WEBVTT - You Might Be Looking For Your Husband In The Wrong Place…

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<v Speaker 1>I do Part two. I'm here with Brian Austin Green.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Kathy Schwartz, and we are here with Farmer Sean

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<v Speaker 1>and we are here to talk about all things from

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<v Speaker 1>Farmer Wants a Wife. Then season four coming up, So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say we get started?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's exciting season four coming out. How did you feel

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<v Speaker 3>when you when they first reached out to you and

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<v Speaker 3>they were like, hey, come, come bead Well, I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I got an Instagram DM one random day. I honestly

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was a scam, and I told my parents

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<v Speaker 4>about it. They just started laughing. And then as I

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<v Speaker 4>was talking to people in Fox, more and more it

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<v Speaker 4>sounded like a crazy opportunity. So I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>only young once. I'm gonna go ahead and do it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I had been single for like a year before

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<v Speaker 4>I did the show, So I was like, what a

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<v Speaker 4>what a crazy time in my life and there's I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think there's gonna be a better opportunity to find

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<v Speaker 4>my potential future wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Unbelievable. Wow. So I got to ask you, do you

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<v Speaker 1>believe in love at first sight?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry to believe now you are?

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<v Speaker 1>Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I think love at first sight is a

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<v Speaker 4>crazy saying because obviously you don't know anyone when you

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<v Speaker 4>first see him. But I think I kind of believe

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<v Speaker 4>in this thing called like the invisible string theory, where

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<v Speaker 4>like two people are just kind of drawn to each other.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think, when you know, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, I got to back up invisible string. If

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<v Speaker 1>you'd said magnet I was with you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a visible I don't necessarily know if I fully

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<v Speaker 4>understand it myself. The way I perceive it is that

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<v Speaker 4>there's almost like a string between two people and it

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<v Speaker 4>just draws them closer and closer, and it's just like

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<v Speaker 4>it's just kind of like when you have chemistry with

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<v Speaker 4>someone you know you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And you never know when you're supposed to run into somebody,

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<v Speaker 3>but eventually you always do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like that meant to be.

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<v Speaker 1>But I heard what you just said, When you know

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<v Speaker 1>you know, are you one of those guys?

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<v Speaker 4>I absolutely am when you know you know? And if

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<v Speaker 4>he wanted to, he would, So I think I live by.

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<v Speaker 2>Those I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>So besides the farm, your family also has an amazing

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<v Speaker 3>farm to table restaurant, the Gathering Table. In your perspective,

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<v Speaker 3>why is gathering around the table every day so important

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<v Speaker 3>when building a solid relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I grew up eating dinner with my family

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<v Speaker 4>at least five nights a week. It's something that was

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<v Speaker 4>pretty strong in my family. My dad loves to make dinner,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just think gathering around a table, especially over

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<v Speaker 4>good food and good drinks, it's an amazing thing. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's just all about connecting with the people you love.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's kind of what the restaurant is

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<v Speaker 4>all about, is bringing people together and especially experiencing good food.

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<v Speaker 4>And then in this valley and specific is the whole

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<v Speaker 4>farmer table thing. But then also partnering with local wineries

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<v Speaker 4>and pairing our food with the local wineries.

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<v Speaker 2>It's such a fulfilling experience.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>With my fiance, we always do we always make sure

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<v Speaker 3>that we have like full family dinners, and I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's one of the times where you get everybody

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<v Speaker 3>out of their room, everybody out of there stuff, and

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<v Speaker 3>we sit and we have these games on the table

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<v Speaker 3>that are just questions you answer, and so we'll pull

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<v Speaker 3>questions and then you go around the table and you answer,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I love that it's silly things, but it

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<v Speaker 3>really it's amazing how it brings things together and forces

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<v Speaker 3>you guys to just kind of slow down, that you make.

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<v Speaker 1>Time to eat meals with each other because you both

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<v Speaker 1>live busy lives, have to. Okay, So speaking of cooking,

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<v Speaker 1>I I met your mom and she gave me some

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<v Speaker 1>fabulous pistachio cake. And I looked at her because I

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<v Speaker 1>love to bake. I said, did you bake this?

