WEBVTT - Thinking Sideways: Disappearance of Sneha Philip

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<v Speaker 1>Thinking Sideways. I don't know stories of things. We simply

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the answer to. Hello and welcome to Thinking

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<v Speaker 1>Sideways the podcast. I am Steve, as always joined by Joe,

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<v Speaker 1>and this week we are bringing you yet another mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's kind of what we do. It's super creepy mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say creepy weird. It's a little weird, unlike

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of mysteries we usually do, which are totally

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<v Speaker 1>normal all the time. Yeah. Yeah, nothing to see here,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to see here, move along please all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>today's story is about the disappearance of snee Huff Philip

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<v Speaker 1>and it was suggested by Linley on Facebook excellently when

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<v Speaker 1>this was initially suggested, it's a it's a really intriguing

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<v Speaker 1>story and really interesting. But I was initially hesitant to

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<v Speaker 1>to cover this story. Yeah, I mean, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation as a team and I I actually had a

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<v Speaker 1>quite a long conversation with the folks on the Facebook group.

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<v Speaker 1>They they talked to me about it, and eventually they

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<v Speaker 1>convinced me that it was okay to go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>cover it. About nine eleven issues, Well, yeah, that's exactly

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<v Speaker 1>it is. Because this story does deal with nine eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's considered one of the you know, one of

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<v Speaker 1>the greatest tragedies or attacks in this country. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's something that is still sensitive fourteen years later.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to preface the story by saying that

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<v Speaker 1>what we're going to talk about deals with nine eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's pretty evolved in the events of September eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand one. We're not going to talk talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that as much. It's just bits of the story that

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<v Speaker 1>are going to touch on it. So if you're sensitive

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<v Speaker 1>about it for whatever reason, be aware of that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think our listeners are really all that sensitive, So

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's going to be it's there are people

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<v Speaker 1>who were involved that it is still a painful topic

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with, and so I just want to put

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<v Speaker 1>that out there. So let's let's go ahead and let's

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<v Speaker 1>start talking about our story. We're going to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Sneah Philip Stee was born in nine in India, and

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<v Speaker 1>then with her family she moved to the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>She wanted to study medicine, and so she decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go to the Chicago School of Medicine and she started

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<v Speaker 1>there While she was there, she met a young man

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<v Speaker 1>named Ron Lieberman. She would eventually marry him five years later.

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<v Speaker 1>After they graduated, both of them land that he was

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<v Speaker 1>also a school a student at that same schools. He

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<v Speaker 1>was dreaming to be a doctors wanted to go into medicine.

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<v Speaker 1>They landed internships both in New York City. Ron had

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<v Speaker 1>his internship at the Jacoby Medical Center in the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 1>Snee Hawk got hers at the Cabrini Medical Center. So

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<v Speaker 1>they they're going to be doctors. They've got They moved

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<v Speaker 1>to New York. They get an apartment. All is well

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<v Speaker 1>and good. It sounds like they had a cool apartment

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<v Speaker 1>to right down the battery. Yeah, pretty sweet. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it was. It's a great neighborhood. I did a

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<v Speaker 1>little I pulled the Joe, I did a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of cruising around Google Maps. I know he's rubbing off

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<v Speaker 1>on us. So we're gonna go ahead and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>start our story. On the afternoon of September two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and one, one left four work on that afternoon and

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<v Speaker 1>Sneehaw she had the day off, So according to what's available,

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<v Speaker 1>she was in the apartment for most of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>she had a conversation with her mom online that lasted

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<v Speaker 1>for two hours. Like Skype or like chatting. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a messenger. It was a messenger conversation. Yeah, I guess, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was probably a o LL instant Messenger

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<v Speaker 1>Microsoft Messenger, since I forget what it would like in

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<v Speaker 1>those days. I don't know what it was like in

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<v Speaker 1>those days. I mean, I don't remember. I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was a freshman, so I was kind of in the

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<v Speaker 1>thick of it, and I sometimes I forget. Just the

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<v Speaker 1>other day, I was thinking, Oh, what was the email

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<v Speaker 1>address I had before I had Gmail? Wasn't that long

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<v Speaker 1>ago that Gmail came into existence? Yes? It was. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she so she has this, She has this two hour

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with her ally, and then she apparently decided to

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<v Speaker 1>go shopping. This is based on charges that are on

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<v Speaker 1>her husband's American Express card and security footage of her

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<v Speaker 1>which the security footage was found later. But she went

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<v Speaker 1>to a Century twenty one, which this particular store was

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<v Speaker 1>across the street from the World Trade Center. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>the movie theater, it's it's a it's a store. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a store. Because she she bought like bedding and shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she bought lingerie to like it's a full

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<v Speaker 1>one department store. I've never heard of Century twenty one

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<v Speaker 1>before this, but but yeah, so she she did all

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<v Speaker 1>of this, and based on the time stamp when she

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<v Speaker 1>paid for all of her purchases with the American Express,

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<v Speaker 1>she finished up around six o'clock in the afternoon. Ron

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<v Speaker 1>her husband, says that he got home that night around midnight.

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<v Speaker 1>He'd had a long day at work. He gets home,

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<v Speaker 1>his wife's not there. But based on everything that I've

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<v Speaker 1>read from him, that wasn't totally out of the ordinary.

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<v Speaker 1>She was known to go out and then decide to

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<v Speaker 1>stay with family members, brother or a cousin or somebody

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<v Speaker 1>is big. It's hard to get around sometimes. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know I can go here that's ten blocks away

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<v Speaker 1>rather than the thirty fifty blocks I gotta go home. Yeah. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't abnormal. And he has said that, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that. You know, he got home that night

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<v Speaker 1>and said, well, I guess that's something we got to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about again. Because the deal was between the pair

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<v Speaker 1>that she was supposed to call home and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm staying away brother's house or I'm staying at so

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<v Speaker 1>and so's house. That makes sense to me. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's fair. Yeah. Absolutely. Ron wakes up the next morning, September.

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<v Speaker 1>His wife's still not home, but he's got an eight

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock meeting. So he gets up and I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>six or six thirty. He's got to take the subway

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<v Speaker 1>to get to work. It's like an hour commune or something,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's got to go. She's not home. He goes

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<v Speaker 1>to work. Well, if you know anything about September eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>as of eight forty six am Eastern Standard time, that's

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<v Speaker 1>when American Airlines Flight eleven flew into the North Tower

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<v Speaker 1>of the World Trade Center, And to put it lightly,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when chaos ensued. I mean things, Yeah, things went

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<v Speaker 1>crazy after that. Ron he called sneak has several times

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<v Speaker 1>over the course of the day, but she never answers

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<v Speaker 1>home at the apartment or calling her cell phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't answer that, he doesn't say. I'm under the impression

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<v Speaker 1>that he was calling the house because she was supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be at home, because she had both the tenth

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<v Speaker 1>and the eleventh off, so presumably he was expecting her

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<v Speaker 1>to have gone home. But I don't know that she

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<v Speaker 1>had a cell phone. Well, you know, she could have

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<v Speaker 1>been home, she could have had a cell phone. I

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<v Speaker 1>think the other thing to keep in mind is, because

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<v Speaker 1>it was September eleven, almost literally everybody in America was

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<v Speaker 1>calling almost literally anybody they knew in New York or

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<v Speaker 1>who might be in New York trying to get ahold

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<v Speaker 1>of them. Lines did get really clogged and did a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of calls just didn't go through. And if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>their homeline, they didn't have an answering machine or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>He could have tried and tried and tried and not

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<v Speaker 1>realized that it wasn't connecting quite possibly, you know, or whatever. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's a that's a very valid point. Well let's

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<v Speaker 1>see what So we're we're into the afternoon of September eleven.

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<v Speaker 1>He's at work that the hospital had been in huge

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<v Speaker 1>preparations for all of the wounded that we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>come in from the World Trade Center, which didn't actually happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So he gets he takes off from work, and what

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<v Speaker 1>does he do. He goes to the hospital that she

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<v Speaker 1>works at, which was on Staten Island, right, Yes it was.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm guessing that his idea was that she must

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<v Speaker 1>have seen what was going on and said I got

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<v Speaker 1>to get to work, I've got to help. Yeah, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people did that in those professions. Absolutely, there's

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting not to you know, go too much into

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<v Speaker 1>the nine eleven situation. But you know Steve Bushemi the actor,

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<v Speaker 1>he was a firefighter before he was an actor. He

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<v Speaker 1>worked for the New York Fire Department. And he actually

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<v Speaker 1>like went back to his old fire station and geared

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<v Speaker 1>up and went in and was like saving people. That

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<v Speaker 1>was the thing everybody was doing, right Yea, even if

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<v Speaker 1>you had no training, you were they were jumping in

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help with Yeah, there's there were people running

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<v Speaker 1>and doing everything. Clearly reasonable for him to say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a caring person. She probably went to work because

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<v Speaker 1>she thought that it would be there, except she wasn't there. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what he then decides, Okay, I'm going home, which

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<v Speaker 1>is the next logical course of action when you can't

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<v Speaker 1>find your wife and the city is literally in flames

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<v Speaker 1>and everything is going crazy. He I think what he

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<v Speaker 1>did is he he hopped a ride with an ambulance

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<v Speaker 1>that was heading towards the towers. Traffic was so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it took him like six hours to get there. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he somehow managed. I think he burrowed or stole the

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<v Speaker 1>bike to get the last minute distance there. He gets

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<v Speaker 1>the apartment building, but he can't get in to the

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<v Speaker 1>building itself because the electricity is off and the automatic

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<v Speaker 1>locks on the door locked. So he's, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out what to do. He sees somebody

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<v Speaker 1>has a candle burning in a window, uses a flashlight,

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<v Speaker 1>gets their attention, gets that neighbor to open the window,

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<v Speaker 1>and shouts at him and says, can you go to

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<v Speaker 1>this apartment, knock on the doors or anybody home. That

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<v Speaker 1>person goes and nobody's there, comes back to the window

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<v Speaker 1>and says, nobody's there. At that point, Ron's got no choice.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got to find somewhere else to stay, and so

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<v Speaker 1>he went and he stayed with a friend that night.

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<v Speaker 1>The next morning or the next day, he comes home.

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<v Speaker 1>This is now the twelfth of September. He can get

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<v Speaker 1>into the building this time powers back on, So he

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<v Speaker 1>gets into the building. He goes to his apartment. He

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<v Speaker 1>walks in and nobody's there, And it's obvious that nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>been there because the windows had been left open, and

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<v Speaker 1>the apartment is full of soot, so it would be

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<v Speaker 1>very obvious somebody's home because there would be footprints. The

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<v Speaker 1>only footprints in the place are from their cats, two

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<v Speaker 1>little kittens who were obviously having a high old time

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<v Speaker 1>in the dust. Apparently they're probably a little hungry the

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<v Speaker 1>time he got home. Probably, so that is the end

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<v Speaker 1>of what we know officially about Sneeha. She was seen

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<v Speaker 1>on the tenth. As of the eleventh, nobody has seen her,

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<v Speaker 1>and as of the twelveth, we've got confirmation she's not whome.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably goes without saying. Ron, her husband and her family,

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<v Speaker 1>they go nuts. They want to find her. They're putting

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<v Speaker 1>flyers up all over the city. I think they printed

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<v Speaker 1>five thousand flyers with her name and information and photos

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<v Speaker 1>on it. They're plastering those all over. But of course

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<v Speaker 1>those kind of flyers are all over at that time

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<v Speaker 1>because people are trying to find everybody that they can't locate. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Ron then sees, wait, there's reporters everywhere. I'm gonna go

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<v Speaker 1>talk to the reporters and I'm going to get their

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<v Speaker 1>help to get this story out there, to find my wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Except he quickly discovers that the reporters are not interested

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as they find out that she went missing

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<v Speaker 1>on the tenth. So he's kind of frustrated, and he

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<v Speaker 1>gets a bright idea. He calls snee Hans brother John,

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<v Speaker 1>and he says, hey, John talked to the reporters, but

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell him what day she went missing. As a

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<v Speaker 1>totally off topic aside, what kind of jerk parents are like, Okay, daughter,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to name you. See you can beat John. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she had a very traditional name. Come on, guy, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I was wondering about that too. It's possible

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<v Speaker 1>that he was born in the US, he was younger

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<v Speaker 1>than her, and then possibly changed his name to John. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what their ages are relative to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she was born in India. He may have

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<v Speaker 1>been born in the States. It's hard to say. Or,

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<v Speaker 1>as Joe said, he may have just gone by John.

