WEBVTT - Conversations About Why Men Can't Be H**s and Women Can't Be Bums 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.800 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no 0:00:02.960 --> 0:00:05.960 Sillers podcast with your host. Now fuck that with your 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:16.680 low classes. Malone looks like, you know, I stole this 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:20.840 look from now I'm growing my hair and ship and 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.800 all of that and crazy and ship. And then she 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:34.159 come out mad Dog good Times. It was a character 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:38.879 named mad Dog and good Times and mad Dog was 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.360 like a gang leader. He was telling j J to 0:00:42.400 --> 0:00:44.559 be a part of it, and JJ was on some 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:50.760 punk ship, so to make a shot j J. And 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:54.040 there's been a charge mad Dog. But because because was 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:56.960 like under the age he was, he was under eighteen, 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.280 the jil just let him go home to his mama, 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:04.720 and uh, Mr Evans, you know, the pops came to 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:07.840 the court proceedings and ship. You see him, Yeah, listen 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:18.559 you to it. Yeah, thats right. So Mr Evans came 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:22.440 to the the proceedings and Ship. He wanted to kill him, 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:24.480 but he's seen how fucked up in the head the 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.280 little dude was, you know, because his dad left early 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.960 and you could tell by the end of the whole 0:01:29.959 --> 0:01:32.840 segment that he was just going through it. And you know, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:37.280 Mr Evans didn't want to do nothing to him. And 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.120 but I just thought he was an intriguing character. You 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.000 know what I'm saying. It was it was ill and 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:47.160 his mom really torn down at the end. You mean 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:49.680 his mom got that in called was like I wish 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:52.680 he wasn't born. I mean, that's how much of a 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:57.800 problem he had became. So I really never watched that 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.800 much good time, but I've seen that ship on YouTube 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:01.520 and now I was like, I'm gonna grow my hair 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:05.320 because of that ship. I thought that was an ill character. 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:14.600 Yeah that's interested man. Alright, So no seilings, Gil my Man, Peter, 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:19.240 Uncle Muke in the house again. You got Uncle Muke 0:02:19.320 --> 0:02:24.280 and the motherfucker's spears. Not we're gonna make this ship cracked. Yeah, yeah, 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:34.399 let's do it. So I had this epiphany the other day, 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:37.040 maybe like three days ago. I had told Muke about it. 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:42.760 I think I told you basically about it where men 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:49.799 can't be hose and women can't be bumps, And it 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.520 made me think about the conversation we always have about 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:57.320 women's lack of accountability, and I realized, in theory, it's 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:06.280 our fault ship, right, because you got think about it. 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.240 If you're walking with a lady, right, you're walking with 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.760 your girl is something and it's a water on the ground, 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.640 you're supposed to take off your jacket and put it 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:15.040 on the ground, you know what I mean, if she 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:17.960 getting to a fight with somebody, you would never make 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:20.120 her feel like it's an even fight. If she get 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:21.600 into a fight with a dude, you want to be like, 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.959 y'all equal, you feel me like you take your own face. 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.000 Like if it was me and you pete and some 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:28.639 white man walked up, was like, oh, if I'm a 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:32.239 Pete did something to me, well, I'm probably still gonna 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.720 hit him anyway. But at least in theory, I know, 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.720 it's a fair fight if you fight. But we never 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:40.320 let a woman feel like that, you, I mean, we 0:03:40.480 --> 0:03:45.600 just won't. So based off of those societal rules, those norms, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.360 I think that's why this conversation was so important. So 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:55.000 let's first start off with this conversation about you know who, 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:58.880 like niggas being holes. Like even when you talk about SI, 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:02.200 you're never calling me the whole. I mean, nigga's will 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.080 now because they're weird, But it used to be whole, 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:07.080 asked nigga, right, because at that point always used as 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:10.720 an adjective to describe a nigga's actions, acting like a 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:21.040 big yeah exactly of doing some woman ships. So back 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:22.640 to that point, right, So I was talking to the 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.840 homie Douce Mac and Douce was telling me like I 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:29.239 was telling him like women men can't be hold and 0:04:29.279 --> 0:04:31.280 he was like, oh, you crazy g men could be hold. 