WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: She’s a Crier

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Danika is on the phone with us today.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to do a second date update to a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Mike. Apparently they met online and went out,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's very upset that she's not getting a call back. Dannika,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Um? Um? You know, I'm all right,

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<v Speaker 1>alrighty are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, I feel like I screwed up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit on this one. So you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to cry. I just I feel, really, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel pretty emotion and I just, oh, I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it was my fault. Are you are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you nervous to be doing the second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Is that part of the reason that you're emotional?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you this emotional about the date that you went on?

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<v Speaker 1>Like everything? And I mean it's obviously not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>call be all emotional on the radio. I just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when I start, I just, you know, sometimes I can't tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Take a few breaths. We're here to help you out,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Oh gosh, So tell us about the date. Oll.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. I was supposed to meet him for

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and my dog, my dog Monkey, I would walk

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<v Speaker 1>her before I left, and she wouldn't go to the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like she just wouldn't go, and I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>leave because she'll go in the house, you know. Being

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes late, five minutes late, deal, something happened to

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<v Speaker 1>your dog? No, my dog is like just she's fine. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe you were upset because something happened to

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<v Speaker 1>your dog. I'm just thinking that, like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>should have been there and I should have been on time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just you know, I think it's so like

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<v Speaker 1>poor okay, but you were like to be tardy. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you were. You were five minutes late, though, Danica. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not the end of the world. This is so bad,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, all right, okay, Heydnica, five minutes is

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<v Speaker 1>not really a big deal. Fifteen twenty thirty minutes late.

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of gets annoying. Five minutes later, trust me,

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt he was really that upset about it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean five minutes. It's fine, maybe fine for a

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<v Speaker 1>normal date, but like, wait, if it's like the one

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<v Speaker 1>you know that it's the one you think is your

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<v Speaker 1>dream man? Did you think this guy was your dream man?

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<v Speaker 1>I met him online and he was like everything that

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<v Speaker 1>I want? Okay, wait, hold on, did you? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ever even you? I don't. I'm not like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not like take it to breath again. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be okay, Danica, did you talk to him for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time before you guys' first date? Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I talked a couple of times, which is its

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<v Speaker 1>profiles like everything. It's okay. I mean, I know it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny to some people, but it is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of how I react. Well, it's not necessarily laughing at

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<v Speaker 1>you crying about the situation. It's more it was five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes late. Yeah, and for most people they would not

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<v Speaker 1>get that worked up. If that's how you express yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how you express yourself. I go, so did you

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<v Speaker 1>did you were you? Were you this visibly upset when

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<v Speaker 1>you actually met him? Well? I was, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I I was driving, and you know, of

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<v Speaker 1>course I was like, you know, getting emotional on the

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<v Speaker 1>car and I was mad at my dogs, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and like that's hard. And then I got to the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and you know, I realized I hadn't even pulled

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<v Speaker 1>my hair or was everywhere, and so I was just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be you know, I tried to play it

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<v Speaker 1>off so it was obvious that you had been crying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean yeah, I was like use myself in the

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<v Speaker 1>bathroom to like go like jut it together, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I came out and I started just lost it again,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, I just know he was so

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<v Speaker 1>he was so sweet, and I started telling him about Monkey,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was what did he do when you started crying?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like spoke really surprised. He's a sensitive person, so

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<v Speaker 1>sure he was upset for me, but he was like

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<v Speaker 1>being strong. So you guys continued the day after you

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<v Speaker 1>were crying about your dog. Yeah, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he was. I told him what I happened

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<v Speaker 1>with Monkey, and you know, it made me feel better.

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<v Speaker 1>We had eaten and the day was sort of you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of it's over anyway, So okay, how did it

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<v Speaker 1>end with him? Um? He gave me a hug and

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<v Speaker 1>I like a really super loving a hug. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he was he just made me feel oh better. And

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<v Speaker 1>I said, can I, you know, maybe can I get

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<v Speaker 1>a do over? Like this isn't me, this isn't how

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<v Speaker 1>I am. And I texted him like a bunch of times,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not not not in many, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like enough that I probably thought I would hear back

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<v Speaker 1>from him by now. So I don't understand why you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't let me just have a do over. Yeah, but Denika,

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<v Speaker 1>if I went out on a date with you like

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<v Speaker 1>that and you started bawling on the date, it would

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<v Speaker 1>probably freak me out either that artists start crying too,

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<v Speaker 1>and there would just be a mess just to both

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<v Speaker 1>of us at the table. Well you know, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I get emotional and that's just like who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I think that you like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't love him, but I mean if I like

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<v Speaker 1>this guy a lot, WHOA, I'm worried about you, Denika,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is just the part where we find out

