WEBVTT - Enjoying your morning routine, with Deirdre Fitzpatrick

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 2>episode is going to be a longer one part of

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<v Speaker 2>the series where I interview fascinating people about how they

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<v Speaker 2>take their days from great to awesome and any advice

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<v Speaker 2>they might have for the rest of us. So today,

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<v Speaker 2>I am delighted to welcome Deirdre Fitzpatrick to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>She has spent twenty five years as the weekday morning

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<v Speaker 2>news anchor for KCIATV, which is the NBC affiliate in Sacramento, California.

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<v Speaker 2>She is also the host of the Dying to Ask

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<v Speaker 2>A podcast. So, Deirdre, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for having me on. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm excited to hear about your daily routines and

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<v Speaker 2>how you manage your life. I understand that part of

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<v Speaker 2>the job description of being a morning news anchor is

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<v Speaker 2>that you get up very very early.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you talk about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean back in my college days, I would

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<v Speaker 3>have said it was very late.

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<v Speaker 1>You just staying up the whole time?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, pretty much. I've just kind of completely flip flopped.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, so my my responsibilities at Case areas. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a morning news anchor, and our morning news goes from

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<v Speaker 3>four am until ten am, so there's a six hour

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<v Speaker 3>morning news block. I'm responsible primarily for our five am

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<v Speaker 3>to seven am news, So I get up, depending on

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<v Speaker 3>the day, anywhere from about two am to three am.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty early.

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<v Speaker 2>It is pretty early, well, and that's because you also

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<v Speaker 2>have you're responsible for the news reporting. I mean, right,

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<v Speaker 2>you're choosing some of like how you're presenting some of it,

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<v Speaker 2>from what stories you're doing, so you actually have to

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<v Speaker 2>work before you go on air.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's interesting. You know a lot of times

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<v Speaker 3>you can kind of cruise into your day and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of amp up. I have to start, Like, my sharpest

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<v Speaker 3>time of the day is between three and six am

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<v Speaker 3>is when I really need to be at my best,

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<v Speaker 3>which is problematic for somebody who gets up at that

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<v Speaker 3>hour because you know, as humans were not really wired

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<v Speaker 3>to do that kind of on the regular. So my

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<v Speaker 3>job is in the morning is we have producers who

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<v Speaker 3>put together the news all night long. My job is

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<v Speaker 3>to come in and be I always say like the

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<v Speaker 3>eighth grade English teacher who comes in with the red

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<v Speaker 3>pen and goes, yeah, yeah, you can't really say that,

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<v Speaker 3>or that's not correct, or we could do this a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit better, and then so I copy it. I

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<v Speaker 3>try to make things sound a little bit more conversational

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<v Speaker 3>so that somebody who's in their bed trying to wake

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<v Speaker 3>up at six am and has turned the news on

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<v Speaker 3>can really kind of process it in a certain kind

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<v Speaker 3>of way. So we write the news in the morning

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<v Speaker 3>a little differently than we would say in the evening.

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<v Speaker 3>People process information differently at different times of the day.

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<v Speaker 3>So my first hour or two I actually work from

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<v Speaker 3>home for the first hour. I get up, I have

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<v Speaker 3>some coffee, and I get right into our computer. I

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<v Speaker 3>catch up on what's happened overnight, read a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>newspapers online, and then I'm writing into scripts and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>messaging our producers and suggesting things or rewriting things. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>they'll say, hey, could you write this for me? So

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<v Speaker 3>my job is very very hands on for the first hour.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so the whole team is working at two thirty

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<v Speaker 2>three am while you are you are going with this,

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<v Speaker 2>and then what time do you go into the studio.

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<v Speaker 3>So I typically get into my car at around four am.

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<v Speaker 3>I live about twelve minutes to the studio, so you

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<v Speaker 3>can see everything is down to the minute. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 3>was a process. There's a routine.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not too much traffic.

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<v Speaker 3>Fo there's no traffic at that hour. It's actually not

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<v Speaker 3>too bad. So I go in and then I quickly

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<v Speaker 3>get myself writing. It takes me about twenty twenty two

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<v Speaker 3>minutes to get the mankup on, do the hair, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I walk into our studio at about five minutes

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<v Speaker 3>before five o'clock and then we're on for the next

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<v Speaker 3>few hours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and so you are on air till seven am,

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<v Speaker 2>more or less, right, more or less?

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<v Speaker 1>More or less what happens after that?

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<v Speaker 3>So after that I work on other things. So sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>I might be filling in on other hours of our

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<v Speaker 3>news if somebody is out or if something else is needed.

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<v Speaker 3>But for the most part, I shift into the second

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<v Speaker 3>part of my day, which is where I work on

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<v Speaker 3>more project stuff. So I work on the podcast that

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<v Speaker 3>you mentioned dying to ask. I work on special projects.

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<v Speaker 3>So I work for First Television MIT that's who owns

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<v Speaker 3>my station, and for the last eleven Olympics, I've been

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<v Speaker 3>covering the Olympics for her. So I helped create Olympic

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<v Speaker 3>content for thirty television stations, and then I've actually traveled

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<v Speaker 3>to the Olympics every two years to go follow athletes

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<v Speaker 3>for these stations and work on stories. So I have

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<v Speaker 3>a very self managed project list. Yeah, when you've been

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<v Speaker 3>in a place for that long, if you're known as

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<v Speaker 3>the one who's really good at just getting stuff done,

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<v Speaker 3>people tend to go hands off and say, hey, when

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<v Speaker 3>do you think you'll have that ready? So I keep

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<v Speaker 3>myself busy, which, you know, I think if you're going

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<v Speaker 3>to stay in a job for that long is really

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<v Speaker 3>crucial because it's really easy if you've been in a

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<v Speaker 3>if you've been at least on the surface in the

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<v Speaker 3>same job for a really long time, it can get

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<v Speaker 3>very road and to not get like that, especially in

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<v Speaker 3>a job that for me is as performance based as

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<v Speaker 3>it is journalism based, you know, in terms of like

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<v Speaker 3>the preparation and the presentation. You have to stay engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>And so having all these other projects for me kind

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<v Speaker 3>of feeds the creative part that I love about being

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<v Speaker 3>a television journalist.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and how do you come up with your ideas?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I'm thinking of like three things just

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<v Speaker 3>while we're talking I mean, ideas are everywhere. It's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like it's like writing, Laura. I mean, where do

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<v Speaker 3>great ideas come from? They come from really quiet moments

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<v Speaker 3>that might come when you're out on a run and

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<v Speaker 3>you notice something happening at the corner that you didn't

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<v Speaker 3>notice the other day. Sometimes people are emailing you and

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<v Speaker 3>they're suggesting ideas. Sometimes it could be just within your

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<v Speaker 3>own local community. I mean, I have kids, I'm in schools.

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<v Speaker 3>People are telling me about things all the time. I

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<v Speaker 3>went to a presentation at my son's high school last night,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think I walked away with at least six

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<v Speaker 3>story ideas from it, you know that about a subject

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<v Speaker 3>that I knew nothing about before I walked in. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought I got to file that away. So ideas come

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<v Speaker 3>from everywhere if you are open enough to see them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wonderful, wonderful. So, and when does a work day

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<v Speaker 2>sort of end for you?

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<v Speaker 3>So the workday technically ends, I'm usually done by about lunchtime,

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<v Speaker 3>so about eleven twelve, I've put in my eight or

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<v Speaker 3>nine hours, you know, on the clock. The reality is

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<v Speaker 3>that with a job like this, probably similar to a

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<v Speaker 3>job like yours, you know, never really done done there's

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<v Speaker 3>always that straight email that probably needs to be looked at.

