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Speaker 2: Want or need from you. Oh yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: Brooke never understands her husband's needs now, to be fair,

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Speaker 3: Speak up, Michael, Come on, Ann, it's.

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Speaker 2: Not that hard anyway. You get the point and dream twice.

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners is facing a similar communication issue

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Speaker 1: with her relationship. All she's asking for is some clarity

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Speaker 1: and in her words, quote man up and just say it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you'll hear exactly what she wants.

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Speaker 1: In a brand news say Yes to the X it's

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Speaker 1: coming up right after this. It's one of the stranger

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Speaker 3: I like the start of this already funny guys.

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Speaker 1: And when I first read it, I thought, oh, this

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Speaker 1: maybe it's more of a closure call, but not really,

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Speaker 1: so I landed on say Yes to the X. Okay,

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Speaker 1: And when our producer reached out to the listener and said, hey,

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Speaker 1: she replied, well, technically he's not my ex so at

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Speaker 1: we're not really sure how to label this relationship exactly.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully Vicky can help clear things up for us. Vicky,

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Speaker 2: How you doing, Thank you?

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Speaker 4: I'm good? How are you Okay?

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Speaker 1: I could squeeze you into the show somehow.

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Speaker 3: Here's my question.

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Speaker 5: When you're talking to your girlfriends about whoever this is,

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Speaker 4: By his name?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's hot, and what's his name?

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Speaker 4: His name is James?

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Speaker 3: Even friendships a relationship?

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Speaker 4: Yes, there is a relationship. So we went on about

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, this was about about eight months ago?

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Speaker 4: So after one of our dates, he asked me to

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Speaker 4: Right. So, about seven months ago we had a date,

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Speaker 3: The family, say how to your pay? Is that what

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Speaker 1: So people are new to this segment, say yes to

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Speaker 1: the ex Basically, we get an email from someone in

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Speaker 2: He just doesn't know who it is.

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't tell him any details ahead of time.

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Speaker 3: Or the title of the segment.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do you still want to be in a relationship

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Speaker 4: I am in a relationship with him.

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Speaker 1: Want my girlfriend, Yeah I lost her like seven months ago.

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Last week I posted a photo us on Empstone.

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Speaker 5: Brook, Brook just you know, some people are let's say,

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Speaker 4: Well, that's why I contacted you. Guys. He needs to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why Vicky still considers them to technically be together.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I can understand her need for closure.

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Speaker 3: Honestly, Vicky, I'm hoping he didn't see that.

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Speaker 1: So remember, Vicky, we've already reached out to James. He

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Speaker 3: You haven't talked to him in a long time.

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Speaker 4: I have driven, so I told you that, right.

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Speaker 1: Let's punch up. James here, James, Hello, are you there?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Hey James, we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: Good morning, James.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I bet you were excited when you got our email.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm definitely curious, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: So I know it's kind of unusual, but we do

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Speaker 1: this segment here. It's called Say Yes to the X,

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Speaker 1: and basically the idea is somebody from your romantic past

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Speaker 1: so you get the concept. This is a woman named Vicky.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember Vicky.

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Speaker 6: Uh a, Vicky, Yeah, no, that's that. That doesn't sound familiar.

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Speaker 5: Guys, do we have the right person?

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Speaker 3: Did you email the wrong person?

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Speaker 1: The number is right, you're James.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this is James, but I don't know who Vicky is.

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Speaker 5: Okay, maybe it's Victoria. Like did we get her name wrong?

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Speaker 1: So the last time you saw her you were over

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Speaker 6: Uh? I don't know what you're talking about?

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Speaker 2: Have you hit your head?

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Speaker 3: Do you date a lot?

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Speaker 1: Is that it?

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Speaker 3: Are you like going on tons of dates?

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Speaker 6: I've been on a couple of dates, but I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: Okay, look, so wait, your name James is correct, your

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Speaker 1: phone number is right. It's weird that you have no

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Speaker 1: is your quote ex Vicky.

