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Speaker 1: My husband is marrying his mistress and demands our daughters

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Speaker 1: should attend, but I won't have it. Am I the

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Speaker 1: a whole? Are you pro mistress marrying? That's that's the

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Speaker 1: question here. Uh, yes, I am, yeah, marry that mistress.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I actually, well what I think happened is you

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Speaker 2: should every time you have a mistress, they should be

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Speaker 2: added to the rotation. Okay, of like how I've never

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Speaker 2: played fantasy football, but like, would you just like add

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Speaker 2: players to your roster, add to wives to your marriage roster?

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Speaker 2: Right and so and actually this is in line with

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Speaker 2: the great kings of biblical times. You just you know,

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Speaker 2: you got you got your your harem. You really like them,

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Speaker 2: Adam to the roster boom. I don't think there's biblically

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Speaker 2: nothing wrong with it. Yes, societally nothing wrong with it. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: No, women love it, men love it, men love it,

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Speaker 1: children love it.

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Speaker 2: Me. Polyamory coming to a town near you.

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Speaker 1: You heard it here first, folks. Yeah, we're you know,

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Speaker 1: we're on top of the trend. That's right, that's where

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Speaker 1: we are, the late TikTok trend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Late Actually, like polyamory TikTok is like a thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure. That is a strong community. That's a thriving community.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 1: So my forty two female ex husband forty five male

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Speaker 1: and I were together.

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Speaker 2: For twenty years. Dang, twenty years back in decade. That's

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Speaker 2: a lot of life shared together. That's that's unfortunate. It's

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Speaker 2: too much life shared together. You get yeah, earlier, we

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Speaker 2: get divorced after ten years, hurt to the bottom of

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Speaker 2: the rotation. There we go. That just come to the top.

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Speaker 2: That's how we do it.

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Speaker 1: We got a divorce five years ago due to infidelity

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Speaker 1: on Hey, yo, divorce, big go, which one is it

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Speaker 1: for five hundred?

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Speaker 2: You the man who's inside another woman? Winner of the

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Speaker 2: man who's inside the other woman?

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Speaker 1: Hey, we got to imagine him on a game show

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Speaker 1: and he's just like, it's like the woman right there,

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Speaker 1: like you, they committed infinelity on the game show. Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey would not like that, or maybe you would join in.

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Speaker 1: I heard Steve Harvey cheat and his wife. When your

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Speaker 1: mustache looks that good, how can you not I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to take a little nibble.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to arrive on that, Harvey. I'm just trying

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Speaker 2: to ride that mustache right there. That's all right, No,

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Speaker 2: tickle my tint with that thing. Baby. I was devastated.

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Speaker 1: He was the love of my life and he betrayed

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Speaker 2: I mean twenty years, that's yeah, that's that's a massive

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Speaker 2: I love how like deep the sadness is right after

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Speaker 2: a right after Steve Harvey allaints with mustaches. Yes, I

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Speaker 2: feel for you, op, Yes, although I don't because I've

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Speaker 2: never been in a twenty year relationship. That's true. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so I'll call you when I have one.

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Speaker 1: Get in a twenty year relationship, have your have your wife,

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Speaker 1: marry her mistress, and then call call us back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but honestly, I won't care because I know vows

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Speaker 2: don't last beyond your Yeah, it's beyond the expiation. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: of course expiration dates people. That's right. To make matters worse.

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Speaker 1: He ended up in a relationship with the woman he

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Speaker 1: cheated on me with classy.

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Speaker 2: See, Like that's what sucks when when the like infidelity

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Speaker 2: but now they're fucking happy. Words that's the absolute words.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like a double it's a double wavvy.

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Speaker 2: You want you you want the person that cheats on

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Speaker 2: you to be miserable? Oh I want to be happy

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Speaker 2: of course. Yeah yeah, damn yeah. The saint good.

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Speaker 1: They they got engaged on one year later and are

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Speaker 1: damn bro. Honestly I have no chill. Yeah, honestly, I

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Speaker 1: am still heartbroken over my divorce. It's hurtful to me

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Speaker 1: that we were together for twenty years and he could

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Speaker 1: I was nothing. Oh oh horror pie, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: That's a good that's a good comeback move. I like that.

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Speaker 1: I would love to make a show where it's literally

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Speaker 1: just getting back at cheaters by getting with their dads.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I think that would be a great There's.

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Speaker 1: There's a whole guy who gets a women back together

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Speaker 1: with their exes.

