Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to my podcast, Cheeky's and Chill Podcast.
Speaker 1: If this is your first time listening or watching, thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Welcome to the fam talking about family.
Speaker 1: I have two of my closest friends with me, my circles,
Speaker 1: very teeny tiny, and I have two of them here
Speaker 1: with me, and we're going to talk about our friendship,
Speaker 1: talk about more about me from their perspective, and let's
Speaker 1: get it started, okay, guys. So the friends I have
Speaker 1: today are Brianna Houser Gonzalez right here. She's super shy.
Speaker 1: Just give her a little bit alcohol, she'll loosen up.
Speaker 1: And over here, my amiga Lae.
Speaker 2: We call her what.
Speaker 1: Do we call you that? Right here? J Almost no,
Speaker 1: but almost no anyway, Yeah, that's the conversation she has
Speaker 1: it on her on her on her id.
Speaker 3: It's not the passport.
Speaker 2: Yeah, almost no, almost almost no.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So this these are my friends. And again,
Speaker 1: I have a very small friend like circle and I
Speaker 1: and I like it that way. I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of acquaintances, a lot of not a lot of
Speaker 1: friends exactly like. And I've learned throughout the years that
Speaker 1: it's better that way, and I'm happy with the friends
Speaker 1: that I have, and sure I feel blessed. I've known Brianna.
Speaker 4: How long have I known?
Speaker 2: No, I think it's like sixteen years?
Speaker 1: Sixteen years, Oh my gosh. So I met her when
Speaker 1: we were recording Cheeks and Roxy. Oh my god. That
Speaker 1: was in two thousand and nine, twenty ten. So yeah,
Speaker 1: that's when I met you. And now she's a mommy
Speaker 1: four I'm gonna say four, say that I know a
Speaker 1: example boy, I know, oh my god. And her husband
Speaker 1: is the home eme and so yeah, that's Brianna and
Speaker 1: Judy over here. I've known for how long I'm.
Speaker 3: Yeah, since twenty twelve.
Speaker 1: Twenty twelve. And the way I met her was through.
Speaker 3: You emailed me, yes, yes that you wanted to close.
Speaker 1: Yes. Her boutique is called Victoria's Boutique. You guys. She
Speaker 1: was one of the first to start the online boutique movement.
Speaker 1: And we started talking like that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much. I never thought it would be coming
Speaker 3: to a friendship. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, amazing.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's what Judy is. She owns her own
Speaker 1: business and it's grown, and that's how I met her.
Speaker 1: And then Brianna here, Brianna is tell him what you do,
Speaker 1: because I think it's got me. Yeah, I honestly I
Speaker 1: love it. I love watching your tiktoks. By the way,
Speaker 1: I'm a.
Speaker 2: Mom of three. I stay home with my kids, which
Speaker 2: is very exhausting. I know, a lot of work, very exhausting.
Speaker 2: I never thought that. I never thought that that would
Speaker 2: be me.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's it's a amazing and
Speaker 1: I think it's very what's the word. It's twenty four seven,
Speaker 1: it's twenty four to seven, And I think that people
Speaker 1: don't give women that stay home like amazekasa, like stay
Speaker 1: at home moms, like the respect that you guys deserve,
Speaker 1: or not the respect, but the praise. That's the word.
Speaker 1: Because it's a lot. It's it's a lot like but
Speaker 1: it's for the better good because I think you being
Speaker 1: there with your children makes the biggest difference. Thank goodness,
Speaker 1: your husband goes out and works and you guys have
Speaker 1: everything you need. But it's like also that big part
Speaker 1: of being able to be there with your children and
Speaker 1: guide them and help them with their homework. It's it's
Speaker 1: I think it's awesome. So I think it's a blessings.
Speaker 1: It is. Yeah, yeah, and I.
Speaker 2: Wouldn't have it any other way. I mean it's hard
Speaker 2: and exhausting and everything, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't want
Speaker 2: anyone else to do the things that I do for them,
Speaker 2: Like I want to do those things.
Speaker 1: Have you thought about like once they get older? Do
Speaker 1: you want to now?
Speaker 2: Yeh?
Speaker 1: Like oh because Markie now yeah, he's youngest.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like, oh, I'm useless, nobody needs
Speaker 2: me anymore. But no, that's yeah, now that he's in school,
Speaker 2: he just started, and I'm like, okay, like what am
Speaker 2: I going to do? Like so that's that's kind of
Speaker 2: where where I'm at.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean, well, first of all, you guys,
Speaker 1: before before we continue this conversation, I haven't had a
Speaker 1: drink in ninety days. Okay, yesterday was the end of
Speaker 1: my ninety day cleansed detox fasting that I was doing.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have my first shot with my friends,
Speaker 1: my first shot here we go.
Speaker 2: I for sure thought it was going to be like before, Oh,
Speaker 2: we're so.
Speaker 1: Honored here, I know, And I'm gonna have my first
Speaker 1: shot here on camera with you guys, So cheers. Okay. Also,
Speaker 1: I learned a new one. Hold on a second, I'm
Speaker 1: not above you. I'm not under you. I learned this
Speaker 1: one from what show? Was it? Love is Blind? Okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm not above you, I'm not under you,
Speaker 1: but I'm right here with you. Cheers, equal number number
Speaker 1: of sallios.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool?
Speaker 1: Oh you know me? That is my first shot in
Speaker 1: ninety days. You guys, how does that feel? It feels nice.
Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 1: But it's not just alcohol, right, it was no meat,
Speaker 1: no meat of meat, no meat, no coffee, no cannabis.
Speaker 2: I didn't know if I could say that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can say it. No cannabis. It's it's medicinal. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a lot better. And
Speaker 1: I tell people that want to come for me and say,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you smoke cannabis or you take edibles,
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's worse than drinking a freaking taking
Speaker 1: a child and all, but it is.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 2: I just like that. You're just honest.
Speaker 1: I have to be.
Speaker 2: I love that. I love that, like that's yeah. I
Speaker 2: hate when people like, oh no, I don't I'm perfect.
Speaker 2: I don't think I don't.
Speaker 1: Like no, no, we know you. Yeah you know? Yeah,
Speaker 1: well talking about that because you guys have both known me.
Speaker 1: Like I met you in twenty twelve. I was barely
Speaker 1: starting my like my career. I mean, I had started
Speaker 1: in two thousand and nine, and that's kind of where
Speaker 1: like I was like, Okay, I'm starting this path. But
Speaker 1: then I met you in twenty twelve. So much has happened,
Speaker 1: you guys. So much has happened since then, So talking
Speaker 1: about that, and be honest, I have a bunch of
Speaker 1: questions here and we're just gonna let the conversation flow.
