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Speaker 1: To The Black Guy Who Tips podcast. I listen because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot. Hey, welcome to another episode

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Speaker 1: of The Black Guy to His podcast. I am your

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Speaker 1: host Rod, joined always by my co host, and we

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Speaker 1: are live on Saturday morning, early in the morning. Ready

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Speaker 1: to do some podcasts and find us wherever you get podcasts.

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Speaker 1: The official weapon of the show is and the unofficial

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Speaker 1: Sport and bullet Ball extream Extreme Extreme Feedback Show is

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Speaker 1: where you guys write in about the things that we

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Speaker 1: said throughout the week and we respond to it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we let you know how we feel about it, y'all

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Speaker 1: to let us know how you feel. And it's a

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Speaker 1: reciprocal situation over here. I also want to say of

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Speaker 1: just as you know Housekeeping, we have a live show

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Speaker 1: coming up in person at the Bloominghal Center for in

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Speaker 1: Arts in Charlotte, North Carolina. You can get tickets right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm putting the show. I will put it in the

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Speaker 1: show notes, I'll put the link in the chat. It's

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Speaker 1: twenty dollars and you got live tickets, you got online tickets,

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Speaker 1: hoping that as many people can come out in person.

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Speaker 2: I'm like like, like, not ty'all funny, y'all. The night

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Speaker 1: I just feel like they said, look, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: tickets online, that also helps us. Any ticket sales helps us.

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Speaker 1: So if you can't make any person you want to

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Speaker 1: we'll still be able to like upload the video somewhere

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Speaker 1: to fifty, and that's huge for an independent podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: as ourselves. Many people will tell you they have to

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Speaker 1: on the back end. So we would like for people

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Speaker 1: We don't mind. We don't mind. So you know, we

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Speaker 1: really just hopeful that y'all come out and support so

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Speaker 1: we're looking for it. It's gonna be a good time.

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Speaker 1: We're our prizes and giveaways. We always have such a

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Speaker 2: they're like, well, hey, we're doing this festival. We want

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Speaker 2: we're really looking forward to it. And like Rogerck said,

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Speaker 2: but those of you that's like I can't make it,

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Speaker 2: virtual tickets, buy the in person tickets, and like Rodger said,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna used to do all those type of microaggressions.

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Speaker 2: Consistently talk about my weight, consistently talk about my hair,

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Speaker 2: I ain't get fuck about hair, I ain't get fuck

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Speaker 1: They were my mama.

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Speaker 2: The hardest shit you can do is tell somebody you

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Speaker 1: That's not always true, that's not always true. Anything, any habit,

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Speaker 1: anything that you truly really want to change. You will

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Speaker 1: change if you have the desire to. Tanya's w forty

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Speaker 1: two says the new Instagram segment is great. The first

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Speaker 1: day that the fried chicken joint with a vegan had

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Speaker 1: me Roland. I recently tried a new Mediterranean restaurant called

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Speaker 1: Daggon that was highly recommended by a friend, which was excellent.

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Speaker 1: He had a meal there with his family and one

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Speaker 1: of them was vegan. She dug into their rows beat

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Speaker 1: me misai. I don't know, that's very famous, very popular.

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Speaker 1: I don't have the money to know how to pronounce that.

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Speaker 1: But the problem was it also had beef tongue in it,

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Speaker 1: apparently some shouting hilarity, and so yeah, that is the

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Speaker 1: thing for me. I won't even lie. Like if I

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Speaker 1: go somewhere for like some ethnic food that is off

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Speaker 1: the beaten path and it's like authentic, authentic, I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna front I like weird shit, Like, let's try the

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Speaker 1: beef tongue just so I can see what it's like,

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Speaker 1: and I probably will feel a little weirder and grossed out.

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Speaker 1: I remember we had a place here that's closed now,

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Speaker 1: the Burrito factory, and one day he this dude, he

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Speaker 1: just when we came in sometimes. I don't know why,

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Speaker 1: but he just really liked us, and so he would

452
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Speaker 1: always try to sell us other things on the menu,

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Speaker 1: and it was you could tell, these are the things

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Speaker 1: that like Mexican people ordered that that actually from Mexico

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Speaker 1: that don't speak English and shit right, And so one

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Speaker 1: time he gave us some soup and it was like

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Speaker 1: it was something like it was weird tripe or something

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Speaker 1: in it. And I'm not a big tripe person. I

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Speaker 1: ain't grow up eating tripe or whatever. I think tripe

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Speaker 1: is like beef stomach or something. Let me let me

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Speaker 1: look up the definition because I remember looking it up

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Speaker 1: at the time, but I don't know much about trite.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the stomach of a cow. Yeah, okay. So

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Speaker 1: I was right, and it was a soup with tripe

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Speaker 1: in it, and it was very spicy and like I

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Speaker 1: felt like almost tomato based or something, and uh, I

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Speaker 1: didn't like it that much because of the texture, but

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Speaker 1: I definitely wanted to try it because I was like,

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Speaker 1: fuck it, man, I ain't never had this shit before.

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Speaker 1: He gave us a bowl to take home, and I

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Speaker 1: ate as much as I could and thank him. So

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Speaker 1: I'm if it would have had beef tong get it,

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Speaker 1: I would I would have probably tried it even if

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Speaker 1: I didn't like it, just to be like, all right, cool,

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Speaker 1: and now I know what the authentic version of this

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Speaker 1: dish tastes like.

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Speaker 2: Correct, you know, because you know, we go out periodically

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Speaker 2: depending on where it is, Like we've done like frog legs,

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Speaker 2: like just just that kind of off the wall stuff

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Speaker 2: sometimes because I'm like you, I just want to see what.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't always like it. A lot of times

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Speaker 1: we tried sea urching ones and the worst fucking mall

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Speaker 1: I ever had in my life, and it costs way

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Speaker 1: too fucking much. Hearing ordered the ship because it was

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Speaker 1: the most expensive thing on the menu. And that's what

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Speaker 1: she does. Don't let all this honey baby bulls shit

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Speaker 1: for y'all. She likes to go out and be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a forty five dollars adveretizer us. Why don't we

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Speaker 1: try that? And that's what the sea urchin was, and

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Speaker 1: it honestly was disgusting to me. Is I can't believe

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Speaker 1: people want to eat that shit. But I tried it.

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Speaker 1: I know what it tastes like. Now I'll probably never

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Speaker 1: have it again. But I'm glad you know, particularly not

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Speaker 1: serve like that. Back to the comments, Pamela inmate says,

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Speaker 1: regarding the Paul question, called a new segment. Doing it

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Speaker 1: for the Graham good way to get more engagement and

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Speaker 1: hopefully extend your reach. Enjoy your week, Pamela, Okay, doing

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Speaker 1: it for the Gramma write that down. It's an idea.

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Speaker 1: I like that. I like that one. The next one

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Speaker 1: is Ernest dot com says. This next one goes out

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Speaker 1: to that poor individual on the first date with mom

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Speaker 1: and sists, Hey, Siri, play my mom is in my

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Speaker 1: business by k solo. Oh shit, my actual serious listening.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do it so bad, my bad.

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Speaker 2: Everybody who's Siri just just popped up started talking out like.

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Speaker 1: Your mama is in no business, she's in my business. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's terrazy, uh, Erniet says. Rod and Karen say

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Speaker 1: they need a new title for the Instagram segment when

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Speaker 1: longtime listeners know there's already an Instagram related segment title

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Speaker 1: that's been unused for quite a while. You be kay yo,

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Speaker 1: your pi kayye. This message brought to you by one

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Speaker 1: million tip in the Americans, pack shout out to the

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Speaker 1: chat room. Yeah, I just as I brought up earlier,

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to use what's the tea's segment

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Speaker 1: they I mean, they could easily bring that back. It's

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Speaker 1: weird overlap. I think I still have PTSD from the

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Speaker 1: whole dim throne shit. I'm just you know, and I

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Speaker 1: know that that's those are my friends and it probably

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Speaker 1: would be no problem. But I would rather just come

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Speaker 1: up with our own thing and not have any issues.

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Speaker 1: Somebody put it on a T shirt. Next thing you know,

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Speaker 1: we're getting sued. That's how it happens. Everybody class. Garna

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Speaker 1: Bee Lover says, how Rod and Karen's comment is a

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Speaker 1: propos of nothing you guys discussed this week. Rather it

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Speaker 1: there's a little reflection on the impact your shows have

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Speaker 1: had upon me as a listener. I was listening to

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Speaker 1: your former guest domin Styles podcast Marsha's play and she

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Speaker 1: was the win. And when she discussed something with her

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Speaker 1: co host and kept confusing and mangling the name of

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Speaker 1: the white woman she was talking about. In explanation, domonstated,

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Speaker 1: I don't be knowing these white people's names. I laughed

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Speaker 1: and said, Diamond is channeling the spirit of care. I

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Speaker 1: sure don't, I said, who Classic gard and be Love

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Speaker 1: also said I came to the post after listening to

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Speaker 1: this specific episode Rode, I can co sign your Denny's

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Speaker 1: food is awful statement. I ate at Denny's once because

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Speaker 1: my friend who was driving, stopped there. Because of all

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Speaker 1: the known racism. My internal thought was I could never

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Speaker 1: be that hungry, and I didn't want to be difficult

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Speaker 1: on someone else's dime. Every damn thing was like a

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Speaker 1: salt bomb. I know why, why did they put that

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Speaker 1: much salt? They looked like TikTok chefs the way that

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Speaker 1: everybody else TikTok is been triggered by the amount of

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Speaker 1: people that say, you didn't season that food. So now

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Speaker 1: when I look at the fucking TikTok, the amount of

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Speaker 1: season they are putting on this shit, they are trying

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Speaker 1: to murder their husbands or whoever the fuck is eating

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Speaker 1: in that bloodrens through the room. What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: The police are gonna show up at your house and

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Speaker 1: use that as evidence in the trial that you slowly

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Speaker 1: poison your husband to death. You killed it. Fucker's putting

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Speaker 1: a couple, a couple of lowrries on the chicken breast.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what what is wrong with y'all? God damn,

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Speaker 1: I don't get it.

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Speaker 2: I had ate a Dennies and years and uh uh,

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Speaker 2: probably decades. They used to have it closed, but they

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Speaker 2: used to have one up there above the above care Winds,

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Speaker 2: but that shit closed down a while ago. And I

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Speaker 2: think I may have went once or twice, but I

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Speaker 2: think that's the only Dannies. It used to be one

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Speaker 2: upstreet from us. I didn't never go to that beat.

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Speaker 2: I've gone to Denny's once. It was the nastiest fucking

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Speaker 2: thing I ever had. I legitimately don't get it. And now, look,

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Speaker 2: it's possible.

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Speaker 1: I am black. They were just being racist to me,

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Speaker 1: and they gave me bad food, so I wouldn't come back.

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Speaker 1: That's possible. But I looked at other people plates. It

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Speaker 1: didn't look advertising to me, and I really was looking

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Speaker 1: like the motherfucking goofy meme, like, bitch, you live like this,

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Speaker 1: y'all just be in here eating this shit. I feel like,

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Speaker 1: wherever you live in America, if there's a Denny's, there's

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Speaker 1: a better breakfast spot right up the street from him.

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Speaker 1: That's just like local or something, and you'll do way

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Speaker 1: better going there. That's just my opinion. The bacon taste

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Speaker 1: like it was single with sprinkle with a bottle of

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Speaker 1: salt on it before cooking it. Racism aside. I left

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Speaker 1: thinking how the hell they stay in business with food

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Speaker 1: tasting like that? Ev he says, I like the new segment,

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Speaker 1: please keep it? All right? All right, we hear you.

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Speaker 1: Then the comment on YouTube is SFA five two two six,

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Speaker 1: says Rod Prince of the nigga, Who would that even

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Speaker 1: be me screaming in the car? Vegeta is right there?

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Speaker 1: I definitely prints of the sayings, yes he was. He

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Speaker 1: does have that one mean that says this nigga spitting

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Speaker 1: You know, I love it, Vegeta. Maybe that's it. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna call you by your white man name and

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Speaker 1: call you by your original name, brother. You free. And

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Speaker 1: the poll, let's look at the pole results. The poe

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Speaker 1: was do you like the new I G segment? Keep

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Speaker 1: it or forget it? Eighty seven percent people agree with

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Speaker 1: Karen say keep it. The same percentage on Spotify, which

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Speaker 1: is great. You know, we we love to see it,

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Speaker 1: uh and get I think the segments here to stay

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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna try to remember every week to put

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Speaker 1: up a question of the week for y'all to put

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Speaker 1: your responses on. We'll read them on the on the

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Speaker 1: Feedback show, or follow out the week. Follow us on

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Speaker 1: Instagram if you're gonna get your input in, follow us

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Speaker 1: on Instagram Instagram. Is the black guy who tips? Just

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Speaker 1: all one word? The black guy who tips? Don't confuse them.

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Speaker 1: Don't confuse them by even bringing up the other one.

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Speaker 1: Karen just gonna bring it's just gonna confuse them. The

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Speaker 1: black guy who tips? Is it? And uh, we'll be posting, Uh,

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Speaker 1: we'll be posting y'all responses. I mean, we'll be replying

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Speaker 1: to your sponsors and stuff. Man Ya, this one, this

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Speaker 1: one's gonna be a doozy this week. This is one

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Speaker 1: of my favorite questions and I think we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: a great segment today. So also the Q and A

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Speaker 1: on anchor or Spotify for podcasters was Denny's is the worst?

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Speaker 1: Jay Barry says, No, it could be worse. Waffle House,

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Speaker 1: No fucking way, Jay, waffle House. First of all, waffle

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Speaker 1: House is I'm not saying waffle house is good food. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's just go ahead and get that out the way,

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Speaker 1: because motherfuckers are gonna swear by waffle House. And I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be real, I've never left a waffle house, like

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Speaker 1: god damn, they know. Like, it's more like when you

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Speaker 1: go to waffle House, it's three in the morning, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's uh, it's cheap, it's you know,

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Speaker 1: it's fast, it's you're drunk, it's soaking up alcohol. Normally,

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Speaker 1: that's what waffle House is about. And I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: waffle House is like top five, top whatever breakfast places. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm not that being said. It's better than Denny's, Yes

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Speaker 1: it is. Carley says it was one of the only

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Speaker 1: choices back in college, but yeah, you couldn't get me

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Speaker 1: in there now, not with this Spotify money. Come on

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Speaker 1: college shit now. Tiffany says it really is worse than Arby's, though,

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Speaker 1: says Crease, I've never said Arby's food was nasty. It's

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Speaker 1: just a drug laundering organization.

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Speaker 2: And you know what waffle House may have been too,

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Speaker 2: because you know, for years them but just to be

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Speaker 2: cash owned. They within the last decade they just started

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Speaker 2: us after credit.

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Speaker 1: Cards, right, grand Slam, thank you ma'am says ernest Denny's

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Speaker 1: is the Arby's money laundering arch rival. There's no way

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Speaker 1: you could serve breakfast food for this long and still

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Speaker 1: being business.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The problem with Denny's is that they don't seem to

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Speaker 1: be buying up everything the way Arby's is. Arby's owns

641
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: a lot of other restaurants, like their parent company is,

642
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 1: like we owned Buffalo Wild wais never thought Chrisby Kreme

643
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: and shit. So you try to ride it by something else.

644
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: That's why I'm sure it's drug money. Walla says, love

645
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: the new segment, keep it fresh, nor uh. Aaron says

646
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: Norms is way better anyway. Also, I love the new segment.

647
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what norms is a local thing. Baby

648
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 1: it's toy says I've never had it. I'm a white

649
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: house girl because I'm a bird. Lol. Jane says denny

650
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: has never been the best never, and Druseau said. Doctor

651
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: Uzzo says, no, it's fine when it's late and you're

652
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: drunk and it's the good Denny's and Gino is working,

653
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: so he'll hook you up with extra bacony. You know what,

654
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 1: You're right, it's bad exactly. I was about to say,

655
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: you got you need all that shit? You know it's bad.

656
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: So if it don't meet your cr tell you're like,

657
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: fuck it, let's goes somewhere else. If you need to

658
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: be like if it's ever, if it's the second Tuesday

659
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: of the month and it's after three am, then then

660
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: it's not good.

661
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 2: If you if you hit the host is going who

662
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: cooking the night? She give you the wrong name and

663
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 2: you walk.

664
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: Out, it's not good. That's not consistent quality. All right,

665
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: Let's go to the next episode, episode twenty seven, forty

666
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 1: Loose Baby with Bossi Ikbi. We had seven comments, hej says.

667
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: The sassy truck Lady reminded me of this episode of

668
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 1: American Dad where Francine got arrested for singing in Saudi Arabia.

669
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: Oh y'all remember that episode? So funny. Brooklyn Shoe Base says,

670
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: thank you for having Basia was a good conversation. I'm

671
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 1: going to listen to it again, but with my kids.

672
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 1: My sixteen year old loves to stay on Twitter to

673
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: observe people's lip misery and finds a twisted humor in

674
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: it because she believes she's a loser. I believe she

675
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: thinks she's found her tried all she's not. Come on,

676
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: don't let her be a loser. To believe in yourselves.

677
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: You better than this.

678
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 2: Tell that baby you are somebody. You ain't got to

679
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: hang around this right, it's not a good place. This. Yeah,

680
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: you'd be like, oh, child, I get on. You better

681
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,400
Speaker 2: get away from me, girl, right, look her in the

682
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 2: face and time.

683
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: Somebody some appel says, I'm a person who has lots

684
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: of work friends or friends who started at work. I

685
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: would define it as people. You have relationships about more

686
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: than just work. You talk about private stuff and generally

687
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: are interested in the other as a person or even

688
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:18,959
Speaker 1: a meeting, free time, and even I tell you your work

689
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: isn't your family. You are there for money. In the

690
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 1: first place, the company doesn't love you. They appreciate that

691
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: you are good for business. Yep.

692
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: In the second, you're not good or profitable. You gotta

693
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: go because what people fail to realize most corporations are simple.

694
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 2: You either making them money or saving them money. If

695
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 2: you're not making or saving the money, they actually don't care.

696
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 2: And people don't want to be that cruel about it.

697
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 2: But that's it. And you know when they start looking

698
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 2: at them sheets and your salary hits that thing, all

699
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 2: of a sudden.

700
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: You losing their money. You got to go quote unquote

701
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: as far as their concern.

702
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: So it's one of those things where if you in

703
00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 2: the working environment and the relationship turns into that, great,

704
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: But that's not my objective. Mic I had longer learn

705
00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 2: learn a long time ago. That's not my objective. You pay,

706
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 2: I stay, you stop paying. I stopped coming in to

707
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: clocking in, and all of a sudden, these relationships we

708
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,479
Speaker 2: think we got don't matter no more because most people,

709
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: the relationship you have with most people be at word

710
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: church extracurritical activities. The second that thing disappears, the relationship

711
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: is no longer a relationship. And this is why people

712
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: they hurt, they can begin to get in their feelings,

713
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 2: Oh this person, don't call this person, don't reach out. Yes,

714
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 2: because the thing you had income and disappear. And that's okay.

715
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: There's only certain people in your life only because this

716
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 2: one thread connects you. When that threat is gone, the

717
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,960
Speaker 2: relationship is quote unquote dead. But that's all right too,

718
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: And it's not a personal attack and there's nothing wrong

719
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 2: against you and you didn't do anything wrong, but society

720
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 2: makes us think that all relationships are forever, and that's

721
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 2: not a true statement.

722
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: And there's still a company, correct, So when the bottom

723
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: line needs to be tightened up, you might just have

724
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: to go. Whether you everybody best friend or not, whether

725
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: you're talking about people in your spare time, talking with

726
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 1: people in your spare time, meeting up parties and stuff.

727
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: I think there's nothing wrong with socializing what people you

728
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: work with. I think, you know, it's not a huge

729
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 1: thing for me, but I get it. But I just think, yeah,

730
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 1: it's you know, it's not really family and all that shit.

731
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: Big Superhero says regarding Carli ros So, I too was

732
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: looking for a source of the rumor that people got

733
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 1: fired for accessing her hospital medical records, and I never

734
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 1: found one. But I work at a large medical center

735
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: and was told by it once that people get fired

736
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: for improperly accessing patient records every single time we have

737
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,439
Speaker 1: a high profile patient. The temptation is just too great

738
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: to apparently stupid people. Stupid way to lose a great job.

739
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: I mean, once again, I hear that, you know, but

740
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: I needn't see proof of it, And I think that's

741
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: important right now, because things happen on the Internet and

742
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 1: people's confirmation bias kicks in and we don't have any

743
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: proof or evidence things happening, but we treated as if

744
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: this's proof, and I'm so wary of it at this point.

745
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm so cynical about this shit that I am just

746
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 1: as worried about it when it's on our side quote

747
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 1: unquote as other people's side and made up right. And

748
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: I think it's not like people will posting mugshots of

749
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: who got arrested or you know, screened something about the

750
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: people that got fired. It just people just said things

751
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: the same way. They said she was sleeping with an

752
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: underage kid across state lines, the same way they said

753
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: she must have been trying to get an abortion in

754
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: another state, the same way they said she must be

755
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: getting abused in her home, and that's what she was

756
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 1: really just acted out the same people White people said

757
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: she was cheating on her boyfriend. And people treat all

758
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: these things as if they are objective truth when we

759
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: have no proof of anything.

760
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 2: Right, And then when you ask people, you be like, okay,

761
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 2: you said that, where's the evidence. People don't have it,

762
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,959
Speaker 2: and saga will if you don't have it or it's

763
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 2: not from like a quote unquote reputical source.

764
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 1: That shit matters also. But you know, just like the

765
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:05,919
Speaker 1: left claims.

766
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: The right just be running with bullshit, sometimes the left

767
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 2: be running with bullshit too. We don't quote unquote consider

768
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 2: it the same, but it is the same because it's

769
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: fake news.

770
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: Right. So the way that you know it does happen

771
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: is exactly why it's easy for people to act like

772
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: it did happen. Right. Just because it does happen doesn't

773
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: mean it happened in this case. So I don't know.

774
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 1: As always, Ernest says, Bossi's presence is a present. I

775
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: want black sins O nine on the T shirt, especially

776
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: if we can't force all the brand new Negroes to

777
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: wear it when they come talking that mess. Also with

778
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: respect to the football players in the music video, and

779
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 1: I the only one who imagine that coach yelling at

780
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 1: them like the lady yelled at her dolls to go

781
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: to bed. Yeah, I saw this video. I think you

782
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: just wanted us to watch the video and play it

783
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: for the audience and laugh at it. So I'm gonna

784
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do you the favor. I'm gonna go ahead

785
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:59,279
Speaker 1: and do that for you. It's this video we saw

786
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,800
Speaker 1: it on. I saw it already. I think three guys

787
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 1: on or Randolph texted or something. But what's wrom? You

788
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: keep running up to me to show me what's wrong?

789
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: Showing Jill got her ball, Mercy. Can you please give

790
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 1: her her back her favorite ball? I'm trying. I'm trying.