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Speaker 1: This is a plug for that. Like, if you need

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Speaker 1: helping them get with their cheaters dads. Yeah, that's all

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, that's a that's a p s A

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Speaker 1: Dot com domain purchased. However, take that from us, Yeah

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Speaker 1: you do send us a lake. Yes, Now, Joscelyn was

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Speaker 1: I say, great father, but I guess good with her.

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Speaker 1: You know this, this this, you know this man's coming

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Speaker 1: right in between those bonds. Man is being bondaged and

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Speaker 1: You know who does call him a great father? It's mistread,

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Speaker 1: hey boo. Joscelyn loves Joscelyn loves his fiance as she's

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Speaker 1: good in the second. That's the real reason.

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Speaker 2: I want to tell her.

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Speaker 1: I want to tell her when she's a bit older,

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Speaker 1: and he doesn't want to tell her at all.

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Speaker 2: Surprise, surprise, good grade ruin the reputation.

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Speaker 1: I mean, of course that would got to know what

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Speaker 1: but I could see waiting anyways, I compromise with him

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Speaker 1: I want no part of it.

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Speaker 2: Fair, that's very fair, completely fair.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to what is like, is the ex

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so hurtful. Have a good day, sweetie.

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Speaker 1: No, yikes, I don't want want to drop my daughter off.

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Speaker 1: more than reasons. Yeah, completely, Pharaoh Jesus, I don't want

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Speaker 1: Today he calls me and asks it. Today he calls

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Speaker 2: Oh god.

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Speaker 1: It turns out that his future in laws are flying

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Speaker 1: in the morning of the wedding and he has to

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Speaker 1: go pick them up. Therefore, he can't pick up my

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you asked too much, Oh much, too much? Man Like, First,

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Speaker 2: ask for anything after you cheat, exactly. I said, absolutely

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Speaker 2: not there we gotcha class. Yeah, and asked why he

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Speaker 1: A completely reasonable thought, pick her up and have her

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Speaker 1: stay over the night of smart le we go. She's

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Speaker 1: your daughter, op, is a problem solving yes?

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Speaker 2: He uh. He said he doesn't want to make the

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Speaker 1: No, it's your fucking wedding God, and that he will

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Speaker 2: Done and won't be able to.

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Speaker 1: This guy just gut punching op seriously, like God, he

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Speaker 1: has absolutely no like like, no shame, no shame.

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Speaker 2: I would just tell the daughter right then Bro.

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Speaker 1: Actually that, Bro, that's a loaded, loaded clip right there.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I said, here, all right, I'll take the

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Speaker 2: who you really are, no good, dirty infidelity cheater.

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Speaker 1: I laughed and told him that there's no way I

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Speaker 2: There we go. I mean, yeah, that should have been

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Speaker 2: zaid a while ago. Boy is a drink boy. Why

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Speaker 1: My daughter ran downstairs crying, face beat red, ten minutes

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Speaker 2: Bro, this is she's keeping the biggest secret. Free, She's

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Speaker 1: And she looks like an a hole because if she

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Speaker 1: I told her that's uh. I told her that's not

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Speaker 1: I couldn't give her an answer, and she ran upstairs.

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Speaker 1: Come on, oh pee, let it loose. Now I'm getting

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Speaker 2: Over, dude. It's just it's a year, and it's the

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Speaker 1: Like you would think you would think, like they would

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Speaker 1: But she knew his family for twenty years and like

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Speaker 2: Dude. I mean it took me. It took me a

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Speaker 2: twenty years, Like you need more than it is.

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Speaker 1: Jeez. My family understood, My family understands my point of view.

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Speaker 1: Thank god you have some support. Yeah, but I feel

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Speaker 2: I say, all, I got the solution. I got the solution,

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Speaker 2: all right, take her to the wedding right before, tell

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Speaker 2: Let it lose, dude, that is a power move.

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Speaker 1: Be like, I'm going to take you to the wedding

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Speaker 1: now and I will explain.

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Speaker 2: Everything when we get there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then drop it that that is.

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Speaker 2: Crazy and just say hey, like, I know, I wasn't

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Speaker 2: you know I was? I was. I was holding something

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Speaker 2: This is why it's so hard for me to take

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Speaker 2: just tell her I love that. Excuse me, I love that.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna, I'm gonna tell me tell me what, like, like,

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Speaker 2: what what is the best form of revenge? Guys?

