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Speaker 1: What's of Happy Hour listeners. I'm Beccacoufern and I'm Michelle. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we are excited to be back with you again

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Speaker 1: this week. Getting into the third episode of The Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: I feel like we're already like flying through this season.

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Speaker 1: But I'm very excited to bring on our guest Gabby today. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So we're so excited we're going to be chatting with

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Speaker 1: Gabby here all about her journey. It was a slow start,

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Speaker 1: but now she's coming in hot talking about the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Bowl and her connection with Szach. But first before we

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Speaker 1: bring her on, Becca, I feel like I haven't seen

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Speaker 1: you in a minute. How are you doing, phill us

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Speaker 1: in I know, I feel like you have been traveling

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Speaker 1: all I'm like, I don't even know where Michelle is

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Speaker 1: these days because you are bounds in between states. But

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I have been traveling a little bit to

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Speaker 1: this past week, and I still have more upcoming travels

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Speaker 1: for some really fun stuff that we will soon be announcing.

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Speaker 1: So stay tuned next week. We'll probably be able to

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Speaker 1: talk about it at little bit more on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, some really fun things in the works. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was traveling this past weekend for my wine line

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Speaker 1: at some events, which was so so fun. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: life's going good. I feel like we're starting to kind

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Speaker 1: of pick up this new year and bounce around and

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Speaker 1: just get going. How are you okay? Wait? I love that.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to now hear what you're going to

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Speaker 1: be bringing up. I'll definitely be checking back in next

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Speaker 1: week with that one. But for me, things have been good.

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Speaker 1: I feel like every time I hop, I'm about a

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Speaker 1: happy hour. I'm in a different state right now, coming

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Speaker 1: from Arizona, so I'm gonna be here for some super

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Speaker 1: Bowl activities. And you said that you're going to be

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Speaker 1: in the area tomorrow, right I'm also coming to Arizona.

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Speaker 1: I feel like just going back to you being in

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Speaker 1: a new state all the time. It's like, where in

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Speaker 1: the world is Carmen San Diego? That is you. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: where in the country is Michelle Young these days? But yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll both be in Arizona for different fun things. It's

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Speaker 1: I didn't even realize, so, like, you know me, I

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Speaker 1: super Bowl is in Arizona. Also, the waste Management Tournament

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Speaker 1: be crazy town. And I mean you're there early, like

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Speaker 1: is it already starting to get like super busy there? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I'm right now, I'm located like in old town Scottsdale.

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Speaker 1: So the super Bowl tailgate, everything that's taking place is

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Speaker 1: legitimately in my backyard, like ten steps to the right,

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Speaker 1: and so it's pretty cool. And so last night one

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Speaker 1: it's like a ghost town, but with everything starting to

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Speaker 1: Like you said, waste management's going on, so there's a

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Speaker 1: lot of events going on with that. It's like Phoenix's

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Speaker 1: and so it's gonna be a lot so much. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's so fun. Let's get into the episode really quick

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Speaker 1: before Gabby hops on, what were your overall thoughts on

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Speaker 1: this week three? And like, do you have any predictions?

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Speaker 1: I know I asked you this last week of like

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Speaker 1: any standouts or people that you think are going to

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Speaker 1: what I responded with or who I responded with last week,

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Speaker 1: because I do feel like it changes so quickly, like

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Speaker 1: there is That's just how Bachelor World works. When you're

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Speaker 1: if it's I'm calling it now. Yeah, And I'm not

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Speaker 1: calling it in the sense of like I'm predicting it. No,

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Speaker 1: I stand by that. I really enjoy her. And and

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Speaker 1: and ask you this question. At the beginning of the episode,

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Speaker 1: that date at the museum. I would have loved it.

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Speaker 1: and movies? Did you ever watch or read the night?

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Speaker 1: It was like, no, like the mixtup files of Basily Frankweiler.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what that is. I've never heard

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Speaker 1: of that. Wait, wasn't the mixtup file something basilely Frank Weiler? Okay,

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Speaker 1: It was a book. They made it into a movie.

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Speaker 1: It's basically about this brother and sister who run away

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Speaker 1: So we need to just bring up this really quick

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Speaker 1: lot of emotional regulation that you have to like work on,

426
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: and that's something I've been working on for years. But

427
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 1: when you're in an environment that's so overstimulating, it can

428
00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,719
Speaker 1: be really difficult to find that regulation of your emotions.

429
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 1: And so for me, you know, finally getting the opportunity

430
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 1: to sit down and talk to him, it's late. I'm tired.

431
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of comparison you're doing. There's

432
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 1: a lot of sensitivities you're feeling, and then there's on

433
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: top of that, there's the distractions of the environment just

434
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,440
Speaker 1: in it's and so, you know, I had all these

435
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 1: things I wanted to probably talk to them about, and

436
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 1: I came up with nicknames. Don't know where that came from.