791
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: You see, I'm trying. Can you please give her back

792
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: her favorite ball? See the cartelo? That is really her

793
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:30,919
Speaker 1: favorite ball? What's the bad around with y'all? Go to bed?

794
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: Everybody go to bed right now, gotta bab. Good night,

795
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 1: everybody go to baby. Y'all have lost y'all. Damn gotta

796
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: baby doing it? I didn't, right, y'all like that? Don't

797
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: get grants in the bab. Could not have done that

798
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: with cats? Oh what's wrorom you keep? Yeah, that's the video?

799
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: Go to bed? I know bus, we talked to animals

800
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,879
Speaker 1: like people. I love y'all. Thanks another great show. Shout

801
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: out to the chat room. Eve says, it's always nice

802
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: on boss A. Social media is a necessary evil for

803
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,280
Speaker 1: some people, especially if you want to promote your business.

804
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: My social media is curated to a t. When I

805
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: only see the people I want to see, and I

806
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 1: keep my post neutral because my mental health can't take

807
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 1: the stress of arguing with trolls all day. Yeah, and

808
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: that's a big thing for me too. I very rarely

809
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: will actually post an opinion or like something in depth online.

810
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: At this point, I used to do it all the time.

811
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: Whenever I get reminded by those like here are your

812
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: memories from this day, I always feel a little bit

813
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 1: of embarrassment. I know no one should ever feel embarrassed

814
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,839
Speaker 1: about anything, blah blah blah, but I do. I feel

815
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: a little bit of embarrassment when I look back at

816
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: how much info I was sharing two people for free,

817
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: and then engaging in arguments for them with people that

818
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: ultimately don't matter. And I don't mean they don't matter

819
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: as human beings. I mean it's not like the things

820
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: they said are necessarily something that should affect my life,

821
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: and that I don't know these people. I'm probably a

822
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,000
Speaker 1: stranger to them, or just a person that they consume

823
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 1: their content via the podcast, social media whatever. Many of

824
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: them weren't even podcast listeners, podcast fans. They weren't gonna

825
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 1: buy take it to my show, they weren't gonna pay

826
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: to be a premium member. They weren't gonna listen to

827
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 1: my podcast because they were there for the social media.

828
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 1: So I'm just here to see your content on Facebook

829
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: while I'm scrolling all day, and you're giving it to

830
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: me for free, and then I'm able to engage with

831
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: you and argue with you and affect you. And I'm

832
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: going to podcast and be rant and raving about these

833
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: fucking people that ultimately you know they're trolls, or even

834
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 1: if they're not trolls, are just people that aren't invested

835
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: in me as a human being. Agreed, And while I

836
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: might disagree with my friends and stuff like that, or

837
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: they have opinions that affect mine's because we have a

838
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: certain level of investment in each other as human beings

839
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: that makes us have to consider our humanity before anything else.

840
00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: And so even when we disagree, we don't fight. You

841
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: know what, we're not invested in. I'm gonna be right

842
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: and you're gonna be wrong. And I have a big

843
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 1: competitive part of me. I have a debater in me.

844
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: I have a fighter in me, and it shouldn't just

845
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 1: be activated by any and everything. And I used to

846
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: just let it fly, and so I think I also

847
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,320
Speaker 1: curated my social media, but I also had to realize

848
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: it comes to the price of you just don't have

849
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 1: to share and shouldn't be sharing everything. I'll hit the

850
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: group chat or something like that, like what do you

851
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 1: think about this topic, and we'll discuss it there in

852
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: a way that I find to be more fulfilling than

853
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 1: just putting the internet. Putting my commentary on the internet,

854
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: and any fucking stranger can just like take it, run

855
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: with it, misunderstand it on purpose, take it out of

856
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: context on purpose, or just just say disrespectful shit to

857
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: me on purpose, because a lot of these people are

858
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 1: looking for conflict. They need conflict because it keeps still

859
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: from concentrating on our own lives. And they'll take that

860
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: conflict with you extrapolated to me to something you didn't

861
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,439
Speaker 1: mean or didn't say, because they need that bad guy

862
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: to punch, you know, And I think I got tired

863
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: of that.

864
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 2: Yeah that, and also you and I've seen other people

865
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: do this, people change the way they move on the Internet,

866
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 2: and sometimes that's all you need to do, and all

867
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 2: those people will fall away because at the end of

868
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: the day, you are a form of entertainment. Something in

869
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 2: them to consume. And the second you stop being entertainment,

870
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 2: you stop being something they can consume. You stop having,

871
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 2: you stop having all these not trying to be funny,

872
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 2: but they quote unquote considered hot takes, even though that

873
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:39,959
Speaker 2: that's who you really are.

874
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: You stop that shit.

875
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 2: They will slowly remove themselves off of the picture, like

876
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, they'll kind of go away and

877
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: float somewhere else because, like you said, they got to

878
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 2: have conflict. And when they realize that, oh, you're not

879
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 2: confrontational no more, then you become boring. You become you

880
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: know this and that and or whatever their case may be.

881
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: And a lot of times just a small tweak like that,

882
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 2: like you say, versus your online but you kind of

883
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: curated a certain way, and I slowly have seen people

884
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 2: just disappear like people that literally anytime you post, they

885
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 2: was literally some of the first people to pop up

886
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: in there. And and some of them and it's nothing personal.

887
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 2: Some of them are fans of the show because it's

888
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 2: just something in them that they feel like they have

889
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 2: got to do things, and a lot of times it's

890
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 2: their personal insecurities. A lot of times they don't do

891
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 2: it to me because I'm not here for it and

892
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 2: not on post like that online. But it's one of

893
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 2: those things where for you, a lot of times I

894
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 2: don't know what it is about you. They it's because

895
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 2: you're a man, it's because you're a black man.

896
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: A lot of times it's because they value.

897
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 2: Your opinion, like it's just something in you that draws

898
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: people to what they feel like they have to comment

899
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 2: on everything that you say.

900
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 1: Well, part of it was also I was inviting all

901
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: that by sharing so much like I'm writing three four

902
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: paragraphs about something some pop current, pop culture current event,

903
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: knowing I'm about to go on my podcast, I can

904
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 1: say it in the space that's safe, a place that

905
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: has more context, that has more good faith people, that

906
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 1: won't find itself being shared to a bunch of strangers.

907
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: People have to willfully tap into this show to hear

908
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 1: what I have to say. And I think this is

909
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,880
Speaker 1: the place I'd rather share my thoughts and opinions on

910
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:24,919
Speaker 1: things like that in long form rather than writing long

911
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: form things that people are going to purposely take a

912
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: certain way. And it could be as simple as they

913
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: just don't like you. It could be as simple as

914
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: they just will like your attention, they like the space

915
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,479
Speaker 1: you've curated and the attention you get, and so by

916
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 1: disrupting your space, they get the attention that typically people

917
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: give to you, which is another thing I learned to

918
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: stop rewarding. And then I think, yes, some people have

919
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: a love hate thing of If I can't be your

920
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: best friend and be your worst enemy, sometimes people just

921
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: don't like you. It's not really a good reason. There's

922
00:46:56,640 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: a bunch of fucking unstable, ass emotional motherfuckers out there

923
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 1: that just you know, deal with issues. You know, it's

924
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 1: and it's I think I used to just couldn't relate

925
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: to it because I'm not a person of that way.

926
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:12,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't irrationally like or dislike anybody. I don't

927
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: have a lot, I don't have jealousy issues. I don't

928
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: look at what other people have and wanted. But there

929
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: are people who moved that way, you know. I've seen

930
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: people say it many times, and at some point I

931
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: just had to absorb it and listen to it and go,

932
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: this is a real feeling that these people have. I

933
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 1: just can't relate. And it be things like oh, if

934
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,719
Speaker 1: I log on Instagram and everybody's getting engaged, I turn

935
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: that shit off. For you know, how come I got

936
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: to see your vacation. Oh this the food you ate?

937
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: I don't want to see that shit. And I'm like, oh,

938
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: there's something wrong with you inside and you're taking it

939
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 1: out on there on the world. But that's your reality

940
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: and I, you know, me giving my opinion, me living

941
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 1: my life now, I'm the focal point of that. And

942
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 1: I think algorithmically, these social medias are about interaction and

943
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 1: they don't care. There's no value place if it's good

944
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 1: or bad. So when I'm getting on someone's nerve by

945
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: just being my fucking self, I'm pretty sure Facebook is

946
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 1: showing that person all my posts like look what this

947
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: nigga said, and they popping up to be like I disagree,

948
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: and I disagree and I disagree, and eventually it does

949
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: drive conflicts. So you know how they fix that. Don't

950
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: share everything, don't give my opinion on everything. Only reply

951
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: to people that I feel like are worthwhile replying to

952
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: or making a point in a way that I think

953
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: is valuable. So that's what I do. Man.

954
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 2: Also, the thing you talking about the podcast, you know,

955
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: it is a level of investment. And the thing is,

956
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 2: it's one of those things where for most people. They

957
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: don't not turn funny, produce anything that actually, particularly online

958
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 2: that makes them money, but we do. So It's one

959
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: of those things where if it don't make dollars, it

960
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 2: don't make sense.

961
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 1: And you know, well, I don't even I just want

962
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: to point out for me, it's not about money. It's

963
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,840
Speaker 1: social media isn't necessarily making money for me either. It's

964
00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: it's the It's it's not the money, it's the attention

965
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: that they're after, and I think the attention is free. Yes,

966
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: So if you look at this, I've done this before,

967
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: where someone says something very rude, disrespectful, whatever to me.

968
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: I will go to their page before even replying to anything,

969
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:21,440
Speaker 1: and I'll look at their Facebook posts, I'll look at

970
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 1: their Twitter post. And the shocking thing to me is

971
00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 1: not what the content of what they're saying is, because

972
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 1: normally the content isn't that good or whatever, or they

973
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 1: could be a troll or whatever. Look at the engagement.

974
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 1: I caution all of you to do this. When someone

975
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: says something really fucked up and inflammatory to you, look

976
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 1: at the engagement they're not getting, and you go. And

977
00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: this is the vast majority of people. I'm very fortunate

978
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 1: and I've worked hard at stuff, and I'm just honestly

979
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: very good at using my words and stuff. I typically

980
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: get engagement with most of the things that I want

981
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: to get engagement on. If I'm giving an opinion, if

982
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: I'm making a video from whatever I'm good at that

983
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: most people are not. It's like how most of the

984
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: people that drive content on Twitter, there's a small percentage

985
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 1: of people that get a lot of interaction and vast

986
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 1: majority of people know likes one like no retweets bookmark.

987
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: They're responding to literal bots because at least somebody said something,

988
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: and that is a huge part of all this stuff.

989
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: To me back to this though, I don't understand the

990
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,839
Speaker 1: people who do. There are literally people on social media

991
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 1: who with these hot takes, and it's what the intent

992
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,320
Speaker 1: to roll people up. They lonely and they want engagement.

993
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: I block and mute them because they are at the attention.

994
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:44,440
Speaker 1: Yet people fall for it every single time. It's not

995
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: worth the stress. Yeah. The other thing is just these

996
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: angry aggregator accounts that just people that share news and

997
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: stories as if their own stories. But it's all aggregation.

998
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: Now that I look at social media as purely a

999
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: content creation thing. For me, it simplified so many people's

1000
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: motivations and actions and it just explained so much. So

1001
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 1: when you see certain accounts all the time, but when

1002
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: you look at the content they're putting out, it's taking

1003
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: a news article and like writing a paragraph that summarizes

1004
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: what the article is about and then everyone retweets that.

1005
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 1: Or it's taking a video from another source, screencapin or whatever,

1006
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: you know, like screen grabbing it, posting it as your

1007
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: own video and then putting up there like you know, uh,

1008
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 1: I can't believe this person did such and such. And

1009
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: I was gonna say the difference because Eve he was

1010
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 1: talking about curating her social media. What Elon Musk has

1011
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: done to Twitter has made it almost impossible to curate

1012
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: your social media feed because if you go to certain

1013
00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: like your feed, he basically puts people with that pay

1014
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: for the check marks and stuff. He puts those people

1015
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: or the algorithm, not him personally. They put people in

1016
00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 1: your feed that have those interactive inflammatory videos and they're

1017
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: like look at this, look at this, look at this. No,

1018
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: you didn't follow them, but look at this, right, And

1019
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: it works because you see something and it's like some

1020
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: you know, video and it's oh, look at this woman,

1021
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: uh slapping this dude in front of a restaurant, and

1022
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,399
Speaker 1: then another person comes through in a wheelchair and slaps her.

1023
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 1: And of course there's a Slationi's video that makes you

1024
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: want to comment and read the comments and see what

1025
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:26,399
Speaker 1: people say, and it's from somebody with a check mark

1026
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: that only posts those type of videos or those type

1027
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:30,720
Speaker 1: of things, and so you end up in that cycle

1028
00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: of comment and where all they're the comment and siphon

1029
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 1: off attention of things, and they've mastered that so you can't.

1030
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 2: It's even harder to curate your feed than it used

1031
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 2: to be. Yeah, because before they had filters up where

1032
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 2: you live. Look at it, like these other things that

1033
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 2: I only want to see. I don't want to see

1034
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 2: anything else, you know. And you know, it got to

1035
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 2: the point where even posting retweets of certain people you

1036
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 2: can be like I just but like you said, with

1037
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,879
Speaker 2: the change, all that shit all of a sudden, because

1038
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 2: there were people that I'm like, ah, how to fuck

1039
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 2: this person even get here? I thought I had them

1040
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: mute it to the gods, but apparently they was like,

1041
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 2: you know, fuck your filters.

1042
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 1: Here you go, yep, let's see classic R and B

1043
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: lover says Hello, Rod and Karen. I watched a lot

1044
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: of Bossi's Twitter discourse, and I remain stupefied that she

1045
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: was attacked by those numb nuts. It was very clear

1046
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 1: that she was speaking about herself, yet even clarifying as

1047
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 1: fact that nothing to satiate Twitter rage. For Rage's sake, beast,

1048
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: I don't blame her for leaving the platform. There's too

1049
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 1: much ish actively trying to tear us down now to

1050
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 1: subject yourself to that form of abuse. I will miss

1051
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: her observations ironic and funny post. BOSSI was one of

1052
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: the people that helped make that place bearable rather than

1053
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,400
Speaker 1: ever expanding block factory. Yeah. I think the thing for

1054
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: me is I think Twitter's always been like that. Bossy

1055
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: kind of goes and flows in cycles with Twitter. So

1056
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: I think at some point I wouldn't be shocked for

1057
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: her to come back, right, She probably definitely needs a break.

1058
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: What that signifies to me as a person that that's

1059
00:53:57,680 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: my friend. I love Bossi is like the membrane around

1060
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: your self care is getting thin and the things people

1061
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: are saying are starting to affect you. But also it's

1062
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: the impetus to share and to give that opinion also

1063
00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: speaks volume, you know, because what to me, what that

1064
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,800
Speaker 1: means is you're probably going through something and you need

1065
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 1: a place to expend that energy. That's how I look

1066
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: at social media now. People have things they're either avoiding

1067
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 1: or things that are getting to them, And here's a

1068
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: place I can go where I kind of know it's

1069
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,919
Speaker 1: a shit factory, and I kind of know that these

1070
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: motherfuckers are going to I can't control how they react,

1071
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: and I know they're going to react harshly. And you

1072
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: know what I was surprised was that BOSSI was responding

1073
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: back to some of the people. Because Twitter, the way

1074
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:55,919
Speaker 1: it works, if you respond back, instead of people saying, oh,

1075
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 1: I see your point, they will almost always say I'm

1076
00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: going to I want to get the attention that the

1077
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 1: first person got by shitting on you. I would like

1078
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 1: some of that attention too. I remember one time I

1079
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: said something about like Brionna Joy Gray or something, I

1080
00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: hate that lady and the quote leftist, socialist grifter Twitter,

1081
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: whereas like quote tweeting me or something. I muted the

1082
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: tweet almost immediately because I said, I'm not arguing with

1083
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: these niggers and I'm a real black, not uh you

1084
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: know Twitter black, like I just oh, I logged on

1085
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: and now I'm black, and so me and blackness go

1086
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: way back, everybody. And so I was like, yeah, I

1087
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,359
Speaker 1: said what I said. I meant what I said. There's

1088
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: no one that's gonna change my mind. And there's honestly

1089
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: no point in engaging these folks. It's been years since

1090
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,840
Speaker 1: this happened. But I muted at the tweet, and I

1091
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: remember a friend DM me and was like, oh, they

1092
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: tear you up into quote tweets, And I said, that's interesting.

1093
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: I have not did not care, did not look do

1094
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: And I remember that would have been a time where

1095
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, let me go look and let me respond.

1096
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: And I couldn't have been less curious, because I know

1097
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,440
Speaker 1: what I meant, I know what I said, and I'm

1098
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: fine with people being mad about it. I don't care

1099
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 1: for their interactions. And if they want to be mad

1100
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: about the truth as I see it, then they just

1101
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,439
Speaker 1: get to be mad and it won't affect me at all.

1102
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: And there used to be times whe that stuff did

1103
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: affect me. And I'm scrolling and I'm seeing this and

1104
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: I'm responding, and so I think when I see it

1105
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 1: in other people. Now I'm more of a Okay, my

1106
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 1: friend is hurting somehow, what's wrong? Because to me, these

1107
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: people are valueless, and you letting them disturb you about

1108
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 1: a dress must be something else that's not just a dress.

1109
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 1: It can't be because you and I both know you

1110
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: don't really give a fuck if these people get your

1111
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 1: joke or not. We both know that, So then maybe

1112
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: it's time to take a break. Yes, And it's one

1113
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: of those things where.

1114
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 2: For me, not that things don't bother me, not and

1115
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 2: all that stuff, but for me, I'm like, yay, I'm

1116
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 2: glad you're to to that point, you know, because you have.

1117
00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 2: I wish I had more patience like you did in

1118
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 2: certain areas. But I'm real quick to be like fuck

1119
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: them and fuck that and fuck this and fuck that

1120
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 2: and do do do do do, because I'm like, I

1121
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:32,919
Speaker 2: just don't care.

1122
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes that's a good thing.

1123
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 2: Sometimes that's a bad thing, you know, to actually have

1124
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 2: that within yourself where you're like I just don't have

1125
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 2: time for this and you just cut it off.

1126
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: Well, I'll just point out, like you always say that

1127
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: when I'll talk about this stuff. But whenever something happens

1128
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: with you, you come to me correct. So to me, it

1129
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: is not that these things don't bother you or you're

1130
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: out or whatever. It's just I think you're more conflict

1131
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: avoidant than I am. Agreed, and you don't want to

1132
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: get into it with these people on social media. And

1133
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm not knocking it. I think it's actually good. I

1134
00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 1: had to learn to be like that. But I'm a fighter.

1135
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 1: If you say something to me, my instinct is to

1136
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: say something back, and I don't feel bad about that instinct.

1137
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: In many ways, it's been very protective of me, and

1138
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: it's worked and helped me get where I am. But

1139
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: you know, I'm more your landing pad for stuff, you know,

1140
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 1: And so I think that's what happens. But at the

1141
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: end of the day, you know, I'm not trying to,

1142
00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, I've been there, so when I'm not

1143
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: judging my friends when they go through it. You know,

1144
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: A similar thing happens with another friend where I see

1145
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: her sharing stuff now and I'm like, oh, she's sharing

1146
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: these things because there's things happening in our lives that suck,

1147
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: that are out of control. You know, we're dealing with

1148
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: a writer strike and all this shit in the industry,

1149
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: and so maybe there's an opinion that you would have

1150
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 1: kept to yourself. There's something I'm happening on the timeline

1151
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: that you would have been like, Man, I'm busy, I

1152
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: got shit to do. But now you don't have that

1153
00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: thing to do, and it's like and you're worried about

1154
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: other shit, and now it's like, I will chime in

1155
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 1: on this issue, and it's like, well, when these people

1156
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: respond to you, I guess the way I look at

1157
00:59:17,480 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 1: it is like, you're the one in control. So if

1158
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: you let the people responding to you in a very

1159
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: predictable manner get to you, you got to accept the

1160
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: responsibility of I didn't say this in the group chat

1161
00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: to my friends. I said this on the online to strangers.

1162
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:37,200
Speaker 1: And the illusion of control of this content is ridiculous.

1163
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I honestly would look down on people if

1164
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: they truly believe that you can share something to your

1165
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: Twitter circle, or you can share something in private and

1166
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 1: it really not get out. That's not how this works.

1167
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: People screenshot it, they share it anyway, so there's nothing

1168
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 1: really private there. Tell your friends, Tell your friends. If

1169
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: you truly just want to vent and have place understanding.

1170
01:00:01,640 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: Keep it there. That's what I would do. And when

1171
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: you don't, I feel like that's as much of a

1172
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: statement as you as anything else when you say I'm

1173
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: gonna share it anyway, and then when I get my

1174
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: predictable response, I'm gonna be like, Oh, these motherfuckers, dotter,

1175
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 1: you wanted to feel that, these motherfucker's anger. You needed

1176
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 1: that for some reason. You have to look at yourself.

1177
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: Why did you need it? Right? And also, I'm not

1178
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: even gonna lie.

1179
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 2: I'm very truthfully, I'm very grateful and I'm very thankful

1180
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 2: for you that when these things bother me or these

1181
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 2: things come at me, that I can actually talk to

1182
01:00:35,960 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: you in a reasonable setting, with somebody logical thinking, with

1183
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 2: somebody that has a true investment in me, like in

1184
01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 2: me because my thing is this I do because we

1185
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 2: have two different personalities. And the thing is, yes, I

1186
01:00:54,480 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 2: am conflict avoidance because my thing is that's not my

1187
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 2: first response.

1188
01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 1: And you have to know yourself. I know me like

1189
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 1: like I know me.

1190
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 2: So if I get to the point and I'm better

1191
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: with this as I got older, if I get to

1192
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:19,640
Speaker 2: the point that I start responding, it's not good because

1193
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 2: I be to the point where I'm like, oh, you

1194
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: have forced me to respond to you.

1195
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:29,959
Speaker 1: I've been trying to do.

1196
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 2: Everything to leave you alone because the situation is not

1197
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 2: that important to me for me to actually come to you,

1198
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 2: and because we don't have a relationship like that, so

1199
01:01:41,760 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 2: the situation is not important enough to me for me

1200
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 2: to come and actually try to stranger online for me

1201
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: to try to come and actually have a reasonable response.

1202
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 2: I know that most people aren't logical, but online that's

1203
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 2: not the case. And it's one of those things where

1204
01:01:56,200 --> 01:02:00,360
Speaker 2: if I do respond, it's going to be Okay, I'm in.

1205
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 1: You wanted my undivided attention.

