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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It is Lala Kent and my brother.

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Speaker 2: Easton back in our cozy little space, ready to do it.

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Speaker 1: Q and A. You know, Ocean started school today and it.

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Speaker 2: Is her last first day of school with this group.

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Speaker 2: They were all in the same class and now it's

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Speaker 2: their first no, their last first day of school at

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Speaker 2: this school and already and you want know who brought

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Speaker 2: that up? Sena in the group chat, I was like,

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Speaker 2: do you spend you with time?

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Speaker 1: Thank you?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I literally talk to you about this all

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Speaker 2: the time, Shina that time passing cripples.

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Speaker 3: Melly, would you bring it up? I have to tell

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Speaker 3: everybody who's listening. We were in the car yesterday, just

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Speaker 3: the fam, and Lauren says she gets up out of

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Speaker 3: sleep because time. Yes, that is wild and you do

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Speaker 3: need to be medicated. Just that is wild.

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Speaker 4: It's time. Guess here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is sad that it's the last first day

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Speaker 3: with this group, but how magical you get to do

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Speaker 3: it with another group, Like I.

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Speaker 1: Don't think about that at all. I'm like a new group.

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Speaker 2: That means I don't know you, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I like you, and I don't know that I.

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Speaker 1: Fuck with you.

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Speaker 4: How exciting that you get to find all those things.

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Speaker 2: Out and see, this is why I should be medicated,

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Speaker 2: because then I could have that mindset.

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Speaker 1: Instead, I go to bed.

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Speaker 2: I wake up at one thirty every single night or

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Speaker 2: morning and go, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: When I wake up.

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Speaker 4: Time has passed.

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Speaker 1: Time has passed.

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Speaker 2: Ocean is going to be different, so says older. And

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Speaker 2: now I panic because that also means that when time passes,

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Speaker 2: people die.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's move on. I'm freaking out.

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Speaker 4: I need a fucking beata blocker.

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Speaker 2: So we're doing a Q and A today because the

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Speaker 2: reason I brought up the first day of school was

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Speaker 2: because it's chaotic the first day of school. I can't

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Speaker 2: even imagine what it's going to be like when the

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Speaker 2: curriculum is more than just finger painting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I really.

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Speaker 4: Thinking about that last night.

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Speaker 3: Thank god I don't have to sit down and do

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Speaker 3: her homework with her, because I will have no idea

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Speaker 3: what to do.

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Speaker 4: But that's your job.

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Speaker 2: We'll be hiring a tutor because if I am responsible,

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Speaker 2: I can barely do division.

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Speaker 1: I can't even multiply.

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to stand behind her and like that. That's

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Speaker 3: right with a calculator hidden.

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Speaker 4: Yep, you did it. Yeah, there's no other way I

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Speaker 2: I'm sheer panic. So that's why we're doing the Q

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Speaker 2: and A today. The first question from that's Missus Castro

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Speaker 2: underscore one two six. Would you ever consider doing a

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Speaker 2: reality show of just your family?

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Speaker 1: I would watch.

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Speaker 3: I I'm gonna interrupt you because you're the only one

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Speaker 3: who doesn't want to do it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's no. Mom doesn't want to.

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Speaker 3: Do that at all, and that's the sad thing because

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Speaker 3: mom is is reality gold.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I've had people come in and gauge my level

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Speaker 2: of interest and it's at a solid negative five million.

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Speaker 4: I would love to do a reality show with you guys.

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Speaker 2: The thing is is my family is my safe space.

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Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, everyone knows that

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Speaker 2: reality TV that doesn't have the dramatic effect and it

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Speaker 2: just can't be happy, go lucky in the moments that

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Speaker 2: we are arguing.

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Speaker 1: I don't want.

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Speaker 2: That put out for people to judge and say I'm

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Speaker 2: on Eastern side, I'm on Lisa's side, I'm on La

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Speaker 3: But we don't read comments, so it doesn't matter. We

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Speaker 3: just live our authentic life.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes it's hard Easton to not see those things.

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Speaker 2: You go into the explore page and you see something

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I can see that. I would love to

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Speaker 4: do it for the question.

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Speaker 1: For the question, I would like to really, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: What are you kidding me? Like we living our vitual

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Speaker 4: lives with a camera. It is so fun. Our lives

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Speaker 4: are fun. Mom, it is.

