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Speaker 1: I'm going to sue for full custody. So am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole? You know?

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Speaker 2: Why don't we take him for everything they got? I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but if if you take them for everything they got,

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Speaker 1: from your daughter. Now that is a visitors cycle, vicious cycle.

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Speaker 1: So I thirty six female, have a daughter, Sadie, twelve,

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Speaker 1: with my ex husband, John thirty nine. We got divorced

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Speaker 1: five years ago, and I have primary custody. Well, he

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Speaker 1: sees her two weekends a month. Last year he got

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Speaker 1: married to Amanda, who has sole custody of her kids,

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Speaker 1: ten and eight female from a previous marriage. Amanda is

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Speaker 1: a stay at home mom, not for any health reasons

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Speaker 1: John works at a nine to five. He makes good

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Speaker 1: money to support them, but not enough to live in luxury.

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Speaker 1: I can already sense the contempt in this first paragraph

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Speaker 1: for these two from op Ooh, I have a much higher,

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Speaker 1: big job, all right, Oh cool, oh, says it just

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Speaker 1: me and Sadie. I make sure she has the best

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Speaker 1: raise her to be humble and not take things for granted,

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Speaker 1: came back after a weekend at John's, I noticed that

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Speaker 1: than what I usually buy her. I asked her why

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Speaker 1: that is, and she told me that while she's at

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Speaker 1: her dad's, Amanda takes away her knife clothes and gives

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Speaker 1: them to her kids, while Sadie gets the clothes they

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Speaker 1: buy from targets. Wow, this is like the worst case

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Speaker 1: of robinhood I've ever heard. What's from the rich your

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Speaker 1: We'll find out eventually. Always, I asked if she wanted

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Speaker 1: all her favorite clothes were kept here, which is a

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Speaker 1: phenomenal attitude. Shout out to us this this kid really

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Speaker 1: race right, Yeah for real? The problem came as if

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Speaker 1: when I went to pick her up last weekend. I

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Speaker 1: Amanda offered to just pick Sadie up from school, which

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Speaker 1: hadn't happened before. When I got there on Sunday, John

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Speaker 1: when Sadie came to hug me, Amanda sent her to

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Speaker 1: this is like a private school that OPI is paying

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Speaker 1: for literally like, you do not get to decide this.

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Speaker 1: No wonder op has primary custody. Jesus Christ. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: said I should keep up Sadie's punishment because when they

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Speaker 1: their money problems are not my issue. And if Sadie's

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Speaker 1: blowing up my phone ever since calling me selfish an

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Speaker 1: But I still don't feel like I did anything wrong. Oh,

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Speaker 1: am I the a hole and there is an edit

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Speaker 2: AB salute Lee. Not not at all. This other couple

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Speaker 1: How do they think that's okay? I just don't know

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Speaker 2: A okay, already a big one, and then be like,

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Speaker 2: like you really think you're gonna like get away with

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Speaker 2: this and like that you have the authority, like ah, okay.

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Speaker 1: So here's the edit. Okay, I got temporary guardianship while

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Speaker 1: waiting for a court hearing. We're going to try to

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Speaker 1: get full custody and have John get one day a

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Speaker 1: week of visitation supervised for at least the first few months,

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Speaker 1: repair their relationship, but she doesn't have to go back there.

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Speaker 1: All contact between us is made through emails, which are

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Speaker 1: seeed by my lawyer, and I've asked for Sadie's things back.

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Speaker 1: the hearing and our custody arrangements been modified Amy Any

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Speaker 1: and all decisions relating to Sadie are made by me

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Speaker 1: to that, the proof of stealing and Sadie's therapist testimony,

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Speaker 1: Sadie and I have blocked her everywhere and any communication

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Speaker 1: emails only like to thank you all for the support throughout.

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Speaker 1: This really means a lot to us, sending you loads

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Speaker 1: of love and that's the end of the story. Wow,

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Speaker 1: So I wanted to kick it to the comments. I mean,

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Speaker 1: Not at all.

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Speaker 2: I think Ope was not only way in the right,

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Speaker 2: but it was also like very smart about it and reasonable.

