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Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all bet all

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Speaker 3: So given the.

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Speaker 4: Black the million bush, Yeah, listen to show.

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Speaker 5: I don't joy, yeah, joy.

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Speaker 4: You don't you love you? Turn?

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Speaker 6: We got to turn the mouth turn you probably got

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Speaker 6: to turn the mouth out.

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Speaker 1: Come come on you think huh? I sure will? Good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice.

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Speaker 2: Come on, dig me now, one and only Steve Harley

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Speaker 2: got a radio show. You know, I think I ought

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Speaker 2: to explain something to y'all. You know when I wake

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Speaker 2: up in the morning and I say, dig me now,

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Speaker 2: what I'm asking you to do is it's old school,

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Speaker 2: you know, man, And you know you said old people

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Speaker 2: say I dig you know da da da, never stop

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Speaker 2: saying that. I'm sorry, but dig me now. It's just

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Speaker 2: I want you to I wan't you really feel me?

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Speaker 2: I want you to understand what I'm saying, because really,

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Speaker 2: this morning inspiration is all given in the spirit of

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Speaker 2: sharing and love. It ain't about to expose me in

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Speaker 2: any way. That's not the purpose of it. But I

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Speaker 2: found that in my morning inspiration that's best that I

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Speaker 2: use some things about myself, because I mean, what better

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Speaker 2: example can I use? Because I know me, I know

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Speaker 2: what's happened to me. I know exactly how I felt

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Speaker 2: all along the way concerning almost everything, every aspect of

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Speaker 2: my life. I now fully do really understand why God

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Speaker 2: had my life spend the way it spun. And here's

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Speaker 2: the part that I want to give to you this morning,

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Speaker 2: that first of all, whatever position you find yourself in today,

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Speaker 2: we kind of come to one realization that we got

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Speaker 2: ourselves there. We put ourselves there by a series of

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Speaker 2: thoughts and actions. Thoughts turn into things. That's very important

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Speaker 2: to know. So let's look at both sides of it.

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Speaker 2: For people who think negative thoughts, it turns into negative things,

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Speaker 2: and the direct opposite is true for those who think

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Speaker 2: positive thoughts, it turns into positive things.

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Speaker 1: That's the deal. It's as simple as that, folks.

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Speaker 2: I cannot break it down any cleaner, I cannot make

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Speaker 2: it any clearer. Thoughts become things. So the one glaring

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Speaker 2: question for all of us always is on a daily basis,

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Speaker 2: what are you thinking? What are your thoughts? What are

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Speaker 2: you thinking? What are your thoughts? Because I can assure

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Speaker 2: you and is not by a promise of mine. This

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Speaker 2: is not a theory that Steve Harveyden came up with.

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Speaker 2: This is a fact of life.

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Speaker 7: This is biblical, This is spiritual, This is written, This

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Speaker 7: is philosophical.

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Speaker 2: This is the law of the universe. However, you need

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Speaker 2: to drink this medicine to take to get it down

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Speaker 2: and feel what I'm saying to you. This is just

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Speaker 2: the way it is now and here the cold part, folks.

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Speaker 2: It don't matter if you believe me or not. It

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Speaker 2: does not matter if you have never been explained this

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Speaker 2: or not. And it does not matter if you think

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Speaker 2: it works in your life or not.

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Speaker 1: It don't matter. Listen to me. It is the way

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Speaker 1: it is. It is as.

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Speaker 7: Scriptural, it is a spiritual, it is philosophical.

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Speaker 1: It's just whatever's the law of the universe. You call

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Speaker 1: whatever you want call it.

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Speaker 2: However, you got to dress this thing up to put

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Speaker 2: it in the phase that you can feel me. I

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Speaker 2: want you to feel me now, because this is all

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Speaker 2: it is. So when I say that you are where

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Speaker 2: we are today because we thought ourselves here, are you

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Speaker 2: best to believe that's true? You thought yourself here, no

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Speaker 2: one else see. Let me explain something. I got people

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Speaker 2: around me who so badly want to take credit for it,

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Speaker 2: but I don't allow it. But because I keep pointing

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Speaker 2: to the heavens, I keep pointing and trying to say

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Speaker 2: it out loud as many times as I can without

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Speaker 2: being so offensive, that my life is by design, by

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Speaker 2: grace and mercy, by blessings from God. My life is

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Speaker 2: because God has seen it to be so. Oh, but

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Speaker 2: I got plenty people around me want credit for it

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Speaker 2: and want you to not give credit to God and

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Speaker 2: give it to them.

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Speaker 1: I got that.

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Speaker 2: I got that, But I understand that. See, I understand

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Speaker 1: It's so clear to me what my father was saying

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Speaker 2: As I get older and older, he always said to me, son,

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Speaker 2: everybody come with you can't go with you. See, you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know how people say it in church. You

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Speaker 2: know sometime they go, well, people come into your life

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Speaker 2: for seasons, and I guess that's the same thing. You

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Speaker 2: know they seizing up. They gone well, you know, and

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Speaker 2: then but then hit the way they try to hold

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Speaker 2: you though, or you're gonna forget where you come from.

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Speaker 1: You ain't gonna keep it real no more.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go back where I come from.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to keep it that real no more.

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Speaker 2: It was real enough for me living in the car.

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Speaker 2: I had enough of that real. I don't gonna keep

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Speaker 2: it real now. I don't keep it real. I wanna

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Speaker 2: go keep it dreamy. I want to go keep it fantasized.

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Speaker 2: I want to keep it out of this world. I

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Speaker 2: keep it moving. I want to keep it ball, and

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Speaker 2: I want to see what that's like. So nah, I

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Speaker 2: ain't gonna forget where I come from, but you ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna hold me to that though See, thoughts become things

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Speaker 2: all day long? Where's your vision board? Where are the

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Speaker 2: things that you want written down? What do you think

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Speaker 2: about the most? How grateful are you for what all

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Speaker 2: God has done for you? Where you at with that?

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Speaker 2: See here hear another law? If thoughts become things, let

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Speaker 2: me ask you this. If all you thinking about is

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Speaker 2: woe is me?

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Speaker 1: If all you.

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Speaker 2: Thinking about is every time I turn around, I'm sick.

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Speaker 2: If all you thinking about it's the things in life

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Speaker 2: that you're lacking. If that's all you thinking about, and

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Speaker 2: if thoughts become things, how much debt you think you

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Speaker 2: you think you're finn to fill your life with? How

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Speaker 2: much most stuff you fin to not have because you

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Speaker 2: keep thinking about it all the time. When you're gonna

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Speaker 2: gonna come out your mouth, Man, that I may not

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Speaker 2: be where I want to be, but I show am

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Speaker 2: grateful for what you've given me so far, for the

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Speaker 1: You know what that does? That then opens up room

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Speaker 2: To come your way. To be grateful fall. But if

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be ungrateful, ah, man, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 2: I ain't God, I don't claim to be, But let

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Speaker 2: me ask you something, man. If you ungrateful for the

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Speaker 1: Have, why would God give us some most stuff to

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Speaker 1: be ungrateful for? What would he do that for? Tada?

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Speaker 2: Anybody feel me right now? So when I say, come on, y'all,

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Speaker 2: dig me. Now, do you understand why I say dig me?

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Speaker 2: Because I want you to feel me. I want you

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Speaker 2: to understand and come to the understanding, not saying you ain't.

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Speaker 2: Because it's so many people got a deeper understanding than

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Speaker 1: I promise you they do, but they listen to me.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to get you to walk up in

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Speaker 2: this light, man, so you can go on with your

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Speaker 2: life and quit tripping yourself out with your thoughts, because

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Speaker 2: thoughts become things.

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Speaker 8: I all day you're listening.

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Speaker 2: Morning show, Ladies and gentlemen. My name is Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This show would

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Speaker 2: be nothing without the following people. Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 9: Shirley Strawberry, Thank you, Steve, Good morning, call it Forrell,

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Speaker 9: Good Morning, Crew.

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Speaker 1: Cure Spaces better known as Junior.

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Speaker 10: J.

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Speaker 2: Anthony Brown, better known as bitter Man, Ladies and Gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Thomas W.

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Speaker 2: Miles, better known as the Food aka Nephew Tommy slash

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Speaker 2: little Man. Good morning everybody, and the little Man is

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Speaker 2: just for aggravation purposes.

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Speaker 1: He's really not that small.

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Speaker 8: We know, we know how to push each other's buttons.

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Speaker 1: Though we've worked together. Everybody knows everybody. We've worked together

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Speaker 1: for so long.

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Speaker 8: Layo, yeah we lay I don't have a button.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna bitter as you.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh you have a button? Yeah, marriage, Yes, it's

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Speaker 2: what Oh his button is called marriage?

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Speaker 1: Marriage? Right, you bring it up? He start the last time.

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Speaker 8: My brother up, he snapped up.

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Speaker 1: He remember, went in, I know another button, and I'll

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Speaker 1: only use it if you fished me off.

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Speaker 8: Wow, because you know you've known him the longer. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I got but you got some, but he got another.

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Speaker 1: But if there was the same side, we'll see. No

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Speaker 1: Trump then it's nuclear yeah, talking about it, know what

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Speaker 1: it is then?

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Speaker 11: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: We've been together a long time being my boy right there. Boy,

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Speaker 1: it was the best thing.

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Speaker 2: Putting him on the show Man kind of gave me

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Speaker 2: like a balance punch, you know. You know you see

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Speaker 2: how I talk to me when I come into work

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but you all have history.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: Oh, he talked to me so crazy when I come

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Speaker 1: to work.

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Speaker 9: If we didn't know, we would, yeah, we would think

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Speaker 9: you hated each other the way you talk to each other.

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Speaker 1: That's just yeah us, I don't do it on the

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Speaker 10: But that's live though.

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Speaker 8: That that's a lie.

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Speaker 1: That's junior right when he doesn't do it anywhere else.

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Speaker 4: He come in there on the days he only he

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Speaker 4: come in there and give us a gift.

