WEBVTT - You've Got Decisions: BF Prostate 0:00:01.710 --> 0:00:04.340 If you would like to have us answer your questions, 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:07.960 if you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or 0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:10.310 a terrible throuple, guess what? 0:00:11.330 --> 0:00:14.470 You've got decisions. You've got decisions. 0:00:15.190 --> 0:00:16.550 And I do too. 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:20.660 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of You Got Decisions. 0:00:21.860 --> 0:00:22.700 Before we get. 0:00:22.579 --> 0:00:25.480 Started, October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and a good 0:00:25.500 --> 0:00:27.460 reminder to learn your risk and talk with a healthcare 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:31.360 provider about when breast cancer screening, including mammograms, is right 0:00:31.540 --> 0:00:35.500 for you. Early detection can save your life and can 0:00:35.540 --> 0:00:38.000 make breast cancer easier to treat. So for trusted screening 0:00:38.040 --> 0:00:41.740 information and resources, visit TheAmericanCancer.com. 0:00:42.659 --> 0:00:47.260 Society. And speaking of cancer, baby, we talking about prostates today. 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.220 Oh, I was going to say just a little thing 0:00:50.260 --> 0:00:52.240 in case y'all are not ready for a mammogram. Cause 0:00:52.409 --> 0:00:54.650 I'd be scared of them. And literally my mom who 0:00:54.730 --> 0:00:57.530 is 75 years old, she was 74. She said, she's 0:00:57.550 --> 0:01:01.030 tired of me saying she's 75. Um, she was like 0:01:01.330 --> 0:01:03.029 terrified to get her mammogram the other day. 0:01:03.690 --> 0:01:06.170 She's like, really? I don't want to go in there. 0:01:06.730 --> 0:01:08.440 And I was like, why are you acting like this? 0:01:08.700 --> 0:01:12.060 And she was like, oh, it's uncomfortable. And then what 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:13.980 if I have it? And I was like, mom, this 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:17.560 is actually crazy coming from somebody who's grown. But I 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:23.480 just had like an annual, not like a regular STI test. 0:01:23.940 --> 0:01:27.080 But yeah, in my wellness exam, it was great because 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:31.069 although she felt me up, she still asked questions about 0:01:31.150 --> 0:01:33.750 have I ever felt something and did her checklist of 0:01:33.770 --> 0:01:35.290 those questions to see if it should be further. 0:01:35.310 --> 0:01:39.670 So yeah, And do it by yourself, too. Raise your arm. Yep. 0:01:40.069 --> 0:01:42.750 See if you feel something. Do it by yourself. 0:01:42.810 --> 0:01:44.470 And if you feel something and they try to tell 0:01:44.510 --> 0:01:46.250 you it ain't nothing to them, make sure you get 0:01:46.290 --> 0:01:47.130 that second opinion. 0:01:47.150 --> 0:01:47.650 Okay? 0:01:48.210 --> 0:01:52.490 Now, the conversation around prostate is not prostate cancer, but 0:01:52.530 --> 0:01:56.130 instead it's pretty much about milking a man. So, if 0:01:56.170 --> 0:02:02.950 you have a question regarding your dating life, your love life, 0:02:03.310 --> 0:02:08.900 your sex life, send it over to decisionspod at gmail.com. Now, Weezy, 0:02:09.380 --> 0:02:12.340 the one this week reads, hell, I don't know what 0:02:12.380 --> 0:02:14.060 to do with my boyfriend's prostate. 0:02:14.780 --> 0:02:15.200 Okay. 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:18.079 Well, a lot of people don't. Mind you. 0:02:19.410 --> 0:02:20.230 She knows I. 0:02:20.210 --> 0:02:22.430 Can have some advice, but she's really like, I also 0:02:22.450 --> 0:02:24.169 want Wheezy's because Wheezy be lying about. 