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<v Speaker 1>what happened on the date and you haven't even really

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<v Speaker 1>been able to keep it together. I'm totally getting it

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<v Speaker 1>together now, listen. Yeah, I totally am are right right now, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. We'll play a song. Oh, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>him and get your second date update. All right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to be strong when we come back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I'm totally gonna I'm totally gonna like wash

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<v Speaker 1>my face and like get it together. It's good, okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you cry twice to him, I guarantee that's

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<v Speaker 1>going to scare him off. I'll tell you what, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna cry, even if I get a little shaky.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll hold the phone away from my mouth. No one

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<v Speaker 1>could hear. If at any moment you just hang up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'll pretend like the connection dropped out if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to cry for a bit, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>get you back on the phone after Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>just hang on, I do this, Okay, hold on rooking

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<v Speaker 1>Jube in the morning. Second. You know, normally during a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, it's the second part of the phone call,

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<v Speaker 1>when we get the couple on the phone together and

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<v Speaker 1>they talk that tears come out. It's already happened a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm actually hesitant to do today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't know if Danika, who is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us right now. Can handle it? Danika? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing all right? Yeah, I'm you know, keeping it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try and keep it together. Yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you definitely need to if you're just tuning in. Danika

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call Mike. They met online, went out for

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<v Speaker 1>a date. She was five minutes late for the date.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very emotional about it. She was crying on

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<v Speaker 1>the way to the date. When she got there, she

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<v Speaker 1>started to clean herself up, and then when she actually

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<v Speaker 1>sat down with the guy, she lost it again and

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<v Speaker 1>ended up crying during the date. And she isn't getting

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<v Speaker 1>a call back. And I'm assuming I don't know yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm guessing that's the reason why, Dannika, it would

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<v Speaker 1>be very weird for me to go out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl and have her cry on a first date. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know it seems weird, but that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna apologize to him. And so I'm I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>normal person, you know. Can I make one suggestion Because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a person I cry at every emotion. If you

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<v Speaker 1>start to get emotional, pinch yourself. That's my trick because

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<v Speaker 1>it helps you get out of your mindset of going

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<v Speaker 1>down that path, and then it hurts because you pinch

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and you cry more pain. Yeah, why did you

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<v Speaker 1>pinch me? I'm willing to try anything. I will do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel strong right now? Do you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you could do it? I do? I do. Took some

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<v Speaker 1>deep breath. What's my face? Okay, I'm gonna dollar phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Get him on the phone and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, Okay, you got this? Hell? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Mike please? This is Mike, Mike, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Um, I'm sorry. Where are you calling?

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<v Speaker 1>From Brooke and Jewil in the Morning radio show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did I win something? No, you didn't. I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because we recently got an email from somebody who went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with you, okay, and she's been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get a second date, but you haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>returning any of her phone calls or text messages. So

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<v Speaker 1>she asked if I could get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why. Seriously. Her name is Danika, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm gonna take a wild guess and say

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<v Speaker 1>that you remember this date. Yes, you Um, so she

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<v Speaker 1>she emailed you to call me. Yeah, it's a segment

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<v Speaker 1>we do on our show called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a little awkward. Okay, what did you think of Dannika?

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<v Speaker 1>First off? I mean, Dannika is a really sweet individual. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she has a really, really great heart. I

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<v Speaker 1>would just say that she is a very highly emotional person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've talked to her about your date, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>obvious from our conversation that she's very emotional. Okay, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so then you got a little bit of that. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm I'm a sensitive guy, and um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a pisces. I pick up on people's vibes, you know, immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>So I get it. But I mean, it was I've

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<v Speaker 1>never experienced anything like that day ever in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>She told us about it, and now she was five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes later and she was very upset about that, and

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<v Speaker 1>she had been crying before. God, I thought, yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>ran in the restaurant and I had no idea what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on. She had mascarrett down her face and she

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<v Speaker 1>was telling me about her dog named Monkey, and she

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<v Speaker 1>literally like started crying hardcore at the table. And you think,

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<v Speaker 1>like that first, did you think like the dog died

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<v Speaker 1>or something. That's that's That's exactly what I thought. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in shock a because of the way she's reacting

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<v Speaker 1>to it. But then she was so honestly upset that

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<v Speaker 1>it was making me upset, you know, and I felt

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<v Speaker 1>so bad for her, and but I didn't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to do. So she's freaking balling, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting here like I'm you know, she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got me cheery eyed, and you know, here were like

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<v Speaker 1>a mess sitting in the restaurant, like everybody's staring at us. Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be awkward. That would definitely be awkward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the most awkward experience I've ever had in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel bad for I mean, she's got a

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<v Speaker 1>great heart. Yeah, it sounds like she's a very sensitive person.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I would do if I was

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<v Speaker 1>in your shoes. I must sucker when girls cry. Why

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<v Speaker 1>do you think I can't ever break up with girls?