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<v Speaker 2>She up?

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<v Speaker 1>She said no, And I'm that's.

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<v Speaker 4>Okaynest And my family, my dad is the restaurant connoisseur,

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<v Speaker 4>so he's the chef in my fan Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>My dad is the one that made me a coffee

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<v Speaker 3>and asking me what kind of can I just say, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have not stopped talking about that coffee since I can't stop. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if if you're that easy to please, just give the

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<v Speaker 1>guy a cup of coffee. Okay. I am not a

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<v Speaker 1>great cook. I can cook. I love to bake. I

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<v Speaker 1>baked from scratch. Okay. So here's my question. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not a big eater. I look like I am, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really not. Would you rather date a picky eater

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<v Speaker 1>or a woman like I who burns everything? She attempts

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<v Speaker 1>to cook.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think I'd rather date a girl that burns

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<v Speaker 4>everything she attempts to cook, because at least she's trying

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<v Speaker 4>to cook something, you know, And I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a good answers, such a good I'm just going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you I already told your mother, So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna get silly here for a second and sappy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you are a wonderful guy in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>and I could be your mom, almost your grandmother, but

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<v Speaker 1>let's call let's go with mom. And I told your mother.

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<v Speaker 1>Behind every you said this earlier, Brian, behind every good

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<v Speaker 1>man is a woman. But guess what when you find

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<v Speaker 1>a good young man like this guy, it didn't happen

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<v Speaker 1>by magic. It's because you have great parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I totally agree.

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<v Speaker 4>I credit everything in my life to my parents. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>they raised me so well and I couldn't ask for

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<v Speaker 4>better parents. Everything I have, everything I know, is a

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<v Speaker 4>credit to them.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had your heart broken?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Surprisingly?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I've I've had difficult situations in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>but I've never been broken up with.

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<v Speaker 1>Surprisingly, Yeah, you've never been broken up with?

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<v Speaker 2>Broken up?

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<v Speaker 1>Damn?

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<v Speaker 3>So then you didn't have any red flags going into

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<v Speaker 3>this you weren't concerned of.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, I guess I felt the control. But

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<v Speaker 4>I just think in every relationship at least i've been in.

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<v Speaker 1>Is okay, how mad you break up with right now?

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<v Speaker 2>In my life? Probably four? Oh yeah, I really I haven't.

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<v Speaker 4>Been in a lot of relationships in my life, and

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<v Speaker 4>it's just because my ideologies.

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<v Speaker 2>I I date to Mary, you know, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Every girl you date you date to Mary.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I wouldn't be in a relation if I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>think of own potential future spouse. I mean, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Is like, I don't just go date a round just

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<v Speaker 4>for fun. I do it for seriousness.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so wait, you are twenty two years old. You

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<v Speaker 1>are incredibly handsome.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>What characteristics do you embody? Forget that you've never been

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<v Speaker 1>broken up with. What characteristics do you embody that you

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<v Speaker 1>think would make you a good husband.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say leading the relationship, being the rock my

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<v Speaker 4>wife can always lean on my children in the future.

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<v Speaker 4>I think if a man is able to handle everything

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<v Speaker 4>and his wife can be his biggest supporter. I'm full

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<v Speaker 4>belief that behind every good man is a good woman,

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<v Speaker 4>and I fully believe that. But I also think in

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<v Speaker 4>every good family, there's a good man that leads the

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<v Speaker 4>entire house.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, are you ever concerned that because you always dated

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<v Speaker 3>for marriage, that you didn't necessarily experience everything and you

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<v Speaker 3>may get into something and then later on down the

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<v Speaker 3>line feel like I missed out on on life or

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<v Speaker 3>any of that, or do you think so?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I think at least the way I was raised,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I came from a Christian background and I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a man of faith. So I think I've never been

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<v Speaker 4>the one to go, like, want to hook up with

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<v Speaker 4>a bunch of people or go out to a bunch

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<v Speaker 4>of bars and stuff like that. It's not me, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I've never had the curiosity to go and do it.