437
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: I do love nicknames, and I give everyone nicknames, but

438
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: that's probably like more it gives some context to the

439
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 1: roller coaster that people saw of like my emotions and

440
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: then the emotions that came after that conversation of the

441
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: like sensitivity because emotions hit you really hard and really

442
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: fast when you're ADHD and so a lot of people

443
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: maybe don't understand that or know that, but I'm comfortable

444
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: talking about that, but I think it does help people understand, like, Okay,

445
00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:40,640
Speaker 1: how did you do a one eighty when you talk

446
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: to him before the rose ceremony? Because I figured out, Okay,

447
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 1: what do you need to do to regulate your emotions

448
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: in this kind of environment? And I'm so grateful that

449
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: I have had the tools and the therapy and the

450
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 1: psychiatrists to teach me those tools to be able to

451
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: do that. But it was a lot in the beginning.

452
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: So there's a very long winded and s are for

453
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: you all, but um no, that's that's how it's feeling. Yeah,

454
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: it made it made a lot of sense. I actually

455
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: really appreciate you to explaining that and just being vulnerable

456
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: to share that side of things, because I think that's

457
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: a perspective that a lot of people who aren't dealing

458
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: with you know anything, or dealing with similar similar things

459
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: might not think about and you add the learning curve

460
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: of just like you said, the cameras, the lack of sleep, um,

461
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: just all the commotion that's going on. It would that

462
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: adds a whole different layer. Yeah, but you did land

463
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: on Zachie pooh, and I feel like it's stuck. Correct.

464
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: I like, yah, Zach's cute. Yeah, he didn't seem like

465
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: he really liked it, And I was like, come on, man,

466
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 1: like this gives you some edge, like it's cute, it's sweet,

467
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: it's endearing. Um okay, So I want to then go

468
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: into you just you know, like obviously it was kind

469
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: of a roller coaster that first conversation, and I'm sure

470
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: also too, like hearing how other conversations with the woman went,

471
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 1: Like hearing if he kissed them or not plays a

472
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: huge role into that, and kind of like the comparison

473
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: of like, Okay, I feel behind already, maybe I'm getting

474
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: more behind. But you did turn it around because the

475
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 1: next time at that cocktail party, you I loved this.

476
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: The peanut butter cups was so cute, a little lady

477
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: in the tramp style move. How did you feel when

478
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: you finally had like the real conversation with him, and

479
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,880
Speaker 1: then you got that kiss. What was that Like? It

480
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: was so reassuring and like I was like finally, like

481
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: I can take a deep breath, Like finally, I feel

482
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: like that was a normal conversation that wasn't forced, It

483
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: wasn't like awkward, it wasn't intimidating. It just felt like

484
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: finally and I could like take that deep breath, you know.

485
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 1: I think leading up to that, I kind of got

486
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: to a point where I was like, you know, you

487
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 1: just need to like relax, take a deep breath, and

488
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: like try to just focus on this one thing. And

489
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: that's what I did, and it just felt very finally

490
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: felt like natural, um yea and not as distracted. Give

491
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: us the deets I need to know. Is Zach a

492
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: good kisser? Uh? Decent kisser? Met? Like I really want

493
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: to know, ge, Yes, honest, you won't get in trouble

494
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: if you tell us the truth. Well, our kiss was

495
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: a little bit peanut buttery, um, which was I mean,

496
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: it's an acquired taste that I love. I think so too.

497
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, a little peanut butter, a little chocolate,

498
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: I love it. Um. No, I thought we had a

499
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: good kiss, like rating it on the scale of first kisses. Um,

500
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: it was long anticipated. I was I don't think I've

501
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: ever been that nervous for our first kiss in my

502
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: whole life. Um, but I thought it was pretty good.

503
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: What I will say about Zach is I think his

504
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: kissing style is very accommodating to the other person. That's

505
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: a compliment. He catches a vibe because I was obviously

506
00:28:15,600 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: you guys saw us talking about you know, do you

507
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 1: use tongue? Do you not use tongue like I think

508
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 1: he's good at like reading the room or reading theos

509
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,479
Speaker 1: and what's going on. Yes, I think he knows how

510
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: to catch a vibe. That's a that's we have. We

511
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: like an accommodating man. I like that. Okay, he adapts. Okay.

