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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to my podcast, Cheeky's and Chill Podcast.

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Speaker 1: If this is your first time listening or watching, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Welcome to the fam talking about family.

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Speaker 1: I have two of my closest friends with me, my circles,

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Speaker 1: very teeny tiny, and I have two of them here

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Speaker 1: with me, and we're going to talk about our friendship,

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Speaker 1: talk about more about me from their perspective, and let's

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Speaker 1: get it started, okay, guys. So the friends I have

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Speaker 1: today are Brianna Houser Gonzalez right here. She's super shy.

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Speaker 1: Just give her a little bit alcohol, she'll loosen up.

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Speaker 1: And over here, my amiga Lae.

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Speaker 2: We call her what.

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Speaker 1: Do we call you that? Right here? J Almost no,

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Speaker 1: but almost no anyway, Yeah, that's the conversation she has

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Speaker 1: it on her on her on her id.

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Speaker 3: It's not the passport.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, almost no, almost almost no.

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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So this these are my friends. And again,

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Speaker 1: I have a very small friend like circle and I

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Speaker 1: and I like it that way. I feel like a

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Speaker 1: lot of acquaintances, a lot of not a lot of

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Speaker 1: friends exactly like. And I've learned throughout the years that

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Speaker 1: it's better that way, and I'm happy with the friends

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Speaker 1: that I have, and sure I feel blessed. I've known Brianna.

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Speaker 4: How long have I known?

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's like sixteen years?

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Speaker 1: Sixteen years, Oh my gosh. So I met her when

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Speaker 1: we were recording Cheeks and Roxy. Oh my god. That

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Speaker 1: was in two thousand and nine, twenty ten. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's when I met you. And now she's a mommy

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Speaker 1: four I'm gonna say four, say that I know a

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Speaker 1: example boy, I know, oh my god. And her husband

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Speaker 1: is the home eme and so yeah, that's Brianna and

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Speaker 1: Judy over here. I've known for how long I'm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, since twenty twelve.

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Speaker 1: Twenty twelve. And the way I met her was through.

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Speaker 3: You emailed me, yes, yes that you wanted to close.

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Speaker 1: Yes. Her boutique is called Victoria's Boutique. You guys. She

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Speaker 1: was one of the first to start the online boutique movement.

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Speaker 1: And we started talking like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much. I never thought it would be coming

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Speaker 3: to a friendship. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's what Judy is. She owns her own

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Speaker 1: business and it's grown, and that's how I met her.

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Speaker 1: And then Brianna here, Brianna is tell him what you do,

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Speaker 1: because I think it's got me. Yeah, I honestly I

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Speaker 1: love it. I love watching your tiktoks. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I'm a.

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Speaker 2: Mom of three. I stay home with my kids, which

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Speaker 2: is very exhausting. I know, a lot of work, very exhausting.

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Speaker 2: I never thought that. I never thought that that would

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Speaker 2: be me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's it's a amazing and

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Speaker 1: I think it's very what's the word. It's twenty four seven,

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Speaker 1: it's twenty four to seven, And I think that people

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Speaker 1: don't give women that stay home like amazekasa, like stay

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Speaker 1: at home moms, like the respect that you guys deserve,

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Speaker 1: or not the respect, but the praise. That's the word.

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Speaker 1: Because it's a lot. It's it's a lot like but

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Speaker 1: it's for the better good because I think you being

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Speaker 1: there with your children makes the biggest difference. Thank goodness,

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Speaker 1: your husband goes out and works and you guys have

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Speaker 1: everything you need. But it's like also that big part

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Speaker 1: of being able to be there with your children and

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Speaker 1: guide them and help them with their homework. It's it's

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Speaker 1: I think it's awesome. So I think it's a blessings.

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Speaker 1: It is. Yeah, yeah, and I.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't have it any other way. I mean it's hard

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Speaker 2: and exhausting and everything, but I wouldn't. I wouldn't want

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Speaker 2: anyone else to do the things that I do for them,

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Speaker 2: Like I want to do those things.

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Speaker 1: Have you thought about like once they get older? Do

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Speaker 1: you want to now?

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Speaker 2: Yeh?

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Speaker 1: Like oh because Markie now yeah, he's youngest.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like, oh, I'm useless, nobody needs

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Speaker 2: I going to do? Like so that's that's kind of

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Speaker 2: where where I'm at.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean, well, first of all, you guys,

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Speaker 1: before before we continue this conversation, I haven't had a

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Speaker 1: drink in ninety days. Okay, yesterday was the end of

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Speaker 1: my ninety day cleansed detox fasting that I was doing.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna have my first shot with my friends,

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Speaker 1: my first shot here we go.

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Speaker 2: I for sure thought it was going to be like before, Oh,

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Speaker 2: we're so.

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Speaker 1: Honored here, I know, And I'm gonna have my first

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Speaker 1: shot here on camera with you guys, So cheers. Okay. Also,

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Speaker 1: I learned a new one. Hold on a second, I'm

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Speaker 1: not above you. I'm not under you. I learned this

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Speaker 1: one from what show? Was it? Love is Blind? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm not above you, I'm not under you,

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Speaker 1: but I'm right here with you. Cheers, equal number number

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Speaker 1: of sallios.

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool?

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Speaker 1: Oh you know me? That is my first shot in

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Speaker 1: ninety days. You guys, how does that feel? It feels nice.

