Speaker 1: I need to tell you something and it might frustrate you.
Speaker 1: You have access to what is arguably the most powerful
Speaker 1: personal development tool ever created in human history. It's sitting
Speaker 1: on your phone right now. You probably used it this morning,
Speaker 1: and you're using it to write emails, fixed grammar, and
Speaker 1: ask it what to make for dinner. That's like being
Speaker 1: handed a private jet and using it to store luggage.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about AI, Chat, GPT, Claude, whatever you use.
Speaker 1: And before you roll your eyes and think this is
Speaker 1: another ten AI hacks to boost your productivity episode, it's not.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to teach you how to automate your
Speaker 1: inbox or write better LinkedIn posts. I'm going to show
Speaker 1: you how to use this tool to do something that
Speaker 1: no app, no course, or no journal has ever been
Speaker 1: able to do at this speed. Have an honest, structured,
Speaker 1: zero judgment conversation with yourself about who you are, what
Speaker 1: you actually want, where you're stuck, and what to do
Speaker 1: about it. Because here's what nobody is talking about. The
Speaker 1: most powerful use of AI is not productivity. It's self awareness.
Speaker 1: And self awareness is the single skill that predicts success
Speaker 1: in relationships, korea, health, and mental wellbeing more than IQ
Speaker 1: more than talent, more than education, more than connections. Doctor
Speaker 1: Tasha Yurick's research found that although ninety five percent of
Speaker 1: people believe their self aware, only about ten to fifteen
Speaker 1: percent of people actually are. That gap between who you
Speaker 1: think you are and who you actually are is where
Speaker 1: most of your problems live. And for the first time
Speaker 1: in history, you have a tool that can help you
Speaker 1: close that gap on demand, at midnight, without an appointment,
Speaker 1: without the fear of being judged, without the pride that
Speaker 1: keeps you from being honest with another human being. Now,
Speaker 1: I do want to be really careful before I go
Speaker 1: on and say this. AI is not a replacement of
Speaker 1: human connection. If you try to do that, it will
Speaker 1: probably worseen your life. But it is a great place
Speaker 1: to reflect, to have deeper, more profound conversations with the
Speaker 1: people around you. It is an incredible tool for self
Speaker 1: awareness that you can use to then elevate and connect
Speaker 1: with other people around you. Do not let AI replace
Speaker 1: humans in your life. It won't serve you well. And
Speaker 1: at the same time, don't forget that even though it
Speaker 1: doesn't judge you, sometimes it does hype you up for
Speaker 1: no reason. So you've got to be careful about that
Speaker 1: as well. Today I'm going to give you seven ways
Speaker 1: to use AI as the most powerful personal growth tool
Speaker 1: you've ever touched. Not theory, exact prompts, exact frameworks, things
Speaker 1: you can do tonight that will show you parts of
Speaker 1: yourself you've been avoiding for years. But first I need
Speaker 1: to reframe what this tool actually is, because the way
Speaker 1: you think about it right now is the reason you're
Speaker 1: wasting it. Most people think of chat GPT as a
Speaker 1: search engine that talks back. You ask it a question,
Speaker 1: it gives you an answer. That's level one. That's the
Speaker 1: luggage in the private jet. Here's what chat GBT actually
Speaker 1: is when you use it correctly. It's an externalized thinking partner.
Speaker 1: It's a mirror that talks. It's the conversation you need
Speaker 1: to have with yourself but can't because when you try
Speaker 1: to think about your own life, your own patterns, your
Speaker 1: own blind spots, your brain does something incredibly unhelpful. It
Speaker 1: protects you. Psychologists call this the introspection illusion. Dr Emily
Speaker 1: Pronin at Princeton has published research showing that when we
Speaker 1: look inward, we don't actually see ourselves clearly. We see
Speaker 1: a curated, self serving narrative. We skip over the uncomfortable parts.
