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Yeah, 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:14.480 And so then I was like, oh, it's it's Brown actually, 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:19.919 never mind Caitlin Brown. Yeah. Well, so you're fresh off 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:23.560 the newly wed train, like fresh out like a month ago. Okay, 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.000 talk to me about what's been going on in this 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.480 month of marriage. Do you feel different? Do you feel 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:30.040 like a new woman? How is the wedding out. The 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:34.160 wedding was amazing, although we're still drinking chance to celebrate it. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.520 Yes we are. Cheers. Here's to your lovely name. Isn't 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:42.120 nuptials nuptials? I have no idea of wedding. Okay, yeah, 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.640 but yeah, I don't feel like any different. I really don't. 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:49.000 I mean, it's fun and it's exciting, but we lived 0:03:49.040 --> 0:03:52.240 together before and we're doing the same thing. I actually 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:54.320 woke up the next day after the wedding and was like, 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:58.040 I'm glad that's over. There was a lot of stress. 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:00.720 What was the most stressful part of it? I think 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:02.680 it was like, for a year and a half, all 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:05.840 we're engaged, the only thing people would know to talk 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:08.480 to me about was so, how's the wedding? And I 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:11.520 was like, one more person asked me about the wedding 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:15.160 or my dress or anything about it. I'm like, I 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:17.240 can't handle it that. I feel like my brother in 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:21.360 law says that people stayed the obvious, and everyone, especially 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:23.159 like someone like you, if you're walking down an interview 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.960 line or if you see someone you haven't seen very often, 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:27.520 they're going to stay the first thing they can think of, 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:31.159 and it's like, oh, my gosh, you're so over it, 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:34.720 like so over it. It's like as soon as you 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:37.080 get married, get ready. Now it's when are you having babies? 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.880 That's up next. Those are our dogs right now. But 0:04:41.000 --> 0:04:42.960 after you had your first baby that it's like when 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:46.039 are you going to have Anotherwise, it's like always just 0:04:46.200 --> 0:04:49.000 the next thing, I know, And right now I'm just 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:52.640 like completely content. Isn't that wonderful? It really is. I'm 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.839 just like, are you letting ourself enjoying it? Yeah? Yeah 0:04:55.880 --> 0:04:58.119 I am. I got like a lot of stuff done 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:02.520 with the new house, and I'm like liking traveling and 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:05.919 having to worry about it. Was it stressful to travel 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.760 when you were doing the wedding? My mom? Thank god 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.120 for my mom. Oh my god. If it wasn't for 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.800 my mom, it would have not been like that, like 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:17.160 at all. She did so much. Um So, I know, 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:18.960 like a lot of girls are like, oh my god, 0:05:19.000 --> 0:05:21.360 I'm so stressed, like this is awful. I was like 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:24.920 I don't care. Like I was like, yeah, I mean, 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.360 I told him exactly what I wanted it to feel like. 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.440 I'm not like super girly, so I was like I 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:33.479 wanted to feel woodsy, like enchanted, forest, and my bridesmaid's 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.640 dresses were like a sage green, like an army green, 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.160 and I kind of was just like, come with me, 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:43.200 come to me with questions of like two options, and 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:47.600 I'll just say yes or now smart yes. I didn't 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:49.320 want to worry about it. I didn't care you and 0:05:49.320 --> 0:05:51.960 you probably enjoyed the process so much more I did. 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.680 It really wasn't that bad. So tell me how you 0:05:54.720 --> 0:05:56.960 felt though, when it was like the wedding days happening 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.680 and like all this work's coming together. You are now 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.480 on the dress, the guests are showing up, You're about 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:03.919 to walk down the aisle, Like what are you feeling 0:06:03.960 --> 0:06:06.560 in that moment? But it's about to happen, about to 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:11.320 throw up? Like I was so weirdly calm like all day. 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:14.040 And then I did my first look with my dad. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:17.000 You did yeah, oh stop, it was very emotional. Oh 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.480 my gosh. We cried. My dad is like the funniest 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.680 human on earth. He is and so like everything, Like 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.360 he can take a funeral and make some kind of 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:29.360 joke about it, and I appreciate that to always find yes. 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:31.800 So he's not going to let anything right on his parade, 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.839 no matter what he's going to enjoy life. Right, It's 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:36.520 always like some kind of funny joke. Some people might 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:38.920 not like that, but I love that. I appreciate that. 