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<v Speaker 3>And because I work these kind of off hours, I

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<v Speaker 3>like to stay in touch, knowing what I'm heading into

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<v Speaker 3>the next day, So you try to be careful about

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<v Speaker 3>how much you're doing that in the afternoons. But I

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<v Speaker 3>would say that I probably work a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>than I should once I leave.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, because if you have started working at

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<v Speaker 2>three am and you're you know, a normal work day

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<v Speaker 2>would be done at noon, but the rest of the

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<v Speaker 2>world is not done working at noon. I would imagine

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<v Speaker 2>you have to actually actively put in some boundaries in

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<v Speaker 2>order to create some personal time.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, I've gotten better about that. I think,

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<v Speaker 3>like most women, once we get to be on a

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<v Speaker 3>certain age, you start realizing that's not a great idea

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<v Speaker 3>to continue doing that, so I do so I will

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<v Speaker 3>set like it. I will purposely not take my work

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<v Speaker 3>I have two different phones. I have a personal phone

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<v Speaker 3>and I have a work phone, and I will leave

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<v Speaker 3>the work phone if I don't think I need to

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<v Speaker 3>have it. I'll leave it at home while I'm out

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<v Speaker 3>running errants in the afternoon, but I might check before

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<v Speaker 3>I go to bed, just to make sure that something

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<v Speaker 3>hasn't changed, so I think, you know, it's really easy,

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<v Speaker 3>and we all definitely fell into this during the pandemic

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<v Speaker 3>of doing things all the time. The truth is that

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<v Speaker 3>that's not really good for anyone, so I try to

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<v Speaker 3>be really careful. The weird thing I run into is that,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, my workday starts at three am, and I

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<v Speaker 3>will send, I'll respond to emails at that time. But

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<v Speaker 3>for people who don't necessarily know exactly what I do

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<v Speaker 3>in the hours that I keep, it comes across as

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<v Speaker 3>very aggressive. So I have recently been told that I

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<v Speaker 3>should really think about sending those emails later. So I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what the like fine line is because it's

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<v Speaker 3>really clear of my work email what I do for

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<v Speaker 3>a living. But that was a new one that kind

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<v Speaker 3>of came at me this year.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love it.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we're going to take a quick ad break. I

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<v Speaker 2>will be back with more from Dirja. So I am

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<v Speaker 2>back talking with Deirdre Fitzpatrick, who is the morning anchor

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<v Speaker 2>of KCRITV, the NBC affiliate and Sacramento. We've been talking

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<v Speaker 2>about how early she has to get up in order

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<v Speaker 2>to be on air from five to seven in most mornings.

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<v Speaker 2>But with that, I imagine you have to go to

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<v Speaker 2>bed pretty early to be up at two thirty or

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<v Speaker 2>three in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that look like for you?

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't look like what it should. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 3>you back time, you know, to get the recommended eight

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<v Speaker 3>hours of sleep, I should be in bed at dinner time.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not terribly practical. So I try to protect

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<v Speaker 3>sleep as much as I can, particularly these days, because

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<v Speaker 3>I used to be able to muscle through and kind

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<v Speaker 3>of power through anything, and that just stopped working at

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<v Speaker 3>a certain point, you know. So now I'm a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit more careful about it. I always say, if I

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<v Speaker 3>wake up and I've got a six in front of it,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel pretty good. And then on the weekends, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>really good about getting an eight in front of that

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<v Speaker 3>total sleep, maybe even pushing a nine. On the odd day,

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<v Speaker 3>I probably go to bed, I would say by about

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<v Speaker 3>between eight and nine. I prefer to go to bed

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<v Speaker 3>around eight o'clock. But you know, I have teenagers. They

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<v Speaker 3>don't ever want to talk to you until it's late

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<v Speaker 3>and inconvenient, and so I've had to shift that a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit over the years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was going to ask about that because of

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<v Speaker 2>course teenagers have the total opposite schedule, like they might

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<v Speaker 2>stay up until two thirty three am, and so you

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<v Speaker 2>would completely be ships passing in the night in your house,

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<v Speaker 2>or even just if they have events in the evening,

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<v Speaker 2>you know that the school concert gets done at nine

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen or whatever it happens to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious how you sort of work that into your life,

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that you do have to be upset.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, it's an interesting question because it's not

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<v Speaker 3>just me obviously. I mean, my job comes with a

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<v Speaker 3>certain kind of lifestyle, and it's not a lifestyle that's

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<v Speaker 3>really for everyone, but for my family members, it's the

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<v Speaker 3>lifestyle that affects them as well. So you know, my

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<v Speaker 3>husband and I just celebrate our twentieth anniversary and he's

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<v Speaker 3>never like seen me on a Tuesday at ten pm,

