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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome back to the Psychology of Your Twenties,

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Speaker 1: the podcast where we talk through some of the big

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Speaker 1: changes and transitions about twenties and what they mean for

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Speaker 1: our psychology. Eggs, just fat and everyone. So we're going

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Speaker 1: to take a quick five minute break. Hello, and welcome

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Speaker 1: back to the podcast. Thanks for tuning in. We have

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Speaker 1: a very special episode today. It's the first ever episode

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Speaker 1: of girl Talk because we have three very special guests. Hello. Everyone,

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Speaker 1: hiy goot and talk. Yeah. I brought on some three

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Speaker 1: special guests, some close friends of mine. We'll be like

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Speaker 1: to do a little mini introduction before we get into

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Speaker 1: the Girl Talk. Aaron, I'm looking at you. I go first,

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Speaker 1: of course you do. Hello. My name is Eric. I've

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Speaker 1: been on the podcast before. What was the episode that

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Speaker 1: you did? I did the nine to five episode a

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Speaker 1: long time ago. Yeah, it was one of our first episode.

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Speaker 1: A guy guys. Wow, you know it's almost a year

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Speaker 1: of the podcast, coming up to a year. Really, what

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Speaker 1: d on the fifth of June? So I do expect

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Speaker 1: first birthday presents? I don't think about it. We have

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Speaker 1: a combined birthday party for me and the podcast. That

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Speaker 1: sounds so sad. No, I love it. I love it

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Speaker 1: so sad. I don't want to have a birthday this year,

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Speaker 1: so we'll make about the podcast instead. So I listened

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Speaker 1: to it so much that I'm practically I'm an investor. Eric. Okay,

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Speaker 1: wait for the frequent listeners of the podcast, Aaron does

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Speaker 1: actually receive quite a few shout outs. I do I

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Speaker 1: do so nationally. Here in the Flesh and Aaron aside,

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Speaker 1: we have another friend of the podcast, another friend of

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Speaker 1: the show. Here, Meg. My name's Meg, I have Meg.

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Speaker 1: It's Meg. I have featured on the pod us. It

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Speaker 1: was with Maddie about a Harvard Oxford Sorry, wrong answer.

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Speaker 1: You were even on the episode? Yeah, it was a

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Speaker 1: while though, it's probably nine months ago. I'd before lockdown

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Speaker 1: in Cambra. Yeah anyway, Um, yeah, my name is Big

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Speaker 1: and we all gathered at the coast today. Thank you Meg,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and our final guest of this very special

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Speaker 1: a podcast burgeon surgeon. Yeah, past time, very excited to

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Speaker 1: break break the seals, sorry, break the seal. Pop the cherry,

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Speaker 1: Pop the cherry. That's it, pop the cherry. EJ also

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Speaker 1: hasn't quite realized that on the podcast. Do you actually

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Speaker 1: Bring it closer to J Well, I was trying to

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Speaker 1: do that. We have already dropped the mic in the

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Speaker 1: bowl of the chips. I was thinking of a stick

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Speaker 1: to ye oh yeah, take the phone. Yeah, we used

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Speaker 1: to take the phone to a stick. Yes, okay, we'll

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Speaker 1: get to that. Revolutionary like a selfie stick. But for

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Speaker 1: the podcast, Yeah, did that come to mind? Because we

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Speaker 1: have the fire going, I felt like a microphone just

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Speaker 1: I also thought of a kindling steacaster. Yeah, we could

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Speaker 1: actually probably do that. So welcome EJ. First time, let's

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Speaker 1: talk of EJ. We'll welcome thanks everyone. Thanks, Are you excited? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm Kane. A little buzz but I'm Kane, Yeah, a

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Speaker 1: little buzz. I think, why do you look at me?

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Speaker 1: That that laughing audio right there? Give it away? We

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Speaker 1: were our podcast today. I would like you to picture

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Speaker 1: us sweating because we have a beautiful fire created by Gemma. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I did a really good job. Because of that, we

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Speaker 1: and it was really cute. I was, I was admiring it.

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Speaker 1: We're not advertising any brands. It just has a unicorn

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Speaker 1: so we got the fire going. EJ. Maybe you can

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Speaker 1: tell the listeners why why are we all gathered here today?

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Speaker 1: and that's why we're at the coast. So we're at

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Speaker 1: the coast. Yeah, which coast? Which near Drivers Bay? Yes? Yeah? Milton, Milton, yeah, yeah, yeah?

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Speaker 1: And how did this? Someone didn't put their phone on side?

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Speaker 1: Didn't someone on this side? Give me ship? Have my

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Speaker 1: phone about five times today. What are these times? She

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Speaker 1: And Meg, where did you drive from from Swift's Creek,

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Speaker 1: have an incident with the car. Oh yes, would anyone

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Speaker 1: like to explain what happened there? Aaron? Aaron, what happened

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Speaker 1: Jemma had not pumped her ties up since December. We

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Speaker 1: Um and yes, so the ties were not doing well.

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Speaker 1: you describe it as, EJ like the two dollars stop

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Speaker 1: were like, oh my god, we had temporary tattoos. Podcast

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Speaker 1: Aaron almost literally ran, I do I want to podcast? Okay,

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Speaker 1: wait wait, so we basically wait wait wait, wait, so

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Speaker 1: Yet we went. We tried to go to this Viney's.

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Speaker 1: really cute. But we're also literally recording right now. Can

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Speaker 1: crochet artist. Yeah. Well so basically this lady was really

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Speaker 1: nice and she was she like, can crochet all these sweaters?

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Speaker 1: he say, do you remember, excuse me, your left hand tires? No, no,

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Speaker 1: I want to hear about makes turn over experience. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's called girl Talk Bad. What girls do we talk?

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Speaker 1: Aaron we pike own the house and we get temporary

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Speaker 1: really on a scat moment right here. She's like, you

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Speaker 1: And how are you, Jenna? I'm doing great, guys, I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: Probably overseas. I might be close to island now, but

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Speaker 1: really interesting but Canada do they pay you? Does Canada

420
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: pay you to plant trees? Yeah? But it's generation one

421
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: of the most work. Like, it's it's a really interesting

422
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: job because it pays really well and you like it's

423
00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,680
Speaker 1: outdoors and you kind of go and living like a

424
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: little like for like months at a time. But it's

425
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 1: actually really really really hard because you get paid per tree.