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.159 I like people that make light of a heavy situation too. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.000 We don't want to go swimming and just live in 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.720 the bottom of those feelings. Let's figure out how we 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.200 can find joy again. Right, Yes, So we did our 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.279 first look and then that was like, no, he didn't correct, 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.520 but I could tell he got like red in his 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:56.480 face and he saw me, and I was like, do it, 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:59.240 do it, let it to your But then he said 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:03.880 some joke. Okay, that moment was over real, real, vast. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.640 I appreciate that. So I think the most like scary 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:10.800 moment was when we were in the van and we 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.760 were waiting to walk down the aisle, just me and 0:07:12.760 --> 0:07:15.400 my dad, and I was watching everyone walk in and 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:18.040 sit down, and I was like, what, I will never 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.600 do this again. This is like the most awful feeling, 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:24.440 like the pressure. It was so much pressure. It's just 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:26.720 even though you love your husband more than anything in 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:28.560 your world, because in the world, like I remember this, 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.120 when I was marrying Michael, like more than anything, I 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:34.680 wanted to marry him but it's just that huge, huge 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:36.760 thing that's happening, and like you said, you'll never do 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.320 it again. You are now tied to this one person 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.680 for the rest of your life, which is awesome, but 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:46.200 it's still huge. It's just a huge moment. Yeah. Yeah, 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:48.480 I wasn't nervous or anything. I was like, I just 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:50.960 want to marry Kane. All this extra stuff going on 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.080 right now is like stressing me out. All the people 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.560 there that my entertainment. You want to make sure they're 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.280 having a good time. I couldn't even get a good 0:07:57.320 --> 0:08:00.640 buzz at my wedding. Girl ever, I'm I trying to 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.239 take a sip of something. Someone's like, come take a picture, 0:08:03.360 --> 0:08:05.920 and I'll be like, well, put my champagne back down. 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:07.760 Like I can't even get a buzz at my own wedding. 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:10.680 What is this? What is this? Did y'all dance though? 0:08:10.760 --> 0:08:14.000 Because you and Kane's Instagram dance videos I live for. 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:15.680 By the way, I hope one's coming up for the holidays? 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.640 Are you preparing well out? Who knows. When we spend 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:19.000 too much time at our house, we don't know what 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.600 to do with ourselves, so we usually end up like 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:24.440 making up some choreography or something, which I'm grateful for 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:26.960 because I'm like, literally when it happens, I'm like, oh 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:28.960 my god, there dance. Like the first time I thought, 0:08:29.000 --> 0:08:31.480 I was like, this is dancing happening, and then it's 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.920 good dancing, and then you're like core and seat together 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:36.560 and you're like ya moves, and I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.520 if Michael and I put all these up, your people 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:43.120 would die. No, I can't dance, came can No, you 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:46.959 can dance. No, you can dance his ass off. So 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:48.640 does he teach you or do you teach him? Or 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:50.280 do y'all his improvised Yeah. I mean like we have 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.760 two different styles of dancing. I'm more of like the 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:57.320 white girl booty popping, like yeah, and he's just like cool, 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.080 like he can moonwalk and like do cool stuff. And 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.480 I'm just like, god, you're so cool. So often fair 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:07.400 dance often, So you often dance just like for fun, 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:09.520 like it throughout the house, like when you're home, just 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.160 the two y'all, and it's like you're chilling, like yeah, 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:14.440 you sounds so cheesy to say out, but we do. 