0:02:24.030 --> 0:02:25.149 Getting in the mood. 0:02:25.210 --> 0:02:28.010 No, she said, I want Wheezy's too. She did. 0:02:28.110 --> 0:02:29.270 I'm going to read it to you at the end. 0:02:29.290 --> 0:02:30.150 She literally say. 0:02:30.310 --> 0:02:32.570 She said, Mandy thinks you the queen of the booty hole. 0:02:34.180 --> 0:02:36.980 But I want you too. So here we go. Hi, 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:37.740 Mandy and Wheezy. 0:02:37.780 --> 0:02:40.580 I'm a longtime listener and lover of the pod. Thank 0:02:40.620 --> 0:02:45.060 you so much for making my Mondays and Wednesdays infinitely better. 0:02:45.820 --> 0:02:46.320 The deets. 0:02:47.530 --> 0:02:49.850 My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two 0:02:49.889 --> 0:02:52.850 years coming up in November. And ever since the first 0:02:52.910 --> 0:02:56.730 night that I sucked his dick, I vividly remember him lifting. 0:02:56.490 --> 0:02:58.400 Up his legs as I did so. 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:00.260 At the time, I had. 0:03:00.300 --> 0:03:04.380 Never done anal play at all on myself or a partner. 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:06.700 So I just kept sucking his dick and playing with 0:03:06.740 --> 0:03:07.380 his balls. 0:03:07.180 --> 0:03:08.100 And kept it pushing. 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:10.959 During the most recent year that we've been together, I 0:03:11.530 --> 0:03:16.010 placed an index finger in his anus twice now. The 0:03:16.030 --> 0:03:19.070 first time, I didn't use enough lube or spit, so 0:03:19.090 --> 0:03:21.790 I didn't keep my finger in there long, although it 0:03:22.230 --> 0:03:25.400 was clearly pleasurable until it dried up. The second time, 0:03:25.810 --> 0:03:28.820 I learned my lesson and used hella coconut oil and spit, 0:03:29.260 --> 0:03:31.260 and I ended up jacking him off while fingering his 0:03:31.300 --> 0:03:33.660 prostate for maybe 20 plus minutes. 0:03:34.410 --> 0:03:38.240 Both times were a surprise. so he didn't prep. And 0:03:38.260 --> 0:03:40.380 I don't know if he knows how to prep at all. 0:03:40.900 --> 0:03:43.250 When I used my finger the second time towards the end, 0:03:43.620 --> 0:03:46.830 I distinctly remember feeling my finger rub up against a 0:03:46.890 --> 0:03:50.370 squishy substance while I was inside him and it grossed 0:03:50.430 --> 0:03:53.910 me out so much. I have a strong feeling that 0:03:53.930 --> 0:03:58.090 it was a baby piece of shit. Practically, every time 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.160 that I suck his dick, this man lifts up his 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.740 legs and I'm starting to feel like I'm neglecting an 0:04:02.780 --> 0:04:04.780 important part of his sexual experience. 0:04:05.100 --> 0:04:07.080 But, I can't get over what. 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:10.380 That squishy substance felt like last time. I've never spoken 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:12.460 to him about being grossed out and I'm open to 0:04:12.500 --> 0:04:15.060 trying things again. I just don't know where to start. 0:04:15.500 --> 0:04:17.840 This might be a question for Peg and Markle, but 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:19.250 I'd love to hear Weezy's. 0:04:18.990 --> 0:04:20.150 Opinion as well. 0:04:20.670 --> 0:04:23.849 What are some ways that I can incorporate anal prostate 0:04:23.890 --> 0:04:26.810 play in the bedroom without getting grossed out and staying 0:04:26.830 --> 0:04:27.270 in the moment? 