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:33.560 They could be sluts. And I'm like, well, technically in 0:04:33.640 --> 0:04:37.120 the dictionary they can't, right, that's just not real. But 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.840 I'll entertain the conversation. So we started to go through 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:43.720 the conversation, you know, of what holes and sluts really 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.440 is about, and how it is meant to be a 0:04:46.520 --> 0:04:53.440 derogatory term for somebody to sexually involved right culturally speaking, 0:04:53.560 --> 0:05:00.120 or even genderly speaking, right using gender because we have 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:03.320 put value on getting pussy. I had the same conversation 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:06.440 with Katie. A couple of hommies in the group chat 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:09.280 shout out to the hommy Rail, Shout out to the 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:11.279 hommy trade. A couple of good niggas and ship, some 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.599 good brothers who got their ship together. It's not the 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:17.440 normal surrounding of crazy niggas I'm usually around. It's real 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:21.160 positive brothers as Dot and me c J, A couple 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:25.320 of niggas stay dope. But I was expressing to them, 0:05:25.360 --> 0:05:30.360 everybody's getting pussy. Like when I lived downtown in my loft, 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:32.360 you know, penthouse and all the top floor and all 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:37.000 that ship, and I was learning hip hop. I was 0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:39.839 learning about records took me like seven years. I was 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:42.960 learning about marketing, you know what I'm saying. I was 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:46.159 learning about trying to digest marketing, all the material that 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.880 have been learning. I would just go walk through scared row. 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:55.320 I literally walked past people tense, and I used to 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:58.719 hear people fucking intense, Like I've seen men and women 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:04.120 going tense and be fun it and they're homeless. So 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:08.080 from that point I looked, I was like, everybody getting pussy. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:11.039 You can pay for pussy, you know what I'm saying. 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:16.159 So to me, getting pussy really has no value. Right, 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:21.640 That's just to me, I realized, huh, so you know 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:26.440 why that is? Tell me because pussy always wants something 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:34.200 before you go bad. Let me make my point. So 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:38.360 I'm I'm going through all this ship, right, I'm like 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.400 I'm telling them, I'm like, like, how do you feel 0:06:41.400 --> 0:06:44.320 cool getting some pussy? This is the same conversation I'm 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:47.920 having with them. Me douche man, like everybody's getting pussy, Douce, 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:52.640 any man could get some pussy is cheap, it's affordable, 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:58.719 it's economical. Everybody could get some pussy. But to them, 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.559 him and a couple of the Harmies Duce and Katie, 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.040 and a couple of niggas I've talked to, they made 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.840 it like getting pussy is something and normally in masculinity, 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:12.400 that's the truth, Like getting pussy is something right, That's 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:15.440 how we have made it within the culture of masculinity, 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.520 that is special to get pussy and everybody not getting it. 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:21.760 And if I'm getting some and you and you're not 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:25.320 getting I'm if I'm getting some, I'm special because everybody 0:07:25.400 --> 0:07:30.200 not getting some. So therefore, how could you really have 0:07:30.320 --> 0:07:33.800 a negative connotation about something that you're creating a rarity 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:38.480 effect with? How could you do that? You feel me like, 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:43.119 if everybody not getting pussy and pussy is especial to get, 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:45.600 how could you call it nigga hole Because all the 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:49.240 women are choosing him right to get pussy too, That 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:54.400 makes that that means this nigga is special. If if 0:07:54.720 --> 0:08:00.960 if getting pussy it's special, getting pussy especial is somebody 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.840 getting a lot of pussy. They gotta be a lot 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:07.040 of special He's a special nigger. He's a special nigger 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:11.240 right now. Not against my own personal roots. I think 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.840 it's the market. Everybody fucking. I told you that's sucking 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.360 in tense. Nigger. If you could not have bedroom with 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:21.040 seeing the heater and somebody still want to get some pussy, 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:25.200 he might be that special bum nigga. No, because everybody 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:27.600 was sucking, they'd be people fucking on the side, right 0:08:27.640 --> 0:08:32.840 And I'm like, damn, because only the man own tense. