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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glaser Podcast. Here's Nikki. Hello, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: It's Niki Laser Podcast. Here. I am, UM, it's me. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm the problem. It's me. UM, trying to remember to

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Speaker 1: say that every day. It's really fitting for my life recently,

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Speaker 1: I'm just keep going, Oh my god, how is not

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Speaker 1: more people written songs with this in it? Oh? Wait

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Speaker 1: they have. Matt Pond wrote a song called The Problem

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Speaker 1: is Me, but I talked about on this podcast, UM

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Speaker 1: back in September, long before Antihero by Taylor Swift came out.

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Speaker 1: So check that song out today on this show. I

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Speaker 1: am in Los Angeles still because my boyfriend is working

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Speaker 1: on Beauty and the Beast. Check it out on ABC

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Speaker 1: December nuts. UM, not quite sure what I think it's

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Speaker 1: December fift but he played me. I guess. He told

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Speaker 1: me I should say about some of the musical performances

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Speaker 1: that are happening, and they are amazing. And I forgot

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Speaker 1: how much I loved that movie. UM. Andrew is in

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Speaker 1: Indianapolis tonight, so he is not here, but um on

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Speaker 1: your Marina is filling in. She is here. She is

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Speaker 1: live from Kubertino, which is where your iPhone was not

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Speaker 1: made because we know that's China. It was created intellectually

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Speaker 1: nearby and she's up in the hills of Cupertino where

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Speaker 1: her parents live. Is that just specific? Are people going

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Speaker 1: to find them? Yeah, they're gonna find him. Please please

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Speaker 1: come over. Uh no, that's fine. But you're a little

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Speaker 1: logo of the maps on your iPhone that is Kubertino

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Speaker 1: right there when you could find maps on your iPhone.

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Speaker 1: The little picture that is the on your app is

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Speaker 1: Cupertino is like where your parents house is? Yeah, that guy,

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Speaker 1: so you like you can go to that intersect. How

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Speaker 1: far are you from that intersection that is on the

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Speaker 1: app picture? Like, right there is where I went to

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Speaker 1: Starbucks today? No way? Oh yeah, there's a Starbucks there.

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Speaker 1: I bet if you could take any tiny square picture

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Speaker 1: of a quarter mile of America, there would be a

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Speaker 1: Starbucks in it. So I guess that's not that crazy,

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Speaker 1: especially in Coubertino. Oh yeah, I was at the one

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Speaker 1: today and the guy was like, I'm so sorry someone

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Speaker 1: took your drink. It's just been that kind of morning.

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Speaker 1: It was so nice. It made me a new one.

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Speaker 1: And then the lady behind me was like, it's my cappuccino. Right,

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Speaker 1: and he's like, oh my god, let me check. I

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Speaker 1: think someone went, wait, did you put your order? Hold on? Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to see your phone. And it's like, ah,

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Speaker 1: you pick the Starbucks two blocks down, and he was

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Speaker 1: so nice and well, yes, he goes in. These people

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Speaker 1: are dealing with this all day long. There was a

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Speaker 1: meme going around the other day that I posted where

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Speaker 1: it was like a Starbucks employee like kind of crouched

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Speaker 1: down in almost the fetal position, like looked like he

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Speaker 1: was really sad, like on the floor, and then there

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Speaker 1: was another employee that was comforting him. And the meme

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Speaker 1: was when she says, I'm never coming back to the

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Speaker 1: store again. So it's just like they don't care. Like

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Speaker 1: it was just like making fun of when people say

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Speaker 1: that at Starbucks. These employees that you were going to say,

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Speaker 1: it's like a pipe comforting another pipe. Oh yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was exactly like the pipe shot. Noah is an Arizona

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Speaker 1: She's here. Um yeah, that pipe shot. I didn't get

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Speaker 1: to look at the comments on that, but I hope

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Speaker 1: that people saw what I was talking about. There are

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Speaker 1: some people that see these things that I see too often.

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Speaker 1: My friend Taylor, Um, the train jump in Hobo sees

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Speaker 1: him a lot and um but uh yeah, so, um,

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Speaker 1: what I was gonna say about Starbucks, Oh there, it's

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Speaker 1: it's it's such a vast um difference between the kind

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Speaker 1: of employee you'll get at a Starbucks. You might go

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Speaker 1: to a Starbucks where they're just like not having it,

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Speaker 1: don't have anything to do with you. And there's some

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Speaker 1: that are so nice that they've recently maybe had a

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Speaker 1: tell that they just had a team meeting about like

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Speaker 1: you need to start asking people like how's your day?

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Speaker 1: What are you getting into today? Like yesterday when in

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Speaker 1: the Starbucks and I don't talk to any of employees

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Speaker 1: there because I do mobile orders, so you just grow

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Speaker 1: up and grab them so they don't have to have

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Speaker 1: these like partner interactions, which is what they call them.

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Speaker 1: I think because I'm on the Starbucks sub credit, so

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Speaker 1: I read all about what it's like to work at Starbucks,

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Speaker 1: to do that as an important Why do they anywhere

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Speaker 1: there's like courtesy, but why do you have to like

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Speaker 1: where I buy an eight dollar latte is home. These

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Speaker 1: people get me. This is like Cheers totally. I walked

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Speaker 1: I feel so, how do you know? Because I've only

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Speaker 1: I know your order, and I miss I genuinely missed

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Speaker 1: the Starbucks people at my I have had so many

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Speaker 1: different Starbucks in my life, but there's one that I

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Speaker 1: used to go to during the pandemic. That was the

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Speaker 1: living with my parents and didn't really have a lot

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Speaker 1: going on. I think it was before the podcast, even

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Speaker 1: like it was just I would go there every single

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Speaker 1: name I now forget, but I run into her around

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Speaker 1: town sometimes and she and I like struck up a friendship.

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Speaker 1: She didn't realize I was like semi famous or whatever

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Speaker 1: I am. I hate saying famous, but you know, she

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Speaker 1: what what, like her freak out and then I see,

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Speaker 1: by the Starbucks that I live at, and so I

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Speaker 1: run into her. There there's like this beauty like, um

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Speaker 1: a vida mabe, it's not even a vada like. There's

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Speaker 1: before class there's like seriously probably seventy people dressed head

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Speaker 1: and they all line up to get their drinks. I'm

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Speaker 1: dying to know why these people don't will order. People

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Speaker 1: love a line. But I really do miss the people

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Speaker 1: that I see every single day at Starbucks, um in

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Speaker 1: a um an interview with a friend of mine. So

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Speaker 1: and then we struck up a friendship. And while we

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Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, what you should do

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Speaker 1: an article on, like people quit in caffeine and how

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Speaker 1: not that word. So it's like a bigger issue than

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Speaker 1: we think. And it's like, you know, insous. I guess

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Speaker 1: maybe the word of pervasis pervasive. Yeah, what's what are

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Speaker 1: other words that make me sound like a political analyst? Um,

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Speaker 1: I said that, um oh, malef Lewis. Now that's how

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Speaker 1: decaff where people are talking about how hard it is

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Speaker 1: I'm addicted to caffeine. I'm addicted to Starbucks because it

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Speaker 1: worth me going to a different terminal. How many times

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Speaker 1: have I met you a baggage name? When you guys

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Speaker 1: an addiction. We know what you have this? Every time

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Speaker 1: So I'm just like, okay, we go to Starbucks. Can

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Speaker 1: we go to Starbucks? And he has like he has

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Speaker 1: to tell me no for me to not go back.

