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Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning, and this is your Second

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Speaker 1: Date podcast. But I don't want to give any spoilers

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Speaker 1: if you didn't listen to yesterday's episode, but I will

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Speaker 1: say it sounds like we got a lot of positive

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Speaker 1: feedback about doing an awkward Thursday phone call.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we did.

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Speaker 3: We got hell yes, screw love and dates, give us

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Speaker 3: more awkward. I'm so freaking happy. I'm constantly searching for

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Speaker 3: old awkwards.

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard.

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Speaker 4: People want more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this one said, I'm all for awkward Thursdays. Someone

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Speaker 3: said Tuesdays and Thursdays are my longest days of college classes,

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Speaker 3: so having them fits my routine matters.

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Speaker 5: So awkward Thursday.

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Speaker 2: We tried it yesterday. All right, if you haven't heard it.

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Speaker 1: Go listen to yesterday's episode and then come right back here.

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Speaker 5: Well it's funnier naturally Thursday.

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Speaker 2: Or Tuesdays, probably Thursday. Well, there was good.

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Speaker 3: I mean, people said it was the best sound effect ever,

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Speaker 3: so fun.

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Speaker 5: It was fun.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, go back and listen to that and

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Speaker 1: then come right back here, because we got a Second

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Speaker 1: Date update that is starting for you right now.

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Speaker 5: Second Date Update on a scale of one to ten,

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Speaker 5: How attractive, would you say I am. That's the question

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Speaker 5: I don't want any in this room to answer, because

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Speaker 5: I already know I was going.

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Speaker 2: To ask if you were talking when we had to

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Speaker 2: rate you.

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Speaker 5: I already know that I am an eight point three

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Speaker 5: five two.

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Speaker 2: That is very weird number.

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Speaker 5: That's the number that my mom rated me at our

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Speaker 5: last Thanksgiving Day. Well, she's honest, and I like that.

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Speaker 5: She said she didn't like that my teeth weren't straight enough.

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Speaker 2: You didn't follow up with a retainer.

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Speaker 5: It's something about me isn't straight enough and she doesn't

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Speaker 5: like it. I can't remember anyway. It's always interesting, though,

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Speaker 5: to rate yourself, because personally, I'd rate me a soft

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Speaker 5: seven and that's moving extra generous to myself there.

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Speaker 2: That's on a good day.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so numbers are going to fluctuate based on the

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Speaker 5: eye of the beholder. But what if you had a

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Speaker 5: hack that could guarantee the next person you go out

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Speaker 2: Really is a hack for that.

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Speaker 5: Apparently, because one of our listeners, Blaine, says he figured

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Speaker 5: out that hack and we all need to learn it today.

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Speaker 5: So Blaine, welcome to the seven and underclub. Happy to

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Speaker 5: have a bunch of over here.

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Speaker 6: How you doing, man, I'm good, happy to be here. Well, also,

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Speaker 6: I can't say that I I didn't come up with

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Speaker 6: the scory myself, you know, like it was definitely a

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Speaker 6: lot of social media helped with it.

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Speaker 1: Oh, a hack ahead, take credit.

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Speaker 2: Well that's really funny.

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Speaker 1: What do you write yourself, Blaine before we go into

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Speaker 1: your hack, so we know what your level is.

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Speaker 6: I'm anywhere between like a zero to like a ten,

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Speaker 6: you know, so somewhere in there.

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Speaker 5: The whole scale. Okay, what would your mom rate you?

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Speaker 5: That's a better question than my mom.

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Speaker 6: She didn't like me very much.

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Speaker 7: Maybe like a three.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So it must not be hard to find someone

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Speaker 1: up to your level.

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Speaker 2: Blame if you don't really have a level.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I guess I'm a little bit. Uh,

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Speaker 6: I like just shoot out of my league a little bit.

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Speaker 6: It's got to be seven and up.

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Speaker 5: Okay, good for man? High game high? Yeah, I'm super high,

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Speaker 5: and that's why I've been single for what ten years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well, eventually one of these is going to stick. So

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Speaker 5: tell us though about this theory that you found online.

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Speaker 6: This thing said all the most attractive people in the

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Speaker 6: world are born on the fifth, fourteenth or twenty third

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Speaker 5: Oh, I missed it by a date.

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Speaker 1: Ie, anybody here I was supposed to be born on

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Speaker 5: No, you baked for too long. I'm the twenty fourth.

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Speaker 6: I'm over as well.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're just looking at people's birthdays.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, So I started typing in the dates, and uh,

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Speaker 6: I would kind of look and see the pictures that

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Speaker 5: Were you typing these in on what suggested page?