512
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: So this week you played in like a long standing

513
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: bachelor tradition, the Bachelor Bowl. And when you pulled up

514
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: to the field, what were your first thoughts with what

515
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: was happening, what was going to be expected on the day. Um, well,

516
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: I was very nervous. I knew it was all I

517
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 1: knew the second we got that day. Card I was like,

518
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: there's too many girls on here for it to not

519
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: be the Bachelor Bowl. Was It was it like, are

520
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: we you excited about that? Or you're like, crap, are

521
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: you athletic? Like do you consider yourself athletic? Um? Does

522
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: that face say it at all? Um? Okay? So I

523
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: would say I work out and I am athletic, but

524
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: I am not aggressive. So for me, the idea of

525
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: like being aggressive and like tackling someone is not like

526
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: let's say we're doing like a like a a race

527
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: or like an obstacle course. Hell yeah, I'm in there,

528
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 1: like so a'mwhere like I will dominate. But the idea

529
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: of tackling people and then being tackled, that was a

530
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: lot and I was not ready for it. Well, and

531
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: there was there was extra stakes because he told you

532
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: whatever team wins gets to go to the cocktail party,

533
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: whoever loses has to go home sianara. So like did

534
00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: that change your mindset going in? And I'm sure did

535
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: in some capacity, but like when you heard that, what

536
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: was going through your head? Oh? Yeah? I was like,

537
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: oh perfect, like another missed opportunity to like progress my

538
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: relationship with Zach, Like no way, there's absolutely no way.

539
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: Well there was a way. Um uh yeah, So I

540
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: was stressed. I was angry. I was like are you kidding?

541
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: Like now another after party that I might not attend

542
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: so that we can get even more behind. Yeah, so

543
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: it was it was like a lot. Okay, So were

544
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: you confident with like your team, like who is on

545
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: remind us who was on your team? Well? Um, we

546
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 1: had me Dhabia, Jen, Um Greer, Anastasia and who am

547
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: I missing? Oh um Brianna. I think that was it? Okay,

548
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: quite sure? Who did you think was going to be

549
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 1: like the if you were to choose like a captain

550
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 1: of your the yellow team, who would have been? Like?

551
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: Who was? Like? Jen was our MVP all the way.

552
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: She is very athletic, she knows football, so she was

553
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: like and I think, see, we didn't have any workout

554
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: girlies on our season, I guess besides Christina did CrossFit

555
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: and then Jen was very athletic. And then I somehow

556
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: got looped in as like one of those workout girlies.

557
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I work out, but like, I'm not

558
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,160
Speaker 1: I'm not a football girl. And so I think Jen

559
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: really thought that I was gonna help her a lot

560
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: with knowing football. But she was doing as all these

561
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: plays and I was like that sounds awesome. I'm not

562
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: sure what you're saying. You're speaking a different language, and

563
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: you can see, like you'll see it's very obvious. I

564
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: do not know football because in the beginning of the game,

565
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: I remember I didn't know that you were supposed to

566
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: like touch the ball. I thought you were not supposed

567
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 1: touch the ball. Wait, what do you mean, like not

568
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: touch them up with that somewhere? So I ran away

569
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: from the ball. I literally would be you. I feel

570
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: like during this group, Dad, I would be the same way.

571
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm just gonna go stand over here.

572
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fake an injury so i can hang out

573
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 1: with Zachie pooh m. And just you would be the

574
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: one to fake. You'd be the one to fake in

575
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,719
Speaker 1: and no, I'd actually probably stay in the game and

576
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,240
Speaker 1: I would it would take me a little bit to

577
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: get like acclimated into it, but I'd probably then be like,

578
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna fucking hit up everyone, give my aggression out.

579
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: But um yeah, I just want to clarify for everyone

580
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: because I was like, who is Jen, Like, I don't

581
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: remember a Jen. Jenevie is who you're talking about? Who's

582
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: on your team? And shed out like watching the episode,

583
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: she did very very well, so just for the listeners,

584
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: who's like if you're like me, and I'm like, I

585
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: don't know who Jen is, It's jene Be. Um okay, Gabby,

586
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: I also relate to you in this scenario about the

587
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: peeing the pants, okay. And I'm not sure if you

588
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: were embarrassed about that or not, But when I was

589
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: watching knew, I'm like, we have all been there if

590
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 1: you have not peach your pants a little bit at

591
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: some point, whether it's playing a game, whether it's like

592
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: when you're dancing, like your line, if you haven't peed

593
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: your pants a little bit. So honestly, I don't think

594
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: you should embarrass and embarrassed at all about it. And

595
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: did you think that that part was gonna be shown? Like,

596
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: you know, we're always miked up, but there's like some

597
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: things that you don't think like we'll ever error. Did

598
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 1: you think that they would show that? Um? I was.

599
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: I was quite confident that that would be shown, muse

600
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: because I went into the day and I was like, yeah,

601
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna put my body on the line and

602
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna crush this, like I'm gonna get aggressive if

603
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: I have to, Like I'm just gonna come out of

604
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: my shell and be you know, a football player for

605
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,719
Speaker 1: the day. Well, you know, there was other plans for

606
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: me that that blunt force that pulled me down. It

607
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 1: was so hard, and I was also nervous, Like do

608
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: you think, like, Okay, I'm staying hydrated because we're in

609
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: the California sun. Then I've got these nerves and jitters

610
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: because the boy I like is watching me try to

611
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: catch up football run across the field like there's a

612
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 1: lot going on. The nerves were giving me the nervous

613
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: piece in itself and then you throw me to the ground.