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Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: But it's not just alcohol, right, it was no meat,

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Speaker 1: no meat of meat, no meat, no coffee, no cannabis.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know if I could say that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can say it. No cannabis. It's it's medicinal. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a lot better. And

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Speaker 1: I tell people that want to come for me and say,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, you smoke cannabis or you take edibles,

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's worse than drinking a freaking taking

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Speaker 1: a child and all, but it is.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: I just like that. You're just honest.

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Speaker 1: I have to be.

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Speaker 2: I love that. I love that, like that's yeah. I

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Speaker 2: hate when people like, oh no, I don't I'm perfect.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I don't.

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Speaker 1: Like no, no, we know you. Yeah you know? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well talking about that because you guys have both known me.

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Speaker 1: Like I met you in twenty twelve. I was barely

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Speaker 1: starting my like my career. I mean, I had started

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Speaker 1: like I was like, Okay, I'm starting this path. But

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Speaker 1: then I met you in twenty twelve. So much has happened,

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Speaker 1: you guys. So much has happened since then, So talking

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Speaker 1: about that, and be honest, I have a bunch of

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Speaker 1: questions here and we're just gonna let the conversation flow.

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Speaker 1: But this is why I wanted my friends to come

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Speaker 1: on the podcast, so we can talk about like who

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Speaker 1: I am as a friend, my pet peeves, my flaws

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Speaker 1: because we all have them, and for you guys to

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Speaker 1: get to know me from my friend's point of view,

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Speaker 1: so exactly my friend's perspective. So I'm a drink a

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Speaker 1: little bit, So you guys tell me talk about annesty.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys feel that I'm the same person because

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Speaker 1: you guys have seen me on stage? No, okay, tell

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Speaker 1: me what do you feel.

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Speaker 3: I'm not the same person as before, but not that

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Speaker 3: you were ever a bad person. But I feel like

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Speaker 3: we've witnessed so much growth and I think it's a

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Speaker 3: beautiful thing. Like we've all kind of grown together. But

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Speaker 3: to see you like grow not only like as a person,

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Speaker 3: like you're your performance, all those crazy I feel like

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Speaker 3: it's amazing because you've grown to be like just a

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Speaker 3: better version of yourself.

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Speaker 2: She grew a big one.

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Speaker 1: I grew big one. She did.

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Speaker 2: I was like and more mature, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I think it's it's cool to see that transition.

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Speaker 2: And it's like when we first met, it was like

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Speaker 2: we could go anywhere, and like it was just we

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Speaker 2: now it's like we were nikonos, like and there's lady

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Speaker 1: And I was just like, She's like what you didn't think.

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Speaker 2: They were gonna got the heck? Like we're like on

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Speaker 2: And now it's like oh my god, like everywhere, Like

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Speaker 1: Like damn, Like is that weird for you guys?

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Speaker 1: Honest, No, I'm used to it now.

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Speaker 2: Like back then, I was like, oh shoot, like more

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Speaker 2: people are like knowing. It's like it's not like just

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, Like she's an artist, like and

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Speaker 3: Know you on a personal level, yeah, Like we have

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Speaker 3: that privilege, you know, in honor to know you, like

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Speaker 3: like like yeah, so like when we actually go see

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Speaker 1: Does it feel weird or not anymore? Like to see

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Speaker 3: It's a different version of you. But it's like we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you guys feel like for instance, because

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Speaker 1: and say, oh, like I wonder if she's who she

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Speaker 2: That's the probably the biggest question I get.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, that is true.

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Speaker 2: People ask me all the time like, oh, like you know,

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Like? Oh, I could never hang out with her, she

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Speaker 2: it couldn't be the opposite, Like it couldn't be more different,

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Speaker 2: like like no, like like like what do you buy her?

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, you guys, slippers and some panamas? It

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Speaker 2: sucks And I'm like a candle, like a candle.

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Speaker 1: And even when it.

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Speaker 3: Comes to eating, you're not like all about like the

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Speaker 3: Nanci stuff.

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Speaker 1: We're chilling, dude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That was one of the biggest things that we loved

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Speaker 1: about like one another, is that we go in. We

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Speaker 1: love to eat, yeah too much, you know, we love it.

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Speaker 3: And that's how kind of like our friendship started. We

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Speaker 3: started doing a lot of like dinner dates.

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Speaker 1: A lot of dinner Yeah for sure. It was I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I met you after my mom passed, right, yes, yay,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't meet her. Yeah, yeah, you didn't get

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Speaker 1: to my mom would have loved you for sure, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like my mom would have loved you.

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Speaker 1: She She's asked me from like do you think your

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Speaker 1: mom would like, like our friendship, and I'm like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: she would. She would know that's a real one, you

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Speaker 3: You're very dedicated to everything that you do, every project

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Speaker 2: But now it's beautiful now that you're in like a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's just so chill.

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Speaker 1: He's so real.

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Speaker 3: He's so chill.

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Speaker 1: He's peaceful. So I'm like, okay, like es and like

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Speaker 2: Have to check on her, like make sure she's okay,

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Speaker 2: But one time I don't know she lost her phone

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Speaker 1: Nice pea. Yeah, it makes me happy. I'm so happy

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Speaker 1: that you guys love him because I love you guys

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Speaker 1: that when you guys met him and you guys are

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Speaker 1: both like, oh my god, this is this is this

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Speaker 1: you guys gave me like amazing advice. And that's how

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Speaker 1: I know. These These are my roal dogs. These are

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Speaker 2: Last time, I was like, you know what, I don't

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Speaker 2: know about this, but if we're gonna fall, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You know, like what like

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Speaker 1: six years ago or so, my first marriage. Yeah, I'm hot.

