Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and no
Speaker 1: Sillers podcast with your host. Not fun that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses, Malone, Joey, what's saying it cracking? You're all right?
Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm blessed man. Yeah, Red, what's the deal? So, Britt? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's happening to? Sylvia? Get a little closer to the mine.
Speaker 1: Look bit that you hum up in there. Don't try
Speaker 1: to use your cute voice. You gotta use your regular
Speaker 1: feel me, yeah, your own voice. What's happening? Talk to me?
Speaker 1: I'll talk back. Is so, Look, Bret Red was explaining
Speaker 1: to me why she felt she had a right to
Speaker 1: cook the food for the house and not make the plates. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that's required when you could to make the plates. Look,
Speaker 1: I said, I was tired. I said I make plates,
Speaker 1: But I said, I made an announcement that I'm not making.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just don't want to make a damn plate.
Speaker 1: Sometimes women take on more than that. And she cooked,
Speaker 1: she prepared the meal, all the food on the middle
Speaker 1: of the table. And people can make their own plates,
Speaker 1: because then what they're gonna expect you to also wash
Speaker 1: the dishes and put them. Yea, that's what they spect
Speaker 1: and then one second sometimes like you and I and
Speaker 1: I get caught up because I do like I do
Speaker 1: like to to do that. But I'm like, I didn't
Speaker 1: get a chance to sit down, like I'm tired, Like,
Speaker 1: let me sit down, you don't if you don't, So
Speaker 1: is it that you're tired of you just tired of them?
Speaker 1: And now no, really I'm tired and I have a
Speaker 1: seven month old baby. Wow, what excuse me? Can you
Speaker 1: have a baby? Okay? No, no, but I'm glad you
Speaker 1: brought that up. So Sia Sylvia are part of their
Speaker 1: two members of a group I am producing. The group
Speaker 1: is called forsome. I say folsome because that's just how
Speaker 1: I talked about it. It's forsome. Yes, and this is
Speaker 1: two of them right here. So sorry, now that you
Speaker 1: said there are, I can ask you, so, are you
Speaker 1: like a like a team player, like in a relationship
Speaker 1: like fifty fifty, or you like a rose person? What's
Speaker 1: a rose person? Like? You expect a man to do
Speaker 1: manly things? Um? I think the history of me dating people,
Speaker 1: I think I've dated people for potential, seeing the best
Speaker 1: in them and doing so much in a relationship hoping
Speaker 1: that they would get to a place where I wanted
Speaker 1: them to be, like, become fully who I thought they
Speaker 1: were when I met them or something like that, and
Speaker 1: then that kind of never happens. But you know, you
Speaker 1: never met that person. Obviously, I was creating this fantasy
Speaker 1: in my head that doesn't really exist. So I'm are
Speaker 1: you a much a compromising person and I'm ruling to
Speaker 1: accept people for who they are and then over time
Speaker 1: if I just can't accept who you are, then goodbye.
Speaker 1: So you're like a fifty fifty person, right, Okay, yeah, Sylvia,
Speaker 1: are your fifty fifty person or your relationship roles person
Speaker 1: one hunting on his end period? So so that's to
Speaker 1: your relationship roles person because I'm not putting in ship.
Speaker 1: And if I'm gonna put in and I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: by myself, this ain't no, I'm not a roommate, okay,
Speaker 1: So your relationship roles person men should do I feel
Speaker 1: like man should do everything. I'm going to do the
Speaker 1: womanly things as far as cook, clean and make love
Speaker 1: to you, all that ship, but as far as take
Speaker 1: care of the household, that's all you. And that's how
Speaker 1: they used to do with old school, I mean, at
Speaker 1: one point. At one point, men didn't even women didn't
Speaker 1: even have rights, you know what I mean. And it
Speaker 1: wasn't women stayed at home. So I'm bad. I'm not okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just listening. I'm not gonna argue with anybody. I
Speaker 1: don't care about your potential. You already gotta come with it.
Speaker 1: You already gotta have it. I've already I've already experienced
Speaker 1: potential when I was younger. So at this age, I'm
Speaker 1: already a point where you already have to be together.
Speaker 1: Don't agree that it shouldn't be fifty fifty. We should
Speaker 1: change the term to a hundred. A hundred people should
Speaker 1: be complete before they because we're already at that age
Speaker 1: to where you already gave that a shot as far
Speaker 1: as you know. Well, let me see, I feel like
Speaker 1: you have potential. I did that when I was young
Speaker 1: and it didn't work, So I'm not gonna keep doing
Speaker 1: that now that I'm at this age. Just like, no,
Speaker 1: you gotta have your ship together when you come to me.
Speaker 1: Just period. That's just what it is. So you're okay
Speaker 1: a person, Yeah, I would like a person to say
Speaker 1: the same thing to the table, but she got it.
Speaker 1: So your relationship. Your fifty fifty person signed, Sylvia's a
Speaker 1: role person. You're person, britt Wood. Are you a rose
Speaker 1: person or are you a fifty fifty person? So see,
Speaker 1: I have some issues here. So see I can only
Speaker 1: go off of my previous experience. And for me, like
Speaker 1: the dude that I was dealing with, he didn't want
Speaker 1: me to like really, so you say I'm going there,
Speaker 1: Hold on, you didn't want me to do all that,
Speaker 1: So I'm ready to tell you. But I wanted to
Speaker 1: put into the household. So I would just pay pay
Speaker 1: with the bills and I would pay for like the
Speaker 1: grocery shops like that, and I would could clean do
Speaker 1: all the girls. Ship. But he took care of home,
Speaker 1: so I could say fifty fifty. But he has to
Speaker 1: have his own ship because I come with my own ship,
Speaker 1: like I have a good job and confusing. So for
Speaker 1: you start doing a woman thing, you know, women things
Speaker 1: like the quiet noise, and it's not quite noise to you.
Speaker 1: It's quiet noise because you're not really giving me an answer.
Speaker 1: What you're doing is telling me a bunch of random
Speaker 1: ship that don't go together. Okay, So I would just
Speaker 1: say this then as a human being as a woman.
Speaker 1: Do you want to be in a partnership relationship right
Speaker 1: where you guys split things fifty fifty or do you
Speaker 1: want the relationship roles type of situation where men do
Speaker 1: traditional men that dude, what the you're supposed to Okay?
Speaker 1: And then I'm gonna do what I'm supposed to do?
Speaker 1: So were don't be all right? Got it? So roles
Speaker 1: are not necessarily No, no, that's not it's no, it's not,
Speaker 1: but we don't. I'm just learning. I'm so so um.
Speaker 1: I like the roles. So you like the roles, okay, Joey,
Speaker 1: are you more of a partnership with a woman or
Speaker 1: are your roles partnership roles? And I played the position
Speaker 1: that I make adjustments. Okay, I like that because because yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, I'll do what I can
Speaker 1: when I can do it that ship, and I'm willing
Speaker 1: to keep learning and trying to be better at whatever
Speaker 1: it is I need to be better at. That's how
Speaker 1: I look at it. Ain't nobody about to pull up
Speaker 1: and tell me what ain't about to happen, and all hell,
Speaker 1: if I need you to put something on something, you're
Speaker 1: gonna do it. I need you to put something. Listen
Speaker 1: here and listen to that lady what you got on
Speaker 1: this because and if she don't have it, then we
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's going just gonna have to have
Speaker 1: to have to happen, like I make that happen. But
Speaker 1: that's right, I'm only I'm only willing to do that
Speaker 1: if it's uh, like I've been with this person for
Speaker 1: a while and understand there's ups and there's down. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I'll participate, you know, here and there, but like just
Speaker 1: some guy just coming in. Yeah, but like if it's
Speaker 1: like a real relationship and and then you just haven't
Speaker 1: you know, some bad times, Yeah, of course I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be there. So that's not what sure I understand. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if if he failed that, But but for the most part,
Speaker 1: you expect to do things that I'm not taking the
Speaker 1: trash out does not and it's stability. I'm not taking
Speaker 1: the trash, So you're not taking the trash. I'm not
Speaker 1: Oh no, I never. I'm not taking the trash. So
Speaker 1: if he ain't at the house in the trash four,
Speaker 1: you're gonna wait till they get home. Yes, that trash
Speaker 1: is heavy. That's stupid though, because guess what, let me
Speaker 1: tell you gonna cook if exactly, if I don't cook,
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna eat. Yep, exactly, he's not gonna eat.
Speaker 1: So therefore this trash here. So it's like my trash. Clearly,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let it, you know, flow over, so
Speaker 1: it's closed. I'm not touching it. But exactly I will
Speaker 1: get another bag and started, but I'm not taking I
Speaker 1: don't want to take the trash out, and I'm not.
Speaker 1: I don't, So you're taking out, leave it by the door,
Speaker 1: didn't put a new bag in. I don't even want
Speaker 1: to take it out the bag because it might have
Speaker 1: wet ship in it, and I don't want to trash.
Speaker 1: I don't do it right. I won't take it. I
Speaker 1: don't want to. I'm not saying that I've never taken
Speaker 1: off the trash. Give by yourself. So you have, so
Speaker 1: you do understand the concept of rods. Okay, So no
Speaker 1: sailings glasses low. My co host one half of the week,
Speaker 1: The Cousin's Britt and read I got my man Joey
Speaker 1: west Side from l A Giants, and I got my
Speaker 1: partners feel Me from folks from Sylvia. J Sorry, so
Speaker 1: This is the reason I asked you this because I
Speaker 1: sent Britt and read a video. And in this video,
Speaker 1: this guy, you know, he has his erie Kevin Samuel's
Speaker 1: thing going on. But he was talking to another dude
Speaker 1: that said he had been married for twenty years and
Speaker 1: had a kid, and the question was why are women
Speaker 1: not cooking? I'm gonna tell you exactly what he says
Speaker 1: right here. It was so it became such a own conversation.