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Speaker 3: Vicky still thinks she's in a relationship with you and

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Speaker 3: you don't even know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, why don't you talk to her?

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Speaker 1: Because she is on the phone right now waiting to

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Speaker 3: Maybe you can figure out who she is.

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Speaker 4: I am Hey, James, me Vicky.

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Speaker 6: Hi, you're saying we dated.

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Speaker 4: Yes on the Sims. Our characters went out?

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Speaker 2: Waity did the video game?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you just disappeared. I haven't seen you anywhere and

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Speaker 4: you know where we still to get dame.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I can't Why did you respond to

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Speaker 3: Did you do no research into any of this?

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Speaker 2: Jeff, don't pen this on me?

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: You're the home one that she would say yes to

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Speaker 2: the I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She could have done some back since she went out

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Speaker 3: Did you ask about in person?

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Speaker 1: You never asked those questions either, broke.

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Speaker 5: That?

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Speaker 1: Wait, James, you're still there right.

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Speaker 6: I'm yeah, I'm here. So you're talking about our characters

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Speaker 4: Yeah, after our sims became of fish. So we went

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Speaker 3: In the video game? Is that what you want him

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Speaker 1: Yeah, VICKI, I have to ask a question after in

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Speaker 1: the last seven months, when you went by his house,

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Speaker 4: His virtual health?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you don't know where he lives in real life.

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Speaker 4: No, James, in a little bit of defense.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not kidding when I say this. Sometimes when

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Speaker 1: So I can see why you could feel some serious

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Speaker 2: Is your business.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about Vicky and James here, James, do you

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Speaker 1: recall who this is?

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Speaker 6: Did you? Did you have pink hair?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: That's me, he remembers.

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Speaker 6: Okay, look, I didn't know your name was Vicky first

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Speaker 6: of all, but I I didn't want to tell you

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Speaker 3: Whoa wait, your character met another character.

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Speaker 6: I did, and and we are still together.

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Speaker 1: But you were you were.

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Speaker 4: Official with this kidding me? What is her name?

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Speaker 3: What isn't really?

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Speaker 2: What was the instagram A pick of your sim's holding jail?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, we looked so perfect together.

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Speaker 1: What James, you want to give the name of your

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Speaker 6: Uh? I'm I'm nervous to you now.

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Speaker 3: Don't don't do that. Definitely don't, James. I can't believe

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Speaker 3: you're like it's it's interesting.

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Speaker 5: Interesting that you're also entertaining the new relationship as a

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Speaker 2: It's just in a different world.

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Speaker 3: This is the virtual game, Jeff. Is called a game

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Speaker 3: because it's to be played. It's not to be taken seriously.

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Speaker 4: It's real to me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, well it's not that is a problem. That

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Speaker 1: I think it's sweet that Vicky is so adamant about

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Speaker 1: going one already. Vicky, Well, yeah, I don't know how many.

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Speaker 3: You could probably have as many partners as you want.

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Speaker 3: If you're a SIMS character.

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Speaker 6: Don't.

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Speaker 1: Brook, don't bring your real life situation into the virtual world.

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Speaker 4: Broke.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I don't sleep around there. I'm sorry, I can't.

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Speaker 1: Good. It's nice to meet an upstanding person once on

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Speaker 1: this show, So James. Normally, normally I would ask in

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Speaker 3: Not anything anyone would do, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying it Sims Bucks or something. It sounds like

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Speaker 1: Like are you open to meeting Vicky out in the

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Speaker 2: An actual date?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I I don't date in the real world.

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Speaker 2: What wait, what do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Listen, I'm busy enough with my SIMS girlfriend. I don't

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Speaker 3: And these people could have been perfect for each other.

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Speaker 1: It's just bad timing in the SIMS world. So man,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: He's married, James, I miss you.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, Well, there's always hope that maybe James and

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Speaker 1: his virtual girlfriend won't work out.

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Speaker 3: And if you see some pink hair hiding out of a.

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Speaker 1: Virtual bush called the virtual Cops, Yeah

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning,