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Speaker 1: Subjects He treats my mother like a dog. Dear Stephen Shirley,

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty eight year old woman and I recently

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Speaker 1: got engaged to a man who's almost perfect. We're on

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Speaker 1: the come up and have promising careers, and our life

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Speaker 1: plans are laid out. We want the same things. But

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Speaker 1: there's one issue. He hates my mother. I admit she

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Speaker 1: was a little tough on him when they first met,

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Speaker 1: but she only had my best interests at heart.

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Speaker 3: She asked him a lot about his.

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Speaker 1: Background and ambitions, and he took it as criticism. She

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Speaker 1: wanted to make sure he was responsible and mature, but

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Speaker 1: instead he got offended and thought she was questioning his

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Speaker 1: abilities as a man. He nicknamed her the judge and

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Speaker 1: said he'll never be worthy of her approval.

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Speaker 3: Since we got engaged, it's gotten worse.

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Speaker 1: If I talked to her on the phone, he'll ask

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Speaker 1: how the fat.

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Speaker 3: Witch is doing. If I say I'm.

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Speaker 1: Going out with her, he'll say, I better not bring

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Speaker 1: her bitter butt back to the house with me.

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Speaker 3: He said.

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Speaker 1: Ass One time she asked me how much my fiance

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Speaker 1: was making at his new job, and his stupid behind

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Speaker 1: said to tell that nosey b to mind her own business.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he called her the B word.

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Speaker 1: Needless to say, I hung up the phone before she

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Speaker 1: could respond. He is way too comfortable disrespecting my mother,

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Speaker 1: and I don't think she's done anything to make him

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Speaker 3: I've asked him to stop.

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Speaker 1: But he said he's marrying me, not my family, and

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Speaker 1: she started it by looking down on him. I don't

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Speaker 1: think she treated him that badly, and I think he's

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Speaker 1: being overly sensitive. My mother has told my aunt and

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Speaker 1: my brother about how my fiance treats her, and now

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Speaker 1: they're all in my business and questioning my relationship. Mostly

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Speaker 1: everything else about him is perfect, but I hate the

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Speaker 1: way he treats.

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Speaker 3: My Mother's my mother to blame at all?

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Speaker 1: How do I fix their relationship before our wedding? Wedding? Wedding,

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Speaker 1: you're still considering marrying him? Why he's not worthy of

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Speaker 1: anything like that? You don't need to marry this guy.

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Speaker 1: This guy disrespects your mother. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: Really? I mean, you're twenty eight.

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Speaker 1: You said your mother only had his best interests at heart,

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Speaker 1: your best interests at heart. But he took it as criticism.

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Speaker 1: That's on him, not your mother. That's what parents do

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Speaker 1: before you get married. They meet your intended person. They

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Speaker 1: talk to them, they get to know him. They want

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Speaker 1: to see where his head is. You know, is he

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Speaker 1: good enough? Is he worthy enough to be marrying their child?

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Speaker 1: That's what parents do. Okay, he calls her to judge,

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Speaker 1: he's calling her to be word. What what you let

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Speaker 1: him call your mother? The B word?

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Speaker 3: You're right, he is.

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Speaker 1: Way too comfortable disrespecting your mother and you shouldn't allow this.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't be marrying this guy.

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Speaker 1: Stop this wedding, stop all of this, give him his

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Speaker 1: ring back. You don't, because guess what, it's not going

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Speaker 1: to get any better. It's not going to change, it's

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Speaker 1: only going to get worse. If you think about or

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Speaker 1: consider marrying this guy. You need to stop this now.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure your brother has the right idea because he's

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Speaker 1: going to let him know. That's his mother too. You know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you hate the way he treats your mother because.

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Speaker 1: You should, but you still he treats your mother one way,

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Speaker 1: and you still don't. Please don't marry this man. No,

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Speaker 1: you ask is your mother to blame it all?

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Speaker 2: For what?

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Speaker 1: For being a mother, for looking out for her daughter's

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Speaker 1: best interests. No, your mother is not to blame. You

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Speaker 1: can't fix their relationship before the wedding because it's ruined

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Speaker 1: because he doesn't respect your mother. Because he called your

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Speaker 1: mother a b There's nothing to fix. He called her

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Speaker 1: a fat witch. There's nothing to fix here. Come on, now,

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Speaker 1: come on, come on, come on, don't let this go

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Speaker 1: down like this. Don't let this man disrespect and talk

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Speaker 1: to your talk about your mother like this, Steve.