1206
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 2: Here I am And I don't function will in those situations,

1207
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 2: and I have to be mentally aware of that to

1208
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 2: know where to draw lines and all that stuff like

1209
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 2: really like really dope, Like I can get extremely dugmatic

1210
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,920
Speaker 2: about things like that, where it is it will be

1211
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 2: all consuming to me, and I don't want to be

1212
01:02:22,040 --> 01:02:24,560
Speaker 2: that like, like I can literally become that person all

1213
01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 2: the decide, So I try myself to personally to defuse

1214
01:02:28,440 --> 01:02:31,160
Speaker 2: those things so that I will not get to that

1215
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 2: point where I'd be like, all right, motherfucker, here I

1216
01:02:33,120 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 2: am God damn it. I don't want I don't want

1217
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 2: to be there, so I will do the other things

1218
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 2: in advance to prevent myself from going there.

1219
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: But a lot of people they don't have those strategies.

1220
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 2: They don't know themselves, They don't they they don't have

1221
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 2: contingency plans in place for their feelings and emotions. There's

1222
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with feeling things, there's nothing wrong with emotions.

1223
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 2: The problem is what do you do when these emotions

1224
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 2: flood you.

1225
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:59,200
Speaker 1: You can't reject them. You have to sit in them.

1226
01:02:59,280 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: You have to pry.

1227
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 2: Says that you have to go through them in order

1228
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:04,720
Speaker 2: to make yourself a better person. But we live in

1229
01:03:04,720 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 2: a society where I felt something and motherfucker's freak the

1230
01:03:07,800 --> 01:03:10,560
Speaker 2: fuck out. They don't know how to respond to shit.

1231
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 2: So okay, something about slavery come up and makes them

1232
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 2: feel bad.

1233
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: They just wanted to shut shit down.

1234
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 2: They don't want you to talk about it, nobody to

1235
01:03:16,880 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 2: talk about like, bitch, this is unrealistic, and so for me,

1236
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 2: you got to understand that and and find these things

1237
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 2: to to to to work your way through these things

1238
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 2: so that you won't be online doing these things and

1239
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 2: falling out with people and cut some motherfuckers out and

1240
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 2: making everybody mad, and and and and and sub tweeting

1241
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 2: and sub posting, and everybody catching the fucking straight bullet

1242
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 2: people that was like, now, why am iying it?

1243
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: And you don't know what happened.

1244
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 2: That's because you was angry, because the anger is an

1245
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:44,240
Speaker 2: illusion of control.

1246
01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: It's not real.

1247
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 2: Uh.

1248
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:50,360
Speaker 1: Classic R and B lover says, uh oh wait, no,

1249
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: we did this one. Now, let's get to the comments

1250
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: on YouTube about it. It was loose baby, I believe

1251
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: Vanne La La says. Vanye La La says, I'm not

1252
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: sure what that key key was partying on her man.

1253
01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: For the Internet, I saw a post that said that

1254
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,439
Speaker 1: catching a Key Key's video was excitement about the song.

1255
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: A producer I had taken a clip from an interview

1256
01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 1: she did a few weeks prior to put it to music.

1257
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 1: Keyky's response to that post scene to affirm it. Yeah, Vanye,

1258
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: she was partying on her man. I don't know if

1259
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 1: you've seen the same clips I saw, but I saw

1260
01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: the video performance. I saw the You know, I think

1261
01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 1: it's such a I think you just have to be

1262
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: in such denial to see that she not partying on

1263
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: her man for the Internet. I get it, she's getting

1264
01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: her lick back, and we supposed to support like since

1265
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,320
Speaker 1: he's was being a dick, our support for her should

1266
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: be like this idea of like, yeah, fuck, the girl

1267
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: burned the whole thing down. Still the father of her kids,

1268
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: Still some kind of relationship they probably have to have.

1269
01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: We don't have any personal investment. It seems like so

1270
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: far it's just mostly a content thing. We haven't heard

1271
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: anything about them break picking up. He may have just

1272
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 1: been back to playing the role and they might be

1273
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 1: cool on the low, and we don't know. I always

1274
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Speaker 1: worry about people doing anything that seems more in mind

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01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: for the fickle glass social media Internet than themselves, because

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01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 1: I get the whole idea of the optics, and everybody

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01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:21,000
Speaker 1: cares about the optics. But that's because we want content.

1278
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: We're not truly invested in these people as human beings.

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01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 1: It's applies sharing, fucking Britney Spears, dancing around to talk

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01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 1: about how her panties look and all this shit. Meanwhile,

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01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:33,880
Speaker 1: this woman could be having a whole mental health crisis.

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01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: We don't actually care about these people, and we don't

1283
01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: care about Kecky Palmer as a human being. We care

1284
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 1: about how it makes us feel to be seen rooting

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01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: for Keky Palmer, and if that means her clap back

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01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: or whatever moment is great content, then that's what we

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01:05:50,360 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 1: care about. If we find out later like, yeah, she

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01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 1: actually is now in a big custody battle with her

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01:05:56,200 --> 01:06:00,120
Speaker 1: husband or her boyfriend, father of a child, or any

1290
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,520
Speaker 1: thing like that, we won't really give a fuck. That's

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01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 1: not our life, you know. So, I think the videos

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01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 1: I saw maybe we saw different videos. I'm not just

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01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,680
Speaker 1: talking about one about her being excited about a song.

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01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,919
Speaker 1: I'm talking about the videos of her talking about getting

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01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:18,600
Speaker 1: another man and all this type of shit, and multiple

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Speaker 1: videos of it, you know, So not knocking her. She's human.

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01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 1: She gets to respond however she choose to respond. This

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01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: isn't a she shouldn't be doing that or whatever. If

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Speaker 1: you want of those, I gotta get my look back

1300
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 1: in public type people, sure, but just understand that that

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01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 1: is you worried about the public, right. That is, by definition,

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01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: you worried about what these people think. And I don't

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01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,880
Speaker 1: trust these people. The public, and especially social media public

1304
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: is too fucking finicky for me to think catering to

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01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: them is a good long term plan because I've watched

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01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:58,680
Speaker 1: the same public turn on these black women, make them cry,

1307
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,959
Speaker 1: tell them n ain't shit right now, offline one thing,

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01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:05,040
Speaker 1: and Kiki has done those things in the past. Like

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01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 1: Kiki's an example of a person who has had these

1310
01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:12,160
Speaker 1: moments where she got fucking roasted by social media and

1311
01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,880
Speaker 1: took huge l's on social media and everybody telling her

1312
01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 1: to fuck her and that I never liked you anyway.

1313
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: So I'm like, this is the same people. Just because

1314
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 1: they on your side today don't mean shit. These are

1315
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 1: the same people that were running you off the internet

1316
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: just a few short years ago for statements that felt

1317
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 1: more ignorant and are not innocuous than they were purposely

1318
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: harmful inflammatory. But they didn't give a fuck because you're

1319
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,880
Speaker 1: just content to them. Legra says, I followed through my

1320
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 1: internal threat to subscribe to the Blackout Tips YouTube just

1321
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 1: to see Bossi's guns. Really enjoyed when Bossi is on.

1322
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:48,920
Speaker 1: She is one of my favorite Blackout Tips family members.

1323
01:07:50,320 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: We love to see it, We love by see all right.

1324
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: Next episode is twenty seven forty oh wait no no, no, no, no, no, no,

1325
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: gotta go to Spotify podcasters and we gotta do the poe? Okay,

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01:08:02,800 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 1: that's all me, My bad. Uh So the poe was,

1327
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:12,200
Speaker 1: did you know about the women can't be the women

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01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 1: can't shout law? In Dubai? Yes, twelve point five percent. No,

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01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: eighty seven and a half percent.

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01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 2: Shout out to you, twelve point five They googled that

1331
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 2: before y'all took the trip over there.

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01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: You know, well I don't Yeah, I don't know if

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01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: they took the trip over there. They just say they

1334
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: know the law or not. This is with Spotify, right, No, ok, normal.

1335
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 2: But Spotify does have the exact same percentage. Shit, but

1336
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 2: in the same twelve percent voted on both and y'all

1337
01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 2: got that money. Y'all got that do buy money.

1338
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 1: So uh yeah. I think it's interesting because I think

1339
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,160
Speaker 1: the truth is most of us did not know, if

1340
01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 1: not almost all of us did not know, and I

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01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 1: think eighty six, well you're getting up to ninety percent.

1342
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 1: Basically that's all of us didn't know this shit. And

1343
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,600
Speaker 1: the response on social media to that woman's plight was

1344
01:08:57,640 --> 01:09:00,519
Speaker 1: a lot of how do you not know this when

1345
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:02,920
Speaker 1: you go visit another country and I'm like, bru, what

1346
01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:05,960
Speaker 1: are you talking about? Yeah, that's not some common law

1347
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 1: that everybody fucking knows. Can I get if you said, man,

1348
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:11,439
Speaker 1: you can't fucking public or some shit that's against the

1349
01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 1: law here or you know, but this is not something

1350
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:19,120
Speaker 1: Bless heavily talked about. Shouting. Oh, and specifically a woman's shout.

1351
01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: If that was a man, they couldn't have called the

1352
01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: police and been like, the man is shouting, But a

1353
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: woman's shouting, they could literally get you gup thrown in jail.

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01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:29,519
Speaker 1: It's a lot, right, and then that motherfucker left the country.

1355
01:09:29,560 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 1: Fuck you watch out for those loose babies, is the comment.

1356
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:36,559
Speaker 1: Carli says, I've definitely heard of urban legends of baby carriers,

1357
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,599
Speaker 1: car seats on the side of row and when someone

1358
01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:40,519
Speaker 1: pulls over and investigate their rob but this is in

1359
01:09:40,600 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: the nineties. Nether says, please check out Mickey Guiden. If

1360
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: you're going to check out a country artist, I promise

1361
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 1: you will not be disappointed. Tory says, you never know

1362
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:53,439
Speaker 1: when one will try to get you. Get them loose babies, babies.

1363
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: Robiel says, looked times are a strange. Fuck them loose babies,

1364
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 1: how about you treat you that's why you need to go. Oh,

1365
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:02,720
Speaker 1: the beautiful safe shells and the greatest trip of your time,

1366
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: no hoax, and you can scream and drink in freedom.

1367
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 1: Lee says, we don't die, we multiply. Adi Bola says,

1368
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: can't resist the babies. I ask God to protect me

1369
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: as I try to avoid by standar effect to offer

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01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: positive human interaction to people seeing the need it. Don't

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01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: want to be scared out of being a decent person, right,

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01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:22,560
Speaker 1: not me? If that baby, if Carly shit would have

1373
01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 1: been real, them babies be on the all. You can

1374
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 1: be a good person in the back of that trailer

1375
01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:31,559
Speaker 1: getting sex traffic, but not me. Sidney says, what if

1376
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,920
Speaker 1: I said Jason al Dean should have took one in

1377
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 1: Vegas Root sixty six shooting, I'd be wrong. But it's

1378
01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: okay for some people to elude that stuff but not others.

1379
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody fooling with Jason? Right? What a bitch? I

1380
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: hate that dude, like and I and like I said,

1381
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:48,400
Speaker 1: we'll find out later in the week that they did

1382
01:10:48,479 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 1: take Black Lives Matter footage out of the fucking video,

1383
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:54,639
Speaker 1: just as I fucking start. When I watched, I said,

1384
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: then it seems like it's carefully crafted to where someone said, okay,

1385
01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 1: it's two on the nose to show black people beating

1386
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: up cops. Take the black people out, make the same

1387
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:07,120
Speaker 1: video with white people, and then we'll just pretend that

1388
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 1: this is what it was about the whole time. No,

1389
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 1: the fuck it wasn't Antifa. Don't might give a fuck

1390
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 1: about Antifa. You mean niggas, right?

1391
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 4: Uh?

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01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:18,479
Speaker 1: The fam you orgy wasn't real. It was a college

1393
01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:21,000
Speaker 1: thing site that would just reference certain things about FAM

1394
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 1: without saying the name of the school. Okay, thank you, Roger.

1395
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:28,080
Speaker 1: I appreciate your doing that that research for us. Okay,

1396
01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you probably put in a lot of

1397
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: hours to find out the authenticity of that porn video,

1398
01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:36,880
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you. I'm gonna have to do the same.

1399
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 1: The next episode was Merek still grinding Newsy rights in

1400
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:47,640
Speaker 1: I've been in court with a public defender who I

1401
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 1: watched roll through Zilo all long as you won the case,

1402
01:11:51,360 --> 01:11:55,639
Speaker 1: right I damn. I get ready to take your money

1403
01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 1: and put it on it. That's a down payment. It's

1404
01:11:57,800 --> 01:11:59,680
Speaker 1: funny that that's the one job we like. Get off

1405
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:02,679
Speaker 1: your phone, but all all of us at our jobs,

1406
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you do. You probably

1407
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 1: on your phone at some point you like, my job,

1408
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 1: ain't that input where I got to pay attention one

1409
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:10,920
Speaker 1: hundred percent of the time. Your job need to listen,

1410
01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:13,560
Speaker 1: and your job is definitely important enough to somebody, but

1411
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: you don't give a fuck. Obviously, Its congratulations telling the

1412
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 1: voiceover job. When I heard that Kylie Russell lied, I

1413
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 1: was also sad alone being I can't imagine some right

1414
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 1: wing people using her case to talk shit about black people,

1415
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:27,960
Speaker 1: and I know if they do that, it's on them. Still,

1416
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 1: don't make it easier for them. Yeah, I have completely

1417
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: decolonized my mind from that kind of shit. I don't

1418
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: care so like, and this is for the vast majority

1419
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 1: of things. It's why when you listen to the show,

1420
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: you almost I would say almost never, but I feel

1421
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 1: confidence saying never. Hear us be like, don't do this

1422
01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:50,479
Speaker 1: because racist people will then say blank makes them racist.

1423
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't care. It's there. Racist people will always find

1424
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: a way to be racist. Right wing people will always

1425
01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: find it because much of what they believe is in

1426
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,680
Speaker 1: the absence of evidence in the first place. So a

1427
01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:05,640
Speaker 1: Carlie Russell to me has no extra admonishment because of

1428
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 1: the black women go missing for real and now they

1429
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 1: won't look for the next one. If they weren't gonna

1430
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:13,760
Speaker 1: look for the next one, they weren't gonna look for

1431
01:13:13,800 --> 01:13:15,720
Speaker 1: the next one, whether Carlie Russell did what she did

1432
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,320
Speaker 1: or not agree. So I refuse to accept those excuses.

1433
01:13:18,360 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 1: And also, your public servant, your job is to look

1434
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 1: for people. I refuse to give you an excuse. You

1435
01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 1: fucking go look. That's the goddamn job. So I don't

1436
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 1: the job. Yeah, I don't feel that. I don't. I've

1437
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: completely divorced myself from that level of disappointment for black

1438
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:39,599
Speaker 1: people that do fucked up shit. Although you know updated news,

1439
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 1: it seems like they are gonna charge her for this shit,

1440
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,360
Speaker 1: and I was hoping they wouldn't, to be honest, But

1441
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 1: if I'm being fair, they should. If I'm being fair,

1442
01:13:50,360 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 1: they should, because when it's some white woman saying two

1443
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 1: Mexicans try to kidnap me for Michaels and she go

1444
01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 1: to jail, I'll be like, good, what the fuck? You

1445
01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:00,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean? When it's Justice Land, I remember

1446
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 1: people all the way up probably to today, some people

1447
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:06,920
Speaker 1: still make excuses for that bullshit, and I'm like, no,

1448
01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: this motherfucker did something and kept pushing it. They gotta

1449
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: he gotta get in trouble. Now, hopefully Carly's not gonna

1450
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: do a Jessie and keep trying to escalate and keep lying.

1451
01:14:19,000 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 1: Sounds like she's admitted to us, So hopefully it's a

1452
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:23,920
Speaker 1: slap on the rest to find some you know, something

1453
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: that she's not gonna really be taken away from her family.

1454
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:29,120
Speaker 1: I think it's more of a mental health situation than

1455
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 1: anything else, because of what she did is so outlandish.

1456
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 1: I can't imagine it's not a mental health thing, you know.

1457
01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:37,679
Speaker 1: I know people go, I don't like to give that excuse,

1458
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:39,560
Speaker 1: So it's not an excuse. I think it's an explanation.

1459
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:45,599
Speaker 1: And if any any any reason you have is going

1460
01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:48,840
Speaker 1: to lead back to only a person going through a

1461
01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 1: mental health situation would think that was reasonable. So you

1462
01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 1: even you're like, I won't give her that, well, you're

1463
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:58,840
Speaker 1: not giving anybody shit. It's just what happened. That the

1464
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 1: kind of decision making and that happened there is the

1465
01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:03,559
Speaker 1: kind of decision making that is coming from a person

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01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 1: that's having some sort of mental.

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Speaker 2: Issues, right because you know, at the end of the day,

1468
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 2: it's time as money, as resources, this manpower that went

1469
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:14,400
Speaker 2: into this and that shit.

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01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 1: Matters all right. Ramsey DJing says five stars because Mary

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01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:22,640
Speaker 1: State gri Island Eve says, I gotta admit that I

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01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: believe Klie Russell nearly to the end. I think the

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01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 1: people who are calling her a lin ass bitch or

1474
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 1: saying they knew all alone, though days earlier they were

1475
01:15:29,920 --> 01:15:32,439
Speaker 1: posting prayers for Callie content, never gave a fuck about

1476
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: her in the first place. Cloud seems to be a

1477
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 1: hell of a drug. Yes, yes, And that's why it

1478
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:42,439
Speaker 1: does make me nervous when Keyky Palmer is catering to

1479
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:46,320
Speaker 1: these people. These are not These people are always looking

1480
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: for content and cloud and shit that is not real.

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01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 1: They don't care about people. I think that's what throws

1482
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:55,600
Speaker 1: me off about the Cali thing. It's hard for me

1483
01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: to reconcile that you cared because she's a human being

1484
01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:02,800
Speaker 1: in and you just wanted her back, or did you

1485
01:16:03,000 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: care because of what you can make that political statements

1486
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:09,000
Speaker 1: mean for you and how it made you look to

1487
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 1: other people to care. Because the way that you soul

1488
01:16:13,280 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 1: the opposite of caring. The second that you you know

1489
01:16:17,000 --> 01:16:20,040
Speaker 1: that the story came in and something was up feels

1490
01:16:20,280 --> 01:16:23,200
Speaker 1: very like like, put it this way. Let's say it

1491
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 1: was your niece, somebody you love, and she did this right.

1492
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: And let's say even in the beginning you had your suspicions,

1493
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:33,160
Speaker 1: but you want or found, You want her to come

1494
01:16:33,200 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 1: home right right, So you say, hey, can we please

1495
01:16:37,000 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 1: find my niece? Okay, she comes home, you find out

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01:16:41,000 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 1: she's lying. How many of you if that was your niece,

1497
01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 1: your loved one, the person you care about, would be

1498
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 1: on the internet like this line, bitch made me make jokes,

1499
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 1: Let me make most of you would not because you

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01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: actually care about that person, and you would be like

1501
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: and investment and what would you would move from concern

1502
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 1: that she was missing to concern to what was going

1503
01:17:02,439 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 1: on with you? Carly, that made you go through the

1504
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 1: correct That's what most of us would do with someone

1505
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:10,840
Speaker 1: we actually cared about. So the way that they went

1506
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,200
Speaker 1: one hundred I'm glad you wrote in because you're helping

1507
01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 1: me figure this out of my brain. The way they

1508
01:17:15,520 --> 01:17:19,200
Speaker 1: went one hundred percent in the opposite direction so quickly

1509
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 1: tells me you didn't care in the first place. That

1510
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 1: was also cloud that was also just how do I

1511
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: make this hashtag missing black girls? And woe is me

1512
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:32,760
Speaker 1: and nobody ever looks for black women and da da

1513
01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 1: da da? How do I make this a cause off

1514
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: of her? But do I care about her? Not the fuck? Really,

1515
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: some people would have been happier if she was never

1516
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:43,160
Speaker 1: found or if the worst had happened to her, just

1517
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:45,800
Speaker 1: so they could keep making it about another cause that's

1518
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 1: not really her and it's about me.

1519
01:17:47,920 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 2: Yes, I one hundred percent agree, because it turned from

1520
01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 2: being concerned to a lot of them anger because they

1521
01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 2: because for some of them, they felt like I wasted

1522
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:02,960
Speaker 2: my post, I wasted my tweets, I wasted you know

1523
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 2: this shine on some fake shit like and a lot

1524
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:09,640
Speaker 2: of them because it wasn't about her.

1525
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:12,160
Speaker 1: They was like, why she was just missing for real?

1526
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:13,200
Speaker 1: Like the fuck is this?

1527
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:14,759
Speaker 2: You know? Why she got to be loud? Why couldn't

1528
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 2: they have found her dad? They did not actually care.

1529
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 2: It turned to anger because in their mind, all of

1530
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 2: a sudden, she fucked up their content and some of

1531
01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:24,120
Speaker 2: them been arguing with.

1532
01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:26,360
Speaker 1: People the whole time when they didn't know, and now

1533
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:28,880
Speaker 1: they feel foolish, so they have to make her the

1534
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 1: butt of the joke because it's like I feel dumb

1535
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:34,640
Speaker 1: for pointing out all these macro reasons and arguing with

1536
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:37,040
Speaker 1: people that didn't believe her the whole time. And so

1537
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: it's just like I said, it turns into something that's

1538
01:18:39,360 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 1: not really about her. And I think I thank you

1539
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: Eve for helping me put that together, because I think

1540
01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 1: that's what bothered me the whole time, is how quick

1541
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 1: it just went to another place that doesn't seem like

1542
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 1: it's really about her either. So yeah, appreciate you, and yeah,

1543
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 1: and the people that even the people that held out

1544
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,840
Speaker 1: hope to the end, I feel like they just didn't

1545
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:05,360
Speaker 1: want this black woman to have been like so many

1546
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 1: white women and other people that have made shit up

1547
01:19:08,040 --> 01:19:10,560
Speaker 1: in the past. But nobody has a monopoly on that.

1548
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 1: Comments on YouTube, Hugh Gordon says MARYT. Garland a new

1549
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:17,800
Speaker 1: impossible white man and he didn't even have to be

1550
01:19:17,920 --> 01:19:22,680
Speaker 1: caught in black face to do it. Haha. Yeah, all right.

1551
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:25,320
Speaker 1: And then the poll, do you ever look at social

1552
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:31,400
Speaker 1: media while working? Yes? Right, everybody was mad at that judge,

1553
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 1: nine percent of y'all. But I'm not a judge either.

1554
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,559
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what you you do something

1555
01:19:39,120 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 1: that somebody thinks is important. It's my fucking point. It's

1556
01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 1: a job. If you were a judge. It becomes a job.

1557
01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 1: At some point you spend an eight hours and you

1558
01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:51,400
Speaker 1: and you looking at marble snap and somebody life on

1559
01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 1: the line, because to you it's just a job. Is

1560
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:56,280
Speaker 1: it right? It's not right. I don't want my surgeon

1561
01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 1: looking at TikTok. Why the fuck they doing my surgery?

1562
01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 1: I get it, But I also, if I'm being frank,

1563
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 1: don't want the brotherfucker that takes my call for customer

1564
01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:08,080
Speaker 1: service when I call Tom Warner. I don't want them

1565
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:11,719
Speaker 1: on the fucking TikTok either. But it's not human nature.

1566
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:14,759
Speaker 1: Is that we just get used to the shit? I agreed. Anyway,

1567
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:19,960
Speaker 1: The people with money many less, so nine percent of

1568
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: the people without money on our website seventy two Spotify people.

1569
01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:26,559
Speaker 1: That's because they are the judges, they are the lord,

1570
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: they are the surgeons. Okay, twenty eight percent, No, but

1571
01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:34,240
Speaker 1: still seventy two percent is still a lot of fucking people.

1572
01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 1: Keep locking them up? Was the Q and A Carrien says,

1573
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:41,320
Speaker 1: keep your foot on their neck. Merrit Dog locked up,

1574
01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:45,439
Speaker 1: throw away the key, says Kisher Toy says, I love

1575
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:48,479
Speaker 1: to see it. Stacey says yes. Raphael says, allowed me

1576
01:20:48,520 --> 01:20:50,680
Speaker 1: to use this chance. Lock them up, lock them up.

1577
01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 1: It would be nice to be at the courthouse ringing

1578
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:55,240
Speaker 1: the Shane bell as they're drag to jail. But they

1579
01:20:55,400 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 1: I've emcting people, so I'm shaming them from home. Lock

1580
01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:01,479
Speaker 1: they stinky maga asses up and throw away the key.

1581
01:21:01,560 --> 01:21:04,559
Speaker 1: Mayor Garland and playing with your bullshit, says James Katie

1582
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:07,559
Speaker 1: and says, yes, you used a prison clip. Y'all think

1583
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 1: she was the person that suggested prison Kim said, I

1584
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,840
Speaker 1: mean Keith says, lock those hipocrists up and throw away

1585
01:21:19,880 --> 01:21:21,880
Speaker 1: the key. I saw this as a staunch prison. I

1586
01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:25,799
Speaker 1: say this is a staunch prison abolitionous obviously, of course, obviously,

1587
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:28,720
Speaker 1: of course. Donstan Blair says, I love y'all. I'm a

1588
01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 1: new listener. I listened to like thirty different podcasts and

1589
01:21:31,120 --> 01:21:33,800
Speaker 1: you're my new number one. I just started paying for

1590
01:21:33,880 --> 01:21:36,559
Speaker 1: the lock content. I'm gonna keep it, keep being funny,

1591
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,760
Speaker 1: great and awesome. Thank you Blair. We number one, we

1592
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:42,920
Speaker 1: ain't number one. We love to see it, we do.

1593
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:45,960
Speaker 1: Thank you baby. All right, let's get to the last

1594
01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 1: episode of the week on this high note here, all right.

1595
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: The last episode was twenty seven forty two paying Hennessy Rates.

1596
01:21:54,920 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: Now we would have just named the Hennessy Rates, but

1597
01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: we already had an episode named Hennessy Rates because we

1598
01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 1: talked about this before and found it just as fucking

1599
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 1: funny at the time. I don't know why. I'm like,

1600
01:22:05,240 --> 01:22:09,200
Speaker 1: who never heard of him before? Uh shows, y'all? So

1601
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:12,800
Speaker 1: we had gas Store and Shilawa on from the War

1602
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 1: Report podcast. Was so much fun, some of our favorite guests,

1603
01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: a lot of yours favorite guests, y'all loved them. Let's

1604
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:21,160
Speaker 1: go to the comments. Tanya W. Forty two says this

1605
01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:24,240
Speaker 1: episode was so great. I listened to her twice. Abbia says,

1606
01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 1: I know Shilel from Keith and the Girl, and I

1607
01:22:26,160 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: find her always extremely likable. I know she's adorable every

1608
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 1: time I listen to her anywhere. I just want to

1609
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:33,680
Speaker 1: be her best friend. I feel like she gives that

1610
01:22:33,840 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: energy to everyone. I'm not special, We're all in the same.

1611
01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 1: I wish Hi Lee was my best friend vote and

1612
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:41,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how. I don't know how she does it,

1613
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 1: but it's amazing. I love her. Abbia says, I know

1614
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:46,719
Speaker 1: you didn't talk about it, but I read in American

1615
01:22:46,800 --> 01:22:49,160
Speaker 1: media about those European heat ways. Well, we had a

1616
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 1: code of summer in years sixty to seventy degrees and

1617
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,000
Speaker 1: lots of range. Just wanted to put put this out

1618
01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 1: go truth. EVI says, great episode with Gaster Chilew. I

1619
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 1: became a fan of The War Report from the first

1620
01:23:00,320 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 1: time they were on. I love to hear that. I

1621
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 1: love when we love somebody, we put them on the

1622
01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:07,360
Speaker 1: show and then y'all love them. That's a great feeling.

1623
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:11,160
Speaker 1: And I know it's just our people and not everybody

1624
01:23:11,280 --> 01:23:14,000
Speaker 1: is for everyone. But when y'all can get on that

1625
01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 1: wave left of oh I like this, we get it.

1626
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:20,120
Speaker 1: It is a blast. That podcast so hilarious because they

1627
01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:22,400
Speaker 1: have great chemistry, and Gasto always cracks me up because

1628
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,680
Speaker 1: he always sends shout outs to the most inappropriate thing

1629
01:23:24,800 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 1: he does. You've been here some shit, but like she'd

1630
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:31,639
Speaker 1: be like, no, no, this is not inappropriate. Shout out yeah, yeah, gas.

1631
01:23:32,439 --> 01:23:34,960
Speaker 1: Gasto will say some stuff sometimes when I'm just like,

1632
01:23:35,880 --> 01:23:39,760
Speaker 1: only Gastro can get away with saying that. You know,

1633
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:42,559
Speaker 1: he's like talking about putting all his money in crypto

1634
01:23:42,680 --> 01:23:45,599
Speaker 1: or whatever and seeing how it could work. I was like, yeah,

1635
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,720
Speaker 1: Gasto of course been like shout out to Crypto, you'd

1636
01:23:48,720 --> 01:23:51,080
Speaker 1: be like, no, you know, shout out to crypto, shout

1637
01:23:51,120 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 1: out to Marscreley or something like that. Seems like an

1638
01:23:54,280 --> 01:23:56,720
Speaker 1: inappropriate shout out. How did we get here? Pretty sure

1639
01:23:56,760 --> 01:23:58,880
Speaker 1: that's a bad person gas store. But if you like it,

1640
01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:02,920
Speaker 1: I love it. Let's see. I didn't feel the least

1641
01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:04,880
Speaker 1: bit sorry for Mitch McConnell. That man is so evil,

1642
01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 1: he's riding from the inside. He probably just shits his pants,

1643
01:24:08,280 --> 01:24:11,120
Speaker 1: shit his pants and was embarrassed. Y'all heard that too,

1644
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: and that was I hate to sound so uh, you know,

1645
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: like basic in a joke that I feel like is

1646
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 1: a street joke, and everybody probably made the same joke,

1647
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 1: but that's absolutely My first thought was is he shitting

1648
01:24:23,200 --> 01:24:28,840
Speaker 1: on himself? You know, like like like something's wrong? Yeah,

1649
01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:31,360
Speaker 1: what happened here? Like is this man just did he

1650
01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 1: just shit on himself? And then we all got to

1651
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 1: pretend like we didn't see that this man just shit

1652
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:41,120
Speaker 1: on himself because it felt like what I mean, look,

1653
01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 1: I haven't seen a lot of people shit on themselves

1654
01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:46,679
Speaker 1: in public. I'm sure it's embarrassing the people in general,

1655
01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:50,200
Speaker 1: but I've seen toddlers do it, and it felt like

1656
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:53,920
Speaker 1: what a toddler does, and it looked like what a

1657
01:24:54,000 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 1: tyler does when they shouldn't. So anyway, people on the

1658
01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:00,519
Speaker 1: left seem to be falling over themselves the wishes man, Well,

1659
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:02,320
Speaker 1: is it to prove that good people, even though they

1660
01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 1: know the right, wouldn't have had the same courtesy. This

1661
01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:11,479
Speaker 1: is why I will always go back to when and

1662
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:17,559
Speaker 1: how you motherfuckers out there talk shit about Michelle Obama. Yes,

1663
01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:20,120
Speaker 1: what she said, when they go low, we go high,

1664
01:25:20,760 --> 01:25:23,320
Speaker 1: and you all lied and said no, I go to

1665
01:25:23,479 --> 01:25:26,320
Speaker 1: the floor, I go to hell. I go No, you

1666
01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:29,680
Speaker 1: don't because you have to play by rules and you

1667
01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:33,839
Speaker 1: have to be right and morally superior. You never truly

1668
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 1: go low. You always have a bunch of him and

1669
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:40,519
Speaker 1: hollering on our side about going low. You can't even

1670
01:25:40,560 --> 01:25:43,000
Speaker 1: say Trump got a little dick without somebody being like

1671
01:25:43,439 --> 01:25:45,560
Speaker 1: one of the Well see that's what a penis. A

1672
01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:48,400
Speaker 1: micro penis is when some people have with it and

1673
01:25:48,479 --> 01:25:50,240
Speaker 1: it's like, what are y'all doing? Right? You be like

1674
01:25:50,280 --> 01:25:53,160
Speaker 1: this nigga's orange? How dare you talk about I love

1675
01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:56,400
Speaker 1: his skin. I'm trying to insult this man on purpose.

1676
01:25:56,520 --> 01:25:59,240
Speaker 1: This ain't an accident. I do want him to feel

1677
01:25:59,280 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 1: bad by the rules and morals that he has not mine.

1678
01:26:02,840 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 1: You know, I remember, I remember this long time ago,

1679
01:26:05,240 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 1: and this person doesn't fuck with me no more, thank god,

1680
01:26:08,280 --> 01:26:11,080
Speaker 1: because I, honest to god, I would have touched this

1681
01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 1: person out. That's how bad that this point was. And

1682
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 1: it made me so frustrated. But Milania Trump posed their

1683
01:26:17,200 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 1: playboy and yet Republicans love her with a classy first lady.

1684
01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,439
Speaker 1: And then they called Michelle Obama kinzer harlots for showing

1685
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:28,080
Speaker 1: her arms and shit, sir, and I pointed this out

1686
01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:30,680
Speaker 1: on my Facebook page and somebody was in there like, well,

1687
01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:33,320
Speaker 1: first of all, we shouldn't slut shame Allania, but shut

1688
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:36,200
Speaker 1: the fuck up. Wait, what are you talking about? What

1689
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 1: are you literally fucking talking about right now? I don't

1690
01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:43,519
Speaker 1: have a problem with people doing sex work. Their side

1691
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 1: does and they are hypocrites, and I will always point

1692
01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:49,360
Speaker 1: it out. And if you can't understand that very simple

1693
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 1: point that I'm making, this is not fucking two o too.

1694
01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:55,240
Speaker 1: This is one on one shit I'm saying, get the

1695
01:26:55,320 --> 01:26:57,080
Speaker 1: fuck out of my face, because you just want to

1696
01:26:57,240 --> 01:27:01,800
Speaker 1: look morally superior, you want to feel morally superior, Like, look,

1697
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 1: I love sex work. And so I would never shut

1698
01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:07,599
Speaker 1: the fuck up. I'm not talking about you feeling bad

1699
01:27:07,600 --> 01:27:10,080
Speaker 1: about it. I'm talking about the people that select, that

1700
01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 1: shame people, the people that call this black upstanding woman

1701
01:27:15,360 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: all kinds of manners of horror and ugly and beast

1702
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 1: and all this shit for fucking eight years, and then

1703
01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:27,240
Speaker 1: accepted the kind of person they supposed to be calling

1704
01:27:27,520 --> 01:27:29,880
Speaker 1: a horror and a select in the White House as

1705
01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:33,559
Speaker 1: if she was royalty, accepted the fact that she only

1706
01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 1: she speaks with an accent, as if that didn't they

1707
01:27:36,280 --> 01:27:38,880
Speaker 1: gonna call Barack Obama ever lovel a fucking foreigner and

1708
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 1: wanted to see his birth certificate. This woman got a

1709
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:44,120
Speaker 1: whole ass accent and they like she from Transylvania. They

1710
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:47,240
Speaker 1: didn't say shit. So if I can't point that out

1711
01:27:47,320 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 1: without you trying to play some moral fucking high ground

1712
01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:53,200
Speaker 1: with me, get out of my face. That's the point

1713
01:27:53,200 --> 01:27:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm making. So we never get to go low for real.

1714
01:27:56,760 --> 01:27:59,719
Speaker 1: So we end up in this Mitch McConnell's shits himself

1715
01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:02,479
Speaker 1: or has a stroke, and everybody got to do well. Listen,

1716
01:28:02,680 --> 01:28:05,439
Speaker 1: my father had a stroke and I wish him well.

1717
01:28:06,479 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 1: I wish what did your daddy try to take away

1718
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:11,040
Speaker 1: my rights to vote? Right, did he? Because I'll tell

1719
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:12,960
Speaker 1: you fuck him too. If he I don't give a fuck.

1720
01:28:13,080 --> 01:28:16,800
Speaker 1: That's his stroke, y'all deal with that. As the old

1721
01:28:16,880 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 1: lady in the new clip says, am I suppose feel

1722
01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:24,280
Speaker 1: sorry for that bitch? I don't. Mm hm, she said, fuck.

1723
01:28:24,439 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 1: Shout out the three guys home. You know that. I don't.

1724
01:28:29,840 --> 01:28:32,640
Speaker 1: I don't. That's our clip, although maybe they played on

1725
01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:33,400
Speaker 1: that too, I don't remember.

1726
01:28:33,920 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 2: Uh.

1727
01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:36,320
Speaker 1: Speaking of another piece of shit, Jason Alden his trash

1728
01:28:36,360 --> 01:28:38,800
Speaker 1: several stories about him being a garbage uman being, and

1729
01:28:38,920 --> 01:28:40,519
Speaker 1: it said so much about him by the way his

1730
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:42,559
Speaker 1: fans have attacked anyone with the slice critique of him

1731
01:28:42,600 --> 01:28:45,960
Speaker 1: by using racial slurs, trash and tracks trash. Yeah, I'm

1732
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:48,320
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I haven't been privy to that online discussion,

1733
01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:52,840
Speaker 1: so I'll take your word for it. Uh. I don't know.

1734
01:28:52,920 --> 01:28:54,720
Speaker 1: I know his song with the number one in the

1735
01:28:54,800 --> 01:28:56,840
Speaker 1: country or number one in the country music or number

1736
01:28:56,840 --> 01:29:00,240
Speaker 1: two in the country music. Uh, I don't know. Every

1737
01:29:00,320 --> 01:29:02,799
Speaker 1: take I've seen about it is mostly to me stupid.

1738
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 1: So a lot of don't talk about this takes a

1739
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:10,439
Speaker 1: lot of you know, is it really racist? Takes. I

1740
01:29:10,560 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 1: saw a freedom of speech take from somebody. Most of

1741
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 1: the takes I'm seeing about this are just doing so

1742
01:29:16,439 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 1: much to avoid the obvious. Maybe they want to have

1743
01:29:19,479 --> 01:29:21,840
Speaker 1: a deeper critical thinking level of it, But this one

1744
01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 1: just seems very simple to me. And I don't think

1745
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:28,400
Speaker 1: he's worth going back and forth with his fans. I

1746
01:29:28,479 --> 01:29:31,800
Speaker 1: don't think it's worth giving him benefit of the doubt.

1747
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:35,880
Speaker 1: It just he seems to revel in the you know,

1748
01:29:36,080 --> 01:29:39,599
Speaker 1: culture wars of freedom of speech, and y'all not gonna

1749
01:29:39,960 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 1: tell me what to do, and I want America just

1750
01:29:42,200 --> 01:29:44,360
Speaker 1: to go back to when it was. I don't know.

1751
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:47,120
Speaker 1: Seem like we've seen this before, and to me, it's

1752
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:49,400
Speaker 1: easy to just cast it as these probably racist and

1753
01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:51,840
Speaker 1: I haven't seen whatever the scuttle but is about him

1754
01:29:51,880 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 1: personally being a piece of shit. But that always happens

1755
01:29:54,840 --> 01:29:59,080
Speaker 1: when somebody does anything newsworthy, So as you know, I'll

1756
01:29:59,160 --> 01:30:01,839
Speaker 1: just chalk that up to part of the news cycle. Agreed.

1757
01:30:02,880 --> 01:30:06,639
Speaker 1: Let's see comments on YouTube. My mom says, hilarious show

1758
01:30:07,200 --> 01:30:10,840
Speaker 1: laughing sweating emoji. I didn't know when we had Chale

1759
01:30:10,960 --> 01:30:13,080
Speaker 1: one and Gasta, I said, my mom's gonna love these two,

1760
01:30:14,000 --> 01:30:16,080
Speaker 1: not that she doesn't love all our guests, but you know,

1761
01:30:16,240 --> 01:30:18,240
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like my mom, gonna comment on this one.

1762
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:22,320
Speaker 1: Christa says, when Gaster said we could sit in silence

1763
01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:24,880
Speaker 1: and eat this food, that spoke to my soul preaching

1764
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:30,120
Speaker 1: the good word. Ha ha ha. Absolutely, And I learned

1765
01:30:30,160 --> 01:30:32,519
Speaker 1: how to do that over the years. Like I said,

1766
01:30:32,600 --> 01:30:33,760
Speaker 1: I was talking.

1767
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:36,000
Speaker 2: I could talk motherfucking paint off the while. But as

1768
01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:38,559
Speaker 2: you get older, you begin to know it's a time

1769
01:30:38,640 --> 01:30:40,240
Speaker 2: to talk, and it's a time just to shut the

1770
01:30:40,320 --> 01:30:42,479
Speaker 2: fuck up. And nobody actually could get cares to give

1771
01:30:42,520 --> 01:30:45,479
Speaker 2: a fuck about what you got to say. And uh,

1772
01:30:46,240 --> 01:30:48,720
Speaker 2: that's a hard peel for people to swallow. Best the

1773
01:30:48,760 --> 01:30:50,439
Speaker 2: people to talk all the time. I love to hear

1774
01:30:50,520 --> 01:30:51,160
Speaker 2: themselves talk.

1775
01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:53,920
Speaker 1: Uh. Then we had comments on the Q and a

1776
01:30:54,120 --> 01:30:56,120
Speaker 1: would you uh oh wait, I'm sorry. First we had

1777
01:30:56,160 --> 01:30:58,719
Speaker 1: the poll should they have jailed the person who sold

1778
01:30:59,080 --> 01:31:02,679
Speaker 1: drugs to Michael Williams? Yes or no? I was actually

1779
01:31:02,720 --> 01:31:06,120
Speaker 1: surprised by the percentage. Sixty two percent did say no,

1780
01:31:06,240 --> 01:31:10,560
Speaker 1: but thirty eight percent say yeah. And on Spotify is

1781
01:31:10,600 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 1: even closer forty six and fifty four percent. So maybe

1782
01:31:13,680 --> 01:31:15,840
Speaker 1: you know, the audience just disagrees on this one. But

1783
01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 1: to me, I don't see what good came up putting

1784
01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:21,439
Speaker 1: this seventy two year old dude in jail for three years, Like,

1785
01:31:21,560 --> 01:31:23,920
Speaker 1: what is it gonna do? You know, unless you think

1786
01:31:24,000 --> 01:31:27,559
Speaker 1: he purposely tried to kill this man, and especially when

1787
01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:29,360
Speaker 1: you find out the seventy two year old has selbstance

1788
01:31:29,400 --> 01:31:32,000
Speaker 1: abuse problems of his own, it doesn't. But this is

1789
01:31:32,080 --> 01:31:33,640
Speaker 1: the point I want to make. I think we have

1790
01:31:33,760 --> 01:31:38,240
Speaker 1: a pretty liberal audience there, at least center left, if

1791
01:31:38,360 --> 01:31:41,439
Speaker 1: not what I believe to be pretty fucking left, just

1792
01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:44,840
Speaker 1: not radical, extreme left or whatever the fuck you're calling

1793
01:31:44,920 --> 01:31:50,519
Speaker 1: it online. Our pretty liberal audience who does know the

1794
01:31:50,680 --> 01:31:54,960
Speaker 1: dangers of overincarceration. They know the dangers of that came

1795
01:31:55,040 --> 01:31:58,600
Speaker 1: after the mass incarceration that front spawned off of the

1796
01:31:59,360 --> 01:32:03,599
Speaker 1: crack at. But we've talked about over policing, We've talked

1797
01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:06,679
Speaker 1: about all this stuff on this podcast, and we're pretty

1798
01:32:06,720 --> 01:32:08,559
Speaker 1: honest and frank about it. And I don't think we're

1799
01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:12,240
Speaker 1: extremely punitive people. I don't think we're like people that

1800
01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:16,520
Speaker 1: rejoice in folks going to jail for non violent offenses.

1801
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:20,479
Speaker 1: Many of these people probably do drugs. Many these people

1802
01:32:20,800 --> 01:32:24,479
Speaker 1: think there's too many people in jail because of drug

1803
01:32:24,600 --> 01:32:27,360
Speaker 1: offenses the way they shouldn't be in jail. Many these

1804
01:32:27,439 --> 01:32:31,720
Speaker 1: people probably sympathize with the amount of black people who

1805
01:32:31,760 --> 01:32:34,560
Speaker 1: are thrown in jail and seeing as irredeemable criminals. And

1806
01:32:34,640 --> 01:32:37,400
Speaker 1: then turned around and we watched the opioid epidemic where

1807
01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:39,760
Speaker 1: they actually treat people that are addicts like addicts and

1808
01:32:39,800 --> 01:32:42,080
Speaker 1: want them to get help. Many of us probably are

1809
01:32:42,200 --> 01:32:45,040
Speaker 1: envious of that. Start out typing programs, all types of shit,

1810
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:50,200
Speaker 1: and yet our audience forty percent on our website, forty

1811
01:32:50,280 --> 01:32:54,000
Speaker 1: six percent on Spotify want to see this seventy to

1812
01:32:54,080 --> 01:32:55,519
Speaker 1: year old man put in jail.

1813
01:32:56,120 --> 01:33:00,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, because at the end of the day America, you know,

1814
01:33:00,320 --> 01:33:02,400
Speaker 2: majority these of Americans, you know they might be for

1815
01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:06,400
Speaker 2: other parts of the world, we are very punitive. As

1816
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,439
Speaker 2: much as we quote unquote claim this, for a lot

1817
01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:13,640
Speaker 2: of people, they only want sympathy, compassion, and understanding to

1818
01:33:13,960 --> 01:33:16,240
Speaker 2: people that they can relate to, in people that look

1819
01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:18,320
Speaker 2: like them. Most people will never admit that, but that

1820
01:33:18,520 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 2: is the truth because for a lot of people, it's

1821
01:33:21,400 --> 01:33:23,240
Speaker 2: locked them up and to this your family member, it's

1822
01:33:23,280 --> 01:33:26,120
Speaker 2: locked them up into this you, it's locked them up,

1823
01:33:26,280 --> 01:33:29,240
Speaker 2: you know, fuck their mental health unless it's your family member.

