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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second Date Update. We've got a guy
Speaker 1: named Chris on the phone for a second Date update today,
Speaker 1: and I've been warned by our producer that I should
Speaker 1: probably try and speak to him very very quietly. I
Speaker 1: don't know why, Chris. Are you sitting in a bog
Speaker 1: hunting ducks? Oh that's an option? Are you in a library? Well?
Speaker 1: What's going on? I'm just sill hungover last night, classic Chris.
Speaker 1: Come on, Chris, man up, get some bacon. You didn't
Speaker 1: know that we were doing the second Date update today.
Speaker 1: I mean I just emailed you a while ago. I
Speaker 1: really think you get back to me. So Clark, okay,
Speaker 1: you usually give you a day or two though, notice,
Speaker 1: So well, I guess there's nothing I was gonna get
Speaker 1: smashes as I did. Yeah, that's what everyone says. We've
Speaker 1: all been there going for one drink. I swear I'm
Speaker 1: sure two or three of us are hungover today too,
Speaker 1: so don't worry. All right, So take a moment, think
Speaker 1: for a second really hard. Who is the girl that
Speaker 1: you went out with a few days ago. What's her name?
Speaker 1: It's Karen Hu And how did you meet Karen? Well, like,
Speaker 1: this isn't totally a second date update because I actually
Speaker 1: went on two dates with her. So is that still
Speaker 1: all right? Yeah, you guys, it's fine. All right, We're
Speaker 1: gonna make an exception for you. Chris, all right, lazy, okay,
Speaker 1: So tell us, tell us a little bit about Karen.
Speaker 1: So I'm matched with her on tender and uh, we
Speaker 1: went out to a bar, had a good time. I
Speaker 1: mean I don't always get like wasted. But because you
Speaker 1: went to a bar, history hasn't proven you wrong. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: Wait were you drunk that night too, just like you
Speaker 1: were last night? I was pretty sober when I got there.
Speaker 1: It was all good, pretty sober, sober, good Chris, Thanks
Speaker 1: all right? So how was the first half before you
Speaker 1: got wasted? I was good. I mean, she's a nice girl,
Speaker 1: and like, we have a lot of similar tastes and stuff.
Speaker 1: Then we end up doing some shots and I don't
Speaker 1: know how we got there. But I ended up talking
Speaker 1: about my X too much, and I know that's like
Speaker 1: not a good move. No, No, it's bad. Was she
Speaker 1: talking about her X though too? I mean that's the
Speaker 1: only thing that can kind of make it okay? Well,
Speaker 1: depends on who your ex is. I mean, if you
Speaker 1: have like a Kardashian as one of your X, that
Speaker 1: could be a good talking point. Yeah, that doesn't usually
Speaker 1: work for me. No, you didn't take Kylie Jenner before? No? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: this probably was a pretty bad conversation then. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: when you're talking about your ex, was it like you're
Speaker 1: angry with her? You're lamenting her? Where's your emotions on
Speaker 1: your AX right now? Well? I mean I started out
Speaker 1: and I was kind of angry about it, but then
Speaker 1: I ended up getting a little sad. Oh god, and
Speaker 1: I got angry again, you know, because I was mad
Speaker 1: that I was getting sad. Were there any tears being shed?
Speaker 1: Not that date? That date? Okay? No? What alcohol does
Speaker 1: take people a wire range. If you're feeling a little sad,
Speaker 1: you're very sad, I know. But you don't want to
Speaker 1: go through all those emotions with someone you're on a
Speaker 1: first date or second date with I guess and like,
Speaker 1: I definitely should not have done that, and I realized
Speaker 1: I messed up. Yeah, so was the second date and
Speaker 1: improvement or did we somehow go even further downhill the
Speaker 1: second time? It wasn't my fault. I mean the bard
Speaker 1: had this really good special going and I sometimes when
Speaker 1: it comes to drinking, I I'm a bargaining country, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know. Two dollars PBRs. Man. You can't say no,
Speaker 1: Chris by one shot good, one free. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: say no to a second shot. Tell me I didn't
Speaker 1: start talking about your ax again. I did again, and
Speaker 1: that was when I crying. Cry. Real men aren't afraid
Speaker 1: to shed their tears, Chris. It's okay, yeah, no, that
Speaker 1: that is true. But again, not on the second date
Speaker 1: where you promise that this wouldn't happen again. Now there's rules.