614
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 1: Yeah it was bad, but have no fear. I've consulted

615
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 1: my doctor. We are good. Everything is good. We're working

616
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: on it. M Yeah, it's going to happen now or

617
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,239
Speaker 1: when you have kids, And honestly you might your team

618
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 1: might not have one, but you definitely won the relatable card.

619
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: Cheers to you for that. Thank you. I'm actually kind

620
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 1: of glad that they showed it because I feel like

621
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: every episode we get like clips of like realness, and

622
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like there's things that people don't

623
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 1: always want to talk about it, and so I'm so

624
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: good that it was the highlight reel highlight reel. Yeah, no,

625
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: I thought it was. I think it's funny. I mean

626
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't help it. I mean it was honestly like

627
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: a little bit alarming to me. And actually I was like,

628
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm fine, I just a little bit.

629
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: That was hard. Yeah, so I got tackled twice, like

630
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 1: really hard, and that was one of them. And that

631
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: did occur. So, I mean, you guys really did give

632
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 1: it your best effort though, but unfortunately the Yellow team

633
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: fell short that day. How disappointing was it that you

634
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,280
Speaker 1: would not be able to go to this after party?

635
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: It was very disappointing, not only like emotionally, but like physically.

636
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: I was drained and hurting, like I hyper extended my

637
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: knee and I was like, I was like, oh this hurts,

638
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 1: and anyone this sounds silly, but anyone who has dipped

639
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: nails will understand this. I had three of them ripped off,

640
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: and my fingers were like throbbing from that. I just

641
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,280
Speaker 1: also peeped my pants, so like, there were so many

642
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 1: emotions I was feeling, and then you don't get to

643
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: talk to the guy who you've just put it all

644
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 1: out there for. But I think he saw our effort,

645
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:01,879
Speaker 1: so I at least left knowing like, Okay, you put

646
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: it all out there, you tried your best, like there's

647
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 1: only so much you can do, but it was super disappointing. Yeah,

648
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 1: oh yeah, the end, the end to an already rough

649
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: day date. It's hopefully you guys just were able to

650
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,239
Speaker 1: get home, shower, drink a lot of wine so you

651
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: couldn't feel the pain as much. But okay, so that night,

652
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 1: you know, half of you went home, half still went

653
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: to the date. And it was in the middle of

654
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: that cocktail party. Were not cocktail party, but like that

655
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: evening portion that you guys saw Bailey's suitcase being wheeled

656
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: out of the mansion, did you expect that, Like, did

657
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: you think that they had a stronger connection? And were

658
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,879
Speaker 1: you very surprised in that moment? I was very surprised

659
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: by Bailey leaving, I mean when we were so actually

660
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: what happened, Like the way I found out is I

661
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: got up really early that next morning and and somebody

662
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: else was up super early before the other girls, And

663
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: it was almost like word of mouth, like somebody told me.

664
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 1: So I didn't know all of the details, but I

665
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,280
Speaker 1: heard about and I was just like initially so shocked,

666
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: and I think that's just because she I mean, she's

667
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 1: so cool and so beautiful, and like, it seemed like

668
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,399
Speaker 1: they had a great connection. And from everything you hear,

669
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: and that's every girl right talking about their relationship with

670
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: someone else or with Zach, you know they're explaining in

671
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: you're hearing the highlights of it, right, You're not necessarily

672
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: hearing all of the like negatives or you know, the

673
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: parts where it's like not going super awesome. So I

674
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: probably didn't know all the details or the nuances of

675
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: how their conversations were going. But from an outsider's perspective,

676
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: I was absolutely shocked to see her go and really

677
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 1: sad because she was, you know, so fun. It's sad

678
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: to see any girl go, and so you lose a friend,

679
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 1: and then you're also like what happened? So it's so

680
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 1: many emotions. Who were you really close with in the house,

681
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: like either night one throughout, and like even though who

682
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: would you say you're like your best friends from the

683
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: show are I think we were so lucky with our

684
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: group of girls. The girls are all so cool, so nice,

685
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: and I'm friends with everyone pretty much. I would consider

686
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: myself friends with everyone. I think initially I really clicked

687
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: with Jess and Katie and Ariel. Those are two of

688
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: two or three of the girls that I felt like, oh,

689
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,919
Speaker 1: I really really get these girls and they really get

690
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: me and we it felt like I'd known them for

691
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 1: a really long time. But overall, all of the girls

692
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 1: are just great. So we do like the camaraderie we're

693
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: seeing this season. Yeah, yeah, seems like you guys have

694
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: each other's back for sure. Yeah. It was like I

695
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: was so scared because I watched Complete in season before

696
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: to get output inspiration of all things, and I was marked. Sorry,

697
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, am I about to get like bullied,

698
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: like crazy bullied on the show. I was super scared.

