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Speaker 1: Hey, wake up, weak up. So I'm a big miss.

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Speaker 1: Rachel Standy is no bad. I hope she gets a

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Speaker 1: Nobel Peace Prize one day. I'm at a Noble Peace price. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Nobel Peace Prize.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're Nobel Peace. Yeah, Noble.

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Speaker 1: She should get that one too. Fread's show is on

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Speaker 1: each Thursday.

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Speaker 2: March twenty sixth The Frend Show is Not High. Kaitlin

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Speaker 2: No Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Kiki Morning Shelby is Shelley

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Speaker 2: about twenty five minutes him? Now? Two hundred bucks is

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Speaker 2: the prize? We can beat her in the showdown. Five

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Speaker 2: pop culture questions, The Entertainer Report, Waiting by the phone,

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Speaker 2: why did somebody get ghosted? Blogs? And the Jonahs Brother's

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Speaker 2: keyword coming up? What are you working on?

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Speaker 3: K We'll talk to Savannah Guthriees part one of her

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Speaker 3: interview this morning.

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Speaker 1: Also Shilah buff because what the hell?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 1: What the hell? Because? What the hell? Man?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, That's how i feel a lot of texts about

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Speaker 2: this age of attraction. And I'm not saying this to qualify,

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Speaker 1: But you know, because people get they're.

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Speaker 2: So sensitive even though this show is not inflammatory. But

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Speaker 2: if the age gap thing works for you, then fine,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not here to yuck. You're youm you know,

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Speaker 2: you know me. I don't care what you are into

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Speaker 2: I have no judgment, honestly, But I think if you

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Speaker 2: watch this show, you'll see what I'm talking about. And

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Speaker 2: I think when you can see it from that perspective,

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Speaker 2: all right, so there's there's certainly angles here. Maybe this

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Speaker 2: and it's it's uncomfortable the way they deal with conflict,

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Speaker 2: If you're twenty two years old, you don't know what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if it makes you uncomfortable, then you have full

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Speaker 3: It's your own feeling though about a show.

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Speaker 2: Again, watch it, let me know what you think, let

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Speaker 2: me know, And I'm not getting paid to tell you

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Speaker 5: like he's ticket is right. He needs to get he

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Speaker 5: needs to enjoy life. I'm just mad that they didn't

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Speaker 1: Clearly should have been the three of us. Well, that's true.

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Speaker 2: One of the oldest women I've dated, in comparison with

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Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, you ate with that, by the way, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I've dated people who are younger than I am,

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Speaker 1: What else have you do?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? Is it Reagan? Is that your name?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Reagan? What is happening?

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Speaker 2: I heard a little bit about this story off the air,

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Speaker 2: But what you have to do? What is the story?

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Speaker 6: I brought my mom over. They locked eyes and it

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Speaker 2: Your husband's friend, who is currently sleeping on couches, which

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Speaker 2: again it happens, you know, people hit rough times is

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Speaker 6: I think she's I think she's like fifty.

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Speaker 1: And how old is this guy?

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Speaker 4: He's like he's forty, So not the worst?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, where where does he live? Why didn't he just

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Speaker 6: That's a long story.

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Speaker 1: She's still married my dad, she's married to another.

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Speaker 2: Man, but she's using your couch where your husband's friend lives,

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Speaker 2: Tales oldest time I heard that one before crazy Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: That's a real knee slapper, that one fans I know, right, Wow?

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Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, Reagan, I'm sorry, and I

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Speaker 2: And it's not that they're not entitled to that, but like,

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I don't.

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Speaker 6: He doesn't really go anywhere, so apparently not.

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Speaker 2: I guess she just comes to the couch and meets

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Speaker 2: and I wish it would Yeah, yeah, yeah, good.

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Speaker 6: Luck, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: All right, whoa, that's a lot. That's a lot, I feel.

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Speaker 2: I just like the lady I was telling you about,

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Speaker 2: who's she's attractive, lady fifty four years old, he's twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: I think she got a twenty two to twenty five,

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Speaker 2: more sense age wise, but like she won't tell her kids,

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Speaker 2: her own children, how old, her potential I don't see

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Speaker 2: it working out, but her potential future stepfather is. And

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Speaker 2: yet this twenty nine year old is sitting there looking

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Speaker 2: his mother.

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Speaker 1: It's weird. It's weird.

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Speaker 3: I heard a relationship built on lies has a high

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Speaker 2: And again it's not weird because inherently of the age

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I've been the child. It's weird. Literally, little

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