Speaker 1: We rationalize. We reframe failures as bad luck and successes
Speaker 1: as talent. Not because we're dishonest, but because the brain's
Speaker 1: job is to maintain a coherent self image, and co
Speaker 1: adherence requires editing. This is why journaling often goes in circles.
Speaker 1: This is why thinking about your problems at two am
Speaker 1: makes them worse, not better. This is why talking to
Speaker 1: yourself and your own head rarely produces breakthroughs. Your brain
Speaker 1: is both the investigator and the suspect. It can't interrogate
Speaker 1: itself honestly. But when you type your thoughts into chat
Speaker 1: GPT and ask it to reflect them back to you reorganized, reframed, challenged,
Speaker 1: you're doing something your brain can't always do alone. You're
Speaker 1: creating cognitive distance. You're externalizing the internal monologue so you
Speaker 1: can look at it instead of being trapped inside it.
Speaker 1: Doctor Ethan Cross at the University of Michigan, one of
Speaker 1: the leading researchers on self talk and emotional regulation, has
Speaker 1: shown that even small acts of psychological distancing, like referring
Speaker 1: to yourself in the third person, dramatically improve your ability
Speaker 1: to reason about your own problems. You gain clarity the
Speaker 1: moment you stop being inside the thought and start looking
Speaker 1: at it from the outside. Chat GBT doesn't just give
Speaker 1: you distance. It gives you structured distance. It can organize
Speaker 1: your chaos. It can find the pattern in your rambling.
Speaker 1: It can ask the follow up question you'd never think
Speaker 1: to ask yourself, because your ego is standing in the way.
Speaker 1: That's what we're going to use it for today. The
Speaker 1: seven uses. Use number one, the life audit you've been avoiding.
Speaker 1: Let's start with the thing most people will never do
Speaker 1: on their own because it's too uncomfortable and too overwhelming.
Speaker 1: Most people have never sat down and honestly evaluated where
Speaker 1: they actually stand across the major areas of their life,
Speaker 1: not where they think they stand, not where they tell
Speaker 1: people they stand, where they actually stand health relationships, career finances,
Speaker 1: mental state, personal growth. Purpose. The reason most people avoid
Speaker 1: this is simple. Confronting The gap between where you are
Speaker 1: and where you want to be triggers what psychologists call
Speaker 1: cognitive dissonance, the discomfort of holding two contradictory beliefs simultaneously.
Speaker 1: I believe I'm someone who has their life together versus
Speaker 1: I haven't exercised in four months and I'm in debt.
Speaker 1: The brain resolves this discomfort not by changing behavior, but
Speaker 1: by avoiding the information. You don't look at your bank account,
Speaker 1: you don't step on the scale. You don't ask yourself
Speaker 1: hard questions, because not knowing is more comfortable than knowing
Speaker 1: and not acting. Chadibt eliminates the social cost of this honesty.
Speaker 1: There's no face on the other side, no judgment, no pity,
Speaker 1: no one who will bring this up at dinner next week.
Speaker 1: Here's the prompt, and I mean use this word for word.
Speaker 1: I want to do an honest life audit. I'm going
Speaker 1: to rate the following areas of my life from one
Speaker 1: to ten and give you a brutally honest description of
Speaker 1: where I am in each one. After I'm done, I
Speaker 1: want you to identify the patterns you see, the areas
Speaker 1: where I'm lying to myself, and the one change in
Speaker 1: each area that would create the most momentum be useful.
Speaker 1: The areas of physical health, mental health, romantic relationship, friendships,
Speaker 1: career fulfillment, finances, and fun. I'll go one at a time,
Speaker 1: then go through each one. Don't perform, don't write what
Speaker 1: you tell someone you're trying to impress write what's actually true.
Speaker 1: The messier the better. What you'll get back will make
Speaker 1: you uncomfortable. That's how you know it's working. Chat GPT
Speaker 1: will find the thread between your three out of ten
Speaker 1: in health and your four out of ten in energy
Speaker 1: and your five out of ten in career fulfillment and
Speaker 1: say something like, the pattern here suggests that your physical
Speaker 1: neglect isn't separate from your professional stagnation. They're feeding each other.
