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Speaker 1: Rooking jubils second date update. Normally, when we do second

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Speaker 1: His name is Adam and he's on the phone right now. Adam,

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Speaker 1: why couldn't you wait a couple days to do your

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Speaker 1: second date update? I really want to know what happened,

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Speaker 1: like really soon, because I'm really afraid that I did

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Speaker 1: Hold on. I feel like you need some chill. Is

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Speaker 1: what you need in your life? Well, honestly, I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: sure once you hear this story, you don't want to

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Speaker 1: know it too. All right, Well, let's get into the story.

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Speaker 1: Then you went out with this girl literally last night? Yeah, okay?

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Speaker 1: And how did you meet her? So? I was at

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Speaker 1: it worked out really well? What was it? I need

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Speaker 1: so I was like, hey, you know, I hope you

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Speaker 1: here's my number, and I hope you hear from you. Dude,

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Speaker 1: I'd call you that show that is smooth and there's

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Speaker 1: no like instant like obligation. I'm pretty sure ninety eight

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Speaker 1: She gave me a text, Yeah, how quick did she

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Speaker 1: that day? Like not too far there after, all right,

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Speaker 1: so what happened on your date? Why do you need

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Speaker 1: even been twenty four hours. So we went to a

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Speaker 1: So we're talking and hanging out, like, you know, past

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Speaker 1: sounds good, Thank you looking jubil in the morning. Why

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Speaker 1: then they got into a conversation about yogurt. For some reason,

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Speaker 1: I never got her name from you. What is it? Oh? Yeah, yeah, Kristen? Okay.

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Speaker 1: I am positive. I'm a good listener. It was a

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Kristen? Yes, thank god, you're okay? How

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Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewbil from Brooke and Jewil in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Who Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Yeah, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you because we got an email from a

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Speaker 1: there's different levels a pig. I mean, what do you say,

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Speaker 1: like pot belly? Is that what you want to I mean,

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like he was, like you know, on camp?

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Speaker 1: like a male chauvinist pig. There's all kinds of pigs

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Speaker 1: Definitely chauvinist. Okay, sexist? He sexist? What did he do

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Speaker 1: that was sexist? We were talking about things in school

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