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:40.920 He leave the men on tents. Women. Women aren't homeless 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:42.840 for long. Man, they'll be homeless for a long time. 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:44.640 For when the women's homeless for two days, you got 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:46.640 to find a guy who's on vet's got a tenter 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:57.120 because he's a special nig dog. He just he's special. 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:01.760 Many people in ten is getting pussy. It wasn't one person. 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.839 I don't see people. There's a lot of guys out 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:12.080 there in tense. Back to the point that y'all exactly 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.520 making my point why a man can't be a hope 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:20.440 right because getting pussy is not a derogatory term for men. 0:09:21.440 --> 0:09:25.280 It actually gives your life value because niggas make getting 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:30.360 pussy special in the culture that is masculinity, right, social curtesy, 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:33.839 social currency, that's what's crazy, Like it's soul. How is 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:37.280 it the fucking social currency? But that's true. In the 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:41.800 culture that is masculinity, it very much is a social currency. 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:47.160 And it was the wealthiest man on the block, absolutely, 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:49.840 and he had he didn't have a lot of one 0:09:49.840 --> 0:09:51.800 dollar bills. He had a lot of hunter dollar bills. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:55.600 Now in those tense those are one dollar bills. It's 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:59.160 a social currency. But not every current, not every not 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:05.200 every bit has has to say to me. I used 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:07.600 to think like that too, But that's a whole nether story. 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:11.720 That's just not true. It's true in the in the 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:20.120 market social perspective, because in the culture that is masculinity, 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:24.080 it very much is the truth. Right. So my point 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.839 I'm saying to you is because that is true in 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:31.080 the culture that is masculinity, it's never frowned upon when 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:36.880 some woman decides to be the flower by some man. Therefore, 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:39.719 it could never be something that has a negative connotation 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:44.360 to it because it's special to you now a woman. Right, 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:52.480 on the other hand, it's always negative like prime example, right, 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.040 if me you and Moot walk in the room and 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:58.520 I point out five girls, right if I'm if I 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:00.720 point out fire girl like I had this on, that one, 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:04.240 that one, that one, and if you see value in 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:07.199 the way she looks, I'm the man in the room 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:11.920 that we're in. I'm the man in that room within 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:14.760 the culture that is masculinity, what is the culture that 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:19.440 societal norms, I'm the man. If a woman walk in 0:11:19.440 --> 0:11:22.480 the same room and say I slept with this nigga, 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:26.360 that nigga, that nigga, that nigga, and that nigga, feel me, 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:30.520 it's a different thing. She can't. It's never going to 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:34.360 be the same pride and proud that I am her 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:38.320 home girls. She wanted to keep that low social currency 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:42.120 for that. Well, this is why it's a currency. Do 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:45.599 you brag about how much money you have? Yes? Do 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:47.760 you brag about how much money you piste away and 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:54.040 don't have anymore? No? Okay, break that down first, the 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:58.560 comparison I got said earlier. Pussy always wants something and 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:01.760 something I always wants pussy, as pussy is a social currency. 0:12:01.960 --> 0:12:04.880 So if you're out there as a man stockpiling and 0:12:04.920 --> 0:12:08.920 accumulating pussy, you're making money if you're a woman, said, 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:12.480 is not you just you're just leaving money out of 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.280 the parking lot, and nobody was that. That's my point. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.640 It's not an equal thing. Dick and pussy are not 0:12:18.720 --> 0:12:23.160 an equal thing, even as players would love to claim 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:26.360 in in in this society, we stand in right. So 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.720 I had this. I thought about this. Right, If I 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:34.040 walk into a room, right, and I'm with a woman, right, 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:38.200 that's my woman. And we walk into this room and 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:42.600 it's five women, let's say substantial value is Beyonce, It's Kelly, 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:50.000 Kelly Roland, is Rihanna, is Michelle Obama, and it's uh 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:53.280 Angela Bassett. It could be Angela Baskett, who in their sixties. 