WEBVTT - The Spirited Actor - Christine Swanson (05/05/2020)

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and welcome to the Spirited Actor Podcast with me

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<v Speaker 1>Tracy Moore. I was a casting director for film and

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<v Speaker 1>TV and commercials for over thirty years. I transitioned to

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<v Speaker 1>a celebrity acting coach after I cast a film New

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<v Speaker 1>Jersey Drive with executive producers Spike Lee and director Nick Domez.

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<v Speaker 1>I auditioned every rapper from Biggie Smalls to Tupac, and

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<v Speaker 1>I realized that rappers and musical artists they needed help

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<v Speaker 1>transitioning to acting. My clients consist of musical artists from

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<v Speaker 1>Buster Rhymes to Eve, Missy Elliott, Angela Yee from The

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club, and Vanessa Simmons, to name a few. I

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<v Speaker 1>also coach sports stars and host as well. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>I have the best of both worlds. As a casting director,

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<v Speaker 1>I know exactly what they're looking for, and as an

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<v Speaker 1>acting coach, I can coach you to be remembered in

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<v Speaker 1>that room.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know actors want to get the job.

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<v Speaker 3>I get that, but being.

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<v Speaker 1>Remembered by casting director that is powerful meditation of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not famous until my mother has heard of you,

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<v Speaker 1>Jay Leno. There are plenty of reasons why people choose

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<v Speaker 1>this business. I feel that it is important that you

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<v Speaker 1>understand all the reasons why you are pursuing a career

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<v Speaker 1>as an actor. One of the most common reasons that

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard is to be famous. Fame has a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of consequences. The most obvious one is your lack of privacy.

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<v Speaker 1>If that doesn't bother you, then great, but if it does,

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<v Speaker 1>then you need to reevaluate this career choice. There are

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of perks in this business, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>important that you remain grounded and focused. One of the

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<v Speaker 1>ways you can do that is by understanding what your

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<v Speaker 1>true goals are. Today, I will respect my privacy. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the Spirited Active podcast. Asked with me Tracy Moore.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't even begin to tell you how much

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<v Speaker 1>love I have in my heart for this guest. I

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<v Speaker 1>met Christine Swanson, director Extraordinaire nineteen ninety eight. Christine looked

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<v Speaker 1>up at the date nice, Oh my god, And I

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<v Speaker 1>just remember you and Michael and such a beautiful couple

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<v Speaker 1>and just really fun, creative.

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<v Speaker 3>Filmmaking filmmaker's energy right, And.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you had a film And I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you gave me a postcard because I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>had some sort of documentation of it, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm definitely going. But as soon as I saw it,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she's gonna win, She's gonna win.

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<v Speaker 3>I did, and you won, and I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, Like it was such a great film. It

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<v Speaker 3>was really a great film.

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<v Speaker 1>So to be able to fast forward twenty twenty and

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<v Speaker 1>have you have a plethor of films and things we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to talk about audience again. You guys need to

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<v Speaker 1>get your pen and pencil computer however you document because

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<v Speaker 1>the jewels, the diamonds that are going to be dropped

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<v Speaker 1>in this interview. Nice, fine ladies and gentlemen, put your

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<v Speaker 1>hands together for Christine Swanson.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh cool, right, say it's true. Yep, I'm making it.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember. The thing that I love about you is

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<v Speaker 2>like and what has never changed is like and I

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<v Speaker 2>love that you call yours the spirited actor. But there

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<v Speaker 2>is a spirit that you embody that reeks of authentensity

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<v Speaker 2>and integrity that fast forward from when we first met

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<v Speaker 2>until now. I have a profound understanding of how that

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<v Speaker 2>is lacking in our industry.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, and the fact that you know we are reconducting

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like that is that's god like putting

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<v Speaker 4>me back together with people who are like minded, who

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<v Speaker 4>are genuine in their pursuit of this craft for purposes

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<v Speaker 4>outside of themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, that's selerity.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's you, Thank you, I received that that.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have to replay that all day today

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, that is the truth, and that is

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<v Speaker 1>something you know we're going to jump in because as

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<v Speaker 1>a female director in this industry, how are you embraced

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<v Speaker 1>because we do have a different energy, We have a nurturing,

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<v Speaker 1>we have you know, a focus.

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<v Speaker 3>How is that?

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<v Speaker 1>How has been how has that been received for you

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<v Speaker 1>as a director in television and.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, I think you know, if you remember me

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<v Speaker 2>starting out, I was kind of wide eyed, bushytail. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had no preconceived notion about how anything worked. All

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<v Speaker 2>I had was a passion and some modicum of talent

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<v Speaker 2>that I wanted to offer the industry. So on some level,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes when when all everything is like in sync, that

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<v Speaker 2>is enough talent and passion, okay, right strickly on the

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<v Speaker 2>creative side of things, talent and passion, it is enough, okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>In the industry, however, that's not the focus. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>two sides of a conversation. If if we're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>an artist, I don't look at myself as a female,

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<v Speaker 2>and I don't look at how I'm going to be embraced.

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<v Speaker 2>I I just go for the jugular, right, That's all

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<v Speaker 2>I know. Right right now, when you're you apply that

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<v Speaker 2>to the business side of it, Now, we have to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of look at a pre existing culture and hierarchy

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<v Speaker 2>that has very systemic issues that.

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<v Speaker 3>Have happened to do with you, with you really so

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<v Speaker 3>I can I can.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell you experiences and stories about that part of it,

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<v Speaker 2>which which which in many ways can look like a struggle.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just don't look at at struggles as obstacles.

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<v Speaker 2>I look at struggles as opportunities, right, how I can

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<v Speaker 2>mount myself in ways that I feel like God has

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<v Speaker 2>called me to function absolutely. So It's like I think

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<v Speaker 2>when people see the work and if they like it,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it parlays to other work. But I have never

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<v Speaker 2>suffered for lack of imagination or or work because of

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<v Speaker 2>systemic issues outside of myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and when you talk about being yourself, you were

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<v Speaker 1>You've been consistent in that energy. That was the like

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<v Speaker 1>energy that attracted both of us because we didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>each other. But it was like, hey, hey, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that was so that was a moment. But I

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<v Speaker 1>the challenges I can say that actors have right working

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how acts work with a male director versus

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<v Speaker 1>a female director, And me as an acting coach, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on those sets and I'm you, yeah, director, director.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you know.

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<v Speaker 1>But then you start to get specific. You're a female,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're a director of color, and it's like, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a creative being like and so to me, the

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<v Speaker 1>blessing is you have created a path, your own path,

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<v Speaker 1>and you continue to create that path where yes, how

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<v Speaker 1>great would it be to just be recognized as a director?

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<v Speaker 3>Period?

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<v Speaker 2>That said no, well yeah, And then the thing is again, Tersey,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look at myself in that way, like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look at myself as a female director, black director,

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm just looking at as I approach it as

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<v Speaker 2>a creative entity. And then when I work with actors.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, what I love to do is this, and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe it has to do with me. I think has

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<v Speaker 2>more to do with me being a mom than a fever.

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<v Speaker 2>So I like to do like just say, like when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm working on an episodic right, typically the usual cast.

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<v Speaker 2>They're comfortable in their skin and what I try to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I try to do is just ingratiate myselfs

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<v Speaker 2>to them in ways that they know that I'm here

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<v Speaker 2>for them if they need And then sometimes I have

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<v Speaker 2>to push them to try some things that they're not

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<v Speaker 2>being pushed about. Right. People that I pay a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of attention to are the day players, because one if

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<v Speaker 2>a day player is not on their toes, if they're

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<v Speaker 2>not present, you will lose a lot of time and

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<v Speaker 2>that's not something you can afford to do. So what

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<v Speaker 2>I to do, though, is to make sure that I

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<v Speaker 2>spend as much time as I can with the day players.

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<v Speaker 2>I like with them in advance. I'll call them, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>meet with them before their day to shoot, so they

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<v Speaker 2>get comfortable with me. So that so the first time

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<v Speaker 2>meeting me is not on set, right, because what happens

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<v Speaker 2>is nerves kick in and then they start, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>freak out because now they're they're just trying to please

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<v Speaker 2>me because this is the first time they've met me.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I do is put them at ease and

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<v Speaker 2>like have conversations with them of their day. One of shooting.

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<v Speaker 2>So then day one of shooting, we've broken the ice already,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we got the next level of our relationship

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<v Speaker 2>and hopefully they're a little bit more at ease, so

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<v Speaker 2>then we can tap in to really the creative parts

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<v Speaker 2>that we want to explore. So I'll do that. But again,

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's that could be a mommy thing. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, I think what actors need to know first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>is how rare that is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that. I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's happened most.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've just been really blessed to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the set for six years on all of Buster Rhymes

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<v Speaker 1>and Eves projects.

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<v Speaker 3>And when we have rehearsals, you know day.

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<v Speaker 1>Players and for those of you who don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>a day player is, that's an actor that works one

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<v Speaker 1>day in it. And so for Christine to take time

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<v Speaker 1>out of her day, which it just doesn't include actors.

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<v Speaker 1>It includes maybe going over wardrobe, or maybe there's special

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<v Speaker 1>effects or what there's a bunch of stuff going on

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<v Speaker 1>in your world, but you to take that time, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and recognize their value. They're that exactly. That's a blessing, Christine,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm I'm when they call first team to the set,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with first team and it's very rare, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that a day player again, you know, we will have

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<v Speaker 1>a rehearsal with the day player, but the director is

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<v Speaker 1>not focusing on the day player. The director is focusing

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<v Speaker 1>on my client or you know, the other celebrities.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, if the day player is not on point, guess what, yep,

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<v Speaker 2>I inherently so that I make sure like my day

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<v Speaker 2>is not going to be held up because the day

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<v Speaker 2>player is not showing up. And you my job is

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure everyone shows up. And that's the camera

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<v Speaker 2>and behind the camera. So that's my job as a director.

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't there are no small players in so

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<v Speaker 2>I don't you know, there's there's kind of like quality

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<v Speaker 2>to the set that I bring because that's just how

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<v Speaker 2>I like to work, right, And I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>And even for me as an acting coach on the

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<v Speaker 1>set and I'm watching the monitor, I have coached extras

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<v Speaker 1>because I go to them and I ask permission for

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<v Speaker 1>the from the director and I'm like, do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>want to do what they're doing?

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<v Speaker 3>It starts here, right, you know, why.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you walking across the street you don't need words

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us something, you know. So as as a director,

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<v Speaker 1>that is you guys, I pray that you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>really holding onto these gyms right here, because again it's

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<v Speaker 1>very rare. I've seen a director take that time and

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about rehearsal. Rehearsal is luxury. When they said

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<v Speaker 1>we have rehearsal, I would be jumping up a day

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<v Speaker 1>on the class.

