WEBVTT - Talk Daddy to Me: Boys 2 Men

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<v Speaker 1>This is Suckers.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Keeling Bell, I'm Dean Bell, and I'm Jared Han

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<v Speaker 2>at iHeartRadio podcast. Hey, welcome to an old new episode

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<v Speaker 2>of Suckers with Jared. I forget what Dean said he

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<v Speaker 2>was going to call this podcast. I don't know Suckers daddy,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really know. Probably words, it shouldn't be the

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<v Speaker 2>same sentence. Once again, my name is Jared.

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<v Speaker 1>That's me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's me myself, and I hope you guys are doing well.

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<v Speaker 2>It's interesting working in the restaurant industry. If anybody out

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<v Speaker 2>there is listening right now and works in the hospitality,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that, Like, weekends are just not a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>And honestly, it boils my blood when somebody who works

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<v Speaker 2>in a restaurant posts like, oh thank god it's Friday,

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<v Speaker 2>and they only post it because they want to be

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<v Speaker 2>basic when actuality, they're like working Friday night, working Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>If they're lucky they have Sundays off. We all know

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<v Speaker 2>if we work in restaurants how that works. You know

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta work your way up to get Sundays off.

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<v Speaker 2>I me the biggest Patriots fan, the biggest Tom Brady

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<v Speaker 2>fan you'll ever meet in your retire life. Had to

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<v Speaker 2>watch the first half of Super Bowl forty nine, which

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<v Speaker 2>was the Seattle Seahawks versus the New England Patriots at

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<v Speaker 2>the Providence Oyster Bar because I was working and nobody

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<v Speaker 2>would work it for me, because I work Sundays because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a team player and at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 2>like I prioritize work over my own personal enjoyment. I

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<v Speaker 2>had working Sundays, but whatever, you gotta do, what you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta do. But it was the Super Bowl and the

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<v Speaker 2>other manager who I asked to cover for me, who

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like football, didn't watch football, was like, oh, we're

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<v Speaker 2>already like going to this Super Bowl party, and I

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<v Speaker 2>said i'd go and we have plans, so I can't

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<v Speaker 2>cover for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I could have killed him, could have could have

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<v Speaker 2>ran them over. God, I was so mad. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>my dad was very nice. He was recording the game,

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<v Speaker 2>so I said, Dad, listen, we close it at nine.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to make sure i'm out of there by

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<v Speaker 2>nine oh one. The game starts six point thirty. As

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<v Speaker 2>soon as halftime comes up, you pause that game. So

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<v Speaker 2>I have to watch the first half at the Oyster Bar,

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<v Speaker 2>which of course, I had the TV is on blasting,

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<v Speaker 2>and anybody who complained can go to hell.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Super Bowl.

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<v Speaker 2>He paused the game, so I ran rate to my

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<v Speaker 2>parents because there's only about twenty minutes there, closer to

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<v Speaker 2>there to than my house. And I didn't miss anything

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<v Speaker 2>because he paused during halftime, got there, started the game,

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<v Speaker 2>fast forward to the commercials, and then of course we

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<v Speaker 2>caught up Blake late in the third quarter, early in

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<v Speaker 2>the fourth quarter, and then I watched one of the

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<v Speaker 2>greatest moments of my life happened, which is when Malcolm

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<v Speaker 2>Butler intercepted the ball at the one yard line. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you guys know what I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 2>but I had to just put that in there. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>big news, it's a boy. We announced the gender of

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<v Speaker 2>our newest edition to the family, coming in July, Ashley's

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<v Speaker 2>two days July twenty ninth, and it is another boy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, like, fuh, it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Like of course, the most.

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<v Speaker 2>Important thing, obviously is the health of the baby. As

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<v Speaker 2>long as we have a healthy child, that's honestly all

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<v Speaker 2>I care about. Everything else, like if I'm complaining or talking,

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<v Speaker 2>it's it's it truly doesn't matter. It's just me spewing words.

