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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you have a date.

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Speaker 3: You have a date.

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Speaker 1: Jose was right there next to me, skinny as a whip. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Brooks could still make out faces and shapes without glasses eye.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Life was different. We were young and I was in

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Speaker 2: The love is still there.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey, Well, I remember I told myself, you know what,

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Speaker 1: and when I did, it was gone. Oh no, missed

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Speaker 2: You remember the date that you first saw the muffin,

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Speaker 1: I never got to eat it, never got a chance.

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Speaker 1: If there was an option for me to do a

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Speaker 3: So this is the.

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Speaker 2: Regret you live with.

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Speaker 1: It must be a hard I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: To wake up every day and I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: One of the boardops, ain't it or something? Bro It's

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Speaker 1: not a huge deal. I'll never know. I'll never know.

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Speaker 1: But I only bring it up because rarely do we

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Speaker 1: long lost love from over a decade ago. And that's

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Speaker 1: why our listener Gabe is on with us today. Gabe,

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Speaker 1: what's up?

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Speaker 3: Man? Hey guys, how are you?

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Speaker 2: Was it poppy seed or blueberry for you?

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Speaker 3: Man? Definitely blueberry.

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Speaker 1: I love stories of love yeaheah. So it sounds like

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us about her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, first off, I just wanted to kind of

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Speaker 3: thank you guys for helping me out. I'm just kind

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Speaker 3: I had my first job fresh out of college, that

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Speaker 3: and there was a girl named Claire and we worked

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Speaker 1: Brook can't relate because she just sleeps with everybody she

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Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you mostly that ruins the crush.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So is it just a situation where you saw

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Speaker 3: So there was one night there was a house party

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Speaker 2: So you're still this is your moment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And I happened to be wildly bussed, but

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Speaker 3: But at the end I thanked her for coming and

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Speaker 3: So like three or four months later, out of nowhere,

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Speaker 1: WHOA lucky you, Laura Jones.

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Speaker 2: She finally uses your number and she's the one making

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean the conter was okay, it was a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, concert a little bit, so nothing happened there what

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Speaker 3: So we spent another three months of just being friends,

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Speaker 2: How was that was your mind blown?

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Speaker 3: I'll say, best relationship ever. But then for some reason,

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Speaker 3: Or I'll put it this way. We had to break

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Speaker 1: Was over in emails she broke up with you?

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, we were talking and she said maybe we'll

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Speaker 3: lines like happy Saint Patrick's Day. What Yeah, I was

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Speaker 1: Dun't you on Saint Patrick's Day?

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Speaker 4: So it just sounds like you guys are on two

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, I moved on. I got married.

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Speaker 1: Well, actually, how many times has Brooke congratulated someone on

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Speaker 4: It just feels wrong to ask right after someone says

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Speaker 1: What they're trying to get closure with you. I'm married.

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Speaker 1: I don't know Laura Jones Knight. Okay, well, so.

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Speaker 2: So now we're still thinking about her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how does Claire come back into the picture here?

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Speaker 3: Well, Claire comes back because I have all my friends

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Speaker 3: And who do you think I see Claire?

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Speaker 1: I think it was clear.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I can't believe that you guys like matched on

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I just I didn't know what to do, so

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Speaker 2: Image of her in.

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Speaker 1: Your head right where now it's like, oh my gosh, she's.

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Speaker 2: So are we reaching out to Claire?

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Speaker 1: What are we doing here? Because this is a little

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I was, I really, I just want to know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we happened back in the day.

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Speaker 2: Do we want closure? I want an opener? Want I

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Speaker 1: Why not just reach out to her yourself?

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's a good question, honestly, I just don't

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, and that might come out if you

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Speaker 1: Hey Claire, quick question, who do you think you are?

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Speaker 1: I don't know suddenly arbor days though, and for you too, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: let's do this, we're going to play a song because,

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Speaker 2: Oh you tricked us, jeff like you didn't know what

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Speaker 1: we have reached out to Claire already and we've asked

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Speaker 1: read what she said. We're gonna do it and get

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Speaker 1: your closure call right after this. It's Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 2: Did, and it was amazing. It was magical. Everything he

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Speaker 1: Would be, and they had a brief but meaningful fling

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Speaker 2: Holidays, crying and his green beer.

