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Speaker 1: just it's just been burning a hole in my pocket.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I started thinking about this because a friend of mine,

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, wait, that's your your mom came into

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Speaker 1: Yes, well someday, I guess someday the money will go

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Speaker 3: Know, Like, how do you know your mom's not going

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Speaker 3: to spend it all? And then now it's been a

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Speaker 3: And now I'm seeing a little tension and the way

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Speaker 3: And I know we've talked about this as a show

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Speaker 3: like Fred, if you win the lottery, you promised us

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Speaker 1: It was Caraco was a promise. I think it was

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Speaker 3: You know, we have the tape I promise. But is

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Speaker 3: if my sister who raised me came into a boatload

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I think it would depend how

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Speaker 1: like not an obscene amount of money, relative And I

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Speaker 3: Now, Okay, well she didn't get that much. It was

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Speaker 3: more like two hundred and fifty thousand.

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Speaker 1: That to me, honestly, it's not an ob seen amount

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Speaker 1: No, if you're like fifty sixty years old and you

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Speaker 1: If he doesn't, you'll tell or do you say nothing?

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Speaker 1: Because that would betray your friend's confidence. Oh man, you

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Speaker 1: But now somebody else is going to go to jail

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Speaker 5: That's why hete knowing information sometimes, like mind you business

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Speaker 6: Now I feel bad over something I had nothing to

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Speaker 5: But if my friend does tell me, you know, talk

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Speaker 5: to me about it. Whatever, I'm not snitching. I don't

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Speaker 1: I know I have a lot of secrets from my friends,

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Speaker 3: Man, I would have to like force my friend. I

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Speaker 1: Oh you are here, take that you over here telling

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Speaker 1: But your friend commits a crime, they tell you because

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Speaker 2: I think it's more important to answer the question are

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Speaker 2: And really it should be the principles in life, and

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Speaker 1: That's true, your friend commits a crime. I realize you

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Speaker 1: So then at what point does it not become about

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Speaker 1: So what you're saying is it would matter for you

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Speaker 6: It would matter what the crime was. Also, like, is

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Speaker 6: So your best friends, so that means I commit heenus crimes? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So Caln committed a heinous crime, she tells you is

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Speaker 1: Jason over here, for some reason, you tell the rule

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's where you lose me, and so stop.

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Speaker 1: Making it up. And so then what happens? Then what

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Speaker 8: It's awful, but I probably would have to like inflict

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Speaker 4: But if I see you like losing weight and like

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean that's you know, extenuating circumstances. But if

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Speaker 8: I took it, then I would just have to take

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Speaker 8: If I got questioned, now that's a different thing because

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Speaker 8: I don't handle people.

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Speaker 1: Push you in that room? Which single light bulb, you know,

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Speaker 1: Jason versus the you know the authorities right where are you?

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Speaker 1: got to recap my boys weekend. Last weekend in a Norman,

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Speaker 1: And sometimes I think he's going to be waste offter

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Speaker 1: and God bless him for it. I love him for it.

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Speaker 1: Damn it. Never thought I would say that. Look how

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Speaker 1: on the program What'd You Find killiek So.

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Speaker 4: When a nine year old boy finished his chemo, he

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Speaker 4: Logan Striker began getting cancer treatment at a hospital in Florida.

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Speaker 4: Logan raised thousands of dollars. So he did so even

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Speaker 4: Logan eventually raised enough money for the icy machine, which

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Speaker 4: will now be used by patients for years to come.

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Speaker 4: He said, I want them to be happier when they

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Speaker 4: come here. And he recently finished his treatment, so he's

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Speaker 4: he's good to go.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's good, yeah, he yes. Kind of an elaborate story,

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Speaker 1: but it's kind it's also kind of amazing. Australia is

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Speaker 1: where we're going. Australia. You know, Australia, Australia. Yeah, what's

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Speaker 1: your face ever? Sitting in Australia, would you say.

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Speaker 8: Gosh, Melbourne, Australia.

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Speaker 1: Melbourne, yeah, Melbourne, yeah, yeah, that excellent, excellent job, Jason.

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Speaker 1: Australia is basically an island, right yeah, right, yeah, right, yeah.

