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Speaker 1: Every breakup I ever had.

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Speaker 2: I delete every single like I'm so dramatic with it,

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Speaker 2: Like I delete every single picture of text, mess everything.

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Speaker 2: And then I also will delete anything that reminds me,

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Speaker 2: like little things like if like anything, like I'm throwing

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Speaker 2: that's going to remind me of you or the memory

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Speaker 2: of you.

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Speaker 1: Like I have to act like you're daddy. You don't exist.

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Speaker 3: You get rid of somebody. You just get rid of everything.

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Speaker 2: About this, every single except unless it's like a piece

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Speaker 2: of jewelry.

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Speaker 3: Exactly exactly. She was about to contradict herself right here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is the taking over the game, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, everybody, welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that men or women are more toxic? Hello,

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Speaker 2: beautiful people, welcome to another episode of the Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 1: I'm your hostess, our fair day.

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Speaker 3: This is your boy, the Truth.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how you feeling. It's cold out here?

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Speaker 2: Huh in La, it's freezing right.

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Speaker 1: I cannot handle it. I'm so cold. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So there was a student who had a diamond tester, right,

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Speaker 2: and he went around to his teachers and tested their rings,

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Speaker 2: and a lot of their rings were fake and they

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Speaker 2: were calling their husband's pissed off.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that is crazy.

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Speaker 2: What do you think about buying your fiance a fake ring?

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Speaker 3: Got a Fagan till you make it? That's what they say.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Hey, look good, don't it?

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Speaker 3: But saw that matter? Nobody knew it was Fagan till

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Speaker 3: he did that, right.

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Speaker 2: Well that's them type of teachers. Well, a lot of

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Speaker 2: women will go see if the ring is real, I think.

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Speaker 3: Because they probably want to cash out on it.

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Speaker 2: They just want to see because now they have the

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Speaker 2: lab grown diamonds too, and the lab grown diamonds are

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Speaker 2: half the price, like even less than half the price

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Speaker 2: with their diamonds with their lab grown. So some people

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Speaker 2: are like, oh, if a man proposed will a lab

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Speaker 2: grown I have a problem with that. Me personally, I

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Speaker 2: don't really care if it was a lab grown or not.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest, I don't. I don't care about that.

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Speaker 2: I also feel like I wouldn't want to have this

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Speaker 2: to rob me, Like I'm paranoid.

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Speaker 1: I don't have time for any of that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, imagine get robbed over some frow your head all

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Speaker 3: of that and how you gonna feel. You're gonna you're

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Speaker 3: gonna feel. It's gonna be crazy because you're gonna be like,

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Speaker 3: well it was lib grown anyway. But you the stress

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Speaker 2: The stress of getting robbed is what you care about,

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Speaker 2: Like you have a gun to your head, you stressed

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Speaker 3: More and more people in the industry are wearing.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, as it's just.

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Speaker 3: They don't care robbing. They just gonna get another Exactly.

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Speaker 1: I don't blame that.

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Speaker 3: Seeing people coming out. People are coming out and even

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Speaker 1: People are saying that because I get it.

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Speaker 2: Kim Carry actually got robbed for all them jewels she

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Speaker 3: It's just a woman all about where you go with it.

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Speaker 3: If you're gonna be wearing that type of stuff, you

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Speaker 3: It don't matter. Just just ain't no different wearing fake

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Speaker 3: Louis or Gucci or fake whatever, cheap clothes that look good.

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Speaker 2: Well, the Labron isn't gonna test fake. What they're testing

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Speaker 3: That before I bought a girl some fake Jerry you did,

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Speaker 3: There was like some ear rings. They was fake as

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Speaker 1: Buzz down, Yeah, buzz down is craze.

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Speaker 3: Yet, but you know that's what I was thinking. So

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Speaker 2: So speaking of rings, Sierra asked Russell Wilson, what was more?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: What ring matters more to him? His wedding ring or

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Speaker 2: his championship ring?

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Speaker 3: And what did He's like?

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Speaker 2: So they were eating wings and they had to like

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Speaker 1: So he started laughing. They started dying laughing, and he

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Speaker 2: So my question to you is, if you ever got

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Speaker 3: The championship ring or the wedding ring. Yeah, but the

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Speaker 3: championship ring is forever right, no doubt about it ever

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Speaker 3: going away. This wedding ring could get divorced and soul.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like, like.

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Speaker 1: I agree that the championship ring.

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Speaker 2: Tony Baker, he came on and he was like, look,

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Speaker 2: I would keep it real. He said that ring, he said,

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Speaker 1: I couldnot get a championship ring at all. Like, no

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Speaker 3: To do it anytime.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he said, I can get married. Listen, he said,

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Speaker 3: A championship ring. Yeah, that's hard to get. So I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna go championship ring for shure. You know what I'm

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Speaker 3: saying that's gonna last. That's gonna be forever.

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Speaker 1: I don't do that one.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's just what it is. Like I said,

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Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I gave a ring and one was

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Speaker 3: Now I'm giving a way a ring. You know that's

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Speaker 3: So now you see circumstances to where people get divorced

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Speaker 3: But this that I grew up my whole life dreaming about,

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be. I'm not passing down like are you

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Speaker 3: passing down the wedding ring to your kids? Yeah? People

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Speaker 3: do that a lot of people sell them.

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Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people give it to their son

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Speaker 2: to propose or whatever. But that's I think more in

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Speaker 2: like I don't see black people doing that. That's in

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Speaker 1: Different cultures and white people be doing.

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Speaker 2: That and past they give the ring because I feel

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Speaker 1: From nineteen twenty three?

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Speaker 3: Like I don't want this one thousands? Know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: I ain't getting past down.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to ring. Listen if I'm I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I don't want no one hundred thousand dollars ring, none

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Speaker 2: no one hundred thousand dollars wedding anything. Invest in businesses,

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Speaker 2: invest in property, invest in things that will get us cracking.