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Speaker 2: Fun, but it's not fun for actually people would beg

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Speaker 2: to differ that watching.

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Speaker 1: Fun is fun.

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Speaker 4: Are arguing is fun?

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Speaker 1: That is true?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, last night.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: But what we all fight about is like stupid crumbs.

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Speaker 1: It's very stupid.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because when we actually it is something I really

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Speaker 3: don't think we ever really fight it.

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Speaker 1: We get it really light hearted argument.

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Speaker 3: Yes, Like that's where I'm saying, like I don't we

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Speaker 3: don't fight. We have little arguments, but they're fun.

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Speaker 2: You know, for us being around each other twenty four

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Speaker 2: to seven, you would think that there would be more

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Speaker 2: blow ups or like I'm sick of you, get out

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Speaker 2: of my face.

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Speaker 3: And that just doesn't know And that's where like I

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Speaker 3: think of the show a lot and I'm like, there

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Speaker 3: really is like nothing that I would ever be afraid

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Speaker 3: of putting out there because we never honestly have.

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Speaker 4: Blow up fights.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we hang out and we have the funnest conversations.

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Speaker 3: Lisa just being fucking Lisa and Gigi is okay, So

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Speaker 3: stop tears.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop you.

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Speaker 4: Though.

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Speaker 2: I remember having conversations with people who are now on

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Speaker 2: the Valley who had this, We had this same exact.

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Speaker 2: They thought, my family's fun, this is how we.

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Speaker 1: Do things, and then it shifts.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you stop being who you are because

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Speaker 2: you've seen things in the comments section and you get

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Speaker 2: worried and you're no longer like I enjoy who you

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Speaker 2: are right now, Easton.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to change.

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Speaker 2: And you can say all day long that a reality

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Speaker 2: show would be fun and that would never happen.

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Speaker 4: It happens. Well, I would take your advice on that

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Speaker 4: because you've done it.

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Speaker 2: And I don't want Mom to ever change either, No,

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Speaker 2: and she would it just it naturally happens, So I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to set my family up like that.

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Speaker 1: That's where I'm at, Okay.

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Speaker 2: By underscore Lynn unders score May says, how is your eye.

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Speaker 2: So I had another person ask me like, can you

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Speaker 1: So back on Mother's Day, and.

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Speaker 2: I won't bore everybody with a long winded story.

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Speaker 1: But on Mother's Day I made a very.

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Speaker 2: Vain post about my eye and I was like, it's ugly.

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Speaker 1: Remove this shit.

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Speaker 2: Cut to I am set to leave the country to

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Speaker 2: care of this situation for vanity purposes. I don't want

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Speaker 2: so I go to see an ophthalmologist rather than an optometrist. Now,

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Speaker 2: the optometrist originally said that's an inflamed penguecula, which is

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Speaker 2: from sun exposure dust when just you know the elements

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Speaker 2: your hand protectant that your eye forms. The only reason

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Speaker 2: I started tweaking out was because again I didn't want

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Speaker 2: I needed to update you guys that the ophthalmologist said

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Speaker 2: to start you on chemo drops. That sounds terrifying. It's

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Speaker 2: a topical chemo. It's called five FU and they paired

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Speaker 2: do or have to do those. I'm not done yet.

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Speaker 2: Three rounds a week on, three weeks off, and in

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Speaker 2: that time I see my ophthalmologist twice.

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Speaker 3: The first week off and then the week before you

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Speaker 2: So the reason because so many people were like, you

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Speaker 2: haven't updated us, the reason for that is I was

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Speaker 2: post of vanity, get this off my fucking eye, to

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Speaker 2: oh we're talking about my vision here to where I

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Speaker 2: the die that they put in. Literally two days ago

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Speaker 2: last week because it's Monday, there were almost no signs

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Speaker 1: Knock on Wood.

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Speaker 2: So I start round three this week is this is

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Speaker 2: and here I am coming out talking about this, but

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Speaker 2: so many people have asked, if you have something on

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Speaker 2: your eye, you guys, I highly recommend going to an ophthalmologist,

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Speaker 2: not an optometrist.

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Speaker 1: I was misdiagnosed.

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Speaker 2: Had I not had to leave the country to go

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go away when it goes away.

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Speaker 2: I never in a million years I have twenty twenty vision.