Speaker 1: She was funny, and it was I thought it was
Speaker 1: really funny to me. I just it says why women
Speaker 1: don't want to cook or clean for me anymore? I
Speaker 1: have a question, why do men categorize women that's not
Speaker 1: all women? Because yes, you are a women, so that's
Speaker 1: a category. I think that's the women are not it's
Speaker 1: that didn't do a lot of the times they're the
Speaker 1: same and experiences, well, so what they meant in the twenties,
Speaker 1: I feel like, sure they don't do it. It's because
Speaker 1: they don't know how and they haven't been taught that. Okay,
Speaker 1: So it says why women don't want to cook a
Speaker 1: clean for men anymore? And the guy says, because she's tired.
Speaker 1: He said she had been at work all day and
Speaker 1: she was tired, tired, so you asked me, You said,
Speaker 1: what what do you like? Do you like rolls? I
Speaker 1: love rolls. I would love roles, but I have to
Speaker 1: work too. So therefore, because I have to work, I'm
Speaker 1: tired today. Do you change this is not happening. Do
Speaker 1: you change your oil? So? Then how tired are you? Really? Forget? Wait? What?
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm tired because I should expect him
Speaker 1: to change your oil? Why are you You don't think
Speaker 1: he's trying. You don't think he could be tired? But
Speaker 1: did he cook me a whole meal? He took your oil? Okay?
Speaker 1: So so then as I let me rewind, so I
Speaker 1: sent the information to Pete to bread into red and Asia, right,
Speaker 1: who's red? Is telling me? I just was saying that
Speaker 1: to my household, like I cooked. I don't want to
Speaker 1: make the plates like I'm tired, I don't want to
Speaker 1: make the play. I'm done making plates. And I asked her,
Speaker 1: I said, well, imagine to like your tires on flat
Speaker 1: and the man goes right, he takes your tires off,
Speaker 1: take your tired take it to the tire shop, old
Speaker 1: Jiffy Lui or Micheley and you get your new tire,
Speaker 1: and he comes and he's sitting next to your car,
Speaker 1: like hew, here it is, and this sitting next to
Speaker 1: your car, and now you have to put the tire.
Speaker 1: Why the fun would you tell me to make your
Speaker 1: fucking plate because you're tired to plate? Because so why
Speaker 1: can't you put on your tire? I think it depends
Speaker 1: on if you know what do you know how to do?
Speaker 1: Nine times out of ten a woman doesn't know how
Speaker 1: to change the tire. So do you think that makes
Speaker 1: it okay? It's literally simple. You hold up, listen. You
Speaker 1: literally said it is simple. It's not. It's not simple.
Speaker 1: It's the hard work is done. When you cook the food,
Speaker 1: it's done. You did the cooking, the seasoning, you did
Speaker 1: all that. That's the labor. So you're asking her to
Speaker 1: do the labor. Put the time. No, we're asking her
Speaker 1: to mount, to get up and make up, and expect
Speaker 1: her to the labor. No. I said, I'm going to
Speaker 1: take the tire off of your car, the flat tire,
Speaker 1: because off your car. I'm will take it to Michilean,
Speaker 1: have them put the new tire. Room filling up with
Speaker 1: the air, make sure it's right, bring it back to
Speaker 1: you and sit it next to your car and allow
Speaker 1: you to put it back on at you. I need
Speaker 1: getting up to make my plate is labor, So I
Speaker 1: have something to say that it should be split labor
Speaker 1: work more than splitting money. Because people make more money
Speaker 1: than each other. Whatever, split the labor, like okay, I'll
Speaker 1: make your play, but can't get the baby tonight, So
Speaker 1: then why not split? Why do you not split the money?
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because some people make more, some people make less.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, why are you counting other people's money?
Speaker 1: It should be just man o your man? So so
Speaker 1: so term man write, the possession of term of this
Speaker 1: is not a man, this is my man. I think
Speaker 1: he do or not doing? So the why are you
Speaker 1: counting your man's money if you don't feel like you
Speaker 1: should do the same type of thing. I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: we're both working, and I come home and I'm cooking
Speaker 1: and I'm cleaning, and you can make your plate. But
Speaker 1: so then so then if he goes and he actually
Speaker 1: if he's working and he's paying mortgage and doing stuff,
Speaker 1: he's doing that he could actually put a new tire
Speaker 1: on your flat rim and then you can mind it
Speaker 1: on your car. Some men do everything. Some man cook
Speaker 1: took So since I'm the one, I'm the one that
Speaker 1: made the announcement to the house. I like making the plates,
Speaker 1: but I made the announcement because I take care of
Speaker 1: my father. I have my man, I have my baby,
Speaker 1: my daughter's home for the don't take care of your father?
Speaker 1: What you mean, I don't take your father? Grown up? Um, listen,
Speaker 1: I take care of my father. So that stands was
Speaker 1: for me to be like dad, Like you can make
Speaker 1: your plate, I'm washing your clothes. I'm so you don't
Speaker 1: want to make your dad the reason you're on fucking
Speaker 1: planet Earth, the greatest gift that you can give to
Speaker 1: any human being beside your mother. Let me get this right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that d of those days. I don't cut breakfast before
Speaker 1: we go into the three meals a day with your plate.
Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up, hold up everything she said, hold
Speaker 1: up because because you finished the job. It's like if
Speaker 1: you make a song, right and you can relate to
Speaker 1: this silvia. If you make a song and you don't
Speaker 1: mix the fucking song, you finish the fucking job, you
Speaker 1: master it. Let me ask you a question, right, was
Speaker 1: your dad a dead beat dad. Then how the funk
Speaker 1: dare you tell? Cause you can't make his plate? I
Speaker 1: told you years this is what held up. This is
Speaker 1: what I do. Was he there all eighteen years? Yes,
Speaker 1: he was nigger. Listen, do you mean to tell me
Speaker 1: you can't? Man? I make no. He can make his
Speaker 1: plate most time, not even most times. This is years
Speaker 1: I make his plate. Now you should be to make
Speaker 1: his plate. Listen, I do. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: my dad there's certain things that he likes, a certain
Speaker 1: way whatever, even everybody. I have to remember everybody's everybody's
Speaker 1: ordering this. Man don't like this, My daddy don't like this.
Speaker 1: I'm tired, y'all gonna make your all late tonight Christmas palms.
Speaker 1: All the waste the money on wasted strong his daughter,
Speaker 1: He didn't waste any money because guess what I'm taking
Speaker 1: care of. Expect you to be strong. I think he
Speaker 1: just say, consider you should be honest. I love consosed
Speaker 1: to make you selfless so you could be quiet selfless Joey,
Speaker 1: you know what, I am selfless. But guess what I'm like.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm not. I'm setting the food out.
Speaker 1: I make a beautiful presentation. It's always beautiful. It's buffets.
Speaker 1: Now make your plates. So let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Get would you be okay if your dad I'm asking,
Speaker 1: would you be okay? If your dad right? He's hard
Speaker 1: days at work, all these paying for these proms and
Speaker 1: fucked up ship you got going on and get you
Speaker 1: out of trouble. Clothes every day on your back, and
Speaker 1: heat for the house that you lived in your whole life,
Speaker 1: and air conditioning and all the wonderful things. The gas
Speaker 1: he took you to shoot you quit on that. He
Speaker 1: probably wasted money on. All the cheerleading stuff you probably
Speaker 1: stopped the second day. Hold up, hold up. The fact
Speaker 1: that you don't hold it over your head makes you
Speaker 1: a piece of ship. Yes, if you do not hold
Speaker 1: your parents and make point, hold up, and make my point.
Speaker 1: If you don't hold your parents, who were there for
Speaker 1: you in the highest regards, you are a piece of ship.
Speaker 1: Father absent. But when he broke down and he had
Speaker 1: a mid life crisis and everybody turned his back on him,
Speaker 1: I nursed him back to health, and I thank god
Speaker 1: that he's back to health. But I didn't hold none
Speaker 1: of I'm not I'm not saying it. This ain't about you. Though,
Speaker 1: but it's a mini I'm not saying that you're an
Speaker 1: awesome woman, so I just not your point. The point
Speaker 1: I'm making is read father said, I want, I want to.
Speaker 1: But remember I grew up in the eighties, so yeah,
Speaker 1: I went through shipped too. But that's my father. He's been,
Speaker 1: he's there. He's with me because he's not married, he
Speaker 1: has no one. I'm his daughter to make sure he's good.
Speaker 1: Guess what, I have a seven month old. Probably had
Speaker 1: I not had my baby, I can cater to everyone,
Speaker 1: but she's my number one priority. I'm tired. So yes,
Speaker 1: I went back and forth with myself, like, you know,
Speaker 1: what do I do because I get stressed out because
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make everybody in the house happy. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to make every body good. You don't think everybody
Speaker 1: in the house tries to make you happy. You're a
Speaker 1: damn lie. That's why she's right here, Like, no, that's
Speaker 1: not why she's the reason she right here right now.
Speaker 1: Because her father knocked her mom down, got her pregnant,
Speaker 1: and literally did things to make sure she was okay.
Speaker 1: That's why she's here right now, not because she did ship.