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Speaker 1: Wow, it's fine.

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Speaker 9: It's Monday, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 9: Run that Frank back with the nephew right after this.

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Speaker 8: You're listening morning show right now. It is Monday.

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Speaker 9: Reverend Motown, Deacon def Jam are here with church complaints.

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Speaker 9: Let's go.

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Speaker 2: We we're here today, Yes, on the Monday. Galvit symbolized detriputedly,

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Speaker 2: I said, detriputedly.

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Speaker 1: Revelized, that's reputedly. We are here on big word Monday.

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Speaker 11: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I've been talking with the congregation and my old lady friend.

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Speaker 2: And wants me to increase my vocabulary, so all my

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Speaker 2: responses will be given in big word Monday fashion.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, deep got made up?

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Speaker 9: All right.

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Speaker 1: I don't have any big words, but I do have complaints.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 12: As you know, pastor were excited to be approaching resurrection Sunday.

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Speaker 12: what was that? Lodna Davis wants de Andre to do

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Speaker 1: Well, we are going to how many is it, Deacon?

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Speaker 11: If fifteen of them that were about, we're going to

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Speaker 11: smart ones, Yes, because we can't sit through fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Well what the last year? What tell sister of Donna?

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Speaker 2: The last year it was dipolychologists. Oh word dialpolocholosist on

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Speaker 2: polypoly mean five dire wow diapolic?

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Speaker 1: Do you remember my kids? You forgot you forget.

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Speaker 8: Your apologists, think diapoltologists.

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Speaker 13: Diapolytologists, dintologists, phatologists of form of a doctor that them

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Speaker 1: You changed it all to go with what I knew.

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Speaker 1: Make it work, Big word Monday is gonna be hard

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Speaker 2: Any more responses will be with big words because it

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Speaker 1: Go ahead.

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Speaker 12: The Easter egg Hunt committee has a major problem. As

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Speaker 12: you know, brother Thaddeus Radcliffe, who worked at the veterinary clinic,

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Speaker 12: brought eggs from his job and they are now mixed

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Speaker 1: So he brought snake.

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Speaker 12: Eggs, alligator eggs, I stick eggs and supposedly be fifteen

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Speaker 12: penguin eggs. How do you want to handle this pastor

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Speaker 12: for the east eggs?

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Speaker 2: Well, I say go ahead and let him. Don't say

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Speaker 1: Him eggs.

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Speaker 2: And you don't eat them all the day. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: You ain't gonna like it.

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Speaker 2: So, uh, you know, I don't know whether what you

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Speaker 2: can't do it tell these black people that could be

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Speaker 1: So just let it.

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Speaker 2: Let let sleeping dogs lie, deacon and deal with it

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Speaker 2: service number?

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Speaker 1: Ready?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know how you call like the people that

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Speaker 2: handle snakes and everything. The penguin is what that they're

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Speaker 2: gonna bother. It's a snake. They're gonna get loose in

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Speaker 2: black with car. That's what you need to wver that pink.

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Speaker 2: That pinkle ain't got no speed and can't hide that good. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: They can't get snake and lizard in the black people houses.

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Speaker 2: Might well, my body won't have a bak robber with

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Speaker 12: And all right, moving along past, we have a big

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Speaker 12: issue with a big retail collas. We agree that he

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Speaker 12: would play Christ in the church play, but the cross

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Speaker 12: keep breaking due to his weight. He can't we can't

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Speaker 12: keep him on the cross path to eye and hw

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Speaker 12: defos say they don't have any wood that can hold him.

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Speaker 1: What did you want?

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Speaker 2: Just let everybody walk up to the front and look

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Speaker 2: because he ain't Christ. Noway, we ain't finna look up

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Speaker 2: to it, but it ain't ho looking it. Who want

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Speaker 2: to buy down in front of big, big as retail.

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Speaker 2: If he gonna be the Christ, then you know we're

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Speaker 2: gonna do we're gonna do a I'll tell you what

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Speaker 2: M after, we're gonna just do add on him and

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Speaker 2: then take retail off the cross down there, get him

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Speaker 2: out for the Yeah, you do it like that because

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Speaker 2: he ain't he ain't who.

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Speaker 1: He don't looking at like wh who I think he is?

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Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry here, it was right on that line.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying Redale ain't finna play here with

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Speaker 2: I don't like people playing the role.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you better talk. Yeah, yeah, that is fault. But

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Speaker 1: you the one came in here with the complaint. I'm

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Speaker 1: just trying to work it.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: We're more z Brudi for Botiful Zime.

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Speaker 8: You you're listening.

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Speaker 1: Morning show.

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Speaker 9: All right, guys, it is time for ask the CLO.

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Speaker 9: The Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is in the building.

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Speaker 9: Are you ready, sir, let's go oh yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 9: This one is from Talia in Atlanta. Talia says, my

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Speaker 9: husband and I decided to spice up our sex life

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Speaker 9: after being married for almost twenty years. Back in the day,

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Speaker 9: we'd have sex anywhere. So he had a brilliant idea

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Speaker 9: to have sex in the backseat of our car in

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Speaker 9: the parking.

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Speaker 8: Lot of a best Buy.

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Speaker 9: The sneaking part was fun and we were almost done

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Speaker 9: when someone yelled on the knocked on the window and

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Speaker 9: it was a parking lot security guard. He yelled, hey,

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Speaker 9: you can't do that here. The security guard is my

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Speaker 9: son's friend. What if you recognized me and tells our son,

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Speaker 9: how do we explain this?

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Speaker 1: WHOA worried about?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it was with your husband.

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Speaker 2: Your problem would be if that wasn't your husband, you

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Speaker 2: can always say, boy, you know good? Hell, well, we

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Speaker 2: wasn't doing nothing in that damn parking lot. I had

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Speaker 2: dropped the French fry down in the crack of that

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Speaker 2: get that thing. That's all that was damn French fry.

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Speaker 2: And I still well, I found I found French fry

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Speaker 2: from last summering.

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Speaker 1: That just say that. You know, you didn't that word

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 8: But she was naked though, okay, she was naked.

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Speaker 2: It was almost well, I got hot, you know, I

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Speaker 2: was trying to find it, French fry. You got hot

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Speaker 2: as hell in there because it took me so long

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Speaker 2: to find the damn French fry.

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Speaker 1: So I just took what was daddy doing? He was

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Speaker 1: naked too looking, you know how your daddy is.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 8: Moving on, Ronnie in North Carolina.

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Speaker 9: I'm not using my real name because I would be

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Speaker 9: in a world of trouble if my friend finds out

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Speaker 9: I'm messing with his oldest daughter.

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Speaker 8: For the record, she's thirty six and fine.

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Speaker 9: I'm only forty two and my friend is much older

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Speaker 9: than me, so it's not like I'm a dirty old man.

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Speaker 9: I have a real attraction to his daughter, and sex

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Speaker 9: is the best because we've known each other for so long.

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Speaker 8: She's ready to be honest with her dad, but I

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Speaker 8: need more time. How do I tell my friend this?

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Speaker 2: You're gonna get your ass work, boy, Yeah done, but

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Speaker 2: just ass whipping on the horizon.

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Speaker 1: That's all right in the future, you know.

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Speaker 9: But they're in lot.

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Speaker 2: See, she wants to be honest. Well you know now, Okay,

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Speaker 2: let's let's do a little bit of math. She's thirty six.

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Speaker 2: Let's assume he's fifty six. Let's say she had him

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Speaker 2: he was father twenty d Let's say eighteen. Let's say

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Speaker 2: he's fifty four, you forty two.

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Speaker 1: The girl thirty six. He ain't gonna handle it right, man,

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Speaker 1: He just ain't.

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Speaker 8: Because he doesn't want his friend.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 2: What did you do?

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Speaker 8: And the Princeship?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, being uh being honest? Now I'll come.

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Speaker 2: He keep telling y'all where is this? Honesty is the

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Speaker 2: best policy? Where they keep coming from? How many times

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Speaker 2: have I told y'all about that?

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Speaker 1: I don't see.

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Speaker 9: What.

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Speaker 1: I keep proving this to y'all over and open and over.

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Speaker 1: Honesty is not the best policy. I am a proponent

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Speaker 1: of this. Don't don't do this? So they should just

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Speaker 1: cad is with you to your grade. Yes, huh, what

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Speaker 1: if it.

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Speaker 8: Turns into something? I mean, it has turned into something.

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Speaker 1: It's all that's gonna be sure.

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Speaker 8: All it turned into what a real relationship.

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Speaker 1: That he was saying is he said, just the best sex.

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Speaker 1: That's all he's said that he is.

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Speaker 8: He said he has a real attraction to her, and

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Speaker 8: she wants to tell.

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Speaker 1: Me a real attraction.

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Speaker 12: Huh.

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Speaker 2: Do you know how many real attractions listen to this y'all?

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Speaker 2: And all of y'all know this is true? Do you

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Speaker 2: know how many real attractions you got to keep to

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Speaker 2: your damn self?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that's where the lying stuff comes in.

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Speaker 10: Okay, okay, close, Yeah, why you're looking like.

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Speaker 1: You're disappointed in the team and I don't even I

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Speaker 1: don't know what is this a damn discussion for which

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Speaker 1: just as obvious. Yeah all right, so then come in

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Speaker 8: Big in Birmingham, we've moved on.

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Speaker 9: Steve says, I've been driving trucks for ten years and

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Speaker 9: I'm ready for a career change. I am trying to

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Speaker 9: lose weight and stop smoking, but it's hard. The reason

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Speaker 9: I want a lifestyle change is because I met a

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Speaker 8: She says.

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Speaker 9: She gets lonely when I'm away, so it causes her

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Speaker 9: to date other men. She said, if I'm home, she

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Speaker 9: will be all about me. My kids said, I'm falling

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Speaker 9: for a garden tool, and they told me to get

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Speaker 9: advice from uncle Steve to Clo before she breaks my heart.

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Speaker 8: Is she worth my time or not? Clo?