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:16.040 I mean like it's just like we're making fun of 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:18.680 each other and like we always have music on or something, 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:22.480 and yeah, I mean there's always like a breakout, dance 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:25.600 move happening or dance battle. I think that's a way 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.520 that's a great tip to happiness in marriage. Yeah. I mean, 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:31.040 if you're dancing with each other, you're always gonna have fun. Yeah, 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:36.280 I mean it's fun. We're like best friends. So how 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:39.079 awesome is that? I know, if you're built in best 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:42.360 friend Now I'm blessed. I am. Was it love at 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:44.520 first sight? Because okay, because you were telling me you 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:47.080 guys met, because you had a manager. You're kicking booty, 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:50.280 You're an artist in a badass like hands down on 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:53.280 top of it, dropped it gorgeous. One of the prettiest 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:57.400 people I've ever seen. So you are you are no, no, 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.280 no no. So you're doing your own thing, rocking your 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.160 own world. Tell me what's going on before you just 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:02.880 get hit by the love train. Because then you did it, 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.679 you turn and went on a totally different route, right, Yeah, 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:07.520 I mean I kind of like it all kind of 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.880 fell into place, like it's just, Uh, I was doing 0:10:10.880 --> 0:10:14.280 my own thing, and where were you living? Uh? This time, 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:17.280 I was living in Orlando, so I was down there 0:10:17.320 --> 0:10:20.240 doing my thing. And where are you from? Philadelphia? Okay? 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:22.040 Did you grow up in the woods? You just love 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:26.439 the woods? Yeah, okay, yeah completely, like in the woods. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.000 Oh yeah, well it's we're not in the city. We're 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.680 like thirty like how we are right here towards Nashville. Okay, 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:35.360 a little outside of town. So my parents had a 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.120 house in the woods and we had like dirt bikes, 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:39.280 and I have all brothers, and you're one of those 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:42.000 awesome girls, so you you know, how to be your 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:45.160 own guys, like you would just hanging out with guys. Yeah, 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.200 I get it, just because like my brothers, like they 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.439 were rough with me, Like you know, I just had 0:10:49.440 --> 0:10:52.040 to like suck it up because you wanted to hang 0:10:52.040 --> 0:10:53.760 out with them, So in order to hang out, you 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:55.640 just had to deal with the behavior. Yeah. I thought 0:10:55.679 --> 0:10:57.839 they were cool, so I just wanted to be their friend. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.480 And they really didn't become my friend until I got 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.600 older and they started thinking my friends were hot. That's 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:06.800 when they wanted to hang out with me. So I 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:10.360 was always like the younger sister until my friends grew up. 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.600 And then and now my one brother is marrying my roommate, 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:17.079 one of my best friends You're like, you're welcome. You're welcome. 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:21.880 You're welcome brother and friend, but mainly brother. You're welcome. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.880 You're in the wedding, I'm the maid of honor as 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.439 you should be. It's so cool. I'm so excited. And 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:29.800 now you get built in best friend for your sister exactly, 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:31.559 Like you don't have to worry about your sister in 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:33.880 law being anything other than your best friend. And now 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:37.720 you get to hang out legit as family. Yeah, like 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:39.600 she has no choice other than to be my best 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:46.960 friend the rest of my life. Now great? Really well yeah, yeah, 0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:49.439 life's good right now. I can't complain. So you grew 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.040 up in the woods, and then how did you get 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:54.680 to Orlando? Um? Well I was. I was singing and 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:57.400 doing like auditions and everything, and then I end up 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:00.600 getting signed by my manager and his place was in Orlando. 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:04.280 So he he manages justin Timber like still today, but 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.400 he would like did all the boy bands like in 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:08.839 Sync and Brittany during that time. So it was in 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:11.160 Orlando because they were all down there. Mickey Mouse Club 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.719 and a lot of them were doing shows at the 0:12:13.720 --> 0:12:16.280 Disney Parks. So that's how that got started. So everyone's 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:18.200 like Orlando. That's so random. I know, I kind of 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:20.440 thought so too, But then I was going, well, you know, yeah, 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.680 that is where all the boy bands were, right, Yeah, 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.520 so all that started. So he kind of made like 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:27.720 a compound. Well that's what it's called in Orlando, and 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:30.880 I lived there by myself, kind of scared. I don't 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:32.559 know how I did it looking back, but I think 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.960 I was just I was eighteen, and any of the 0:12:36.280 --> 0:12:39.400 people there, like any of the other now, no other 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:43.680 like that. Compound had been there since like the nineties, 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.200 the early nights, so like everyone that like developed their's 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:49.320 rehearsal rooms and studios. It's insane, Like if you ever 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:52.800 get a chance to check