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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, ready, Colo, right, right, Okay, this

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Speaker 1: is from Justine and silver Lake. Justine writes, my son's

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Speaker 1: twenty two year old girlfriend slapped him, so I slapped

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Speaker 1: her back because he couldn't.

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Speaker 2: It was my mom reflex.

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Speaker 1: Her dad said, as payback, he's going to jump on

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Speaker 1: my son on site. How do I stop this crazy

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Speaker 1: family fuse before it gets out of hand?

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Speaker 3: Well, why don't you apologize? Why don't you try that?

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Speaker 3: Because you was out of line? You it wasn't your business.

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Speaker 3: See hear what y'all came do. Stop raising y'all children

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Speaker 3: one way but being showing them something else. Now, this

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Speaker 3: girl slapped your son for whatever the reason.

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Speaker 2: Right, Okay, you raised.

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Speaker 4: Your son in the right way where he's not allowed

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Speaker 4: to hit women. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Now you done slap this girl. Now her father say,

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Speaker 3: as soon as I see your boy, I'm slapping him

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Speaker 3: because you slap my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Let the ignorance stop, please, But Steve, Now, there is

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Speaker 1: a such thing as a mom reflects or a dad reflects.

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Speaker 2: Don't you won't you agree with that? There is? Okay

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Speaker 2: you have that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So then do you understand the father saying, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Not reflect Yeah, that's just humanitated.

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Speaker 4: Looking for him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the mom.

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Speaker 3: I'm surprised that you all are giving this mother this

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Speaker 3: pass and this excuse.

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Speaker 1: It's not a pass necessarily, But I say I understand

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Speaker 1: it because there is such a thing.

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Speaker 2: There is just such a thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it may very well be a thing. I'm not

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Speaker 3: a mom. I don't know because of if I if

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Speaker 3: I just saw my son gets slapped by his girlfriend,

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Speaker 3: I would have done nothing.

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Speaker 1: That's because you're as the mother saw it.

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Speaker 3: That's the which I'm saying. I understand what you all

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Speaker 3: are saying. But now look what that has a lady.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I hear you too.

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Speaker 1: Her dad just wants to get back at the boy

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Speaker 1: because the mom slapt him, which I.

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Speaker 2: Show up.

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Speaker 3: In the lady, the boy's daddy gonna show up. That's

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Speaker 3: why we need an apology from the mother.

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Speaker 2: I agree with that.

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Speaker 3: Stopped to this madness because now you've endangered your son.

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Speaker 3: Call it whatever you want to call it, but now

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Speaker 3: you got this boy in the position because the daddy

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Speaker 3: he tight Now what father, you know, gonna let somebody

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Speaker 3: just slap his daughter?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 4: Father?

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Speaker 2: Is that his son.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a lot wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, every day I.

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Speaker 4: Need to be telling his daughter, don't be putting your hands.

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Speaker 1: On the Yes, yeah she was wrong. The daughter was

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Speaker 1: definitely wrong for slapping the kid.

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Speaker 3: She got all that, But it ain't the mama business.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it's great. No, it ain't great. It ain't great.

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Speaker 3: Y'all sitting up in here trying to get this woman

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Speaker 3: okay for slapping.

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Speaker 2: This girl is wrong. I think she was wrong.

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Speaker 1: But I do think there is such a thing as

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Speaker 1: that reflext when someone hits your kid, I just do.

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Speaker 4: It's a reflex of somebody slapping me.

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Speaker 2: Right, I understand it. I'm not. I got a lot

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Speaker 2: of trigger points.

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Speaker 3: If you're white and you call me in word trigger point, I.

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Speaker 2: Really don't do it.

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Speaker 4: Don't do just don't do it. All right.

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Speaker 3: If I'm talking to you and you use the term

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Speaker 3: you people trigger point.

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Speaker 2: That's where standing from.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, yeah, out yeah, so you understand it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not saying it was right. You just understand

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Speaker 2: as soon as.

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Speaker 4: You say you people.

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Speaker 3: My next response before I file office yes us.

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Speaker 1: Is oh all right, before this gets to eate, and

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Speaker 1: let's move on to Danielle and Montgomery. Danielle writes him,

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Speaker 1: thirty seven and my husband is sixty one. We met

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Speaker 1: and got married within seven months. I know he's the one,

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Speaker 1: but he told me that he has to tie up

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Speaker 1: some loose ends. I spend many lives, many nights in

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Speaker 1: bed alone. What kind of loose.

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Speaker 2: Ends is he tying up? After midnight?

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Speaker 4: He loose all these loose and EANs is with him

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Speaker 4: all of them?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Danielle, he.

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Speaker 4: Got tied some loose ends.

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Speaker 3: He got some explaining, and he ain't explaining it to everybody.

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Speaker 4: So he was single and available.

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Speaker 3: When you met him, sixty one, but he was busy.

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Speaker 3: He married you, you fine, love you all like that.

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Speaker 3: But the couple of them loose heends were going where

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Speaker 3: you being? Yeah, see see because see see see what

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Speaker 3: happened was see rayfer rayfil just dropped off the scene.

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Speaker 4: Yeah he got old.

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Speaker 3: Rayful rayfil just dropped off the scene and he got

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Speaker 3: to go do some explaining. He got to keep a

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Speaker 3: couple of people happy because of a couple of people

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Speaker 3: thought they was gonna be.

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Speaker 1: Next Oh missus, Yes it's gonna end though, geez no.

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Speaker 4: Now rayferl Rayful's gonna be at it as well because he.

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Speaker 2: Lied, yeah to everybody. Yeah, Rayfert, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Trachelle in the d M v UH,

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Speaker 1: Trischelle writes. Trichelle writes, my co worker always calls me

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Speaker 1: at home, so my husband is used to him calling. Yesterday,

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Speaker 1: I was getting out of the tub and I answered

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Speaker 1: my coworker's call on speakerphone. My husband went off. It

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Speaker 1: wasn't on FaceTime. So what's the problem. Just the fect

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Speaker 1: that she's talking to God.

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Speaker 3: And we're talking to some man.

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Speaker 4: That's the whole problem.

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Speaker 3: Lady, How you don't see that as a problem. Hey, whoo,

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Speaker 3: who are you talking to?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmmm?

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Speaker 2: That they can't wait for you to drive and put

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Speaker 2: some He didn't know she was naked.

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Speaker 4: It's not what do he want exactly?

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. What what is is they

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Speaker 3: can't wait till tomorrow. And if you think for one

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Speaker 3: minute this guy's calling you at home just because he

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Speaker 3: could be friend, he'd have found out you would answer

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Speaker 3: that phone and talk because all these conversations ain't work related.

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Speaker 3: He trying to make it like it is. But homeboy

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Speaker 3: up to something.

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Speaker 4: M hm. He's gonna slap taste out of his mouth.

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Speaker 2: He said he's definitely had enough of him. You're listening

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Speaker 2: hard Morning show