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Speaker 1: Well, sure, did he give an age?

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Speaker 8: No, but he's been driving trucks for ten years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you've been driving trucks. Your name is Big Daddy.

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Speaker 1: You trying to lose weight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you trying to lose weight because you got this

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Speaker 2: girl just like and you and when you away, she

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Speaker 2: says she misses you and it causes her to date

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Speaker 1: And if you was around all the time, she could

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Speaker 2: You want to get in a relationship with a person

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Speaker 2: like this, because see this, if you were here, I

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Speaker 2: could be all about you, could be you for right now.

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Speaker 2: You driving off too many times? It could work his

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Speaker 2: way into just Hell, when you went to the store,

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Speaker 2: I was sitting here.

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Speaker 8: So I want to date.

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Speaker 2: You took your ass down to that store and it

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Speaker 2: took forty minutes. Hell, when was just sitting on the

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Speaker 8: I entertained a gentleman.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Man, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I would lose weight and quit smoking so I could

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Speaker 2: be health and meet the chicken my dream.

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Speaker 1: She may not be it, doll, she may not be it.

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Speaker 8: All right, Clo, good advice, good advice. As always, you're

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Speaker 8: listening morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Jay, it's.

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Speaker 9: Time for one of our favorite segments, comedy roulette.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, please do.

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Speaker 14: Because Junior is a comedian, Tommy is a comedian. I'm

452
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Speaker 14: a comedian, and Steve's comedian because we're all four comedians.

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Speaker 14: Since you have four comedians on the show, we take

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Speaker 14: full steps to put them on the wheel wherever the

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Speaker 14: lad's been making funny.

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Speaker 15: And why do we do that, Jay, because because Junior

457
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Speaker 15: is comedian. Comedian, I'm a comedian.

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Speaker 1: You who is it now?

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Speaker 9: It's you Jay, Tommy, And.

460
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Speaker 8: Let's go no, because you're taking fun out of it.

461
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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Number One.

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Speaker 9: Things people say who've been in jail a long time. Okay,

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Speaker 9: get this one, guys. Directions that black people give you

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Speaker 9: all right, okay, okay, excuses men say when they're not

466
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Speaker 9: getting a lot of sex.

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Speaker 1: All day.

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Speaker 9: Some people say, who don't have cable? That's another good one,

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Speaker 9: all right, spun it. Oh this is unusual.

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Speaker 1: It's stopped one.

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Speaker 8: Directions that black people give you.

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Speaker 14: Definitely, black people give them different directions.

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Speaker 8: What do you means, Jay?

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Speaker 1: Here you go, Okay, what you.

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Speaker 14: Want to do is do you know where the Baptist

476
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Speaker 14: church used to be? You don't know where it used

477
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Speaker 14: to be. You're not gonna find it, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Direction.

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Speaker 16: I know a lot about this because I am black,

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Speaker 16: and so I do have a I do know some

481
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Speaker 16: directions that black men here.

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Speaker 1: This is also a direction when you back it up.

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on, come on, come on back, come on,

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Speaker 1: you come out union.

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Speaker 3: You got it on this side.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got it on. Yeah, come on. Hold what

487
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Speaker 1: you got That's what you were looking for right there,

488
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Speaker 1: that's it. Hold what you got? Direction people give. Now, Look,

489
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Speaker 1: this is what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: Now, you want to go down here to the second

491
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Speaker 2: stop time, you're gonna mend the left right there. Go

492
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Speaker 2: down to the next block. I don't know what street

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Speaker 2: that is, but go down to the next block. It's

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Speaker 2: the store there.

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Speaker 1: Go in that store and ask for Lucky, and Lucky

496
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Speaker 1: know how to get Come on, see all right is

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Speaker 1: right down there across from Earl Neil. That's what black

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Speaker 1: people say.

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Speaker 9: Come on, directions, and black people give you Jake, we're

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Speaker 9: different with Okay.

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Speaker 14: You're gonna go down a bit ways and you're gonna

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Speaker 14: see an old man sitting on the porch. If he

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Speaker 14: ain't on the porch, you just keep driving or wait

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Speaker 14: till he come out, and then you make the left

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Speaker 14: right there.

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Speaker 7: You you can't miss it.

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Speaker 4: I heard that this is a direction.

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Speaker 16: Step Black people give what you mean you don't know

509
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Speaker 16: where we're at. We at the same place where Liddy

510
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Speaker 16: was shot. Right there, I come you home with him.

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Speaker 4: You've been when Liddy got shot.

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Speaker 1: I was there, Keith for Shelf down with there with

513
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Speaker 1: the exact same spot when Liddy got shot. This is

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Speaker 1: what you want to do. Take this road, this road,

515
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Speaker 1: Take this road, this road it take this road.

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Speaker 4: You go down that road.

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Speaker 2: Now, this here is is uh asphalt. Now wait till

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Speaker 2: you see a dirt road. You see a dirt road,

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00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 2: that way you make your right. You are to see

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Speaker 2: the house coming up on the right side. If you

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Speaker 2: go further than that, you might see a klan rady.

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Speaker 2: That means you went too far. You might want to

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Speaker 2: back it up. You might want to back it up.

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Speaker 1: Directions that black people give make a left. When you

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Speaker 1: get down there and see the big black tree that

526
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Speaker 1: got the squirrels in it, and you.

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Speaker 8: Got to be looking.

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Speaker 4: Direction here go right here, y'all.

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Speaker 14: How much gas you got in your car, Because you

530
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Speaker 14: ain't gonna make it on half a tank. You're gonna

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Speaker 14: need to have a whole full tank.

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Speaker 1: Of gas to get it. Why I got it all right?

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Speaker 16: These are directions that black people give you. Okay, you're

534
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Speaker 16: coming to the fan reunion. Okay, follow the north Star

535
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Speaker 16: till they running the Ryl House.

536
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Speaker 4: Just follow the north Star.

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Speaker 1: To the run in the Hryl House the black people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, you're trying to get to the

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Speaker 1: bench center.

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Speaker 2: You're trying to go. Let me tell you what you

541
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Speaker 2: need to do. I can't get you there, but I

542
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Speaker 2: can get you there. But let me do what I

543
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: need you to do. Take Maine, get your Maine. If

544
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Speaker 2: you go down Maine. Uh uh, second Street, I think Commerce,

545
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Speaker 2: Commerce and nine. It's a girl named Glitter. That's the

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Speaker 2: prostitutee right there on the corlet us get Glitter.

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Speaker 1: In that car, and Glitter know how to get you

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Speaker 1: to that convention. Thank you Glitter?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Direction, all right, you go all the way down now

551
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Speaker 2: to you'll see black people no more.

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Speaker 1: Then come back two blocks.

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Speaker 15: People getting here?

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Speaker 6: All right?

555
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Speaker 9: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 9: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,

557
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Speaker 9: it's time now for another round of would you rather, uh,

558
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Speaker 9: here we go? Would you rather never be able to

559
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 9: take a hot shower or never be able to eat

560
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 9: fried food again? Specifically fried chicken and fried catfish.

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Speaker 2: Well, I never, I never, I never have fried food again.

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Speaker 2: I can't take a shower, hot shower, no hot show. Well,

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Speaker 2: who on a cold shower?

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Speaker 8: A lot of people take cold showers.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I don't, but they do. I'm through.

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Speaker 1: I need the shower. I take too many a day.

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Speaker 1: I need a shower. It can't be cold.

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Speaker 8: Yesterday, your nephew takes three showers a day.

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Speaker 2: Stop letting him tell y'all that taking no damn three

570
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Speaker 2: showers a day?

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Speaker 1: We got.

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Speaker 3: With you.

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Speaker 2: You can got radio show, he got radio show, tour,

574
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Speaker 2: and he got a TV show and a game show.

575
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 1: When the hell he got time to take three damn

576
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Speaker 1: showers a day?

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Speaker 2: Y'all? Letting him tell y'all this stuff fall? Dude, Hold up, hold,

578
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Speaker 2: let me paint this picture for you. Got a four

579
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Speaker 2: hour radio show that he do every day. He got

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Speaker 2: a TV show, he got a game show, he tour,

581
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Speaker 2: he got kids, he gotta go to baseball games with.

582
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Speaker 2: He got to go to drums and stuff with. He

583
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Speaker 2: got family time, and he got a wife. How you

584
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Speaker 2: take three showers a day?

585
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Speaker 3: He worked?

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Speaker 1: Shall I'm letting him tell you that fault. How would

587
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Speaker 1: you know all that? Because I got molded.

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Speaker 3: He got.

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Speaker 2: He's got no time for no damn three showers a day.

590
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Speaker 2: Gotta make this money, man, three damn showers a day.

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Speaker 2: Good if I get hold some how I fall asleep in.

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Speaker 1: My office, ain't gonna be no damn shower.

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Speaker 10: Now.

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Speaker 2: But rich sitting up in here, Man sitting up here,

595
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Speaker 2: you just like my stylist Ellie with his little simple

596
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Speaker 2: ass over overdoing and all this had notion and baby

597
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Speaker 2: in his damn So get your Let we can go.

598
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Speaker 2: Man sitting up in here, rubbing all between your damn toes,

599
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Speaker 2: put some all on your foot.

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Speaker 1: Let's go. You take all this damn showers. Man, you

601
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: ain't that damn queen. We got to go. I do,

602
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: thank you?

603
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,520
Speaker 8: All right? All right, next one.

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Speaker 1: Him tell you that for go ahead.

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Speaker 9: But you rather have the ability to read minds? Or

606
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Speaker 9: did you rather have the ability to move objects with

607
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Speaker 9: your mind?

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00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: Moving the my object you want to read? I know

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Speaker 1: you don't like me, y'all. I don't need to No,

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00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't need that. I want to move stuff with

611
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Speaker 1: my mind.

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Speaker 9: All right, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, ladies

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Speaker 9: and gentlemen, get ready. We consulting an expert because we

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Speaker 9: wanted to know the real deal. Okay, Steve is here

615
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Speaker 9: with his breakup handbook.