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Speaker 2: Do not get no one hundred thousand dollars ring. That's

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Speaker 3: Like I don't want Until you pull out one hundred

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Speaker 2: Ring, you like no, I feel like okay, cool, But

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Speaker 2: it's just like I think that there's better things that

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Speaker 1: Like I just think it's too much.

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Speaker 2: I think that it's just like even with a wedding,

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Speaker 2: it's too much, Like I don't want it to be

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Speaker 2: a whole thing where we're spending half a million dollars,

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Speaker 2: Like that's blowing me, Like there's so many other things

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Speaker 1: In a show.

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Speaker 3: For man, it's give you a hundred dollars ring.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if you can afford it.

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Speaker 2: It's the point of I'd rather just be like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna take it.

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Speaker 3: But you say this when you gives to you like

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Speaker 3: a babe, give me that back ungrateful love. No.

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Speaker 2: But it's just a conversation that you can have where

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Speaker 2: it's like we don't you don't have to do all

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Speaker 2: and I think it's cool, but I think that it

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Speaker 2: I love that, But like, I'm not about to be

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Speaker 2: Like, man, you act like this is a whole business,

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Speaker 1: To pay you.

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Speaker 3: Like, well, marriage is a business.

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Speaker 1: It is a business.

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying like the wedding, marriage is a business

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Speaker 2: with the wedding is not Like the wedding is just

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Speaker 2: a performance and a thing for other people when I

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Speaker 2: get it, but it's like you don't.

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Speaker 1: Have to do all of that.

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Speaker 2: In my opinion, I'm not about to be that stressed

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Speaker 2: out like I watch people playing wedding stressed money this

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Speaker 2: that that that, Like, why why am I stressed out

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Speaker 2: to get married out?

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Speaker 3: Like one day you're gonna remember the rest of your life? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: what are you doing with the flicks? Like what are

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Speaker 3: you doing with the video? If y'all get divorced, you keep.

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Speaker 1: It for your children.

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Speaker 2: I guess maybe they want to see it if you

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Speaker 2: have kids to get but keep that stuff.

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Speaker 1: I don't know because I'm not married, But I delete everything.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question, Like what if, like all the

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Speaker 1: Let me say the type I am.

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Speaker 2: Every breakup I ever had, I delete every single like

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Speaker 2: I'm so dramatic with it, Like I delete every single picture,

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Speaker 3: Get rid of somebody. You just get rid of everything about.

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Speaker 2: This every single except unless it's like a piece of

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Speaker 3: Something exactly exactly. She was about to contradict herself right here, Yeah, right,

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm gonna keep it real if it's

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Speaker 2: like I keep items like that, but also too, but

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Speaker 2: I'm deleting it. If it's pictures, I'm deleting it. If

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Speaker 3: Anything about this person except the jewelry, the car, and except.

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Speaker 2: The car, the jewelry, the house, the cash, and you know,

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Speaker 2: like anything of value. Yeah, but any other bullshit, No,

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Speaker 2: because if it's some pajamas or some bullshit, why do

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Speaker 2: Like we're not gonna have pictures of stuff like coming up,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't. I don't deal with that, Like, don't

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Speaker 2: I don't want to see no reminder or memory of

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Speaker 2: I remember I was at my my uncle's suneral a

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Speaker 2: I said, what I had to tell them?

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Speaker 1: Why I know you're lying. Why do you have this?

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Speaker 2: Like delete everything, honey, I don't want nothing, no reminders

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Speaker 1: And I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Like, do you think that it's wrong if a woman

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Speaker 3: Where they keeping them in the phone's on the computer.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how you like, damn on the computer, keep

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Speaker 1: That, right I think? So I had to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my ex having sex with his ex on our

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Speaker 2: And I was going on there and you know how

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Speaker 1: It's the craziest thing.

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Speaker 2: And I was like so stressed, I was so traumatized.

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Speaker 2: I actually was no because it was in the past,

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Speaker 2: I threw up and I was like, fuck you, I'm done.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like I couldn't be done

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Speaker 2: because it was from the past.

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Speaker 1: But why are you keeping this? Like are you jacket

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Speaker 2: That's what he tries to say. But I'm like, are

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Speaker 2: you what you're using this? Like cause you're still stuck

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Speaker 1: Still want her?

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Speaker 3: Like what isn't even think about it?

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Speaker 2: Is it coming up as a memory? And then I

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Speaker 1: We were eating with like our family.

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Speaker 2: And then on his phone it comes up memories him

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Speaker 3: Like you he can't all the pictures of his ex.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see it.

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Speaker 2: They shouldn't be coming up on the thing and I

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Speaker 2: like it if you're going to keep it. It was

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Speaker 2: our share home computer in ourfice, like in our home office.

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Speaker 2: I'm not on your phone, and then it's coming up

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Speaker 3: Blow me. If we're on our share computer and I

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Speaker 2: And listen, she had his name, she had his name

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Speaker 1: Just like laying naked on the couch and so in

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Speaker 2: And he used to be He's that type like to

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Speaker 1: I don't want that. I don't want to have to

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Speaker 2: That blew me, and that traumatized me for the rest

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Speaker 2: of like imagine having to see your girl getting hit

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Speaker 1: Are you breaking up off of that?

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Speaker 3: Well? I'm like, yeah, I ain't never had to deal

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Speaker 1: And I'm sick of that shit. It's so.

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Speaker 2: That's so low budget and low class, like stop blasting

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Speaker 3: First breaking up. It was so much easier back in

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Speaker 3: That's that's the one thing men have to be be

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Speaker 3: You know, you think you got a woman that's not

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Speaker 3: But then when they get bad, but.

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Speaker 2: You gotta in her past relationship, Does she drag any

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you're not about to keep posting every little

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Speaker 2: And I think when you look at certain character character

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00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: traits like that, you realize like, oh, someone is willing

444
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 2: to do this, or people say little slick shit where

445
00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 2: you're like why would you even have that thought in

446
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 2: your head? You know, like that's weird that you would

447
00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 2: even think like that.