Speaker 1: But this is why I wanted my friends to come
Speaker 1: on the podcast, so we can talk about like who
Speaker 1: I am as a friend, my pet peeves, my flaws
Speaker 1: because we all have them, and for you guys to
Speaker 1: get to know me from my friend's point of view,
Speaker 1: so exactly my friend's perspective. So I'm a drink a
Speaker 1: little bit, So you guys tell me talk about annesty.
Speaker 1: Do you guys feel that I'm the same person because
Speaker 1: you guys have seen me on stage? No, okay, tell
Speaker 1: me what do you feel.
Speaker 3: I'm not the same person as before, but not that
Speaker 3: you were ever a bad person. But I feel like
Speaker 3: we've witnessed so much growth and I think it's a
Speaker 3: beautiful thing. Like we've all kind of grown together. But
Speaker 3: to see you like grow not only like as a person,
Speaker 3: you know, but as like you know, your career, like artists,
Speaker 3: like you're your performance, all those crazy I feel like
Speaker 3: it's amazing because you've grown to be like just a
Speaker 3: better version of yourself.
Speaker 2: She grew a big one.
Speaker 1: I grew big one. She did.
Speaker 2: I was like and more mature, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: I think it's it's cool to see that transition.
Speaker 2: And it's like when we first met, it was like
Speaker 2: we could go anywhere, and like it was just we
Speaker 2: could go anyway and nobody stopped her or anything. And
Speaker 2: now it's like we were nikonos, like and there's lady
Speaker 2: that like screamed from across the street and she was
Speaker 2: like cheeky's.
Speaker 1: And I was just like, She's like what you didn't think.
Speaker 2: They were gonna got the heck? Like we're like on
Speaker 2: the other side of the world. Like so the fact that, like,
Speaker 2: I mean, when we first met, it was like that
Speaker 2: wasn't that wasn't the case, right, We can do anything
Speaker 2: and go anywhere and act a fool and nobody knew yes,
Speaker 2: And now it's like oh my god, like everywhere, Like
Speaker 2: I'm just.
Speaker 1: Like damn, Like is that weird for you guys?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: For men?
Speaker 1: Honest, No, I'm used to it now.
Speaker 2: Like back then, I was like, oh shoot, like more
Speaker 2: people are like knowing. It's like it's not like just
Speaker 2: about her mom, Like it's her that they want, you know,
Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, Like she's an artist, like and
Speaker 2: I tend to forget that sometimes to me.
Speaker 3: Know you on a personal level, yeah, Like we have
Speaker 3: that privilege, you know, in honor to know you, like
Speaker 3: like like yeah, so like when we actually go see
Speaker 3: her like perform, it's like I'm like, oh, damn, our
Speaker 3: best friend, yea.
Speaker 1: Does it feel weird or not anymore? Like to see
Speaker 1: me like because we have dinners, we have very very
Speaker 1: private conversations.
Speaker 3: It's a different version of you. But it's like we
Speaker 3: were like it's like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you guys feel like for instance, because
Speaker 1: there are probably people that watch or listen to me
Speaker 1: and say, oh, like I wonder if she's who she
Speaker 1: says she is on social media or is she pretending
Speaker 1: she putting up a front.
Speaker 2: That's the probably the biggest question I get.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, that is true.
Speaker 2: People ask me all the time like, oh, like you know,
Speaker 2: for whatever occasion, like is it hard to buy her
Speaker 2: a gift?
Speaker 1: Is it?
Speaker 2: Like? Oh, I could never hang out with her, she
Speaker 2: wouldn't want to hang out with me. And I'm like
Speaker 2: it couldn't be the opposite, Like it couldn't be more different,
Speaker 2: like like no, like like like what do you buy her?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you guys, slippers and some panamas? It
Speaker 2: sucks And I'm like a candle, like a candle.
Speaker 1: And even when it.
Speaker 3: Comes to eating, you're not like all about like the
Speaker 3: Nanci stuff.
Speaker 1: We're chilling, dude.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: That was one of the biggest things that we loved
Speaker 1: about like one another, is that we go in. We
Speaker 1: love to eat, yeah too much, you know, we love it.
Speaker 3: And that's how kind of like our friendship started. We
Speaker 3: started doing a lot of like dinner dates.
Speaker 1: A lot of dinner Yeah for sure. It was I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I met you after my mom passed, right, yes, yay,
Speaker 1: and I didn't meet her. Yeah, yeah, you didn't get
Speaker 1: to my mom would have loved you for sure, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: like my mom would have loved you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She She's asked me from like do you think your
Speaker 1: mom would like, like our friendship, and I'm like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: she would. She would know that's a real one, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean.
Speaker 2: She knew, she knew she should. My mom knew.
Speaker 1: She was always almost always ninety eight percent of the
Speaker 1: time right about everyone. She's like, all right, I give
Speaker 1: this guy, but I give this guy ninety days. She
Speaker 1: was right all the time. She's like, give ninety days,
Speaker 1: he gonna last. I'm like, Mom, but I really like him.
Speaker 1: I know my daughter. She would tell me, I know
Speaker 1: my daughter. She's like this friend, they're using you. But okay,
Speaker 1: you'll see on yourself. My mom would always she was
Speaker 1: always right. Yeah, she was all the time. Let's drink
Speaker 1: to her. Salu to Jenny Refaire, So Lou, you guys
Speaker 1: am feeling a little happy, right, that's good? Okay, shot
Speaker 1: or Kim copy you guys. I haven't had a drink
Speaker 1: in ninety days. So here we go. This is real.
Speaker 1: This is what is happening right now.
Speaker 3: It is real.
Speaker 1: Don't fill it up. You have to, Kim, look at
Speaker 1: Kim feeling. It's okay, that's good. Give that some one
Speaker 1: to Judy. Judy got a big old one, had a
Speaker 1: big one.
Speaker 2: Sure, when we went to your I piic thing, I
Speaker 2: was throwing up on myself and she was like.
Speaker 1: No, Miami, ki okay. Actually, out of out of us
Speaker 1: three who drinks, who can hold their alcohol the most?
Speaker 1: And then probably me?
Speaker 2: Then then Brianna's two shots because you don't.
Speaker 1: We love Briann because usually she's very shy, but you
Speaker 1: give her some alcohol.
Speaker 2: I'm not shy with you too, like I'm not.
Speaker 1: No, no, but I think like, like you know, you're
Speaker 1: more reserved, which I love. You know, you don't like.
