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Speaker 1: I destroyed all my husband's pictures of his dead wife.

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Speaker 1: Now I think he wants.

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Speaker 2: A divorce, destroyed the pictures and the relationship.

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Speaker 1: I met my husband four years ago and it was

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Speaker 1: love at first sight. He was a widow and had

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Speaker 1: I won't lie, but I wanted to be with him

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Speaker 1: so badly that it didn't matter. We got married two

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Speaker 1: years ago. We've had our struggles, I won't deny, but

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Speaker 1: overall it has been a very happy, love filled marriage.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Neurobiological Fever and throwaway

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Speaker 1: Daughter okays on the arsash Okay story time subreddit. Does

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Speaker 1: that mean we're going to get a double a double future.

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Speaker 2: Oh Man.

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Speaker 1: At the beginning of a relationship, I was really jealous

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Speaker 1: around his home. His family loved her.

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Speaker 2: They love her, They loved her.

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Speaker 1: And probably more. You know. It's like you love the

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Speaker 1: memory read more than the real thing, you know, or something. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: he had pictures all around his own his family loved

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Speaker 1: and talked about her, and his daughter did the same thing.

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Speaker 2: His friends the same. Ugh, it's so funny. How she's

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Speaker 2: writing it. She's like, I can't believe him. His daughter

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Speaker 2: talked about her mom like all the time.

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Speaker 1: It's over. Get over it. She is. God, do you

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Speaker 1: hear me talking about Iron Man two? No, it was

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Speaker 1: years ago and he's dead. There's a new.

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Speaker 2: Your mom is dead. Get over it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what she's saying, the things that she is

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Speaker 1: saying as she is, Sophia. No, Oh, she's been caught.

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Speaker 1: It was tough. I was comparing myself to her. She

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Speaker 1: was beautiful, intelligent, successful, she was a great mother, friend, wife,

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Speaker 1: whatever you can think of. I know that people don't

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Speaker 1: like to speak ill of the dead, That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: But I believe them when they say these things. I

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's but not enough, he wasn't considerate enough.

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Speaker 1: Burn them, burn them all.

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Speaker 2: He may never speak. He actually has to wipe the memory.

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Speaker 1: I want you to, Harry Potter, take out the memory,

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Speaker 1: put it in the ball and then bump the ball. Yeah, obliviate.

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Speaker 1: What's the thing where he does that?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's depensive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a little.

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Speaker 1: At I haven't seen bosbabe.

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Speaker 3: Come on.

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Speaker 1: Still, his house never felt like my home, as it

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Speaker 1: felt like it was still hers. There's a ghost. Well.

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Speaker 1: When we got engaged, we decided he would buy our

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Speaker 1: and we moved in right before we got married. Side

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Speaker 1: note this was very stressful with the wedding so soon after.

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Speaker 1: Would not recommend. During the moving process, I bound a

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Speaker 1: box of old photos and other materials. Photos of his

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Speaker 1: ex family, photos of them together, baby photos, everything. Some

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Speaker 1: of these were polaroids. They were so old.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm so frightened. I'm so frightened right now.

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Speaker 1: Really quick, pausing right here because we're probably about to

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Speaker 1: go into crazy territory. But right now where we are, Uh,

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Speaker 2: No? No, is this a red flag? It's a huge

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Speaker 2: red flag.

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Speaker 1: I would say so too. It's Kimberly Booth is saying

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Speaker 2: If you didn't know.

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Speaker 1: That's what we are. Yeah, I think it's a major

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Speaker 1: red flag. It's also like she's writing this. So she's

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Speaker 1: Shy Little Rider says, why be jones of a dead person?

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Speaker 1: They're literally dead. You're allowed to have memories of your

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Speaker 1: He's competing with the dead woman, darn.

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Speaker 1: Princess Diana or Princess Diana Crow or she did. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: is this one of your conspiracies? All right, well let's

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Speaker 1: get back into this story. So they'd been together for many,

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Speaker 1: I think anything that had her. When we were putting

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Speaker 1: and threw the rest away. All right, poll in the stream,

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Speaker 1: Poll on the stream, do we end the relationship? Here?

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Speaker 1: Is this divorce territory? If you're if you're the husband

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Speaker 2: Now, divorce the media.

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Speaker 1: You literally just got married and bought a house together.

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Speaker 1: Do you divorce? Riley? Put that poll up?

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Speaker 2: You want a third option? Uh?

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Speaker 1: What do the third option? Okay, option, No third option,

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Speaker 1: but divorce or not divorce? Let us know, divorce, Riley, divorce.

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Speaker 3: That's so that, Ah, you're taking away these kids, mother.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're taking away the mother.

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Speaker 1: I even went I even went onto the computer and

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Speaker 2: You want to talk about mothers.

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Speaker 1: At the time, where's that from?

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Speaker 2: White chicks?

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen white chicks?

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Speaker 2: I have neither, But.