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Speaker 1: But it's never just like one cup because I think

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Speaker 1: about it, like three days after, I was just like Starbucks, Starbucks, Starbucks,

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Speaker 1: they do give. Yeah. I always get a trend to cocaine.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but it's like I

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Speaker 1: it's there is a couple of things that could get

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Speaker 1: me to quit. Okay, if they ran out of almond milk,

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Speaker 1: podcast down to one day a week until the end

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Speaker 1: of the year to see where I am with my

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Speaker 1: abrasions on my chords, my perfect chords that are all

428
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Speaker 1: fucked up again now and um. But during that time,

429
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Speaker 1: I just and I feel guilty because I want still

430
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: I was crying about it to Chris last night because

431
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to still sing, but like, and

432
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: I want to socialize, but it feels like how can

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Speaker 1: I get away with that? If I'm not people are

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Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh, you're singing on now, but you're

435
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: not working, so like, how can you do? But why?

436
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,679
Speaker 1: It's like, because I want to Sometimes I feel like

437
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:24,679
Speaker 1: work always has to come first and and in some

438
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: ways it does if you, like are contractually obligated to

439
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 1: do something. My heart has been so cool and they

440
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: have allowed me to take a break from the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Doing it four days a week. Four days a week

442
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Speaker 1: was something that I originally conceived of because it was

443
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Speaker 1: during the pandemic. It was when I wasn't doing stand

444
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Speaker 1: up as much, and it just made sense for my life.

445
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Speaker 1: But things change, and it just doesn't make as much

446
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: sense for my life right now, especially with this damage,

447
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: to do it um every single day. It's just too

448
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 1: taxing on my voice, and it makes it so I

449
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: can't hang out with friends, I can't do anything else

450
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 1: those days are sing. So just doing it one day

451
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Speaker 1: a week until the end of the year and then

452
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: we'll reassess. But I hope you understand, and I understand

453
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: that it's frustrating to some of you who depend on

454
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: this every single day. And then there are others of you,

455
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: because I mentioned this on Instagram Live the other night,

456
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: others of you that were like I stopped listening to

457
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: the podcast because it was every day and I couldn't

458
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: keep up. So it's going to benefit some people, and

459
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: it's going to annoy some people, and I hope that

460
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: you those who it annoys will understand final thoughts that

461
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,479
Speaker 1: you feel guilty about doing things that are not making

462
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: you money with your energy. When you complain about work

463
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: taking so much of your energy, and then as soon

464
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: as you get free energy, you're like, I should be

465
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,479
Speaker 1: putting this towards work, but instead you want to do

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00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: something else. Do you ever feel that way? Oh? Yeah, absolutely.

467
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: You have a little time off and you wanna watch

468
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 1: some stupid show or go for a walk, and you're like,

469
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 1: I should be doing data entry or figuring I I

470
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: there's a million endless things on my to do list

471
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 1: I haven't finished. But we always forget that self care

472
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: stuff will pay off. It just doesn't seem like it

473
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 1: in the moment. But a nap massage, uh most the

474
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Speaker 1: fourth Columbine book. Yeah, I'm now really yeah, I'm at

475
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: the end of the last Combine book I can find,

476
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: and I love it so much, and I'm gonna miss um.

477
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: You could probably write the Black Adventures I've been on

478
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 1: with these boys. Wait, I was kidding when I said that.

479
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: What did you say? No, you could probably write a book?

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00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: At this point, I know, I was thinking that, like,

481
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Speaker 1: I could do a Columbine podcast at least, Guys, what

482
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Speaker 1: if I took off this podcast and I didn't? It

483
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: was like, so now I'm doing three supplemental Columbine podcasts

484
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Speaker 1: a week. I honestly could because I could have on.

485
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Speaker 1: I mean, no one wants to relive that except me

486
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: every day. But I, um, yeah, about about like what

487
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: it is I don't know, like spiritually or like why,

488
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 1: like what it is that attracts you to It's so much.

489
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: I don't think people are going to want to hear

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00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 1: this though I know the answer. Okay, like the newly

491
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: wed game, I'm going to think of it. But then

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00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,360
Speaker 1: who tells it first? Me? Are you what I think?

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00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: Nikki will answer, yeah, please tell me what you think,

494
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: and I'll tell you if you're in or wrong, and

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00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: that if we're going a date tonight. Okay. Nicky's fascinated

496
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 1: with psychopaths and sociopaths. She's also fascinated with wondering if

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Speaker 1: her brain is at all like the brain of a

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Speaker 1: psychopath or a sociopath or even someone on the spectrum.

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Speaker 1: So she's always taking these quizzes to be like, to

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Speaker 1: try and figure out where she falls on this spectrum

501
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: or like if she's normal or not. And she relates

502
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Speaker 1: a lot to the darkness of some of these guys

503
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: that have suicidal ideations and like, you know, want to

504
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: take people out. She would never want to take someone

505
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 1: out or be violent, but she's fascinated with the darkness

506
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: of wanting to check out of this lifetime and um

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Speaker 1: that they had the courage. That's the wrong ing ing

508
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: Nick Nick Ni Ning Ning. I didn't have to. I

509
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: didn't realize, you know, there is a morbid curiosity. I

510
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: want to just go back. I just really don't want

511
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: people to think I'm yeah, I want to go I

512
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't like to go back to this team. I would

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00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: like to go back to Santa Barbara. That was so

514
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: fucking fun. Anya and me and my mom last Thursday

515
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: after we recorded the podcast, UM, my mom and I

516
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: went up to um Santa Barbara and met Anya and

517
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: we say, at this hotel called the California and that

518
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 1: is so nice. And if you saw my Instagram, my

519
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 1: mom created a new sensation that I want to do

520
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 1: with her on TikTok or something, and it's just her

521
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 1: going to hotels and going look at this, look at

522
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 1: the Wisconsins. I mean Look at the detail on this

523
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 1: bad curtains. Look at this just yes, Oh my god,

524
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, look at this. Look at the rock

525
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: and tiles. Oh my god, look at look at this

526
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: lap of marvel. Nicky, you don't understand they could do tile.

527
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: They didn't. These are slabs of tile. Oh that massage.

528
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: She did things. She woke up some things I didn't

529
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: even know I need to be woken up that we're asleep.

530
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: She I don't even know if it was good for me,

531
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Speaker 1: to be honest, because I know about things now that

532
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: she said she woke up. She's a part of her

533
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: woke up that had been born for a while. And

534
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: Nicki and I were like, I don't even know what

535
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: that is. And then she's like, I don't think that

536
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: was good for me. I think that should have stayed.

