1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: There's a scene at the end of The Devilware's Prada 2 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: where the character Miranda Priestley, a famed and famously demanding 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: fashion editor, gives her young assistant Andy a rare compliment. 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: I see a great deal of myself and you. 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: This comment comes after a turning point in the movie 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: where Miranda has just saved her own career by brutally 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: betraying someone who has been enormously loyal to her. So 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: Andy is horrified by this comparison, and she rejects it. 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 3: She says she's not sure that she wants to be 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 3: like Miranda. 11 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 2: I mean, what if I don't want to live the 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: way you live? 13 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 4: And it'll be ridiculous, Andrea, everybody wants this, Everybody wants 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 4: to be us. 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: But does everybody want the glamorous, punishing life at the 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: center of this story. That's the central question of the 17 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: movie and this episode. I'm Susie Banacarum and I'm Jessica Bennett, 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: and this is in retrospect, where each week we revisit 19 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: a cultural moment from the past that shaped. 20 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 3: Us and that we just can't stop thinking about. 21 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: Today, we're talking about the Doublewaar's product and the way 22 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 1: it depicts women's ambition. But we're also talking about how 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: a cautionary tale about sacrificing everything for your job ended 24 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: up glamorizing. 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 3: Exactly that dress. 26 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 1: As we've said, we're talking about the Doublewars product today, 27 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: a movie starring Meryl Streep and Anne Hathaway and this 28 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: fraught relationship they have. Anne Hathaway is a recent college grad, 29 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: it's her first job, and Meryl Streep plays her famous 30 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: and powerful boss. And this is a circumstance you and 31 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: I are somewhat familiar with in lots of different variations. 32 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 3: No comment, no comments, Yeah, exactly. 33 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, We've both worked for some famous and powerful women, 34 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: some not so famous, but certainly complicated women. 35 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: Is how I would describe a lot of them. 36 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: I think that's partially why I feel so connected to 37 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: the movie. And it is a movie I have seen 38 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: countless times. It came out in two thousand and six, 39 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: and I honestly can't tell you when I first saw it. 40 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: I don't remember if I saw it in the theater. 41 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: But have you seen the movie? Do you remember kind 42 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: of what you thought about it or what you've thought 43 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: about it over the years. 44 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 5: I mean, I, of course saw it, and I think 45 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 5: it came out at a time when I had just 46 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 5: moved to New York and had dreams of becoming a journalist, 47 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 5: so I was very interested from that perspective. 48 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 3: Obviously, it's like not that true to life, but it's. 49 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 5: Really fun, though I forget a lot of the details. 50 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 3: So can you give me the cliff Notes version? 51 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the more recent version is spark Notes, 52 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: but same thing. I will give you a little summary 53 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: of the movie. So Andy, who I've said is played 54 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: by Anne Hathaway, has moved to New York right after 55 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: college to pursue a career in journalism. 56 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: She was the editor in chief of her college paper. 57 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: She has this dream of working at the New Yorker 58 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: or someplace serious like that. 59 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 3: Of course, this is what all my students want to 60 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 3: do also. 61 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: So Andy goes to interview at a big publishing company, 62 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: thinking she's going to get a job at some serious place, 63 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: but randomly the hr person tells her there's availability to 64 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: be the second assistant to Miranda Priestley, who is the 65 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: editor in chief of Runway Magazine, which is a fashion magazine. 66 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: That character is played by Meryl Streep and is widely 67 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 1: understood to be a very thinly veiled depiction of Anna Wintour, 68 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: who is the famed longtime editor of Vogue magazine. Okay, 69 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: so despite this amazing opportunity, Andy knows nothing about. 70 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 3: Fashion or fashion magazines. 71 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: She gets the job because she sort of has this 72 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: moment while she's standing in Miranda Priestley's office where she 73 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: pitches herself as hardworking and smart and Miranda decides to 74 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: give her the job. 75 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: Okay, so we all know Miranda's just brutal as a boss, 76 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 3: but paint us a little bit of a picture. She's 77 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 3: pretty terrible. 78 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: She's cold and demanding, and she makes really unreasonable requests 79 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: that are essentially impossible, Like at one point, she demands 80 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: that Andy find a flight for her during a literal hurricane, 81 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: and it's like, why can't you get me out of here? 82 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 1: And then there's another example where she demands that Andy 83 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: get her the unpublished manuscript of the next Harry Potter 84 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: book for her daughters, and Andy actually achieves that one. 85 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: But Andy is determined to survive this job for at 86 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: least a year because everyone keeps telling her that a 87 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 1: million girls would kill for this job and that if 88 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: she can just stick it out and succeed that Miranda 89 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: will be able to help her get those serious jobs 90 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: she really. 91 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 5: Wants, which is not dissimilar from what these types of 92 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 5: bosses actually do promise in real life. 93 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: No, I mean, it's exactly what these bosses do promise. 94 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: So initially she fumbles, and she doesn't really hide her 95 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: disdain for fashion, Like there's all these moments where they're 96 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: doing fittings and she's kind of like making a face 97 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: or snickering, and that is very much noted by Miranda, 98 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: who finds it super annoying. And then there's this first 99 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: assistant played by Emily Blunt. So Andy is the second assistant. 100 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: Miranda has two assistants, and that's a seniority thing. The 101 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: first assistant is more senior than the second assistant. And 102 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 1: Emily Blunt is just hilarious in this. She steals a 103 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: lot of the scenes, and she just cannot understand Andy, 104 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: like she doesn't think she's deserving of the job, she 105 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 1: doesn't understand her fashion. She's just kind of like, Miranda's 106 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: decided to hire you, but I'm just putting up with 107 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: you essentially. 108 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, do you have some prior commitment, some hideous 109 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 4: skirt convention you have to go to. 110 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: But one of the other fashion editors, played by Stanley Tucci, 111 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: takes Andy under his wing and she goes from being 112 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: this unfashionable rube to hot and stylish. 113 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 3: Of course, could have predicted that. 114 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: And in the process she becomes seduced by the environment 115 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: and this desire to please Miranda. So that is the 116 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: context of the movie, and that is where we are 117 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: when we get to this scene that we played at 118 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:03,919 Speaker 1: the top of the episode. 119 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so the scene. What drew you to this 120 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 5: scene in particular? Well, I love the scene. 121 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: I think I always have, but over time I've become 122 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: kind of more drawn to it because it really encapsulates 123 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: for me, the central tension in many women's careers, in 124 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: my career, in the careers I see of my friends, 125 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 1: I think, when you're young, you do want this life. 126 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: You want to be hugely successful, you want these big jobs, 127 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 1: but you don't really fully understand the sacrifices you're going 128 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: to make. 129 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 3: You're told that there. 130 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: Will be sacrifices, but as you go through you see 131 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 1: what that really means for your life, and that is 132 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 1: really complicated. So this dynamic, this tension between them is 133 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: a reflection of I think something that we all struggle 134 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: with internally, really. 135 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 3: And the scene begins where this tension is playing out. Yeah. 136 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: So the scene comes at the end of the movie 137 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: after Andy has gone through her transformation. 138 00:06:58,360 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, her fashion transformation. 139 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: Now she's wearing like amazing clothes and has like a 140 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: great haircut, and she does look I will say, imtegrable. 141 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 1: And she has seemingly bought into this world and kind 142 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: of in a Stockholm syndrome kind of way, you see 143 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: that all of her relationships are in tatters. She keeps 144 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: ditching her friends and family, and she and her boyfriend 145 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: have just broken up because she's so obsessed with her. 146 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 3: Work, obsessed with their work. 147 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 5: I feel like that's also another frequent plot line and 148 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 5: these types of things. It's like the boyfriend can't Hannah, 149 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 5: how devoted to your career? 