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Speaker 1: At the time I felt like I won maybe. Oh no. Also,

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Speaker 1: I'm seeing divorce just come in st right now, Chelsea Skirman, divorce. Uh,

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Speaker 1: at least quick divorce Cahoka ninety divorce. Y'all are divorce

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Speaker 1: and we have two votes right now for divorce. You

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Speaker 1: past two years, my husband hasn't noticed two years. Yes,

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Speaker 3: God, that she is winning because she is not thinking

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Speaker 2: But also like so embarrassing for I mean even more

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Speaker 1: I think that's a sign that he actually like got

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Speaker 2: Had moved on in it. Yes, and she did this.

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Speaker 1: She did this, She really did that. Well. My stepdaughter

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Speaker 1: I care for her. I do, but she never opened

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Speaker 1: mom to her. I understand, but it hurts anyway. My

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Speaker 2: I mean, you weren't gonna lie to him. You lied

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Speaker 1: She was like, I mean, I guess I won't lie

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Speaker 2: He asked me about it. I'm not a mom.

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Speaker 1: To be fair, to be fair, you know that this

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Speaker 2: But she already committed a first degree.

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Speaker 1: Now she she committed a first degree offense, but a

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Speaker 1: This is putrid, putrid, disgusting, gag worthy. Well, I don't

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Speaker 3: I don't know that. Okay, prove me a bad thing

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Speaker 1: Oh man, he is very angry with me. What and

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Huh yeah what. I've asked him to go to marriage counseling,

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Speaker 1: He's been in tears half the time when he's speaking

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Speaker 1: does the baby change anything? No? Does the baby?

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Speaker 2: Okay, the baby means that they're going to have to

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Speaker 2: His daughter that, oh, he felt guilty?

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The self is not much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, some of the materials I donated slash threw away

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Speaker 1: and also certifiable. Jen says babies don't save marriages. Marriage

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Speaker 1: counselors do. Yeah, people do. It's about marriage control. I

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Speaker 2: Your marriage counselor is too much power?

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Speaker 1: Because we're working on the format, not because the people.

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Speaker 1: The people had amazing stories, but just working on the format,

436
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: we know more of what we're doing. We don't quite

437
00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:07,959
Speaker 1: know what we're doing. We have ah a link that

438
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,719
Speaker 1: we will be putting to a place to submit stories

439
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: about open marriages. So if you have a story about

440
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 1: open marriages.

441
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 2: You're a loved one.

442
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,280
Speaker 1: If you know not well, not well, if you or

443
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: your loved one tried to open the marriage and uh yeah,

444
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: let me know how that worked out. And we're we're

445
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: gonna probably call you interview and then potentially have you

446
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: on the show. So come hither, come on over, Come

447
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 1: on over. Also, if you haven't already like the frickin' stream,

448
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 1: w's in the chat for all of us being back

449
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: today here, not in.

450
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 2: Paris anymore, all together.

451
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: Almost all together. John is celebrating four years in the

452
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: Canary Islands.

453
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: Four holy celebrating four years the island.

454
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: No of being in a beautiful relationship, which you know,

455
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 1: if you know this show, you know what that means.

456
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 2: Ah, that's horrible.

457
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: Why is that horrible? Oh my god, I'm a little sick.

458
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: And Sophia is going to disinform.

459
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: You don't have time. What else you got to do.

460
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 2: I don't have time.

461
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: What else do you have planned?

462
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 2: Too much? Planned? Like what I have plans? Okay?

463
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 1: Do you have?

464
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 2: I have plans with who?

465
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: The world, the world at large? I love? I know.

466
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 2: Okay, ready, thank you? Are you ready? My dad's girlfriend

467
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,239
Speaker 2: tried to force me out of my room, so I

468
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 2: told honor to my mom.

469
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: You just slam the door, lock around.

470
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 2: The door, don't let him in. Okay. So basically, my

471
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 2: parents are divorced and I live with my mom and

472
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 2: I see my dad like two to three days out

473
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 2: of the week just to visit him. He lives with

474
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Speaker 2: his girlfriend, who I don't like nor respect because she's

475
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 2: a terrible person who bullied my mom and tore apart

476
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 2: my mom and my dad's marriage when I was a baby.

477
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 2: He Dad's like, she sucks. My dad cheated on my

478
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: mom with her ooh yep. But nonetheless I have always

479
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 2: been kind to her because I know people can change,

480
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: and my relationship with my dad has always been decent

481
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 2: until my grandpa died. By the way, this comes from

482
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 2: Impressive Fish seven nine to five zero on the ar slash. Okay,

483
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 2: storytime separate it. So after my grandpa died, my dad

484
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 2: was very sad and vulnerable for a while, and then

485
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 2: all of a sudden he started acting weird towards me.

486
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 2: I always felt as if I was kind of the

487
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 2: favorite child compared to my little half sister. We share

488
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 2: the same dad, but her mom is my dad's girlfriend

489
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: because I always behave well and respect my dad, and

490
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 2: also because I only see him a couple days out

491
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 2: of the week. But then he randomly started favoring my

492
00:27:56,760 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 2: sister over me, often ignoring me and pushing me away

493
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 2: whenever I tried to show him affection.

494
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: He's basically trying to prioritize new family family two point

495
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: zero practice family boo.