426
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: That's like Australia, So how much do you get per tree?

427
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: Like twenty cents? Yeah, so you got to plant a lot.

428
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: But once you get going, once you get going, in

429
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: my head for some giant if I can plant a

430
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: tree and like watch these Like I went through a

431
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: phase when I was living in countera exchange where I

432
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna coome a tree plant because I

433
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: met this person who was like, yeah, I was a

434
00:28:55,880 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: tree plant. I'm going back. And but I watch these

435
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: YouTube blogs and like people get like your body like

436
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 1: does not recover, but the shorter you are the better

437
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: because you're yeah, yeah, that's very true. But if you're

438
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,239
Speaker 1: a midge, it's perfect for you because it okay, think

439
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: about this. You've got to carry like all the stuff

440
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: you need for a tree planting so that you've got

441
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,239
Speaker 1: like and then like you need water and then they

442
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: just dump you in the middle of a paddic all

443
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: day and then you just got like dig holes and

444
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: plant trees all day and you do nothing else, and

445
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: do they go around and count trees that you point out,

446
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: they count many trees are in your backpack? Yeah yeah,

447
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: But then like I saw these things are people who

448
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 1: like big ding trees and they hit like a horned

449
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: stairs and then they get like bitten on their face.

450
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: But like all these like bees, that's like a fucking

451
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: hungry game. And then bears. Yeah this sounds terrible, Yeah,

452
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: but they can pay really well because like you work

453
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: for like three months in you and like quite a

454
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: signficant amout of money, and you make friends and like

455
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: quite a lot of young people do it get eaten

456
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: by a bear? Well, I didn't think a blog of

457
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: somebody getting in by bar, but it's suddenly a hazard aaron.

458
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: So that's your five year ago absolutely to be eaten

459
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: by a bear. And Canada planting pine trees, yes, well,

460
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: and it's an interesting thing because I think, no, just quickly,

461
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: I think they plant the trees for forest trees. So

462
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: they plant them, so they grow and then they calm

463
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: them down again. So it's not even like fun tree regeneration,

464
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: like it's like native and stuff. Yeah, that's about in

465
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: Australia too, So it's commercial. It's commercial. Yeah, it's commercial.

466
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: That sounds and you think that a machine could do

467
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: it in this day and age. They so to be

468
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: rough and I think, I like helicopter drop. But think

469
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: about this because the tree, it would plant it in

470
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: the front and then it would probably run it over.

471
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: Just think about so the tree. Think about a machine

472
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: and think about like, no, how do you think they

473
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 1: plant crops? I don't know with seeds, it's seeds with

474
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: the back. Oh plant about the fun I was like,

475
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: why would you do that because even gonna run over

476
00:30:56,120 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 1: the trees. I actually not work with my hands. It's

477
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: very obvious. So I do not have a working woman's job.

478
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm like that working woman's job. Yeah, I'm just a

479
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: little office bitch, a little corporate. Yeah. So your five

480
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: year plan is involving trouble well theoretically, but I like

481
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: to pride myself and the fact that I don't have

482
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: a five year plan. No. I was literally about to

483
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: pay this like I was like, I was like, I

484
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: talk a lot about having plans, but like, especially with

485
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: what COVID's taught me, it's like good to not have

486
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: a plan. It's good to have this like optimism, you know. Yeah, yeah,

487
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: I think I'm the same, although I'm going to be honest,

488
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: I have a pretty pretty intense five year plan. Yeah,

489
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: I think five years. Like I'm somebody in general just quickly, Yeah,

490
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: because I feel quite stronger about this topic. That's what

491
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: we want on the podcast. I'm somebody who like I

492
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: never made goals ever, Like even when I was at

493
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: school and they're like, You've got to make a goal,

494
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to make a goal

495
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: because it's just going to lead to disappointment and less

496
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: so because of fear of failure. I never wanted to

497
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: did you ever have like sorry to go off, but

498
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: did you find academic validation? Like did you ever like

499
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: in high school, like get an assignment and you're like,

500
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: I want top grade? Yeah, of course, is that not similar?

501
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: It's a goal a goal, but like I would never

502
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: make a goal by myself, Like I would never do

503
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: a goal myself. I'd just be like, oh, I'm gonna

504
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: get the signment and I'm going to do well. This

505
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: signment was already set. Yeah. Yeah, So it's like somebody

506
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 1: said to me, if society told you life goals are

507
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: more abstract life. There's multiple paths as well. Like a

508
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 1: school signment you don't have multiple paths, but life you

509
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: have many multiple paths and what you can pick and

510
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: there's like an intense amount of beariables and it's very scary,

511
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: and so I like beautiful. This is true. He does

512
00:32:55,640 --> 00:33:00,239
Speaker 1: it beautiful gods. Um. But yeah, So I don't make

513
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: goals because I don't like goals and they make me stressed.

514
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: Fair enough, Yeah, I think there can be a healthy

515
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: balance in it. This is very true. Anyway, what's your

516
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: one you've got. I'm enjoying this. Um. Well, yeah, because

517
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: you've got the opposite of what Aaron is. Oh yeah,

518
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 1: I just think it's quite restrictive as well, because I

519
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: think if you make it, it's restrictive. It's just like

520
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: because I am goals are no no, but I mean that,

521
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: like my goals are just goals and my life is

522
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 1: created around them. Yeah, it's good to have a direction

523
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: at us. Well, it's just like I want to be Okay,

524
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: it's just like my goals are a lot more. I

525
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: think my goals are a lot more. They're not like

526
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: I need to be living in a house with my

527
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: partner and three children. Yeah, I would like a dog. Yeah,

528
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: It's it's more like I know that in two years

529
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: I want to be doing my masters. Yeah, because I

530
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: think a lot of people make those goals that you

531
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: were talking about in the first instance, it's like I

532
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,719
Speaker 1: need a house and pets and a child and like.