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<v Speaker 3>like to have a conversation. So it is it is

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<v Speaker 3>a bit of an adjustment. And I've talked to people

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<v Speaker 3>in other fields who work, say in emergency medicine, where

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<v Speaker 3>it's also very common to work these odd shift hours,

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<v Speaker 3>and it does take a lot of flexibility from the

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<v Speaker 3>other family members. Now there are advantages for those family

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<v Speaker 3>members too, because if somebody needs to go do a

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<v Speaker 3>doctor's appointment in the middle of the afternoon, I'm your girl, right,

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<v Speaker 3>somebody needs to go run to Costco or pick up

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<v Speaker 3>the dry cleaning. I'm available to do those things. However,

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<v Speaker 3>doing something at nine or ten o'clock at night is

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<v Speaker 3>not really conducive to me being able to do my

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<v Speaker 3>job at full capacity. So not only does it take

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of cooperation I think from your family members

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<v Speaker 3>and discipline for everybody. I really rely on my parent

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<v Speaker 3>network too. I have a group of moms who know

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<v Speaker 3>that for sports pickups and drop offs, I'm great to

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<v Speaker 3>go take the kids wherever, but if there's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a pick up at eight o'clock, nine o'clock or later,

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<v Speaker 3>I really need some help with that one. If my

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<v Speaker 3>husband's not available to go pick up my sons. So there,

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<v Speaker 3>it takes a lot of planning, obviously, but also I

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<v Speaker 3>think a lot of flexibility with the people in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely well, I'm curious. I mean, one of the bits

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<v Speaker 2>of sleep advice people always have out there is like

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<v Speaker 2>trying to maintain something near the same schedule into weekends,

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<v Speaker 2>and I imagine that that's also just not something that

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<v Speaker 2>would really happen.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no we do. I've known people who do that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know how that flies with their spouses.

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<v Speaker 3>That would not fly in my house. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>that far off. So if on a weekday, I'm I

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<v Speaker 3>go to bed at eight o'clock, I mean, honestly, Laura,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to go to bed by ten on a

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<v Speaker 3>Saturday night.

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<v Speaker 2>You're really tired. I mean, I'm doti Yeah, yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been working all week.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but I'll probably still like to get up early.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I still I like mornings.

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<v Speaker 1>I love morning person I'm in. I imagine, with your

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<v Speaker 1>line of work, you kind of have to be. But

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<v Speaker 1>are you?

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<v Speaker 3>You should be? Not all people are, but I am,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah I am. I love the quiet of a morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I love the freshness. I love that nothing has gone

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<v Speaker 3>wrong when that alarm clock goes goes off, like nothing

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<v Speaker 3>has ruined the day yet, right, It's all just fresh,

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<v Speaker 3>full of possibility. I love the quiet my favorite hour

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<v Speaker 3>of the day. I used to really hate when that

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<v Speaker 3>alarm went off and I got up and I was

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<v Speaker 3>walking around. I was really resentful of it. And then

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<v Speaker 3>I started looking at it as Wow, this is completely

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<v Speaker 3>my time. And now on the odd occasion that somebody

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<v Speaker 3>is awake in my house. I'm kind of annoyed by.

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<v Speaker 1>It, like I don't know, what are you doing? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you doing? This is why are you here? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, now I'm very curious because a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>who exercise seriously do that in the morning. And I

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<v Speaker 2>know that you are a competitive athlete, You've done Iron Man,

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<v Speaker 2>Ultra marathons, all that. I don't believe that you are

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<v Speaker 2>training at two thirty am for those things.

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<v Speaker 1>So when does that fit in?

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<v Speaker 3>Not necessarily training for those things at that time, But

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<v Speaker 3>I do get a little bit of movement in the

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<v Speaker 3>morning just to wake my brain up. And I listened

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<v Speaker 3>to before breakfast because it's kind of I'm not kidding you.