150 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't handle it. 151 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: And they're in Paris for fashion Week, and even coming 152 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: on this trip to Paris is supposed to be an 153 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: indication that Andy has lost her way because it is Emily, 154 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: the first assistant who is supposed to go on this trip. 155 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: It is a huge deal to go to Paris fashion week, 156 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 1: and Emily has been talking about it for months, and 157 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: now Andy has gone instead because Miranda has taken a 158 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: liking to her and has said to Andy, you can 159 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: come to Harris instead, but you have to tell Emily. 160 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: Oh right. She's like pitting them against each other. 161 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: And now in Paris, Andy has discovered that Miranda is 162 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: about to be fired and replaced by a much younger 163 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: European editor, and she's desperately trying to get to Miranda 164 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: to warn her. And then, unbeknown st Andy, Miranda has 165 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: already been aware of the plan and has outmaneuvered the 166 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,119 Speaker 1: publisher by getting the younger editor another job. 167 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,559 Speaker 3: And it's a particularly. 168 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: Brutal move and moment in the movie because Miranda has 169 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: saved herself by giving the job that had been promised 170 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: to the character played by Stanley Tucci to this other 171 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: editor to get her out of the way. And so 172 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,320 Speaker 1: Stanley Tucci, who is this really loyal deputy who's worked 173 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 1: for her for years, who you see in an earlier 174 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: scene is so excited about this new role now is 175 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: stuck still at Runway Magazine with her. And now Andy 176 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 1: and Miranda are in a car together and Andy is reeling 177 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 1: from this because she has seen all of this go down, 178 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: and Miranda acknowledges that she saw how hard Andy tried 179 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: to warn her and was impressed by that. 180 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 3: And then she says to her. 181 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 2: I see a great deal of myself and you. 182 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 1: And obviously Miranda means this as a compliment, but you 183 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: can see just by the reaction on Andy's face that 184 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 1: she does not hear it as a compliment, and she objects. 185 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: She says, but I would never do what you did, Miranda, 186 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: and Miranda reminds her that she already did to the 187 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: other assistant she replaced to go on this trip. 188 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 2: That was different. I didn't have the choice. No, you choose, 189 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 2: you choose to get in you want this life. Those 190 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 2: choices aren't necessary. But what if this isn't what I want? 191 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 4: I mean, what if I don't want to live the 192 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 4: way you live? And don't be ridiculous, Andrea. Everybody wants this, 193 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 4: everybody wants to be us. 194 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 5: It's so funny because she truly can't conceive a world 195 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 5: in which people don't want what she has and what 196 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 5: she has to do to hold on to it. 197 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 3: So yes, yeah, it is. It's a very poignant moment 198 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:21,319 Speaker 3: in that way. 199 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 5: Because Andy has realized that she's doing the same thing. 200 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: Right, And just to finish this moment, when they arrive 201 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: at the event they're going to, Andy turns and leaves 202 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 1: Miranda alone. And while she's walking away, Miranda calls her, 203 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: and you see Andy look at her phone and it 204 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 1: shows Miranda's name, and Andy throws her phone into a 205 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: nearby fountains. Right, so she's like relinquished this life. And 206 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: we don't know how she gets back to New York. 207 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: We don't know anything else, right, but she has like 208 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: walked away in the middle of like the most important 209 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: week of Miranda Priestley's year. 210 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 3: And back in New York, we see. 211 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,199 Speaker 1: Andy go to a job interview at a newspaper, a 212 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: serious publication. 213 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: She has said she's back in Dowdy Close, although. 214 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: Still with a much more fashionable touch. I will say, 215 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 1: she still has the fabulous haircut. And so this editor 216 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: who is interviewing tells her that he's reached out to 217 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: Miranda for a reference, and you kind of see the 218 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 1: look across Andy's face and he says he received a 219 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: note back saying that Andy was the biggest disappointment, but 220 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: he'd be an idiot not to hire her, and ultimately 221 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: that's how we know this is a cautionary tale. Andy 222 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: has made a deal with the devil, the devil in Prada. 223 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: She's lost her way, she's disappointed her friends and family, 224 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 1: but by the end, she's seen the air of her ways. 225 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: She's saved herself, and luckily for her, because it's a fantasy, 226 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: she's reaped the benefits anyway, She's now gotten this other 227 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: job because Miranda has still given her her seal of approval, 228 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: which it is a fantasy, right, So it is the 229 00:11:55,400 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: fantasy we all have that that boss, he was terrible 230 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:01,240 Speaker 1: to us, secretly thought we were amazing, right, Like that 231 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: is the redemption we all want. 232 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 3: So obviously this movie is not high art, right. 233 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: It's like, I don't want to make it seem like 234 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: we're going into the ins and outs of this movie, 235 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 1: because I think it's the best movie ever made. But 236 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: it is the real chic flick that isn't centered on 237 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: a man. It's about a girl and her ambitions and 238 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: figure out what she wants. The boyfriend's storyline is a 239 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 1: secondary plot point and they don't end up together, right, 240 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: And the role of Miranda Priestley is not something we 241 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: saw a lot in this way, right, a woman who 242 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: is highly successful, unapologetic, fully in charge, and is really 243 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 1: seen as a leader in this industry. 244 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it reminds me of like there's those 245 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 5: movies about female ambition in a way from the eighties, 246 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 5: Like I'm thinking about Baby Boom and wasn't there Working Girl? 247 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: Yes, those are both movies I love, and they are 248 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: both about women trying to make their way in their 249 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: working life. But in both those movies, the romance is 250 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: still very central, and they do end up with a 251 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: hot guy at the end, right, and that is seen 252 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: as part of the happy ending. And here the happy 253 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: ending is that she gets the job she wants, Right, 254 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: That's a really big difference. 255 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 5: Did you relate to Andy in watching it at the time, 256 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 5: Like I remember, Yes, I too wanted to be a 257 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 5: serious journalist, but I don't know that I ever thought 258 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 5: I would be capable of walking away in the same 259 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 5: way she did. 260 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 3: I definitely didn't relate to that. 261 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: I mean, I felt like I had to do whatever 262 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: it took to succeed, and I was willing to do that. 263 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: I was not the girl who was going to throw 264 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: her phone in the fountain. I had you know, bills 265 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: to pay and student loans and did what I had. 266 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 5: To Immigrant mentality probably too, Yeah, definitely immigrant mentality. 267 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: I did not feel like I was in a position 268 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: where I had a safety net, so there was no 269 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:52,079 Speaker 1: place to go. 270 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 5: I mean, I guess that's the fantasy aspect of this movie, 271 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 5: is that most people are not in the position to 272 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 5: throw their work phone fountain and just hope they're going 273 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 5: to get another job. 274 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 1: And I actually I went back to my LinkedIn because 275 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: I couldn't remember where I was in my own career. 276 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. So in two thousand and six, I was working 277 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 3: at ABC News. 278 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: At that time, George Stephanopolis was the host of This Week, 279 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: which I think he still hosts sometimes, and I did 280 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: have a very intense female boss who definitely had some 281 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: Miranda Priestley like demands. 282 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 5: Okay, so now you have to tell us what kind 283 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 5: of demands those were. 284 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: One thing that seems very Miranda like is that she 285 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: needed her daily papers to be unwrinkled, So before she 286 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: came in, her assistant would put her papers on her 287 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 1: desk and she had to make sure she got only 288 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: unwrinkled copies, which I'm not even sure how you guarantee 289 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: that I know she wasn't ironing them. So that's like 290 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: a very funny thing. She must have gone to the 291 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: newsstand and like selected. 292 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 5: Oh unwringkled copies of the papers. I thought you just 293 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 5: met papers in general. Oh no, the newspapers, like the newspapers, 294 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 5: So she had to like make sure she wasn't getting 295 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 5: the top one at the BA she'd like dig. 296 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, she doesn't make sure that whatever the New York 297 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: Times or New York Posts she was picking up, they 298 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: were pristine. And we had a very intense rule that 299 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: you would get in trouble for if you didn't. When 300 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: you sent an email on the two line, the names 301 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 1: had to be an order of seniority, Like if I 302 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: send an email to two people and one of them 303 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: was junior, they had to be second on the chain. 