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Speaker 1: And it's Tam Bam. Y'all were here and look, we

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Speaker 1: we got the lovely Jenney Smith, Davon Rees, and India Money.

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Speaker 1: I believe they're all based out of Atlanta, Georgia, and

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Speaker 1: Um even a little bit about their relationships. You know,

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Speaker 1: thank you for cutting here. So um, tell us all

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Speaker 1: I am staying investor here based in Atlanta. My entry

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Speaker 1: So that that that kind of begins this charity, right

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Speaker 1: and Davon? Are you always sposive to black men? Yeah,

424
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: I don't do others. I don't know what. To me,

425
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, let's do cute Like it's kind of

426
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 1: like seeing kids just like you know, attracted, you know

427
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like like that, But we as brock

428
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: women really exclusive to black men, but they aren't exclusive

429
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 1: to and that's why we end up sharing so much

430
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: more than we would like to. I think I love

431
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: my brothers, I support I support my black man, So

432
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: I would date, you know, I've never actually dated that.

433
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,360
Speaker 1: I did go back when I was young. I did

434
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: day That's how my race. I dated as someone who's cubing.

435
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: So that's probably the only time I dated outside that's

436
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: still like a right, still a minority. Yeah, but I

437
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: never like, don't you feel like white men always state

438
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: women that looks like really more like ethic or African? Yes,

439
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: I don't think they're really attracted like like brown girls,

440
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: I don't I haven't seen so why guy never really

441
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: tried to I say that back when I was in Boston,

442
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: I had like a couple of white guys trying to

443
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: talk to me, but real dark skinned girls with big

444
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: titties and naphew, that's what they like. I haven't seen

445
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: some nap we've like this one girl had like a

446
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: mop on her head, like like, let me tell you.

447
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,120
Speaker 1: I have a whole theory about that. And why when

448
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: you see white man with a more ethnic looking woman,

449
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: because you know, the whole thing out here, the whole

450
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: conspiracy is that white people numbers are declining. Right when

451
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 1: you especially like in your places like that, you see

452
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 1: a lot of black women with white men. That's they're

453
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 1: trying to survive. At this point, I really feel that way.

454
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 1: I really feel like it's like a vival of the

455
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: fittest at this point, because over here you you'll see

456
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 1: more black men with white women, right. The genes are

457
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: stronger that way. But I really feel like, like these

458
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,840
Speaker 1: white men, they're trying to survive, so why not get

459
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 1: with a white woman? I mean, a black woman that

460
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: can produce a black woman is not going to create

461
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 1: a white child. I don't understand what you mean by that. Yeah,

462
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 1: but then the man in the home is gonna have

463
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: like the biggest influence on the house. Right. So science

464
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: says it only takes three generations to change the race.

465
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: So now if you have the black man to the

466
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 1: white white man to the black woman, three more generations,

467
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: you should get another white person. Oh god, I've never heard,

468
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: never heard that. I read it black black black. That's

469
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:38,479
Speaker 1: not true, which is not true. Look at look at

470
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: Mega Marco, Look at Mega Marco. Her baby is white.

471
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: Her baby is white. Right now, that's why that black

472
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: women's children will then be part white, and then you

473
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: so on and so forth. So now if your father

474
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: is white, usually so you have in America, you have

475
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: black men that are with white women, right, so they

476
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 1: are there're nine times out of tend are more inclined

477
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: to then be with black men. If you are a

478
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: black woman with a white man and pro creating, because

479
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: the man is still going to be the head at

480
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: the home for the most part, your children will probably

481
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: be more inclined to be with white men. Do you

482
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. So you have by wracial children,

483
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 1: then going with white men. Are they gonna go back

484
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: to a black man? We don't know because they weren't

485
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: even raised by one. That's what that black point was like. Typically,

486
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 1: if you know a bi racial male who has a

487
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: white mother, he could women and as much as he

488
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: like black women bodies, like you, you let your seed

489
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: going too. I don't want to call it a seed,

490
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: you let your air because we're talking about somebody who's

491
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 1: worth millions and millions of dollars. You're now transferring for

492
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: in that world to this Caucasian woman or whatever her

493
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: you know, whatever it is that she is. So um yeah,

494
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: like you, you like black women bodies, so you get

495
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: you a white woman who has the features, and that's

496
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: who you procreate with. Like that's a white man. Drake

497
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: is a white man, right, Daddy is always black, he

498
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 1: is not white man. Alright. Question, So do you feel

499
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: a ladies are India and Davon are y'all single? Y'all single?

