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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer Podcast, Nicky Gazer, here's Nikki. Hello here,

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Speaker 1: I am welcome to the show. It's Nicki Glazer podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's Thursday. That means we have fan tracks, which is

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Speaker 1: our listener voicemails that will get too later in the show.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited about that. And now I said, there's some

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Speaker 1: good ones, um top of the morning to you like

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Speaker 1: the foreshadowing usually do that. It's like if you stick

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Speaker 1: around around minute, you might get what You're like. I

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Speaker 1: like that thing you do that most shows do, literally

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Speaker 1: every other show on TV and every podcast does except ours.

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Speaker 1: For shadowing is not like, um, I'm exactly telling you

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Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. It's usually later we will hear from someone.

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Speaker 1: But is there like a dark Oh oh maybe why

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Speaker 1: don't you give it a little LUXIOXI Yeah, we need

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Speaker 1: to know if is it? Maybe it's um blended with

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Speaker 1: like some predicting something with asparacus ham drip. I guess

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it's a warning or indication of

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Speaker 1: the future event indication Yeah, okay, so it doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: it's ominous. Couldn't hear some new words that I've I've

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Speaker 1: learned from both reading a book and from Sam Harris.

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Speaker 1: Let's hear it. Um, I would love to obstep obstreperous, obstreperous.

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Speaker 1: U s obstep obstreperous. That's something to do with your Uh,

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Speaker 1: you can't speak, You speak too much, like like something

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Speaker 1: that gets in your way. No, it's noisy and difficult

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Speaker 1: to control. How did you know that? Well? I was

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Speaker 1: thinking strep throat and then bob is that's where I got. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's actually like how you get thetamology. I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: your mom chilled soybeans. Um, fusty f u s t

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Speaker 1: y fusty that's first word. Yes, she was an original

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Speaker 1: member of the Black Eyed Peas. Fusty that's a fish song.

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Speaker 1: I think, Uh, fusty fusty is like a messy about

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Speaker 1: little Fusty. He's pretty cool. He's coming up. Kny just

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Speaker 1: signed him. He's cool. Um, what did you say it

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Speaker 1: was like MESSI uh, well, it's smelling stale, damp or stuffy, fusty,

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Speaker 1: odor of decay. That doesn't mean it means smelling. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean messy for sure. We're not on part with

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Speaker 1: that one. I'll give you the other one that was

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Speaker 1: very impressive. Okay, press precipitously. I don't even I can't

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Speaker 1: even say that. I'm not you think I'm gonna learn it?

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Speaker 1: Can we try it? Precipitously, precipitation, precipitously, precipitously. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: precipitously means uh, um, it's precipitous. The reward comes before

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Speaker 1: dangerously high or steep. Man, I got precipitous at that

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Speaker 1: Fish show. Dangerous, dangerously high or steep. Precipitously I love.

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Speaker 1: That was the Sam Harris one, and then my favorite one.

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Speaker 1: I've been listening to Sam Harris podcast to low me

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Speaker 1: itself to sleep, probably for a week now, and I

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Speaker 1: can't get past I've only done half of it, and

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Speaker 1: this word always wakes me up and I try to

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Speaker 1: go remember it and I never have the Um. I'm

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Speaker 1: not awake enough to write it down on my phone,

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Speaker 1: but last night I was and I got it. Alacrity.

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Speaker 1: Alacrity means you're lacking um. You can't just hear a

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Speaker 1: little word inside it. Why I worked for the first one,

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Speaker 1: I guess it did. Alacrity alacrity. Can I have an

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Speaker 1: in sentence Um, she accepted the invitation with alacrity. She

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Speaker 1: didn't really give a shit about it. She doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to do accepted the invitation with like hesitation You mean

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Speaker 1: like like apathetic. Um no, it means brisk and cheerful

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Speaker 1: ready of course. Yeah, so if you're spelling, these words

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Speaker 1: So that's just a little How far did did you

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Speaker 1: do to spelling me? When you do? You remember when

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Speaker 1: you're everyone I think probably remembers the word they get

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Speaker 1: eliminated on if you're a competitive Mine was word I

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Speaker 1: didn't get right. I spelled it with two rs. You're

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Speaker 1: probably a good speller, right, No, get out of here.

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Speaker 1: You're not even know who I am. Like, do you

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Speaker 1: get nervous writing things like in front of Brenna? I

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Speaker 1: get nervous sometimes reading things not knowing words. Yeah, sometimes

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Speaker 1: I'll look like so in Jewish. But you don't you

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Speaker 1: get nervous reading things? Yeah? But I read a lot.

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Speaker 1: But if I don't know a word, but read, okay?

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Speaker 1: Got you so like if um, you know a lot

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Speaker 1: of times with like Jewish religion. Each person has to

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Speaker 1: I would read what I had to read before it

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Speaker 1: got to me because I'm so nervous. Everyone did that again,

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Speaker 1: This is a this is I guarantee you can make

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Speaker 1: a meme about that of like, you know, when it's

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Speaker 1: when I know I have to read, you count the

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Speaker 1: number of people where it's going to be, and you

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Speaker 1: go paragraph paragraph and you count which paragraph And it's

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Speaker 1: the worst if you're a teacher out there and you

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Speaker 1: don't do it because I you're never present. You're always

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Speaker 1: reading what's next? And I sorry. As a fast reader

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Speaker 1: and a fast person, I could not stand it. Made

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Speaker 1: me hate the slow kids. And by the way, reading

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Speaker 1: comprehension or being able to read, it's you could be

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Speaker 1: the most intelligent person and just have a reading a

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Speaker 1: learning disorder that makes it so you can't read. So

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Speaker 1: it's but my dumb six year old or sixth grade

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Speaker 1: then I think that kid's dumb the rest of my life. There, sir,

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Speaker 1: I can remember who was a slow reader that God

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Speaker 1: can Ray Pool please read every passage? He was like

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Speaker 1: the smoothest reader. He read so fast it was like delicious.

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Speaker 1: would always call him, you know, Jeff, I don't want

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Speaker 1: somewhere in between. But I would really it would almost

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Speaker 1: actually be fun to see what words they would come

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Speaker 1: of himself, much like I did on Wheel of Fortune

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Speaker 1: when I said, where is the metaverse? And how do

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Speaker 1: we get there instead of I I realized that story.

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Speaker 1: You thought you would go in real fortune and you

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Speaker 1: would read each word when you guess the clue, whereas

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say it, which is a mistake. But

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Speaker 1: saying what I thought it was. No, that's when I

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Speaker 1: don't want you to think I'm a monique. I think

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Speaker 1: you're dumb in anyway. I think you can be dumb.

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Speaker 1: You read, but there is an argument that you read

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Speaker 1: too fast. Yes, well it's got This is a problem

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Speaker 1: then I make mistakes. It happens all the time. Have

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Speaker 1: like a Shark Tank kind of show or like X Factor,

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Speaker 1: and he said, I'm the fastest. Oh yeah, so funny.

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Speaker 1: It was like a Ugandan America's got talent. And the

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Speaker 1: what are you doing? And he goes, I just read

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Speaker 1: But what sorry, Yeah, so it's slow kids speeding speed

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that's just really there's certain things

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Speaker 1: tell bad actors when they're just not you don't see

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Speaker 1: a movie on Friday Night called Cursed Friends on Comedy Central,

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Speaker 1: and it was the first movie I've done where Amy

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Speaker 1: didn't put me in it, and it wasn't like just

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Speaker 1: because you're good. But you know, and I appreciate her

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Speaker 1: saying that, But this was the first time I booked something,

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Speaker 1: three girls on the euro rail from Miami of Ohio,

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00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 1: and he liked one of the girls, so he should

423
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 1: and he took it out because he didn't want it

424
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: to smell, but he left it on the windows toilets.

425
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 1: How does poop go down? I don't know. I just

426
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: and he left it on the window sill. But he

427
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: left on the window sill. And he comes out, he's like,

428
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 1: oh my god. She went in the shower and I

429
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:56,880
Speaker 1: left my ship in the window sill and the door

430
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: was locked so he couldn't get back in. Thing. It

431
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: was just a hook up in a different Country's point

432
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 1: her story must be, I don't know what if she

433
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: ever told anyone, well, she never came up and he

434
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: hooked up with her later. Something sad when people have

435
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: great stories that involve poop or like something embarrassing and

436
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: they just never tell anyone, Like if you have a

437
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: story that is just horrifying that involves you pooping or

438
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 1: finding a bag of poop or hooking up with a

439
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: guy who pooped your bed or like get like, tell

440
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: the world it's not when there's no judgment. Don't hold

441
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: that in. I'm so jealous of people with good stories.

442
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he essentially, yeah, which is with my old technique.

443
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 1: I mean I would still do it to this day.

444
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 1: Which did you wrap your hand in toilet paper and

445
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 1: you reach it, you get you make little mittens called shittens,

446
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: and you reach and you grab it out if it's

447
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: not flushing, and you have a big line ahead of you,

448
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: because otherwise the person in line after you is going

449
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: to see that you took a ship, especially if you

450
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: want to. You got to get it out of there. Yeah,

451
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: I mean mean man, so anyhow but yeah, no, so yeah,

452
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: so the hall for our house. So we went to

453
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,120
Speaker 1: that place and had like, you know, six of those

454
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 1: big beers, and that was the night before. How is

455
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: your drinking going now? Are you still like loving it?

456
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: I've never was really I mean, I'm not trying to

457
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,639
Speaker 1: defend it, but I was never really loving it. It

458
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 1: was just like something I was finally like, I don't know,

459
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: you want to hold on, but what is it fun? Really?

460
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: I haven't drank. I've had like two drinks and like

461
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: probably for a month. Yeah, I'm kind of like all right,

462
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 1: because it was like starting to feel like hangover and

463
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 1: just like not good. Yeah, I just it just didn't it.

