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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, we had so much business to discuss,

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Speaker 1: and now it's time for the gardner of this episode

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Speaker 1: for the content, and I'm so excited. This episode has

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Speaker 1: been a long time coming. We have been talking about

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Speaker 1: this episode. We have been plotting on this episode, gathering evidence,

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Speaker 1: like really planning it out because there's so much to say.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So today we are going to be

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Speaker 1: discussing simps and reply guys. If you don't know what

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Speaker 1: a reply guy is, they are the person, the man

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Speaker 1: that is always in your d M s, applying to

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Speaker 1: every single story and every single tweet, no matter what

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Speaker 1: it is. Let them not be mistaken with creepy men

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Speaker 1: that are sending things because they're thirsting over you. Um,

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Speaker 1: there's no unsolicited dick picks involved, Like, let it be known.

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Speaker 1: The reply guys are kind of like the nice guys,

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Speaker 1: kind of because there's zero expectation of anything. They're not

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Speaker 1: expecting to take you out, they're not expecting you to

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Speaker 1: send them a nude or anything. They're just there in

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Speaker 1: the d M s applauding whatever move you make. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's interesting because we're gonna get into the intricacies

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Speaker 1: of these two labels, the categories that overlap. There even

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Speaker 1: diagrams involved here. So that's generally speaking, a strict pure

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Speaker 1: reply guy is literally replying to everything, but a sim

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Speaker 1: right is someone who any of any gender or honestly,

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Speaker 1: because anybody can simp over anybody, Like truly, I'm definitely

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Speaker 1: a simp for like Rihanna Beyonce, Like the list goes

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Speaker 1: on and on, you know, so as simple as somebody

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Speaker 1: I would say, almost goddesslike in the simps Eyes on

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Speaker 1: a pedestal. The simp is somebody who's putting the object

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Speaker 1: body based on you know, like how they feel about

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Speaker 1: extremely poetic. Sometimes it can be a little much. I

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Speaker 1: have had to block simps before because there's a there's

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Speaker 1: a line for me, especially with the married ones. This

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Speaker 1: So that's like a strict SIMP. And I would say

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Speaker 1: actively thinking about, like, what is a gender neutral term

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Speaker 1: that are in the d ms that are always hyping

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Speaker 1: you up, right, Because we have those two and we

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Speaker 1: love them, we respect them, we thank them. So if

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Speaker 1: that's you, thank you. And I think too, there are

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Speaker 1: some reply people, reply guys, reply people simps in general.

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Speaker 1: there are reply people and simps who are in the

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Speaker 1: comments or who are you know tweeting at you? Okay, wait, okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: tell me Bosa the man who tweets at you and

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Speaker 1: says the man that tweets at says, I am obsessed

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Speaker 1: with you, like when you're holding tools every time, every

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Speaker 1: time I have I didn't even put this in my

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Speaker 1: in my notes for today. This is so true. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So there's this man that's in my comments like on

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Speaker 1: Instagram because I've been posting since you know, quarantine started,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a professional, and so I like post little

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Speaker 1: videos with me like hammering shit of building things. Right,

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Speaker 1: fix your sink? And then I started tracking his comments

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Speaker 1: me because I said, I literally just tweeted I'm obsessed

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Speaker 1: the he and he's public like he never I don't

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Speaker 1: he he's like, he's publicly commenting that he wants to

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Speaker 1: see me holding tools. Isn't that interesting? Because I feel

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Speaker 1: like there are some who like they'll do public and

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Speaker 1: The psychology of the reply guys, and it's a spectrum

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Speaker 1: of reply guy and simple reply people and SIMP. Like

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Speaker 1: the psychology behind it is truly fascinating because one of

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Speaker 1: ourselves is like, what some of these like simps who

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Speaker 1: have been following us for years, like for years some

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Speaker 1: of them, some of them I've talked about before, Like

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Speaker 1: you know, if you've been listening for the If you've

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Speaker 1: been listening since the beginning, you know that I've talked

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Speaker 1: about my nail sponsor. If you're a real one, you

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Speaker 1: know Mala has had an ongoing nail sponsor. Yes, And

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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna and this is like basically with the

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Speaker 1: ongoing permission of this particular individual. I do talk about

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Speaker 1: but he sort of lives for it, and it's part

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Speaker 1: conversed with him, and I actually I'm going to read

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Speaker 1: to you guys some of his language, like describing why

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Speaker 1: it is that he simms so hard and for so long.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna dedicated simp and we love to see it, honestly.

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Speaker 1: But so this guy nail sponsor, I would call him.

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Speaker 1: He's a SIMP and reply guy combo. He's public mostly

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Speaker 1: while he was my nail sponsor. He was sending me

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Speaker 1: money like every few weeks and it was super cute.