500
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 1: Do you feel like it's harder dating now that you

501
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: have you know, greater wealth? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I mean

502
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 1: it is. It's kind of Yeah, where where are you located?

503
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: Both of you? So? I know it's harder because especially

504
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: when you just want black men, because the numbers are

505
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: slim out there. Baby, The numbers of men out there

506
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: that are actually interested in women and then actually as

507
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: interested in black women is very small out there. No,

508
00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: you have the cipher through. Yeah, guys that have gone

509
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: to jail. There's guys that are bi sexual. There's guys

510
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: that are just um, you know, straight gay, um, guys

511
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: that have a lot of kids. Like, there's a lot

512
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: that you have to kind of um doubts through and Atlanta.

513
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: To me, I'm originally from Chicago. This is a very

514
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 1: big difference and I got here, but I think men

515
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: here are for precied with who you are. What do

516
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: you do when he brings this table? If you say,

517
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: if I hear that one more time? Yes, because why

518
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: can't women just need women? Why we got to bring

519
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: the table? Why do we have to about that table?

520
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm like my lady Star hotel, hotel, how about right up?

521
00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: Say you're like what you's got going on? The friend

522
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: it's hard, You're you're lovel and eating, like you need

523
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 1: a very submissive man that can just go and I can't.

524
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: I can't date it like a nanny that like I'm

525
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: with you and do what you need to do or

526
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get like a fault. Would y'all

527
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: not date men that make less than you know? No,

528
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: not me? It can make your net worth, right, Yeah,

529
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: when she said you can have a high network, you

530
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 1: can make less only if you got a high net worth.

531
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: That's what you're saying. Well, I mean because it's kind

532
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: of hard because it could be intimidating, right, you know,

533
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 1: it could be intimidating, you know, because technically the man

534
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: is supposed to quote unquote make more, right, and it

535
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: could be we can say this, but will a man

536
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 1: really truly feel secure that his woman is men? I

537
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: hear him saying, and then when it happens, it's completely good.

538
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 1: It's it's different. They can't handle it, you know, especially

539
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: if they want a hard work a woman. But if

540
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: the woman gets the spotlight and if she's doing this

541
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: and she's doing that and she's making more, it's it's

542
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: it's it's you know, why do you want a hard

543
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: working woman? Because that's all they saw their mom doing. Right,

544
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: So you say you want somebody there? What you bring

545
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: it to the table? Like ship? What's want? Like you said,

546
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like, you want somebody that's

547
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:25,959
Speaker 1: bringing a lot to the table. So then you get

548
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: a woman who brings a lot to the table, but

549
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: then you want her to be some That's the whole

550
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: other conversation, right, So maybe you have somebody who does

551
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: bring a lot to the table. Book in you know,

552
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 1: I have meals from what is that fresh to go fresh? Whatever?

553
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: I have, I have a nanny and the maid and

554
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: the maid companies. Like there's some difference things you really

555
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: are like the superwoman uh syndrome, in my opinion is

556
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,959
Speaker 1: very real. I think we've all done it. We've all

557
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: tried to kill ourselves our business and we know that

558
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: that's not a healthy space to operate with. The self

559
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: care and being able to look at that back is important,

560
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: especially when you have a platform. You know, people said,

561
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: oh yeah, guess what, that's thirty two thousand women that

562
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: are responsible a certain things that you're a certain thing

563
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: that you're working with. It's a non stop factor. So

564
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: self care really comes this that we have have a

565
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 1: partner that understands building and doing and hopefully you're supported absolutely.