464
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 1: There's no point in it. There's really no point in

465
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: I'll have like one tequila on the rocks, just one,

466
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 1: and it'll just make me feel a little loose and

467
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: that's it. There's no urge in me to wake up hungover,

468
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: to be out till two in the morning. It's not

469
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: for the party. It's just like it's kind of nice,

470
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 1: just a refreshing. I don't know. I wonder what it

471
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: was before that you tackled that, because I mean you

472
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,919
Speaker 1: just wanted to never stop. Like well, at least that

473
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,800
Speaker 1: was for me. You just have one. You just that's

474
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,800
Speaker 1: not enough. You just want more. Yeah, I mean, I

475
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 1: was just I just I mean, there's just self hatred

476
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: is one being anxious around people, trying to be the

477
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 1: life at a party. I didn't have stand up to

478
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: fucking have people love me, so I needed the party

479
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: to love me. So I had to be as funny

480
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: as possible. I didn't think I could get the girl,

481
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: so I might as well just get the crowd to

482
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 1: laugh at me or get drunk and be like, Oh,

483
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,719
Speaker 1: that's why I didn't, because I was busy doing that.

484
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: Get ahead of the mess, Get ahead of the mess.

485
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: Let's get to the news. It's Thursday, folks. You know

486
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: what that means. It is Thursday. We're having a banger

487
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 1: over here. All the swells back, do you know? You

488
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 1: guys know Shirley Manson, right, she's I think so, I mean,

489
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: lead singer of what garbage? Garbage for some reason, I

490
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: would a whole is the one that what's her name

491
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 1: is in? They're kind of around the same one, same genre. Yeah, yeah, anyway,

492
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: but she has like I remember, she had like red

493
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: hair and very pale skin. Yeah, she's saying that song

494
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: stupid girl, which I don't know anyone to girl. Yeah,

495
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: because he doesn't have that name. That's a fakeness. You

496
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 1: got to watch his documentary. He's the worst. I hate

497
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: that guy. Hate Marilyn Manson. Hey, if you don't watch,

498
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: if you still have any part of your body that

499
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: likes Marilyn Manson, please watch that documentary. You do not

500
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: know what went on. He is a horrible person and

501
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: should be locked up. I think bad, bad, bad guy.

502
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: All right, let's hear what Shirley Manson. Okay, Well, Shirley

503
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: Manson said in an interview that when she was eighteen,

504
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 1: she took a crap on a cheating boyfriend's breakfast cereal

505
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 1: and she's not ashamed of it. Okay, Well, I like

506
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: that she has this story and isn't scared to share it. Um,

507
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm wondering in the box, like had he just poured

508
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: himself a bowl? Like who leaves a bowl a bandit?

509
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 1: Did she poured on the ground and then then shoot

510
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: on top of it like the cocoa pots where it

511
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: could hide? Or was the frosted flakes where you would

512
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: see it? Man, I don't know that I would be

513
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: scared it wouldn't. It would be like if I knew

514
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 1: if I trusted myself to have like beautiful, dainty little

515
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,679
Speaker 1: girl ships, then yeah, fine. If I'm having like a

516
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 1: good poop day, maybe, But I don't want anyone seeing

517
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: my poop, especially a guy who cheated on me. He'll

518
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: be like, oh good, that was the right move. I mean,

519
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: there's something about it being so self deprecating in a

520
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 1: way where it's like self defecating. Yeah, it's self defecating

521
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: where you almost respect. Like it's not like an amber

522
00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: heard they said that she did that. I mean, maybe

523
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: it's a thing that I'd eat on a girl's laundry

524
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: because they were in a fight. It's such a great

525
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: it's it's like a dog. I think that. Manson said, like,

526
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,719
Speaker 1: I'm glad I did it. I'd do it again, right,

527
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: something like that she doing it. She even said that

528
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: she inspired her friend um, who was doing it until

529
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: he while I was doing it, I thought of you,

530
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: and she says, I recommended as an act of revenge.

531
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 1: It leaves you feeling empowered and gleeful. Wow, I would

532
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: just be so. I mean, I don't run in the

533
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 1: same circles as Shirley Manson. So I bet like whoever

534
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: she was dating would think that was kind of bad,

535
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: as in, any girl that dated her boyfriend in that scene,

536
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: it would probably be like, God, your girlfriends so fucking cool.

537
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: She took a ship on your cereal. But if I

538
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: did that to Chris, it would be I mean, they

539
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 1: would they yeah, it would be like a good thing

540
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: you cheated on her. That person is a psycho, as

541
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 1: as it should be. I mean, that is so gross

542
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: because sh it is so infectious. Some people are into it.

543
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: Some guy might actually eat that. If you were in

544
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: this poop, you should go get your unless. I mean,

545
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: remember that one comic we worked with who was like,

546
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: I love eating asks, but you get sick a lot.

547
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: It was with Tom Decar. We were we worked in DC,

548
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: and there was a guy I won't say his name,

549
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 1: but he would like, I love eating asks. I just

550
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: love it. Like he liked to do it casually, and

551
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: he was like, but you do get sick a lot,

552
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: Like I just I get the stomach flu like once

553
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: a month. It was just like, holy fuck, um, I

554
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 1: mean I am so I don't want anyone seeing my poop.

555
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: I don't want to like accept my girlfriends. I do

556
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: not care. Like yesterday, I was in such a bad

557
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: mood and then I went to the bathroom to pee

558
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: and then I had like the greatest of my life

559
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, that was it. Like it was.

560
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: I just I gave birth like it was. But I

561
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: want and so I woulded to send a picture of

562
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: it to my girlfriends, But you can't. I can't. I

563
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: just can't because if it if it got out in

564
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: any way. I had a joke about this in my

565
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: special but it would be more embarrassing than a picture

566
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: of like my hairy like but or like if I

567
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: had a yeast infections, how would they know it's your poop?

568
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: I don't know even if even if I would deny it,

569
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,480
Speaker 1: of course, I mean in my joke, I say, I'm

570
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 1: I'm taking a selfie with it, and like why did

571
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: I have to do that? But instaid, So I did

572
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: what I did. I needed my friends to see, like

573
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: how impressive it was. So I drew it. I took

574
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: of here and I held it next to it and

575
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: I traced like the approximate size, and then I sent

576
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: a picture with my hand next to it on the

577
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: piece of bay Burnish show the size to just be

578
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: like I guess what I did, and then on you goes.

579
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: I actually have a lot of these from WINNICKI and

580
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: I lived together, because that's when I started doing that

581
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: of drawing it because I couldn't take a picture. But

582
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: I was so proud of myself. And and when you're

583
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 1: a tiny like I'm not like a tiny girl, but

584
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: when you're a girl and you're like capable of that,

585
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: you're just sort of like, what is going like when

586
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: you draw it? Do you like look at it like

587
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: you like kind of I'm picturing Titanic where it's like,

588
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: paint me like one of your friends. Are you looking

589
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 1: at this ship for a while? No? No, no, second.

590
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: I just put it so. I put it envelope so

591
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: it had some weight to it. So I put it

592
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: next to the like half on the bowl and like

593
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: right next to the exact side I wanted. I knew

594
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: you did. I didn't shade it so you can see

595
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: like the depth or anything. I didn't, but look at it.

596
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: Oh that's a pretzel. I'm gonna draw a pretzel. I

597
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: see you as it being a perfectionist and being gone

598
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: yes to scale because the point of the picture was

599
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: to show the how impressive it was, and so in

600
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 1: order to do that, I needed to get it exactly right.

601
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 1: Otherwise I would have just like the poops that I

602
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: get sent sometimes. Do you guys set each other poop. Yeah,

603
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: we've done it because it's funny. It's funny like sometimes

604
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: there's like three identical ones and they're all lined up

605
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 1: like like that's pretty impressive. Let so many poops go

606
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: down the drain that have looked like things that I'm

607
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: just like, man, I want to take a picture of

608
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: this so bad because I see faces and things. I'm

609
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: one of these people that can see faces and things

610
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: like clouds are like like someone's back that has sweat

611
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: on it. I'll see like different and there's just certain

612
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just I have that too. I

613
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: don't know what. I don't know. I don't know. I

614
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: had a thing I remember, like in a shower, like

615
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: on the wall. Yes, I like look closely and I

616
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 1: can see the dentist's office all the the dappled like

617
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: kind of um, the work on the what's it called

618
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: the drywall on the top those tiles, there's all those

619
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: like little marks. And I always find little faces. Oh yeah,

620
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: in my shower there's always a face in the sidewalk.

621
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: I see faces all the time. I tried to bring

622
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: someone in. I remember I was in college freshman year

623
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: and I go, look at this, do you see this

624
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: face of like a duck having sexed with a parody.

625
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: I sent you that. The guy looked at me, goes,

626
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: what he looked at me? Like I was in I

627
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 1: sent him to Chris all the time, and he goes,

628
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what this is, and I'm like, it's

629
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: e t I thought it was. Did you tell me? Ay? Oh, man,

630
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 1: I should not, but look at this picture I took it.

631
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: I mean it's kind of like, what's that the roa

632
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: test or whatever. Yeah, that's a good point. It is

633
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: like that. But it's like I saw this and he

634
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,719
Speaker 1: he didn't even respond to it, and I was like,

635
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: how could you not respond to this? Heems like I

636
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: just was so confused. I didn't know what it was.

637
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's so clearly et. Oh my god,

638
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: it would be so good a one. There's not a

639
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: picture of my pood that exists anywhere in the world.

640
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: I can't find it right now, but it was so good.

641
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: I posted on my story at one point and a

642
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: couple of people saw it. But I thought it was

643
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: going to like kind of break the internet because it

644
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 1: looks so much like no one even cared. You know,

645
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: when people see Jesus face and like yeah, and to

646
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: people go insane is a pretty big one, you would think.

