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Speaker 1: second date update. Danika is on the phone with us today.
Speaker 1: She wants to do a second date update to a
Speaker 1: guy named Mike. Apparently they met online and went out,
Speaker 1: and she's very upset that she's not getting a call back. Dannika,
Speaker 1: how are you? Um? Um? You know, I'm all right,
Speaker 1: alrighty are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, I feel like I screwed up
Speaker 1: a little bit on this one. So you know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to cry. I just I feel, really, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel pretty emotion and I just, oh, I just
Speaker 1: feel like it was my fault. Are you are you?
Speaker 1: Are you nervous to be doing the second date update
Speaker 1: right now? Is that part of the reason that you're emotional?
Speaker 1: Are you this emotional about the date that you went on?
Speaker 1: Like everything? And I mean it's obviously not trying to
Speaker 1: call be all emotional on the radio. I just you know,
Speaker 1: when I start, I just, you know, sometimes I can't tough.
Speaker 1: Take a few breaths. We're here to help you out,
Speaker 1: all right. Oh gosh, So tell us about the date. Oll.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. I was supposed to meet him for
Speaker 1: dinner and my dog, my dog Monkey, I would walk
Speaker 1: her before I left, and she wouldn't go to the bathroom,
Speaker 1: you know, like she just wouldn't go, and I wouldn't
Speaker 1: leave because she'll go in the house, you know. Being
Speaker 1: five minutes late, five minutes late, deal, something happened to
Speaker 1: your dog? No, my dog is like just she's fine. Okay.
Speaker 1: I thought maybe you were upset because something happened to
Speaker 1: your dog. I'm just thinking that, like, you know, I
Speaker 1: should have been there and I should have been on time,
Speaker 1: and I just you know, I think it's so like
Speaker 1: poor okay, but you were like to be tardy. Maybe
Speaker 1: you were. You were five minutes late, though, Danica. It's
Speaker 1: not the end of the world. This is so bad,
Speaker 1: So you know, all right, okay, Heydnica, five minutes is
Speaker 1: not really a big deal. Fifteen twenty thirty minutes late.
Speaker 1: That kind of gets annoying. Five minutes later, trust me,
Speaker 1: I doubt he was really that upset about it. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean five minutes. It's fine, maybe fine for a
Speaker 1: normal date, but like, wait, if it's like the one
Speaker 1: you know that it's the one you think is your
Speaker 1: dream man? Did you think this guy was your dream man?
Speaker 1: I met him online and he was like everything that
Speaker 1: I want? Okay, wait, hold on, did you? I mean,
Speaker 1: did you ever even you? I don't. I'm not like this.
Speaker 1: I'm not like take it to breath again. You're gonna
Speaker 1: be okay, Danica, did you talk to him for a
Speaker 1: long time before you guys' first date? Well, I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously I talked a couple of times, which is its
Speaker 1: profiles like everything. It's okay. I mean, I know it's
Speaker 1: kind of funny to some people, but it is kind
Speaker 1: of how I react. Well, it's not necessarily laughing at
Speaker 1: you crying about the situation. It's more it was five
Speaker 1: minutes late. Yeah, and for most people they would not
Speaker 1: get that worked up. If that's how you express yourself,
Speaker 1: that's how you express yourself. I go, so did you
Speaker 1: did you were you? Were you this visibly upset when
Speaker 1: you actually met him? Well? I was, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I I was driving, and you know, of
Speaker 1: course I was like, you know, getting emotional on the
Speaker 1: car and I was mad at my dogs, you know,
Speaker 1: and like that's hard. And then I got to the
Speaker 1: restaurant and you know, I realized I hadn't even pulled
Speaker 1: my hair or was everywhere, and so I was just
Speaker 1: trying to be you know, I tried to play it
Speaker 1: off so it was obvious that you had been crying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I was like use myself in the
Speaker 1: bathroom to like go like jut it together, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I came out and I started just lost it again,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I just know he was so
Speaker 1: he was so sweet, and I started telling him about Monkey,
Speaker 1: and it was what did he do when you started crying?