566
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: So Indea, what were you about to say? Because when

567
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: asked that, yeah, you you had you look like you

568
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: had a difference in opinions. Maybe so. At first I

569
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: was saying, the reason why they are so big on

570
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: this table in Atlanta, and I think it's because there

571
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: are so many successful black women, so they almost can

572
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: have a choice. They know that they're slim, and there's

573
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: a whole lot of us. So I called the playground.

574
00:34:56,400 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: Atlanta is a playground because they have so many choices, right,

575
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: And they come from like Jane's from Chicago and from Ohio.

576
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: Those smaller areas are you know, like hoods. They kind

577
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: of get with the people that they're with early and

578
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: stay with them for a while. And you don't like elevate, right,

579
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 1: like go to college and get your masters, you don't

580
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: get to experience as much, right. So here you have

581
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: a lot of educated women, a lot of black entrepreneurs,

582
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: one of the highest This is probably the highest concentration

583
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: of you know, women entrepreneurs. So they got a whole

584
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 1: lot to choose from, so they can play more games. Um.

585
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: But aside from that, you were saying what I did

586
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: somebody that makes less to me. My thing is I

587
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: know how to create income, right, and I know how

588
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: to purchase assets that are going to create more income

589
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 1: for us as a couple. And so sometimes they just

590
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: don't have the knowledge, like so it kind of depends

591
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: on their drive, Like they're found their shoe, right, do

592
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: they have any type of correlations? If you don't have anything,

593
00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: you can have no educational background. Most of the time,

594
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: you don't have to discipline to do what I'm gonna

595
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: teach you how to do it or to maintain to

596
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: teach you how to get so you can't be like

597
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: making a whole hundred thousand now less than me, but

598
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: you know, maybe ten, ten twenty grand less and then

599
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna love that. You know what. The thing is

600
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,399
Speaker 1: that I never really had a project before my man

601
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 1: like that, Like they don't make some money, they're gonna

602
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 1: have a business, but they're gonna sell drugs. But they

603
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: they're gonna be a real bullshit because you know, most

604
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: men who get money, they're gonna have women. They're just

605
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: like it's like now, it's like, ah, what's the damn

606
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: trade off? Like you santity, you get your bitches or

607
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: like that part it's having a woman outside of you.

608
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: Let's that you're with the man who's making you very

609
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: happy to nan you are Um, if he has a

610
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 1: woman outside of you and you find out about it,

611
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: is that a deal breaker for you? I'm out and

612
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: I have not about that man. And even when I

613
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: found out the first time, that was the final day,

614
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,280
Speaker 1: broke it off ended, got like engagement, called off the wedding.

615
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,439
Speaker 1: All that was done within two hours. I had nothing

616
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: to think about. It's not a deal breaking from you.

617
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: A little would be so pussy on the side. It's

618
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 1: not the deal breaking from me. You should have gotten enough.

619
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,719
Speaker 1: I can't been. I ain't family oriented it, but I

620
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: just don't have. I feel like sometimes you said, our

621
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 1: realistic standard form one another when it comes to our

622
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: real human nature. You know, I know, I used to

623
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 1: go that way until I've seen man. You know, I've

624
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: seen you know, relationships and and and and mayorages have

625
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 1: been together for years and years and years, and the

626
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: men didn't. Of course they look, but they didn't. They

627
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 1: didn't cheat, they didn't step out, So I didn't. Growing up,

628
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 1: all my friend's parents were married. I never saw the

629
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 1: board parents thirty four marriage for thirty five years steel sweethearts. UM,

630
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: I really firmly believe in the power of marriage and

631
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: the power of like the right person. I think it

632
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: just takes the right person. And you get that, you

633
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 1: might feel a little biggle girl like who I might

634
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: when you get that one nigga, that just does it

635
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: for you, girl, That's a different a different feeling to

636
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Speaker 1: be person love done like it, sir, thank you right now,

637
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 1: head toodnight. Really fine, but changes your mind. You just

638
00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: got me the right one. He's out there for you.

639
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: Dam to know that the right one or the right too.