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Speaker 1: Still and Gabe, we stand with you. We hate Saint

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Speaker 1: Patrick's Day too. I mean, I'll drink a Guinness, but

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Speaker 1: That's because thirteen years after that breakup, guess who popped

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Speaker 2: And if she even felt the same. I mean, gosh.

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Speaker 1: So we sent Claire four questions that Gabe worked with

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Speaker 2: Oh it's okay. Like just sit down, take a deep breath, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, So here we go. First question that we sent was, Hey, Claire,

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Speaker 1: I know it's been a long time, but I've been

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Speaker 2: Oh, we did it. We put it out there.

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Speaker 1: You're one person in my life. I've wanted to get

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Speaker 1: some closure on a few things. I've had a couple questions.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to ask you about our past. Is that okay?

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Speaker 2: That was our first question.

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Speaker 1: That Gabe's first question. And I would love that message.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, okay, I want to give the option.

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Speaker 2: I know I would have jumped right in.

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Speaker 1: Claire was bonded Gabe. Who No, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 4: Man's emotions like, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Are you okay?

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't even doubt it.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, it was much better. She said, Hey,

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Speaker 2: She sounds so excited to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm you're doing it.

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Speaker 1: Things seemed so good between us and then you suddenly

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Speaker 4: I think you and the producer worded that good because

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Speaker 3: When I'm what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Yep, yep. So she answered that, and she said yikes. Well, okay,

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Speaker 1: she says, that was a long time ago. I was

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Speaker 2: Stupid, it means she made a bad choice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So she says, even when you and I were

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Speaker 3: I get it now. That just could have been a

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Speaker 2: I think she agrees. That's why she said she was stupid.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that you had a lot of other women

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Speaker 3: At the time, Gabe actually know pretty much just her.

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Speaker 3: She was the only one I was picking them out.

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Speaker 1: You're just joining us. We're doing something called a closure call.

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Speaker 1: that we sent her was, since I haven't seen you

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Speaker 1: in thirteen years, I really don't know much about your life.

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Speaker 1: What have you been up to? Have you been married?

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Speaker 1: What's happened?

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Speaker 4: And that's basically us asking are you actually single even

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Speaker 1: No totally, or you know, just trying to get any information,

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Speaker 1: like have you been arrested?

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Speaker 2: Black kids?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like we want to know all that criminal exactly. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So here's what she wrote back. Claire said, well, that's

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Speaker 1: I did have a child, a six year old boy,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to date again. So other than my one

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Speaker 3: Yes, here ready to date?

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Speaker 2: These are all good answers. Are you okay? Are you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's Claire. I would probably be okay.

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Speaker 2: If Oh, that's quite the statement. That would be got

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Speaker 1: So we're into our fourth and final question here. This

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Speaker 2: Oh please tell us that we asked her out.

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Speaker 1: And I'm a recent divorced so I know it's been

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Speaker 1: a long time. But would you be interested in grabbing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we clarified not as friends. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: We decided to pour our hearts out here. We said,

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Speaker 2: Dude, how are you feeling. Are you ready to hear this?

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't want to hear it at all.

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Speaker 5: All right, Gabe, she said, I think it would be

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Speaker 5: so much fun to grab a drink or coffee with

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Speaker 5: are you free?

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Speaker 1: You did it, You're in love, You got your girl back.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, start planning the wedding, just yet the break.

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Speaker 1: I never do this on closure calls, but I'm going

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Speaker 1: to offer to pay for when you guys go out. Hey, yep,

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Speaker 3: I hate you. I hate you so much.

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Speaker 1: That's your closure call. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's been a few months since we did that

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Speaker 1: with us. Yay, Gabe. We've had so many listeners texting

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Speaker 3: Uh? Yeah, what happened? Well, we met up at the

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Speaker 1: You yeah, ain't how to go.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it turned out as well as you'd expected yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: You reject him.

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Speaker 4: God, they always come out of the woodwork as soon

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Speaker 4: as you start dating somebody else. Okay, I'm sorry, you're

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Speaker 3: And I have a hard time trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: she signed the text for whatever read and happy Labor Day.

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Speaker 1: Happy Labor Day. Yeah, why would take it as an insult?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like she did with happy Saint Patrick saying.

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Speaker 1: Delivering bad news on holidays. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it's a joke?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, one of monumental waste of time.

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Speaker 2: Though, well, we enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the tea, buddy. Make sure you stay in

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Speaker 1: touch all right game.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely thanks guys, have a great day, Brooke and Jeffrey

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