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<v Speaker 2>And even though I feel that way, I know it's

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<v Speaker 2>not important. So I hope that comes across. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a podcast, so I gotta talk. I can't be like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, hey, as long as everything's you know, healthy,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all I care about. And it's like, of course

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I care about. But like, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 2>talk about a little bit more here. And one of

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<v Speaker 2>the things I want to talk about more is how

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted a girl because I just see my friends

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, I see the difference between boys and girls,

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<v Speaker 2>where boys are obviously just so close to their mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Well do you got daddy's little girl? But I guess my, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>mama's boy. So obviously Dawson is very much a mama's boy,

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<v Speaker 2>which makes sense. You know a lot of my friends

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<v Speaker 2>who have boys, they're mama's boys. A lot of my

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<v Speaker 2>friends who have girls, they are daddy's little girl. So

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<v Speaker 2>the girl is so attached to the father. And also,

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<v Speaker 2>let's be honest, we're just going to keep it real.

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<v Speaker 2>From my experience, girls are much easier at a younger

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<v Speaker 2>age than boys are. Now Granted, I have no idea

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<v Speaker 2>what the future looks like. I could easily see girls

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<v Speaker 2>being much more difficult in the future than boys, because

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<v Speaker 2>boys probably just go with the program, or a girl

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<v Speaker 2>is like asking questions and you're like, listen, we're doing

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<v Speaker 2>this because I said so, we're a boy's just feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you sure, whatever, cool, let's go. When did we

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<v Speaker 1>get ice cream?

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<v Speaker 2>But uh, but yeah, it's just Dawson was hard. I

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<v Speaker 2>love Dawson so much. He's the best, and he has

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<v Speaker 2>such a beautiful personality and he brings so much happiness

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<v Speaker 2>to this world, to me, to Ashley, to our family.

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<v Speaker 2>I love him so much. I wouldn't change anything. I

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<v Speaker 2>really wouldn't. But it was hard. You know, he doesn't stop.

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<v Speaker 2>He hasn't stopped. He's better now, he's so much better now.

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<v Speaker 2>I can really kind of talk to him a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think he's understanding when he can or cannot

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<v Speaker 2>do certain things.

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<v Speaker 1>He's learning, he's learning. He's two years old, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But man, he was just such.

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<v Speaker 2>A fussy baby, such a fussy baby, did not stop crying.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm nervous Number two's gonna be like that, because if

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<v Speaker 2>we have another really fussy kid like we had with Dawson,

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<v Speaker 2>who isn't sleeping that much through the first year eighteen

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<v Speaker 2>months and also just cries a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Plus Dawson, you know, plus we'll have a toddler in

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<v Speaker 2>the house. Know, man, I don't know as what I

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<v Speaker 2>was nervous about, but I mean, what are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we want a family for want Dawson to

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<v Speaker 2>have a sibling. Then it will be all fun. It's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be all fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just one of those things that we just got

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<v Speaker 2>to get through. I think Ashley and I really need

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<v Speaker 2>to like focus in, you know. I think that's a

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<v Speaker 2>big part of it as well, is that, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we just really need to It's hard because I try

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to Ashley about these things where it's like

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<v Speaker 2>we need to really kind of check in and like

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<v Speaker 2>of course checking on each other.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I mean is like.

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<v Speaker 2>Schedule things out and like have things planned, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>our weeks are months, they are planned, you know, because

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<v Speaker 2>we have to keep our sanity. I want to keep

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<v Speaker 2>my sanity. I work all the time at Audrey's, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I come home. I know Ashley's tired. I'm tired too.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just hard. Her parent goes to the exact same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not telling you anything new, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>for me what I would like to try, and I

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<v Speaker 2>try to talk to Ashley about it, and she has

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<v Speaker 2>a more difficult time doing this than I. It's really

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to say, Okay, like Monday, we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 2>like we have this and this and that. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, hypothetically, in my dream world, say we had

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<v Speaker 2>a night nurse, be like, okay, let's plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's get a night nurse on you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Two days of the week, so like two days of

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<v Speaker 2>the week we get full night's rest, you know. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, okay, Monday night we get the night nurse,

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<v Speaker 2>and then Friday night I don't really know, but and

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<v Speaker 2>then it's like, okay, then we have you know, Dawson

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<v Speaker 2>being taken care of by the nanny on these three days.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you know, the new kid.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we'll try it, like, you know, I'll try

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<v Speaker 2>to get my parents be like I need you at

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<v Speaker 2>least once a week.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's h sucks that her parents are so involved with

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<v Speaker 2>the down of Virginia. My parents are great.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them.