533
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,479
Speaker 1: And I think that's why a lot of people or like,

534
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: for example, when they can't have kids, I get really

535
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 1: disappointed because their whole life has been about this one

536
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: goal of filling this one role. Yeah, whereas mine is

537
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: like also it's too actually could go out about Yeah,

538
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: Whereas my goal is like I know that in two

539
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: years I want to be in London studying masters. Yeah.

540
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: That's not a constrictive goal, totally, totally. Yeah, that's like

541
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 1: I want to be. I know, I want to be

542
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 1: overseas next year, like I did say septembook, but like

543
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: I know in the foreseeable future, I would love to

544
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: be overseas. Whyever that is? You know, it's a very

545
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: interesting thing. Yeah. See, I think because I've had so

546
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: many things happen in life that have happened purely by chance,

547
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: and I think as well propelled somewhat by COVID, where

548
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: I made a big life plan. I was like, so

549
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 1: ready to do all these things after exchange and go traveling,

550
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: and then none of that could happen. And I was like, well,

551
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: that's the last time I ever make a goal because

552
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,760
Speaker 1: that didn't happen, and it was so disappointing and very

553
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 1: upsetting and like a huge waste of energy even getting

554
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: myself to that point only to have the hold from

555
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: underneath me. I think it's like, I think it's good

556
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: to have that realistic perspective of it, but I also

557
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: I cann't see where jama is coming from. I really

558
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: can be such a happy balance between and I think

559
00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: that a lot of it has to do with like

560
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: as well. My general life mindset is a very negative one. Yes,

561
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: we've talked about this, but also I don't have a partner.

562
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't have anything tying me anywhere. Yeah, but like

563
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: I have a partner and I and he is extremely

564
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: aware of like my boundaries in the sense where I

565
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: have gone into that and has been like, yeah, I

566
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: want to be overseas, I want to be doing this,

567
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,959
Speaker 1: and these are things I want to achieve in my life.

568
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: Do you think long distance helps with that? I think

569
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: so I think he's really been open minded to my

570
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: perspective because I also think I don't want him to

571
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 1: be restricted in his goal setting. I don't want his

572
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,879
Speaker 1: life to just revolve around me. So in my head,

573
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to be overseas with consideration that

574
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 1: maybe he wants to join me, but if he doesn't

575
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: want me, doesn't want to, we can work through that,

576
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I honestly, it's been interesting

577
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: because I've been having like a real like I love.

578
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: The thing is, I haven't really met Meg's partner. Ah,

579
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 1: but I've met but wait, wait wait, I've met Jack. Obviously,

580
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: I've met Aaron's partner. I know I know Aaron and

581
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: EJ's partner's quite well, I would say, And I feel

582
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,959
Speaker 1: like and all of my friends at the moment have

583
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: boyfriends and partners. But that's one thing. And I've been

584
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 1: feeling like kind of sad about it because obviously I

585
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: went through a break up at the start of the year.

586
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: It like completely destroyed me. We've talked about it a lot,

587
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: but maybe moving onwards fuck him, but um, but the

588
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: thing is, it's like I have been like kind of

589
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: in a weird headspace about it recently, and then I'm like, actually,

590
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: there are some pretty amazing upsides to it. For example,

591
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: if tomorrow I decided, oh, like I want to move

592
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: to London, Yeah, you can do that. I could literally

593
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,959
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, And also my work is so great

594
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 1: that I could do it as well, like I should

595
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: beautifully they sing conversation with Jack. I could also move

596
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 1: to Toronto. Sorry, choice of I'm not going to move

597
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: to Toronto. Yeah, don't you know how my seasonal depression be.

598
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: I had a really interesting conversation with Jack the other

599
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: day about this as a concept, because like, when you're

600
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: with somebody, I was like, at the end of the day,

601
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: you've got to prioritize yourself number one baby. So whatever

602
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: you want to do, like even if that involves not

603
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: having me around at the end of the day, it's

604
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 1: about you and about your life, and don't constrain your

605
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: life to suit the relationship you're in, because at the

606
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: end of the day, all you have is yourself. Meg

607
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 1: and I were talking about this we were literally an

608
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: hour ago. But like, I also makes a good example,

609
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: and so she's still going to Queensland and it's a partner.

610
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: People always ask me exactly going exactly. It's not coming

611
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: on reality. Yeah, is it hot? You know. No, I've

612
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 1: always planned to go by myself. Yeah my plan. Yeah,

613
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: good A goal a goal, and it's a goal that

614
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 1: is useful. But back to this, I think in five

615
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: years time, I would like to a I'm gonna say this,

616
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 1: I would like to have not been in a relationship

617
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: in that period. Yeah, I am pretty set on staying

618
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 1: single with the capitalist for the next five years. I

619
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: would like to have a lot of new friends. Okay, no, no,

620
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: I'll just be showing myself out. But I would like Yeah,

621
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: but I would like to have a continue like obviously,

622
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 1: you guys aren't people. I'm letting God. And I'd like

623
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: to live somewhere other than Australia. Although I am a

624
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: big Sydney fan at the moment you just moved there,

625
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with Sydney. E J can't say the same.

626
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: But Meg is from is living in a pretty small

627
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: country town. Yes i am. And we went to this

628
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:55,400
Speaker 1: bar yesterday. Oh yeah, what was your? What? Bar in Milton,

629
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: New South Wales. Not particularly most pumping place they were,

630
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 1: to be fair, it was different. It was a Mexican bar.

631
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: Well it was a bit of a weird Australasian Okay,

632
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: Australa Mexican Mexican cuisine yahud. And there was just so

633
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: many people there and they kept staring at me, but

634
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: they weren't. It's just because I haven't been people people. Yeah,

635
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: and then I was. Then we're talking about Sydney and Canberra.