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Speaker 1: I was like, it's okay, though, we're here fine. I know.

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Speaker 2: She's like, it's okay, okay, We're gonna be fine. Because yeah,

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Speaker 1: We actually, you guys weren't and just said, well, I

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Speaker 2: We're gonna figure it out. We're gonna figure it out.

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Speaker 2: It'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: And we did. We did, and we figured it out,

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Speaker 1: we learned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we sure did, so.

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Speaker 1: You guys. Brianna said already that she has, you know,

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Speaker 1: three beautiful boys. She has a great husband, Rob, Rob Gonzalez.

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Speaker 1: I love you, dude, that's my homie. We're both cancers.

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Speaker 1: We get each other. He's like, I love your husband.

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Speaker 3: I got to meet him a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: He's yeah, when you guys were at He's not shy,

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Speaker 1: he's just he's very observant. Yes, he observes. He's quiet,

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Speaker 1: they embrace people for who they are. He's not. He

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Speaker 1: doesn't judge you. No, I worry sometimes I'm like, fuck

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I think, I'm like, I'm acting, I'm wild

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Speaker 1: he already knows. But he accepts me for who I am,

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Speaker 3: That's another important thing about a friendship, like not be judgmental.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, and that is that is what he. That is

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Speaker 1: he and not a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of friends will be like if we're gonna fall, we're

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Speaker 1: It's not it's not like that, you know.

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Speaker 2: It's not like you know, because when we met her

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Speaker 2: Are you be honest?

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Speaker 1: They were and but they weren't very accepting of her

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Speaker 2: Know, and I was just like, these are friends, like

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Speaker 2: Julie was the only one that was nice to me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my Julie on the podcast I love you, Julie,

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Speaker 1: let me real quick before you keep going. I have

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Speaker 1: the time, you guys, here on on you know, she

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Speaker 1: We've been chilling, like yeah, chilling. Anyways, I have other

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Speaker 1: but we.

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Speaker 3: Like we have spent time together too with all of them. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: She was only the only one that was nice.

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Speaker 1: Julie was Julie's very I called your piece. She's just

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Speaker 1: peace and love and she's not She's not about drama.

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Speaker 1: She's about her family, Like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like that that's what I want now, Like I want

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Speaker 1: those vibes around me. Like it's like, if you're bringing

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Speaker 1: me drama, if like even you're not willing to split

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Speaker 1: the bill with me, like we gotta like I'm no

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Speaker 1: longer doing that shit, you know what I mean. I'm

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Speaker 1: no longer paying like everything. Once in a while, I'll

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Speaker 1: pay for you guys, cause I freaking feel it in

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Speaker 1: my heart. But most of the time we're like.

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Speaker 2: Let's get it. That's I feel like the biggest thing.

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Speaker 2: If she doesn't feel it, she's not gonna do it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not exactly And I feel like it's taken a

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Speaker 3: Why are we pad I wasn't part of that friend, No,

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Speaker 1: I was like, you came after me after but I think, yeah, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean, like adults here like and she was just

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Speaker 2: like she was just I.

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Speaker 1: Mean we were young too, like we were here. It

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Speaker 1: and you know what I mean, Like I'm grateful for

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Speaker 1: And now I've grown and i have matured and I've

435
00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,399
Speaker 1: learned the type of friends that I want, and it

436
00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,639
Speaker 1: has to be reciprocated. It has to be both ways.

437
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,800
Speaker 1: If it's not, then I'm like, I don't want to

438
00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 1: get to the point where I'm bankrupt and I'm giving

439
00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 1: so much of myself and not receiving enough where I'm unhappy. Now.

440
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,359
Speaker 1: I feel like, but you are like super generous. If

441
00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 1: she had fifty sense, she would give away forty nine

442
00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:48,360
Speaker 1: and she.

443
00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,159
Speaker 2: Herself got it.

444
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: We always have.

445
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, no, she would like she'd be like, Okay,

446
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 2: if you need a sure, I'll take this one off.

447
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 2: It's okay, it's fine, I'll figure it out.

448
00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 1: Like I love it being.

449
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:02,720
Speaker 2: That's that's my loveling, that's my love language.

450
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,880
Speaker 1: And I mean I want to talk about my because

451
00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,400
Speaker 1: I have a god daughter to Victoria.

452
00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 3: Yes, Victoria, we'll have an eighteen year old son and

453
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,880
Speaker 3: a sixteen year old now, so.

454
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,920
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be able to tell because it's hot as hell.

455
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 1: Hell yeah right.

456
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 2: Gold hashtag Yeah, I'm going to be forty three.

457
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 1: Do you want more kids? I'm just asking this for

458
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:29,359
Speaker 1: the podcast, of course you canay, Okay, no, no, absolutely

459
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 1: not no, okay no, no, great like they are so amazing.

460
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 3: I'm proud. I am proud, like it has cost me

461
00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,400
Speaker 3: a lot because I've done it all.

462
00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,680
Speaker 1: My Yeah, you've done and you've been mom and dad

463
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 1: honestly without mom and dad. I mean I am yeah.

464
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm good. I'm good.

465
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: No, but you believe in love. I do.

466
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 3: I do want to fall in love. I do want

467
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,040
Speaker 3: a partner in the future.

468
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, not because you need one, you want.

469
00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 1: One because I want one. Yes, You're a freaking great catch.