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<v Speaker 1>How important is it to you to date a woman

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<v Speaker 1>of faith or marry a woman?

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<v Speaker 2>Examely important. That's what I said going into this whole show.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, Hey, that's like check list number one, and

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<v Speaker 4>if they're not a woman of faith, they can go home.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you literally on your show, I'm just a little

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<v Speaker 1>teaser here. Did you ask that.

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<v Speaker 4>Question all the time to every girl that was on

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<v Speaker 4>the farm? Wow, that was one of the first ones

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<v Speaker 4>I asked each of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's well, I got to say, you're a man

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<v Speaker 1>that stands by your faith and that's to be respected.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure. What was the hardest part of this

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<v Speaker 1>journey for you to navigate? Because you know on my

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<v Speaker 1>show there were some tough times. What was the hardest

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<v Speaker 1>part for you?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say for me, it was although I like,

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<v Speaker 4>I know you the girl I was going to choose,

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<v Speaker 4>I just think it's never a good feeling to break

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<v Speaker 4>somebody's heart. So, I mean, when we were at the

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<v Speaker 4>mixer at the first episode, I knew which girls I

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<v Speaker 4>was going to bring back to the farm, and the

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<v Speaker 4>toughest part was sending the girls home and not bringing

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<v Speaker 4>them back to the farm because I knew which ones

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to bring back, And I think it

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<v Speaker 4>was just tough to sit there and break their heart

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<v Speaker 4>as they're standing there looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I can only imagine. And yet you have to let

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<v Speaker 1>some go to move forward in your journey.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how the process works.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And I'm assuming you believe in the process.

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<v Speaker 4>Leaving the process. Wow, especially in the first episode, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>we're all sitting there in the barn, and just the

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<v Speaker 4>layout of it is so incredibly tough, Like all nine

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<v Speaker 4>girls are sitting up there and you call each one

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<v Speaker 4>out by name.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like a dodgeball game.

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<v Speaker 4>And you sit there and call them out and the

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<v Speaker 4>girls that you don't pick are still standing there looking

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<v Speaker 4>at you, and you can just.

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<v Speaker 2>See their heart crushed. And it's just not a good feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And they put themselves out there, and I kind

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<v Speaker 4>of put them myself in their shoes and just like,

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<v Speaker 4>it's got to be a bad feeling to guess be

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<v Speaker 4>sent home.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet it's part of it, it's part of it's

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<v Speaker 3>double edged. Yeah, this is the way some guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Forced to make this choice.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's not personal, it's this is a very specific situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>M So it's coffee and Brian, we're back here. That's me, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you, Brian. It is absolutely you haven't changed a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I have not. We are back with another farmer, and

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<v Speaker 1>this time we have farmer Braidon with us. Hi, Braiden,

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<v Speaker 1>how's going it's going great. We're so glad to have

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<v Speaker 1>you here.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going great. Look at I show it up today

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<v Speaker 3>and now I have, like, you know, a nice hat on.

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<v Speaker 3>We have our cowboy. I'm straight cowboy. I came with

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<v Speaker 3>my boots. Where are yours?

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<v Speaker 1>I these are my boots? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well yeah, sneakers on a farm not there, made by Vans.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a it's a whole new thing. Okay, Well two

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<v Speaker 1>of the three of us have on. But so we

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<v Speaker 1>know who's really a firmer here and who isn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like your attitude. Okay, I'm sorry, So let's move

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<v Speaker 1>just let's just jump in here. Okay. Question for you?

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<v Speaker 1>What really made you want to take a leap of

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<v Speaker 1>faith and go on this show? Because there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dating shows out there you could have chosen. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a handsome young dude, you could have chosen any of them.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you want to do this?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, so I wasn't real familiar with the reality

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<v Speaker 5>TV world before this, if I'm being honest, and you know,

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<v Speaker 5>they kind of reached out, kind of fell in my lap,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know, I didn't know what to expect at first,

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<v Speaker 5>and honestly, I thought it was fake at first.

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to say, did you think it was

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<v Speaker 1>a prank or something?