636
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:33,320
Speaker 1: Even I get very overwhelmed because there's so many people. Imagine, Okay,

637
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: imagine Megan Sydney with us. You'd be pretty sure godly though,

638
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 1: I remember when we went to Melbourne. Yes, and weren't

639
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: you still living You were living in Bombala at that stage,

640
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: and you coped. I came. But that might be a

641
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 1: familiar st obviously, But I think actually you might be right,

642
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,799
Speaker 1: because I was. I was not okay, Melbourne. I know

643
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: Melbourne because that was like the Cydeo you knew. Yeah,

644
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: you're pretty familiar with it. But yeah it's Sydney. You're

645
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 1: less for me, Yes, sweet, yeah, very very true. I

646
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: feel like you would really really struggled with this. Here's

647
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: the thing about Sydney though, that I've been really interested.

648
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: I don't know if you feel the same, EJ. I

649
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:18,399
Speaker 1: feel so ugly, Oh my god, this is a great Yeah. No,

650
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 1: but I feel this is no, this is no no.

651
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: I can I can I agree with her. I can

652
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:27,919
Speaker 1: agree with her. There is a different there's a subculture

653
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: of beauty that has quickly. It's not a subculture of beauty.

654
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: It's a subculture of people with a lot of disposable

655
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: income and very rich people. What are what are I

656
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 1: using for? So there's like I don't get basic basically,

657
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 1: I want to get live fil I hedline, so I

658
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: know I was talking to I was talking to my

659
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 1: houseman the other day about this. I don't know what

660
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 1: it is. I'm going to blame it all on the

661
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: guy I was seeing at the start of the year,

662
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: absolutely destroying my self confidence no matter what, what what what? Why? Yeah?

663
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: Thank you? Silence from everybody else? No, I started and

664
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: it was too late. But I don't know what it is.

665
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: But when I moved to Sydney, I was like, wow,

666
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm so ugly, but also just like my personal circumstances

667
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: where I was like I'm a lovable and I was

668
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: like I should get lip fillers. And then I was

669
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: drunk the other night and I was telling my housemates

670
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: about it and I was like what and I was

671
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: going to book in an appointment and it was like

672
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 1: five and then I was like, have you seen Okay?

673
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:33,800
Speaker 1: I googled it. I was also I'm scared of injections.

674
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I, if you ever want to

675
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: scare yourself out of getting lip fillers, watch the Jeffrey

676
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,240
Speaker 1: Star video where he gets his lip fillers removed because

677
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: they were like went bad and like collagulated in his

678
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: lips and he films everything and they filmed okay, so

679
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: he got these like really bad. This is when, okay,

680
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: I gotta stop from the beginning, Jeffrey Star, oh um,

681
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,280
Speaker 1: as people know, it's very problematic. I want to assure

682
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: you that I no longer watch jefferis are but if

683
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: you did, who cares well. I don't want to get canceled.

684
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: Cancel counsel, not canceled. That's our phrase on the show.

685
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 1: Counsel not canceled U. But jeffreyest I was really problematic.

686
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:17,319
Speaker 1: But basically he filled his um lip filler like removal,

687
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: so he had like plastic surgery, but he got it

688
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: like done back in the day when they weren't really

689
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: like a big mainstream thing and they just did them

690
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 1: really really wrong, and they like put something in it

691
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: that got like stuck in his lips. So he had

692
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: like a he had like lumps in his lip. Was

693
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: it plastic? It was like, yeah, some kind of plastic

694
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: didn't like dissolve, and then he had to get them

695
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 1: like professionally removed, and like he filmed the whole process

696
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: of getting removed. And I was like, I just like

697
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: I can't, I cannot think of anything worse. I'd still

698
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: get it. You should watch it. I know. I watched

699
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: it at like fourteen, and I got like mentally scarred

700
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: by it. So yeah, recommendation if anybody's on the fence,

701
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: go watch that video. I don't even know what it's called.

702
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: What do you think about it? I've thought about it.

703
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: We're in Bambaala, my old housemate. We were talking about

704
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: it quite seriously, yeah, about getting it. But then I

705
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: was pretty like for it. But then I didn't realize

706
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 1: you have to get them every like two years, so

707
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: that's last that's a lot of money every two years.

708
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 1: Maybe by the time, you know, by the time I

709
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: went twenty four, we won't kill Well that's no, no,

710
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Well saying, I was like I want

711
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 1: to get them now because I want the I'm in

712
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: my toyally twenties. That's when you look the best. Surely,

713
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: I just want to look really hot. I think I

714
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 1: get worried that you get used to the look of

715
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,720
Speaker 1: them and then you get like stuck in the addictive

716
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: loop of spending money on them. Well that's been my eyebrows. Yeah,

717
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 1: so it just quickly EJ. But I got my eyebrows

718
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: because I've been on like this whole like weird self love,

719
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:48,839
Speaker 1: self confidence journey, and I started getting my eyebrows done

720
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: and like what is it called tinged? Tint tint tinted

721
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: and done, and now I'm addicted, addicted on getting my

722
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 1: eyelashes and my I browsed into which I never thought

723
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: I would be that person. Yeah, that that person is

724
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: really a thing. Yeah, but J what do you think?

725
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 1: So I have this like really back and forth relationship

726
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 1: about like cosmetic surgery where it was like so similarly

727
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: with like like Jama, I had this experience with an

728
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: ax he he pointed out that I had really thin,

729
00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 1: a thin upper lips. Yeah, and I got really like

730
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: insecure about it. I was quite young. I was just

731
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: turned eighteen, sort of thing and what was his name

732
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: just was no cool anyway, I was quiet um and

733
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: I was quite like I became very like innately aware

734
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 1: of it. And it was something like I would like

735
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: take photos and I'm like, I'm up on the lip,

736
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: and I would consider like getting like lip fillers, but

737
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: I'd always see like people on television or people in

738
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: real life and it just either they had overdone it

739
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: all this kind of stuff that then I started thinking

740
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: about it, like if you feel beautiful and you feel

741
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 1: content with your decision and confident your decision, like go ahead,

742
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,839
Speaker 1: but as long as you're aware of like the health precautions. Yeah,

743
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: But then you start to think, sorry to get really

744
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 1: mad at here. But it's like you start thinking about

745
00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: like the cosmetic culture, and you start thinking a plastic

746
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: like social culture. Is it done for men exactly? White

747
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: security exactly? And it's like a white where does the

748
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 1: money go? Exactly? And you think, like what is beauty?