699
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: But no, we didn't. It wasn't like that. The girls

700
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: were so great. So it seems like, okay, let's get

701
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: into this pool party and some not even like major

702
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: major drama, but like there was a situation between us

703
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: Christina and you know, Brianna and some of the other women.

704
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: Just from your standpoint, since you lived with everyone, can

705
00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: you just speak a little bit about that whole scenario,

706
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: Like did you witness Christina like ever being too much,

707
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: like too open about her relationship with Zach and like

708
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 1: kind of putting anyone else down. Yeah. I think for me,

709
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 1: I was so hyperfixed on like my relationship with Zach

710
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 1: and probably a little bit my own world of you know,

711
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: I need to figure out, like how I'm going to

712
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: progress my relationship. I was a little bit focused on that.

713
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: But obviously, like these things happen and you have to

714
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: be aware of them because it's all around you. So

715
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: when everything happened that pool party, it was very disappointing

716
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: because we were having such a fun day and I

717
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: think that you know, people do have personalities and not

718
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: everyone is going to click like you put thirty women together.

719
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: There's no way everyone clicks with one another in personalities

720
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: and you know, the way people speak are it's going

721
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: to clash and that's just human nature. So it was

722
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: unfortunate because I think it really took away from the

723
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: fun of like the day and the day we were

724
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: all having together. But I think that it's necessary, you know,

725
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: if you're feeling a certain way to feel safe with

726
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 1: your partner, to go and have those conversations. And I

727
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: think we are all adults, so having those conversations with

728
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: other adults that is important, Like how can you. You know,

729
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: it's only your problem unless you make it someone else's.

730
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: And so I think that those conversations needed to happen,

731
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: but it was definitely a little bit disappointing. But people

732
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 1: have personalities and not everyone will mesh. So throughout that day,

733
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: when things started to get more tense, and you know,

734
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: Brianna like take it. Take it to the moment, like

735
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: Brianna just left and all of the women are sitting together,

736
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: you know, you're all hanging out. Zach comes in and

737
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,839
Speaker 1: he basically addresses the situation of like why she went

738
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: home and that there he mentions, there's somebody in the

739
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 1: mansion that's kind of probably some like multiple not just Branna,

740
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: but multiple women the wrong way and making comments and

741
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: just kind of putting them down and making them feel uncomfortable,

742
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 1: it seemed, and this and this just could be like

743
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: kind of what was shown, but like as if you

744
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:02,720
Speaker 1: were it seems like when you're all together and Christie

745
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: is sitting there, like it didn't really seem like she

746
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: was aware that it would have been directed towards her.

747
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: You know. Obviously after that he pulled her aside to

748
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 1: have a conversation, but at any point, like were you

749
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 1: aware that she was the one making some people feel

750
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: uncomfortable and that she would be the one that he

751
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: would pull, or like what was going through your mind

752
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: where you're like, oh, it might be somebody else, it

753
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: could be her, Like where was your head at? So

754
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: I do remember in that moment, you know, it wasn't

755
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: clear if it was like one person or multiple people,

756
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: and that was like giving me some confusion. But I

757
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: also remember, you know, the girls saying we had and

758
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: I tried as remain Switzerland. I'm just gonna say that,

759
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 1: like I tried to stay out of the drama. But

760
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: like obviously you hear things and you hear people talking

761
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: you're living in a house together. But I knew that

762
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: there had been something at the date like the cocktail

763
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 1: party where I wasn't because it was after the football

764
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:03,919
Speaker 1: game and we had lost, and I know that there

765
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 1: was some like tensions from that, and but I didn't

766
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: know like all the contexts, all the details, and honestly,

767
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 1: like like I said, like I was focused on my

768
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: relationship with Zach, so not the time or place where

769
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm about to get

770
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 1: myself all into this drama, and like what's going on.

771
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: So I tried to like take a step back and

772
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: let everyone figure it out as adults and have conversations

773
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: that needed to be had, but stay out of it.

774
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 1: So I knew that there was already tensions though between

775
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: maybe more than one person, but I knew it was

776
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: all going to unfold. Would you say that you were

777
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:46,400
Speaker 1: busy daydreaming about spreading sunscreen over Zach at the beginning

778
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 1: of the food party? How did you? Well, guys, you've

779
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: got to jump at your opportunity, and I love them

780
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,280
Speaker 1: to have a few, few and far between of them

781
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: in the beginning. Um so, yeah, No, I saw that sunscreen.