304 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:31,400 Speaker 3: Or I think that I do do that, like I 305 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 3: don't die. 306 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 5: I don't do it too, but I think that I 307 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 5: do do that because it just kind of makes logical sense. 308 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 5: But I'm sure younger people who wear email was not 309 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 5: their primary with Queen Caanner who came up on slack 310 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 5: probably think that's insane. 311 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I also do that still too, just because 312 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: it's locked into my brain. 313 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 3: I can't get it out of my brain. 314 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: But the other one that I think is particularly funny 315 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 1: is if we had a cake in the office for 316 00:15:52,920 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: someone's birthday, the assistant had to make sure to hand 317 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: out the pieces of cake in the order of seniority's. 318 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 5: So many ways, so like true hierarchy to everything, like 319 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 5: very higher. 320 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: It was this kind of obsession with order right like 321 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: it things had to be a very specific way, which 322 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 1: just were not chill at all. 323 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 5: I will say though, that with so many of these stories, 324 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: it's like there are plenty of male bosses that do 325 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 5: this kind of shit too, maybe not with the cake, 326 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 5: or maybe it's like they're the menus just playing out 327 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 5: in different ways, but we don't necessarily call them demanding 328 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 5: in the same way we just call them. 329 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: Then, well, I will tell you a great story I know, 330 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: like this about a mail boss at ABC is. I 331 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: have a friend who was an assistant to an executive 332 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: producer and he used to make her follow him to 333 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 1: the bathroom and he would continue to shout notes at 334 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 1: her through the door and she'd have to like take 335 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: notes while he was peeing, which is disgusting. 336 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't remember anyone ever calling that guy 337 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 3: a diva. 338 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: And to be clear, this is a woman who I 339 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: enjoyed working for enough that I went to work for 340 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: her again. Right, She gets demanding and difficult, but I 341 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,359 Speaker 1: saw that as just the way you had to be 342 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: to be in these jobs. I didn't have a lot 343 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 1: of examples of people in these jobs who were kind. 344 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 3: And compassionate and wanted to like coddle me. This was 345 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 3: the deal. 346 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 5: And also, for what it's worth, if you're running a 347 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 5: company or whatever the job may be, you probably don't 348 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 5: have time to coddle your assistant and on like, on 349 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:24,639 Speaker 5: some level, maybe I'm sympathetic a little bit to some 350 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 5: of this. Cancel me, am, I remembering correctly that this 351 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 5: movie was based on a book. 352 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,239 Speaker 1: Yes, it was based on a best selling book of 353 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: the same name. It was written by Lauren Weisberger, and 354 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 1: the book came out in two thousand and three. Okay, 355 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: And the book was itself a cultural phenomenon. 356 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 3: It was really popular. 357 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: It came out at the peak of the chick lit era, 358 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: and most relevant is that Weisberger had actually been Anna 359 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 1: Wintor's assistant at Vogue, which is why it was so 360 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: widely understood that Winter Tour was the inspiration for Priestley. 361 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 5: It's probably worth spending a little time for those who 362 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 5: might not know as much as we do talking about 363 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 5: who Anna Winter is. 364 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she is not just the editor of a 365 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,280 Speaker 1: fashion magazine. She has literally been called the single most 366 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: important figure in the three hundred billion dollar global fashion industry. 367 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 1: As you might expect from a famous fashion editor, she 368 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: has a very distinctive look. You know, this classic bob 369 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: that she's had for years, with fangs. She's often seen 370 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: wearing sunglasses. She's always flawless. And I was actually thinking, 371 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: I wonder if I've ever seen her in casual clothes. Yeah, 372 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: so I humbled Anna Wintour and jeans, And apparently she 373 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,320 Speaker 1: does have genes because I found some pictures of it, 374 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: and she looks great in them. But she is sort 375 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 1: of in your mind if you've seen lots of images 376 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:01,160 Speaker 1: of her, which I have, but I'm sure you have too, 377 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: this very polished person. And she became the Vogue editor 378 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,120 Speaker 1: in chief in nineteen eighty eight. 379 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy? Thirty five years ago? Is she the 380 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:13,400 Speaker 3: longest servant? 381 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 5: Like that's a huge amount of time for an editor 382 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 5: in chief To be clear. 383 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: I mean, most people last two years in a job 384 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 1: in media, right, So the fact that she's been a 385 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: top the most famous fashion magazine in the world for 386 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 1: thirty five years is really an achievement and just wild. 387 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,320 Speaker 1: I mean, she's been in that job longer than a 388 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 1: lot of people have been alive. And she was promoted 389 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: in twenty thirteen to Conde Nasts artistic director, so she 390 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: doesn't just lead Vogue anymore. She is the editorial leader 391 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: of all the titles of Conde Nast, which include The 392 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: New Yorker and Vanity Fair and Wired and a bunch 393 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,280 Speaker 1: of other things. 394 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. I remember watching that documentary about her. What was 395 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 5: it this September Issue. 396 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 1: Yes, there is a documentary about her called The September Issue. 397 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 3: It was released in two thousand and nine. 398 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: And the thing about Anna is she's very much seen 399 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: as a visionary, as someone who can see things coming 400 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: down the line and lead rather than follow. So she's 401 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,040 Speaker 1: credited with seeing the power of celebrity culture really early 402 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: in the cycle and realizing before other people did that 403 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 1: it made sense to put celebrities on the cover. You 404 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: used to be models on the cover of fashion magazine. 405 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,719 Speaker 1: It's Anna who's really credited with changing that. 406 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,439 Speaker 5: And she runs the met Gallet too, right, which is 407 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 5: like the biggest celebrity event of all. 408 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: Yes, she throws the net Galut, which is a benefit 409 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 1: for the Metropolitan Museum of Arts Costume Institute. 410 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 3: It's the first Monday in. 411 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 5: May, which means fashions, the biggest night is finally here. 412 00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 1: You know, just running that would make her a huge 413 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: cultural figure. Celebrities are desperate for invites to that. Yes, 414 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: so it's really hard to overstate her power and influence. 415 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: But also she is famously inaccessible. She is famously kind 416 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 1: of known to be someone with very high standards. 417 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 5: Isn't the rumor that if you are an assistant or 418 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 5: a junior editor person at Vogue, you are not allowed 419 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 5: to make eye contact with her in the elevator? 420 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 3: That's what I've always heard. 421 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: Yes, I've heard that you're not allowed to say hello 422 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 1: to her or make eye contact. And frankly, that's been 423 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: true of other bosses I have had, So that does 424 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 1: not surprise me as a rumor. 425 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 3: I feel like that could very much be real. 426 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 5: Okay, so how close to reality do we think the 427 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 5: book and the movie an actual Anna Winter are. 428 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 3: That's a great question. The Devilware's product is technically fiction. 429 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: So I reached out to Samita Muka Patai, who worked 430 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: for Anna Wintour as the executive editor at teen Vogue, 431 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,880 Speaker 1: and it happens to also be the author of an. 432 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 3: Upcoming book on women and work and ambition. 433 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 1: Of course, Samita was an editor, so she obviously had 434 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 1: a very different job than Andy did in the movie. 435 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:47,199 Speaker 1: But here's how Samita describes being interviewed by Anna Wintour. 436 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 3: I was very anxious to meet her. 437 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,640 Speaker 6: It just was never a position I ever thought I'd 438 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 6: be in which would be to interview with her. And 439 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 6: when I had that opportunity, unlike Andy, I researched like 440 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 6: crazy for how I would show up that day. 441 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 3: You prepared, Yeah, I prepared. 442 00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 6: And there were multiple articles written about what to wear 443 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 6: and what not to wear the first time. 444 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 3: You meet Anna. So what are you supposed to wear 445 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 3: and what are you not supposed to wear? Right? 