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<v Speaker 3>I go into my gym in the garage. We've got

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<v Speaker 3>a garage gym, and I have for years. I've listened

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<v Speaker 3>to you. So you're actually, oddly one of the first

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<v Speaker 3>voices I hear in the day. Quite a lovely but

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just like a couple of minutes. And I think,

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<v Speaker 3>especially for working parents who are really busy, even if

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<v Speaker 3>you're not working odd hours, I think getting a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of minutes of exercise throughout the day is what gives

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<v Speaker 3>you that energy to go deal with whatever schedule you

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<v Speaker 3>have to deal with. So I do a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of that, but my time is really after work. I

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<v Speaker 3>like a reset because sometimes the news is really it's

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<v Speaker 3>not all happy, right, So I love that little swite

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<v Speaker 3>it out, get it out sessions. So second I'm done

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<v Speaker 3>with work, I either change at work into the workout clothes,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's a lot harder to talk yourself out of

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<v Speaker 3>it when you get home, or I change instantly when

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<v Speaker 3>I get home and I walk out the door. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a runner. I run the neighborhood. So I do

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<v Speaker 3>those things almost instantly, and they're non negotiable. They must happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And about how much time are you devoting to that?

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<v Speaker 3>Not as much time as you would think. I think

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people think it would take hours, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I like I do marathons. I do not do the

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<v Speaker 3>amount of training you should be doing. I am not

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<v Speaker 3>something you want to come.

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<v Speaker 1>To spend less time on it. Yes, yes, I do not.

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<v Speaker 3>What I do though, is I do try to maintain

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<v Speaker 3>a certain level of fitness so that if there is

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<v Speaker 3>that race or a project or a you know, a

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend calls and says, Hey, we're going to go up

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<v Speaker 3>to the mountains. We're going to do this. Come do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I can pull it off. So am I gonna

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<v Speaker 3>win it? Absolutely not. Am I going to hang in

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<v Speaker 3>there till the end? Absolutely? And I'm probably gonna have

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty good time while I'm doing it, because I do.

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<v Speaker 3>When you have that time to go and exercise or

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<v Speaker 3>be with your friends or just have that free time,

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<v Speaker 3>I really have learned to enjoy it and be in

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<v Speaker 3>the moment. I speak terrible about that, and I am

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<v Speaker 3>not anymore. I really really am there.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm there and there, Well, what's the longest race

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<v Speaker 1>you've done?

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<v Speaker 3>Fifty kilometers?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's about thirty miles, right, thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's supposed to be about thirty one. They're rarely

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<v Speaker 3>measured exact, so can vary a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>What is I am very curious mentally, like what you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing during thirty one miles where you're running and trying

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<v Speaker 2>to keep yourself moving forward?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I'm doing? I'm talking, Yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>talking NonStop because I run them with my girlfriends. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so I have a couple of girlfriends who live in

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<v Speaker 3>different cities will meet up and that's the time that

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<v Speaker 3>we have together. So our joke is the longer we

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<v Speaker 3>take to do this, the more time we get together

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<v Speaker 3>away from the children. We have no responsibilities out here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>unless you're like a super serious person, you're in it

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<v Speaker 3>to win it. You're in it to finish it, which

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<v Speaker 3>means that when you're coming to a steep hill, you're

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<v Speaker 3>really hiking it. And out here, I live in northern California.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's very, very beautiful. So these are these

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<v Speaker 3>like incredible vistas and mountains and your nature and it's

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<v Speaker 3>just like a really lovely moment. So even if it's

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<v Speaker 3>a really long day, it still ends up being really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, more power to you. I think I might

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy the beauty for about three miles with it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, With the right people and the right snacks,

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<v Speaker 3>I think you could do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, We're going to take one more quick ad break

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll be back with more from Deerdriff.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I am back interviewing Deerdrif Fitzpatrick for Before Breakfast. She

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<v Speaker 2>has told us that she listens to this show in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning, so that is very exciting to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to hear a little bit more about.