1824
01:33:29,560 --> 01:33:32,640
Speaker 2: You know, most people, the compassion only extends to me

1825
01:33:32,760 --> 01:33:35,519
Speaker 2: and mind it does not extend to society as a whole.

1826
01:33:35,800 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 1: I'm not for the record, I'm not even shaming these folks.

1827
01:33:39,160 --> 01:33:42,800
Speaker 1: The point I'm trying to make is being punitive is

1828
01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:46,840
Speaker 1: part of the quote unquote justice system. And it's not

1829
01:33:47,240 --> 01:33:50,400
Speaker 1: just right wing conservatives that believe in that agree. People

1830
01:33:50,439 --> 01:33:53,560
Speaker 1: are upset one of their favorite actors is dead and

1831
01:33:53,720 --> 01:33:56,280
Speaker 1: at this point they can't possibly think this is better

1832
01:33:56,360 --> 01:33:58,200
Speaker 1: for society for this person who They don't think this

1833
01:33:58,320 --> 01:34:00,760
Speaker 1: seventy to year old is a minute and all this shit.

1834
01:34:01,160 --> 01:34:04,800
Speaker 1: What they want is revenge. This man is dead and

1835
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:08,080
Speaker 1: I liked his acting. I would like someone to pay

1836
01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:11,560
Speaker 1: for it. I need to feel that. And that is

1837
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:14,160
Speaker 1: part of justicism we don't discuss when you talk about

1838
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:17,760
Speaker 1: prison abolition and all this shit. Those people are so

1839
01:34:18,040 --> 01:34:20,040
Speaker 1: out to lunch because a lot of the times they

1840
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:23,720
Speaker 1: won't accept that people are punitive and it is a

1841
01:34:23,920 --> 01:34:26,800
Speaker 1: part of what people consider to be justice, not just

1842
01:34:26,880 --> 01:34:32,320
Speaker 1: in America. Everywhere. We over incarceraate in America, but we ain't.

1843
01:34:32,920 --> 01:34:36,960
Speaker 1: We over incarceerate. But every single society has some form

1844
01:34:37,040 --> 01:34:41,880
Speaker 1: of jail, some form of penalty that is associated with

1845
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:44,880
Speaker 1: doing stuff. It's not just a for the goodness of

1846
01:34:44,960 --> 01:34:46,760
Speaker 1: the heart of the it is a no, no, no,

1847
01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:48,240
Speaker 1: no no. Part of this is what you did with

1848
01:34:48,320 --> 01:34:51,640
Speaker 1: so heinous and I think this is lightweight and a

1849
01:34:51,720 --> 01:34:55,320
Speaker 1: great example. I didn't anticipate these results from our audience,

1850
01:34:55,360 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 1: but it's a great example of motherfuckers really are punitive,

1851
01:34:59,360 --> 01:35:02,360
Speaker 1: regardless of of what they listen to believe say all.

1852
01:35:02,320 --> 01:35:06,200
Speaker 2: That shit right, and this is why, And not to

1853
01:35:06,280 --> 01:35:09,400
Speaker 2: get off topic, but this is why. It's very very hard,

1854
01:35:09,640 --> 01:35:15,599
Speaker 2: and people don't line don't understand why abolish the police

1855
01:35:15,800 --> 01:35:19,000
Speaker 2: and you know, prison abolitions is a hard thing to sell.

1856
01:35:19,479 --> 01:35:22,000
Speaker 2: They go well, they was like, you know, they get

1857
01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:24,320
Speaker 2: to a certain point and then it's like, no, people

1858
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 2: do believe if somebody fuck with me in mind, I

1859
01:35:26,840 --> 01:35:29,600
Speaker 2: need something in place to quote unquote punish them. You

1860
01:35:29,800 --> 01:35:31,640
Speaker 2: just can't let people just go around do what the

1861
01:35:31,680 --> 01:35:35,040
Speaker 2: fuck they quote unquote want to do. And that's very

1862
01:35:35,200 --> 01:35:38,160
Speaker 2: hard to get the average person to get outside of

1863
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:41,880
Speaker 2: that mind frame. You know, of something, because the first

1864
01:35:41,960 --> 01:35:44,760
Speaker 2: question is what if something happened to me, who would

1865
01:35:44,760 --> 01:35:48,040
Speaker 2: I turn to? And I do not want to live

1866
01:35:48,160 --> 01:35:51,519
Speaker 2: somewhere where it's going to be lawlessness. You know, I

1867
01:35:51,680 --> 01:35:54,679
Speaker 2: just don't because I know that the quote unquote only

1868
01:35:54,800 --> 01:35:57,200
Speaker 2: thing that is protecting a lot of black and brown

1869
01:35:57,240 --> 01:35:59,640
Speaker 2: and marginalized other people. Now, we still get beat up,

1870
01:35:59,640 --> 01:36:01,680
Speaker 2: we still fucked up, we still get killed, don't get

1871
01:36:01,720 --> 01:36:05,080
Speaker 2: me wrong, at an alarming rate. But the only thing

1872
01:36:05,800 --> 01:36:09,479
Speaker 2: that is preventing certain things from happening is these lows

1873
01:36:09,600 --> 01:36:12,400
Speaker 2: and these things in place because they know if they

1874
01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:15,320
Speaker 2: do shit, not all the time, but every now and then,

1875
01:36:15,720 --> 01:36:19,400
Speaker 2: somebody will be held accountable and responsible for doing shit.

1876
01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 2: That's why can't nobody bust up in your house and

1877
01:36:22,680 --> 01:36:25,240
Speaker 2: just take everything in ramshack because of these laws.

1878
01:36:25,360 --> 01:36:27,200
Speaker 1: I don't want a place of lawlessness.

1879
01:36:27,680 --> 01:36:31,240
Speaker 2: So unless you're gonna tell people that something's gonna be

1880
01:36:31,320 --> 01:36:34,000
Speaker 2: in place where I have something to go to. And

1881
01:36:34,120 --> 01:36:37,040
Speaker 2: I don't want no feelings, I don't want no tribal council.

1882
01:36:37,280 --> 01:36:40,400
Speaker 2: I want rules and regulations and laws, so I know

1883
01:36:40,560 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 2: that something's going to happen. People feel like this, and

1884
01:36:43,560 --> 01:36:46,559
Speaker 2: until you get to the root foundation of that, you're

1885
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:48,839
Speaker 2: never going to get people to change their minds.

1886
01:36:50,640 --> 01:36:53,160
Speaker 1: The Q and A, who will Oprah come out of retirement?

1887
01:36:53,240 --> 01:36:58,040
Speaker 1: To interview right now. Honestly, I would love an unabashed

1888
01:36:58,200 --> 01:37:01,880
Speaker 1: interview with Zijang Ping said as creasy. Tray Vaughn says

1889
01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:05,439
Speaker 1: Britney Spears and her family. I feel like that's cheating

1890
01:37:05,479 --> 01:37:06,880
Speaker 1: because you know that they can't be in the same

1891
01:37:06,920 --> 01:37:12,400
Speaker 1: place at Satin time. And Monnie says Ray's suray see.

1892
01:37:12,439 --> 01:37:16,400
Speaker 1: I think is giving interviews and she's doing too much

1893
01:37:16,479 --> 01:37:19,719
Speaker 1: positive shit. I think it would take like a huge,

1894
01:37:19,800 --> 01:37:23,920
Speaker 1: messy scandal to get Oprah come out. Oprah got an

1895
01:37:23,960 --> 01:37:26,680
Speaker 1: interview the Extra Terrestrials when they and Eavidly make their

1896
01:37:26,760 --> 01:37:29,479
Speaker 1: Earth debut. That's a good that's a great one. I

1897
01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:31,840
Speaker 1: do think she would interview the Aliens. She would get

1898
01:37:31,840 --> 01:37:36,600
Speaker 1: to scoop. Yes, yes, Beyonce says Beyonce says Bionca. Vladimir

1899
01:37:36,720 --> 01:37:40,599
Speaker 1: putin his egotistic ass would think that he can disrespect Oprah.

1900
01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:43,560
Speaker 1: Once Oprah done with him, he would totally be demystified.

1901
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:46,320
Speaker 1: I'll pay to watch the interview. I absolutely disagree. I

1902
01:37:46,439 --> 01:37:48,240
Speaker 1: think he might poison her water. Don't do it, Oprah,

1903
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:53,280
Speaker 1: Danielle at He says Carlie Russell. Oh, I low key,

1904
01:37:53,320 --> 01:37:56,360
Speaker 1: I feel like Carli not big enough like if Carle

1905
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 1: would have stayed on the run for like two years

1906
01:37:58,840 --> 01:38:03,320
Speaker 1: and came back. Okay, yes, but two days. That's not

1907
01:38:03,400 --> 01:38:07,080
Speaker 1: on Oprah radar. Beyonce, Tanna hensee coach. I think they

1908
01:38:07,160 --> 01:38:10,799
Speaker 1: got the same issue as Easter Ray, you know. TANASI

1909
01:38:10,880 --> 01:38:15,000
Speaker 1: couldn't possibly Beyond says they're on the list though, because

1910
01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:18,519
Speaker 1: they don't do interviews really, so it would be a gap.

1911
01:38:18,600 --> 01:38:22,200
Speaker 1: But they also need something messy to happen too, and

1912
01:38:22,360 --> 01:38:25,519
Speaker 1: Roger says, I would say b or VP Harris, but

1913
01:38:25,560 --> 01:38:29,160
Speaker 1: I really wanted to interview Dutchess Kresha, Young Miami Brownlee

1914
01:38:29,280 --> 01:38:34,040
Speaker 1: aka the Black Oprah. I don't know. I don't think so.

1915
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:38,800
Speaker 1: I don't know who that is he's talking about. Uh

1916
01:38:40,560 --> 01:38:44,160
Speaker 1: uh wait, make me I'm thinking the wrong person. Let

1917
01:38:44,200 --> 01:38:46,000
Speaker 1: me google to make sure I'm saying for I say

1918
01:38:46,040 --> 01:38:48,880
Speaker 1: some wrong ship. Yeah, Young Miami, Yeah that's what I

1919
01:38:48,920 --> 01:38:52,680
Speaker 1: thought from uh act up and get smacked up? What

1920
01:38:52,760 --> 01:38:54,639
Speaker 1: the is the name of the group City City Girls?

1921
01:38:54,720 --> 01:38:58,280
Speaker 1: I think? But once again, I don't think Young Miami.

1922
01:38:58,800 --> 01:39:01,000
Speaker 1: I don't think oprahs waking get not a bed. She's

1923
01:39:01,000 --> 01:39:03,200
Speaker 1: taking that phone call that's not worth it to her. Yeah,

1924
01:39:03,240 --> 01:39:05,519
Speaker 1: I think when I say Oprah interview, I'm thinking big.

1925
01:39:05,760 --> 01:39:08,200
Speaker 1: I think Aliens was the best answer so far. Yeah,

1926
01:39:08,360 --> 01:39:12,200
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna move for nothing. Yeah, all right, I

1927
01:39:12,320 --> 01:39:14,080
Speaker 1: made more money in my sleep than did some of

1928
01:39:14,120 --> 01:39:16,040
Speaker 1: y'all need to make all year. All right, let's get

1929
01:39:16,040 --> 01:39:19,120
Speaker 1: to the next segment, which is our Instagram segment. Let

1930
01:39:19,160 --> 01:39:31,479
Speaker 1: me play some music first, cook that up, bro, bro,

1931
01:39:59,640 --> 01:40:03,559
Speaker 1: all right, let's get to the Instagram segment. Right now,

1932
01:40:04,200 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 1: we're tentatively thinking doing it for the Gram. I think

1933
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:09,760
Speaker 1: if I remember, I'll make this to Q and A,

1934
01:40:10,600 --> 01:40:13,599
Speaker 1: so y'all can make suggestions and next week we'll pick

1935
01:40:13,640 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 1: a name. Definitively, but doing it for the Gram is

1936
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:18,880
Speaker 1: a pretty good name. So doing it for the Gram.

1937
01:40:19,000 --> 01:40:22,400
Speaker 1: On the Blackout Tips Instagram, we had a post what

1938
01:40:22,600 --> 01:40:26,840
Speaker 1: is the best slang? White people came up with, Oh

1939
01:40:26,960 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 1: that said good one. They got some good ones, and

1940
01:40:29,160 --> 01:40:33,360
Speaker 1: I said, for example, no more mister nice guy. I

1941
01:40:33,479 --> 01:40:38,160
Speaker 1: love that. Let's go through the list. It's me thinks says,

1942
01:40:38,720 --> 01:40:44,120
Speaker 1: Oh that is rich. That's a good one. Oh that's

1943
01:40:44,280 --> 01:40:46,519
Speaker 1: rich is a good one. I like, oh that's rich.

1944
01:40:47,120 --> 01:40:50,040
Speaker 1: They was in the bag that day. Oh that's rich.

1945
01:40:50,360 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 1: That's basically like that's what I'm saying. Bullshit, that's cap.

1946
01:40:55,320 --> 01:41:02,360
Speaker 1: That is white people's version of that's cap. Miss Christoval says, whatever,

1947
01:41:02,720 --> 01:41:06,280
Speaker 1: and she included a uh, the a gift because you

1948
01:41:06,320 --> 01:41:09,120
Speaker 1: can do the Jeff gift whatever you call it on

1949
01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:12,880
Speaker 1: Instagram now and it's somebody doing the W a white

1950
01:41:12,920 --> 01:41:17,280
Speaker 1: woman doing the W sign of whatever. Like, uh, let's

1951
01:41:17,280 --> 01:41:20,200
Speaker 1: see who else. Ms Martin says, hold it right there, buddy,

1952
01:41:22,240 --> 01:41:24,799
Speaker 1: that's a good one. That's a good one. That's that's freeze.

1953
01:41:24,880 --> 01:41:29,000
Speaker 1: And no, I like Buster Brown, Buster Brown is that

1954
01:41:29,120 --> 01:41:30,840
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was a white person one. But

1955
01:41:30,960 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 1: that's a good one. How many niggas you you know,

1956
01:41:33,400 --> 01:41:35,720
Speaker 1: talking about Buster Brown? I feel like Buster Brown could

1957
01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:39,360
Speaker 1: be old school black people. But I don't know, I don't,

1958
01:41:39,400 --> 01:41:44,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know. Instant Maury says, anything followed

1959
01:41:44,320 --> 01:41:48,840
Speaker 1: by pal pal is a good one. That's power is

1960
01:41:48,880 --> 01:41:53,320
Speaker 1: a good one. Wang dang doodle. Now that feels racist

1961
01:41:53,360 --> 01:41:58,680
Speaker 1: to me. And white people are good at coming up

1962
01:41:58,720 --> 01:42:01,320
Speaker 1: with racism, of course they They did invent the air word,

1963
01:42:01,400 --> 01:42:04,559
Speaker 1: which is the greatest racist of all time, the greatest racism.

1964
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:11,000
Speaker 1: Our Acres says, news flash, Buddy, news flashes it. That

1965
01:42:11,200 --> 01:42:17,920
Speaker 1: is they jam news flash, buddy is there? You got

1966
01:42:17,960 --> 01:42:23,439
Speaker 1: me fucked up? News flash buddy. Uh that's mighty white

1967
01:42:23,479 --> 01:42:26,479
Speaker 1: of you. Now see, I assume we came.

1968
01:42:26,400 --> 01:42:26,760
Speaker 2: Up with that.

1969
01:42:27,080 --> 01:42:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't. Yeah, I don't think that

1970
01:42:28,720 --> 01:42:30,640
Speaker 1: would be there. Yeah. I feel like they like a

1971
01:42:30,720 --> 01:42:33,880
Speaker 1: black person said that to another black person a long

1972
01:42:34,000 --> 01:42:38,719
Speaker 1: time ago, and then white people co opted it. Uh more.

1973
01:42:38,880 --> 01:42:45,639
Speaker 1: Olivia says, why yoda, why y YadA? Uh. Damien says,

1974
01:42:45,800 --> 01:42:51,800
Speaker 1: that's what she said. They do, they do love. That's

1975
01:42:51,880 --> 01:42:55,160
Speaker 1: definitely one of theirs. Okay, I remember the peak. That's

1976
01:42:55,200 --> 01:42:57,360
Speaker 1: what she said, day is during the office, and uh,

1977
01:42:57,600 --> 01:43:01,679
Speaker 1: it was out of control. A Well, that really screwed

1978
01:43:01,720 --> 01:43:02,719
Speaker 1: the pooch says.

1979
01:43:04,080 --> 01:43:07,800
Speaker 5: That's a good But that is jail who came up

1980
01:43:07,880 --> 01:43:10,920
Speaker 5: with that first, because you already screwed the pooch who

1981
01:43:11,080 --> 01:43:14,599
Speaker 5: came up with that first? Because that person, basically I'm assuming,

1982
01:43:15,120 --> 01:43:18,080
Speaker 5: was making a joke about fucking a dog.

1983
01:43:18,840 --> 01:43:22,519
Speaker 1: What else can screw in the pooch? Mean, so someone

1984
01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:26,040
Speaker 1: came up with this phrase of man, you really had

1985
01:43:26,200 --> 01:43:30,519
Speaker 1: sex with a dog just now, and they were like, yep,

1986
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:33,439
Speaker 1: that's gonna lie that that caught on. That became too

1987
01:43:33,520 --> 01:43:35,400
Speaker 1: spicy for the pepper. Everybody was like, I'm gonna say

1988
01:43:35,439 --> 01:43:39,519
Speaker 1: that you really screwed the pooch on this one. And

1989
01:43:39,600 --> 01:43:43,160
Speaker 1: it's normally said when you fucked up, you're just like

1990
01:43:43,400 --> 01:43:46,800
Speaker 1: so it's the implication you accidentally fucked the dog like

1991
01:43:46,880 --> 01:43:49,840
Speaker 1: you were meant to do something else, but I meant

1992
01:43:49,880 --> 01:43:52,040
Speaker 1: to fuck a woman, but I fucked the dog. Man,

1993
01:43:52,120 --> 01:43:58,400
Speaker 1: I really screwed the pooch today using Darner, heck, that

1994
01:43:58,479 --> 01:44:04,040
Speaker 1: feels very Minnesota nice. Same thing with G Whiz Whiz. Yeah,

1995
01:44:04,360 --> 01:44:06,920
Speaker 1: G Whiz is not that didn't I like me at

1996
01:44:06,960 --> 01:44:11,760
Speaker 1: G Whilloker's, But G Whiz is definitely white people. You're

1997
01:44:11,800 --> 01:44:14,680
Speaker 1: barking up the wrong tree. Now here's the thing for

1998
01:44:14,760 --> 01:44:17,880
Speaker 1: golden I kuwan with that one. Combine that earlier with

1999
01:44:18,000 --> 01:44:20,000
Speaker 1: the person that said pal I love it. You're barking

2000
01:44:20,080 --> 01:44:24,000
Speaker 1: up the wrong tree pole. Yeah, yeah, that's that's that.

2001
01:44:24,200 --> 01:44:26,639
Speaker 1: That's the definitely you got me fucked up in whiteness

2002
01:44:27,880 --> 01:44:33,720
Speaker 1: translating pure white. Uh, that really grinds my gears. Yeah,

2003
01:44:33,800 --> 01:44:36,400
Speaker 1: that's a good one too. That's that's black people. You're

2004
01:44:36,400 --> 01:44:38,720
Speaker 1: getting on my last nerve. You're getting on getting on

2005
01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:44,240
Speaker 1: my nerves. Really, you really grind my gears. Uh are

2006
01:44:44,240 --> 01:44:46,160
Speaker 1: you writing all these down or something? Over there? What's

2007
01:44:46,200 --> 01:44:49,760
Speaker 1: going on? Oh? Okay, I was just looking over there.

2008
01:44:49,960 --> 01:44:51,880
Speaker 1: I just I thought maybe you were trying to make

2009
01:44:51,920 --> 01:44:53,320
Speaker 1: them all titles of the show or something.

2010
01:44:54,240 --> 01:44:54,360
Speaker 4: Uh.

2011
01:44:54,640 --> 01:44:57,559
Speaker 1: They ain't that ingenius to come up with any slang

2012
01:44:57,640 --> 01:45:01,040
Speaker 1: that sticks. That's wrong. They came up with our number

2013
01:45:01,080 --> 01:45:05,519
Speaker 1: one slang, which is nigger a DJ John. You absolutely

2014
01:45:05,600 --> 01:45:06,400
Speaker 1: wrong that.

2015
01:45:06,479 --> 01:45:09,639
Speaker 2: One would last of all time, say number one jam

2016
01:45:10,120 --> 01:45:12,680
Speaker 2: like like they so mad, they can't top that, Like.

2017
01:45:12,800 --> 01:45:15,879
Speaker 1: That was like the pinnacle and they like never recovered

2018
01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:19,479
Speaker 1: there was like, damn it, nothing's lasting load, nothing's lasted

2019
01:45:19,520 --> 01:45:22,120
Speaker 1: longer than that one. You know that. That's so inventive.

2020
01:45:22,160 --> 01:45:24,280
Speaker 1: They'll take other races to just throw that word on

2021
01:45:24,400 --> 01:45:29,800
Speaker 1: the end, right. Uh, Flick's chick g says don't goat rope.

2022
01:45:29,840 --> 01:45:32,000
Speaker 1: Me never heard of that one. That's the new one

2023
01:45:32,080 --> 01:45:35,000
Speaker 1: to me. The fuck is goat bro I have no idea.

2024
01:45:35,320 --> 01:45:38,360
Speaker 1: What kind of white people do you know that that

2025
01:45:38,560 --> 01:45:43,640
Speaker 1: comes up? Goat rope a confusing, disorganized situation, often attributed

2026
01:45:43,720 --> 01:45:47,160
Speaker 1: to or marked by human error. Literally never heard of

2027
01:45:47,240 --> 01:45:50,240
Speaker 1: this shit either. Well, you you dealing with some different

2028
01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:52,400
Speaker 1: kind of whites. I mean you in deep there's some

2029
01:45:52,520 --> 01:45:55,080
Speaker 1: wires and cheese, wine and cheese country whites or something.

2030
01:45:55,120 --> 01:45:59,880
Speaker 1: Alost cha couterie boards totally, says Sonic Geek. And I

2031
01:46:00,000 --> 01:46:03,880
Speaker 1: actually meaning like totally, like in the nineties, as if

2032
01:46:05,160 --> 01:46:09,120
Speaker 1: just cobo, as if that's also a that's cap that's

2033
01:46:09,160 --> 01:46:10,000
Speaker 1: also AD's cap.