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:57.320 If I walk in that room and them girls walk 0:12:57.440 --> 0:13:01.120 up to me and I explained to my my my lady, 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:03.000 I said, hey man, you know I used to sleep 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:04.440 I said with her, I had her, and her her 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.960 my lady gonna look at me crazy. But she's gonna 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.680 be like, damn all these girls. And if she were 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:14.760 married and she got that ring, the five girls are 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:17.640 going to be jealous of her, and she's gonna feel 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.839 like she has something over the five girls. Right in 0:13:20.960 --> 0:13:23.920 in normal standards. She's gonna be like, damn, They're gonna 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:27.000 be trying to ask themselves, them five girls, like what 0:13:27.160 --> 0:13:31.679 made her so special? Why did he pick her instead 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:36.079 of us? Right? But Pete, if you walking a room 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:39.480 with a woman and this woman slept with all five 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:45.000 of these guys and you married her, yeah they got 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:50.840 something and someone's going to have to probably die. The 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:54.760 joke is the five guys gonna be like, and he 0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:58.360 married that because I thought, I've always said, when girls 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:02.880 get mad, how come you know, like, how can you 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:06.280 get so mad? Of girls get way more, girls get 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.800 way less mad. I being cheated on than men do. 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:12.080 They bitch about it, but they're not really that bad. 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:16.880 Men will get mad because of the move. If moving, 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:18.720 it ain't even got nothing to do with the woman. 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:21.240 Fuck her. I don't even care if move. My wife 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:25.320 Mouke has something on me for the rest of my life. 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:27.960 It doesn't matter that she sucked him wants and he 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:32.600 has penetrated my castle. Yeah you know, and I want 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:34.400 she chose to come back to me. It doesn't matter 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.440 she chose to come back to me. He has that 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:43.400 stained and dirty and where we go move? God moved 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:48.600 every time you see that, ye move. Yeah, So again 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.880 I was telling do something like, you know, we were 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:56.080 talking about a specific comment. I was like, we created 0:14:56.200 --> 0:15:00.480 this standard in societal norms and the culture that's mask colinnity, 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:07.840 that pussy is courtesy social currency, right, and now we're 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:11.000 in the spaces society that's dominated by women and women thoughts, 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:13.160 Like I was just telling this, right, we're in this 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.960 space where that's the dominant thing. So now you have 0:15:16.080 --> 0:15:19.320 niggas trying to act like this is not true, so 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:22.960 they're just doing it under their breath. It's still that 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:26.960 same value. So by that standard, how the fund could 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:31.920 men be whold? How it's not even it don't even 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:36.600 make sense. The term whole is a derogatory term, right, 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:40.320 derogatory even amongst women. They will call that she's a hole. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.600 We'll call herr whole. They had called her a hole, right, 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:50.880 So at that point, dick is not social currency. If 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:55.720 you had two hundred dicks, you, my friends, are not special. 0:15:57.280 --> 0:15:59.720 You specially funked up, and Nick is gonna be looking 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:01.280 at you for the rest of your life judging you 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:05.920 that way. Meanwhile, if you have two women, you're the man. 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:12.160 You you you're the king. Thing. Man old man told 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:14.440 me this, and I hear it all the time. But 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.960 the key that can a lock, a key that can 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:22.880 open any lock, is a master key. It's priceless, it's invaluable. 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:26.400 You couldn't even put a motherfucking amount on it. Like 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:28.960 a man that can sleep with any woman is the 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.640 most like his life is that he's the one, like 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.920 he's neo in the matrix. He is the motherfucking one. 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:39.040 If any woman would give him some puzzy, he is unbelievable. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:44.680 But a lock that can be opened by any key 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:56.560 is worthless, volumeless. It's broken, it's broken, it's totally broken, right, 0:16:57.040 --> 0:17:02.680 and by that same standard, it has no value to society. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.440 Maybe a pimp could use it, but even the pimp 0:17:05.480 --> 0:17:12.600 probably be like, at least make them pay. Yeah. So again, 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:14.760 it's one of those things that I thought about it. 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:18.720 Men cannot be hols. I get it. We're in this 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:22.000 social time where we want to make everything equal, even 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:25.160 though everything else about societal norm say it's the opposite. 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:27.840 We were equal. If you got into it with a man, 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:29.679 I should be able to step back and let you 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:34.199 handle your fair faith. If we're equal, why am I 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:37.680 holding the door open for you. If we're equal, why 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:40.080 on a cold night am I giving you my jacket? 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:45.840 I'm cold too, were equally cold, you know what I'm saying. 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:49.520 If we're equal, why am I providing all of the 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:54.520 economics to to sustain the household? Why am I paying 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:56.959 for anything? Like when I go out with my homies, 0:17:57.000 --> 0:17:59.680 I don't always pay for them. Well, I technically do, 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:05.600 but I try not to. You know what I'm saying, Like, 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:07.359 I don't do it because they're girls. Are do it 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:10.199 because you know, I'm just like a kind of guy. 0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:15.359 But I don't. You know, here's another example, right, and 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.040 this isn't that whole man and woman dynamics, right of 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.199 of a woman of a man? Why you can't be 0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:24.959 a home if muke? If you married, right, you're married, 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:29.359 married and you sit at home and you watch the kids. 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:34.440 Let's say you're the best chef and you could cook 0:18:34.440 --> 0:18:37.720 your ass off, you do a good job with the kids, 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.080 you're the best cleaning, you could clean the house. Niked 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:44.119 to the next level of cleaning the motherfucking house. You 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.520 I mean, you got this ship down and your old 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:51.200 lady is going to work, paying the mortgets, paying all 0:18:51.200 --> 0:18:54.400 the bills and when you get home, you just rub 0:18:54.440 --> 0:19:02.520 her feet, you kiss her. Right, every body in society 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:08.920 will call you a loser. Yeah right, It don't matter 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:14.200 how great you are at the task at hid Let's 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:18.200 think about it that the phrase is you're a kept man. 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:20.159 If I'm the saying as a kept woman, it's just 0:19:20.200 --> 0:19:24.760 a woman. What's funny is that? But that's the tricky part, right. 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:30.600 I also came to this conclusion too. Then men are 0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:37.040 to be had, women are to be kept. So when 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:41.800 nikis have you and nobody keeps you, you're a loser, 0:19:42.920 --> 0:19:54.360 loser bitch. If you just like if you just bounced 0:19:54.400 --> 0:20:00.280 around celebrity celebrity and nobody's married you, you're worthless piece 0:20:00.280 --> 0:20:02.879 of ship. I mean, don't get me wrong. It's a 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:06.320 new culture of women that's trying their best to champion it. 0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:12.280 And it's so cute, so it's trying to champion. They're like, no, girl, 0:20:12.320 --> 0:20:14.480 you could be a king, you could have all of 0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:17.880 these male subjects. No, no you're not. Don't let them 0:20:17.920 --> 0:20:20.200 lie to you. They're talking about you behind your back. 0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:24.280 Believe it, they are talking about you behind your back. 0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:27.000 You are the person that they do not want their 0:20:27.080 --> 0:20:32.000 daughter around. Nobody wants their daughter to be like you. 0:20:33.280 --> 0:20:35.600 I don't care how that little cute thing they try 0:20:35.640 --> 0:20:37.719 to do the champion you and make you feel like 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:42.760 you're not the whole you are. They're all talking about 0:20:43.080 --> 0:20:45.439 you're gonna laugh at you. It was a movie and 0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:48.159 we used to always do when I was a little kid, younger. 0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:52.359 You're all gonna laugh at you. They all laughing at you. 0:20:52.480 --> 0:20:56.720 Behind your back, they're laughing at you. Oh, he didn't 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:59.920 want to keep her, and it's it gets even cute, 0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:03.960 like I'll look on Instagram and it will be a girl, 0:21:04.000 --> 0:21:08.160 but that he messed this up, and they'll think that 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:11.280 that's a caption like you're so special. They messed it up. 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:14.240 And I get it. I respect you trying to empower yourself. 0:21:14.680 --> 0:21:18.880 But that is the wrong caption because all we look 0:21:18.920 --> 0:21:23.000 and be like, huh, well, I'm gonna here because she 0:21:23.040 --> 0:21:25.600 can't be worth keeping if another man threw away. Now, 0:21:25.640 --> 0:21:27.720 you always got that guy too, that's acting like, well, 0:21:27.760 --> 0:21:32.159 she's available, now I'm gonna take my shot. That's not 0:21:32.320 --> 0:21:37.440 most men reaction. Most men just want to knock you down. 0:21:38.960 --> 0:21:41.080 You go through all of this stuff to look a 0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:45.639 certain way, right and after the first two times somebody 0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:52.120 sleep with you, you really just become their broad Yeah, 0:21:52.600 --> 0:21:54.560 you know what I'm saying, The allure of it is gone. 