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<v Speaker 2>Your Olympics experience, because you have been doing this for

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<v Speaker 2>a great many years. You fly off, you cover what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on with there. I wonder if there's a particular

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<v Speaker 2>memory or two that was formative of those experiences that

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<v Speaker 2>you'd be willing to share.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So I started doing this back in two thousand,

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<v Speaker 3>so almost twenty five years ago. When we started doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>We launched this project in my company and we send

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<v Speaker 3>every two years. What we've done is we've sent a

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<v Speaker 3>small team eight to ten people to the Olympics to

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<v Speaker 3>do what we call group coverage. So it's a small

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<v Speaker 3>amount of people reporting and producing content for lots of

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<v Speaker 3>different stations, and there are three reporter photographer teams, And

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<v Speaker 3>the illusion for all of these stations as you do

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<v Speaker 3>live shots for them is that I'm there just for you,

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<v Speaker 3>when in fact I'm actually there for thirty stations. So

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<v Speaker 3>you really get a chance to cover and interact with

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<v Speaker 3>athletes from all the different sports and really from all

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<v Speaker 3>over the country, which has been super fun. I would say, like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>my favorite thus far would be the Paris Olympics, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's because you know, we had this gap

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<v Speaker 3>of two Olympics being just so unbelievably weird during the pandemic.

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<v Speaker 3>Those are the ones I did not travel for. And

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<v Speaker 3>to be in Paris this past summer with these athletes

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<v Speaker 3>and doing these stories and with the Eiffel Tower behind

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<v Speaker 3>me is my office was like a pinch me moment

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<v Speaker 3>all day long because it was so joyous after really

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<v Speaker 3>difficult ears for a lot of people. There was so

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<v Speaker 3>much joy every day, no matter who you met, of

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<v Speaker 3>people who were so grateful to have this experience. I've

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<v Speaker 3>always loved the Olympics, just the wonder of it and

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<v Speaker 3>the magic and the underdogs and the people who you know,

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<v Speaker 3>literally dedicate their entire lives for a couple of seconds

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<v Speaker 3>of opportunity. Sometimes at works, sometimes it doesn't, and I've

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<v Speaker 3>always just absolutely loved it. So to be in that

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<v Speaker 3>environment after COVID, after the pandemic, and to be in

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<v Speaker 3>this international experience where people were really in a great

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<v Speaker 3>mood every single day, it was like this unbelievable professional gift.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love the weird sports, oh right, like the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that you're what's your favorite?

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<v Speaker 3>Like of those people don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean I just like the random things that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't even hear about for four years. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>like in the winter ones where they're doing the luge

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<v Speaker 2>or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that, and it's like people dedicate their lives to sledding. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I love that. I love that fact competitive

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<v Speaker 1>sledding exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So I've been down the Olympic bob sled track in

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<v Speaker 3>York City twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Wo and how is that?

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<v Speaker 3>The first time was absolutely awful. They give you the

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<v Speaker 3>safety lesson. I did not pay attention, and I suffered

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<v Speaker 3>for it, because if you don't sit in the bob

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<v Speaker 3>sled and do certain things, it's like being in a

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<v Speaker 3>car accident over and over and over again. Second time,

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<v Speaker 3>not only did I listen, I was like in it

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<v Speaker 3>to find out, like could I be good at this?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I could not, But I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not going to be your next career.

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<v Speaker 3>Slightly enjoyed the experience a little bit more, but I

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<v Speaker 3>had that same realization and like, wow, somebody does this

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<v Speaker 3>every single day to be the best person on the

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<v Speaker 3>planet and doing this how amazing?

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<v Speaker 1>Just like terrifying, Like throw yourself down a hill.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that a if you're on skeleton, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like oh, the physical courage is amazing, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sure that you have many stories of covering that. So

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<v Speaker 2>you also read a lot. I understand you. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 2>make time in your busy schedule to read. When does

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<v Speaker 2>that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>So I read, you know, kind of like I do

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<v Speaker 3>everything a little bit here and there all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, there are these pockets I guess you have

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<v Speaker 3>highlighted through the timelogs. There are these pockets of time

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<v Speaker 3>in your day that you don't even realize you have.

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<v Speaker 3>So if I'm in the long line at the grocery store,

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<v Speaker 3>I've got a book in my backpack. I will pull

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<v Speaker 3>out a book standing in the grocery store line and

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<v Speaker 3>get through a couple of pages. I am probably because

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<v Speaker 3>of my job, a very very fast reader could take

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<v Speaker 3>into information very quickly, So I will. I really try

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<v Speaker 3>to default to a book over scrolling my phone. Always.