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Speaker 1: They refer to it as such. I'm starting to feel

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Speaker 1: stupid now too, yeah, it's Giving Island.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the Caribbean, very similar to the Caribbean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. I think the old Dominicans play there sometimes

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Speaker 1: on the island of Australia. Yeah. Anyway, so an elderly

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Speaker 1: bank depositor had half a million dollars in Australian money

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Speaker 1: stolen from his bank accounts by scammers. So this guy,

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Speaker 1: unfortunately seventy eight year old man, he was diagnosed with dementia,

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Speaker 1: the vicinity of four hundred and sixty thousand Australia dollars

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Speaker 1: was stolen from him, which was all the money that

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Speaker 1: he had. And so this is kind of an elaborate

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Speaker 1: story how this all happened, but nonetheless, the bank decided

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Speaker 1: that after investigating and determining that they could have done more.

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Speaker 1: So this is what they said following our review of

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Speaker 1: this matter. The bank recognizes that it could have done

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Speaker 1: more to support this man given his history with scams

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Speaker 1: and considering his vulnerability and the impact the scam has

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Speaker 1: had on him. The bank will reimburse him for all

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Speaker 1: of the money that was stolen, almost a half a

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Speaker 1: million dollars in Australian money. Whoa, which is incredible. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so nice. Think about the last time that you got

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Speaker 1: scammed for something and who tried to help you give

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Speaker 1: Who tried to get the money back for you? Did anybody?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 7: One?

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Speaker 1: Probably not. They wounded up making it look like you're

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Speaker 1: the idiot, which is anyway amazing. I couldn't believe that

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Speaker 1: when I read that, because it's the right thing to do,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know how many businesses always do the

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Speaker 1: right thing, especially to the two and a half a

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Speaker 1: million dollars. So shout out to this guy, and I

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Speaker 1: hope he I hope he's happy. I hope he has

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Speaker 1: a smile on his face. Money you can live, my god.

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Speaker 8: The Fresh Show is on Fred's Fun Facts Fun.

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Speaker 6: So I need some advice on behalf of one of

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Speaker 4: And I gave her advice, but I just want to

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Speaker 4: check it with my you know, my sounding board right

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Speaker 4: here and the thirteen. So my friend is talking hooking

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Speaker 4: up with dating her older brother's best friend. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: so they you know, they basically grew up together. She

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Speaker 4: was always like the little sister. They got older, there

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Speaker 4: was a traction realized they had a lot in common. Okay,

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Speaker 4: but they have not yet told the brother.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I've been in this situation.

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Speaker 7: What.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, my sister dated a guy that I went

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Speaker 1: to high school with, played basketball with, and was besty.

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Speaker 1: They We were not best friends. We were close enough

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Speaker 1: though that I would have expected somebody to tell me.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, And everyone's and my parents even knew about

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Speaker 1: it and were even paying for my sister to go

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Speaker 1: visit him. Uh And nobody would tell me, which told

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Speaker 1: me immediately that everyone knew I wouldn't like it, and

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Speaker 1: they should have known better. Like if someone in your

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Speaker 1: family's doing something or your friend group and they're not

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Speaker 1: willing to come clean about it, then that means in

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Speaker 1: my opinion, that means they know they're not they're doing

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Speaker 1: somebody shouldn't be doing, yeah, or they're doing something to

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Speaker 1: the other person wouldn't approve of.

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Speaker 4: So their side is, and I kind of hear them

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Speaker 4: on this, is that they don't want to tell anyone

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Speaker 4: or ruffle any feathers until they realize is this a

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Speaker 4: real thing? Do we actually want to date, like do

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Speaker 4: we want to date seriously or is it just a hookup?

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Speaker 4: Is it just a flame, a flame, whatever, because we

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Speaker 4: don't want to make all these relationships weird until we

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Speaker 4: actually know. And I feel them on that, although I

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Speaker 4: have seen this situation go very wrong when people have

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Speaker 4: done it behind their backs and then someone has found

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Speaker 4: out from someone else and it has ruined the friendship

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Speaker 4: between the brother you know, and the best friend.