448
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I'm not dating nobody who constantly posting every

449
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 3: day thirst traps all of that. I'm off that I

450
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 3: ain't never had in the social media world since it's happened,

451
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 3: and the girls I dated, I ain't never dated girls

452
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 3: that was super involved on social media like ridiculous. It's

453
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 3: like this is ridiculous, Yeah, like come on now, like

454
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,719
Speaker 3: y'all not gonna get my full attention. You're gonna get

455
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:41,120
Speaker 3: the attention that you deserve, and that attention is gonna

456
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 3: be limited. It's I'm gonna treat you how you treat yourself,

457
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 3: and that's what it's gonna be. Like, I ain't, I ain't. No,

458
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 3: I'm gonna take you with a grant of salt. I'm

459
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 3: not even gonna take you serious at that point. You

460
00:22:57,480 --> 00:23:00,359
Speaker 3: just like, at a point you just having fun or

461
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 3: something like that. This is just passing time really, and

462
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 3: I know that, like you know who you want to

463
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 3: be with, you know what I'm saying. Sometimes you just

464
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 3: date just to just be like, man, this is just

465
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,400
Speaker 3: something to do, Like girls do it too though. It's

466
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: just something to do, Yeah, for sure.

467
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 2: But you gotta be careful with that because you can

468
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: still create an attachment when you do that, and then

469
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: it can still be difficult to part your ways with

470
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,000
Speaker 2: someone even though you know you don't have the intention

471
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 2: on being with them.

472
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 3: Oh no, it ain't unless we ain't together. We are together,

473
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

474
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 2: So, but yeah, I just think that even me, like

475
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: I'd be going all types of places and people be like, Damnazar,

476
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 2: you don't post they be armory about posting shit, and

477
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 2: I do need to get better at posting at least something,

478
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: But I just be in my moment, I'm gonna be

479
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 2: tripping off of like posting everything. And I'm more of

480
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 2: a private person, believe it or not, even though I'm

481
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 2: on social media, because I do this shit, Like I'm

482
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 2: private when it comes to like what I have going

483
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 2: on in my daily life. You're not about to see

484
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 2: everywhere I'm going in and traveling. You're not seeing all

485
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: of that because it's not necessary for you to see that.

486
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 2: Like I might share here and there, but it's like

487
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 2: I'm not big on sharing all my movements either. And

488
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: I'm also someone who's just been raised differently, like I

489
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 2: have gangsters in my family, Like they don't be telling

490
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: nobody everywhere you at. If you post somewhere, you better

491
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 2: have already left that location. Like that type of shit,

492
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,199
Speaker 2: I'm like cover from a different type of cloth, Like

493
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: I can't just be posting everything where I'm at and

494
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 2: when I'm there, and like like it's too much. Yeah,

495
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 2: I go live. I do go live with my people.

496
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 2: I love to go live with people, but I haven't

497
00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 2: been doing it at all recently. But I definitely will

498
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 2: go live, but it would just be like when I'm

499
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 2: just chopping, like it's not where I'm at and all

500
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 2: of that shit, Like, it's just where I'm chopping it up.

501
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 2: And that's the way for me to connect with my

502
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 2: audience and the people that fuck with me.

503
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeahs over, Yeah, you.

504
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: Don't need to be going live, buddy at all.

505
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: We know that. I don't even know this that for me. No,

506
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 3: I'm good.

507
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to be doing that, and that's real.

508
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 2: We already know you don't need to be doing that.

509
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: Okay, So anyways, moving on Boris Kojo, is that my boy.

510
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 3: Kujo Kujo, my boy boy. He used to work out

511
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 3: at the gym we used to be back in the day.

512
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: That's my man.

513
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's dope.

514
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 3: Man. We need to get Boris on the show. Him

515
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 3: and his wife man talk about the longevity and man,

516
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 3: I think that'll be Boris Man. We need to get

517
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 3: you on the show. Man, That'll be dope, just to

518
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 3: talk about you, how you.

519
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: Know, just I love Let me say something.

520
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 2: I see a lot of Boris is like commentary, like

521
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: he's been on shows and stuff of the things he

522
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 2: says it's.

523
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 3: So we need to go he got a gang of knowledge. Yeah,

524
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 3: one of the most underrated. They probably the most underrated couple.

525
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 1: They're cracking. Yeah, and as a couple, we.

526
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,239
Speaker 3: Don't talk about them enough, like as far as like Hollywood.

527
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: Couple, because we don't. We don't highlight the good couples enough.

528
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,640
Speaker 2: Why we talked about being Stefan Digg's every goddamn day,

529
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 2: but we're not talking about you know, Sally Rigison and

530
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 2: Andre Whodfield.

531
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:13,360
Speaker 3: And this and you know his relationships. We need to talk.

532
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to highlight Denzel Washington and his wife,

533
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 2: like these are real relationships that actually was.

534
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 3: It able to last so long? What if y'all endured?

535
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 3: How are y'all? Yeah, how did y'all meet? And how

536
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,239
Speaker 3: are y'all going through it?

537
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: And he talks about, Yeah, I seeing him.

538
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: Man, We're gon gonna reach out, man, We're gonna get

539
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 3: you on the show.

540
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've seen him talk about recently.

541
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 3: Just love to hear that journey, you know, just because

542
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 3: that's like a foundation on like longevity with love, Like

543
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 3: like you said, with Andrea and his wife and Denzel,

544
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 3: Like we need to have more stories that are putting

545
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 3: out the positive relations.