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<v Speaker 2>Ye all?

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<v Speaker 5>And I showed a couple of my buddies and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, this is funny, and they're like, well, you're

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<v Speaker 5>gonna do it. I was like, no, no, no, nobody's.

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<v Speaker 1>You said. You said in Santa Claus is coming.

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<v Speaker 5>Over next Yeah, And so then they finally they're just like,

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<v Speaker 5>well just answer it. And answered it and they're like, dude,

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<v Speaker 5>just take a phone call, just see what they say.

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<v Speaker 5>And then took a phone call and now I'm here.

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<v Speaker 6>So here you are?

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<v Speaker 1>You are season four.

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<v Speaker 6>Of answer your question.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I started running out of reasons not to do

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<v Speaker 5>it because I was kind of like almost trying to

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<v Speaker 5>talk myself out of it, just because it's a crazy thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Had you been single a long time?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? Yeah, I had a brief relationship a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>before the show, but that was about it.

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<v Speaker 3>How did they how did they know? Do you think

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<v Speaker 3>that the producers of this to even reach out to

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<v Speaker 3>you in the first time? How did they know your

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<v Speaker 3>story and know that you were single and know that

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<v Speaker 3>you were looking.

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<v Speaker 6>For Well, they asked me, they asked me like, are

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<v Speaker 6>you single.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a producer, but I'm going to go with

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<v Speaker 1>the obvious answer. Here. He's a damn good looking guy,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's just see if they need.

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<v Speaker 3>Too for sure, But I would assume then that he

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<v Speaker 3>was in something, but he was already to ask you, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask are you in a relationship? Damn? Okay, I'm happily engaged.

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<v Speaker 5>So they don't want you for season five A possibility.

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<v Speaker 1>Not as yet. Okay, that's not that I'm not a farmer.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's female completely outside the box and what they're looking.

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<v Speaker 3>So now you're a fifth generation, right, has there has

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<v Speaker 3>there any been a part ever been a part of

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<v Speaker 3>you that is, like, I don't want to be in

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<v Speaker 3>the family business. I don't want to do this. I

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<v Speaker 3>want to like rebel and do my own thing, and

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<v Speaker 3>I have all these other ideas or has farming just that.

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<v Speaker 5>Was honestly no, I mean, like the cliche like it's

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<v Speaker 5>in your blood, you know what I mean? And like

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<v Speaker 5>I I grew up kind of idolizing my grandpa and

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<v Speaker 5>idolizing my dad, and I just grew up wanting to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like your grandpa A lot a lot they all live.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I spent probably every Sunday with my grandpa

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<v Speaker 5>growing up, every weekend. Yeah, so he he kind of

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<v Speaker 5>molded me. My mom says, good. And helping him on

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<v Speaker 5>the farm, is that, yeah, helping him on the farm

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<v Speaker 5>or just getting in trouble doing whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm thinking a little more getting in trouble here.

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<v Speaker 5>Teach me all the good things and some of the

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<v Speaker 5>bad times. You know, that's called life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I we just met today. I've thoroughly impressed with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're a great guy. I love music, and

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that you love music as well I do.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you want to find a woman who's musically

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<v Speaker 1>inclined or do you not like to take people who

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<v Speaker 1>are similar to you? Because I'm going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>I love music and in dating, if a guy says

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<v Speaker 1>to me he doesn't like music.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's a weird thing for somebody to say, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like Well say that one, I don't really like music.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, what do you know? You only have a

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<v Speaker 1>few senses to use all of them? How's your sense

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<v Speaker 1>of smell? I'm saying. Then, I love to listen to music.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm whatever I'm doing, if I'm out walking, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a button, I'm listening, I've got playlists. I love

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<v Speaker 1>to listen to music. What do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>It's it important to you? How how simpatico? There's a

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<v Speaker 1>word for I mean, do you have to be.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it's a complete deal break. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>if she says she doesn't like music, I think there's

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<v Speaker 5>something else going on other than just not like music.

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<v Speaker 5>But like, no, I do love music, you know. I

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<v Speaker 5>love playing music. I write music when I'm not farming.