Speaker 1: He's like spoke really surprised. He's a sensitive person, so
Speaker 1: sure he was upset for me, but he was like
Speaker 1: being strong. So you guys continued the day after you
Speaker 1: were crying about your dog. Yeah, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess he was. I told him what I happened
Speaker 1: with Monkey, and you know, it made me feel better.
Speaker 1: We had eaten and the day was sort of you know,
Speaker 1: sort of it's over anyway, So okay, how did it
Speaker 1: end with him? Um? He gave me a hug and
Speaker 1: I like a really super loving a hug. I mean
Speaker 1: he was he just made me feel oh better. And
Speaker 1: I said, can I, you know, maybe can I get
Speaker 1: a do over? Like this isn't me, this isn't how
Speaker 1: I am. And I texted him like a bunch of times,
Speaker 1: you know, not not not in many, but you know,
Speaker 1: like enough that I probably thought I would hear back
Speaker 1: from him by now. So I don't understand why you
Speaker 1: wouldn't let me just have a do over. Yeah, but Denika,
Speaker 1: if I went out on a date with you like
Speaker 1: that and you started bawling on the date, it would
Speaker 1: probably freak me out either that artists start crying too,
Speaker 1: and there would just be a mess just to both
Speaker 1: of us at the table. Well you know, I mean
Speaker 1: sometimes I get emotional and that's just like who I am.
Speaker 1: But you know, I think that you like I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't love him, but I mean if I like
Speaker 1: this guy a lot, WHOA, I'm worried about you, Denika,
Speaker 1: because this is just the part where we find out
Speaker 1: what happened on the date and you haven't even really
Speaker 1: been able to keep it together. I'm totally getting it
Speaker 1: together now, listen. Yeah, I totally am are right right now, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't. We'll play a song. Oh, come back, call
Speaker 1: him and get your second date update. All right, Okay,
Speaker 1: I need you to be strong when we come back. Okay,
Speaker 1: I am. I'm totally gonna I'm totally gonna like wash
Speaker 1: my face and like get it together. It's good, okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: Because if you cry twice to him, I guarantee that's
Speaker 1: going to scare him off. I'll tell you what, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna cry, even if I get a little shaky.
Speaker 1: I'll hold the phone away from my mouth. No one
Speaker 1: could hear. If at any moment you just hang up
Speaker 1: the phone. I'll pretend like the connection dropped out if
Speaker 1: you want to cry for a bit, and then I'll
Speaker 1: get you back on the phone after Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: just hang on, I do this, Okay, hold on rooking
Speaker 1: Jube in the morning. Second. You know, normally during a
Speaker 1: second date update, it's the second part of the phone call,
Speaker 1: when we get the couple on the phone together and
Speaker 1: they talk that tears come out. It's already happened a lot.
Speaker 1: And I'm actually hesitant to do today's second date update
Speaker 1: because I don't know if Danika, who is on the
Speaker 1: phone with us right now. Can handle it? Danika? Are
Speaker 1: you doing all right? Yeah, I'm you know, keeping it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try and keep it together. Yeah, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you definitely need to if you're just tuning in. Danika
Speaker 1: wants to call Mike. They met online, went out for
Speaker 1: a date. She was five minutes late for the date.
Speaker 1: It was very emotional about it. She was crying on
Speaker 1: the way to the date. When she got there, she
Speaker 1: started to clean herself up, and then when she actually
Speaker 1: sat down with the guy, she lost it again and
Speaker 1: ended up crying during the date. And she isn't getting
Speaker 1: a call back. And I'm assuming I don't know yet,
Speaker 1: but I'm guessing that's the reason why, Dannika, it would
Speaker 1: be very weird for me to go out with a
Speaker 1: girl and have her cry on a first date. I know,
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it seems weird, but that's why
Speaker 1: I'm gonna apologize to him. And so I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: normal person, you know. Can I make one suggestion Because
Speaker 1: I'm a person I cry at every emotion. If you
Speaker 1: start to get emotional, pinch yourself. That's my trick because
Speaker 1: it helps you get out of your mindset of going
Speaker 1: down that path, and then it hurts because you pinch
Speaker 1: yourself and you cry more pain. Yeah, why did you
Speaker 1: pinch me? I'm willing to try anything. I will do it.
