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Speaker 1: wake up service, can you please wake up? Oh wow,

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Speaker 1: there's like a whole wake up service.

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Speaker 2: I knew about that for hotels, but not for like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just for regular yeah, just for regular every day dude.

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Speaker 1: We need to bring it back, bro, bring it back.

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Speaker 1: That's actually like low key. If you want to start

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Speaker 1: a business wake up service business, it's a good one

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Speaker 1: subscriber to you can talk to all of the wealthiest

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Speaker 1: people in the world as they are fluttering their eyes

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Speaker 1: open for the first time.

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Speaker 2: A great way to start a conversation. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you're like, hey, what's the stocks looking like today, buffet.

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Speaker 2: You just woke up at four am. But I have

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Speaker 2: a business opportunity.

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Speaker 1: For yeah yeah, let me pitch you on my startup.

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Speaker 1: So for the past month, my thirty six husband, my

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Speaker 1: thirty six husbands thirty nine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So so for the past month, my husband was

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Speaker 2: waking me at five every night to have a walk.

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Speaker 2: These walks would take about two hours. Side note to

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Speaker 2: mention that.

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Speaker 1: She's waking him up at five pm at night.

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Speaker 2: So for the past month five she says five every night,

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Speaker 2: but it's says five am in the title, but she

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Speaker 2: says five every night.

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Speaker 1: Bruh, five am is not night in morning, bro, I

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Speaker 1: guess I mean it's night.

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Speaker 2: It is its dark. Yeah, that's probably what she's thinking.

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Speaker 1: Well that's morning though.

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Speaker 2: Get your days and nights right, come on, and these

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Speaker 2: walks would take about two hours. Side note to mention,

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Speaker 2: he's not trying to lose weight. He's pretty thin. He's

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Speaker 2: not athletic by nature, nor has any sports interest or hobbies.

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Speaker 2: In fact, he hated doing any type of sports.

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Speaker 1: My man is inactive, but he's trying to be He's

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Speaker 1: waking up at five am to go to go walk in.

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Speaker 1: That's good, he's trying. This seems like a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is that's the samism right there. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: happy for him since it's an overall positive thing.

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Speaker 1: So yes, it is true.

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Speaker 2: But yesterday he came home in the evening after working

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Speaker 2: for long hours and stayed up late playing with his phone.

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Speaker 1: How dare he?

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Speaker 2: Dude? Unacceptable? I went to bed after ten, getting done

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Speaker 2: with cleaning up a mess and everything from my day.

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Speaker 2: I woke by him yelling at me at seven am,

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Speaker 2: asking why I didn't wake him up for his five

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Speaker 2: am walk. He said he missed it, and I'm responsible

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Speaker 2: for that. I was so confused that, first of all,

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Speaker 2: he's he always wakes up by setting his alarm. Why

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Speaker 2: should I be expected to wait?

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Speaker 1: What the hell, bro, Gay, your wit your alarm clock,

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Speaker 1: set your own alarm. This isn't like ten thousand BC

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Speaker 1: or whatever, where like you have some internal clock that

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Speaker 1: you have to rely on. You Siri, Bro, Siri is

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Speaker 1: the wife that will wake you up, not your wife

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Speaker 1: in the flesh and blood.

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Speaker 2: Ten thousand years ago is like, OK, hey, everybody wake up.

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Speaker 1: That That's exactly what happened. That was the chicken call

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Speaker 1: man goo boo boo. God, this guy got he got

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Speaker 1: the roosters. Yeah, this guy, yeah, get yourself a rooster,

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Speaker 1: not a wife. Fam Yeah. He yelled that he forgot

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Speaker 1: to set his alarm. I said, so what, it's no

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Speaker 1: big deal. It's not like he missed an important meeting

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Speaker 1: or something like that. But he just got more angry and.

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Speaker 2: Said that those walks help him improve his health and

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Speaker 2: restore his energy and help him feel better. Well, gee,

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Speaker 2: then do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, then maybe you should set your alarm better, bro, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And not blame other people when you're the one that

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Speaker 2: stayed up late and basically screwed yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, screwed yourself.

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Speaker 2: I made a comment about how missing one walk wouldn't hurt,

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Speaker 2: but he unloaded, yelling about how I was trying to

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Speaker 2: prevent him from doing his hobby for some unknown reason.

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Speaker 2: This guy's so much.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this guy is ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: I told him he's sorely mistaken, even though I meant

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Speaker 2: that those daily five am walks around Veterans Park are weird,

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Speaker 2: but also his reaction I really thought it was over

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Speaker 2: the top. He stormed off and went to the shower,

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Speaker 2: saying I ruined his entire day. When he got out,

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Speaker 2: he started avoiding and ignoring me, even when I talked

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Speaker 2: to him directly. He went to work and refused to

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Speaker 2: respond to any of my calls. Really, I'm at a loss,

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Speaker 2: Like maybe it was something I said about his walks,

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Speaker 2: but I really don't know. He's sulking NonStop and as

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Speaker 2: of now, I'm literally about to lose my mind. Am

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Speaker 2: I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: He sounds like a bitch boy?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, this man is the A hole y. This

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Speaker 2: man is the A hole Case Club.