647
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: And it was just in front of me. I was

648
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: running in Forest Park and then all of a sudden,

649
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,840
Speaker 1: this girl had a backpack on in front of me,

650
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 1: and I was just like, oh, yeah, I remember that story. Yes, okay,

651
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: and e T. I just saw it as like a face. Okay,

652
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: maybe I had it wrong. Okay, here's forest Park. Let

653
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 1: me just pull up this and see if it comes

654
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: up on this. Remember when we went to forest Park

655
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: that one time. Yeah, we went and we um went

656
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: on those uh oh, last night I did something very

657
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: similar to that. I went on a you did an activity,

658
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, a big activity. Man. I'll find the

659
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:47,319
Speaker 1: t picture later. Um. I went on no, a ferry boat.

660
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: A boat I went on. It's called the Becky Thatcher,

661
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: but it's like a riverboat. There's only one riverboat down

662
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: by the Arch. And I went on a riverboat with

663
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,959
Speaker 1: Chris and my sister and my brother in law, Matt,

664
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 1: and they were screening show, a show about paddling that

665
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: my brother in law's business was featured on. And it

666
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: was like a happy hour and a screening of this

667
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: thing and then it's like a two hour riverboat ride.

668
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: It was no. I mean, you just see a bunch

669
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: of like kind of sad parts of St. Louis industrial

670
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: garbage on set, but it's on the river and it's

671
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: kind of pretty, and it's at sunset and you see

672
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: the arch and that's really pretty. But it was it

673
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 1: was fun, it was cool. It was nice to do

674
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 1: an activity, but also overrated, like could have done something

675
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: else with that two and a half hours when you

676
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: include the commune, you know. But it was nice to

677
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: get out. I met new people and stuff. But it

678
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 1: was a thing. And then, um, okay, let's get to

679
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: the next news story. Okay, Shirley Manson shits okay, So

680
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: here's some news out of Missouri. This is like awful.

681
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: A terrified book with a metal collar sawder to her

682
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: neck escaped a dilapidated at home where she had been

683
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: captive for around a month. She desperately dragged herself to

684
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 1: the front door of multiple multiple neighbors just home to

685
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,760
Speaker 1: ask for help, telling them she was a sex slave

686
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: while her abductor took his kid to school. Oh damn it. Yeah,

687
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: it's one of those things. This iss Kansas City Missouri.

688
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: By the way, on the other side, do you know

689
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: what that where it is? There's Kansas City, but it's

690
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: on it's Kansas City, Kansas and Kansasity, Missouri. So this

691
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 1: is on the other side, like you know of Missouri

692
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,319
Speaker 1: from where we are. If you folded like Missouri in half. St.

693
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: Louis and I am a little confused. Actually, is Kansas City,

694
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: Missouri are the same city? Uh no, No, but it's

695
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: just like Kansas City, Missouri is I think a little

696
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: bit nicer. You know, it'd be like East St. Louis

697
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: slash St. Louis, but not as bad. I get what

698
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: you're saying. Yeah, but it is the same Kansas City.

699
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: It's just it's split. There're two different cities because they're

700
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 1: you know, there's a there's a St. Paul there. You know,

701
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: there's a Portland, Maine, and there's a Portland Origin but

702
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 1: we don't call them. We're not like what it's they're

703
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: all port Maine and Oregon are very far apart, I know.

704
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 1: But these two have to for it. Yes, yea, so

705
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: it um Yeah. So this is really tragic. First of all,

706
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: I think it's so crazy how every one of these

707
00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: stories where someone escapes and is asking for help. It's

708
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: always multiple doors they have to bang on because people

709
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: are so freaked out that they don't open their door.

710
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 1: And people just don't want to be a part of

711
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,920
Speaker 1: it by standard effect, like you just don't want to

712
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: deal with it. I've done it too, where it's like,

713
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: you know, the other day, I actually saw a woman

714
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: crying on this I was coming back from a run.

715
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 1: I was like on the walk part back, and there

716
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: was this woman that was just like bent over, like

717
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: on a stoop, and she was just crying. And I

718
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 1: was like, she seems a little like unstable and she's

719
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 1: maybe I didn't know. She didn't look homeless, but it

720
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: was just like she might just be like you know.

721
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: And I was like I want to I gotta do it,

722
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: you know, And so I was just like are you okay?

723
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: And she was like Charlie, and I can't make it

724
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:03,240
Speaker 1: to my car. It just hurt so bad. It hurts

725
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: so bad. And she's on speaker phone with someone who's

726
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: trying to help her, and I'm like, can I get

727
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: you anything? My apartments right there? Can I get you

728
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: like a like a theragon watley? And she was just

729
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: like no, it happens all the time. And this poor woman,

730
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: she was like a youngish woman, but she was just

731
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: scrippled by the run horse. No, definitely not. Yeah, she

732
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 1: was a little overweight, like she you could just tell

733
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: like she just had a cramp that was going. Maybe

734
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: she was a runner, but I'm guessing she she was

735
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: wearing like flip flops and it wasn't like but she

736
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 1: was just like oh, and I felt good about but

737
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: there's nothing I could do. I like kind of rubbed

738
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 1: her like I was like, can I massagic for you

739
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: and try to get out like distract. I didn't know

740
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: what to do, but it made me so sad. But

741
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:45,879
Speaker 1: generally I think I sometimes just go I don't want

742
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: to bother with some New York had like made me

743
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:53,799
Speaker 1: that kind of desensitized. Had something similar to So when

744
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: my dad drove me to Newark to come back home,

745
00:38:57,120 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: we like got out of the car, We're like hugging goodbye,

746
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 1: and I see this beautiful young woman coming out of

747
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,399
Speaker 1: like um, like one of those Cadillac stuvs. I guess

748
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: it was an uber and all of a sudden, she

749
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 1: just starts throwing up and um, she like closes the door.

750
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: She goes, I'm sorry, and the car drives away and

751
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: she's just over there throwing up and I can't. I can't,

752
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: so I um my dad had closed um bottles of

753
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: water in the car, so I just like I was like, okay,

754
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just go off of her water because she's

755
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: going to have this taste of vomit in her mouth

756
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 1: on the t s A line. So I went up

757
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 1: to her and I was like, here, would you like

758
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: some water? And she just like took it opened and

759
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 1: started drinking. And I was and I said, do you

760
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 1: need anything else? I didn't want because she was probably

761
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: so embarrassed. I didn't want to have her feeling even

762
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: more embarrassed. And she goes good. So I just left

763
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 1: her alone. And then I saw her later in the airport.

764
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: I wonder she's hungover or pregnant or I don't know,

765
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: but it was I've never seen anything she would by herself. Yep. Wow.

766
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: I think if someone comes up to your door, like

767
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: your first instinct is like to be defensive, like you're afraid,

768
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: you're fearful. It's like you're coming into my space? Why

769
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: are you coming? Oh? You must have mental illness. That's

770
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: why you're coming into mice, but you don't think, oh,

771
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: there's a murderer or like, and then you hear that

772
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, well, this just solidifies my point

773
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: that this person is crazy. So I think you're just

774
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: like so undefensive that you don't even peep. You need

775
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: to watch because it's out there, I know, obsessed, But

776
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: they're like in the first episode is the first episode

777
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: of damer is when he gets caught. Is the last

778
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: time that he got to, you know, try to get someone.

779
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,439
Speaker 1: And the guy escapes and he's running out and it's

780
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: the same thing. He's running in the middle of the

781
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: street in the cops see him and he has a

782
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 1: handcuff on that he escaped from. He's naked, he's probably

783
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: bludgeoned or whatever, and he looks insane. I mean it

784
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: looks like just you know, you see almost people like

785
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: that a lot of times that are just like they're

786
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: on PCP, so they've stripped off of their clothes, they

787
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: they've maybe hurt themselves in some ways that they're bleeding

788
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: and you just go and that person needs help too.

789
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: I mean, like we dismissed that person too. It's just

790
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: like but it's you, you just don't want to get

791
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: too close, and you kind of dismiss it. But this woman, um,

792
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: so what happened with this woman was held as a

793
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: sex slave by this guy. He's arrested. They were able.

794
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 1: He went out to go take his daughter to school

795
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: or something, and that's when she got out of these

796
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,719
Speaker 1: I love how they have daughters too, Like what needs

797
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 1: an education? Okay, of course, So he takes this Sunday

798
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 1: school and the cops were able to get back to

799
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 1: his place and meet him outside before he was able

800
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: to go and destroy that what happened. Actually, it's even worse.

801
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: It's even worse. Really, he was his article. What the fuck?

802
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 1: He was stopped for like a traffic violation, and they

803
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: took him in because he um violated some animal code law.

804
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: So they took him in for that, and then they

805
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: lived the leash a dog leash on a human. I

806
00:41:57,239 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 1: kind have sworn, they said. They they arrested before he

807
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 1: could go back in and ruin evidence while he took

808
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 1: his son to schools. That's true, but they stopped helping

809
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: the traffic stop away from the house. Oh god, And

810
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Dahmer got stopped but with a traffic stop with

811
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: bags of of dead body parts in the back of

812
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 1: his car, and the cop goes, you know what, You're

813
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: a promising young boy and this would really you know,

814
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: he's drawn, He's like, this would really ruin your future.

815
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: So I'm going to let you go, and then the car.

816
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: You know. It's just that's how Ted Bunny got caught

817
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: on a routine traffic stop in Florida. It's just, um,

818
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: I mean those kind of things that that might be

819
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: God right, like helping, like like this guy, I'm sorry,

820
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,959
Speaker 1: God is really slipping if he even lets it happen

821
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: to begin with, Like what this whole thing of God

822
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: really intervened? Well, why did God make you him put

823
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 1: a chain around your neck and rape you every day

824
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 1: for months? Um? But God, but speaking of sex slaves

825
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: that are held captive. UM. I have been rewatching The

826
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: Unbreakable Commissiment on Netflix and it is so it is

827
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 1: so freaking funny. I'm watching this. I'm on the third season.