Speaker 3: Talk about myself like I'm always like you've gotten better,
Speaker 3: She's gotten better, and we like that, like about you,
Speaker 3: like tell us everybody else.
Speaker 1: She'll say, I'm so nosy, I want to know about this,
Speaker 1: tell me this and tell me yeah.
Speaker 2: And then Judy will start a story and I'm like, no, no, no, wait, wait,
Speaker 2: start from the beginning. Hold on, you left this out
Speaker 2: wait hold on.
Speaker 1: Because Judy is also very reserved. She I am very
Speaker 1: very private, very private, which I love that. I love
Speaker 1: that you guys are very private, but I love I
Speaker 1: love that you're not though. I love that.
Speaker 2: I love that and people. That's why, like some of
Speaker 2: my other friends that you've been around and stuff. They're like,
Speaker 2: she's so open, like she says, oh, she'll say anything,
Speaker 2: and I love that, Like I just I don't like
Speaker 2: when people are like, oh, I don't oh no, my
Speaker 2: life is perfect. I'm perfect and you're very like, oh no,
Speaker 2: like like an open book all the time. I like that.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm here to change the world. You guys, like,
Speaker 1: I really feel that you've known that and she wants
Speaker 1: to change. No, but I'm serious, And what would you
Speaker 1: always say? Be like oh my god, I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is such a beautiful day, and she's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I've always been like that, Like I've I feel like
Speaker 1: I've been very consistent with who I am. I said
Speaker 1: I wanted to write a book, I said I wanted
Speaker 1: to do this. I feel like I've been very consistent
Speaker 1: with who I am, what I'm meant to do. And
Speaker 1: I feel like you guys can be like testing test
Speaker 1: that you know what I mean. It's not pretending I'm not.
Speaker 1: This isn't something I pulled out of my ass.
Speaker 2: Like people I want.
Speaker 3: You're very dedicated to everything that you do, every project
Speaker 3: that you do, every Yeah, and like your family and
Speaker 3: like your close friends, like you're.
Speaker 1: Just you know, and I love the heck out of
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, it doesn't matter how I love you guys,
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't matter how busy I am. Like for me,
Speaker 1: it's like I I think about my friend and I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about but I'm like, you know, I've been thinking
Speaker 1: about her for two days, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But we talk almost every day, both of you.
Speaker 3: We have ours even if we don't like talk. It's like, hey,
Speaker 3: it's Monday, beautiful. I love that.
Speaker 2: But now it's beautiful now that you're in like a
Speaker 2: good relationship, Like I don't worry.
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, okay, that's what. Yeah. For him, yeah,
Speaker 1: we love a millia. Oh my god, you guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just so chill.
Speaker 1: He's so real.
Speaker 3: He's so chill.
Speaker 1: He's peaceful. So I'm like, okay, like es and like
Speaker 1: his vibe is just before I.
Speaker 2: Have to check on her, like make sure she's okay,
Speaker 2: you know, make sure I'm now I'm like, oh, I
Speaker 2: know she's good.
Speaker 1: Choked out somewhere, that's the truth. Be like she's gonna
Speaker 1: get choked out. She's not calling me.
Speaker 2: But one time I don't know she lost her phone
Speaker 2: or something. This is like five years ago, no more
Speaker 2: than five years ago. I remember she lost her phone
Speaker 2: so all the messages were coming up green.
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: I was like, Rob, something's wrong, like and he's like,
Speaker 2: maybe she just you know, her phone died.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I feel it.
Speaker 2: Something's wrong, Like I have to get a hold of her,
Speaker 2: like I was worried. Now I'm like, oh, her phone's
Speaker 2: probably dead. She's fine, Like yeah, he's peace, He's peace.
Speaker 1: Nice pea. Yeah, it makes me happy. I'm so happy
Speaker 1: that you guys love him because I love you guys
Speaker 1: so much and your opinion is so important to me
Speaker 1: that when you guys met him and you guys are
Speaker 1: both like, oh my god, this is this is this
Speaker 1: is a guy that like loves you and you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Obviously, the relationship isn't perfect. We've gone
Speaker 1: through a lot of things that even a lot of
Speaker 1: people that I'm maybe not even willing to like bring
Speaker 1: up or maybe he just shit that has happened. And
Speaker 1: you guys gave me like amazing advice. And that's how
Speaker 1: I know. These These are my roal dogs. These are
Speaker 1: my right or dies, because good friends are going to
Speaker 1: tell you hey, I don't know about that, or give
Speaker 1: you good advice, not try to steer you in the
Speaker 1: wrong way. And at the.
Speaker 2: Last time, I was like, you know what, I don't
Speaker 2: know about this, but if we're gonna fall, we're gonna
Speaker 2: fall together. Yeah, it's gonna be fine. We'll figure it out.
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You know, like what like
Speaker 1: six years ago or so, my first marriage. Yeah, I'm hot.
Speaker 1: I was like, it's okay, though, we're here fine. I know.
Speaker 2: She's like, it's okay, okay, We're gonna be fine. Because yeah,
Speaker 2: she was like that's what she would do.
Speaker 1: We actually, you guys weren't and just said, well, I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know, but you know what, we love.
Speaker 2: We're gonna figure it out. We're gonna figure it out.
Speaker 2: It'll be fine.
Speaker 1: And we did. We did, and we figured it out,
Speaker 1: you know, and here we are and here we are
Speaker 1: we learned.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we sure did, so.
Speaker 1: You guys. Brianna said already that she has, you know,
Speaker 1: three beautiful boys. She has a great husband, Rob, Rob Gonzalez.
Speaker 1: I love you, dude, that's my homie. We're both cancers.
Speaker 1: We get each other. He's like, I love your husband.
Speaker 3: I got to meet him a little bit more.
Speaker 1: He's yeah, when you guys were at He's not shy,
Speaker 1: he's just he's very observant. Yes, he observes. He's quiet,
Speaker 1: he's respectful. He allows everyone, which I love. And that's
Speaker 1: one thing that I love about immedia and him, Like
Speaker 1: they embrace people for who they are. He's not. He
Speaker 1: doesn't judge you. No, I worry sometimes I'm like, fuck
Speaker 1: because I'm a'm anina to one of the babies that
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think, I'm like, I'm acting, I'm wild
Speaker 1: and I'm crazy right now, It's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he already knows. But he accepts me for who I am,
Speaker 1: and he sends me stuff and he sends me like
Speaker 1: we're on the same wavelength for sure. One hundred.
Speaker 3: That's another important thing about a friendship, like not be judgmental.
Speaker 1: Exactly, and that is that is what he. That is
Speaker 1: he and not a lot.