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Speaker 1: And pap Okay, okay, See you just type in like,

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Speaker 6: Right, anything that falls in that day, and then you

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Speaker 6: look at it and be like, happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: Said hashtag birthday.

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Speaker 6: Yeah you know, yeah exactly.

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Speaker 5: And how was the talent on those dates?

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Speaker 6: Look, the scale was pretty right on, like it was

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Speaker 6: it was eights and tins all the way through absolutely.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, were able to use that to your advantage in

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. So I just kind of compile

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Speaker 6: a generic DM that was like, hey, your profile popped

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Speaker 6: up for me, and you have the same birthday as

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Speaker 6: my sister and it's the numbers game. So I sent

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Speaker 6: like two hundred of these.

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Speaker 5: Who oh yeah, I'm busy.

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Speaker 2: That is a big net, sir.

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Speaker 6: Look I've been striking out for a while. TI.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was like, it's true, man, you got

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Speaker 4: a castlewat and I like your honesty.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how did you do with your two hundred messages

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Speaker 5: to beautiful women?

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Speaker 6: So didn't say anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I actually thought that'd be higher.

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Speaker 6: What I would say, like ten or fifteen of them

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Speaker 6: message back and said OMG, no way, small world like

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 5: Wow, one hundred the widest net I've ever heard cast,

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Speaker 5: and you narrowed it down to one girl in one date.

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Speaker 2: This is awesome. I feel like this is like sales

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Speaker 2: cold Calleen.

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Speaker 6: Is what it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm so sorry. I know you mentioned what was her.

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Speaker 6: Name, Delilah?

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Speaker 6: So, I mean we DM for a little while, and

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Speaker 2: Guilty because you lied at that point.

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Speaker 6: I still feel real guilty. She still doesn't know that

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Speaker 6: my sister's birthday is not the same as that. But

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, so it wasn't even really a very good

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Speaker 2: You have one. I guess, yeah, I don't know her birthday.

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Speaker 5: That's a good start to the day. How did it go?

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Speaker 6: I thought it went really well, but there, I mean,

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Speaker 5: You're thinking something like you did was wrong.

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Speaker 6: I mean I won't say wrong, but I think maybe

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Speaker 6: I haven't been on a date with somebody that's attractive.

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Speaker 5: Friends. I mean, as long as you left it like

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Speaker 5: Okay, so how did that date end?

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Speaker 6: Sarah techon MESA and she hasn't responded yet.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And maybe she found out your mom rated you

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Speaker 5: with three and so then she lost interest. But we're

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Speaker 5: gonna come back, We'll called Delilah for you and try

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Speaker 5: and get you your second date. Update. Right after this

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Speaker 5: second date update, we just learned about a brand new

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Speaker 5: hot dating hack from one of our listeners, blame. That

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Speaker 5: After because Blaine was not having success on the dating apps,

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Speaker 5: most attractive people in the world were born on either

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Speaker 5: the fifth, fourteenth, or twenty third of the month, whatever

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Speaker 5: month that is. So he went online, put those dates

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Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, every single woman he saw.

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Speaker 5: Two hundred hundred messages were sent, and out of all those,

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Speaker 5: out on a date with a woman named Delilah. And

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Speaker 5: as far as we know, she has no clue, but

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Speaker 5: maybe just knowing all of the lengths that you went

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Speaker 5: Blaine no, when does that story come out?

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Speaker 6: I think I'm gonna have to wait till she does that.

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Speaker 6: We'll date for a while. She does something really bad

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Speaker 6: and then I'm like, oh, I forgive you okay, so.

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Speaker 2: Toxic, really bad. You're like, I knew it.

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Speaker 1: I knew we needed the only one out of two

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Speaker 1: hundred that messaged me back something.

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Speaker 5: But we really don't know what the issue is, what's

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Speaker 2: That's the fun part. You ready for this plane?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I'm ready.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna try our hardest. Here, let's style number. Here

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Speaker 5: we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking for Delilah. Hey Delilah,

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Speaker 5: hope you're having a good day. That's about to get

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Speaker 5: even better because you're on the radio right now with

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Delilah.

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Speaker 7: Oh hey guys.

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Speaker 2: Oh you know the show? Sweet?

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Speaker 7: I don't, but it's cool to hear from you.

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Speaker 2: You're a radio station, are you?

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Speaker 4: Are you this nice to like scammers who call to

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Speaker 4: sometime like I don't need a car warranty, but you

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Speaker 4: sure have a great day and family?

