WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Don't Cry Over Greek Yogurt

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jubils second date update. Normally, when we do second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates, it's been like a couple of weeks since

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<v Speaker 1>somebody hasn't gotten a call back. But we got an

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<v Speaker 1>email from a dude who wants answers now and his

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<v Speaker 1>date happened last night. Patient emailed us and asked if

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<v Speaker 1>we could do a second date update for him right away.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Adam and he's on the phone right now. Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>why couldn't you wait a couple days to do your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update? I really want to know what happened,

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<v Speaker 1>like really soon, because I'm really afraid that I did

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<v Speaker 1>something really wrong. So I gotta I gotta have help.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on. I feel like you need some chill. Is

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<v Speaker 1>what you need in your life? Well, honestly, I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure once you hear this story, you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>know it too. All right, Well, let's get into the story.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you went out with this girl literally last night? Yeah, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And how did you meet her? So? I was at

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<v Speaker 1>a coffee shop and kind of did one of those

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<v Speaker 1>like random, cheesy, hopefully romantic things that worked out, and

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<v Speaker 1>it worked out really well? What was it? I need

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<v Speaker 1>an know your trick yeah. So I was in front

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<v Speaker 1>of her and she was really cute. Man. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna try and buy this girl a coffee, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I told the cashier. I was like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>buy this girl's coffee. And I turned to her and

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<v Speaker 1>asked as I said, okay, and she said yeah, smiled,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought that was a good sign. But I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make sure she knew it wasn't just one

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<v Speaker 1>of those like nice pay it forward moments. So when

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<v Speaker 1>they asked what names put on the cup, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you could put my name on my cup, but I

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<v Speaker 1>said to put my phone number on hers? Why? And

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, hey, you know, I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed the coffee, but you know, no pressure. If you're interested,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my number, and I hope you hear from you. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd call you that show that is smooth and there's

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<v Speaker 1>no like instant like obligation. I'm pretty sure ninety eight

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<v Speaker 1>percent of women would fall for that movie. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's in that ninety eight percent because it works.

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<v Speaker 1>She gave me a text, Yeah, how quick did she

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<v Speaker 1>text you back after you bought that coffee for her

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<v Speaker 1>that day? Like not too far there after, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so what happened on your date? Why do you need

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second date update right now? That hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even been twenty four hours. So we went to a

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<v Speaker 1>play for happy hour. We wanted to keep it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, keep it casual. And it was a

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<v Speaker 1>good start that she was like, well, you bought a

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<v Speaker 1>drink from me, letting me buy a drink for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, this is a you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>great start. So oh, she's even good at the moves,

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<v Speaker 1>like that is a good move on her part. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're talking and hanging out, like, you know, past

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<v Speaker 1>a drink, getting some appetizers, and so there's a good

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and we start talking about just random stuff, talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how, you know, all these small plates and how

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<v Speaker 1>I like the snack, you know, and she's talking about

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the day she loves the snack too. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why it came from, but we started talking

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<v Speaker 1>about yogurt. Um. Oh you guys had the yogurt talk

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date. And yeah, I told a super

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<v Speaker 1>lame story about how I didn't like it at first

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<v Speaker 1>and now I love it and I can't like go

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<v Speaker 1>through a day without it, and we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>favorite flavors, and this is where it started and stopped.

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<v Speaker 1>Was I was like, oh, I, you know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>really liked playing Greek yogurt. And I kid you not.

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<v Speaker 1>I finished the word yogurt and she starts crying, crying literally,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, and I've run through the story a

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<v Speaker 1>million times. I finished the word yogurt and she is crying,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, I mean, it was such a quick thing

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<v Speaker 1>that I was like, like, looking around. Did something happened?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know, And I said I'm sorry, like and

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<v Speaker 1>did I say something wrong? I you know, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really answer me, and I said I made some

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<v Speaker 1>joke about saying Greek yogurt, which said it again, which

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<v Speaker 1>is evidently something I shouldn't have said again because she

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<v Speaker 1>started crying even more. What and She's like it's too

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<v Speaker 1>taggy for me. I can't handle it. Yeah, And so

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<v Speaker 1>she started to get up and it's like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go, and I'm like really, and she,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she turns to leave, and I honestly like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel kind of bad now, but I'd get up

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<v Speaker 1>to follow her, and I was like, you know, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything like that you need? Like, did I