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<v Speaker 1>But sorry this well yeah, I know. But but the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is, the plan didn't go according to plan, because

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as John got on camera, he took the

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<v Speaker 1>story even farther and told the reporters that on the

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<v Speaker 1>morning of the eleventh, he was on the phone with

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<v Speaker 1>his sister when American Airlines eleven hit the tower, the

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<v Speaker 1>North Tower, and she said, I've got to go, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got to help, which is what a doctor would do.

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<v Speaker 1>And she hung up, and he said that was the

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<v Speaker 1>last time that he talked to her. Totally not true.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit of embellishment there, but understandable. Genuinely not true, right, genuinely,

0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:25.880
<v Speaker 1>not just kidding. Well, later on he admitted it was

0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:30.440
<v Speaker 1>not true. But it backfired so badly it blew up

0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:35.280
<v Speaker 1>in their faces. Because, of course, the New York Police

0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Department won't do anything. I mean, they're inundated with a

0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.720
<v Speaker 1>whole mass of work to take care of now, but

0:14:43.400 --> 0:14:46.520
<v Speaker 1>they won't look into it because he said she was

0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:50.280
<v Speaker 1>she went to the towers. At the time, Ron had

0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:55.080
<v Speaker 1>filed a missing person's report forcedney Haw. There were nine

0:14:55.520 --> 0:15:02.280
<v Speaker 1>thousand missing person reports in New York after after everything happened,

0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:06.120
<v Speaker 1>one there was bad reporting in the police department. They

0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:10.080
<v Speaker 1>found out multiple people were listed multiple times, all this stuff,

0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:13.840
<v Speaker 1>and there was a few fraudulent cases of missing person reports,

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<v Speaker 1>but they didn't do anything because they just presumed that

0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:21.280
<v Speaker 1>she was in the tower. Yeah, I mean, not only fraudulent,

0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.120
<v Speaker 1>but also, you know, you have all of those people

0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:26.160
<v Speaker 1>who freak out there, you know, in Oregon and their

0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:29.920
<v Speaker 1>daughters in New York City, and the towers collapsed, and

0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:32.080
<v Speaker 1>they couldn't get ahold of her the three times they

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<v Speaker 1>called on the exact day, within you know, two hours,

0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:37.400
<v Speaker 1>even though they heard that the phones were jammed and

0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.160
<v Speaker 1>she must be dead somewhere. So she's you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out she calls him an hour later and said,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom, Dad, I'm I'm fine, And they just don't

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<v Speaker 1>bother to call and get her taken off. Yeah, it's understandable.

0:15:47.880 --> 0:15:50.800
<v Speaker 1>It's total panic. Oh god, yeah, I mean total panic mode.

0:15:50.880 --> 0:15:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I get why people do it it, but unfortunately it

0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.720
<v Speaker 1>made things so much harder for the NYPD. Oh yeah,

0:15:58.120 --> 0:16:02.400
<v Speaker 1>the family they know or they they believe at this

0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:07.600
<v Speaker 1>point that Snea is not in the ruins of the

0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:12.120
<v Speaker 1>North Tower or the South Tower. The family went ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and they hired a private investigator to try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out all of Sneeha's actions on that day. On the

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<v Speaker 1>day of the tenth, they hired a guy by the

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<v Speaker 1>name of Ken Gallant. He was formerly of the FBI,

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<v Speaker 1>and he did he did a ton of legwork and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find her, and he did. He found some

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<v Speaker 1>great stuff, but I was also a little surprised. He

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<v Speaker 1>recommended to the family who then flew this person in

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<v Speaker 1>from Pennsylvania a psychic, which question to me, it raised

0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:53.640
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a red flag on him. But

0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:56.000
<v Speaker 1>but what he did find is he was able to

0:16:56.080 --> 0:17:00.720
<v Speaker 1>track down video footage of her. There are are two

0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:04.680
<v Speaker 1>different pieces of video of her from that day after

0:17:04.760 --> 0:17:07.760
<v Speaker 1>she left the apartment, one of which, as we talked

0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:11.200
<v Speaker 1>about just briefly before, is the video of her century

0:17:10.880 --> 0:17:15.359
<v Speaker 1>twenty one where she's shopping shot when when she's on

0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:18.400
<v Speaker 1>the video she's in the coat section trying on different coats.

0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:23.359
<v Speaker 1>There is also a video from the inside of the

0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:28.480
<v Speaker 1>apartment building's entry on the elevens not confirmed her right,

0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:31.760
<v Speaker 1>It is not confirmed her. What it is is the

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<v Speaker 1>sun is shining through the windows in the entry enough

0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:39.800
<v Speaker 1>that is bleaching out. According to what they what Gallant

0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:43.600
<v Speaker 1>and Ron are saying, to the point that they can't

0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.920
<v Speaker 1>get a lot of details. They see a woman. She's

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<v Speaker 1>got the same hairstyle, about the same build, appears to

0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:55.679
<v Speaker 1>be wearing kind of the same outfit, and has the

0:17:55.720 --> 0:18:00.439
<v Speaker 1>same mannerisms as Sneak huh, but they can't confirm arm that.

0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:04.959
<v Speaker 1>But this person, this woman walks up to the elevator,

0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:09.440
<v Speaker 1>pushes the button, waits a minute, and then turns around

0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and walks out of the building. The time stamp on

0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:17.400
<v Speaker 1>that video roughly corresponds to when the North Tower was hit,

0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:22.400
<v Speaker 1>So it's in a way it supports the idea that

0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:26.800
<v Speaker 1>she ran to the tower after everything happened. Yeah, except

0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:30.240
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't necessarily her because she wasn't carrying any bags

0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:33.240
<v Speaker 1>where she should have been carrying bags, So she she

0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:35.320
<v Speaker 1>still hadn't brought home all the stuff that she thought.

0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:38.639
<v Speaker 1>That is true if she had come straight from the store,

0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:43.439
<v Speaker 1>but we're talking well plus hours later, she might have

0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:47.400
<v Speaker 1>left them somewhere. I totally get where you're going with that, Joe,

0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:50.240
<v Speaker 1>Is that there's this piece where if she bought all

0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:54.680
<v Speaker 1>this stuff at Century one, where's it at? And this

0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:59.160
<v Speaker 1>person theoretically should be carrying those same articles that were

0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:02.600
<v Speaker 1>purchased thing. Well, unless you know, she was kind of

0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:04.560
<v Speaker 1>she was a young woman, right, she was in her twenties.

0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:08.399
<v Speaker 1>She was thirty one, I believe. Yeah, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you go out because she would have gone out right

0:19:11.840 --> 0:19:14.159
<v Speaker 1>if she had stayed at somebody's house. She probably was

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<v Speaker 1>out late. So you go out, you wake up next morning,

0:19:16.840 --> 0:19:19.000
<v Speaker 1>you're kind of hungover, and you just stay to your

0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:21.560
<v Speaker 1>brother or a friend who you see all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>You say, I'm gonna go home. You just I'll get

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff later from you next time I see you

0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:28.800
<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I'm just gonna walk home, try and clear

0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:31.000
<v Speaker 1>my mind or whatever. You make it back to your

0:19:31.000 --> 0:19:32.960
<v Speaker 1>apartment and you don't have bags. I mean, I think

0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:36.679
<v Speaker 1>that's totally reasonable. That's entirely plausible. Or maybe she was

0:19:36.720 --> 0:19:39.480
<v Speaker 1>buying it for a gift, or you know, there's a

0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:42.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of reasons she could not have that stuff. Yeah,

0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:46.359
<v Speaker 1>And as as far as her turning and leaving about

0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.240
<v Speaker 1>one that the plane hit the tower, it doesn't. That

0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.360
<v Speaker 1>also doesn't really point towards it being see how either,

0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:56.240
<v Speaker 1>But anybody, anybody hearing that, yeah, enormous noise would go

0:19:56.240 --> 0:19:58.679
<v Speaker 1>outside to see what it was. Yes, And so if

0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:01.520
<v Speaker 1>she hears that a normal stoys and she goes outside,

0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:05.280
<v Speaker 1>she sees what, gets an idea what's going on. Based

0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:08.399
<v Speaker 1>on her training, we can presume that she would have

0:20:08.640 --> 0:20:12.600
<v Speaker 1>run to assist. It seems like though that the investigator

0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:16.359
<v Speaker 1>and Ron how large a apartment complex. Are we talking

0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:19.720
<v Speaker 1>like thousands of people? Hundreds of people? Do you know?

0:20:19.760 --> 0:20:21.639
<v Speaker 1>It seems like the sort of thing you would circulate

0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and say, hey, is this you to rule other people out?

0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Here's here's the odd bit. The odd bit is that

0:20:30.560 --> 0:20:32.800
<v Speaker 1>the p I did all of his work and he

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<v Speaker 1>gave a report to Ron. Ron won't release that report.

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<v Speaker 1>So this this this footage of this woman in the

0:20:41.400 --> 0:20:45.480
<v Speaker 1>entry I I can't nobody's seen it. You can't see

0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:48.800
<v Speaker 1>the video, you can't see stills from it because he's

0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:51.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of under lock and key. It's that's odd because

0:20:51.680 --> 0:20:54.760
<v Speaker 1>it's not like he owns it. He paid for it,

0:20:54.960 --> 0:20:57.560
<v Speaker 1>so he still doesn't own it. Well, he doesn't own

0:20:57.600 --> 0:20:59.720
<v Speaker 1>the footage, but I'm sure that by the time all

0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:03.000
<v Speaker 1>this came out to the apartment building probably didn't have

0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:06.720
<v Speaker 1>the footage anymore. But again, this is another thing that

0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:09.679
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to call out as a red flag. This

0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:15.440
<v Speaker 1>stands out to me is a really odd bit of information. Yeah,

0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:17.840
<v Speaker 1>there there must have been something kind of bad in

0:21:17.880 --> 0:21:20.160
<v Speaker 1>that report. If he didn't want to release it would

0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:24.160
<v Speaker 1>lead me to think that, ye, let's let's keep moving

0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:27.080
<v Speaker 1>on down with the events were still moving kind of

0:21:27.080 --> 0:21:31.200
<v Speaker 1>a chronological order of what goes on with the story. Initially,

0:21:31.320 --> 0:21:35.600
<v Speaker 1>Snea was listed as one of the victims of the

0:21:35.640 --> 0:21:39.320
<v Speaker 1>World Trade Center collapse. There was, but because there was

0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:44.320
<v Speaker 1>no evidence to substantiate that in terms of nobody could

0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:47.439
<v Speaker 1>physically say they saw her go there and they didn't

0:21:47.440 --> 0:21:50.399
<v Speaker 1>find a body, she was removed from that list in

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<v Speaker 1>January of two thousand and four, and the law in

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<v Speaker 1>New York says that the date of a person's death

0:21:58.000 --> 0:22:01.399
<v Speaker 1>will be set at three is from the last time

0:22:01.480 --> 0:22:05.720
<v Speaker 1>they were seen alive when they go missing, which means

0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 1>that officially, after she had been removed from the list,

0:22:09.920 --> 0:22:14.960
<v Speaker 1>her date of having died was September two thousand and four.