Speaker 1: That's not a generic insight. That's a connection your brain
Speaker 1: wouldn't make on its own because it's been too busy
Speaker 1: keeping those categories in separate mental drawers so they don't
Speaker 1: confront each other. Do this once, just once. It will
Speaker 1: reorganize how you see your own life. Use number two,
Speaker 1: reverse engineer your self sabotaged patterns. This one's gonna feel
Speaker 1: like being read by a psychic, except it's not psychic.
Speaker 1: It's pattern recognition, and pattern recognition is what AI does
Speaker 1: better than any human on the planet. Here's the truth.
Speaker 1: Most people resist. You don't have a hundred problems. You
Speaker 1: have two or three problems that are creating one hundred symptoms.
Speaker 1: Let me say that again. You don't have one hundred problems.
Speaker 1: You have two or three problems that are creating one
Speaker 1: hundred symptoms. The person who can't commit in relationships is
Speaker 1: often the same person who can't finish projects at work
Speaker 1: and also can't stick with a workout program. It's not
Speaker 1: three separate failures. It's one pattern, likely a fear of completion,
Speaker 1: because completion invites judgment, expressing itself across multiple domains. But
Speaker 1: you'll never see that pattern on your own because from
Speaker 1: inside your life, each problem looks separate. Each failure has
Speaker 1: its own story, its own justification, its own but that
Speaker 1: situation's different. Here's the prompt. I'm going to describe five
Speaker 1: situations where I felt stuck, failed, self, sabotaged, or quit
Speaker 1: something important. I want you to analyze them not as
Speaker 1: separate events, but as expressions of a deeper pattern. What
Speaker 1: am I actually afraid of? What belief about myself is
Speaker 1: driving this? What is the hidden payoff I'm getting from
Speaker 1: this pattern, the thing it protects me from. Be direct,
Speaker 1: don't sugarcoat it. Then describe five situations. The relationship that
Speaker 1: didn't work out, the job you quit right when it
Speaker 1: was getting good, the goal you abandoned at seventy percent
Speaker 1: the conversation you avoided. The opportunity you talk to yourself
Speaker 1: out of what comes back will be uncomfortable because AI
Speaker 1: doesn't have a stake in your self image. It just
Speaker 1: sees the data, and the data usually tells a story
Speaker 1: you've been avoiding. I had someone tell me they did this,
Speaker 1: and the response identified that every situation they described involved
Speaker 1: leaving before they could be evaluated, not failing leaving. Most
Speaker 1: of us leave something because of a fear of judgment
Speaker 1: before we ever fail. Most of us don't start something
Speaker 1: because we're scared of judgment before we even try. Because
Speaker 1: somewhere deep in their operating system was the belief that
Speaker 1: being evaluated would reveal that we weren't enough. So we
Speaker 1: built a life that looked like I just haven't found
Speaker 1: my thing, when the truth was I keep quitting before
Speaker 1: anyone can graide my work. That's not a productivity problem.
Speaker 1: That's a core wound wearing one hundred different costumes, and
Speaker 1: once you see it, you can't unsee it. That's the
Speaker 1: beginning of change. Use number three, build your personal operating system.
Speaker 1: This is where it goes from reflection to architecture. Most
Speaker 1: people don't have a personal operating system. They have a
Speaker 1: collection of reactions. Something happens, they respond, Someone says something,
Speaker 1: they react. The day throws a problem at them, they scramble.
Speaker 1: There's no underlying framework, no principles. They've actually articulated, no
Speaker 1: rules of engagement with their own life. They're improvising every
Speaker 1: day and wondering why they feel chaotic. The most effective
Speaker 1: people in history operated from a small set of deliberately
Speaker 1: chosen principles that govern their decisions, not goals principles. Ray
Speaker 1: Dahlio build the world's largest hedge fund and credits his
Speaker 1: success almost entirely to what he calls his principles, a
Speaker 1: written operating system for decision making. The Stoics carried a
Speaker 1: small set of maxims they reviewed daily. Benjamin Franklin track
Speaker 1: thirteen virtues on a weekly scorecard. You can build your
Speaker 1: own and chat GPT can help you build it from
Speaker 1: your own experience instead of someone else's book. Here's the prompt.