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Speaker 4: Please, sister, at twenty eight years old, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 4: to tell you some things. Now, you're twenty eight years old.

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Speaker 4: You got engaged to a man. You say it's almost perfect.

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Speaker 4: Nobody is, and nobody ain't almost perfect either, ain't nobody

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Speaker 4: even close. But you think you got something perfect, but

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Speaker 4: you got a letter full of stuff that ain't perfect.

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Speaker 4: See you looking at the wrong You look at a

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Speaker 4: lot of superficial stuff. Y'all want the same things. Y'all

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Speaker 4: got some promising careers. But there's one issue. He hates

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Speaker 4: your mother, one of the people that you love.

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Speaker 2: Deal.

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Speaker 4: He manages to hate her all because, like you say,

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Speaker 4: you'll admit, she was a little tough on him when

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Speaker 4: they first met. Charlie had your best interests at heart,

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Speaker 4: Like Charlie said, that's what parents do. She asked him

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Speaker 4: a lot about his background and ambitious, and he took

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Speaker 4: it as criticism.

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Speaker 2: She wanted to make sure he was responsible and mature.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well we'll get to that in a second, because

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Speaker 4: that's gonna come back to play. But instead he got

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Speaker 4: offended and thought she was questioning his abilities as a man.

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Speaker 4: He nicknamed her to judge and said he'll never be

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Speaker 4: worthy of her approval.

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Speaker 2: And since we've gotten engaged, just gotten worse.

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Speaker 4: Now, excuse me, you need to tell me that all

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Speaker 4: this hate came from a simple line of questions.

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Speaker 2: She didn't go out there and bust the windows in

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Speaker 2: his car.

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Speaker 4: She ain't keyed up the car, she broke his glass

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Speaker 4: asses she ain't tickets cell phone and went through it.

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Speaker 4: She had a line of questioning about his intent with

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Speaker 4: his daughter, just to see if maybe if the daughter

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Speaker 4: was overlooking something.

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Speaker 2: So in this line of questioning, he hates her.

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Speaker 4: I was talking to you on the phone, and he'd

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Speaker 4: asked how that fat witch is doing. I say, I'm

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Speaker 4: going out with He said, you better not bring that

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Speaker 4: bit back to this house with me. One time he

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Speaker 4: asked me, She asked me how much her fiance was

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Speaker 4: making at his new job. His stupid behind said to

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Speaker 4: hell with that nosy b I and to mind her

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Speaker 4: own business.

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Speaker 2: Are you serious?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject of the

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter is he treats my mother like a dog.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today. Strawberry letter

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Speaker 1: subject he treats my mother like a dog.

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Speaker 4: Twenty eight year woman is engaged to this guy, she said,

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Speaker 4: is almost perfect, except he has one problem.

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Speaker 2: He hates his mother. Her mother.

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Speaker 4: Now, she says, she'd admitted she was tough on the

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Speaker 4: man when he came over, but she only had my

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Speaker 4: best interest.

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Speaker 2: At Harden.

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Speaker 4: She asked him a lot about his background ambitions, and

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Speaker 4: he took it as criticism. She wanted to be sure

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Speaker 4: he was responsible and mature. Let's keep that incause I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna show you something. But instead he got offended and

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Speaker 4: thought she was questioning his abilities as a man. Nicknamed her.

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Speaker 4: The judge said it never be worth of her approval. Okay,

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Speaker 4: now he's mad over a line of questioning, a line of.

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Speaker 2: Questions, and he's that mad.

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Speaker 4: Now you just said your mother was trying to make

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Speaker 4: sure he was responsible and mature. Well, a line of

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Speaker 4: questioning has him acting this way. This is a line

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Speaker 4: of questioning. I'm gonna show you again in the letter.

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Speaker 4: Since you've gotten engaged, it's gotten works. If I talked

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Speaker 4: to her on the phone, he'll ask how that fat

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Speaker 2: That's mature, that's mature.

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Speaker 4: The woman ain't even talking about him.

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Speaker 3: She couldn't say that to me.

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Speaker 4: She all types of fat witches. Yeah, okay. If I'd

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Speaker 4: say I'm going out with her, he'll say, don't bring

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Speaker 4: that bit back to the house with you. One time

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Speaker 4: she asked me how much my fiance was making at

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Speaker 4: his job.

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Speaker 2: His stupid behind.