Speaker 1: Women are allowed to cry, but not till after the
Speaker 1: second day. Gosh, women are impossible, Am I right? Chris? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah twice? And all of a sudden, did Karen stick
Speaker 1: around or she just get up and leave? Uh? I
Speaker 1: don't remember. You're great out for that part. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: I wanted the bathroom came back a while later and
Speaker 1: she just wasn't there anymore. What do you think drove
Speaker 1: her away? Oh? I don't know. Hopefully an uber because
Speaker 1: she's pretty drink. Oh my god, you are a hot mess.
Speaker 1: I like him, of course you do, because it sounds
Speaker 1: like you're talking to yourself. That is what it feels
Speaker 1: like for you, all right. So yeah, I now I
Speaker 1: messed up, and I definitely shouldn't have cried, but like
Speaker 1: it started out because I was so happy that she's
Speaker 1: given me another chance, and then you know, that kind
Speaker 1: of marshed with the alcohol into me crying about my ex.
Speaker 1: And I'm sitting at a bar, realized and I'm crying
Speaker 1: about two women at the same time. Why why should
Speaker 1: Karen give you another shot? A third shot? And I'm
Speaker 1: a good guy and she's had a fine time with me.
Speaker 1: It's just did I messed up? He knows a good
Speaker 1: drink special when he sees one, there's a positive. I
Speaker 1: just feel like you should just call this one a
Speaker 1: loss and move forward. He Brook wants you to give
Speaker 1: up on your hopes and dreams immediately. But we believe
Speaker 1: in you, Chris, appreciate you. Yeah, Chris. I mean if
Speaker 1: Karen was my girlfriend, I would tell her, dude, no way,
Speaker 1: do not go out with this guy again. I mean
Speaker 1: two brooks point. What should we say to her if
Speaker 1: we can get her on the phone, Like, how should
Speaker 1: we try and convince her that you're worth giving another shot?
Speaker 1: To um? All right, that sounds good, So maybe you
Speaker 1: should go pound like a red Bull vodka during the break. Well,
Speaker 1: we just need him to perk up a little bit
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna play a song. Come back. We'll
Speaker 1: call Karen and try and get you a third date. Update.
Speaker 1: This is a disaster if you guys can get her
Speaker 1: to go on a date with me again. I promised
Speaker 1: all of you I won't get drunk again this time.
Speaker 1: Does anyone in this room believe him? I don't hold
Speaker 1: on Chris sudate. If you're just tuning in for today's
Speaker 1: second date update, we're on the phone with one of
Speaker 1: our listeners named Chris. And Chris recently took a girl
Speaker 1: out on two bad dates with a girl Na Karen,
Speaker 1: where both times he got too intoxicated and ended up
Speaker 1: talking about his ex been there. Yeah, he cried on
Speaker 1: the second date, not the first one, before Karen finally
Speaker 1: ditched him. So now he's hoping that we can get
Speaker 1: him one more chance in the third date. Will be
Speaker 1: the charm. Yeah, and promises not to drink on the
Speaker 1: third date. He didn't say not to drink. He said
Speaker 1: he wouldn't get drunk. There's a big difference there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on now, Chris, buddy, how you feeling right now?
Speaker 1: A little better? I'm kind of nervous, so I went
Speaker 1: ahead and the little hair of the Dog. No, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just need something on a level a little bit. Chris,
Speaker 1: alcohol is your enemy right now? Okay, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's a good thing. You probably don't want to remember
Speaker 1: this call. If it's going to go the way I
Speaker 1: think it's about to go, it cannot be worse than
Speaker 1: his first two days. There's no way. So, Chris, you're
Speaker 1: asking us to do something though that we don't normally.