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<v Speaker 1>Because they always like to cry as soon as you

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<v Speaker 1>say I don't want to be with you, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well say so. I don't know what I

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<v Speaker 1>would do if I was in your shoes. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like finally when we laughed. I mean I was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much in like a really weird mirrored afterwards. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>when you when somebody is like deep, deeply emotional for

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour, like I was, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a wreck. Quite I would have I would have felt

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally spent after that too, I mean I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's the right word you use, totally spent all

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<v Speaker 1>because she was five minutes late to your day, because

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<v Speaker 1>she was late, and because yeah, because she couldn't get

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<v Speaker 1>her dog to use the bathroom or something like. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's the craziest part, Mike. I have to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>this right now. Danica is actually on the phone listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? Yeah? I am. I'm like, um, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so um. I At first, I just want to say, um,

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<v Speaker 1>listening to you the way that you just told our

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<v Speaker 1>story was so sweet and you're so you're such a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy, and I don't know what, Why are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you crying now? Out Danneka, You're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>me stress up here? Why are you crying? Because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to, like, you know, like I'm actually trying

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<v Speaker 1>not to cry and that's like making me cry more

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<v Speaker 1>because like I really care about you and I really

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<v Speaker 1>thought that, like, you know, after all we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>I'm line. You know, I just knew like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>such a good person, and I and and then I

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<v Speaker 1>came and then I ruined everything and I and I

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<v Speaker 1>totally a terrible I just fault you stop stop stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're not a terrible person. You didn't ruin anything, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I'm sorry. That is you know that I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't deal with the situation properly. I apologize, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like we we talked and so many times and

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<v Speaker 1>was like you know, building up towards the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I show up and and I'm late, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>so inconsiderate and I felt so stupid. And no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no, no no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay. You do late.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's that happens. It's not happen any reasons,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Oh no, no, no no, don't don't cry. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't try trying. I swear, I just want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that. And I know you've

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<v Speaker 1>been avoiding my my calls and my text and I

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<v Speaker 1>and I understand, I have it. I'm sorry. Okay, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't okay on now. I mean, look, you know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an emotional guy too. I mean, how am I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to How are we supposed to function as a

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<v Speaker 1>as a normal couple If I'm so sensitive and tune

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<v Speaker 1>to you and and and you're you know, you're connected

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<v Speaker 1>to your heart, right, I mean, how are we supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to balance that? We would be a walking mess? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a basket case. Is like emotions running around

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<v Speaker 1>the street. Are you saying you're concerned, Mike, that her

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<v Speaker 1>being so emotional and you being so emotional, all you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are gonna do is sit around and cry together.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I'm not saying that I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to sit around and cry, but I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that I'm going to feed into her feelings

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna want to, you know, nurture that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like that that's focused, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the energy is too focused on one thing. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it to be a negative situation. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's negative though. I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's negative, Like I think that you were like such

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<v Speaker 1>a good like you showed me like what a good

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<v Speaker 1>guy you were, like just you know, sit there and

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<v Speaker 1>you you were so sweet to me and so comforting

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<v Speaker 1>and like that's exactly the kind of guy. Hey, hey, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>look you are sweet okay, and that's why I was there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just how always with the function if we can't

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<v Speaker 1>we can't even have a conversation without you're crying, you know, Mike,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be interested in trying to have a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with no tears with Dannaka? I mean, if that's possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I can see if it's possible and ask you if

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date for you. Guys, it's possibly. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think we can no tears this time? I promise,

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<v Speaker 1>like I am, like, I like, I've all cried out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it can be happy and we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to and if and if I'm late or you're late,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be okay. Well I'm not gonna be late.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh here's the thing. Here's a thing that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know is that when I'm happy, like I'm so happy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't display you have major mood swings. Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I go from super happy to tears in a matter

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<v Speaker 1>of seconds. All right, well, Mike, so you will go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Dannaka again. Let's give it another let's give

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<v Speaker 1>another tick. All right. That is awesome. It's gonna be amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe it's happening. Dannaka, you may have found

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<v Speaker 1>you're right your dream man. All right, so awesome. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>screw it up. Okay, no more tears, No, no more tears.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally going to keep it together. Okay, congratulations Danneka,

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<v Speaker 1>you got your second date. Oh my god, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much, you guys. I'm so excited, Mike, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>very much. I look forward to hearing back from you

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<v Speaker 1>guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll keep you updated.

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