640
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: And the three let me tell you stressful man, I'm

641
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: telling you one nigg is stress enough. Have like five

642
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: women because I would be thinking of me because they

643
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,800
Speaker 1: love headaches. They love headaches like they like I was.

644
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: You know, I was just talking to one of my

645
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 1: ex is recently and I'm like, you know, you should

646
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: just take a break because he's not a bad man,

647
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 1: but he runs through women and I'm just happy I'm

648
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 1: not one of those women no more. But you should

649
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 1: really take a break because how do you, I said,

650
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: are you playing on um? You know, getting some real money?

651
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: Because I mean he owns a home, he has a job,

652
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: you know, but you cannot build no type of wealth

653
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,399
Speaker 1: exerting your energy on bitches all day long, like how

654
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 1: you're not focus focused like we're getting and you know what,

655
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna think about it. You're right, I'm gonna think

656
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: about it at the letting all these you you putting

657
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: your demon energy out there and receiving all this demon

658
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: in energy, like you're gonna always be confused. Like, just

659
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: take a break from fucking bitching. Sometimes you're about to

660
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,399
Speaker 1: be forty years old, so I can smashing everybody get

661
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: his hand on. It's ridiculous. I'm going I like that.

662
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,959
Speaker 1: Are all of you mothers? Yeah? How do you feel

663
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 1: like juggling motherhood in business? Our artn't ever feel like

664
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: you you're failing on one in the Yeah, So Davon

665
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 1: and India, you guys are not in relationships, right, How

666
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 1: do y'all feel about proposing to men? I'm half What

667
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 1: do y'all feel about the phenomenal India proposing? Huh? Halfway

668
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: in one? But you will never getch me getting on

669
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: my knee. That's I'm proposed now. I'm not doing grab

670
00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:58,840
Speaker 1: who don't have to worry about it because it's not

671
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna happen, right because yeah, I'm not doing that. I'm

672
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: already kind of like dominant now I could be you know,

673
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,760
Speaker 1: you know tis if well, if you're not get married,

674
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: but I'm it just it just won't work. I feel

675
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 1: like it's there's definitely a balance and there's definitely roles.

676
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: I believe in that. And that's like the man they

677
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 1: really like playing really big two big things that first

678
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: day in that proposal, and that's something that they should

679
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 1: have that they should playing and be in controlled because

680
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: the now just messed up the dynamics. And yeah, and

681
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: it's just it's it's almost the same thing as a

682
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: man taking on a date. Like you on your cell

683
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 1: phone looking through all the all the different niggas like

684
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: let me see sending mass text messages out to people

685
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: who won't take me on a date. You want to

686
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,560
Speaker 1: go out to eat, Like, it's the same thing that's

687
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 1: getting on your knees and asking a man to marry you.

688
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: Like if that man wanted to take you on a date,

689
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 1: and he would have planned it and he would have

690
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 1: hit you up. If that man wanted to marry you,

691
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 1: he would have planned it and he would have got

692
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 1: on his knees to marry you. That's why I'm act

693
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: vampion And wasn't her name? Chris Jones. Sam Bam okay,

694
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: Sam damn. I mean there's a reason for it, right,

695
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 1: like I need Look, y'all should have told me to

696
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 1: bring my tea cup, my mug because this is just

697
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: a whole little conversation right here. It's not all rated

698
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: for me. Okay, clutching my furls right now. Okays, any

699
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: liked von Boo, I got you. I'm drinking it tea

700
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: for us, but I got I got you. Bum dates

701
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: my fad. Is it okay to wear a bomb in

702
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: the airport? No? No, no no, I grab my hair,

703
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: So like if you go take that decent here, huf

704
00:42:52,680 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 1: you out of this conversation. Okay, exactly high school he

705
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:07,479
Speaker 1: was coming the rocks. Yeah that a dubie or something.