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<v Speaker 1>say something wrong? I'm stammering through like everything that I can,

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<v Speaker 1>and she literally told me, I'm sorry, I just have

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<v Speaker 1>to go, and I, you know, of course, let her

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<v Speaker 1>go because I'm not gonna follow her any more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was honestly the last time I'd seen or

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<v Speaker 1>heard from her. Wow, why do you think she started

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<v Speaker 1>crying when the topic of yogurt was brought up? I

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea, Okay, I mean, did something else happen

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<v Speaker 1>though that coincided with the yogurt topic, like she got

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<v Speaker 1>a text or And that's why I thought the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I said, I looked around like there had to

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<v Speaker 1>be some other factor in this conversation or this moment

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<v Speaker 1>that led to this. But I keep hearing the word

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<v Speaker 1>yogurt over and over in my head. Well, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a cold callous thing to say to her. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sticking up for her on that, But I really

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea why she would have started crying then. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and hopefully it makes me understand why I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I need help with this almost immediately. Well, have you

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<v Speaker 1>tried to get a hold of her? I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>you hit her up after me, like, is everything okay? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I sent her a text on this. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>basically kind of like noncommittal and supportive, saying, I hope

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<v Speaker 1>everything's okay. Let me know if you need anything. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if even that was the wrong thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Okay, Well, we'll play a song comeback Caller

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why the topic of Greek yogurt made

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<v Speaker 1>her cry so hard that she walked out on your

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<v Speaker 1>date in your second date update right after this, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>sounds good, Thank you looking jubil in the morning. Why

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<v Speaker 1>in the world with Greek yogurt make somebody cry? We're

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully going to find that out if you're just joining

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<v Speaker 1>us for today's second date update. Adam is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and he met a girl that he really liked

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<v Speaker 1>at a coffee shop. They met up for drinks and

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<v Speaker 1>during their date, he said everything was going fine, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they got into a conversation about yogurt. For some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>he brought up the fact that he likes playing Greek yogurt,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she cried, got up from the table, walked

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<v Speaker 1>out to her car and left and hasn't talked to

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<v Speaker 1>him since. Now. It hasn't been a long time. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just last night. But he's so confused that he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to do a second date. Update right now, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>I never got her name from you. What is it? Oh? Yeah, yeah, Kristen? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And there wasn't like you were having a conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't listening to what she was saying, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was actually talking about her dog dying and you just

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be talking about yogurt or something. Right. He

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<v Speaker 1>asked me what my favorite flavor was, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>when I said, playing Greek yogurt, and that was it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you know that it was in line with the conversation. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I am positive. I'm a good listener. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>good conversation, and I am one hundred percent positive that

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<v Speaker 1>I was paying attention. Okay, Well, well dollar phone number

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<v Speaker 1>right now, see if she answers and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can find out why. Okay, cool, All right, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Kristen? Yes, thank god, you're okay? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewbil from Brooke and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Who Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a radio show. Yeah, why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you because we got an email from a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of yours who is very concerned. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how much of a friend he is, actually, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>his name is Adam and you apparently went out with

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<v Speaker 1>him last night. Oh my god, are you serious. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>and then end up not calling them after, they email

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<v Speaker 1>us to see if we can get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and find out why. Normally, people wait like a

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<v Speaker 1>couple weeks or a month to email us, but he

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and wanted us to get a hold of

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<v Speaker 1>you because apparently you walked out of your date crying

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<v Speaker 1>last night, and he has no idea why. I told

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<v Speaker 1>him he should wait a little bit longer because you're

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<v Speaker 1>probably barrassed. No, I'm not really embarrassed. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>really want to get into it. You're not embarrassed to

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<v Speaker 1>break down in tears when talking about Greek yogurt. And

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<v Speaker 1>then oh, he told you what we were talking about. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he thought everything was going well until

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<v Speaker 1>the topic of yogurt came along, and he brought up

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that he enjoys playing Greek yogurt, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>when you started to cry and then left. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's this is something I do. What do you mean

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<v Speaker 1>every time you go to the grocery store and you

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<v Speaker 1>walk by the aisle, you're just in tears. No, it

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<v Speaker 1>has really nothing to do with Greek yogurt. It's this