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Speaker 2: I never thought, and I asked. I asked the optimology ophthalmologist.

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Speaker 1: What causes this? And she goes, honestly, just bad luck.

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Speaker 2: You didn't wear sunglasses less than maybe someone else. You

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Speaker 1: And it was just wild. So there's the update.

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Speaker 2: I'm praying to God that after round three is done

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Speaker 1: We're all good.

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Speaker 2: Here, I did ask, what do we do after? You know,

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Speaker 2: God willing all is good? She said, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: see you at six months on the dot for the

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Speaker 2: rest of your life. That is what you will have

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Speaker 2: to do. I'm like, the fucking eye doctor, Maya right,

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Speaker 2: It's like every six months, really, isn't it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I go twice a year. Is that enough? I

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Speaker 4: don't know if I'm gonna get judged, but I go

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Speaker 4: twice a year.

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Speaker 1: I thought you went like only once a year.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do a whole bit.

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Speaker 2: I'm like water picker floss tongues when hydrogen po.

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Speaker 4: Thing wrong with my teeth. By the way, that's good. Well,

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Speaker 4: twice a year.

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Speaker 2: So that's what happened with the eye. And that's why

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Speaker 4: You yeah, you you you are that type of person.

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Speaker 3: If I talk about it, it won't go away, or

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Speaker 3: I'll what I careful.

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Speaker 4: What you wish for? You're that type of person.

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Speaker 2: Well, in my mind, it's like maybe if I never

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: My Good Side, a memoir by Seena She will be

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Speaker 3: Every time I see him around, he is always very

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Speaker 1: And people can say whatever they want about his past.

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Speaker 2: I certainly did. What I know about life is it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you want the grocery stores because you're a fucking cheater,

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Speaker 4: No, I guess you would be like, oh, you forgot

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Speaker 1: I call you? You miss my phone call? Who you fucking?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's a lot of people who aren't.

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Speaker 2: No, and you're gonna find out in the book and

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Speaker 4: What a story.

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Speaker 1: First, it's her story, and I'm just here to support her.

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Speaker 1: I have nowhere to wear them. What am I gonna

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Speaker 1: I will be walking up in my new Jimmy choes.

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Speaker 3: I'll start taking her to school every day now and

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Speaker 1: He's really hot. People have asked me are you dating?

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Speaker 2: And I say, I prefer to say that I'm talking

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Speaker 3: Be like, oh, that's what I want to do, and

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Speaker 4: All right. If there's any guys out here that have

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Speaker 4: The only reason why.

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Speaker 3: People say that is because they're taking your old story of.

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Speaker 4: The man who shall not be named.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's the only thing is because you had a bad.

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Speaker 4: It without moved on from all and that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: People have it.

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Speaker 3: But no, that's the only reason I'm saying you get

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Speaker 2: I'm sure of it.

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Speaker 4: Did I just throw a pin in it?

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Speaker 2: No, but can I tell you there is a tremendous

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Speaker 2: Okay, because you're constantly trying to get two babies ready.

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Speaker 2: You just have to roll with it. Zero expectations. You

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Speaker 4: Just get me through the day and we'll be all right.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that I wanted to give my ten

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Speaker 4: Everybody on a plane know somebody with a kid?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, And coming from Texas, the whole plane

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Speaker 3: I've been on a plane with multiple kids and I'm

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Speaker 4: So why am I going to be like you son

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Speaker 3: Because and I want to say the house clean, because

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Speaker 3: But Lisa Gigi always says to Lauren when he's freaking

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Speaker 3: out about the mess. She always goes, there's gonna be

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Speaker 3: a day where you miss this mess.

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Speaker 1: I know. And I've tried to get better. I've really

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Speaker 1: tried better.

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Speaker 3: You you haven't been as uptight, I will say when

456
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Speaker 3: I walk in the house and Lisa's blown it up

457
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Speaker 3: as well.

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Speaker 2: Really the tornadoes, the tornado, she literally makes her own mess,

459
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Speaker 2: and like we just.

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Speaker 3: Got an office, not ours, not yours, not mine. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's open every dresser or every drawer full.