546
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, we do, like for real, And I think like

547
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: what Boris was saying recently, which I think is real

548
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 2: and I resonate with, is that when you're in a relationship,

549
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 2: it's just about that you're going to choose each other,

550
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 2: like make a conscious decision, like this is who I'm

551
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: going to be with, and I'm going to choose this

552
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 2: person and we're I mean, as long as you're not

553
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: getting like ultimately disrespected at a crazy way or whatever

554
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 2: the case is, like, but I'm making a decision to

555
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: wake up and choose my partner every single day, you know,

556
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,479
Speaker 2: and not give up on them, and not give up

557
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 2: on each other in the bond and the connection that

558
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 2: we have. And I feel like that's the common theme

559
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: that I hear with these couples that have been together

560
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 2: for a long time. It's like we've made a decision,

561
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 2: you know, and we're sticking.

562
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: To that decision. You know.

563
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 2: Even my sister and our husband say that, like we're

564
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: not any different from anybody else. We just decided we're

565
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 2: going to choose each other and stick with that.

566
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,360
Speaker 1: Like that's just it. Whatever's going on is what's going on.

567
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 2: This is what we've committed to each other, and we're

568
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,800
Speaker 2: going to show up in the best way that we

569
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: can every day, and we're going to choose each other

570
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: regardless though.

571
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 3: You know, a type of love need to be spread more,

572
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 3: and that type of love need to be on the

573
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 3: front pages, on the front lines.

574
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's not because they don't like to highlight.

575
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: Laves like those are the type of stories.

576
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: We need more, yeah for sure.

577
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 2: And so he recently said that the number one mistake

578
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: that a lot of men make in marriages is not

579
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: communicating with their woman when things are feeling heavy, you know,

580
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,360
Speaker 2: like when they're stressed out, when they're going through a lot.

581
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,800
Speaker 2: They feel like, you know, I don't want to burden her,

582
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 2: I don't want to put this on her. But they're

583
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: not giving the woman the opportunity to say, hey, I'm here,

584
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 2: I can support you, you know, even if it's just

585
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 2: little things or just trying to make the day to

586
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 2: day easier on you. And he said, because what ends

587
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: up happening is then a woman, not knowing you're going

588
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: through everything you're going through, might do something or say something.

589
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 2: You're like, you don't even know what I'm going through,

590
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: Like I have all this going on, and then you

591
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 2: start to snap or resent the person, but you didn't

592
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: even give them opportunity to realize, like I'm.

593
00:28:58,680 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: Going through all of this shit.

594
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: That's true.

595
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: And he said, that's a big mistake man make in marriages.

596
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's something men got to learn because men are

597
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 3: so used to like being the bearers of heavy weight

598
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 3: on their shoulders, and that are expected, especially strong Black

599
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 3: men are expected to like not be vulnerable. Yeah, no,

600
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 3: don't let that affect you. You need to be stepped forward,

601
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 3: handle it and move on. Where when you get to

602
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 3: go through so much stuff that weighs on you, you

603
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 3: hold it in because you don't want to be looked

604
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 3: like as soft or or sin or just like just

605
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 3: like especially black men. Yeah, you know, because we talked,

606
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 3: especially my era, we talked to be this hord tough

607
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: and can go through anything and everything. But sometimes you

608
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 3: need to vent and you need to tell your problems

609
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 3: in the relationship. You need to release and you know,

610
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 3: tell your girl, tell your wife, and let him know

611
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 3: that like, man, I'm really going through some ship. You know,

612
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm not there right now, you know, And

613
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: then your partner understands, you know how to come at you.

614
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: You know, how to approach that you know, and how

615
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 3: to deal with you on a day to day because

616
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 3: your partner may be going through something too that they

617
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 3: need express but if you tell them, they will probably

618
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: hold back a little bit, Like you know what, I

619
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 3: know he dealing with, So I gonna bring this to

620
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 3: him right now, you know, I'll bring it to him

621
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,239
Speaker 3: at a later day and all of that. And I

622
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: think us, as as strong black man, we need to

623
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 3: be like, hey, you know I'm going through some baby,

624
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I've been detached things that I've been dealing with,

625
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 3: and be vulnerable. I think we need to be more

626
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 3: vulnerable to our partners. Man, If you're going to be vulnerable,

627
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: who else to be vulnerable to? Then the person that

628
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 3: you're with that you share your life with, that you're

629
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 3: with every day, that like you're going that you say

630
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: you want to spend the rest of your life with,

631
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: even if it's a girlfriend you've been in a long time,

632
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 3: Because like, I think every man needs he least yeah,

633
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 3: you know, because like, man, the pressures of the world

634
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 3: are on us every single day. We have the pressure

635
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 3: of like, hey, you're the leader, You're the one that

636
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: has to take care of whether it's your kids, your wife,

637
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 3: your girlfriend. You have to be strong. You have to

638
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: be that guy. You can't let the world beat you up.

639
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 3: You can't be depressed. And that's what we're talking about.

640
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,239
Speaker 3: You can't be down like because but at the end

641
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: of the day, being looking at it us like, look,

642
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 3: women don't want to follow that. Women don't want to

643
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 3: follow a man who always weak and always vulnerable. Women

644
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: are taught to follow a strong man like that can

645
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: deal with stuff, because that's what you want to teach

646
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 3: your kids.

647
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: But strength is vulnerability. It's easy to hide how you feel.

648
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 2: It's easy to not say anything, it's easy to not communicate,

649
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: it's easy to just let things fester inside of you.

650
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: But it's very hard to be vulnerable enough to have

651
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: a conversation. It's really it takes strength to be like,

652
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: babysit down, I want to talk to you about this,

653
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 2: this is what I'm going through right now. Like that's

654
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: signs of a great leader, in my opinion, someone who's

655
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,920
Speaker 2: able to actually communicate with you and be vulnerable and

656
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: talk to you, because not only does it show that

657
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 2: you have the courage to, you know, communicate about things

658
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 2: that are difficult to talk about, but it also allows

659
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 2: your woman to feel like she can have a safe

660
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: space to be vulnerable as well. And I think that

661
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: that's important. And we're taught differently because you think like, oh,

662
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 2: I have to be strong and I have to act

663
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 2: like nothing ever bothers me. But then what ends up

664
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: happening is you internalize that, and then it creates resentment

665
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: in your relationship, and then the woman sometimes feels like

666
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 2: it's about her. Without knowing what's going on, You're like, well,

667
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: is he not feeling this anymore? Is he detaching from

668
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: me in this relationship? Is he checked out mentally? And

669
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 2: then she starts to internalize those feelings, and then it

670
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 2: creates this huge wedge between you when you don't have to.