Speaker 1: Do you feel strong right now? Do you feel like
Speaker 1: you could do it? I do? I do. Took some
Speaker 1: deep breath. What's my face? Okay, I'm gonna dollar phone
Speaker 1: right now. Get him on the phone and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, Okay, you got this? Hell? Can
Speaker 1: I speak to Mike please? This is Mike, Mike, how
Speaker 1: are you doing? This is Jewil from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Um, I'm sorry. Where are you calling?
Speaker 1: From Brooke and Jewil in the Morning radio show. Okay,
Speaker 1: did I win something? No, you didn't. I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because we recently got an email from somebody who went
Speaker 1: out on a date with you, okay, and she's been
Speaker 1: trying to get a second date, but you haven't been
Speaker 1: returning any of her phone calls or text messages. So
Speaker 1: she asked if I could get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out why. Seriously. Her name is Danika, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna take a wild guess and say
Speaker 1: that you remember this date. Yes, you Um, so she
Speaker 1: she emailed you to call me. Yeah, it's a segment
Speaker 1: we do on our show called the Second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's a little awkward. Okay, what did you think of Dannika?
Speaker 1: First off? I mean, Dannika is a really sweet individual. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean, she has a really, really great heart. I
Speaker 1: would just say that she is a very highly emotional person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we've talked to her about your date, and it was
Speaker 1: obvious from our conversation that she's very emotional. Okay, right,
Speaker 1: so then you got a little bit of that. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm a sensitive guy, and um, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm a pisces. I pick up on people's vibes, you know, immediately,
Speaker 1: So I get it. But I mean, it was I've
Speaker 1: never experienced anything like that day ever in my life.
Speaker 1: She told us about it, and now she was five
Speaker 1: minutes later and she was very upset about that, and
Speaker 1: she had been crying before. God, I thought, yeah, she
Speaker 1: ran in the restaurant and I had no idea what's
Speaker 1: going on. She had mascarrett down her face and she
Speaker 1: was telling me about her dog named Monkey, and she
Speaker 1: literally like started crying hardcore at the table. And you think,
Speaker 1: like that first, did you think like the dog died
Speaker 1: or something. That's that's That's exactly what I thought. So
Speaker 1: I'm in shock a because of the way she's reacting
Speaker 1: to it. But then she was so honestly upset that
Speaker 1: it was making me upset, you know, and I felt
Speaker 1: so bad for her, and but I didn't know, I
Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. So she's freaking balling, and
Speaker 1: I'm sitting here like I'm you know, she kind of
Speaker 1: got me cheery eyed, and you know, here were like
Speaker 1: a mess sitting in the restaurant, like everybody's staring at us. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: that would be awkward. That would definitely be awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's the most awkward experience I've ever had in my life.
Speaker 1: And I feel bad for I mean, she's got a
Speaker 1: great heart. Yeah, it sounds like she's a very sensitive person.
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do if I was
Speaker 1: in your shoes. I must sucker when girls cry. Why
Speaker 1: do you think I can't ever break up with girls?
Speaker 1: Because they always like to cry as soon as you
Speaker 1: say I don't want to be with you, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, well say so. I don't know what I
Speaker 1: would do if I was in your shoes. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: like finally when we laughed. I mean I was pretty
Speaker 1: much in like a really weird mirrored afterwards. I mean,
Speaker 1: when you when somebody is like deep, deeply emotional for
Speaker 1: like an hour, like I was, I was kind of
Speaker 1: a wreck. Quite I would have I would have felt
Speaker 1: emotionally spent after that too, I mean I said, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's the right word you use, totally spent all
Speaker 1: because she was five minutes late to your day, because
Speaker 1: she was late, and because yeah, because she couldn't get
Speaker 1: her dog to use the bathroom or something like. That's
Speaker 1: that's the craziest part, Mike. I have to tell you
Speaker 1: this right now. Danica is actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah? I am. I'm like, um, I'm
Speaker 1: so um. I At first, I just want to say, um,
Speaker 1: listening to you the way that you just told our
Speaker 1: story was so sweet and you're so you're such a
Speaker 1: nice guy, and I don't know what, Why are you?