Speaker 2: Of friends will be like if we're gonna fall, we're
Speaker 2: gonna fall together like it's fine or figured out, Like
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just feel like some friends in
Speaker 2: the past, maybe some that are here now, not not
Speaker 2: not her, but you know, not.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not like that, you know.
Speaker 2: It's not like you know, because when we met her
Speaker 2: friends at the time, they were very mean to me.
Speaker 2: Are you be honest?
Speaker 1: No, yeah, honest, they were very mean. They were very mean.
Speaker 1: They were and but they weren't very accepting of her
Speaker 1: because she was a new one, and you.
Speaker 2: Know, and I was just like, these are friends, like
Speaker 2: they're mean, Like why are they your friends? Like I
Speaker 2: was so conduced. I was so confused, like so confused.
Speaker 2: Julie was the only one that was nice to me.
Speaker 1: Oh my Julie on the podcast I love you, Julie,
Speaker 1: let me real quick before you keep going. I have
Speaker 1: other friends because we can only have two guests at
Speaker 1: the time, you guys, here on on you know, she
Speaker 1: didn't show you, guys. It's not that my other friends
Speaker 1: aren't important, because I love them all. But these are
Speaker 1: the two that are just a little bit more like whatever.
Speaker 1: We've been chilling, like yeah, chilling. Anyways, I have other
Speaker 1: friends that are not here but that I love. Anyways,
Speaker 1: gone just because I don't want anybody to get hurt. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we.
Speaker 3: Like we have spent time together too with all of them. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so it's great.
Speaker 2: She was only the only one that was nice.
Speaker 1: Julie was Julie's very I called your piece. She's just
Speaker 1: peace and love and she's not She's not about drama.
Speaker 1: She's about her family, Like you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like that that's what I want now, Like I want
Speaker 1: those vibes around me. Like it's like, if you're bringing
Speaker 1: me drama, if like even you're not willing to split
Speaker 1: the bill with me, like we gotta like I'm no
Speaker 1: longer doing that shit, you know what I mean. I'm
Speaker 1: no longer paying like everything. Once in a while, I'll
Speaker 1: pay for you guys, cause I freaking feel it in
Speaker 1: my heart. But most of the time we're like.
Speaker 2: Let's get it. That's I feel like the biggest thing.
Speaker 2: If she doesn't feel it, she's not gonna do it.
Speaker 2: I'm not exactly And I feel like it's taken a
Speaker 2: lot to get there, because like there was friends at
Speaker 2: the time that I was like.
Speaker 3: Why are we pad I wasn't part of that friend, No,
Speaker 3: you were.
Speaker 1: I was like, you came after me after but I think, yeah, right,
Speaker 1: but I was yeah, I was like.
Speaker 2: I mean, can't they just pay for themselves. I got
Speaker 2: I mean, like adults here like and she was just
Speaker 2: like she was just I.
Speaker 1: Mean we were young too, like we were here. It
Speaker 1: has to do a lot when we were younger and
Speaker 1: and you know what I mean, Like I'm grateful for
Speaker 1: those friends, for that group of friends because they helped
Speaker 1: me through like a very tough time. Yes, you know,
Speaker 1: and they were there for that season of my life.
Speaker 1: And now I've grown and i have matured and I've
Speaker 1: learned the type of friends that I want, and it
Speaker 1: has to be reciprocated. It has to be both ways.
Speaker 1: If it's not, then I'm like, I don't want to
Speaker 1: get to the point where I'm bankrupt and I'm giving
Speaker 1: so much of myself and not receiving enough where I'm unhappy. Now.
Speaker 1: I feel like, but you are like super generous. If
Speaker 1: she had fifty sense, she would give away forty nine
Speaker 1: and she.
Speaker 2: Herself got it.
Speaker 3: We always have.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, no, she would like she'd be like, Okay,
Speaker 2: if you need a sure, I'll take this one off.
Speaker 2: It's okay, it's fine, I'll figure it out.
Speaker 1: Like I love it being.
Speaker 2: That's that's my loveling, that's my love language.
Speaker 1: And I mean I want to talk about my because
Speaker 1: I have a god daughter to Victoria.
Speaker 3: Yes, Victoria, we'll have an eighteen year old son and
Speaker 3: a sixteen year old now, so.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be able to tell because it's hot as hell.
Speaker 1: Hell yeah right.
Speaker 2: Gold hashtag Yeah, I'm going to be forty three.
Speaker 1: Do you want more kids? I'm just asking this for
Speaker 1: the podcast, of course you canay, Okay, no, no, absolutely
Speaker 1: not no, okay no, no, great like they are so amazing.
Speaker 3: I'm proud. I am proud, like it has cost me
Speaker 3: a lot because I've done it all.
Speaker 1: My Yeah, you've done and you've been mom and dad
Speaker 1: honestly without mom and dad. I mean I am yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm good. I'm good.
Speaker 1: No, but you believe in love. I do.
Speaker 3: I do want to fall in love. I do want
Speaker 3: a partner in the future.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not because you need one, you want.
Speaker 1: One because I want one. Yes, You're a freaking great catch.
Speaker 1: And I'm not even just saying that. I always tell
Speaker 1: you this all.
Speaker 4: You know what.
Speaker 3: I accept that now I am a good catch.
Speaker 1: Hell, yes, i am not tell that camera I am.
Speaker 5: I am.
Speaker 2: It's not just applications.
Speaker 3: Whoever wants to apply yes, managers right here.
Speaker 2: Managers will screen through the applications, screen you.
Speaker 1: We are not putting up on fucking narcissism. No, absolutely not.
Speaker 1: We know those red flag no broke boys, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: Come with what you will. If you are a gardener,
Speaker 1: be the best gardener. You are a man that works
Speaker 1: with you know, waste management. Great, but do your thing
Speaker 1: and love my friend the right way and your kids
Speaker 1: and her kids and her kids. Ooh, her kids.
Speaker 3: Are you looking for like a step down?
Speaker 1: You're not looking for someone to come save you, because
Speaker 1: you you got it down.
Speaker 3: I've done it.
Speaker 1: I'm okay, You're good.
Speaker 3: You know what I bring to the table.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 1: Everyone, round of applause. And that is what I'm talking about, ladies.
Speaker 1: When I get some questions on dear and I'm like,
Speaker 1: give yourself your place. It didn't just happen one day
Speaker 1: where I was like, oh my god, I know who
Speaker 1: I am, I know my value, I know what I
Speaker 1: bring to the table. I had to kiss a lot
Speaker 1: of frogs, not a lot, just like three or something
Speaker 1: like that to get to like where I am now,
Speaker 1: you know, but toads some to frogs and toads. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have, but it takes some time. I was like,
Speaker 1: have you looked in the mirror, like it's look.