671
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

672
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 3: But the thing is when men, when we do tell

673
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: our problems, and we venom I think as men, we

674
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 3: look at it like I can tell her what we're

675
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 3: going through, but at the end of the day, it's

676
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 3: not gonna solve the problem. Like I just got fired.

677
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to tell her I got these deals

678
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 3: that's behind you. I don't want to tell her It

679
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 3: don't solve the problem that's happening behind the still like

680
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 3: I can tell you and as it feels good right now,

681
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 3: but it don't solve the problem. And that's why we

682
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 3: just feel like we're gonna hold it in and deal

683
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 3: with it. And then once we get through it and

684
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 3: I tell her after, you know what I'm saying that.

685
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: I think that's what men do a lot. We hold

686
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 3: it in and tell you after we already been through

687
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 3: it and got through it, and we just be like,

688
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 3: you know what, I was dealing with this, I'm sorry

689
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,880
Speaker 3: or whatever it is. But like we just feel like

690
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 3: if you are when you're a king, you are chosen

691
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: to bear the weight of me any people, you are chosen,

692
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 3: like when you're a king, you're chosen to withstand the arrows,

693
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 3: the bullets, the war that's against you. And when you're

694
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 3: a king, you don't want to show vulnerability. And as

695
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 3: a man, that's why we hold it in. We feel

696
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 3: like we got to have a bullet proof best. We

697
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 3: feel like, I don't want to bring my issues as

698
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 3: a man, my issue. My thing is to take on

699
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 3: yours and help carry your weight because I'm the man,

700
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 3: so I'm not only could carry my weight, but I

701
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 3: can carry your weight. I don't want to put my

702
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 3: weight on the woman too, you know what I'm saying,

703
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 3: because that's what we've been taught, like carry the weight,

704
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,479
Speaker 3: deal with it, and show that you're strong. I don't

705
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 3: have to, like I don't want to have to tell

706
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 3: her this. I'm gonna deal with it. And that's just

707
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 3: how our society is. And men we're stronger we're physically,

708
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: you know. You know, on a mental aspect, we're taught

709
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 3: to be stronger mentally than the woman. We're taught that

710
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 3: so and that's why we show and that's why we

711
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: don't tell and become vulnerable a lot. You know, we're

712
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 3: taught that as young, like you gotta be the man,

713
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 3: you gotta stand up, chest up, chin chest out, chin up,

714
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 3: like nah, you ain't, No, we ain't. I got it.

715
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 3: And then when you get through it, it's a good

716
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 3: story after like, man, I'm gonna tell y'all what's going through.

717
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 3: But we got through it. And that's why it's like that.

718
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 3: But sometimes it just feels good to release. Sometimes it

719
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 3: even feels good to cry. Man, men don't even want

720
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 3: to cry in front of their woman. You know what

721
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Like, man, I don't I don't I think

722
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 3: i've I've if I cried in front of I think

723
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 3: I cried in front of my daughter because we went

724
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 3: through some stuff and you know it was just like man,

725
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 3: but like it's tough for a man to cry for

726
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 3: this woman. Yeah, then you look at as weak and

727
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 3: then a woman that's looked like, I can't deal with him,

728
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 3: he's weak.

729
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 1: I don't say it for real.

730
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 3: But that's the society. That's what we're in, and so

731
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 3: that's just the way it is, and that's why we

732
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 3: don't vent or express our true feelings.

733
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying so well, I get that.

734
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 2: I think that it's important to be able to talk

735
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: and express and be open with your.

736
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's because men were talk.

737
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 3: Should be that way exactly.

738
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 2: But it's not fair, like men should be able to

739
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 2: say things you're human being, Like you're a human person,

740
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 2: Like you're not invincible, you're not any of those things.

741
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: Like you're going to go through stuff that's going to

742
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 2: be heavy, that's going to be hard, and you shouldn't

743
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: have to carry that all by yourself. Was the one

744
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 2: to having a partner if you cannot have them, be

745
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: someone who's there for you, like period, point blank. In

746
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 2: my opinion, I think that I get it, and I

747
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 2: get and I understand it because it's admirable that a

748
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: man doesn't want to like burden a woman or make

749
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 2: her feel bad. They're trying to really protect her. But

750
00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: I think too it can damage the relationship because, like

751
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: I said, if you don't know what he's going through,

752
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: you could be added more to the play, or you

753
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: could get snappy or irritated because he's like being in

754
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 2: a certain vibe and you're like, what's the problem? You know,

755
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 2: and then next episode it creates a new issue whereas

756
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: maybe you don't divulge every single thing you're going through,

757
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 2: but you're like, yo, I'm going through some shit.

758
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: It's heavy right now and this is what it is.

759
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 2: And you know, like I'm sorry if I might be

760
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 2: a little like just in my head right now, but

761
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 2: it has nothing.

762
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: To do with you. You know, like little shit like that

763
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: goes a long.

764
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 3: Way, Okay, I feel that.

765
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. This is the more or

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771
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: many dates do you think you should go on in

772
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 2: a month when you're in a relationship?

773
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: Or is good you think like once a week you should.

774
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 3: Go on a date. That's good.

775
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 2: That's healthy, that's a healthy Like what are the dates though,

776
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 2: Like is it more of like we have to go

777
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 2: to an activity and dinner? Is it more like we

778
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 2: could just order food and watch a movie? Like what

779
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 2: do you consider a date?

780
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 3: A date? Is just anything y'all? Do I feel that's intimate?