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<v Speaker 2>When I'm out of town on a job, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like especially do an episodic and few so far, but like,

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm in New York City working, I'm not taking

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<v Speaker 2>the weekends off. You know. I'm calling my day players

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, hey, you want to meet up for coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling crew members and saying, hey, if you have time, let's,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, let's talk and meet up. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>trying to make people will more, but I'm I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 2>here and willing and ready to work and if you're amenable,

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<v Speaker 2>let's let's get a jump on this. You know. So

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<v Speaker 2>there's an episode of Chicago PD. I did this episode

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<v Speaker 2>six eight and it's the first time the black Mail

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<v Speaker 2>lead I had a love interest.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, Okay, sakes.

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<v Speaker 2>Were very high for him. So this season six right,

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<v Speaker 2>and so six years the brother ain't had a love interest, right, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>that's the script that I get. They gave me a

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<v Speaker 2>black love story, and so I went, I went up

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<v Speaker 2>to that actor and I said, listen, are you ready

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<v Speaker 2>to throw down? Like I'm ready, I'm ready. I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're ready, let's go fly. Right. So that I

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<v Speaker 2>did with him that he was never used to doing,

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<v Speaker 2>and one of those and because he's the right regular,

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<v Speaker 2>he's a series regular, right right, I was like, we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna rehearse on the weekends. Wow. So he and the

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<v Speaker 2>lead actress that I cast for that episode, they had

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<v Speaker 2>like this epic love scene. Right, it's his first love

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<v Speaker 2>scene ever, like on this series, on a show where

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<v Speaker 2>all the crew members know him, cast members know him,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're clowning him like, oh yeah, this is your

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<v Speaker 2>first love scene. So I knew he was gonna be moving. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The actress, she was a guest star and she was

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<v Speaker 2>kind of more seasoned in having done scenes before. So

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<v Speaker 2>what I did was over the weekend, I'm like, we're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna come together and we're just gonna rehearse some things. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had them go over lines with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean so much so that they had a level

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<v Speaker 2>of comfort that was kind of different than you would

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<v Speaker 2>see on a regular show where people are meeting for

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<v Speaker 2>the first time. And another thing that I did was

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<v Speaker 2>I actually practiced the love scene. Wow, like almost like

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<v Speaker 2>cut by cut, okay, as you know, love scenes are

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<v Speaker 2>just it's a very technical thing. Well, right, so I

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<v Speaker 2>threw a blanket on my bed in my apartment. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, guys hop on, okay, And we actually maneuvered

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<v Speaker 2>the love scene bit by bit. And as actors, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they had to know like, okay, can I touch you

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<v Speaker 2>here and I touch you there. It's like tongue or no,

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<v Speaker 2>no tongue. So everybody familiar with what they were used,

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<v Speaker 2>what they were okay with.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>We got all the kings out, we got all the

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<v Speaker 2>nerves out right. When they showed up on set for

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<v Speaker 2>that scene. I mean like it was like clockwork. It

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<v Speaker 2>was like we were able to discover more, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because we weren't. There was no stagnation in the newness

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<v Speaker 2>of having to do a love scene for the first

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<v Speaker 2>time for him because he had already practiced. Right. So

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I love working with actors in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>If they're available, right, it all makes them magic. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you have available for that though, you are.

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<v Speaker 3>A true blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you I've been on sets not only as

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<v Speaker 1>an acting coach, but my career started as a casting director,

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<v Speaker 1>and so to watch great directors and the way in

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<v Speaker 1>which you communicate you are an actor's dream because you're

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<v Speaker 1>speaking their language. There's a comfort in coming onto a

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<v Speaker 1>set as an actor and being able to communicate with

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<v Speaker 1>the director. I know that that refrigerator is filled by

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<v Speaker 1>a prop person, but I want to know what your

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<v Speaker 1>idea of what I eat right and if it aligns

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<v Speaker 1>and you are that director that I could have a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation where I absolutely what and that just brings so

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<v Speaker 1>much more depth and volume their performance. I think. So, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a confirm it. I'm gonna speak for the actors, Christine.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll speaking for the actors, because.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to.

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<v Speaker 1>Say day players turn into contract players, contract players turn

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<v Speaker 1>into stars and listen. And I remember reading an article

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<v Speaker 1>on Premiere magazine.

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<v Speaker 3>Michael J.

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<v Speaker 1>Fox worked with Ellen Chineworth and he said she was

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<v Speaker 1>the only casting director that treated him like a human

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<v Speaker 1>being because he was doing some extra work. She ended

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<v Speaker 1>up casting all of the Back to the Future, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's you know, celebrities have and they have choices

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<v Speaker 1>and when you do things like that for actors and

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<v Speaker 1>what you've done, yes, they have a comfort and a

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<v Speaker 1>dynamic before ormance. But as an actor, to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to give them that comfort so that they can do

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<v Speaker 1>the best that they can.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely what I love.

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<v Speaker 3>I love.