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<v Speaker 2>So much, but they're just not nearly as involved. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just a fact. And it sucks because they only live

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<v Speaker 2>like twenty five minutes away, half hour away, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a full Tran experience. They just don't help

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<v Speaker 1>out that much.

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<v Speaker 2>And her parents are so hands on, specifically her mom

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<v Speaker 2>and her sister. They're just so helpful. So I understand

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<v Speaker 2>why I actually wants someone to Virginia. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a conversation for a different day. There's a regular

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<v Speaker 2>that comes into Audrey's.

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<v Speaker 3>She's the sweetest, so she's in her fifties maybe early sixties,

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<v Speaker 3>but she's a new grandparent, and her daughter comes in

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<v Speaker 3>and her grandson comes in as well, and she comes

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<v Speaker 3>in on Saturday mornings with her grandson because she takes

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<v Speaker 3>the grandson every Friday night.

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<v Speaker 2>So every Friday night, the parents have a night off

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<v Speaker 2>where they can sleep or they could just watch whatever

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<v Speaker 2>they want to watch, and the grandparents take the kid

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<v Speaker 2>for one night of the week Friday night and then

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<v Speaker 2>Saturday morning. That must be just the best. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>like I know alone my kids. I love spending so

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<v Speaker 2>much time with my kids, but like it's so stupid

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<v Speaker 2>that I feel guilty about saying yes, I would like

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<v Speaker 2>some alone time.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean for all of our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like as a parent, as I get older, I

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<v Speaker 2>just respect my parents even more. But like the idea

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<v Speaker 2>that we are raised and we like for thirty how

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<v Speaker 2>old am I thirty five? For thirty two years of

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<v Speaker 2>my life, I didn't have kids for thirty two and

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<v Speaker 2>a half years of my life. The majority of my time,

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<v Speaker 2>my effort was put towards me selfishly, obviously, but that's

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<v Speaker 2>just what we do, that's what humans do. And so

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<v Speaker 2>the idea that now I have a kid and I

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<v Speaker 2>devote so much of my effort and time to my child.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is what I want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, you know what I want to do is

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<v Speaker 2>I want to donate a minuscule amount of time just

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<v Speaker 2>for me to play sports, or to work out, or

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<v Speaker 2>to just like.

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<v Speaker 1>Go hang out with my friends. And I'm not asked

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<v Speaker 1>for much.

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<v Speaker 2>Like honestly, if I got to like get together with

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<v Speaker 2>my friends to play sports twice a month, I would

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<v Speaker 2>be a static. During the summer, I play softball on Sundays,

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<v Speaker 2>which is just the absolute best. But it's tough. Ashley

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<v Speaker 2>is very supportive. She's I'm not trying to like diss Ashley.

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<v Speaker 2>She's the best, but she's come around on softball.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley's already halfway through the pregnancy. July's gonna be here

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<v Speaker 2>before we know. It's March. You want to know something amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about yesterday because the sun was going

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<v Speaker 2>down and it was five point forty and it was

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<v Speaker 2>still light out, and I was like, guess what, Jared

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<v Speaker 2>talking to myself. In a week and a half, it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be six forty and it's still gonna be light

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<v Speaker 2>up because we change the clocks March tenth.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot wait. Oh, you can't wait till we change

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<v Speaker 1>the clocks.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so much life is better when the sun

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<v Speaker 2>goes down later.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't understand why we keep doing this to ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to for all the restaurant people out there,

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<v Speaker 2>we need eighty six daylight saving time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's affecting anything anymore. I was trying

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<v Speaker 2>to look it up. I know people say it's for farming.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it might still be, but it's also for

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<v Speaker 2>like other things. I think I should really look this

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<v Speaker 2>up before I started recording, But I don't think it

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<v Speaker 2>affects anything anymore. Okay, technology has gotten to a point

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<v Speaker 2>where we do not need daylight saving time. Let's just

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<v Speaker 2>keep the sun out later in the day because it

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<v Speaker 2>makes everybody happier. And you know what, sometimes we just

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<v Speaker 2>need to do something else as society to make us happier.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>There is nothing wrong with passing a law because it

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<v Speaker 2>makes people happy. Now, we shouldn't do that all the time, obviously,

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<v Speaker 2>but every once in a while, I'd say two things

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<v Speaker 2>come to mind. One, make the day after the super

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<v Speaker 2>Bowl a national holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've talked about it on this podcast before.