Speaker 1: I want to build a personal operating system, a set
Speaker 1: of five to seven core principles that will guide my decisions, relationships,
Speaker 1: and daily behavior. But I don't want generic principles from
Speaker 1: a book. I want you to help me extract them
Speaker 1: from my actual life. I'm going to tell you about
Speaker 1: my biggest regrets, my proudest moments, and the lessons I've
Speaker 1: learned the hard way. From those, I want you to
Speaker 1: distill the principles that are already inside me, the ones
Speaker 1: I discovered through experience but never formally articulated. Then format
Speaker 1: them into a personal code I can review every morning.
Speaker 1: Then give it the raw material. Tell it about the
Speaker 1: time you said yes when you should have said no,
Speaker 1: the moment you were proudest of yourself and why, the
Speaker 1: relationship that taught you the most, the failure that changed
Speaker 1: your trajectory, the value you hold that you'd never compromise on.
Speaker 1: What comes back is not a motivational poster. It's a
Speaker 1: mirror of your own hard won wisdom organized into a
Speaker 1: structure you can actually use. Most people walk around carrying
Speaker 1: profound life lessons that are just floating in the back
Speaker 1: of their mind, unstructured and unused. This process pulls them out,
Speaker 1: names them, and turns them into a decision making framework
Speaker 1: that is uniquely yours. Print it, put it on your wall,
Speaker 1: put it as your phone's wallpaper. Read it every morning.
Speaker 1: Not because someone told you, but because These are the
Speaker 1: principles your own pain taught you. You just never wrote
Speaker 1: them down. Use four. Have the conversation you're afraid to
Speaker 1: have before you have it. This is one of the
Speaker 1: most practically powerful uses of AI for personal growth, and
Speaker 1: almost nobody's doing it. You have a conversation you're avoiding
Speaker 1: right now. I know you do. Maybe it's with your
Speaker 1: partner about something that's been bothering you for months. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's with your boss about your role. Maybe it's with
Speaker 1: a friend who crossed a boundary. Maybe it's with a
Speaker 1: parent about something that happened years ago. You're avoiding it
Speaker 1: for one of two reasons. Either you don't know how
Speaker 1: to say what you feel without it going sideways, or
Speaker 1: you're afraid of the response you'll get. Usually both. Here's
Speaker 1: what most people do. Instead. They've rehearsed a conversation in
Speaker 1: their head, over and over, playing both parts, writing the
Speaker 1: other person's dialogue for them based on their worst assumptions,
Speaker 1: and by the time they've rehearsed it forty times in
Speaker 1: the shower, they've worked themselves into such an emotiontional state
Speaker 1: that either they explode when they finally have it, or
Speaker 1: they've convinced themselves it's not worth having at all. Dr
Speaker 1: James pen Baker's research at the University of Texas at
Speaker 1: Austin decades of work on expressive writing shows that the
Speaker 1: act of putting difficult emotions into structured language reduces their
Speaker 1: physiological impact. Literally, people who wrote about their deepest conflicts
Speaker 1: showed improved immune function, lower blood pressure, and reduced anxiety
Speaker 1: compared to people who kept those conflicts internal. It's not
Speaker 1: the feeling that hurts you, it's the unstructured, unspoken feeling
Speaker 1: that hurts you. Chat GBT lets you structure the unspoken.
Speaker 1: Here's the prompt. I need to have a difficult conversation
Speaker 1: with the person their role, not their name. Here's the situation.
Speaker 1: Describe it honestly. Here's what I feel but haven't said.
