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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to my podcast, Cheeky's and Chill Podcast.

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Speaker 1: If this is your first time listening or watching, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Welcome to the fam talking about family.

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Speaker 1: I have two of my closest friends with me, my circles,

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Speaker 1: very teeny tiny, and I have two of them here

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Speaker 1: with me, and we're going to talk about our friendship,

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Speaker 1: talk about more about me from their perspective, and let's

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Speaker 1: get it started, okay, guys. So the friends I have

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Speaker 1: today are Brianna Houser Gonzalez right here. She's super shy.

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Speaker 1: Just give her a little bit alcohol, she'll loosen up.

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Speaker 1: And over here, my amiga Lae. We call her what

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Speaker 1: do we call you.

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Speaker 2: That?

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Speaker 1: Right here? J Almost no, but almost no anyway, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the conversation she has it on her on her

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Speaker 1: on her id.

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Speaker 3: It's not the passport.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, almost no, almost almost no. Okay, guys, So this

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Speaker 1: these are my friends, and again, I have a very

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Speaker 1: small friend like circle and I and I like it

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Speaker 1: that way. I feel like a lot of acquaintances, a

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Speaker 1: lot of not a lot of friends exactly, And I've

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Speaker 1: learned throughout the years that it's better that way, and

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Speaker 1: I'm happy with the friends that I have, and sure

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Speaker 1: I feel blessed. I've known Brianna. How long have I known? No,

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Speaker 1: I think it's like sixteen years. Sixteen years, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: So I met her when we were recording Cheeks and Roxy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. That was in two thousand and nine,

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Speaker 1: twenty ten. So yeah, that's when I met you. And

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Speaker 1: now she's a mommy four I'm gonna say four, say

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Speaker 1: that I know a example boy, I know, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And her husband is the home Eme and so yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's Brianna and Judy over here. I've known for how

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Speaker 1: long I'm.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, since twenty twelve.

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Speaker 1: Twenty twelve. And the way I met her was through.

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Speaker 3: You emailed me, yes, yes, that you wanted to close.

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Speaker 1: Yes. Her boutique is called Victoria's Boutique. You guys. She

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Speaker 1: was one of the first to start the online boutique movement.

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Speaker 1: And we started talking like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty much. I never thought it would be coming

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Speaker 3: to a friendship. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that's what Judy is. She owns her own

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Speaker 1: business and it's grown, and that's how I met her.

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Speaker 1: And then Brianna here, Brianna is tell him what you

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Speaker 1: do because I think it's got me. Yeah, I honestly

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love watching your tiktoks. By the way,

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Speaker 1: I'm a mom of three.

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Speaker 2: I stay home with my kids, which is very exhausting.

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Speaker 2: I know, a lot of work, very exhausting.

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Speaker 1: I never thought that. I never thought that that would

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Speaker 1: be me. I don't know. I think it's it's a

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Speaker 1: amazing and I think it's very what's the word. It's

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Speaker 1: twenty four seven, it's twenty four to seven, And I

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Speaker 1: think that people don't give women that stay home like amazekasa,

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Speaker 1: like stay at home moms, like the respect that you

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Speaker 1: guys deserve, or not the respect, but the praise. That's

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Speaker 1: the word. Because it's a lot. It's it's a lot

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Speaker 1: like but it's for the better good because I think

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Speaker 1: you being there with your children makes the biggest difference.

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Speaker 1: Thank goodness, your husband goes out and works and you

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Speaker 1: guys have everything you need. But it's like also that

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Speaker 1: big part of being able to be there with your

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Speaker 1: children and guide them and help them with their homework.

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Speaker 1: It's it's I think it's awesome. So I think it's

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Speaker 1: a blessings. It is. Yeah, yeah, And I wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: it any other way.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's hard and exhausting and everything, but I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't I wouldn't want anyone else to do the things

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Speaker 2: that I do for them, Like I want to do

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Speaker 2: those things.

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Speaker 1: Have you thought about like once they get older? Do

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Speaker 1: you want to now? Yeh? Like oh because Markie now, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's youngest. Yeah, so I was like, oh, I'm useless,

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Speaker 1: nobody needs me anymore.

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Speaker 2: But no, that's yeah, now that he's in school, he

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Speaker 1: Like so that's that's kind of where where I'm at. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I mean, well, first of all, you guys, before

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Speaker 1: before we continue this conversation, I haven't had a drink

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Speaker 1: in ninety days. Okay, yesterday was the end of my

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Speaker 1: ninety day cleansed detox fasting that I was doing. So

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my first shot with my friends, my

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Speaker 1: first shot here we go. I for sure thought it

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Speaker 1: was going to be like before, Oh, we're so honored here,

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Speaker 1: I know, And I'm gonna have my first shot here

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Speaker 1: on camera with you guys, So cheers. Okay. Also, I

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Speaker 1: learned a new one. Hold on a second, I'm not

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Speaker 1: above you. I'm not under you. I learned this one

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Speaker 1: from what show?

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Speaker 2: Was it?

