WEBVTT - Meet My Besties 0:00:10.200 --> 0:00:14.800 Hello everyone, and welcome to my podcast, Cheeky's and Chill Podcast. 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:18.360 If this is your first time listening or watching, thank 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:21.599 you so much. Welcome to the fam talking about family. 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:26.120 I have two of my closest friends with me, my circles, 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:29.680 very teeny tiny, and I have two of them here 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:32.159 with me, and we're going to talk about our friendship, 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:36.920 talk about more about me from their perspective, and let's 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:40.879 get it started, okay, guys. So the friends I have 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:46.159 today are Brianna Houser Gonzalez right here. She's super shy. 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:48.320 Just give her a little bit alcohol, she'll loosen up. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:00:51.080 And over here, my amiga Lae. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:53.080 We call her what. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:01:01.480 Do we call you that? Right here? J Almost no, 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:07.080 but almost no anyway, Yeah, that's the conversation she has 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:08.759 it on her on her on her id. 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:10.080 It's not the passport. 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:13.360 Yeah, almost no, almost almost no. 0:01:14.000 --> 0:01:17.119 Okay, guys, So this these are my friends. And again, 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:21.840 I have a very small friend like circle and I 0:01:21.959 --> 0:01:23.480 and I like it that way. I feel like a 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.959 lot of acquaintances, a lot of not a lot of 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:30.080 friends exactly like. And I've learned throughout the years that 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:32.880 it's better that way, and I'm happy with the friends 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:36.760 that I have, and sure I feel blessed. I've known Brianna. 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:37.440 How long have I known? 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:40.400 No, I think it's like sixteen years? 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:44.479 Sixteen years, Oh my gosh. So I met her when 0:01:45.040 --> 0:01:48.040 we were recording Cheeks and Roxy. Oh my god. That 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.680 was in two thousand and nine, twenty ten. So yeah, 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.920 that's when I met you. And now she's a mommy 0:01:53.240 --> 0:01:56.960 four I'm gonna say four, say that I know a 0:01:57.200 --> 0:02:00.000 example boy, I know, oh my god. And her husband 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.840 is the home eme and so yeah, that's Brianna and 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:06.080 Judy over here. I've known for how long I'm. 0:02:06.000 --> 0:02:08.280 Yeah, since twenty twelve. 0:02:08.600 --> 0:02:12.519 Twenty twelve. And the way I met her was through. 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:14.920 You emailed me, yes, yes that you wanted to close. 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:19.360 Yes. Her boutique is called Victoria's Boutique. You guys. She 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:23.519 was one of the first to start the online boutique movement. 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:25.440 And we started talking like that. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.359 Yeah, pretty much. I never thought it would be coming 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:31.280 to a friendship. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, amazing. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:34.160 Yeah. So that's what Judy is. She owns her own 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:38.320 business and it's grown, and that's how I met her. 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:41.200 And then Brianna here, Brianna is tell him what you do, 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.080 because I think it's got me. Yeah, I honestly I 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:46.720 love it. I love watching your tiktoks. By the way, 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:48.040 I'm a. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:51.320 Mom of three. I stay home with my kids, which 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:55.240 is very exhausting. I know, a lot of work, very exhausting. 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:57.519 I never thought that. I never thought that that would 0:02:57.560 --> 0:02:57.760 be me. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.480 I don't know. I think it's it's a amazing and 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:05.760 I think it's very what's the word. It's twenty four seven, 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:07.760 it's twenty four to seven, And I think that people 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:11.280 don't give women that stay home like amazekasa, like stay 0:03:11.280 --> 0:03:15.400 at home moms, like the respect that you guys deserve, 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:17.320 or not the respect, but the praise. That's the word. 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:21.240 Because it's a lot. It's it's a lot like but 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:23.680 it's for the better good because I think you being 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:26.280 there with your children makes the biggest difference. Thank goodness, 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:28.000 your husband goes out and works and you guys have 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.720 everything you need. But it's like also that big part 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:32.800 of being able to be there with your children and 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:35.240 guide them and help them with their homework. It's it's 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:38.360 I think it's awesome. So I think it's a blessings. 