496
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's trying to push her out, push her out systematically,

497
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: I sir, out, let her on ice, let on nice.

498
00:28:17,160 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: He even pushed me off him whoa when I gave

499
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: him a hug once and then acted all buddy buddy

500
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 2: with my sister, who never hugs him or shows affection.

501
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: That's my goodness.

502
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: Then one day he picked me up from school and

503
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 2: said that I wasn't going to sleep in my room

504
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 2: anymore and that I had to sleep in the living room.

505
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: In the living room, are there computers in there? Is

506
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 1: that where the dog sleeps. Does your bed double as

507
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: a couch? I was in the living room, sand, that's true.

508
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: It was the office.

509
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: It was the basements.

510
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah I did. Actually I lived in the basement

511
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: slash office while Sophia had her own room. This is

512
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: something I recently learned. Oh. I didn't even realize it

513
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: was weird anyway, not that bad about it was three

514
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 1: months ago. Yeah.

515
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 2: I asked why, and he told me it was because

516
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: my room is messy, which it really wasn't messy at all,

517
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: and it only took me ten minutes to clean my room. Also,

518
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 2: you can't just be like, you can't just kick a

519
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: child out of the room for the room being messy.

520
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 2: I feel like there's gotta be a better way of parenting.

521
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, I mean, this is a setup to just

522
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: give the other kid the room.

523
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 2: This is a setup.

524
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: This is a sting operation. Is a sting operation. I'm

525
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: not here for it. Not here, Oh I am here

526
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: for it. I'm here for the tea.

527
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 2: Not here. I'm gone.

528
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: I'm a fart in the wind blown away Okay.

529
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: And then I asked him if I cleaned my room,

530
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 2: could I sleep there? And he literally said to me

531
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to take it up with dad's girlfriend's name,

532
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: basically insinuating that this whole thing was her idea. Of

533
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: course it was.

534
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: Wait, so the dad's girlfriend, the mistress.

535
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 2: The mistress who is now the girlfriend slash mother of

536
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 2: his new.

537
00:29:55,920 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: Child, is basically systematically locking out his old kids.

538
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and he's allowing it to happen. First of all,

539
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: that woman is the dirtiest person I know or room

540
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: she has her own because she's always arguing with my dad.

541
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: Doesn't sound like a healthy relationship called.

542
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: The marriage counsel or a last story. Yeah yeah, he'll

543
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: do you right, can save any marriage.

544
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: Was messier than mine, and she had dirty clothes all

545
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: over the floor. Second of all, she's literally not my mom.

546
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 2: She doesn't do anything for me. She's never even given

547
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: me a ride to school or anything. And when my

548
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 2: dad's not home, she cooks for herself and my sister

549
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: and doesn't even leave me any So she's clearly not

550
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: my mom. And third of all, I was even more

551
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: pissed because before that, she had asked me to borrow

552
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: my favorite purse for vacation, and when she came back,

553
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 2: she never gave it back and used it in front

554
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 2: of me when she knows damn well she's supposed to

555
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 2: give it back.

556
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 1: She sounds like the worst person. How old is she again?

557
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: Uhh, that is unclear.

558
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: We do not know. And because I was eating pretzels

559
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: at the beginning of the story, yes, say so she

560
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: was the mistress and yes, and how do they meet?

561
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: Umm, they met terrible person. You don't mind, mom, But

562
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 2: we don't.

563
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: We don't know how they We don't know. But just

564
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: basically cheated on the mom.

565
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, dad, cheating the mom with her, And.

566
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: So we don't know that. We don't know that because

567
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: I like, I'm getting what I'm getting the vibes that

568
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: I'm getting, and I don't know if we know the ages,

569
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: but I'm getting that she's much younger. And also way

570
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, yeah.

571
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: That's what I'm picking up. I'm picking up what you're

572
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 2: putting down. Yeah. Honestly, I pitied her for the fact

573
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: that she had to borrow a purse from a sixteen

574
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 2: year old girl when she's a grown woman. So I

575
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 2: just didn't mention it. But after this whole situation, of

576
00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 2: course I did. Yeah, tell Honor, go talk your mom.

577
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: She is Yeah, And also like, I would have talked

578
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: to the mom sooner I would talk. Yeah.

579
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: The second that they threatened to not allow you to

580
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: stay in your room. Yeah, good, talk to your mom. Uh. Basically,

581
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: what happened after my dad said this in the car

582
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: was that I immediately texted my mom. As you shaid

583
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: about the whole situation. I know this was kind of

584
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: bratty of me, but oh well, well you know what, girl,

585
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 2: it's Brat summer.

586
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: It is Brat summer. Brat summer wear that green use

587
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: that hell vedica font.

588
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and mentioned the first situation too. My mom was

589
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 2: pissed and screamed at my dad and texted my dad's

590
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: girlfriend for the first time in her life. Wow, about

591
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 2: to throw hands. My mom knows her number because my

592
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: dad's girlfriend took my mom's phone number after taking my

593
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,479
Speaker 2: dad from her, because she has no shame.

