Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Andy is on the phone today for our first day
Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Serena's.
Speaker 2: In a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting her and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Andy, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Serena?
Speaker 3: It's been two weeks.
Speaker 4: Have you been counting?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's so frustrating. Have you reached out to her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've reached out. I've sent her some texts and stuff,
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 4: I'm not.
Speaker 3: I haven't heard anything back.
Speaker 4: Why don't you go back and tell us about the date?
Speaker 4: How did you meet her?
Speaker 5: So we met him bumble, and we spent a few
Speaker 5: weeks talking and facetiming before we actually met up the
Speaker 5: first time, so it's like, I feel like we got
Speaker 5: to know each other a little bit. We eventually planned
Speaker 5: to meet at a cafe that we both are into,
Speaker 5: and uh, we were going to do a mike ride
Speaker 5: and drink slater and stuff, and I was really excited
Speaker 5: to meet her in person, but he yeah, she never
Speaker 5: ended up being.
Speaker 3: Able to show up.
Speaker 6: Did not actually have the date?
Speaker 5: No, actually, because about twenty minutes before I was, you know,
Speaker 5: I've been sending way to get the coffee shop, and
Speaker 5: she sent me a text that her dog was sick
Speaker 5: and something got picked so she needed.
Speaker 3: To take them to the vet.
Speaker 5: And I never ended up happening, and I and I
Speaker 5: was really excited, Like I ended up wearing a T shirt,
Speaker 5: these plaid shorts and sneakers that you know, she's kind
Speaker 5: of like telling me to wear beforehand so that she
Speaker 5: could find me.
Speaker 3: But you know, I was, I was happy.
Speaker 4: You were happy, So she told you what to wear.
Speaker 4: You guys planned this whole date. And then so her
Speaker 4: dog got sick. Did she ever give you an update
Speaker 4: on her dog? Like what happened with that after that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I haven't. I honestly haven't really heard.
Speaker 5: So that's where yeah, I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 4: So how did you respond to that text?
Speaker 3: Cause oh yeah, yeah, sorry, yeah, yeah no. When she
Speaker 3: sent me that, I that's okay.
Speaker 5: So I responded like I just kind of said bummer,
Speaker 5: and I said, hope your dog is okay, because I was.
Speaker 3: I was really sad at the time, But I don't know.
Speaker 5: I've looked back and I've read that text a million times,
Speaker 5: and I feel like, maybe I maybe I wasn't a
Speaker 5: little cold.
Speaker 4: Would she have expected you to say more?
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe uh, maybe I should offer to go with her.
Speaker 4: So has anything happened then between that text message and
Speaker 4: maybe all those face times? You know, like if you're
Speaker 4: talking from the past couple of weeks, you kind of
Speaker 4: start to build what is it about her that makes
Speaker 4: you want to see her again? Like if this girl
Speaker 4: just disappears, like, don't you kind of feel like screw you?
Speaker 1: Then? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean I think she's first of all beautiful, and
Speaker 5: I felt like our personalities kind of balanced each other out,
Speaker 5: and you know, she seems like she does once and
Speaker 5: I'm happy to give that to her.
Speaker 2: So okay, okay, And so she just ghosted you basically
Speaker 2: for the date, like she didn't show up and then
Speaker 2: hasn't responded to you since, saying that she couldn't make
Speaker 2: it because her dog was.
Speaker 5: Sick, right, And yeah, again, like I don't know if
Speaker 5: I just responded wrong at the time, it wasn't you know,
Speaker 5: nice enough.
Speaker 3: But hopefully, hopefully we can get it worked out.
Speaker 4: What if, like something really bad happened to her dog.
Speaker 3: That's also a concern of mine too.
Speaker 4: Yeah, would I be mad at a bummer, Like if
Speaker 4: somebody responds bummer if your dog sick?
Speaker 2: I mean maybe I would have been like, Okay, maybe, yeah,
Speaker 2: maybe that's It's like bummer is more than a bummer?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Maybe? All right, Andy, Well we'll try to figure it out.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song and then come back and call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and.
Speaker 6: Maybe get you another date. Okay, all right, thank you.
Speaker 6: All right, we'll get your first date follow up next.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first date follow up,
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Andy is on the phone
Speaker 2: and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in a second
Speaker 2: we're going to call her and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day.
Speaker 2: But first, Andy, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 2: your situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I met Stringa on Bumble.
Speaker 7: We've spent a few weeks talking facetiming before we finally
Speaker 7: met our plans to meet up in person. And then
Speaker 7: during that time, you know, I wore a tea shirt,
Speaker 7: pad shorts, white shoes that she told me to pick out.
Speaker 5: I was waiting for her and I got a text
Speaker 5: that said her dog was sticking, that she ate taking
Speaker 5: to the vet.
Speaker 3: So the day never happened, and I haven't heard from
Speaker 3: her sets.
Speaker 4: And it might be because he responded, bummer, All.
Speaker 6: Right, Andy, are you ready to call her?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please. Yeah,
Speaker 6: Hi Serena. My name is Jewbell. I host the radio show.