Speaker 1: So she didn't even have to have a day and
Speaker 1: that she's tired, and that she said that a day off,
Speaker 1: and say a day off. I said, you, guys, she
Speaker 1: made a permanent but I went ahead. And what was
Speaker 1: I doing last night? What I do was I making plates? Well? No,
Speaker 1: actually Dad came out the room and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he he made his play. But I was gonna make
Speaker 1: his play. But the whole point is, my whole thing
Speaker 1: is you guys are not even like you know what
Speaker 1: I got this? Do you want me to make your play?
Speaker 1: You sit down. You've been standing up literally from the
Speaker 1: time I get up in the morning at seven, I'm
Speaker 1: on my feet. I'm tiger. You're the only one. I
Speaker 1: work a reg I'm not a homemaker, but I'm working.
Speaker 1: Do you make the house? I make the house? No?
Speaker 1: Do you make the home or do you make the house?
Speaker 1: You know the difference? Yeah, I'm oh, yeah, I make
Speaker 1: the house. So you pay for the mortgage? No, I
Speaker 1: don't say you don't. Then stop buying in front of
Speaker 1: these people, these tens of thousands of people listen to
Speaker 1: this podcast that you make. See Joey, this is home.
Speaker 1: And I've been saying this to Joey. I mean this
Speaker 1: This is the point I've been saying to Joey. I said, look, Joey,
Speaker 1: I got Joey super big brother advice. I say, look,
Speaker 1: if nothing else, man, you gotta take care of your
Speaker 1: old lady. You gotta put the roof over here. You
Speaker 1: gotta really do more, because without it, they act like
Speaker 1: they're doing everything. I'm not minimizing a woman's work. That's
Speaker 1: just ridiculous. I think women in general, honestly, are even
Speaker 1: greater than men. Right, They're more adorable, They're stronger, like
Speaker 1: they can't vince pressed. But the durability, the ability to stretch,
Speaker 1: come back, put it together though through Paine makes you stronger.
Speaker 1: What are you a man? Are roses? I'm not with
Speaker 1: none of this ship you'll talking about. She put out money.
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed, Like I'm totally flabbergasted. How dare you? If
Speaker 1: you if you if you walk, if you walk, if
Speaker 1: you walked and grabbed the door, I'm offended. But I
Speaker 1: am different with that, And I'm not saying this is
Speaker 1: the only way because I don't. I don't touch handles
Speaker 1: and stuff, but sometimes I do just wanna buy my
Speaker 1: person something. I'm not saying there's no crime in that
Speaker 1: I'm not mad. The foundation of it is okay, roses
Speaker 1: and ship. Right, So what I was telling Joey was
Speaker 1: I was saying, Joey, look, man, if your old lady
Speaker 1: feels like she has she has to work to do anything,
Speaker 1: she's going to make it the greatest thing that's going
Speaker 1: on in the house. She's gonna always feel neglected. She
Speaker 1: will always be like nobody appreciates me. She's not gonna
Speaker 1: think of nothing else that's happening the house, but the
Speaker 1: ship she do that's already women like you already got
Speaker 1: to deal that with that. Women women automatically as you,
Speaker 1: as far as putting in money to the household, then
Speaker 1: she's gonna feel like she's writing No, it don't matter
Speaker 1: when they leave their draws on the floor and you
Speaker 1: just cleaned up that tyme of ship like you don't
Speaker 1: appreciates up everywhere like peck the draws up when disrespect
Speaker 1: I don't care about. And that's the point up not
Speaker 1: listen because he paid the bills. He doesn't just listen.
Speaker 1: I can do that. The thing about a really good
Speaker 1: relationship is two people cleaning up behind each other. Don't
Speaker 1: clean up at all. I'm gonna tell you why. He
Speaker 1: cleans up. He cleans up in other ways. He cleans
Speaker 1: up the ship that you get your dumbas self into
Speaker 1: when you're be doing some bullshit. You got this flat
Speaker 1: tired because you were somewhere. Ye's being Nigga's clean up
Speaker 1: behind yall. Other ways, Nigg's clean up behind y'all own
Speaker 1: interest rates. Nigg's clean up behind y'all own bad decisions
Speaker 1: you make on food that cost too much money that
Speaker 1: you're not gonna eat, that's a huge clean up. Huge
Speaker 1: clean up is when you say some ignorant because you
Speaker 1: having your woman moment, he did he ain't tripping. That's
Speaker 1: cleaning up behind a Niggas cleans up behind you, brick,
Speaker 1: because you don't know how to apologize. I understand you're
Speaker 1: apologizing in anyway. Yeah, because it's really hard for y'all
Speaker 1: to say, hey, you know what, I'm sorry. I'm working
Speaker 1: on that. The only woman I've ever met that just
Speaker 1: said i'm sorry side side is the first persons like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm just sorry. I was like, well, sire,
Speaker 1: sorry right right, there's I'm sorry, glasses. She was late today.
Speaker 1: She's like, you know what, I'm sorry, I'm not even tripping.
Speaker 1: I'm just don't be upset at me. But that's the
Speaker 1: first time I had a woman. Just apologize that, but
Speaker 1: don't say you sorry if you really ain't know I
Speaker 1: really mean it. And I don't want to fight Scorpio Scorpio.
Speaker 1: You know they're feistiest motherfucker's breathing. I love hard, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a real thing line between Scorpio. You don't own
Speaker 1: the same man. Mistake both of y'all fighting. Yeah, y'all
Speaker 1: both fighting. She turned up. I know I gotta turn down.
Speaker 1: Go there. It's over to jail. It's over today. People
Speaker 1: gonna be dead, So Joey terrible. Do you want to
Speaker 1: like if you were to get married in the future,
Speaker 1: do you want to take care of your woman? But
Speaker 1: you feel like because if you're not making enough economics
Speaker 1: to do everything at the best level, that's why you
Speaker 1: want help. Yeah, I'm gonna need some help. But what's
Speaker 1: taking care of your woman? Uh? Making him feel appreciated,
Speaker 1: being considerate? All right, don't don't know why. Don't do them,
Speaker 1: Daniel Joan, No, no, no, what I'm saying, that's what
Speaker 1: he wants. Don't do them? Daniel John sometimes sacrificing your
Speaker 1: own stated. You know, it's all from a Stevie want
Speaker 1: a lot of things you do, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: give me the fucking answer I told you. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, she's asking you a question. I'm so Joey
Speaker 1: is like a really good person. But no, no I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not Barries Okay, fire something like me. So look,
Speaker 1: I'll be Joey all the time. I'd be like Joey,
Speaker 1: Like Joey is a great person, but he never really
Speaker 1: reaches the potential. Forgive me for talking about you like
Speaker 1: in front of you. I'm not saying to do it
Speaker 1: all the time. No, I'm saying, yeah to him, it's
Speaker 1: all up because he's a great person. But what holds
Speaker 1: him back is him trying to put on the look
Speaker 1: of a good person. You're good person. So you're saying,
Speaker 1: he don't have to put the look on. It's just
Speaker 1: gonna come out. It's gonna because him. Because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you why. Because great is not always likable. Greatness
Speaker 1: is measuring impact and strong. It's not measured and being
Speaker 1: good like people spend like you know, looking good or
Speaker 1: trying to be a good person or a good man
Speaker 1: in a relationship, it takes energy to kind of present
Speaker 1: that person, you know what I'm saying. So you're taking
Speaker 1: less energy away from being the greatest version of yourself
Speaker 1: to look like the good version of yourself. But what
Speaker 1: if you're not wasting energy doing that? That's just who
Speaker 1: you are as a person. It takes a lot of
Speaker 1: energy to be fake and to be something that you're not,
Speaker 1: But fake just carries this negative connotation. Joey, who are
Speaker 1: you trying to look like? No? No, in his mind,
Speaker 1: this is my opinion, Like Joey don't want to be
Speaker 1: He don't want to be what he thinks people don't like.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I consider what other people feeling
Speaker 1: like more so than what I'm feeling like. So I
Speaker 1: think some crazy ship in my head, like it won't
Speaker 1: really it won't be as nice, but I won't express you,
Speaker 1: you know, And I gotta cheat code because I like
Speaker 1: I could do music so and the different god cuts
Speaker 1: a bit, you'll in the song versus the difference between
Speaker 1: me and Joey is Joey is nice? I'm kind? Nice?
Speaker 1: Is right? Is you worried about how everybody else gonna feel? Kind?
Speaker 1: Is you do it just what you do. I don't
Speaker 1: care what you think. This is what I'm gonna do.
Speaker 1: I'm nice, kind person, O God, nice is when you
Speaker 1: consume what other people think. Then I'm kind because kind
Speaker 1: is when you're doing the ship because this is who
Speaker 1: you are. And Joey is a kind person, but he
Speaker 1: presents himself often as nice. So he don't want to
Speaker 1: say stuff that's gonna bother people, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: whether in the relationships, saying go whatever, working relationship, business, anything.
Speaker 1: He don't want to make people feel uneasy. And I'm
Speaker 1: telling him the only way to make and they're like,
Speaker 1: people will do ship to make it'd be fucked up,
Speaker 1: literally to set you back. And I'm like, bro, if
Speaker 1: you don't like grow, like you for yourself. People don't
Speaker 1: care about how they make me feel, And I don't like,
Speaker 1: I don't care about how I make you feel. But
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna tell you why, Like, I'm never trying
Speaker 1: to make you feel bad, But I have no issue
Speaker 1: with making somebody feel uncomfortable, right because the only true
Speaker 1: uncomfort is measured. You know when you growth is measured,
Speaker 1: and being uncomfortable you only know your feet getting bigger
Speaker 1: when you put on a pair of shoes and now
Speaker 1: they're tight, know what I'm saying. So I will put
Speaker 1: a lot of people because into spaces that are uncomfortable
Speaker 1: to make them deal with a level to grow. Either
Speaker 1: you're going to grow or get the funk away from me.