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<v Speaker 2>I love actors because to me as a as a

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<v Speaker 2>director and a filmmaker, they're like crayons to me, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I take that's what I color with, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>And so I just want to have flexibility, and when

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<v Speaker 2>they're more available, the more flex so you I just

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<v Speaker 2>to me, it's a comfort thing. And I really try

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<v Speaker 2>to create relationships with actors that put them at ease

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<v Speaker 2>and put them control, like they have a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>control in my world, you know, And I like to

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<v Speaker 2>create the space for them to feel safe then to

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<v Speaker 2>kind of be imagined in ways that I want them

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<v Speaker 2>to surprise me, you know. So it's just that's what

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<v Speaker 2>it's so fun for me, you know. So I don't

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<v Speaker 2>I take the weight out of it, because part of

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<v Speaker 2>it we all have to be connected and available. So

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<v Speaker 2>whatever tensions are around, my job is to make it

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<v Speaker 2>safe for actors. You know. I typically block for them

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<v Speaker 2>in ways that that you know, sometimes on network stuff

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<v Speaker 2>that I might get in trouble for. Like somebody said

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<v Speaker 2>to me, like, I don't know why she spends so

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<v Speaker 2>much time talking to day players, And I think it

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<v Speaker 2>came from like let's just say an A D or whatever. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>stay in your lane, yeah, and don't step in mind.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, this is what a director does. And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care if it's episodic and nobody else cares about

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<v Speaker 2>day players. You know, That's not my approach. So I

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in with the filmmaking approach. And like sometimes they're

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<v Speaker 2>just they're punching out product, right.

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<v Speaker 1>And the structure there's there's a template that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they set the template for law and order.

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<v Speaker 3>This is the way it's done, you know, color within

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<v Speaker 3>the lines.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know. I don't know how to do that,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, And that's what I know. It doesn't change

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that I'm on time and I'm on schedule.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I just elevate the product, you know. And

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<v Speaker 2>what I've learned is this, like I have to do

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<v Speaker 2>that because that's who I am. But that doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 2>everybody appreciates that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we can't change other people, right, but then

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<v Speaker 1>in who we are, people can conform in some way.

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<v Speaker 3>So you just you be you. I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm been an actress and I'm like, wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to be an actress just to have a conversasue

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<v Speaker 1>with Christine.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's so cool, which brings me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about the movie that's coming out now on Lifetime,

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<v Speaker 1>The Clark.

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<v Speaker 3>My god, I grew up with the Clarxists, love with

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<v Speaker 3>the Claque. How is that experience working?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? You know, I came on board this project. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm from Detroit, right, Yeah, when I heard that this

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<v Speaker 2>movie was being made and they approached me to direct it,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, as they were looking at several directors,

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<v Speaker 2>I told them, listen, I'm from Detroit and I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>good filmmaker. You want me on this project? Wow, That's

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<v Speaker 2>how I pitched myself. I'm like, you want me on

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<v Speaker 2>this project because the thing that Detroit teaches people is

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<v Speaker 2>is like this kind of grit that is that like,

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<v Speaker 2>in other words, don't don't get in a fight with me, because.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll lose wow, wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Or craziness. You know, depends on who you ask. Ask

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<v Speaker 2>my husband, So say that to say like that, the

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<v Speaker 2>Clark's sisters are who they are because of this internal

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<v Speaker 2>grit of their mother, Mattie Moth Clark, who defied her circumstances,

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<v Speaker 2>who defied like church politics, and created musical geniuses who

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<v Speaker 2>pretty much are responsible for how gospel music sounds today. Amen, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you're dealing with a woman who is of

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<v Speaker 2>that stature and of that level of grit and determination,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, yeah, you want me to direct this? Yeah, seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking in Maddie Moss clark anointing, so or

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<v Speaker 2>at least I felt that I felt like I understood

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<v Speaker 2>what she did, because if you talk about her, they're like, man,

0:24:07.960 --> 0:24:11.560
<v Speaker 2>she was mean, she did not play, but the fire

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<v Speaker 2>sounded good, right, right. She made history.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're talking a different time, you know, we're not

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<v Speaker 1>talking in nineteen nineties.

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<v Speaker 3>It was such a backdrop.

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<v Speaker 2>Of what she you know, history had to endure and

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<v Speaker 2>overcame in spite of so to me like that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of dedication and commitment to craft, right, despite the odds.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see that I don't see that today. So

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<v Speaker 2>I was very much inspired by everything that Maddie Moss

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<v Speaker 2>Clark stood for and if I could do justice in

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<v Speaker 2>any to bringing their story to light and them that

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<v Speaker 2>I want that shot. Wow, And I got it, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, There's so much I could talk about

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<v Speaker 2>in terms of the production part of it. But a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of the reason why this this movie is going

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<v Speaker 2>to pop two reasons. Two things. One is the incomparable

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<v Speaker 2>congenue Ellis.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, Oh my god, such a fan.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, And I just say this, Tracy, because

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<v Speaker 2>I've yes, you can, I've come you know, I you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was, I was. I was away from the industry

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<v Speaker 2>for about fifteen years raising my children. I've kind of

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<v Speaker 2>eased back into this and I've been able to work

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<v Speaker 2>with a lot of different people, and I've worked from

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<v Speaker 2>everybody in the past. Nobody can hold a candle to Ellis.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even exaggerating.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe you though. And she she's a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>more low key, right briging Mississippi, Like who lives in Mississippi? Right,

0:26:10.480 --> 0:26:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Morgan Freeman does, Yes, comes from Mississippi. When I you'll

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<v Speaker 2>see like when you see what what she does. It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>see and look, this is me as a directory working

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<v Speaker 2>with the Naja new ellis when you see what she's

0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 2>bringing this, I'm like, okay, all right, let me make

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:41.399
<v Speaker 2>space for this. Nice what she's doing and where she's

0:26:41.480 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 2>going is somewhere of the worldly. And like my job

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:50.880
<v Speaker 2>as a director is to notice that. See, I don't

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 2>there's what I can't teach her acting, that's not you

0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:58.240
<v Speaker 2>know what I'm saying, Like right, so in a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>with somebody of her training in caliber, Oh, it's like,

0:27:04.080 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 2>let me let me clear space, right, Oh, you want

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:11.080
<v Speaker 2>to try this, Okay, let me make this happen. Okay,

0:27:11.160 --> 0:27:13.399
<v Speaker 2>you want to go here. Let's see what that looks like.