Speaker 1: Do you want us to call this woman after you've
Speaker 1: already been out on two unsuccessful dates but we haven't
Speaker 1: really heard yet? Like, what do you like about this
Speaker 1: girl so much? She seems like a lot more put
Speaker 1: together than a lot of the women I meet, and
Speaker 1: she has a really nice laugh, and we had a
Speaker 1: lot of things in common. I thought we were having
Speaker 1: a good time. Okay, I was having a good time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you were good time with all three of her. Yeah.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna say that this isn't going to happen,
Speaker 1: but I have I have been surprised before, so uns
Speaker 1: I guess let's give it a go. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: I'm ready. Let's go ahead and do it. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm about the phone number right now here we go?
Speaker 1: Oh hi, can I speak to Karen please? Well, so spa. Hey,
Speaker 1: my name's young Jeffrey and I work for the morning
Speaker 1: radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, Like the
Speaker 1: what the radio, my dear, yep, the radio radio, the
Speaker 1: real deal. Give a moment to talk with us, um
Speaker 1: about this is not going to get better, Karen, I'm
Speaker 1: just scared. So the reason why we're calling is we
Speaker 1: do something on our show called a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards
Speaker 1: they're not calling you back, you can reach out to
Speaker 1: us and we'll try and get a hold of them
Speaker 1: to figure out the reason why. Okay, okay, so we're
Speaker 1: calling about a guy that you went out with not once,
Speaker 1: but twice. Oh my god, against your better judgment. And
Speaker 1: his name is Chris. Oh my god, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he just regained consciousness and he wanted us to call you. Well,
Speaker 1: that does not surprise me. Oh my god, sounds like
Speaker 1: a hot mess. He is a hot mess. That is
Speaker 1: a very accurate description. Yeah, we know about the dates.
Speaker 1: He told us that he knows they didn't go perfectly.
Speaker 1: That's an understanding. I mean he's self aware for sure.
Speaker 1: It feels like we know why you're not calling him back.
Speaker 1: What did you say, Well, I mean he said that
Speaker 1: you went on a date. He ended up getting a
Speaker 1: little bit too, you drunk at the bar and talking
Speaker 1: about his ex a little bit. And then he yeah,
Speaker 1: he told us. He told us that from angry to euphoric,
Speaker 1: and it went through the full range of emotions and
Speaker 1: he felt terrible about it, and then he asked for
Speaker 1: a second chance. And then he kind of did the
Speaker 1: same thing on the second date and cried even Yeah,
Speaker 1: he discovers so emotional and I it kind of came
Speaker 1: out of nowhere. He did say he was crying about
Speaker 1: two women, not just as ex, but he's also cried
Speaker 1: and joy because you gave him a second shot, and
Speaker 1: that really brought him to tears. Oh, I went out
Speaker 1: on a second date with him because I mean, it
Speaker 1: wasn't even thinking of it as a date. I was
Speaker 1: more like I felt so bad for him because obviously
Speaker 1: he's not taking this break up well, and so I
Speaker 1: just wanted to be a buddy and like a therapist
Speaker 1: to him, like help work through it. Yeah, he is
Speaker 1: just such a big mass. Well I gotta wait, hold on, Karen,
Speaker 1: I gotta say, if you went on this second date
Speaker 1: that you were going as a buddy and a therapist,
Speaker 1: it was kind of a crappy move to then ditch
Speaker 1: him at the end of the night. Is that what
Speaker 1: he said that I did him? Well, yeah, to be fair,
Speaker 1: he didn't exactly remember what happened at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, but he thinks that you walked out. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I did not, in fact, just ditch him. I called
Speaker 1: him an uber because you know, I mean, it wasn't
Speaker 1: safe for him to drive home and crying and drunk. Also,
Speaker 1: they just started getting really weird and why I just
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I have to shut this down. Something
Speaker 1: else was weird about the date too. Oh yeah, So
Speaker 1: he started talking about his ex and then he was
Speaker 1: saying how they really really loved watching Making of a
Speaker 1: Murderer and like that's what you know they bonded over
Speaker 1: and the Netflix documentary. Yeah, well it is a pretty
Speaker 1: emotional series, so if you do get engrossed in it,
Speaker 1: it could really bring you to tears. But I can
Speaker 1: also see if you're hanging out with a guy you
Speaker 1: don't know and he's crying over how to make a
Speaker 1: murder or whatever. I haven't seen it. It's a documentary
Speaker 1: that it would be kind of like a red flag.