Speaker 1: That's how I see it like, and it sounds fucked up,
Speaker 1: whether relationship, you know, love interest or business like. It's
Speaker 1: like when we do music right, it's like, if you're
Speaker 1: not if I'm gonna give you this much time, if
Speaker 1: you're not going to be in that window, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: force you to grow, or you're gonna grow the other way,
Speaker 1: because you know, we all got to carry about each
Speaker 1: other's time. I care about my time more than I
Speaker 1: care about always time. But I'm not gonna mismanage his
Speaker 1: time or your time. I'm still gonna act like I
Speaker 1: got respect that you exist. So so this goes back
Speaker 1: to the question what is taking care of your woman? Exactly?
Speaker 1: What do you want to do? What really is take
Speaker 1: care of your woman? Not the R and B Danielle
Speaker 1: Jones perception version of it where they like to hear
Speaker 1: because it matters dog, because we met that women want Yeah,
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying that just because I wanted to hear that.
Speaker 1: I meant that I think I think those things matter.
Speaker 1: Do you really think that that's what you do consistently?
Speaker 1: You think, because you know, that's not what being a
Speaker 1: good man is. Being a good man is not catering
Speaker 1: to a woman's face. No, I'm I'm saying, I'm confused
Speaker 1: being the man you are, But that is who I
Speaker 1: am though, but sometimes it is. But then it's sometimes
Speaker 1: I'm not taking care of so taking care of me,
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be you making sure that my feelings.
Speaker 1: It's it's all those things. So how are you taking
Speaker 1: care of me? You know what I'm saying. Consistent, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But it's but as the road
Speaker 1: like as like you know, like we're talking about taking
Speaker 1: care of as far as take care of crib and
Speaker 1: financially and all that, like, yeah, that's something I do
Speaker 1: want to do. That's taking care of you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm with all that, you know what I'm saying, Making
Speaker 1: sure I just do it on my level, I'm not
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to. I'm not doing it. Because it
Speaker 1: looks like he's saying it looked better for somebody else. No,
Speaker 1: I'm I do what I can in that moment, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: most of the time, she ain't gotta pull out no bread.
Speaker 1: But how would you take care of her? Like? What
Speaker 1: really defines that relationship role of taking care of ship?
Speaker 1: If I answered it, yeah, I might have to keep
Speaker 1: thinking about it because I don't ship. I thought that
Speaker 1: was it, nig I got a dig deeper. I ain't.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think to say, I'm being honest and
Speaker 1: we should this Czy. You know what I appreciate the
Speaker 1: most of considering what it is she's asking for listening.
Speaker 1: You know what I appreciate the most, Douce mac is
Speaker 1: Deuce is unapologetically. And somebody asked me about Deuce. You know,
Speaker 1: why do I why do? What do I think of him?
Speaker 1: And Joey? They like Joey mcs better like they know
Speaker 1: I like Joey mc beat. I'm like, now they they
Speaker 1: pretty much emc the same. And he was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I said, what what makes Deuce powerful is his confidence.
Speaker 1: He's sure of who is right, and that's really everything
Speaker 1: in life. You know what, specially if you arm me
Speaker 1: with information, you know what I mean? That's how I am,
Speaker 1: Like I realized I learned ship to be confident. My
Speaker 1: confidence coming what I learned. So this is the third
Speaker 1: member out of four of the group force him my
Speaker 1: home girl, Silkie. So what's happening, Silk? Are you so
Speaker 1: you use your big lady voice? So are you a
Speaker 1: rolls person or you're a partnership person? Fifty y'all just
Speaker 1: do it together? Are you a rose person? I'm okay. So.
Speaker 1: And the reason why I tell Joey and me and
Speaker 1: Joey had this conversation is I don't think women respect now,
Speaker 1: not all women, sorry, because but most women don't really
Speaker 1: respect like right now. And when I'll tell you that
Speaker 1: she feels like she does so much, you do. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying you don't, but the way you feel about it,
Speaker 1: it's fucking hilarious. You just feel like you do so
Speaker 1: much and he just do this right, Instead of you
Speaker 1: think I didn't say that he just does this. I'm
Speaker 1: just talking about how I feel. I know that he does.
Speaker 1: So what about the reality of the world. I know
Speaker 1: that he does a lot, but he didn't have a
Speaker 1: problem with it. He's like, you know, I know, I
Speaker 1: know the fact you didn't let him volunteer that himself
Speaker 1: makes you crappy? What and the niggas who take care
Speaker 1: of everything, they'll be dealing with the same ship, yes,
Speaker 1: but the only difference is the respect they gotta put
Speaker 1: on your name when you are doing this ship, when
Speaker 1: you're playing the role. It's still a level. It's up there.
Speaker 1: Respect Could you grab it? They drinking round. So it's
Speaker 1: gonna get crazy, definitely because the respect level. And that's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. A woman is gonna give you ship
Speaker 1: no matter what you do right and right, I agree,
Speaker 1: you're gonna need a lot of that silk. It's going
Speaker 1: to get bad up and this motherfucker's I got. I
Speaker 1: got like that, do a lot more like on the
Speaker 1: financial level, way more than I do, and I'll be like,
Speaker 1: damn thinking how we relate like this? Gonna be women
Speaker 1: no matter what you do, right, women are insatiable. Agree,
Speaker 1: they're ever Forgive me. I'm not talking about you when
Speaker 1: I'm saying this on Olivia, I'm not talking ship rest
Speaker 1: my mom. So y'all are insatious say that. No, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying because I'm not. I'm great, but up, women
Speaker 1: are insatiable they're at a constant conflict with themselves, not
Speaker 1: as a whole side. Some women are just pretty much
Speaker 1: But yes, you guys are right, So there's a difference.
Speaker 1: Women are always that conflict with themselves consistently, right, and
Speaker 1: that's why they make war with the world. No, the war. No,
Speaker 1: we have peace with ourselves. I think that's true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we are. That's why we bring resident because we kind
Speaker 1: of really impulsive and we'll probably just pressed that red
Speaker 1: button and blow everything. You know. What's funny, I believe
Speaker 1: if all women were in control of the world, the
Speaker 1: war withou end. I think so too. No, I do
Speaker 1: feel that way because we're very impulsive and the ones
Speaker 1: who are not, though y'all don't do a great job
Speaker 1: of getting alone. What's funny is we don't get along,
Speaker 1: but y'all like get along faithfully, not faithfully faithfully Know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I mean, yeah, because you just be like,
Speaker 1: I'm not working with you. No, man, you don't know
Speaker 1: if I gonna with you. It's not even a question.
Speaker 1: I'm just not working with you. And that it doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that I'm going to be disrespectful to you, doesn't
Speaker 1: mean I'm gonna treat you any kind of way. It's
Speaker 1: just you're gonna know, like, Okay, that's it for her,
Speaker 1: she's not My whole demeanor changes. So so my point
Speaker 1: is it's like, no matter what you do in that role, right,
Speaker 1: women are it don't matter whether you fifty fifty or
Speaker 1: in a row. If they're gonna be like, nigga, you
Speaker 1: just my roommate, pay every bill up in here too.
Speaker 1: If you you know, pretty much hand to all the
Speaker 1: roles and I'm not your slave, you don't own me,
Speaker 1: They're gonna find some fucking reason to complain for It's
Speaker 1: literally their birthright, bro. It's kind of like that's how
Speaker 1: they survive. That's exactly, Like that's why makeup is in demand,
Speaker 1: because they're at a constant conflict with themselves. It's like,
Speaker 1: that's what I say all the time, But what do
Speaker 1: you mean when you say, do you mean financially total
Speaker 1: every thing? Like he cooked some time for you. You cook,
Speaker 1: so not just y'all split the mortgage, but you cook.
Speaker 1: He cooked some time too, He cleaned, you clean everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get his tires change, he gets your tire change.
Speaker 1: I said I was tired and I wasn't making plates
Speaker 1: because I work. I have a job too. Now, if
Speaker 1: I didn't work, and I was a homemaker, does work?
Speaker 1: He worked, you expect him take out the trash? What
Speaker 1: do you expect him to take out the trash? Don't
Speaker 1: matter if he's tired, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter
Speaker 1: if he's tired. Do you expect him to get your
Speaker 1: oil change? That's his job? Right? So how do you
Speaker 1: know about job? Hold on, I have my job a
Speaker 1: regular nine to five, that's my job at home. So
Speaker 1: your job nine? How many hours? Does he work? Ten
Speaker 1: to twelve hours a day? So? So so his ten
Speaker 1: to ten? Know what that's like? Right? So let's say
Speaker 1: it's ten to ten, right, and you still want your
Speaker 1: oil change? Still want to trash? So you so you
Speaker 1: mean to tell me y'll both? So let me say this.
Speaker 1: They're going to fit as far as his plate goes.
Speaker 1: He works Monday through Friday, so I'm cooking his dinner,
Speaker 1: in his in his lunch, so he's getting his plate
Speaker 1: made when he's going to work. So those say that
Speaker 1: Saturday or that Sunday, I'm tired, I worked all week?
Speaker 1: Does he not get to take your oil tone that
Speaker 1: Saturday Sunday? That means he doesn't have to take your card,
Speaker 1: get all your chance neither. Does that mean I'm not
Speaker 1: making breakfast in the morning and I'm not doing that?