828
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 1: It's It's up there with Veep in thirty Rock in

829
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: terms of like great jokes. If I swear to God,

830
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 1: if you need a show just to pop on and

831
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:23,320
Speaker 1: laugh and just watch the best writing in TV history.

832
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 1: It's that show I'm blown Away. Last night I was

833
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 1: watching and I was laughing so hard out loud by myself.

834
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: It felt like almost criminal to be laughing that. I

835
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: don't ever laugh alone that hard. I was watching third season,

836
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: but I felt after like the first season was like,

837
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't need to watch any more of this. I

838
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,439
Speaker 1: remember being very fat, like very thirty. It's the same, Yeah,

839
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: it's but it is a great UM theme song, um Breakable.

840
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 1: She's a laugh damn it. It's a miracle. And it's

841
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: all about these girls that were held in a bunker

842
00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: for their entire child hoods till um they're in their

843
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: twenties and then they get out and so Ellie Uh

844
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 1: Ellie Kemper, who was you know on the Office, plays

845
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: the girl that gets out, and she's just like it's

846
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: a great character because she's still a child and everything

847
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 1: is new to her. And by the third season she's

848
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: she just gets yes, it's like elf, she has the

849
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: mentality and she gets everything wrong and like there's this

850
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: thing yesterday where by the third season they're just so

851
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: used to her like not knowing anything, and one of

852
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: her best friend's tightest the uh he's I forget who

853
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,720
Speaker 1: he's played by, but he's like, you know this almost

854
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: like really flamboyant gay guy who loves show tunes. And

855
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: it's her best friend and she's talking about something. She

856
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: sees a picture and she's like, man, I mean that's

857
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: a milth and she goes and he goes at the

858
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,399
Speaker 1: same time they both say. He goes, we know you're

859
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: gonna get it wrong whatever it is, we know you

860
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: don't know, and she goes, uh uh funk. What did

861
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: She goes? Uh? Man, I'd like to friend her or

862
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: something like that. Like it was like, um, but it

863
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: was just so funny that they're already be self referential

864
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: in that episode of like it would be funny if

865
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: she just said what she thought Bill was, but to

866
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: have him go, we know you're gonna get it wrong.

867
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: At that point, they're in on the joke. But man, oh,

868
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:10,800
Speaker 1: and she gets a text and I put on this

869
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,439
Speaker 1: story but it says, oh, gosh, I gotta go back

870
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: to my boss. My boss just said get you better

871
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: get the duck over here, so I gotta go find

872
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: a duck. It's just like something like that. I mean,

873
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 1: that was one of like fifty jokes that flew at

874
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: my head last night, and I was just like, God,

875
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: damn it, like it. There's so many funny things out there.

876
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: Stop watching things that aren't funny. For the love of

877
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: Dumber is funny, Honestly, it's funny because it's just he's

878
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:46,760
Speaker 1: so weird. But things that are comedies that are that caliber,

879
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: we please stop watching them. I think for me pointed

880
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 1: in comedy lately, I love the obviously enjoyed thirty Rocks.

881
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: Sometimes it could be too joke heavy for me. That's

882
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: and I think people when you watch it, it's like

883
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 1: it's a lot, don't I get, like wanting more story

884
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: with your shows or more heart with your comedy shows. Yeah,

885
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,439
Speaker 1: but if you're someone who likes jokes, please support those

886
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 1: shows because they're the best. Even like I watched SNL

887
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: last night, the sketch, the Try guy sketch that people

888
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: are so upset about. I don't even know what to

889
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: try exactly, that's what the sketch is about. It's like,

890
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: who the funk cares about this? Why is this news?

891
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: A guy cheated consensually with another woman that he worked with,

892
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: and everyone's like this SNL is done, Like there's this

893
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: whole like backlash for SNL now because they made light

894
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: of this guy cheating, which I guess is just such

895
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 1: a terrible thing. And it's like, this guy had an

896
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: affair with a guess. The Try guys have a um

897
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 1: A brand, and then they have another group of people

898
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: who do things and they're called the food babies. And

899
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: this girl that he cheated with on his wife was

900
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: a food baby, and so now they're like, this is

901
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: about a man praying on someone who works within his company.

902
00:46:59,560 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: It's like, how how many fucking people hook up with

903
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: people that you work with? All these people that are

904
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,839
Speaker 1: talking about like she was a victim I understand that

905
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: that can happen power Dynamics, but literally every show you've

906
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: ever watched where people fall in love, like, how many

907
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: people have met when someone was at an office and

908
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,920
Speaker 1: someone was maybe in a little bit more position of

909
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: a power I mean me and my boyfriend. So why

910
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: don't you cancel me? I'm so tired of this, Like

911
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,359
Speaker 1: this girl was in a consensual relationship. She hasn't come

912
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 1: out and said it wasn't. Maybe we shouldn't take her

913
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: word for it. I just don't understand everyone wants to

914
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: cancel everyone for the dumbest thing. Part of me feels

915
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 1: like you're not giving this person that was working under

916
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: any credit that they can make their own choice. Yes,

917
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 1: and just because someone's your boss doesn't mean what because

918
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: people go don't let anything hold you back from true love.

919
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: Anything except if he works in the department ahead of

920
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: you and makes a little bit more money than you.

921
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: Then if he then if you go after him, then

922
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: you are a victim and you don't even work in

923
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: an office anymore. You met on Zoo. Everyone cheats? Why

924
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: are we act saying? There was a whole thing of

925
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 1: like when are we going to stop being surprised when

926
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: men cheat like this? You know, Adam Levine, they called

927
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: it the wife guy, the guy who like is like,

928
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: I'm a guy that is a wife, and we're always like,

929
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: so let because I guess this guy, the try guy

930
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: that cheated. He was known as like the wife guy,

931
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: and it's like, I have a wife, and it's like

932
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 1: the people who talk too much about their partner are

933
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: probably more capable of doing things like this. Stop being surprised.

934
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 1: Everyone cheats, not everyone, but man he talks about I mean,

935
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: these are children that are getting upset about this, and

936
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 1: I'm just so tired of I'm getting on board with

937
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 1: like the the I'm now getting furious about canceled culture.

938
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 1: I'm a little late to this game, but I think

939
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: it is so overblown. I'm so tired about people what

940
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,359
Speaker 1: people are getting upset about. It's ridiculous. Okay, well, let's

941
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 1: go to break and not talk about try guys ever again.

942
00:48:55,680 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: We'll be back after this with X. Alright, we're back,

943
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: let's get to fan threats. Well, let's do it. No

944
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 1: one's getting wet. Well that's true, that is yeah, yeah,

945
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:24,919
Speaker 1: m okay. Our first voicemail is from Sarah. Hi best

946
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: Jesus is Sarah. I wanted to call in and ask

947
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 1: Nikki what she thinks that actually in Paradise. So far,

948
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 1: I'm loving it so much, as ridiculous as it is,

949
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: And I'm also putting together why I love reality TV

950
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 1: so much. It is such a good way to like

951
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 1: watch other people's actions and see how they actually play out,

952
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 1: Like seeing Genevieve and the things that she's doing. It's frustrating,

953
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: but it's also so much of I think putting a

954
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: mirror to who I was in college, like just feeling

955
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 1: insecure doing things out of insecurity, warning a guy to

956
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,400
Speaker 1: like me, putting somebody else down like to them in

957
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: order to get them to like me. War And it's

958
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: just like watching reality helps me not do those things

959
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: because I see how they actually play out and it's

960
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: not a good look. It doesn't get you what you want. Um.

961
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: I also love that they're doing like a Costa a

962
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: More version where the girls leaving the guys are tested

963
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 1: crazy but into it. And I also think that somebody

964
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: put a curly to pay on Dak Shepherd and he's

965
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: wanted the contestants like I looked so much like It's insane. Uh.

966
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 1: Side note, I also wanted to ask Noah what it

967
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:34,360
Speaker 1: is that she's fed on Pinterest Between Reddit and Pinterest

968
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: as far as like scrolling endlessly on my phone and

969
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,320
Speaker 1: Pinterest is just my boards are just full of d

970
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,800
Speaker 1: i y projects that I save in love, will never

971
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 1: do but have so much fun watching people make this

972
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:49,080
Speaker 1: textured art and this thing out of a dollar tree thing.

973
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, I was just curious about that for Noah.

974
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: I love you guys things, I love it. Um, Well,

975
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: let's starve with you, Noah, what do you look at

976
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: on Pinterest like you do the same thing. What is

977
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: something on your pendris right now that you're like, I'll

978
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: never make this, but if I could choose one thing

979
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: to do, it would be this, is there something that

980
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,760
Speaker 1: you can think of right now? So I've been pinning

981
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: a lot of um d I y gardens because I

982
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 1: want to grow vegetables and stuff, but I don't. I'll

983
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: never do it. Or just like homecre stuff you could do,

984
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: I could see you doing that, and what horse stuff?

985
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: No home decor like the winter pots that Kristen does,

986
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: like those are goddamnit. Do you know what? I came

987
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 1: up with? Another thing that girls have that I don't

988
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: have that are like this is a this isn't this

989
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: is a deep dive on like if you're a girl,

990
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: I think that I do have a lot of listeners

991
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: that don't feel like real women and maybe relate to

992
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: me in a lot of ways. There's another thing when

993
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: girls like I can't watch scary movies because I'll have

994
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:57,720
Speaker 1: a nightmare. If you have nightmares about something you watch

995
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: that night, Like, you can't just scary movie because then

996
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: that night you have nightmares about it. You are a

997
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,919
Speaker 1: perfect woman Because I have nightmares, but they are never

998
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: about the thing I just watched. They're always like about something.

999
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: They're like, I, you know, I'm missing my flight and

1000
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: I don't have time to pack, and then the taxicab

1001
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 1: driver is, you know, my dad, but my my dad

1002
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: doesn't know who I am anymore. It's never like I've

1003
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 1: been watching so much dam Or. I'm dying for dam

1004
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: Or to show up in my dreams. I want more episodes.