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Speaker 1: Love is Blind? Okay, so yeah, I'm not above you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not under you, but I'm right here with you. Cheers,

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Speaker 1: equal number number of sallios. Okay, cool? Oh you know me?

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Speaker 1: That is my first shot in ninety days. You guys,

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Speaker 1: how does that feel? It feels nice.

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Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: But it's not just alcohol, right, it was no meat,

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Speaker 1: no meat of meat, no meat, no coffee, no cannabis.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know if we could say that. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: can say it. No cannabis. It's it's medicinal. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's a lot better. And

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Speaker 1: I tell people that want to come for me and say,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, you smoke cannabis or you take edibles,

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, it's worse than drinking a freaking taking

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Speaker 1: a child and all, but it is.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: I just like that. You're just honest. I have to be.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: I love that, Like that's yeah. I hate when people like,

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Speaker 2: oh no, I don't I'm perfect.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I don't like no, no, we know you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, well talking about that because you

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Speaker 1: guys have both known me. Like I met you in

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Speaker 1: twenty twelve, I was barely starting my like my career.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I had started in two thousand and nine,

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Speaker 1: and that's kind of where like I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm starting this path. But then I met you in

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Speaker 1: twenty twelve. So much has happened, you guys. So much

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Speaker 1: has happened since then, So talking about that, and be honest,

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Speaker 1: I have a bunch of questions here and we're just

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Speaker 1: gonna let the conversation flow. But this is why I

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Speaker 1: wanted my friends to come on the podcast, so we

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Speaker 1: can talk about like who I am as a friend,

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Speaker 1: my pet peeves, my flaws because we all have them,

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Speaker 1: and for you guys to get to know me from

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Speaker 1: my friend's point of view, so exactly my friend's perspective.

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Speaker 1: So I'm a drink a little bit, So you guys

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Speaker 1: tell me talk about annesty. Do you guys feel that

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Speaker 1: I'm the same person because you guys have seen me

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Speaker 1: on stage? No, okay, tell me what do you feel

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Speaker 1: I'm not.

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Speaker 3: The same person as before, but not that you were

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Speaker 3: ever a bad person. But I feel like we've witnessed

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Speaker 3: so much growth and I think it's a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 3: Like we've all kind of grown together. But to see

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Speaker 3: you like grow not only like as a person, you know,

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Speaker 3: but as like you know, your career, like artists, like

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Speaker 3: you're your performance, all those crazy I feel like it's

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Speaker 3: amazing because you've grown to be like just a better

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Speaker 3: version of yourself.

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Speaker 1: She grew a big one. I grew big one. She did.

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Speaker 3: I was like and more mature, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I think it's it's cool to see that transition.

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Speaker 2: And it's like when we first met, it was like

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Speaker 2: we could go anywhere, and like it was just we

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Speaker 2: could go anyway and nobody stopped her or anything. And

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Speaker 2: now it's like we were nikonos, like and there's lady.

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Speaker 1: That like screamed from across the street and she was

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Speaker 1: like cheeky's and I was just like, She's like what

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Speaker 2: They were gonna got the heck? Like we're like on

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Speaker 2: the other side of the world. Like so the fact that, like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, when we first met, it was like that

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Speaker 2: wasn't that wasn't the case, right, We can do anything

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Speaker 2: and go anywhere and act a fool and nobody knew yes,

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Speaker 2: And now.

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Speaker 1: It's like oh my god, like everywhere. Like I'm just

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Speaker 1: like damn, Like is that weird for you guys?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: For men? Honest, No, I'm used to it now.

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Speaker 2: Like back then, I was like, oh shoot, Like more

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Speaker 2: people are like knowing. It's like it's not like just

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Speaker 2: about her mom, Like it's her that they want, you know,

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, Like she's an artist, like and

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Speaker 2: I tend to forget that sometimes.

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Speaker 3: To know you on a personal level, yeah, Like we

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Speaker 3: have that privilege, you know, in honor to know you,

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Speaker 3: like like like yeah, so like when we actually go

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Speaker 3: our best friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, does it feel weird or not anymore? Like to

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Speaker 3: It's a different version of you. But it's like we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but do you guys feel like for instance, because

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Speaker 1: says she is on social media or is she pretending

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Speaker 1: she putting up a front. That's the probably the biggest

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Speaker 1: question I get. Yeah, Okay, that is true.

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Speaker 2: People ask me all the time like, oh, like you know,

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Speaker 1: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I could never hang out with her, she wouldn't

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Speaker 2: And I'm like it couldn't be the opposite, Like it

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Speaker 2: couldn't be more different, like like no, like like like

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Speaker 2: what do you buy her?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you, guys, slippers and some panamas?

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Speaker 2: It sucks And I'm like a candle, like a candle.

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Speaker 3: And even when it comes to eating, you're not like

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Speaker 3: all about like the Nanci stuff.

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Speaker 1: We're chilling, dude. Yeah. That was one of the biggest

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Speaker 1: things that we loved about like one another is that

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Speaker 1: we go in. We love to eat, yeah too much,

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Speaker 1: you know, we love it.