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<v Speaker 3>I love going to the library. Love the library. There's

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<v Speaker 3>nowhere more fun to me than going to the library

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<v Speaker 3>on a Friday afternoon. Love to do that. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I've always got a book, and I'm always trying to

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<v Speaker 3>sneak it in. I just I feel better, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>even as a kid, that was always the thing that

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<v Speaker 3>got my brain going and helped me think of those

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<v Speaker 3>new ideas and really calm me down too. And so

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<v Speaker 3>I sneak the reading in like I sneak a workout in,

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<v Speaker 3>or like you sneak anything for yourself in when you're

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<v Speaker 3>a working mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, and I love the idea that if you are

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<v Speaker 2>mostly done for the day with work at noon, the

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<v Speaker 2>library is still open. Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The other upside of this schedule.

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<v Speaker 3>Is people always wonder, like, how do you do things

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<v Speaker 3>when you work that schedule? I look at people who

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<v Speaker 3>work a traditional nine to five.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because you can't go to anything right where where's

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<v Speaker 2>you've got the afternoon?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're up.

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<v Speaker 3>There's some flexibility. You might feel a little jet lagged

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<v Speaker 3>at times, but there is only some flexibility to do things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so du joe.

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<v Speaker 2>One question I always ask guests is what have you

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<v Speaker 2>done lately to take a day from great to awesome?

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<v Speaker 3>From great to awesome?

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<v Speaker 1>Anything that just made a day a little bit better?

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<v Speaker 3>You know? I I have this year, I have my

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<v Speaker 3>first kid went to college. And that's a really you

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<v Speaker 3>haven't had that yet?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>You still have one?

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<v Speaker 1>And no, my oldest is the senior. So the next

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<v Speaker 1>year will be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'll give you something that happened this morning at

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<v Speaker 3>three am with my college kid. He happened to come

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<v Speaker 3>home last night. He had to drop off a car

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<v Speaker 3>back at our house. You go to college in the

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<v Speaker 3>Bay Area, so he drove the car back home. I

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<v Speaker 3>thought he was bringing one friend with him. Well, as

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<v Speaker 3>it turns out, when I woke up this morning at

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<v Speaker 3>two am, he had brought four friends home with him

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<v Speaker 3>and they were here for like mere hours. Laura, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I wake up at two am and there are

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<v Speaker 3>five college kids, five college freshmen, crashed out in my

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<v Speaker 3>living room while I'm trying to get ready for work,

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<v Speaker 3>and he says, we need a ride to the train

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<v Speaker 3>station at four Is that okay? It's on your way

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<v Speaker 3>to work? And I said sure. I'm really learning to

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<v Speaker 3>go at the flow, and that opportunity to take these

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<v Speaker 3>kids literally just driving them to the train station could

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<v Speaker 3>have been a nothing burger, right. Instead, I chose to

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<v Speaker 3>just really really enjoy the spirit of a nineteen year

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<v Speaker 3>old who thinks that it's a great idea to drive

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<v Speaker 3>two hours at eleven pm the night before, only to

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<v Speaker 3>get up a couple hours later to take a three

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<v Speaker 3>hour train and to go right back to where they started.

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<v Speaker 3>And it put me in the best mood this morning

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<v Speaker 3>because I got to be around and suck in some

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<v Speaker 3>of their energy at a very odd time of the day,

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<v Speaker 3>and that took me from good to great in a

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<v Speaker 3>very unexpected way, because I can tell you when I

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<v Speaker 3>went to bed last night, I did not see that coming.

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<v Speaker 3>It was not on my bigo guard for today, not

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<v Speaker 3>on the big card.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that energy too. I mean, they're kind of nuts,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know it's good. It's good. Maybe they need

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<v Speaker 1>less sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>Than the rest of us, but yeah, I think the

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<v Speaker 2>exactly well, Danjit, thank you so much for joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone who is listening to this.

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<v Speaker 2>You can catch her on Casey ra and Sacramento if

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<v Speaker 2>you happen to live around there, or you can listen

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<v Speaker 2>in general. And if you have feedback on this or

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<v Speaker 2>any other episode, you can always reach me at Laura

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<v Speaker 2>at Laura vandercam dot com.

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