781
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: And about y'all too? Because a day can be like

782
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 3: pull up, I'm gonna make you some food, some wine

783
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:49,280
Speaker 3: at the crib. That's a date. You know, it's intimate,

784
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 3: you know. So like if y'all making a point to

785
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 3: be intimate at least once a week minimum, you know,

786
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 3: I think that's that's that's minimum four times. That's once

787
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,479
Speaker 3: a week at least, you know, because I don't mind

788
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 3: sitting around with you watching TV doing all this other stuff.

789
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 3: You know, you busy, we both busy, Yeah, but we

790
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 3: got to make it a point at least once a

791
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 3: week minimum to like let's make this intimate to where

792
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: we're like sharing time just me and you, and this

793
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 3: is what we're gonna do. It's dinner, movies, bowling, activity,

794
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:29,760
Speaker 3: it's an activity together once a week. It's good, okay.

795
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 2: And what about going on vacations, vacation vacations.

796
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, vacation twice a year.

797
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: Twice a year, it's cool.

798
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Yeah, I think twice a year you gotta

799
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 3: make it a point to say, hey, we need to

800
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 3: get away. I think it's gonna be refreshing because I

801
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 3: feel like when you go on a vacation, it refreshes

802
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 3: the relationship in a way. And it's anything that you

803
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 3: can think about. It's all about just y'all two for

804
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 3: the whole time. When you're home, you know, you got

805
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 3: other things to deal with, free, family, whatever you're into.

806
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 3: When you're a way, it's just about you for those two, three,

807
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 3: four days or whatever you're doing. And I think it's healthy,

808
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 3: you know, because then you realize, man, you really love

809
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 3: that person you're away y'all together every day. It's all

810
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 3: about y'all. Uh, for the most part, just doing activities

811
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 3: and things of that nature. Y'all. You don't think about

812
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 3: none of the things or the problems or the drama

813
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:24,879
Speaker 3: that you got on. It's just for these next three days,

814
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 3: we ain't gonna think about none of our problems. And

815
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 3: that's refreshing if you can do that a couple of

816
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 3: times a year.

817
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just a band aid, you're saying, basically, no,

818
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: it's refreshing.

819
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's like no, it ain't. No, it

820
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 3: ain't no band aid. It's like, yo, we we need

821
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: to do this. Yeah, you know, it need to mental

822
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 3: sometimes it ain't. It ain't covering up problems. It's just

823
00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 3: like I need to get away from my problems from

824
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 3: right now, and then it makes you when you come back,

825
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 3: and it's easier to deal with them more because you know,

826
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,319
Speaker 3: like I'm I'm blessed to have an opportunity really going

827
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:57,919
Speaker 3: to vacation with my one.

828
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

829
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 3: You know, you think a lot of people can't go

830
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: on vacations twice a year. Yeah, maybe once a year

831
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,439
Speaker 3: they can. You know, twice a year is a lot,

832
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 3: truthfully for the average person. Yeah, so I mean twice

833
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 3: as good though, twice as refreshing. And it could be

834
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 3: a staycation too, that counts a vacation. Yeah, you know

835
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 3: you can do that. So I think that's that's more

836
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 3: than one.

837
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:29,719
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844
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845
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Speaker 2: been in the media right now because him and Coiler

846
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 2: Ray been on their little podcast, not little podcasts, but

847
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 2: their podcast. And he's gonna say that real man don't

848
00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 2: do dishes. If she cooks, she clean and everything.

849
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: Real men don't do dishes. I like that. If I

850
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 3: got a girl, I like it, but I ain't opposed

851
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 3: to not doing it, like help out, you know what

852
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 3: I'm saying. You know, I don't. I don't think there's

853
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 3: I don't. You know what I'm tired of, Like the

854
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: gender roles, right, Like women clean, cook and do all that.

855
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 3: Like no, I'll take on a lot of the women's responsibilities,

856
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 3: you know. I'll cook, I'll clean, I'll traine some diapers,

857
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 3: I'll do a lot of all of that. I'll go

858
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 3: grocery shopping like and that's considered like gender roles that

859
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 3: that we put on women and men get put get

860
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 3: put in. Like men can do more of the gender

861
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 3: roles of the woman than I would allow for the

862
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 3: women to do of the man. You know what I'm saying, Like,

863
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 3: my woman, you ain't got to change just tire or

864
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 3: take this trash out like I can. You know what

865
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 3: I'm saying, And that's part of being a man, Like

866
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 3: we have to carry that weight to where we not

867
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 3: only could do our role, but we should be able

868
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 3: to do the woman's role too. But now without allowing

869
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 3: the women to do our roles. I'm with that, Okay,

870
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. I'm really with that, Like

871
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 3: you don't have to do none of this stuff that

872
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: I'm required to do, but if you need help doing something,

873
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: a lot of the stuff you that you're expected to do,

874
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,439
Speaker 3: I can do that too. And that's what I feel

875
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 3: like being a man is all about.

876
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: Okay, I think for a woman like I don't mind

877
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: like cleaning and I love to cook, and.

878
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 3: Just like that's that's like ginger roles we put women in. Yeah,

879
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 3: for sure, what are we asking? Like are you taking

880
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 3: out the trash? If you have a man.

881
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm not taking out the trash, are you?

882
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 3: Are you like? Are you like? You know what I'm saying.

883
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 2: I'm not changing tires, I'm not changing light bulbs.

884
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,879
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that ship like. So that's what I'm saying.

885
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 2: And that's why I don't mind doing the things that

886
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 2: I can do, like, because I'm not. I can't do

887
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 2: some of that stuff. I probably can, but i'm not.

888
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,760
Speaker 2: I mean some stuff you can't I can't physically do either.

889
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 3: You know. Are you cleaning up the dogs ship and

890
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:28,879
Speaker 3: all of that? But the man should be doing all

891
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,919
Speaker 3: that little stuff, like stuff like getting their hands dirty.