Speaker 1: There's a difference between viewing and taking it to another extreme. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good point. Well, I feel like this is
Speaker 1: something that we need to ask directly to Chris. What
Speaker 1: are you a murderer? That's not what the series is about.
Speaker 1: We have to understand his emotions because Chris has actually
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening and he wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Are you here, Yeah, Chris, he's still awake. Hey, hey, Karen,
Speaker 1: Oh Chris, I didn't know you're on the phone. That
Speaker 1: makes me feel better. I guess what, Chris, do you
Speaker 1: remember crying over how to or what is the show called?
Speaker 1: Make a murder? False imprisonment really hits hard for me,
Speaker 1: you know, he's right. So wait, do you remember crying
Speaker 1: about it on your date? Yeah? I guess so it's
Speaker 1: kind of floating back in there, you know. Well, you
Speaker 1: can see how that would be a little bit awkward
Speaker 1: for Karen to have to comfort you through that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do you want to say something? You like called us
Speaker 1: to fight for your chance at another shot with this girl,
Speaker 1: and you're just like silent right now. I didn't know
Speaker 1: there was gonna be now, Chris, look, you need to
Speaker 1: talk to Karen right now so that we can try
Speaker 1: and help you to get another date. But you have
Speaker 1: to do a little bit of the work here, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, at me, I'm sorry Chris overall. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess why you might be over emotional. I just
Speaker 1: I really think you're just not ready to date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: where my emotions on my sleeves? And that's something you
Speaker 1: can't handle it. That's so stand upul he's getting drunk, Chris,
Speaker 1: What do you think you're ready to date? Yeah? I'm
Speaker 1: ready to date. Man, chrisrying? I think he's crying. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not, Chris, bud. Yeah, are you okay? You get
Speaker 1: a little emotional right now? No? I think buddy, that
Speaker 1: you need to maybe spend some U time, just like
Speaker 1: Karen sane and maybe put down the alcohol for a
Speaker 1: while and go watch the second part of Making Him.
Speaker 1: It'll it'll take some time off. You could sober up
Speaker 1: and then you can rethink what we're doing here. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think this is like the best time for
Speaker 1: me to be alone. I mean, Karen's a good listener
Speaker 1: and that's the kind of support that I need right now. Karen.
Speaker 1: He needs you, and that's what every woman needs in
Speaker 1: her life. I need you. I am so sorry, but
Speaker 1: we Chris, you're there? Yeah? Okay, I couldn't tell from
Speaker 1: the the awkward silence. Yeah, this could be going on forever.
Speaker 1: I need to like get back to my life and okay, yeah, well,
Speaker 1: let's put your life on hold for one more second
Speaker 1: and let me ask you. Would you be willing to
Speaker 1: go out on another date with Chris? We'll pay for it? What? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Is that a joke? Part? I have to ask at
Speaker 1: the end of each one of these segments, did you
Speaker 1: guys like to go out again? Karen? What do you please? So? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Chris, No, you need to reach out
Speaker 1: to your real friends. Chris, I don't think you're begging
Speaker 1: and crying hard enough issue. You got to really really
Speaker 1: dig into it. If you wanted to say yes, no,
Speaker 1: that is not the issue. If you want, I think
Speaker 1: it's worth a shot, I mean left to lose. Guys,
Speaker 1: you guys, seriously, I'm not going out on a date
Speaker 1: with this guy. Yeah, okay, that's smart. What did we
Speaker 1: learn Chris today? What did we learn? Um, try not
Speaker 1: to email people until you're ready to get on the radio. No,
Speaker 1: not quite, I mean, but also yes, the thing we
Speaker 1: learned is never pass up a deal on four for
Speaker 1: one long island iced teas. What bar's that going on?
Speaker 1: Let's hang out to night Moving ninety two point five