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Speaker 1: All right, these are things that you need to have

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Speaker 1: in mind after the breakup.

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Speaker 2: Most of this is for fellas, because when we take

619
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Speaker 2: a breakup hard, it's ugly.

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Speaker 1: It's ugly out there.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: These are things from Steve.

623
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Speaker 2: Harvey's Breakup Handbook, how to act when you break up?

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Speaker 1: All right. Now, here's rule number one. You are allowed

625
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Speaker 1: only one wronk.

626
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Speaker 2: Die. You know how you call them up when you drunk.

627
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Speaker 2: You only get to one. And it sounds like something

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Speaker 2: like this, Hello is me?

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Speaker 1: You know who me is? Don't play with me? You

630
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Speaker 1: know who me? Don't play with my emotions?

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Speaker 9: Is me?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 1: You you know who me is? How many you get one?

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Speaker 1: Get one of them? All right? Now, here's the next rule.

635
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Speaker 2: You are not allowed to roll up on your ex

636
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Speaker 2: just cause you see the car parked outside.

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Speaker 1: The club, the restaurant or church. Don't go on down.

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Speaker 1: You can't do that ship because.

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Speaker 2: We broke up here, I can't go in there. If

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Speaker 2: I see a car, you can't roll up on her.

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Speaker 4: Is she in that praison.

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Speaker 2: Low. Nah, I gotta say you with church later on,

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Speaker 2: but just stay that stay out right. You can't roll

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Speaker 2: up on them.

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Speaker 1: Oh that she is. I'm gonna go in now. Yeah,

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00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,959
Speaker 1: Oh there he is. I'm going in there. You can't

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Speaker 1: do that car. Look at a legendly all right.

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Speaker 2: Next one y'all's favorite spot. It's off limits to both

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Speaker 2: parties for at least four months. Nobody else over there.

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Speaker 1: Why you get to go to the spot at least

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Speaker 1: four months? Keep it one hundred. Here's another one.

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Speaker 8: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Texting your favorite song to each other is off limit.

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Speaker 2: You can listen to it, you can cry to it.

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Speaker 1: You're playing over and over, but you can't send me

656
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: see what I'm trying to move on and I'm killing you.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this, all y'all.

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Speaker 2: Stuff, all possessions is collected at one time.

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Speaker 1: At one time.

661
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: Anything that's left behind will be thrown away by both parties.

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00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:25,919
Speaker 1: Keep coming over here looking for stuff. You can't keep

663
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Speaker 1: coming over here.

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Speaker 2: I got coming to you in the closet looking for

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Speaker 2: your tank top. It real.

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Speaker 1: Here, the big one right here.

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Speaker 2: Nobody is allowed to talk to each other's mama, and

668
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 2: you can't be friends.

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Speaker 1: With mama.

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Speaker 3: Come.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that's a good one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: I like that you're trying to pick up some greens

673
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 1: and you in here.

674
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 16: Talking rolling your eyes when I walk in the door.

675
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: Here's the next one. Okay, all parties. She find a

676
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: new church home. Yes, but yeah, yeah together.

677
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 4: I love WI.

678
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: All your friends should be divided up equally except the

679
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 2: ones you hate.

680
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: You can have him here another one, no posting the

681
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 1: new pictures?

682
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, you know, like her naked on him dressed

683
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 2: up like the damn easter Brook.

684
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: The private What about I'm gonna do. I'm gonna finish

685
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 1: this one about the old naked pictures.

686
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Speaker 9: All right, Well, nephew, tell me Bran Fall coming up

687
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 9: and we'll finish out scenes break up rules.

688
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 8: Right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning Show coming up

689
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 8: at the top of the hour.

690
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 9: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today,

691
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 9: the subject my husband is.

692
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 8: A thug and a prominent pastor.

693
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 3: What but uh?

694
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 9: Right now, the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

695
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 9: What you got for snav.

696
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw this one up from my pops right here?

697
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 1: Can I have your kidney? Yeah? That was Pop's favorite

698
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: right there.

699
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 3: Let's hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a brother Conley.

700
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 3: This is kind of how you doing, bro? This is

701
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,120
Speaker 3: Deacon Patterson, call him from the church. How you doing today? Uh,

702
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 3: Deacon Patterson? Yeah, you're doing finding yourself, sir, I'm doing good,

703
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 3: doing good. You know the church is behind you on

704
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 3: what you're going through. When we were praying for you, man,

705
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 3: we know all about the you know you're going in

706
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: the surgery on Friday to get your get your painkers removed.

707
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 3: So I wanted to give you a call, man, have

708
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 3: a word of prayer and let you know that we

709
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 3: all are pulling for you, and we know that that

710
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 3: the man upstairs is gonna pull you through the success.

711
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 3: Will God bless and keep you? Uh that, Deacon, God

712
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 3: bless and keep you? Because I tell you I'm going

713
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 3: through something here. Me and my wife, we've been talking

714
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 3: about it and we've been praying on it. And it

715
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 3: shows a wonderful thing to know that your church is

716
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,439
Speaker 3: with you and and y'all thinking about me in prayer.

717
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 3: I I really had to take this this to the Lord.

718
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 3: This is a serious thing with me and I ain't

719
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 3: never had an operation before in my life, and I

720
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 3: know I needed my wife have made it clear, the

721
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 3: doctor that made it clear, and I believe I'm ready

722
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 3: to go forward with Deacon and we're gonna give the

723
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 3: victory to who the victory, which, yes, sir, he's the victory.

724
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 3: Let me let me have a word of prayer with

725
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: your brother col if you don't mind, just bout your

726
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 3: head from me. Father God, we ask right now, we

727
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 3: ask right now that you touch brother Connley as he

728
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 3: goes in on Friday, please put your hands on him.

729
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 3: We ask Father that you hold on to the doctor

730
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 3: that's getting ready to go and put surgery on it. Yes,

731
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 3: we asked that you make sure that the doctor he's

732
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 3: got a strong eye on that morning walk with him.

733
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 3: We asked that that that he got a steady hand

734
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 3: when he got the Scoppel in his hand. We asked

735
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 3: that you hold on to it he as he goes

736
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 3: into a surgery, because we know, come side the morning

737
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 3: now the victory going belong to brother Conley and the Lord,

738
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 3: thank you Lord, we know all of it. But we

739
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 3: we asked that you take that paincreas and you remove

740
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 3: it out successfully, close him back up like it will

741
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: never been into the end before walk with me. That's

742
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 3: what we're asking. We ask your Lord at the same

743
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 3: time that they're removing this pancreous Lord, we asked that

744
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 3: you reach around his backside, and we asked that you

745
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 3: touch his kidney. Lord, touch his kidney and make it hold.

746
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 3: Make it one hundred and ten percent. We want you

747
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 3: to make that kidney like it's been thet back. It

748
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:05,960
Speaker 3: was Deacon. That's Deacon, Deacon who packed Deacon passion. Yes, yes,

749
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,919
Speaker 3: I ain't they dump, sir. There's nothing wrong with my kidney. Deacon,

750
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 3: I'm doing I'm doing fine. The Lordest, the Lordest then

751
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 3: made it. Well, he's gonna work on my package. That's

752
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 3: what the doctors operating though. They don't me forward, and

753
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 3: that's what they playing and remove. So really, my kidney

754
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 3: is fined. They did what they called it when they

755
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 3: me in my eyes, and everything else is fine. They

756
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,319
Speaker 3: ain't working on nothing but my package, sir, right right right, Well,

757
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,319
Speaker 3: let me let me say I'm glad you brought that up.

758
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 3: This This wouldn't reason why I call you, uh huh

759
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 3: uh of course I did call to pray for you. Yes,

760
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 3: you know, because I want to make sure that that

761
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 3: that that you make it through this successfully. But what

762
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 3: another reason why I was getting around it is here

763
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 3: is uh, what I want to ask you, and I

764
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 3: know we we you know we've never met face to face.

765
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:48,879
Speaker 3: I've seen you a couple of times, like I said,

766
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 3: the church, but you've been out most time. Uh well

767
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 3: you're with your sickness and whatnot. But now, what what

768
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you was, yeah, and I know

769
00:45:58,480 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 3: this is I hate to come at you and the

770
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 3: final hour and you're getting ready to go have certain

771
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 3: and all that. But if you don't mind it, if

772
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 3: you could see it in your heart to see to

773
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 3: do something for somebody else, Yes, Uh, that's that's the

774
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 3: last will. You always supposed to have those who right right,

775
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 3: And I'm glad you think like that when they go

776
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,879
Speaker 3: in on Friday morning and and remove that paincre is out.

777
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 3: Do you think that that that that they could go

778
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:31,399
Speaker 3: in and get one of your kidneys? Because I need

779
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:37,879
Speaker 3: one hold hold on just what you say, see see

780
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 3: see what else I've been going through myself with a

781
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 3: little helment and and I'm wondering if if I need

782
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 3: a kidney, and I'm wondering if you can give me

783
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 3: one of yours when they go in and get your paint,

784
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 3: because they go already have your open. Did you say

785
00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 3: you wanted them to take one of my kidneys? Yeah,

786
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 3: and give it to me because I need one. You

787
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 3: need a kidney? Yeah, but what I mean you're already

788
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 3: gonna be laying there open them in the mister, you

789
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 3: need a kidney. I need help with my pastors. You

790
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 3: gonna call me with some flat that. Man, this ain't

791
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 3: no work of the Lord. Now you say you're a

792
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 3: dicon like I said, dickon patters in my name. But

793
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 3: see what I'm asking you? If what can me? Man?

794
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,439
Speaker 3: Brother Conny, what harm is it? If you already open

795
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 3: and laying on the table. Oh, you ain't heard a

796
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 3: damn thing I said?

797
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: Have you?

