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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour and entertain

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Speaker 1: the news. Now, Steve, you've been mentoring youth for over

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Speaker 1: fifteen years for your Steven Marjorie Harvey Foundation, and over

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Speaker 1: a decade, yes, over a decade with the Disney Dreamers Academy.

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Speaker 1: We're going to have a full circle moment coming up

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Speaker 1: with one of your mentees who is now a pastor.

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Speaker 1: He's also a therapist and an author. Full circle moment.

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Speaker 1: That's all coming up. Yeah, that's major. Right right now,

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Speaker 1: it is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building right after this.

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Speaker 2: That is not correct.

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Speaker 1: Right now, it is time to ask the CLO our

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Speaker 1: chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 2: Here we go Monroe and Lafayette.

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Speaker 1: Says, my girlfriend broke up with me, but she can't

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Speaker 1: stand to see me with anyone else. She randomly posts

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Speaker 1: sold pictures of us to create problems in my new relationship.

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Speaker 1: Why did she break up with me? If this is

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Speaker 1: how she's going to act, how can I stop her?

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Speaker 3: No, you can't stop her. Why aren't you just going

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Speaker 3: about your business now? She can post all the pictures

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Speaker 3: she wants. You know what you probably need to do

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Speaker 3: is quit wearing that shirt dog that you had while

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Speaker 3: you were vain her cause she posts that picture and

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Speaker 3: you got that on that that date you was with

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Speaker 3: this new girl.

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Speaker 4: That's your problem.

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Speaker 3: See when you get when somebody get rid of you,

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Speaker 3: you got to get rid of them.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes.

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Speaker 3: You got to get rid of the remnants of the relationship,

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Speaker 3: the remnants all in pictures, sitting around all that, all that,

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Speaker 3: all that, all that, that blanket y'all used to lay

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Speaker 3: on it, all that, you got to get rid of

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Speaker 3: the remnants. So that shirt that you that's your favorite

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Speaker 3: date shirt, you got to quit wearing that because you're

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Speaker 3: wearing that with your new girl and make it look

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Speaker 3: like you was out with her last week. See what

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. She's not gonna stop though. Yeah that you

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Speaker 3: go say, I've been.

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Speaker 4: Through that shirt away. I don't even have that shirt though.

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Speaker 4: And then when a new girl look in the closet

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Speaker 4: and it ain't there, turn out.

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Speaker 1: All right. Moving on to Chan and Arlington, Chan says,

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight and I hate my job, but it

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Speaker 1: pays very good money. My boyfriend said to quit my job,

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Speaker 1: and he float me while I find another job. My

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Speaker 1: mom said, it's a risky deal because he gets so

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Speaker 1: mad all the time. Do I take the risk or

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Speaker 1: keep suffering at my job?

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Speaker 3: Well, no, you don't keep suffering. But you need to

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Speaker 3: find something else to do. If you want to have

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Speaker 3: a miserable life, wake up to go do something you

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Speaker 3: don't like doing for an extended period of time, if

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Speaker 3: you want to have a miserable life. I am a

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Speaker 3: proponent of chasing your dream. So you probably call the

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Speaker 3: wrong guy for this information because I say chase your dream.

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Speaker 3: At least you can wake up in the process of

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Speaker 3: pursuing something that you're happy about. Because I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 3: you right now, the job that you have is not

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Speaker 3: tied to your gift. Oh, it pay good, but it's

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Speaker 3: not what you gifted at. If you were gifted that

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Speaker 3: it would come natural to you. You would find enjoyment,

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Speaker 3: you would find purpose, but finding your gift.

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Speaker 1: But you're not suggesting that she quit and let her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend take care of her until she finds another job.

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Speaker 4: Though, Well, I'm saying what I said.

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Speaker 3: But now if you if you're quitting with the expectation

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Speaker 3: of somebody taking care of you, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know if that's the way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, if I were you, I would have

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Speaker 3: enough saved up. Well when I bounce, I got it.

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Speaker 3: I got a little hole money until I find something else. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you know, but I would not be dependent on somebody else, because,

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Speaker 3: like your mama said, he get mad too.