782
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: He said, I'm gonna get a sunburn. I said, well,

783
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 1: let me help you with that. Um, you know, got

784
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: to protect my man's And then the sunscreen just magically

785
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: appears in your hand. Yeah it was. I was like, oh, perfect,

786
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: right here, let me just put this all over you.

787
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 1: I did put a little bit too much. I think

788
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, we can chill, it's okay, extra

789
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: rubbed down. I would do the same. I was gonna say,

790
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 1: you got to spend more time letting it soak in,

791
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't. Yeah, No, I wouldn't. I wouldn't

792
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 1: have rubbed sunscreen on Zach. But I would say that

793
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: if the person of who I was going after it

794
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: just dumped the whole bottle. Yeah, I was like, I'm

795
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: just gonna put as much on there so I can

796
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: just keep touching you. Yeah. Um no, it was a

797
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 1: great opportunity. You stole it and I love to see it. Um. Okay,

798
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: before we get into the next part of this interview,

799
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: I mean, it was a wild week in Boutchelor mansion.

800
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: We saw a couple of girls go home, like not

801
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: even at the Roaster money there's only Christina who went

802
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: home at the rost ceremony. So fast forward to like

803
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 1: the rest of the season. Without giving too much away,

804
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: can you tease anything fun of what's to come, like

805
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: what we can expect. M m, that's tough not teasing

806
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: too much. I think that there this season, like you

807
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 1: will see a lot of love, and you'll see a

808
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:36,720
Speaker 1: lot of emotions and probably some of the most genuine people,

809
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,960
Speaker 1: Like you'll get to know some of the most genuine

810
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,399
Speaker 1: people that I've ever met. And I do think that

811
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: there is a lot of love between the girls with Zach,

812
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 1: and I think it's like a really unique It's a

813
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: unique season from what I've seen of the other seasons.

814
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: I think this is a actual season. Oh special season.

815
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: I like it. I'll take it very much. So well, Gabby,

816
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: We've enjoyed chatting with you so much today. And before

817
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: we let you go, we're gonna play a quick round

818
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: of something called rapid fire. So we're gonna give you

819
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: questions just to get to know you a little bit

820
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: more emphasis on the word rappids. You don't have to

821
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: give an explanation, just your answer, and Becca and I

822
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 1: will swap back and forth asking you questions. Are you

823
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: ready to go? I'm ready? Okay, here we go. Are

824
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:34,279
Speaker 1: you an early riser or a night owl? Oh? My god,

825
00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: depends on the day. Okay, all right, we'll take it.

826
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: What is the best stating advice you've ever received? You

827
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 1: can't change people? What is your go to pizza order?

828
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm really boring, I just like cheese. Can't What is

829
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: one word that your best friends would use to describe you.

830
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: What is your favorite curse word? You can say it too.

831
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: You can say everyone gets caught up on this one.

832
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: I have some weird words I say, like that aren't

833
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: cuss words that are cuss words, and then I also

834
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: use cuss words. Um, I probably say I dropped the

835
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: F bomb a lot, which is pretty bad. I need

836
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: to work on that. And then you're your your u um,

837
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: I say, oh my god, there's so many things I say,

838
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: Like I say fudge a lot, but that's not one

839
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,399
Speaker 1: of the weird ones. But like I'm gonna know, it's

840
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: hard to be on the spot, Like I know, see

841
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: that's a weird thing. I say, my Lanta, nothing to

842
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 1: shake a stick at in there, like swimwear mente be.

843
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, guys, the nicknames were just about everything.

844
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,799
Speaker 1: It's len't just shake a stick. And I'm gonna start

845
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: saying that now. Yeah. Um okay, what is the most

846
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 1: played song or artist in your library? I love Drake

847
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 1: like I love Drake so much. Um, yes, anythink Drake? Okay?

848
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 1: What is your favorite cocktail? Um depends like who I'm

849
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: trying to embody that night I'm trying to be like

850
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: frisky or if I'm trying to be feisty. Um My

851
00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,640
Speaker 1: goats would probably be like any kind of like gin cocktail.

852
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: I love a gin tonic? Yes? And does that? Does

853
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: that cue the feisty or does that? What? What version

854
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: do we get with gin? That's like my fun side. Okay, okay, okay,

855
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 1: love it. If you could be any animal, what would

856
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: you be? Um? I would be a dolphin. I could

857
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: see that. Actually, just friendly sees a dolphin and they're like,

858
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 1: I hate that creature, somebody without a soul? No, but

859
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: what is the current screensaver on your phone? Mine? Is

860
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: me playing with my dad as a little kid, and

861
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: I'm going you a kiss on his lap, like, oh

862
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: little beanie, Oh I know. Okay, that's that is I

863
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: have to say, one of the best screensavers we've seen.