706
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: Goes like next three years of that duby. Yeah, but

707
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: that's like, yeah, that's over. Okay, I'll know about a

708
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: hair wrap. This girl in the store and the airport,

709
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: going shopping to the mall. I'm like, why it's not okay,

710
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 1: I don't like it. And that's that's been wearing your

711
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 1: bed clothes outside and I've seen that dude, they when

712
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: they put yours, I mean it's sad, you know in

713
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: sands and you're not on the binding baby slipper and

714
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: the first that's because we live in Lena's Strippers. They

715
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,359
Speaker 1: got off and work took the money right you in there.

716
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: It's like you don't know what people got going to,

717
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: like somebody could just pass the win they're hopping on

718
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: the flight. You know, I don't. I just I just

719
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: don't care that much about other people, like with the

720
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,880
Speaker 1: body like I don't. None of my friends would ever

721
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: wear a bonnet to the airport. Those are different people. Okay,

722
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 1: we we need a different alien over here, like they

723
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: need something else. But I don't really care about what

724
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: they do. That would your grand mother would turned over

725
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: in her grave like I was raised it. You couldn't

726
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: even go to the kitchen table unless she brush your

727
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: teeth and wash your face. So band it couldn't even

728
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: come to the kitchen table. So you think I'm going

729
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: outside with a buy it eat outside, like like chips

730
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: and stuff outside. You have to just eat in the kitchen.

731
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: And that was it, absolutely outside. But I feel like

732
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: these are P P P travelers. I don't want to

733
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: say you did. I don't want to say it, but

734
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: she did. If you only people leave the people alone

735
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: in Nay chip Okay travelers, they're going over there the

736
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: Dominican Republic to get the ask done. Hold on, before

737
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 1: we get into anything else, let's pay some bills real quick.

738
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 1: So we have a segment on our show called dumping Story, right,

739
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: and it's where women and we have also shared a

740
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: time where we got played. Oh man. So he says,

741
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: look at my best friend. My best friend, she was like,

742
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: wait a minute, let me call in. I got a

743
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: story for y'all. Let her do it, like several stories,

744
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: y'all get here, right on here. If I left Indian

745
00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: Indians the cool and common collected one out of us,

746
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm just laughing. I'm trying to think. I'm sure I

747
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 1: got a couple of you know, I have relationship with

748
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: my exces great one of them was my mentory. He

749
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: has like ft two properties. Okay, let's talk about that

750
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: just right quick before we get because I do have

751
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,640
Speaker 1: a sam series from a man. So sim series is

752
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 1: going to be like your equivalent to a dumb bit story,

753
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:56,439
Speaker 1: but just right quickly. So you're in a situation ship,

754
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,000
Speaker 1: you're getting into a relationship, right, how does your significant

755
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 1: can other feel about you having uh contact with men

756
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 1: that you've been with before. He talked, ship and that's

757
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: about it. He can't really stop it, so you know,

758
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: like we kind of like out of females. I'm a

759
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: GYMANI too, So I mean, I love you girl. You

760
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: talk to him, but you can't shut down, you know,

761
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 1: Like I said, my texes are like business partners for me.

762
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: You know, I always have good relationships with my exes,

763
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 1: So I don't you know, it's not something he can

764
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,799
Speaker 1: really stop. He hasked talking about it. But then one

765
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: of them, another one of my exes own so hundreds

766
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: and owns the dealership and he had me have him

767
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: looking for him a BMW last week. So hey, their

768
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: resources for both of us at this point, because that's

769
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: that's always my thing is like I don't want to

770
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: get rid of good people, you know. You know what

771
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like that's a that's an on guard argument

772
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: in my relationship, Like I don't want to get rid

773
00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: of good people, and I'm asking you to either, like

774
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: you know some people that are good for you, good,

775
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: resourceful people, good and also just even meeting new people

776
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: new friends can oftentimes give you played his old friends can.

777
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,479
Speaker 1: So we just limit ourselves to each other for fifty years,

778
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: Like how to funk? Are we supposed to grow our network?