0:04:27.930 --> 0:04:30.690 And then she did attach a couple of pictures. Very 0:04:30.710 --> 0:04:32.859 cute girl. If you want to head into the email, 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:33.180 but yeah. 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:35.060 Okay. 0:04:36.650 --> 0:04:37.950 Peg and Mark are going to start here. 0:04:40.450 --> 0:04:40.910 Thank you. 0:04:41.670 --> 0:04:43.849 First off, baby girl. 0:04:44.740 --> 0:04:49.480 What you're doing is human on human interaction. It ain't bestiality. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.080 You ain't fucking with an alien. So as long as 0:04:52.100 --> 0:04:54.860 you know you shit out your ass, I need you 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:59.930 to be normalized with the functions, the secretions, the fluids 0:05:00.730 --> 0:05:06.980 that leave a human's body, first and foremost. It's just inevitable, okay? 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:10.130 That is the shitter. So things come out of it. 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.630 And you might be up a little deep into it. 0:05:12.670 --> 0:05:13.130 There's that. 0:05:13.230 --> 0:05:17.690 Now, my advice for if you are kind of not 0:05:18.010 --> 0:05:21.770 wanting to feel that anymore, I have two bits of advice. 0:05:22.110 --> 0:05:25.730 So the first one would be, and maybe because. 0:05:25.810 --> 0:05:32.240 Guys, y'all know my porn categories just take me to places. 0:05:32.900 --> 0:05:37.000 And I've ended up in the black latex glove category 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:37.930 quite often lately. 0:05:38.460 --> 0:05:40.250 So it's where you lose. 0:05:40.270 --> 0:05:41.710 Oh my God. 0:05:42.170 --> 0:05:45.070 It just be, it is all hand jobs, but with 0:05:45.110 --> 0:05:47.790 black latex gloves, I don't, I don't know. 0:05:48.330 --> 0:05:50.089 So I would say if it's. 0:05:49.890 --> 0:05:52.770 Like you feeling it, you can literally get them at 0:05:52.810 --> 0:05:54.669 the sex shop. You could probably get them even at 0:05:54.710 --> 0:05:56.860 a hair store, but it's black latex gloves. 0:05:56.890 --> 0:05:58.880 You could put all of the lube on it. It 0:05:58.980 --> 0:05:59.880 keeps it more too. 0:05:59.980 --> 0:06:04.440 Cause our pores are, soak in a lot of these 0:06:04.820 --> 0:06:07.220 lubricants and things like that. So I would say get 0:06:07.260 --> 0:06:09.860 a latex black glove. That would be my first suggestion. 0:06:10.460 --> 0:06:13.860 Second one is going to the sex store. And there are, 0:06:14.220 --> 0:06:16.000 there's many anal. 0:06:18.170 --> 0:06:19.010 Little dildos. 0:06:19.190 --> 0:06:23.029 There's prostate pokers and things like that. There's things that 0:06:23.070 --> 0:06:25.490 literally are made for the prostate to be inserted for 0:06:25.510 --> 0:06:28.770 you to milk him without you having to actually insert 0:06:28.890 --> 0:06:29.650 anything into him. 0:06:29.910 --> 0:06:31.900 Also, Depending on. 0:06:31.860 --> 0:06:36.100 How hella straight he is, a lot of those prostate tools, too, 0:06:36.420 --> 0:06:39.589 don't look like dicks. So you don't have to worry about, like, 0:06:39.610 --> 0:06:42.510 it's not a real dick conversation. Like, just getting things 0:06:42.529 --> 0:06:44.490 that you know will pleasure him. Those would be my 0:06:44.529 --> 0:06:46.390 two kind of tips out the gate. 0:06:46.410 --> 0:06:47.190 What about you, Weezy? 0:06:49.770 --> 0:06:50.680 I want to. 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:54.960 First of all, I think they're Nigerian from the photos 0:06:54.980 --> 0:06:55.460 they sent. 