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<v Speaker 1>this thing I do, like if I'm just not feeling it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wasn't really feeling the date. I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of over it, and I just decided, like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna start crying and he'll freak out and he

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<v Speaker 1>won't want to touch it after that. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought, what you're using crying as an out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. You can just do that. It works because

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<v Speaker 1>so many guys just don't know what to do and

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want to yild it. I'm crazy. That's actually

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<v Speaker 1>a really good idea, if you were to just start

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<v Speaker 1>crying on a date and be like, I have to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna argue with that, get out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>Go do whatever it is that you have to do. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they just guys don't want to do it. They think

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<v Speaker 1>that there's some rowdy you're tragile, You're crazy and they

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want to deal with it. You're like an eat,

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<v Speaker 1>You're like an evil genius. It works. Why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>like your date so much? I mean he sounded like

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice guy. Nice I mean not really, he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't really that nice. I actually thought he was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a pig. Like what kind of a pig? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's different levels a pig. I mean, what do you say,

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<v Speaker 1>like pot belly? Is that what you want to I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like he was just disheveled and dirty?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like he was, like you know, on camp?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like there was another part of the

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<v Speaker 1>like a male chauvinist pig. There's all kinds of pigs

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<v Speaker 1>you do bring up? He brings up a good point.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely chauvinist. Okay, sexist? He sexist? What did he do

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<v Speaker 1>that was sexist? We were talking about things in school

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<v Speaker 1>and um. I was talking about how like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to school for um like math, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said, oh, wow, you know most girls aren't good

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<v Speaker 1>at math. That's really cool. Yeah, most girls aren't good

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<v Speaker 1>at math. That is pretty stupid, because every girl that

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<v Speaker 1>I cheated off of in high school to get to

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<v Speaker 1>pre algebra was really good at I was cheating off

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<v Speaker 1>of j They were eighth graders and I was a senior, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and most of them were female and they were really

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<v Speaker 1>good at math, and me, being a man, I was

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<v Speaker 1>terrible at it. So I would never say that, did

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<v Speaker 1>you tell him that you were offended by him? Say that?

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<v Speaker 1>I let that one go for a second. I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me give him don it for the doubt. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we started talking about cars, and like I was

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<v Speaker 1>saying how I had to get a repair on my

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<v Speaker 1>car and I was talking to the mechanic and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like thinking that I couldn't handle myself at a

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<v Speaker 1>mechanic shop and waiting, yeah, do it, and you want

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<v Speaker 1>me to help you? You know, girls, girls are always

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<v Speaker 1>victims at these things. And I'm like, cool, I got it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't lend me for pulling the crying card at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, yes, like you know, After all that, then

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about careers and work and then he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you're so pretty you don't need to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my gosh. Yeah. At that point,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, he already thinks I'm some fragile little girl.

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<v Speaker 1>So let me just let the tears flow. I know

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<v Speaker 1>in his mind's like there it is. I knew she

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<v Speaker 1>was a woman deep down, good at math, good at cars, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew the tears were gonna come. That's all right, sweetheart, Kristen.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for telling us a little bit about why

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't calling out him back and why you fake

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<v Speaker 1>cried in the middle of the date. Yeah. I do

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell you, though, that Adam is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are you serious? Yes, I am. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you say crying? Did you have something you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do with I mean, you're gonna be clueless

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<v Speaker 1>about the things that you say, Like it's just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get all ugly and awkward because I was getting irritated

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to let my bad side come

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<v Speaker 1>out and start putting you in your place. Listen, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to give you compliments, and the response

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<v Speaker 1>is to like lie about it and making you worried

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<v Speaker 1>about you compliments. You think that's a compliment. You were

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<v Speaker 1>saying that I'm smart for a girl, Like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that is not cool. What am I supposed to say

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<v Speaker 1>to that? I don't know what you're talking about. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling you how smart you were for a girl, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you not see how you're coming across? That's so

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<v Speaker 1>chauvinist and sex is no girls like that. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know what to say. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do think you're smart for a girl. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Adam saying that you're saying that all men

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<v Speaker 1>are smarter than women. Well, no, there's guy smart and

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<v Speaker 1>girls smart. There's just two different kinds of people. Oh so, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm computing like you're gonna say that guys and girls

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<v Speaker 1>just aren't like naturally wired differently. Guys kind of have

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're predisposed of math and if a girl's