798
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: I said, I'll be man, you crazy as hell. Now

799
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 3: what I'm gonna have to do. I'm gonna need to

800
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 3: call the pastor because here's a going on here. You

801
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 3: say you knew you man, the damn new mister. Matter

802
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: of fact, you too damn new to know who you're

803
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: talking to. What I'm saying is you have two look

804
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 3: like you said, you say they did the MRI. I God,

805
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 3: don't give up what I said they did. Man, I

806
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 3: got two kidneys. You got to one of your ad bad.

807
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 3: That's your problem, mister. Let me tell you something. I'm

808
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 3: trying to get well, and you call them with this,

809
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 3: You say you a new dicon, You damn show is

810
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 3: and you won't be at that church loan. I tell

811
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 3: you that because if I ever get close to your sister,

812
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 3: we got some riskmen to do. Is it gonna hurt

813
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 3: for you to give me one of them kittingers? If

814
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 3: both of them, if both them kitteners is good, ain't

815
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 3: gonna hit him? Thank him? You ain't getting my kidney? Man,

816
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 3: ain't go a huad? What's wrong with you? Say? Man?

817
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 3: All I'm saying is, if you're gonna be opening laying

818
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: on the table, what is it gonna hurt? I got

819
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 3: me mold. Now you're gonna till themm moote me laying

820
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 3: on the damn table? What kind of a play you

821
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 3: in charge of? Mister? Let me tell you something I was.

822
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 3: I need to meet you before I get to the hospital,

823
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 3: and maybe I can help take got that damn bad

824
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 3: getting in yours. I can tell you that we out,

825
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 3: you won't feel a damn thing. I got that I'll

826
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:34,160
Speaker 3: be damn if you gonna call and talk me out

827
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,400
Speaker 3: of one of my damn kitteness. Man, I'm trying to

828
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 3: live just like you, trying to let you know it.

829
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: Take care of me, because what you talking about it

830
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 3: ain't got a damn thing to do with Jesus. You

831
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 3: can catch my and get off my phone, that's what

832
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 3: you can do. Can I say one more thing to you?

833
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 3: What is you listening to me? Man? I to listen

834
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 3: to you, and you ain't talking about nothing that's got

835
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,399
Speaker 3: nothing to do with what's going on with me. Mister

836
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 3: you running a game. If I could get to you,

837
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 3: I put land in your can I just say one

838
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 3: more thing and then I'm gonna let you go. And

839
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 3: you're listening for what that's just left you timing from

840
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 3: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by

841
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 3: your daughter. Oh Lord, have that girl. Lord have mercy,

842
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 3: Lord have much Jesus and you all right, brother gouds Man,

843
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 3: You have made me use language that I swear I

844
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 3: don't know nobody. I heard my neighbors them using that

845
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:29,959
Speaker 3: got and stopped a long time ago talking that away.

846
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 3: Please forgive me, Lord him Mersey, whoa yo I'm gonna

847
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 3: have to Lord, have mersey. My heart is time painting here,

848
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 3: Lord have mercy. Jesus, this ain't me, This ain't me.

849
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Speaker 3: And you I'll tell you what I enjoined Steve Harvey.

850
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Speaker 3: Isn't this if you told me I do, Brother Colly,

851
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 3: I gotta ask you one more thing, man, What is

852
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 3: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in

853
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 3: the land. It's gotta be It's gotta be y'all. It's

854
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 3: gotta be y'all here. I don't stee Harby Morning Steve

855
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,760
Speaker 3: Harvey Morning Show. Lord help us. I ain't gonna forget

856
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 3: it now.

857
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Speaker 2: I prayed that thing at the beginning. I was praying

858
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 2: that thing now, yeah, yeah, you know if you why

859
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 2: are you open? It's you open? They just reach around

860
00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 2: now and let me get one of them kidneys because

861
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 2: I need one that you don't mind it get smooth

862
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 2: cussed out by a deacon.

863
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Speaker 1: Ain't none wrong. That's it up next to Strawberry Letter.

864
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Speaker 9: My husband is a thug and a prominent pastor. We'll

865
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Speaker 9: get into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 9: Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

867
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868
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869
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871
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Speaker 9: to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 1: See that. Buggle up and hold on tight. We got

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Speaker 1: it for you here. It is Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 9: Nephew's subject My husband is a thug and a prominent pastor. Okay,

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Speaker 9: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for seven years. I'm

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Speaker 9: forty three and my husband is thirty eight. But he

878
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Speaker 9: acts like the world owes him something and always has

879
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 9: a chip on his shoulder. He is argumentative and I

880
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 9: wanna be thug. He grew up in a rough area

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Speaker 9: and he had to make it out of a hood

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Speaker 9: on his own. But he won't acknowledge that he's in

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Speaker 9: a much better place spiritually and financially now. He will

884
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,320
Speaker 9: preach a good sermon on Sunday, but Monday through Saturday,

885
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 9: he curses, drinks, and he's a womanizing thug. He curses

886
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 9: like a sailor, and he loves to brag about fighting

887
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 9: and who's behind. He could whoop if he had a chance.

888
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 9: He's cheated on me twice. The second time it happened,

889
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 9: I checked out of the marriage. I would love to

890
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 9: divorce him, but I can't because he is my sole

891
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 9: source of income. I got laid off in April of

892
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 9: last year, and I'm having a hard time finding a

893
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:08,080
Speaker 9: full time job. He stands in the pulpit on Sunday's

894
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 9: while I sit amongst the two or more women he

895
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 9: slept with at the church. A few sundays ago, a

896
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 9: female church member approached me and said my husband made

897
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 9: inappropriate remarks to her. I told her that she should

898
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,760
Speaker 9: tell her husband. A couple of days later, my husband

899
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 9: came home and said he got into a verbal altercation

900
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 9: with the lady's husband, and I acted surprised.

901
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 8: My husband was flustered and embarrassed. I'm thinking all of

902
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,239
Speaker 8: the men in the church need to know what he's

903
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 8: up to.

904
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 9: The two church members he slept with are married, and

905
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 9: I think their husband should know what my husband has

906
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 9: been doing. Should I start a war at the church

907
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 9: or leave.

908
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:47,120
Speaker 8: Vengeance up to the Lord?

909
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 9: Well, I'll say no, definitely, don't start a war at

910
00:52:50,920 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 9: the church. And the first lady, you know, the Bible

911
00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 9: does say vengeance is mine. You know that vengeance is

912
00:52:56,520 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 9: mine saith the Lord, so you already know the answer

913
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 9: to that. The question is what are you going to do?

914
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,440
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm trying to figure out how you're still

915
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 9: with him.

916
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 8: He's a hypocrite.

917
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,800
Speaker 9: He's supposed to be a changed man, and you know

918
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 9: all of that practice what he preaches every Sunday. And

919
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 9: you know, of course, I'm not saying that he should

920
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 9: be perfect, because you know he's still a man, of course,

921
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 9: but nothing in the letter says that he's a man

922
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 9: of God except for that he goes Sunday and preaches

923
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 9: and preaches a good sermon. But after that money through Saturday,

924
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 9: you know he's all in this thug life or whatever

925
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 9: he's been trying to do. You say, he's a womanizing thug,

926
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 9: but then you're dependent upon him financially, so.

927
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 8: That makes it hard for you to lead. He's a cheater.

928
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 9: You've been humiliated every Sunday when you see these women's faces.

929
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 9: Your man is sexually harassing women at the church, and

930
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 9: and just wrong. He's just wrong on every level. I mean,

931
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 9: you can't change him, but I guess, you know, I

932
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 9: guess you should be planning your escape. I mean I

933
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,319
Speaker 9: say escape because you got to get away from him

934
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 9: at least for a little while.

935
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:10,760
Speaker 8: You got to do something.

936
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 9: I mean, he's not showing any signs of stopping, he's

937
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,880
Speaker 9: not showing any signs of remorse or anything.

938
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:20,719
Speaker 8: And he's being very disrespectful and self destructive. You know,

939
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 8: really trying not to.

940
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 9: I do ask you this, Try not to make any

941
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 9: emotional decisions like telling the husbands. You know, like you

942
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 9: said at the end of the letter, let God handle that.

943
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 9: You just continue to look for a job because you

944
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 9: know something is going to give eventually. See if you

945
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 9: have any friends or family members you can trust that

946
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 9: maybe can help you. And in the meantime, maybe you

947
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:47,320
Speaker 9: could suggest counseling. I doubt if he'll go, maybe you

948
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:51,720
Speaker 9: can suggest that. But definitely you have to change your situation,

949
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 9: your pattern, what you're doing, so to start.

950
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 8: Saving up if you can, you know, get a.

951
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 9: Little part time job or something you're looking for full time.

952
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 9: But you gotta get out of there because this is

953
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 9: not healthy, especially for you.

954
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: Steve.

955
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 2: You know this letter right here, it starts off as

956
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 2: a major conflict, just the subject my husband is a thug,

957
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 2: and a prominent pastor. What Okay, let's just deal with

958
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 2: the he's a pastor part because he's really not a thug.

959
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 2: He's really really not He's nothing in this letter he

960
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 2: does is thuggish. I'm just but but he's supposed to

961
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: be a pastor, So let's get with the conflict right away.

962
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 2: He acts like the world owes him. First of all,

963
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 2: you took forty three and he thirty eight. What did

964
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: he say to you to get you in the first place?

965
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 2: I don't even understand this here, But that ain't what

966
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 2: the letter's about. But let me show you the conflict

967
00:55:50,680 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: of him being a prominent pastor. First thing, he acts

968
00:55:54,120 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 2: like the world owes him something. Here's another one. He

969
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 2: always has a chip on him shoulder. Here's another one.

970
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:07,520
Speaker 2: He's argumentive, and last but not least, he's a wanna

971
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 2: be thug. How the hell did he get to be

972
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 2: the pastor?

973
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: Right?

974
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:17,359
Speaker 2: I mean, just these four qualities right here? How did

975
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 2: he become a prominent pastor? He grew up in the

976
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: in the rough air, had to make it out the

977
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:25,839
Speaker 2: hood on his own. How many you know how many

978
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 2: of us got that story?

