1510
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 10: Because it's history and they're going to be putting it

1511
01:15:09,360 --> 01:15:11,920
Speaker 10: in all kind of busting and how events and things

1512
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 10: like that.

1513
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 6: So if they really wanted to stop all this.

1514
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:19,559
Speaker 10: Type about history slavery and just pushed down c the gracery,

1515
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 10: they wouldn't have let that pass. The second thing was

1516
01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 10: is that with COVID and everything that has happened, and

1517
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 10: how a workforce force has changed our family, in particular

1518
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 10: my husband he quit his job because his job wanted him.

1519
01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 6: To come back in and they didn't care about people.

1520
01:15:34,960 --> 01:15:36,719
Speaker 10: They got that team, they didn't care.

1521
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 6: About if they wore masks. And what was crazy was

1522
01:15:40,360 --> 01:15:42,559
Speaker 6: that when he was in the office before COVID happened.

1523
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 10: His boss's dad came to the job and wore a

1524
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 10: Trump pass, So you already know that it was going.

1525
01:15:49,080 --> 01:15:50,920
Speaker 6: To be a whole bunch of manigans and things like that,

1526
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:52,120
Speaker 6: and they were already broke.

1527
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:54,680
Speaker 10: So he quit his job and was able to get

1528
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 10: a full time remote job. And so now we're able

1529
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:01,000
Speaker 10: to And he wanted a remote out for years, but

1530
01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 10: they kept on saying that he couldn't, that they couldn't

1531
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 10: do it, they couldn't do it. But now magically, since COVID.

1532
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:08,880
Speaker 6: Happened, he was able to work remote the whole time.

1533
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 10: And then when he was getting ready to put they said, oh, well,

1534
01:16:11,160 --> 01:16:12,000
Speaker 10: we could do remote.

1535
01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 6: So these jobs are full of it.

1536
01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:16,719
Speaker 10: But I am thankful and that we're in the place

1537
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 10: that we're able to have a remote job now.

1538
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 6: But my little two cents, y'all have a great one,

1539
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 6: and y'all have a good day.

1540
01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:26,679
Speaker 3: Buys by fine and congratulation to remote working.

1541
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:32,639
Speaker 2: Shout out to remote working than you and uh yeah, man,

1542
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 2: that is some bullshit.

1543
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 4: And I agree completely with you about the June teen thing.

1544
01:16:37,560 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 2: I really think people missed the boat trying to be

1545
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:44,599
Speaker 2: once again depressed highline Twitter something that people black people

1546
01:16:44,840 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 2: have been working for.

1547
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,639
Speaker 3: For years, a lot of people, a lot of people.

1548
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 2: Immediately before anyone has a second to celebrate it, they

1549
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 2: try to tell you why it ain't ship, and it's like,

1550
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:57,320
Speaker 2: y'all don't even see you and you are in a

1551
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 2: depressed hive mind. This is a this this, this is

1552
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 2: your mind telling you everything has to be bad. There's

1553
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 2: nothing good. It has to be something bad. You know,

1554
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 2: even the fact that you wouldn't looked up a fifteen

1555
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:14,960
Speaker 2: year old tweeked fifteen year old's tweeked after she won

1556
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:20,960
Speaker 2: Olympic twuilify or whatever. That's what depression tells you to do.

1557
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, this person can't be right. I

1558
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 2: gotta find out why they ain't shit, you know. Let

1559
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 2: me tell you why. Let me figure out how I

1560
01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:31,640
Speaker 2: ain't shit? You know what I mean.

1561
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 4: It's bad, man, it's bad.

1562
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:35,479
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that June tenth thing people missed

1563
01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 2: a boat and we'll see Tom will tell her. Because

1564
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:41,080
Speaker 2: I think you lose the cultural war. The classroom war

1565
01:17:41,240 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 2: isn't really what people think. It is that shit wasn't

1566
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,439
Speaker 2: in the classrooms already. Kids were graduating from school knowing

1567
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 2: nothing about racism in America. Come on, but the holiday

1568
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:54,759
Speaker 2: and pop culture and shit will do more to educate

1569
01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 2: these kids. And making it a pop culture issue, it

1570
01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 2: will do more to educate these kids than anything else.

1571
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:08,760
Speaker 4: Last voicemail, I.

1572
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 3: Got cut off earlier, man, I don't even know where,

1573
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 3: but I just listen to.

1574
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:20,720
Speaker 9: You, know, so I need to get your dard the

1575
01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 9: slander that I.

1576
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 7: Was throwing at you're earlier today.

1577
01:18:25,120 --> 01:18:31,679
Speaker 10: Oh man, just day the sugar brog log.

1578
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:34,920
Speaker 7: Yes's hilarious.

1579
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 2: All right, you too? Man? Uh, what's funny is his

1580
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:42,920
Speaker 2: original message got cut off, So I don't even know

1581
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 2: what the first message was. It's just so the second one.

1582
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:47,960
Speaker 2: So you so shout out, you know, shout out the

1583
01:18:48,000 --> 01:18:51,200
Speaker 2: skype okay for blessing me and keeping me safe from

1584
01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 2: the slander. Whatever the slander was, I didn't even catch none.

1585
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:57,880
Speaker 2: So I have nothing but warm feelings towards you right now, bro,

1586
01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 2: And I love that all I got to hear was

1587
01:19:01,240 --> 01:19:03,599
Speaker 2: the right name. It's makes me want to play basketball

1588
01:19:03,640 --> 01:19:07,160
Speaker 2: again with the old man and then you and then

1589
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 2: you're saying how funny that joke was on the show.

1590
01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 3: It's kind of your brother, ain't right now?

1591
01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 2: Nothing but positive for me Bro appreciate you. We got

1592
01:19:15,240 --> 01:19:17,120
Speaker 2: emails as go to these what they do?

1593
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:17,960
Speaker 3: It got blocked.

1594
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:19,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, God blocked it.

1595
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 4: Okay.

1596
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 2: I would have had to gather you together on my

1597
01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 2: Tabitha Brian. I tell you how nice and sweet you

1598
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:28,960
Speaker 2: are and how much I want to pray for you

1599
01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:31,960
Speaker 2: to kid love in your life, finding a good woman

1600
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:36,639
Speaker 2: Team Blackness. This is by Joe who writes in high

1601
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:39,639
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen, just listening to your Saturday feedback show. Karen,

1602
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:41,720
Speaker 2: I think it was in response to an email you

1603
01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 2: talked about the outside dislike you have for Lena Dunhough

1604
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:46,840
Speaker 2: and how you set out to reconcile where this was

1605
01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 2: coming from, and since she didn't really end of your

1606
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 2: radar directly. Rod offered that the source likely wasn't the

1607
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 2: second hand wasn't the second hand source of Lina's fan base,

1608
01:19:56,760 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 2: but more likely the third hand source of various black

1609
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:03,200
Speaker 2: people on social media and elsewhere who presumably were closer

1610
01:20:03,280 --> 01:20:06,760
Speaker 2: to these Dunnamites. I could see this being a possibility.