749
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: It's like, especially in Western culture, it is like post

750
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:40,759
Speaker 1: colonial beauty of like blue eyes, blonde hair. It's like, yeah,

751
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's people aren't going to

752
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: remember you, like at your funeral, for yah, it feels

753
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: you feel like, how can you were? Yeah, but I

754
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 1: also for me, so I'm interested in getting so I

755
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 1: think the lip feeler thing and the cheek feels because

756
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:04,959
Speaker 1: that's the thing I'm concerned. Yeah, for yourself. But you guys,

757
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: I think you guys all know, like the last three

758
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: months have been hard because I just felt so low

759
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:15,160
Speaker 1: because this person like completely just doing it for I'm

760
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: not doing it to like impress them. I'm not doing

761
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: it to feel more attracted. The only reason I'm doing

762
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 1: it is because I'm like, if I had this done, yeah,

763
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: I would actually feel confident enough to be myself. Yeah,

764
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 1: because I feel like my external would match my internal. Yeah.

765
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I don't know what That's really

766
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: interesting though, because sometimes I think that that's a bit

767
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: like the whole concept of like if I buy this dress,

768
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: I will finally be satisfied and never want a black

769
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,959
Speaker 1: dress that is short and I can wear out again.

770
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: It's like this culture of wanting. There's a culture. There's

771
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: a really Ruby Sparks has a really good book about this. Um,

772
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: I can't remember what the book's called, yeah, but it's blue.

773
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: It's got a blue cover, and it's about this concept

774
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,920
Speaker 1: where like when she was like in the Pits of Despair, basically, um,

775
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: I said here Colin favorite the podcast, joking because this

776
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: podcast is a favorite, The Pits of Despair. She went

777
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 1: through a phase where she was like, if I get

778
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: six cushions that are perfect for the couch, I will

779
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: finally be good. I will finally be happy. And she

780
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: spent months searching for these perfect cushions for a couch

781
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: that fitted the esthetic of a whole whole house, and

782
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: it was going to be perfect, and like she was like, yeah, that,

783
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: like it was never gonna happen because as soon as

784
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: you get those cushions, you want more. But it's this

785
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: concept where she was like addicted to like finding this thing,

786
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 1: and it's actually like it's like a psychological thing, obviously

787
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: because my execs a little bit different, but it's a

788
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: psychological thing. There's like hunter and gathering instinct, which is

789
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: why like when we go shopping, we feel really good

790
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: for like ten seconds, and then like two weeks later

791
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, I forgot to baul that. Yeah, it

792
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: actually activates the like part of your brain that has

793
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: the hunter gather a complex. It's like when I gather

794
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:54,440
Speaker 1: things for my tribe, my tribe will love me. But

795
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: I think for me personally, it's like and I really

796
00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 1: do see that. I think that, like right, and I

797
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: would say, you know pretty well, I have a very

798
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 1: addictive personality. Goes without saying, but I know that's why

799
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,240
Speaker 1: I think that it's like for me right now, I'm like, okay,

800
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: if I which it's literally plastic surgery, yeah, but it

801
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: just shows how like deeply I think it's like much

802
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 1: more psychological. Yeah, I'm so injured psychologically by this relationship.

803
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I if I just physically changed my

804
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: appearance so this person couldn't recognize me anymore until I

805
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 1: could feel like myself so I could feel physically attractive.

806
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: If I fundamentally changed some aspect of how I looked,

807
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: I finally feel like I am not like beholden to

808
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: how this person saw me. Yeah, which is why um

809
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: self acceptance this thing, like because like I feel like,

810
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: you know, like obviously like we're not the same person,

811
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: but like I feel like I could relate to a

812
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: level with the experience about like lips and stuff with Jamma,

813
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: Like I've had this whole thing. It's like I've thought

814
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: about it. I haven't gone ahead with it because I

815
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: know where I'm like, where I'm standing from is it

816
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 1: a place to please them and to please this like

817
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 1: male gaze. But then there is the other end of it.

818
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 1: And sorry to bring this up again, but I really

819
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: want to get my hair lined tattooed. But that is

820
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: like for me, but I know that to me, you know,

821
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,400
Speaker 1: I'm not dating, Like there's no one one I'm trying

822
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: to impress. I'm not trying to get laid. I'm not

823
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: trying to date. I literally just feel like it would

824
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,799
Speaker 1: just like allow me to be more like myself. Isn't

825
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 1: it so interesting though that women are at this stage

826
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: where it's like to feel like myself I fundamentally have

827
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:43,400
Speaker 1: to spend a lot of money on changing. Yeah, and

828
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: also but also nothing with my past. Just support me

829
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: no matter what, totally. And I also think that at

830
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: the end of the day, like no shame, like go

831
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 1: get whatever you want done, go for it. Why did

832
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:58,319
Speaker 1: you want to get them make Well, I just didn't

833
00:49:58,360 --> 00:49:59,759
Speaker 1: like my lips, so I was like, oh, I just

834
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: you know, and probably because I've seen like big lips

835
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: and like oh that you know that looks nice? Yeah? Yeah,

836
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: but like you know, but yeah it is you know,

837
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 1: you say, yeah, I'm like, oh that you know, this

838
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: is that the ideal of beauty or about you know,

839
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: not really the models that just like people, you know. Yeah,

840
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 1: it's like the Kardashians plucked what they wanted from like

841
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: different cultures, different cultures around the world, and then made

842
00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: that mainstream and made that consumable. And now that's like

843
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:35,399
Speaker 1: what we all all expected to look like because women

844
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 1: obviously all have to look the same way, yes, according

845
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: to whatever trends are currently happening, because God forbeard, we

846
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: are a diverse, unique, different set of people with individual thoughts,

847
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: opinions and feelings with your hairline, because that's obviously be different.

848
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: I fea if we really want to go that Gabby

849
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: Hannah do you remember her? Yeah, she got her hairlin done.