470
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,880
Speaker 1: And I'm not even just saying that. I always tell

471
00:20:58,880 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: you this all.

472
00:20:59,320 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 4: You know what.

473
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 3: I accept that now I am a good catch.

474
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 1: Hell, yes, i am not tell that camera I am.

475
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,120
Speaker 5: I am.

476
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,440
Speaker 2: It's not just applications.

477
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 3: Whoever wants to apply yes, managers right here.

478
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 2: Managers will screen through the applications, screen you.

479
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,919
Speaker 1: We are not putting up on fucking narcissism. No, absolutely not.

480
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 1: We know those red flag no broke boys, no, no, no,

481
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: Come with what you will. If you are a gardener,

482
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 1: be the best gardener. You are a man that works

483
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 1: with you know, waste management. Great, but do your thing

484
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 1: and love my friend the right way and your kids

485
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: and her kids and her kids. Ooh, her kids.

486
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 3: Are you looking for like a step down?

487
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 1: You're not looking for someone to come save you, because

488
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 1: you you got it down.

489
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 3: I've done it.

490
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm okay, You're good.

491
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 3: You know what I bring to the table.

492
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:47,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go.

493
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 1: Everyone, round of applause. And that is what I'm talking about, ladies.

494
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: When I get some questions on dear and I'm like,

495
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:58,439
Speaker 1: give yourself your place. It didn't just happen one day

496
00:21:58,440 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: where I was like, oh my god, I know who

497
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: I am, I know my value, I know what I

498
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 1: bring to the table. I had to kiss a lot

499
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,200
Speaker 1: of frogs, not a lot, just like three or something

500
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,960
Speaker 1: like that to get to like where I am now,

501
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: you know, but toads some to frogs and toads. Yeah,

502
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 1: I have, but it takes some time. I was like,

503
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: have you looked in the mirror, like it's look.

504
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 2: At him and look at you.

505
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, I don't know. I was like, she, no,

506
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:30,919
Speaker 1: I can she straight up?

507
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 2: Sometimes it was like beauty and the Beast. I was like,

508
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 2: come on, no, why.

509
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: You are true?

510
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:42,719
Speaker 2: It's true. But I learned. I learned, Like I mean,

511
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's what I told you. The other day

512
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 2: when when she did she I told him, I told

513
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 2: him what you said. I was like, both of you together,

514
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:49,680
Speaker 2: that's perfect.

515
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,240
Speaker 1: You you said his body's looking great.

516
00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

517
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 1: I was like, both of you.

518
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 3: And she's like, you should tell him.

519
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'll tell him. Yeah, when tell him,

520
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 1: because he's he's finally we're good. We're both on our.

521
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 3: Life work, like the hiking and all that stuff that

522
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 3: you guys do.

523
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, like the bikes and stuff.

524
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're having first piece. Yeah, but it took me

525
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:17,639
Speaker 1: a while. To my point, oh my god, guys. But

526
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 1: to my point, though, is it takes us a while,

527
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 1: and it takes us some time to get to the

528
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,199
Speaker 1: point where we're like, I know who I am, I

529
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: know what I bring to the table. I need to

530
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: love myself enough to say no to the situation. No,

531
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: you're not going to keep abusing me. No, you're not

532
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: going to keep gas lighting me. No, no, no, because

533
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say yes to myself. So that is where

534
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 1: Miami guy is because you have been a.

535
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 3: Part of that, yeah, of like my whole transition of

536
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 3: my growth and spiritual everything.

537
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: And I know that that. And we're not in a rush,

538
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: We're not like desperate. It's I know that that man

539
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: is gonna come for you, a great man that you deserve,

540
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: because I'm not just talking out of my ass, like

541
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: you're an amazing woman that deserves the world. And I

542
00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: know we're gonna have that. We're gonna all go on

543
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: triple dates. Ye yes. Why do you guys think that

544
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 1: we drew ourselves to each other? You know? Because now

545
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, these are women that I want for the

546
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 1: rest of my life, like the friends that I have

547
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: right now. I'm like, I want you guys for the

548
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 1: rest of my life. And I love because the group

549
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: of friends that I have. In reality, I brought you

550
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 1: guys together like they met because of me, and I

551
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: love that you guys talk, you guys get along. But

552
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 1: there's something that drew us together. What do you guys

553
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: think that was?

554
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 2: I mean, for me, it was like we grew up

555
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 2: to like we were like kids when we met, and

556
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 2: like it's been like so many things that have happened.

557
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 2: I mean, death, divorce, marriage, babies, I mean, like so

558
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: many things have happened. So it's like very I'm gonna cry.

559
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: It's okay, I know, because that's.

560
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: It's like a lot. It's a lot of things that

561
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 2: and so I feel like like we we grew together.

562
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 2: It wasn't like she grew I did it.

563
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: It was like we grew together together.

564
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

565
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: Well, when I first met Brianna, you guys, hopefully it's

566
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: okay for me to say this, but as far as

567
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: like your dad, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, well her dad

568
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: passed away. Yeah, what year was it? Two thousand and two,

569
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: two thousand and two. I met her in two thousand

570
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: and nine, you guys. And she would tell me my

571
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: mom passed away in twenty twelve, right, So she would

572
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: tell me, and she would cry a lot, Like we

573
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: would go to dinner and something would come up or

574
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day because he passed away on Valentine's Day, and

575
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: I didn't understand. I would sit across from her and

576
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't understand, Like I know, my

577
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: dad's not here. I don't talk to my dad, but

578
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,439
Speaker 1: like I had my mom and I was like, oh

579
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: my god, Like I couldn't really And that's like I

580
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: couldn't sympathize because I'm very empathetic, Like I I'm an EmPATH.