1611
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:09,600
Speaker 2: A while back, I realized that I was reacting to

1612
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,320
Speaker 2: a wide variety of things that was being done by

1613
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 2: either white people or by traitorers black people. Coons if

1614
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:15,559
Speaker 2: you will.

1615
01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:19,000
Speaker 4: But these things were not happening in front of me

1616
01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:19,839
Speaker 4: or my slid.

1617
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:22,400
Speaker 2: Usually they were stories I either saw on the TV

1618
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 2: show or heard about on the podcast. I guess these

1619
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:27,600
Speaker 2: are the continuing culture wars. Black people didn't start it,

1620
01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:30,679
Speaker 2: but we are intent on getting shot sent periodic actions

1621
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 2: somehow for the very honor of the capital b Blackness

1622
01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 2: have always been around. I think this particular epoch started

1623
01:20:37,400 --> 01:20:39,960
Speaker 2: with the killing the Trayvon Martin, though there are any

1624
01:20:40,040 --> 01:20:44,759
Speaker 2: number of triggering events. Whenever it stated, things definitely whenever

1625
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 2: it started things definitely intensified with Trump's election and the ominous,

1626
01:20:48,960 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 2: ominous fifty three percent. Suddenly, though, everything became about a

1627
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 2: referendum for the standing of race. Moonlight, When the Oscar

1628
01:20:56,640 --> 01:20:59,040
Speaker 2: but green Brook, When the next year Macklamore got the

1629
01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,000
Speaker 2: Grammy over Kendred. Did we make the Atlanta Falcons our

1630
01:21:02,080 --> 01:21:04,559
Speaker 2: only hope to beat the Patriots in the Super Bowl?

1631
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:07,680
Speaker 2: The falcon that will a black bachelor actually pick a

1632
01:21:07,760 --> 01:21:11,000
Speaker 2: black woman? Yeah, we knew how that would go. When

1633
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:13,960
Speaker 2: did pumpkin versus Sweet Potato become a litmus test choose

1634
01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,439
Speaker 2: wrong and get condemned to the sunken place?

1635
01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 5: With Ben Carson two hundred dollars days, letting people come

1636
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:20,880
Speaker 5: on your face with insecure like.

1637
01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a lot.

1638
01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:24,400
Speaker 4: I think he's talking specifically about the things about race.

1639
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 3: Okay, so that's ginger wars bad.

1640
01:21:27,960 --> 01:21:30,080
Speaker 4: The pumpkin versus sweet potato.

1641
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:32,200
Speaker 2: Thing, I feel like was a thing before the Internet,

1642
01:21:32,400 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 2: but the Internet blew it up. It's all at once

1643
01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:38,080
Speaker 2: a joke and taking seriously. I knew I was being

1644
01:21:38,200 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 2: ridiculous Rod when you started living that pumpkin spice life.

1645
01:21:41,720 --> 01:21:44,640
Speaker 2: I was rather annoyed with the display done more than

1646
01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:46,960
Speaker 2: a little tongue in cheek for a little too long

1647
01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 2: before realizing how ridiculous I was being. Of course, you

1648
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 2: can just have bad taste in pie. Ha, it didn't

1649
01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 2: change anything. Well, I will say this, and this is

1650
01:21:56,880 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 2: a common misunderstanding of the punkin spot, and one I'm

1651
01:22:01,320 --> 01:22:06,839
Speaker 2: happy to inform you about. Ah, I don't like punkin

1652
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:10,759
Speaker 2: pie and pumpkin spice life is not about consuming pumpkin

1653
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:15,839
Speaker 2: pie at all. If anything, pumpkin spice is very similar

1654
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:18,040
Speaker 2: to the spices that go in the sweet potato pie,

1655
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:22,320
Speaker 2: which I love. So I don't you know, I just

1656
01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 2: but it's a common misconception that Oh you must love

1657
01:22:25,320 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 2: punkin No, I love pumpkin spice.

1658
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying.

1659
01:22:29,840 --> 01:22:32,680
Speaker 2: So it's that combination of spices looking up yourself that

1660
01:22:32,880 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 2: make pumpkin spice, that make it delicious and also help

1661
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 2: make sweet potato pie delicious. So glad we could clear

1662
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:41,679
Speaker 2: that up and get back on the same page. But also,

1663
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:45,280
Speaker 2: you're right, extremely ridiculous. You were upset by my jokes,

1664
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 2: and I'm glad you called it out yourself.

1665
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:49,759
Speaker 3: By the jokes.

1666
01:22:50,040 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 2: I'm glad you called it out yourself. It's happened to

1667
01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:54,880
Speaker 2: me before too. Well. You be like, why the fuck

1668
01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:55,760
Speaker 2: am I mad about this?

1669
01:22:57,720 --> 01:22:59,840
Speaker 3: You been like, do I even care? I actually don't care.

1670
01:23:00,160 --> 01:23:01,040
Speaker 2: Yeah I did.

1671
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:04,400
Speaker 4: I did not you know me, as I alluded to earlier.

1672
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:06,479
Speaker 2: Worst thing you can do is tell me some shit

1673
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:08,679
Speaker 2: is making you mad that I'm having a great time doing.

1674
01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna keep doing it.

1675
01:23:11,400 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 3: And I'm not going on. I'm not gonna stop.

1676
01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 2: That's how we ended up with reading Rainbow.

1677
01:23:16,120 --> 01:23:20,120
Speaker 3: That's how I got them ugs like yes, ugs.

1678
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh it bothers you. Well, guess who's about to

1679
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:26,639
Speaker 2: go stomping in my in my in my lambskin uggs

1680
01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:31,280
Speaker 2: the battle is claiming any number of casualties. There are

1681
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,479
Speaker 2: definitely major issues in this country, in this world that

1682
01:23:33,560 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 2: need to be fixed. At the same time, there's outside

1683
01:23:36,040 --> 01:23:39,920
Speaker 2: focused on things that are either microaggressions or misunderstandings. For example,

1684
01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:41,920
Speaker 2: I didn't know I didn't know I Kia stores had

1685
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 2: employee cafeterias. Twenty black people called how to work because

1686
01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 2: their managers are going to bring in fried chicken and

1687
01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 2: watermelon and helped celebrate an event. Let's be real, White

1688
01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:52,639
Speaker 2: people made fried chicken problematic, but we still better burden

1689
01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:56,200
Speaker 2: of that action. All these Popy's, Bojango's, church's, KFC's not

1690
01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:59,160
Speaker 2: to mention hundreds of places to buy wings. Everybody eats

1691
01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:01,720
Speaker 2: the bird, but you are supposed to act like we

1692
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:04,800
Speaker 2: would never the only ones who are not supposed to

1693
01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:08,559
Speaker 2: consume it. In the words of many an assist nigga please,

1694
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 2: that might just be Paul Mooney. Still, though, keep up

1695
01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:17,320
Speaker 2: the great work you both really do, because you both

1696
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:20,400
Speaker 2: really do cause people to rethink initial positions taken on

1697
01:24:20,600 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 2: various subjects. I reconsider my initial thoughts about the Confederate

1698
01:24:24,120 --> 01:24:27,080
Speaker 2: premise after listening to you. More people would benefit from

1699
01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:30,719
Speaker 2: hearing your segment about that plantation with the Misunderstood juneteen premise,

1700
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:33,600
Speaker 2: I was quite disappointed with something I read and the

1701
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:38,160
Speaker 2: root about it. Yeah, I mean, like I said, man,

1702
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:42,320
Speaker 2: I had to find peace by saying I think that

1703
01:24:42,479 --> 01:24:46,240
Speaker 2: person was going to do a program that actually would

1704
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:50,439
Speaker 2: have had educational probably a lot of entertainment value to it.