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:59.080 Oh, okay. You know? So I was like. 0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:02.770 That don't mean the boyfriend is. Well, he was wearing 0:07:02.810 --> 0:07:04.570 the headscarf with her, so like the. 0:07:04.589 --> 0:07:06.110 Okay, okay, okay. 0:07:06.130 --> 0:07:07.210 So maybe, maybe, maybe not. 0:07:07.589 --> 0:07:09.250 But one of the things I was thinking of myself 0:07:09.300 --> 0:07:12.640 was like, damn, bitch, if he is African and he 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:14.280 already trusts you to the point where he lifting his 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:15.040 leg up, bitch, you. 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:16.920 Gotta go in. You gotta do it again. 0:07:16.940 --> 0:07:21.520 Because you know it's hard for niggas to break down. Okay, 0:07:21.940 --> 0:07:22.440 my advice. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:27.050 Also, feeling something squishy inside of a rectum, it could 0:07:27.060 --> 0:07:28.970 have just been a rectum wall, girl. 0:07:29.750 --> 0:07:33.080 I was gonna say, the reason I would try again. 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:38.020 Feeling something squishy and you not pulling out shit. 0:07:39.180 --> 0:07:41.520 That's what I'm saying. If you even have a finger, 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.840 I've pulled out shit before. From a booty hole, from 0:07:43.860 --> 0:07:47.940 a man animal. Listen, listen. I've definitely tapped and took 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:50.100 my finger out and I was like, ew. 0:07:50.140 --> 0:07:53.100 I mean, from the gate sometimes too, bitch. Bitch, it's 0:07:53.140 --> 0:07:55.860 there from the gate. You ain't even got to dig 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:57.260 for it. From the gate. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:00.400 So, I remember... Oh, God. 0:08:01.530 --> 0:08:05.030 I fingered this one booty hole. And we was at, 0:08:05.070 --> 0:08:06.950 it was a dude. And we was at a hotel. 0:08:06.980 --> 0:08:11.340 And I told him, he was like, damn, that shit 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:12.740 was mad good. I was like, listen, you have to 0:08:12.800 --> 0:08:14.520 be prepared next time. He was like, what that mean? 0:08:15.260 --> 0:08:16.760 I was like, you know what the fuck I'm saying. 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:17.840 He's like, no, I don't. 0:08:18.460 --> 0:08:21.460 I lifted up the sheet to find the place because 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:22.720 I knew I wiped my hand. I was like, you 0:08:22.740 --> 0:08:23.080 see that? 0:08:24.100 --> 0:08:25.480 You did not do that. 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:26.850 Weezy, you did not do that. 0:08:26.870 --> 0:08:28.690 I'm a mama. 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.260 Because I didn't like how he was like, man, man, man, man. Plus, 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:33.380 I didn't know him like that, so I didn't care. 0:08:33.620 --> 0:08:35.120 That actually sounds crazy to say I didn't know him 0:08:35.140 --> 0:08:35.720 like that, but I did. 0:08:35.740 --> 0:08:36.440 Yeah, that's crazy. 0:08:36.460 --> 0:08:40.570 But you out here sticking your finger up his doodle shooter. 0:08:41.570 --> 0:08:42.790 What is sexist sex? 0:08:42.890 --> 0:08:46.650 But anyway, I say that to say, if he was 0:08:46.690 --> 0:08:51.040 my man, man, I definitely would have probably, like, you know, 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.340 said it's sweeter or not have, you know, tried. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:53.920 To be embarrassing. 0:08:53.980 --> 0:08:56.480 But for what you felt, it actually may not have 0:08:56.500 --> 0:08:58.679 been shit. And I'm saying this to you as someone 0:08:58.700 --> 0:08:59.780 who has touched poop. 