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.360 It is. Yeah, yeah, and I. 0:03:40.280 --> 0:03:42.400 Wouldn't have it any other way. I mean it's hard 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:46.000 and exhausting and everything, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't want 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:48.320 anyone else to do the things that I do for them, 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:49.640 Like I want to do those things. 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:52.280 Have you thought about like once they get older? Do 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:52.960 you want to now? 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:53.400 Yeh? 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:56.800 Like oh because Markie now yeah, he's youngest. 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.440 Yeah, so I was like, oh, I'm useless, nobody needs 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:03.200 me anymore. But no, that's yeah, now that he's in school, 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:05.960 he just started, and I'm like, okay, like what am 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:08.160 I going to do? Like so that's that's kind of 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:08.960 where where I'm at. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:12.440 Yeah, And I mean, well, first of all, you guys, 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.800 before before we continue this conversation, I haven't had a 0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:20.280 drink in ninety days. Okay, yesterday was the end of 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:23.880 my ninety day cleansed detox fasting that I was doing. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:26.080 So I'm gonna have my first shot with my friends, 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:28.280 my first shot here we go. 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:31.880 I for sure thought it was going to be like before, Oh, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:33.040 we're so. 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:38.159 Honored here, I know, And I'm gonna have my first 0:04:38.160 --> 0:04:45.640 shot here on camera with you guys, So cheers. Okay. Also, 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:48.480 I learned a new one. Hold on a second, I'm 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:51.400 not above you. I'm not under you. I learned this 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.599 one from what show? Was it? Love is Blind? Okay, 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:56.920 So yeah, I'm not above you, I'm not under you, 0:04:56.960 --> 0:05:02.880 but I'm right here with you. Cheers, equal number number 0:05:02.880 --> 0:05:03.480 of sallios. 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:05.799 Okay, cool? 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:10.120 Oh you know me? That is my first shot in 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:13.560 ninety days. You guys, how does that feel? It feels nice. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:14.520 I'm so proud of you. 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:18.200 But it's not just alcohol, right, it was no meat, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:23.600 no meat of meat, no meat, no coffee, no cannabis. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:25.040 I didn't know if I could say that. 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:28.320 Yeah, you can say it. No cannabis. It's it's medicinal. Yeah, yeah, 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:29.560 you know what I mean. It's a lot better. And 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.159 I tell people that want to come for me and say, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:33.880 oh my god, you smoke cannabis or you take edibles, 0:05:33.920 --> 0:05:36.839 It's like, yeah, it's worse than drinking a freaking taking 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:38.280 a child and all, but it is. 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:38.960 That's true. 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.039 I just like that. You're just honest. 0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:41.960 I have to be. 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:45.200 I love that. I love that, like that's yeah. I 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:47.880 hate when people like, oh no, I don't I'm perfect. 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:48.880 I don't think I don't. 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.440 Like no, no, we know you. Yeah you know? Yeah, 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.000 well talking about that because you guys have both known me. 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:57.120 Like I met you in twenty twelve. I was barely 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:59.880 starting my like my career. I mean, I had started 0:05:59.880 --> 0:06:01.520 in two thousand and nine, and that's kind of where 0:06:01.520 --> 0:06:04.200 like I was like, Okay, I'm starting this path. But 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:07.200 then I met you in twenty twelve. So much has happened, 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:12.080 you guys. So much has happened since then, So talking 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.280 about that, and be honest, I have a bunch of 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:16.240 questions here and we're just gonna let the conversation flow. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.240 But this is why I wanted my friends to come 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:21.200 on the podcast, so we can talk about like who 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.920 I am as a friend, my pet peeves, my flaws 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.400 because we all have them, and for you guys to 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:31.240 get to know me from my friend's point of view, 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:35.160 so exactly my friend's perspective. So I'm a drink a 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.799 little bit, So you guys tell me talk about annesty. 