979
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 1: Three on this show? Three on this show that Damn

980
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: everybody I know that's anything.

981
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,320
Speaker 2: Damn there got that story. Tell all of us on

982
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 2: this show, got that story. So what is he talking about?

983
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:46,880
Speaker 2: He don't acknowledge that he's in a much better place spiritually.

984
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 1: What I can't tell you. I'm just let it just

985
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 1: too much with all Right, here we go.

986
00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 2: He will preach a good sermon on Sunday, but Monday

987
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 2: through Saturday he cusses, he drinks, and he's a womanizing thug. Okay,

988
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 2: now let's let's let's go back. He's your husband and

989
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 2: you're putting up with the cuss in to drinking and womanize.

990
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 2: He cutses like a sailor, loves a brag about fighting,

991
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: hold on and who's behind. He could whoop if he

992
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: had a chance.

993
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 9: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming twenty twenty

994
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 9: three minutes after the hour subject my husband is a

995
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 9: thug and a prominent pastor. We'll get back into it

996
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:34,920
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Speaker 9: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1007
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 9: The subject My husband is a thug and a prominent pastor.

1008
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 2: All right, the prominent pastor has these following qualities the world. Oh,

1009
00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 2: he acts like the world owe him something. He always

1010
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,320
Speaker 2: got a chip on his shoulder. He's argumented, and he's

1011
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 2: a wanna be thug. You're married to him. He worked

1012
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 2: his way out the hood, but he won't acknowledge that

1013
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,919
Speaker 2: he's in a better place because he wants to hold

1014
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 2: up this little thug mentality for some dumb ass reason.

1015
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: He'll preach a.

1016
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 2: Good sermon on Sunday, but Monday through Saturday, he cusses, drinks,

1017
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 2: and he's a womanizing thug. So he has a lot

1018
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 2: of women, and obviously you know this cusses like a Salem.

1019
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 2: He loves a brag about fighting and who's behind. He

1020
00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 2: could whoop if he had a chance. You always got

1021
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 2: your chance to jump on somebody if that opportunity it's available.

1022
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 2: Twenty four seven. You just going over there and start

1023
00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 2: to fight, if that's what you want to do. He

1024
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 2: just talking, He running his damn mouth.

1025
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: He ain't whooping.

1026
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: Nobody asks. But this dude right here is worse than that.

1027
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 2: Now you said he's cheated on me twice. The second

1028
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: time it happened, you checked out the marriage. Then you

1029
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 2: say I would love to divorce him, but I can't

1030
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 2: because he's my sole source of income. Okay, now we

1031
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 2: have to deal with this part for a second. So

1032
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 2: I understand that. I mean, look, don't think I don't.

1033
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: So I got it. You you ain't got no means

1034
00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 1: of taking care of yourself and everything. I get it.

1035
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: I'm not naive to that. But now let's go over

1036
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: what you have to swallow to have this roof over

1037
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 1: your head and car to drive. He acts like the

1038
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: world owe him something.

1039
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 2: He's argumented, got a chip on his shoulder, He's sleeping

1040
00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 2: with women at the church. You know about it, and

1041
00:59:59,240 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 2: you got to de with all that if you want

1042
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 2: to keep having the key to that house. I just

1043
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 2: I don't is it worth it?

1044
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 1: Is it worth it?

1045
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 2: You know? I would love to divorce him, but I

1046
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 2: can't because he's my sole source of inquer I got

1047
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,440
Speaker 2: laid off in April last year, having a hard time

1048
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: find a full time job. He stands in the pull

1049
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 2: pitch on Sundays while I sit amongst the two or

1050
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 2: more women he slept with at the church.

1051
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 1: Woo you you bad girl. You you you're a bad girl. Man.

1052
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 2: You use use a bad girl, and you gotta swallow

1053
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 2: a lot. Look, I don't know where your relatives at.

1054
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 2: I don't know who you could move in with temporarily.

1055
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 2: I don't know if you think you're walking away from

1056
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,320
Speaker 2: something and leaving it to somebody else. But you ain't

1057
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 2: got nothing else. I mean, he's doggish, man, This dude

1058
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 2: is doggish. But here the one that got it. A

1059
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 2: few sundays ago, female churchmen approached me and said, my

1060
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: husband and made an inappropriate remark to her.

1061
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,480
Speaker 1: You told her you should tell her husband.

1062
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 2: A couple days later, my husband came home, said he

1063
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 2: got into a verbal altercation with the lady's husband and

1064
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 2: acted surprise.

1065
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: What happened to all that ass whooping he was gonna die.

1066
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: Remember that? Remember that. You know, if you really wanted

1067
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: to whoop somebody ass, this was the perfect opportunity.

1068
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 2: Dude up in your face accusing you of something, you

1069
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 2: probably gonna act like you didn't do.

1070
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 1: So you're gonna act like you didn't say it.

1071
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 2: You got to because you're the pastor because you can't

1072
01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 2: admit it, because you know if you admit you did

1073
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 2: what you said, you know this dude gonna light into you.

1074
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,040
Speaker 1: So your little husband is a little coward.

1075
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 2: Now, my husband was flustered and embarrassed once again?

1076
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: What happened to this ass whooping he been wanting to do?

1077
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: See the man approached you. Now you flustered in the back.

1078
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 1: Where is all when you come home? Give me one?

1079
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 1: Come on, Jack Johnson, show me something. All right?

1080
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: I'm thinking of all the men in the church that

1081
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 2: need to know what he's up to, the two church

1082
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 2: members he slept.

1083
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 1: With or married, and I think that husband should know

1084
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: what my husband has been doing.

1085
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 2: Okay, now, your husband has been talking about whooping a

1086
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 2: lot of people's behind. But if you go to these women,

1087
01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 2: husband and tumness, hen, he's sure gonna be involved.

1088
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 1: In the ass who was there, and he ain't gonna

1089
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: want neither one of them.

1090
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 2: But they gonna do something to your husband, see you,

1091
01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: they gonna do something to him then, So I agree

1092
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 2: with Shirley. I don't think you should say it to them.

1093
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 2: I think the bigger problem for you is what you

1094
01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 2: gonna do. I think that's the bigger problem. I think

1095
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 2: your situation you should start focusing on you. You've already

1096
01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 2: checked out the marriage. It ain't much of a marriage.

1097
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 2: What you're willing to lose you don't have.

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Speaker 1: You don't have.

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 2: He's disrespectful, he's misleading, he's overbearing, he's the bully pool pit,

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Speaker 2: he's abusive to you.

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Speaker 1: He treats you any kind of way. And if I

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Speaker 1: were you, I would just find a way to remove

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Speaker 1: myself from that situation. All you got to do is

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Speaker 1: gone by your business. You ain't got to do nothing.

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Speaker 2: You can't stand in the pul pit claim to be

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Speaker 2: God's man and be doing what you want. You might

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Speaker 2: be getting away with it to them people, but you

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01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 2: ain't getting away from God. You walk away from this,

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Speaker 2: Go set yourself up, Go stay at the relative's house,

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01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 2: get out of that situation. Because the London Bridge is

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Speaker 2: falling down.

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Speaker 9: Yep, all right, post comment, Thank you Steve and Today's

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Speaker 9: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook.

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Speaker 9: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast Done demand. You're listening

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Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, there's a new

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01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:05,440
Speaker 9: study out and researchers have identified a strong sign of

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01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 9: lying is mimicking the body language of the person they're

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Speaker 9: lying too, a liar and a copycat. The title of

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Speaker 9: a new study now published in the Royal Society's Open

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Speaker 9: Science Journal could later lead to application applications of the

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Speaker 9: theory in criminal justice. Wow, So Steve, Tommy and Jr.

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Speaker 9: What's your physical tell when you're lying? I? Can you not?

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01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Can you not?

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Speaker 1: Look at Why would we sit here and tell that

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01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 1: right there? Why would we do that? We know I'm

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Speaker 1: I ain't got no tail. I lie to you dead

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Speaker 1: in your faces. I ain't no tail, ain't.

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Speaker 2: You can't ever bust me on the original line. You

1131
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:55,720
Speaker 2: can go days and do some fact checking and come

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01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 2: up with the truth. But the moment I'm telling the lie,

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01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: very very.

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01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: Girl? What what tail? Right now? Sure?

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01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:11,200
Speaker 8: Color is your shirt?

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01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 2: But is it?

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01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 8: Is it it's leopard.

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01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Have you ever seen when? Have you ever

1139
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 1: seen a black leopard?

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01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:31,200
Speaker 8: That's the jaguar.

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01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: Jaguar. Wipe your camera off.

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01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 8: You're just gonna go with the like.

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01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 4: Right down.

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01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:44,800
Speaker 1: I got to keep it going. Have you ever been something?

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01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 2: Have y'all not immediately let me ask you something. Y'all

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01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: probably y'all ain't never took a polygraph before?

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01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 1: You never took you took a pograph? Hell yeah, what

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01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 1: a comedy.

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01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 2: Take the tail it take. I didn't become a comedian

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01:06:06,880 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 2: until I was twenty seven. I didn't get famous at

1151
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 2: this till I was thirty eight. Ply, have I ever

1152
01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 2: took a product? Have federal charges you?

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01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 1: Please? You have them gone. I've been cleared. I'm fine.

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01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: It's been way more seven years. I can't get on

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01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: none of this year.

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01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 2: I took your past, every line, my ass off.

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01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: The time, lie right to his head.

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Speaker 8: You need to go on first forty eight or something.

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Speaker 1: The only thing got me was that video surveillance. I

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01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: was standing there right there with the dude.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, when the truth, that's.

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Speaker 1: How you get good at it. Shirley and caler.

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01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 2: What you have to lie when you don't have to

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01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:55,439
Speaker 2: lie that get that gives you the expatise at it, y'all,

1165
01:06:55,480 --> 01:06:56,919
Speaker 2: wait till it's time to lie.

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Speaker 1: No work on that.

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Speaker 8: That's a horrible liar. I'm a horrible life I really am.