864
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: That's he that's here the late Um. Okay, if you

865
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: could visit one place in the world, where would you go? Um,

866
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: I'd love to go to like Bora Bora m seems

867
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 1: really sexy. Seems really sexy. Yeah, I couldn't be mad

868
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: at that. And you kind of briefly describe this a

869
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: little bit. But if you had to choose a different word,

870
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: if you're describing this season at a Bachelor in one

871
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 1: word or phrase, what would it be? This sounds like cliche?

872
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 1: But love okay, love love. Well, we are excited to

873
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: see more of you okay, So Gabby, before we let

874
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 1: you go, we always do a couple of fun last

875
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 1: housekeeping things. Um, so we always start with our resource,

876
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 1: which is just helping keep our listeners informed around timely topics,

877
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: especially in regards to race in this country, in this franchise.

878
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: And so I'll kick it off and then I'll let

879
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: Michelle take the lead and share her resource, and then

880
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 1: we'll have you follow up with yours and then we'll

881
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: get into like the last fun Rosenthorne part. But to

882
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 1: start for this week, my resource is an Instagram account.

883
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 1: The account is her name is Dara Starr Tucker, and

884
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: basically her entire Instagram page features videos about every topic

885
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: from race, like things like blackface, grandfather clauses, racism in politics, etc.

886
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 1: But the one that I'm want to highlight today, and

887
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: I just would urge anyone to go check out her

888
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 1: entire page and just follow her is it basically discusses

889
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: the differences between black pride and white pride. And it's

890
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:13,319
Speaker 1: a conversation that she did this real around because she's

891
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: seen a spark during Black History Month, which is obviously

892
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: this month, and around why this designation between like black

893
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 1: pride and white pride exists, leading from the question of

894
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: like why isn't there a White History Month, which I'm

895
00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: sure a lot of maybe her white followers are just

896
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: people on Instagram have asked about. So basically it goes

897
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: into like how white pride and black pride pride comes

898
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: across differently in this country, and it's basically because of

899
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: the way race and culture has developed here. So she

900
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: discusses the concept of race as a colonial concept to

901
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: create like this hierarchy to groups of people based on

902
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: their skin color. She gets into basically like the history

903
00:51:56,719 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: of our country and the origins of slavery, and how

904
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 1: when they were forced to come over to the United States,

905
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: they were stripped of basically all of their traditions, Like

906
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 1: they couldn't have their culture, their language, basically everything was

907
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: stripped from them and they were forced into this like

908
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 1: completely new social framework. And because of that, they had

909
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 1: to really begin to develop like their own distinct culture

910
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: of their own and a lot of that in part

911
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: was fueled by like triumph in the face of extreme adversity.

912
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:29,360
Speaker 1: And she kind of lays it out as like it

913
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: developed out of the need to overcome horrific circumstances. So

914
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: it gets into so much more. And all of her

915
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: videos are about I would say, like five minutes, so

916
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: they're really quick, easy things to watch and read if

917
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:46,760
Speaker 1: you're on the go. But again, I highly recommend checking

918
00:52:46,800 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: that one out just because it is February and we

919
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 1: are in Black History Month. But her entire Instagram page

920
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 1: is so interesting, so educational, and so again her name

921
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: is Dara Stark Tucker. So that is my source of

922
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: the week. And Michelle, if you want to go next, Yeah,

923
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 1: so mine, I'm keeping mine short and sweet. As we

924
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: are really getting into Black History Month, I'll be posting

925
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 1: this like one sheet, So this one sheet reminder slash article,

926
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: it's just the dows and don'ts a Black History Month

927
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: really kind of focusing on what we can do to

928
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,879
Speaker 1: celebrate what we shouldn't be doing. Really kind of goes

929
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 1: into just like quick little tidbits how to support black

930
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 1: owned businesses, how to really raise awareness, how to celebrate

931
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: and not doing it in a water down manner, and

932
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: really kind of being sure that we are navigating this

933
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: month insightfully and intentionally at the same time. And so again,

934
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: the dews and don'ts a Black History Month, and I'll

935
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: be posting that as like little one sheet on my resources. Cool.

936
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:58,799
Speaker 1: Thank you Michelle, and now Gabby, if you have a

937
00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 1: resource you would like to share, we would love to

938
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 1: hear it. Um. The resource that I was going to

939
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: share with you because I talked a lot about my

940
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: therapy and like my journey through therapy was a book

941
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 1: that my therapist recommended to me and we would actually

942
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: like work through different sections of it. Um. It's called

943
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: Attached and it's about adult attachment styles and how that

944
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: happens from your childhood and how it like translates into

945
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: your adult life. And I think it's really important to

946
00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:28,240
Speaker 1: understand like how you were raised and how that impacts

947
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: you as an adult and how you can be very

948
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 1: mindful of it. So that's that's my resource. Thank thank you.