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:39.360 Do you guys feel that I'm the same person because 0:06:39.400 --> 0:06:41.720 you guys have seen me on stage? No, okay, tell 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:42.640 me what do you feel. 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:45.440 I'm not the same person as before, but not that 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:47.720 you were ever a bad person. But I feel like 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.160 we've witnessed so much growth and I think it's a 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:52.520 beautiful thing. Like we've all kind of grown together. But 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.279 to see you like grow not only like as a person, 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:59.520 you know, but as like you know, your career, like artists, 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:03.839 like you're your performance, all those crazy I feel like 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:07.520 it's amazing because you've grown to be like just a 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.760 better version of yourself. 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:11.320 She grew a big one. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:12.880 I grew big one. She did. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.160 I was like and more mature, you know what I mean. 0:07:16.760 --> 0:07:19.000 I think it's it's cool to see that transition. 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:20.760 And it's like when we first met, it was like 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:22.960 we could go anywhere, and like it was just we 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:26.960 could go anyway and nobody stopped her or anything. And 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:30.640 now it's like we were nikonos, like and there's lady 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:34.200 that like screamed from across the street and she was 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:35.840 like cheeky's. 0:07:35.360 --> 0:07:37.640 And I was just like, She's like what you didn't think. 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.520 They were gonna got the heck? Like we're like on 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:43.400 the other side of the world. Like so the fact that, like, 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:46.400 I mean, when we first met, it was like that 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.520 wasn't that wasn't the case, right, We can do anything 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:51.080 and go anywhere and act a fool and nobody knew yes, 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:53.880 And now it's like oh my god, like everywhere, Like 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:54.520 I'm just. 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:56.600 Like damn, Like is that weird for you guys? 0:07:57.040 --> 0:07:57.320 No? 0:07:58.000 --> 0:07:58.400 For men? 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:00.840 Honest, No, I'm used to it now. 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:02.440 Like back then, I was like, oh shoot, like more 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:05.520 people are like knowing. It's like it's not like just 0:08:05.520 --> 0:08:07.560 about her mom, Like it's her that they want, you know, 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:12.160 And I'm like, damn, Like she's an artist, like and 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.200 I tend to forget that sometimes to me. 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.600 Know you on a personal level, yeah, Like we have 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:20.280 that privilege, you know, in honor to know you, like 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:23.160 like like yeah, so like when we actually go see 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:25.360 her like perform, it's like I'm like, oh, damn, our 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:26.680 best friend, yea. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:28.520 Does it feel weird or not anymore? Like to see 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.080 me like because we have dinners, we have very very 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:34.040 private conversations. 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:36.800 It's a different version of you. But it's like we 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:37.640 were like it's like. 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:45.240 Yeah, but do you guys feel like for instance, because 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:47.640 there are probably people that watch or listen to me 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.320 and say, oh, like I wonder if she's who she 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.800 says she is on social media or is she pretending 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:53.959 she putting up a front. 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:55.839 That's the probably the biggest question I get. 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:57.480 Yeah, Okay, that is true. 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.680 People ask me all the time like, oh, like you know, 0:09:00.280 --> 0:09:03.120 for whatever occasion, like is it hard to buy her 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:03.520 a gift? 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:03.840 Is it? 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.480 Like? Oh, I could never hang out with her, she 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:06.840 wouldn't want to hang out with me. And I'm like 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:11.440 it couldn't be the opposite, Like it couldn't be more different, 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.960 like like no, like like like what do you buy her? 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.480 And I'm like, you guys, slippers and some panamas? It 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:21.959 sucks And I'm like a candle, like a candle. 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:23.280 And even when it. 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:24.960 Comes to eating, you're not like all about like the 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:25.800 Nanci stuff. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:27.160 We're chilling, dude. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:27.679 Yeah. 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:29.520 That was one of the biggest things that we loved 0:09:29.640 --> 0:09:32.560 about like one another, is that we go in. We 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:36.920 love to eat, yeah too much, you know, we love it. 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.160 And that's how kind of like our friendship started. We 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.679 started doing a lot of like dinner dates. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:44.400 A lot of dinner Yeah for sure. It was I mean, yeah, 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.800 because I met you after my mom passed, right, yes, yay, 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:48.920 and I didn't meet her. Yeah, yeah, you didn't get 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.000 to my mom would have loved you for sure, right, yeah, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:52.079 like my mom would have loved you. 0:09:52.160 --> 0:09:52.400 Yeah. 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:54.520 She She's asked me from like do you think your 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:57.880 mom would like, like our friendship, and I'm like, oh yeah, 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.079 she would. She would know that's a real one, you 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:00.600 know what I mean. 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:04.600 She knew, she knew she should. My mom knew. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:08.760 She was always almost always ninety eight percent of the 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:13.200 time right about everyone. She's like, all right, I give 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.440 this guy, but I give this guy ninety days. She 0:10:15.520 --> 0:10:18.480 was right all the time. She's like, give ninety days, 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:21.000 he gonna last. I'm like, Mom, but I really like him. 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:23.840 I know my daughter. She would tell me, I know 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:26.319 my daughter. She's like this friend, they're using you. But okay, 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:27.959 you'll see on yourself. My mom would always she was 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:30.520 always right. Yeah, she was all the time. Let's drink 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:34.640 to her. Salu to Jenny Refaire, So Lou, you guys 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:40.040 am feeling a little happy, right, that's good? Okay, shot 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:48.560 or Kim copy you guys. I haven't had a drink 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.720 in ninety days. So here we go. This is real. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:52.199 This is what is happening right now. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:52.640 It is real. 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.720 Don't fill it up. You have to, Kim, look at 0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:57.000 Kim feeling. It's okay, that's good. Give that some one 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.120 to Judy. Judy got a big old one, had a 0:10:59.120 --> 0:10:59.440 big one. 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:02.800 Sure, when we went to your I piic thing, I 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.880 was throwing up on myself and she was like. 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:08.800 No, Miami, ki okay. Actually, out of out of us 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.439 three who drinks, who can hold their alcohol the most? 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:13.280 And then probably me? 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:17.880 Then then Brianna's two shots because you don't. 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.520 We love Briann because usually she's very shy, but you 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:23.440 give her some alcohol. 0:11:24.240 --> 0:11:26.160 I'm not shy with you too, like I'm not. 0:11:26.200 --> 0:11:28.240 No, no, but I think like, like you know, you're 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:30.960 more reserved, which I love. You know, you don't like. 0:11:31.400 --> 0:11:34.040 Talk about myself like I'm always like you've gotten better, 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:38.080 She's gotten better, and we like that, like about you, 0:11:38.160 --> 0:11:40.920 like tell us everybody else. 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.920 She'll say, I'm so nosy, I want to know about this, 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:45.520 tell me this and tell me yeah. 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:48.839 And then Judy will start a story and I'm like, no, no, no, wait, wait, 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:50.880 start from the beginning. Hold on, you left this out 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:51.280 wait hold on. 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:54.000 Because Judy is also very reserved. She I am very 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.920 very private, very private, which I love that. I love 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:00.360 that you guys are very private, but I love I 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.800 love that you're not though. I love that. 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:05.920 I love that and people. That's why, like some of 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.520 my other friends that you've been around and stuff. They're like, 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:11.160 she's so open, like she says, oh, she'll say anything, 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.480 and I love that, Like I just I don't like 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:17.960 when people are like, oh, I don't oh no, my 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:21.480 life is perfect. I'm perfect and you're very like, oh no, 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.559 like like an open book all the time. I like that. 