Speaker 2: At him and look at you.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, I don't know. I was like, she, no,
Speaker 1: I can she straight up?
Speaker 2: Sometimes it was like beauty and the Beast. I was like,
Speaker 2: come on, no, why.
Speaker 3: You are true?
Speaker 2: It's true. But I learned. I learned, Like I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's what I told you. The other day
Speaker 2: when when she did she I told him, I told
Speaker 2: him what you said. I was like, both of you together,
Speaker 2: that's perfect.
Speaker 1: You you said his body's looking great.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was like, both of you.
Speaker 3: And she's like, you should tell him.
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'll tell him. Yeah, when tell him,
Speaker 1: because he's he's finally we're good. We're both on our.
Speaker 3: Life work, like the hiking and all that stuff that
Speaker 3: you guys do.
Speaker 2: So yeah, like the bikes and stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're having first piece. Yeah, but it took me
Speaker 1: a while. To my point, oh my god, guys. But
Speaker 1: to my point, though, is it takes us a while,
Speaker 1: and it takes us some time to get to the
Speaker 1: point where we're like, I know who I am, I
Speaker 1: know what I bring to the table. I need to
Speaker 1: love myself enough to say no to the situation. No,
Speaker 1: you're not going to keep abusing me. No, you're not
Speaker 1: going to keep gas lighting me. No, no, no, because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say yes to myself. So that is where
Speaker 1: Miami guy is because you have been a.
Speaker 3: Part of that, yeah, of like my whole transition of
Speaker 3: my growth and spiritual everything.
Speaker 1: And I know that that. And we're not in a rush,
Speaker 1: We're not like desperate. It's I know that that man
Speaker 1: is gonna come for you, a great man that you deserve,
Speaker 1: because I'm not just talking out of my ass, like
Speaker 1: you're an amazing woman that deserves the world. And I
Speaker 1: know we're gonna have that. We're gonna all go on
Speaker 1: triple dates. Ye yes. Why do you guys think that
Speaker 1: we drew ourselves to each other? You know? Because now
Speaker 1: I'm like, these are women that I want for the
Speaker 1: rest of my life, like the friends that I have
Speaker 1: right now. I'm like, I want you guys for the
Speaker 1: rest of my life. And I love because the group
Speaker 1: of friends that I have. In reality, I brought you
Speaker 1: guys together like they met because of me, and I
Speaker 1: love that you guys talk, you guys get along. But
Speaker 1: there's something that drew us together. What do you guys
Speaker 1: think that was?
Speaker 2: I mean, for me, it was like we grew up
Speaker 2: to like we were like kids when we met, and
Speaker 2: like it's been like so many things that have happened.
Speaker 2: I mean, death, divorce, marriage, babies, I mean, like so
Speaker 2: many things have happened. So it's like very I'm gonna cry.
Speaker 1: It's okay, I know, because that's.
Speaker 2: It's like a lot. It's a lot of things that
Speaker 2: and so I feel like like we we grew together.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like she grew I did it.
Speaker 1: It was like we grew together together.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, when I first met Brianna, you guys, hopefully it's
Speaker 1: okay for me to say this, but as far as
Speaker 1: like your dad, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, well her dad
Speaker 1: passed away. Yeah, what year was it? Two thousand and two,
Speaker 1: two thousand and two. I met her in two thousand
Speaker 1: and nine, you guys. And she would tell me my
Speaker 1: mom passed away in twenty twelve, right, So she would
Speaker 1: tell me, and she would cry a lot, Like we
Speaker 1: would go to dinner and something would come up or
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day because he passed away on Valentine's Day, and
Speaker 1: I didn't understand. I would sit across from her and
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't understand, Like I know, my
Speaker 1: dad's not here. I don't talk to my dad, but
Speaker 1: like I had my mom and I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Like I couldn't really And that's like I
Speaker 1: couldn't sympathize because I'm very empathetic, Like I I'm an EmPATH.
Speaker 2: Like, so I felt Jen and Johnny's dad had just passed, had.
Speaker 1: Just passed away. Yeah, So it's like we would cry
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, and she would cry. I'm sorry she
Speaker 1: would cry.
Speaker 2: And she was like that's like Johnny and Johnna, I
Speaker 2: don't know what to tell.
Speaker 1: Them, like yeah, no, Yeah. And then fast forward to
Speaker 1: a few years later later, my mom passed away and
Speaker 1: I was and we were to Gosh, and we were together.
Speaker 1: We were together. She was in Vegas with me, you
Speaker 1: guys when I found out my mom passed away.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I just remember it was.
Speaker 1: One of the ones that I speak about in the book. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I just remember the phone ringing and ringing and ringing,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, who's calling?
Speaker 1: Like what, Like it was like ten am in Vegas
Speaker 1: and she was in the.
Speaker 2: Shower and I remember like the phone was ringing and
Speaker 2: ringing and ringing, and it was like, we have to
Speaker 2: get home. We have to get home, like I don't
Speaker 2: know what's going on, something's wrong. And it was just
Speaker 2: like how we got from Vegas to Long Beach Lakewood,
Speaker 2: Lakewood in like three hours on the door and she
Speaker 2: didn't want anybody to drive, and I was.
Speaker 1: I wanted to be in control.
Speaker 2: I don't think you should drive, like just let one
Speaker 2: of them. And she was just like no, I got it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna drive and I'm in that little Prius. We
Speaker 2: just flew like flew to Lakewood.
Speaker 1: Thank God. Yeah, I don't suggest anyone to do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: wear your seatboat.
Speaker 2: But God was protecting us, like yeah, a thousand percent.
Speaker 1: And that's when I knew because you were there with
Speaker 1: me the first few days where I was like I
Speaker 1: was going to lose my thing.
Speaker 2: I was like I can't leave her, like I can
Speaker 2: have to stay here like I can.
Speaker 1: And that's when I understood, this is why God put
Speaker 1: her in life. This is why God put her in
Speaker 1: my life.
Speaker 2: And I just remember like sitting there all bed at
Speaker 2: your grandma's house and I was just like holding her
Speaker 2: face and she was like something I've got, this is bad. Han.
Speaker 2: I was just like I just held her face. I
Speaker 2: was like it's okay, Like it's okay, I figure this out. Yeah,
Speaker 2: We're going to figure this out. And it was just traumatic.