537
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, Julie, it's good to remember you're alive. No,

538
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: my mom is a broken woman. Don't forget that. The

539
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,920
Speaker 1: night that we were at my dad's show and Chris

540
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: asked my mom she was gonna get up and saying,

541
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: and she goes, no, I'm a broken woman. Chris and

542
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: he could not stop laughing. And she goes, and then

543
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: and then the other last night, we were watching Love

544
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: Is Blind, and after one of the girls gets broken

545
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: up with at the altar, her mom keeps going, I

546
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: am broken, I am broken, And I called my mom's

547
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: gonna pair up with this woman. Do a lit's fair

548
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: of broken women. A broken woman is a perfect name

549
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: for the memoir of Julie Glazer. Let me just stay

550
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: what let me just say that. So I'm doing a

551
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: show in Santa Barbara and NICKI introduced me, which made

552
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: me cry. It was the nicest introduction ever, trying to

553
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: up girl I wanted. I didn't want you to sound

554
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: too good. I was like, I'm going to get her

555
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: clept as shit. It was weird. I cannot sing. What

556
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: did I say? That? Just you were like doing like

557
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: a hybrid of what I usually do on stage, was

558
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,960
Speaker 1: like how we met, but it was so genuine. Never

559
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: gets me emotional. I'm just I don't remember. You're just like, no,

560
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: you say the nicest things about me every night because

561
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: I can't hear them because it's too nice. Reminded me

562
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: like Amy introduced us, like uh, and then we just

563
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: got on like wildfire right away. That make you cry anymore?

564
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: I just just like read to introduced you guys. Yeah,

565
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: Amy was how did Amy was a fan of Anya's

566
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: and Amy as you know good Amy fashion was just

567
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 1: like open for me to Anya, right or like do

568
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,719
Speaker 1: my show? Like she just reached it. You just need

569
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: to do a comedy to do a set on them.

570
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: But how did you guys know each other? Anyway? She

571
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: reached Kate Walsh was coming to my show in l

572
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: A once and she was like, my friend Amy Schumer

573
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: wants to come. Is that cool? Put her on the

574
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: list and I was like the comic this is in

575
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: like two thousand nine or some or two thousand ten,

576
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: two thou and I was like, yeah, she goes, can

577
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: I give you the sum boom before the shumor boom?

578
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: I remember she was doing that comedy remember Bridgetown? Does

579
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: that still and important? Yeah? Oh yeah. She she called

580
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: me and she was like, sorry, I couldn't make it

581
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: to your l A show, but I'm obsessed with you.

582
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: And she's like you'll never guess where I am. I'm

583
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,960
Speaker 1: on a couple's cruise with my sister. We accidentally bought

584
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: tickets on a couple's cruise. She was like a romantic

585
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: cruise with her sister, which we're laughing so hard and um,

586
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: and then she's like, I want to keep in touch

587
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: with you, so we did. We hung out in Portland

588
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: once with my sister, which was fun and like we're

589
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 1: all going through breakups at the time, and we had

590
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: this very emotional, kind of fun conversation about that. And

591
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 1: then when I came to New York on tour, I

592
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: was like, Amy, will you do a set with me?

593
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: Todd Berry was going to do something and gave Liedman

594
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: and Max Silvestry and I don't read any book books

595
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: We love this joke videos. It's like, um, I don't

596
00:31:53,480 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: read any books talking. It's just sorry. But she was like,

597
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: I can't, I'm not in town. You should check out

598
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: Nikky Glazer. And then I was like, Nicky Glazer. I

599
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: started listening to your podcast you had with Sarah Schaeffer,

600
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: and I got like three episodes deep, and I was

601
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: just like, this girl is really honest and really cool,

602
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: and I just and then I reached out to you

603
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: and we met and I did your podcast and then

604
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: we started having dinner every night, and then you were like,

605
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: moved to New York and then I moved to New

606
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: York and we moved in together. I remember talking down

607
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: to you, like, welcome to the city, honey, I'm going

608
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: to show you run because I thought you were younger

609
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: than me. I thought you were so much younger than me.

610
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: You can't like tan, you were so tann. I remember

611
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: like this long blonde hair and you're just like, hey, girl,

612
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 1: how are you? Just Like I was like, she's busy,

613
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: this lady. She's a busy lady. What is her alive?

614
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: So I was probably up on the before I learned

615
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: how to manage. Oh I hadn't. I'm just running around

616
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: town where you were doing. That's right, because we moved

617
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: in together right after that, it got picked up. Yeah

618
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 1: that's true. Um, yeah, I was. That was God, you

619
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: were such I needed to get out of my apartment

620
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: so fucking bad. At the time, I was living with

621
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Speaker 1: this girl who was so depressed and we didn't talk

622
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: to each other, and I would just come in and like,

623
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: do you ever live with a roommate where you just

624
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to them or like ever runing them?

625
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: So you both like kind of creep around the apartment,

626
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: like you hear one door shut and then you're like, Okay,

627
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm good to go and then they then they do

628
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: the same thing for you where it's like that you

629
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: guys never cross paths. That's what it was like living

630
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: with this girl. And I was blieming at the time,

631
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: and so I was like she I knew she hated

632
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: me because I was like throwing up every day and

633
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: like I was trying to clean the toilet, but I

634
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: also had to clean up her mess in the toilet

635
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: because like that's the worst part about being bulimed, because

636
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: you have to like clean so many toilets, and like

637
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: it's so disgusting. It's just it's better if you live

638
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: on your own. So like only try to believe me

639
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: on your own now, I'm just kidding. It's discussing either way,

640
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: and not disgusting like judgmental. It's just like gross. You

641
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: have to deal with a lot of vomit. So I

642
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 1: was living with her, she hated me. I was trying

643
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: to like eat normally, but every day I would go

644
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: to this disgusting bodega about my house and get like

645
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: the same. Like sometimes I walk into like you know,

646
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: there's some bodegos or grocery stores in New York and

647
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: they just you go to like a bad grocery store,

648
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,759
Speaker 1: like a cheap grocery shore, and it just smells like

649
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: that cold rotted meat, Like it just smells like that

650
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: deli section has that it's like rotted meat, but they're

651
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: refrigerating it like it just so it's like it doesn't

652
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: smell like hot. It's just disgusting that smell. And I

653
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: still smell it sometimes and it reminds me of when

654
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: I used to come home from sets late at night

655
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: and just go and get and the guys knew me.