2034
01:46:10,640 --> 01:46:10,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

2035
01:46:11,240 --> 01:46:16,120
Speaker 1: Bacon a dog bacon making bacon Mecca bacon Ciling Zilla says,

2036
01:46:16,840 --> 01:46:21,040
Speaker 1: I just had to explain, now we're cooking with gas

2037
01:46:21,200 --> 01:46:23,280
Speaker 1: to my game in Friends with South America is now

2038
01:46:23,720 --> 01:46:26,240
Speaker 1: a favorite because it absolutely is ridiculous. Oh my god,

2039
01:46:26,520 --> 01:46:28,760
Speaker 1: now we're cooking with that is a good one. That

2040
01:46:28,960 --> 01:46:31,880
Speaker 1: absolutely is. Yeah, that's one hundred percent white. You're like cooking,

2041
01:46:31,960 --> 01:46:34,360
Speaker 1: What the fuck? What the is we cooking? I imagine

2042
01:46:34,360 --> 01:46:37,280
Speaker 1: that that slang happened because the first person that had

2043
01:46:37,320 --> 01:46:40,960
Speaker 1: a gas stove wanted to brag yeah, and it was like,

2044
01:46:41,280 --> 01:46:43,559
Speaker 1: you know, come over to my house. I cooked dinner

2045
01:46:43,600 --> 01:46:46,040
Speaker 1: for us. And then they started cooking. It was like, oh,

2046
01:46:46,120 --> 01:46:50,200
Speaker 1: y'all still using them chackos, y'all still using them, them

2047
01:46:50,400 --> 01:46:53,280
Speaker 1: them them charcoal bricks. Y'all still using that open flame.

2048
01:46:53,360 --> 01:46:57,559
Speaker 1: Y'all sill used them wood chips. Now we're cooking with gas. Yeah,

2049
01:46:58,360 --> 01:47:03,679
Speaker 1: you broke, bitch, Mike Kaplan. Oh shit, He says, hold

2050
01:47:03,760 --> 01:47:07,840
Speaker 1: the phone. That's a good one. That is a good

2051
01:47:09,160 --> 01:47:13,120
Speaker 1: hold the phone, Yes, hold the phone. Definitely white people's

2052
01:47:13,160 --> 01:47:16,800
Speaker 1: I can't believe this. You ain't gonna like Yeah, hold

2053
01:47:16,920 --> 01:47:23,599
Speaker 1: the phone. That's a good one that has multiple uses. Yes, uh, well,

2054
01:47:23,800 --> 01:47:29,200
Speaker 1: if that just don't beat all that's what creasy. That's

2055
01:47:29,280 --> 01:47:34,800
Speaker 1: a good one. That's hilarious. Ms. Chrispal says, pull my finger. Yeah,

2056
01:47:34,840 --> 01:47:37,599
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't count. I guess it's white slang.

2057
01:47:37,960 --> 01:47:40,000
Speaker 1: Is that white slang? I don't know that's white slam.

2058
01:47:40,160 --> 01:47:42,479
Speaker 1: I feel like pulling my leg is white slang. Pull

2059
01:47:42,520 --> 01:47:45,679
Speaker 1: my fingers just a fart joke, which white people probably say, Yeah,

2060
01:47:45,680 --> 01:47:47,840
Speaker 1: that's sound like a fart joe, but they don't really

2061
01:47:48,000 --> 01:47:50,840
Speaker 1: use it as like a phrase. It's just like a

2062
01:47:51,200 --> 01:47:58,120
Speaker 1: them being gross. Look here, bucco, not bucco. That's a

2063
01:47:58,160 --> 01:48:04,040
Speaker 1: good one. Never heard of bucko. I've heard a bucko.

2064
01:48:04,240 --> 01:48:06,640
Speaker 1: I've heard that one before. Look here bucko. But my

2065
01:48:06,760 --> 01:48:09,639
Speaker 1: favorite thing is that at some point buco also became fucko.

2066
01:48:09,920 --> 01:48:13,280
Speaker 1: I've seen white people say fucko before. Oh look here.

2067
01:48:13,320 --> 01:48:18,040
Speaker 1: Bucco's pretty good. She sh says, let's go Lexo. I

2068
01:48:18,200 --> 01:48:20,280
Speaker 1: didn't know that was white, but it do make sense.

2069
01:48:20,400 --> 01:48:25,639
Speaker 1: She she's Steve says it's a tie between heavens to Betsy.

2070
01:48:26,520 --> 01:48:28,160
Speaker 1: He's Betsy and.

2071
01:48:28,320 --> 01:48:36,759
Speaker 2: Jeez, Louise, I like that, Geez Louise, let's vote whoked Louise.

2072
01:48:36,960 --> 01:48:39,000
Speaker 1: Who is Betsy and Louise? And why did they get

2073
01:48:39,120 --> 01:48:43,280
Speaker 1: stuck with that? Y'all just be picking a random white

2074
01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:46,519
Speaker 1: person's white woman's name, some woman named Elizabeth. They just

2075
01:48:46,680 --> 01:48:50,240
Speaker 1: maybe that was the first. Karen, I don't know. You're

2076
01:48:50,360 --> 01:48:54,280
Speaker 1: cruising for a bruising. That's a good one. That's definitely

2077
01:48:54,320 --> 01:49:01,559
Speaker 1: a f a f O situation. Kayla says, dilly dallion,

2078
01:49:04,120 --> 01:49:06,880
Speaker 1: dilly dallion, and that that means fucking around. That means

2079
01:49:07,000 --> 01:49:10,600
Speaker 1: wasting time, right. I like that. That's that is some

2080
01:49:10,680 --> 01:49:12,880
Speaker 1: good white slang. I think I use that sometimes me too.

2081
01:49:13,439 --> 01:49:15,960
Speaker 1: AJ says, don't piss on my head and call it rain.

2082
01:49:19,360 --> 01:49:27,400
Speaker 1: They definitely do cooking with gas, Lola says. Nashio says,

2083
01:49:27,479 --> 01:49:29,519
Speaker 1: I'm here to kick ass at you, bubba gum, and

2084
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm all out of gum. I do like that. They

2085
01:49:33,920 --> 01:49:38,720
Speaker 1: don't say it enough Willy Nilly, that's another good one.

2086
01:49:39,560 --> 01:49:43,320
Speaker 1: KK says, Holy fuck, that's a good one too. I

2087
01:49:43,520 --> 01:49:47,519
Speaker 1: use that. Golly. G says, open your eyes, look up

2088
01:49:47,520 --> 01:49:50,680
Speaker 1: to the skies. Yes, Golly is a good one. That's

2089
01:49:50,800 --> 01:49:54,600
Speaker 1: up there with ge Whillikers. Lanson says, whatever used to

2090
01:49:54,640 --> 01:49:57,759
Speaker 1: cut people deep, and don't let mackenzie add double loser

2091
01:49:57,840 --> 01:50:04,680
Speaker 1: to it. It was over, uh, Jonathan says, cut the mallarchy.

2092
01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:08,360
Speaker 1: That's definitely y'all malarkey. I don't even know what the

2093
01:50:08,400 --> 01:50:13,200
Speaker 1: fucking malarkey is. Chef kiss sprinkle, salt Bay emoji. They

2094
01:50:13,320 --> 01:50:16,800
Speaker 1: did that. They cut the mallarkey. They did that one.

2095
01:50:18,520 --> 01:50:22,679
Speaker 1: Bitch please, says us still zero seven. I'm not sure

2096
01:50:22,800 --> 01:50:28,599
Speaker 1: that's them. I feel like bitch pleases us. I feel

2097
01:50:30,000 --> 01:50:31,800
Speaker 1: at least the way we use it, don't. I feel

2098
01:50:31,840 --> 01:50:34,160
Speaker 1: like they don't White people. White people are a little

2099
01:50:34,200 --> 01:50:36,160
Speaker 1: too literal with they with their stuff. They would have

2100
01:50:36,240 --> 01:50:42,160
Speaker 1: really meant, please, bitch do this thing for me. Leslie says,

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Speaker 1: that really gets my goat. That's them, that's them, And

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Speaker 1: what does it mean to get the goat?

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01:50:47,280 --> 01:50:47,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:50:49,479 --> 01:50:52,200
Speaker 1: What happens once you get the goat. Yeah, with someone

2105
01:50:52,280 --> 01:50:55,880
Speaker 1: stealing people goats, and it was like, oh, that really

2106
01:50:55,920 --> 01:51:02,320
Speaker 1: gets my goat this guy. That's so simple and it's sulting.

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01:51:02,800 --> 01:51:06,760
Speaker 1: It is it is guy. So it said, that's the

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01:51:06,880 --> 01:51:11,439
Speaker 1: way of calling someone an asshole. Yeah, can you believe

2109
01:51:11,520 --> 01:51:14,800
Speaker 1: this guy? This guy? Oh, this is a good one.

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01:51:14,880 --> 01:51:20,760
Speaker 1: JVB says, frigging a yes, frigging a yeah, brillian a

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01:51:21,000 --> 01:51:23,880
Speaker 1: fucking a. I don't even know what the A stands for.

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01:51:24,479 --> 01:51:28,320
Speaker 1: That is they ship Uh. J two five to two says,

2113
01:51:28,400 --> 01:51:31,639
Speaker 1: look here, buddy, or news flash, buddy, on my face

2114
01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:33,960
Speaker 1: be cuz they kid bookerote, I've heard that one. Yeah.

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01:51:34,040 --> 01:51:37,920
Speaker 1: Look whatever coming after those phrases are getting ready to

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01:51:37,960 --> 01:51:41,200
Speaker 1: be said with conviction. Uh, that's what she said. We

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01:51:41,320 --> 01:51:43,680
Speaker 1: got that already, No more, mister NICs got hey, that's

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01:51:43,720 --> 01:51:46,240
Speaker 1: my example. That's what we started with. Preacher says I've

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01:51:46,280 --> 01:51:49,720
Speaker 1: had it up to here. Yeah that's not up to here,

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01:51:49,840 --> 01:51:52,599
Speaker 1: and they put their hand up. Yeah it's nobody above

2121
01:51:52,680 --> 01:51:56,719
Speaker 1: their head. Yeah I'm not. That's what you know. It's serious,

2122
01:51:57,040 --> 01:52:01,080
Speaker 1: not fucking around with y'all. No more, man, that's destiny. Now,

2123
01:52:01,160 --> 01:52:03,479
Speaker 1: that's a good one, and that they came up with it.

2124
01:52:03,560 --> 01:52:05,600
Speaker 1: It's a bad one in that they don't use it

2125
01:52:05,680 --> 01:52:08,479
Speaker 1: as slang. It's not really slang. It's the last time

2126
01:52:08,600 --> 01:52:12,200
Speaker 1: a white person dropped manifest destiny in passing. You know,

2127
01:52:12,720 --> 01:52:14,439
Speaker 1: I had it up to hear. They say that still

2128
01:52:15,800 --> 01:52:18,880
Speaker 1: as if this one's French Canadian but used in English.

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01:52:18,920 --> 01:52:21,840
Speaker 1: That shut up podcasts. Fucked the dog. It's another way

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01:52:21,880 --> 01:52:24,920
Speaker 1: to say you didn't do shit today. Ah, that's a

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01:52:24,960 --> 01:52:26,880
Speaker 1: new one. That's that's weird. That fuck the dog has

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01:52:26,920 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 1: a different meaning. And screwed the pooch uh outcasting one

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01:52:32,960 --> 01:52:38,760
Speaker 1: says don't press your luck, buddy, come home. That's a

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01:52:38,880 --> 01:52:42,200
Speaker 1: slow your horses. That's another one that you slow your horses. Yes,

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01:52:42,880 --> 01:52:48,599
Speaker 1: lots of imagination, says dudel. Oh elbows are on the table,

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01:52:48,640 --> 01:52:50,360
Speaker 1: says can't cut the mustard.

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01:52:50,560 --> 01:52:54,240
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a that's a good one. That can't cut

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01:52:54,360 --> 01:52:56,160
Speaker 2: the bust because that that's not us.

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01:52:56,720 --> 01:53:00,400
Speaker 1: Can't cut the mustard. They were in the zone, ya

2140
01:53:00,800 --> 01:53:01,679
Speaker 1: can't cut the buster.

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01:53:01,920 --> 01:53:04,880
Speaker 2: I don't even know about me. I don't know if

2142
01:53:04,920 --> 01:53:06,840
Speaker 2: they you know, they tried mayo. They was like, nah,

2143
01:53:06,920 --> 01:53:07,559
Speaker 2: nao don't work.

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01:53:07,640 --> 01:53:10,920
Speaker 1: What can't cut the mustard? Mustard is a liquid basically

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01:53:11,520 --> 01:53:14,559
Speaker 1: everything A spoon could cut mustard and I guess that's

2146
01:53:14,600 --> 01:53:16,639
Speaker 1: the plug they say, cut it right. If they say

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01:53:16,680 --> 01:53:19,280
Speaker 1: you can't cut the mustard, you know how, you ain't shit.

2148
01:53:20,840 --> 01:53:23,640
Speaker 1: They really saying you completely ain't shit. You are so

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01:53:23,880 --> 01:53:30,200
Speaker 1: in dept you can't cut a fucking not solid thing. Wow.

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01:53:31,560 --> 01:53:35,160
Speaker 1: Apia's Appias says, well, today I wanted to participate in

2151
01:53:35,240 --> 01:53:37,240
Speaker 1: the Instagram pot but as a white farmer from a

2152
01:53:37,280 --> 01:53:40,400
Speaker 1: non English speaking country, maybe next time. All right, Well,

2153
01:53:40,400 --> 01:53:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure Germany got plenty of shit that's white people slaying,

2154
01:53:43,400 --> 01:53:49,439
Speaker 1: but it's okay, no no pressure to contribute. Black actor

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01:53:49,479 --> 01:53:54,880
Speaker 1: God them says, that's a bunch of hooey, not hooey.

2156
01:54:00,920 --> 01:54:03,840
Speaker 1: Oh that's so good hing.

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01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:07,080
Speaker 2: Some of these is white people across the country have

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01:54:07,200 --> 01:54:09,200
Speaker 2: depends on where you live, because what the hell is

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01:54:09,200 --> 01:54:09,559
Speaker 2: a hui?

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01:54:09,920 --> 01:54:11,920
Speaker 1: Is that what the Hoosiers were? I don't know. Is

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01:54:12,000 --> 01:54:15,120
Speaker 1: that WHOI and a blowfish? I don't know, but a

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01:54:15,200 --> 01:54:17,880
Speaker 1: bunch of who? He is white? And why don't they

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01:54:18,280 --> 01:54:21,680
Speaker 1: still use that? They should do that more often. I

2164
01:54:21,680 --> 01:54:24,320
Speaker 1: want to see Jeffvan and Gunny covering the NBA and

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01:54:24,439 --> 01:54:26,040
Speaker 1: the rough make a bad calling. He call it a

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01:54:26,080 --> 01:54:30,439
Speaker 1: bunch of HOOI y'all are losing recipes. Yes, y'all are

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01:54:31,439 --> 01:54:35,400
Speaker 1: he was as mad as a hornet, says bend Art. Mmmm,

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01:54:35,520 --> 01:54:36,120
Speaker 1: that's a good one.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: That's why they pay you, the big bucks. Screwed the pooch.

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01:54:43,680 --> 01:54:48,920
Speaker 1: Shut your white mouth, that's not white? What what I think?

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01:54:49,080 --> 01:54:51,160
Speaker 1: I think Wilder just wanted to say something.

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01:54:51,320 --> 01:54:55,120
Speaker 2: Because I have to say they normally uh uh, don't

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01:54:55,560 --> 01:54:58,520
Speaker 2: you know. It's like when they actually they think don't

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01:54:58,600 --> 01:55:00,880
Speaker 2: have the race in it, when they got shut if.

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01:55:00,720 --> 01:55:03,720
Speaker 1: You would have just said shut your mouth, maybe, but

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01:55:03,920 --> 01:55:06,760
Speaker 1: shut your white mouth is not a I mean maybe

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01:55:06,760 --> 01:55:08,560
Speaker 1: you know, just some different white people did not know.

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01:55:08,720 --> 01:55:11,960
Speaker 1: And that's agreed. But I've never heard that one in

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01:55:12,120 --> 01:55:14,240
Speaker 1: any of my adventures with the white pear with with

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01:55:14,360 --> 01:55:20,600
Speaker 1: the other side. Okay, and lastly, holy smokes, that's a

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01:55:20,640 --> 01:55:24,960
Speaker 1: good one. Great job everyone, great job that. I love

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01:55:25,040 --> 01:55:29,400
Speaker 1: this segment. Okay, doing it for the ground uh tentatively

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Speaker 1: named Uh. Now, let's get into the emails, the last thing,

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Speaker 1: all right, final segment. Voicemails, I mean emails. We didn't

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01:56:19,440 --> 01:56:23,320
Speaker 1: get any voicemails this week. H Professor Carreta says, just

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01:56:23,440 --> 01:56:25,360
Speaker 1: my luck, dear Rod and Carroll, hope this may just

2188
01:56:25,400 --> 01:56:27,920
Speaker 1: find you well, I'm righting the into wine y'all. Made

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01:56:27,920 --> 01:56:30,200
Speaker 1: the announce about the live show shortly after I arranged

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01:56:30,200 --> 01:56:32,240
Speaker 1: to be in Minneapolis to see Janelle Money with a

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01:56:32,280 --> 01:56:34,440
Speaker 1: friend whose birthday is the same week. It's a perfect

2192
01:56:34,440 --> 01:56:36,640
Speaker 1: example how we just can't do everything is no one's foot.

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01:56:36,680 --> 01:56:38,280
Speaker 1: I'm happy to be there for my friend, but I'm

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01:56:38,280 --> 01:56:40,640
Speaker 1: doing a little winding now to get it out my system. Lol.

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01:56:41,080 --> 01:56:42,960
Speaker 1: Send a good energy to you all and all of

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01:56:43,000 --> 01:56:46,240
Speaker 1: the Black Autos nations. I'll see y'all next time. PS

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01:56:46,320 --> 01:56:48,760
Speaker 1: to Drake Domini's podcast is brilliant in so many ways.

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01:56:48,760 --> 01:56:51,800
Speaker 1: With the AI Assistant perfection. You had to mention on

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01:56:51,920 --> 01:56:54,960
Speaker 1: the pregame the freedom of creating the fictional help character

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01:56:55,000 --> 01:56:58,400
Speaker 1: to help the story, but the execution worked so freaking well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't write that one. And the AI being money Exchange.

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01:57:04,200 --> 01:57:06,040
Speaker 1: I think if you guys would have saw the first

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01:57:06,160 --> 01:57:10,280
Speaker 1: raft versus what we ended up with that money exchange

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01:57:10,320 --> 01:57:13,600
Speaker 1: performance just top completely took it to the next level.

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01:57:13,600 --> 01:57:17,520
Speaker 1: And I love that as far as just not being

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01:57:17,520 --> 01:57:20,160
Speaker 1: able to make it obviously if I brought up earlier

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01:57:20,200 --> 01:57:21,520
Speaker 1: and I don't want to pile on or make it

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01:57:21,640 --> 01:57:25,200
Speaker 1: seem like it's an issue, but no need to write

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Speaker 1: in about it. Guys, if you can't make it, no

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01:57:27,200 --> 01:57:32,280
Speaker 1: one's holding you any there's no hold hostage. We're not disappointed,

2211
01:57:32,560 --> 01:57:36,760
Speaker 1: there's no negativity towards it. And just as an artist,

2212
01:57:36,800 --> 01:57:39,080
Speaker 1: as a creative, as the person that's gonna be doing

2213
01:57:39,160 --> 01:57:42,960
Speaker 1: this event, let me just be completely transparent with y'all.

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01:57:43,080 --> 01:57:45,720
Speaker 1: Win someone writes in to tell you they're not gonna

2215
01:57:45,760 --> 01:57:49,080
Speaker 1: make it. It doesn't feel good, you know, because you

2216
01:57:49,200 --> 01:57:52,200
Speaker 1: want to create a vibe of who like, we're having fun.

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01:57:52,360 --> 01:57:54,400
Speaker 1: The people that can make it are gonna have fun.

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01:57:54,480 --> 01:57:56,280
Speaker 1: The people that don't make it wish they could be there,

2219
01:57:56,320 --> 01:57:59,560
Speaker 1: but it's cool, they're not gonna be there. They'll be missed.

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01:57:59,720 --> 01:58:01,800
Speaker 1: It'll still be a good time. You'll be able to

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01:58:01,840 --> 01:58:04,480
Speaker 1: watch the video later. You can buy virtual tickets if

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01:58:04,480 --> 01:58:10,520
Speaker 1: you want to support. But it's like, it's like if

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01:58:10,520 --> 01:58:13,120
Speaker 1: you're holding the wedding and people keep sitting in the

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01:58:13,240 --> 01:58:15,200
Speaker 1: RSVPs that they're not gonna make it, and it's like,

2225
01:58:15,600 --> 01:58:17,440
Speaker 1: damn is anybody coming to the wedding. That's just the

2226
01:58:17,560 --> 01:58:19,960
Speaker 1: anxiety and stuff we start to have as the creators

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01:58:20,000 --> 01:58:22,760
Speaker 1: of it. So no need to write in it. You

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01:58:22,800 --> 01:58:24,680
Speaker 1: can't make it because I'm only saying it now because

2229
01:58:24,680 --> 01:58:27,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna be the beginning of a lot of people

2230
01:58:27,440 --> 01:58:29,640
Speaker 1: who can't make it writing and tell us they can't

2231
01:58:29,680 --> 01:58:32,200
Speaker 1: make it. And it feel I feel similar to like

2232
01:58:32,520 --> 01:58:34,600
Speaker 1: Jail Covan when he's doing a live show and people

2233
01:58:34,640 --> 01:58:37,920
Speaker 1: are are like, I'm your biggest fan. I wish it

2234
01:58:38,160 --> 01:58:40,640
Speaker 1: was at three o'clock. I would have made it, but

2235
01:58:40,760 --> 01:58:43,400
Speaker 1: since it's at seven o'clock, I can't. Oh, I wish

2236
01:58:43,480 --> 01:58:46,520
Speaker 1: you came directly to my house and we're doing the show.

2237
01:58:47,160 --> 01:58:49,960
Speaker 1: While I it's like, at some point, it's like a

2238
01:58:50,000 --> 01:58:52,600
Speaker 1: little bit like, come on, man, you can't make it

2239
01:58:52,680 --> 01:58:57,480
Speaker 1: in the school, you know Preston Rights in episode twenty

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Speaker 1: seven thirty nine Worse State Ever Care Be Knowing. I

2241
01:59:00,160 --> 01:59:02,600
Speaker 1: appreciate the take on friendship and this impact on relationships,

2242
01:59:02,640 --> 01:59:05,200
Speaker 1: so don't Friendships are difficult enough, but a partner who

2243
01:59:05,240 --> 01:59:07,760
Speaker 1: is resistant to your friends makes it even more problematic.

2244
01:59:08,040 --> 01:59:10,600
Speaker 1: As a gay man, that's even more of an issue. Luckily,

2245
01:59:10,680 --> 01:59:12,600
Speaker 1: my husband and I have matured to have friends who

2246
01:59:12,680 --> 01:59:15,600
Speaker 1: respect our relationships while being great friends. Thanks see you

2247
01:59:15,680 --> 01:59:19,520
Speaker 1: at the live show, Presston. Thanks Presston, and uh yeah,

2248
01:59:19,760 --> 01:59:22,640
Speaker 1: definitely I mean, we're just speaking on cis head relationships.