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Speaker 5: Aren't that nice? To us. A pleasure talking to you,

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Speaker 5: but we do have a reason for calling because we're

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Speaker 5: doing something called a second date update. Okay, that's we're

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Speaker 5: One of our listeners is trying to get a hold

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Speaker 5: of you to hang out one more time. You've been

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Speaker 5: out with him once. His name is Blaine.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 2: Blame you like blame Blaine.

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Speaker 7: We're really cool. We had a great time. We kind

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Speaker 7: of met on social media.

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Speaker 5: Okay, And I'm going to stop you real quick because

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Speaker 5: we've actually spoken to Blaine before we called you, and

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Speaker 5: we kind of heard all the details about how you

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Speaker 5: met and how you guys went out to a bar

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Speaker 5: and you brought him like a cool Starbucks gift card.

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Speaker 2: Gris sister. He thought that was really set.

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Speaker 7: We have the same birthday and sister. Yah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. So the question that Blaine has that he's going

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Speaker 5: through us hoping to get some answers for is why

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Speaker 5: are you not wanting to see him again? If that's true?

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Speaker 7: If I'm honest now, because I wasn't honest then I

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Speaker 7: stretched the truth about my age on my social media

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Speaker 7: and we were having such a great time. I felt

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Speaker 7: a little guilty about being dishonest.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay.

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Speaker 5: You know, I think a lot of people stretch a

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Speaker 5: little bit, like if you're twenty seven, you'll say twenty five. Sure,

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Speaker 5: how much did you stretch the number by? Its we

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Speaker 5: go in like three years or forty years?

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Speaker 7: About four years stretch four.

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Speaker 1: What's interesting about that is he didn't notice at all,

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Speaker 2: I don't think feel bad. You know, four years isn't

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Speaker 7: But I just felt really weird about it because he

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Speaker 7: bought it up on the date and I didn't correct.

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Speaker 1: So, like he said, you're I mean, what are you

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Speaker 7: Well, my social media says that I'm thirty two, okay,

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Speaker 7: but I'm thirty six.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, And can I.

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Speaker 2: Just ask why why do you lie about it?

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Speaker 7: You know, it was just something that I did, and

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Speaker 7: I just never went back and changed it.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's not putting it onto like a dating

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Speaker 3: My Facebook says I'm whileder because I wasn't allowed to

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Speaker 3: make it at the age when Facebook, Yeah stretch.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but I mean that doesn't sound like he did

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Speaker 5: anything wrong. That sounds like you're just feeling guilty that

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Speaker 5: you didn't one hundred percent come clean.

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Speaker 7: Right. I'm just a really honest person, and it felt

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Speaker 7: really weird to start off this new relationship on a lie, Okay.

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Speaker 1: And so it was easier to go to him than

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Speaker 7: Yeah. I didn't want to look stupid for life about

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Speaker 7: something so small.

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Speaker 5: Okays. Well, I know you're an honest person. On this show,

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Speaker 5: we tend not to be sorry.

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Speaker 2: But if we do have any guilt about it, that is.

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Speaker 5: That's what this is so hard for me to be

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Speaker 7: That's not true.

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Speaker 5: I wish I could say that, but it is, Blaine.

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Speaker 5: Are you there?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 7: Hey, Hey, I don't know what to say right now.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I can, I can start it. Uh, that

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Speaker 6: doesn't bother me. I don't care, Like what age is,

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Speaker 6: just the number.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: You look great. I honestly thought you look younger than

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Speaker 6: thirty two, So.

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Speaker 5: I don't think you're saying she doesn't seem like she's

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, you can kind of choose your own age, right,

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Speaker 6: I don't care.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if that's a good rule to live,

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Speaker 5: but oh yeah, that is my thing. I think the government.

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Speaker 5: Look what you've done.

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Speaker 6: Somebody says you look twenty six or twenty six. I

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Speaker 7: That is so right, right, I hear that. It makes

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Speaker 7: me feel a little bit better, But I just I

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Speaker 7: feel really bad when you brought it up, blaming on

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Speaker 7: the date, Like my eyes got really big, and I

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Speaker 6: So I could I could probably make you feel a

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Speaker 6: little bit better. So the whole when we first started talking,

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Speaker 6: I kind of lied to you about my sister.

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Speaker 2: Really.

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Speaker 6: Wait, you don't have a sister, No, no, no, no, I

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Speaker 6: do I have a sister, But I just I don't know.

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Speaker 6: You're so beautiful, and I really wanted to talk to you,

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Speaker 6: so I just kind of lied about the about her

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Speaker 6: birthday and your birthday being the same, just because I

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Speaker 6: don't know. I just kind of wanted to start a

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Speaker 7: Wait, you lied about her birthday.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, it was just the way I wanted

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Speaker 6: to talk to you. You're so beautiful. I wanted to

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Speaker 6: you said that.