581
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 2: Like, so I felt Jen and Johnny's dad had just passed, had.

582
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: Just passed away. Yeah, So it's like we would cry

583
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, and she would cry. I'm sorry she

584
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 1: would cry.

585
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 2: And she was like that's like Johnny and Johnna, I

586
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 2: don't know what to tell.

587
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 1: Them, like yeah, no, Yeah. And then fast forward to

588
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: a few years later later, my mom passed away and

589
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,679
Speaker 1: I was and we were to Gosh, and we were together.

590
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: We were together. She was in Vegas with me, you

591
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: guys when I found out my mom passed away.

592
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I just remember it was.

593
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: One of the ones that I speak about in the book. Yeah.

594
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 2: I just remember the phone ringing and ringing and ringing,

595
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: and I'm like, who's calling?

596
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 1: Like what, Like it was like ten am in Vegas

597
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: and she was in the.

598
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: Shower and I remember like the phone was ringing and

599
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: ringing and ringing, and it was like, we have to

600
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: get home. We have to get home, like I don't

601
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 2: know what's going on, something's wrong. And it was just

602
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: like how we got from Vegas to Long Beach Lakewood,

603
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: Lakewood in like three hours on the door and she

604
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 2: didn't want anybody to drive, and I was.

605
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to be in control.

606
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: I don't think you should drive, like just let one

607
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 2: of them. And she was just like no, I got it.

608
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna drive and I'm in that little Prius. We

609
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 2: just flew like flew to Lakewood.

610
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: Thank God. Yeah, I don't suggest anyone to do that. Yeah,

611
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: wear your seatboat.

612
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: But God was protecting us, like yeah, a thousand percent.

613
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: And that's when I knew because you were there with

614
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: me the first few days where I was like I

615
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: was going to lose my thing.

616
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,399
Speaker 2: I was like I can't leave her, like I can

617
00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 2: have to stay here like I can.

618
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: And that's when I understood, this is why God put

619
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,239
Speaker 1: her in life. This is why God put her in

620
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: my life.

621
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: And I just remember like sitting there all bed at

622
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 2: your grandma's house and I was just like holding her

623
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: face and she was like something I've got, this is bad. Han.

624
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: I was just like I just held her face. I

625
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 2: was like it's okay, Like it's okay, I figure this out. Yeah,

626
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: We're going to figure this out. And it was just traumatic.

627
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: It was traumatic. It was horrible.

628
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

629
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, and that's why I was like, Okay, God

630
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: knows why he put her in my life. And then

631
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: with Judy, I feel like she and I don't know

632
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 1: if I've ever told her this. I don't know if

633
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 1: I ever told you this, don't, don't, don't. But you

634
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: remind me a lot of my mom.

635
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 2: Have I told you that?

636
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 3: You have said that, Okay, And I think that's why

637
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 3: you said that she would love me if I would have.

638
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 1: Met You remind me a lot of my mom a lot.

639
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:50,199
Speaker 1: So I could say yeah because I yeah, because I

640
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: met you right after my mom pass like a little bit,

641
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,520
Speaker 1: right right after my mom passed. And I think it's

642
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: you resemble so much and I feel like, in a way,

643
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm like able to understand my mom more through you

644
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: with everything that you like deal with and like I'm

645
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: just it's certain things that I'm like, damn, I wish

646
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 1: I could help her more, you know, she's because she's

647
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: so like.

648
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 3: But no, you're amazing, like as far as like you're

649
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: the only person that probably knows like my life in

650
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 3: and out, like with everything.

651
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: Because I'm your best friend. Dude, I'm jealous. You know.

652
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: It's so cute. It's so cute. I love it. I

653
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: love it. So now we're gonna get into the craziness

654
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: of this episode. Oh my god, that's just warm up. Okay,

655
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: so let's let's talk about this, you guys. I'm gonna

656
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: ask my friends some questions that my producers wrote. I

657
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: didn't even write this. I'm even gonna lie. This is

658
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: my cue cards. My producers wrote this. I'm gonna ask

659
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: my friends and see what they say. I swear to you,

660
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't ever. I hope there's good a lot of

661
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: views because I want friends to understand each other because

662
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: this is real. This is real, real, It's gonna my mom.

663
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: Did I ask you guys any questions before? Did I

664
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 1: send anything our.

665
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: We told her that we wanted it to be like smart, Yes,

666
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: you're not it.

667
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: We love it raw. We love it raw.

668
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: So here we go with that makes it okay, I'm ready.

669
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Okay, we go. Okay, would I prefer to have a

670
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: night in or go out on a Saturday night in.

671
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: Oh out, wait, really me? You what you need?

672
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you know what we need one of those

673
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 5: other night in. I'd be like, you want to go out?

674
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 2: I'm watching The Walking Dead?

675
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: Let's go out?

676
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

677
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: Why? Why the Walking Dead? Because Johnny, my little boy

678
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: walking TV with Johnny, I have to stay home.

679
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, but yeah, hers night in for okay?

680
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah right.

681
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: I thought we were all right, let's do I'm gonna

682
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: ask each of you, okay, because this is a their

683
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 1: I have a lot of them. I have a lot

684
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: of them. It's crazy, dude. Okay, Brianno, what's my biggest pet?