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:02.059 Same. If you tap it. 0:09:02.100 --> 0:09:03.870 I don't even feel it. You're going to smell it 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:05.020 and it's just going to be on you. 0:09:05.470 --> 0:09:07.370 The second. Oh, that's actually a good one. 0:09:07.390 --> 0:09:10.370 The second you touch it, if it's touch, you come 0:09:10.410 --> 0:09:11.450 out and it's on your hand. 0:09:11.630 --> 0:09:15.920 It's on your fingernail. You're going to see it. 0:09:16.550 --> 0:09:20.890 That's what I'm saying, Maya. But. I think you actually 0:09:20.950 --> 0:09:22.130 just touched a little bit of tissue. 0:09:22.890 --> 0:09:26.300 If you've ever had your fingers inside of yourself or 0:09:26.340 --> 0:09:29.760 another woman or anything, like things can feel squishy and different. 0:09:30.260 --> 0:09:31.960 I do not. I know that it's. 0:09:31.900 --> 0:09:36.100 Weird and you probably psyched yourself out, but I would 0:09:36.140 --> 0:09:38.180 go back in, go back in with shorter nails. So 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:41.520 you're not anxious about hurting him too. Sometimes the nail 0:09:41.540 --> 0:09:43.420 thing can keep me from doing it. Cause I'm just like, 0:09:44.020 --> 0:09:46.070 I'm a little anxious about like scratching. 0:09:46.090 --> 0:09:47.190 Yeah. 0:09:48.230 --> 0:09:50.729 Get into the idea. And to be even more comfortable, 0:09:50.750 --> 0:09:54.460 I would tell him you're going to do it that 0:09:54.500 --> 0:09:56.300 night so that he could prepare and you could prepare. 0:09:56.340 --> 0:09:59.970 And here's why. One of my homegirls. 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:02.260 And I do this thing now this is definitely not 0:10:02.300 --> 0:10:06.150 related to sex where I'll hit her up it could 0:10:06.170 --> 0:10:07.330 be 7 in the morning and be like bitch I'm 0:10:07.350 --> 0:10:10.590 gonna take the 1230 trap house class oh y'all know 0:10:10.610 --> 0:10:12.790 Nandi Okay, so 9D should. 0:10:12.650 --> 0:10:14.370 Be like, I'm going to do 9.30. 0:10:14.370 --> 0:10:15.340 And then we'll follow up. 0:10:15.370 --> 0:10:15.970 I'm like, you went? 0:10:16.010 --> 0:10:16.290 You went? 0:10:16.330 --> 0:10:16.730 Yeah, I went. 0:10:16.929 --> 0:10:19.429 Okay. And it's this weird, no one's saying a thing 0:10:19.480 --> 0:10:21.000 of like, if I said I'm going to do it, 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:23.780 now I have to do it. So I say that 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.840 to say, bitch, you just going to listen to this 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:29.330 YGD and you're going to end up going back into 0:10:29.380 --> 0:10:32.130 regular life and be like, not this time. Not this time. 0:10:32.550 --> 0:10:33.110 Fuck no. 0:10:33.210 --> 0:10:36.420 Because the thing is, Once you get over the hump 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:38.980 of doing it, you're going to realize not only does 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:40.900 it bring him pleasure, but it can bring a lot 0:10:40.940 --> 0:10:44.730 of power to the woman that's giving someone this immersive pleasure. 0:10:45.150 --> 0:10:47.050 He may not have done it with someone else before, 0:10:47.309 --> 0:10:50.449 or you guys may be not. It's different sounds because 0:10:50.510 --> 0:10:51.090 it's vacant. 0:10:51.130 --> 0:10:52.550 Like, it's a big deal. 0:10:52.730 --> 0:10:59.150 And I think it's definitely something that can amplify the 0:10:59.170 --> 0:11:01.350 chemistry in a relationship because now you have this private 0:11:01.410 --> 0:11:04.570 secret thing that can be so taboo, but you did it. 0:11:05.820 --> 0:11:06.219 I agree. 