1005
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:29,560
Speaker 1: If you are a girl, that's like, I can't go

1006
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: see that movie because then I'm gonna have nightmares about

1007
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: the purge. You are a girl I want to be.

1008
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 1: I'm so jealous. And that's a specific thing, but like

1009
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: girls who have pretty nightmares, that makes sense. That was

1010
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 1: like he was chasing me and I was naked, and

1011
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 1: like there was blood on the walls. If you have dreams,

1012
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: that makes sense. You are a perfect girl. Yeah, you're

1013
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: also I don't think asleep. I think you're just still whatever.

1014
00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 1: That what is it called girls? I've never related to

1015
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 1: girls that are like I can't watch these shows because

1016
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: they give me nightmares. And many is like that, and

1017
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm just like, man, I wish I was a girl

1018
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,600
Speaker 1: like that. I'm a boy like that. I used to

1019
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: when I would watch Nightmare in Elm Street, I was

1020
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 1: fucked for like a week, and your nightmares would be

1021
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 1: about that You're a perfect girl girl bachelor in Paradise. Yeah,

1022
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:16,919
Speaker 1: you know what. I like what she said. She said

1023
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: that she watches it to not be like she used

1024
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,880
Speaker 1: to be. Yes, And I thought this whole time that

1025
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: people watch it to justify their shitty behavior, like, oh no,

1026
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: I don't think that at all these these well maybe

1027
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. I won't say I never thought it

1028
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: at all, but I feel like I think a lot

1029
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 1: of times. I guess what I'll say is that a

1030
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: lot of times girls, I think, or guys will watch

1031
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 1: these shows and be like, I would never act like that,

1032
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: And the truth is you do all the time. So

1033
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 1: I like that. What was her name again, Sarah? Sarah?

1034
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:49,399
Speaker 1: I like that Sarah was able to say I see

1035
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: myself in this because I think a lot of times

1036
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: we go I would never fucking do that. And the

1037
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: thing is, have you ever seen footage of yourself and

1038
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 1: like a home video or you don't know you're being

1039
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: even a pic of yourself you don't know is being

1040
00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: taken and you go, oh my god, I slouch like that.

1041
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: I talk like that, like you don't know. That's why

1042
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:08,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to do my reality show is to kind

1043
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 1: of it gave me a version of myself that I

1044
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 1: was like, oh whoa like my friends and family put

1045
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: up with a lot like it gave me a perspective

1046
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: on how difficult I can be and how annoying I

1047
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: can be. And um, I definitely think. I mean, for

1048
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,279
Speaker 1: most people aren't watching Bachelor in Paradise, but it is

1049
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: a great season that you should just jump into and

1050
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: you can just jump into it, and it is it's

1051
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: like watching zoo animals. It's like watching humans in the zoo,

1052
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: like a habitat where you keep them and you. That's

1053
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: what I've always said about f Boy. When I was

1054
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: promoting it, I'd be like, reality TV is like a

1055
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:46,240
Speaker 1: David Attenborough documentary about like watching this species of animal

1056
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 1: and they're mating habits when they are kept in like

1057
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: a tribe. Yeah, well it's just like you know I

1058
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: and I also feel like um, I with Genevieve especially,

1059
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: I will say what I pay attention to mostly is

1060
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: what face work I do and don't want to have done,

1061
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: and how everyone has a nose job. Everyone everyone in Hollywood.

1062
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: I want you to I want everyone to remember this.

1063
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:21,879
Speaker 1: Every single actress that you want to be has had

1064
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: a nose job, every single one of them, and I

1065
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: want to join them. They've all had nose jobs. They've

1066
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: all had Um. There's one girl that looks like Ariana.

1067
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 1: Call her Arianna Kardashian because she's her face is a

1068
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: perfect mixture of both of them. Um. There's a girl

1069
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 1: named Shana who is stunning. She looks like young Michelle Pfeiffer. Uh.

1070
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 1: There's um, and then there's Genevieve, who I really like,

1071
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 1: but um, her lips are I actually kind of want

1072
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: her lips. Um. But yeah that in terms of behavior,

1073
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 1: I really this is just for this is just for Sarah,

1074
00:55:56,400 --> 00:56:00,439
Speaker 1: But I really did not like how j n Viev

1075
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: both her and Sa are like, I'm gonna like date

1076
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: other guys and like and the guys that they so

1077
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,640
Speaker 1: they're in like a relationship with the guys. On like

1078
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: the first couple of days, they like find a guy

1079
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 1: and they kind of match up. Then a new guy

1080
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: comes in and like pulls them for a date. And

1081
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: then the guy that they were kind of matched up

1082
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: with is a little sad and the girl gets back

1083
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 1: from the date and she's like, it was amazing. Actually,

1084
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: he really showed me a lot of affection and like,

1085
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 1: you don't do that and I need to like know

1086
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:27,919
Speaker 1: from you. It's like this guy's knowing you for one

1087
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 1: fucking day. And she goes, honestly, how am I supposed

1088
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 1: to feel when you at breakfast? I sat next to you,

1089
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 1: you gave me one kiss And he goes, oh, so

1090
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 1: we're counting kisses now, and she goes, how gay. She

1091
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,880
Speaker 1: freaks out and it's like, yeah, you are counting kisses.

1092
00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:47,880
Speaker 1: It's out of line. You're WEIRDO. It sucks, And I

1093
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 1: hate the idea of any woman being at home being like, go, girl,

1094
00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: get him, because you're wrong these guys. I'm never the

1095
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,319
Speaker 1: one to take the guy's side on these shows, but

1096
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 1: these girls have it all. I don't know where they

1097
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 1: get this entitled it from people going from it up,

1098
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: but yeah, but they get rewarded for being insane. Like

1099
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 1: that's why. It's like if you were watching a zoo

1100
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: animal show and every time one of the animals attacks someone,

1101
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 1: they got a treat, and you get treats for being

1102
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 1: as loud, and producers are probably like it sucks that

1103
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: he didn't really touch you at breakfast. I could tell

1104
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 1: he's like all I've realized Sarah and Noah is that

1105
00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: Women we just want to feel desired. Can I say that?

1106
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: I hate being one of these comedians who goes Let

1107
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: me say that again. Read that again, Women to all

1108
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: men listening, Women want to feel desired. The way to

1109
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: feel desired for a guy to make you feel touch us. Yes,

1110
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: unless you're a girl that doesn't like touch touching, But

1111
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 1: if it's early on, I mean, are you free rain

1112
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 1: to be touched after you kiss? I guess you know

1113
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: what I mean when you're making out like She's just

1114
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 1: girls like a guy who is kind of ravenous for

1115
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 1: them but also seems unattainable in a way. I guess

1116
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,480
Speaker 1: it's a it's a hard balance to strike. But a

1117
00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 1: guy that is just zeroed in on you a role

1118
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 1: that has healthy um self esteem, I think will really

1119
00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: appreciate that. If if you have to play hard for

1120
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:35,959
Speaker 1: a get for a girl, yes it's gonna work, but

1121
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 1: you ultimately can't keep that up forever if you want

1122
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 1: to marry this person, Like, can you imagine playing hard

1123
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: to get in your relationship? Once you're married. It's like

1124
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: you didn't take up the Well, yeah, I'm acting like

1125
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 1: you don't exist. Yeah, but there's other guy took out

1126
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: the trash for me. You're cheating on me. You're counting

1127
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: the trash take our kids to school? What? Who is

1128
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 1: this guy? He drives a better car than me. How

1129
00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: long you even cheating? Whatever? Man, you just don't pay

1130
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: enough attention. I just think that women want to feel desired.

1131
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 1: I feel like that's when cheating happens, is when a

1132
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: woman feels and the same with men. Men want to

1133
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: feel desired as well. Men want to feel don't you agree?

1134
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: Like men want to feel sexually, not just sexually, but

1135
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 1: just like they want to feel like they're woman needs them,

1136
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: Like I said that Chris really appreciates being needed more

1137
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:27,600
Speaker 1: than I do. Like I like being needed, like physically

1138
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: or like you're just so cute and I just want

1139
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 1: like I just I like to be adored. I like

1140
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: some guy to look at me and be like, god,

1141
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: you're like so like I like an adoring look. But

1142
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: I feel like men need to feel essential, like I

1143
00:59:41,600 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: need you. I think, well, thinking about the point where

1144
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,960
Speaker 1: it's like you want to feel desired, I think men

1145
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 1: have trouble one knowing doing it enough, but then when

1146
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:57,479
Speaker 1: they're told to do it, it then feels like, uh,

1147
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel as organic to them. They on it

1148
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: to be on their terms. And I need to get

1149
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: over that control thing. I can't win. But I don't

1150
01:00:05,200 --> 01:00:08,240
Speaker 1: know if it's control thing. It's like I don't want

1151
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 1: to be told what to do. Okay, but if I

1152
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: then go, okay, you are fantastic, You're the most beautiful

1153
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 1: girl in the world. But that well, then you don't

1154
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: get to tell someone what you need. If we're going

1155
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: to you're not allowed to be a girl who goes,

1156
01:00:24,040 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 1: I need you to touch me more, and then when

1157
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: he does, you go, you're just doing that because I

1158
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 1: told you you are not mature. You are you're asking

1159
01:00:30,040 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 1: for things that this guy. You're putting this guy in

1160
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: a position where he can't win. So when I asked

1161
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 1: Chris for something, I always give the caveat of like,

1162
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be when you touch me or when

1163
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: you know, tell me this thing or say this kind

1164
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: of things. I'm not going to accuse you of trying

1165
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: to get on my good side or lying like I

1166
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,479
Speaker 1: because the thing is I know he feels that way.

1167
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: I just I wouldn't be asking for something if I

1168
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 1: didn't think he felt that way. I'm like, I know

1169
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: you feel this way already. I need you to speak

1170
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: my language for even if the person, even if the

1171
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,640
Speaker 1: person though isn't even throwing it back in your face.