949
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: I actually will say I just learned a bit more

950
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: about I think it's the four different attachment styles, is

951
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: that right, the four of them? And yeah, and like

952
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: you could just take a quiz online too to kind

953
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: of see your attachment style and like why it is

954
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 1: to come. I was very surprised by it, I will say. So.

955
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 1: I think that's great to share in something that you

956
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: know anyone at any point can look more into so

957
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: thank you for that. And then this is the last part,

958
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: I swear. I know we keep adding on things before

959
00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 1: we let you go, but this is the fun part.

960
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,640
Speaker 1: It's your rose and thorn. So basically, your rose is

961
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: going to be your highlight or your favorite moment of

962
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 1: your time on Zach season so far. And then on

963
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: the flip side, obviously the rose is something messy, awkward,

964
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: a memory that you like wish maybe didn't happen or

965
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: was shown. So whenever you want to share your rose

966
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: and thorn. Okay, So my thorn would probably be the

967
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: nickname word vomit that happened. It was pretty embarrassing. People

968
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: are like, is this girl un hinched? Like is she okay?

969
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:46,919
Speaker 1: So probably that would be my thorn. But like I said,

970
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 1: like getting accustomed to like all of the cameras and everything,

971
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,280
Speaker 1: I think that was a thorn in itself. My rose

972
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: would probably be just like the girls that kept me

973
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:04,319
Speaker 1: so grounded when I was struggling in other areas. You know,

974
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: those girls like help boost me up and I'm so

975
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: grateful for that. And then those conversations that did go

976
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 1: well and it wasn't me word vomiting and giving Sacking

977
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: nicknames that he didn't want. Those were all really positive moments. Good.

978
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 1: I love that. Well, Gabby, we are excited to see

979
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 1: more of you. It seems like you're finally getting the time,

980
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: the well deserved time with Sacks. So we can't wait

981
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,920
Speaker 1: to see where this takes you. And you know, throughout

982
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 1: this journey it's a lot. We understand. Michelle and I

983
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: have both been in your shoes. It's it's a crazy

984
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: time with social media and just having the world witness

985
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: you trying to fall in love. So if you ever

986
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: need anything, any advice to events like we are always

987
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: here for you, Well, thank you so much. I really

988
00:56:48,760 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 1: appreciate it. And it's so awesome to meet both of you.

989
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm having a little fanned girl moment,

990
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:58,160
Speaker 1: but it's super awesome. We were very excited to have you. Yeah,

991
00:56:58,200 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: you're somebody that we wanted. So I'm glad that we

992
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,840
Speaker 1: truly saw you. And I'm sure in a few weeks

993
00:57:02,880 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: we'll either see you at the tell all or the

994
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 1: finale however far you go, so look forward to because

995
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: keep watching. Yes, well, thank you Gabby. All right, Michelle,

996
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 1: that was nice when she seems so sweet, she seems

997
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 1: really just sweet and genuine, and I love how open

998
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,440
Speaker 1: she was just about her all that comes, like all

999
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 1: the just different difficulties or obstacles that kind of come

1000
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 1: with like having ADHD, and I love that she was

1001
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: able to open up about that. And I'm sure there's

1002
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: a lot of viewers that appreciate her having that Cannon conversation.

1003
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: So thank you again, Gabby for being so open. Michelle,

1004
00:57:38,520 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 1: I agree with you, and I love people who have

1005
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: like put in work, and you know, we've all been

1006
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: through stuff in our pasts. You know there's no way

1007
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 1: around that. But somebody who recognizes areas where they could

1008
00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: do better or learn or just become more self aware,

1009
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 1: I really appreciate. I think it's a conversation that we

1010
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: should always be having. And so I'm that it sounds

1011
00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 1: like before coming down the show, she went through some stuff,

1012
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: she did the work, and I love that she can

1013
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 1: speak on that more so, Yeah, I feel like she

1014
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: I feel like so far, like we've talked to some

1015
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: great women and I'm like I say this every week.

1016
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think they're going to go far, and

1017
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm always not right, So we'll see. But I really

1018
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 1: hope she does. She seems like a very just genuine, real,

1019
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 1: very dumb to earth woman. So thank you Gabby for

1020
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: joining us, and a big thank you to all of

1021
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: our Happy Hour listeners. We love chatting with you all

1022
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: each and every week. And I have to remind you

1023
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: all that new episodes of The Bachelor air every Monday

1024
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: at eight seventh Central on ABC, or you can also

1025
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: stream it next day on Hulu. And another reminder, casting

1026
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: is now open for men to date our next Bachelorette,

1027
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 1: whoever that might be. So if you are single or

1028
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 1: no somebody who is single, go to the website to

1029
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: nominate or apply at Bachelor nation dot com slash apply. Also,

1030
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: make sure to hit us up on social. You can

1031
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: follow us at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and there

1032
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1033
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1040
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