0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:19.679
<v Speaker 1>Ron appealed the decision. He tried to keep her on

0:22:19.720 --> 0:22:24.280
<v Speaker 1>the list, but there was another judge denied that appeal

0:22:24.560 --> 0:22:29.840
<v Speaker 1>in November of two thousand and five. That prevented him

0:22:29.880 --> 0:22:34.240
<v Speaker 1>from having access to the Victims Compensation Fund, which had

0:22:34.240 --> 0:22:37.200
<v Speaker 1>been set up to help people whose family members had

0:22:37.200 --> 0:22:42.240
<v Speaker 1>been killed, you know, for from a financial perspective. According

0:22:42.320 --> 0:22:46.760
<v Speaker 1>to to Ron, he wanted access to that fund because

0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 1>he wanted to set up a memorial fund in his

0:22:49.640 --> 0:22:53.520
<v Speaker 1>wife's name. Here's the thing, She's a thirty one year

0:22:53.520 --> 0:22:56.720
<v Speaker 1>old woman who's going to be a doctor, very young,

0:22:57.119 --> 0:23:02.000
<v Speaker 1>high paid profession He stood together about three to four

0:23:02.160 --> 0:23:05.879
<v Speaker 1>million dollars. What the heck, I'd do it A happy

0:23:05.920 --> 0:23:08.240
<v Speaker 1>little chunk of money. That's a yeah, that's a that's

0:23:08.240 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 1>a sizeable bit of cash. Um. He never he never

0:23:13.040 --> 0:23:16.240
<v Speaker 1>got anything out of the victims compens or the Yeah,

0:23:16.280 --> 0:23:20.600
<v Speaker 1>victims Compensation fund in two thousand eight. A panel of

0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:25.240
<v Speaker 1>judges overturned the ruling in two thousand and five and

0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:29.680
<v Speaker 1>changed her official date of death back to September eleventh,

0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:32.600
<v Speaker 1>two thousand and one. But by that time, of course,

0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:37.160
<v Speaker 1>the fund had long since closed taking applications, so he

0:23:37.240 --> 0:23:41.720
<v Speaker 1>couldn't get anything from it. According to Ron, the money

0:23:41.760 --> 0:23:44.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't matter. What he wanted was his wife's name to

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:49.320
<v Speaker 1>be recognized among the victims. So she is now officially

0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:54.440
<v Speaker 1>listed as one of the two thousand, seven hundred fifty

0:23:54.600 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 1>three people who died that day, not counting hijackers. This

0:23:59.840 --> 0:24:06.440
<v Speaker 1>is this is American citizens overly. Yeah. So so he

0:24:07.119 --> 0:24:08.920
<v Speaker 1>at least got her on that. There's an at the

0:24:09.040 --> 0:24:13.960
<v Speaker 1>memorial her name is listed. It's interesting that he said

0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:16.160
<v Speaker 1>that he just wanted her name on the list, even

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:18.800
<v Speaker 1>though they got a private investigator and none of them

0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:22.160
<v Speaker 1>really believed that she was in the rebel Initially. I've

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:24.119
<v Speaker 1>said it before and I'm gonna say it again. There's

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:27.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot of flags in this story. Yeah, a lot

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:29.879
<v Speaker 1>of things that I have to raise an eyebrow, and

0:24:29.960 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 1>I I have I had a listed home as I

0:24:32.000 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 1>was going through my research, like, wait, that didn't get

0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:37.560
<v Speaker 1>checked off? That didn't get checked off? This is circled

0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:41.160
<v Speaker 1>in red mark er. What's going on here? But we're

0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:43.679
<v Speaker 1>now going to take a bit of a turn in

0:24:43.720 --> 0:24:48.640
<v Speaker 1>our story. Okay, yep. So officially, the NYPD they think

0:24:48.720 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 1>that she died in the towers collapse kind of, after

0:24:52.800 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 1>everything settles down, they do their own investigation. The NYPD

0:24:58.119 --> 0:25:02.000
<v Speaker 1>in their investigation, they per sended some details about snee

0:25:02.119 --> 0:25:06.600
<v Speaker 1>Haw that aren't flattering, and her family does not like

0:25:06.800 --> 0:25:13.199
<v Speaker 1>and they constantly, constantly are denying and putting down. According

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>to the NYPD, she had a drinking problem and she

0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>possibly was leading a double life. What's what's a drinking problem? Though?

0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 1>I just I mean that sincerely. I mean that, for instance,

0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:30.280
<v Speaker 1>a woman of my age, technically, if you consume three

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:36.440
<v Speaker 1>or more alcoholic beverages, a week, you over consume alcohol. Yeah,

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know a single person who drinks that's my

0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:44.040
<v Speaker 1>age that drinks that little. I just don't, you know,

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:46.520
<v Speaker 1>And so I think it's be totally reasonable if I

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:49.760
<v Speaker 1>went missing for some reason that, you know, the Portland

0:25:49.800 --> 0:25:52.000
<v Speaker 1>police could say, well, she did have a drinking problem,

0:25:52.000 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 1>because I drink way more than that, you know. So

0:25:54.680 --> 0:25:57.159
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. When they say things like that, I

0:25:57.600 --> 0:26:00.040
<v Speaker 1>have a hard time. I usually take it with a

0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:02.000
<v Speaker 1>pretty huge grain of salt because if they're like, well,

0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:04.840
<v Speaker 1>she was at the bar four times a week and

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:08.640
<v Speaker 1>had a two shots every night, you know, like, well, okay,

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:11.240
<v Speaker 1>that's people can do that and be totally reasonably healthy.

0:26:11.280 --> 0:26:13.480
<v Speaker 1>That it's very funny that you say that, because I've

0:26:13.520 --> 0:26:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I've always thought my fiance drinks cider or you know,

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:21.119
<v Speaker 1>mixed drinks, but she'll have one or two a week.

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:24.440
<v Speaker 1>And it always was weird to me when I would

0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 1>go to the fridge and I'd grab a beer and

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>I'd say, hey, honey, you want to drink or something.

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:31.800
<v Speaker 1>She said, no, I'm fine, And at first, well, yeah,

0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:34.399
<v Speaker 1>I got used to it. She doesn't doesn't drink that much.

0:26:34.440 --> 0:26:37.560
<v Speaker 1>But at first I was like, what's this is really weird.

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:40.320
<v Speaker 1>I am not going to be really that funny if

0:26:40.359 --> 0:26:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't have any more to drink. Yeah, yeah, no,

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.119
<v Speaker 1>I mean but I think that that's one of the

0:26:45.160 --> 0:26:48.800
<v Speaker 1>things we talked about that sometimes where people say or

0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>the you know, investigation reveals quote unquote that this person

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 1>had a drinking problem, and I always just kind of

0:26:53.960 --> 0:26:55.639
<v Speaker 1>want to take that with a huge grain of salt.

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:58.879
<v Speaker 1>Although it does appear that her drinking actually interfered with

0:26:58.920 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 1>their job at Cabrini. Yeah, well, we'll get into that,

0:27:01.359 --> 0:27:04.119
<v Speaker 1>but I just wanted to mention that for future past

0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 1>and current mysteries. Yes, absolutely, good point the NYPD, this

0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:11.960
<v Speaker 1>is this is what one of the things that they're

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:14.280
<v Speaker 1>using in their investigation to say that she's got that

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:19.120
<v Speaker 1>problem that we're just talking about is she was told

0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 1>in early two thousand and one that her contract her

0:27:23.200 --> 0:27:27.879
<v Speaker 1>internship with Cabrini would not be would not be renewed,

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 1>and the reasons were for tardiness and alcohol related issues. Okay,

0:27:35.000 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>that's fair, all right, Yeah, that that does lead you

0:27:37.600 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 1>to think maybe there is something going on. Now. She

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:44.960
<v Speaker 1>did land their job, she got she got another internship

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:48.119
<v Speaker 1>in internal medicine at St. Vincent's medical Center which was

0:27:48.160 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 1>on Staten Island, which is what Joe was kind of

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:53.959
<v Speaker 1>talking about briefly earlier. She does seem like she was smart,

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:57.479
<v Speaker 1>She had it together. She was a minority female, so

0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:03.879
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm honest to god facts. Well, you know,

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:05.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to sound racist, but Indians are pretty

0:28:05.960 --> 0:28:10.399
<v Speaker 1>damned smart. She seemed to be very intelligent. Regardless of

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:13.679
<v Speaker 1>her race or sex, she seemed to be intelligent. She

0:28:13.880 --> 0:28:18.400
<v Speaker 1>never had anything in her work reviews that I can

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:21.960
<v Speaker 1>find saying that she did a poor job, other than

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:24.920
<v Speaker 1>she had some personal issues, which, let's be honest, who

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.560
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have personal issues? Yeah, but not all of us

0:28:27.560 --> 0:28:31.160
<v Speaker 1>bring it to work. Oh wait, are you saying I'm

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:34.000
<v Speaker 1>bringing something to the podcast? Up? Crap? All right, Well,

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:37.879
<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about my liquorice addiction later. Um. Not long

0:28:37.960 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 1>after she was let go from Cabrini let go, or

0:28:41.720 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 1>told she wasn't going to be renewed. I'm guessing it's

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:49.320
<v Speaker 1>after she was no longer there. Read into that. How

0:28:49.360 --> 0:28:52.280
<v Speaker 1>are you want to after she was after she was

0:28:52.360 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 1>no longer there, she got into a bar fight or

0:28:56.320 --> 0:29:00.400
<v Speaker 1>a fight in a bar, I should say, admitted spending

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:04.680
<v Speaker 1>the night in jail, which again we've kind of we've

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:07.320
<v Speaker 1>rationalized a few things so far, so let's rationalize this.

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:11.240
<v Speaker 1>Who hasn't found out they were getting fired or gotten

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 1>fired and said I'm going to the bar and I'm

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:18.000
<v Speaker 1>drowning to my sorrows in a glass or seven? Who

0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>hasn't done that? Why are you too looking at me

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 1>like that? I've never been fired been fired, So yeah,

0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I know it's not it's not a it's not a

0:29:28.800 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 1>good feeling. I'm young's there's still time. I've had very

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 1>few jobs that I quit, but I've had a lot

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>of jobs. Okay, well, we're gonna continue on with the

0:29:39.480 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 1>damning evidence here. Snee Hall also claimed that one night

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 1>while out with co workers, this is again out at

0:29:47.800 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>a bar, and I can't pin down whether what the

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:55.640
<v Speaker 1>sex of this coworker is, but one of her coworkers

0:29:56.040 --> 0:30:01.440
<v Speaker 1>grabbed her inappropriately. I don't know what that means. Whether

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 1>it was a smack on the bottom or a grab

0:30:04.400 --> 0:30:07.920
<v Speaker 1>on the chest or attempt to kiss, I don't know.

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:11.000
<v Speaker 1>In fairness, it shouldn't matter, but it does apparently in

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:13.720
<v Speaker 1>this day and age, Yes it does. If somebody says

0:30:13.800 --> 0:30:16.640
<v Speaker 1>this person touched me inappropriately. That means that they felt

0:30:16.680 --> 0:30:20.200
<v Speaker 1>violated and it should be taken and reported as such.

0:30:20.280 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's just my opinion. Man, I don't I'm

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>not sure that I would go actually go to the

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 1>police and and try to get the data to bring

0:30:28.640 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>charges against somebody who produced, which is what she did.

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess I might if it were a thing that

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:37.600
<v Speaker 1>had been happening a lot of time, you know, if

0:30:37.640 --> 0:30:40.560
<v Speaker 1>it were reoccurring, if it you know, if this person

0:30:40.600 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>was grabbing me and grabbing me and I kept saying like, hey,

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not into that. Hey I'm not interested. Hey, dude,

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:48.800
<v Speaker 1>like calm down, back off, or or chick whatever, you know,

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>calm down, back off. All right, Seriously, I'm gonna like,

0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:55.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna file a complaint next time. That maybe would

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:57.120
<v Speaker 1>be the progression. But I would also mention that in

0:30:57.160 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>my report say this has been a pattern of behavior.