1172
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 1: For me, it just doesn't feel that's you because you

1173
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 1: don't you. I've noticed through the years do not like

1174
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 1: being told what to do. You don't like being told

1175
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 1: you're not doing this, I need you to do this more,

1176
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: and so you rebel against that, like do this thing

1177
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: instead of taking it as you're not. It's okay, you're

1178
01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:27,439
Speaker 1: not perfect. There's some things that I'm sure the person

1179
01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 1: who's telling you that could improve on. But it doesn't

1180
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: mean that you're a bad person. You just can. You

1181
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: might need to work on not taking that personally. Yeah,

1182
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: I know. I take a lot of things personally, especially

1183
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: you mean I take stuff personally my own to take

1184
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: person I had a thing the other day that I

1185
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 1: was really excited about our like realization. I think therapy

1186
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 1: has helped us, but I sensed his mood shift about something,

1187
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: and it was in that weird state of like where

1188
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: we're just in the car and it's silent, and it's

1189
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: never that way he dates Nikki Glaser. There's never just silent,

1190
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: you know, even when there even when he was dating

1191
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: Robot Nickie, I was filling the silence with little taps

1192
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 1: and then like Robot voice would be like I like

1193
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,880
Speaker 1: this song. Like I was always talking, and so it

1194
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,959
Speaker 1: was silence, and I was thinking, he's in a bad mood.

1195
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what I did. Something's wrong. I don't

1196
01:02:20,680 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: even want to deal with this right now. I don't

1197
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 1: want to. I don't want to ever be uncomfortable with

1198
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: my partner. I don't want to have these like weird

1199
01:02:27,760 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: moments where we're both like walking on eggshells about our feelings.

1200
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, that is I told him yesterday after we

1201
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:36,720
Speaker 1: got over this fight. I was like, I just wanted

1202
01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 1: to always be easy with you. And I know that's

1203
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: an impossibility maybe, but of all people in the world,

1204
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: I would just like us to never have that. I

1205
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 1: don't need a relationship where it's ever going to feel

1206
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: like you're mad at me. No, you're mad at me.

1207
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 1: So I said something and he was like, well, I

1208
01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,479
Speaker 1: feel like you're annoyed at me. And I'm like, well,

1209
01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 1: now I'm so, and then I go, can we back

1210
01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: track to why you think I'm annoyed with you? And

1211
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 1: he goes, well, you, I was talking about your the

1212
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:04,960
Speaker 1: thing that you were, you know, having struggles with that

1213
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:06,800
Speaker 1: you brought up. I was giving you advice and you

1214
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: interrupted me, like you know, four times, and you just

1215
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: seem to like dismiss me. And I was like, I

1216
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:13,680
Speaker 1: could see how that would feel like a dismiss miss

1217
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: dismissal it probably it was a dismissal. I'm really sorry

1218
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:19,480
Speaker 1: that I did that. I need to work on listening

1219
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: better to you. Will you please? Because he sometimes goes

1220
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,400
Speaker 1: when I'll be like you and you're all angry about this,

1221
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:31,480
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm please, don't misconstrue what my behavior. Sometimes

1222
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:33,280
Speaker 1: you misinterpret it. And so I was like, will you

1223
01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: do the same for me? As like when I am

1224
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: talking over you that I maybe I'm just a d

1225
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:40,520
Speaker 1: d and I haven't talked to anyone all day and

1226
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: I just maybe need to get all these thoughts out

1227
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: and that I'm not it's not that I don't respect you,

1228
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 1: even though my actions you take that as disrespect. We

1229
01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: give me the benefit of doubt that it might not

1230
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: be because I promise you I never do anything to

1231
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: purposely hurt you. I've never done that, and it's just

1232
01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: it's hard, but at the to be able to. I

1233
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: think a good technique in resolving a fight is to say, oh,

1234
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:06,560
Speaker 1: you know what, this is a lot like this thing

1235
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: I do to you, the thing I'm feeling from you

1236
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: right now that i'm mad about it reminds me a

1237
01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: lot of a thing that I do to you, or

1238
01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 1: like just relating it to what the person experiences from you,

1239
01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 1: because I think because I think a lot of times

1240
01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 1: in fights, I don't know about you, but it can

1241
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: seem like one person is getting piled on another person

1242
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: is just like I'm perfect. So if you can relate

1243
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:29,840
Speaker 1: it to something you struggle with, like I'm a bad listener,

1244
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: I talked, talked over you, but when your mood shifts,

1245
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: it seems like you shut down and you don't give

1246
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:39,040
Speaker 1: me a chance to like you just assume that I'm

1247
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 1: mad and then it's over, you know why. But I

1248
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: think what happens is and is when So when a

1249
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 1: guy gets or a girl gets quiet, they feel like, oh,

1250
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 1: if I start talking, then it might happen again, and

1251
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:53,680
Speaker 1: then I'll just lose my mind. So like he might

1252
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 1: be afraid to mention anything because then if you interrupt that,

1253
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 1: he'll just be But I take his quietness as I'm

1254
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: punishing her, and now she's not going to get anything

1255
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: of me. But she's just broke. And I have to

1256
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: remember a friend of mine isn't therapy now, and she

1257
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,959
Speaker 1: was like her and her husband both like talked about

1258
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 1: childhood trauma, not trauma in terms of like actually I

1259
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:17,840
Speaker 1: mean both actual trauma and like little things of like

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01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: my parents just didn't listen to me or this. Try

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01:05:20,320 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: to remember for me, it's been really helpful lately to

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01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: picture Chris as like a four year old boy whenever

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01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,919
Speaker 1: these kind of like things that he does that are

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01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: his coping mechanisms in a fight, like either shutting down

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01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 1: whatever he does that Instead of taking it personally, I'm

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01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 1: just like, that's his little boy, like you know, come

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01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,160
Speaker 1: into the surface, and I just gotta be nice to

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01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 1: that little boy and not take it like he's being

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01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:45,680
Speaker 1: mean to me, because my story I tell myself is

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01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: he hates me, he's disgusted with me, he can't believe

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01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 1: he's dating someone who's so annoying and thoughtless and careless,

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01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 1: and he's going to break up with me because he's

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01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 1: realizing right now in this moment, I'm just a despicable

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01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: person who's selfish and only over talks. That's the story.

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01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: It's on myself. And then I go to we're broken up,

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01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: like he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I

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01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 1: am a bad person. I should just go fucking kill

1278
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,600
Speaker 1: myself like that's how quickly I go when he is

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01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: it gives me a one word answer after he's been

1280
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 1: talked over. That's where I go and where he goes

1281
01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: when I think where he goes when I talk over

1282
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 1: him is she doesn't respect me? She um, I she

1283
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,320
Speaker 1: doesn't respect me, and we don't really want my help. Yeah,

1284
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 1: you don't effort in. She doesn't see any of you.

1285
01:06:27,040 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: I actually don't even here for she doesn't even need me.

1286
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 1: When the truth is I wouldn't even I need you

1287
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 1: to hear all this ship and then give me your answer.

1288
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 1: And I maybe wasn't, but it is true that I

1289
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,480
Speaker 1: need to work on not just steamrolling a conversation. And

1290
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: when he says something, maybe it's going to benefit me

1291
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,040
Speaker 1: to go oh, that's interesting you say that and repeat

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01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 1: back to him what he said in a way that

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01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:50,680
Speaker 1: makes him feel understood and heard, like there, and there

1294
01:06:50,720 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: are things I miss all the time when I'm just on. Yeah,

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01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 1: I feel like you get your thoughts out there through words,

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01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 1: like while you're thinking, you're also talking. They both happened

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01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 1: exactly at the same time. And I kind of do

1298
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,120
Speaker 1: the saying you don't go. You never I've never seen

1299
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:07,560
Speaker 1: you go. When I couldn't talk, that was the only

1300
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 1: time where thoughts had to go, and I go, is

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01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:12,080
Speaker 1: this important enough to speak? And now I'm back to

1302
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 1: I need to get back to a place of like

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01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 1: thinking before speaking. But God, is it fun to just

1304
01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: speak without thinking. It's the most fun ever. It's what

1305
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 1: do we do for a living. We're kind of good

1306
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 1: at it. Okay, let's get another fan tex. That was

1307
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:28,959
Speaker 1: a great one. Sorry to uh, yeah, that was great

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01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 1: and Genevieve, here's another ham drip from Victor. Hey, Nicki,

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01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: Andrew noah, Um, I was just listening to today's episode

1310
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: Tagging Out, and you commented about how guys like you

1311
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: sporting games or sporting events to like let out emotions

1312
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: at they can't elsewhere. I actually went to the Detroit

1313
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:53,040
Speaker 1: Lions home opener at Ford Field, and when I was

1314
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 1: walking to my seat, I heard a guy behind me

1315
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: just go, oh, man, I can't wait to yell and

1316
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: I have to MLF therapy, Like that's that's not a

1317
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 1: healthy mentality going into this game. But I just thought

1318
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: it was funny. Y'all commented on that, because yeah, I

1319
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: went to a couple of football games this season and

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01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 1: and it's definitely a thing. So I love the show

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01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 1: and ye Jack Bok, thanks Victor. Hey, umny just right

1322
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: on the nose. Just but I like that that person

1323
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:28,160
Speaker 1: at least something I like about that of like, you know,

1324
01:08:28,400 --> 01:08:31,200
Speaker 1: he knows what he needs, he has an excuse to yell,

1325
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 1: and we did. We did uncover something in that. I

1326
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,960
Speaker 1: think men you're right they use that as an excuse

1327
01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:40,640
Speaker 1: to get feelings out, because I my dad's anger that

1328
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 1: night just startled me so much. But it was just

1329
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: something he isn't able to get out anywhere else. But

1330
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 1: it was just he can't turn and yell at you.