656
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: Talk about everyone knowing your name. I would go in

657
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: there and they would always just like laugh at me

658
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: because I would get the same like binge foods that

659
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 1: were like easy to puke, and it was just so gross,

660
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 1: Like I can't even tell you what I ate, because

661
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: it was such a weird, like amalgamation of just if

662
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: you have eaten disorders, you know how weird the foods

663
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: can get. So it was just I need to get

664
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 1: out of that so bad, and I didn't know how,

665
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: and I just I think gotten started going to my

666
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,919
Speaker 1: my abusive doctor, my abusive and so I was kind

667
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 1: of getting out of the therapist. Yeah, my therapist. Yeah,

668
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: thank you for reminding people UM. I called her my

669
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: abusive therapist so many times that no one noted that

670
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: it sounded like her name was Maya my abusive and

671
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: so dr abuse if I started seeing her. So it's

672
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: kind of like climbing out of feeling better. And then

673
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, this angel landed into my life

674
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: and I was like, please, let's get a place, and

675
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 1: then we moved in together right after Sandy. I think,

676
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: UM Hurricane Sandy was like right, it had hit, and

677
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 1: then that I think the January I remember I got

678
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: a migraine that night. It was October I think was

679
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: Halloween two World and I was supposed to have my

680
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:42,479
Speaker 1: show was starting in in two thousand thirteen. I didn't

681
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 1: want to have an eating disorder during the show. I

682
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: didn't want to drink anymore during the show. I had

683
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,959
Speaker 1: quit drinking the week year before because I had gotten

684
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: a pilot. UM and MTV had picked up a pilot

685
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: that we were going to shoot in January, and it

686
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: was like October when they picked it up, and UM.

687
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: I quit December eleven during King and so I was

688
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: sober by the time I started working in television, but

689
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: I then it just got so anyway, it was just

690
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: perfect timing. And then we moved into that place and

691
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 1: I could afford it because I got this TV show

692
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: and and then it was just bliss. Living with you

693
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: was so fun. It was such a fun roommate situation.

694
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, so we went to Santa Barbara and I

695
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: made on Your Cry, Yeah, and then I played a

696
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: set and I like got my ship together after Nicki's

697
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: amazing intro, and then I brought Nikki up and speaking

698
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 1: of vocal rest and the surgery and everything, I was,

699
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I hear you saying all the time, but

700
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: when we did AUNTI here, I was just like zoned

701
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: out at one point and just watching, like holy hell. Like,

702
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 1: by the way, we have played really nice theaters with

703
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: amazing sound systems. This was a tiny bar in a

704
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: beautiful hotel, and the p A was like a tiny

705
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: box that the DJ plugged me into. And it sounded

706
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: so good. You're like hitting every note perfect key, and

707
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: it was just so fun, and I don't know, there

708
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: was so fun. You were so good. It was like

709
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: I get to watch on you every night open for me,

710
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 1: but it's like I watched it from the side of

711
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: the stage. I'm usually like still doing my makeup and

712
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: changing and stuff and getting ready for the show, so

713
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: I don't get to fully absorb. But it was just

714
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: one of those moments of like, oh my god, my

715
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: friend is as talented as Taylor Swift, Like, but she

716
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: doesn't really have to try that hard because you don't.

717
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: Like I really had the realization of like, she's just

718
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: as good as Taylor Swift, which is you know, I

719
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 1: told Nya this this past weekend and she was like,

720
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: that is such high praise. And I would not say

721
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: that if I didn't mean it. I don't doll that out.

722
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 1: I don't expect anyone to be as talented as Taylor Swift.

723
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,360
Speaker 1: No one. You can be have as talented Taylor as

724
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 1: Taylor Swift and still be one of my favorite artists.

725
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 1: But Anya is as talented as Taylor Swift in terms

726
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: of songwriting. Sorry, Taylor, I know that you want to

727
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: be the only one, and I would be the same

728
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: way if I were you, But there's other people you

729
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,879
Speaker 1: were right there As a regular listener, she's at home,

730
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: like funk this bit, going from four days a week

731
00:37:56,239 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: to one. She be like, I'm just seventy two dates

732
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: to my Era store and by the way, thank you do. Um.

733
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 1: Some besties wrote to me yesterday and I'm getting hooked

734
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,720
Speaker 1: up with tickets from besties who have who have got

735
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: you know, they signed up for two different I don't

736
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: even know how the thing works, but I guess there's

737
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 1: a couple of besties that got to waiting lists things

738
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: and they're like, you can have my tickets. Um, not

739
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,279
Speaker 1: have them, but like buy them from me. So I'm

740
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,720
Speaker 1: buying some tickets from one bestie. I'm gonna go see

741
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: her on I think August eighth in Los Angeles. So

742
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: I have guaranteed tickets August eighth. And then I did

743
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 1: right to my agent and said, please, please please help me,

744
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: and he said he would. So I'm very excited about that.

745
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: But I'm going to spend so much money on Taylor

746
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: Swift tickets in the new year. I'm not getting them

747
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: all for free. I'm not using my privilege. I'm using

748
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: a little bit. But I'm gonna spend some money. And

749
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm very excited. But it was a clusterfix yesterday. I'm

750
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: making three for one. Um, okay, but that's not bad,

751
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 1: which that's not great. I mean, that's that's because she's done.

752
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna go travel to see her, and I'm

753
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: going to see her ten times. So that's three thousand

754
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:17,439
Speaker 1: dollars at least on tickets plus travel, plus hotels plus

755
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to spend more than three on the

756
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: ticket because those tickets aren't the closest tickets and I'm

757
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: going to get close up at some point. And right

758
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: now on stubbub they're going for ten tho dollars tickets. Yeah,

759
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: I think the cheapest one is like four hundred. It's

760
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:35,320
Speaker 1: it's gotten so bad. Yesterday that Congress is like starting

761
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 1: to talk about how ticket Master and Live Nation needs

762
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: to be broken up. Yeah, someone was saying that Taylor

763
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 1: should start her own ticketing company, Taylor Tickes and interesting,

764
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:52,400
Speaker 1: I bet you she will. Um and then yeah, so

765
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: Santa Barbara was so freaking fun and we hung up

766
00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 1: with my mom and after the show, after an amazing oh,

767
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: we went and by the way, this girl came up

768
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: to me after the show. I hate this kind of

769
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: fan interaction. She was like, hi, um, okay, I like

770
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: don't know who you are at all, but apparently you're

771
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 1: like a big deal. But like my friend over there

772
00:40:14,840 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: is like obsessed with you. And like, you need to

773
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: and I go, I, actually, it's a loud bar. I'm

774
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: not supposed to be talking at all. Like my voice

775
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: coach said to me, Nikki, I don't go to anywhere

776
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: loud like I don't go to parties. I don't go

777
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: to loud places like you don't. That's if you are

778
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 1: mindful of your voice. You just don't talk in loud

779
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: of places. You don't do it. And so I'm at

780
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: this place and all of a sudden, as soon as

781
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: I was done, they crank up the DJ, cranks up

782
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 1: the music again. People are drunk and like screaming in

783
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: my ear, and I'm like, I gotta get out of here.

784
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: And this woman right when I'm making my exit, she's like,

785
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: you need to talk to my friend, and I go,

786
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: I can't really talk. I just had vocal chord surgery.

787
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: And of course she's probably thinking, well, I just heard

788
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 1: you saying of course you can talk. Can I tell

789
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: you the number of people? And I'm not kidding you.