446 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 6: Well, interestingly, a lot of the articles say not to 447 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,199 Speaker 6: wear black, that she doesn't like black, and this has 448 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,639 Speaker 6: kind of been like a long rumor for her that 449 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 6: she's just like prefers color and brightness. Upon meeting her like, 450 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 6: I don't think it would have mattered at all what 451 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 6: I wore, and so it was kind of like it 452 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 6: was like deeply humbling to be like, oh, it's like 453 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 6: this big character that exists that's larger than life character, 454 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 6: but you're actually just like a person that's trying to 455 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,200 Speaker 6: make the proper business and editorial decision for this brand 456 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 6: that you oversee. It was a big wake up moment 457 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 6: because I planned so much for what I was gonna wear, 458 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:47,360 Speaker 6: and I bought myself a Gucci handbag and I. 459 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 3: Practically wore it hanging around my neck. 460 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 6: None of it was necessary, Like she really just wanted 461 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 6: to talk about my editorial experience and like my taste 462 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 6: in like culture. So it was definitely one of those 463 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 6: myth busting moments obviously, and she wasn't wearing sunglasses. 464 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,400 Speaker 3: Either, by the way. 465 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 5: Okay, I love all the behind the scenes interview stuff, 466 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 5: but I have to say, the points to me to 467 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 5: made about Andy not preparing for her interview is like 468 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 5: the least relatable thing to us as journalists, Like why 469 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 5: would you not prepare for an interview where you're trying 470 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 5: to prove you want to be a serious journalist? 471 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so weird to me, Right, you would at 472 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 3: least just do some research. And also it's hard. 473 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,080 Speaker 1: To believe that any woman in America who wanted to 474 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: work in media would just not know who the editor 475 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 1: of the biggest fashion magazine in the world was. Like, 476 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 1: that is still a big job in media any person 477 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 1: in America. 478 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels true. 479 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,880 Speaker 1: But the idea that Anna is actually a much more 480 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 1: complex character than the cultural characterization of her isn't surprising, right. 481 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 3: Or the cultural caricature of her in a way. Yeah, 482 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 3: and that's something that I feel like you discuss a 483 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 3: lot in your work. 484 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I feel like that's something we keep 485 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 5: coming up against in this podcast, which is there's often 486 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 5: more complexity to the characters we're looking at, actually with women. 487 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think we've seen that a lot with 488 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: people like Robin Gibvens, whose identities are so flattened by 489 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: these characterizations of them, or Britney Spears who had her 490 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 1: complexity denied and was just dismissed as crazy. And in general, 491 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,879 Speaker 1: I think that's what's really smart about this movie, going 492 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: back to Double Warsprata, which is that it takes something 493 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 1: that is also dismissed as frivolous and for women fashion 494 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 1: fashion magazines, and it explores the ways in which they're 495 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 1: actually serious and worthy of examination. 496 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, isn't there a famous scene where Miranda Priestley sort 497 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 5: of schools Andy in how she got her sweater or 498 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 5: something like that. 499 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,719 Speaker 1: Yes, the speech you're thinking of is the Cyrillian speech, 500 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,840 Speaker 1: which is a color blue. They're in a meeting and 501 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: someone has presented Miranda with two belts, and Andy has snickered, 502 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: and so those two belts look exactly the same to me, 503 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: and she's sort of expecting everyone to be like, haha, yes, 504 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: but Miranda is really icy in her retort. 505 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,920 Speaker 7: You select, I don't know that lumpy blue sweater, for instance, 506 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 7: because you're trying to tell the world that you take 507 00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 7: yourself too seriously to care about what you put on 508 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 7: your back. 509 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 2: But what you don't know is that. 510 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 3: That sweater is not just blue. 511 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:13,360 Speaker 7: It's not torquois, it's not lapist, it's actually ceruleum. 512 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 1: And it was introduced on this runway and that runway 513 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: until you fished it out of some bargain basement. It's 514 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,640 Speaker 1: like a very funny moment, and that speech has become 515 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 1: pretty famous because it does, in a really succinct way, 516 00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: explain why fashion does have meaning in people's lives, why 517 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,639 Speaker 1: our lives are all impacted by the way fashion works. 518 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 5: Right, And so she's basically saying, you think you chose 519 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 5: that sweater, but actually, let me tell you that sweater 520 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 5: chose you. 521 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, Susie. 522 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 5: I want to go back for a moment to the 523 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,919 Speaker 5: Miranda character in the book, because the book is actually 524 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 5: pretty vitriolic. 525 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: I mean I reread the book last night, actually, and 526 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 1: it is so vitriolic, like kind of in a shocking 527 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: way to me now looking back it points book Andy 528 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: calls book Miranda a bitch. She talks about how much 529 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,399 Speaker 1: she hates her. I mean, my takeaway from the book 530 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 1: is that the author hated working for Anna Wintour. 531 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,399 Speaker 3: Not a lot of complexity, It's like, that's what it is. 532 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a pretty one dimensional character and she's just awful. 533 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 1: And interestingly, the limo scene is not in the book 534 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 1: at all. The ending plays out completely differently. So in 535 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: the book, the way their relationship ends is that Andy 536 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: says to Miranda, fuck you, Miranda, fuck you. 537 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 3: Wow. 538 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,919 Speaker 1: She's fired obviously for swearing at her boss. And the 539 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,199 Speaker 1: whole thing in the movie about how Miranda writes her 540 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: a good reference and there's kind of this redemption moment 541 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: from Miranda that doesn't happen in the book at all. 542 00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 5: Okay, so this is like a revenge totally essentially, like 543 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 5: She's She's chin. 544 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 3: It's like a revenge fantasy. Right. I don't think this 545 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,400 Speaker 3: happened in real life. 546 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: So I think this is like the book she's written 547 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 1: about what she wishes she had done when she left Vogue, right, 548 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 1: I mean, that's what it feels like. 549 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:10,560 Speaker 3: Is a reader for sure? 550 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 5: So do people like this book? Is the book bad? 551 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 5: What's the response? 552 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 3: Like? 553 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: I mean, the book is controversial, much more so than 554 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,399 Speaker 1: the film because it is really a takedown. And I 555 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,280 Speaker 1: guess at this time it was seen as sort of 556 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 1: bad manners to gossip about your former boss in this way, 557 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: which feels kind of quaint now like in the post 558 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 1: Cocker era. 559 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,359 Speaker 3: But it's like literally aronde. 560 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 5: Yeah. 561 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: But The New York Times actually had two negative reviews 562 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,919 Speaker 1: of this book, and the first one was written by 563 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 1: famed critic Janet Maslin where she refers to it as 564 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: a mean spirited gotcha of a book, and the other 565 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: one is called Anna Dearist, and it has this line 566 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: that is so interesting because I think in a lot 567 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: of ways it encapsulates kind of what we're talking about 568 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: in a larger sense. Here she had a ringside seat 569 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: at one of the great editorial franchises, but she seems 570 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: to have understood almost nothing about the isolation and pressure 571 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 1: of the job her boss was doing, or what it 572 00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,439 Speaker 1: might cost a person like Miranda Priestley to become a 573 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:10,160 Speaker 1: character like Miranda Priestley. 574 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 5: Hmmm, I bet that was written by a woman. 575 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 1: Yes, it was written by a woman, And I think 576 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 1: it is the truth that these jobs do come with 577 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,120 Speaker 1: isolation and pressure. 578 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 3: It is a reality that it's not quite so simple. 579 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: And so the movie really makes an effort to humanize 580 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,439 Speaker 1: Miranda in a lot of ways. 581 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 3: Right moving Miranda is more complicated. Yeah. 582 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 1: The director has actually said that early versions of the 583 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: script even felt too vengeful, and I suspect what he 584 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: is leaving kind of unsaid in that is that's because 585 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: the book was vengeful, right, It was this like really 586 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: mean spirited book. So when it comes time to make 587 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: the movie, the movie is being made by people who 588 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: probably have had these senior positions right there, are two 589 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,719 Speaker 1: scenes that give you a real window into Miranda's personal 590 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 1: life and what her career has cost her on that front. 