0:27:13.640 --> 0:27:16.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's great, that's great. Now what if we added

0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 2>this on top? Okay, try that? Okay, now we're playing right. Yeah,

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:25.760
<v Speaker 2>it's when you're when you can hit that sweet spot

0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 2>right playing right? Gosh, that's heavy, I know, I know

0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:32.480
<v Speaker 2>that really.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of the things that in talking about character development, yes,

0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:46.800
<v Speaker 1>talking to actors, now, how important are classes or coaching

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:54.640
<v Speaker 1>to build these tools? Because I think that there are

0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:57.399
<v Speaker 1>classes and coaching and they're going to teach you acting

0:27:57.480 --> 0:27:59.960
<v Speaker 1>in schools, they're going to teach you the fundamentals and act,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you get on a set, it's a totally

0:28:02.840 --> 0:28:06.119
<v Speaker 1>different dynamic. And I don't think acting classes teach you

0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:07.560
<v Speaker 1>how to work on a set.

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 3>And so.

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:12.439
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's already a level of nervousness when you

0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:14.879
<v Speaker 1>go on because I'm working now, I'm a working actor.

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:18.840
<v Speaker 3>Then who's the director, who's the stars? You know, so.

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 1>There's subease. Like you said, they're not preparing the day

0:28:25.600 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 1>they meet you. They get prep time way before. So

0:28:28.840 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 1>there's work to be done. What is that work that

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you suggest that actors do?

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<v Speaker 2>So the second level of the second thing that makes

0:28:38.000 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 2>this movie pop and like and something that I attempted

0:28:41.560 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 2>was this. The original plan for Lifetime was to cast

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 2>actors to dub the singing parts that the original Clark

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 2>sisters were going to lay down the vocals for. When

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<v Speaker 2>I came a job, I was like, hmm, I don't

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 2>know about that, yeah, because you know, I'm I'm I

0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:08.800
<v Speaker 2>have a gospel ear. You know, my gospel of music

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 2>doesn't work like that. It doesn't work when people are

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 2>dubbing it, right, So I'm I think we need to

0:29:16.080 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 2>cast real singers and everybody was like, no, we don't

0:29:20.760 --> 0:29:23.920
<v Speaker 2>want to do that, No, no, no. So long story short,

0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 2>So this is my job as a director when you're

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 2>dealing with people who are when you're dealing with the network,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like, it's a different thing when it's in

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<v Speaker 2>my own independent film. But I had show them better

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<v Speaker 2>than tell them.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>What I did was so I had a friend that

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<v Speaker 2>I was working with for years on my on my musical.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew her to be like an extraordinary voice that

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<v Speaker 2>nobody really knew about in the world, in the world

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<v Speaker 2>of acting. Right. So, and she happened to look like Derinda. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I flew her to Detroit. Well, I told her

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<v Speaker 2>to meet me in Detroit now with Kiara Sheard, who

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<v Speaker 2>is Karen Clark, Sheard's daughter. And I knew the two

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<v Speaker 2>of them. I'm like, she's Karen, she's Derinda. And here

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<v Speaker 2>go sit out a keyboard sing a song, and I

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<v Speaker 2>videotape them singing. And then I had them both work

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<v Speaker 2>with an acting coach. I don't know if you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Josie Harris. So I brought Josie in, I flew her

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<v Speaker 2>into Detroit and worked with them on seam work, you know, extensively, extensively,

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<v Speaker 2>and then and and then so we put their acting

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<v Speaker 2>their audition tape. We filmed that too, so we sent

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<v Speaker 2>all of that to the producers. They sent it to

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<v Speaker 2>the network. They saw them singing, and what they felt

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<v Speaker 2>when they saw them singing on that tape, that's all

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<v Speaker 2>they see and that is all I tried to convey.

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<v Speaker 2>Singing live, it will make you feel something. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you feel that, we have to apply it to the

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<v Speaker 2>film because only in doing it that way do we

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<v Speaker 2>properly honor the legacy of the Clark sisters. So that

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<v Speaker 2>was my idea, was to bring in real singers. And

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<v Speaker 2>Donald Lawrence and his genius he was the music p

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<v Speaker 2>three told me he needed three voices, so we found

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<v Speaker 2>the voices that he blended together to create the Clark

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<v Speaker 2>Sister sound. And when the Clark sisters listened for the

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<v Speaker 2>first time, they were like, they sound better than us.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not even joking. Like my job, it's my job,

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<v Speaker 2>like as a director, to find the magic. So if

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<v Speaker 2>people can trust that, and I'm gonna tell you, in

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<v Speaker 2>this industry, it's predicated on fear. And the thing is, Tracy,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't stay in that language. I don't the language

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<v Speaker 2>of fear. So I'm like, I know, intuitively and instinctively,

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<v Speaker 2>can we, you know, make this, make this work? You know?