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Speaker 1: So nobody owes me anything as the big brother. But

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Speaker 1: my thing was, I didn't want to be the last

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Speaker 1: to know that you're sleeping with my sister, right right, yep? Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I like and you're my friend, and so I hold

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Speaker 1: you to a high standard. And I think the reason

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Speaker 1: by not telling me, it gave me the Russian that

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Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, I jumped to the conclusion that

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Speaker 1: you're not taking this seriously, or that you know it's

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Speaker 1: gonna blow up, and you know I'm gonna be upset,

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Speaker 1: and you know I'm going to hold you to a

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Speaker 1: high standard. So if you're going to be messing around

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Speaker 1: with somebody's sister, don't make it mine. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: because because and again nobody owed me anything, but the

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Speaker 1: fact that nobody would come clean made me upset.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, one of my ex's sisters is my

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Speaker 4: age and my ex is older than me, and she

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Speaker 4: was her and I weren't friends, like we had never.

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Speaker 6: Hung out like outside of you know, like without other people.

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Speaker 4: Or made plans one on one, and she got so

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Speaker 4: pissed that she never and we dated for five years,

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Speaker 4: she would never speak to me when I was around.

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Speaker 4: She got so pissed off, and I couldn't understand that.

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Speaker 4: I was like, we're not even friends, Like I didn't

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Speaker 4: know why i'd ask you permission. But yeah, So in

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Speaker 4: terms of my friend, I think they should talk to

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Speaker 4: him sooner or later because I think it could go

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Speaker 4: really bad if he finds out from anyone else.

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Speaker 1: Somebody needs to know. Somebody needs to tell him yes

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Speaker 1: one way or the other because and then, by the way,

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Speaker 1: then I don't know that the guy gets a vote

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Speaker 1: after that, Like I didn't like it, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: expect anyone to care what I thought after that it was.

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Speaker 1: But I was just pissed that I was the last

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Speaker 1: to know.

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Speaker 6: So here's my question. Does the best friend tell or

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Speaker 6: does the.

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Speaker 1: Sister yes yes? And again, people are going to get

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Speaker 1: on me and they're going to say these are antiquated values.

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Speaker 1: And I understand. I don't own my sister. You know,

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Speaker 1: she can do whatever. And she's married now, of course

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Speaker 1: she could do whatever she wants. But even my brother

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Speaker 1: in law, who had nothing, I never knew the guy,

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Speaker 1: even he thought it was important to seek approval from

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Speaker 1: my dad and me, not to sleep with my sister,

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Speaker 1: but like just to be in her life, like it

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Speaker 1: was important. It was important for him to be accepted

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Speaker 1: by us. Yeah, and I kind of just because we care.

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Speaker 1: We love her so much, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And I think there's just an innate need in most

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Speaker 1: big brothers and most fathers, for example, to protect and

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Speaker 1: that she doesn't need it. And once you tell me,

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Speaker 1: if I can say this is horrible, I hate it.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do anything with that. But I

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Speaker 1: just I think it would have been cool to have

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Speaker 1: known when it was happening, as opposed to kind of

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Speaker 1: as it dissolved, because I don't know. Yeah, I'm gonna

655
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Speaker 1: hold my buddy to a high standard. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: that's my sister, dude, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So the sister, doesn't she stays out of it.

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Speaker 2: Or do you?

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Speaker 3: I feel like the friends should say something, like you

660
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Speaker 3: should say something. You're the one coming coming into this territory.

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Speaker 3: Like I grew up with all brothers. They hooked up

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Speaker 3: with all of my friends. But for the yeah and

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Speaker 3: for the friends that never mentioned it or were trying

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Speaker 3: to be sneaky about it. I never looked at the

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Speaker 3: friend the same like I know my brothers.

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Speaker 1: I know my brother.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, So I know he's gonna

668
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 3: hook up with everybody, But you, my friend, you should

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Speaker 3: tell me, you know, so I would we agree on that?

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Speaker 1: Again? I mean, whatever happens after that, we're all growing up.

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Speaker 1: So I just think, like, you know, I hear you.

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Speaker 1: Why are you not telling me? Why wouldn't you think

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Speaker 1: I would approve right? What you're really doing? And the

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Speaker 1: fact that you don't just say it again, the fact

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Speaker 1: that you don't tell me means that you don't think

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Speaker 1: I would approve. And why do you think that