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Speaker 2: Like like OPI was like, I do want to have

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Speaker 2: still some visitation. I am open to like you know,

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Speaker 1: Actlest shit crazy this dude was. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: But you know, Sam, this isn't the first time that

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Speaker 2: we've gotten some stories about family stealing from each other.

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Speaker 1: I love hearing a little bit about family stealing. What

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Speaker 2: This is from public subscriber Lucas Cuddle six two four four.

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Speaker 2: My mother has a pearl necklace and earring set that

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Speaker 2: my oldest sister wore to a prom. Years later, I

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Speaker 1: I went off the deep end. She stole it.

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Speaker 2: has no morals, and because the thief let him know.

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Speaker 2: She was raised better than this, So I understand this

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Speaker 1: These are like those like yeah, like those no contact

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Speaker 2: You know, just going going hard. But you know what

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Speaker 2: we love is when you go hard. In our comments,

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Speaker 1: Stories like divorce with like children, like that's I think,

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Speaker 1: But those answers in the comments below? Am I the

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Speaker 1: a hole for refusing to save my brother in law's

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Speaker 1: life with my inheritance money?

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Speaker 2: let that hammer, you know what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me gabble fall baby, We'll just we'll just

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Speaker 1: we'll just do it quick. Let's not waste any time.

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Speaker 1: Save your inheritance, Bundy, pull the plug. That's right, that's

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Speaker 1: that I should be on a billboard. All right, contact John.

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Speaker 1: We love context? Right? Oh, hell yeah, we love some context.

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Speaker 1: You know. They say context makes me want to have sex.

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Speaker 1: your parents, bro, Dude, college is lame. Yeah, make an NFT.

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Speaker 1: And we have been on both sides on the college.

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Speaker 2: We represent the entire college experience, experiences, the experience and

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Speaker 1: He let me tell you where you know, we're here together,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look at say I'm hanging with this low life

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Speaker 1: You see you see, fuck you we're doing what we love. Bro. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I can't teach you, this drop out garbage scumbag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, college sucks, dude, you don't need to.

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Speaker 2: That's why I got to drag p down for wanting

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Speaker 1: I want to drag her down to my level. You know,

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Speaker 1: you drag her up to your level. Doctor. You know,

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Speaker 1: Like it's I look at I'm disgusted. Then it goes doctors.

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Speaker 2: guess sex thing, not a sex thing, quite the opposite.

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Speaker 2: Known some Mormons. I was very close with the son

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Speaker 2: of a living Mormon apostle. Wow, the cool guy.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? They have like living apostles.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like like the governors of the religious institution,

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Speaker 1: Like miracles?

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Speaker 2: They can't. They have no powers or nothing. It's more

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Speaker 1: It sounds so much cooler. I'm like, a living apostle.

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Speaker 1: What magic can this guy do? Magic? Turn turns of

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Speaker 2: Dude, that would be That would be like they don't

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Speaker 1: I turned that wine into the lotto. There you go. Nice.

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Speaker 1: My sister and I haven't been that close recently, started

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Speaker 2: But like he himself is ill, and he's still making

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Speaker 1: venting about my brother in law's condition. He's been in

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Speaker 2: I think, I think I know where this one's headed.

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Speaker 1: She brought up my inheritance money several times, but I

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Speaker 1: then there's no guarantee she'll pay back before it's time

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Speaker 1: my sister can't pay back that much, and I felt

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Speaker 1: I was risking my future, which is totally true.

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Speaker 2: It's not her response. I think it would be nice

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, there's no obligation here, there's no obligation exactly.

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Speaker 1: My aunt suggested others pay, but most of them cut

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Speaker 1: I wonder why. Yeah, it sounds like the husband's kind

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Speaker 1: we might want to damage the relationship. She's been sending

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Speaker 1: what I was going to say no to, taking pictures

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Speaker 1: of her kid. You want him, you want him to

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Speaker 1: they bought to afford the surgery. True, dude, she they

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Speaker 1: spent their inheritance on all of these freaking fancy cars.

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Speaker 2: Literally, sell sell the luxury items. Like it's it's so simple.

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Speaker 2: Luxury I think it said luxury cars and other items

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Speaker 1: I mean, get rid of that, get rid of it. Yep.

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