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<v Speaker 1>smartest thing, great, I mean, I don't know how that's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad thing. No. No, the only can men excel

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<v Speaker 1>in math and science is because they're actually pushed into

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<v Speaker 1>those fields and encouraged to do those things. Where we

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<v Speaker 1>live in an antiquated society where for years females have

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<v Speaker 1>been told that they can't do that stuff. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of my point. So it's exactly right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a guy, so I have to be good at

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<v Speaker 1>math and science. But if I'm the prettiest Christian, I

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<v Speaker 1>can be a pretty girl and things can come to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just kind of being It's like lucky that she's

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<v Speaker 1>that way. I wish I didn't have to do the

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<v Speaker 1>things I have to do. And don't even hear the

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<v Speaker 1>nonsense coming out of your mouth. You sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>total moron. You sound more than the moron. You sound

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<v Speaker 1>someone who is legitimately living back in nineteen fifty. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I need help. Two women attacking me and

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<v Speaker 1>all these guys just listening, like I thought you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>there to help. I mean, seriously, you're on your own

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<v Speaker 1>on this one. Yeah, you hung yourself out to dry

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<v Speaker 1>a long time ago. You can deal with that. I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>I can watch the other guys in the room actually

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<v Speaker 1>believe it. I don't know. Equality it's a weird concept

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<v Speaker 1>that some people buy into. I believe in equality too,

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<v Speaker 1>but between men and women things are just different. Some things.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls have you here because they're pretty, but not all

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<v Speaker 1>pretty women just get money thrown at them. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work that way. Some do well, Let's be honest, there

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<v Speaker 1>are something to do. There are some pretty dudes that

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<v Speaker 1>get money thrown at them too. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>they do it. I am jealous of all of pretty

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<v Speaker 1>people for getting money thrown at them. But Adam, you

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<v Speaker 1>can see why she didn't really like your date, can't you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess we're just not a good

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<v Speaker 1>match because I don't think I did anything wrong. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the problem. That right there is exactly the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Adam, I feel so sorry for you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds like you might be interested in going out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again. Christen, I'm you know, I'm not as

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<v Speaker 1>smart as a girl, but I am picking up on

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<v Speaker 1>a vibe. Would you like to go out with Adam

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<v Speaker 1>one more time on a second date? We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it? Definitely not, but but we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I have the money that you might not have. Yeah, Kristen,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's a little women. How could we ever make

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<v Speaker 1>end speech? Oh No, I don't want to get money

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<v Speaker 1>thrown at me because I'm pretty well. I'll throw it

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<v Speaker 1>your way if you want to go out with Adam again. No,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? All right? Sorry, Adam, I tried to get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. There doesn't sound like it. What

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<v Speaker 1>are you talking about? I tried to appeal to her

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<v Speaker 1>womanly sensibilities of wanting to get money for free, and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't work. Whatever, I'm done with this all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well regardless, thank you for emailing us to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, yeah, I don't think I'm ever

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<v Speaker 1>going to turn to you guys your help again and

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<v Speaker 1>stubborn like a typical man. Broken Jewel in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>song's not bad for a chick? Oh my god, Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewel in the morning make me hit you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second date update if you missed it, This dude,

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<v Speaker 1>Adam wanted to call a girl named Kristen who wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back after their date. She actually broke into

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<v Speaker 1>tears on the date and left. We got her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and found out that's her go to move

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<v Speaker 1>when she doesn't like a date. She cries and then

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<v Speaker 1>leaves because most of the time guys don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl back if she does that. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>that she didn't like the date was because Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>a sexist big time and he doesn't know it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks he's giving her compliments. He's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're really smart, for a girl, and I like how

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<v Speaker 1>he said. I believe in equality, just not for men

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<v Speaker 1>and women. Yeah. I believe in equality for other things,

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<v Speaker 1>but when it comes to men and women, we're too different.

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<v Speaker 1>And ladies can simply not handle themselves out in the

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<v Speaker 1>regular world and they need a man to guide them.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, thank goodness for him. They decided to

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<v Speaker 1>not go out again, well, she decided to not go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again, which is weird. A woman standing

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<v Speaker 1>up and making a decision. Progress is true. People, I

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<v Speaker 1>keep back in the kitchen. Ladies, remember if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second up, they don't have to do

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<v Speaker 1>his email the show, and we will call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back.