Speaker 1: It was traumatic. It was horrible.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So yeah, and that's why I was like, Okay, God
Speaker 1: knows why he put her in my life. And then
Speaker 1: with Judy, I feel like she and I don't know
Speaker 1: if I've ever told her this. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I ever told you this, don't, don't, don't. But you
Speaker 1: remind me a lot of my mom.
Speaker 2: Have I told you that?
Speaker 3: You have said that, Okay, And I think that's why
Speaker 3: you said that she would love me if I would have.
Speaker 1: Met You remind me a lot of my mom a lot.
Speaker 1: So I could say yeah because I yeah, because I
Speaker 1: met you right after my mom pass like a little bit,
Speaker 1: right right after my mom passed. And I think it's
Speaker 1: you resemble so much and I feel like, in a way,
Speaker 1: I'm like able to understand my mom more through you
Speaker 1: with everything that you like deal with and like I'm
Speaker 1: just it's certain things that I'm like, damn, I wish
Speaker 1: I could help her more, you know, she's because she's
Speaker 1: so like.
Speaker 3: But no, you're amazing, like as far as like you're
Speaker 3: the only person that probably knows like my life in
Speaker 3: and out, like with everything.
Speaker 1: Because I'm your best friend. Dude, I'm jealous. You know.
Speaker 1: It's so cute. It's so cute. I love it. I
Speaker 1: love it. So now we're gonna get into the craziness
Speaker 1: of this episode. Oh my god, that's just warm up. Okay,
Speaker 1: so let's let's talk about this, you guys. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: ask my friends some questions that my producers wrote. I
Speaker 1: didn't even write this. I'm even gonna lie. This is
Speaker 1: my cue cards. My producers wrote this. I'm gonna ask
Speaker 1: my friends and see what they say. I swear to you,
Speaker 1: I don't ever. I hope there's good a lot of
Speaker 1: views because I want friends to understand each other because
Speaker 1: this is real. This is real, real, It's gonna my mom.
Speaker 1: Did I ask you guys any questions before? Did I
Speaker 1: send anything our.
Speaker 3: We told her that we wanted it to be like smart, Yes,
Speaker 3: you're not it.
Speaker 1: We love it raw. We love it raw.
Speaker 2: So here we go with that makes it okay, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: Okay, we go. Okay, would I prefer to have a
Speaker 1: night in or go out on a Saturday night in.
Speaker 1: Oh out, wait, really me? You what you need?
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you know what we need one of those
Speaker 5: other night in. I'd be like, you want to go out?
Speaker 2: I'm watching The Walking Dead?
Speaker 1: Let's go out?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why? Why the Walking Dead? Because Johnny, my little boy
Speaker 1: walking TV with Johnny, I have to stay home.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, but yeah, hers night in for okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah right.
Speaker 1: I thought we were all right, let's do I'm gonna
Speaker 1: ask each of you, okay, because this is a their
Speaker 1: I have a lot of them. I have a lot
Speaker 1: of them. It's crazy, dude. Okay, Brianno, what's my biggest pet?
Speaker 3: Peeve?
Speaker 2: There's a lot when the hands and the toes don't match. Okay,
Speaker 2: when you're wearing multiple labels all at once, Oh my god,
Speaker 2: when you're if you're wearing Adidas and Nike, that's like
Speaker 2: a big no no. Yeah, that's a big no no.
Speaker 2: If you have chip nails, that's a big no. I
Speaker 2: don't like get your nails and I do not like that.
Speaker 1: Okay, said three.
Speaker 2: I said three.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you guys, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: have a Yeah, they're absolutely, definitely have Absolutely, I do have.
Speaker 3: I think that's why, like we're friends.
Speaker 1: We're friends because yeah, because you have for sure. Okay,
Speaker 1: So say one of your pet peeves and I'll tell
Speaker 1: you if I if it agrees with me.
Speaker 3: Oh, teeth, good teeth have to be like for a boy,
Speaker 3: I mean not in general.
Speaker 1: Just in general.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, I don't know what they're going.
Speaker 1: Right, No, no, no, it's fine, Okay, let's do this. How
Speaker 1: long does it take me to get ready? For me
Speaker 1: to get ready?
Speaker 3: Like you're fast?
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think it's just.
Speaker 2: Like when we were on our trip, she was fast.
Speaker 3: Well, I guess it depends, right, the situation. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: like I think it depends obviously. If it's a night
Speaker 3: hour or something, yeah, it's yeah.
Speaker 1: But if it's just like thirty minutes, minutes, an hour,
Speaker 1: I would say an hour, an hour, an hour, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would say an hour, yeah about Honestly, if I
Speaker 1: get myself ready, about an hour to my own hair.
Speaker 3: Make up is right, like an hour an hour?
Speaker 1: Okay, what's my favorite movie? H amiya? Fuck?
Speaker 3: I don't think I even I don't even know that
Speaker 3: the that's a cute one.
Speaker 1: I love the Notebook. I love the Notebook. I don't
Speaker 1: even think I know that. No, I love seven Pounds
Speaker 1: with Will Smith.
Speaker 3: Okay, I wouldn't even want to.
Speaker 1: I don't care. He's gone canceled. And I think he's
Speaker 1: a great and amazing freaking actor. I don't care what
Speaker 1: anyone says. I have my own opinion about that. That's
Speaker 1: a whole other podcast. I think that, respectfully, he's a
Speaker 1: very handsome man, respectfully, okay. And I think he's a
Speaker 1: great actor. Okay. And I love all his movies except one.
Speaker 3: I think that's probably one of the things we haven't
Speaker 3: really done, is like movies, we need to know we have? Well, yeah,
Speaker 3: said she, when I know that I love We watched
Speaker 3: was it documentary? When I spent the night at your
Speaker 3: house after Christmas? You had left already, but it was like,
Speaker 3: we really don't watch like TV. Yeah, no, we don't,
Speaker 3: sep whenever you go visiting.
Speaker 1: I do. I'm the first of all asleep, absolutely, And
Speaker 1: she talks in her sleep, and I do talk. She talks,
Speaker 1: I do. I like have a lots of things to say.
Speaker 1: I have my in my sleep. Yeah, you're absolutely right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Am I usually earlier late?
Speaker 2: That was always l all the time. She's always late.
Speaker 2: I don't mean, but she says it's not her fault
Speaker 2: because she was born late.
Speaker 1: Exactly. It's in my dna.
Speaker 4: Yea, I love it.
Speaker 1: She's so better though, I feel like, yeah better. I
Speaker 1: really want intentionally, I want to be better. I don't
Speaker 1: like to be late. It's you, guys.
Speaker 2: He a twenty sixth birthday party at the Hall in Glendale.