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:59.440 Like the finest women in the world, man, it's somebody 0:21:59.520 --> 0:22:03.280 tired of sucking her. Usually after two times the phone numbers. 0:22:04.680 --> 0:22:07.640 You know what I'm saying, And that's fucked up. Pete, 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:13.600 I ain't got I'm just saying. I'm just saying, this 0:22:13.680 --> 0:22:18.320 will never be a societal equality. It'll never be. And 0:22:18.560 --> 0:22:24.000 to keep pushing equality, you're getting confused and misguided information 0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:27.080 from people who are trying to rearrange the narrative based 0:22:27.080 --> 0:22:36.840 off their own personal traumas. I gotta go for you 0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:41.479 from straight out of the courts, right, Okay, When a 0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:48.440 wealthy man dumps his beautiful trophy wife because she turns three, 0:22:49.720 --> 0:22:53.239 she says, because she turned thirty whatever the funk she 0:22:53.240 --> 0:22:59.040 turned to gives a ship damn white people ship. But 0:22:59.240 --> 0:23:02.119 nonetheless white weben age a little faster, so we'll bumping 0:23:02.160 --> 0:23:04.000 back for me. I wouldn't say that, but I didn't 0:23:04.000 --> 0:23:06.480 want to sound racist, So I'm glad you said. My god. 0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:10.720 Wait wait, keep boing. Now the woman will go to 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:14.240 court and she'll say I deserve X dollars a year 0:23:14.520 --> 0:23:19.719 because I quote unquote am accustomed to this lifestyle. Right, 0:23:20.200 --> 0:23:23.920 that's true. The man doesn't get to go to court 0:23:23.960 --> 0:23:28.160 and say I deserve the fuck twenty times a month 0:23:28.400 --> 0:23:33.800 because I'm accustomed to this pussy. You're right about that. 0:23:34.640 --> 0:23:41.119 You are definitely right about that, ladies. Yeah, that's why 0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:44.960 I was paying for this, right, Hey, don't bits about 0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:48.360 this inequality all the time. Latest, man, it is not 0:23:48.440 --> 0:23:50.840 with no equality when the check comes, when the waiter 0:23:50.920 --> 0:23:53.520 comes with that folded up, little fake leather thing, there's 0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:59.120 no equality. And it's gonna be crazy. Is when they 0:23:59.160 --> 0:24:01.879 hear this podcast as right, they're going to argue that 0:24:01.880 --> 0:24:04.320 when I pick up the check. Sometimes, if you actually 0:24:04.359 --> 0:24:09.720 have to say that, it's bullshit because you actually have 0:24:09.800 --> 0:24:12.920 to talk about you picking up the check. You really 0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:17.240 don't understand what picking up the check is about. That's 0:24:17.240 --> 0:24:18.960 why he's so fast to tell you when they do 0:24:19.080 --> 0:24:21.920 something for somebody, I did this to him. I did 0:24:21.960 --> 0:24:24.760 get to him because you're not supposed to. And that's 0:24:24.760 --> 0:24:27.280 why you think you special. But by the same time, 0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:30.399 and you think you're special, you really feel lower because 0:24:30.440 --> 0:24:32.480 you are in this position to do it, and you 0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:34.800 feel like you want him to do it. Don't get 0:24:34.840 --> 0:24:37.840 me wrong. There are some women that are grateful for 0:24:37.880 --> 0:24:39.960 a guy and they'll do it because they feel like, 0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:43.080 I just want to do something nice for him. But 0:24:43.160 --> 0:24:45.439 if the fact you have to brag, or if the 0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:48.120 fact of you picking up the bill is nice for him, 0:24:48.880 --> 0:24:54.520 you made my damn point, right, right, you made my point. 0:24:54.920 --> 0:24:57.320 And that really only happens in the situations where there's 0:24:57.320 --> 0:25:02.680 a joint checking account anyway, So what's really the point? Yeah, right, 0:25:03.720 --> 0:25:08.359 using some of that nigga money and even in the end, huh, 0:25:08.640 --> 0:25:15.200 punk ass bitch, all right, So so if it if 0:25:15.200 --> 0:25:20.800 it can be, if it's holes, men can't be holes. 0:25:22.080 --> 0:25:27.200 They can't. They can't be slept because you get entirely 0:25:27.240 --> 0:25:32.199 too much social currency, because women allow themselves allow you 0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:36.800 to have them. Yeah, Now, in my mind that's not true. 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:38.240 I might be the only person in the world who 0:25:38.240 --> 0:25:43.080 thinks it's not true. But everybody else thinks that if 0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:47.440 somebody gives you some pussy, you have value. You are 0:25:47.560 --> 0:25:51.920 valuable to that person. You are valuable, like they must 0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:54.760 think the world and you. I have homies, right, Guy's 0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:59.240 walk consider homies. To some degree. Have tried to sleep 0:25:59.240 --> 0:26:02.399 with girls I've talked to in the past, right, just 0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:05.919 because I talked to her, right. So maybe they're not 0:26:06.040 --> 0:26:07.840 earning like me, you know what I'm saying. Maybe they 0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:11.320 haven't figured out the economic situation. Maybe they're not as popular, 0:26:11.400 --> 0:26:13.960 maybe they're not as well. No, maybe they're not as respected. 0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:18.560 But a girl has told me, she said, it's so 0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.480 funny to me that he keeps trying to sleep with 0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:23.840 And I could tell how he talks. The only reason 0:26:23.880 --> 0:26:26.439 he wants to sleep with me is because he feels 0:26:26.480 --> 0:26:29.360 like he would be the same value of you if 0:26:29.400 --> 0:26:34.200 I give him some pussy, Like if we could funk 0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:36.280 the same girls. He's like, Oh, I'm just as good 0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:39.360