1705
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 2: But if your job in the community is to communicate

1706
01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:57,439
Speaker 2: that to the community, and the community has to trust

1707
01:24:57,520 --> 01:24:59,920
Speaker 2: you to do that, and you're not able to do it,

1708
01:25:00,400 --> 01:25:03,880
Speaker 2: and then unfortunately you don't get to be indignant or

1709
01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: upset by it. Nope, because as you see, it just

1710
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:08,920
Speaker 2: exacerbated everything and went way worse. And now we don't

1711
01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 2: even have anybody running that plantation, and we don't know

1712
01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 2: who will be running, and for all we know is

1713
01:25:15,160 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 2: fucking doing nothing but weddings next year. So right, nothing

1714
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:21,759
Speaker 2: like nothing good came out of that situation, in my opinion,

1715
01:25:22,520 --> 01:25:25,760
Speaker 2: because it didn't seem like that dude was somebody that

1716
01:25:25,960 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 2: was consistently doing this horrible work, or else we would

1717
01:25:28,640 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 2: have been known about him, so correct.

1718
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:30,960
Speaker 6: Uh.

1719
01:25:31,080 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 2: And then when they perused his background, they could only

1720
01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:36,439
Speaker 2: find that one incident, and even that incident was like, yeah,

1721
01:25:36,439 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 2: I could see why he would do that. So I

1722
01:25:39,439 --> 01:25:41,720
Speaker 2: don't know, man, I just you know, but but yeah,

1723
01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 2: I I do. I do find myself sometimes and it's

1724
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 2: never on purpose. I'm not a contrarian by nature, but

1725
01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:51,160
Speaker 2: I do find myself being like, hold on, let me

1726
01:25:51,240 --> 01:25:54,599
Speaker 2: think about this, Like what you know, and what would

1727
01:25:54,640 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 2: happen if I just didn't assume every person was just

1728
01:25:57,520 --> 01:25:59,040
Speaker 2: the worst version of themselves?

1729
01:25:59,439 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 5: Right?

1730
01:26:00,160 --> 01:26:02,559
Speaker 2: That's so bad? I can always go back and revise

1731
01:26:02,640 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 2: and be like, well, that guy is a coon. You know,

1732
01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:07,600
Speaker 2: something could have came out and that dude like his

1733
01:26:07,800 --> 01:26:09,400
Speaker 2: next job, he could be working.

1734
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:09,839
Speaker 4: At a plantation.

1735
01:26:09,920 --> 01:26:13,400
Speaker 2: Andy be like we doing uh, well, you know, we're

1736
01:26:13,439 --> 01:26:15,720
Speaker 2: doing Confederate Appreciation night, and I'd be like, oh, I

1737
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:17,760
Speaker 2: guess I was wrong. Here's a piece of shit.

1738
01:26:18,080 --> 01:26:18,240
Speaker 5: Right.

1739
01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:20,080
Speaker 2: I can always go back and say he's a piece

1740
01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:21,560
Speaker 2: of shit if that's what it turns out to be.

1741
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 2: But is it okay if I start with maybe he

1742
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:27,080
Speaker 2: didn't mean for this to be so terrible, and what

1743
01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:29,600
Speaker 2: would that What would he have been thinking if he

1744
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:30,719
Speaker 2: wasn't a terrible person.

1745
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:33,839
Speaker 5: No, Because online everything is black and white, and online

1746
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 5: we need an instant answer, you know. It's like online

1747
01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:40,240
Speaker 5: is like something happens and then everybody puts the microphone

1748
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:40,840
Speaker 5: in every by the face.

1749
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:42,360
Speaker 3: What do you think about it? You go, well, I

1750
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:44,320
Speaker 3: just heard this information. Let us know what you think

1751
01:26:44,560 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 3: right now.

1752
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:48,280
Speaker 5: And you're like, well, I actually need to digest this

1753
01:26:48,479 --> 01:26:50,240
Speaker 5: to see actually how I really feel about it, and

1754
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:51,679
Speaker 5: it might take me a few minutes.

1755
01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:54,120
Speaker 3: And I'm grown, so now I just when people do

1756
01:26:54,200 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 3: that out like, well, I'm not giving you a fucking answer.

1757
01:26:56,160 --> 01:26:58,280
Speaker 3: Don't rush me. Like I'm to the point now when

1758
01:26:58,320 --> 01:26:59,600
Speaker 3: I'm grown, I'm like, don't rush me.

1759
01:26:59,680 --> 01:27:01,519
Speaker 5: If you rush me to make a decision, the answer

1760
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 5: is going to automatically be no, because I feel like

1761
01:27:03,920 --> 01:27:05,880
Speaker 5: you're trying to trick me into something because you.

1762
01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:07,519
Speaker 3: Don't want me to analyze it enough.

1763
01:27:08,000 --> 01:27:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one of the things that does make me

1764
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,080
Speaker 2: step back is when there is a rush to judgment,

1765
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 2: and it's very get down or lay down, because critical

1766
01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:18,840
Speaker 2: thing shouldn't be a threat to anybody.

1767
01:27:19,280 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 3: Given somebody trying to analyze it and think about it.

1768
01:27:21,600 --> 01:27:22,360
Speaker 3: That's reasonable.

1769
01:27:23,120 --> 01:27:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, I don't need to rush you into my

1770
01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:27,639
Speaker 2: point of view because the other reason I don't want

1771
01:27:27,640 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 2: to rush you into my point of view is because

1772
01:27:29,280 --> 01:27:32,640
Speaker 2: you won't authentically arrive there and it won't stick. Like

1773
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:34,760
Speaker 2: I can bully you into you need to do what

1774
01:27:34,880 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 2: I tell you, Like, okay, man, I'll just do it.

1775
01:27:37,840 --> 01:27:39,519
Speaker 2: Like I said. When I had that conversation with my

1776
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 2: friend about about something, it was like, yo, don't say

1777
01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,519
Speaker 2: can we not say this thing? I could have been

1778
01:27:45,600 --> 01:27:48,640
Speaker 2: like because I said so, and if you don't, then

1779
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:49,960
Speaker 2: you won't be my friend? Fuck you?

1780
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:50,240
Speaker 3: You know.