591 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: In the movie, at one point, Miranda is having an 592 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: argument with her husband and Andy walks in, and the 593 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 1: argument is about how she's missed a lunch with him, 594 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: and he says, you know, I could tell everyone was 595 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: looking at me and thinking, there he is waiting for 596 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 1: her again, which feels, you know, like a thing a 597 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,239 Speaker 1: lot of women go through when they're more successful than 598 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: their partner. And then later in Paris, there's this very 599 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,280 Speaker 1: vulnerable scene where she tells Andy she's getting a divorce. 600 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: Miranda's without her usual armor, she has no makeup on, 601 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: and she's in a robe, and she talks about knowing 602 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: what they will write about her. Dragon Lady, career obsessed 603 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 1: no Clean, drives away another mister Priestley, and she tears 604 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: up as she laments what it will do to her daughters. 605 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 5: Actually, I had forgotten until you were mentioning the Harry 606 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 5: Potter part of the movie that she even had daughters 607 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 5: like that too. Is an interesting thing because you expect 608 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 5: a woman of the stature, or a woman who behaves 609 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,120 Speaker 5: like this to be this career as who doesn't have 610 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 5: a family, right. 611 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,800 Speaker 1: And what's kind of interesting in this moment in the 612 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 1: movie is that when Andy expresses sympathy for her and says, 613 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: you know, is there anything else I can do? Miranda 614 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: kind of snaps back into being her self, you know, 615 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: for lack of a better way of putting it, and 616 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 1: she just says, yes, your job, And that is kind 617 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: of the encapsulation, right, Like she's had this moment of vulnerability, 618 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: but then she has to keep going, Like what choice 619 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: does she have? You know, she is the editor of 620 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: Runway at Paris Fashion Week. 621 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 3: She can't fall apart. 622 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: And you know, EW did an oral history of the 623 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: film and the director said something that I thought was 624 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 1: really interesting. He said that in his vision, Miranda is 625 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: the heroine of the piece, not the villain, because it's 626 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: a coming of age story for Andy to learn about 627 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: what it takes to be great at something, Isn't. 628 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 3: That So that's interesting? 629 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:56,040 Speaker 5: Yes, So it's really about how she Miranda was ultimately successful, 630 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 5: not just a terrible visit, right, Like, it's really. 631 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: A movie about what it costs to be Miranda and 632 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,239 Speaker 1: teaching Andy that she may not think it's okay, but 633 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 1: Eventually she's gonna have to make some of these hard 634 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 1: choices too, And that is really why the Limo moment 635 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: is so critical to the film and why I chose it. 636 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,959 Speaker 1: It's fundamentally a film about what it costs to have 637 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: this kind of life, this kind of career, the isolation, 638 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 1: the pressure, and that's something I think Meryl Streep really 639 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 1: conveys in this portrayal, and why in a lot of ways, 640 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 1: Andy feels hopelessly naive to me. You know, even when 641 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: I saw this the first time, it seemed to me 642 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: like Andy had a lot of growing up to do. 643 00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 5: So Susie, we you know, obviously both related to this movie. 644 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 5: I think when we first saw it in a different 645 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,560 Speaker 5: way than we might now, Like back then we were 646 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 5: aspiring journalists or young journalists, and now we're more the 647 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 5: established journalists. So I was curious for you, I mean, 648 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,160 Speaker 5: you have run really big newsrooms, You've been a boss 649 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 5: in a lot of these jobs. What do you think 650 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 5: the costs of that success have been for you? If any? 651 00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: I think for me the costs are really personal in 652 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: terms of just how I operate in the world, Like 653 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: it takes a lot out of you just physically to 654 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: do these jobs, you have to be willing to work 655 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: just an enormous amount of hours, and you have to 656 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 1: be emotionally available to a very large group of people 657 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: because you're managing a big team, and all of those 658 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: things take a toll on you, right. I think there 659 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: are people that can do these jobs that don't have 660 00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: that experience, that learn to have a set of clear 661 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: walls where they're not sort of taking in a lot 662 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: of the energy around them. Or frankly, I think we 663 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: know because there have been studies that a lot of 664 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,800 Speaker 1: leaders are actually sociopaths or psychopaths. 665 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:11,479 Speaker 3: I think is what the studies say that says leaders 666 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:12,560 Speaker 3: are sociopaths. 667 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's one study I remember reading the claim that 668 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 1: as many as one in five business leaders have some 669 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: psychopathic tendencies. 670 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 3: So that's twenty percent. I'm so surprised by that. 671 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: So I think if you are able to have that 672 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: kind of separation from you and the people whose lives 673 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: you you know, to some degree hold in your hands 674 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: when you're managing a large team, I think it can 675 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: be a lot easier. But for me personally, that has 676 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 1: been a real struggle, and I think it kind of 677 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: has re oriented me in terms of how I think 678 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: about ambition and whether or not I want to have 679 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: these big jobs, whether or not I think these big 680 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 1: jobs make sense anymore. 681 00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I think that the headline here is 682 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 5: that we hold women leaders to higher standards. Like I 683 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 5: guess Miranda Priestley, I don't know that she was in 684 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 5: a position like you were speaking of where she really 685 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 5: cared about the emotional well being of her entire staff. 686 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 5: It was more like she was in charge of she 687 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 5: had these assistants. But like, we expect women leaders to 688 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,399 Speaker 5: be nice, and we don't expect male leaders to be nice. 689 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,040 Speaker 5: So was Miranda Priestley kind of a bit sometimes? Like yeah, 690 00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 5: but if she was a man, would we call her 691 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 5: a bitch or would we just call her demand decisive? 692 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 3: Right? 693 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 5: And so you know, she clearly put andy or her 694 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 5: assistance or whatever in precarious situations. 695 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 3: But that's happened a million times before. 696 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,840 Speaker 5: And so I think that what me know is that 697 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 5: there's this likability trade off for women, like the more 698 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 5: power they gained, the less we like them, statistically proven 699 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 5: time and time again. And it applies to business or 700 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 5: it applies to politics, and so women are always having 701 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,359 Speaker 5: to adjust their demeanor to try to make up for this. 702 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 5: And I think what Miranda Priestley, he represents as someone 703 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,680 Speaker 5: who wasn't willing to adjust her demeanor, and thus she 704 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,480 Speaker 5: was kind of like a frigid ice cool. 705 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 3: Ice queen pitch. But is that fair? You know, It's 706 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:11,279 Speaker 3: a little more complicated than that. 707 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I do think this is something when you're 708 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 1: a woman in a leadership position, you're constantly trying to 709 00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: thread the needle on right, because on the one hand, 710 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: you need to be somewhat decisive and you need to 711 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 1: be someone who moves things through. You can't just be 712 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: like spending all your time being emotionally accessible or whatever. 713 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: But on the other hand, I think my entire career 714 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,280 Speaker 1: I have been given the note that I need to 715 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: soften myself. I need to be less blunt, I need 716 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 1: to work a little less quickly and assume that people 717 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,560 Speaker 1: aren't always following Like. Those are notes I've gotten repeatedly 718 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 1: in my career, and I think I really struggle with 719 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 1: that still because I am not naturally like a very soft, 720 00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: sweet person, you know. It's like I am pretty blunt 721 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 1: and straightforward, and I sort of think that's one of 722 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,759 Speaker 1: my strengths. 723 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,480 Speaker 3: Well, that's kind of what you need to be a leader, 724 00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 3: in fact. 725 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: But as I've gotten older, I can see when it 726 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 1: has an impact on someone, and I try and dial 727 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: it down because I recognize that not everyone can deal 728 00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 1: with that well. 729 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,080 Speaker 3: And that's part of the pressure. 730 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 5: Right You're in charge of all these people and to 731 00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 5: some degree they're well being, but you have to discipline. 732 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,720 Speaker 5: There is hard stuff. Sometimes you have to do layoffs. 733 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 5: Thankfully I've never had to do that, but I can 734 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 5: imagine that's hard no matter who you are. 735 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:39,360 Speaker 1: Oh god, I can't believe you've never had to do 736 00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: a layoff. That is really lucky in this media environment. 