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:26.000 Thank you so much. Thank you. 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:26.520 Yeah. 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:29.160 I feel like I'm here to change the world. You guys, like, 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.120 I really feel that you've known that and she wants 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:36.439 to change. No, but I'm serious, And what would you 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:38.560 always say? Be like oh my god, I'm like, this 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.520 is such a beautiful day, and she's like, you know, 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:43.400 I've always been like that, Like I've I feel like 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.760 I've been very consistent with who I am. I said 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:48.360 I wanted to write a book, I said I wanted 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.640 to do this. I feel like I've been very consistent 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.280 with who I am, what I'm meant to do. And 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:58.440 I feel like you guys can be like testing test 0:12:58.600 --> 0:13:01.240 that you know what I mean. It's not pretending I'm not. 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:02.840 This isn't something I pulled out of my ass. 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.360 Like people I want. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:07.240 You're very dedicated to everything that you do, every project 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:09.240 that you do, every Yeah, and like your family and 0:13:09.280 --> 0:13:11.000 like your close friends, like you're. 0:13:10.880 --> 0:13:13.120 Just you know, and I love the heck out of 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:15.960 you guys. Yeah, it doesn't matter how I love you guys, 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:18.440 Like it doesn't matter how busy I am. Like for me, 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.560 it's like I I think about my friend and I'm 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:21.800 thinking about but I'm like, you know, I've been thinking 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.080 about her for two days, you know what I mean. 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:24.640 But we talk almost every day, both of you. 0:13:25.000 --> 0:13:27.920 We have ours even if we don't like talk. It's like, hey, 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:31.079 it's Monday, beautiful. I love that. 0:13:31.320 --> 0:13:34.679 But now it's beautiful now that you're in like a 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:36.960 good relationship, Like I don't worry. 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:43.640 Like I'm like, okay, that's what. Yeah. For him, yeah, 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:48.560 we love a millia. Oh my god, you guys. 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:53.600 Yeah, he's just so chill. 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:54.439 He's so real. 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:55.920 He's so chill. 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.920 He's peaceful. So I'm like, okay, like es and like 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:00.600 his vibe is just before I. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.320 Have to check on her, like make sure she's okay, 0:14:03.360 --> 0:14:04.800 you know, make sure I'm now I'm like, oh, I 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:05.360 know she's good. 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:08.520 Choked out somewhere, that's the truth. Be like she's gonna 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:09.920 get choked out. She's not calling me. 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:11.840 But one time I don't know she lost her phone 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:14.600 or something. This is like five years ago, no more 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:16.439 than five years ago. I remember she lost her phone 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:18.520 so all the messages were coming up green. 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:19.640 And I was like, oh my god. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:22.080 I was like, Rob, something's wrong, like and he's like, 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:23.880 maybe she just you know, her phone died. 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:25.000 I'm like, no, I feel it. 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.880 Something's wrong, Like I have to get a hold of her, 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.160 like I was worried. Now I'm like, oh, her phone's 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.760 probably dead. She's fine, Like yeah, he's peace, He's peace. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:34.840 Nice pea. Yeah, it makes me happy. I'm so happy 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:37.960 that you guys love him because I love you guys 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:40.320 so much and your opinion is so important to me 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:43.000 that when you guys met him and you guys are 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.440 both like, oh my god, this is this is this 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:47.760 is a guy that like loves you and you know 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:50.440 what I mean. Obviously, the relationship isn't perfect. We've gone 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:51.680 through a lot of things that even a lot of 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.320 people that I'm maybe not even willing to like bring 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.560 up or maybe he just shit that has happened. And 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.760 you guys gave me like amazing advice. And that's how 0:14:59.800 --> 0:15:01.680 I know. These These are my roal dogs. These are 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:03.800 my right or dies, because good friends are going to 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.480 tell you hey, I don't know about that, or give 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:09.280 you good advice, not try to steer you in the 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.160 wrong way. And at the. 