1781
01:27:50,360 --> 01:27:52,920
Speaker 2: But I'm like that, how would that help? And it's like,

1782
01:27:53,120 --> 01:27:55,080
Speaker 2: well why not? Because he did ask why not? And

1783
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:57,880
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, this is the reasoning. Okay, but what

1784
01:27:58,000 --> 01:27:59,559
Speaker 2: if I mean it like this? And I'm like, well,

1785
01:27:59,600 --> 01:28:02,400
Speaker 2: this is why that's still not good because even if

1786
01:28:02,439 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 2: you mean it like this, blah blah blah, and if

1787
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 2: and if and if that's not good enough, then can

1788
01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:12,080
Speaker 2: you just please do it for me? Then you know

1789
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:14,760
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, like because of our relationship, if you

1790
01:28:14,880 --> 01:28:18,000
Speaker 2: really truly do not understand what I'm saying, can you

1791
01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:20,720
Speaker 2: just trust me on this and just know that I

1792
01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:24,040
Speaker 2: don't mean nothing bad towards you to say that that

1793
01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:28,400
Speaker 2: might be problematic that and you know that's an okay conversation.

1794
01:28:28,520 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 2: How with a friend.

1795
01:28:29,439 --> 01:28:32,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a conversation that people don't want to happen

1796
01:28:32,160 --> 01:28:35,360
Speaker 5: because those are those quote unquote vulnerable conversations.

1797
01:28:34,880 --> 01:28:35,839
Speaker 2: And we're not friends.

1798
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 3: Right.

1799
01:28:36,479 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 2: Well, in a lot of these situations, like I will

1800
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:41,479
Speaker 2: fucking scare you do what I tell you to do.

1801
01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:44,280
Speaker 2: Agree with me, It's like I don't want to be

1802
01:28:44,280 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 2: out the group, you know, so then you just agree

1803
01:28:46,160 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 2: and you don't even mean it.

1804
01:28:47,040 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 5: You're right, and I'm too old for that. I just

1805
01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:50,320
Speaker 5: be at the fucking group because there's a lot of

1806
01:28:50,320 --> 01:28:51,600
Speaker 5: shit to go on. I'll be like, oh, well, I

1807
01:28:51,800 --> 01:28:52,920
Speaker 5: just want to be a part of the group with

1808
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:55,400
Speaker 5: a click, and nobody on Lie wants to be the loner.

1809
01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:56,720
Speaker 3: But that's part of life.

1810
01:28:56,760 --> 01:28:59,080
Speaker 5: Sometimes sometimes you got to walk this path alone because

1811
01:28:59,080 --> 01:29:01,320
Speaker 5: your life is your life and can't nobody live it

1812
01:29:01,400 --> 01:29:03,080
Speaker 5: but you. When you have to live it to the fullest,

1813
01:29:03,120 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 5: and sometimes I mean cutting off people, places and things that.

1814
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:06,560
Speaker 3: Does not benefit it.

1815
01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:09,200
Speaker 2: I still won't watch that Karen movie, at least not

1816
01:29:09,320 --> 01:29:12,360
Speaker 2: until I hear whether it plays as unintentional comedy. Thanks

1817
01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:15,160
Speaker 2: for all you do, Hey, I'm not trying to convince

1818
01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:17,639
Speaker 2: y'all to watch the movie. I'm just telling you I'm going.

1819
01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:19,760
Speaker 3: To it's gonna be hilarious.

1820
01:29:20,040 --> 01:29:22,559
Speaker 2: I'll get more than enough enjoyment for all of us.

1821
01:29:22,760 --> 01:29:26,240
Speaker 2: You can you know what I'm saying. Trust, there's never

1822
01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:30,599
Speaker 2: been one of these movies that wasn't hilarious. Like, it's

1823
01:29:30,640 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 2: either gonna be well done or hilarious, and that's gonna

1824
01:29:34,160 --> 01:29:34,719
Speaker 2: be hilarious.

1825
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:35,639
Speaker 3: It's gonna be a comedy.

1826
01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:39,439
Speaker 2: Episode twenty three sixty one. This is from cooland for Now?

1827
01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:39,960
Speaker 4: Who says?

1828
01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:42,680
Speaker 2: Hey, Rod and Karen, this is green Eyed Bandit and

1829
01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:45,400
Speaker 2: Feedback Episode twenty three sixty one. Rod brought up the

1830
01:29:45,439 --> 01:29:48,160
Speaker 2: conspiracies about whether that Rohna really had Trump in trouble.

1831
01:29:48,400 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 2: Does nobody remember when he came home from the hospital,

1832
01:29:50,760 --> 01:29:53,320
Speaker 2: stood out on that balcony, paint on his face as

1833
01:29:53,320 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 2: he's straining to reach up take his mask off and

1834
01:29:55,240 --> 01:29:57,439
Speaker 2: put it in his pocket. You could literally see him

1835
01:29:57,439 --> 01:30:00,240
Speaker 2: struggling to take a deep breath. I was amazed see

1836
01:30:00,240 --> 01:30:02,439
Speaker 2: people making him out to be some genius playing four

1837
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:05,599
Speaker 2: dimensional chests with the media, as if he wasn't really sick.

1838
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:09,400
Speaker 2: Trump or Mastermand the dude that stared at the solar eclipse.

1839
01:30:09,840 --> 01:30:12,160
Speaker 2: Nigga can't even figure out how to close an umbrella

1840
01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:13,920
Speaker 2: but you know what, never mind, y'all.

1841
01:30:13,760 --> 01:30:16,519
Speaker 3: Got it right. It took all o a nigga's srengthens

1842
01:30:16,560 --> 01:30:17,679
Speaker 3: to go up there flights and stairs.

1843
01:30:17,680 --> 01:30:19,640
Speaker 5: When they was like, sir, you know we got a

1844
01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,360
Speaker 5: back door where you don't have to hit these stairs,

1845
01:30:21,400 --> 01:30:22,480
Speaker 5: it was like nope.

1846
01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 2: Right breathing all in the secret services.

1847
01:30:25,520 --> 01:30:28,679
Speaker 3: Stay right, getting all them niggas sick talking about.

1848
01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:30,320
Speaker 2: I look strong like nigga, you look like you need

1849
01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 2: a seat right. Feedback to episode twenty three sixty one,

1850
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:36,760
Speaker 2: Big Caucasia. This is from Genevieve who says, hi, Rod

1851
01:30:36,800 --> 01:30:40,160
Speaker 2: and Karen just another West Indian way, and then on

1852
01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:43,599
Speaker 2: Joe VEI, I think it's juve. My biggest issue since

1853
01:30:43,640 --> 01:30:45,840
Speaker 2: I was fairly certain Michael B. George's partners were like

1854
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 2: likely trendy was the trademarking filing that said that juve

1855
01:30:50,720 --> 01:30:52,879
Speaker 2: doesn't mean have any meaning in any language.

1856
01:30:53,120 --> 01:30:54,839
Speaker 4: I took great offense to that nonsense.

1857
01:30:54,920 --> 01:30:57,519
Speaker 2: When there's a French turn that literally means eye open,

1858
01:30:58,280 --> 01:31:02,040
Speaker 2: and I was and was adopted by West Indians, uh

1859
01:31:02,320 --> 01:31:05,960
Speaker 2: especially training's often for the up opening of carnival and

1860
01:31:06,120 --> 01:31:09,320
Speaker 2: celebration of our peoples and culture. One thing about West

1861
01:31:09,360 --> 01:31:12,400
Speaker 2: Indians we share with everybody. We invite everybody to share

1862
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:14,960
Speaker 2: and our everyone is sharing our celebrations with us, and

1863
01:31:15,080 --> 01:31:16,599
Speaker 2: not to take it and claim it as their own.