2249
01:59:22,640 --> 01:59:25,760
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine same sex relationships because a lot

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Speaker 1: of times people are gonna look at that like y'all

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01:59:28,560 --> 01:59:32,760
Speaker 1: definitely gonna fuck you know. Loose Baby was the next episode.

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01:59:32,800 --> 01:59:35,120
Speaker 1: Aaron says, Hello, kren A Ride, Your discussion with BOSSI

2253
01:59:35,200 --> 01:59:37,280
Speaker 1: on social media is exact reason I'm using it much

2254
01:59:37,360 --> 01:59:39,440
Speaker 1: less and taking everything I see there with a grain

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01:59:39,520 --> 01:59:41,440
Speaker 1: of salt. I actually think listening to y'all talk about

2256
01:59:41,440 --> 01:59:43,800
Speaker 1: how toxic Twitter and social media can be help me

2257
01:59:43,880 --> 01:59:45,800
Speaker 1: look at it through a different perspective and filter. Through

2258
01:59:45,800 --> 01:59:48,040
Speaker 1: Out of the BS, I used to get angry, upset,

2259
01:59:48,080 --> 01:59:50,360
Speaker 1: triggered and fought people into comments and even have my

2260
01:59:50,440 --> 01:59:53,280
Speaker 1: mood effected outside the online space, and I had to

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01:59:53,360 --> 01:59:55,280
Speaker 1: stop going on for a while and get back into

2262
01:59:55,320 --> 01:59:57,880
Speaker 1: the right mindset. I watched a lot of YouTube. I

2263
01:59:57,920 --> 01:59:59,920
Speaker 1: recently watched a video where three people had to guess

2264
02:00:00,040 --> 02:00:01,880
Speaker 1: what crime a group of other people committed from a

2265
02:00:01,920 --> 02:00:04,240
Speaker 1: list of crimes. One of the guesses was a defense

2266
02:00:04,240 --> 02:00:06,360
Speaker 1: attorney who had been practicing for twenty years. She guessed

2267
02:00:06,360 --> 02:00:08,960
Speaker 1: that one of the participants was black. He was South Asian,

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02:00:09,280 --> 02:00:11,520
Speaker 1: and I looked and looked at part of the crime

2269
02:00:11,600 --> 02:00:14,440
Speaker 1: scene she guessed for him based on what was portrayed

2270
02:00:14,440 --> 02:00:19,480
Speaker 1: in the media. This participant at another black male participant

2271
02:00:19,800 --> 02:00:22,720
Speaker 1: rightfully called her out, saying they felt hurt because her

2272
02:00:22,760 --> 02:00:24,760
Speaker 1: whole job is to defend others and health the community

2273
02:00:24,800 --> 02:00:27,440
Speaker 1: with their experience and have good discernment, especially after twenty

2274
02:00:27,480 --> 02:00:30,240
Speaker 1: years of experience, while she just was wildly guessing crimes

2275
02:00:30,280 --> 02:00:32,040
Speaker 1: based on what she sees on the media and TV.

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02:00:32,440 --> 02:00:34,760
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm mentioning this because I like to read

2277
02:00:34,760 --> 02:00:37,840
Speaker 1: the comments on YouTube of feedback and curious curiosity of

2278
02:00:37,920 --> 02:00:40,160
Speaker 1: what others think. A lot of people were praising the

2279
02:00:40,200 --> 02:00:42,040
Speaker 1: two men for calling her out, but also hoping she

2280
02:00:42,160 --> 02:00:44,480
Speaker 1: loses her job get this bar calling her names, and

2281
02:00:44,560 --> 02:00:46,960
Speaker 1: just wishing for her life to be on I thought

2282
02:00:47,000 --> 02:00:49,600
Speaker 1: this was wild because y'all don't really know how well

2283
02:00:49,680 --> 02:00:51,680
Speaker 1: she does her job or really anything other than that

2284
02:00:51,800 --> 02:00:52,720
Speaker 1: ten minute video.

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02:00:52,680 --> 02:00:54,800
Speaker 2: Right and they was just playing, not playing the game,

2286
02:00:54,880 --> 02:00:56,480
Speaker 2: but you know it was presented, and she just gets

2287
02:00:56,720 --> 02:00:59,040
Speaker 2: it's not like she's doing her job as far as

2288
02:00:59,320 --> 02:01:00,920
Speaker 2: investigating and all that stuff.

2289
02:01:00,960 --> 02:01:02,880
Speaker 1: You kind of going off the top of the don't like.

2290
02:01:03,000 --> 02:01:05,160
Speaker 1: Hopefully she could use this as a good learning experience

2291
02:01:05,200 --> 02:01:06,800
Speaker 1: to take a look at her own biases and so

2292
02:01:06,920 --> 02:01:09,400
Speaker 1: she could be a better defense attorney and continue to

2293
02:01:09,440 --> 02:01:11,280
Speaker 1: help people. But it was up to the commentator, she

2294
02:01:11,320 --> 02:01:14,280
Speaker 1: would be fired this bar to had her house burned down. Yeah,

2295
02:01:14,520 --> 02:01:17,800
Speaker 1: my main problem with that is those people that's a setup,

2296
02:01:18,840 --> 02:01:21,040
Speaker 1: like y'all basically playing guest the Race a game we

2297
02:01:21,120 --> 02:01:24,200
Speaker 1: played for fun here, yes, but if you'll notice, sometimes

2298
02:01:24,200 --> 02:01:25,880
Speaker 1: when we have certain guests on, we don't even play

2299
02:01:25,920 --> 02:01:27,800
Speaker 1: that game because I don't want them to ever get

2300
02:01:27,840 --> 02:01:32,080
Speaker 1: in a situation like this where somebody's like, oh, Ldroyd

2301
02:01:32,160 --> 02:01:37,320
Speaker 1: Williams is a representative if this district and the NACP,

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Speaker 1: and she was over here guessing the race was this,

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02:01:39,760 --> 02:01:41,480
Speaker 1: that and the other. Now, if the person really wants

2304
02:01:41,520 --> 02:01:43,080
Speaker 1: to play, I'm not going to stop him because el

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02:01:43,120 --> 02:01:45,440
Speaker 1: Droid don't give a fuck. But my point being like

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02:01:45,480 --> 02:01:48,320
Speaker 1: there certain people aren't like, yeah, this game is not

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Speaker 1: worth the possibility of what people can do correct. And

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02:01:52,320 --> 02:01:55,320
Speaker 1: I do think it's fucked up that I don't think

2309
02:01:55,320 --> 02:01:57,320
Speaker 1: it's fucked up she gets black. I think it's fucked

2310
02:01:57,400 --> 02:02:01,760
Speaker 1: up that people had her playing the whatever this stupid

2311
02:02:01,800 --> 02:02:05,080
Speaker 1: ass inflammatory game is and people fail for the hook

2312
02:02:05,120 --> 02:02:08,200
Speaker 1: line and sinker and say ooh, ooh, look what she doing.

2313
02:02:08,280 --> 02:02:12,120
Speaker 1: She races. I think that's dumb m hm because if

2314
02:02:12,200 --> 02:02:14,960
Speaker 1: she would have been correct, what would that approve it? Right?

2315
02:02:15,400 --> 02:02:17,360
Speaker 1: Let's say she said white, that would have been okay.

2316
02:02:17,560 --> 02:02:23,080
Speaker 1: There's the fucking game is stupid, Mandy says Jason and Carly,

2317
02:02:23,320 --> 02:02:26,919
Speaker 1: dear Rod and Karen about Carlely. She should get consequence

2318
02:02:26,960 --> 02:02:29,280
Speaker 1: for her action because black women and children get missing

2319
02:02:29,360 --> 02:02:32,120
Speaker 1: and it gilt goes unnoticed. She basically just played us.

2320
02:02:32,120 --> 02:02:33,400
Speaker 1: But at the same time, she may had done this

2321
02:02:33,480 --> 02:02:35,880
Speaker 1: because she knew that the public and media never cared

2322
02:02:35,880 --> 02:02:37,840
Speaker 1: about the kidnapping a black woman. I don't know, but

2323
02:02:38,040 --> 02:02:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear excuses that needs to be

2324
02:02:39,760 --> 02:02:44,640
Speaker 1: accountability for her actions. I get that people feel punitive

2325
02:02:44,640 --> 02:02:46,840
Speaker 1: about it. I just don't think it's gonna change anything

2326
02:02:46,920 --> 02:02:50,080
Speaker 1: for black women that go missing. If if people weren't

2327
02:02:50,080 --> 02:02:52,560
Speaker 1: gonna look for them before this, they weren't gonna look

2328
02:02:52,760 --> 02:02:55,160
Speaker 1: after this, And if they were gonna look before this,

2329
02:02:55,320 --> 02:02:57,920
Speaker 1: they're still gonna look. So I don't think it changes anything.

2330
02:02:58,000 --> 02:03:01,000
Speaker 1: And I think I think, if anything, people spend so

2331
02:03:01,080 --> 02:03:04,200
Speaker 1: much time trying to make her case about all black

2332
02:03:04,280 --> 02:03:06,880
Speaker 1: women then now as a punitive level of like making

2333
02:03:06,960 --> 02:03:08,960
Speaker 1: her pay. But if you notice, she's never been the

2334
02:03:09,040 --> 02:03:11,760
Speaker 1: one that brought up anything about being a black woman

2335
02:03:11,840 --> 02:03:13,320
Speaker 1: and how much y'all need to look for her because

2336
02:03:13,360 --> 02:03:16,120
Speaker 1: she's black. This ain't Jesse Smolett, right, And it's also

2337
02:03:16,160 --> 02:03:17,480
Speaker 1: one of those things, like a lot of stuff.

2338
02:03:17,520 --> 02:03:20,720
Speaker 2: People treated her as a mascot and not an actually

2339
02:03:20,760 --> 02:03:23,120
Speaker 2: human being, and that was the problem from the beginning

2340
02:03:23,520 --> 02:03:27,600
Speaker 2: because people quote unquote roup for mascots, you don't actually.

2341
02:03:27,480 --> 02:03:28,440
Speaker 1: Care about them.

2342
02:03:28,840 --> 02:03:31,400
Speaker 2: And you know, a lot of people didn't care, and

2343
02:03:31,560 --> 02:03:33,880
Speaker 2: a lot of people I understand you being upset because

2344
02:03:33,880 --> 02:03:35,520
Speaker 2: you go, well, y'all make this big thing. Y'all don't

2345
02:03:35,520 --> 02:03:37,280
Speaker 2: really care, no, and they're not gonna care about the

2346
02:03:37,280 --> 02:03:38,760
Speaker 2: next one, right if they didn't care.

2347
02:03:38,800 --> 02:03:41,920
Speaker 1: But my thing is, you don't care. If you went

2348
02:03:42,000 --> 02:03:44,120
Speaker 1: from I need her to be found too, I need

2349
02:03:44,160 --> 02:03:46,240
Speaker 1: her to be punished. You don't care about her, and

2350
02:03:46,400 --> 02:03:48,360
Speaker 1: just leave it at that, because what I would be

2351
02:03:48,400 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 1: thinking is I need her to get some mental help, agreed.

2352
02:03:52,120 --> 02:03:54,440
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be thinking of this as a punishment situation.

2353
02:03:55,280 --> 02:03:57,320
Speaker 1: You know, if I cared about black women the way

2354
02:03:57,440 --> 02:03:59,520
Speaker 1: y'all say y'all care. I don't see how you flipped

2355
02:03:59,520 --> 02:04:02,160
Speaker 1: it to we got to make an example out of her?

2356
02:04:02,440 --> 02:04:05,000
Speaker 1: I think when does the system make an example out

2357
02:04:05,040 --> 02:04:06,400
Speaker 1: of somebody actually change anything?

2358
02:04:06,560 --> 02:04:06,680
Speaker 2: Right?

2359
02:04:07,400 --> 02:04:09,160
Speaker 1: You know, we had the death ped on it in America.

2360
02:04:09,200 --> 02:04:11,840
Speaker 1: It's not stopping people from killing people. It ain't stopping shit.

2361
02:04:13,280 --> 02:04:15,680
Speaker 1: Second to Jason al Dean Fiasco, I hate to say this,

2362
02:04:15,800 --> 02:04:18,240
Speaker 1: but I don't find this new song offensive. Wow, you

2363
02:04:18,320 --> 02:04:20,480
Speaker 1: are taking some wild swings, Mandy. I never know what's

2364
02:04:20,480 --> 02:04:23,640
Speaker 1: gonna happen with you from week to week. Okay, I

2365
02:04:24,000 --> 02:04:27,240
Speaker 1: do not. You are a wild, a wild person, wild woman.

2366
02:04:27,880 --> 02:04:29,960
Speaker 1: At least she is trying to talk. At least he

2367
02:04:30,080 --> 02:04:33,000
Speaker 1: is talking about looking out for his community and unity

2368
02:04:33,080 --> 02:04:35,280
Speaker 1: unlike mine, which is sad to say, black people, we

2369
02:04:35,360 --> 02:04:37,240
Speaker 1: live in small towns or Nowhere in the song he

2370
02:04:37,320 --> 02:04:39,760
Speaker 1: mentioned race, nor made it racial. The media is making

2371
02:04:39,840 --> 02:04:42,000
Speaker 1: racial because he is a white country artist, which people

2372
02:04:42,000 --> 02:04:44,720
Speaker 1: automatically think racist genre. But I'm black and I'm not racist.

2373
02:04:44,760 --> 02:04:47,080
Speaker 1: I love all types of music. So the fact that

2374
02:04:47,680 --> 02:04:49,640
Speaker 1: it was Black Lives Matter footage in the video that

2375
02:04:49,720 --> 02:04:51,800
Speaker 1: they took out, has that changed your opinion? Because this

2376
02:04:51,880 --> 02:04:54,280
Speaker 1: was five days ago and I don't know if you

2377
02:04:54,360 --> 02:04:58,080
Speaker 1: wrote back in, but clearly the song had something to

2378
02:04:58,120 --> 02:04:58,920
Speaker 1: do with black people.

2379
02:05:00,640 --> 02:05:02,800
Speaker 2: And on top of that, it's one of those things

2380
02:05:03,480 --> 02:05:07,160
Speaker 2: where's that plausible deniability and I have that people with

2381
02:05:07,280 --> 02:05:09,400
Speaker 2: defend it, but I'm not trying to be funny and

2382
02:05:09,520 --> 02:05:13,240
Speaker 2: and and and and and not quote unquote towards you,

2383
02:05:13,320 --> 02:05:16,120
Speaker 2: but just people in general. It just takes an extra

2384
02:05:16,280 --> 02:05:19,600
Speaker 2: step of actually go looking at it, looking at the words,

2385
02:05:19,880 --> 02:05:22,600
Speaker 2: looking at these landmarks. Have people like hey, dog, they

2386
02:05:22,680 --> 02:05:25,200
Speaker 2: hung somebody. They're like shit like that where you go, oh,

2387
02:05:25,280 --> 02:05:29,520
Speaker 2: it's a racial undertone. But for some people, I gotta say, nigga,

2388
02:05:29,960 --> 02:05:34,080
Speaker 2: I gotta show you lynches. I have to quote unquote

2389
02:05:34,360 --> 02:05:38,280
Speaker 2: do the most outlandist thing before people call it racist.

2390
02:05:38,840 --> 02:05:41,800
Speaker 1: It is wild to me because man, I just recognize

2391
02:05:41,840 --> 02:05:44,760
Speaker 1: Mandy's name from all the time she's written there, and like,

2392
02:05:45,640 --> 02:05:47,640
Speaker 1: you know, I guess we're all human. But sometimes Mandy

2393
02:05:47,680 --> 02:05:53,400
Speaker 1: sees the most conspiratorial, like you know, like like stuff

2394
02:05:53,840 --> 02:05:56,840
Speaker 1: in these people and in these stories where she's writing

2395
02:05:56,880 --> 02:05:59,480
Speaker 1: in it's like this is big, this is a much bigger,

2396
02:05:59,520 --> 02:06:02,360
Speaker 1: deeper thing. And then this is one time it's well,

2397
02:06:02,440 --> 02:06:05,120
Speaker 1: clearly it's not a big deal at all. Like, why

2398
02:06:05,160 --> 02:06:09,040
Speaker 1: would anyone even assume you know this is? I guess

2399
02:06:09,120 --> 02:06:10,920
Speaker 1: I find it to be a bit surprising.

2400
02:06:11,240 --> 02:06:14,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And also it's one of those things where I'm

2401
02:06:14,520 --> 02:06:16,640
Speaker 2: not trying to find it. We know everybody, like you know,

2402
02:06:17,160 --> 02:06:19,560
Speaker 2: country music is that thing where it crosses all types

2403
02:06:19,600 --> 02:06:22,840
Speaker 2: of genre. And just because you point something out and

2404
02:06:22,960 --> 02:06:24,880
Speaker 2: just because you because I don't know if you think

2405
02:06:25,680 --> 02:06:30,920
Speaker 2: doing this is a personal attack against you liking country music,

2406
02:06:30,960 --> 02:06:32,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, but that to be, that's not what

2407
02:06:32,880 --> 02:06:35,320
Speaker 2: it is. It's going this man and this song it

2408
02:06:35,440 --> 02:06:36,120
Speaker 2: is a problem.

2409
02:06:36,440 --> 02:06:39,040
Speaker 1: He mentioned criminal activities that happened in a town, But

2410
02:06:39,320 --> 02:06:41,760
Speaker 1: does that mean that anything that is affiliated with crime

2411
02:06:41,800 --> 02:06:44,600
Speaker 1: equal black We should be mad at the media for

2412
02:06:44,720 --> 02:06:48,080
Speaker 1: making it something that is not. Rap songs talk about sex, drugs, violence,

2413
02:06:48,120 --> 02:06:50,680
Speaker 1: and murder and no outrage about that. Well that's a lot,

2414
02:06:51,040 --> 02:06:53,000
Speaker 1: right at least to the level of this country song

2415
02:06:53,120 --> 02:06:56,600
Speaker 1: is getting rappers explicitly say those things aforementioned in rap songs.

2416
02:06:57,240 --> 02:06:59,760
Speaker 1: There are rappers who make clean rap music, but it

2417
02:06:59,840 --> 02:07:03,160
Speaker 1: goes unnoticed and doesn't chart high on the charts. Where's

2418
02:07:03,200 --> 02:07:05,320
Speaker 1: the rap songs to talk about union in the community

2419
02:07:05,400 --> 02:07:07,360
Speaker 1: and looking out for another Because the rap gang could

2420
02:07:07,360 --> 02:07:11,040
Speaker 1: definitely use and make another self destruction song. Well, it's

2421
02:07:11,080 --> 02:07:14,520
Speaker 1: not like self destruction, stop the crack epidemic, or gang

2422
02:07:14,640 --> 02:07:18,960
Speaker 1: violence or any of that shit. I think those things

2423
02:07:19,040 --> 02:07:22,720
Speaker 1: might make people feel better, but that was They're just

2424
02:07:22,840 --> 02:07:31,280
Speaker 1: fucking songs. And if the societal the societal construction around

2425
02:07:31,600 --> 02:07:35,000
Speaker 1: people and race and location in class are still there

2426
02:07:35,120 --> 02:07:37,880
Speaker 1: after the rap song, people gonna still do the things

2427
02:07:37,920 --> 02:07:40,200
Speaker 1: the rap song is telling them not to do. I

2428
02:07:40,320 --> 02:07:43,320
Speaker 1: think you're looking at a chicken or egg situation as

2429
02:07:43,360 --> 02:07:46,680
Speaker 1: if the song is making people do something when it's

2430
02:07:47,760 --> 02:07:50,200
Speaker 1: if that was the case when we had the positive

2431
02:07:50,320 --> 02:07:53,840
Speaker 1: rap of the eighties and nineties, we wouldn't believe in

2432
02:07:53,960 --> 02:07:57,080
Speaker 1: black utopia and we were not. So I don't agree

2433
02:07:57,120 --> 02:07:59,360
Speaker 1: with that right. And it is also not funny.

2434
02:07:59,360 --> 02:08:01,760
Speaker 2: It's one of his on the argument's conservative make You

2435
02:08:01,880 --> 02:08:03,560
Speaker 2: might as well say what about the Kings in Chicago?

2436
02:08:03,640 --> 02:08:04,600
Speaker 1: This shit don't make no sense.

2437
02:08:04,640 --> 02:08:07,400
Speaker 2: It's like comparing apples to oranges, and people are mad,

2438
02:08:07,440 --> 02:08:09,520
Speaker 2: people are upset. There are people to today that fight

2439
02:08:09,640 --> 02:08:14,160
Speaker 2: against all the misogyny and all that shit in black music,

2440
02:08:14,280 --> 02:08:17,040
Speaker 2: you know, and if that was something you wanted to know,

2441
02:08:17,120 --> 02:08:18,960
Speaker 2: you would be quote unquote aware of that, but you

2442
02:08:19,080 --> 02:08:22,720
Speaker 2: purposely are leaving this, leaving that particular piece out of

2443
02:08:22,800 --> 02:08:25,840
Speaker 2: your argument when you say this, people can be upset,

2444
02:08:25,920 --> 02:08:29,160
Speaker 2: have the right to be upset about this, and people

2445
02:08:29,200 --> 02:08:29,680
Speaker 2: can see the.

2446
02:08:29,880 --> 02:08:31,000
Speaker 1: Undertone in it.

2447
02:08:31,160 --> 02:08:34,720
Speaker 2: It don't make them wrong just because they talk about, Hey,

2448
02:08:34,800 --> 02:08:36,880
Speaker 2: there's something wrong with this song. And like Roger said,

2449
02:08:36,920 --> 02:08:39,160
Speaker 2: come to find out they did cut out all these

2450
02:08:39,320 --> 02:08:42,000
Speaker 2: black lives matter and shit out of it. I wonder,

2451
02:08:42,160 --> 02:08:44,360
Speaker 2: will that change your opinion or are you gonna feel

2452
02:08:44,400 --> 02:08:45,280
Speaker 2: this way regardless?

2453
02:08:45,480 --> 02:08:49,440
Speaker 1: She wrote in later in the week, and I don't know.