Speaker 1: He doesn't. He doesn't get a day off, right, he
Speaker 1: gets a day off. He doesn't get a day off.
Speaker 1: So do you get a day off? Usking for But
Speaker 1: he's gonna make his plates because I don't want to
Speaker 1: make taking the day off half So he should take
Speaker 1: a day off. She's saying, it's just a plate half off.
Speaker 1: It's just the plate, a little bit of the plate.
Speaker 1: So he should take a day off. He should find
Speaker 1: he should find one of the tasks that he has
Speaker 1: to do together. But you make the kids. I make
Speaker 1: the man play the kid. Yes, you're wrong, the man first. Kids,
Speaker 1: we're gonna sit We often know you're gonna sit together.
Speaker 1: You just make a man play. Do you not make
Speaker 1: the little crumbs take some side while you don't make
Speaker 1: the man? Why you don't make the little crumb snatch
Speaker 1: and play first? No? No, you make that first off.
Speaker 1: You got a kid, Your daughter gonna grow up and
Speaker 1: she's not gonna funk with you. My daughter already cooking.
Speaker 1: You're missing the point. Let me focus she's gonna find
Speaker 1: a man, and then whatever you thought you was making
Speaker 1: that play for first, it's gonna go out the window.
Speaker 1: She's gonna make that man play. She's going to the
Speaker 1: man before you play. She's gonna make decisions for him
Speaker 1: before you. I don't need her when she grown, I don't.
Speaker 1: She don't ownly her life, her life. But I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, so why would you think you should dedicate
Speaker 1: your existence to making her play? First of love? And
Speaker 1: then it's us. So you think it's whatever is left
Speaker 1: that's not gonna work because that nobody gonna be like
Speaker 1: what's left for us? No, it's it's not side, it's
Speaker 1: not Stop doing that. Stop putting them a little crumb
Speaker 1: snatches first, she's a snatching crumbs person. She snatches crimbs.
Speaker 1: She ain't for the work and go putting nothing on
Speaker 1: this food. She's gonna snatch whatever crumbs you put on
Speaker 1: that table. Hey, we love them there, yo, little juniors.
Speaker 1: You see yourself in them, and that's awesome, But don't
Speaker 1: mistake it. See the thing is, I think what happens
Speaker 1: to some women in these situations. Right, you only have
Speaker 1: your baby for a while, Right, you have your baby,
Speaker 1: be y'all, and this be your go to person, so
Speaker 1: you don't never think some dude is gonna be there
Speaker 1: because pretty much every situation you had didn't work out.
Speaker 1: So then your your little mini me becomes your role dog,
Speaker 1: and then so you really start valuing that person at
Speaker 1: a different level. We're all doing it wrong. No, No,
Speaker 1: that's when everybody sit down at your play, make your play.
Speaker 1: No that's not how but facet it's a horrible design,
Speaker 1: but facetyle. So so I'm gonna make sure I talk
Speaker 1: to hommy and make sure he takes his half a
Speaker 1: day off so you can really see it. So he
Speaker 1: should pay like three quarters of the mortgage. Why because
Speaker 1: that way, because if you feel like you're tired, this
Speaker 1: nigga worked. I have a job. He has a job,
Speaker 1: and I'm taking care of the house and the baby.
Speaker 1: You don't take care, you make a home. He takes
Speaker 1: care of the house. It's different. Does he get paid more?
Speaker 1: Don't count my money. He's getting paid more. It's because
Speaker 1: everybody pays their fair share. What's the share? But but
Speaker 1: if I'm making thirty thousand and he's making two hundred
Speaker 1: thous not fair? Why you at work. What are you
Speaker 1: doing if you make two hunting but so because so so,
Speaker 1: because you want to get up at you and that's
Speaker 1: all your bread. Listen, this is my what we're doing
Speaker 1: with that. That's a that's a great point. That's a
Speaker 1: great that's a great point. So you don't. I don't
Speaker 1: do what I do. I don't hold the door open
Speaker 1: as a representation of the type of woman I'm dealing with, right,
Speaker 1: I would hold the door before a prostitute, right, because
Speaker 1: it's a representation of Olivia, right, my mom. I do
Speaker 1: what I do to make myself proud. So if you're
Speaker 1: not proud by making these people plates, that's your problem.
Speaker 1: First number one, that it's a proud moment to nurture
Speaker 1: your family. It's it's awesome. You should feel like the
Speaker 1: fucking earth like I literally make sure y'all eat topped
Speaker 1: the bottom, my fruit come off the tree. Here it
Speaker 1: is right here. I did that. You're talking about tired.
Speaker 1: How does it feel like a chore to be a woman?
Speaker 1: How does it feel like a chore ter nurture? I
Speaker 1: could never feel like a chore provider. I gotta go
Speaker 1: to work because I got it. I'm working. But she's
Speaker 1: having all the time. That's how my boyfriend's grandmother is
Speaker 1: his grandmother. She's literally like that, like she want to
Speaker 1: make sure you eat, go to the play. When the
Speaker 1: bill come and that bill come, I don't care if
Speaker 1: that bill is that bill now and took Brandy daughter
Speaker 1: for me to motherfucking her birthday to bill. I'm proud
Speaker 1: when that bill come here, it is boom. There you go.
Speaker 1: That's pride. How don't you have that pride consistently? I
Speaker 1: have it. Don't mean that it don't mean that you
Speaker 1: can be tight. I'm asking you you could. Have you
Speaker 1: ever worked out? I mean you ever got on a
Speaker 1: run of working out? Have you ever got on a
Speaker 1: run of working out when you just worked out for months?
Speaker 1: What are the best days to work out? The days
Speaker 1: you don't feel like working out? You ever? You have
Speaker 1: you ever finished that workout? When you don't feel like
Speaker 1: working out? You get it done? Like damn good? Take notes,
Speaker 1: re taken, take notes. I'm doing the workout notes. I'm
Speaker 1: always tired, so I'm listened. I what do you call it?
Speaker 1: I go the limit? But there's announcement just in case
Speaker 1: these plates ain't made buffets. Now handle your business. I
Speaker 1: would never do that. I would never I would never
Speaker 1: buffet the bills. Hey, you know, here's the bill. Pick
Speaker 1: one tired today, pick a bill. Buffet the bills on
Speaker 1: the table. You know why because that would not be
Speaker 1: a great representative of who I am. I am me
Speaker 1: on purpose. And I felt bad telling them that. But
Speaker 1: my literally I really did. My man, he was like,
Speaker 1: how did you say? I was like, say, hey, this
Speaker 1: is what's going on and check it out or no.
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, you guys. After I made places,
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, I was like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to bake plates me. I was like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cook the food and everything. You know, I'll sit it out.
Speaker 1: And you know, my dad's like, yeah, you don't have
Speaker 1: to make my playing. I mean, you know because and
Speaker 1: he's like, no, no, no, that's because your dad is
Speaker 1: a player. You're not a player. You didn't do the
Speaker 1: player where your dad's plays. Like, I don't worry, baby,
Speaker 1: I got you. You should have felt felt bad, but
Speaker 1: she did mean forever I thought you meant that day,
Speaker 1: because it's different when people like you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: tired today, man, I don't feel like making the place.
Speaker 1: But I made places last night. I mean I made
Speaker 1: my man last night. Wash the band as you cook too, Yeah,
Speaker 1: clean up exactly, yes, oh my god, clean up, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, oh my god. Moving along this guy, I
Speaker 1: don't want to see them. But this is, this is
Speaker 1: three days later, this is Oh no, I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: your plate. Sorry. This is the point. It's not the
Speaker 1: problem with the plate is the mentality. That's what That's
Speaker 1: what roles. Your mentality doesn't understand that we're tired today
Speaker 1: because you don't get to being tired. That he doesn't.
Speaker 1: He's not allowed that luxury. And I can know you're tired. See,
Speaker 1: my job is to know you're tired and to step in.
Speaker 1: Now you go. But this is don't chip. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get some food. No, I'm gonna cook, don't you. You
Speaker 1: know why because he's a fucking awesome guy, fucking awesome.
Speaker 1: He never walked through was like, here's here's the bills.
Speaker 1: You know why, because he's not fucking like they're sucking awesome.
Speaker 1: We're sucking awesome. Awesome. That because we're awesome recognized. That's
Speaker 1: why I'm with him. That's right, no matter what, that's here,
Speaker 1: he's awesome. You guys are good at The solution is
Speaker 1: to stop. So this is why so and I'm glad
Speaker 1: you asked me. That's side, my name, my dog, I
Speaker 1: got you. The reason I'm saying this is because sometimes
Speaker 1: you just gotta do who you like. You do it
Speaker 1: because this is who you are, and if it's not
Speaker 1: who you are, stop playing like. This is what I
Speaker 1: tell Joe, Like, that's what I'll be on Joel. Y'all
Speaker 1: the time. Be who you are, unapologetically. If you feel
Speaker 1: like you're ignorant in certain places, find information and then
Speaker 1: evolved in that place. But be who you are even
Speaker 1: if nobody else understands it. But read specifically like in
Speaker 1: that conversation is that was some bullshit. I'm tired. I
Speaker 1: made the food. So y'all make your own plates now,
Speaker 1: can see if they say hold up now moms to me,
Speaker 1: don't trip. We're gonna make our own places. You look
Speaker 1: tired a matter fact, make your plate. That's what they're
Speaker 1: supposed to do if they paticition. But it ain't supposed
Speaker 1: to be just because you're tired, somebody supposed to look
Speaker 1: and want to take that off of you. And if
Speaker 1: they don't, you suppose will pride yourself in doing it.