1864
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:18,920
Speaker 2: If the press release has said Michael B. Jordan in

1865
01:31:18,960 --> 01:31:22,120
Speaker 2: association with his training partners were releasing a room called

1866
01:31:22,200 --> 01:31:25,840
Speaker 2: a room called Juvet, completely fine, we shouldn't have to

1867
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:28,960
Speaker 2: search to see if he's taken from or taking part.

1868
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:31,920
Speaker 2: But again, that trademark filing pissed me all the way off.

1869
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:34,240
Speaker 2: And I can't believe a training probably some of my

1870
01:31:34,439 --> 01:31:37,599
Speaker 2: some of the other investors who aren't West Indians foul

1871
01:31:38,080 --> 01:31:40,280
Speaker 2: feel fouled that ship. But it soured me to the

1872
01:31:40,320 --> 01:31:43,040
Speaker 2: whole enterprise, and I won't be drinking anything offered by them.

1873
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:46,840
Speaker 2: Love Toshell Genevieve. Yeah, that's interesting too, because he did

1874
01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:49,240
Speaker 2: apologize and go back, and you would think like he

1875
01:31:49,360 --> 01:31:53,600
Speaker 2: did the right thing, and ain't they Yeah, and it

1876
01:31:53,720 --> 01:31:56,000
Speaker 2: was obviously not his idea. They just stuck his name

1877
01:31:56,040 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 2: on it. But that's interesting. Even with all that, it's like,

1878
01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:01,560
Speaker 2: I will never that shit will never touch my lips, Okay.

1879
01:32:01,520 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 3: And also you know what that shit who knows who

1880
01:32:05,160 --> 01:32:07,040
Speaker 3: founded it? Like, yeah, that's what she was saying.

1881
01:32:07,080 --> 01:32:09,000
Speaker 4: Probably one of them. I mean, I doubt he sat

1882
01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:10,040
Speaker 4: down and filled out right.

1883
01:32:10,920 --> 01:32:11,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I'm with you now.

1884
01:32:11,920 --> 01:32:14,599
Speaker 2: I'm with you now, Mr span Wright saying wages and workers.

1885
01:32:14,600 --> 01:32:16,600
Speaker 2: So I'm listening to episode twenty three sixty three Just

1886
01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:18,479
Speaker 2: get Vaccinated, and I'm at the part where you guys

1887
01:32:18,520 --> 01:32:21,240
Speaker 2: are talking about states giving and centers to get people

1888
01:32:21,280 --> 01:32:22,960
Speaker 2: to get back go back to work, and I pause

1889
01:32:23,000 --> 01:32:24,439
Speaker 2: the audio so I could send this email.

1890
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:26,639
Speaker 4: So forgive me if you guys eventually end up saying

1891
01:32:26,720 --> 01:32:27,320
Speaker 4: this already.

1892
01:32:27,680 --> 01:32:29,920
Speaker 2: But when Karen made the point of the American worker

1893
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:32,160
Speaker 2: making lesson where Rob made the point about white men

1894
01:32:32,240 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 2: in their contract to take care of each other, what

1895
01:32:34,280 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 2: instantly popped into my head was how white people, white

1896
01:32:36,520 --> 01:32:41,719
Speaker 2: men in particularly in particular particular, slowly changed their attitudes

1897
01:32:41,760 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 2: about unions once they became integrated. Only about ten percent

1898
01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:48,760
Speaker 2: of American workforce is unionized now compared to about twenty

1899
01:32:48,800 --> 01:32:51,160
Speaker 2: five percent in the fifties and sixties when the unions

1900
01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:53,719
Speaker 2: were at their strongest, and that's not even count government workers.

1901
01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:56,679
Speaker 2: The quality of wages, benefits, and worker protections are slowly

1902
01:32:56,760 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 2: deteriorated along with the decimation of union and what has

1903
01:33:01,160 --> 01:33:05,439
Speaker 2: been so ironic about these conversations, talking about their freedoms

1904
01:33:05,479 --> 01:33:08,160
Speaker 2: and choices being taken away from them in regards to

1905
01:33:08,240 --> 01:33:11,240
Speaker 2: vaccine mandates in the workplaces that they've been voting in,

1906
01:33:11,400 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 2: politicians promoting right to work and gutting unions that would

1907
01:33:15,320 --> 01:33:18,280
Speaker 2: actually have been able to more forcullly fight against those

1908
01:33:18,360 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 2: mandates and maybe even save their jobs. That's so true.

1909
01:33:22,120 --> 01:33:24,240
Speaker 2: Not that I would agree with that particular move, because

1910
01:33:24,240 --> 01:33:26,000
Speaker 2: I sure as hell don't, but it just goes to

1911
01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:27,880
Speaker 2: show how many of them just don't know how much

1912
01:33:27,920 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 2: they're cutting off their noses despite their faces. Hope the

1913
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:32,840
Speaker 2: email wasn't too long, but I just had to get

1914
01:33:32,920 --> 01:33:35,280
Speaker 2: that thought out for escape me. Y'all be easy, I'll

1915
01:33:35,320 --> 01:33:36,160
Speaker 2: talk to you so them.

1916
01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:41,880
Speaker 5: And I agree, mister span I think that unions have

1917
01:33:42,000 --> 01:33:45,240
Speaker 5: a purpose, and this is why they fought so hard

1918
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:48,040
Speaker 5: to bust them. This is why they fought so hard

1919
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:52,280
Speaker 5: to make it mandates where you could actually get the

1920
01:33:52,400 --> 01:33:55,360
Speaker 5: benefits of the union without actually putting into the union.

1921
01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:56,519
Speaker 3: They made it though.

1922
01:33:56,960 --> 01:33:59,920
Speaker 5: Now dudes are optional, you know, versus if you get here,

1923
01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:01,920
Speaker 5: we're gonna take these dudes out automatically.

1924
01:34:02,040 --> 01:34:03,040
Speaker 2: You work for us.

1925
01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:06,840
Speaker 5: Now you're gonna put into this. And the thing is,

1926
01:34:07,080 --> 01:34:09,280
Speaker 5: if you opted out, you didn't get the same benefits.

1927
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,559
Speaker 5: And I understand that why should you get the same

1928
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Speaker 5: benefits if you are not paying into this. These are

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Speaker 5: the people that make a lot of times, a lot

1930
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Speaker 5: of people don't like unions because with unions, a lot

1931
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Speaker 5: of times it's harder to fire people versus right, the

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Speaker 5: work states have a lot of rules and regulations and

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Speaker 5: things like that kind of built into the system.

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Speaker 3: If something fucked up happens.