594
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: What like was she like texting the mom like, guess

595
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: what I took and that's sending selfies.

596
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 2: She's like, I took your phone number, your phone number,

597
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 2: and your man. Good luck getting that back, and asked

598
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: her very nicely to give me back my purse. She

599
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,479
Speaker 2: read my mom's text, took my purse and emptied out

600
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 2: her stuff from it and put it in my closet,

601
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 2: pretending like she had put it back the entire time,

602
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 2: even though I've literally seen her using my purse with

603
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 2: her stuff in it when she was supposed to give

604
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 2: it back. Then she proceeded to scream at me in

605
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: front of my dad, who stayed quiet, Oh my god,

606
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: and ask my mom, ask me why my mom was

607
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 2: texting her and told me never that, never to ask

608
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: to borrow her stuff again.

609
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Also, I can't believe the dad is

610
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: so is Like we throw around the word simp, so are,

611
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: but this is like the negative version of simp where

612
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: it's you are simping for this person so hard that

613
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: you were not standing up for yourself daughter or your daughter. Yeah,

614
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: you're just like whatever you want, babe, wherever.

615
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 2: You want what you could walk over me.

616
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean there's like there's good simping where it's

617
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: like I'm going to give you roses and treat you right,

618
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: and there's bad simping where it's like I'm going to

619
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: do myself and my family. Who are you?

620
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna cheat on my wife?

621
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: You're going to cheat my wife for you?

622
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 2: Makes me sick to my stomach.

623
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: Honestly, that's one of my ecks.

624
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 2: Cheating. Yeah, that's really weird of you. Actually, Oh dang, no,

625
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying like that cheater. Oh, cheating's actually really weird.

626
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: Uh did do you never to ask the bar stuff again?

627
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 2: The stuff in question literally being her hair straighteners that

628
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 2: I use sometimes. About the room situation, she kept repeating,

629
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 2: if you don't take care of your things my room,

630
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: it will be taken away to justify it. So all

631
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: I did was clean my room and my mom came

632
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 2: to pick me up, and two months later, I haven't

633
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: been at my dad's house since.

634
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: Which, honestly, yeah, why would you Why would you want

635
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 1: to go to the hair environment.

636
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 2: They don't care about you, They're actively trying to push

637
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: you out. Yeah, thick unfortunately. I mean, obviously it sucks

638
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,800
Speaker 2: to not have that relationship with your dad, But.

639
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 1: But what was it the relationship? Yeah, yeah, exactly what

640
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: was the relationship? It wasn't even there.

641
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 2: Honestly, I've been so sad and I missed my dad

642
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 2: very much, but he has no interest in talking to me.

643
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: The one time he talked to me, he was trying

644
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: to continue the fight about my room, and then after

645
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 2: that he has just been dry ever since. I even

646
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 2: texted him once to drive safe, but because it was

647
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 2: pouring rain outside, and he left me on red.

648
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: A dude, you know what drive unsafe?

649
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 2: Drive safe?

650
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: You know, put on those breakes a little.

651
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 2: Little fast, a little too fast.

652
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: Have you heard of hydro planning? Fun?

653
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 2: Just a little bit fun? For my birthday? He texted

654
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: me and then I tried to have a conversation with him,

655
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 2: but it was as if I were talking to the wall.

656
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: How can you be dry to your own kid? Honestly,

657
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 2: I think he should be the one chasing me and

658
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 2: asking me to come back to his house and trying

659
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 2: to talk, not the other way around. And I've gotten

660
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 2: numerous calls from my dad's family, my aunt, my grandma,

661
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 2: my uncle asking me about the situation and telling me

662
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: to text my dad because he's upset about the situation.

663
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: Well, then talk to her, reach out.

664
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 2: She's literally texting you, and you're not responding.

665
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: You're putting her on red.

666
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 2: But why can't he just text his own kid? I

667
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: don't understand, But you know what I do understand? What

668
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 2: you can join his live every weekday at three pm.

669
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 2: Oh no way, yeah, no, way, way, way yeah way, whoa,

670
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know, y'all. What do you think?

671
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 2: Do you guys think it was okay that he tried

672
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,919
Speaker 2: to make me sleep in the living room?

673
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 1: No?

674
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: No, My room seriously was not messy at all, Like

675
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 2: I cleaned that crop so fast, So I don't know

676
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: what his problem was. I think that is the end.

677
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: I think what we're seeing is just a very immature father. Yes,

678
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: continuing to be immature, Yeah.

679
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 2: Sure before immature now and immature forever forever.

680
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: Whoa, what is it? PanAm before pever. I watched us

681
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: on the plane Hunger Games on the plane. It's pretty good.

682
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,280
Speaker 2: I love Hunger Games.

683
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, well I will not Hunger Games. That catching Fire

684
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:23,879
Speaker 1: another new one?

685
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: Oh Song of Ballad of snot Song and Saks.

686
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: I liked it.

687
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good.

688
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: He goes good. You know what I did.

689
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 2: It's just good at.

690
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: What like probably unpopular opinion. I have tried to watch Deadpool.