Speaker 1: I pride myself and being a man. I ordered a
Speaker 1: pizza for you on the phone because you were hungry.
Speaker 1: I prided myself in ordering that pizza to make sure
Speaker 1: you got that nourishment to keep going. That's a proud
Speaker 1: that I'm not looking like, well, you know when you
Speaker 1: kick your own slices, well, you tip the man. I mean,
Speaker 1: I said it nicely. They understood. Like I said, I
Speaker 1: felt bad, but I had because I feel like every
Speaker 1: time I cook, I have to make these plates and
Speaker 1: I don't want to have kill or you get to
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm that's just what I do. I make
Speaker 1: the play change the mentality, the mentality of I have
Speaker 1: to make these places. You get to make these places.
Speaker 1: It is a oh my god. A perspective will save
Speaker 1: your life though, and just connecting and then I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come back and I'm gonna be perspective will save your life. Listen, brick,
Speaker 1: perspective will save your life. You it. I get it immediately.
Speaker 1: That's the separation between how I look at life versus
Speaker 1: how I ever looked at life before. I get to
Speaker 1: do this for her mentality. How are you supposed to think.
Speaker 1: So a healthier way to look at it, because if
Speaker 1: you look at it, you can do it, versus I
Speaker 1: get to do it. It's just you. That's like some
Speaker 1: subconscious stress you put. You don't even understand how detrimental
Speaker 1: that is, Like I have to do this, like even
Speaker 1: that even expressing the words when we say I can't,
Speaker 1: I'm so tired. I can't make your plate. I would
Speaker 1: love to. It's not I'm not getting Yeah, it wasn't
Speaker 1: coming from that. You don't literally you're not literally so
Speaker 1: physically incapable because your arms are hurting, you can't make
Speaker 1: the plate. You know that. You don't know, by the way,
Speaker 1: oh my god, how much stuff is on these plates? Hey,
Speaker 1: I don't know. You mind tell them? Mother said, making
Speaker 1: no plates on the way. I have a problem with
Speaker 1: women that bad. I don't want people in my kitchen,
Speaker 1: so I prefer to make your place so you're not
Speaker 1: in my making a mess. That's true. The reality is saying,
Speaker 1: y'all had these fucked up as ideas all day anticipated
Speaker 1: They're like, like, nothing about a woman is spurred a moment.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You already knew that. I'll
Speaker 1: be premiss yeah, there ain't no something. Listen, you already
Speaker 1: thought about killing this batch. You don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: You women are greater than me, right, And I'm saying this.
Speaker 1: I said this. People think I'm saying this. I'm not
Speaker 1: keeping I'm literally dead serious. But the problem is y'all
Speaker 1: use your power so horribly. I use mine great. You
Speaker 1: use your power selfishly work out for me. No, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying women are like, like I had this conversation
Speaker 1: me and Joey. We're not into abortions, right, We don't
Speaker 1: think that's like a cool thing. Right now. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying I don't understand the purpose. I get it, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean like, I don't like the concept that you
Speaker 1: give some pussy away and then now later on you're
Speaker 1: not gonna let me get this abortion. I think those
Speaker 1: decisions should be made earlier. And I can't speak for Joy,
Speaker 1: but for myself, I really feel like my main issue
Speaker 1: is how we how we're talking about Like when we
Speaker 1: talk about the boys were like, oh, it's a woman's body,
Speaker 1: may nobody care about her? Can get bbls, fake Pearson's
Speaker 1: ship in their head tattoos? Nope, you never heard no
Speaker 1: man protesting a woman get tattooed on the women shouldn't
Speaker 1: be able to get tattoos. That's not what we're not
Speaker 1: talking about the bike, right, We're talking about the concept
Speaker 1: of a growing, you know, baby in your stomach. So
Speaker 1: that's why the conversation should be approached that way. So
Speaker 1: when you make that decision, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: it becomes as heavy as a ship. There's no mistakes.
Speaker 1: It was on purpose. As a kid, you really don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't have any guy ins and you kind of
Speaker 1: just what if you weren't talking that that's someone man
Speaker 1: grow without parents and I don't know that they lost.
Speaker 1: I had a friend that didn't have neither one of
Speaker 1: her parents, grew up in foster homes, all kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: She just went on with life as she saw it.
Speaker 1: So she, you know, she lay down and did her thing.
Speaker 1: She didn't know. I mean, of course you can look
Speaker 1: around those the girl, but that's not what I'm talking to.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, you know who you want to get
Speaker 1: some pussy too? You ain't that you really know? Yes,
Speaker 1: what about your fourteen? Your fifteen? And then you're sleeping
Speaker 1: with an adult who has to be talking to you
Speaker 1: about sometimes for real everything. You're talking to me out
Speaker 1: of it. It wasn't that wasn't me there that night. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so gain you up? So he didn't gain you up.
Speaker 1: You wanted something because you're gonna do the same dumbass
Speaker 1: ship at this age right now, Yes you are. You're
Speaker 1: gonna find a guy that has some stuff that you
Speaker 1: want and that's going to determine the decision on where
Speaker 1: you go with him. Now, I'm not listening, but that's
Speaker 1: a child. You're gonna have that same child until you evolved. Listen,
Speaker 1: So again, now we start talking about legal presidents, right,
Speaker 1: and this is gonna get creepy, right because head, it's
Speaker 1: not a child's head. This is because you don't want
Speaker 1: to walk like the girls. The girls at my school.
Speaker 1: Just listen. I'm just listen what I do. Of course
Speaker 1: I do because I was a child at once and
Speaker 1: I've listened to a girl. So let let me tell
Speaker 1: you what happens right now. I'm not gonna tell what
Speaker 1: happens to you, but I'm gonna tell you what happens.
Speaker 1: So the guys at high school want the same thing
Speaker 1: the adults want. The only difference is one't got to
Speaker 1: caring some money. So women are not incapable of making
Speaker 1: the decision. They're actually making a quality decision because they're
Speaker 1: actually saying the best decision will be to don't give
Speaker 1: nobody no pussy. But the reason the girls when I
Speaker 1: was in junior and I had a car and girls
Speaker 1: was talking to older dudes that graduated seven years before
Speaker 1: that because them Nick has had cars and some money.
Speaker 1: If that's not an ignorant decision, well, because you're you're
Speaker 1: you're already you already see I didn't like that. People
Speaker 1: around you, older women around you, you see that that's
Speaker 1: what they're going for. So you think that that's that's
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not. It's not none, it's not any
Speaker 1: of that. It's actually, that's a really great decision. The
Speaker 1: problem is it's an a legal decision that some one
Speaker 1: person is making. But it's not a bad decision on
Speaker 1: the woman for making this decision. Like like with R. Kelly,
Speaker 1: it's not crazy to want to give pussy to R. Kelly.
Speaker 1: It's fucking r fucking Kelly. The problem is R Kelly
Speaker 1: breaking the law taking the vagina. But but but again,
Speaker 1: to make it, that's how they are, how they were not. Yes,
Speaker 1: they were how they were treated. It's a lot that go.
Speaker 1: That's what he's going for people that age. Because you
Speaker 1: can't do that to the wrong woman. Yeah, I might
Speaker 1: just want to. Of course our Kelly could do it
Speaker 1: just because itsion. He would have done that. He didn't
Speaker 1: do children most of the women he did. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you a question at the same time. Here's a question, right,
Speaker 1: how much pussy you think R Kelly got in his lifetime? Kelly? So?
Speaker 1: So let's let's let's just imagine a number, a number,
Speaker 1: say that again? How much are how many pussies has
Speaker 1: R Kelly put his penis in? I don't know if
Speaker 1: you had the guests of a numbers about about thousands,
Speaker 1: R Kelly only a thousand women thousands? Give me a
Speaker 1: number thousands? How much pussy as R Kelly got his
Speaker 1: nastiest CAUs was kells was sucking, he was having orgies
Speaker 1: and everything. I'm quite sure different women. So how many
Speaker 1: women have R Kelly not? Now, just give me a
Speaker 1: number like prices, right, let's see prices right, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be humble. Okay, So let's say R Kelly so so
Speaker 1: a thousand, ten thousand, let's split it right in the
Speaker 1: middle at five thousand. How many of these motherfucker's you
Speaker 1: thought was under the team? Maybe most of them, because
Speaker 1: that's what he aimed for. That's not true, I think. No,
Speaker 1: I mean, that's not that's what he likes. He liked. No,
Speaker 1: that's that's literally part of a marketing campaign. R Kelly.
Speaker 1: Most of the women in r Kelly's campaign were all
Speaker 1: of age. Most of the women every more, most of
Speaker 1: the women in the documentary, but currently the ones manipulated
Speaker 1: in the way he treated them was all grown, said
Speaker 1: they were none of the mean that you're grown, you
Speaker 1: still have a mentality. It don't, it's not, it's not.
Speaker 1: You're not a victim. And this is my problem. I
Speaker 1: never liked that concept for them. They're not the kids
Speaker 1: that were under the age of Let me tell you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why they're not because they never
Speaker 1: actually to this day. Let me let me tell you
Speaker 1: why they're not victims. See the victims. See, there's some
Speaker 1: things called victims crimes, like now pedophilia. That's a victim
Speaker 1: a person that cannot make a sexual decision at all.
Speaker 1: Right there, Like you know what, you literally take something
Speaker 1: from them, you're taking their innocence once you literally become
Speaker 1: of sexual age to write to procreate and not ten eleven.