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Speaker 2: She will make the biggest mess you guys, and I'll

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Speaker 2: be like we should, like you should clean up as

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Speaker 2: you go, Like have you ever watched Ratta Tuey, Like

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Speaker 2: the biggest thing is like keep your station clean? And

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Speaker 2: she refuses and she goes, don't worry, It'll all be

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Speaker 2: clean by tonight, and I'm like, great, so the nighttime

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Speaker 2: can enjoy the.

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Speaker 4: Clean, wake up in the morning, and get it all

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Speaker 4: back out right.

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Speaker 2: Steven Alvarez with two Z's says, would you ever film

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Speaker 2: a scene for the new vander Pump Rules if you

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Speaker 2: were asked, No, I just don't even Here's the thing

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Speaker 2: I am craving you guys know, I effing love reality

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Speaker 2: TV with all my heart and soul. But the thing

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Speaker 2: that I love about it is that you are a

477
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Speaker 2: fly on the wall to all of these stories that

478
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Speaker 2: are so like even when cameras turned off, Miami's conquering

479
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Speaker 2: it right now, all the storylines are off like it

480
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Speaker 2: happened off camera, no matter what the storyline is happening.

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Speaker 2: Because these people are friends. There would be zero reason

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Speaker 2: for me to appear on the new season of vander

483
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Speaker 2: Pump Rules. I don't know any of them. I haven't

484
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Speaker 2: worked there in years. I couldn't help you.

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Speaker 1: System.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the only thing that you can honestly do

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Speaker 3: is I go in and get yeah and eat.

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Speaker 4: And also like all the people, like I know a

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Speaker 4: couple of them, they're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna need to in the valley then because I don't

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Speaker 2: go over the hill and.

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Speaker 3: I've seen I'm sorry, I don't see you get along

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Speaker 3: with any of those.

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Speaker 4: Girls getting along with them. They're like there you go.

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Speaker 4: Very different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're they're just for me. It wouldn't make sense.

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Speaker 3: And our generations are different, very very different.

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Speaker 2: And for the audience, why would it make any sense

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Speaker 2: for me to appear on your TV.

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Speaker 4: Just because because everybody wants to be given la la.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if or not so triggering for me.

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Speaker 1: When it was like your episode that you pop in

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Speaker 1: on the Valley, I.

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Speaker 5: Was like, none of none of no, not even reposting

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Speaker 5: on my IG and literally that episode where Jesse comes

506
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Speaker 5: up to me, I'm like, I don't no, no, no,

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Speaker 5: I'm just.

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Speaker 1: Here to bump around, just here to bump around. Don't

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Speaker 1: want to go there.

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Speaker 4: Don't want to go there.

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Speaker 1: But we did. We went there, and yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: couldn't get out fast enough.

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Speaker 3: I trust me, I know, I pick you up every time,

514
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Speaker 3: maybe because we drop you off pick you up.

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Speaker 2: The moment he entered my Space, I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give birth right here.

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Speaker 1: Wong Nate twenty ninety nine.

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Speaker 2: Says has Ocean seen anything VPR or The Valley?

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Speaker 1: If so, what is her response?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: No, has she?

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Speaker 4: I haven't. Yeah, I don't think we watch any of that.

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Speaker 4: I haven't seen you guys at least no.

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Speaker 1: Has she seen me on TV?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And it's very like normal for her, right, But I'm

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Speaker 2: certainly not like Ocean. It's nine p thirty. Come take

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Speaker 2: a seat and grab your snack. We're watching the Underpump

529
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Speaker 2: Rules and then The Valley together.

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Speaker 4: Isn't it weird?

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Speaker 2: Guys think I'm a degenerate, but I'm like, not, not

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Speaker 2: big of a degenerate.

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Speaker 4: Would she's six or seven?

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Speaker 1: However? Can I tell you what she asked me the

535
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Speaker 1: other day? She goes, Mom, that man on the TV,

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Speaker 1: the one with the cards. He has the cards? And

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Speaker 1: I was like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: She goes with all the pretty ladies, they sit and

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Speaker 2: he has the cards?

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Speaker 1: Would he let me be on TV? I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: you want to be a little housewife?

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Speaker 5: Do you calling out I know she knows what she's

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Speaker 5: talking about, all right.

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Speaker 2: I like this question to end on. Nina Nahas is asking.

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Speaker 1: Where do you see yourself in five years? So you guys, if.