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Speaker 3: And that's how kind of like our friendship started. We

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Speaker 3: started doing a lot of dinner dates, a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of dinner. Yeah for sure. It was I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: because I met you after my mom passed, right, yes, yay,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't meet her. Yeah, yeah, you didn't get

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Speaker 1: to my mom would have loved you for sure, right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like my mom would have loved you. Yeah. She She's

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Speaker 1: asked me from like do you think your mom would

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Speaker 1: like like our friendship, and I'm like, oh yeah, she would.

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Speaker 1: She would know that's a real one, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. She knew, she knew she should. My mom knew.

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Speaker 1: She was always almost always ninety eight percent of the

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Speaker 1: time right about everyone. She's like, all right, I give

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Speaker 1: this guy, but I give this guy ninety days. She

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Speaker 1: was right all the time. She's like, give ninety days,

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Speaker 1: he's just he's very observant. Yes, he observes. He's quiet,

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Speaker 3: That's another importing about a friendship, like not be judgmental.

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Speaker 1: She's about her family, Like you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like that that's what I want now, Like I want

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Speaker 1: no longer paying like everything. Once in a while, I'll

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Speaker 2: Let's get it. That's I feel like the biggest thing.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't part of that friend. No, you were.

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Speaker 1: It has to be both ways. If it's not, then

434
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want to get to the point

435
00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 1: where I'm bankrupt and I'm giving so much of myself

436
00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,879
Speaker 1: and not receiving enough where I'm unhappy. Now. I feel like,

437
00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 1: but you are like super generous. If she had fifty sense,

438
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,159
Speaker 1: she would give away forty nine and she herself got it.

439
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 3: We always have.

440
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, no, she would like she'd be like, Okay,

441
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:56,960
Speaker 1: if you need a sure, I'll take this one off.

442
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,560
Speaker 1: It's okay, it's fine, I'll figure it out. Like I

443
00:19:59,600 --> 00:20:02,720
Speaker 1: love it being That's that's my loveling, that's my love language.

444
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,880
Speaker 1: And I mean, I want to talk about my because

445
00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:07,400
Speaker 1: I have a god daughter to Victoria.

446
00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 3: Yes, Victoria, we'll have an eighteen year old son and

447
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 3: a sixteen year old now, so you.

448
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,920
Speaker 1: Wouldn't be able to tell because it's hot as hell.

449
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 1: Hell yeah right gold hashtag Yeah, I'm going to be

450
00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 1: forty three. Do you want more kids? I'm just asking

451
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 1: this for the podcast, of course you can. Okay, okay, no, no,

452
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 1: absolutely not no, okay no, no, great like they are

453
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 1: so amazing.

454
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Speaker 3: I'm proud. I am proud, like it has cost me

455
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Speaker 3: a lot because I've done it all my.

456
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you've done and you've been mom and dad honestly

457
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 1: without mom and dad. I mean I am yeah.

458
00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,760
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm good. I'm good.

459
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:48,440
Speaker 1: No, but you believe in love. I do.

460
00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 3: I do want to fall in love. I do want

461
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Speaker 3: a partner in the future.

462
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, not because you need one, you want one because

463
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Speaker 1: I want one. Yes, You're a freaking great catch. And

464
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 1: I'm not even just saying that. I always tell you

465
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Speaker 1: this all.

466
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Speaker 4: You know what.

467
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 3: I accept that now I am a good catch.

468
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 1: Hell, yes, i am not tell that camera I am.

469
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,120
Speaker 3: I am.

470
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 1: It's not just applications, whoever wants to apply.

471
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Speaker 3: Yes, managers right here.

472
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,919
Speaker 2: Managers will screen through the applications, screen you.

473
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,959
Speaker 1: We are not putting up on a fucking narcissism. No,

474
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 1: absolutely not. We know those red flags. No broke boys, no, no, no,

475
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 1: Come with what you will. If you are a gardener,

476
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 1: be the best gardener. You are a man that works

477
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 1: with you know, waste management. Great, but do your thing

478
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 1: and love my friend the right way and your kids

479
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: and her kids and her kids. Ooh, her kids.

480
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 3: Are you looking for like a step down?

481
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 1: You're not looking for someone to come save you, because

482
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 1: you you got it down.

483
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 3: I've done it.

484
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm okay, you're good.

485
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 3: You know what I bring to the table.

486
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. Everyone, round of applause. And that

487
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 1: is what I'm talking about, ladies. When I get some

488
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 1: questions on dear and I'm like, give yourself your place.

489
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:58,919
Speaker 1: It didn't just happen one day where I was like,

490
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 1: oh my god, I know who I am, I know

491
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 1: my value, I know what I bring to the table.

492
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: I had to kiss a lot of frogs, not a lot,

493
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 1: just like three or something like that to get to

494
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: like where I am now, you know, but toads some

495
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 1: to frogs and toads. Yeah, I have, but it takes

496
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: some time. I was like, have you looked in the mirror,

497
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:24,959
Speaker 1: like it's look at him and look at you. I

498
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: was like, oh no, I don't know. I was like, she, no,

499
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 1: I can she straight up? Sometimes it was like Beauty

500
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 1: and the Beast. I was like, come on, no, why.