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<v Speaker 6>That's kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>My world outside of farm, a hidden desire to be

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<v Speaker 1>a singer songwriter.

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<v Speaker 5>Not like I'll say this, I'll never be able to

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<v Speaker 5>like totally give up the farm, Like that's just something

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think I could ever do, and like, no

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<v Speaker 5>matter where life would take me, like I would always

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<v Speaker 5>come back to it.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's such a family thing.

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<v Speaker 5>So I feel like leaving the farm would feel like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm kind of turning away from my family in a sense.

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<v Speaker 5>But am I Like Dad, who I work with on

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<v Speaker 5>the farm, Like he's never forced it on me. He's like,

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<v Speaker 5>you can go do whatever you want, Like, don't ever

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<v Speaker 5>feel like you're chaining this farm.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know, the songwriting is something very.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you produced any music that's like are you? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you on your way to Nashville when we finished this.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been in Nashville a little bit, you know, and

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<v Speaker 5>I got friends down there, and I haven't put out

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<v Speaker 5>any music on my own, just because I've never claimed

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<v Speaker 5>to be too much of like a great singer. I

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<v Speaker 5>make the joke good enough for drunk people. Okay, the

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<v Speaker 5>more you drink about sound, but no, I play like

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<v Speaker 5>every dive bar and rule Illinois.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have to imagine this like that working out

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<v Speaker 3>on the farm is I And I always talk about

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<v Speaker 3>this with like meditation that for me, meditating is doing

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<v Speaker 3>like di I y and and gardening and things like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have to imagine that being out on the

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<v Speaker 3>farm by yourself for a lot of the time, being

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<v Speaker 3>creative and using music as an outlet, is that they

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<v Speaker 3>go hand in hand because so many musicians and artists

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<v Speaker 3>come from that that life.

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely, I mean like that's where a lot of the

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<v Speaker 5>song ideas come from. Like when you're just this is

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<v Speaker 5>gonna sound like the most like country cliche thing I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever said, But like when I'm on the tractor like

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<v Speaker 5>working ground or something like that, like some just kind

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<v Speaker 5>of pops in your head and you're just, oh, you

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<v Speaker 5>got nothing but time to think.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, when you have nobody distracting you, you don't

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<v Speaker 3>have conversations going on with somebody else, and that's when.

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<v Speaker 1>You when you on the tractor and you and some

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<v Speaker 1>idea comes to you and is it a theme? Is

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<v Speaker 1>it words? Is it a is it a series of chords?

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<v Speaker 5>What comes to It's always like when you know I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not around my guitar or anything, it's always like like

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<v Speaker 5>a line or a.

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<v Speaker 3>Phrase, like like you never know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I'm just like usually it's like just an

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<v Speaker 5>idea or a phrase.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I do yeah, really music, give me a

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<v Speaker 3>c see.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know music, so like if you put music like,

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<v Speaker 6>I can't read.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait when you come off the tractor and and

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<v Speaker 1>you as well, Brian, do you guys like write down?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what it's called. Do you train? Subscribe?

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<v Speaker 3>But it depends, so I'm sure for you because you

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<v Speaker 3>play guitar, you pick up a guitar and then you

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<v Speaker 3>start working out the.

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<v Speaker 1>Melody of what you heard in your head and do it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's you kind of find whatever tool you can to

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<v Speaker 3>immortalize what it is you were thinking. Because those ideas

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<v Speaker 3>they go as fast as they come, so don't put

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<v Speaker 3>them down right away. Nine times out of ten they're

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<v Speaker 3>gone and you wake up the next day and you

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<v Speaker 3>kick yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, so, such a good idea. That's why they.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep a notebook and a pen phone, Like I just

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<v Speaker 3>put it in app Yeah, phones, man, like having the

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<v Speaker 3>voice recorder and the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I want to know meeting us, do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like the urge to write a song about meeting us,

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<v Speaker 1>about hating this experience.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going after this right for sure?

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<v Speaker 1>You and I to be famous.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna be were We're the ones that get forced

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<v Speaker 3>yeah person into that like that song about how much he.