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01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:52,639
Speaker 1: That just his abuse. He's gotta yell at He's got

1332
01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:55,600
Speaker 1: to yell through the He's yelling at you through the

1333
01:08:55,640 --> 01:09:00,400
Speaker 1: Bengals he's like message of siege. I'm like, can before

1334
01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:04,760
Speaker 1: Chris Lake and just not say anything? Touchdown? Also buy

1335
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:09,360
Speaker 1: me a car. It is. It is interesting how some

1336
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 1: people when they're upset, scream and some people shut down.

1337
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: Yeah or yeah or do both. But yeah, yeah, I

1338
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 1: like the idea of going to the game and he's impartial,

1339
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: He's just there to yell. He's just like even there.

1340
01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: I just don't want to have a thing where you

1341
01:09:26,000 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 1: could go break stuff because I think, yeah, there's rooms

1342
01:09:29,320 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: where you can just go shatter things with a sledgehammer. Listen,

1343
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:36,280
Speaker 1: it's all the same thing. Yeah, and playing sports and

1344
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: I bet that gets it out even more. I mean, like,

1345
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: oh dude, it got out everything that was the best

1346
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: and then it just goes away. That's the hardest part.

1347
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:48,640
Speaker 1: We were talking about that when retire you just performing

1348
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: comedy also does performing does that too? Like I feel

1349
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 1: like my whole set can be dictated on, like my

1350
01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,559
Speaker 1: my mood, even podcasting, Like I came in here yesterday

1351
01:09:59,560 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 1: to press, it was a whole different vibe than the

1352
01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: day before. I think that's why I like to do

1353
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,280
Speaker 1: four days a week, is because I can't guarantee I'm

1354
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: going to be in the best podcasting mood one day

1355
01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:10,599
Speaker 1: a week, you know, like too much of a grab

1356
01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 1: bag with old moody. I feel like, though, if we

1357
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: had to do probability, if I know you well enough

1358
01:10:16,360 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 1: towards Wednesday Thursday, you're gonna tend to be at least

1359
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,559
Speaker 1: when you're touring. When you're touring Wednesday and Thursday, you

1360
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,479
Speaker 1: start freaking out. No, no, no, it starts getting better.

1361
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,519
Speaker 1: Oh interesting, Yeah, Monday and Tuesday because I'm back in

1362
01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:34,679
Speaker 1: a place where I don't have any purpose. Final thought.

1363
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: Kirsten was on a vacation the other day from her job,

1364
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: and she was a nine day vacation cape cod all

1365
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:47,680
Speaker 1: over the care of themselves, that's what makes them. I

1366
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:49,679
Speaker 1: did a lot of research on. I was like, why

1367
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:51,719
Speaker 1: do they exist? She was like, well, they are plants

1368
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,559
Speaker 1: that don't need to be watered. They can exist in

1369
01:10:53,560 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: the freezing cold. So it um so she but she

1370
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: was because she was having she was starting to freak

1371
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,719
Speaker 1: out about like she bought a vibe. I'm sorry, Kristen.

1372
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 1: She bought a toy. She went to a store and

1373
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 1: there was this The woman there talked them into this

1374
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 1: toy and they spent like two on this thing. I mean,

1375
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: these vibrators are like expensive now, yeah, frustration hardware, frustration

1376
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: hard It was it was just a bed post you

1377
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: can grind on. And she was feeling this immense and

1378
01:11:29,640 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 1: I think it can't just be her and I that

1379
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 1: have this. If you haven't worked in a couple of days,

1380
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 1: or you feel like maybe you have a vacation, right,

1381
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 1: and you haven't earned money proactively in a couple of days,

1382
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 1: little charges suddenly, no matter how well off you are,

1383
01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: start feeling like when you couldn't speak, Yeah, I was like,

1384
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: I can't get sushi. It will never come back. Yes, yeah,

1385
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,320
Speaker 1: I feel that way. Yeah, And so Kristen was having

1386
01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: that with this. She was so upset, but she was

1387
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:02,439
Speaker 1: like because we've been counting cries and coming and so

1388
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: she was like, I cried because of this dumb thing

1389
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 1: we wasted our money on that didn't even work and

1390
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't even good. And I looked at the toy

1391
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I actually have one of those.

1392
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't think you're supposed to do what they go

1393
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 1: you put that inside you during sex like with another

1394
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,240
Speaker 1: And she was like, yeah, that's what it says to do,

1395
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:20,679
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I guess I never read the book.

1396
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 1: I was said it was a solo toy that was

1397
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:23,600
Speaker 1: so dumb. So I got to try it out and

1398
01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:25,400
Speaker 1: see if it works for me. But anyway, she was

1399
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 1: so mad about it, and I was like, oh my god,

1400
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: I so relate to this one of the fights I

1401
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: got in with Chris during my Silent times. Uh, it

1402
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:34,760
Speaker 1: was right after my silent time. But I've been off

1403
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 1: work now. I haven't earned money for you know, the podcast.

1404
01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 1: I earned money, but like it just doesn't even feel

1405
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 1: I just I haven't been working in a way that

1406
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:46,320
Speaker 1: makes me feel like I'm working. And I like ordered

1407
01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:49,479
Speaker 1: Starbucks to the wrong place in Lexington, Kentucky when we

1408
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 1: were there watching Greg Warren Special and Chris and I

1409
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 1: took an uber to this other Starbucks and Chris had

1410
01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:55,880
Speaker 1: kind of told me what we're going to this part

1411
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 1: of town, and I just like selected a Starbucks that

1412
01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 1: I thought and I selected the wrong one, and so

1413
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 1: for a second, I was like, well, you told me

1414
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 1: it's town Center, and I was like, and I ordered

1415
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:04,840
Speaker 1: something like I was just like, well you told me

1416
01:13:04,920 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: some I'm Center, and I ordered to that one. So

1417
01:13:06,520 --> 01:13:08,479
Speaker 1: that's why it's at another one. But I'll guess. I

1418
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 1: guess I'll just waste eight dollars on a drink. And

1419
01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 1: I just had that like two of like and then

1420
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 1: he shuts down because he's like, you're mad at me,

1421
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 1: like I'm to blame for it, and I'm like and

1422
01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 1: then I just go, babe, I'm sorry. I don't know

1423
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 1: why I did. I just overreacted. It's eight dollars, it's

1424
01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 1: not a big deal. I just ordered one to this

1425
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: one who cares. It's not a big deal. And he

1426
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 1: was like, but we can go get yours. It's fine,

1427
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:29,559
Speaker 1: and he was figuring away, and I was like, it's

1428
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 1: so stupid. I just haven't worked in eight dollars to me.

1429
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:35,719
Speaker 1: Even yesterday, I went to call these because they didn't

1430
01:13:35,720 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 1: have all the milk at Starbucks on the street and

1431
01:13:37,400 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 1: it was ten dollars for a smaller coffee than the

1432
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 1: one I get Starbucks that is not even as good.

1433
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 1: And I was so mad about it. And I could

1434
01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 1: afford ten dollars, I mean, but for some reason it

1435
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 1: was it's devastating right now, like every I just but anyway,

1436
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:57,760
Speaker 1: Kristen said that she realized how I feel. She was

1437
01:13:57,800 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: like when I'm not home, when I'm on vacation, I

1438
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: feel constant guilt about everything, and I feel like I

1439
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 1: can't really enjoy myself. I feel like you know. When

1440
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:07,360
Speaker 1: it was she one day it was rainy there and

1441
01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:09,200
Speaker 1: she started crying because she was like, well, this is

1442
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: a pointless day to even be here. I should be

1443
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:13,320
Speaker 1: homeworking instead. So she felt guilty, and she was like,

1444
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:15,800
Speaker 1: I go, I feel that way when I'm home, Like

1445
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:20,520
Speaker 1: that's how I I feel imbalanced. So it's like the opposite.

1446
01:14:20,520 --> 01:14:23,799
Speaker 1: She feels secure at home because that's where money, routine, everything,

1447
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 1: and I feel on the road is almost like home.

1448
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: And when I'm home, like you said, Monday, Tuesday. Maybe

1449
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I always thought

1450
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: that it was like it's interesting with you because you

1451
01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 1: don't get the runner high from perform at least you

1452
01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 1: will never you never really since I do. He was like,

1453
01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: you are you are? I think you are, but I

1454
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: think you almost fight against it something, or at least

1455
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:50,120
Speaker 1: you verbalize that it's like not that big of a deal.

1456
01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 1: Maybe it's too Like I'm in a good mood and

1457
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 1: I'm spunky, but I'm not like they love me. I

1458
01:14:56,840 --> 01:15:01,920
Speaker 1: love this, but I think that high, whether it's like

1459
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: consciously or like you want to admit it, it's it

1460
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 1: is a high. It goes somewhere, so then it has

1461
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:12,840
Speaker 1: to come down, no matter how maybe so you come

1462
01:15:12,920 --> 01:15:17,280
Speaker 1: down to calm down. It's always for every action there is,

1463
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: it's it's gonna be a pendulum swing. And I I

1464
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 1: got remember when I was really depressed in l A.

1465
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:23,680
Speaker 1: I don't know if I even talked about this on

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Speaker 1: the podcast. I was so depressed after Jimmy Kimmel and

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01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 1: someone was like, yeah, you just did cocaine. You just

1468
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: were on a bender for three days preparing for Kimmel.

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01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:37,320
Speaker 1: It was just like and then doing it and everyone's like,

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01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:40,000
Speaker 1: you go out when you do Kimmel. It was so cool.

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01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:42,040
Speaker 1: I can't wait to have my own talk show and

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01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 1: come up with all these like rituals. But I think

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01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:46,080
Speaker 1: I said it like they go like best so ever,

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01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,599
Speaker 1: all the crew. I mean, there's like forty people create

1475
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 1: like a congo like non congoline, but like a you know,

1476
01:15:50,800 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 1: gauntlet for you to go down and you hand slap everyone.

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01:15:53,160 --> 01:15:55,639
Speaker 1: Then you go. It's just like and then afterwards they

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01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:58,559
Speaker 1: all give a toast to me and there it was just,

1479
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 1: how am I not going to come down from that?