850
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, like years ago and I didn't even

851
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: know this was youtubeer Like yeah, she's also I don't

852
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: support her either anyway, Like, um no, it was just

853
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: one of the things. So it's like the whole strow

854
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: I like bleached my hair like home bleached it in

855
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,360
Speaker 1: like twenty twenty, and like if you lift up my

856
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 1: hair you can see just like patches of like where

857
00:51:26,920 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: the bleach where the bleach was, and like bolding. And

858
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: I'm just very aware of it because I never wear

859
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 1: my hair up and like high ponies anymore because like

860
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: I can see it, Like I just like would love

861
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: to get little tattoos on it, just like make it

862
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:43,480
Speaker 1: look fuller, you know, because I love my hair. Yeah,

863
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: And it's just like I just like, would you ever

864
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: shave your head? One hundred percent would love to shave

865
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: my head the head I do because I'm sick. I've

866
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,439
Speaker 1: bleached my hair a couple of times and just stick

867
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,480
Speaker 1: of it and then I shave it off. Yeah, I

868
00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: want to get rid of it. I was thinking of

869
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: dying it pink, like bleaching, dying it pink because I

870
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: love pink as most rank. Okay, sorry for the listeners.

871
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 1: She's wearing full pink right now, pink socks, pink pants,

872
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 1: pink top, pink candies, somewhat somewhat pink candies, and a

873
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:18,399
Speaker 1: beautiful okay, a beautiful pink blush. Oh you gotta pink. Oh,

874
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you gotta pink scrunching in as well anyway,

875
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: but yes, because I feel my hair feels just gross

876
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: I'm not happy with it, just personally. Yeah, I saw

877
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: this thing that was like, when you want to change

878
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 1: a physical part of your body, it's not that you

879
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 1: want to change that, it's that you you want to

880
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 1: change something psychological about yourself. You want to change probably,

881
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 1: And so it was like when you feel the inclination to,

882
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: like you shave your head or change your shave your hair,

883
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm not your head, change your hair color, you know,

884
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,280
Speaker 1: get lip fillers again. There was piercing, get a tattoo.

885
00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: It's because you're going through a period of change and

886
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: you want your outside to represent the internal identity. I

887
00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: got my selfdom done in the middle of January this year.

888
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: I got the piercing, I pushed up, we went swimming.

889
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: But sorry, if this is not I got it done.

890
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 1: And I got it in a period where I felt

891
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 1: really out of control of my life and I wanted

892
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 1: to take control. And I just did it and it's

893
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 1: like I can. I was like, yeah, it was such

894
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: a it was such a big moment for me, you know,

895
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: I feel like this way. I got my um first

896
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 1: tattoo in January this year, and it's she's quite she's

897
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,720
Speaker 1: not huge, but she's like quite big for a first tattoo.

898
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it is big for a first tattoo. Yeah,

899
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not the biggest, but it's she's up there. Um.

900
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: And then I like a couple months later before so

901
00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 1: interestingly this was in a period of change, but also

902
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: I kind of ham planning this for a while. Um,

903
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 1: so it's a bit different, but um. And then I

904
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 1: got the ones in my arms when I was leaving Hobart, um,

905
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: and they're kind of smaller ones. I got three kind

906
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 1: of smallish ones, including some writing. Um. And I had

907
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: such interesting conversations with people boat because they were like, oh,

908
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm bla bla blah blah blah, and I was like,

909
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Preferming this because for the first

910
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 1: time ever, I felt like I was like old enough

911
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 1: and mature enough, I'm responsible enough to make decisions about

912
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: how I wanted my body to look. And it was like,

913
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 1: and I had some conversations with people are like I

914
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: would never get a tatto of my life, oh my god,

915
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, but like, I actually like

916
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 1: didn't really have any qualms about it, because at the

917
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,320
Speaker 1: end of the day, it made me feel so incredibly

918
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: in control of my body. I'm more in touch with

919
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 1: my body. I'm very very deeply connected to who I

920
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: am as a person and like my values. This sounds

921
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: really deep, It's not really that deep, but it kind

922
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: of is like my values and like who I am

923
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 1: as a person, and like the artwork that I like

924
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 1: at this stage in life, and like everything kind of

925
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,439
Speaker 1: has a certain meaning because not everybody gets tattooed with meaning,

926
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: but my ones to start with with meaning because that

927
00:54:50,560 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 1: is what I want. And it like really really kind

928
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: of made me feel in control of my body in

929
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: a way which I do not always feel. And now

930
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: when I look at my body, I'm like, oh, I

931
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 1: got to do that, Like it's mine, this is mine,

932
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 1: Like this is a decision I made because I can

933
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 1: do things for myself. Yeah, and I trust myself as well.

934
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: Like when you got your tattoo, did you feel that way? Um?

935
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: I got on my eighteen? Was it that deep? Meg?

936
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 1: Tell us? Now, I went with my friend. I just

937
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: turned out in on the day and your your mountain tattoo? Yeah? Yeah,

938
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,840
Speaker 1: And I just went with my friend. She was going

939
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:27,759
Speaker 1: to get a be but it was too big and

940
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,960
Speaker 1: we just rang up the local tattoo Polor in Victoria,

941
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:34,320
Speaker 1: like we're living, and I was like, oh, I'll just

942
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,879
Speaker 1: get that little mountain and then it cost me bucks

943
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: and bus Yeah, whoa do you know my twenty very well?

944
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: So if there's anyone still listening, I have a tattoo

945
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: dedicated to Taylor Swift and that costs me one hundred

946
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 1: and six dollars my hundred and sixty. And you know

947
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: how small it is, right? Yeah? Where was it? Oh?

948
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: MoMA's is a local small town that is quiet. It

949
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 1: was a really nice place though. And also, I will

950
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: say this so I'm similar to Aaron and that all

951
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: my tattoos have very deep and distinct meanings for the

952
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: period of my life in which I got them. And

953
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: it's interesting because right now I'm in this period. I'm like,

954
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 1: there actually isn't anything that would fully represent this for me.