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<v Speaker 2>Make the day after the super Bowl a national holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>Why because it will make people happy and that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good thing. And Secondly, make a law abolishing daylight saving time.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to know why, Because it will just make

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<v Speaker 1>people happier. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we all understand that we are living in

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<v Speaker 2>very angry and divisive times. So let's do something that

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<v Speaker 2>we can all rally around and all just put a

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<v Speaker 2>smile on our face. Be like, you know what, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>this is for you, This is for everyone out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye by daylight saving time. Sun's going down at seven

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<v Speaker 2>year round love it. If I was running for president,

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<v Speaker 2>I would run on that campaign, and you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I probably win. Obviously we'll talk about taxes and the

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<v Speaker 2>economy and foreign affairs and the border. But you know what, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what Number one on my docket is getting

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<v Speaker 2>rid of daylight savings time boom. President put me in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty four. Who my vice president would be? Hay

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<v Speaker 2>Bon and Ben? Ben Haiggens is very presidential. I could

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<v Speaker 2>see that. I'll be Ben's VP. You think he'd picked

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<v Speaker 2>me Higgins and Habon h and h It's got a

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<v Speaker 2>good ring to it. He was definitely the president. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be his VP. I think Kaitlin could be president just

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<v Speaker 2>my popularity. She'd be a fascinating president. Ashley's birthday is

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<v Speaker 2>coming up March sixth. Make sure you wish her a

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<v Speaker 2>happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the hell I'm gonna do. Try

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<v Speaker 1>to get a babysitter, maybe go out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm just get out, Like I try to get

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<v Speaker 2>her things to do for herself, you know, get her

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<v Speaker 2>a massage, but she's always like I want you to come,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like that's so sweet, But like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do it like I want you to enjoy.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, every time for a Christmas or Birthday, I

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<v Speaker 2>get things for her and her sister to do because

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<v Speaker 2>she always wants to do things with her sister. But

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<v Speaker 2>then just get annoyed because she's like, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>do things with you. I'm like, we do so much together.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so weird being married when you really think about it,

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<v Speaker 2>this whole term of quality time, quality time, quality time. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>there's just so much time. I understand quality time.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>You need quality time, we need quality time. But we

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<v Speaker 2>spend so much time together, you know. AnyWho just Grinding

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<v Speaker 2>Grinding podcast. I got Audrey's. We had Caitlin there this

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<v Speaker 2>past week.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fun. She killed it. God, she was the best.

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<v Speaker 2>She is the best, greatest bacheloret of all time. And

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<v Speaker 2>my bias, yes, but it doesn't mean I'm wrong. She

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<v Speaker 2>was awesome. She killed it. It was fun, so that

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<v Speaker 2>was cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And then.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm just gonna continue juggling. It's I'm an Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she called myself the juggler.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. Maybe I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, Make sure you guys are obviously listening to the

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<v Speaker 2>main podcast Suckers with Dean, myself and Kaitlin.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for all the wil wishes too

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<v Speaker 1>when we.

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<v Speaker 2>Announced the gender. Really do appreciate it. We really are excited.

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<v Speaker 2>It'll be fun two boys. I mean, we're just building

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<v Speaker 2>either a basketball team or a boy band, maybe both.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out, but it will be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very excited for when they're a little bit older,

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<v Speaker 2>like five six, somewhere around that age where Dawson has

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<v Speaker 2>games and it's like, all right, well, Dawson has a

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<v Speaker 2>game over here at eight o'clock, and then the other

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<v Speaker 2>one has it. I'm only calling the other one the

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<v Speaker 2>other one because we truly don't have.

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<v Speaker 1>A name yet.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the other one has a game at nine o'clock,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I got to bounce back to make sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I pick up Dawson then go to this game. But

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<v Speaker 1>I want to watch them both.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm coaching, because I obviously will be coaching my

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<v Speaker 2>kids a little league, and it's gonna be a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Very excited for those days.

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<v Speaker 2>But until then, keep listening to the podcast, and I

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<v Speaker 2>can't tell you how much I appreciate it. Once again,

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<v Speaker 2>love you guys, Make sure you tune in next week.

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<v Speaker 2>We're hopefully we suck just a little bit less