Speaker 2: She was six hours late or something. You guys. We
Speaker 2: had to eat in and everything, and she shows She
Speaker 2: looked real cute though, but she showed up very.
Speaker 1: And I got a huge fight with my ex in
Speaker 1: that time because I was showing tits. But it's like,
Speaker 1: it's my thirtieth birthday and I was light, not by choice.
Speaker 1: And that's the thing, Like I don't want to be late.
Speaker 1: Like this is what I mean when I say, yeah,
Speaker 1: it just happens when I say that I was born
Speaker 1: this way. I was two weeks late and I had
Speaker 1: to be induced. You guys, I only moved one time,
Speaker 1: and my mom's tummy and she says, dude, I thought
Speaker 1: you were dead because I was like, I only moved
Speaker 1: one time in eight like and I was like eight
Speaker 1: months in my mom's stomach and she and they had
Speaker 1: to induce me because I was chilling. Dude, I was chilling.
Speaker 1: I was having a great time mom's tummy. So I
Speaker 1: was two weeks late. What do you guys? I want
Speaker 1: to be better. I want to be better though. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. What's the fondest memory you have of us,
Speaker 1: Brianna go first.
Speaker 2: Let's see, probably when my first son was born. She
Speaker 2: was there with me when he was born, and she
Speaker 2: came in and she was crying.
Speaker 1: She was like you I was there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was probably the best memory I have.
Speaker 1: You were so pretty and your hair was done in
Speaker 1: her makeup and.
Speaker 2: Stuff because she was like, you're not even like you
Speaker 2: look fine.
Speaker 1: I made sure I was there. Yeah, she was there.
Speaker 2: I think Omi came with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah she did. Yeah, and she was crying, and yeah.
Speaker 2: I think that was my best.
Speaker 1: Memory for me. I love Charlie. Yeah, Charlie's her oldest son.
Speaker 1: He's amazing.
Speaker 2: And she was there with me, and I was scared.
Speaker 2: I never had a surgery before and so I was
Speaker 2: she was super scared. Yeah, I was super afraid. And yeah,
Speaker 2: I remember coming now and I was holding him and.
Speaker 1: She said, you had a baby.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember, that's yeah.
Speaker 3: What about you?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3: There's so many. I don't know, Like I appreciate a
Speaker 3: lot of memories that I have.
Speaker 1: With you, Like can I tell you one? Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I'll never forget this. The time when we went to
Speaker 1: the mountains and shot no, no, no, that was great too.
Speaker 1: But when we went to the mountains and shot your
Speaker 1: dad's guns because he has like a hundred actually.
Speaker 4: Already I was going to confess to you what che
Speaker 4: Yes he told me last year.
Speaker 3: But I mean, obviously we have time and we could
Speaker 3: go shoot your dad and he has a big coction.
Speaker 1: He has a big collection, has a big collection. They're
Speaker 1: all registered. And then we play out of my big time.
Speaker 2: A Wanta asked for a song. But can you know, Okay,
Speaker 2: I know I love it.
Speaker 1: You know I love it. What's your biggest fear?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, My biggest fear is I think knowing
Speaker 2: that I can't like be with my kids forever, so
Speaker 2: I can't always take care of them like that I'm
Speaker 2: eventually like not going to be here to take care
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, dude.
Speaker 3: That's true. That's my name. That is true.
Speaker 1: Oh you had that on a TikTok the other day.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: Hit me. I did because I was looking at my
Speaker 1: how cute. And then it came to that part where
Speaker 1: it was like, that's my biggest fear. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I will always be here for them, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think it's like being a mom thing.
Speaker 3: So I would say that's I think the older I'm
Speaker 3: getting is my health, Like I want to be healthy.
Speaker 3: I'm more conscious about like things that I antake, and
Speaker 3: you've actually been a big part.
Speaker 1: Of that too, like you know, get us.
Speaker 3: So I would say, like my health and I just
Speaker 3: want to be healthy for my kids. So I would
Speaker 3: say death. Other than that, like yeah, you know, I
Speaker 3: would just say death is my biggest fear.
Speaker 2: What's your biggest fear?
Speaker 1: Damn? You know what?
Speaker 2: Well, I don't feel like she's not afraid of I.
Speaker 1: Don't even want to verbalize it because I honestly I'm
Speaker 1: not afraid of a lot of things. But what I mean,
Speaker 1: it's a real thing because.
Speaker 3: I want I'm not ready, like I maybe want to
Speaker 3: finish a couple more years of my kids. And then
Speaker 3: you gotta just yeah, God give me a little bit
Speaker 3: more years, you know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if people have asked me on the podcast,
Speaker 1: are you afraid of dying? And I'm like, I'm not. No,
Speaker 1: but I don't have kids, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: She's not afraid of any Okay, I'm not.
Speaker 2: But if we didn't have children, I think that would
Speaker 2: be I feel like your mom. I would want to
Speaker 2: say your mom was like she wasn't afraid of freaking anything.
Speaker 2: Like I'd be like, oh my god, and you're like that,
Speaker 2: like Brihanna, don't be afraid.
Speaker 3: Like we're not going to be afraid.
Speaker 1: Like, I'm not afraid of anything, right, I'm not scared
Speaker 1: of I'm not scared of a lot of things. I
Speaker 1: think it's just having to live my life without one
Speaker 1: of my siblings, you know what I mean? And and
Speaker 1: God forbid, Like it's like I have children and have
Speaker 1: to live my life without one of my kids. I
Speaker 1: think that's those are your kids? Those are yeah, those
Speaker 1: are the worst. Actually, yes, it's one of the worst pains,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I had a dream last night that you had a baby,
Speaker 2: really a girl.
Speaker 1: Boy, I don't know, And I think I told you.
Speaker 2: I think I had a dream that she told me
Speaker 2: that she was pregnant, and I remember I was crying, like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, like yeah, I get what you're saying.
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it's going to be like that
Speaker 2: baby's going to be like in the little bable, like
Speaker 2: only organic, and I'm going to protect the baby because
Speaker 2: she's amazing.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like I'm scared.
Speaker 2: I'm scared to have a baby. Yeah, but I feel
Speaker 2: like it's gonna been through a lot.
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I love so hard, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean?
Speaker 3: She does.
Speaker 1: I love so hard that I'm like, yeah, the.
Speaker 2: Way he loves his dog, I can't even imagine if
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, imagine a child. He loves
Speaker 2: so hard.