0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:01.920
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say this person touched me one time. But

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:03.880
<v Speaker 1>did she has there any record that she ever ever

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 1>took the complaint to HR? The only the only record

0:31:08.600 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>that I have found is the report that she officially

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:15.720
<v Speaker 1>filed with place. Well, you wouldn't report it to HR

0:31:15.800 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>if you were out after hours with co workers. It's

0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:20.640
<v Speaker 1>not a workplace incident at that. But I think what

0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>Joe is getting at is if it was a workplace

0:31:23.360 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 1>incident like he like you were talking about, then it

0:31:26.920 --> 0:31:29.600
<v Speaker 1>would have been could it could have just been reoccurring

0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:31.960
<v Speaker 1>outside of the workplace. When you know, you go out

0:31:31.960 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 1>for drinks with coworker once a week or whatever, and

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:37.760
<v Speaker 1>this guy or girl is always weird and attempting to

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:40.480
<v Speaker 1>grab you. You wouldn't mention that to HR, there'd be

0:31:40.480 --> 0:31:43.440
<v Speaker 1>no reason to know. But HR can't do anything. If

0:31:43.480 --> 0:31:47.840
<v Speaker 1>somebody's grabby off the grounds, that's that's outside of their

0:31:47.880 --> 0:31:51.280
<v Speaker 1>their realm. They have no jurisdiction. But so she filed

0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:55.920
<v Speaker 1>this complaint finally she did, and the d a's office,

0:31:56.160 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 1>after reviewing it, dropped the charge and turned around owned

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>and they slapped on her a charge of filing a

0:32:05.600 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>false complaint or false report. And they said, you know,

0:32:11.600 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 1>if you want to admit that this is not really

0:32:14.120 --> 0:32:17.080
<v Speaker 1>what happened, will drop the charge against you. And she

0:32:17.160 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 1>stood her ground and said, no, I'm not going to

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 1>do that, and she landed herself in jail for another night.

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>That's kind of strange that they would lock up in

0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:29.320
<v Speaker 1>jail for a night because I I don't Again, this

0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:31.680
<v Speaker 1>is one of those things where I can't get a

0:32:31.680 --> 0:32:35.239
<v Speaker 1>hold of the court records and all I've got is

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 1>the family's accounting of it. But the point is, according

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:46.320
<v Speaker 1>to the NYPD, once that all went down, so we've

0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:50.040
<v Speaker 1>got the night of the inappropriate grab and then she

0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:53.600
<v Speaker 1>gets in trouble for it all. She continued to go

0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 1>out and drink, but she started frequency frequenting lesbian bars.

0:33:00.320 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>Makes sense to me, Well, there's I I don't think

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:06.000
<v Speaker 1>that that really matters much. I mean, her family has said, well,

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>of course she went. This is where I get the

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:13.360
<v Speaker 1>impression that the grabber was a dude. She was going

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 1>and hanging out bars that were full of women because

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:23.160
<v Speaker 1>there's no guys there to repeat that scenario. But that yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:33:23.160 --> 0:33:25.600
<v Speaker 1>she feels safe around other women, so I'll just hang

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>out and drink here. Plus some of the better bars

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 1>in New York or lesbian bars, so you know, yeah, yeah,

0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean she she went to some they listened them

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:35.520
<v Speaker 1>off and they seemed to be pretty well known. And

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:38.920
<v Speaker 1>the report that I was reading never been to any

0:33:38.960 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>of those. I've hung out in lesbian bars. I've hung

0:33:42.320 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 1>out in gay bars. I mean it not in New York. No, No,

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 1>I would be happy to hang out in any bar

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>in New York. I still haven't been to New York.

0:33:52.160 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to go to New York, and I still

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten to go to New York and hang out

0:33:57.440 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 1>for a while. This is the real intervention we're going

0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:01.760
<v Speaker 1>to have after the show out. Maybe we should have

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 1>done this show on location so you have an excuse

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to go to New York. There we go sponsors this

0:34:12.200 --> 0:34:14.520
<v Speaker 1>at this point in our story, if we think back

0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:18.320
<v Speaker 1>to when there was that stuff about when she wouldn't

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>always come home and she would stay with family members,

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 1>it then comes out that what was happening was that

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>stee How was going out and then staying at the

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 1>homes of people that she met in the bar, specifically

0:34:35.760 --> 0:34:40.520
<v Speaker 1>at these gay bars. Ron rationalized it away and said, well, no,

0:34:40.719 --> 0:34:43.520
<v Speaker 1>there was a totally platonic thing. They would hang out

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and talk, they would listen to music all night like

0:34:46.920 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>there was nothing sexual whatsoever going on here. And I

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:55.600
<v Speaker 1>could see that. But I also have to ask, wait,

0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:59.040
<v Speaker 1>if she's suddenly hanging out, she's having such a good

0:34:59.080 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 1>time with all of these other women who are also

0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 1>into women. Maybe she realizes, wait, I kind of really

0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 1>like women. It would also help explain the kind of uh,

0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, symptoms of almost mental anguish that someone

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:17.680
<v Speaker 1>might exhibit when they are realizing something large about themselves,

0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:21.359
<v Speaker 1>like perhaps questioning their sexuality. And there was she was

0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:24.480
<v Speaker 1>experiencing depression. Yeah, you know, you know you you maybe

0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:28.520
<v Speaker 1>drink more, you get in fights, you exhibit behavior problems

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:30.880
<v Speaker 1>at work. When you're realizing that this person that you

0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 1>thought you were this entire time, you become depressed, you're

0:35:34.520 --> 0:35:37.760
<v Speaker 1>no longer the person you thought you were. Particularly coming

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:41.359
<v Speaker 1>from um an Indian background or a background that may

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:44.719
<v Speaker 1>be less welcoming of I would just say it's a

0:35:44.800 --> 0:35:49.759
<v Speaker 1>very culturally rigid, I think a rigid um um. Do

0:35:49.760 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm getting out? I can't think of

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:52.879
<v Speaker 1>the words here, but it's like you've got to hold

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:56.040
<v Speaker 1>certain track. Yeah, of course, moray rigid, thank you. I

0:35:56.040 --> 0:35:58.600
<v Speaker 1>don't think it's quite as bad. It's like say Saudi Arabia.

0:35:58.640 --> 0:36:00.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, no no. And that's not to say that

0:36:00.440 --> 0:36:02.520
<v Speaker 1>like you know, Indians as a whole, right, It's like

0:36:02.760 --> 0:36:05.520
<v Speaker 1>just like you can't say Americans as a whole. What

0:36:05.680 --> 0:36:07.839
<v Speaker 1>some people are and some people aren't. And you know,

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:12.360
<v Speaker 1>you never know what what background somebody comes from. There's

0:36:12.440 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>there's unfortunately more here. Of course, there's row mud on

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:20.320
<v Speaker 1>on this poor woman. There, this this one. Her family

0:36:20.640 --> 0:36:25.040
<v Speaker 1>has fought tooth and nail and denied and denied, denied.

0:36:25.680 --> 0:36:32.160
<v Speaker 1>But according to the NYPD investigators, her brother John caught

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 1>his sister and his then girlfriend in bed together at

0:36:37.560 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>one point. Well, okay, And the fact that they've denied

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:43.240
<v Speaker 1>it so hard, right, would maybe suggest that they weren't

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:45.920
<v Speaker 1>okay with her being You know, I think if you

0:36:45.960 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 1>are a family that's okay with her being gay, you say, well,

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe she was, she was, maybe she was experimenting. That

0:36:52.640 --> 0:36:56.040
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that she disappeared for any you know, other

0:36:56.120 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of reason than she disappeared. Yeah, No, No, it's

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 1>it's you don't ye like that. Well, that's the thing

0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:04.520
<v Speaker 1>is that John has said He's like, uh, yeah, no,

0:37:04.880 --> 0:37:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I never said that. I never actually even talked to

0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 1>the investigator who put that on paper. Have they found

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the quote unquote girlfriend at the time. Uh yeah, that's

0:37:17.680 --> 0:37:20.319
<v Speaker 1>the mother of his child and they got married, right, yeah,

0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I got married. Did they talk to her again? Seems

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 1>like that'd be a pretty straightforward. This is the frustrating

0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:30.319
<v Speaker 1>part of the story that I've already said before, is

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:33.759
<v Speaker 1>that so many of the players have been insulated and

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:36.319
<v Speaker 1>kept away from the media and from people who are

0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:39.799
<v Speaker 1>asking questions. And the one person, the investigator who got

0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:43.319
<v Speaker 1>in there, we can't see what he found. So that

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:49.919
<v Speaker 1>that that that's the part that drives me nuts there. Well,

0:37:49.960 --> 0:37:53.440
<v Speaker 1>maybe it's maybe it's such innocuous stuff, but they're just

0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:56.359
<v Speaker 1>so afraid to let anything come out. I don't know.

0:37:56.520 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't either. But regardless the trouble she was having

0:38:01.120 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 1>when she was at Cabrini, that the tardiness and the

0:38:03.640 --> 0:38:07.560
<v Speaker 1>alcohol related issues that followed her to her new job.

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:11.080
<v Speaker 1>One of the things that she had to do when

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 1>she was at St. Vincent's she had to meet with

0:38:13.120 --> 0:38:18.840
<v Speaker 1>a substance abuse counselor. She actually got suspended for missing

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 1>an appointment with that counselor. I wonder if they gave

0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 1>her the job at St. Vincent's on condition that she

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:28.360
<v Speaker 1>work on her problems. That could very well be it

0:38:28.640 --> 0:38:30.400
<v Speaker 1>that she would say, Hey, I got fired from my

0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:32.920
<v Speaker 1>other job because of these things, and I'm really wanted

0:38:32.960 --> 0:38:35.800
<v Speaker 1>to work on them, and you know, being up front, honest,

0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:37.960
<v Speaker 1>and they appreciated that, and they said, all right, well

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:40.960
<v Speaker 1>if you do counseling, then will or she didn't hide

0:38:40.960 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it and they called the other other place. They're like,

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:44.840
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, no, no, this is why we let her

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:48.799
<v Speaker 1>go because you know, hospitals talked to each other. Yeah,

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:52.320
<v Speaker 1>that guy killed like two dozen people. Oh yeah, we're

0:38:52.360 --> 0:38:57.719
<v Speaker 1>not going to hire that the angel of death. Yeah, yeah,

0:38:57.719 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 1>they're not. They're not going to do that. But but

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean, regardless, it's so far the last ten fifteen

0:39:03.480 --> 0:39:09.480
<v Speaker 1>minutes has been super uplifting. Shall we get into theories? Um? Yeah,

0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:15.320
<v Speaker 1>why not? Theory number one, she ran away, that's a theory.

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:22.239
<v Speaker 1>The circus not that the theory goes that she she

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:25.600
<v Speaker 1>ran away from her life. She she wasn't happy. Is

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.640
<v Speaker 1>we've kind of had a discussion here so far, is

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:32.160
<v Speaker 1>that she wasn't happy and maybe the drinking and staying

0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:36.000
<v Speaker 1>out at night note without her husband may have been

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:39.160
<v Speaker 1>a symptom of that, and the possible depression that we've

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 1>touched on briefly might have been another symptom of that

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:46.400
<v Speaker 1>as well. Uh. There there there are bits that say

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:50.960
<v Speaker 1>that the marriage wasn't all roses and things between the

0:39:51.040 --> 0:39:55.800
<v Speaker 1>couple weren't all great. I was gonna say, We've rationalized

0:39:55.800 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 1>a number of things so far, and one of the

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:59.919
<v Speaker 1>things I can say is that I don't know any RelA,

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 1>aationship that is perfect, and people who say they have

0:40:02.960 --> 0:40:07.719
<v Speaker 1>a perfect relationship are in denial of something. I mean,

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:11.320
<v Speaker 1>people are people, and there's always going to be some friction.