Speaker 1: Why are you crying now? Out Danneka, You're gonna get
Speaker 1: me stress up here? Why are you crying? Because I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to, like, you know, like I'm actually trying
Speaker 1: not to cry and that's like making me cry more
Speaker 1: because like I really care about you and I really
Speaker 1: thought that, like, you know, after all we talked about
Speaker 1: I'm line. You know, I just knew like you're you're
Speaker 1: such a good person, and I and and then I
Speaker 1: came and then I ruined everything and I and I
Speaker 1: totally a terrible I just fault you stop stop stuff.
Speaker 1: So you're not a terrible person. You didn't ruin anything, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm sorry. That is you know that I
Speaker 1: couldn't deal with the situation properly. I apologize, but you know,
Speaker 1: it's like we we talked and so many times and
Speaker 1: was like you know, building up towards the date, and
Speaker 1: then I show up and and I'm late, and that's
Speaker 1: so inconsiderate and I felt so stupid. And no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay. You do late.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's that happens. It's not happen any reasons,
Speaker 1: you know. Oh no, no, no no, don't don't cry. Come on,
Speaker 1: I don't try trying. I swear, I just want to.
Speaker 1: I just want to say that. And I know you've
Speaker 1: been avoiding my my calls and my text and I
Speaker 1: and I understand, I have it. I'm sorry. Okay, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I don't okay on now. I mean, look, you know
Speaker 1: I'm an emotional guy too. I mean, how am I
Speaker 1: supposed to How are we supposed to function as a
Speaker 1: as a normal couple If I'm so sensitive and tune
Speaker 1: to you and and and you're you know, you're connected
Speaker 1: to your heart, right, I mean, how are we supposed
Speaker 1: to balance that? We would be a walking mess? You know,
Speaker 1: it's like a basket case. Is like emotions running around
Speaker 1: the street. Are you saying you're concerned, Mike, that her
Speaker 1: being so emotional and you being so emotional, all you
Speaker 1: guys are gonna do is sit around and cry together.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm not saying that I'm going
Speaker 1: to sit around and cry, but I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm saying that I'm going to feed into her feelings
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna want to, you know, nurture that. But
Speaker 1: I just feel like that that's focused, that's kind of
Speaker 1: the energy is too focused on one thing. You know.
Speaker 1: I don't want it to be a negative situation. I
Speaker 1: don't think it's negative though. I mean, I don't think
Speaker 1: it's negative, Like I think that you were like such
Speaker 1: a good like you showed me like what a good
Speaker 1: guy you were, like just you know, sit there and
Speaker 1: you you were so sweet to me and so comforting
Speaker 1: and like that's exactly the kind of guy. Hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 1: look you are sweet okay, and that's why I was there.
Speaker 1: It's just how always with the function if we can't
Speaker 1: we can't even have a conversation without you're crying, you know, Mike,
Speaker 1: would you be interested in trying to have a conversation
Speaker 1: with no tears with Dannaka? I mean, if that's possible.
Speaker 1: I can see if it's possible and ask you if
Speaker 1: you'd like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay
Speaker 1: for a second date for you. Guys, it's possibly. Do
Speaker 1: you think we can no tears this time? I promise,
Speaker 1: like I am, like, I like, I've all cried out.
Speaker 1: You know, it can be happy and we don't have
Speaker 1: to and if and if I'm late or you're late,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be okay. Well I'm not gonna be late.
Speaker 1: Oh here's the thing. Here's a thing that you don't
Speaker 1: even know is that when I'm happy, like I'm so happy,
Speaker 1: don't display you have major mood swings. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: I go from super happy to tears in a matter
Speaker 1: of seconds. All right, well, Mike, so you will go
Speaker 1: out with Dannaka again. Let's give it another let's give
Speaker 1: another tick. All right. That is awesome. It's gonna be amazing.
Speaker 1: I can't believe it's happening. Dannaka, you may have found
Speaker 1: you're right your dream man. All right, so awesome. Don't
Speaker 1: screw it up. Okay, no more tears, No, no more tears.
Speaker 1: I'm totally going to keep it together. Okay, congratulations Danneka,
Speaker 1: you got your second date. Oh my god, thank you
Speaker 1: so much, you guys. I'm so excited, Mike, thank you
Speaker 1: very much. I look forward to hearing back from you
Speaker 1: guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll keep you updated.
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