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Speaker 5: Unions will fight on your behalf versus if something happens

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Speaker 5: to me, I'm on my own, I have to sew

1937
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Speaker 5: on my own. I don't have any backing. I might

1938
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Speaker 5: not have the force versus then you be like, what

1939
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Speaker 5: you're not gonna do is this? Then we can go

1940
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Speaker 5: and we can negotiate things. We've even read articles that

1941
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Speaker 5: when it's time to negotiate and reuppay for the fact

1942
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Speaker 5: that they negotiate, they increase pay. And then they turn

1943
01:34:49,479 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 5: around and they negotiate things with the union. They negotiate healthcare,

1944
01:34:52,720 --> 01:34:56,920
Speaker 5: they negotiate childcare, they negotiate you know, all these things.

1945
01:34:57,000 --> 01:35:00,959
Speaker 5: When you are injured at work, they negotiate the equipment

1946
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Speaker 5: that you use. They negotiate the safety rules and policies.

1947
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Speaker 5: If the union seats okay, people get hurt doing this,

1948
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Speaker 5: this and this, they can take it. But like, hey,

1949
01:35:09,439 --> 01:35:11,679
Speaker 5: these things need to change because the workers are getting

1950
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Speaker 5: hurt and they can go on their behalf. Not the

1951
01:35:14,720 --> 01:35:18,360
Speaker 5: unions are perfect. They're not, but it's easier to do that.

1952
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Speaker 5: And this is what the states and the companies don't

1953
01:35:21,040 --> 01:35:23,600
Speaker 5: like because they want it to be I have the

1954
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Speaker 5: right to hire you and fire you as I please,

1955
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Speaker 5: and you have no individual rights.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because at the end of the day, what happens

1957
01:35:33,080 --> 01:35:36,479
Speaker 2: with white folks when it came to these unions was

1958
01:35:37,640 --> 01:35:41,519
Speaker 2: they were so racist that they had to share the

1959
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Speaker 2: unions with black people. That white people would rather abdicate

1960
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Speaker 2: themselves from power than to share it with black Hello. Okay,

1961
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Speaker 2: you see what I'm saying. That's a bar right there.

1962
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Speaker 2: They would rather abdicate themselves from power than to share

1963
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Speaker 2: it with black people. Hello, okay. Because that that's what

1964
01:36:04,240 --> 01:36:07,920
Speaker 2: it proved. Like Chicago, they busted some unions by just

1965
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Speaker 2: bringing in black labor. Like a union would go on

1966
01:36:11,600 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 2: strike and they'd be like, we're bringing these black people

1967
01:36:13,439 --> 01:36:15,280
Speaker 2: instead of saying let's just bring the black people into

1968
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Speaker 2: the union too.

1969
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Speaker 4: They won't fuck you.

1970
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Speaker 2: We'll never share that with niggas. We'll beat up the

1971
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:22,240
Speaker 2: black people and we'll scare and intimidate them, but we

1972
01:36:22,360 --> 01:36:26,200
Speaker 2: will never fucking allow them in. There's unions where they

1973
01:36:26,200 --> 01:36:30,479
Speaker 2: would switch leadership every year from black to white because

1974
01:36:30,479 --> 01:36:32,559
Speaker 2: it would go they instead of because it was mandated,

1975
01:36:32,640 --> 01:36:34,320
Speaker 2: you have to let you have to have a union

1976
01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:37,120
Speaker 2: that has both races. They would say, okay, well, then

1977
01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:39,960
Speaker 2: now it's the black people headed.

1978
01:36:40,120 --> 01:36:41,960
Speaker 4: It's a black union. We don't We're not touching it.

1979
01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:45,080
Speaker 2: It's white folks. Next year, white union. We you know

1980
01:36:45,320 --> 01:36:49,000
Speaker 2: you want to negotiate conar side of town talk. You

1981
01:36:49,080 --> 01:36:52,000
Speaker 2: know that kind of shit. Black serial killers. This is

1982
01:36:52,040 --> 01:36:54,559
Speaker 2: from Dee Ramsey who says, hello, there are tippers riding.

1983
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Speaker 6: Karen.

1984
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Speaker 2: Glad I was able to catch most of the lives

1985
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:58,720
Speaker 2: this week. I'm glad that you and Karen stay on

1986
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Speaker 2: the front lines and bringing us in from insight answers

1987
01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:03,000
Speaker 2: and allowing some of us to face the come through

1988
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 2: truths about America. Come too much shit happened over the

1989
01:37:08,000 --> 01:37:10,720
Speaker 2: last day of Pride episode of twenty three sixty five.

1990
01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,840
Speaker 2: Sevich police as far as Donald RUMs fell passing away man.

1991
01:37:14,439 --> 01:37:17,120
Speaker 2: Now this Bill Cosey shigety man. I am not going

1992
01:37:17,200 --> 01:37:19,280
Speaker 2: to argue with anyone about him in the situation. It's

1993
01:37:19,280 --> 01:37:21,560
Speaker 2: all a for us something that is left out of

1994
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Speaker 2: discussion or never gets enough tension.

1995
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Speaker 4: In Black Brown is Black Brown serial Killers.

1996
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Speaker 2: There is a Documentnity Come to Stars about Samuel Little,

1997
01:37:29,560 --> 01:37:31,559
Speaker 2: who was both a rapist and a killer who avoided

1998
01:37:31,600 --> 01:37:32,559
Speaker 2: prison for forty years.

1999
01:37:32,960 --> 01:37:34,479
Speaker 4: We've talked about him on the show before.

2000
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Speaker 2: I think he didn't get executed. Yeah, and did we

2001
01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:40,760
Speaker 2: do read it out of COVID or something? This shit?

2002
01:37:40,880 --> 01:37:42,400
Speaker 3: Watch another documentary that come.

2003
01:37:42,360 --> 01:37:43,519
Speaker 2: You're talking about the Grim Sleeper.

2004
01:37:43,720 --> 01:37:44,519
Speaker 4: That's a different guy.

2005
01:37:44,680 --> 01:37:47,200
Speaker 2: Okay, No, this dude was even more.

2006
01:37:47,760 --> 01:37:48,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just horrible.

2007
01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:52,920
Speaker 2: It's horrible, I mean, and you know, it's such a

2008
01:37:53,040 --> 01:37:55,800
Speaker 2: weird thing to say, because there's a obsession around serial killers,

2009
01:37:55,800 --> 01:38:00,519
Speaker 2: and obviously media around them and podcast around them are

2010
01:38:01,200 --> 01:38:03,640
Speaker 2: making lots of money and shit. So it's almost kind

2011
01:38:03,680 --> 01:38:05,760
Speaker 2: of callous to a certain extent, even though I do

2012
01:38:05,880 --> 01:38:08,800
Speaker 2: watch some of those things, and I'm not trying to

2013
01:38:08,840 --> 01:38:14,240
Speaker 2: sensationalize it, but it's weird to advocate for equality in

2014
01:38:14,320 --> 01:38:17,519
Speaker 2: the serial killer Lane, like it's the one place it's

2015
01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:20,320
Speaker 2: like when the motherfucker shot up DC. I just finished

2016
01:38:20,360 --> 01:38:24,400
Speaker 2: watching that documentary I Sniper with Lee Boy Marvo and

2017
01:38:24,560 --> 01:38:28,800
Speaker 2: John Muhammad, and you're like, I mean, I don't want

2018
01:38:28,840 --> 01:38:31,559
Speaker 2: this equal. I kind of was hoping it would stay white.