0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 1>The other thing is I've talked about before with well

0:40:16.600 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 1>things seem to be good, is who's telling the story,

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:24.160
<v Speaker 1>Ron and her family. So we have one source of

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:30.200
<v Speaker 1>the information. The sheer coincidence of her deciding to run

0:40:30.239 --> 0:40:36.399
<v Speaker 1>away the day before the World Trade Center attack. It's

0:40:36.440 --> 0:40:41.479
<v Speaker 1>just too convenient for me, it's too perfect. Well, don't

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you know it's not necessarily coincidence, though she might have

0:40:45.160 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 1>been planning on running away and then and then eleven

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:51.080
<v Speaker 1>happens and she realizes, holy crap, I got a perfect excuse.

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:54.720
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't even have to be a planning like a

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:56.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, months in advanced situation. It could just be

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>she sees the thing happening and realizes I could disappear

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>true and it would explain right. They found all of

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 1>her stuff was still in the apartment. Everything you know,

0:41:06.280 --> 0:41:10.319
<v Speaker 1>your credit cards, her glasses, her ID or passport, her

0:41:10.400 --> 0:41:13.640
<v Speaker 1>driver's license and passports, everything was left behind. That well, okay,

0:41:13.680 --> 0:41:15.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why her driver's license would be left

0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>behind if she was out drinking. But I can't see

0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:21.959
<v Speaker 1>how you would go shopping without your idea. You would

0:41:22.080 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 1>need your idea and credit cards. So I think it's

0:41:23.680 --> 0:41:26.239
<v Speaker 1>probably not true that they were left at the apartment.

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:30.480
<v Speaker 1>But okay, fine, even if they were even all the

0:41:30.520 --> 0:41:33.320
<v Speaker 1>better to disappear if you have some cash that you

0:41:33.440 --> 0:41:36.759
<v Speaker 1>got who knows how, but you've got some cash and

0:41:36.880 --> 0:41:38.920
<v Speaker 1>you just walk away from your life. You have some cash,

0:41:38.960 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 1>you managed to get out someplace, and you know, I don't,

0:41:42.640 --> 0:41:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know do something. I've obviously never tried to

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:48.239
<v Speaker 1>plan a disappearance, So I would think that if you

0:41:48.280 --> 0:41:50.880
<v Speaker 1>were planning to take off, you would maybe do a

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:53.799
<v Speaker 1>little noodling on the internet. Yeah, I think I help

0:41:53.880 --> 0:41:58.080
<v Speaker 1>change your identity and stuff like that if you were planning. Again,

0:41:58.200 --> 0:42:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Not that key part race that she wasn't just a

0:42:02.560 --> 0:42:08.279
<v Speaker 1>runaway of advantage, right, Yes, A great circumstances to take

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:11.840
<v Speaker 1>advantage because of the the p I ken Glaude. He

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:16.080
<v Speaker 1>said that he went through her or We've been told

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 1>that he went through her computer and found nothing in

0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 1>her history on the computer to indicate that now she

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.520
<v Speaker 1>might have been savvy enough to wipe her browser history

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:31.160
<v Speaker 1>a different computer. Yeah, do it at work occasionally or

0:42:31.200 --> 0:42:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the library. Yeah, yeah, I mean there's there's ways that

0:42:34.680 --> 0:42:37.000
<v Speaker 1>it can be done, but but none of this stuff

0:42:37.080 --> 0:42:40.640
<v Speaker 1>is there. The thing, and I know that you're probably

0:42:40.640 --> 0:42:42.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna jump on me a little bit for this, Devin,

0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:45.640
<v Speaker 1>but the thing that she did that makes me think

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:49.400
<v Speaker 1>that maybe she wasn't intending to leave is that she

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:52.880
<v Speaker 1>had gone and spent the day with her mother several

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 1>days prior to that, and when she was with her mother,

0:42:57.239 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 1>she had said this was great, and why are we

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:03.480
<v Speaker 1>doing this more often? Like this was a great day. Well,

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:05.720
<v Speaker 1>that's that's one of the problems I have with this theory.

0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:08.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she ran away because it appears to

0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:11.080
<v Speaker 1>me that she was close to her family, and if

0:43:11.239 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 1>even if she had a rocky marriage, I don't think

0:43:12.960 --> 0:43:15.880
<v Speaker 1>she'd abandoned her family. But the other the other thing

0:43:15.960 --> 0:43:18.040
<v Speaker 1>is there's there's always a high bar for me and

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 1>this whole, this whole thing about people disappearing, it depends

0:43:21.040 --> 0:43:23.920
<v Speaker 1>on how much you're leaving behind, and she's spent years

0:43:24.000 --> 0:43:27.319
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of money getting a medical credential, which

0:43:27.320 --> 0:43:30.600
<v Speaker 1>she would be throwing away. Yeah, so that's why I

0:43:30.600 --> 0:43:32.759
<v Speaker 1>don't believe it. I agree with you, But I will

0:43:32.840 --> 0:43:36.520
<v Speaker 1>just say that people get sentimental when they're planning to leave, right, So,

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:39.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, saying spending time with your mom and having

0:43:39.600 --> 0:43:41.440
<v Speaker 1>not done that a whole lot, and just saying, oh,

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:43.520
<v Speaker 1>I just wish we would do this more often doesn't

0:43:43.560 --> 0:43:46.879
<v Speaker 1>necessarily mean also, I'm not planning to run away. But

0:43:47.000 --> 0:43:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm with Joe on this one. I don't think she

0:43:48.560 --> 0:43:52.560
<v Speaker 1>ran away, all right. Well, that then makes us go

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:57.480
<v Speaker 1>to the next theory. The next theory is that, in fact,

0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:01.560
<v Speaker 1>she did die at the World Trade Center. Yeah. Like

0:44:01.640 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>I said before, the story of her running into the

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:09.919
<v Speaker 1>World Trade Center was made up by her brother. There

0:44:10.040 --> 0:44:13.480
<v Speaker 1>is the footage of her in the apartment building entry

0:44:13.920 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>at about the time that the plane hit. That kind

0:44:18.040 --> 0:44:21.279
<v Speaker 1>of corroborates that maybe she did go and try and

0:44:21.360 --> 0:44:25.240
<v Speaker 1>help and she was killed by falling debris or somehow

0:44:25.320 --> 0:44:28.120
<v Speaker 1>got into the lobby of the building and was killed

0:44:28.160 --> 0:44:30.880
<v Speaker 1>when it was when it collapsed, or ran into the

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:33.719
<v Speaker 1>south tower. I mean, you know, yeah, there were. There

0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:36.279
<v Speaker 1>was a couple of minutes in between, at least, right,

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't I'm sorry, I don't remember. I was young,

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 1>but there was time in between. So if the one

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 1>tower is burning, you run into the other one to

0:44:43.040 --> 0:44:47.080
<v Speaker 1>help people evacuate from it, and then that gets hit. Yeah,

0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:48.840
<v Speaker 1>or I don't think she would have run into the

0:44:48.880 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 1>other one, because at the time, when there was only

0:44:51.560 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>one plane it smacked into the towers, everybody thought it

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:57.759
<v Speaker 1>was an accident. It wasn't until the second plane hit

0:44:57.800 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 1>that everybody everybody started saying w T. Yeah, Yeah, that's

0:45:02.120 --> 0:45:06.960
<v Speaker 1>that's a very good point. There's also the possibility in

0:45:07.040 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 1>this theory that she did stay out somewhere else and

0:45:11.560 --> 0:45:15.200
<v Speaker 1>stayed at somebody else's house that night or somebody else's

0:45:15.239 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 1>place the night prior, and was walking home. So they

0:45:22.120 --> 0:45:24.719
<v Speaker 1>lived only a couple of blocks away from the World

0:45:24.760 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Trade Center, So it's possible that she was an innocent

0:45:28.880 --> 0:45:35.080
<v Speaker 1>bystander when the first plane struck and got hit by

0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:40.160
<v Speaker 1>debris and then eventually buried when the tower came down

0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 1>entirely or there. I'm sure there was a Starbucks in

0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:48.279
<v Speaker 1>the No, I mean genuinely there there were, there were

0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:51.000
<v Speaker 1>things in the tower too, right, So it's possible that

0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:54.200
<v Speaker 1>she just happened to be in there doing something on

0:45:54.280 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 1>her way home. The century twenty one was cross street,

0:45:57.920 --> 0:46:03.000
<v Speaker 1>and I've seen I will admit I didn't dive into

0:46:03.000 --> 0:46:05.560
<v Speaker 1>this because it didn't key in until just this moment.

0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Is that there were people that could stay across the

0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:12.800
<v Speaker 1>street from the World Trade Center. So maybe she stayed

0:46:12.920 --> 0:46:17.080
<v Speaker 1>over there somehow, And I don't know how that plays out.

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I can't even begin to fathom how that plays out.

0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:24.400
<v Speaker 1>But maybe somehow then she comes out and then whatever

0:46:24.480 --> 0:46:29.839
<v Speaker 1>scenario happens happens. This is this is entirely possible as well.

0:46:29.920 --> 0:46:33.160
<v Speaker 1>And I think there are some good statistics to support

0:46:33.280 --> 0:46:36.439
<v Speaker 1>this theory as well. There are there actually there. They're

0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:40.120
<v Speaker 1>really disheartening. But but here's I'll lay at a couple

0:46:40.120 --> 0:46:43.840
<v Speaker 1>of bullet points. All of the two thousand, six hundred

0:46:43.880 --> 0:46:48.640
<v Speaker 1>and six people that were killed in the World Trade

0:46:48.680 --> 0:46:51.200
<v Speaker 1>Center collapse, so that's not counting people who were on

0:46:51.239 --> 0:46:56.480
<v Speaker 1>the planes, there were about sixteen, it was six. About

0:46:56.239 --> 0:46:59.920
<v Speaker 1>six people were never identified. The remains were never IDENTI

0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:07.080
<v Speaker 1>fun there are over ten thousand tissue and bone samples

0:47:07.080 --> 0:47:11.920
<v Speaker 1>that have been collected that haven't been identified, as in,

0:47:12.040 --> 0:47:15.400
<v Speaker 1>they haven't been matched to a known victim somebody that

0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:18.680
<v Speaker 1>was in the towers at the time, So that's a

0:47:18.880 --> 0:47:22.960
<v Speaker 1>huge number of people. The other thing is that the

0:47:23.040 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 1>City of New York has in their possession at to

0:47:26.239 --> 0:47:30.319
<v Speaker 1>this day about two thirds of the jewelry that was

0:47:30.640 --> 0:47:37.000
<v Speaker 1>collected from the site. When the fires were raging, it

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:40.840
<v Speaker 1>was about it was over two thousand degrees in the rubble.