Speaker 1: Get it all out, don't filter. Here's what I'm afraid
Speaker 1: will happen if I say it. Name the fear. I
Speaker 1: want you to help me do three things. First, help
Speaker 1: me clarify what I actually need from this conversation, not
Speaker 1: what I want to say, but what outcome I need. Second,
Speaker 1: help me find the words that are honest but not destructive. Third,
Speaker 1: play the role of this person and respond the way
Speaker 1: they're most likely to respond, so I can practice navigating it.
Speaker 1: That third part is where it gets transformational. You can
Speaker 1: actually have the conversation with chatchbt playing the other person,
Speaker 1: not in a manipulative, give me the script a win way,
Speaker 1: but in a let me practice saying the truth out loud,
Speaker 1: so it's not the first time these words leave my
Speaker 1: body way. Athletes visualize before they compete. They train too.
Speaker 1: They train the exact ways and methods and strategies that
Speaker 1: they're going to play. Surgeons rehearse before they operate. Why
Speaker 1: would you go into the most important conversation of your
Speaker 1: year without a single practice rep And here's what happens
Speaker 1: that most people don't expect. Often, in the process of
Speaker 1: writing out what you feel and what you need, you
Speaker 1: realize the conversation you thought you needed to have is
Speaker 1: not the conversation you actually need to have. The real
Speaker 1: issue surfaces, the real need clarifies, and sometimes the conversation
Speaker 1: becomes unnecessary because the act of externalizing and structuring the
Speaker 1: feeling was itself the resolution. Use five build a custom
Speaker 1: accountability system that actually works. Let me tell you why
Speaker 1: most accountability fails. It fails because it's built on motivation,
Speaker 1: and motivation is neurologically one of the least reliable systems
Speaker 1: in the human brain. Motivation is governed largely by dopamine,
Speaker 1: and dopamine is not a reward chemical, it's an anticipation chemical.
Speaker 1: Doctor Andrew Huberman, who we've had as a guest on
Speaker 1: the show, has explained this extensively. Dopamine surges when you
Speaker 1: anticipate a reward, not when you receive it. This means
Speaker 1: you get a rush of motivation when you set a goal,
Speaker 1: buy the gym membership, write the plan, and then dopamine
Speaker 1: drops because the anticipation is over. The actual work has
Speaker 1: no chemical reward attached to it. This is why you
Speaker 1: have eleven and a half finished journals, four abandoned morning routines,
Speaker 1: and a meditation app you haven't opened since January. The
Speaker 1: solution isn't more motivation. It's a system that doesn't require motivation.
Speaker 1: And this is where chat GBT becomes something no human
Speaker 1: accountability partner can be. Here's the prompt, I want you
Speaker 1: to be my accountability partner. Here's the one habit I'm
Speaker 1: trying to build. Name it. Here's my history with it.
Speaker 1: How many times I've tried and failed, and why I
Speaker 1: think I keep failing. Be honest. Here's what my typical
Speaker 1: day looks like. Describe it. I want you to design
Speaker 1: a system for me that is so small I can't fail.
Speaker 1: At the starting point, then, I want you to check
Speaker 1: in with me every time I message you by asking
Speaker 1: me one specific question about whether I did it. If
Speaker 1: I make excuses, call me out, not harshly, but directly.
Speaker 1: If I'm struggling, help me adjust the system, not abandon it.
Speaker 1: Track my streak, Celebrate the wins. And if I disappear
Speaker 1: for a few days, the first thing you should say
Speaker 1: when I come back is welcome back, no judgment. Let's
Speaker 1: start again. The key here is so small, I can't fail.
Speaker 1: This is based on doctor bj Fogg's research at Stanford
Speaker 1: on behavior design. Fogg's work, developed over decades and tested
Speaker 1: across thousands of participants, shows that the most effective way
Speaker 1: to build a habit is not to set ambitious targets.
Speaker 1: It's to make the initial behavior so tiny that it
Speaker 1: requires almost zero motivation. One to meditate, start with one breath.