691
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 2: I loved Deadpool, and.

692
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: Maybe there's just too many freaking sub jokes that I'm

693
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: not getting because I'm I'm I'm not like into the

694
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: Marvel uh deep into the Marvel universe.

695
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 2: But I loved it. I just I haven't even seen Wolverine, and.

696
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 1: I loved well, you mean Logan.

697
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 2: I haven't seen Logan. I haven't seen any of the movies.

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00:37:57,840 --> 00:37:59,359
Speaker 1: I think I saw Logan. I really liked it. I

699
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 1: liked the logan I heard.

700
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 2: Logan was great.

701
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: Logan was like, like, really good storyline.

702
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 2: This is yeah, I want to watch it.

703
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if the storyline is that great, but

704
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 1: let me know if you think I am absolutely wrong. Also,

705
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: we're only at three hundred and forty eight likes. We

706
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: have eight hundred people in here.

707
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 2: That's absolutely wrong.

708
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: This is ridiculous, ridiculous like the stream, so we can

709
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 1: spin that wheel.

710
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 2: We've got some stuff on the wheel.

711
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: I think, do we have stuff on the wheel? Do

712
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: we have stuff on the wheel?

713
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 2: And I just want to do Jeopardy. I love Jeopardy

714
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 2: so much.

715
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: I love Jeopardy. But yeah, freaking like the stream, show

716
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: us you love us. Put some w's in the chat.

717
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,960
Speaker 1: It'll bring more people in here. Let's uh all, you

718
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: know what. Also, we'll spin the street. We'll spin the wheel,

719
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 1: spin that street, spin that stream. If we get to

720
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: a thousand people, ooh, what do we do?

721
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: Now?

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00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: We're like nine hundred. That's pretty cool between a thousand

723
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: people on YouTube. Ooo. Anyway, for this next story, Hey donos,

724
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: all right, let's hit these donos. Lady of the Elephants,

725
00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: Happy two's day. Just got my hat and love it.

726
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: Also go like the video. I'm glad that you like

727
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: the hat.

728
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: I wear the hat yesterday.

729
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: Yeah we were. Yeah, and then Sophia is not a

730
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: hat person yet she wears the hat. It's Britney Beach

731
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 1: is a new member. Let's freaking go new members all around.

732
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: If you're a member, you get access to the exclusive

733
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: members only streams Member which happened a couple times a week. Yeah,

734
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Speaker 1: I forget which.

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Speaker 2: Days where you've learned all about us.

736
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Speaker 1: All about us, all the secret details. Matt Hattergal, thanks

737
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:49,240
Speaker 1: for the twenty dollar Rooney's on the super Chat. Greetings, okay,

738
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: storytime crew and community. I hope you have not missed

739
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,320
Speaker 1: the halt or too much. Apologies for my silence lately.

740
00:39:56,719 --> 00:40:02,279
Speaker 1: I've been extremely busy with upcoming events and mister Hatter's birthday.

741
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: I've missed you all well. Happy birthday to mister Tanya

742
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: is Abel. Thank you for becoming a member of the Nights.

743
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: I saw you in the chat saying I just became

744
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: a member. I didn't read it out loud, but I

745
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 1: read it with my eyes.

746
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: I read it with my mind.

747
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: I read it with my mind, and now I'm reading

748
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,760
Speaker 1: it out loud later with my mouth, with my mouth

749
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:29,520
Speaker 1: and tongue, ziggy. Thank you for the five dollars tip

750
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 1: ten hour stream. We'll see, we'll see. We haven't had

751
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: one of those in a sec.

752
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, we haven't had one of those in a hot minute.

753
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 1: Hot minute, But that's okay because we also like the

754
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: shorter streams. Josephine Madola bird quest thanks to the two

755
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 1: fifty five, he is a sperm downer at this point,

756
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: not a dad. I completely agree. I agreed, and with that,

757
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: I think we're gonna get into this next story. My

758
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: stepmom is rue my relationship with my dad, so I'm

759
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: going no contact. Both of my parents got married again

760
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: after their divorce and it's been a few years. Both

761
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: assured me that they'd always love me, there's always a

762
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: place for me, and so on. My stepdad is awesome,

763
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,799
Speaker 1: if a bit rough around the edges. He never had kids,

764
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: so some things were hard to navigate, but I really

765
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: think him, my mom and I have grown into a happy,

766
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: healthy family.

767
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 2: That's the end of the story.

768
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: The end of the story. Just kidding there is deuced

769
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: to squeeze by the way. This comes from Serene Heireth

770
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: on the r slash Okay Storytime Subrenda. She goes to

771
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: me your stories there. My stepmom, on the other hand,

772
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 1: pretty much destroyed my relationship with my dad. I honestly

773
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: don't know why my parents let that happen, because they're

774
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 1: little whipped little baby children am I honestly don't know why.