it out, I guess Johnny 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.520 writes compound, that's my manager's name. And then it was 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:57.520 just like he didn't live there anything, but it was 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.920 like this huge house. It would be like an art 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:04.520 a stream, like there's rehearsal studio, rehearsal rooms, studios. Um, 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:06.199 it was kind of like a camp, like we had 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:09.079 like all these beds for like if different bands came 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:11.240 in and needed to like use the rehearsal rooms for 0:13:11.240 --> 0:13:15.079 a week. It was really cool. Um, So I lived 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:17.840 there for like years and how was it you said 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:21.960 this huge compound to yourself. Basically, basically it was. It 0:13:22.040 --> 0:13:23.679 was really cool, but at the same time, I was 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:27.040 really lonely. It was really like, like my twenty one birthday, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.280 I did not go out and like party with anyone 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:32.320 my age. Not saying I didn't have fun. Like everyone 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:34.560 I worked with became family, but everyone I worked with 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:38.839 for like parents to me totally. So, um, I feel 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.360 like I missed out because I left college. I was like, 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:44.880 you know, I went to Westchestern University up in Pennsylvania, 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:46.760 and then as soon as I got the opportunity, I 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:49.760 was like, by totallyn't want to be here anyway. I 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:52.880 wanted to do music. So I moved to Orlando and 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.360 I was down there for a few years. And then 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:59.000 I was working with this producer out of Atlanta and 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:01.680 came I us was to We didn't know each other, 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:06.360 and then um, I was shooting a music video and 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:08.680 the guy that they hired to be like the love 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:11.360 interest in the video. I was like, he's not my type. 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:13.360 He's huge, Like he was like this big bodybuilder and 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:16.480 I was like eighteen years old. I was like, no, 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.480 this does not make sense. And so the producer of 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:21.840 the song was like, I know this kid that would 0:14:21.840 --> 0:14:24.000 be perfect. You guys are like the same age shop 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.160 and I was like, okay, show me a picture and 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.760 I was like yeah, and I was like, tell him 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.600 if he could come down. So he called Kane No Way, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.520 never knew came he was your love interest in your 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:36.560 music video. So we called him and he was like sure, 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.720 when's the video and we're like tomorrow. He's he He 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:40.520 had his first sold out show in like North or 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:44.320 South Carolina. So we never met until like almost a 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.760 year later when he had a show in Florida and 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.840 I was with that same producer and he invited me 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:51.080 to go to the show and then came. Didn't talk 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:52.680 to me. I didn't talked to him like the whole time. 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:55.240 We were like we were both very shy. So you 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.320 guys were just like hi, bye. Yeah. I was like Hi, 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.720 nice to meet you on Caitlin and he's like hey 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:04.800 with his boys, Okay, bye, I'm going to the bar. 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.400 You're super cute. Totally would have made out with my 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:11.400 music video, but bye yeah. I was like, remember last 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:12.880 year when I wanted you to be in my video 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.040 and then uh yeah, we didn't really talk and then 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.480 I got like this message the next day and he 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.480 got my number. Yeah, and he thank god for Instagram, right, 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:25.960 thank god he messaged you. So he s he slid 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:28.400 in there when he saw you. He knew it. He said, 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:30.720 I gotta hit her up on the ground. Oh yeah. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:35.000 So I was like, yes, score, I thought he was 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:38.160 so cute, just keep chatting. Well no, I mean, I 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:40.000 would have never guessed it was the same guy because 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:42.680 his whole like demeanor change. He was like, what are 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:45.400 you doing Wednesday? And this was Sunday. Where are you 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:49.480 living now? I'm in Orlando, And where is he living now? Nashville? 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.000 So how are you going to see him on Wednesday? 