737 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:47,720 Speaker 1: But just even aside from those pressures, it's just hard 738 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: to show up as your best self every single day. Right, 739 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 1: Sometimes you just don't, or you make mistakes and the 740 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: stakes feel higher because you're the boss and everyone's paying attention. 741 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 5: Right, Like a bad day can have more extreme consequences. 742 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean everyone I know in the leadership position 743 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 1: struggles with that at times. And actually we have a 744 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: friend who runs a newsroom who said to me recently, 745 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,279 Speaker 1: it's not fun to be in charge anymore. And that 746 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: makes sense to me. Right, people are just so self 747 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 1: conscious all the time. They're so worried they're going to 748 00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: do something that's going to get them canceled in some way. 749 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 5: Which I guess is good on the one hand, like 750 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 5: that we're all more conscious of creating the kind of 751 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 5: workplaces we want to be in, but it's also complicated. 752 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: I think part of the reason I have sometimes felt 753 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: like I'm groping around in the dark trying to figure 754 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: out how to be a good leader is that there 755 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 1: just weren't a lot of great. 756 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 3: Examples of leadership. 757 00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 1: You know. Most of the leadership I saw was Miranda 758 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 1: Priestley type leadership. 759 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,280 Speaker 3: From men and women. 760 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: So it's not like there were all these models for 761 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: me that I could be like, Okay, here's who I'm 762 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: trying to be. I was sort of trying to figure 763 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:54,920 Speaker 1: it out on my own. I'm still trying to figure 764 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:56,200 Speaker 1: it out to some degree. 765 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's still not great models, to be honest. 766 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 5: I mean, I think that's why we've seen a lot 767 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,279 Speaker 5: of women leaders who rise up really quickly and then 768 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 5: immediately get shot down. Yeah. 769 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: And that actually leads me to something I want to 770 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: talk about, which is the whole girl boss thing from 771 00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,759 Speaker 1: a few years ago. I've always joked that all these 772 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 1: toxic girl bosses were just women who saw the Devilwar's 773 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: praduct and instead of seeing it as a cautionary tale, 774 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,760 Speaker 1: they saw it as a path to success. 775 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:23,120 Speaker 5: Right. 776 00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:27,480 Speaker 1: They agreed with Miranda Priestley that everybody wanted this life, 777 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,240 Speaker 1: that for better or for worse, she is a depiction 778 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 1: of unapologetic female power, and we don't see that a lot. 779 00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 3: So they emulated it. Wait, should we define the girl boss? 780 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 5: So this was a term that was popularized in twenty 781 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 5: fourteen when Sophia Amarusso, who had founded a wildly successful 782 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 5: company called Nasty Gut, wrote a book called girl Boss, 783 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 5: and girl Boss was framed as the reaction to lean In, 784 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 5: which was Sheryl Sandberg's blockbuster. 785 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,120 Speaker 3: Debating Sparti shrl Samdberg, her brand new book is generating 786 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:05,919 Speaker 3: a kind of feminist firestorm. 787 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,720 Speaker 4: She calls it leaning in, gunning for the corner office, 788 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 4: not the cubicle. 789 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 5: And so if Leanan was saying, like, you know, go strive, 790 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 5: rise up the corporate ladder, girl Boss was saying like, no, actually, 791 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,320 Speaker 5: you can be scrappy. You don't have to come from money. 792 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 5: You can do it your way, and over time there 793 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 5: was this generation of leaders who rose really quickly and 794 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:34,399 Speaker 5: were very you know, media savvy. They were all very attractive. 795 00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,880 Speaker 5: They like started populating the cover of every magazine and 796 00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 5: they were sort of heralded as this new generation of 797 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 5: women leaders. But a lot of their businesses failed, a 798 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,239 Speaker 5: lot of them were criticized for various things, and so 799 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 5: ultimately that term now is more of a pejorative, Like 800 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 5: it's used on TikTok to like criticize people who are 801 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:55,480 Speaker 5: seen as too ambitious. There's that phrase, don't girl boss 802 00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:59,080 Speaker 5: too close to the sun. They had too much unbridled 803 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 5: ambition and came to bite them in the ass. 804 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:05,279 Speaker 1: Right, Because there's also that meme gaslight girl boss gatekeep right, 805 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: Like it's basically talking about how the girl bosses were 806 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 1: actually also positions of privilege and they sort of gate 807 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:16,799 Speaker 1: kept other people out of the arena. But I feel 808 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,400 Speaker 1: like part of what the issue is is there isn't 809 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: really a clear definition of what a girl boss is. 810 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,759 Speaker 5: I mean, it's a fake word, Like it's a made 811 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 5: up word that was created as a joke and then 812 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,120 Speaker 5: became a real thing, And like why are we calling 813 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 5: women girl bosses anyway, they should just be bosses. So 814 00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:35,759 Speaker 5: I sort of am like, you can't define that, Like 815 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,480 Speaker 5: it came to represent a striver. 816 00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: Right, like a very earnest striver who embraced a certain 817 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: kind of corporate feminism. Yes, and equality in this world 818 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: was just like getting to be the boss. You were 819 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,680 Speaker 1: an unapologetically ambitious woman like Miranda, but with a feminine twist. 820 00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 1: So like, if you're a girl boss, you're less threatening 821 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 1: in a way. Right, You're certainly not the crazed, desperate 822 00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 1: career women of the eighties we talked about in the 823 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: news Week marriage episode. Right, You're not Glennon Close in 824 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: Fatal Attraction. You're like a fashionable and millennial pink feminist. 825 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 5: Well, and in some ways the media and society has 826 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,840 Speaker 5: enforced that by adding girl in front of your title. 827 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: But ultimately the girl boss, as you said, was pretty limited. 828 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: And Amanda Mull wrote a great piece in the Atlantic 829 00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: where she talked about why that was. So there was 830 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,879 Speaker 1: some idea that there was equality just based on advancement, right, 831 00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:35,839 Speaker 1: it kind of ties capitalism up with female equality, which 832 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:39,320 Speaker 1: I think feels inherently flawed. And then she said something 833 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: that I thought was really smart, she said. The girl 834 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,879 Speaker 1: Boss argued that the professional success of ambitious young women 835 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: was a two birds, one stone type of activism. Their 836 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,680 Speaker 1: pursuit of power could be rebranded as a righteous quest 837 00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: free quality, and the success of female executives and entrepreneurs 838 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 1: would lift up the women below them. But that's not 839 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: really what we In fact, even the person who popularized 840 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 1: the term girl boss, this woman, Sophia Marusso. She eventually resigned. 841 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 1: The company went into bankruptcy a couple of years after 842 00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,480 Speaker 1: that book came out, and there were a number of 843 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: complaints about discrimination and toxic management, accompanied by lawsuits from 844 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,280 Speaker 1: her employees. 845 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I think it's slightly more complex, Like 846 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 5: a lot of these stories and quote unquote downfalls were 847 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 5: flattened a bit in the media narrative. I'm actually profiling 848 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 5: Sophia now for a piece for l and so it's 849 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 5: been interesting to actually dig into what really happened versus 850 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,160 Speaker 5: how the media that I hate saying, yea, we are 851 00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:49,359 Speaker 5: the media portrayed it. But certainly it represented something right, 852 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,240 Speaker 5: and I think she wasn't the only one. In fairness 853 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,319 Speaker 5: to her, there were a slew of other examples of 854 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 5: female leaders who were lauded as girl bosses or who 855 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 5: leaned into that branding eventually came under scrutiny and were 856 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 5: forced to step away from the companies they founded. Just like, 857 00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,880 Speaker 5: off the top of my head, there's the CEO of Glossier, 858 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,760 Speaker 5: the luggage brand away to that woman who ran things Underwear. 859 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 5: I think you know, there was a shift at a 860 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,640 Speaker 5: certain point in what was perceived as acceptable boss behavior, 861 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 5: particularly for these companies and these founders who had brandoned 862 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,360 Speaker 5: themselves as socially conscious, if not overtly feminists. 863 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 1: And I think also what you're saying is is that 864 00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: these power structures were built by men. So if these 865 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 1: women were replicating these power structures, it wasn't like they 866 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 1: were doing something unique. It's just the case that if 867 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: you're a woman, you're more likely to face an immediate backlash. 868 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,560 Speaker 1: Look at Elon Musk, I mean, he has had a 869 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,719 Speaker 1: million of these kinds of complaints around him. 870 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:52,520 Speaker 5: Right, Or Adam Newman of WeWork or Travis Kalanek of Uber. 871 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,240 Speaker 3: And all three of those men are fine. 872 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,280 Speaker 1: And actually Semita muka pot I, who we spoke to earlier, 873 00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,040 Speaker 1: and as I mentioned, is right a book about women 874 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: work and Ambition also talks about the hypocrisy she sees 875 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: in the Girl Boss downfall. 