955
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: That's a good point because that tattoo. So in all

956
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: other periods of my life, I've been like, oh, yeah,

957
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: if someone asked me to tattoo something in my body,

958
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 1: I know what I would do because I know very

959
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 1: very clearly what my values are at the moment, what

960
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 1: my kind of guiding thought and principles of life feels like, like,

961
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: you know, all my tattoos, like the ones I have

962
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,879
Speaker 1: on my hit, on my ribs, I have on my back,

963
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 1: the want I have on my hip, all very like

964
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: things that I really stand by. But right now I

965
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: really couldn't tell you. I couldn't. I really couldn't decide

966
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: how I feel about my life right now. But when

967
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,799
Speaker 1: I look back at the tattoos I have gotten, yeah,

968
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 1: especially um, the one so I have on my on

969
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: my right side, I have this beautiful tree and it

970
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: has an eye in it. And I don't think I've

971
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: told you this before, but it means independence because at

972
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: the time I was really incredibly dependent on people validation.

973
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 1: I got an out of a really quite like abusive,

974
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: toxic relationship, and it was like I really needed a

975
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: reminder myself as like, I'm an independent person. I can

976
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 1: exist without the validation and the input of these people.

977
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: And I look at it. I know exactly how that felt,

978
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: and I know exactly why I got it, and the

979
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: same with like some of my other ones as well,

980
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: Like I know exactly why I got them, and they're

981
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 1: really meaningful to me because of that. But now I'm like,

982
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:38,000
Speaker 1: I actually don't know what would really define this period

983
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: of my life. I think I have a lot of

984
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: art Instagrams and I follow them. That's so pretty. I

985
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: want that's on me forever. Like I saw a really

986
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: nice one today as well, and I was going through

987
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: a page and I was like, oh my god, it's

988
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: haw too. Takes fily sixty dollars. Will look at other

989
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: pretty things like get but interestingly they are all at

990
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: the moment, they are all women. They're all figures of women,

991
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: and they all naked. Mostly the one of my backsnaked.

992
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:04,320
Speaker 1: I have a naked wood on my back with like

993
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: clouds and stuff, and all the ones I see. I

994
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: don't know whether it's that it makes farting, um. I

995
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: don't know that it's the artists I follow, but all

996
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: of over like naked women. But I think it's just

997
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: like kind of obsession with like their female and the

998
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: female figure. I'm like the relationship I have with that

999
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 1: myself and how society expects women to look. And I

1000
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: think I love the subversion of a lot of artists

1001
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: I follow, where it's like, actually, we don't subscribe to

1002
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 1: the notion of like having to walk. I've only ever

1003
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: gotten tattooed by woman Dent and definitely definitely from my

1004
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: friend Sydney. Yeah, one hundred percent. I really want one,

1005
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: So shout out to Sydney. She's a friend of the podcast,

1006
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: a friend of the show, and she's a tattoo artist

1007
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: and she is incredibly incredibly talented and has given me

1008
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: a tattoo before. So she's in Melbourne. If anyone wants

1009
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: at Sydney Faerry an incredible incredible artists on Instagram Sydney

1010
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 1: sid Fairy. How do you spell that? S y d

1011
00:58:56,760 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: A R E White I R. I feel like they

1012
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 1: can listen about it, y but she's very, very talented.

1013
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: I really want her to give EJ one. I really

1014
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:07,919
Speaker 1: want one. So we're forty four minutes in. Let's let's

1015
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: do one more question. Okay, what else we have? What's

1016
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 1: a question that we really want to ask? Oh goodness,

1017
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: this is okay. Let a question, find a reflex question.

1018
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask us a question, question gem question,

1019
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: A gem question. Okay, let's do that. So if had

1020
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 1: some very deep conversations, but we're going to finish off

1021
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 1: with one final question kind of random, but what is

1022
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: the one song that defines your life? Right now? Oh?

1023
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: My God, what do you think it is? If you

1024
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: could pick one song that really encapsulates these guys have

1025
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: asked him sandwiches, now you hear that noise? What's one

1026
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:49,160
Speaker 1: song that really defines your life? Right now? I've got

1027
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: to think, so I actually know what it is? Do

1028
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 1: you want to go to EJ? Well? No, the first

1029
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: song like him in my head was Hotel Room Service

1030
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 1: by people. But what we've been listening to all weekend,

1031
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 1: that's true. So I'm like very happy around my friends

1032
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 1: and feel a little love. So I'm going to say

1033
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: a hotel room service. Yeah, you know it really it

1034
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: really like capitulates or represents like this experience of having

1035
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: a really beautiful weekend. It is listening to really good music. Yeah,

1036
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: I think I have one. What is it? It's it's

1037
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 1: this song called by Disco Lines. It's just a song

1038
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: I'm really liking the Moment's called baby Girl. Yeah, and

1039
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: it's just a scattered song. It's it's just like chill

1040
01:00:31,680 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: techno music. It's not really much lyrics. It's just like

1041
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: really nice to listen to you and it's probably is that?

1042
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 1: What's what? Which? What's the vibe of the song? Is

1043
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: it a party? So upbeat, like yeah, yeah, pretty party song,

1044
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's like have a good time that darrelling,

1045
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: Now what's going on? I would say my song is

1046
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: better Man by Taylor Swift because I've been just feeling

1047
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: really sad and really like heartbroken, and I think that

1048
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:59,200
Speaker 1: song really kind of puts you in the place of

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Speaker 1: experiencing that and this is someone's like you push my

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Speaker 1: love away. Let it's some kind of loaded gun and

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Speaker 1: that really it really makes me quite sad because I

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Speaker 1: think I went through like quite a traumatic experience of

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Speaker 1: like really putting myself out there and being you know,

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Speaker 1: very much in love with this person and getting rejected

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Speaker 1: and which is hard and it's really hard, and it's

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Speaker 1: made me really sad and I've really been struggling with

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Speaker 1: it recently. But when I listened to that song and like, wow,

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Speaker 1: if Taylor Swift has experienced this and I'm experiencing this,

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Speaker 1: everything about the world just feels a little bit better.