892
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 3: We were trying to get our hands dirty. Yeah, you

893
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. I don't want my woman doing

894
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 3: all that though. You know what I'm saying. I need

895
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: your nails to be looking right, I need you know

896
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, keep that feelingine, bro good. I'm good

897
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 3: with all that, you know what I mean.

898
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I make me a couple, you.

899
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 3: Know, make me a couple of you know, dinners here

900
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 3: and there, you know, throw me something together that I like,

901
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. So I kick my feet

902
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,520
Speaker 3: up and I'll be the protector and the provider.

903
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: Okay, come on, protector, that's.

904
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 3: What a woman really wants. A woman wants to protect

905
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 3: her and a provider. Like, what are you doing if

906
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:10,399
Speaker 3: you go out on a date and say a man

907
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 3: disrespects you, what do you require from that man to do?

908
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:18,959
Speaker 3: Step in and what well rectify it? No?

909
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 2: I don't think that a man should ever put himself

910
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:23,720
Speaker 2: in a position where he could be taking to jail

911
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 2: police showing up. That puts him at risk, especially you

912
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 2: know if he people depend on him. He as children, Like,

913
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't play that.

914
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 3: What you're gonna do if you out and you're with

915
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: your man and some dude all drunk, he grab your

916
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 3: booty or something? What you expecting from your man?

917
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 1: Don't touch her?

918
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 3: That's weak, that's weak. You want him to beat his ass?

919
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 5: Right?

920
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 3: No, I don't What if he like, hey, homie, like

921
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 3: what what?

922
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 1: What?

923
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: And then they get into a physical conversation and then

924
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 3: he get his ass with what you're gonna do y'all

925
00:45:59,239 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 3: breaking up?

926
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 1: No, I'm not breaking up.

927
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 3: We didn't grab your booty. But then what you're gonna

928
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 3: do in the relationship? And he's respected to be the

929
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 3: protector and provide what you're gonna do.

930
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel bad. I don't know if.

931
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 3: With him, I'm not protect me from nothing. He let

932
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 3: another dude grandma and he got his ass.

933
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 2: Well, no, I'm gonna feel bad. I'm not gonna feel like. No,

934
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna break up to.

935
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 3: Be crazy, right, You ain't gonna be thinking that. Ain't

936
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 3: gonna be back When you're talking to your girlfriends and

937
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 3: they hear the story, were probably like you need to

938
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: get off him.

939
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 2: Nah, We're gonna be laughing and dying laughing like this

940
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 2: one got his as Like you.

941
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

942
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: I feel like you and my man gonna be laughing

943
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: together to like this was crazy.

944
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: I can't and the.

945
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 3: Dude grab your booty raised.

946
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's the break up. We was just

947
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: die laughing at that first the rest of the life.

948
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: If everybody got.

949
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 3: Your ass, that's wow, that.

950
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: Would be so crazy. I would cry like I would be.

951
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 2: I would feeling so bad at the moment though, Like

952
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 2: I know you didn't just get your ass to protect

953
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,879
Speaker 2: you exactly, and you did your big one.

954
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:20,240
Speaker 3: Baby.

955
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna say. Come on, baby, let's go.

956
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 3: We're gonna go patch you.

957
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 1: Up, and we're gonna get you right.

958
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 2: Like, I'm not gonna leave my man off of that.

959
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 2: I honestly don't want my man to have to fight

960
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 2: at all, like and put him in a bad predicament,

961
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 2: Like I don't.

962
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:34,040
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

963
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: I feel like at the end of the day, things

964
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 2: can be handled with words.

965
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 3: About black eye tricky. Yeah, like damn, he hold your hand,

966
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 3: black eyed up. That's tricky. Oh my god.

967
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: I think that you shouldn't be fighting, like, let it.

968
00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 3: Be protect you. Yeah, but that's disrespectful. What do you

969
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 3: expect from your man? On disrespect from another man in

970
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 3: front of y'all, Like, what do you expect from him? Though?

971
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 2: He probably just check him, like hey, hey, man, don't

972
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 2: be doing nothing.

973
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: No, you don't have the head, just you just you.

974
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 3: Just Yeah, that's a tough situation, though. That is a

975
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 3: tough situation for a man, you know what I'm saying, Yeah,

976
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 3: it is. I never want to get that situation to

977
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 3: where I got to put the heads on somebody. Situation

978
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 3: you got to be in for the man to put

979
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 3: the hands on somebody.

980
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: I don't know.

981
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 2: I remember I almost had that situation before, but that

982
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 2: didn't happen. They didn't fight, and it was a it

983
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: was a rapper too, and he's you know, no, I

984
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 2: wasn't with him. He I was in Vegas and my

985
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 2: ex was gambling at the table. Yeah, and this rapper,

986
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 2: famous guy, we actually seen him out together before. He

987
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 2: literally like I'm walking to the trash and I'm throwing

988
00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 2: something away and he quickly like grabbed my hand and

989
00:48:58,200 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 2: like try to spin.

990
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: Me around, right, And I was like whoa. And he's like,

991
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: you're the most beautiful woman I seen in Vegas.

992
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:07,480
Speaker 2: Like damn, like just going crazy right, And I was

993
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 2: like and I like crows up.

994
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:11,520
Speaker 1: I was like, cause I know my man was right there.

995
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: This is crazy.

996
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 2: And I was like, well, he's like why you look

997
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 2: like that. I was like, oh no, I was like,

998
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 2: my man is right here. And so he gets up

999
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 2: and he's like, hey, why you grab her like that?

1000
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: Da da da da da. And he was like and

1001
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:24,879
Speaker 1: he mind you.

1002
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 2: This is like a this rapper is like from La

1003
00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 2: like yeah, and he had like man with up, like

1004
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 2: different type of dudes with them, so they were all

1005
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 2: like what's up. And he only had him and his

1006
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 2: cousin right, so he was like, what's up.

1007
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: I was like, please, don't do any like I was.

1008
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 2: Like no, no, no, it's not even that serious y'all,

1009
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 2: like it's I promise you.

