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Speaker 1: second date update. Danika is on the phone with us today.

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Speaker 1: She wants to do a second date update to a

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Speaker 1: alrighty are you okay? Um? Well, I mean I just

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Speaker 1: Are you nervous to be doing the second date update

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Speaker 1: all right. Oh gosh, So tell us about the date. Oll.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. I was supposed to meet him for

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Speaker 1: I speak to Mike please? This is Mike, Mike, how

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Speaker 1: that's the craziest part, Mike. I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: Why are you crying now? Out Danneka, You're gonna get

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Speaker 1: So you're not a terrible person. You didn't ruin anything, okay,

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Speaker 1: you'd like to go out with Danaka again. I'll pay

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Speaker 1: for a second date for you. Guys, it's possibly. Do

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Speaker 1: you think we can no tears this time? I promise,

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Speaker 1: Oh here's the thing. Here's a thing that you don't

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Speaker 1: I can't believe it's happening. Dannaka, you may have found

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Speaker 1: so much, you guys. I'm so excited, Mike, thank you

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Speaker 1: guys after you go out. Okay, yeah, we'll keep you updated.

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