0:11:12.530 --> 0:11:14.650 I want to give you some some tips on how 0:11:14.670 --> 0:11:21.089 to bring it up. Like, I mean, I'm also curious. 0:11:21.130 --> 0:11:21.589 You know what? 0:11:21.730 --> 0:11:25.980 Actually, you seem to be there seems to be. 0:11:25.890 --> 0:11:27.000 A lack of communication. 0:11:27.929 --> 0:11:30.410 You seem to only be assuming he wants his ass 0:11:30.429 --> 0:11:33.430 played with because he lifts it. I'm curious if the 0:11:33.500 --> 0:11:35.920 two times you've been in his ass this year. 0:11:35.940 --> 0:11:37.980 Oh, you think it might be the balls? 0:11:38.660 --> 0:11:42.740 No, no. I'm saying, like, is there conversation about. 0:11:42.460 --> 0:11:46.880 How he wants... to receive is it the finger have 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.579 you licked it yet like did you go it was. 0:11:49.620 --> 0:11:51.970 It's given that you went straight to putting a finger. 0:11:51.750 --> 0:11:54.430 In his ass like are you eating the ass there's 0:11:54.570 --> 0:11:56.770 other things that you could do without going inside of 0:11:56.870 --> 0:11:58.790 it and there's a there's a way that you could 0:11:58.809 --> 0:12:01.050 do it where you feel comfortable doing it right so 0:12:01.090 --> 0:12:04.150 you can both get it start in the shower One 0:12:04.190 --> 0:12:06.189 of the things that I love, especially if I'm coming 0:12:06.570 --> 0:12:08.630 from like being out and we know we're going to 0:12:08.670 --> 0:12:11.150 be filthy, is we get in the shower together and 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:14.820 we wash each other. And baby, I love, I let 0:12:14.840 --> 0:12:16.939 them know, I love going up and down that ass 0:12:16.980 --> 0:12:19.980 crack with a washcloth and I will wash your ass 0:12:20.059 --> 0:12:23.559 for you, baby, because the face will be inside, okay? 0:12:23.580 --> 0:12:24.640 Oh my God. 0:12:25.380 --> 0:12:27.700 This is reminding me, there's a 90 Day Fiance couple 0:12:27.720 --> 0:12:30.540 right now. He got a Filipino lady and they're in 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:33.830 their 50s. And he cheated on her. And she's in 0:12:33.850 --> 0:12:34.429 the interview like. 0:12:34.630 --> 0:12:36.109 Who else is going to wash his ass? 0:12:36.790 --> 0:12:39.390 I go up, down, crack ball. I get the ball. 0:12:39.809 --> 0:12:42.469 All of it. All of it. So do all of that. 0:12:42.550 --> 0:12:47.000 To me, your fear seems to be going back inside 0:12:47.030 --> 0:12:48.320 the Buddha hole. 0:12:48.340 --> 0:12:49.480 Like the cleanliness, maybe? 0:12:50.020 --> 0:12:52.100 No, it's not. I mean, she said she felt something 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:54.540 squishy and it grossed her out. But to me, if you. 0:12:55.929 --> 0:12:59.339 Take a shower together. You are responsible for going ahead 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:01.380 and wiping all that crack, that bootle hole. 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:05.170 If you just lick on the outside, you're not sticking 0:13:05.190 --> 0:13:06.990 your tongue inside the asshole. 0:13:07.350 --> 0:13:08.689 You just lick around it. 0:13:08.770 --> 0:13:13.270 So if you're scared to go inside, like the magic 0:13:13.290 --> 0:13:17.939 school bus, if you're scared to insert... your finger into 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:22.080 that prostate, I think that you can go the second 0:13:22.140 --> 0:13:24.660 route and just lick around it. And I think a 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:27.340 lot of men get quite a bit of the sensation 0:13:27.380 --> 0:13:30.500 of that happening as well. And, bitch, technically, if you 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:33.180 ain't do that yet, you open it up a couple 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:33.439 of levels. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:34.820 What you mean? 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.750 I'm actually trying to look up the gloves. 0:13:38.750 --> 0:13:41.050 I feel like Amazon has sex toys that you can 0:13:41.070 --> 0:13:42.890 find easily. Black gloves. 0:13:42.950 --> 0:13:44.470 Black latex. Black latex. 0:13:45.730 --> 0:13:48.150 Because I know the gloves that you're talking about. 0:13:48.510 --> 0:13:49.329 But for sex. 0:13:50.809 --> 0:13:53.309 Okay, I'm not going to lie. 0:13:53.370 --> 0:13:54.090 Okay, here they go. 0:13:54.110 --> 0:13:57.390 Black latex glove for intimate play and safer sex. 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:58.600 Oh, I see it. I see it. 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.600 You might have to just type in, but type in 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:05.960 for play. Let me see if there's a... That's what 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:07.020 I typed in, but it's not working. 0:14:07.059 --> 0:14:14.700 Hold on. Latex play glove adult. That's the sex word. No, 0:14:14.740 --> 0:14:15.569 now it's costumey. 0:14:15.990 --> 0:14:18.829 Basically, what Mandy's talking about, if you go to a 0:14:18.950 --> 0:14:20.990 sex store, but I mean, I just feel like Amazon 0:14:21.030 --> 0:14:23.210 is sometimes easier, even though he's a piece of shit. 0:14:23.410 --> 0:14:25.170 They actually could have... Oh, I found it, found it, 0:14:25.170 --> 0:14:25.430 found it. 0:14:25.850 --> 0:14:26.090 Okay. 0:14:26.390 --> 0:14:27.230 Massage gloves. 0:14:28.730 --> 0:14:32.310 There we go. Quote, unquote, massage that pussy or that butthole. 0:14:32.330 --> 0:14:33.170 That's what I typed in. 0:14:33.250 --> 0:14:37.880 I typed in latex play adult massage gloves. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.420 Okay. By the way, I want to add to this. 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:42.900 I do want to add to this. 0:14:43.500 --> 0:14:47.620 Just like with condoms, you want to use a silicone 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:52.210 or water-based lube because an oil-based lube will weaken the 0:14:52.250 --> 0:14:54.590 latex and then it might break. And now he got 0:14:54.630 --> 0:14:56.650 latex in his boot hole that he got to shit out. 0:14:57.090 --> 0:14:59.750 So silicone or water-based lube? 0:15:00.610 --> 0:15:00.850 Okay. 0:15:00.890 --> 0:15:04.090 So the gloves, just to describe them for everyone who 0:15:04.290 --> 0:15:04.930 is listening. 0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:05.030 Okay. 0:15:05.620 --> 0:15:07.680 If you're looking at this glove, it's almost like you're 0:15:07.700 --> 0:15:10.780 looking at something that has little ridges on it. Some 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.900 of them have spikes. Obviously, you don't want to spike 0:15:12.940 --> 0:15:15.200 the nickel. Some of them are little pointy. Some of 0:15:15.220 --> 0:15:17.410 them are bumpy. But for the most part, all of 0:15:17.470 --> 0:15:20.410 them have some kind of texture that would make the 0:15:20.450 --> 0:15:23.190 massage more increased. So almost like a woman that has 0:15:23.250 --> 0:15:26.350 a vibrator or a dildo that's got something on it 0:15:26.390 --> 0:15:27.910 that just makes it more intense. 0:15:28.390 --> 0:15:33.000 And each finger... kind of has a different feeling, which makes. 0:15:32.840 --> 0:15:37.020 It even more fun. Girl, I just be watching the 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:37.920 porn videos. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:39.680 You don't want to found some extra. 0:15:40.220 --> 0:15:42.280 No, I actually, I know this glove. 0:15:42.850 --> 0:15:44.750 Let me see. I don't know. Drop it in the chat. 0:15:44.850 --> 0:15:47.310 I don't think I've seen the glove that you're talking about. 0:15:47.330 --> 0:15:48.020 Let me text it. 0:15:48.090 --> 0:15:50.270 I don't know. I might need to order this shit 0:15:50.290 --> 0:15:51.050 for myself. 0:15:51.510 --> 0:15:54.250 I think I got it in like a kid. 0:15:53.590 --> 0:15:56.090 Gloves that maybe you would see. 0:15:57.210 --> 0:15:59.550 Oh, no, that's not what I was... When you said 0:15:59.590 --> 0:16:01.870 black glove, I thought you was talking about this glove, nigga. 0:16:01.890 --> 0:16:05.170 Girl, I was talking about regular latex black gloves. Let 0:16:05.190 --> 0:16:06.490 me see what the fuck you talking about. 0:16:06.510 --> 0:16:11.330 I just said this. Oh, my God. Okay, this is like. 0:16:12.030 --> 0:16:13.840 Not the spiked one. Look at the regular black one. 0:16:13.850 --> 0:16:17.390 I'm not gonna lie, this is leading into BDSM, bro. Like, whoa. Wait, 0:16:17.410 --> 0:16:22.229 look at the black one, not the white one. Basically, guys, Wheezy... 0:16:21.870 --> 0:16:23.729 Hold on, I'm about to... For those of you watching 0:16:23.950 --> 0:16:24.630 on Patreon. 0:16:25.530 --> 0:16:29.609 This is the glove that Wheezy is talking about. And 0:16:30.070 --> 0:16:33.070 it's pretty much giving a different dildo on each fucking finger. 0:16:33.130 --> 0:16:35.890 Okay, but wait, can I explain? My thought process on this? 0:16:36.410 --> 0:16:38.030 If you scared to put your finger in a nigga 0:16:38.050 --> 0:16:39.740 booty hole because you scared he gonna shit on it, 0:16:39.910 --> 0:16:42.640 this is your way to be like, ooh. 0:16:42.860 --> 0:16:45.600 The only thing is, Wheezy, there's only been five reviews 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:47.460 and it's rated a 2.2. 0:16:47.460 --> 0:16:49.180 So I don't know the quality of these things. 0:16:50.330 --> 0:16:52.030 Well, go get a good one from the sex store. 0:16:52.070 --> 0:16:53.570 But that's what I'm saying. That's what it looks like. 0:16:53.610 --> 0:16:54.690 I was talking about. 0:16:54.710 --> 0:16:55.710 So small and so. 0:16:58.050 --> 0:17:00.000 I was just talking about disposable latex gloves. 0:17:00.030 --> 0:17:00.960 No, I know what you meant, bitch. 0:17:00.980 --> 0:17:03.120 The shit you could dye your hair with when the 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:03.920 hairdressers wear. 0:17:04.940 --> 0:17:05.340 Oh, okay. 0:17:05.359 --> 0:17:07.680 It says it's just small for large hands. Okay, she'll 0:17:07.700 --> 0:17:09.040 be fine. That's why I got bad reviews. 0:17:10.260 --> 0:17:14.140 The gays was trying to use it. And the gloves 0:17:14.180 --> 0:17:16.209 are for women. Women's size hands. 0:17:16.670 --> 0:17:17.330 Shout out to women. 0:17:17.350 --> 0:17:19.489 They said, you want to put your hand in that ass? 0:17:19.690 --> 0:17:22.690 It's $ 9. 0:17:20.530 --> 0:17:21.609 99. 0:17:21.609 --> 0:17:25.689 Anyway, speaking of $ 9. 99, it's only another $ 5 more from 0:17:25.730 --> 0:17:30.540 that to see video every single week on Horrible Decisions Patreon. Additionally, 0:17:30.600 --> 0:17:34.440 we've been uploading vlogs. Mandy, not even joking with you. 0:17:34.740 --> 0:17:37.439 So Vinny came in town. He's taking some time off 0:17:37.460 --> 0:17:40.050 from work. Just to hang out with friends and family. 0:17:40.070 --> 0:17:42.330 So I was like, you know what? Let's do a 0:17:42.350 --> 0:17:43.530 vlog for Horrible Decisions. 0:17:44.050 --> 0:17:46.669 So we decide to try all of the pizzas that 0:17:46.690 --> 0:17:47.910