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Speaker 7: So where's my gift card? I want my gift card back.

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Speaker 6: I'll bring it back to Hey. We can go in

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Speaker 6: a second, and I'll pay for Starbucks. How about that?

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Speaker 7: I don't understand. How did you figure out that my birthday?

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Speaker 7: How did you figure out when my birthday was?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: God, look all right, come on, I don't know. This

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Speaker 6: is too much to say. On somebody said at one

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Speaker 6: point that most attractive people's birthdays are the fifth, of

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Speaker 6: a Facebook search for people with those birthdays. Oh my god,

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Speaker 6: what a shows you like? I didn't. I only messaged you.

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Speaker 1: Bro.

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Speaker 5: Did you hear what she just said about that she

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Speaker 5: caught you a loser?

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Speaker 2: Bro? No, maybe she's talking about the guy who came

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Speaker 7: TikTok, I mean both of them.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean he was just having a hard time.

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Speaker 2: You know how hard dating is.

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Speaker 7: It's really hard to find honest people. Also, that's why

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Speaker 5: Delilah, you were just saying how guilty and horrible that

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Speaker 5: and now.

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Speaker 7: It was a mistake.

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Speaker 6: Well, look, you said that I was a really cool

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Speaker 6: hadn't gone through all that and gotten in touch with

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but I didn't know you were an online creep

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Speaker 7: such in the dirt web for people's.

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Speaker 2: Birth it is.

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Speaker 5: Living in the.

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Speaker 7: Dark ages and even light on your sister, No.

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Speaker 5: Successful relationship has ever started with total honesty. So like,

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Speaker 5: this is actually not a bad place to jump off from,

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Speaker 5: and we'd love to send you out on one more

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Speaker 5: date that we would pay for. Not you do, iwa,

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Speaker 5: not with the gift cards or anything on us one

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Speaker 5: hundred percent give him a chance.

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Speaker 7: I just I really hate dishonesty, so I'm gonna have

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Speaker 5: But coming from someone pretending to be a thirty two

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how this call devolved into what it was,

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Speaker 5: But coming from this twenty three year old GQ model,

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Speaker 5: I think I think love is possible if you just

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Speaker 5: give it a chance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I your career, Jeff, Well, where's the line.

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Speaker 6: You're right? Love is possible. That's why I'm messaging two

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Speaker 6: hundred more later today.

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Speaker 5: A successful second date update lurky Jeffrey in the morning. Man,

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Speaker 5: people are just not forgiving enough anymore.

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Speaker 2: You think that's what it is. I wanted them to

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Speaker 2: go out. I think they would have been so cute.

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Speaker 5: I think that's the problem. It's like it's forgiveness because

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Speaker 5: let's recap. Delilah was not honest about her age, and

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Speaker 5: Blaine heard that and said, you know what, it's okay,

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Speaker 5: I don't care. I like you, and then Blaine goes,

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Speaker 5: I also kind of wasn't honest about my sister's birthday,

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Speaker 5: and Delilah went, how dare you you deserve to suffer

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know that she went that far,

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Speaker 5: That effect it should have been. Even Stevens have been like, Okay,

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Speaker 5: I lied, there were equal lives. We're both honest.

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Speaker 1: They I think we're concentrated the wrong thing. There was

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Speaker 1: honesty at the end. That's the thing that we should have.

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Speaker 1: But once he said a d M.

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Speaker 2: Two hundred women, why why.

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Speaker 5: Is that it's no different than meeting on the dating apps,

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Speaker 5: you're messaging probably five hundred women there and only going

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Speaker 2: It just makes you feel like a loser.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 2: It just I'm sorry, it's just how it is.

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Speaker 5: Why can't as a society we just be more accepting

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Speaker 5: about the creative ways that people connect online, because you know,

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Speaker 5: nobody wants to meet in person anymore in public, but

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Speaker 5: either like you got to have a middle or.

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Speaker 1: Why can't we just agree that there's some things that

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Speaker 5: There you know, I'm gonna say something so mean right now,

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Speaker 5: but you know what I'm I'm gonna I'm gonna restrain,

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Speaker 5: restrain myself and just say, you know what, if you

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Speaker 5: want some help with your dating life, email the show.

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Speaker 2: What are you going to be?

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Speaker 7: Mean?

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Speaker 5: Just bank you man, I don't know all that person

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Speaker 5: who hasn't calling you back