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<v Speaker 2>So they did and what you see is magic. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>It took acting. It took an acting coach, and actually

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<v Speaker 2>acting coaches, because I actually hired several to work with

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<v Speaker 2>actresses because they are your singers, and you are new

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<v Speaker 2>to this medium, and there's a lot that you don't understand.

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<v Speaker 2>So I mean, you know, I'm not going to say

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<v Speaker 2>that was easy. Right. Sometimes with singers, they take for

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<v Speaker 2>granted how easy it is for them to sing. They're

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<v Speaker 2>used to performance in that way. They think, however, erroneously,

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<v Speaker 2>that they can apply their point of view about performance

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<v Speaker 2>as a singer to performance as an actor. And they

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<v Speaker 2>are really exclusive. They could not be no different, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>or more different, and that's something that took a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of time to ease them into. And I dare say, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that more work can can be had post

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<v Speaker 2>movie if you want an actress, So I cannot. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so excited to say enough important acting training and acting

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:30.400
<v Speaker 2>practice than here to work NonStop character work and rehearsals

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<v Speaker 2>are important to crafting a performance. When this is not

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<v Speaker 2>your medium, it's important when it is your medium. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot tell you how much Andrea new ellis stressed rehearsals.

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<v Speaker 2>She would be the first one to arrive and the

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<v Speaker 2>last one to leave, you hear me. So people watch

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<v Speaker 2>and learn, watch the work ethics.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so yes and respect that I want to go on. However,

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<v Speaker 1>we're at the ends by I have to. I have

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<v Speaker 1>to invite you back because there are some goods. I

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<v Speaker 1>am so grateful for everything that you've given the audience

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<v Speaker 1>and I actors, you are blessed because you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>quickly just being in situations where directors their main concern.

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<v Speaker 3>Is the shot, what is the shot like? Or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>or a.

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<v Speaker 1>Director or an actor is on set and they're preparing

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<v Speaker 1>for an emotional scene and they they do it, and

0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I see them struggling to find that space that you

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<v Speaker 1>are laughing. Well, everybody's key keying and laughing and hanging out,

0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you know, and I'm protective like that.

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:53.080
<v Speaker 1>So I run over and I'm like, come on, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>give them that space, you know. So I just appreciate love,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm speaking for all actors like you are Rare.

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<v Speaker 3>I am very grateful. You are a blessing for us.

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<v Speaker 2>One thing, if it doesn't work for me emotionally, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care about the shot. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that because that's why I'm I'm on the

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<v Speaker 1>set because that's where I come from as an acting coach.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm emotional. I want to, you know, connect and feel.

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<v Speaker 1>But you don't care what the shot. I mean the shot.

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<v Speaker 1>I trust the shot. But I'm telling you I've gone

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<v Speaker 1>to directors and said, I don't really understand producers. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really understand what the director is saying to my client.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're like, you know, Chasey, honestly, we don't either.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not good.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got to be able to communicate something, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna we're gonna have more conversations about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna invite you back on that is a guarantee.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so pakful, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to thank our guests again, director,

0:35:54.680 --> 0:36:01.080
<v Speaker 1>extraordinary filmmaker. You're just a beautiful spirit, Christine, And thank

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<v Speaker 1>you again.

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<v Speaker 3>So people talk to you soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And next we have class in session on the Spirited

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<v Speaker 1>Actor Podcast with.

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<v Speaker 3>Me Tracy Moore.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Spirited Actor Podcast with me Tracy Moore,

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<v Speaker 1>and now my favorite segment class in session.

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<v Speaker 3>And today we're going to work on monologues, you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is the first time that we've really talked

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<v Speaker 1>about monologues and seen a monologue. So we have Spirited

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<v Speaker 1>Actor alumni Julisa Capri who's here with us. Julisa say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>good to see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Good to see you too, healthy in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's just it's good to see you look good. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us the title and the character of the monologue.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, the title of this is, uh, this play is Jitney.

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<v Speaker 3>It's by August Wilson and the character name Okay, excellent,

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<v Speaker 3>So whenever you're ready, Eric Gimmy was.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>A house, no, Dnall.

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<v Speaker 2>You ain't bought no house without me.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, how many times in your life do you

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<v Speaker 5>get to pick out a house. You bought a den

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<v Speaker 5>for Darnell, That's what you did so you can sit

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<v Speaker 5>down there and watch your football games.

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<v Speaker 3>What about the kitchen, I mean, the bathroom? How many

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<v Speaker 3>windows does the bedroom have? I mean, is there a

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<v Speaker 3>place for Jesse to play?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>You can't just go and surprise me without a house.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was supposed to.

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<v Speaker 3>Say, oh, Darnelle, that's nice.

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<v Speaker 5>At what point I would have But I'm not seventeen

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<v Speaker 5>no more have responsibilities.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know if.

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<v Speaker 5>I got to hook up for the wash and the

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<v Speaker 5>dry because I gotta watch Justice clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know if I got a yard, and

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<v Speaker 3>then do it have a fence? And how about Chester

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<v Speaker 3>gotta go to school.

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<v Speaker 5>I ain't worried about where to put the TV at.

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<v Speaker 5>It's what's important to me. And you're supposed to know that.

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<v Speaker 5>Dark Now you're supposed to know what's important to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Like like I'm supposed.

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<v Speaker 5>To know what's important to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>I am not asking you to do this by yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I am here with you just together, see

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<v Speaker 5>house and no house. We still ain't got no food money.