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Speaker 2: Quick, right right?

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Speaker 4: You know, yeah, I don't. I don't. I'm not giving

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Speaker 4: nobody that control over me.

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Speaker 1: Pa, that's her, it's shell.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we cleared that up, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Jasmine and Cleveland, Jasmine writes, my husband

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Speaker 1: and my husband and I had an off and on

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Speaker 1: kind of marriage, and I ended up pregnant by someone

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Speaker 1: else on one of our breaks. He accepted my daughter,

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Speaker 1: but he keeps complaining about me cheating on him. He

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Speaker 1: was doing it, so why couldn't I?

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Speaker 4: Well, you got a baby.

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Speaker 3: Now, you remember what I just said a minute ago.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes when you end the relationship, you got to get

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Speaker 3: rid of the rhymnet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your rhymnet is a baby.

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Speaker 2: Can't get rid of that.

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Speaker 3: You can't get rid of the baby. So that's a

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Speaker 3: constant reminder. You not only went and got with somebody else,

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Speaker 3: you brought somebody.

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Speaker 4: Else back with you.

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Speaker 3: So and if you if you think a man gonna

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Speaker 3: get pad that what No, you No, you not only

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Speaker 3: left him when you came back, you came back with

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Speaker 3: somebody with you. You came back with a baby and

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Speaker 3: his baby. So you came back with a baby and

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Speaker 3: another daddy. Yeah, see, you came back with two people

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Speaker 3: a lot. That's a lot. How you don't think he

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Speaker 3: not understanding that? Me personally, I don't know how he

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Speaker 3: took you back. I don't know if you don't go

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Speaker 3: off and get pregnant. I'm a strongly suggest that whoever

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Speaker 3: you got pregnant with is willing to take care of

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Speaker 3: you and he I don't know that I'm gonna do that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that. I haven't been in that position,

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Speaker 3: but I don't know. Now marrying a woman who has children,

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Speaker 3: that's totally different, completely, that's completely different. But if you

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Speaker 3: have a first of all, and here's another new norm

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Speaker 3: for us. On the Steve Harpin water Show, I'm been

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Speaker 3: on again, off again marriage. You know, you know I've

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Speaker 3: heard on again, off again relationship. You got to own

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Speaker 3: again off a getting married?

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Speaker 2: We're married now we're not we're married.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, man, I'm gonna go see somebody else. I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: go see somebody else too. Well, I'm pregnant with the baby.

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Speaker 3: What see we now that off section has get extended.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jasmine and Cleveland, all right, moving on, this is

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Speaker 1: our last one.

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Speaker 2: See. This is Aretha and Bartlett.

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Speaker 1: Aretha writes, My twenty three year old daughter lives with me,

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Speaker 1: and I've allowed her boyfriend to stay overnight. But I

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Speaker 1: was shocked to see two guys leave from her room

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Speaker 1: last night. Her boyfriend was not one of them. She

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Speaker 1: said they were watching movies. Is my childhood tramp?

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Speaker 4: Yes? Sound like And I'm gonna tell you right now.

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Speaker 3: And she ate the Disney movie Tramp either, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: tell you that right now. Yeah, Yeah, she ainate that

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Speaker 3: Disney movie Tramp. I'm gonna tell you that right now.

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Speaker 3: She ain't tramped the doll. I'm gonna tell you right

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Speaker 3: now that little girl has been there, you know, first

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Speaker 3: of all to me and left her room.

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Speaker 4: Is my daughter trump?

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Speaker 3: Well let me ask you someone, when the last time

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Speaker 3: two men left your room a bedroom.

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Speaker 4: Now, not a house. They weren't in the house. They

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Speaker 3: I ain't been in no movie that year. I've never

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Speaker 3: seen a movie. Who I went in a girl's bedroom

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Speaker 3: to watch the movie.

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Speaker 2: Coming up, Thank you, Clo.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we have

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Speaker 1: a very special guest from the Steven Marjorie Harvey Foundation.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.