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<v Speaker 6>Hates No, I'm loving this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm loving that.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're dating a woman she makes you a playlist

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<v Speaker 3>of her favorite songs, are you judge your music choices

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<v Speaker 3>or are you embracing whatever music she likes?

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<v Speaker 5>So the honest answer is yeah, I'm probably judging a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, you know, I'm you know, I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>nerd out about music, you know, I want to know

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<v Speaker 5>like who wrote the song, like how how they wrote it,

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<v Speaker 5>what's the story behind? And I'm pretty like anymore. This

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<v Speaker 5>is kind of the controversial thing is like I can't

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<v Speaker 5>stand listening to like country radio.

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<v Speaker 3>I just I really because a fan of like of

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<v Speaker 3>old country compared.

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<v Speaker 5>To yeah and just like kind of like the singer

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<v Speaker 5>songwriter stuff, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like who is your favorite man? That's give me

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<v Speaker 1>the top what's your favorite genre?

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<v Speaker 6>That country? I can't really can.

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<v Speaker 1>I interrupt here? He said he loves country. Country is

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<v Speaker 1>a genre. Then I said who your top three? And

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<v Speaker 1>you said what's your favorite genre? So that's pete and repeat,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's so hard. You know, I grew up

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<v Speaker 5>on a lot of Alan Jackson. Oh yeah, and uh,

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<v Speaker 5>but like.

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<v Speaker 6>Like Dean Dylan probably never heard that name.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never heard that name, and I.

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<v Speaker 5>Like every George Straight hit you can think, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I mean? Like, and that's just like what I

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<v Speaker 5>kind of nerd out that because I'm just like, nobody

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<v Speaker 5>knows who this guy is and he's written every song

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<v Speaker 5>in all of your favorite songs.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think of the new like the country?

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<v Speaker 1>How do I say this pop country that's so prevalent today?

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<v Speaker 5>This is what I say, Like, I I don't mind

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of it, but when I'm listening to somebody

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<v Speaker 5>like this is my biggest thing if I like believe it,

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<v Speaker 5>Like if I believe what you're saying, even if it's

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<v Speaker 5>like that poppy stuff like if I believe it then

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<v Speaker 5>if it like it's a feeling. But if it's if

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<v Speaker 5>I just see you know whoever like singing this song

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<v Speaker 5>and I can tell they're kind of like playing this

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<v Speaker 5>act like that's just kind of what turns me, turns

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<v Speaker 5>me off to it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a true country music man here. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I love my I mean, you know, I've got

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<v Speaker 1>my country music literally all the time going. But I

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<v Speaker 1>like the pop country I do too.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I like some of it, and like.

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<v Speaker 3>Music is a tough one, like for me, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>whenever I hear music where you can tell that it's

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<v Speaker 3>been produced for like perfection, then it loses the emotion

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<v Speaker 3>that's tied to it, and then I don't like it

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<v Speaker 3>as much because to me, music invokes emotion. That's the

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<v Speaker 3>beauty of it. I grew up, I grew up in it.

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<v Speaker 3>My dad is a he was a country drummer. He

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<v Speaker 3>was turning off Glenn Campbell. That's so awesome for Campbell,

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<v Speaker 3>Glenn Campbell, Rhinestone cowboy kidding So my dad, Okay, my

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<v Speaker 3>dad played drums on that.

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<v Speaker 6>That is so cool. That is so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wow, I hadn't thought about it, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>know there's some music purists who don't like exactly describing

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 5>And like I said, I do like you know, I

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<v Speaker 5>like Morgan Law and like I like that. I was

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<v Speaker 5>going to ask you, yeah, And it's just like sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if this is like me being bitter

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<v Speaker 5>or like being a songwriter, but like sometimes you hear

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<v Speaker 5>a song on the radio and you're like, I could

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<v Speaker 5>write this in five minutes, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Like this guy's making millions of dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>Like okay, So, speaking of being retired and moving back

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<v Speaker 1>to farming, I have one question that I still want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you going through this experience of being on

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<v Speaker 1>the Farmer Wants a Wife and how to have its

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<v Speaker 1>ups and downs. You're a positive guy, you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you seem to have a good vibe about you. What

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<v Speaker 1>did you lean on to get you through the difficult

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<v Speaker 1>decisions during the show, because I know that they were

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<v Speaker 1>it had to be tough. You have lovely women. That's

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<v Speaker 1>got to be tough to let people go. Who what

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get through it? Well?