2019
01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:35,840
Speaker 2: I was hoping this was a white so only.

2020
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Speaker 3: Time I was hoping that, you know, I score kept

2021
01:38:38,360 --> 01:38:39,679
Speaker 3: being zero. Yeah.

2022
01:38:41,360 --> 01:38:44,400
Speaker 2: So but my point being like, you're right though, because

2023
01:38:44,439 --> 01:38:46,719
Speaker 2: a big part of why that doesn't get attentions because

2024
01:38:46,760 --> 01:38:49,040
Speaker 2: they kill a lot of times, they kill black women

2025
01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 2: and they don't people don't care.

2026
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Speaker 9: You know that.

2027
01:38:53,200 --> 01:38:55,479
Speaker 2: That's what the Grim Sleeper thing was. He killed women

2028
01:38:55,640 --> 01:38:59,920
Speaker 2: for so fucking long in California because he just kept

2029
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:05,160
Speaker 2: killing black women that were either street workers or drug

2030
01:39:05,280 --> 01:39:09,000
Speaker 2: addicts and sometimes both, and he took he had evidence

2031
01:39:09,120 --> 01:39:11,479
Speaker 2: and pictures and these women were missing and the police

2032
01:39:11,600 --> 01:39:14,639
Speaker 2: just were like nah, like people are going and they're

2033
01:39:14,680 --> 01:39:17,000
Speaker 2: like there's now forty missing women in this area and

2034
01:39:17,040 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 2: it's like, yeah, we don't see what the that's not

2035
01:39:19,360 --> 01:39:23,000
Speaker 2: connected their drug addicts and shit like that. Also, there's

2036
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 2: a list of ten here. There's a list of ten

2037
01:39:25,200 --> 01:39:28,040
Speaker 2: black serial killers. Samuel Little died in prison here in

2038
01:39:28,080 --> 01:39:30,280
Speaker 2: Texas twenty twenty. Okay, yeah, we did talk about this guy.

2039
01:39:30,640 --> 01:39:34,840
Speaker 2: Another serious black serial killer rapist, Paul Durrocion is a

2040
01:39:34,960 --> 01:39:38,880
Speaker 2: prison in Jacksonville, Florida. He raped and killed when both

2041
01:39:39,040 --> 01:39:41,640
Speaker 2: and Georgia and Florida. He was supposed to die by

2042
01:39:41,640 --> 01:39:43,040
Speaker 2: A Leitha and Jackson in two thousand and four. But

2043
01:39:43,120 --> 01:39:45,920
Speaker 2: he's facing the new trial. Well, you know, prison abolition.

2044
01:39:46,000 --> 01:39:47,680
Speaker 2: Gotta get him out on the streets. You know how

2045
01:39:47,720 --> 01:39:50,120
Speaker 2: it is, y'all, what are we gonna do? You know?

2046
01:39:50,400 --> 01:39:54,800
Speaker 4: I think we all think he's served as time. You

2047
01:39:54,920 --> 01:39:56,040
Speaker 4: and Karen enjoyed the weekend.

2048
01:39:56,120 --> 01:39:59,120
Speaker 2: Dve Ramsey, thank you. Yeah, that was a big tangent.

2049
01:40:00,960 --> 01:40:04,479
Speaker 2: But you know what, not that big attention. Bill Cosey

2050
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:08,040
Speaker 2: is the most prolific fucking rapist that we have that

2051
01:40:08,160 --> 01:40:11,479
Speaker 2: I know of, So I guess it's not that big

2052
01:40:11,560 --> 01:40:12,080
Speaker 2: of a tendent.

2053
01:40:12,240 --> 01:40:12,760
Speaker 9: No, it is not.

2054
01:40:13,560 --> 01:40:18,680
Speaker 2: I mean, like I said, the logo, Hoa's are the

2055
01:40:18,800 --> 01:40:21,640
Speaker 2: worst ignored the other one with this type. Okay, So

2056
01:40:21,800 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 2: Mssruspan sent me two emails and one that deleted what

2057
01:40:24,560 --> 01:40:27,240
Speaker 2: he did. I'm now listening to episode twenty three to

2058
01:40:27,240 --> 01:40:29,120
Speaker 2: sixty four White People don't go to jail. And when

2059
01:40:29,160 --> 01:40:31,479
Speaker 2: you guys got to the LGBTQ News and that story

2060
01:40:31,479 --> 01:40:34,639
Speaker 2: about the HOA that wanted to find them for displaying

2061
01:40:34,680 --> 01:40:37,320
Speaker 2: a Pride flag outside their homes, it made me think

2062
01:40:37,360 --> 01:40:39,760
Speaker 2: of all the hard stories I've heard that had to

2063
01:40:39,840 --> 01:40:42,679
Speaker 2: do with hoa's. When I was looking to buy my house,

2064
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:44,880
Speaker 2: one of the conditions I told my realtor about was

2065
01:40:44,920 --> 01:40:47,400
Speaker 2: I didn't want him to show me any listings that

2066
01:40:47,560 --> 01:40:50,479
Speaker 2: had an HOA attached to it. Most of the people

2067
01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:53,320
Speaker 2: I hear who taut the benefits of hoa's say they

2068
01:40:53,520 --> 01:40:56,320
Speaker 2: liked them because they keep their property values high by

2069
01:40:56,439 --> 01:40:58,800
Speaker 2: enforcing rules to make sure everyone in the community keeps

2070
01:40:58,880 --> 01:41:01,639
Speaker 2: up their property, which helps with own values. And sometimes

2071
01:41:01,680 --> 01:41:04,719
Speaker 2: they come with added amenities like a community pool, private security,

2072
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:07,000
Speaker 2: and things like that. But the flip side to that

2073
01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:09,840
Speaker 2: is you're now paying an extra feet on top of

2074
01:41:09,960 --> 01:41:12,680
Speaker 2: your mortgage to allow other people to tell you what

2075
01:41:12,880 --> 01:41:15,639
Speaker 2: to do with your property, like telling you how many

2076
01:41:15,680 --> 01:41:17,400
Speaker 2: cars you're allowed to have, or if you can use

2077
01:41:17,400 --> 01:41:20,200
Speaker 2: your garage at storage unit as opposed to parking your

2078
01:41:20,240 --> 01:41:23,200
Speaker 2: car in there. I'm in a few homeowners groups on Facebook,

2079
01:41:23,240 --> 01:41:26,080
Speaker 2: and the overwhelming's sentiment I've seen from people promote the

2080
01:41:26,320 --> 01:41:29,320
Speaker 2: need for hoa's are people who seem to need to

2081
01:41:29,400 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 2: have some control over what other people do, and they

2082
01:41:32,520 --> 01:41:34,800
Speaker 2: always say shit like I just want to make sure

2083
01:41:34,880 --> 01:41:37,719
Speaker 2: my neighbors are cutting their grass or they're not parking

2084
01:41:37,800 --> 01:41:40,000
Speaker 2: in front of their in their front lawns, as if

2085
01:41:40,040 --> 01:41:41,880
Speaker 2: the only way to find a nice home where people

2086
01:41:41,920 --> 01:41:45,040
Speaker 2: don't do this is the HOA. All I know is

2087
01:41:45,200 --> 01:41:47,839
Speaker 2: I've never seen a news story where HOA is involved

2088
01:41:47,880 --> 01:41:52,400
Speaker 2: and it's about something good. Okay, that's it ran over peace,

2089
01:41:53,160 --> 01:41:55,760
Speaker 2: Spad and you sent a link to an article where

2090
01:41:55,760 --> 01:41:57,920
Speaker 2: the HOA was towing people's cars from in front of

2091
01:41:57,960 --> 01:41:58,639
Speaker 2: their own homes.