0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:45.319
<v Speaker 1>Most things like metal bands, like gold and silver, those

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>things are gonna melt, but diamonds and hard stone like

0:47:50.160 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 1>that would not. So those those items were found, and

0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:57.320
<v Speaker 1>some of them have been returned to family who have

0:47:57.360 --> 0:48:01.319
<v Speaker 1>been able to provide documentation saying yes, that was my

0:48:01.400 --> 0:48:05.759
<v Speaker 1>wife's diamond or my husband's diamond, or whatever the case

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:09.600
<v Speaker 1>may be. That means that it's entirely possible that we

0:48:09.920 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 1>that they may be able to figure out that she

0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:16.960
<v Speaker 1>was in there based on the diamonds from her rings,

0:48:17.000 --> 0:48:21.000
<v Speaker 1>her earrings, and she had a necklace, so those things

0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:25.799
<v Speaker 1>could have survived the temperatures, and the family has provided

0:48:25.800 --> 0:48:29.719
<v Speaker 1>the documentation to the City of New York. But it's

0:48:29.920 --> 0:48:35.120
<v Speaker 1>really really difficult to to get confirmation of but it's

0:48:35.160 --> 0:48:38.560
<v Speaker 1>it's still possible, still possible that maybe I need, but

0:48:38.600 --> 0:48:42.000
<v Speaker 1>it's very tough. Well, that's the thing about it is

0:48:42.040 --> 0:48:44.120
<v Speaker 1>that there's only so many ways to cut a diamond,

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:48.160
<v Speaker 1>and so matching up a diamond from one of her

0:48:48.560 --> 0:48:50.960
<v Speaker 1>pieces of jewelry was the diamonds that they find in there,

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:54.080
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of conclusive, especially if it was you know,

0:48:54.239 --> 0:48:57.360
<v Speaker 1>a necklace set from k is right. How many women

0:48:57.800 --> 0:49:01.160
<v Speaker 1>have that necklace set from? You know? That's true coming

0:49:01.280 --> 0:49:04.560
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, certainly like the diamond from her engagement ring

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:07.799
<v Speaker 1>should have been more distinctive, but that would require a

0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:10.680
<v Speaker 1>serial number somehow etched on it, which I don't think

0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:14.800
<v Speaker 1>they don't know. But but you get, I know about

0:49:14.880 --> 0:49:18.719
<v Speaker 1>a diamond. You nobody get angry at me for buying

0:49:18.719 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 1>a blood diamond, but about a diamond. And I got

0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:25.080
<v Speaker 1>the report on it, and it's got all a specifics

0:49:25.120 --> 0:49:28.600
<v Speaker 1>listed on it. But here's the thing. If that diamond

0:49:28.719 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>is then in a giant fire and is being hit

0:49:31.760 --> 0:49:35.279
<v Speaker 1>by rubble that is tons and tons of stuff, it

0:49:35.360 --> 0:49:41.000
<v Speaker 1>may not be recognizable to that report. Also they probably have.

0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:46.239
<v Speaker 1>This is super depressing, but probably there are thousands of diamonds.

0:49:46.280 --> 0:49:49.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean, even if you just say half of the

0:49:49.320 --> 0:49:52.800
<v Speaker 1>people that were killed in the World Trade Center attacks

0:49:53.239 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 1>where women that still is you know, over two thousand

0:49:57.960 --> 0:50:02.239
<v Speaker 1>people or sorry, over a thousand diamonds that could have

0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:04.200
<v Speaker 1>been found in the rubble. The fact that you can

0:50:04.320 --> 0:50:08.240
<v Speaker 1>think it's in the order of pieces of identifiable jewelry

0:50:08.800 --> 0:50:11.920
<v Speaker 1>and that's insane To ask them to look an examine

0:50:11.960 --> 0:50:13.640
<v Speaker 1>every single one of them and try and match it

0:50:13.680 --> 0:50:19.279
<v Speaker 1>to one. That's insanity. Yeah, no, I mean I'll look. Yeah.

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:26.520
<v Speaker 1>It actually surprises me that some company that specializes in

0:50:26.640 --> 0:50:31.480
<v Speaker 1>diamonds this is a marketing pr bit. And this is

0:50:31.520 --> 0:50:34.279
<v Speaker 1>gonna sound disgusting as soon as I say it, but

0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:38.320
<v Speaker 1>for great publicities say we're going to donate our services

0:50:38.360 --> 0:50:42.480
<v Speaker 1>and we're going to document the characteristics of every stone

0:50:43.000 --> 0:50:45.520
<v Speaker 1>that they have, and then we're going to try and

0:50:45.600 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 1>match them to it. That's a great pit of pr

0:50:48.360 --> 0:50:52.560
<v Speaker 1>that's also a huge service to the families. But it's

0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:57.359
<v Speaker 1>companies do that stuff because well it's truistic, but it's

0:50:57.400 --> 0:50:59.880
<v Speaker 1>also great p off. Actually, if you if you just

0:51:00.000 --> 0:51:01.560
<v Speaker 1>took all the diamonds that you found it sort of

0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:04.160
<v Speaker 1>in my way and just say, okay, what are you

0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:06.800
<v Speaker 1>looking for? Were you looking for a one carrot diamond. Okay,

0:51:06.840 --> 0:51:09.359
<v Speaker 1>and here's the one carrot diamonds. Let's look, let's how

0:51:09.360 --> 0:51:11.440
<v Speaker 1>to look. See. I'm pretty sure that all of the

0:51:11.640 --> 0:51:16.319
<v Speaker 1>really obvious ones the very easy to identify. That that

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:20.359
<v Speaker 1>third that were identified, they're probably easy to figure out

0:51:20.920 --> 0:51:24.319
<v Speaker 1>after that. The rest of them were just so nondescript.

0:51:24.480 --> 0:51:27.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, you've got one carrots and three quarter carrots

0:51:28.000 --> 0:51:30.799
<v Speaker 1>and all these little stones. At that point, it's a

0:51:30.840 --> 0:51:34.600
<v Speaker 1>needle in a haystack. But but I think we've belabored that.

0:51:37.080 --> 0:51:39.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of doubting that she died that died in

0:51:39.360 --> 0:51:42.400
<v Speaker 1>the w TC because simply because she spent the night

0:51:42.440 --> 0:51:46.120
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, and she usually would stay with either her

0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:48.719
<v Speaker 1>cousin or a brother, and she didn't obviously stay with them,

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:52.320
<v Speaker 1>so she stayed with somebody else. That person never came forward,

0:51:52.680 --> 0:51:56.440
<v Speaker 1>you're right, you know, and so and so she instantly

0:51:56.440 --> 0:51:58.719
<v Speaker 1>spent the night with somebody and forgotten left her bag.

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:00.840
<v Speaker 1>So you think that that person, at some point or

0:52:00.880 --> 0:52:03.360
<v Speaker 1>another come forward and said, hey, she slept on my

0:52:03.400 --> 0:52:06.400
<v Speaker 1>couch that night, And that person never did. And that

0:52:06.480 --> 0:52:10.640
<v Speaker 1>actually leads us into our next set of theories, because

0:52:10.640 --> 0:52:15.120
<v Speaker 1>our next theory is actually split in half and that

0:52:15.200 --> 0:52:21.480
<v Speaker 1>theory's violently No. The next theory is that she was

0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:27.680
<v Speaker 1>kidnapped and or murdered, or how about sold into slavery. Yeah.

0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:29.879
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even go into that, Joe. I don't really

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:32.160
<v Speaker 1>want to go into that, to be quite honest with you, sir.

0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:35.279
<v Speaker 1>Here's here's the thing we're going to talk about. The

0:52:35.320 --> 0:52:41.479
<v Speaker 1>century twenty one. There was a clerk there named Sonya Mora.

0:52:41.920 --> 0:52:46.600
<v Speaker 1>She came forward later on, I think it was weeks

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:50.600
<v Speaker 1>or a month later, and she said that she saw

0:52:50.719 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>sney Huh shopping there, and she she knew her. She'd

0:52:53.800 --> 0:52:57.160
<v Speaker 1>been there many times. Yeah, she was a regular so

0:52:57.600 --> 0:53:02.160
<v Speaker 1>store close to her house, she probably, yeah. And she

0:53:02.320 --> 0:53:07.759
<v Speaker 1>said that she saw her with another woman shopping. She

0:53:08.160 --> 0:53:11.680
<v Speaker 1>said she saw her in the shoe section with this woman,

0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:15.800
<v Speaker 1>which unfortunately didn't have video surveillance, because evidently the shoes

0:53:15.840 --> 0:53:19.200
<v Speaker 1>aren't as important as the jackets section where there was

0:53:19.320 --> 0:53:24.360
<v Speaker 1>surveillance footage. It's harder to steal shoes than jackets, is it, really, Yeah,

0:53:24.560 --> 0:53:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you just put a jacket on and walk out like

0:53:26.239 --> 0:53:28.439
<v Speaker 1>you've been wearing it, shoes, like you have another pair

0:53:28.480 --> 0:53:31.759
<v Speaker 1>of shoes, or oftentimes they'll only put one shoe out

0:53:31.960 --> 0:53:35.480
<v Speaker 1>or uh, they only have the display size out and

0:53:35.520 --> 0:53:42.040
<v Speaker 1>then sitting there and very good point. Yeah, well, it

0:53:42.120 --> 0:53:47.080
<v Speaker 1>appears in the footage has found that she's by herself.

0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:52.280
<v Speaker 1>But according to this report, she was with another woman

0:53:52.320 --> 0:53:57.319
<v Speaker 1>who was described as small, dark skinned, possibly in her

0:53:57.360 --> 0:54:03.239
<v Speaker 1>thirties and possibly Indian. This woman, you know, she might

0:54:03.320 --> 0:54:06.880
<v Speaker 1>have been and she might have known Snea Hob but

0:54:07.000 --> 0:54:12.400
<v Speaker 1>she's never come forward. And and the lead ends right there.

0:54:12.960 --> 0:54:16.319
<v Speaker 1>And it could have been as simple as somebody that

0:54:16.400 --> 0:54:18.600
<v Speaker 1>she had met before at the store, could have been

0:54:18.640 --> 0:54:21.120
<v Speaker 1>a casual acquaintance who she bumped into. It could have

0:54:21.120 --> 0:54:22.960
<v Speaker 1>been some of these she didn't know and just sat

0:54:23.000 --> 0:54:25.880
<v Speaker 1>there and had a conversation about aren't they shoes great?

0:54:26.480 --> 0:54:29.600
<v Speaker 1>And the clerk immediately assumed that they knew each other

0:54:30.000 --> 0:54:33.600
<v Speaker 1>the same and they look kind of the same. Yes,

0:54:33.800 --> 0:54:37.640
<v Speaker 1>so there's there's all kinds of stuff. But if if

0:54:37.680 --> 0:54:41.880
<v Speaker 1>this is true, this woman never came forward, so we

0:54:41.920 --> 0:54:47.759
<v Speaker 1>don't we don't know anything about her. Well, yeah, and

0:54:48.000 --> 0:54:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I gotta tell you, I had a lot of random

0:54:50.080 --> 0:54:53.280
<v Speaker 1>thoughts and her ideas as I was going through this story.

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:55.520
<v Speaker 1>And one thing that I've never been able to find,

0:54:55.560 --> 0:54:58.880
<v Speaker 1>it's a picture of her mother and we don't know

0:54:58.960 --> 0:55:03.080
<v Speaker 1>what's in the tense of their two hour online conversation.

0:55:03.920 --> 0:55:05.920
<v Speaker 1>I would imagine this would have come out in the

0:55:06.000 --> 0:55:10.200
<v Speaker 1>police report. But it's plausible. I mean, I'm I have

0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:12.960
<v Speaker 1>to wonder, did they say, let's go to the century.