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Speaker 1: And Aaron, what would you say? You're one song? Sorry

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Speaker 1: we had a cat emergency? Oh what happens to Mary?

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Speaker 1: The cat will look after is an outdoor cat? Boo

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Speaker 1: outdoor cats, No outdoor cats, No outdoor cats. Bad for

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Speaker 1: the environment. But we're looking after her, and she can

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Speaker 1: tell when we're about to shut her in, and so

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Speaker 1: we can't walk past her in the kitchen shut the

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Speaker 1: back door. She's got like a little outdoor cat area

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Speaker 1: that has the door that you have to shut. Um,

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Speaker 1: and the cat flap doesn't shut, so you can't like

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Speaker 1: shut the cart flap so anyway, so um, you have

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Speaker 1: to go outside to shut the door. But if you

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Speaker 1: walk past her in the kitchen, she'll run outside. So

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Speaker 1: Jack and I figured out that we could walk around

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Speaker 1: the back of the house to shut the door, and

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Speaker 1: you can like walk this giant loop around the house

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Speaker 1: in the dark. Um, this is quite a big house,

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Speaker 1: and she's figured out what it sounds like when we're

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Speaker 1: walking around the back to shut the door. So um,

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Speaker 1: she runs away. So you can't like trap her in

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Speaker 1: the house at night, which is like really really bad

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Speaker 1: because cats comment flip when it gets dark. So Jack

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01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 1: was like, um, yeah, I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 1: So she escaped. So she escaped basically, but it's why

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Speaker 1: she's an outdoor cat. She comes back. But it's just

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Speaker 1: so annoying, like why can't you just but Aaron, what's

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Speaker 1: your represents your life. So um makes was baby Girl

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Speaker 1: by Disco Lines, and jas was Hotel Rooms of This

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01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 1: by people go through Mimi. In the hotel room you

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01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:11,439
Speaker 1: can bring up friends. So I feel like it's really sad. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's like this upbeat turn. Oh, I actually have a

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Speaker 1: really nice song that at the moment I'm really liking. Um. Actually,

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Speaker 1: can I have two? Yes? Go for it? Okay. So

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Speaker 1: my first one is something called the organ Boogom Song

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Speaker 1: by Brendon Wood. That's so sad, so sad, so much

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Speaker 1: joy jo me can I play? I can't play it? Um,

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Speaker 1: it's joyful, It's pure joy in a song. It's fantastic

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Speaker 1: and it makes me feel happy every time I hear it.

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Speaker 1: So if you're if you're having a bad day, listen

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Speaker 1: to the Organ Boogam Song by Brnton Wood and it

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Speaker 1: is truly truly. What's the other one? Okay? The other song?

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Speaker 1: The other song? Um is called to Be in Love

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Speaker 1: with Yourself by be Bloyd. Okay, actually like that and

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful. It's like, I don't know what ere it's from.

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Speaker 1: Let's have a little on Spotify. We should listen to

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Speaker 1: both of these songs. You should listen to both of

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Speaker 1: these songs, because this one is really beautiful and it's

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Speaker 1: just this guy singing about like and it literally just

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Speaker 1: goes to be in love with yourself? Um, can I

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Speaker 1: read up the lyrics for a little bit? So Aron's

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Speaker 1: is a real Eron's on a real self love journey.

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Speaker 1: It's really she's also on a real podcast tangent journey

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Speaker 1: in which she needs to read up. No, I need to, okay, um,

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Speaker 1: because I need you all to listen to the Sorry

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Speaker 1: so you're gonna cut the service out. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to cut the serves out. It's gonna be fine. I'm

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Speaker 1: literally googling things. It's all good. Oh, there's like not

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Speaker 1: even that many lyrics out there because there's quite an

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Speaker 1: old song. One of the lyrics. Okay, I'm trying to try,

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Speaker 1: and we really want to know what's listen dot com

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Speaker 1: load my lyrics. Um, these are absolutely not the right lyric. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well happened. But it basically just goes to be in

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Speaker 1: love with yourself and it's really beautiful. The lyrics made

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Speaker 1: me want to cry every time because it's like sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's like hard and sometimes it's easy, and he just

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Speaker 1: like sings out all these things, and I think he's

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Speaker 1: singing to a girl about how good it is to

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Speaker 1: be lovely because he like sings girl in the song.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, actually that was a really that was

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Speaker 1: a lot of people more beautiful than if we'd heard

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Speaker 1: the lyrics. Okay, in a really really sweet way. I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that you explained it that way. Yeah, well, I'd

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Speaker 1: like to thank my beautiful guests. Was our last question.

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Speaker 1: It would wonder Meg was trying to hurry me. Well,

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Speaker 1: I would like to think of guys that's coming on.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, welcome to the first episode of Girl Talks.

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Speaker 1: And if you like it, subscribe, give us a rating.

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Speaker 1: You know the deal, follow us on Instagram. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: hope you enjoyed it. Did you guys enjoy it? Later?

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Speaker 1: You five stars? Please? I hope that you guys will

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Speaker 1: have nothing left. I will I make you realized that

1141
01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: you could write things on Spotify you can make better

1142
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:02,480
Speaker 1: get on it because it was only a recent thing

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Speaker 1: that you could rate stuff. So you guys got to

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Speaker 1: get on it. And thank you for listening, and thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for hopefully the vonn has been a slightly

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Speaker 1: useful conversation because it isn't we're going to be able

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Speaker 1: to listen back to this. We'll listen to it, but

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Speaker 1: hopefully you the listener. I have made it to the

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Speaker 1: end and have enjoyed it. I love every time you

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Speaker 1: say thank you for listening to the end, because I

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Speaker 1: always listen to the end. So can you listen to

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Speaker 1: the end? DJ? I do. I can show you no,

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Speaker 1: but it's really lovely because whenever you say that, it

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Speaker 1: makes you feel really happy because it's probably just your

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Speaker 1: ejcause it doesn't even listen to My mom doesn't have

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Speaker 1: time to listen to my past. No, I love you, mom,

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Speaker 1: but thank you so much for listening. And we'll see

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Speaker 1: you guys next time.