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:12.520 Last time, I was like, you know what, I don't 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.160 know about this, but if we're gonna fall, we're gonna 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.720 fall together. Yeah, it's gonna be fine. We'll figure it out. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:17.800 What are you talking about? 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:22.280 What are you talking about? You know, like what like 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:27.720 six years ago or so, my first marriage. Yeah, I'm hot. 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:31.000 I was like, it's okay, though, we're here fine. I know. 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:34.840 She's like, it's okay, okay, We're gonna be fine. Because yeah, 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:36.440 she was like that's what she would do. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:40.760 We actually, you guys weren't and just said, well, I 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.800 don't I don't know, but you know what, we love. 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:44.880 We're gonna figure it out. We're gonna figure it out. 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:45.520 It'll be fine. 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:47.640 And we did. We did, and we figured it out, 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:50.600 you know, and here we are and here we are 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:52.680 we learned. 0:15:52.800 --> 0:16:00.680 Yeah, we sure did, so. 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:04.240 You guys. Brianna said already that she has, you know, 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.880 three beautiful boys. She has a great husband, Rob, Rob Gonzalez. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:11.080 I love you, dude, that's my homie. We're both cancers. 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:14.040 We get each other. He's like, I love your husband. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:16.120 I got to meet him a little bit more. 0:16:16.480 --> 0:16:20.880 He's yeah, when you guys were at He's not shy, 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:24.880 he's just he's very observant. Yes, he observes. He's quiet, 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:28.720 he's respectful. He allows everyone, which I love. And that's 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:30.560 one thing that I love about immedia and him, Like 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.920 they embrace people for who they are. He's not. He 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:37.000 doesn't judge you. No, I worry sometimes I'm like, fuck 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.400 because I'm a'm anina to one of the babies that 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:42.080 I'm like, I think, I'm like, I'm acting, I'm wild 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:44.240 and I'm crazy right now, It's like, oh my god, 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.960 he already knows. But he accepts me for who I am, 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:48.720 and he sends me stuff and he sends me like 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:53.200 we're on the same wavelength for sure. One hundred. 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:57.520 That's another important thing about a friendship, like not be judgmental. 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:00.680 Exactly, and that is that is what he. That is 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:01.640 he and not a lot. 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:02.960 Of friends will be like if we're gonna fall, we're 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.600 gonna fall together like it's fine or figured out, Like 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.520 I don't know. I just feel like some friends in 0:17:08.560 --> 0:17:12.159 the past, maybe some that are here now, not not 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:14.639 not her, but you know, not. 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:19.040 It's not it's not like that, you know. 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.600 It's not like you know, because when we met her 0:17:22.640 --> 0:17:24.359 friends at the time, they were very mean to me. 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:25.160 Are you be honest? 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.680 No, yeah, honest, they were very mean. They were very mean. 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:31.560 They were and but they weren't very accepting of her 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.280 because she was a new one, and you. 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:35.600 Know, and I was just like, these are friends, like 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:39.080 they're mean, Like why are they your friends? Like I 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:42.920 was so conduced. I was so confused, like so confused. 0:17:43.119 --> 0:17:44.720 Julie was the only one that was nice to me. 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:48.920 Oh my Julie on the podcast I love you, Julie, 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:51.240 let me real quick before you keep going. I have 0:17:51.800 --> 0:17:54.520 other friends because we can only have two guests at 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:56.360 the time, you guys, here on on you know, she 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.680 didn't show you, guys. It's not that my other friends 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:00.760 aren't important, because I love them all. But these are 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:02.440 the two that are just a little bit more like whatever. 0:18:02.480 --> 0:18:05.840 We've been chilling, like yeah, chilling. Anyways, I have other 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:08.400 friends that are not here but that I love. Anyways, 0:18:08.400 --> 0:18:10.520 gone just because I don't want anybody to get hurt. Yeah, 0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:10.760