501
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 3: You are true?

502
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 1: It's true. But I learned. I learned. Like me, I'm like,

503
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: that's what I told you.

504
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 2: The other day when when she did she I told him,

505
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:47,840
Speaker 2: I told him what you said.

506
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: I was like, both of you together, that's perfect. You

507
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: you said his body's looking great. Yeah. I was like,

508
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 1: both of you.

509
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,919
Speaker 3: And she's like, you should tell him.

510
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I'll tell him. Yeah, when I tell him,

511
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 1: because he's he's finally we're good. We're both on our.

512
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 3: Life work, like the hiking and all that stuff that

513
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 3: you guys do.

514
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, like the bikes and stuff. Yeah, we're having

515
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: first piece. Yeah, but it took me a while. To

516
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: my point, oh my god, guys. But to my point, though,

517
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: is it takes us a while, and it takes us

518
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: some time to get to the point where we're like,

519
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: I know who I am, I know what I bring

520
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: to the table. I need to love myself enough to

521
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 1: say no to the situation. No, you're not going to

522
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: keep abusing me. No, you're not going to keep gas

523
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: lighting me. No, no, no, because I'm gonna say yes

524
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 1: to myself. So that is where Miami guy is because

525
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,439
Speaker 1: you have been a.

526
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 3: Part of that, yeah, of like my whole transition of

527
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 3: my growth and spiritual everything.

528
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: And I know that that. And we're not in a rush,

529
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: We're not like desperate. It's I know that that man

530
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: is gonna come for you, a great man that you deserve,

531
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: because I'm not just talking out of my ass, like

532
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: you're an amazing woman that deserves the world. And I

533
00:23:58,160 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 1: know we're gonna have that. We're gonna all go on

534
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: triple dates. Y. Yes. Why do you guys think that

535
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,360
Speaker 1: we drew ourselves to each other?

536
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 3: You know?

537
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 1: Because now I'm like, these are women that I want

538
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life, like the friends that

539
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: I have right now. I'm like, I want you guys

540
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. And I love because

541
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: the group of friends that I have. In reality, I

542
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: brought you guys together like they met because of me,

543
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: and I love that you guys talk, you guys get along.

544
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: But there's something that drew us together. What do you

545
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: guys think that was?

546
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 2: I mean, for me, it was like we grew up

547
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 2: to like we were kid like kids when we met,

548
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,679
Speaker 2: and like it's been like so many things that have happened.

549
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 2: I mean, death, divorce, marriage, babies, I mean, like so

550
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: many things have happened. So it's like very I'm gonna cry.

551
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 1: It's okay, I know, because that's it's like a lot.

552
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 2: It's a lot of things that and so I feel

553
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: like like we we grew together. It wasn't like she

554
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 2: grew I did it.

555
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 1: It was like we grew together together.

556
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

557
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: Well, when I first met Brianna, you guys, hopefully it's

558
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: okay for me to say this, but as far as

559
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: like your dad, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, well her dad

560
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: passed away. Yeah, what year was it? Two thousand and two,

561
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,879
Speaker 1: two thousand and two. I met her in two thousand

562
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: and nine, you guys. And she would tell me my

563
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: mom passed away in twenty twelve, right, So she would

564
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: tell me, and she would cry a lot, Like we

565
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: would go to dinner and something would come up, or

566
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day because he passed away on Valentine's Day and

567
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: I didn't understand. I would sit across from her and

568
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't understand, Like I know, my

569
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 1: dad's not here. I don't talk to my dad, but

570
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,439
Speaker 1: like I had my mom and I was like, oh

571
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: my god, Like I couldn't really And that's like I

572
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 1: couldn't sympathize because I'm very empathetic, Like I I'm an EmPATH. Like,

573
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: so I felt Jen and Johnny's dad had just passed,

574
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: had just passed away. Yeah, so it's like we would

575
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: cry and stuff. Yeah, and she would cry. I'm sorry

576
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: she would cry. And she was like that's like Johnny

577
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 1: and Johnna, I don't know what to tell them, like yeah, no, Yeah.

578
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: And then fast forward to a few years later later,

579
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,239
Speaker 1: my mom passed away and I was and we were

580
00:25:57,280 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: to Gosh and we were together. We were together, she

581
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 1: was in Vegas with me, you guys when I found

582
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 1: out my mom passed away. Yeah, And I just remember

583
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 1: it was one of the ones that I speak about

584
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: in the book. Yeah. I just remember the phone ringing

585
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: and ringing and ringing, and I'm like, who's calling? Like what,

586
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: Like it was like ten am in Vegas and she

587
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: was in the shower and I remember like the phone

588
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: was ringing and ringing and ringing, and.

589
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 2: It was like, we have to get home. We have

590
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 2: to get home, like I don't know what's going on,

591
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 2: something's wrong. And it was just like how we got

592
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: from Vegas to Long Beach Lakewood, Lakewood in like three

593
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: hours on the door and she didn't want anybody to drive,

594
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 2: and I was I wanted to be in. I don't

595
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: think you should drive, like just let one of them,

596
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 2: and she was just like no, I got it. I'm

597
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 2: gonna drive and I'm in that little Prius. We just

598
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 2: flew like flew to Lakewood.