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01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 8: I really am. I'm the worst.

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Speaker 9: All right, you're listening.

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Speaker 1: Morning show.

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Speaker 9: All right, So guys, here's a question for you. Do

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01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 9: you have a hiding place in your home to just

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01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 9: have a few minutes alone?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 9: I mean everybody should have some place, some little getaway

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01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:27,000
Speaker 9: place that they can have some me time. For instance,

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Speaker 9: some women like to have what they call a she

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01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 9: shed or a small room that they can read in

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Speaker 9: or just chill in.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 8: I love the bathroom.

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01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 9: Men usually go into the garage or their man cave

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01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 9: or the basement or someplace. Do you take an extended

1184
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 9: break in your home hiding place? Do you do it

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01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 9: every day?

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01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:46,439
Speaker 1: Is the question?

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01:07:47,120 --> 01:07:49,760
Speaker 9: Or does your family know not to disturb you when

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01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 9: you're in your favorite room or you're hiding place. Come on, Steve,

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Speaker 9: I know you take time for yourself.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I've always done that.

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Speaker 2: I go to San Diego lead a house. Yeah, get

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Speaker 2: the hell out. Can't follow me down there, Damn. Grandkids

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Speaker 2: know how to use the elevator and everything. I'll be damn,

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01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 2: I'm going to Sandy Egg.

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Speaker 8: It's beautiful there.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if it is just they're not there.

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Speaker 1: You got one. Yeah, I left.

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Speaker 8: I will be in my bathroom for out words.

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Speaker 1: Okay. I was in the bathroom in the bad.

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Speaker 9: Because I have a TV in there, and you know

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01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 9: I do my makeup, you know. Yeah, I don't mean

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01:08:30,840 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 9: the water.

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Speaker 1: You don't mean the toilet.

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01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:34,799
Speaker 8: No, no, no, I don't spend most.

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Speaker 1: Of my time. I spend most of my time in

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Speaker 1: the bathroom.

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Speaker 8: No, no, not there.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to be the outer part. Yeah. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's a separate with the bathroom. I got my TV

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Speaker 1: right in front of the toilet and a computer. Oh

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Speaker 1: that's how you go from now, that's how you I don't.

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Speaker 2: Miss nothing because when I'm watching the game, I just

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Speaker 2: get up and going in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: It's on the wall right in front of you. That's yeah.

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Speaker 2: That I ain't nothing up a little high where you

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Speaker 2: can keep your head up. You don't want to look

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Speaker 2: even keep your head up. Your digestive track is more open, slight.

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Speaker 8: What about you tell me.

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Speaker 1: I'm in my theater. I can get away from the theater.

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Speaker 1: Did you hear that, rich ass? Yeah, yeah, you said

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Speaker 1: a rich asd statement. I ain't saying that. You said,

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Speaker 1: my kids on my grand baby's on the elevator. I

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Speaker 1: ain't saying nothing about your elevator in your house. I

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Speaker 1: ain't no. I know you did say that. I was

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Speaker 1: going to because I ain't.

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Speaker 8: Go ahead, t you got the rooms thought I hated limited.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well July passed his elevator on my theater. Hey, Junior,

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Speaker 1: which one of your rooms in your house is your theater?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, let's hear from the poet, I have a theater.

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Speaker 1: What I had to do is take some some drapes

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Speaker 1: and put him on the side of the TV.

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Speaker 8: Make my ass a field with the.

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Speaker 16: I'm gonna make a theater. Hold on, y'all, come out.

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01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 16: The kitchen's gonna hit you. I'm gonna make a field.

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Speaker 16: That boy that Paul told be nice.

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Speaker 4: I ain't me.

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Speaker 1: I go to my theater thoroughly. Never nothing. I can't

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Speaker 1: say nothing.

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Speaker 8: How many seats in the theater.

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Speaker 1: I'm not telling you so many. They can't find him

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01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:42,120
Speaker 1: in there. You'll shut up, Steve, where is that in

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01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 1: this theater? Go down front? See if he's down now

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01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 1: after the theater, I better take my hand down. I

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01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:51,720
Speaker 1: ain't gonna look in the bric and to see it

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01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:59,320
Speaker 1: be up now. Donay ask me where I go to

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01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:00,960
Speaker 1: get away? That's all I said.

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Speaker 8: Man, well the Lord is still blessing.

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01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:07,599
Speaker 4: I didn't even know you had.

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01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:10,479
Speaker 1: If you're talking to you like you have one, I

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01:11:10,560 --> 01:11:12,639
Speaker 1: got change. I talk to you. How are you talking

1251
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:12,960
Speaker 1: to him?

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01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 8: And frod like he had no thea Now he got

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01:11:15,200 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 8: a thief.

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01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:16,640
Speaker 1: I got to change. I talked to him.

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01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:17,599
Speaker 8: Man missed the nephew.

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01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:21,719
Speaker 1: Now, hey, missus, nephew, what time you go down.

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01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 2: To the.

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01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:24,480
Speaker 1: Oha?

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01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 2: Oh?

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01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,240
Speaker 1: What so, Steve?

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01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:29,320
Speaker 8: In case you don't make it to San Diego? What

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01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:31,880
Speaker 8: what room in your home do you go to? Where

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01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 8: do you go?

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01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: I'll go all the way down to the basement. Just

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01:11:35,160 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: down there though, down there this little man cave.

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Speaker 3: I got.

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01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:47,560
Speaker 9: Oh, okay, all right, are.

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01:11:44,680 --> 01:11:45,240
Speaker 4: You coming up?

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01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:48,479
Speaker 9: More of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show,

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01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:50,960
Speaker 9: and we'll be back in twenty minutes after the hour,

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01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,879
Speaker 9: right after this what man, the yeah.

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Speaker 8: You're listening morning show?

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01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 9: According to the Washington Post, getting hot and sweaty between

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01:12:03,760 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 9: the sheets can feel like a workout, and several recent

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01:12:06,880 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 9: studies look into answering is sex exercise. Researchers in Spain

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01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 9: study couples and found that sex counts as moderate exercise

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01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,960
Speaker 9: as it revs up the heart rate and burns calories,

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01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 9: but just how much varies widely.

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01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 8: The amount of time people spend.

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Speaker 9: Having sex also varies, with young, healthy couples going at

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Speaker 9: it for an average of thirty two minutes, while couples

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Speaker 9: with health conditions last about nineteen minutes.

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Speaker 8: So here's a question for you, guys.

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01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:40,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's me right, Yeah, go back to health conditions.

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01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: That's why I'm in nineteen.

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01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:49,320
Speaker 9: You're a ninety minutes, all right, So come on, sexy guys,

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01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 9: do you consider sex the workout? And do you ever

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01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:56,519
Speaker 9: look at your fitness tracker to see how many calories

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01:12:56,600 --> 01:12:57,880
Speaker 9: it burns or your heart rate?

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01:12:59,120 --> 01:12:59,719
Speaker 8: That's the question.

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01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:03,760
Speaker 1: Okay. I can't have nothing on me when I mean,

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01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:07,840
Speaker 1: I can't have no extra cords or nothing. I got.

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01:13:10,760 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 2: Caught on the sheet of none of that. I can't

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01:13:13,400 --> 01:13:15,200
Speaker 2: have nothing to throw my rhythm off. I can't hear

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01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:16,240
Speaker 2: no long go off.

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01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. Warning, warning, you're in the red. You're in the red.

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01:13:21,400 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: You're a heart riding through. Yeah, you're dying. You are dying.

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01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:33,360
Speaker 8: Okay, you had it coming up at thirty three minutes

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01:13:33,400 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 8: after the hour. We'll play around it. Would you rather

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01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 8: right after?

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01:13:37,520 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: This is this guy? I don't know him.

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01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:46,240
Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show. All right, guys, it's time

1303
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 9: now for another round of would you rather?

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01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:49,720
Speaker 12: Uh?

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01:13:50,160 --> 01:13:50,560
Speaker 1: Here we go?

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01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 9: Would you rather never be able to take a hot

1307
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 9: shower or never be able to eat fried food again,

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01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:01,600
Speaker 9: specifically fried chicken and fried catfish?

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01:14:02,840 --> 01:14:05,439
Speaker 2: I never, I never, I never have fried food again.

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01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 2: I can't take a shower. Hot shot, hot shot? Well,

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01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:12,920
Speaker 2: who on a cold shot?

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01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 8: A lot of people take cold showers. I don't know how,

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01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 8: I don't know, but they do.

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01:14:20,280 --> 01:14:22,639
Speaker 1: Right, No, I'm through it. The fried need the shower.

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01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: I take too many a day. I need that shower.

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Speaker 1: It can't be close. Today.

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Speaker 8: Your nephew takes three showers a day.

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01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 2: Stop letting him tell y'all that taking no damn three

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01:14:37,240 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 2: showers a day.

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Speaker 1: You got stuff with you.

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01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 2: You got radio show, he got radio show, he tooled,

1322
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 2: and he got TV show and a game show. W

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01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 2: the hell he got tired to take three damn showers

1324
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 2: a day, y'all, letting.

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01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:54,719
Speaker 1: Him tell y'all this stuff fall.

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01:14:55,240 --> 01:15:00,800
Speaker 2: Dude, we know heower, Hold up, hold me paint this pretty.

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01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 1: Fore, he got a four hour radio show that you

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01:15:03,120 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 1: do every day.

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01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 2: He got a TV show, he got game show, he toured,

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01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 2: he got kids, he gotta go to baseball games with.

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01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 2: He gotta go to proms and stuff with. He got

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01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 2: family time, and he got a wife. How you take

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01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 2: three showers a day.

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01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 1: He worked?

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01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:26,720
Speaker 2: I'm letting him tell you that, fulk, How would you

1336
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 2: know all that? Because I got more than he got.

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01:15:32,600 --> 01:15:35,160
Speaker 2: He's got no time for no damn three shows a day.