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<v Speaker 5>That was the hard and that never like just sending

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<v Speaker 5>somebody home just felt horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>It just.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, I mean, like it's because sometimes like with

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<v Speaker 5>this world is like you got to send some people home,

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<v Speaker 5>like especially early on, that don't really deserve it, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I mean, Like it's you don't really have

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<v Speaker 5>a reason to send them home sometimes just it's just

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<v Speaker 5>kind of like what you have to do this kind

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<v Speaker 5>of name of the game. And so that was really tough.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you used to send people? And if you,

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<v Speaker 1>assuming you.

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<v Speaker 5>Did, honestly, well, they wouldn't let me keep everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like.

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<v Speaker 5>The quick you know, I mean, like honestly, like when

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<v Speaker 5>it got down, so it became super real for me.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's like something that I wasn't really expecting. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>again as cliche as it sounds, is like you really

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<v Speaker 5>just got to like trust your gut and like follow

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<v Speaker 5>your heart, and like, you know, I just was always

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<v Speaker 5>thinking about like who am I thinking about right now?

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<v Speaker 6>Like who's like whom I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think when I'm not like around them, and like who's

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<v Speaker 5>sticking out to me.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, Like you'd go to

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<v Speaker 1>bed whom I thinking, right, Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Wake up in the morning, you can't wait to see

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<v Speaker 3>somebody or you get there. Yeah, I can only imagine yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I could trust me. I really can only imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems like you would start having those moments that's

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<v Speaker 3>got to be really, really scary.

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<v Speaker 1>And then also really exciting at the same time. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a push and pull because you hate to send

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<v Speaker 1>people home, but the same time, sending people home is

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<v Speaker 1>getting you to closer, too closer to the goal of finding,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully finding your person.

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<v Speaker 5>One thing I was kind of guilty of, and you

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<v Speaker 5>know talking with other guys is like it's easy to

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<v Speaker 5>get this way is sometimes you're you're just constantly thinking

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<v Speaker 5>about like who you're going to send home because it's

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<v Speaker 5>like such a hard decision, so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Get you want to get it over with.

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<v Speaker 5>You get hung up on that instead of like thinking

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<v Speaker 5>about like you know, oh, like it's her, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, so, yeah, there's a lot going.

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<v Speaker 3>On that's unbelievable. I can't imagine. I mean, I'm being honest.

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<v Speaker 1>I was not the chosen one on my show, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't have to do what you had to

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<v Speaker 1>do as a lead. Yeah, because I wasn't one. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's got to be really tough to look

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<v Speaker 1>at people who are potentially theoretically they've been vetted they're

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<v Speaker 1>all lovely human beings and you to say bye bye.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what's amazing is you watch the show and you think,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, how are like, how are these women

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<v Speaker 3>so especially episode one, how are they already so committed

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<v Speaker 3>and in this? But you forget You don't think about

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<v Speaker 3>what it's like to be on the other side of that,

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<v Speaker 3>having to choose people and knowing that you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>hurt people's feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, can I tell you what I've been thinking?

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<v Speaker 1>How lucky Brian you and I are to have met

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<v Speaker 1>today than an amazing you are an amazing guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>wish you all the best.

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<v Speaker 6>I appreciate.

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<v Speaker 1>We hope your season is everything you want it to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you find the beautiful, lovely, incredible woman so

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<v Speaker 1>that the farmer has found his wife after We're all

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<v Speaker 1>hope

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone be sure to tune into the new season A

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<v Speaker 3>Farmer Wants a Wife on Tuesday, April twenty first, at

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<v Speaker 3>eight seventh Central on Fox.