0:55:14.840 --> 0:55:18.080
<v Speaker 1>It just seems unlikely that her mother, the mother of

0:55:18.120 --> 0:55:20.680
<v Speaker 1>a thirty something your old woman, would be described as

0:55:20.760 --> 0:55:24.120
<v Speaker 1>looking like she was in her thirties as well. Sorry,

0:55:24.680 --> 0:55:28.240
<v Speaker 1>there's all kinds of stereotypes for people saying I can't

0:55:28.280 --> 0:55:32.160
<v Speaker 1>tell one from the other. An age age is kind

0:55:32.200 --> 0:55:35.720
<v Speaker 1>of hard to tell sometimes. I mean, I know women

0:55:35.760 --> 0:55:40.839
<v Speaker 1>that I work with who are of Asian descent, and

0:55:41.200 --> 0:55:43.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, the first time I met her, I was like,

0:55:43.480 --> 0:55:45.520
<v Speaker 1>she's must be one in her mid thirties. No, she's

0:55:45.560 --> 0:55:49.640
<v Speaker 1>in her mid fifties. I mean, some people age differently,

0:55:49.800 --> 0:55:52.719
<v Speaker 1>that's true, but that would be a startling. I mean,

0:55:53.239 --> 0:55:55.720
<v Speaker 1>to look like you're the age that your child is

0:55:55.719 --> 0:56:00.400
<v Speaker 1>is very It's it's not I understand, I agree, but

0:56:00.680 --> 0:56:04.279
<v Speaker 1>I would say that it's highly unlikely. No, I will

0:56:04.320 --> 0:56:06.399
<v Speaker 1>not disagree with that, but I just I couldn't help

0:56:06.440 --> 0:56:08.600
<v Speaker 1>but think of that. The other The other thing is, though,

0:56:08.640 --> 0:56:11.080
<v Speaker 1>is it couldn't have been her mother, because her mother

0:56:11.160 --> 0:56:14.640
<v Speaker 1>would have said something, absolutely have something. I think in

0:56:14.719 --> 0:56:17.000
<v Speaker 1>a heartbeat she would have said something. Again, this is

0:56:17.000 --> 0:56:18.480
<v Speaker 1>one of those things that just popped into my head

0:56:18.480 --> 0:56:20.279
<v Speaker 1>and I had to ask. Yeah, it's it's hard to

0:56:20.280 --> 0:56:22.640
<v Speaker 1>say what a relationship, if anything, to this woman was,

0:56:22.800 --> 0:56:24.520
<v Speaker 1>And it's hard to say they were just like, you know,

0:56:24.840 --> 0:56:27.640
<v Speaker 1>two people who just chatted for thirty seconds, and it

0:56:27.719 --> 0:56:30.960
<v Speaker 1>could have been as simple as that. But let's move

0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:36.319
<v Speaker 1>to the other half of she was kidnapped slash murdered. Uh,

0:56:36.400 --> 0:56:40.840
<v Speaker 1>it's entirely possible that she was just the victim of

0:56:40.840 --> 0:56:44.399
<v Speaker 1>a random murder. She was known to go to a bar,

0:56:44.880 --> 0:56:47.600
<v Speaker 1>whether it was a bar that was of men and

0:56:47.680 --> 0:56:53.640
<v Speaker 1>women or women only, and have a drink or several drinks.

0:56:54.360 --> 0:56:57.360
<v Speaker 1>And it's possible that she sat down next to someone

0:56:57.640 --> 0:57:02.640
<v Speaker 1>female or male, who lured away from the bar, or

0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:07.560
<v Speaker 1>who randomly followed her home and attacked her. She could

0:57:07.600 --> 0:57:11.400
<v Speaker 1>have been unfaithful and went home with somebody who was

0:57:11.560 --> 0:57:15.839
<v Speaker 1>capable of murder. I mean, these things are entirely possible.

0:57:16.000 --> 0:57:19.920
<v Speaker 1>But the odd part of that is that her body

0:57:20.000 --> 0:57:23.120
<v Speaker 1>never showed up. And we've we've had a lot of

0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:28.040
<v Speaker 1>conversations recording this podcast about how hard it is to

0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:31.760
<v Speaker 1>really do a good job of hiding a body. It's

0:57:31.800 --> 0:57:34.640
<v Speaker 1>New York. It's full of dark, cubby holes where you

0:57:34.680 --> 0:57:37.840
<v Speaker 1>can stuff things that don't show up for years. I

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:42.160
<v Speaker 1>get that, but most people who kill aren't that good

0:57:42.200 --> 0:57:46.200
<v Speaker 1>at thinking ahead, especially in a time when I mean

0:57:46.280 --> 0:57:49.880
<v Speaker 1>it seems like the city was being pretty scoured for bodies,

0:57:50.400 --> 0:57:53.520
<v Speaker 1>not you know, World Trades cent are notwithstanding there are

0:57:53.520 --> 0:57:57.960
<v Speaker 1>all those you know, nine thousand missing people reported. The

0:57:58.080 --> 0:58:00.440
<v Speaker 1>NYPD is going to go out and be like, all right, well,

0:58:00.480 --> 0:58:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I guess we'll check every dumpster today, you know, I

0:58:03.040 --> 0:58:07.720
<v Speaker 1>guess we'll check every Are you talking about checking every

0:58:07.800 --> 0:58:12.160
<v Speaker 1>dumpster in the city because of just no, well, I'm

0:58:12.200 --> 0:58:15.440
<v Speaker 1>not because of the terrorist attacks necessarily, but to help

0:58:15.520 --> 0:58:18.520
<v Speaker 1>try to determine if the people that were reported were

0:58:18.560 --> 0:58:23.880
<v Speaker 1>actually in the World Trade Centers or they you know,

0:58:24.040 --> 0:58:26.400
<v Speaker 1>we're drunk asleep on the court. You know, last time

0:58:26.440 --> 0:58:29.520
<v Speaker 1>I saw Joe, he was at jones E's bar and

0:58:29.560 --> 0:58:31.680
<v Speaker 1>he was talking to this ruffian and then I didn't

0:58:31.680 --> 0:58:33.680
<v Speaker 1>see him against So they're gonna go to Jones's bar

0:58:33.720 --> 0:58:35.440
<v Speaker 1>and they're going to rifle through the dumpster in the

0:58:35.480 --> 0:58:37.240
<v Speaker 1>back just to check. And I don't you know, that

0:58:37.320 --> 0:58:39.440
<v Speaker 1>just comes from what makes sense to me is that

0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:41.480
<v Speaker 1>that's how you whittle something like that down. That's how

0:58:41.520 --> 0:58:44.080
<v Speaker 1>you come up with the accurate number, is you prove

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:47.400
<v Speaker 1>that the other people who you kind of pursue all

0:58:47.440 --> 0:58:51.760
<v Speaker 1>avenues of people being reported missing. So you're doing probably

0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:54.800
<v Speaker 1>more investigation than typical. You're going to run into bodies

0:58:54.840 --> 0:58:58.480
<v Speaker 1>more frequently, you would think, you would think. Yeah, But

0:58:58.560 --> 0:59:01.600
<v Speaker 1>also I can see the total sit they were stretched thin,

0:59:01.760 --> 0:59:04.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's totally possible that I actually have a feeling

0:59:04.640 --> 0:59:08.400
<v Speaker 1>that that is more accurate. They were stretched So but

0:59:08.480 --> 0:59:10.680
<v Speaker 1>you can also there are ways to get rid of bodies,

0:59:10.880 --> 0:59:16.400
<v Speaker 1>and there really are, there are, but not everybody knows

0:59:16.520 --> 0:59:20.760
<v Speaker 1>how to do that. And I get if this is true,

0:59:21.840 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be kind of a crime of opportunity rather

0:59:27.800 --> 0:59:33.040
<v Speaker 1>than a crime of planning. Crime of opportunity usually ends

0:59:33.120 --> 0:59:37.800
<v Speaker 1>up being messy and leaving all kinds of clues. Yeah, well,

0:59:37.880 --> 0:59:40.080
<v Speaker 1>it's certainly, you know what you would think that somebody,

0:59:40.120 --> 0:59:41.960
<v Speaker 1>if we wanted to say, murder her, would just have

0:59:42.040 --> 0:59:44.640
<v Speaker 1>murdered her and left the body to be found exactly.

0:59:44.800 --> 0:59:48.439
<v Speaker 1>But you know, supposing a murdered her statutes. The body

0:59:48.440 --> 0:59:51.000
<v Speaker 1>behind the bush goes away. And this is remember they

0:59:51.040 --> 0:59:53.280
<v Speaker 1>lived in the battery. They live very close to the water,

0:59:53.920 --> 0:59:57.360
<v Speaker 1>very close to the docks, and so you know, I go,

0:59:57.480 --> 0:59:58.960
<v Speaker 1>you go away, you find you find a bout of

0:59:59.040 --> 1:00:01.280
<v Speaker 1>change in way it's kind back, you know, and wait

1:00:01.320 --> 1:00:02.720
<v Speaker 1>to buy it down and just pitch her off a

1:00:02.760 --> 1:00:07.800
<v Speaker 1>pier and never be found again. I mean not for years. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I I totally get where you're going. It's just it

1:00:12.480 --> 1:00:15.920
<v Speaker 1>doesn't seem that likely to me. No, not really. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that that that seems to in for a lot

1:00:21.120 --> 1:00:28.080
<v Speaker 1>of planning, and especially in the aftermath of the World

1:00:28.200 --> 1:00:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Trade Center events. Let's say, okay, let's just run down

1:00:32.240 --> 1:00:35.240
<v Speaker 1>that out that that rabbit hole for a minute. You

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<v Speaker 1>kill somebody and you got them, you got the body

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<v Speaker 1>in your apartment, and you're trying to figure out how

1:00:40.600 --> 1:00:44.240
<v Speaker 1>to get it to the docks. And then a plane

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<v Speaker 1>flies into a freaking building and the city is a zoo.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you going to sneak around with a body

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<v Speaker 1>rolled up in a rug? To use the the old

1:00:56.320 --> 1:01:00.320
<v Speaker 1>mob joke, I mean, that's that's really not as easy

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<v Speaker 1>to do because everybody's looking at everything. That's going on

1:01:03.320 --> 1:01:05.640
<v Speaker 1>and they're all wigged out, said, that would be the

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<v Speaker 1>one time you could just you could actually, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>throw a body over your shoulder in the fireman's carry

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<v Speaker 1>and and be going down the streets saying, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she's hurt really bad. I got to get to the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>You could do that. Yeah, observation that really creeps. It

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<v Speaker 1>might actually be a sher coincidence, and maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>murdered and then and then stuffed in a dumpster at

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<v Speaker 1>the World Trade Center just by shier coincidence. Like keep

1:01:30.720 --> 1:01:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, trying to hold back from saying something like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's also not entirely impossible that she was lord and

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<v Speaker 1>murdered in the World Trades I mean the huge, huge

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<v Speaker 1>buildings with lots and lots of offices. If somebody were

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if she met somebody in that area and

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<v Speaker 1>they worked there and they said, all right, sweet, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go back to my you know, let's go to my

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<v Speaker 1>office and do the hanky panky, and one thing like

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<v Speaker 1>to another. I mean, it's not impossible. It's not probable,

1:02:00.040 --> 1:02:03.800
<v Speaker 1>but it's not impossible. And that's that's the hard part.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not impossible. Let's go to what I'm gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>is a completely self made theory. Yeah. I have come

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<v Speaker 1>up with this all of my own because original content.

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<v Speaker 1>It's original content, because nobody else is putting this out there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't see this anywhere else. But I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to say the last theory is that she was killed

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<v Speaker 1>by her husband. The NYPD did investigate Ron and as

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<v Speaker 1>I I've already said several times, all we know about

1:02:41.160 --> 1:02:43.840
<v Speaker 1>his wife is from him and her family. But the

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<v Speaker 1>NYPD looked into him and they ruled him out at

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<v Speaker 1>some point in their investigation. I don't know how. I

1:02:52.160 --> 1:02:55.439
<v Speaker 1>don't know what they had, but there's some there's there's

1:02:55.440 --> 1:02:58.680
<v Speaker 1>more red flags that are coming up. One red flag

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<v Speaker 1>is that there was a call made from their home

1:03:03.080 --> 1:03:08.800
<v Speaker 1>phone at four am on the eleventh to his cell phone.