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Speaker 1: He's like sent me money for bading suits and things.

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Speaker 1: And I basically was like going back and forth with him.

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Speaker 1: After I commented, I posted something about simple content about

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Speaker 1: how there's like women who will get mad at me

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Speaker 1: a daily basis, probably when he's sitting next to you

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Speaker 1: and he's on his phone. He's likely DMan, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, but why are you mad at

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Speaker 1: me when he's one of many? Like we're about to

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, most notable sims I have.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, so based on so I post about that

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Speaker 1: and honestly speaking, it's very humbling and our real sense

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Speaker 1: It means a lot to have been a public nail sponsor,

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Speaker 1: included vaguely in your podcast, to be a source of

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Speaker 1: the knowledge that we've never met and there's never been

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Speaker 1: a relationship. There's never been a hook up, there's never

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Speaker 1: there's something like pure dare I say about these Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: the apocalypse. It's the only way I'm going to survive.

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Speaker 1: So this is like a very um pristine model of

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Speaker 1: the simp slash for reply guy, the pandemic Crosby. He

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Speaker 1: wants you to know, he wants me to know that

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Speaker 1: he's useful and that he is really focused on my

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Speaker 1: survival and well being. And for me, if you're gonna

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Speaker 1: be camped out in a woman's dems, provide some value

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Speaker 1: give her, Like why are you there? What is your purpose?

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Speaker 1: What is your reason? If you're gonna simp, what are

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Speaker 1: you offering? Because I think that's one of the keys, Like,

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Speaker 1: you can't just be a simple just for the sake

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Speaker 1: of being a simple. What do you have to offer?

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Speaker 1: This is what we need to know. Damn yes, pandemic puppy.

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Speaker 1: He has been making himself useful. He knows, he knows

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Speaker 1: what he's doing. He knows, he knows. Oh oh, and

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Speaker 1: let's say this to let's talk about this too. You

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Speaker 1: can at one point be a notable simp, but you

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Speaker 1: can get knocked off the totem poll very easily, get

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Speaker 1: knocked off the rocks. So you can get bumped. It's

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Speaker 1: not that's a thing too, and that has happened to some.

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Speaker 1: There are some simps who have definitely been bumped as

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Speaker 1: of recently. Why did they? Why did they get bumped?

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Speaker 1: You know exactly who I'm talking about. Ummm, give me

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Speaker 1: a hint. I'm gonna say another one that there's years

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Speaker 1: in the game and monetary support. Yes, yes, yes, but

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Speaker 1: no longer a notable Sam. Yeah, so he gets he's

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Speaker 1: at the end of the line. Basically, he doesn't even

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Speaker 1: get an honorable mention anymore. God. And this is the thing,

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Speaker 1: there is a bit of competitiveness to this because my form,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to read you another another d M, another

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Speaker 1: and so he says, of the simple army, we are

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Speaker 1: a legion, the local SIMP legion. I'm trying not to

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Speaker 1: be competitive and claim best supporting fan from the problematic

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Speaker 1: male side right of our listenership, because we do have

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Speaker 1: some men who listen and who follow right, And this

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Speaker 1: is where the simps are coming from. So there's competition, people,

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Speaker 1: there's competition, and they're all buying for the top spot.

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Speaker 1: So if you're not looking up, you can get bumped

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Speaker 1: at any moment, and you're not even worth mentioning at

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Speaker 1: that point, you know what I mean. So these are

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Speaker 1: things important to keep in mind if you want to

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Speaker 1: sim yes, agreed. What for me, what I do is

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Speaker 1: because I'm you know, in a relationship, so there's a

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't be responding to these dudes, like

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Speaker 1: I just can't. That's just not I know. So for

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Speaker 1: me what helps is I'm like, thanks so much, here's

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Speaker 1: the project. Here's look at that our radio. Direct all

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Speaker 1: want to send money, send it to the podcast. You

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Speaker 1: know I don't need it for me. You can send

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Speaker 1: it that way to the project and we can both

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Speaker 1: reef the benefits. Right. And so if you're in a

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Speaker 1: relationship and you have your reply guys and you're launching

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Speaker 1: your business, that's that's what you do. And ultimately that's

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Speaker 1: the best way to simple support her dreams, support her dreams. Yes, yes, simple,

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Speaker 1: that's it, period, very simple. So once again, hit the

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Speaker 1: you know you just they gotta you gotta redirect that

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Speaker 1: sending donations, you know, all of that. So we see

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Speaker 1: to see it. We do love to see it. So

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Speaker 1: keep the love coming. We are open and receptive and

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Speaker 1: we want all of it. And you can always leave

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Speaker 1: That's the way to show us love. If you're one

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