685
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 3: Peeve?

686
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: There's a lot when the hands and the toes don't match. Okay,

687
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 2: when you're wearing multiple labels all at once, Oh my god,

688
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: when you're if you're wearing Adidas and Nike, that's like

689
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: a big no no. Yeah, that's a big no no.

690
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 2: If you have chip nails, that's a big no. I

691
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 2: don't like get your nails and I do not like that.

692
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay, said three.

693
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 2: I said three.

694
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: I don't know what you guys, I don't know. I

695
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: have a Yeah, they're absolutely, definitely have Absolutely, I do have.

696
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 3: I think that's why, like we're friends.

697
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: We're friends because yeah, because you have for sure. Okay,

698
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: So say one of your pet peeves and I'll tell

699
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: you if I if it agrees with me.

700
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 3: Oh, teeth, good teeth have to be like for a boy,

701
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 3: I mean not in general.

702
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: Just in general.

703
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, I don't know what they're going.

704
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: Right, No, no, no, it's fine, Okay, let's do this. How

705
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 1: long does it take me to get ready? For me

706
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: to get ready?

707
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 3: Like you're fast?

708
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't think it's just.

709
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: Like when we were on our trip, she was fast.

710
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 3: Well, I guess it depends, right, the situation. Yeah, yeah,

711
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 3: like I think it depends obviously. If it's a night

712
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 3: hour or something, yeah, it's yeah.

713
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: But if it's just like thirty minutes, minutes, an hour,

714
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: I would say an hour, an hour, an hour, yeah,

715
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: I would say an hour, yeah about Honestly, if I

716
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: get myself ready, about an hour to my own hair.

717
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: Make up is right, like an hour an hour?

718
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: Okay, what's my favorite movie? H amiya? Fuck?

719
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 3: I don't think I even I don't even know that

720
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 3: the that's a cute one.

721
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: I love the Notebook. I love the Notebook. I don't

722
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: even think I know that. No, I love seven Pounds

723
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: with Will Smith.

724
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I wouldn't even want to.

725
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't care. He's gone canceled. And I think he's

726
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: a great and amazing freaking actor. I don't care what

727
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: anyone says. I have my own opinion about that. That's

728
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: a whole other podcast. I think that, respectfully, he's a

729
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: very handsome man, respectfully, okay. And I think he's a

730
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: great actor. Okay. And I love all his movies except one.

731
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 3: I think that's probably one of the things we haven't

732
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 3: really done, is like movies, we need to know we have? Well, yeah,

733
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 3: said she, when I know that I love We watched

734
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 3: was it documentary? When I spent the night at your

735
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 3: house after Christmas? You had left already, but it was like,

736
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 3: we really don't watch like TV. Yeah, no, we don't,

737
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 3: sep whenever you go visiting.

738
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I do. I'm the first of all asleep, absolutely, And

739
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: she talks in her sleep, and I do talk. She talks,

740
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: I do. I like have a lots of things to say.

741
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: I have my in my sleep. Yeah, you're absolutely right. Yeah,

742
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Am I usually earlier late?

743
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: That was always l all the time. She's always late.

744
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I don't mean, but she says it's not her fault

745
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 2: because she was born late.

746
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: Exactly. It's in my dna.

747
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 4: Yea, I love it.

748
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: She's so better though, I feel like, yeah better. I

749
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: really want intentionally, I want to be better. I don't

750
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: like to be late. It's you, guys.

751
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: He a twenty sixth birthday party at the Hall in Glendale.

752
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: She was six hours late or something. You guys. We

753
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 2: had to eat in and everything, and she shows She

754
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: looked real cute though, but she showed up very.

755
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: And I got a huge fight with my ex in

756
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: that time because I was showing tits. But it's like,

757
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: it's my thirtieth birthday and I was light, not by choice.

758
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: And that's the thing, Like I don't want to be late.

759
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: Like this is what I mean when I say, yeah,

760
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: it just happens when I say that I was born

761
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: this way. I was two weeks late and I had

762
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: to be induced. You guys, I only moved one time,

763
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: and my mom's tummy and she says, dude, I thought

764
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: you were dead because I was like, I only moved

765
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: one time in eight like and I was like eight

766
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: months in my mom's stomach and she and they had

767
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: to induce me because I was chilling. Dude, I was chilling.

768
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: I was having a great time mom's tummy. So I

769
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: was two weeks late. What do you guys? I want

770
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: to be better. I want to be better though. Okay,

771
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: here we go. What's the fondest memory you have of us,

772
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 1: Brianna go first.

773
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 2: Let's see, probably when my first son was born. She

774
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 2: was there with me when he was born, and she

775
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: came in and she was crying.

776
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: She was like you I was there.

777
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was probably the best memory I have.

778
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: You were so pretty and your hair was done in

779
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: her makeup and.

780
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,360
Speaker 2: Stuff because she was like, you're not even like you

781
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 2: look fine.

782
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: I made sure I was there. Yeah, she was there.

783
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 2: I think Omi came with you.

784
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 1: Yeah she did. Yeah, and she was crying, and yeah.

785
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 2: I think that was my best.

786
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: Memory for me. I love Charlie. Yeah, Charlie's her oldest son.

787
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: He's amazing.

788
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 2: And she was there with me, and I was scared.

789
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 2: I never had a surgery before and so I was

790
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 2: she was super scared. Yeah, I was super afraid. And yeah,

791
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: I remember coming now and I was holding him and.

