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I've been meaning to get to 11 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 1: this for like a week. I think I've referred to 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: it and haven't. But this is from Reddit, and I 13 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: think I know everybody would feel about this. But maybe 14 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: I'll attempt to play Devil's Advocate. I don't think I can, 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: but well, I can always play Devil's Advocate convincingly. I 16 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: just don't know if I feel like it. But Brian 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 1: is planning a free wedding where all guests contribute to 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: the event. So instead of covering the costs herself, she's 19 00:00:55,280 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: expecting attendees to pitch in by providing a venue, food, decorations, photography, music, 20 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: and even the wedding cake. The bride's friend, who shared 21 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: the story on Reddit, is not on board, saying that 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: the couple is financially well off, making the request seem unfair. 23 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 1: The friend suggested that if the bride wants a free wedding, 24 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: she should consider eloping or a simple city hall ceremony 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: rather than imposing the burden on guests. So, if you 26 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: were not responsible for a gift, but you were responsible 27 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: for either a cash donation towards the wedding or providing 28 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: some you know, resource, would you be into this because 29 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: you're already gonna spend however much you're gonna spend. So 30 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: let's say it's like, well, you want to contribute to 31 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 1: the catering, Do you want to contribute to the venue, 32 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: do you want to contribute to the whatever, Like you 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: get a little ownership in the day, right and then so, 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: but this is I'm essentially paying for my admittance to 35 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: the wedding, which you know, I hate that. I hate 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: that idea. You know, well, the gift needs to be 37 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: what the cost of the plate would be. Well, I 38 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: don't know how much you spend on your you know, 39 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: chicken or whatever. So I'm going to give you. And 40 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: by the way, maybe you don't want to live in 41 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: me like that. Maybe I want to buy you a 42 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: better gift than that. So like, how about you planning 43 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: the wedding that you want to have the way you 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: want it to be, what you can afford, and then 45 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: everybody comes and has a great time with whatever you 46 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: decide to do. That's that's what I say. 47 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, but you're the. 48 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: One planning a wedding. I mean, what if it was like, 49 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: all right, no gifts, but like here's a donation page 50 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: for catering. 51 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 3: It's crossed my mind. You know, you getting desperate in 52 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: these times, right, So you know I wont y'all rule 53 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 3: at my wedding. I'm like, what if I made it 54 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 3: like a concert, okay, like a little jingle ball, and 55 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 3: then y'all buy and take it and I can pull 56 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: this whole thing off. But I have a big issue 57 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 3: with brides in couples thinking that they should have their 58 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: wedding on the back of their guests, Like it should 59 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 3: not be you have to pay for this, or you 60 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 3: should cover your plate, or my gift should be at 61 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 3: least this amount. I think that is so tacky and 62 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: so I'm at the point now, like I'd rather wait 63 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: a couple of years or however long it takes to 64 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: afford the wedding I want to have. But I'm not 65 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: gonna make that someone else's burden. But if you got 66 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: a venue out there and you want a partner, he right, 67 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: you know, well. 68 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 2: So yeah, logistically, like how would you even do? Like 69 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 2: cause I'm like, all right, I'm on board. Maybe I'm 70 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: trying to figure out I don't. 71 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: Know, maybe you have a venue or access to a venue, 72 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: so like you're a member of a place, maybe you can, 73 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 1: I don't know, so like and then maybe maybe I 74 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 1: don't know, maybe people know people and then through contacts 75 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: it's like everybody chips in. But again, I agree with you, 76 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: Like I'm a guest, right, this is not my obligation 77 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: to go to your wedding, Like it's a privilege that 78 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: you're inviting me. But like you're throwing a party. Okay, 79 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: it's not a pot luck, and if it is, it is. 80 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 1: But I don't know that I'm interested in bringing a 81 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: dish to your wedding. Like I'm not not really into that. 82 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't care where my two hundred goes 83 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 2: or however much I'm giving, like because you know I'll 84 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 2: do a honeymoon fund or whatever. I just don't get 85 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 2: how you'll know how many people are going, how much 86 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: they're going to give in advance enough to know what 87 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: kind of wedding you can even throw. But yeah, I mean, 88 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 2: I don't really care where my money goes. Same, I'm 89 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: giving it regardless. 90 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: The Kiky's looking at the site, Hey, can you send 91 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: me that Reddit post? Details there, biggest stories of the day. 92 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: How is she doing it? Exactly? 93 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 3: Like, let's figure the logistics out. 94 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: But I do see you on social ove of the 95 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: weekend talking about how we're working on partnerships. Oh that open. 96 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm open to partnership. 97 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 3: I'm so open, baby, I'm open to all the partnerships. 98 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 3: I'm actually about the post right now. I don't know 99 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 3: it a venue for an engagement party. 100 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 1: Jason convinced that restaurant in Kansas City that Kaitlin's friends 101 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: of the ownership, So like, what what can you do 102 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 1: for the wedding? 103 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 3: I've already told her I'm on the team, and Jason 104 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: has been helpful already. Engagement photos are happening. 105 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Because of Jason. 106 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, wow, we know we love you, Jason, we 107 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 2: love you. 108 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: Everybody needs a Jason on the team. 109 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna make a wish list of all the 110 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: things I haven't been able to accomplish and see if 111 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 1: you can get a done for I don't know, it's 112 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: like my sick pleasure. Yeah, I don't know why. It 113 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: makes them happy. 114 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 3: Paulina always knows the guys. 115 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: Yes, and I really do what you need. 116 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 3: Friend, you're right. 117 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: I'll let you know. I'll make you both a list 118 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 1: and see what you guys. 119 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: Yes, team will get something done for you. 120 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: Yes.