790
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: It's literally everyone in my life that I tell. Yeah,

791
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: I just got back from the doctor. They say I

792
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: shouldn't talk as much anymore. Having to take a break

793
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: from that. Oh tell me more about that. Let's talk

794
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: more about that. Take a fucking hint. I'm not supposed

795
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: to talk. Stop talking to me. If someone said to

796
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: me I have to talk to stop talking and my

797
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: doctor's notice to stop talking, I would say, then don't

798
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: talk anymore. Okay, we're done with this conversation. It's not

799
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: that I don't want to talk to any of these people,

800
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: but I've had so many conversations about the fact that

801
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: I can't talk that keep going with more and more

802
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: questions after I've said it, and I feel like I'm

803
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: using my fucking mind, Like I don't know how to

804
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,959
Speaker 1: tell these people. You know, the other day, I didn't

805
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: get a phone call and I go, again, I can't.

806
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: I have to just go I've talked too much. My

807
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: voice hurts by and I like I just had to

808
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: hang up because it was there was no getting off,

809
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: because they just want to talk more. People don't take

810
00:41:56,560 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: hints anyway. This woman goes, you have to come talk

811
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: to my friends, and again like I don't know who

812
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: you are. I don't really care who you are, like

813
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: that kind of thing of like maybe she didn't say

814
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't care, but she was like, I don't know

815
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 1: who you are. I guess you're a big deal, but like,

816
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 1: I have no clue, which I don't give a funk

817
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 1: if you don't know who I am. I don't think

818
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: anyone knows. I don't walk around thinking people know who

819
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 1: I am. It literally does not cross my mind most

820
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: times that I'm someone that anyone would know. UM, and

821
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: I go, I can't really talk. I can take a

822
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: picture with him, though, And so I go over and

823
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: she goes, sit down down, talk to him, Sit down

824
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: and talk to him. Someone tells me, and I look

825
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 1: at her. I was like no, and she goes, she

826
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 1: pulls up the stool, she goes, sit down, sit down,

827
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: and I go, I'm not I just told you. I

828
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 1: can't talk. I can take a picture, list take a picture.

829
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 1: And he's like, I'm a big fan. I've been listening

830
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 1: since this time. And I'm like, oh my god, that's

831
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: so nice. Thank you. Um and he's like holding my

832
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 1: hand a little too long kind of thing, you know.

833
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: And then and then he I go, you have a

834
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 1: good friend here, she you know, keep and I'm like,

835
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,279
Speaker 1: why don't you come over, sir if you want to

836
00:42:58,280 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: meet me? So bid I do like when people go

837
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: friends embarrassed. She really likes you. This guy like wanted

838
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: me to come to him, you know that kind of thing.

839
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm not going to her, and he

840
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: was kind of like flirty in a way, so he

841
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 1: thought maybe this move would get like And so I

842
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: took a picture with him, and she kept trying to

843
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: get me around. But this whole thing, I'm like, I

844
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,880
Speaker 1: don't know who you are. It's the same people as

845
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 1: like I don't know the TV. Okay, it's like assuming

846
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: that you don't have feelings. So then we went to

847
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: dinner afterwards, and I just got to say, my mom

848
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: is so fucking funny. You guys already know that. All

849
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 1: my fans already know that, Like everyone around me knows that.

850
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 1: I've always known it too. It's why I've put her

851
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: on my TV show and had her on my podcast

852
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: so many times. She is so delightfully funny. And we

853
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 1: just had such a great time we you know, she

854
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: visited l A and did the show with me, and

855
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: then she did the podcast, and I just love how

856
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 1: much my boyfriend loves her, and it just laughs at

857
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:55,919
Speaker 1: everything she says and everything she does, like my mom goes.

858
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: He just looks at me and he laughs, I don't

859
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: even get it, like, but he just I think that's

860
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 1: one of the reasons I love my boyfriend so much

861
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: was how much he loves my mom, and like, I

862
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: am turning into my mom. There's no doubt about it.

863
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: It is happening. It is like it's all that. It

864
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: just seems like I'm like transitioning into my mother. Like

865
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: I just see things. I'll be like sitting in a

866
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: certain way, or I'll be tapping on my phone with

867
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: both my fingers, or I'll be like I don't get it,

868
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,960
Speaker 1: you know, I'll just say things where I go. You know,

869
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: we all have those moments of like, I'm turning into

870
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 1: my mother. But it's nice that my boyfriend is like, yeah,

871
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 1: I keep going. It's start like, don't turn into your mother.

872
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: But he loves my mom. But she was cracking us

873
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: up at dinner, was dying she see my favorite moment

874
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:48,479
Speaker 1: of the year, yeah, having when she was getting mad

875
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 1: about something in the past and she was just like

876
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,919
Speaker 1: and then I told them you fuck off, I'll funk

877
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: or whatever. I was like, oh, I see Nikki, like

878
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 1: when she gets really mad about something, and he did,

879
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 1: and she's like going back in the past and thinking

880
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: about this moment she and she was like I couldn't

881
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 1: believe it. I was just like, this is out of control,

882
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: absolutely not. And I'm like, oh, she's infuriated, And I

883
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: was a man. I would slow them all down with

884
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 1: my sod off shot what mom And my mom is

885
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: in the colum mine too, By the way, I don't

886
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 1: think for the same reasons, what is wrong with me

887
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: that I have these? I just want to be normal?

888
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: Does anyone else just ever want to be normal? And

889
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: I think that's the thing I struggle with most of

890
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 1: my life, is like I just want to be like

891
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: everyone else. And I know that's like my differences are

892
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: what sets me apart. But I really struggle with why

893
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 1: can't I just be like everyone else? And gets to

894
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 1: define what normal is? Though I do. I do. I'm

895
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: special and I know like I might not be good.

896
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: I don't like who I am, but I damn well

897
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 1: know who I want to be, Like I have great

898
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 1: taste in who I want to be and I want

899
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 1: to be Like if I could make a collage of

900
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: who I was, it would be it would just be

901
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 1: Reese Witherspoon. That girl can get away with anything. I

902
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: saw rumors yesterday and Demi about her being a like

903
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: not nice person on set, and for some reason, everyone's like,

904
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: but her job's really hard, Like that's why she's not nice,

905
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 1: Like the amount of pressure she's under. It's like it

906
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: makes sense. I'm like, why does this bitch get a pass?

907
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: But when I'm a little bit bitchy? It's like Nikki

908
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 1: as a personality disorder and she like, but Reese Witherspoon,

909
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 1: do I have to have a book club so people

910
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: let me be a little bit aggressive sometimes? Like why

911
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: does why does some people in entertainment get a get

912
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 1: a pass to be a little bit more like alpha,

913
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: a little bit more like bitchy sometimes or whatever, and

914
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: then others like you'll get canceled for it. I just

915
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: don't understand, but I do wish I was more like

916
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: Reese Witherspoon, Jennifer Aniston on Your Marina, Kirsten Floorman, Noah,

917
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 1: I wish I were, like I wish I were like

918
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: all of it. I just want to be like just

919
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: like talk like this and like I'm like, yeah, that

920
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: sounds like a good idea, Like I'm I'm not making

921
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: fun of you. I really wish and I talked like

922
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: this and we're just like yeah, and it just like

923
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: really felt good. And I don't know, I'm just I

924
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: really I watched up a leaf today and it was

925
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: just block so beautiful, and then I and the person,

926
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: ye dark, But I want to know there are none

927
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,040
Speaker 1: of you that are like, okay, we like you just

928
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:32,760
Speaker 1: didn't remember Noah's favorite music to make love too. Yeah,

929
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: but that's like cute and endearing. She's not like Anthrax.