775
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: I like to think I wasn't a troublesome kid to

776
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 1: deal with. There was exactly one time when I lied

777
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:01,840
Speaker 1: to them, when I visited my grandma on my mom's

778
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 1: side of the family, and I told my dad I

779
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: wasn't in town. Then they found out I actually was

780
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: and got mad. But I really think that's the only

781
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: time I outright did something bad, and honestly, at first,

782
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: it seemed like some At first, it seemed like my

783
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: step mom liked me, But at some point things tipped over,

784
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: and every time I visited there was something I did

785
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: wrong in her eyes. I was too quiet, too introverted,

786
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: too dirty, just normal issues with hygiene that most teens

787
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: deal with. I'd say I slept for too long. I

788
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: didn't help out enough, and I tried my best to

789
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: fix things I could. I showered every day, put it

790
00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: alarm to get up earlier, and offered to help, which

791
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 1: always just got me an annoyed look of could have

792
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 1: offered sooner. That's annoying. Nothing you could do like you

793
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 1: should have offered yesterday. I hear wait, I got a

794
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 1: conspiracy theory. Yeah, I want to know what y'all think.

795
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory. They are trying for a child, and that's

796
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,360
Speaker 1: where things shifted.

797
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 2: And now they're trying to get rid of op.

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00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: Now they're trying, you know, done with practice family on

799
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: to family or family two point zero or I guess

800
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: this was jen like Alpha family and then now it's

801
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 1: on Beta family. Well it goes alpha beta.

802
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 2: Or would it be beta alpha?

803
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 1: I don't know well and honestly, at first my stepmom

804
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 1: see ah deem like they like me? Where did I go?

805
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:30,760
Speaker 2: Dirty? Scrolled dirty?

806
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: I suffer for too long, which I should have offered

807
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:35,479
Speaker 1: even if I did it as soon as I noticed

808
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 1: her cleaning something or being in the kitchen, but it didn't.

809
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 1: It just didn't change. There still was always something to

810
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: brake me about. I feel like she just didn't like

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00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: my mom's parenting style and things that my mom did,

812
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: and it was totally fine with her. It just bothered her.

813
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: But I don't know. It always mom was totally fine with,

814
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: just and things that my mom was totally fine with

815
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: just bothered her. But I don't know. It always felt

816
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:04,440
Speaker 1: like I was this huge problem to put into perspective.

817
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: At the height of my anxiety, the small voice in

818
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: my head that was always nagging me about something sounded

819
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: like her voice. That's how bad it was for years.

820
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: She's the bad voice in her head.

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00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,840
Speaker 1: She is the That is crazy to have someone brate

822
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 1: you so much that you literally hear their voice.

823
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:29,399
Speaker 2: In the negative self talk.

824
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah there, your negative self talk is them. Oh oh

825
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: that is heartbreaker.

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Speaker 2: If someone ever told that to me, I'd be like.

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Speaker 1: Wow, wow, I would I would leave. I would leave,

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00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: I would leave. I would again. I just can't believe

829
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 1: the dad is doing nothing. Yeah how are you? This

830
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: was you? Yeah, So to know one's surprise, I became

831
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 1: less and less comfortable with being there and generally had

832
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 1: less contact with my dad. Then she got mad about

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00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 1: that I didn't reach out enough. One time she sat

834
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 1: me down, told me and made my dad sad that

835
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: I didn't text him anymore, and followed it up with essentially,

836
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:12,840
Speaker 1: you better fix this because everyone who upsets my husband

837
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: is my enemy.

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00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: God, that's what.

839
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: Like, why would you say that to someone who's thirteen

840
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: to fifteen years old?

841
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, imagine looking at a child. I mean like,

842
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 2: you better fix your relationship with you to deal with.

843
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: Lightning and sun job.

844
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 3: Speaking of thunder, Karen, thank you for the fifty buck tap.

845
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: What's goen car popping off? Karen? Thank you?

846
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: Thanks, Karen, give me the stream going. Oh we're at

847
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 1: an Amanda Roxico Rocks EXO. Thanks for the becoming a

848
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 1: new member. We appreciate you. But Karen damn Air. Tracy

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Speaker 1: Eisen says, you don't say that to a kid. Yeah, no,

850
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: I completely agree dat. Cassanda says all the dads in

851
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: this story are so gross and the story's previous, Yeah,

852
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: they're pretty icky. Yeah.

853
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 2: Oh, someone said, why is the dad not reaching out there? Oh?

854
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: Mela says, why is the dad not reaching out? Again?

855
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: What I think? Maybe the dad the dad? Oh you

856
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: mean the already you mean the mom from the other

857
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: part or the dad.

858
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 2: No, the dad is saying so basically because that dad

859
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 2: is like, oh you're you better not hurt my husband.

860
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: And because the dad has a little, little, little little baby.

861
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. I think it's ridiculous if your child

862
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,439
Speaker 2: is not reaching out to you as much as you want,

863
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 2: then have a conversation with him.

864
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, see what's wrong?

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00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: What's up? Why? Why was she reaching out to me

866
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: like you used to?