Speaker 1: But I'm like he has the dog food delivered to
Speaker 1: the door. I'm like, dude, like what but he loves
Speaker 1: our dog. Write you so much. I'm just like immediately,
Speaker 1: like I told him, I was like, look, dude, we
Speaker 1: got to get the ship straight. We're gonna have kids,
Speaker 1: but I'm still the princess. Yeah, let me prepare.
Speaker 2: That's why I feel like it's going to be a
Speaker 2: boy because, like you, I would love to be a boy.
Speaker 5: Mom.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but if I'm a girl, mom,
Speaker 1: I feel like that is what God needs, don't so
Speaker 1: that I can heal with my mom.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that we talked about.
Speaker 2: Because it was a very complicated relationship.
Speaker 1: It was it was very complicated. But I feel like
Speaker 1: we have some unfinished business to do. Yeah, we have
Speaker 1: some unfinished business. And I feel like I'm going to
Speaker 1: be able to heal that. And I want I am
Speaker 1: here to break generational curses and traumas that in order
Speaker 1: for me to do that, I need to have a girl.
Speaker 1: As much as I think I want a boy and
Speaker 1: I think I need a boy, I feel like it's
Speaker 1: going to be a girl. I don't see a boy.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't see a girl.
Speaker 1: I've always wanted a boy. I feel like I'm a
Speaker 1: boy mom.
Speaker 2: I don't see a girl.
Speaker 1: But I feel like if it is a girl, because
Speaker 1: a baby. Yeah, okay, okay, question okay, I mean yeah.
Speaker 1: Do I like gold or silver? Jerico? Oh?
Speaker 3: Silver?
Speaker 1: I mean I love gold? Yeah, I do both. That's
Speaker 1: why right now?
Speaker 3: And then I literally just saw the Mickey Mouse.
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I just bought myself a watch that
Speaker 1: has a two tone because I love to so I
Speaker 1: love to tone. Yes, I don't like to feel limited.
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel like in a box. I
Speaker 1: like to do both. But if you were to ask me,
Speaker 1: do I like gold or silver? I would go for
Speaker 1: gold first first, it's okay, look, that's fine, Okay, hold on,
Speaker 1: fuck strike oh ship, here's one, Brianna, Let's see if
Speaker 1: this is real. So this is the last question for
Speaker 1: the podcast, you guys, because this is a very long one.
Speaker 1: But I've had a great time with you and I'm
Speaker 1: so grateful when you guys came up.
Speaker 2: Anyone's wondering what a dinner would be like, this is
Speaker 2: what it would be.
Speaker 1: It would be this conversations.
Speaker 3: But I don't think you want to know that.
Speaker 1: Part, the sexual part, the sexual part. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: is there anything be honest? One hundred and freaking ten percent.
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you would change in our friendship?
Speaker 1: Go Brianna.
Speaker 2: It would be like she's so busy like I'm at
Speaker 2: which I mean, of course, right, but that would be
Speaker 2: the thing, like if we would spend more time to.
Speaker 3: I have to agree with you one hundred percent.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be whatever anytime that we.
Speaker 3: Get to spend together. And I even told you before
Speaker 3: even coming on here. I'm like, our outings that I
Speaker 3: look forward to is like being with my friends, because
Speaker 3: one of the things that I don't think you realize
Speaker 3: is that it's very healing from my healing process is
Speaker 3: being around my friends. My two friends, you know, friendship
Speaker 3: that there's never been drama between, a judgment between or judgment.
Speaker 2: For me, it's like and you have.
Speaker 3: A like friendship that there's never been drama. There's no
Speaker 3: reason for drama, Like it's just been so pure and
Speaker 3: so beautiful. So I would take time. But then I
Speaker 3: also respect that you are a busy woman, and anytime
Speaker 3: that we do have together I am so grateful for.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't hurt my feelings, Like I'll be like, hey,
Speaker 2: I want you to come to this. If you're busy
Speaker 2: like that, I.
Speaker 1: Get it for sure, But you give me stuff like
Speaker 1: in advance.
Speaker 2: Yeah I do. I'm like, oh, she's the first tie
Speaker 2: to tell.
Speaker 3: But then again, it's like you have a like this
Speaker 3: whole year, Like we're not even going on vacation for
Speaker 3: your birthday this year now, which is I mean I
Speaker 3: didn't I didn't get to go last year. But that's
Speaker 3: another privilege.
Speaker 1: That we have had Chuck cheese che I want to
Speaker 1: see the mouse and I want no more. I don't
Speaker 1: want any kids. It's just me and the no party,
Speaker 1: no happy birthday. You see.
Speaker 3: She loves the simplest things.
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, guys, so simplest.
Speaker 3: But anytime that we do have with you is like
Speaker 3: not too long.
Speaker 2: Ago, I had a question like that I needed to
Speaker 2: ask her and I knew she was like I'm about
Speaker 2: to go on stage at the Billboard Awards. What's up?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, never mind you and she's like no,
Speaker 2: what what what do you need? Like never makes me
Speaker 2: feel like I'm bothering her.
Speaker 3: That such an important you know, And I'm like, you're
Speaker 3: abouts like you just text me later like and she's
Speaker 3: like no, no, no, tell me what do you need?
Speaker 2: And I'm like I told her whatever it was. And
Speaker 2: she's like, Okay, it's all taken care of, like blah
Speaker 2: blah blah. And I'm just like, oh my.
Speaker 1: God, it's okay.
Speaker 2: I'll talk about you go on stage and I'm just like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, Like that's why, that's that's you guys
Speaker 2: are even.
Speaker 3: Like before you're getting ready to like she's like in
Speaker 3: Miami like doing these awards and like you'll text and
Speaker 3: like how are you? And I'm like dream makeup and
Speaker 3: I'm like.
Speaker 1: I'm like you're worring about me and You're like, no,
Speaker 1: exactly what And that's you. Yeah, Yeah, we love you
Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, I love you and and we're going
Speaker 1: to spend more time together. You guys. This year is
Speaker 1: going to be work, work, work, work, work.
Speaker 3: And I know that a baby, transition work, It's just
Speaker 3: a lot, a lot of a lot of things.
Speaker 2: And then a baby.
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go into that next phase of my life.
Speaker 1: And I'm so excited, exactly absolutely, and I'm so happy
Speaker 1: and so grateful for each each of you and even
Speaker 1: my friends that aren't aren't here, that we love to
Speaker 1: that we love and then have created and we are
Speaker 1: get this like safety, safe haven that we have. Thank you,
Speaker 1: and I think we should take this last shot everyone.
Speaker 1: Thank you for watching Cheeky's and Chill. I love you, guys, friends,
Speaker 1: I love you guys. I love you to all my
Speaker 1: friends and family, the only ones that I love. Amen.
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