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<v Speaker 3>But you would have come and told me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>if you would have, if you would have shared this

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<v Speaker 3>with me, we.

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<v Speaker 5>Could have went to my mother, got eighty hours for

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<v Speaker 5>the house and still have money for food.

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<v Speaker 1>You just don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Wrong done now, I mean you you did the right thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Just good at all?

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<v Speaker 2>All?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of power in that monologue, A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>power So this is the deal. A monologue is a

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<v Speaker 1>piece for you as actors to choose, right, So you

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:24.319
<v Speaker 1>choose between comedy or dramatic. This was clearly dramatic and

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes. It's nothing. You know, we don't go past

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>This piece is really good for you because I can

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<v Speaker 1>see the versatility.

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<v Speaker 3>And your talent.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to use this two minutes to show all

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<v Speaker 1>of the ebbs and flows and the valleys. Right, So

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<v Speaker 1>I want to start out first of all with it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about the house. Let's talk about the truth. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not about the house. It's about the fact that what

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<v Speaker 1>what is it really really about.

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<v Speaker 6>The fact that he's not sharing things with me, like

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<v Speaker 6>he's doing things and sneaking welcome do it by myself,

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<v Speaker 6>and that doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like a relationship to me.

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<v Speaker 6>And I feel like I'm the one taking the brunt

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<v Speaker 6>of making sure that we're being responsible parents and he's

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<v Speaker 6>still just being the way we were before.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you guys met when you were seventeen, How old

0:40:16.520 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 1>was he?

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<v Speaker 3>He was eighteen?

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<v Speaker 1>We were young with you didn't know anything, and the

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<v Speaker 1>only reference that you guys have unless there's somebody in

0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 1>your life that's guiding you.

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<v Speaker 3>And mentoring you is what you guys know when you were.

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<v Speaker 1>Kids, So that he hasn't moved from that because he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't know anything else.

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<v Speaker 3>You've moved from it. Why have you moved from it?

0:40:38.800 --> 0:40:40.120
<v Speaker 3>What made you move from it?

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<v Speaker 6>We have a child, like, you have no choice but

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<v Speaker 6>to grow up when you have a child, like, especially

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<v Speaker 6>if you wants to be a good parent.

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel like in the.

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<v Speaker 6>Midst of this, we're starting to grow apart because I'm

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:55.359
<v Speaker 6>parenting and he's still being the child. And I don't

0:40:55.360 --> 0:40:58.359
<v Speaker 6>need to raise two children. I want to raise one

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<v Speaker 6>collectively with myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the other.

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<v Speaker 1>So you see how you have in this conversation with me,

0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:07.000
<v Speaker 1>That's how you need to have this conversation with him.

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:10.880
<v Speaker 1>But if you know in a conversation there's levels, especially

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<v Speaker 1>when we're trying to convince someone, you know, we might

0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:17.280
<v Speaker 1>go through guilty, We might go through you know, being manipulative.

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<v Speaker 1>So in the beginning, what is the value of a house?

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<v Speaker 1>He can surprise you at a bouquet of flowers, but

0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:25.560
<v Speaker 1>to surprise you at a house.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, there was background.

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<v Speaker 1>Check in, credit check in, like this was really really important,

0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:36.439
<v Speaker 1>And there's a trust thing there. So there's a lot

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:40.759
<v Speaker 1>of things that you're like, it's a house, there's responsibilities.

0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:44.239
<v Speaker 1>We as a couple should talk about these things. But

0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:48.520
<v Speaker 1>he's only reacting and acting from what he knows, which

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>is not So.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to break this down to him, and that's

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 3>what you should think about it in the beginning. You know, I.

0:41:57.920 --> 0:42:01.200
<v Speaker 1>Instead of being angry, build your self to that anger

0:42:01.239 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 1>because that's engaging to watch. And also I like how

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:08.480
<v Speaker 1>you build yourself to the point of like almost exhaustion

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:13.399
<v Speaker 1>and tears to get him to understand what you are

0:42:13.440 --> 0:42:18.759
<v Speaker 1>trying to say. Okay, and we need to know at

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<v Speaker 1>the end does he get it, because your reaction is

0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:24.479
<v Speaker 1>going to let us know whether you know, you throw

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>your hands and air like a you know what I mean.

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:29.400
<v Speaker 3>We know he didn't get it.

0:42:30.280 --> 0:42:32.640
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. So you need to let

0:42:32.719 --> 0:42:38.440
<v Speaker 1>us see through this character what the resolution was. Okay,

0:42:39.080 --> 0:42:42.319
<v Speaker 1>digest some of that stuff. Also, it's really important that

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<v Speaker 1>actors remember to keep your inner voice working. Your inner

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<v Speaker 1>voice always has to work. For instance, you know when

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<v Speaker 1>you said seventeen, it's like, yeah, I know, we were kids, like,

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<v Speaker 1>but we brought up We're not seventeen anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>If You're voice is working. There's things that.

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<v Speaker 1>Go through women's minds when we think, like this should

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<v Speaker 1>be so simple.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I gotcha, all right, Okay, let's do it again.

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<v Speaker 7>A house, A house?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know. You ain't want no house without me? How

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<v Speaker 3>many times in your life do you get to pick

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<v Speaker 3>out a house?

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<v Speaker 5>You want a den for Donnell, that's what you did

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<v Speaker 5>so you can you can sit down there and watch

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<v Speaker 5>your football games.