599
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 1: Thank God. Yeah, I don't suggest anyone to do that. Yeah,

600
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 1: wear your seatboat. But God was protecting us, like yeah,

601
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 1: a thousand percent. And that's when I knew because you

602
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: were there with me the first few days where I

603
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: was like I was going to lose my thing, I

604
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: was like I can't leave her, like I can have

605
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: to stay here like I can. And that's when I understood,

606
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,240
Speaker 1: this is why God put her in life. This is

607
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: why God put her in my life. And I just.

608
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 2: Remember like sitting there all bed at your grandma's house

609
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 2: and I was just like holding her face and she

610
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: was like something I've got, this is bad. Han.

611
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 1: I was just like I just held her face. I

612
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 1: was like it's okay, Like it's okay, I figure this out. Yeah,

613
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: We're going to figure this out. And it was just traumatic.

614
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: It was traumatic. It was horrible. Yeah. So yeah, and

615
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: that's why I was like, Okay, God knows why he

616
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 1: put her in my life. And then with Judy, I

617
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: feel like she and I don't know if I've ever

618
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: told her this. I don't know if I ever told

619
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: you this, don't, don't, don't. But you remind me a

620
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: lot of my mom. Have I told you that?

621
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 3: You have said that, Okay, And I think that's why

622
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 3: you said that she would love me if I would.

623
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: Have met You remind me a lot of my mom

624
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 1: a lot. So I could say yeah because I yeah,

625
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: because I met you right after my mom pass like

626
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: a little bit, right right after my mom passed. And

627
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: I think it's you resemble so much and I feel like,

628
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: in a way, I'm like able to understand my mom

629
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: more through you with everything that you like deal with

630
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: and like I'm just it's certain things that I'm like, damn,

631
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: I wish I could help her more, you.

632
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 3: Know, she's because she's so like but no, you're amazing,

633
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 3: like as far as like you're the only person that

634
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 3: probably knows like my life in and out, like with everything.

635
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: Because I'm your best friend. Dude, I'm jealous. You know.

636
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: It's so cute. It's so cute. I love it. I

637
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 1: love it. So now we're gonna get into the craziness

638
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: of this episode. Oh my god, that's just warm up. Okay,

639
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: so let's let's talk about this, you guys. I'm gonna

640
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: ask my friends some questions that my producers wrote. I

641
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: didn't even write this. I'm even gonna lie. This is

642
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: my cue cards. My producers wrote this. I'm gonna ask

643
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: my friends and see what they say. I swear to you,

644
00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: I don't ever. I hope there's good a lot of

645
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: views because I want friends to understand each other because

646
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: this is real. This is real, real, It's gonna my mom.

647
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: Did I ask you guys any questions before? Did I

648
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Speaker 1: send anything our.

649
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: We told her that we wanted it to be like smart, Yes,

650
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 3: you're not it.

651
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: We love it raw. We love it raw.

652
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: So here we go with that makes it okay, I'm ready.

653
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Okay, we go. Okay, would I prefer to have a

654
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: night in or go out on a Saturday night in.

655
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: Oh out, wait, really me?

656
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 3: You what you need?

657
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 5: I'm you know what we need one of those other

658
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 5: night in. I'd be like, you want to go out?

659
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm watching The Walking Dead? Let's go out? Yeah? Why?

660
00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: Why the Walking Dead? Because Johnny, my little boy walking

661
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: TV with Johnny, I have to stay home. And I'm like, okay,

662
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, hers night in for okay? Yeah right. I

663
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: thought we were all right, let's do I'm gonna ask

664
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: each of you, okay, because this is a their I

665
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: have a lot of them. I have a lot of them.

666
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: It's crazy, dude. Okay, Brianno, what's my biggest pet?

667
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 3: Peeve?

668
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: There's a lot when the hands and the toes don't match.

669
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: Okay, when you're wearing.

670
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: Multiple labels all at once, Oh my god, when you're

671
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 2: if you're wearing Adidas and Nike, that's like a big

672
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:32,719
Speaker 2: no no.

673
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a big no no. If you have chip nails,

674
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: that's a big no. I don't like get your nails

675
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: and I do not like that. Okay, said three. I

676
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: said three. I don't know what you guys, I don't know.

677
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: I have a Yeah, they're absolutely, definitely have absolutely, I

678
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: do have.

679
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 3: I think that's why, like we're friends.

680
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: We're friends because yeah, because you have for sure. Okay,

681
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: So say one of your pet peeves and I'll tell

682
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: you if I if it agrees with me.

683
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 3: Oh, teeth, good teeth have to be like for a boy.

684
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 3: I mean not in general, just in general.

685
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, okay, I don't know what they're going right, No, no, no,

686
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: it's fine, Okay, let's do this. How long does it

687
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 1: take me to get ready? For me to get ready?

688
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 3: Like you're fast?

689
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't mean.