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<v Speaker 1>He has explained that away as saying, well, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>remember doing it, but I must have got up in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the night and checked my voicemail. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I know a lot of people are saying, why would

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<v Speaker 1>you check your voicemail without your cell phone? Well it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was thearly two thousand's. Every phone companies were

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<v Speaker 1>charging you minutes for all usage. Call your voicemail that

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<v Speaker 1>counts against your minutes. So you know, I worked for

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<v Speaker 1>a cell phone company at that point. We used to

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<v Speaker 1>tell people check your voicemail from your own phone to

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<v Speaker 1>save your minutes. So that that's that's kind of understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>I can kind of get that. I can kind of

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<v Speaker 1>get it accept that. What the problem with that is

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<v Speaker 1>is that, you know, I'm trying to put myself back

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<v Speaker 1>into the year two thousand one. You would think you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be able to just look at his cell phone without

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<v Speaker 1>actually dialing anything and tell him telling you I thought

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<v Speaker 1>of that too, I'm not even. I can't even. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's suddenly we're going to branch out into a thousand

1:04:12.440 --> 1:04:15.360
<v Speaker 1>eventualities if we started saying, well, maybe he was out

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<v Speaker 1>of battery, or maybe this was going on, or that

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<v Speaker 1>was maybe they were in a dead spot. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's there's all kinds of things that I've I've kind

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<v Speaker 1>of held back from some of that. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>will just say that I don't know about you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>but if I wake up in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 1>night worried about my significant other enough at least to

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<v Speaker 1>call my voicemail to be cognizant enough to call my

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<v Speaker 1>voicemail from my home phone to check my voicemail. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna remember that the next morning. You would think, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna just be like, oh, I guess I might

1:04:46.320 --> 1:04:50.200
<v Speaker 1>have called my cell phone voicemail. He gonna remember. Some

1:04:50.240 --> 1:04:53.360
<v Speaker 1>people are different. Keep in mind, though, he got in

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<v Speaker 1>around midnight and he had to get up and leave

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<v Speaker 1>his house at like six or six thirty. So we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking four hours of sleep to then go back sleep

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<v Speaker 1>and sleep for a couple of I mean, I do,

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<v Speaker 1>I do that fairly regularly, I you know. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>and again it's just me, but most people I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'll say things like I woke up in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of I I was so worried about this person,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I went back to sleep, not even like

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<v Speaker 1>I got out of bed and went on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and called my voicemail and remembered to not use my

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<v Speaker 1>cell phone and bla bla bla bah. Yeah. So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a it's a red flag a little bit. But

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<v Speaker 1>the other thing is to I have a phone, she

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<v Speaker 1>have a cell phone. I don't know. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if she had a cell of her own. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't seen anything about that. Yeah, I haven't seen anything

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<v Speaker 1>about it either. I mean, and and in two thousand one,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, cell phone usage was not nearly as ubiquitous

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<v Speaker 1>as it is today. No, it may have been that

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<v Speaker 1>he had splurged and got one, or maybe he had

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<v Speaker 1>one from work, but she didn't get one or didn't

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<v Speaker 1>qualify for one through work. I mean, there's yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean not, it wasn't nearly as vlet let's let's go

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<v Speaker 1>on though. Here's the fact I've been holding back. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a jerk like that. Yeah, yeah, I I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about a little bit that it wasn't all sunshine

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<v Speaker 1>and roses between them. Okay, do you remember that charge

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<v Speaker 1>that she filed that then backfired and ended up as

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<v Speaker 1>a charge against her. Okay, she had a court appointment

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<v Speaker 1>on the morning of the tenth for that charge. So

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<v Speaker 1>Ron had left the apartment to go to work at

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<v Speaker 1>like noon or one, but that morning they had gone

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<v Speaker 1>to court. He went with her, He went with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it didn't go well, and she she

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<v Speaker 1>pled not guilty, saying that she didn't do it. So,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, now she's got to face the whole litany

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<v Speaker 1>of the legal process. What I'm about to tell you, though,

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<v Speaker 1>as with so many other things in this story, that

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<v Speaker 1>the family is denying but the NYPD police report is saying,

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<v Speaker 1>is that the couple had a big fight or a

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<v Speaker 1>huge fight outside of the courtroom after the fact, and

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<v Speaker 1>Ron was really mad at her because she was abusing

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<v Speaker 1>drugs and alcohol and she was having sex with other

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<v Speaker 1>people bisexual, So either she was having sex with women

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<v Speaker 1>or she was having sex with men or both. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, But in that accounting, according to the NYPD,

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<v Speaker 1>she got angry and she stormed out of the courthouse

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<v Speaker 1>and she left. He denies, of course, Oh yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>he says, that's not what happened at all. That that

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<v Speaker 1>that and under his recounting the whole thing, they had

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<v Speaker 1>lunch before he left to go to work. Correct. Correct, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they had lunch and they went out for lunch. Correct.

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<v Speaker 1>Does anybody know what restaurants they went to? Is there

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<v Speaker 1>any way to back that up? Again? He didn't say.

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<v Speaker 1>My biggest gripe with his entire story is he didn't say,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what's gonna lead us into the end of

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<v Speaker 1>this theory, which may make it us in trouble. And

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<v Speaker 1>made lights and fires. I don't know, but what what

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<v Speaker 1>if Ron killed her. He's the only person who has

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<v Speaker 1>said most of the information we've given, and he's the

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<v Speaker 1>only one who said that she wasn't home that night

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<v Speaker 1>of the tenth, And that's entirely possible. But let's flip

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<v Speaker 1>the tables. What if he wasn't home. What if he

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<v Speaker 1>was out late and she called his cell phone at

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<v Speaker 1>four am and he came to a very angry wife saying,

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<v Speaker 1>where the hell have you been? I mean, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>completely possible. Or or she called him and said where

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<v Speaker 1>are you? And he was still angry from the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>came home drunk and angry, annoyed even more because she

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<v Speaker 1>had the gall to call him to see where he was.

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<v Speaker 1>And then something happened, whether intentional or not, something happened

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<v Speaker 1>and and she died from it. Or I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 1>there's also because again he censored everything. Maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>having an affair with someone male or female. And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, if you ever get on the forums, the

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<v Speaker 1>forums are lit up with the fact that she was

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<v Speaker 1>obviously having an affair because she was out not with

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<v Speaker 1>her husband, And I don't buy into that so much.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's say she was having an affair. Let's say

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<v Speaker 1>he knew she was having an affair and she got

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<v Speaker 1>home late or he got home late drunk, same scenario

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<v Speaker 1>plays out. They get into a fight because everything is brewing,

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<v Speaker 1>and suddenly she dies for what what ever happens, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he's forced to try and hide a body, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just happens to be that this city goes crazy

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<v Speaker 1>the next day and it, as Joe pointed out, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that makes it easier to hide a body. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean really, my point is is we only have

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<v Speaker 1>one source of information, and we we have railed against

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<v Speaker 1>that on so many stories before. I have to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>this one is such a heart wrenching story that it

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<v Speaker 1>took me about five reads through everything before suddenly the

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<v Speaker 1>source stood out as possibly the suspect. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I think that most people have not pointed at Ron

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<v Speaker 1>because he is viewed as collateral damage. He's the victim. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and either I'm right or wrong. I really hope I'm wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>but I kind of I I kind of doubt that

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<v Speaker 1>he has he killed her, but I think it's more

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<v Speaker 1>likely that somebody else killed or some random type of person.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if Ron's seeing anyone. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>seen anything. The last article about the story, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's two years old, and which would make that ten

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<v Speaker 1>plus year ten twelve years later he's did and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't mention that. What you think they would if he

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<v Speaker 1>had finally met somebody again, And they don't say that,

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<v Speaker 1>which makes you think that maybe he really is the

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<v Speaker 1>victim in this story. Yeah, I think the thing about

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<v Speaker 1>it is is that when the last heard of Ron's Ron,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they owned or rented that apartment

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<v Speaker 1>in the battery. I think they rented the rented it.

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<v Speaker 1>He gave up the apartment and moved in with her

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<v Speaker 1>parents and upstate New York. And the thing about it

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<v Speaker 1>is is that if he went ballistic on her one

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<v Speaker 1>night and wind up killing her accidentally or not, and

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<v Speaker 1>there almost certainly would have been a prior history of

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<v Speaker 1>domestic violence, and since she was so close to her family,

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<v Speaker 1>they wouldn't have known about it, and he probably wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be all that welcome in their home. It's hard, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always hard to tell what's domestic abuse. But yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to speculate. Maybe she would have

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<v Speaker 1>kept it quiet. I don't know, and there's no obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no reason to think that he was he was abusive.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, honestly, the best scenario in this is that

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<v Speaker 1>she was out late night, just crashed on someone's couch,

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<v Speaker 1>left her stuff there, came home, the buildings were collapsing,

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<v Speaker 1>and she thought, oh, I better go help, and then

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<v Speaker 1>died trying to rescue people. And that person didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>who she was, so they couldn't say I found your

1:12:45.479 --> 1:12:49.800
<v Speaker 1>wife's bags in my apartment when she crashed on my couch. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, but that's the other thing, that the bag

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<v Speaker 1>is going to have a receipt in it. No, it

1:12:56.200 --> 1:13:00.800
<v Speaker 1>isn't wallet. Yeah, I mean I how many times do

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<v Speaker 1>you get a receipt and you throw it in the

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<v Speaker 1>trash can as you look out of the store. I

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<v Speaker 1>never do that. I saw in the trash can. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get home. I do it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I just asked for no receipt. But in those days,

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<v Speaker 1>you do, you would you always got to receipt. But

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<v Speaker 1>most people, as you know, I worked in retail about

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<v Speaker 1>that time, and nine times out of ten you would say,

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<v Speaker 1>do you went through a seat with you were in

1:13:21.920 --> 1:13:24.519
<v Speaker 1>the bag? And they would say with me, please, with me, please,

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<v Speaker 1>with me, please, and then that stuff in their pocket. Yeah,

1:13:27.600 --> 1:13:29.400
<v Speaker 1>or they stuck it in their wallet and then came

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<v Speaker 1>home and put it in there, you know, little ledger

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. My parents did this stuff in the bag.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm dealing with it when I get but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but but it may have been on her. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>but I I I have to say, and I understand

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<v Speaker 1>why the why the family wants to believe that she

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<v Speaker 1>heroically died in the trade center. And that's the Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's what makes you feel better to fall asleep

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<v Speaker 1>at night. Yeah, I guess, sorry not to be labor

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<v Speaker 1>the point too much. In fairness, If it wasn't her

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<v Speaker 1>that was in the surveillance tape on the eleventh, she

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<v Speaker 1>could have been walking home, saw the plane crash, had

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<v Speaker 1>her bags, ran in with bags, dropped them or drop

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<v Speaker 1>them on the street or whatever. I'm sure that all

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<v Speaker 1>of the stuff that was left on the streets by

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<v Speaker 1>people trying to save people wasn't inventory super well yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and may have been or yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just too trashed to really be worth saving. But but again,

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<v Speaker 1>the problem I had, the big hitch They have with

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<v Speaker 1>that story is that no one knows who she spent

1:14:32.120 --> 1:14:33.760
<v Speaker 1>the night with or where she spent the night at.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, come forward, I have got to admit that

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<v Speaker 1>I have met somebody and had too much to drink

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<v Speaker 1>and crashed on their couch and woke up in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning and they were still crashed out, and I went

1:14:48.800 --> 1:14:52.000
<v Speaker 1>where am I I gotta go? And it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>I met them and I gave him all the impertinent

1:14:55.200 --> 1:14:58.320
<v Speaker 1>details the night before. All I knew was my name

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<v Speaker 1>was Steve, and I was some silly look dude with

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<v Speaker 1>a goatee, and then I beat feet before they woke up.

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<v Speaker 1>In fairness, possibly there weren't posters of you posted around,

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<v Speaker 1>right that person would see that poster and think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's that girl. Also, in fairness, you don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>go to the bar with bags full of comforters and

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<v Speaker 1>bedding and stuff. That's the other thing that's a little odd.

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<v Speaker 1>Think I don't know. There's I think there's just so

1:15:22.320 --> 1:15:24.759
<v Speaker 1>much odd with this story that there's not a good answer.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I think that for my own peace

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<v Speaker 1>of mind, I want to believe that she she rushed

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<v Speaker 1>to help. She yeah, she died helping people, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to believe that too. That's the way I want

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<v Speaker 1>to believe that, but I don't quite believe it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a hard time. There's so many other things.

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<v Speaker 1>we did. Yeah, wow, Hello, let's staring you right in

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