Speaker 1: One to exercise, start with putting your shoes on. The
Speaker 1: behavior itself is almost irrelevant at the start. What matters
Speaker 1: is the repetition, because repetition is what builds the neural
Speaker 1: pathway that eventually becomes automatic. Chat GBT won't forget it,
Speaker 1: it won't get tired of asking, it won't judge you
Speaker 1: for failing on day three, and most importantly, it won't
Speaker 1: let you quietly abandon the commitment the way you would
Speaker 1: if nobody was watching. You're not weak for needing a system.
Speaker 1: You're human. Willpower is a finite neurochemical resource. Systems are infinite.
Speaker 1: Use number six decode your emotional patterns in real time.
Speaker 1: This one is closest to therapy, and I want to
Speaker 1: be clear. Chat GBT is not a therapist. It is
Speaker 1: not a replacement for professional mental health support. If you're
Speaker 1: dealing with clinical depression, trauma, or crisis, please seek professional help.
Speaker 1: But here's what CHATGBT can do that is genuinely transformative
Speaker 1: for the millions of people who aren't in crisis but
Speaker 1: are emotionally stuck. Most people can describe what they feel angry, sad, anxious, frustraited,
Speaker 1: but almost nobody can explain why they feel it. Not
Speaker 1: the surface reason, not the trigger, the real reason. You
Speaker 1: think you're anger, at your partner for not doing the dishes,
Speaker 1: but the anger is disproportionate to the offense. The real
Speaker 1: trigger is that the undone dishes activated a belief you've
Speaker 1: been carrying since earlier in your life that your needs
Speaker 1: don't matter, that you'll always be the one who has
Speaker 1: to carry things, that no one shows up for you.
Speaker 1: Doctor Lisa Feldman Barrett, one of the most cited neuroscientists Alive,
Speaker 1: has demonstrated through her research Unconstructed Emotion, that emotions are
Speaker 1: not hardwired reactions. They're constructed by the brain using past experience, context,
Speaker 1: and prediction. Your anger at the dishes is not about
Speaker 1: the dishes. It's your brain constructing an emotional response based
Speaker 1: on a lifetime of similar patterns. But you'll never see
Speaker 1: that construction in real time, not without an outside perspective
Speaker 1: that can trace the thread. Here is the prompt. I'm
Speaker 1: having a strong emotional reaction right now, and I want
Speaker 1: to understand it, not just feel it. Here's what happened.
Speaker 1: Describe the situation. Here's what I feel. Name the emotions.
Speaker 1: Here's how intense it is on a scale of one
Speaker 1: to ten. Rate it. Now, here's what I need you
Speaker 1: to do. The intensity of my reaction probably doesn't match
Speaker 1: the size of the event. That means this is triggering
Speaker 1: something deeper. Ask me questions one at a time to
Speaker 1: help me trace this feeling back to its real source,
Speaker 1: not the surface, trigger the original wound. Help me find
Speaker 1: the pattern and then let it. Ask you questions, one
Speaker 1: at a time. When was the first time you remember
Speaker 1: feeling this way? Who in your early life made you
Speaker 1: feel like your needs were an inconvenience? What would you
Speaker 1: need to hear right now from the person who originally
Speaker 1: made you feel this way. This is essentially a guided
Speaker 1: emotional excavation, and it works because the AI has no agenda.
Speaker 1: It's not going to redirect to its own problems. It's
Speaker 1: not going to get uncomfortable. It's not going to minimize
Speaker 1: what you're feeling because it has its own feelings about
Speaker 1: the situation. It's just going to follow the thread. Use
Speaker 1: this when you're triggered, Use this when you have overreacted.
Speaker 1: Use this when you're feeling something big and you don't
Speaker 1: understand why the pattern is always there. You just need
Speaker 1: someone to help you dig u seven Write the letter
Speaker 1: you'll never send. This is the most emotionally powerful use
Speaker 1: on this list, and it costs you nothing but honesty.