2092
01:41:59,240 --> 01:42:03,760
Speaker 5: They said, I said, it's interesting because it's harder now

2093
01:42:03,880 --> 01:42:05,919
Speaker 5: to find places without hoa's.

2094
01:42:05,920 --> 01:42:07,400
Speaker 3: A lot of times you do hoa's, they're going to

2095
01:42:07,439 --> 01:42:07,600
Speaker 3: be in.

2096
01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:12,800
Speaker 5: Older homes and older neighborhoods. And you know, I'm kind

2097
01:42:12,840 --> 01:42:14,439
Speaker 5: of similar to you, missus.

2098
01:42:14,439 --> 01:42:14,679
Speaker 3: Span.

2099
01:42:14,880 --> 01:42:17,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, whenever we hear about hoa's, is you know this

2100
01:42:18,000 --> 01:42:21,680
Speaker 5: person did something Now to HOA, people can put a

2101
01:42:21,760 --> 01:42:23,479
Speaker 5: lean on their home. You're like, how the fuck you're

2102
01:42:23,479 --> 01:42:25,360
Speaker 5: gonna put a goddamn lean on my home? Something that

2103
01:42:25,439 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 5: you never pay the fucking diamonds. But this is stipulations

2104
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:30,720
Speaker 5: that be in hoa's that people actually don't know about

2105
01:42:30,720 --> 01:42:31,360
Speaker 5: a lot of times.

2106
01:42:31,760 --> 01:42:37,080
Speaker 2: Yep. Our last thing, this is from Tony who says, thanks, Hey,

2107
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Speaker 2: Rod and Karen.

2108
01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:39,000
Speaker 4: I just want to say thank you for.

2109
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Speaker 2: Doing what you do. I work with vulnerable people, folks

2110
01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:45,240
Speaker 2: who are impacted by mental illness as well as experiencing homelessness.

2111
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Speaker 2: And I discover it your show when I was both

2112
01:42:47,760 --> 01:42:51,000
Speaker 2: physically and emotionally drained from doing that work. Your show

2113
01:42:51,080 --> 01:42:53,559
Speaker 2: has helped a great deal. It has helped to restore

2114
01:42:53,640 --> 01:42:55,680
Speaker 2: me so I can continue to go back out there

2115
01:42:55,720 --> 01:42:58,280
Speaker 2: and help more folks. So again, thank you for the

2116
01:42:58,360 --> 01:43:02,080
Speaker 2: work you do. Best regards, And I think Tony was

2117
01:43:02,120 --> 01:43:03,800
Speaker 2: the person I said that saw us on Twitter and

2118
01:43:03,960 --> 01:43:05,559
Speaker 2: was like, I want to donate something to the show.

2119
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Speaker 4: So if that was you, thank you, Tony.

2120
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Speaker 2: That was very nice. So you and uh, once again, man,

2121
01:43:12,000 --> 01:43:14,960
Speaker 2: I don't we don't we start the show. We never say,

2122
01:43:15,120 --> 01:43:18,080
Speaker 2: and this is to help people take care of folks

2123
01:43:18,120 --> 01:43:20,800
Speaker 2: that are in housed and dealing with you know, mental

2124
01:43:20,840 --> 01:43:23,559
Speaker 2: health issues. We don't. We're just like oh me and caring.

2125
01:43:23,600 --> 01:43:25,920
Speaker 2: Onna make some jokes and talk about some pop culture

2126
01:43:25,960 --> 01:43:28,960
Speaker 2: and some race and uh, I'm glad that it was

2127
01:43:29,040 --> 01:43:32,320
Speaker 2: giving you that battery in your back. Obviously you deserve,

2128
01:43:32,560 --> 01:43:35,080
Speaker 2: you know, at least ten percent of the credit.

2129
01:43:35,439 --> 01:43:39,160
Speaker 3: You deserve all the credit.

2130
01:43:40,840 --> 01:43:42,439
Speaker 2: Hold on, care you're giving away too much.

2131
01:43:42,800 --> 01:43:43,160
Speaker 3: Oh my.

2132
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Speaker 2: Credit to you, you know what I'm saying. And uh,

2133
01:43:49,280 --> 01:43:51,400
Speaker 2: you know, thank thank you for doing what you do,

2134
01:43:51,960 --> 01:43:55,160
Speaker 2: but mostly thank us for doing what we do to

2135
01:43:55,320 --> 01:43:59,280
Speaker 2: keep you going. Okay, we're in this together, all the first,

2136
01:44:00,320 --> 01:44:03,320
Speaker 2: all the nurses, y'all welcome, all the people. Help m say,

2137
01:44:03,840 --> 01:44:06,640
Speaker 2: y'all need a place that you can go listen and

2138
01:44:06,760 --> 01:44:08,680
Speaker 2: you ain't got to hear no hotel bullshit.

2139
01:44:08,960 --> 01:44:10,160
Speaker 3: Come on, you ain't got to.

2140
01:44:10,200 --> 01:44:14,320
Speaker 2: Hear nobody telling you that you know no anti blackness.

2141
01:44:14,400 --> 01:44:16,120
Speaker 2: Hopefully I mean a little bit, but not a lot,

2142
01:44:16,840 --> 01:44:19,799
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. You can get some jokes,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So hopefully it's helping all y'all.

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Speaker 2: You know, who knows Barack Obama might have heard the

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Speaker 2: show he has it, but he might have he has it, Michelle,

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Speaker 2: These niggas are funny.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I mean, I mean, but like if he

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Speaker 5: does were on his private secret list, and he don't

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Speaker 5: tell nobody about.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Michelle, I gotta tell you.

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Speaker 2: Goddamn, these niggas are funny, and don't you're.

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Speaker 3: Gonna tell nobody. Definitely don't tell our kids.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I guess the rights?

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Speaker 3: All right? Could you imagine I'm playing that game? I

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Speaker 3: say black, I'm gonna go with white rock.

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Speaker 2: Color. Is Mitch McCom a dead hand?

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Speaker 3: Oh god?

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Speaker 2: Alright, that's enough. We'll be back tomorm We have Reggie

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Speaker 2: and Nick Joe. Talk to you all later till then.

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Speaker 2: I love you, I love you to lie