930
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 1: Yeah I should that's nothing. That's not it's weird, but

931
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: it doesn't say anything. It's not her doing it right.

932
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: But I can't speak to much, but I know when

933
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 1: I'm in an argument with someone, I'm definitely not like.

934
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: And then a leaf was falling delicately from the tree. No,

935
00:47:57,680 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: I feel like you're like very much like that's it's

936
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: really hard, okay, like like that's I wish I got

937
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: no fight over the last couple of days, and I

938
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: was like, I wish I had not reacted. I wish

939
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: I had just been like, M, thank you for sharing

940
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:16,920
Speaker 1: that and agree to disagree, but I have a great day. Instead,

941
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: I wasted two hours being like, why don't you go

942
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 1: fuck yourself and stay out of my busin. Yeah, okay,

943
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: so maybe I'm normal. That's good to know. Okay, let's go,

944
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: let's go to come back with Reddit dump. It is

945
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 1: time for Reddit Dumb karaoke mode. This is your Reddit

946
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 1: dumb all right. This one comes from anti natalism, which

947
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:49,959
Speaker 1: is people that are the subredit for people who um

948
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: don't like people having kids. They think the world is

949
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: full of kids enough, and that all they do is

950
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: like they're kind of troll, like they're not nice people

951
00:48:58,400 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: like the subredit. I don't post in. I'm not supporting

952
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 1: that these people. These people hate people who are putting

953
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: more people in this world. And all they posted stuff

954
00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 1: about like bad parents and they're like, yeah, these people

955
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: are the people that are having kids. Great more of us.

956
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: So this is an interesting one, it said, and it

957
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: was a screenshot of a question that someone had as

958
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: a parent. So the title was these breeders are insane.

959
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: They call them breeders. Just thought to drop this here.

960
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: And then this question is from a person a person

961
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: with kids? Am I weird for having sex while a woman?

962
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: Am I? Am I weird for having sex with a

963
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: woman in a studio apartment while her kids sleep? I

964
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: told her, what are you doing. She said, they are

965
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: heavy sleepers and there are no rooms. L O, L

966
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: let me clarify. One was like eight months, the other

967
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:46,479
Speaker 1: was too. What do you guys think two year old

968
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 1: and an eight months? What? What was that? Okay, we

969
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 1: have a different opinions here. Noah says, no, not good. Gross?

970
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 1: What really like that they don't remember anything? I think

971
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,839
Speaker 1: it probably still lives like at that age, kids are

972
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: like sponges. They just absorb so much more information because

973
00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: they can't really communicate that much with their voice, so

974
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: they have to be hyper aware of their surrounding that

975
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: I think it just will seep in somewhere and traumatize

976
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: them in some shape or form. I I'm torn too.

977
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:27,240
Speaker 1: Is if they're sleep and you're being really quiet, then

978
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm okay with it, But it's still kind of kills

979
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: the mood that same studio, studio, get out, find it,

980
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: find another time. Maybe if there's like a curtain or

981
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: like some kind of you know how often this kind

982
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: of thing is happening all the fucking time that kids

983
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: are the privileged point of view to be like, go

984
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: into another room. Some people don't have another room. Yeah,

985
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 1: they don't have other rooms and they need to make

986
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,359
Speaker 1: some kids because clear their lives are going great because

987
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,399
Speaker 1: they have two kids in a studio apartment and they

988
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: need more. Um. But that's that's judgmental to people. Does

989
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:09,719
Speaker 1: that you know, deserve sexual pleasure even if you have

990
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,760
Speaker 1: kids and you're not trying to procreate. Um. Yeah, I

991
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 1: I think when do kids start remembering? Though? Like when when?

992
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 1: I mean that woman the other night came out to

993
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: me until shared her molestation with me, and she was like,

994
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 1: I was a baby and my dad molested me, So

995
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: like how did she remember that? Like repressed memories get

996
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: brought up. We need to have like a psychologist on

997
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: here to talk to us about this because I don't

998
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,839
Speaker 1: know when memories start. But I think at two you're

999
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 1: probably safe to not remember anything. But no, you're not

1000
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 1: wrong that like just the air of if your parents,

1001
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: like even waking up and hearing your mom going like

1002
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 1: might just confuse you as a baby, you know what

1003
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: I mean, Like that might create a little bit of

1004
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: like why is mom? Is mom dying? Like even though

1005
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: babies can't really you know, intellectualize is she dying? It

1006
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: would just cause alarm. So mom grew up in one

1007
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: room with her whole family in Russia, so I'm sure

1008
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: she heard some stuff. I asked her once. I was like,

1009
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 1: did you ever hear your parents having sex? She's like,

1010
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sure they did it. I don't know.

1011
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't think about it. So that's a yes. Sounds

1012
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: like yes out and clear. I don't think about it.

1013
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: I just put they put the baby outside in the snowdrift,

1014
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 1: and then they went inside and had fucking. They sucked

1015
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: each other. You cut your breast and put the energy

1016
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: into it. These are all different things that his mom

1017
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: has said over the years. Okay, so here's one. This

1018
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 1: is just good to know. You should know. This is

1019
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: from you should Know y s K. You should know.

1020
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:46,440
Speaker 1: Women experiencing domestic abuse who are choked by their partners

1021
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: are eight times more likely to be subsequently murdered by

1022
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: those partners. So this is just a good rule of

1023
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: thumb for anyone out there. If your boyfriend's thumb print

1024
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: is on your neck, you were times more likely to

1025
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: be murdered by him. And I just thought this was interesting.

1026
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: It's like, being strangled is such a sign that you

1027
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: want to you have no respect for someone's life, and

1028
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: you want to like get the life out of them,

1029
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: that it is a future indicator that if you've been

1030
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: strangled in a domestic violent situation where even once like

1031
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: your boyfriend just was like shut up and like grabbed

1032
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: your throat and not in a sexual way where you

1033
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: were like agreeing upon it, because otherwise I should have

1034
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: had the honey hills. But like, um, if it was

1035
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:33,359
Speaker 1: you know, if it's a passionate like you know, like

1036
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: anger thing, um, watch out, and even if he's never

1037
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:38,880
Speaker 1: hit you before. And then there's a checklist of like

1038
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,919
Speaker 1: if you are likely to get murdered by your husband. Um,

1039
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: and it's really disturbing, but I just thought it was

1040
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:45,840
Speaker 1: an interesting thing. Like I wouldn't think that that was

1041
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 1: the number one indicator that you're most more than likely

1042
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: to die if a guy strangled you. I know. Um okay, Uh,

1043
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: this one was shitty life pro tips. This is um

1044
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 1: just like a kind of there's you know, life hacks,

1045
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: life pro tips, but this one's like a shitty one

1046
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: and they're just always like jokey ones, but I think

1047
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 1: this one was funny. Um, shitty life pro tip. If

1048
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,880
Speaker 1: someone corrects your grammar online, apologize and say you're English.