Speaker 1: There's someone in your life, past or present, who you
Speaker 1: have unfinished business with, someone you never said the real
Speaker 1: thing to. Maybe it's a parent who hurt you in
Speaker 1: ways they'll never understand. Maybe it's a friend who betrayed
Speaker 1: you and you never confronted them. Maybe it's a younger
Speaker 1: version of yourself that you've been punishing for years. Maybe
Speaker 1: it's someone who died before you could tell them what
Speaker 1: they meant to you. Dr James pen Baker, the same
Speaker 1: researcher I mentioned earlier, found that writing unsent letters to
Speaker 1: people who have hurt you, disappointed you, or left your
Speaker 1: life produces measurable psychological and physiological healing. Participants who engaged
Speaker 1: in expressive writing about their deepest relational wounds showed reduced depression,
Speaker 1: improved emotional regulation, and even enhanced immune function, effects that
Speaker 1: persisted for months after the writing. The reason this works
Speaker 1: is that unresolved emotional business takes up active cognitive resources.
Speaker 1: Doctor E. J. Masseycambo and doctor Roy Baumeister published research
Speaker 1: showing that unfulfilled goals and unresolved experiences occupy working memory,
Speaker 1: fragmenting attention, and draining mental energy. Your brain treats them
Speaker 1: like open browser tabs. They're always running in the background,
Speaker 1: consuming resources even when you're not looking at them. Writing
Speaker 1: the letter closes the tab, not because the person reads it,
Speaker 1: because your brain, through the act of structured expression, moves
Speaker 1: the experience from active processing into resolved memory. Here's the prompt.
Speaker 1: I need to write a letter I'm never going to send.
Speaker 1: It's two. Describe the person in your relationship. Here's everything
Speaker 1: I've been carrying that I never said. Let it all out,
Speaker 1: the anger, the grief, to love, the confusion, the hurt,
Speaker 1: whatever's real. I want you to help me do two things. First,
Speaker 1: take what I've written and reflect back to me the
Speaker 1: core emotions and unmet needs underneath all of it. What
Speaker 1: I was really asking for that I never received. Second,
Speaker 1: help me write a final version of this letter that
Speaker 1: is completely honest, completely unfiltered, and says everything I need
Speaker 1: to say is if I had no fear of consequences.
Speaker 1: Do not edit yourself when you write the raw version.
Speaker 1: Don't make it fair, don't be balanced, don't consider their perspective.
Speaker 1: That's not what this is for. This is for you.
Speaker 1: This is the thing you've been carrying in your chest
Speaker 1: for years that you've never put into language because there's
Speaker 1: never a safe space to put it. Here's what I
Speaker 1: want you to sit with. You spend hours on your
Speaker 1: phone every day, scrolling content that was engineered to hold
Speaker 1: your attention but not improve your life. You consume other
Speaker 1: people's thoughts, other people's opinions, other people's arguments, other people's
Speaker 1: carefully curated highlight reels, and at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: you haven't spent a single minute in structured conversation with yourself.
Speaker 1: You know yourself less at the end of the day
Speaker 1: than you did at the beginning, because every piece of
Speaker 1: external content you consumed pushed you further from your own
Speaker 1: signal and deeper into everyone else's noise. The tool that
Speaker 1: could change that is already on your phone. It's already free.
Speaker 1: It's already available at midnight when you can't sleep because
Speaker 1: your brain won't stop running, It's already there at six am,
Speaker 1: when you start staring at the ceiling wondering why you
Speaker 1: feel stuck. All you need is ten minutes. Give it
Speaker 1: a go and let me know how it goes. I
Speaker 1: wish you all the best, and I can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you again. Remember I'm forever rooting for you and
Speaker 1: I'm always in your corner. If this is the year
Speaker 1: you're finally ready to start that business, level, up your goals,
Speaker 1: or build real momentum in your life, you need to
Speaker 1: hear my conversation with Alex Hormosi. I have a very
Speaker 1: simple framework that I encourage people who are starting out
Speaker 1: to follow, which I call closer so see stands for clarify.
Speaker 1: But you'd be get the conversation like, Hey, why'd you
Speaker 1: respond to my thing?