690
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: It's just.

691
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: Like when we were on our trip, she was fast.

692
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 3: Well, I guess it depends, right, the situation.

693
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, like I think it depends obviously. If it's

694
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: a night hour or something, yeah, it's yeah. But if

695
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: it's just like thirty minutes, minutes, an hour, I would

696
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: say an hour, an hour, an hour, yeah, I would

697
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: say an hour, yeah about Honestly, if I get myself

698
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: ready about an hour to my own hair make.

699
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: Up, its right, like an hour an hour?

700
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: Okay, what's my favorite movie? H amiya?

701
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: Fuck?

702
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 3: I don't think I even I don't even know that

703
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 3: the that's a cute one.

704
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: I love the Notebook. I love the Notebook. I don't

705
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: even think I know that. No, I love seven Pounds

706
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: with Will Smith.

707
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: Okay, I wouldn't even want to.

708
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't care. He's gone canceled. And I think he's

709
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: a great and amazing freaking actor. I don't care what

710
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: anyone says. I have my own opinion about that. That's

711
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: a whole other podcast. I think that, respectfully, he's a

712
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: very handsome man, respectfully, okay. And I think he's a

713
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 1: great actor. Okay. And I love all his movies except one.

714
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 3: I think that's probably one of the things we haven't

715
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: really done, is like movies, we need to know we have?

716
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, said she, when I know that I love.

717
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,719
Speaker 3: We watched was it documentary? When I spent the night

718
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 3: at your house after Christmas? You had left already, but

719
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 3: it was like, we really don't watch like TV. Yeah, no,

720
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 3: we don't, sep whenever you go visiting.

721
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I do. I'm the first of all asleep, absolutely, And

722
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 1: she talks in her sleep, and I do talk. She talks,

723
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: I do. I like have a lots of things to say.

724
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: I have my in my sleep. Yeah, you're absolutely right. Yeah,

725
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: that's a good one. Am I usually earlier late? That

726
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: was always l all the time. She's always late.

727
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 2: I don't mean, but she says it's not her fault

728
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: because she was born late exactly.

729
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: It's in my DNA. Yeah, I love it. She's so

730
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: better though, I feel like, yeah better. I really want intentionally,

731
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,520
Speaker 1: I want to be better. I don't like to be late.

732
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: It's you, guys.

733
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: He a twenty sixth birthday party at the Hall in Glendale.

734
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: She was six hours late or something. You guys.

735
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: We had to eat in and everything, and she shows

736
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 2: She looked real cute though, but she showed up very.

737
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: And I got a huge fight with my ex in

738
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: that time because I was showing tits. But it's like,

739
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: it's my thirtieth birthday and I was light, not by choice.

740
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: And that's the thing, Like I don't want to be late.

741
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 1: Like this is what I mean when I say, yeah,

742
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: it just happens when I say that I was born

743
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: this way. I was two weeks late and I had

744
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: to be induced. You guys, I only moved one time,

745
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: and my mom's tummy and she says, dude, I thought

746
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: you were dead because I was like, I only moved

747
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: one time. In eight like, and I was like eight

748
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: months in my mom's stomach and she and they had

749
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 1: to induce me because I was chilling. Dude, I was chilling.

750
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: I was having a great time mom's tummy. So I

751
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: was two weeks late. What do you guys, I want

752
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: to be better. I want to be better though. Okay,

753
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: here we go. What's the fondest memory you have of us, Brianna,

754
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: go first. Let's see, probably when my first son was born.

755
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: She was there with me when he was born, and

756
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 2: she came in and she was crying, like I was there. Yeah,

757
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 2: that was probably the best memory I have.

758
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: You were so pretty and your hair was done in

759
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: her makeup and stuff because she was like, you're not

760
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: even like you look fine. I made sure I was there. Yeah,

761
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: she was there. I think Omi came with you. Yeah

762
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 1: she did. Yeah, and she was crying, and yeah, I

763
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 1: think that was my best memory for me. I love Charlie. Yeah,

764
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: Charlie's her oldest son. He's amazing. And she was there

765
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: with me, and I was scared. I never had a

766
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: surgery before and so I was she was super scared. Yeah,

767
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 1: I was super afraid. And yeah I remember coming now

768
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 1: and I was holding him and she said, you had

769
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: a baby. Yeah, I remember, that's yeah. What about you?

770
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know.

771
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 3: There's so many I don't know, Like I appreciate a

772
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 3: lot of memories that I have with.

773
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 1: You, Like can I tell you one? Yeah, And I'll

774
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 1: never forget this the time when we went to the

775
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: mountains and shot no, no, no, that was great too.

776
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: But when we went to the mountains and shot your

777
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: dad's guns because he has like a hundred Actually.

778
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 3: Already I was going to confess to you what che

779
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 3: yes he told me last year. But I mean, obviously

780
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,439
Speaker 3: we have time and we could go shoot your dad

781
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 3: and he has a big he has a big collection,

782
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 3: has a big collection.