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Speaker 2: You remember season eleven, I think I asked this question

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Speaker 2: to somebody and Schwartzy was like, I hate that question.

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Speaker 4: Same.

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Speaker 1: Why do you hate it?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm just worried about today and tomorrow and if

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Speaker 3: I can be better by today and one percent better tomorrow,

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Speaker 3: everything will be great in five years. I can't think

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Speaker 3: of that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't mind this question at all.

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Speaker 3: That's so crazy that you are the way you are

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Speaker 3: with time, but you don't mind talking about five years

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Speaker 3: in the fucking sure.

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Speaker 1: I'm a walking hypocrisy. Welcome to being a human being

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Speaker 1: Online say the word hypocrite. I'm like, yes, it's called

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Speaker 1: being a person.

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Speaker 2: You're allowed to make judgments, accusations, but then when it

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Speaker 2: directly affects you, you go oh no, oh, hold on.

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Speaker 1: That's why people say put the shoe on the other foot.

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Speaker 1: We're all hypocrites. We're all no one makes sense.

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Speaker 4: You're all selfish. I'm selfish.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I like this question because I like the idea of

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Speaker 2: going in five years, I would like a bigger home.

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Speaker 2: I would like another baby in the mix, maybe two,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would like to.

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Speaker 4: Have ocean will be But that's but.

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Speaker 2: That's definitely like that's inevitable, right, yeah, what I would

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Speaker 2: like in five years.

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Speaker 4: But time is is inevitable. So why do you get

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Speaker 4: so freaked out about it?

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Speaker 2: Because for me saying, where do you see yourself in

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Speaker 2: five years? Like, yes, obviously, in five years, I see

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Speaker 2: myself being forty well, no shit, I see ocean being

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Speaker 2: around ten.

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Speaker 4: Duh.

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Speaker 2: But I'm talking about the goals, like where do you

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Speaker 2: see yourself in five years? Oh, I would love to

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Speaker 2: have two or three shows on the air that I'm

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Speaker 2: not on but I produced and created. That's fun to

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Speaker 2: think about, right. I would like to buy another home somewhere.

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Speaker 2: That's it's like dreaming.

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Speaker 1: When you talk about where do you see yourself in

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Speaker 1: five years? I like to think about it.

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Speaker 3: As a dream, daydream, see, I take it as reality.

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Speaker 4: See. Well, and now you know how we look at

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Speaker 4: you with your time.

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Speaker 2: But Easton, you're not making sense because you saying like

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Speaker 2: you're funny with time. Yes, if we're talking about like

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Speaker 2: in five years, you're gonna But.

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Speaker 3: You just said when you wake up at you're like

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Speaker 3: ocean's gonna wake up and be bigger.

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Speaker 4: It's like, how do you not think of her being tending? Not?

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Speaker 2: Because when someone says, where do you see yourself in

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Speaker 2: five years?

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Speaker 1: I think about it as a chance to.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, okay, not going well.

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Speaker 1: I picture five years Lily will be dead. Yep, No,

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Speaker 1: I don't do that.

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Speaker 3: See, I go in a different route of things are

606
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Speaker 3: going to be very different. Who knows where I'll be,

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Speaker 3: who I'll be around?

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Speaker 4: Like, I hate that question.

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Speaker 1: Most people do, Yeah, but I liked it.

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Speaker 3: That's where I that's why because you have a very

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Speaker 3: what's it called imaginative brain?

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Speaker 1: I have a very fucked up brain that makes very

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Speaker 1: little sense. But to me, it's.

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Speaker 4: Fine, Well if it makes sense to somebody.

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Speaker 2: As long as that's another reason why it's a good

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Speaker 2: thing that I don't have a man, because one thirty,

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Speaker 2: every single night, one thirty am, I wake up and

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Speaker 2: turn on sex in the city, and that just would

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Speaker 2: be a buzzkill for the person sleeping next to me.

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Speaker 2: That's how I get my mind to calm down.

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Speaker 1: Samantha Jones get fucked.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll stick to the Big Bang Theory.

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Speaker 1: You guys, thank you for writing all of your questions

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Speaker 1: and it's Q and A. I love y'all.

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Speaker 2: Another episode of the regular old Give Them La La

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Speaker 2: pod drops Wednesdays.

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Speaker 1: We'll catch you again for a bonus on Monday. Bye

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Speaker 1: five