867
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: But I get that I could have done more and

868
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: to extend I regret that, and to an extent, I

869
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: regret that, But at the same time, it sometimes felt

870
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: like it was only me who had to put in

871
00:46:56,320 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: the effort of staying in contact. Never though, yeah, I'm

872
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: twenty years old now and this whole thing has progressed

873
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: to me now almost being in no contact with my dad,

874
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:12,760
Speaker 1: partially due to generally being uncomfortable there and partially because

875
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: he was never on my side slash backed or up

876
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: on a lot of these things. Really quick, pausing right here,

877
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: do you think op should be no contact at this point?

878
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: Maybe low contact? I think like if you can't go

879
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 2: no contact with the stepmother. But yeah, I mean, the

880
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 2: dad's just not doing anything. I would say low contact

881
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,280
Speaker 2: just because maybe he'll reach out.

882
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think low contact too. I don't think you

883
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 1: need to like cut things off, but I don't think.

884
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: You shouldn't be put effort in exactly.

885
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: Which it seems like they're basically saying, Oh, we're gonna

886
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: treat you like absolute garbage, but you should put effort

887
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: into seeing yes of Like, why would I do that

888
00:47:58,200 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 1: if you're treating me like absolute garbage.

889
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 2: I'm not getting anything out of it.

890
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: I text him on Father's Day and his birthday, but

891
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: that's it. I tried wishing my step mom a happy

892
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 1: Birthday to last time, but she left me on red

893
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: So I guess now I know where I stand there.

894
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: Last year, I spent Christmas with his side of the family,

895
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,360
Speaker 1: but he was really busy and Stepmom essentially ignored me.

896
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: That was kind of the final nail in the coffin.

897
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 1: I just don't want to go there anymore. So, Yeah,

898
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 1: I genuinely think about my grandma, who lives with them

899
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: since she's sick. Oh so yeah, so yeah, I generally

900
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: think once my grandma, who lives with them since she's sick, dies,

901
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: that's going to be the last tie to that side

902
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: of the family, breaking so basically, Opie's still seeing that

903
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: side of the family.

904
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 2: For the grandma, which I think is kind of has.

905
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: To be low. Yeah, let's do a pole. Let's put

906
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: a poll up no contact, low contact or more contact?

907
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: Whoa can we do? Three? Can you do three?

908
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 3: Three?

909
00:48:57,480 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: Yeah?

910
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 2: I think I think I'm still on the low contact

911
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 2: because because she wants to see her grandma but definitely

912
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 2: not putting in any effort to try and create a

913
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: relationship here that they're not reciprocating.

914
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, no, I I I agree too. I think, like,

915
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: but the thing is, maybe if she doesn't put in

916
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: more effort, they will cut her off so she can't

917
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 1: see the grandmother. M yeah, it's not a possibility. Maybe

918
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like, yeah, low contact, no contact

919
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: or or contact. Oh whoa ben it those are bet

920
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: it thirty seven buck tip.

921
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 2: Thank you dude.

922
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: That puts us, That puts us at another Oh my goodness, gracious,

923
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:57,240
Speaker 1: saint ignacious, holy moly, guacamole, my, oh my pumpkin pie.

924
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: So we got low contact and no con Oh, it's

925
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:05,439
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. It looks like most people are now,

926
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: I mean, oh.

927
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 2: More low contacts.

928
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: Now, Wow, it is neck and neck right now, that's crazy. Okay,

929
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: we'll let the votes come in for a little bit.

930
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: If you haven't already voted, make sure to vote, vote

931
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 1: like asap. Do it. If you dare not do it,

932
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:27,879
Speaker 1: do its voting. If you've been lurking and you haven't

933
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: been pressing something, just just press a one or two

934
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: on your little keyboard and submit it.

935
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 2: Voting is your civil duty that it is.

936
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna let the votes come in. I'm

937
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: gonna keep reading, so I'm not interested on continuing a

938
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: relationship with a side of the family where one party

939
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: hates me and the other really doesn't care. This is

940
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: already randy enough, so if you've read until now, feel

941
00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: free to leave it at that. But since I'm already

942
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 1: on it, I might as well get some other things

943
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,879
Speaker 1: out that are built up over the years. For one,

944
00:50:57,280 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: she has sons too, and big surprise, when they started

945
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: being teened, they got pretty similar to me, lazy, sleeping,

946
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: a lot, typical teenage smiliness, and it essentially wasn't an issue.

947
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: Another point, one time, my grandma gave me a bit

948
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: of money that I accidentally kept inside my pants pocket,

949
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: and when Stepmom found it while doing laundry. He barged in,

950
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: thrusted the money towards me and asked what that was.

951
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: Later called my grandma to confirm she gave me money.

952
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: So I very much think stepmom just assumed I stole that,

953
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: which I never stolen anything in my life. I don't

954
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 1: know why she immediately jumped to that conclusion. One time

955
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: her and my dad had to fight over something, and

956
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: when she later walked by him and be hugging, he

957
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: flipped out again, insulted him, etc. And said something along

958
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: the lines of, are you upset again because my daughter

959
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: is visiting. She denied it at the time, but I

960
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,879
Speaker 1: have reason to believe that might really have been an issue. Eight.

961
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 2: So he knows, he knows, and he doesn't do anything. Yeah, ridiculous.