2454
02:08:49,520 --> 02:08:52,560
Speaker 1: I don't see her addressing that they actually did take

2455
02:08:52,600 --> 02:08:54,840
Speaker 1: those things out of the video, so I think, I

2456
02:08:54,880 --> 02:08:57,040
Speaker 1: don't know. Felt like many went a little black conservative

2457
02:08:57,080 --> 02:08:58,920
Speaker 1: on us, a little black Republican there at the end,

2458
02:08:58,960 --> 02:09:01,400
Speaker 1: and maybe she has some hand ups about that. I

2459
02:09:01,560 --> 02:09:03,440
Speaker 1: just find it interesting because I remember there was an

2460
02:09:03,480 --> 02:09:06,600
Speaker 1: email she wrote in about it was like black women

2461
02:09:07,320 --> 02:09:10,680
Speaker 1: and it was addressed only to you, and it was like,

2462
02:09:10,800 --> 02:09:14,200
Speaker 1: thank you for saying black women are so disrespected and

2463
02:09:14,760 --> 02:09:17,920
Speaker 1: in corporate America and all this stuff, And it's like, well,

2464
02:09:17,960 --> 02:09:21,040
Speaker 1: how can the same person that believes that think that

2465
02:09:21,200 --> 02:09:24,160
Speaker 1: about Jason al Dean and think black people making the

2466
02:09:24,240 --> 02:09:26,200
Speaker 1: wrong kind of music. It needs to be called I

2467
02:09:26,240 --> 02:09:29,200
Speaker 1: don't know. Feels a lot a little black conservative to me. Yeah,

2468
02:09:29,360 --> 02:09:34,920
Speaker 1: And my thing is you have the right to feel

2469
02:09:34,960 --> 02:09:38,400
Speaker 1: that way. But it don't mean I got degree of course. Yeah,

2470
02:09:38,640 --> 02:09:41,480
Speaker 1: I mean it's our show and no one's being disrespectful

2471
02:09:41,480 --> 02:09:44,160
Speaker 1: to anybody here. It's fine for her to write in

2472
02:09:44,320 --> 02:09:47,000
Speaker 1: with things that she disagrees with. But yeah, to me,

2473
02:09:47,160 --> 02:09:49,400
Speaker 1: I'm just saying reading this and I can see in

2474
02:09:49,440 --> 02:09:52,800
Speaker 1: the chat already, Yeah, this is a very unpopular opinion.

2475
02:09:52,840 --> 02:09:56,480
Speaker 1: She's dropping so Rodn and Cairn. When I first I

2476
02:09:56,560 --> 02:09:59,480
Speaker 1: guess her Sinato counter passed, I couldn't believe it. She was,

2477
02:09:59,520 --> 02:10:01,320
Speaker 1: in my opinion, in the first woke white woman that

2478
02:10:01,480 --> 02:10:03,600
Speaker 1: was canceled by her own She didn't care for the

2479
02:10:03,680 --> 02:10:06,480
Speaker 1: National anthe because of those racists boycotted the Grammy due

2480
02:10:06,520 --> 02:10:09,440
Speaker 1: to excluding rap. Yeah, but not positive raps. That was

2481
02:10:09,520 --> 02:10:11,520
Speaker 1: when a lot of people making gangs the rap Mandy.

2482
02:10:11,640 --> 02:10:14,800
Speaker 1: So maybe she was the wrong. Maybe she wasn't woke.

2483
02:10:14,960 --> 02:10:17,440
Speaker 1: She should have only been she should have been mad

2484
02:10:17,480 --> 02:10:19,400
Speaker 1: about we all in the same gang, but not n

2485
02:10:19,560 --> 02:10:22,960
Speaker 1: w A come on called out the Catholic Church about

2486
02:10:22,960 --> 02:10:25,400
Speaker 1: the priest, powerful letter to white people about white people

2487
02:10:25,440 --> 02:10:27,880
Speaker 1: in racism when Trayvon Martin died and not conforming the

2488
02:10:27,920 --> 02:10:30,440
Speaker 1: beauty standards with the shaved head and casual dress. She

2489
02:10:30,560 --> 02:10:32,040
Speaker 1: was a real one. She was supportive of a public

2490
02:10:32,160 --> 02:10:34,320
Speaker 1: enemy in the beginning of the career and did a

2491
02:10:34,440 --> 02:10:37,200
Speaker 1: song with MC light all those things, and it destroyed

2492
02:10:37,240 --> 02:10:40,200
Speaker 1: her career. And what she said back then came truth

2493
02:10:40,280 --> 02:10:42,600
Speaker 1: now and never received an apology. A woke white woman

2494
02:10:42,680 --> 02:10:45,400
Speaker 1: getting cared by her own people. Basically make she rest

2495
02:10:45,440 --> 02:10:48,200
Speaker 1: in peace. Yeah, I thought the most interesting thing about her,

2496
02:10:49,640 --> 02:10:51,960
Speaker 1: at least the white people were eulogizing her and going

2497
02:10:52,040 --> 02:10:54,680
Speaker 1: up for her, which I didn't mind. But I thought

2498
02:10:54,680 --> 02:10:57,560
Speaker 1: it was interesting because just a few years ago she

2499
02:10:57,720 --> 02:11:00,960
Speaker 1: had called out Prince because she the Buck and stuff,

2500
02:11:01,000 --> 02:11:03,720
Speaker 1: and she had said that Prince was abusive, he used

2501
02:11:03,760 --> 02:11:07,000
Speaker 1: to do drugs and beat women. She claimed he like

2502
02:11:07,160 --> 02:11:09,560
Speaker 1: beat her in a pillow fight, but he put something

2503
02:11:09,720 --> 02:11:13,040
Speaker 1: in the pillow that was hard to hurt her, and

2504
02:11:13,360 --> 02:11:16,720
Speaker 1: that he was mad at her about like music and stuff,

2505
02:11:16,840 --> 02:11:22,040
Speaker 1: And uh, no one brought that up, and noting even

2506
02:11:22,040 --> 02:11:25,240
Speaker 1: motherfuckers bring up the worst shit when you know, like

2507
02:11:25,360 --> 02:11:28,560
Speaker 1: they go even further. But I remember when Prince died,

2508
02:11:28,600 --> 02:11:32,600
Speaker 1: people were basically like, well, she's bipolar. It was like, well,

2509
02:11:32,640 --> 02:11:35,160
Speaker 1: you know, she said he beat us. She's bipolar, she's crazy. Okay,

2510
02:11:35,240 --> 02:11:39,160
Speaker 1: so we're not finna discuss that. But anyway, human beings,

2511
02:11:39,200 --> 02:11:43,400
Speaker 1: we're all messy with complaints creatures. Uh, Chris says Ride.

2512
02:11:43,400 --> 02:11:45,600
Speaker 1: You basically described how I've been making bacon for years.

2513
02:11:45,680 --> 02:11:47,920
Speaker 1: Just wanted to also share my favorite recipe for making bacon.

2514
02:11:48,000 --> 02:11:52,200
Speaker 1: If you're interested. It's million dollar bacon recipe. Love listening

2515
02:11:52,200 --> 02:11:56,120
Speaker 1: to you and Karen Peace. Christoph you, uh yeah, thanks.

2516
02:11:57,200 --> 02:12:00,320
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to begin with million dollars bacon.

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Speaker 1: I guess it's a candied bacon recipe or something, but

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02:12:06,640 --> 02:12:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real. Bacon already kind of tastes salty

2519
02:12:09,720 --> 02:12:12,800
Speaker 1: to me, sometimes a little too salty just out the pack.

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Speaker 1: How it could or does that matter? I just sometimes don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Bacon just tastes salty to me. I'm

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Speaker 1: sensitive to salt, and so whenever I see someone talk

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02:12:23,680 --> 02:12:28,760
Speaker 1: about seasoning their bacon, I'm like Randolph. He seizes his

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02:12:28,840 --> 02:12:30,920
Speaker 1: bacon and he talks about all the time in our

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02:12:31,600 --> 02:12:34,080
Speaker 1: air fry group, and shit, and I'll be thinking, like,

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Speaker 1: why the fuck would you ever add anything to bacon,

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02:12:37,560 --> 02:12:40,520
Speaker 1: because most seasons have salt in them, So to me,

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02:12:40,600 --> 02:12:43,120
Speaker 1: it's just salt and salt. And I already think bacon

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02:12:43,160 --> 02:12:45,800
Speaker 1: is salty as as it is, so I'm not a

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Speaker 1: big fan of seasoning my bacon. I think bacon coming

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02:12:49,320 --> 02:12:51,480
Speaker 1: the way it is is just basically the only way

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Speaker 1: I can take it.

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Speaker 2: Some people do salty and sweet, you know, like they

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02:12:55,280 --> 02:12:58,480
Speaker 2: have like you know, coated sugar, brown sugar, cold bacon,

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Speaker 2: all this other type of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Hmm, yeah, I know there's maple bacon. There's all that stuff,

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02:13:04,360 --> 02:13:08,400
Speaker 1: but still normally adding like some form of salt to

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02:13:08,560 --> 02:13:11,440
Speaker 1: it or something, you know, like even a lot of

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02:13:11,480 --> 02:13:13,000
Speaker 1: sweet stuff has a little bit of salt in it,

2540
02:13:13,200 --> 02:13:16,440
Speaker 1: you know. So I'm not, like I said to me person,

2541
02:13:16,520 --> 02:13:18,560
Speaker 1: I can only just fuck with bacon the way it comes.

2542
02:13:19,280 --> 02:13:22,360
Speaker 1: It's not a knock on people that have different taste buds.

2543
02:13:23,640 --> 02:13:26,040
Speaker 1: Last email, John Wright saying good morning, Ride and Karen

2544
02:13:26,480 --> 02:13:28,920
Speaker 1: rob when you said it was always gonna get to abuse.

2545
02:13:29,000 --> 02:13:31,680
Speaker 1: Regarding the TikTok video about time blindness, I almost gave

2546
02:13:31,720 --> 02:13:34,200
Speaker 1: a standard ovation. People like that girl in the video

2547
02:13:34,240 --> 02:13:36,640
Speaker 1: are always using social justice and therapy language to make

2548
02:13:36,720 --> 02:13:38,760
Speaker 1: things into abuse, because abuse is one of the most

2549
02:13:38,800 --> 02:13:43,360
Speaker 1: instant argument enders. Yeah, this is conflict, is not abuse, there, Showman.

2550
02:13:43,440 --> 02:13:45,880
Speaker 1: And it's also one of the ways to get good

2551
02:13:45,960 --> 02:13:51,440
Speaker 1: content is you elevate everything to abuse. Almost. I think

2552
02:13:51,480 --> 02:13:54,400
Speaker 1: it's out of control. I think we have the words

2553
02:13:54,560 --> 02:13:58,320
Speaker 1: trauma and abuse almost mean nothing. Now I'm sorry for

2554
02:13:58,400 --> 02:14:00,960
Speaker 1: those that think everything is violence and abuse and dot

2555
02:14:01,360 --> 02:14:04,960
Speaker 1: though you have lowered the bar to when someone says

2556
02:14:05,080 --> 02:14:09,080
Speaker 1: violence to me, I go, so nothing, you know what

2557
02:14:09,120 --> 02:14:13,480
Speaker 1: I mean, because you're not even pretending that it's like

2558
02:14:13,720 --> 02:14:16,840
Speaker 1: the way we should respond to violence versus the way

2559
02:14:16,960 --> 02:14:20,840
Speaker 1: that people escalate things that aren't violence into violence has

2560
02:14:21,000 --> 02:14:24,600
Speaker 1: just become about content. I will get you to pay

2561
02:14:24,680 --> 02:14:26,960
Speaker 1: more attention if I say this thing is more dire

2562
02:14:27,040 --> 02:14:30,040
Speaker 1: than it is and either you're the toughest motherfucker in

2563
02:14:30,080 --> 02:14:32,240
Speaker 1: the world living through the slings and era of life

2564
02:14:32,280 --> 02:14:34,680
Speaker 1: that no one's ever experienced, because the world is just

2565
02:14:34,800 --> 02:14:38,480
Speaker 1: so aggressive that you and only you, or you're talking

2566
02:14:38,560 --> 02:14:41,600
Speaker 1: about regular shit we all experience in the most inflammatory

2567
02:14:41,640 --> 02:14:44,720
Speaker 1: way possible, so that I'll go, oh my god, I

2568
02:14:44,840 --> 02:14:46,760
Speaker 1: have to pay attention to this person, and I think

2569
02:14:47,320 --> 02:14:51,200
Speaker 1: we kind of lost the plot somewhere. Let me illustrate Rod.

2570
02:14:51,240 --> 02:14:53,600
Speaker 1: When Karen points out to an open parking space, even

2571
02:14:53,600 --> 02:14:55,440
Speaker 1: if you already saw it, she uses words, and words

2572
02:14:55,480 --> 02:14:59,520
Speaker 1: are violence. That is abuse. Karenra Rod offers to put

2573
02:14:59,520 --> 02:15:01,640
Speaker 1: away the dish on the highest shelf. He's crossing vertical

2574
02:15:01,680 --> 02:15:04,440
Speaker 1: boundaries of your relationship, which is also abused. Of course,

2575
02:15:04,520 --> 02:15:06,640
Speaker 1: my pointing these things out is also abused and probably

2576
02:15:06,680 --> 02:15:10,640
Speaker 1: a racist microaggression. Yeah, I just yeah, And I think

2577
02:15:12,760 --> 02:15:14,760
Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that don't want to engage

2578
02:15:14,800 --> 02:15:17,560
Speaker 1: with this critically when I say that type of thing,

2579
02:15:17,680 --> 02:15:19,720
Speaker 1: not me, but just in general. When this point comes

2580
02:15:19,800 --> 02:15:26,280
Speaker 1: up about how we've used language to escalate the we've

2581
02:15:26,400 --> 02:15:30,320
Speaker 1: used language of therapy and harm to escalate stuff so

2582
02:15:30,440 --> 02:15:34,000
Speaker 1: we can get more attention. And it was funny to me,

2583
02:15:34,080 --> 02:15:36,400
Speaker 1: and I pointed out the time when people say, oh,

2584
02:15:36,520 --> 02:15:39,960
Speaker 1: Jonah Hill is abusing therapy words, and I said, like

2585
02:15:40,440 --> 02:15:44,640
Speaker 1: all of us are doing, like all of us basically

2586
02:15:44,720 --> 02:15:47,640
Speaker 1: are doing, Like that's not a Jonah Hill thing. That's

2587
02:15:47,720 --> 02:15:50,840
Speaker 1: a when people want their way thing, they just couch

2588
02:15:50,960 --> 02:15:54,000
Speaker 1: the shit in like therapy words. And you're supposedly a

2589
02:15:54,120 --> 02:15:57,280
Speaker 1: bad person if you don't say yeah, you know what,

2590
02:15:57,480 --> 02:16:00,920
Speaker 1: you're right, and I've watched people do it. This is

2591
02:16:00,960 --> 02:16:02,560
Speaker 1: one of the reasons I say, like, just because someone

2592
02:16:02,600 --> 02:16:06,480
Speaker 1: has a marginalized identity and they start talking at talk,

2593
02:16:07,080 --> 02:16:10,880
Speaker 1: it don't make them right. And the ultimate coddling of

2594
02:16:11,000 --> 02:16:14,160
Speaker 1: people of like, well that's a listen, this is a

2595
02:16:16,360 --> 02:16:18,720
Speaker 1: whatever group like you picked the marginalized group, like this

2596
02:16:18,840 --> 02:16:23,960
Speaker 1: is an indigenous trans woman. She gets to sexually harass

2597
02:16:24,160 --> 02:16:26,800
Speaker 1: people at the job, and we can't say nothing. That's

2598
02:16:26,920 --> 02:16:30,800
Speaker 1: not what equality was supposed to mean. You know, you

2599
02:16:30,840 --> 02:16:32,840
Speaker 1: should be just as able to say nah, that's not

2600
02:16:33,040 --> 02:16:36,200
Speaker 1: right as anybody else. And that should be the real

2601
02:16:36,280 --> 02:16:41,160
Speaker 1: equality that we stand on our principles, regardless of who

2602
02:16:41,240 --> 02:16:42,920
Speaker 1: the person is, you know, right.

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02:16:42,959 --> 02:16:47,119
Speaker 2: And it's also one of those things to where when

2604
02:16:47,200 --> 02:16:50,920
Speaker 2: it comes to therapy, any therapist is actually good at

2605
02:16:51,000 --> 02:16:53,360
Speaker 2: their job, some of the shit they see online. I

2606
02:16:53,480 --> 02:16:55,760
Speaker 2: was like, I think some of y'all aligned on these

2607
02:16:55,840 --> 02:16:59,360
Speaker 2: therapists because any therapist that you're actually paying there are

2608
02:16:59,440 --> 02:17:02,800
Speaker 2: some things they would never say for legal reasons and

2609
02:17:02,840 --> 02:17:03,680
Speaker 2: all types of shit.

2610
02:17:04,120 --> 02:17:08,440
Speaker 1: So it's like, hey, dog, like yeah, And it's also,

2611
02:17:08,600 --> 02:17:09,199
Speaker 1: like you said.

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02:17:09,000 --> 02:17:12,760
Speaker 2: People use therapy as an excuse to erase accountability and

2613
02:17:12,879 --> 02:17:16,160
Speaker 2: responsibility for their actions. But part of therapy is to

2614
02:17:16,240 --> 02:17:18,880
Speaker 2: make you aware of actions and to help you adjust

2615
02:17:19,000 --> 02:17:21,200
Speaker 2: to a world that will not just not going to

2616
02:17:21,280 --> 02:17:24,080
Speaker 2: adjust to you. Help you cope for a world, help

2617
02:17:24,840 --> 02:17:27,360
Speaker 2: get to the get to the things in your mind,

2618
02:17:27,400 --> 02:17:29,240
Speaker 2: the things that trigger you, the things that make you

2619
02:17:29,360 --> 02:17:34,160
Speaker 2: tick your childhood. It is a deep process if done correctly,

2620
02:17:34,720 --> 02:17:37,440
Speaker 2: it isn't just throwing around a bunch of words just

2621
02:17:37,600 --> 02:17:39,520
Speaker 2: so you are not accountable for shit.

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Speaker 1: I also find it funny that that girl and lots

2623
02:17:43,280 --> 02:17:46,280
Speaker 1: of people online like or want jobs to be not transactional,

2624
02:17:46,360 --> 02:17:48,720
Speaker 1: but then when you see how people operate with people,

2625
02:17:48,760 --> 02:17:52,080
Speaker 1: they always seem to demand that personal relationships be weirdly transactional,

2626
02:17:52,440 --> 02:17:54,480
Speaker 1: like the exact opposite that they are supposed to be.

2627
02:17:54,640 --> 02:17:56,920
Speaker 1: Make that make sense, Rod, Thanks so much for the

2628
02:17:56,959 --> 02:17:59,200
Speaker 1: episode detailing all the work the d ljay is doing

2629
02:17:59,280 --> 02:18:01,520
Speaker 1: now that it looks like Mary Garland will absolutely be

2630
02:18:01,560 --> 02:18:04,400
Speaker 1: indicting Trump for January sixth, all the gold supposed to

2631
02:18:04,400 --> 02:18:07,560
Speaker 1: being moved to. Yeah, but it should have been sooner, better, etc.

2632
02:18:07,879 --> 02:18:10,120
Speaker 1: From haters, And it reminds me of the same energy

2633
02:18:10,560 --> 02:18:13,400
Speaker 1: the assholes had for finding some reason, any reason to

2634
02:18:13,480 --> 02:18:16,800
Speaker 1: bash Hillary. No investigation is free of mistakes and delays.

2635
02:18:16,879 --> 02:18:22,879
Speaker 1: Former prosecutions prosecutors will say as or much as much

2636
02:18:22,959 --> 02:18:26,080
Speaker 1: all the time. There's always stuff that could do differently

2637
02:18:26,280 --> 02:18:28,760
Speaker 1: if they had a second chance. But this investigation is

2638
02:18:28,760 --> 02:18:32,480
Speaker 1: supposed to be perfect, not just perfect, expedient and perfect.

2639
02:18:32,680 --> 02:18:36,280
Speaker 1: And if they would have made any mistakes in the

2640
02:18:36,520 --> 02:18:40,160
Speaker 1: pursuit of making this fast, the same people that are

2641
02:18:40,280 --> 02:18:43,720
Speaker 1: bashing them would be bashing them for that, for fucking

2642
02:18:43,760 --> 02:18:46,680
Speaker 1: this thing up, and possibly Trump getting off with it. Right,

2643
02:18:47,120 --> 02:18:49,760
Speaker 1: And just like every presidential candidate has flaws, Garland is

2644
02:18:49,760 --> 02:18:52,120
Speaker 1: being held to impossible standards the same way Hillary was

2645
02:18:52,200 --> 02:18:54,680
Speaker 1: for being a flawed candidate. Yeah, my favorite thing is

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02:18:54,720 --> 02:18:57,920
Speaker 1: I believe I'll listen to sisters all later to make sure,

2647
02:18:58,040 --> 02:19:02,320
Speaker 1: but I believe that they didn't just indict Trump for this,

2648
02:19:03,160 --> 02:19:07,520
Speaker 1: or they're going to or whatever they're saying. We're expuditing this.

2649
02:19:08,360 --> 02:19:11,680
Speaker 1: We want this shit to happen before the other things. Yes,

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02:19:12,240 --> 02:19:14,720
Speaker 1: And that to me was something they could always have

2651
02:19:14,879 --> 02:19:18,000
Speaker 1: said and something I anticipated them saying. And now that

2652
02:19:18,080 --> 02:19:20,640
Speaker 1: this being said, I wanted to be crickers out here,

2653
02:19:21,200 --> 02:19:23,600
Speaker 1: sit back and enjoy the show man y'all say, y'all

2654
02:19:23,640 --> 02:19:26,840
Speaker 1: wanted this, didn't you? Really? Digging to Drake Domenia's podcast,

2655
02:19:26,879 --> 02:19:29,160
Speaker 1: so much fun to congrats on the gig. Finally, on

2656
02:19:29,280 --> 02:19:31,720
Speaker 1: the much discussed topic of Tki Palmer and Darris whoever

2657
02:19:31,760 --> 02:19:33,440
Speaker 1: the fuck? I just want to say thank you Usher

2658
02:19:33,879 --> 02:19:36,680
Speaker 1: chairs to stay safe, John, thank you, thank you John.

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Speaker 1: That's everybody. Thanks for all the feedback. We appreciate y'all.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget the live show tickets the linkers in the

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Speaker 1: show notes. It's coming up on Saturday, September the ninth,

2662
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Speaker 1: three pm. It's gonna be in Charlotte. We would love

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02:19:52,440 --> 02:19:55,200
Speaker 1: to see you there. We have online tickets. If you

2664
02:19:55,280 --> 02:19:57,320
Speaker 1: can't be there and you want to watch it virtually,

2665
02:19:57,480 --> 02:20:00,320
Speaker 1: you can do that. It means the world to us.

2666
02:20:00,360 --> 02:20:03,280
Speaker 1: If you can support us, Buying tickets is the best way.

2667
02:20:04,000 --> 02:20:06,240
Speaker 1: And uh yeah, like I said, no need to write

2668
02:20:06,240 --> 02:20:09,000
Speaker 1: in if you can't make it, don't know. You shouldn't

2669
02:20:09,000 --> 02:20:12,000
Speaker 1: feel guilty, And we don't want to feel bad that

2670
02:20:12,080 --> 02:20:14,000
Speaker 1: it's just a bunch of people like I can't make it.

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02:20:14,240 --> 02:20:18,920
Speaker 1: We get it. It's okay, y'all. We'll be back throughout

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Speaker 1: the week. Until then. I love you, I love you too,