1480
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:04,320
Speaker 1: It is ecstasy, So I gotta What I need to

1481
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: do is not If I did that every day, it

1482
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:09,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't I would get used to these ups and downs.

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01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:13,600
Speaker 1: I would be able to regulate my adrenal glands in

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01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:17,320
Speaker 1: my like system. But when I'm not doing that regularly,

1485
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: it's going I'm going to have crashes. And that was

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01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 1: what that was. I think nice to know that waiting

1487
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 1: after they have babies, the babies coming, It's here, it's coming,

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01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 1: not just hormon it's gotta be like this, like or

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01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:35,799
Speaker 1: after a wedding. I always worry about women after a wedding,

1490
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:39,559
Speaker 1: because man, do you get so much attention before a wedding,

1491
01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:42,320
Speaker 1: and women unlike Noah who like thrive on that are

1492
01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 1: so excited about I'm going to be the center of attention.

1493
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 1: Everything's about me this weekend. And even if you're not

1494
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 1: like that, it's just you know it's a big deal

1495
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: and you're worried about all these details. And then I always, honestly,

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01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:55,120
Speaker 1: when I go to weddings, I just look at the

1497
01:16:55,160 --> 01:16:57,840
Speaker 1: brind and I go, oh, tomorrow, you are no one's

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01:16:57,920 --> 01:16:59,640
Speaker 1: I mean, your honeymoon is going to be great, but

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01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 1: even that's going to be a little bit lonely because

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01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 1: you get to this island in Hawaii where no one

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01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 1: really is because there's no family and friends around anymore

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01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:10,840
Speaker 1: that are as excited as they were here. The next

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01:17:10,880 --> 01:17:13,719
Speaker 1: weekend you have another wedding. They don't have another wedding.

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01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: You have another wedding to look forward to. Another showing shows, yes,

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01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:21,920
Speaker 1: I think, I think, I guess. I think the defense

1506
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,280
Speaker 1: mechanism that are not defense but like a way for

1507
01:17:24,400 --> 01:17:27,360
Speaker 1: us to shield it is go it's four thousand people,

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01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:28,960
Speaker 1: it's the same thing as doing a show for a

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01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,840
Speaker 1: hundred people. It's the same thing when it's not. Really

1510
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 1: it isn't because even if it's, we have to tell

1511
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:36,719
Speaker 1: ourselves that because we know it's going to go away

1512
01:17:37,800 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 1: almost But also we keep when people are scared to

1513
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: fall in love because they're like, what if, because they've

1514
01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 1: been hurt before, what if this goes away? That's why

1515
01:17:45,360 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: I've had so many shows canceled, not so many, but

1516
01:17:47,960 --> 01:17:50,280
Speaker 1: like every show I've had has been canceled. It's never

1517
01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: been like I just want to step away and it

1518
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:57,000
Speaker 1: hurts so badly. The first time with Nicki and Sarah alive.

1519
01:17:57,640 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 1: You have to aea The next time, I was like,

1520
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm not going to get excited about this because I

1521
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:05,720
Speaker 1: know it will be canceled and it's hard. And I

1522
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: even feel that way about having kids. Like I have

1523
01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 1: said it before, but if you're a mother or someone

1524
01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:12,040
Speaker 1: who wants to be a mother, I think you were

1525
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:15,040
Speaker 1: so much braver than I am, because to love something

1526
01:18:15,120 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: that much that if it's taken from you, I won't

1527
01:18:18,160 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: just like you know, you can lose your job, you

1528
01:18:19,800 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: can lose, You're gonna lose your parents. We're gonna lose.

1529
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna lose everything we have eventually because you die

1530
01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:26,880
Speaker 1: and you lose it. And nuclear war it's about eight

1531
01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:31,600
Speaker 1: weeks away. I feel like, at least I would have

1532
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 1: never have chosen to have parents if I knew the

1533
01:18:33,439 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: pain that is awaiting me when they die. I am

1534
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:37,479
Speaker 1: so scared of it. If if there was a thing

1535
01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 1: where he's like, you can be someone who's just in

1536
01:18:40,040 --> 01:18:42,280
Speaker 1: the way that I'm gonna be childless, probably I would

1537
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 1: like to be parentless because I love them so much.

1538
01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm in for a world of hurt, so why would

1539
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:50,320
Speaker 1: I want another thing I could possibly lose. I just

1540
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:52,599
Speaker 1: don't want to do it. Even my nephew and niece.

1541
01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like a little resentful they were thrust it

1542
01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 1: into my life because now I love this thing so

1543
01:18:57,200 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 1: much that I'm like, if something happens to them, my

1544
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:03,960
Speaker 1: life is over. Although I do I said. I made

1545
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,679
Speaker 1: a joke the other day because Anya was talking about

1546
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 1: someone she heard on some podcast or something that said,

1547
01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 1: you know, this woman was having just kind of monotony

1548
01:19:14,920 --> 01:19:16,639
Speaker 1: or in her career at the age of forty or

1549
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 1: or whatever, and she was just like, I guess this

1550
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: is my life. And then her dad died and it

1551
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,080
Speaker 1: made her like rethink everything, and I'm like, hey, can

1552
01:19:23,120 --> 01:19:25,479
Speaker 1: my dad die pretty soon? Because I would really like to,

1553
01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 1: like I need I need something to like jolke me.

1554
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 1: So it's kind of funny being like, well, maybe just

1555
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 1: like a heart attack and almost die. It's what I

1556
01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:36,639
Speaker 1: It's the thing I want word at least in the word.

1557
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:39,160
Speaker 1: But I know that when my dad dies and my mom.

1558
01:19:39,200 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 1: But when my dad dies, because I'm like Daddy's girl

1559
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 1: the rock, when I will it will, something will happen.

1560
01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 1: I will start a jewelry business. I will start pinning

1561
01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 1: things on something there will be um. But anyway, oh um,

1562
01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:58,479
Speaker 1: what was I gonna say? Sometimes we need those shifts

1563
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: to like to push ourselves forward. Unfortunately it's I can

1564
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:03,479
Speaker 1: be very sad. I'm looking for one. And do you

1565
01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:06,320
Speaker 1: know what, I just because Kirsten made a giant change

1566
01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,280
Speaker 1: in her life that was like she was kind of

1567
01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:12,600
Speaker 1: teeter taltering, no nothing, So she was teeter tottering on

1568
01:20:12,640 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 1: a decision that she needed to make of like am

1569
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: I gonna do this thing or am I not going

1570
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 1: to do it? And the thing that made her decide

1571
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:20,880
Speaker 1: to do it, which I think is so dumb and

1572
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 1: I totally like rolled my eyes when she did it,

1573
01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:27,200
Speaker 1: she saw a psychic. And so I just wrote to

1574
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:31,520
Speaker 1: Kirsten's psychic because I was like, I need something mystical

1575
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 1: or some kind of push to like make me believe,

1576
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:37,800
Speaker 1: like make me make a decision. And not that I

1577
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 1: even need to make a decision. I just feel like

1578
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,080
Speaker 1: I just needs a jolt, and I don't want anyone

1579
01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 1: in my life to die. I don't want the jolt

1580
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 1: to happen from like a car accident. I want like

1581
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:47,840
Speaker 1: maybe a psychic to really floor me with something. Now

1582
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 1: would it be? Here's the thing with psychic though there

1583
01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 1: never negative, Like sometimes I wish they were negative, just

1584
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 1: because that would jolp me. Be like, well, if you're

1585
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 1: on this path, the psychic doesn't know your last name,

1586
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:02,639
Speaker 1: doesn't look you up at all, and I there's something

1587
01:21:02,680 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: about that that I feel good about. I almost wrote

1588
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 1: to her and was like, this is Nicky Glazer because

1589
01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 1: I kind of like to tell people so like maybe

1590
01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:10,320
Speaker 1: they can google me even if I wasn't famous, just

1591
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:12,600
Speaker 1: so they know I'm not like a crazy person. But

1592
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: I just said Nikki, so I feel like I'm excited

1593
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:18,120
Speaker 1: me too. We'll see what happens. She hasn't written me back,

1594
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 1: but I predict Dana White, who's the UFC we have

1595
01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:26,680
Speaker 1: to go? He actually, you know what, maybe save it

1596
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:30,000
Speaker 1: for next time. Oh my god, Well stay tuned. We

1597
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 1: actually have a lot to get to next Monday. I

1598
01:21:31,520 --> 01:21:34,040
Speaker 1: do want to preemptively say that, Um, we have an

1599
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 1: amazing song that someone had sex to that we are

1600
01:21:37,400 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 1: going to play on Monday's show. That is so funny.

1601
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,680
Speaker 1: I hope we get to it. Um we have your

1602
01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:45,799
Speaker 1: Dana White story. Uh, we'll have I'm going to Metric

1603
01:21:45,960 --> 01:21:48,280
Speaker 1: to see Metric and Denver. This is the band Metric.

1604
01:21:50,080 --> 01:21:51,639
Speaker 1: Andre's going to see Jake I Want tomorrow and I'm

1605
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:55,000
Speaker 1: sigt Louis and Site. I'm going to Denver with Noah

1606
01:21:55,080 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 1: and my friend Kat and we're having a whole weekend.

1607
01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: We're probably gonna go to Columbine for a fourth time.

1608
01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm very excited. It'll be Noah's first. I have been

1609
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:04,600
Speaker 1: to Combine three times. I'm going to try to go

1610
01:22:04,760 --> 01:22:06,920
Speaker 1: four times in a year, so that'll be this weekend.

1611
01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:08,679
Speaker 1: I gotta get this call. Thank you guys for listening

1612
01:22:08,680 --> 01:22:12,200
Speaker 1: so much. Don't be closed this weekend at Jack the

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01:22:12,240 --> 01:22:13,200
Speaker 1: guy from White Stripes