876 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 6: I'm always cautious when we too eagerly tear women down. 877 00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:15,600 Speaker 6: I'm not going to all women's matter this or something obviously, 878 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,719 Speaker 6: like women are capable of the same heinous atrocities and 879 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 6: labor oversights as men. But I do think that when 880 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:27,160 Speaker 6: we go after women for a specific behavior that is 881 00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:30,279 Speaker 6: considered completely normal in men, you know, my eyebrows raise 882 00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,000 Speaker 6: a little bit. I'm like, yes, no leader should be toxic. 883 00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 6: We should absolutely be creating environments that are equitable. We 884 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 6: should not expect people to work and sacrifice everything. None 885 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 6: of those things are sustainable. They are not things that 886 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:48,360 Speaker 6: we should support in workplaces. But also they are a 887 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 6: result of under resourced environments. Right often women led companies 888 00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 6: don't get as much money as male led companies. Definitely 889 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 6: true for startups in a ridiculous way. And then you 890 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:02,560 Speaker 6: add to that these kinds toxic dynamics or leaders that 891 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,319 Speaker 6: don't have enough experience to successfully lead in those kinds 892 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,359 Speaker 6: of environments, or a lot of times people that would 893 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 6: fit into this Girl Boss mold the very characteristics that 894 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 6: make them good for those roles. Are literally what makes 895 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,560 Speaker 6: them bad as leaders. Yeah, you know, so like being 896 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 6: like judiciously committed to your vision, being really good on stage, 897 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 6: being really good in the press. It's like those people 898 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 6: are monsters behind the scenes, right. But putting that to 899 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,160 Speaker 6: the side, the majority of women that are starting businesses 900 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,640 Speaker 6: aren't these kind of quote unquote girl bosses, right. They're 901 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,440 Speaker 6: young women that are trying to find their voice and 902 00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:39,319 Speaker 6: their name or a lot of times women become entrepreneurs 903 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:42,400 Speaker 6: because they hit the glass ceiling at work and they 904 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,920 Speaker 6: were not getting the recognition that they deserved, and so 905 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 6: they decided to go out on their own. And so, 906 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,840 Speaker 6: you know, it is worrisome when you focus a lot 907 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 6: on a small number of people when there's this kind 908 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,120 Speaker 6: of like broader ecosystem of women trying to create things 909 00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:04,359 Speaker 6: on their own terms. 910 00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 1: Samita has written about how while the girl boss concept 911 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,040 Speaker 1: is flawed, it did provide a model for women who 912 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,759 Speaker 1: don't always see a path to leadership, like women of 913 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,400 Speaker 1: color and people like Samita and I are often excluded 914 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,479 Speaker 1: from those kinds of spaces. So there are some things 915 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,719 Speaker 1: about this that weren't all bad. But you know, any 916 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:34,359 Speaker 1: model of female leadership generally does eventually face a backlash, right, 917 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,640 Speaker 1: I mean, we've just seen that in this country, any 918 00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,840 Speaker 1: kind of female advancement eventually faces a backlash. 919 00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, And in fact, I think we're seeing that more now, 920 00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 5: Like after these girl Bosses, these so called girl bosses toppled, 921 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 5: a lot of the investment to female founded companies actually 922 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:50,640 Speaker 5: went down. 923 00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: By the way, investment to female companies was always really low. 924 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: And that's also partially what was kind of interesting about 925 00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: this being a media sort of created story. Women receive 926 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: I think less than two percent of VC funding, so 927 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 1: there were never a huge number of girl Bosses to 928 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:13,040 Speaker 1: start with. So the disproportionate attention they got in the 929 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: beginning and then in the backlash is also indicative of 930 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,960 Speaker 1: something which is we love a story about a woman 931 00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,920 Speaker 1: rising and then folly. That's just the thing we love 932 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 1: in this country. Also, it's probably worth noting that, in 933 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 1: terms of the backlash, the Miranda Priestleys or in the 934 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:39,720 Speaker 1: real world, the Animinturs of the world didn't emerge completely unscathed, 935 00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:45,560 Speaker 1: but interestingly not really about their years of boundaryless or 936 00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:49,560 Speaker 1: potentially inappropriate leadership styles. You know, I think when Black 937 00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: Lives Matter happened, there was a lot more focus on 938 00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:58,360 Speaker 1: the ways in which fashion and fashion magazines really reinforced 939 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:02,879 Speaker 1: a certain kind of wayness. And you know, Anna did 940 00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,280 Speaker 1: have to apologize for that. In June of twenty twenty, 941 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,640 Speaker 1: after facing a lot of criticism, she issued an apology 942 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:11,960 Speaker 1: for not doing enough to address diversity issues at Vogue, 943 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,480 Speaker 1: and she said, I want to say plainly that I 944 00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 1: know Vogue has not found ways to elevate and give 945 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:21,080 Speaker 1: space to black editors, writers, photographers, designers and other creators. 946 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: We have made mistakes to publishing images or stories that 947 00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 1: have been hurtful or intolerant. I take full responsibility for 948 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:28,719 Speaker 1: those mistakes. 949 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:33,319 Speaker 5: I mean, pretty big a deal that she like she's 950 00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,879 Speaker 5: not the type to stand down or apologize. 951 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,759 Speaker 1: I don't think Yeah, I don't think so either, But 952 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,279 Speaker 1: I think this was obviously a more serious allegation in. 953 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,759 Speaker 5: Some way well, and then also interesting that she was 954 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 5: able to keep her right. 955 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 3: She get her job after that apology, right. 956 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,799 Speaker 1: Unlike the girl bosses who've kind of toppled and then 957 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,360 Speaker 1: maybe found their way back in some smaller way, she 958 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: has stayed on top of the Conde Nast editorial operation. 959 00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: And obviously I don't want to conflate white supremacy bias 960 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: with slightly toxic or even very toxic behavior. This is 961 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 1: obviously a deeper issue, but it shows that she had 962 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,279 Speaker 1: sort of gone from being immune to this kind of criticism. 963 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 1: At the point in which the doublewares Prada is made, 964 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 1: it didn't lead to some kind of backlash towards her, like, oh, 965 00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 1: I can't believe you treat people this way. It was 966 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: considered kind of charming or funny or whatever. And now 967 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,840 Speaker 1: she's sort of gotten to the point where she's not 968 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 1: given a pass completely in that way. And actually that 969 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 1: same year, in twenty twenty two, a few months later, 970 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: The New York Times published a really lengthy piece asking 971 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:37,319 Speaker 1: if her diversity push had come too late, and former 972 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 1: employees said that Anna had fostered a workplace that sidelined 973 00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 1: women of color, and you know, she had helped set 974 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,840 Speaker 1: a standard that favored white, eurocentric notions of beauty, which 975 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:50,880 Speaker 1: you know isn't a surprise. That's something you also see 976 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: in the movie, right, there's a real central focus in 977 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: the movie about a very sort of classic beauty standard. 978 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: There's a lot of focus on on thinness in the movie. 979 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 1: There's like this famous line where Emily, the first assistant, says, 980 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:08,879 Speaker 1: I'm just one stomach flew away from my goal weight, 981 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: which is like a thing me and my friends always 982 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:14,200 Speaker 1: jokingly say to each other people, Yeah, everyone says that, right, 983 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 1: or or said maybe gen Z say that. 984 00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe they have more sense than we did. 985 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,040 Speaker 1: And you know, it wasn't just Anna who set these standards, 986 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,920 Speaker 1: but as arguably the most powerful person in fashion, she 987 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 1: did play a large role. 988 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,200 Speaker 3: In this kind of centering. 989 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,919 Speaker 5: The other thing, too, is that, in particular for women 990 00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:36,040 Speaker 5: of color, but really for any marginalized group, is that 991 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 5: you are often forced to represent your entire demographic. 992 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,520 Speaker 1: Right, So if you're a gay leader, there's also this expectation. 993 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: If you're a translator, it's like you're doing more than 994 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,400 Speaker 1: just your job. You're representing an entire category of people, 995 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:52,759 Speaker 1: and your success or failure carries out weight. And I 996 00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 1: do think to some degree that gets back to this 997 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 1: idea or this thing I was saying at the top, 998 00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: which is it does feel like you're carrying a lot 999 00:51:00,719 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: of weight in these jobs. You know, you're not immune 1000 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: to the understanding that you're not just representing yourself. Like 1001 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:10,680 Speaker 1: when I was given the opportunity to run newsrooms. I 1002 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 1: was almost always the only woman of color or the 1003 00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:18,479 Speaker 1: first woman of color to have that opportunity in that role. 1004 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: So I was clear that I wasn't just you know, 1005 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,719 Speaker 1: doing a job, but I was also representing a kind 1006 00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:27,680 Speaker 1: of progress. And if I did it badly or if 1007 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:29,720 Speaker 1: I embarrassed myself, I. 1008 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 3: Was letting down, letting much more than just my own 1009 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,560 Speaker 3: mental health, you know. I mean, yeah, more than just 1010 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:38,920 Speaker 3: yourself or your employees. 