792
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: She said, you had a baby.

793
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember, that's yeah.

794
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 3: What about you?

795
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

796
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 3: There's so many. I don't know, Like I appreciate a

797
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,080
Speaker 3: lot of memories that I have.

798
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: With you, Like can I tell you one? Yeah, And

799
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: I'll never forget this. The time when we went to

800
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: the mountains and shot no, no, no, that was great too.

801
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: But when we went to the mountains and shot your

802
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: dad's guns because he has like a hundred actually.

803
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 4: Already I was going to confess to you what che

804
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 4: Yes he told me last year.

805
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 3: But I mean, obviously we have time and we could

806
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 3: go shoot your dad and he has a big coction.

807
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: He has a big collection, has a big collection. They're

808
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: all registered. And then we play out of my big time.

809
00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 2: A Wanta asked for a song. But can you know, Okay,

810
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 2: I know I love it.

811
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: You know I love it. What's your biggest fear?

812
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, My biggest fear is I think knowing

813
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 2: that I can't like be with my kids forever, so

814
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 2: I can't always take care of them like that I'm

815
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 2: eventually like not going to be here to take care

816
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: of them.

817
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, dude.

818
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: That's true. That's my name. That is true.

819
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: Oh you had that on a TikTok the other day.

820
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I did.

821
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: Hit me. I did because I was looking at my

822
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: how cute. And then it came to that part where

823
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: it was like, that's my biggest fear. Oh my god,

824
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: I will always be here for them, you know.

825
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think it's like being a mom thing.

826
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 3: So I would say that's I think the older I'm

827
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 3: getting is my health, Like I want to be healthy.

828
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 3: I'm more conscious about like things that I antake, and

829
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 3: you've actually been a big part.

830
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: Of that too, like you know, get us.

831
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: So I would say, like my health and I just

832
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 3: want to be healthy for my kids. So I would

833
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 3: say death. Other than that, like yeah, you know, I

834
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 3: would just say death is my biggest fear.

835
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: What's your biggest fear?

836
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: Damn? You know what?

837
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: Well, I don't feel like she's not afraid of I.

838
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: Don't even want to verbalize it because I honestly I'm

839
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: not afraid of a lot of things. But what I mean,

840
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: it's a real thing because.

841
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 3: I want I'm not ready, like I maybe want to

842
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: finish a couple more years of my kids. And then

843
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 3: you gotta just yeah, God give me a little bit

844
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 3: more years, you know.

845
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if people have asked me on the podcast,

846
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: are you afraid of dying? And I'm like, I'm not. No,

847
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: but I don't have kids, you know what I mean,

848
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: She's not afraid of any Okay, I'm not.

849
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,959
Speaker 2: But if we didn't have children, I think that would

850
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: be I feel like your mom. I would want to

851
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 2: say your mom was like she wasn't afraid of freaking anything.

852
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: Like I'd be like, oh my god, and you're like that,

853
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: like Brihanna, don't be afraid.

854
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: Like we're not going to be afraid.

855
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: Like, I'm not afraid of anything, right, I'm not scared

856
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 1: of I'm not scared of a lot of things. I

857
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: think it's just having to live my life without one

858
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: of my siblings, you know what I mean? And and

859
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: God forbid, Like it's like I have children and have

860
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: to live my life without one of my kids. I

861
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 1: think that's those are your kids? Those are yeah, those

862
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: are the worst. Actually, yes, it's one of the worst pains,

863
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

864
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,240
Speaker 2: I had a dream last night that you had a baby,

865
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 2: really a girl.

866
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 1: Boy, I don't know, And I think I told you.

867
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 2: I think I had a dream that she told me

868
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 2: that she was pregnant, and I remember I was crying, like,

869
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: oh my god, like yeah, I get what you're saying.

870
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it's going to be like that

871
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: baby's going to be like in the little bable, like

872
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 2: only organic, and I'm going to protect the baby because

873
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: she's amazing.

874
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like I'm scared.

875
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 2: I'm scared to have a baby. Yeah, but I feel

876
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: like it's gonna been through a lot.

877
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I love so hard, you know

878
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: what I mean?

879
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 3: She does.

880
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: I love so hard that I'm like, yeah, the.

881
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: Way he loves his dog, I can't even imagine if

882
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,959
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, imagine a child. He loves

883
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 2: so hard.

884
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: But I'm like he has the dog food delivered to

885
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: the door. I'm like, dude, like what but he loves

886
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: our dog. Write you so much. I'm just like immediately,

887
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: like I told him, I was like, look, dude, we

888
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: got to get the ship straight. We're gonna have kids,

889
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,240
Speaker 1: but I'm still the princess. Yeah, let me prepare.

890
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: That's why I feel like it's going to be a

891
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 2: boy because, like you, I would love to be a boy.

892
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 5: Mom.

893
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but if I'm a girl, mom,

894
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that is what God needs, don't so

895
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: that I can heal with my mom.

896
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that we talked about.

897
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 2: Because it was a very complicated relationship.

898
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,239
Speaker 1: It was it was very complicated. But I feel like

899
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 1: we have some unfinished business to do. Yeah, we have

900
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: some unfinished business. And I feel like I'm going to

901
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: be able to heal that. And I want I am

902
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: here to break generational curses and traumas that in order

903
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: for me to do that, I need to have a girl.

904
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: As much as I think I want a boy and

905
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: I think I need a boy, I feel like it's

906
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: going to be a girl. I don't see a boy.