Speaker 1: But you know, fifteen sten eighteen women start choosing. Why
Speaker 1: they are choosing is the question that y'all know that
Speaker 1: you would never be honest about. We know why you choose,
Speaker 1: and we're not crazy. You're not gonna choose qualities because
Speaker 1: you like you think you're a nice guy. No, no,
Speaker 1: you choose things that have value to yourself. Right, this
Speaker 1: person could bring value to yourself. Maybe he has money,
Speaker 1: maybe as a card, maybe he you know, whatever you make.
Speaker 1: You start still talking about a child here, we're talking
Speaker 1: al I'm not saying out. So then that's why there's
Speaker 1: a crime. There's a there's a charge in place because
Speaker 1: they're saying she's going to make a bad decision. But
Speaker 1: the thing is, those little fourteen fifteen girls are not
Speaker 1: complain because you know why. You know why. But as
Speaker 1: as I was fourteen, when I was fourteen, now I
Speaker 1: dated a guy that was thirty something, okay, and in
Speaker 1: that moment, I'm thinking this is great. Why was it great?
Speaker 1: Because he had money? Like you said, he had money,
Speaker 1: he was paying for everything. But now that I'm an adult,
Speaker 1: and I looked back on it, I was like he
Speaker 1: was a predator. He was a predator because there's no
Speaker 1: way that a thirty year old should be messing with
Speaker 1: a child, no matter how. Listen, I'm not I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying. I'm saying. I'm not saying. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying he's not a criminal. And hold up, hold up,
Speaker 1: hold up, hold hold up. But you're not a victim.
Speaker 1: He broke the law. You're not a victim because you
Speaker 1: choose that kind of person today. But I would have
Speaker 1: never been that I had had guidance, and I had
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not there. I would have never done that.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not disagreeing saying that you would make
Speaker 1: a different decision, but the reality is, I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not dising you know. The truth is though all older
Speaker 1: men want younger woman. But discussing because I don't look
Speaker 1: at a year old boy at the age I am now.
Speaker 1: I would never a fourteen year old boy. You know
Speaker 1: why you're not because you don't have any money? Is right?
Speaker 1: Even if he did, I wouldn't. I bet you look
Speaker 1: at the twenty year old Nike that's rich with some money. Ever,
Speaker 1: I will never. She knows me. I have we go
Speaker 1: out and so you never dated. Let me ask you
Speaker 1: a question. Have you ever dated a guy younger than you? Never?
Speaker 1: In your life? Never one year or two years younger.
Speaker 1: That's it. I've never. So I go no, I'm dead.
Speaker 1: So how old is the oldest guy you've ever dated? Now, well,
Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship. Now how old is that guy?
Speaker 1: He's one year? We're what eleven months apart? Okay, Now,
Speaker 1: for example, when you choose your guys, what are you
Speaker 1: really looking for? Stability? A man who got his ship
Speaker 1: together the same she was looking for a fourteen. But
Speaker 1: I wasn't choosing correctly. I should have been choosing. You
Speaker 1: were choosing at my age old. We're talking about listening.
Speaker 1: I'm Joey, Joey if your daughter, I don't know how,
Speaker 1: it's not not you. You're missing a point. I'm not
Speaker 1: arguing why she should be against the law. I'm arguing
Speaker 1: with you that you still make the same decisions. Now
Speaker 1: you know why, because I'm not. Again, I'm not, I'm not.
Speaker 1: The thing is, I'm not blaming the women. I disagree
Speaker 1: with you that I disagree with the concept that they're
Speaker 1: victims because it's a child. You're not even fully developed
Speaker 1: all the way. It's not that that's not you're not
Speaker 1: You're not gonna be fully developed at three. You won't
Speaker 1: even be fully developed your mind till twenty five. This
Speaker 1: is a different conversation. Let me make my point. Stop
Speaker 1: fucking thinking with your feelings. Let me make the point scientifically. Listen. No,
Speaker 1: they're not actually horrible right now, actually fucking horrible right
Speaker 1: now because right now, well I feel, I don't care
Speaker 1: how you feel. Let's let's create a world where we
Speaker 1: could share. Listen, listen, this is a world where we
Speaker 1: can share. Let's come into a world. Are Kelly is
Speaker 1: wrong because he broke laws? Right, there's laws in place
Speaker 1: to protect young young adults, right, young teenagers from making
Speaker 1: grown up decisions. Right, do you understand like how statutory
Speaker 1: rate cases work. Like literally, you can still have sex
Speaker 1: with a thirty year old man at fourteen if your
Speaker 1: parents are proven Yes, and in some countries it's it's legal. No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's legal in this country if your parents
Speaker 1: approved age as soon as you have puberty. That's really true.
Speaker 1: I think it's like age. You can't record it r
Speaker 1: Kelly was violated in the United States. It's not the
Speaker 1: laws you can't have sex at fifteen. The laws you can't.
Speaker 1: Your parents have to approve who you have is sex
Speaker 1: with if somebody's over eighteen at fifteen. That's why it's
Speaker 1: called statutory rate. Your parents pressed the charge. It's not
Speaker 1: you that I know. You don't know that you know
Speaker 1: why because you're too busy fucking feeling your way through life.
Speaker 1: You don't know. Ship. There's different women are capable of
Speaker 1: making their own decisions. In other countries. That's younger, so certain,
Speaker 1: here's some more ship. In Nevada, that legal age you
Speaker 1: can it's sixteen, So you could sleep with a fourth
Speaker 1: of year old man at sixteen legally. So again, we
Speaker 1: can't talk legality versus morality. This is two different things.
Speaker 1: I say as a grown as an adult, why would
Speaker 1: you're asking me why do people like R. Kelly, who
Speaker 1: can't read it right want to sleep with somebody young?
Speaker 1: I have no idea because I don't even like sixteen.
Speaker 1: That's a good question, right, So they probably share the
Speaker 1: same books. But they probably share the same books. They
Speaker 1: probably both reading dr Suits forgive me. I'm praying for you.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking shit. I'm just saying I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about the man. I'm telling you the man definitely has
Speaker 1: something wrong. Let's just remove him from the thing. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm telling you, so I stop feeling. Listen, the
Speaker 1: man is wrong, right, legally, he's wrong. Why would a
Speaker 1: man I want to sleep a thirty or four yeard
Speaker 1: man want to sleep with eight yeard woman is the
Speaker 1: same question to me. I don't know why, even if
Speaker 1: she's eighteen, Like, why the fund would you sleep if
Speaker 1: you forty? While if you'll ever deal with an eighteen
Speaker 1: year old girl in your life. Kids like daughters, cousins.
Speaker 1: They're horrible, fucking awful. They don't know ship. They think
Speaker 1: they know something. They ain't a long enough to be
Speaker 1: good at it. I don't care if they started four
Speaker 1: years before that. It ain't good at that, Like you
Speaker 1: ain't got enough experience. I don't know personally, So as
Speaker 1: a man, I can't tell you why a man, but
Speaker 1: I think that's we can all agree that something is
Speaker 1: probably wrong with him, something wrong with him, But let's
Speaker 1: remove him from the ship. There's nothing wrong with the
Speaker 1: fifteen year old girl that found some older nigga with
Speaker 1: a car and some money. Nothing wrong with her thinking.
Speaker 1: Women are going to think that way until the day
Speaker 1: they die. You're gonna always look for that same stability.
Speaker 1: The hope for you, Joey, is you provide that stability
Speaker 1: to your daughter. That's the difference, right, So I agree
Speaker 1: with you, Like if you have issues a father, and yeah,
Speaker 1: you might look at it differently. You're like, you don't
Speaker 1: quite know what it should look like, you're kind of
Speaker 1: imagining it, Joey. That's the goal, right for a father
Speaker 1: to provide that look for his daughtership, Like why ain't
Speaker 1: gonta don't have to go out there and look for
Speaker 1: it and another man and another man. But if you
Speaker 1: have a dad like Joey's up happing, of course she's
Speaker 1: not gonna end up like that or she's not gonna
Speaker 1: do those things. But that don't mean But that don't
Speaker 1: mean Joey daughter ain't gonna try to look for somebody
Speaker 1: to stable And Joey's gonna be mad as a motherfucker
Speaker 1: if she comes with his motherfucker that right, But I'm
Speaker 1: not if she's not going to do it that you no, no,
Speaker 1: God willing no, hopefully not. I mean I'm sure, it's happening.
Speaker 1: It's happened, but I don't. I'm with you in agreements
Speaker 1: that the goal is for it to not happen. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, it's nothing crazy about their thinking. Like
Speaker 1: you're thinking even when you was fourteen and you dated
Speaker 1: the creepy guy at thirty, right, it's nothing wrong with
Speaker 1: you're thinking. It's nothing because I never did. Because in
Speaker 1: your mind, you're like, you know why, because but we
Speaker 1: raise ourselves. But but listen, but listen to the point.
Speaker 1: Every guy wants the same fucking thing, whether that nigga
Speaker 1: is sixteen or twenty six. When you're sixteen, they want
Speaker 1: the same thing. I'm not judging you the woman if
Speaker 1: you're like, well, this nigga want the same thing, and
Speaker 1: I want to give it to either one of them,
Speaker 1: but one of them got a car and some money
Speaker 1: and gonna make sure I get to school on time,
Speaker 1: or gonna make sure blah blah blah. I think women
Speaker 1: are thinking rational from a young age. I think men
Speaker 1: are not thinking rational because I don't know what the
Speaker 1: funk would you have a sixty year old girls around you?