779
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: Our network? Everything? You can't follo? Let me find this

780
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 1: uh this simp story right quick. So this guy's name

781
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: is I was born fly eighties six on Instagram. All right,

782
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: So he says I was dating this girl in two

783
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: thousand and seven. After a few months of talking, she

784
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: asked me could I help her pay for school and

785
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 1: pick up a few bills in the house because she

786
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 1: was going to cut her hours from one job to

787
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: focus on school. So I did pay three thousand dollars

788
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: for one semester of school. Took the money out of

789
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: my four oh one K and I was paying And

790
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: I was paying her rent, car note and car insurance

791
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: for six months, also six d a month rent. I

792
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 1: even pick up a second job to support her in

793
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 1: her dreams. After a few months, something wasn't adding up.

794
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: To make a long story short, the money I gave

795
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: her for school, she used it to help her boyfriend

796
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:14,360
Speaker 1: get a lawyer to fight a drug case. She was

797
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: also selling drugs on the side for him. Once he

798
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: got out of jail, they started back dating, but she

799
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: called me and said he had been beating her every

800
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: day since. That sounds like some series and a dumbing story.

801
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 1: When you were telling the story back when you say

802
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: he took out his four O one K, I knew

803
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: where it was going. I don't gonna go to the jail,

804
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: but I knew it was gonna be. She messed up,

805
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: and so poor poor boy, Now he ain't gonna trust

806
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 1: exactly because that could have been somebody who was willing

807
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: to go in his four on one K to help

808
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: y'all get a property, you know what I'm saying. So

809
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: now he's not even trust trust the word trust worthy

810
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: of women anymore because of one bit as do our

811
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: own work, right, we gotta tell who are these people

812
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: that's a problem. Just give it up, do all this stuff,

813
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 1: like we gotta check it was good it was our

814
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 1: he went. It's like even with him, he should have

815
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 1: determined to know what you got going on, you know,

816
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: like she could have been a con artist. But one day,

817
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 1: let me say, let me say something because this is

818
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:35,399
Speaker 1: not Let's feel bad for you, Terrence, but I feel bad.

819
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,320
Speaker 1: You don't just give money away, right, My brand is

820
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 1: called labels. You create in constraints with the money. I

821
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 1: would have said, I'll give you the money to start

822
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: an Airbnb, and that'll create an extra cash for your

823
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: bills or whatever. Now you know you gave the money

824
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: one time and the money just got blown. This is

825
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,399
Speaker 1: why even when my my parents go, family members come

826
00:49:58,440 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 1: asking for money. Once you give that even waite at

827
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:04,879
Speaker 1: one time, they're gonna come back after some exactly teach

828
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: them what to do with the cash. Is that the

829
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Speaker 1: cash creates ongoing in whether it's don't over to the airbnb,

830
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Speaker 1: a four row started, e book, e plumos, busy whatever.

831
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,440
Speaker 1: This is why you don't just help people by giving

832
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: out money or just spending the money because we suspect

833
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: expect you didn't got to spend Sarence, stop spending money

834
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:30,240
Speaker 1: over girls. But Terence, we appreciate your good heart. You know. Okay,

835
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 1: let me plug yourself again. Tell Jerry that's the graund

836
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Speaker 1: Tellers where everybody can find you. Um at Davon res

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Speaker 1: d A v O n n e r e a

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Speaker 1: v E s are you can find me on Instagram LinkedIn.

839
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Speaker 1: UM yeah, sometimes I'm a clubhouse, all right, I don't know,

840
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Speaker 1: I'm at bed and that you need to read j

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Speaker 1: k A and I an e and you can find

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Speaker 1: me at black Girl the Real Estate of Black rob

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Speaker 1: a Little Day dot com and Black Rother Little Day

844
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Speaker 1: on Facebook. So I love to have you this India

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Speaker 1: never sold any real estate. I just had my ship

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Speaker 1: on um what do they have it not not suspended?

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Speaker 1: But um I worked for a broker for maybe a

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Speaker 1: getting a real estate license, and I really like, I've

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Speaker 1: always known about real estate, like this is how you

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Speaker 1: get the bag, but you need money. I was broke,

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Speaker 1: so I realized that while going through the real estate classes,

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Speaker 1: back into it. Yeah, definitely go to bear thing in January.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. Should. I might hit the one up

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