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01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:43,680
Speaker 1: Gotta make this money, man, three damn showers a day? Good? Well,

1339
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 1: I get home sometime I fall asleep in my office.

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01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:48,360
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna be no damn showers.

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01:15:50,920 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 2: Now. Sitting up in here, man, sitting up in you

1342
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:59,320
Speaker 2: just like my stylist Ellie, with his little simple ass,

1343
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 2: over overdoing and all this ho notion and baby in

1344
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 2: his damn so get your Let we go. Man sitting

1345
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 2: up in here, rubbing all tween your damn toes. Put

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01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 2: some all on your foot.

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01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 1: Let's go take all this damn showers. Man, you ain't

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01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 1: that damn clean. We got to go.

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01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 9: I do.

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01:16:23,000 --> 01:16:26,800
Speaker 1: Thank you? All right, all right, next one'll let him

1351
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 1: tell you that for go ahead.

1352
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 9: But you rather have the ability to read minds? Or

1353
01:16:33,680 --> 01:16:36,680
Speaker 9: would you rather have the ability to move objects with

1354
01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:37,320
Speaker 9: your mind?

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01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: Moving the object you want to read? Mind? I know

1356
01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 1: you don't like me. I don't need to read you,

1357
01:16:44,840 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 1: my man. No, I don't need that.

1358
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 2: I want to move stuff with my mind. All right,

1359
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:57,080
Speaker 2: you walking down the street, I move that mail box.

1360
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,960
Speaker 1: Over in front of your ass. You can watch your learning.

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01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 9: Oh man, come forty nine minutes after the hour, it's

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01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:04,360
Speaker 9: our last break of the day and we'll get some

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01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:06,960
Speaker 9: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right

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01:17:07,040 --> 01:17:11,720
Speaker 9: after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, here

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01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,720
Speaker 9: we are, Steve, last break of the day. It's been

1366
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 9: a great day.

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01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: What a day.

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01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 3: What a day.

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01:17:20,360 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been a crazy day today.

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01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 9: So Steve, now it's time for you to take us

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01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 9: home with your closing remarks.

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01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,799
Speaker 2: My closing remarks today are going to be based around

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01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:36,599
Speaker 2: the value of yourself. I think this is important. Tommy

1374
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 2: sent this to me, you know, a billboard, and it

1375
01:17:40,560 --> 01:17:42,479
Speaker 2: really triggered me to think. And I'm gonna share that

1376
01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:46,560
Speaker 2: with you. But it all pertains to the value of yourself.

1377
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 2: This can pertain to you in terms of reaching your goals,

1378
01:17:54,600 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 2: your dreams, all in business, and this is for you

1379
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:06,400
Speaker 2: to consider in the relationship of love. It is amazing

1380
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,320
Speaker 2: to me while I talk to people and people talk

1381
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:13,080
Speaker 2: about how they're being treated and handled it and represented

1382
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 2: and dealt with, and how they can't seem to get

1383
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 2: nobody to see they value and they worth.

1384
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:22,000
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting the bit going, wait a minute, wait

1385
01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:22,400
Speaker 1: a minute.

1386
01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 2: You can't try to get someone to see something in

1387
01:18:28,280 --> 01:18:30,880
Speaker 2: you that you don't see in yourself.

1388
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 1: It starts with you.

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01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:38,600
Speaker 2: You know, you all heard the saying beauty is on

1390
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:43,960
Speaker 2: the inside. It's not just skin deep. That's true. Confidence

1391
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 2: is not an outward emotion. It's something that starts from within.

1392
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:54,560
Speaker 2: Everything starts from within, and it exudes and and and

1393
01:18:54,800 --> 01:19:00,120
Speaker 2: and manifest itself in the outward shape of form. So

1394
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:05,920
Speaker 2: if you want people to value you, you must first

1395
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 2: value yourself. I tell my daughters all the time. You

1396
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 2: can train a man how to treat you well, Daddy,

1397
01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 2: how do you train a man You just don't accept

1398
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 2: bad treatment from him. If you don't accept bad treatment

1399
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 2: from him, little girl of mine, then.

1400
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 1: Guess what he can't keep giving it to you. A

1401
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 1: person can only treat you the way you allow them

1402
01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:31,720
Speaker 1: to do it.

1403
01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:34,720
Speaker 2: If you don't accept a man coming to pick you

1404
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: up late all the time, but you stop going with

1405
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 2: him every time he late, the next time he want

1406
01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 2: to go out with you, he got to be on time.

1407
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:42,960
Speaker 1: Now. If he don't want to be on time, then

1408
01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:44,160
Speaker 1: guess what. You don't go out.

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01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:47,439
Speaker 2: You've trained him how to treat you, and if he

1410
01:19:47,479 --> 01:19:49,400
Speaker 2: don't line up with what you want, then guess what

1411
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 2: he not for you. At least you don't have to

1412
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:56,040
Speaker 2: be mistreated the way he want to treat you by

1413
01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 2: simply not allowing him to.

1414
01:19:59,080 --> 01:20:00,439
Speaker 1: Treat you anyway he it wants to.

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01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 2: You cannot have high value for yourself and expect someone

1416
01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 2: else to have a high value of you. That goes

1417
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:13,120
Speaker 2: into same thing with business. You can't go in and

1418
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:15,680
Speaker 2: ask for a raise if you don't think you deserve one.

1419
01:20:15,880 --> 01:20:17,559
Speaker 2: What would cause you to walk in there and ask

1420
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:20,080
Speaker 2: for a raise if you don't think you deserve one,

1421
01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 2: if you don't have the facts to back up a raise.

1422
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:25,880
Speaker 2: You can't want more money just because you don't spend

1423
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 2: all the money you had.

1424
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 1: You got to go in there and.

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01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 2: Ask for a raise because you can show value to

1426
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:34,400
Speaker 2: the company. You're worth this much more to the company.

1427
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:37,000
Speaker 2: The company has become this because of you. Then you

1428
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 2: can show your value. Then you can go in there

1429
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:40,320
Speaker 2: with a raise, and you can go in there with

1430
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 2: some confidence with the raise. It happens with goals and dreams.

1431
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:49,200
Speaker 2: If you aim too low, your problem is you might

1432
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:52,800
Speaker 2: hit it. But I'm gonna say that for tomorrow. So

1433
01:20:53,439 --> 01:20:57,320
Speaker 2: it's what you think of yourself, how you value yourself,

1434
01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 2: that matters most. Now, let me tell you, or was

1435
01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 2: sent to me. Listen to this real careful, because this

1436
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:05,280
Speaker 2: is gonna register with a lot of people.

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01:21:05,720 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 1: Listen to me.

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01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 2: If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check

1439
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 2: your price tag. Maybe you've marked yourself down. Is you

1440
01:21:16,680 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 2: who tells people what you're worth. Get off the clearest

1441
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:26,320
Speaker 2: rack and get behind the glass where they keep the valuables.

1442
01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:31,400
Speaker 2: It is you who tells people what you're worth. Get

1443
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 2: off the clearest rack and get behind the glass where

1444
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 2: they keep the valuables. Stop acting like you a sidewalk sail.

1445
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,800
Speaker 2: Stop acting like you can be picked up at the

1446
01:21:41,920 --> 01:21:46,520
Speaker 2: swap meet. Stop acting like you belong in the Junkyard.

1447
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 2: You a new car, don't act.

1448
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 1: Like an old car.

1449
01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:53,519
Speaker 2: I don't care how old you are to somebody. You

1450
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:57,560
Speaker 2: got to be a new car. Stop putting yourself on

1451
01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 2: the sales rack. Clearly you deserve full price. If you

1452
01:22:03,400 --> 01:22:06,000
Speaker 2: lower the value for yourself, that's what we'll pay for you,

1453
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:10,439
Speaker 2: and that's how we'll treat you, and that's how we respect.

1454
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:13,519
Speaker 2: If you don't respect yourself, if I see you constantly

1455
01:22:13,600 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 2: disrespecting yourself, then you're gonna turn to me and demand respect.

1456
01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 1: How how does that work?

1457
01:22:19,320 --> 01:22:19,360
Speaker 11: Be?

1458
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:22,639
Speaker 2: That be a coat where they got to lock on it. See,

1459
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:24,760
Speaker 2: you can't take me off the rat and just try

1460
01:22:24,880 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 2: me on. No, that ain't how this work.

1461
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,920
Speaker 1: See. But now you go over that to that valuable

1462
01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:32,960
Speaker 1: section in the store. You know everybody been to Macy's.

1463
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 2: You got that stuff where you got to go get

1464
01:22:35,520 --> 01:22:38,040
Speaker 2: a salesperson to come and unlock it for you to

1465
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 2: even try it on. That's cause they don't put a

1466
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,760
Speaker 2: value on that. Or you can going over there and

1467
01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:45,960
Speaker 2: just put the little shirt on. T shirts ain't locked up.

1468
01:22:46,920 --> 01:22:50,599
Speaker 2: Anybody can get one if you steal this T shirt.

1469
01:22:50,680 --> 01:22:52,719
Speaker 2: It ain't that big a loss. That ain't a four dollars,

1470
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:55,920
Speaker 2: pack of three. Come over here by the swede, Come

1471
01:22:55,960 --> 01:22:58,000
Speaker 2: over here by this first stuff. We got locks on

1472
01:22:58,120 --> 01:23:01,320
Speaker 2: this stuff right here because it had value. We know

1473
01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 2: it has value, so we can't just let you try

1474
01:23:03,640 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 2: to stop letting people just try you on. You got it,

1475
01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:12,599
Speaker 2: put a value to yourself, maintain it, you determine your value.

1476
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:16,080
Speaker 1: Don't let other people do it. You do it all right.

1477
01:23:16,200 --> 01:23:17,280
Speaker 1: Those are my closing.

1478
01:23:17,400 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 8: Drop the mic, drop the mic, baby.

1479
01:23:21,680 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 1: Thank you, Tommy, appreciate you. Pimp needed that.

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01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:39,880
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1481
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:43,439
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1482
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:47,320
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