1011 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 5: You're letting down like everyone who strived to be in 1012 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 5: a role like that and who maybe had not gone 1013 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 5: the opportunity well. 1014 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,960 Speaker 1: And also the other thing I think is that you 1015 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 1: recognize that you are the representation for a lot of people, 1016 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:52,600 Speaker 1: like I recognize that. 1017 00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:53,560 Speaker 3: In those roles. 1018 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,279 Speaker 1: There were women in the newsroom who saw me in 1019 00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: that role and were like, oh, I can do that too. 1020 00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 1: So if I did it poorly or I was not 1021 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:05,480 Speaker 1: a good example, that I was not setting a good 1022 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 1: example for them. I was not giving them a path 1023 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:09,279 Speaker 1: because they were like, well, I don't want to be 1024 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 1: that bitch, you know. 1025 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 3: So, which is terror I mean terrifying. Yeah, it on you, 1026 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 3: like I do think it does take a real toll. 1027 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm someone who struggles with a lot of anxiety. 1028 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 1: I have in my life had very serious depression, and 1029 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 1: it is the case that when I am in these jobs, 1030 00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,399 Speaker 1: it triggers a lot of those issues for me. And 1031 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,399 Speaker 1: the reason I often leave these jobs is because I've 1032 00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:34,719 Speaker 1: gotten to a point where I no longer feel like 1033 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:37,600 Speaker 1: I can balance and I need to sort of step 1034 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 1: away to recenter myself. And I think that is a 1035 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 1: good segue into kind of where we are now in 1036 00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: terms of how we're thinking about work as women and 1037 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:51,839 Speaker 1: where women's ambition is. 1038 00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:53,719 Speaker 3: You know, where does all of this leave us? 1039 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: Like if we're not going to be the Miranda Priestley's, 1040 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,080 Speaker 1: we're not going to be the Sheryl Sandbergs, We're not 1041 00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,200 Speaker 1: going to be the girl bosses, Like what's left now? 1042 00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 3: Quiet quitting, great resignation. 1043 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,160 Speaker 1: It's like, I feel like it's kind of the end 1044 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,799 Speaker 1: of ambition in my mind, right, I think, well, do 1045 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,360 Speaker 1: we want to have it all? I don't want to 1046 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: have it all anymore. I just want to have enough. 1047 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 5: So, as you know, I am very skeptical of all 1048 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 5: of these little phrases enter into No, it's not the 1049 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:25,480 Speaker 5: end of ambition. 1050 00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,240 Speaker 3: And also when we talk about ambition. 1051 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,839 Speaker 5: Are we really just talking about women's ambition, like nobody asks, 1052 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,400 Speaker 5: is it the end of ambition for men? That's true, 1053 00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:38,319 Speaker 5: And yet these trends, these memes, this kind of linguistic 1054 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 5: popularity of terms like yeah, lazy girl jobs or quiet 1055 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,440 Speaker 5: quitting or I don't dream of labor. Like everything that 1056 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,040 Speaker 5: you see on TikTok these days, which is essentially anti 1057 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 5: work rhetoric, is largely being pushed by people of all genders. 1058 00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,279 Speaker 3: So I don't know. 1059 00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:00,640 Speaker 5: I do think that like gender bias even into the 1060 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 5: way that sometimes I talk about this issue. But I 1061 00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 5: also think that, you know, there's a little bit of 1062 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 5: like delightful in a way idealism when it comes to 1063 00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 5: young people, but also naivity about the fact that like, 1064 00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 5: all right, kids, you gotta work. Yeah, yeah, I want 1065 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:22,840 Speaker 5: to be a lazy girl too. I'd love to bedrod 1066 00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 5: all day, Like that would be awesome. 1067 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,879 Speaker 3: I don't want to have a job. I know, i'd 1068 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 3: be great. God, let's just sell there all day. Yeah, 1069 00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,719 Speaker 3: Like what other terms can we insert here? 1070 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,279 Speaker 5: You know, but like you still need money to live 1071 00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 5: and I know that like sure, we'd want to reject 1072 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 5: capitalism and blah blah blah, but like, we're still living in 1073 00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 5: a capitalist society, and so I take some of this 1074 00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 5: anti work rhetoric with a grain of salt, though I 1075 00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 5: do believe that hopefully by questioning things like this girbast 1076 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 5: culture or hustle culture, or the way that we have 1077 00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 5: devoted our entire beings and entities to work over the 1078 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 5: past ten twenty year, yours is a good thing. 1079 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:02,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1080 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 1: I want to throw to Semeta one more time because 1081 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 1: she had something interesting to say about this too. Workplace 1082 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 1: hierarchy isn't really going anywhere anytime soon, right, Like, we 1083 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 1: have to figure out how management structures that are equitable, 1084 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,959 Speaker 1: that work, that play to people's strengths, that support them 1085 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,560 Speaker 1: in being as innovative and creative and impactful as possible. 1086 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,879 Speaker 1: That's why I think we're frozen in time right now, 1087 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,520 Speaker 1: because we know that we don't want this kind of 1088 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,879 Speaker 1: unfettered ambition at any cost. Toxic workplay is all bad, 1089 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,920 Speaker 1: all bad words. We know we don't want that, but 1090 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,480 Speaker 1: we don't know how to apply that in our lives yet. 1091 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,000 Speaker 1: I think that's led to this trend in like quiet 1092 00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,759 Speaker 1: quitting or lazy girl jobs, or people really calling it 1093 00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,359 Speaker 1: in at work, which ultimately isn't going to actually make 1094 00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,279 Speaker 1: people happy, right, What actually makes you happy in your 1095 00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:49,880 Speaker 1: life is living a life of integrity and authenticity and joy. 1096 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:52,439 Speaker 1: When you're checked out of something, you're not finding joy 1097 00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 1: in your life, and that's fine. 1098 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 3: I think we all go through phases. We have to 1099 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 3: do that. 1100 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:58,759 Speaker 6: But that's not a model for women's advancement in the workplace. 1101 00:55:58,840 --> 00:55:59,000 Speaker 1: Right. 1102 00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,759 Speaker 6: It's a problem and it's a wake up call for 1103 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,360 Speaker 6: working conditions, but it's not ultimately a strategy that's going 1104 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,440 Speaker 6: to be successful or make us happy if that's ultimately 1105 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:08,759 Speaker 6: the goal. 1106 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,440 Speaker 5: I think Samina is right, and this isn't the end 1107 00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,520 Speaker 5: of ambition generally, but it's hopefully a workplace shift that 1108 00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 5: is happening, Susie. Where does that then leave you? 1109 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess what I'm doing is projecting to 1110 00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,440 Speaker 1: some degree, because maybe it's just the end of my ambition. 1111 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 1: Like maybe the reason those memes speak to me is 1112 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:35,200 Speaker 1: that I have come to kind of want a quieter 1113 00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 1: career when where I have less responsibilities, one where I 1114 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 1: get to chat with you. 1115 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,760 Speaker 3: But I will just say, that's not unambitious. 1116 00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,160 Speaker 5: That's a different kind of ambition, And so I think 1117 00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 5: part of the problem is that we have come to 1118 00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 5: define ambition in these really rigid ways that involved yeah, 1119 00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:58,720 Speaker 5: climbing for the corporate ladder, being a boss, like having 1120 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 5: a big team, being in management, and there are so 1121 00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 5: many different ways to be ambitious, and so I guess 1122 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,480 Speaker 5: that's what kind of gives me hope to what you're saying. 1123 00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:08,120 Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that's actually a really good point. I've never 1124 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:08,920 Speaker 3: thought about it that way. 1125 00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 1: It's true that I'm not lacking in any ambition, it's 1126 00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,520 Speaker 1: just my ambitions have really changed. I'm not trying to 1127 00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 1: get the bigger job. I'm not always trying to get 1128 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:19,840 Speaker 1: the bigger paycheck. I'm just trying to do work I love, 1129 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,600 Speaker 1: and work that feels creative, and work that I hope 1130 00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,920 Speaker 1: is kind of meaningful or it's certainly at least meaningful 1131 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 1: to me, even if it's not that for everyone else. 1132 00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 1: So that's actually a nice way to think about where 1133 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,360 Speaker 1: that leaves us, and maybe we leave it there. 1134 00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 5: Susie, I want to use our next episode. We're going 1135 00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 5: to be talking about what it means for a woman 1136 00:57:44,920 --> 00:57:46,000 Speaker 5: to be quote. 1137 00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: Past her prime, which I don't think happens for the record, 1138 00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: but we are going to talk about aging and what 1139 00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:55,080 Speaker 1: that means for us, but also just how women are 1140 00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:57,640 Speaker 1: treated as they age in the culture. So I think 1141 00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: it's going to be a really interesting one. 1142 00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 3: This is in Retrospect. 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