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<v Speaker 2>What about the kitchen, the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, how many windows does the bedroom?

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<v Speaker 2>Hat is any place for Jesse to play. You can't

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<v Speaker 2>just go.

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<v Speaker 5>And surprise me with a house, and I'm supposed to say, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 5>oh that's nice.

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<v Speaker 3>At one point I would have, but I am not seventeen.

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<v Speaker 3>No more responsibilities. I want to know if we got

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<v Speaker 3>to hook up for the washing and the dryer, because

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta wash Joseph me. I want to know if we.

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<v Speaker 8>Got a yard and do have a fense? Yes, you

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<v Speaker 8>gotta go to school. I worried about where to put

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<v Speaker 8>the TV at. It's not a most important.

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<v Speaker 5>To me, and you supposed to know that, Dunnell. You're

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<v Speaker 5>supposed to know it's important to me. It's like I

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<v Speaker 5>am supposed to know it's important to you.

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<v Speaker 3>You know I am not asking me to do this

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<v Speaker 3>by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>I am here with you. We are in this together.

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<v Speaker 2>But see a house or no house.

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<v Speaker 3>We still ain't got no food money.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you to come it told.

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<v Speaker 3>Me if you want to share this with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Mother got eighty dollars for my house and still had

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<v Speaker 2>money for food.

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<v Speaker 5>You did it all know, you did the right thing,

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<v Speaker 5>but you you just did.

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<v Speaker 2>It all wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't get it. He doesn't get it. He's never

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<v Speaker 3>gonna get it. And did it feel better? Did it

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<v Speaker 3>feel different?

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<v Speaker 2>It did feel different?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, like you got to talk to him.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta get him to understand.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the end, raise the stakes when you say

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<v Speaker 1>you did it all wrong, you did it right because

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<v Speaker 1>he's standing there thinking, I did the best thing in.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole wide world.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a house for the woman I love in

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<v Speaker 1>my child, you know what I mean. So connect with

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<v Speaker 1>what he's feeling a little bit more and that because

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<v Speaker 1>the tears are already there. But that's going to give

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<v Speaker 1>you something else when you see his pain. Look at

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<v Speaker 1>his pain.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So you're saying that you said, raise the stakes.

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<v Speaker 1>When you Yeah, because when you say, you did it

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<v Speaker 1>all wrong, but you did it right.

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<v Speaker 3>But you did it all wrong. You did the right thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You just approached it wrong. You should have approached it.

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<v Speaker 1>You should have approached it by sitting down and saying,

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<v Speaker 1>let's together by house.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you want?

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<v Speaker 1>Three bedrooms, one bath. He should have done that, but

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't. And the way he did it was wrong

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<v Speaker 1>to you, but it's right. But in that exchange you

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<v Speaker 1>should feel his emotion because when you say you did

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<v Speaker 1>it all wrong, I mean naturally, he could be like wow, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're like, no, no, no, no, you did it right,

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<v Speaker 1>which lifts him up a little bit. But you did

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<v Speaker 1>it wrong the way you approached it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's okay, okay, excellent. Thank you so much. Dialogue, Kay, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you for being in class and session.

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<v Speaker 1>And next we have give love, and now it's time

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<v Speaker 1>forgive love.

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<v Speaker 3>Chance never helps.

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<v Speaker 1>Those who do not help themselves. When you find yourself

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<v Speaker 1>going through challenging times, you should know this too shall pass.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know that it's easy to say, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know that it sounds cliche, but there's a favor I

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<v Speaker 1>have this favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>Song by George Benson.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, this is years ago. This is going to the

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<v Speaker 1>archives people.

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<v Speaker 3>But he has a.

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<v Speaker 1>Song that says everything must change, Winter turns the spring,

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<v Speaker 1>wounded hearts must heal. And when you're caught up in

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<v Speaker 1>a challenging time, when you're caught up in a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of emotional care, yes you can't really see clearly. But

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<v Speaker 1>when you sit still and you envision that you take

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<v Speaker 1>that breath. Yes it is challenging. Yes we all are

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<v Speaker 1>going through this. But one day we're going to go outside.

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<v Speaker 1>One day we're going to take a breath. One day

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to let that sun. And I think one

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<v Speaker 1>of the most beautiful exchanges that I've had with Soriah

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<v Speaker 1>is just being so grateful for everything that you have.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything. She said to me the other day, Grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going to the store really super quickly, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, Grandma, I don't need any toys.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I'm good. I got toys.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought, wow, that's so cool, because she really

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<v Speaker 1>is taking time and playing with her dolls and her

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<v Speaker 1>paints and putting her crayons back in the right place,

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<v Speaker 1>making sure she doesn't break them. There's so much grade

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<v Speaker 1>during this time, and gratitude is magic. And if we

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<v Speaker 1>all spend ten minutes a day, just sitting in a

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<v Speaker 1>space and being grateful for what we have. We can

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<v Speaker 1>produce and manifest more of that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's going to happen, and that's going to come.

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<v Speaker 1>But just as we are doing all the right things

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<v Speaker 1>now and washing our hands and staying inside, we have

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<v Speaker 1>to be conscious that when this changes, we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>have a different outlook. We're going to have a different perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's okay. Don't fear the unknown, embrace it with

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<v Speaker 1>love and gratitude. Thank you for joining us on the

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<v Speaker 1>Spirited Actor podcast with me Tracy Moore. I look forward

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<v Speaker 1>to our next Spirited podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you,