1049
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: Is not very good. It's technically not a lie, but

1050
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 1: they will feel bad and likely compliment your English, like

1051
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: if you just really funk up, like most people on

1052
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: YouTube comments are writing just unintelligible things that you just

1053
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 1: are like, and you could insult them and say like

1054
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:32,000
Speaker 1: it's actually your with an apostrophe, and they're like, well, English,

1055
00:54:32,040 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 1: I'm not very good at English, and then you automatically

1056
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: think that this second language. But it's just true. So

1057
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 1: I thought that would be a good tip. Br Andrew. Okay,

1058
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: so psychology is the next one. Um, oh, this one

1059
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:48,720
Speaker 1: was interesting. Psychology Dressing up and begging a panhandler earns

1060
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:51,479
Speaker 1: twice as much money wearing a suit versus T shirt

1061
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 1: and jeans. What do you guys think make of this?

1062
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: Twice as much money? If a panhandler is wearing a

1063
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: suit and I kind of pictured myself walking down the

1064
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 1: street and see being someone panhandling and then pictured like

1065
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: them wearing a suit, and how I would feel And

1066
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,480
Speaker 1: it almost looks like, man, this guy just got laid off,

1067
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: his wife kicked him out. This guy is like just

1068
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: broken down on the side of the road, like his

1069
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: life just changed. This isn't someone that's made a serious

1070
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:21,280
Speaker 1: bad decisions. It was like something happened just today. Maybe

1071
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 1: that is it, but it just seems like almost counterintuitive

1072
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 1: that it wouldn't work that way. You know, right, you're

1073
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,280
Speaker 1: right because you're thinking you have money, you have a suit,

1074
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,359
Speaker 1: like why should I give you money? But I can

1075
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: have to say the opposing like oh, let's help this

1076
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: guy get him get on his feed again, or girl,

1077
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: you got dressed for work today, but you just lost

1078
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: your jobs, so here you are at the corner instead

1079
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: as an alternative, whereas if someone drags were like, this

1080
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: is too far gone, My dollar is not going to

1081
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: help much. M The simple but effective field experiment showed

1082
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: that people donated more than twice as much money to

1083
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,479
Speaker 1: the scientists when he was wearing a high status suit

1084
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: compared to when he was drabbed in a lower status outfit.

1085
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 1: UM While we expected that the displaying high status symbols

1086
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: would lead to an increase in giving, I was still

1087
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: surprised by the size of the sufference. Why would they

1088
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: expect it to be more? I feel like I hear

1089
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: so often you know that homeless guy had a cell phone,

1090
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm not giving anything to him, Like you would think

1091
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: that the more sad someone looks and I just thought

1092
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 1: that was interesting and I don't know what they concluded.

1093
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: The results confirmed that people perceived the suit wearing researcher

1094
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 1: as having higher status than the same person wearing simple attire.

1095
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 1: They also rated the researcher in the suit as having

1096
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: higher competence, warmth, similarity to the self, and humanity. So

1097
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:37,800
Speaker 1: I guess we give to situations that we more closely

1098
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 1: see ourselves in. So if we can empathize with the

1099
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: situation closer, we are more likely to give to that

1100
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 1: and be like that. That could be me and we

1101
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:49,760
Speaker 1: A guy in a suit is more like us than something.

1102
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,920
Speaker 1: So it's so funny that even giving in the end

1103
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,760
Speaker 1: turns out to be just a selfish endeavor. I'll add

1104
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: this to my diet tribe of reasons to to my

1105
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: journal of scribblings and drawings. Final thought, No, you have

1106
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 1: a video that I sent to you from Reddit. Okay, yes,

1107
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: this comes from pop culture chat the people reaching for something,

1108
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: which is why I hate paid meet and greets. You've

1109
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: paid for the album, you've paid for the ticket, you

1110
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: get him in the room, and somebody's gone. How do

1111
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: we monetize that? I hate tell you what you do

1112
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: paid me and greets do them? I stand by it,

1113
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 1: But you take the money. If you're an artist and

1114
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: you do paid meet and greets, do it and you

1115
00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: take the money off, oh I take the money. I

1116
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 1: challenge it. It's fucking gross. It's absolutely fuck yourself. Guy

1117
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 1: from the you know what, paid meet and greet, then

1118
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: I would meet no one. It's either I do it

1119
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 1: paid or I meet no one. And it's not because

1120
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: I want to make money off of it. I could

1121
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 1: give two ships about the money. It's it's I like

1122
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 1: the money. I'm appreciate that people pay the money to

1123
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: meet me, but I can't meet everyone, and I'm guarantee

1124
00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: you this motherfucker does not. He does v I p

1125
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: meet and greets with like record labels and like their

1126
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: kids that get hooked up with meeting greets. But this

1127
00:58:10,560 --> 00:58:13,400
Speaker 1: guy isn't waiting after shows and you can't meet Matt

1128
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,440
Speaker 1: Heally from the if you go to his show, guess what,

1129
00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:19,400
Speaker 1: you don't get a chill. You don't get a chance

1130
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 1: to meet him because he doesn't have paid meet and

1131
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: greets and he doesn't have an unpaid meet and greets.

1132
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: So this guy is acting like he meets everyone after

1133
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: the show. If you want to meet me, let's have

1134
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: a really interaction. No, you don't. You don't mean anyone.

1135
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 1: You stay backstage, You don't mean anyone. I after shows

1136
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 1: spend a fucking hour meeting people, and I love doing it.

1137
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 1: It's part of my it's one of my favorite things.

1138
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: So don't make me feel bad about monetizing it when

1139
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I couldn't do it. I wouldn't do it

1140
00:58:42,360 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: if I didn't monetize it because it would be too

1141
00:58:44,040 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: many people. So it's either you don't do a meet

1142
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: and greet at all, or you do a paid one.

1143
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 1: And this made me so mad that they're like, it's

1144
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 1: fucking gross. It's fucking gross. It's like, no, you you're

1145
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 1: not telling the whole story. Wash your hair, Matt Heally,

1146
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: This made me so mad. I saw it a couple

1147
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: of weeks ago. I wanted to send it to you.

1148
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: It's privileged for to two reasons. One, he's a very

1149
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: wealthy musician doing well. He doesn't probably need to do

1150
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: paid meet and greets because his ticket sales are high.

1151
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: Second and greets. There's no way he does meet and greets.

1152
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,680
Speaker 1: Do you think that guy meets. How could be How

1153
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: could he weed out the people to meet thousands of

1154
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,440
Speaker 1: people at their show? What is he what to hear?