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:54.120 That's what I thought, So I said, I said, oh, 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.040 so you have a show back in Florida. He was like, no, 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.600 I want to come to Nashville. And everyone I went 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:01.720 there like, you need to go be a kid. You 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.240 need to go on a date like you have been 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:08.080 sitting here just like not being social. You have no 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:12.160 friends down here. You need to be a kid. And 0:16:12.200 --> 0:16:16.080 I was like, screw it. Yeah, so he felt close 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:17.880 because he had the same manager, so you know he's 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:19.280 not a Yeah, I knew he wasn't agree if this 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:21.240 was some random guy, of course not. But I've known 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:24.400 of him and we've we we've talked, and you know, 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.560 there was like mutual people there, so it wasn't some 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:28.720 and you have been meaning to meet for a while 0:16:28.760 --> 0:16:33.040 so now so now it's finally happening. And um My, 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:35.520 my management was like, you need to go, like go 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.920 have fun. And um her name is Angela. She became 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:40.880 a second mom to me. So she was like, I'm 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:43.360 booking you the red eye out tonight. You're gonna fly 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:45.560 up to Nashville have fun. He booked my flight there, 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.440 but he never booked me a return flight because he's 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:51.600 like you're coming and you're saying whatever. So love a 0:16:51.640 --> 0:16:53.840 man who was not afraid to put the moves down 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.520 like that. Well, Kane, okay, And we had the best 0:16:56.640 --> 0:16:58.920 night in Nashville, and here I am, where'd you go? 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.760 I think he went to Tutsie's. So he just gave 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:03.720 you a Nashville like Honky talk experience. We went out 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:07.120 with his friends and we liked his friends, and then 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:09.760 you're like, okay, then to Bar Louie, had some good food, 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.840 had some drinks, and it just felt so natural, like 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:16.199 it was effortless, and I was like, I remember on 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.680 the first date that I was like, I'm going to 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:21.080 marry him like that. I never felt that way about 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:24.240 anyone ever. It was weird. It was a weird feeling 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:26.760 of that old how old are you. I'm twenty six 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:29.639 and he's twenty five. Okay, So but yeah, you just 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:35.440 felt different. Yeah, yeah, it was weird. It just feels 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:37.200 like you like have known this person in your whole 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.960 life and it's comfortable. That's how it felt. That's how 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.240 I knew something was so different. You know. I just 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:45.800 was like so comfortable. And I told you when I 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.320 got here. I remember when Caine announced this to the 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:51.160 world that he was dating you, because he was like, Okay, everybody, 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:53.399 this is my girlfriend and I know you are going 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:55.600 to embrace her and lover and like all of a sudden, 0:17:55.640 --> 0:17:57.280 after that, he was posting about you all the time, 0:17:57.280 --> 0:18:00.920 and I'm like, dang, like this is great. Yeah. We 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.119 were dating a year and we kept it a secret 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:06.320 before he posted that, Okay. So I had like an 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:10.240 Instagram that was kind of like it's the singing stuff 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:13.040 and everything like that, and then I felt like there 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:15.440 was some haters happening. Well, he's one of those artists. 0:18:15.480 --> 0:18:17.000 If he's going to come out with a girlfriend, he's 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:19.640 got to be ready to commit because his fans are 0:18:19.680 --> 0:18:22.200 die hard. They love him, and no girl getting in 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.359 there unless she's probably the one. They probably accepted you 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:26.359 because you're the wife and the chosen one. But like 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:30.200 any other one, you know, he's serious about this. Yeah, 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:34.520 it was kind of scary. It was kind of scary. 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:37.640 I didn't have an Instagram and then because I deleted 0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:40.199 it and we were like on the d L for 0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:43.760 a year straight. And then he was like, I'm I'm 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:47.080 tired of like hiding this and I was like, thank 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:50.720 god too. I feel like I don't exist ever here. 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:55.080 You're like, I'm in my and my compound with my 0:18:55.119 --> 0:18:57.840 secret boyfriend. But life is great, s s. I'm spending 0:18:57.840 --> 0:19:02.800 out pigeons. I'm alive over here. Do I even have 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:07.840 a name? I don't know? Like that? So um so yeah, 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:11.439 that was that, and he told the world that's awesome. 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:14.320 So that's a drastic change. Then, Yeah, how did you 0:19:14.640 --> 0:19:17.600 How did you go from one extreme together? How did 0:19:17.600 --> 0:19:21.240 it go? Um? I think we stopped kind of caring. Yeah, 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:23.960 that's the way to be you can't care. Yeah, we're 0:19:24.000 --> 0:19:26.680 just kind of like fine. I kind of got to 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:27.800 the point when I was like, if you want to 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:29.880