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Speaker 4: I said, tell that nosy b I to mind her

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Speaker 4: own business. God, needless to say, I hung up the phone, folks,

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Speaker 4: she could respond, Wait a minute, that was your reaction. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Before she could respond, Wow, that was your reaction. I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna tell you right now, you're not calling my mama,

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Speaker 4: b I TC. You know, I don't care who you are.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry. Maybe it's because I'm a man, but I

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Speaker 4: don't know. No women gonna let you do that, Gonna

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Speaker 4: let you do that either and see it's disrespectful, it's immature,

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Speaker 4: and it shows a nonsense of responsibility. Now he's way

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Speaker 4: too comfortable disrespecting my mother. But you let me see

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Speaker 4: it ain't no repercussions. You disrespect your my mama. Here

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Speaker 4: his ring back. But you're so caught up in the career.

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Speaker 4: And y'all got the same lights and a promising fear

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Speaker 4: you letting this man get away with murder. I got

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Speaker 4: news for you, Yobama ain't fitna only be the only

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Speaker 2: I got cused for you.

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Speaker 4: This is after a line of questioning what you gonna

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Speaker 4: be when y'all hit a couple of hard rocks in

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Speaker 4: going to be when he when you start stinging him right?

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Speaker 4: Because you gonna stinging just like she stung it with

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Speaker 4: a simple line of questions. What about when you start

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Speaker 4: singing stinging with some accusations. Oh, your wife gonna accuse

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Speaker 4: you of something. It ain't always cheap. She gonna accuse

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Speaker 4: you a lion, accuse you are looking at somebody. She

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Speaker 4: gonna accuse you of being somewhere you said you wasn't

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Speaker 4: she gonna accuse you or not loving her like you

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Speaker 4: used to. She gonna accuse you of not paying her

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Speaker 4: proper attention. She gonna accuse your wife, gonna accuse you

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Speaker 4: of something. So now what you finna be when he

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Speaker 4: get the callings? When when when you get to accuse him?

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Speaker 4: You finn to be a being a whole lot more,

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Speaker 4: little girl, I'm telling you it don't stop at the mama.

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Speaker 4: So I don't think she treated him that badly, and

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Speaker 4: I think he's being over sensitive. My mother was told,

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Speaker 2: My sisters.

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Speaker 4: What if it married to somebody and somebody told them too,

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Speaker 4: brothers of minds heavy in turn that one of them

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Speaker 4: called in laws Ville or b I T what's that?

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Speaker 2: Why listen to me.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you what's happening with your brother? Y'all take

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Speaker 4: it too much in y'all house. Y'all must be bullsing

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Speaker 4: or something. Most of everything about him is perfect. What well,

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Speaker 4: let me show you a couple of dimes. But I

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Speaker 4: hate the way he treats my mother is my mother

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Speaker 4: to blame it all? How do I fix that relationship?

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Speaker 4: You keep talking about getting married? Are you stupid?

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Speaker 2: Listen to me.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something. He's irresponsible and immature. Let

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Speaker 4: me show them to you. He should care about what

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Speaker 4: you care about.

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Speaker 2: He should love the things that you love. Truth. His

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Speaker 2: job is to protect your heart.

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Speaker 4: It ain't this job to make you happy, but it's

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Speaker 4: his job to protect your heart. A man takes a

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Speaker 4: wife to protect a heart, provide, profess protect now, I

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Speaker 4: don't he don't Let me tell you something. He don't

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Speaker 4: just not respect her. He don't respect you at all.

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Speaker 4: He's calling your mother a b I T what what's

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Speaker 4: are you? Are you not understanding this? That disrespect? This

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Speaker 4: disrespect is just not aimed at your mother. It's aimed

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Speaker 4: directly at you when you go out with or don't

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Speaker 4: bring this old blankety blank back to this house when

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Speaker 4: she want to know how much.

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Speaker 2: She may tell that nosey b I tch to mind

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Speaker 2: her business? Are you nuts? Are you nuts?

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Speaker 4: I'm surprised your brother ain't beat his Yes, I promise

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Speaker 4: you my brothers is no way they let they live down.

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Speaker 4: It ain't no way, little girl, I don't know what

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Speaker 4: you're doing. I don't know how you keep calling this

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Speaker 4: man perfect but he not. But I am forewarning you

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Speaker 4: this disrespect that he has for his mother is gonna

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Speaker 4: flood over in other areas. A disrespectful person is a

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Speaker 4: disrespectful person.

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Speaker 2: It don't stay in a category.

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Speaker 4: He spreads around and as soon as you challenge him,

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Speaker 4: you fit to be that in a whole lot more, Little.

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