1155
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 1: What he does for meet and greets? Then there is

1156
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: no meet and great Also, it's such virtue signaling like

1157
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm so k I'm not going to do that. I'm

1158
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: going to just meet people freely, which he's not going

1159
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: to do. Secondly, he's not doing really there are guess what,

1160
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,320
Speaker 1: you're a guy. For a woman who's out there, like

1161
00:59:43,400 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: Nikki or any woman who's famous, you need to separate

1162
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: people who just any old person who could potentially hurt

1163
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: you from people who are serious. You know what one

1164
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: deterrent is is to pay to kill paid meet and greet. Yeah,

1165
00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,120
Speaker 1: you gotta pay, and there's security guards, there's a all

1166
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 1: kinds of precautionary measures. So it's really easy for him

1167
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,240
Speaker 1: to say that he's a guy, it's not too worried

1168
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 1: about his safety, and he's wealthy. Um. Can you imagine

1169
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: how long do you think I would be after? Uh? Literally,

1170
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: I would have no time to do even one podcast

1171
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 1: a week. I would stop touring if I had to

1172
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: do meet and greets after shows for everyone who wanted

1173
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 1: to do it unpaid and I had no paywall up.

1174
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: And by the way, I give away free meet and

1175
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 1: greets constantly have to meet and greets I do are

1176
01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: freak because someone comes up to the merch booth and

1177
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: says I can't afford it. We give him a free one.

1178
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: Someone writes me and goes I can't afford it, or

1179
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: someone goes alone. That's why I've done the free meet

1180
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: and greet alone. I'm not trying to make money off

1181
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: of people. I'm just trying to cut down on the

1182
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 1: number because the problem is if everyone, if everyone's allowed

1183
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: to get a meet and greet, then they do. Then

1184
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 1: they do it. And these people don't really care about

1185
01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: meeting me. They just want to fucking picture because they

1186
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 1: see other people doing it. So if you really want one,

1187
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 1: I'll give you a free meet and greet right to me.

1188
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: Just try it out. I'll give you a free one.

1189
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 1: But this really made me mad because I if youre

1190
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: have you ever met met Matt healely? Have you ever

1191
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: tried to meet him? Has it been easy? Did you?

1192
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: I know you didn't have to pay, but what did

1193
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:09,040
Speaker 1: was there a little thing after the show where you

1194
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: get to line up? Because if there was. I'll take

1195
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: back everything I said. If this guy waits after shows

1196
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,360
Speaker 1: and does a meet and greet with everyone that wants

1197
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: to meet him, that is, and there's no paywall or

1198
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: no like, no kind of v I P pass you need, which,

1199
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: by the way, is a paywall. I don't care if

1200
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: your dad knows a guy that works at um, you know,

1201
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 1: uh fucking you know Live Nation, that's that is a

1202
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: that's a paywall of some kind that your rich dad

1203
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: knew some other rich guy that got you a meet

1204
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:42,120
Speaker 1: and greet backstage. So UM, I like the nine and

1205
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 1: UM but I just thought this was just so good.

1206
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 1: By the way, meet and greets are available, And like you,

1207
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 1: I said, if you write me and say you can't

1208
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: afford it, I will give you a free one. I'm

1209
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: never and I really will. And that's the only time

1210
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:58,640
Speaker 1: I'm going to say that. So if you hear it, good.

1211
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: I don't think that, but I don't get the shaming

1212
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 1: around it. It's where we live in a capitalist society.

1213
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,680
Speaker 1: If you want to meet the artist, there's an opportunity

1214
01:02:06,960 --> 01:02:10,360
Speaker 1: you get like a few minutes with them, you can

1215
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 1: get something signed, you have an interaction, and you can

1216
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: either choose to buy it or not. It's not forced

1217
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: upon you. So what's the country but my time and

1218
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: my attention and fans they deserve They deserve my time

1219
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,600
Speaker 1: and they just like I want it, and she's a person,

1220
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: she has it. That's a good that goes back to

1221
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 1: me like I'm not I'm cutting back on podcast, but

1222
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: I want to spend my time singing on Instagram where

1223
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: I'm not making any money. And it's like, why is

1224
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 1: she doing that? If she could be doing this like

1225
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 1: we we want to do we want her in the

1226
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: way that we And this is not any of the

1227
01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:44,880
Speaker 1: fans listening right now. This is on falling on deaf

1228
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,480
Speaker 1: ears because you guys are not the people that I'm

1229
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: talking to. But um yeah, there is that thing of like,

1230
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: but I want it, and if you don't get like

1231
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 1: just do you know how many times people are like,

1232
01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:58,919
Speaker 1: get over here, take a picture with my friend, came here.

1233
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: We want to do this now, we want to do

1234
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: a video, Barbara, Well come over here, just wait, stand

1235
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: on this side. Wait and I just hold and yelling

1236
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:11,000
Speaker 1: at at Matt who's taking pictures and being like, um no,

1237
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: take another one. Oh my god, this is so blurry

1238
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 1: and just being such cunts about it, like this is

1239
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:19,600
Speaker 1: still someone, this is still my time. I'm happy to

1240
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: give it. And I really do love meet and greets.

1241
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 1: When people come up and say, I know you hate this,

1242
01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:25,880
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I don't hate it. I don't. I

1243
01:03:25,920 --> 01:03:27,960
Speaker 1: promise you I don't. It is more fun for me

1244
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 1: than the show a lot of times. Truly. I love

1245
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: meeting fans and I didn't used to like it, and

1246
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 1: I genuinely like it now. I'm so glad I can

1247
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: say that. But when you boss around the people that

1248
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: are taking pictures, when you don't say thank you, when

1249
01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 1: you hand your phone too or he hands your phone

1250
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: back to you, when you don't say like, it's really bothers.

1251
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: Some you don't. You're too entitled. I don't care what

1252
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:51,720
Speaker 1: you paid, you still say thank you. And that's not

1253
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: what I'm talking to here, because you guys are all

1254
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 1: cool and nice. Um. I'm in Burlington for month. This

1255
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 1: week I am in um Providence, Rhode Island. Next week

1256
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: i'll be um the Grand Marshal of the Thanksgiving Day

1257
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: Parade there in St. Louis. To come see me seeing

1258
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: the National Anthem downtown. If you want to do that

1259
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 1: and then um uh, and then the following week, I'm

1260
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: in Memphis, and then there's Atlantic City. There's Hershey, Pennsylvania.

1261
01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:18,040
Speaker 1: There is Waterloo and New York, and then um St.

1262
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 1: Louis for New Year's Eve and many many more dates

1263
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 1: all at Nikki Glazer dot com. I would love to

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Speaker 1: meet you. Meet and greets available at Meet and Greet,

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Speaker 1: And if you go alone, you can write me going alone,

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Speaker 1: the name, your name, and the city, and I will

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Speaker 1: give you a free meet and greet. And because you

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Speaker 1: listen to the special episode, if you just can't afford

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Speaker 1: to meet and greet and you go in a group,

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Speaker 1: I'll grant you one of those two. Just write me

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Speaker 1: and just tell me in your situation. I'm appreciative that

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Speaker 1: you even go to my show. I love you guys,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening. And uhbeka gee