962
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,360
Speaker 1: It made me believe there was something genuinely wrong with

963
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: me for being quiet, preferring to be home, and not

964
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: having wanting a whole bunch of friends over essentially just

965
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: being an introvert. I thought for years I was just

966
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: broken until I eventually realized it's okay to be an introvert.

967
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: Before that, there were years of thinking I was terrible

968
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: for being the way I am. I went out with

969
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: my stepbrothers one time and was just taking a break

970
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,720
Speaker 1: while they rode around their bikes in the other direction.

971
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: They apparently ran into my stepmom's cousin and told me

972
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: so when they got back. But when it turned out

973
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: but when I turned around a check, no one was there.

974
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: Cousin apparently called my stepmom and told her how I

975
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,879
Speaker 1: didn't say hi. So Stepmom chewed me out for being

976
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: so rude. When I said I didn't see cousin, she

977
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,840
Speaker 1: just wouldn't believe me and told me to stop making excuses.

978
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: Is so weird. She hung up about me being selfish

979
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: because I ate a lot of food or something. Later

980
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,839
Speaker 1: that same day, we all shared some fruit and when

981
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: I finished my piece, my dad offered me to get

982
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: the rest of his. I said several times I didn't

983
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: want it, but he insisted. So when I finally gave in,

984
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: just to make the discussion stop, Stepmom exploded because that's

985
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 1: exactly what I meant, You're so selfish. I still don't

986
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,360
Speaker 1: know what I was supposed to do in that situation,

987
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: other than forever being a cycle of I just I

988
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:09,720
Speaker 1: don't want it, Just take it. It's okay.

989
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

990
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: Another one. We are getting we are getting more. There

991
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: is Oh my goodness, there's so much more. We went

992
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: to visit Stepmom's family for Christmas one year, and I

993
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,799
Speaker 1: was I wasn't told we'd be saying over the night,

994
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: so I didn't have a change of clothes. The next day,

995
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: I tried to sit with everyone, and my stepmom randomly

996
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: leaned in quietly told me I smelled horrible, which I

997
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: just spent the rest of the time feeling bad and

998
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: spent spent the rest of the day sitting away from

999
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: everyone because I felt like I'd be bothering them. In turn,

1000
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: I was bad for not socializing. Oh win when one time,

1001
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, this is so much. One time we

1002
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 1: were looking for a movie to watch on Netflix, and

1003
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: when they read through one, I just noted I had

1004
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,120
Speaker 1: already watched one kind of a neutral tone, and she

1005
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 1: immediately cut me off, saying and that in an annoyed tone,

1006
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: that nobody cares.

1007
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, nobody likes you.

1008
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: Nobody likes you. Last year, on Christmas, I actually had

1009
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: a bit of a talk with my grandma and she

1010
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: randomly noted how she often felt like my stepmom was

1011
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 1: maybe jealous of me. Which honestly, yeah, it might be

1012
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: an explanation for a lot of things, but at the

1013
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: same time, I don't get it because I'm my dad's daughter.

1014
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm never going to fill the same role as his wife.

1015
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: But you know, she's just jealous of the attention that

1016
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 1: you're getting. Yeah, there is a little bit more. But

1017
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: by the way, you can join us live every weekday

1018
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,720
Speaker 1: on YouTube three PMPST just have her profile. And finally,

1019
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: one year, they sent me a birthday present as a package,

1020
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: which got delivered to the post office due to none

1021
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: of us being home and I couldn't pick it up

1022
00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 1: before my birthday, so I was just going to pick

1023
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: it up that afternoon. Then I got a long text

1024
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: from my dad on my birthday, right after school, when

1025
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,359
Speaker 1: I couldn't even have unpacked anything yet, about how he

1026
00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: was so disappointed that I didn't even say thanks, when

1027
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 1: before that I think he hadn't even wished me a

1028
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: happy birthday and so on, and I really couldn't say

1029
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 1: anything other than I didn't get it yet, sorry, I'll

1030
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 1: pick it up later. Then I got an angry text

1031
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,399
Speaker 1: by my stepmom about how she's going to check via

1032
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,800
Speaker 1: post tracking if I was lying which I obviously wasn't.

1033
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: I didn't hear back, but nobody ever apologized for blowing

1034
00:55:20,160 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: up at me.

1035
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, the dad is in on it too. He's

1036
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 2: complicit and he sucks.

1037
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: Oh man, every like.

1038
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 2: All of these parents suck.

1039
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,919
Speaker 1: All these parents suck. Op doesn't suck, but everyone else

1040
00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:30,880
Speaker 1: sucks in this situation.

1041
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 2: It sucks, sucks, suck.

1042
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: And checking back in on the poll, looks like one

1043
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 1: hundred and ten of you, fifty nine percent said low contact,

1044
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: thirty two percent said no contact, and nine percent said

1045
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: more contact.

1046
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:45,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1047
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 1: Two of the nine percent of you that said more contact,

1048
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 1: why why? Why give me a reason? I want to know,

1049
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 1: I want to know. Please tell me I don't understand