1010
00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: He didn't know that.

1011
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: You were right there like da da da da da,

1012
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, don't even do it, and they

1013
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 2: were like what's up.

1014
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: The dude was like hey, and all his homes like hey,

1015
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: what you want to do?

1016
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: You're trying to like want to get down da crazy

1017
00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 2: and they didn't end up fighting. I was so stres

1018
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 2: I was so stressed out. I was like, I do

1019
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 2: not want no one find over me. I don't like

1020
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 2: that feeling because then it feels like it's my fault

1021
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 2: or something, and I'm feeling crazy, Like I'm cool. I'm

1022
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 2: cool on that, Like I'm definitely cool on that.

1023
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 3: In no situation where you have to do something.

1024
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want that. Yeah, I don't like that.

1025
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 2: I don't want anyone to be in that situation, especially

1026
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 2: because like I have a brother in law that's really

1027
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 2: ready to kill down to like say what's up.

1028
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: And I will never call him or put him in

1029
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 1: no type of.

1030
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 2: Predicament ever, Like I've never done that because I don't

1031
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:35,880
Speaker 2: want you to like.

1032
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 1: I don't want nothing to happen to you.

1033
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:38,960
Speaker 2: You got kids, you got a wife, Like you're not

1034
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 2: about to be out here in jail because I'm stressed out,

1035
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 2: like unless it's some serious, serious, serious shit, like literally,

1036
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,879
Speaker 2: I feel that. Okay, So anyways, let's do one fan

1037
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 2: question before we wrap up. I feel like my man

1038
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: loves me but doesn't like me like you he last

1039
00:50:58,880 --> 00:50:59,439
Speaker 2: hand to hand.

1040
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. You can love someone but not like them.

1041
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 3: So what does it mean to love and not like?

1042
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 1: You tell me.

1043
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 3: Like, I feel like like and love go hand in hand.

1044
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:14,800
Speaker 2: No, because you can love song. I love my sister,

1045
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 2: but I might not like her at all. You can

1046
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 2: love someone but you don't like them, like I love you,

1047
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 2: but like you're blowing me like your personality everything I've

1048
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:25,720
Speaker 2: been in that situation.

1049
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 3: You don't have somebody's back that you like or love.

1050
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: That's a good one. I don't know both. Probably, so if.

1051
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 3: You love them, you got their back. If you like them,

1052
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:44,320
Speaker 3: you got their back too, probably. Yeah, difference.

1053
00:51:44,960 --> 00:51:47,719
Speaker 2: I think that when you like someone, there is a difference.

1054
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: Because you can love someone you're like, I love you

1055
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,279
Speaker 2: because I have this bond with you, this history with you,

1056
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 2: this attachment with you, this familiarality with you.

1057
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: But do I like you as a person?

1058
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 2: Not really like I've been in that position before where

1059
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't even like you for real, you

1060
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying.

1061
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: But anyways, let's get into the question.

1062
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 2: I went through my man's phone and didn't find cheating,

1063
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 2: but I saw him venting about me to another woman.

1064
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 1: Should I leave him for that?

1065
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 3: Who's the woman? Been cousin?

1066
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:25,879
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. No, I don't know. Let's say it's

1067
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 1: not the cousin. Let's say it's not the cousin.

1068
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 3: Depends on who it is. What was this auntie?

1069
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: It's not family, it's a woman. Just get into the

1070
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 2: fact that it's just a woman.

1071
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 3: First of all, why are you vent to a woman?

1072
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 3: Do you like her? Is she attractive? It's just your homegirl.

1073
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 3: Do you have friends that you can vent to? No,

1074
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 3: don't vent to no female that Yeah, don't don't know.

1075
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,280
Speaker 3: You can't vent to no girl.

1076
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine venting to me. In venting to a man

1077
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 2: about my relationship ship?

1078
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 1: What you want him to know?

1079
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:02,919
Speaker 3: The girl?

1080
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: You asking so many questions. It's not.

1081
00:53:08,080 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 3: All right, So like say it depends. It all depends

1082
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 3: on the girl, because say he's venting to your homegirl,

1083
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 3: and y'all both cool and y'all know, y'all cool. He

1084
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 3: got your homegirl, not your best friend or something. He

1085
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 3: just man wanted to tell her because maybe he can

1086
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 3: get through to her, so she can he can get

1087
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 3: she can get through.

1088
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 2: No, it's not that like for instance, like I might

1089
00:53:26,920 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 2: vent to like my boyfriend, his cousin or something, or

1090
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 2: his best friend because I know he's going to give

1091
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 2: me advice on like, okay, he loves you, don't like,

1092
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: he's not going to be a can'st the man.

1093
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: So that's a good person to vent to.

1094
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 2: But as far as like a random it has nothing

1095
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 2: to do with them, then that's crazy to me.

1096
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 3: There's only certain people you're allowed to vent to. Family, yeah,

1097
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:52,000
Speaker 3: and your close friends. Like if it's the opposite sex,

1098
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:57,799
Speaker 3: he has to know him or she has to know her.

1099
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't trust the opposite sex friends fear point blank.

1100
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 2: And that's just where I'm at. Don't vent to nobody about.

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00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 3: Meund right for a god to vent to a girl

1102
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 3: you got homies that you can be like, man, you

1103
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 3: know what I'm going through this.

1104
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: You vented to a girl.

1105
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: I've been in that situation. You vented to a girl

1106
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 2: as a way to be like, well, I'm here for you,

1107
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 2: like weird stuff I don't have time from. I've seen that,

1108
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: and I've literally read text messures of a man venting

1109
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 2: to a girl about me. And then what next episodes

1110
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 2: y'all are venting in the bed and let me tell

1111
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 2: you about that.

1112
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: No, we're not doing that.

1113
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 6: So anyways, this is taking over the game, all right, everybody,

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00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 6: welcome to Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 1: Do you think that men or women are more toxic