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Speaker 1: My challenge to you all is do something even even

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Speaker 2: That's that's what I How can you make this even

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Speaker 2: more catastrophic? Pull up with a glock act. It's like,

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Speaker 2: does anyone have any objections? I object I do. Let's

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Speaker 2: see if there's any interesting Yeah, dude, at the at

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Speaker 2: the at the vows, eye up Jack literally if you

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Speaker 2: let's let's think it quick.

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Speaker 1: Critic comments running Away six seven nine oh seven says,

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Speaker 1: not the a hole, But I also think your daughter

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Speaker 1: Otherwise you will be the bad guy.

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Speaker 2: Agreed. Agreed, And we heard that in another story where

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Speaker 2: like the guy didn't say anything and all his daughters

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Speaker 2: hated him exactly like existence to come out exactly like.

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Speaker 1: Otherwise you're gonna end up the bad guy when you

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Speaker 1: I'll read this one last one, OPI. You're letting your

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Speaker 1: ex ruin relationship between you and your daughter. I don't

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Speaker 1: think he does it on purpose, but it's really convenient

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Speaker 1: to him. Moms are allowed to have feelings too, and

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Speaker 1: it's good for a kid to see a mother standing

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Speaker 1: up for herself true and handling her feelings with honesty

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Speaker 1: and grace. Don't force her to believe that her mother

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Speaker 1: puts herself, puts her selfish butt before her daughter. That

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Speaker 1: that doesn't only hurt, but also affects a kid's life

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Speaker 1: and creates trust issues. Tell her that you love her

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Speaker 1: and will never get between her and her dad, Tell

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Speaker 1: her that even though you're still hurt and this would

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Speaker 1: be too much for you to take. Explain that people

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Speaker 1: can be, that people can be more than just plain

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Speaker 1: good or bad. Your ex is a bad husband, but

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Speaker 1: a great father. Reassure that her feelings are valid and

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Speaker 1: that she'll never have to pick sides, and then apologize

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Speaker 1: to her for letting her be in the dark for

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Speaker 1: so long. This matter has affected her life too. She

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Speaker 2: Dang one hundred percent. That is so factual. Yeah, that yes,

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Speaker 2: it's kind of like, you know, like how crabs shed

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Speaker 1: You're shedding yourself of the shell of your former wife exactly.

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Speaker 2: You're laughing. This is I'm serious. This is serious stuff.

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Speaker 2: Serious stuffy vows are only good for ten years.

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Speaker 1: There we go. I heard that on a podcast. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is a podcast.

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Speaker 2: Just now.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna start doing that. I heard I heard on

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Speaker 1: this podcast. Right, told Okob, some some academic professionals, if

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Speaker 1: you ever get in trouble with your marriage, as long

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Speaker 1: as it's over ten years, you're chilling.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Vows have an expiration day. It's not till

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Speaker 2: death do we part. Still ten years, that's the final

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Speaker 2: ten years, fine fine print. Think about it, Like in

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Speaker 2: ancient days you only lived until you're twenty. You get

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Speaker 2: married at ten, true, that is ten years. Like, that's

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Speaker 2: why the vows are supposed to expire. There we go.

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Speaker 2: You're a different person you were when you got married exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm no longer applied. I was very different at twenty

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Speaker 2: That's an abster fact, you know. I think Also, it's like,

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Speaker 2: if you're constantly growing and you're constantly trying to better yourself,

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Speaker 2: you are not the same man that made those vows.

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Speaker 2: Thus you can't be shackled by them. Of course that

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Speaker 2: And this is the most gas lighting thing. You just

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Speaker 2: get babe, Do you want to limit my growth as

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Speaker 2: a man? How could you? How dare you? How dare you?

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Speaker 2: And I heard on this podcast vowser only Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Ladies and Gentlemen. That was a that's the deepest Sam

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Speaker 1: is dug in quite a while.

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Speaker 2: So I'm digging my heels. I'm proud of you for

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Speaker 2: doubling things. Thanks. Everyone in the comments is gonna hate this.

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Speaker 2: Told the story alrund, Yeah, shut up, Shut the funk up.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think I listened to this podcast that.

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Speaker 1: Is here Solomon and he told me that you didn't

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Speaker 2: You know you're gonna hear my thoughts in marriage, whether

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Speaker 2: you like it or not. That's right. Now. We have

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Speaker 2: We want to do everything for you. We actually did listen.

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