783
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: They're all registered, and then we play out of my

784
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: big time A Wanta asked for a song, But can

785
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, I know I love it. You know

786
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: I love it. What's your biggest fear? Oh my god,

787
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: My biggest fear.

788
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: Is I think knowing that I can't like be with

789
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 2: my kids forever, so I can't always take care of

790
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 2: them like that I'm eventually like not going to be

791
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: here to take care of them.

792
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, dude.

793
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 3: That's true. That's my name that is true.

794
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: Oh you had that on a TikTok the other day. Yes, yeah,

795
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: I did. Hit me. I did because I was looking

796
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,000
Speaker 1: at my how cute. And then it came to that

797
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 1: part where it was like, that's my biggest fear. Oh

798
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: my god, I will always be here for them, you know.

799
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think it's like being a mom thing.

800
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 3: So I would say that's I think the older I'm

801
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 3: getting is my health. Like I want to be healthy.

802
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 3: I'm more conscious about like things that I antake, and

803
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 3: you've actually been a big part of that too, like

804
00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 3: you know, get us. So I would say, like my

805
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 3: health and I just want to be healthy for my kids.

806
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: So I would say death.

807
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 3: Other than that, like yeah, you know, I would just

808
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:08,919
Speaker 3: say death is my biggest fear.

809
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: What's your biggest fear? Damn? You know what? Well, I

810
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: don't feel like she's not afraid of I don't even

811
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: want to verbalize it because I honestly I'm not afraid

812
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 1: of a lot of things. But what I mean, it's

813
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: a real thing because.

814
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 3: I want I'm not ready, like I maybe want to

815
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 3: finish a couple more years of my kids and then

816
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 3: you gotta just yeah, God, give me a little bit

817
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 3: more years, you know.

818
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if people have asked me on the podcast,

819
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: are you afraid of dying? And I'm like, I'm not. No,

820
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: but I don't have kids, you know what I mean,

821
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: She's not afraid of any Okay, I'm not.

822
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,959
Speaker 2: But if we didn't have children, I think that would

823
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: be I feel like your mom, I would want to

824
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 2: say your mom was like she wasn't afraid of freaking anything.

825
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: Like I'd be like, oh my god, and you're like that,

826
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: like Brihanna, don't be.

827
00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: Afraid, Like we're not going to be afraid.

828
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: Like, I'm not afraid of anything, right, I'm not scared

829
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,080
Speaker 1: of I'm not scared of a lot of things. I

830
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: think it's just having to live my life without one

831
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: of my siblings, you know what I mean. And and

832
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 1: God forbid, Like it's like I have children and have

833
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: to live my life without one of my kids. I

834
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 1: think that's those are your kids? Those are yeah, those

835
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 1: are the worst. Actually, yes, it's one of the worst pains,

836
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I had a dream last

837
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: night that you had a baby, really a girl.

838
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 3: Boy. I don't know.

839
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 1: And I think I told you.

840
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 2: I think I had a dream that she told me

841
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 2: that she was pregnant, and I remember I was crying like,

842
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: oh my god, like, yeah, I get what you're saying.

843
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 2: Like I feel like it's going to be like that

844
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: baby's going to be like in the little bable like

845
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:39,399
Speaker 2: only organic, and I'm going to protect the baby because

846
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: she's amazing.

847
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like I'm scared. I'm scared to have a baby. Yeah,

848
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: but I feel like it's gonna been through a lot.

849
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I love so hard, you know

850
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: what I mean?

851
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 3: She does.

852
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 1: I love so hard that I'm like, yeah.

853
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 2: The way he loves his dog, I can't even imagine

854
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: if I'm like, oh my god, imagine a child. He

855
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 2: loves so hard.

856
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: But I'm like he has the dog food delivered to

857
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 1: the door. I'm like, dude, like what, but he loves

858
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: our dog. Write you so much. I'm just like immediately,

859
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: like I told him, I was like, look, dude, we

860
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 1: got to get the ship straight. We're gonna have kids,

861
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,240
Speaker 1: but I'm still the princess. Yeah, let me prepare.

862
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: That's why I feel like it's going to be a

863
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: boy because, like you, I would love to be a

864
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 2: boy mom.

865
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know, but if I'm a girl. Mom,

866
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: I feel like that is what God needs, don't so

867
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: that I can heal with my mom. Yeah, that we

868
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: talked about because it was a very complicated relationship. It

869
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: was it was very complicated. But I feel like we

870
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: have some unfinished business to do. Yeah, we have some

871
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: unfinished business, and I feel like I'm going to be

872
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: able to heal that. And I want I am here

873
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: to break generational curses and traumas that in order for

874
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: me to do that, I need to have a girl.

875
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: As much as I think I want a boy and

876
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: I think I need a boy, I feel like it's

877
00:39:58,000 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 1: going to be a girl. I don't see a boy.

878
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see a girl. I've always wanted

879
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 1: a boy. I feel like I'm a boy.

880
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 3: Mom. I don't see a girl.

881
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like if it is a girl, because

882
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:12,279
Speaker 1: a baby. Yeah, okay, okay, question okay, I mean yeah.

883
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 1: Do I like gold or silver? Jerico?