Speaker 1: For men have father issues too and missing daddy's I
Speaker 1: think we all are raised what's right or wrong and
Speaker 1: just figuring that's why you should listen to me. Men. No,
Speaker 1: but I think it's it's more coming from perversion, like
Speaker 1: when they do it that, like when you mess with
Speaker 1: someone that young, it's not about having someone or a companionship.
Speaker 1: It's really just about a sexual thing. She hasn't had many.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what I genuinely think it is.
Speaker 1: And this is the first time I've ever thought what
Speaker 1: I think. Right. So I've listened to niggas right who
Speaker 1: look at young girls right, and maybe like man, niggas
Speaker 1: will try to live vicariously through somebody else. Adults in general,
Speaker 1: like women right, try to live through their daughters, right,
Speaker 1: vicariously youthful life. Right, It's it's kind of normal, like
Speaker 1: you pretty much gonna get your old sweat, yes, and
Speaker 1: accept glasses, which is why you should listen to me. Right,
Speaker 1: I grew all my ship. I'm not looking like right,
Speaker 1: So so everybody's chasing and it's my point, right everybody
Speaker 1: for the most part, no nobody care about that. Nobody
Speaker 1: Nigga's love long titties. I'm telling you the truth behind
Speaker 1: closed doors with Nigga say, nigga's love long tipps. Don'tbody
Speaker 1: care about like, yeah, might care about no. Motherfucking my
Speaker 1: boyfriend didn't want me to do with that because nigga's
Speaker 1: like about me. That's what I don't like. Say, oh
Speaker 1: it's about this, No, it's about what you see your titties.
Speaker 1: De Lease, No, I see what I Seelease we trust
Speaker 1: me more niggers looking. I'm telling you, you walk around
Speaker 1: with them titties in the shirt that she got. I
Speaker 1: heared out. If you look, you want people to treat
Speaker 1: you like you got big teeth. They already did know
Speaker 1: they didn't They treat you like you got a big as.
Speaker 1: There's nothing changed, whatever the cases, there has nothing changed.
Speaker 1: Of course it changes. Of course you can attract the
Speaker 1: whole different type of nigga. That's like titties, guys. Sure
Speaker 1: tell people like titties. Some people like that White guys. Now,
Speaker 1: I don't know why you wouldn't got titties. What was
Speaker 1: you thinking? Only people who appreciate titties as white folks.
Speaker 1: I think that's not true. I don't know Black people
Speaker 1: appreciate no titties. Have you ever a man? Yes? I have,
Speaker 1: and it was great you were sick. Let nobody that's
Speaker 1: wrong with that big hitting your cheir Hey, he's hitting
Speaker 1: your chin and you're sucking it. As long as no
Speaker 1: parks are done, everything is nothing is left. You write
Speaker 1: it up. You write it up. Let the dog loose.
Speaker 1: I got I got my brand new titties. I wanted
Speaker 1: to experience it, and so I asked my boyfriend. I
Speaker 1: was like, can you He's like what I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: just yeah. I wasn't you like it? Right? I was
Speaker 1: p put you down? And you're just like, I don't
Speaker 1: work like that's kind of cool. Yeah, what's cool? Right? Little?
Speaker 1: I don't want to make just like you can see
Speaker 1: now see red. There you go. That's the compromise. There
Speaker 1: you gonna you know what, baby, I'm not gonna make
Speaker 1: your play today. You play tonight, but get titty, you
Speaker 1: get you know what. I'm not going to jails, nick,
Speaker 1: cause I never sat on a girl. Chance to do it. Blue.
Speaker 1: That just announced I don't know what tonight. That is
Speaker 1: your motheruck? You know what? That's so high school to me,
Speaker 1: but that is it's right. Yeah. You just girls right
Speaker 1: here and I hit you in the chien a couple
Speaker 1: of times justation I was going on, and he squatted
Speaker 1: over me. Yeah, and then he just just he and
Speaker 1: I'm like, how was your face? What was it like?
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, she was looking I'm looking at it.
Speaker 1: That me in the head was out of a right
Speaker 1: right there, bam is happening on No Sillings today. This
Speaker 1: is like the first real episode of Yeah, hello, what
Speaker 1: the funk is going on? We grow the hot dog
Speaker 1: in the bun? Yeah, yeah, titty fucking is like the
Speaker 1: hot dog in the bun. Oh. This is the worst
Speaker 1: episode in no cling like it's like this. This is
Speaker 1: the first real episode where it's just No Silling saying
Speaker 1: all kind of crazy ship now so okay, so yes,
Speaker 1: really wrong. I don't care how tired you are. Right,
Speaker 1: the goal is to always be grateful that you get
Speaker 1: to do your job as a as a woman in
Speaker 1: the family. It's a blessing. The motherfucker couldnot bear the
Speaker 1: moral trust me your cry if you can't make their
Speaker 1: play and gratitude, that's always a solution. That's what Joey
Speaker 1: was saying right there. He was saying. The difference is
Speaker 1: instead of saying like I didn't be like man, I
Speaker 1: got I have to be at the studio today to
Speaker 1: record force him. It's like I get to be in
Speaker 1: the studio to record for us, and it really matters,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because if you if you
Speaker 1: really enjoy the benefit of that concept. But being human,
Speaker 1: you feeling funking with people, it's a blessing to be
Speaker 1: around them, what I'm saying. You get a chance for
Speaker 1: new energies, new ideas, new concepts, especially people that are talented,
Speaker 1: like I'm not one of them kind of people that
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm not working with people that ain't talented.
Speaker 1: They have no purpose in my life. So if if
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I'm going to funk with you, it's
Speaker 1: because I believe there's something there, right, so I get
Speaker 1: to be a part of it. Definitely. It's but we're
Speaker 1: not gonna do that rap ship. We're gonna focus on
Speaker 1: y'all making the plates. I don't too much conversation on that.
Speaker 1: And and I understand where red point is. I was
Speaker 1: at work all day and today I did I was tired,
Speaker 1: took too much no no, no, because but it's not
Speaker 1: really about the plates. It's about this what we're saying
Speaker 1: right now, the mentality when it comes to rolls. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like I have to open the door. Let me,
Speaker 1: let me go, let me, let me, let me. I
Speaker 1: have to open the door for Red because she's gonna know.
Speaker 1: I get to open the door for Red. I get
Speaker 1: to do these things. I get to share. Look right now,
Speaker 1: I get to share a podcast space with you. I
Speaker 1: have a podcast that's going with Pete and I get
Speaker 1: to do it with you. If I don't treat it
Speaker 1: that way, guess what got to take it away? That's
Speaker 1: that's that's look at. Yeah. So but yeah, that no
Speaker 1: matter what you're doing, women are gonna treat they're gonna
Speaker 1: trip bro, whether whether you go fifty fifty or you
Speaker 1: do roles right, because we're learning at this point, we're
Speaker 1: gonna move forward and it's not it's not it's your
Speaker 1: birth right though side to complain, it's just what you do.
Speaker 1: And you actually are one of the few that don't complain.
Speaker 1: I get you, like, you're not a super I know.
Speaker 1: I saw you that day when you was on My Live,
Speaker 1: was at the video and you started acting funny for
Speaker 1: no reason. Yeah, he was like, he was like and
Speaker 1: then people on live was like, she's crazy. I'm like
Speaker 1: I know you are, and I appreciate the honesty of
Speaker 1: being drunk. Yeah, And and honestly, I have my mind
Speaker 1: goes like a million mouth for our Sometimes I can't
Speaker 1: even speak because my mouth and my brain and what
Speaker 1: I'm thinking and what I want to say. They don't
Speaker 1: go to it, don't don't. They don't need together. It's
Speaker 1: going too bad. Is going to be like yeah, and
Speaker 1: I have to try to bring it in and figure
Speaker 1: out what am I trying to say? Okay, So the
Speaker 1: point whether or not you like fifty fifty where y'all
Speaker 1: just split all the responsibilities. There is no gender roles
Speaker 1: and the relationship that's fine long as you're grateful about it.
Speaker 1: And whether you're in the roles relationship right and you
Speaker 1: feel like you know whether he's going to work and
Speaker 1: you blah blah blah, you work in your hours. Just
Speaker 1: still you still expect him to be happy to do
Speaker 1: his job. Right, You still expect him. I mean imagine
Speaker 1: him like you need your tie that don't feel like
Speaker 1: doing it, like you would be so disappointed if he
Speaker 1: does it once. And let me tell you something, if
Speaker 1: somebody does it once, I ain't gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1: I'm keeping it a being. I'll be like motherfucker because
Speaker 1: d n, it makes me start to think about it.
Speaker 1: But it's not that it makes me start to think
Speaker 1: about like, damn, is that what we could do? We
Speaker 1: could just do what we feel like if that's how
Speaker 1: any relationship works, you can't help it. I'm super emotional
Speaker 1: just because I don't use them that. I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't have them. Yeah, I just don't use that. I
Speaker 1: have a ton of everybody, the kids. Yes, but that's
Speaker 1: why we learned how That's why we learned how to
Speaker 1: because if we said everything we feel or tripped off
Speaker 1: everything we felt, the world to be. I think y'all
Speaker 1: king standards now. I know that's why I get my anger.
Speaker 1: Like I go off on Mike and then I leave,
Speaker 1: hurry up and leave. I talked to and I leave.
Speaker 1: It's actually got a master. They can respond like I
Speaker 1: said it. I'm glad y'all came on the podcast. Man
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Speaker 1: me Brittain read were here every week, were just like that.
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Speaker 1: This episode was recorded right here on the West coast
Speaker 1: of the USA and produced by my homeboy A King
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