907
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't see a girl.

908
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: I've always wanted a boy. I feel like I'm a

909
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: boy mom.

910
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 2: I don't see a girl.

911
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like if it is a girl, because

912
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: a baby. Yeah, okay, okay, question okay, I mean yeah.

913
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: Do I like gold or silver? Jerico? Oh?

914
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 3: Silver?

915
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 1: I mean I love gold? Yeah, I do both. That's

916
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 1: why right now?

917
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: And then I literally just saw the Mickey Mouse.

918
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I just bought myself a watch that

919
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: has a two tone because I love to so I

920
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: love to tone. Yes, I don't like to feel limited.

921
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel like in a box. I

922
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: like to do both. But if you were to ask me,

923
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: do I like gold or silver? I would go for

924
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: gold first first, it's okay, look, that's fine, Okay, hold on,

925
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: fuck strike oh ship, here's one, Brianna, Let's see if

926
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: this is real. So this is the last question for

927
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: the podcast, you guys, because this is a very long one.

928
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: But I've had a great time with you and I'm

929
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: so grateful when you guys came up.

930
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: Anyone's wondering what a dinner would be like, this is

931
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: what it would be.

932
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: It would be this conversations.

933
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 3: But I don't think you want to know that.

934
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: Part, the sexual part, the sexual part. Okay, all right,

935
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: is there anything be honest? One hundred and freaking ten percent.

936
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you would change in our friendship?

937
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 1: Go Brianna.

938
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 2: It would be like she's so busy like I'm at

939
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: which I mean, of course, right, but that would be

940
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: the thing, like if we would spend more time to.

941
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 3: I have to agree with you one hundred percent.

942
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be whatever anytime that we.

943
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 3: Get to spend together. And I even told you before

944
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 3: even coming on here. I'm like, our outings that I

945
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 3: look forward to is like being with my friends, because

946
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 3: one of the things that I don't think you realize

947
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 3: is that it's very healing from my healing process is

948
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 3: being around my friends. My two friends, you know, friendship

949
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 3: that there's never been drama between, a judgment between or judgment.

950
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 2: For me, it's like and you have.

951
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 3: A like friendship that there's never been drama. There's no

952
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 3: reason for drama, Like it's just been so pure and

953
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 3: so beautiful. So I would take time. But then I

954
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 3: also respect that you are a busy woman, and anytime

955
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 3: that we do have together I am so grateful for.

956
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't hurt my feelings, Like I'll be like, hey,

957
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 2: I want you to come to this. If you're busy

958
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 2: like that, I.

959
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: Get it for sure, But you give me stuff like

960
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: in advance.

961
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: Yeah I do. I'm like, oh, she's the first tie

962
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 2: to tell.

963
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 3: But then again, it's like you have a like this

964
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 3: whole year, Like we're not even going on vacation for

965
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 3: your birthday this year now, which is I mean I

966
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 3: didn't I didn't get to go last year. But that's

967
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 3: another privilege.

968
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 1: That we have had Chuck cheese che I want to

969
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 1: see the mouse and I want no more. I don't

970
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: want any kids. It's just me and the no party,

971
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: no happy birthday. You see.

972
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 3: She loves the simplest things.

973
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, guys, so simplest.

974
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 3: But anytime that we do have with you is like

975
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 3: not too long.

976
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: Ago, I had a question like that I needed to

977
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 2: ask her and I knew she was like I'm about

978
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 2: to go on stage at the Billboard Awards. What's up?

979
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, never mind you and she's like no,

980
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 2: what what what do you need? Like never makes me

981
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 2: feel like I'm bothering her.

982
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 3: That such an important you know, And I'm like, you're

983
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 3: abouts like you just text me later like and she's

984
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 3: like no, no, no, tell me what do you need?

985
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 2: And I'm like I told her whatever it was. And

986
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: she's like, Okay, it's all taken care of, like blah

987
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 2: blah blah. And I'm just like, oh my.

988
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 1: God, it's okay.

989
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 2: I'll talk about you go on stage and I'm just like,

990
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: oh my god, Like that's why, that's that's you guys

991
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: are even.

992
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 3: Like before you're getting ready to like she's like in

993
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 3: Miami like doing these awards and like you'll text and

994
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 3: like how are you? And I'm like dream makeup and

995
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 3: I'm like.

996
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: I'm like you're worring about me and You're like, no,

997
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: exactly what And that's you. Yeah, Yeah, we love you

998
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: for that. Yeah, I love you and and we're going

999
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: to spend more time together. You guys. This year is

1000
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: going to be work, work, work, work, work.

1001
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: And I know that a baby, transition work, It's just

1002
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 3: a lot, a lot of a lot of things.

1003
00:43:58,800 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: And then a baby.

1004
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go into that next phase of my life.

1005
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 1: And I'm so excited, exactly absolutely, and I'm so happy

1006
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: and so grateful for each each of you and even

1007
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: my friends that aren't aren't here, that we love to

1008
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: that we love and then have created and we are

1009
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 1: get this like safety, safe haven that we have. Thank you,

1010
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 1: and I think we should take this last shot everyone.

1011
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: Thank you for watching Cheeky's and Chill. I love you, guys, friends,

1012
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: I love you guys. I love you to all my

1013
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: friends and family, the only ones that I love. Amen.

1014
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,320
Speaker 1: This is a production of iHeart Radio and Mike podcast Network.

1015
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,360
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1016
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,799
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1017
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:59,880
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