Speaker 6: It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Serena, I'm Nina. The whole show's here. Hi, and
Speaker 4: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 6: How are you.
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 4: I'm good.
Speaker 2: We're calling you today because we got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody who listens to the show and they
Speaker 2: wanted us to call you.
Speaker 6: Okay, So we do a segment on the show. It's
Speaker 6: called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2: What that is is if you go out on a
Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: they can ask us to get you on the phone
Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. So a dude named
Speaker 2: Andy emailed us. He told us about your date. Well,
Speaker 2: the date that didn't happen. And then asked if we
Speaker 2: could call you and ask why are you ghosted him?
Speaker 1: Wow, that's really cute. You know, he's that far to
Speaker 1: see what happened, so.
Speaker 6: You think it's cute.
Speaker 4: Is your dog? Okay?
Speaker 1: No, No I didn't.
Speaker 3: He's just not what I thought he would be.
Speaker 6: And uh, the dog is your okay?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: And Annie, do you.
Speaker 6: Have a dog?
Speaker 4: Even?
Speaker 1: Whoa? I mean we chatted for a while in a bumble.
Speaker 1: It was nice getting to know. Yeah, and he also like,
Speaker 1: I actually don't have a dog.
Speaker 6: I figured that's where it was going than.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So when I step to go to the date
Speaker 1: they wouldn't go on, I saw him sitting there like
Speaker 1: a puppy dog. He had like a rose and some
Speaker 1: dirty white sneakers and I'm just like, I'm not busy,
Speaker 1: but how am I? She sept the sneakers just.
Speaker 6: Kind of you know, so it's the dirty shoes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, I don't know, just it wasn't
Speaker 1: he didn't look like he did any pictures.
Speaker 4: Wait, but he had a rose there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's just like I was just sitting there
Speaker 1: like a like a bad puffy dog.
Speaker 4: Like it's just like, I don't know, you felt like
Speaker 4: you could bulldoze him. I mean sometimes sometimes that's sometimes
Speaker 4: that's the thing. I mean it sounds a little shallow,
Speaker 4: but sometimes you know, if you're gonna like be too
Speaker 4: much for somebody.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if I did have a dog and.
Speaker 3: He replied bummers or your dogs, just like come.
Speaker 4: On, Okay, so it was because he was sitting like
Speaker 4: a puppy dog and he had dirty sneakers. Oh so
Speaker 4: what did dirty sneaker say about him? Man to you?
Speaker 3: I mean, come on, it's the first date.
Speaker 1: If you can't like seeing your shoes or like wear
Speaker 1: some like, come on.
Speaker 4: Like was it a nice like fancy restaurant that you
Speaker 4: were going to.
Speaker 3: I mean it wasn't a fancy restaurant. It was just
Speaker 3: like a cafe.
Speaker 1: But still, come on, like, come on, just at least
Speaker 1: wash your shoes or buy a new pair on a
Speaker 1: first feat.
Speaker 4: I get presenting yourself nicely. I wouldn't and you don't
Speaker 4: have to go as far as buy new shoes, but
Speaker 4: I mean keeping them, you know, do you think about that?
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 2: I try not to wear dirty shoes if I go places.
Speaker 2: But also yeah, but I'm one of those people that
Speaker 2: always wants you know, tries to clean my shoes and
Speaker 2: stuff too. Right, some people don't care, though.
Speaker 1: I mean, well I cared, and I was just sitting
Speaker 1: there with like a road like not even like a bookcase,
Speaker 1: just like a rose. Come on, now, it's really blimpy,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 6: Okay, well, thank you for telling us.
Speaker 2: And now, Serena, I'll let you know that Andy is
Speaker 2: actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: What scaly. Wow, I'm a wimp because I had dirty
Speaker 3: shoes and a rose. You lied about having a sick dog.
Speaker 3: I mean to be, I was weirding what you told
Speaker 3: me to wear.
Speaker 1: I didn't tell you to wear dirty shoes, and you know,
Speaker 1: come on, first impressions or kind of big Well, I.
Speaker 7: Went out and bought a new shirt and plaid shorts
Speaker 7: because I didn't have any I wasn't thinking about my shoes.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Well that's a bummer.
Speaker 8: So you just so you saw me sitting there, and
Speaker 8: instead of coming up to me and saying anything like
Speaker 8: an adult, you just walked away and hid lied about
Speaker 8: having a dog that was sick, and you're saying that
Speaker 8: I'm awa, yeah, I.
Speaker 3: Mean a little bit, and you don't even look like
Speaker 3: your pictures. So you know what, you didn't look like
Speaker 3: your pictures either. You didn't look evil.
Speaker 2: Well, I think that was the appropriate time to ask Serena,
Speaker 2: would you like to go on another day with Andy?
Speaker 6: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: No, thank you, No.
Speaker 3: Buck, though I wish you the bye, Candy.
Speaker 4: Somebody's gonna appreciate your rose.
Speaker 3: Thank you. I think I'm dodging a bullet, you know.
Speaker 5: Well, I'll pay attention to if you ever do end
Speaker 5: up getting a dog, and I'm gonna call a spc
Speaker 5: I on you because yeah, you shouldn't be owning an animal.
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