884
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

885
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 3: Silver? I mean I love gold?

886
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do both. That's why right now.

887
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: And then I literally just saw the Mickey Mouse.

888
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I just bought myself a watch that

889
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: has a two tone because I love to so I

890
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: love to tone. Yes, I don't like to feel limited.

891
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel like in a box. I

892
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: like to do both. But if you were to ask me,

893
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: do I like gold or silver? I would go for

894
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: gold first first. Okay, look, that's fine, Okay, hold on,

895
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: fuck strike oh ship, here's one, Brianna, Let's see if

896
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 1: this is real. So this is the last question for

897
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: the podcast, you guys, because this is a very long one.

898
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: But I've had a great time with you and I'm

899
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: so grateful when you guys came up.

900
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: Anyone's wondering what a dinner would be like, this is

901
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: what it would be.

902
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: It would be this conversations.

903
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 3: But I don't think you want to know that.

904
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: Part, the sexual part, the sexual part. Okay, all right,

905
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: is there anything be honest? One hundred and freaking ten percent.

906
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you would change in our friendship?

907
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 1: Go Brianna.

908
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 2: It would be like she's so busy like I'm at

909
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 2: which I mean, of course, right, but that would be

910
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 2: the thing, like if we would spend more time to.

911
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 3: I have to agree with you one hundred percent.

912
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be whatever anytime that we.

913
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 3: Get to spend together. And I even told you before

914
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 3: even coming on here, I'm like our outings that I

915
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 3: look forward to is like being with my friends because

916
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 3: one of the things that I don't think you realize

917
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 3: is that it's very healing from my healing process is

918
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 3: being around my friends. My two friends, you know, friendship

919
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 3: that there's never been drama between, a judgment between or judgment.

920
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: For me, it's like and you have.

921
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 3: A like friendship that there's never been drama. There's no

922
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 3: reason for drama, Like it's just been so pure and

923
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 3: so beautiful. So I would take time. But then I

924
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 3: also respect that you are a busy woman, and anytime

925
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 3: that we do have together I am so grateful for.

926
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it doesn't hurt my feelings, Like I'll be like, hey,

927
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: I want you to come to this.

928
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: If you're busy like that, I get it for sure,

929
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 1: But you give me stuff like advance, Yeah I do.

930
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, she's the first tie to tell.

931
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 3: But then again, it's like you have a like this

932
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 3: whole year, Like we're not even going on vacation for

933
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 3: your birthday this year now, which is I mean, I

934
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 3: didn't I didn't get to go last year. But that's

935
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 3: another privilege that we have had. Chuck Cheese, che I

936
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: want to see the mouse.

937
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: And I want no more. I don't want any kids.

938
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: It's just me and the no party, no happy birthday.

939
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 1: You see.

940
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 3: She loves the simplest things.

941
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, guys, so simplest.

942
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 3: But anytime that we do have with you is like,

943
00:42:57,960 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 3: not too long.

944
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: Ago, I had a question like that I needed to

945
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 2: ask her and I knew.

946
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: She was like, I'm about to go on stage at

947
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: the Billboard Awards. What's up? And I'm like, oh, never

948
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: mind you And she's like no, what what what do

949
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: you need? Like never makes me feel like I'm bothering her.

950
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: That such an important you know.

951
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you're abouts, like you just text me

952
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 2: later like and she's like no, no, no, tell me what

953
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,720
Speaker 2: do you need? And I'm like I told her whatever

954
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: it was. And she's like, okay, it's all taken care of,

955
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 2: like blah blah blah.

956
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh my.

957
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:26,320
Speaker 3: God, it's okay.

958
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: I'll talk about you go on stage and I'm just like,

959
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: oh my god, Like that's why, that's that's you guys

960
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: are even.

961
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,720
Speaker 3: Like before you're getting ready to like she's like in Miami,

962
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,319
Speaker 3: like doing these awards, and like you'll text and like,

963
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 3: how are you? And I'm like dream makeup and I'm like.

964
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're worrying about me and You're like, no,

965
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,919
Speaker 1: exactly what And that's you. Yeah.

966
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, we love you for that.

967
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you and and we're going to spend

968
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: more time together. You guys. This year is going to

969
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 1: be work, work, work, work, work.

970
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 3: And I know that a baby, transition work, It's just

971
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 3: a lot, a lot of a lot of things.

972
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: And then a baby. I'm ready to go into that

973
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: next phase of my life. And I'm so excited exactly absolutely,

974
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: and I'm so happy and so grateful for each each

975
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 1: of you and even my friends that aren't aren't here,

976
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 1: that we love to that we love and then have

977
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: created and we are get this like safety, safe haven

978
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 1: that we have. Thank you, and I think we should

979
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:27,720
Speaker 1: take this last shot everyone. Thank you for watching Cheeky's

980
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 1: and Chill. I love you, guys, friends, I love you guys.

981
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: I love you to all my friends and family, the

982
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: only ones that I love. Amen. This is a production

983
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: of iHeart Radio and mikea Podcast Network. Follow us on

984
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: Instagram at mike wa Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's

985
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